Joe Rogan Experience

Abigail Shrier is an independent journalist and author. Her latest book is "Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren't Growing Up." www.abigailshrier.comwww.thetruthfairy.info

[@johnnieking8307]

I grew up in an abusive household and my father took his own life in front of me when I was fifteen. I was messed up for a long time and was made to go to therapy and take medication. Once I became an adult I no longer wanted to take medicine or go to therapy. I simply started exercising on a regular basis, eating healthy and keeping my house clean and organized. That’s it. Doing those things completely changed my way of thinking. I’m a happy healthy adult. I do still get triggered from my past from time to time. But I just keep focusing on staying on track of my goals no matter how simple and it keeps me grounded.

[@daniel-nw5iq]

Wow good for you what are you trying to say? you want us to to clap for you u have been spoiled try dealing with that and being homeless

[@daniel-nw5iq]

I'm homeless and dealing with mental health didn't have the option for meds or housing so don't talk about something you no nothing about you spoiled brat

[@Onlyfiber]

⁠@@daniel-nw5iq are you serious? You clearly haven’t dealt with your own issues. John is sharing his life experience and what helped him, to help others in similar situations. You are a crappy human being. You are what’s wrong with society. John, thank you for sharing, my wife grew up in an abusive household and suicide was not far from the picture. Thank you so much for being so strong in your life and striving for a better way.

[@claireq2534]

That is awesome news to hear. I am sincerely happy for you and thank you for sharing your experience because it gives me hope (along with many other people who read your comment, I’m sure). Keep on doing what you’re doing and I wish you all the best for the future!!

[@holisticpuffs7419]

Good on you mate. Love hearing stories like this.

[@seasnake333]

"Every time someone wants to stop discussions, they're wrong." 100% true, but a lot of people don't understand this.

[@bensmith6488]

Was told just yesterday I can't share my opinion that people should try to love themselves as they are before lopping body parts off.

[@MaseratiChris556]

Our government?

[@hengineer]

As a kid who was bullied, my parents taught me resilience. One of the thjngs my mom would always say to me "the best revenge is living well". Sure, kids can grow up scarred by it, but only if they get affirmation in those feelings. I grew up very resilient because of my parents.

[@sazza84sara]

My daughter started having therapy and other agencies giving her support including taking her out of classes from age 11 when her brother died. After a while I started to feel like it was making things worse. She was constantly getting dragged back into the pain instead of figuring out how to move forward. Turns out they were calling her they and a different name without me knowing too. She would feel panicked when she didn't have someone available to talk to all the time. Now she's 17 and has taken a step back but still sees a couple of people because her mental health got scarily bad, but she now seems to have got certain benefits from some of her therapies, like CBT and psychotherapy but a lot of the "support" did exactly what Abigail said and what I said at the time, it kept her in it. Kept the focus on the bad.

[@Modernmindcoach]

Have you heard of Gabor mate or Peter Levine? Somatic therapy works amazing and could benefit your daughter further.

[@sazza84sara]

@@Modernmindcoach thanks, I'll look into it

[@deepthought6601]

“I can’t drive past my old middles school because of the bullying I have PTSD” “They don’t have PTSD” 😭 love that more people need to be frank about this

[@Stoney19729]

I find it hard to understand why this isn't one of the most viewed conversations that Mr. Rogan has ever had.

[@sherylbusch5853]

It was from Spotify. Rogan did a mass upload of previous shows.

[@alexcychung]

money.

[@VideosBB24]

Cuz that woman is too bitchy and a whiney complainer. Thinks she’s a savior

[@panarba9485]

When I hit my early teens my stepfather constantly pushed and tested my abilities both physically and mentally, most times it was moving about 1000 bricks from one end of the yard to the other. I realised in my late 20s he had installed in me a discipline where I was totally confident in myself and my ability to do anything in life, because he had made it painful for me at an early age. Now I'm 50 and I'm very thankful for the tough love he showed towards me , I don't think I would have been the strong, resilient person I'm today if it wasn't for him.

[@Lena-ji2gi]

I live in Montreal Canada and last year cell phones were banned in the schools. We can’t control what happens when they get home but when they’re in the school, they cannot have cell phones.

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

Good. They are at school to LEARN and to listen to their teachers, not to be on their phones.

[@VideosBB24]

Or you could make school and class a tiny bit interesting, then maybe people would want to pay attention to your drivel

[@blondealterego]

Make the classroom smaller and focus on things that kids can use not test scores

[@QuebecHardwood]

Vive Montreal!

[@JoE_Songs]

I would applaud and agree to 100%. But Canada is so far into censorship right now, that the reasons behind that are suspicious to me. The correct reasoning would be: no internet before 16, parents are responsible for their children, like in any other area. But the internet itself cannot be censored under the pretense of protecting children and adults from "hate speech" . Hate speech does not really exist. It was never legal term. It's an esoteric term. We have enough libel laws. Everything else leads us into an Orwellian future. Even now, YT is monitoring comments already. And even the politest person is censoring its own comments whilst writing. Scary, when you're noticing it within yourself.

[@medp]

I am dealing with 40 old friends with no kids giving anxiety meds to their pets. I live in southamerica so this is a real global issue.

[@schmiggidy]

Wow, talk about dangerous and deluded self-projection. WTF is wrong with women these days??

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

To their PETS??! That is fucked up. Animals DON'T need anxiety medication. They just need food, affection and a home; if they have all that and no cruelty they won't be anxious.

[@medp]

@@Rugmunchersauce3 Yup, homeopathy and other kind of things to dogs and cats... I was shocked

[@francispitts9440]

I’m so happy that I had a Father who was strong and held me accountable standards. He taught me to work for what I wanted and to keep getting back up no matter how many times I got knocked on my butt. I played sports and worked. School was fun and the times were very different. We didn’t even watch much tv. We played in all types of weather and cold. I feel bad for kids now.

[@charlesdarwin5845]

I'd never heard of her before but WOW!! This is the sort of 'Reality Check' people need. I look forward to hearing more about her & even read her book. Real world advice for real people.

[@EthalaRide]

My mom had a saying/joke she'd say sometimes when we'd talk about someone playing the victim or making a big deal out of nothing. (In a Shakespearian voice, or Scarlet Pimpernel) _"OH, How I suffer, _*_when I think of how I suffer!"_* which is just a calling out of rumination.

[@llamarama111]

Oh thats perfect, thank you ❤

[@1968Lawman]

@ about 25 minutes into the interview the discussion reminds me of something that I saw someone say to somebody else online... "Stop trying to infect me with your fears!" Everything today is fear-based, politics, media, just about every form of sales and marketing especially in the medical fields and pharmaceutical fields...etc. Just a mention, nothing else. Love the show Joe!

[@Ruben-H20]

I 100% agree with her point on therapy.. 10000%

[@dianedorbin6783]

social media engineers are extremley knowledgable about human behavior and the propensity for compulsion and addiction. They engineer accordingly.

[@Nicole-ww4lg]

and people have been demanding the government regulate that but i think after covid and the recent supreme court ruling we all know why the government ISN'T stopping these evil assholes from manipulating us

[@MeMe-le5yt]

Joe made a good point about it not being healthy to be constantly consumed with thoughts of self. We should try to be more others focused. Also, prayer and reading the Bible are things that have really helped me make it through hard times. Philippians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

[@incitatus953]

Prayer, also known as Meditation

[@MeMe-le5yt]

@@incitatus953 Well, meditation is when you're really contemplating something. Prayer is when I am pouring my heart out to God and asking Him for help with difficulties in my life.

[@incitatus953]

@@MeMe-le5yt in both you are in a state of focus and presence, only the intention is slightly different.

[@MeMe-le5yt]

@@incitatus953 I would say mediation is more inward where I'm thinking about what I've read in the Bible. Prayer is more outward where Im trying to connect to God by speaking to Him

[@jim-baron]

Thank you for speaking out about therapy. Years ago there was no therapist in my high school or junior high school, and we were fairly fine. Now kids are more depressed than ever, therapy keeps becoming more prevalent, and the depression keeps rising. This might be an unpopular opinion, but the therapy session, ever since Freud , has been nothing more than an inverse of the confessional. What we need is not more therapy; what we need is God.

[@MichaelRector-qf7xp]

Yes good communication can solve a lot of our problems

[@stargazer4784]

2 thousand hours of Joe Rogan was just uploaded at once.

[@spgmezy6875]

🎉2😢 17:39 3t 5 g🎉 18:01

[@spgmezy6875]

😢 19:06 😢 19:06 😢 19:06 g6 G. 19:12

[@eyesee301]

It be like that

[@LEERG]

Waasup with that ? And I just found this female lmao

[@happyshillmore]

I can't believe I've listened to 2 thousand hours of joe rogan. I haven't listened that much to my friends & family combined.

[@BreakfastCake77]

Jennifer Bilek would be an amazing guest. She wrote Transsexual Transgender Transhuman. She’s fascinating and she’s done the research behind who’s funding this disaster of a crime against humanity

[@maryannerazzo1737]

Kids need to be busy - volunteering, small jobs, hobbies, etc.

[@gezag.hanniker1940]

gotta get them off their phones and off social media

[@ihintrr]

It's hard to get a job now a days, most places don't hire until 16.

[@maryannerazzo1737]

@@ihintrr Volunteering a couple of hours a week is a good way to start.

[@ihintrr]

@maryannerazzo1737 true but where I live not many places are taking volunteers. The ones that are required you to be 18 and over.

[@MyDogSteppedOnaBeee]

They are coddled to much, not disciplined, learned from failures, taught life and social skills. Their Parents do to much for them they have to learn on their own with some guidance.

[@MJN_DeadbeatDad]

Twenty years ago I worked in the VP's office at ASU, which included the graduation and ceremony office. Parents of college students AND graduate students would call in constantly on their behalf to ask questions, solve problems, obtain information, and complain. Back then we called them helicopter parents. We all joked about it, but all secretly lamented the eventual consequences that this would have. Those "kids" are now in their 40's. Moreover, I taught at universities for 15 years and had a first row seat to all that has befallen academic institutions and now larger society. It is a critical danger that must be navigated. Preferably not as a result of widespread conflict and war to "toughen them up," but by mentorship, reason, compassion, grace, and love. There is no other way.

[@bigusdicus9004]

Jesus tought me 😊

[@MayBlake_Channel]

As a Soldier and a truthseeker, I feel so validated (ironically, hahaha) to hear someone explain that the way society talks about 'Soldiers and PTSD' is hyper inflated. I've been in the Army nearly 10 years and I've known plenty of Soldiers with trauma from things civilians go through (abusive relationships, death of loved ones, etc), and few (if any) who had trauma from war. I really agree with her that war related PTSD is not that common

[@kentuckyslime]

12:43 = Abigail mentions libraries. We have Bad Therapy (11 copies) and Irreversible Damage (4 copies) at my library. They're all checked out, and the wait list to get a copy is really long, so I don't know when I'll get them. I'm very much looking forward to reading them. Edit: I checked the online catalog for a library in another town I used to live in and they have copies of both books as well.

[@llamarama111]

I told my therapist “you’re making me sadder!” She fired back with “oh well some people aren’t ready to deal with it” I never went back…

[@zanderchiefs1377]

She’s really smart I got mad respect for her

[@user-cq1hf2eb4g]

Been saying the same thing and Agree with her 10000% always get slaughtered on reddit but she is right

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

100% mate, that's the maximum. 😉

[@jacobaguire2467]

Are these all the podcasts from Spotify that weren’t on KZbin?

[@Nicole-ww4lg]

yes

[@n64fan60]

JRE filling up my feed with more vids i can scroll through 😂

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

Excellent episode, again. Here's to bringing up a tougher generation who aren't screwed up yet who are also empathetic and intelligent.

[@Urvashi92]

I must tell you the subject is so relevant and close to my heart…. Sometimes I feel we should go back to farming and grow veggies for better life

[@MichaelRector-qf7xp]

We should have the next presidential debates on Joe's show

[@akamurphyslaw7190]

The FIRST rule for an md: don’t do harm to people!!!! Healing is just the seccond rule…

[@samanthakwait8782]

The best thing I ever did for my anxiety was work out

[@ChikenChaser]

This a good one

[@lati_da]

My mental health was terrible as a kid and teen because of the climate change hoax. They called it global warming when I was a kid tho.

[@missyjet5177]

Since time began humans have lost loved ones and you have to learn to grieve and regulate emotions yourself.

[@hengineer]

losing someone young unexpectedly can be traumatic. Losing someone older from a common ailment isn't traumatic.

[@izaacestrada3]

Joe's putting in that work 💪

[@victorhugo-g6i]

is paved with good intentions

[@victorhugo-g6i]

i love this woman

[@jeffwhite-ii5sz]

21 IN LESS THAN AN HOUR SOOO CONFUSED!!!

[@laurab972]

It’s cause these are re-released episodes he dropped all at once. These had millions of actual views.

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

What's so confusing about it though, really?

[@Newoldmom]

Been going through some shit with my teenage daughter and I agree wholeheartedly with 17:04 her. And making ur self a victim makes u a victim. I’m all for self awareness and learning but therapy and needing an excuse for behaviour instead of moving past it is way more harmful than dwelling on things. This is why 40% of women under 30 have “mental illness” .. if I was in therapy I would be a victim and not a normal person about to make conclusive thoughts

[@omniwinds]

23:12 in 2016 kids between 2-6 didn’t have smartphones, but they DEFINITELY had ipads! thats a huge thing shes missing from that statistic.

[@kosmikmusa]

iPad is not a smartphone. There is a huge difference.

[@bradjossi]

@@kosmikmusa What are you talking about, it's a giant smartphone lmao

[@VideosBB24]

But this woman is 100% correct all the time about everything she says. Can’t you tell by her tone of voice everything she says is fact

[@drewbissss]

i was forced into wilderness and rotc programs at 14 and to this day i think the side effects of what she is saying on the effects on children are very prevalent to how it effected me and it is still happening today, very sad

[@hasty-carnaage1518]

Joes podcasts have millions of views. This one supposedly has 5.5k? Lmfao ya right. "Coincidentally" this video doesnt even show up on the JRE list of videos.

[@laurab972]

It’s because when he went to Spotify they were taken off YT. Now that he’s back on YT he released a ton all at once. Like 2000’s hours of episodes.

[@betsybabf748]

This one has been on YT for over 2 months. It is very obviously being shadow banned.

[@willcollins5660]

It is obvious that Joe Rogan and Abigail both have sincere attraction towards each other and how they genuinely keep smiling discreetly and shyly at each other. Does anyone else observe this while watching?

[@shaygraham6925]

Um no. He's happy with his wife.

[@willcollins5660]

@@shaygraham6925 He is happier with Abigail

[@indianmonk3380]

This should have more views

[@michellemartinez108]

Nice to see a woman on here with great information.

[@ValeriePeterson-w5f]

I totally agree with her about labeling a child !!!😊

[@charlemagnetheFranks]

Too many people don't know about this castration😢 but the pendulum swings both ways. The Tide is turning😊

[@charlemagnetheFranks]

People really don't know about it

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

I really hope so. We definitely need to get back to being tough and fearless.

[@charlemagnetheFranks]

Midway upon our life's journey, In dark woods, we found ourselves lost, Through gates of woe and eternal pain, We tread to find the light again.

[@6Ravenshade6]

Talking about depression really got me back in time, i was really fcked up by it, since I've been child it fcked my life and no one cared, not even in school, luckily i didn't get bullied mich, standart amount, nothing serious, just because i was different, always sad and slow. I have panic attack symptoms very often, had a full blown one once, but avoiding stressful situation, like relationships and going to events helps :D I would be an interesting example of depressed loser who is kinda fine now with no help

[@willcollins5660]

Surprise we don't have a lot of people commenting. Usually Joe comment section is always in the thousands easily and quickly. But so far only 213 comments as of today.

[@ResoluteRonin]

Psychotherapy Not Surgery

[@schmiggidy]

Prayer, Love and Spirituality, Not Psychotherapy

[@collinaitcheson728]

How does this only have 9k views???

[@medp]

Ten years ago I remember the huge amount of kids talking ritalin and other psiquiatric meds. What about that now? Terrifing how they play with our heads with no consequences.

[@static825]

I'm getting my 5 year old daughter into therapy but I'm so concerned whether it's the right thing to do.. she has developed a fear of using public restrooms to the point where she's now wetting herself at school and she's also become irrationally afraid of bugs to where she no longer wants to play outside. I've tried talking to her about it but I have no clue how to correct this before it becomes even more of an issue as she gets older. Ugh!

[@CounterpunchMMA]

Much love to everyone looking for me from the subreddit !!

[@noe4207]

❤

[@funafterfifty7833]

My ex and I went to a shrink for our marriage. She was way over weight and working nights who was she to counsel us? She told me had too much anger towards me and I needed to leave. Big regret there. I learned how bad it was as an Adult with AOL so many marriages were destroyed. Internet is altering our world with all the bad fakes and influence. My daughter is 40 she was told she was ADHD in 3rd grade they said teach her a trade you will not have focus for anything else. She is a Rock Star Multitasker super achiever. Thank God I didn't give her the drugs.

[@kamwalker6296]

Most shrinks are feminist know it all karens or weak men scared to tell women the truth

[@NestorCaster]

1:37:03: because it’s like: parent or teacher➡️Counselor and or Therapist➡️Pediatrician and or Internalist➡️Drugs Prescribed. Most chains don’t involve a licensed psychiatrist or psychologist(preferably both), who actually specializes in the diagnosis and treatment of such illnesses, diseases and disorders, discussed. You in reality end up having an entire list of ppl, with varying levels of authority, and different opinions and beliefs about a potential issue with the child, who only know through second hand knowledge, or first hand experience in the subject, but not coupled with the education, extensive training(academics), and clinical research to truly recognize what they are looking at; just a bunch of ppl who want to do something, but only know limitedly, on how to even understand and articulate the problem, if there’s even a problem present. And what’s worse, they end up looking for a problem to fulfill their need or urge, to “fix” something they though needed fixing in the child/teen.

[@rufus-t415]

People need to read her book Irreversible Damage.

[@Jack..F]

what’s it about

[@MeMe-le5yt]

@@Jack..F It's about irreversible damage

[@Jack..F]

@@MeMe-le5yt just red her book bad therapy turns out it was about some bad therapy thanks

[@Onlyfightingme]

Kids are living at home longer due to rent be sky high.

[@465marko]

I feel like there's a HUGE cultural-zeitgeist, popular conception type thing that you HAVE to talk about your problems and feelings instead of "bottling them up". Because if you keep it all inside, you'll explode!! That seems to be the logic to it. And it sounds fair. And that view has been around for a LONG time, like at least since the 90s but I'm sure it's from well before then. And it's common sense now. Common knowledge. And it seems like it's not true... It doesn't hold water. The evidence doesn't show it. At least in a lot of cases. I agree with her, just intuitively and from experience, that taking on that mindset (kind of a victim mindset) just crushes resilience. It's like embracing weakness, or whatever the opposite of resilience is. I'm ashamed to say I have adopted that mindset myself and it's done me no favours.

[@hengineer]

And its just going from one extreme to the other. It goes from "all silence" to "verbal diarrhea". I think its trying to sell you a way to replace the way normal people process emotions. What women pay a therapist for they would normally talk with friends over.

[@Sara-hy1kz]

It's about finding a balance. Don't bottle it up. Recognize your emotions, acknowledge and address them, then move on. Don't live in them and don't ignore them.

[@QQ-vc9wt]

Combat vets don’t get PTSD, damn this lady is unhinged

[@medp]

2:00:12 yup, young people are doing this stalking sh1t to their friends. But makes sense after two year lockdowns and super TV shows like big brother.

[@aminshahsavar8348]

I love this podcast the one thing I have to say is I live in north America but my parents are immigrants so I was raised to stay with my family I don't think that makes me an unhealthy bird. Just a thought

[@MichaelRector-qf7xp]

Read the book don't believe everything you think

[@LoganNagol]

This video is showed below tons of ones published after it, even when sorted by latest. I seriously don’t understand why

[@Gibby1257-oy7oi]

Top therapists in the world go to therapy……why…. think about their job (listen) is to take on your shit sit silent and let the shit bottled up flow…..it should be called/recovering…..the fractured self lost in a culture of Meiism consumerism greed selfishness

[@kamwalker6296]

Most therapists don't really care they serve clients instead of helping patients The same basic approach for every case with a generic diagnosis/treatment Right? Wrong? Better? Worse? No result? Don't matter they did their job and got paid...

[@Gibby1257-oy7oi]

@@kamwalker6296 kzbin.info/www/bejne/o57Ro4d4e9ppnsksi=BJEtZYMLdYf0Fe6Q

[@straytarnish9443]

if they take kids phones away during school they should put cameras in the classrooms that parents can monitor from parent's phones

[@victorhugo-g6i]

technology is the downfall of humanity..... tree of good and evil

[@martincorbett1006]

how does this only have few views 🔥

[@medp]

We are just starting to know the damage of social media just like with cigarettes. Those were promoted through decades and it took ages and thousands of lives to revert the lobby influence. Those changes doesnt occur fast, takes generations.

[@MyDogSteppedOnaBeee]

Kids today they are coddled to much, not disciplined, learned from failures, taught life and social skills. Their Parents do to much for them they have to learn on their own with some guidance.

[@brysonpaschall1136]

Eminem needs to get on Joe Rogan

[@Onlyfightingme]

Public libraries won’t turn away books.

[@isokayz]

All the Spotify episodes get released?

[@laurab972]

Yep😊

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

Yes, thank fuck.

[@medp]

Talking about war PTS I have read that more argentine Malvinas soldiers died After the war by suicide than in combat. So it is a big deal that argentine militar forces didn't took proper care of.

[@aprofromuk]

maybe joe does an interview with kapil gupta md :)

[@Yesfish090]

Why no timestamps???😢

[@odeliahbouganimdvm]

42% are diagnosed bc the school And the teachers send the kids to get assessed starting at 2 yrs old because the kid won’t sit still or the kid is crying and not wanting to leave their mom. The teachers won’t put the time and effort into keeping the ‘difficult’ kids so they go to special needs classes

[@AceEthos]

She reminds me of Julia Roberts

[@MichaelHines2013]

We are placed in the busum of SATAN. Only way is repentance and prayer and that is JESUS CHRIST of NAZARETH!!! Period

[@VideosBB24]

*bosom

[@ChaneVazquez-rx2dy]

Abigale is so gorgeous 😍 😍

[@travelingsober]

Why does Joe bash therapy ok this episode and say it doesn't work and....then do commercials for a therapy company...

[@TangoG831]

Psychology is the new religion.

[@wendycryne1747]

Why do I feel that much of these ideals is directly looking at privileged families?

[@carienprinsloo200]

This “person`s kite of she knows what she is talking about is not flying“ , she is misinformed and highly higly insensitive!! 😮

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

Aaw... Don't get down about it. If you think SHE is insensitive you are in danger of breaking for the tiniest reason. I don't think you would survive in the real World. But perhaps you are older, more experienced and better informed than her. Tell us about it.

[@macmcclaran5188]

This is all common sense for anybody raised by normal parents lol

[@andrewbrilliant7591]

Lawyers are all the same, full of opinions

[@MichaelRector-qf7xp]

A person's gender is the least interesting thing about a human

[@migueladrianvalevelazquez8703]

32:27

[@migueladrianvalevelazquez8703]

55:50

[@migueladrianvalevelazquez8703]

50:00

[@bigusdicus9004]

Anyone else just hate the voice and affliction? Just me?

[@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894]

Medical professionals $$$$$$$$$$$$

[@JoOrtiz09]

What is that? It’s a bad memory 🤣

[@james5637]

Accidentally released early? 🤔

[@sarcasmo57]

Perhaps girls from conservative families aren't doing a lot of thinking.

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

No, I don't think that's true.

[@hengineer]

They're doing just enough thinking, they aren't over thinking.

[@insertmyidentityhere]

Perhaps you're a snowflake.

[@victorhugo-g6i]

the road to hell,,,,,

[@roni44854]

Somebody f'd up by spamming our feeds. Have to unsubscribe now

[@betsybabf748]

Are you 12?

[@roni44854]

@@betsybabf748 Are you slow? I love Rogan but this channel had continuous posts and I couldn't see any other posts until scrolling forever. Dummy

[@OmarCortez92510]

LFG