Joe Rogan details why it's important for people to emphasize kindness.
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@n0thanku5 жыл бұрын
“It’s better to be the one who smiled than the one who didn’t smile back.”
@danpenia2194 жыл бұрын
Love this
@casy62034 жыл бұрын
Here here🍻
@mrlerma004 жыл бұрын
Thats what makes you the snack ;)
@mattyfras1234 жыл бұрын
Love this quote
@n0thanku4 жыл бұрын
matt fraser me too!!! :)
@JaneDoe-jm2kr5 жыл бұрын
Joe is spot on; people think you are weak when you are kind to them.
@magma35255 жыл бұрын
Jane Doe - In some sense, weakness is a VIRTUE. If he were weak enough when he was just about to HURT an animal, then the animal would live. In some sense, STRENGTH is in the service of cruelty and death. And, WEAKNESS is in service of compassion and life. Kindness should be handled as a UNIVERSAL phenomenon, not a speciesist one. Kindness to people means nothing if on the other hand you kill animals - just because you feel like it... Apostle Paul in the Corinthians says something very meaningful: "I delight, then in WEAKNESS... for when I am weak, then I am STRONG." *Since what I said above is widely misunderstood I elaborated on it more in my comments below.*
@garmejoile40785 жыл бұрын
@@magma3525 you gotta point #dassafact 💯💯👌
@cryptekwizard83365 жыл бұрын
I’ve never thought that about anybody who treated me with kindness.
@denis32084 жыл бұрын
It has a lot of to do with how you feel, think and act if you are a trully strong person only really stupid people will not understand. Strength is something psychological beyond physical ability.
@alham3ah4 жыл бұрын
@@magma3525 strength and cruelty are not derived from each other .. Weakness And kindness are not derived from each other.. The opposite I think.. Really strong people don't hurt others.. Weak people can be the cruelest when in position of power
@morningstar63754 жыл бұрын
AL Capone said it, and i quote “Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me.” -Al Capone
@Aquiori2 жыл бұрын
Wow
@Trumpvicitm2 жыл бұрын
Exactly people mistaken you for being weak when you kind to them
@suhwateezea.2142 жыл бұрын
Epic
@rankoutsider2363 Жыл бұрын
Love it 🤜🏽💥🤛🏽
@razterizer7 ай бұрын
When beliving in Jesus Christ he will create a new heart in you and you will be a new being, wantint to do good and to be nice to others, because you then realize that we all are images of God just like you.
@BING99573 жыл бұрын
"If you have been brutally broken but still have the courage to be gentle to other living beings then you're a badass with the heart of an angel" - Keanu Reeves
@Anarkitty420 Жыл бұрын
The gist of that is what I've always been telling myself. I've gone through an seriously extraordinary suffering, but I've always told myself that I won't let it turn me into a person that inflicts suffering on other people or someone that doesn't try to help alleviate other peoples suffering.
@aug11011 ай бұрын
wow nice one
@thecrownprince88811 ай бұрын
@@Anarkitty420it’s quite hard.
@Sobergoon24029 ай бұрын
Agreed 100% even if you are wronged by someone it makes no sense to hurt this person. Just move on they will learn one way or another and it shouldnt be from you.
@user-xp9ne3mv8k8 ай бұрын
Keanu is the man, a true role model!✌️😎🙏
@jerrybear30816 жыл бұрын
treat others as you wish to be treated, pretty simple.
@jasper_of_puppets6 жыл бұрын
What if you're a masochist?
@jerrybear30816 жыл бұрын
then i will avoid you.
@brolicbro7716 жыл бұрын
well i do treat people the way i want to be treated but im not bein treated the way i want to be treated, that's where the anger starts.
@jerrybear30816 жыл бұрын
Brother Biz, then you know who to avoid/ignore.
@jerrybear30816 жыл бұрын
Brother Biz, another tactic is to call people out on their poor treatment of others, its tricky because its never helpful to fight fire with fire and treat shitty people badly, i have found that causes a downward spiral.
@daniram20026 жыл бұрын
"Be kind to all creatures; for this is the true religion. " - Buddha
@ihavetubes6 жыл бұрын
justice must be served.
@Knifymoloko6 жыл бұрын
Let's all convert to Buddhism
@fr96745 жыл бұрын
Buddhism ain't a religion, but a philosophy
@gordongordon985 жыл бұрын
@@ihavetubes As in you getting teabagged by your boss
@user-se2hu1cg5g5 жыл бұрын
Is that why there are comitting ethnic genocides against muslims in burma?
@hosamfikry29243 жыл бұрын
Those who outgrew their sufferings ended up the kindest
@authorbhattacharjee49573 жыл бұрын
Buddha is a good example for that I believe
@yourbroskijack2 жыл бұрын
@@authorbhattacharjee4957 BUDDAS A REAL ONE BROSKI
@KaifamGaming8 ай бұрын
im always trying to be very kind but now my sister calls me a people pleaser 💀
@hosamfikry29248 ай бұрын
@@KaifamGamingyou think being kind is the same as being people pleaser? I personally think being kind requires gaining strength to draw the line between both concepts
@TenderHooligan3 жыл бұрын
it's so easy to laugh it's so easy to hate, it takes guts to be gentle and kind.
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@theproblemmustbeinyourpant5910 Жыл бұрын
Is that Morrisey hahaha
@majooortom4254 Жыл бұрын
😍😍😍
@porcelainhands Жыл бұрын
i know it’s over
@mateogonzalez6421 Жыл бұрын
Goated quote from Morrissey
@juliepetersen79745 жыл бұрын
The best compliments I get are when strangers tell me how polite, helpful, and considerate my kids are. I may have failed at some things, but at least I’m putting some decent humans on the planet!
@anthonyr14164 жыл бұрын
Julie Petersen 💯
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@RAVENMoonTarot3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I just said strangers are better then a counselor! I have conversations, with the coolest people, it makes me feel good
@tinastaines43913 жыл бұрын
Same here, I have not always made the best choices in life, but kindness, consideration for others and manners cost nothing, and I'm lucky that my family all have these qualities and I'm so proud that my sons are too, that and a sense of humour. None of us takes ourselves too seriously 😃
@mrphauker2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being a great parent!
@n00dl36 жыл бұрын
I think niceness comes from having a thick skin. If you know you can withstand the negative, you can afford to be positive. Negative people often don't think they can get by on their own merit, so they resort to nefarious covert strategies to get ahead.
@Low_commotion6 жыл бұрын
This guy gets it. It takes a certain amount of boldness to be kind, because you might not receive it in return and that's going to be more painful than just getting shit when you _didn't_ put yourself out there. You have to be a bit devil-may-care to be openly positive.
@systemofadown9455 жыл бұрын
Very true
@callanc39255 жыл бұрын
@Billy Bob Thats where a distinction needs to be made between just being nice and being nice for your own advantage. When it comes to the whole "nice guys" thing, the only ones who actually get upset about women turning their niceness down are the ones who were being nice and expecting to receive something in return. Being nice for the sake of being nice is a good thing but being nice for your own advantage is just as bad as it is good
@callanc39255 жыл бұрын
for example if I give money to charity because I want to help homeless people, thats a very kind thing for me to do. But if I give money to a charity so that I can improve my own image and look like a good person, sure it might help the homeless people in the exact same way but thats no longer being kind, youre doing it for yourself
@xDMrGarrison5 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. It does take a certain strength to be kind and sincere.
@Sensei-fh3zj3 жыл бұрын
The whole rant about the fakeness in the work place is so relatable and the fact everyone just wants to make your life hell is so true
@prettyvacant36053 жыл бұрын
It's easier to push someone down than it is to pull yourself up mentality
@Jack574. Жыл бұрын
It’s not that everyone wants to make your life hell, it’s that everyone’s so wrapped up in their own pathetic worlds that the wants and needs of others are usually just totally ignored.
@chrisbruh425 Жыл бұрын
@@Jack574. greatly explained
@rankoutsider2363 Жыл бұрын
In Australia we’ve got an old saying’ out bush… Fuck em’ in the neck and tell ‘em’ to go piss up a rope”
@silasbenz9224 Жыл бұрын
Waaaaah! Life isn't fair!
@BuleBolang3 жыл бұрын
There is in Japan, their schools teach this for years before they teach anything academic.
@chuysandoval27113 жыл бұрын
@@sdotstadia315 this is the wrong way to do this buddy
@adriantoogenuine3 жыл бұрын
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@adriantoogenuine3 жыл бұрын
@@chuysandoval2711 show kindness to all people, you do not know what battles one faces in their journey called “life” ❤️
@chuysandoval27113 жыл бұрын
@@adriantoogenuine you reap what you sow
@adriantoogenuine3 жыл бұрын
@@chuysandoval2711 great example, kinda helps what I was saying 😇
@michaelgmauk5 жыл бұрын
Kindness is contagious. Sadly so is rudeness. When someone doesn’t say hi back or speaks rudely it is so important to try to continue to stay positive and be kind to people
@stargazingloner44495 жыл бұрын
Im glad you said this people used to call me nice and say I was sweet all the time and I used to be the person who smiled at everyone and spoke to everyone in passing. These past few years so many people look down on me and react negatively when I do it that I stopped as to not be embarrassed by it anymore and people stopped calling me kind.
@nimazsheik51524 жыл бұрын
@@stargazingloner4449 Fuck those people man, keep being a good human, they are so rare in this day and age!!! Much love for you for being a good dude (You have a heart of gold. Don't let them take it from you.- Demon Souls)
@abilisha84604 жыл бұрын
BIG TRUE Brother
@jamiehusky80624 жыл бұрын
Agree...even if people are rude dont let it erode your kindness. Rogan is spot on! 100%
@beakamon Жыл бұрын
You gotta wish them well and be on your way.
@TheGuy1233216 жыл бұрын
Don't let the bad apples spoil your inner beauty, my friends. It's not worth it to adopt their ways because it doesn't make life easier. To the contrary, it's far more miserable to be like them. Persevere.
@gordongordon985 жыл бұрын
Well said
@AntonioWolfpack5 жыл бұрын
True easier said than done but true.
@MrRockIsAwesome5 жыл бұрын
Well put.
@gordongordon985 жыл бұрын
Speaking of shit apples, which you were.. "When a shit apple falls from a tree and grows up in a field of shit, it doesn't have a choice. ... She's gonna be a shit apple tree just like her father ... - Jim Lahey
@captainshinysidesofthehmsb89005 жыл бұрын
TheGuy sounds like a wise veteran.
@PK-xs1kk3 жыл бұрын
This stems from good parenting and I truly believe it’s a learned behavior. If the child sees the parent being kind to others it becomes second nature and deep rooted.
@anabolicchicken41152 жыл бұрын
One of the reasons I'm so kind is because of the pain my family has caused me. My mom is a kind person for sure, but I also learned it through my friends and by myself, I really dont want others to feel like I did
@flightofthebumblebee9529 Жыл бұрын
It really is because I had issues and stuff but my kind heart prevailed because I would remember my loving family and the stuff my parents taught me about hurting feelings and emotions and it is OKAY to be sad for each other and want each other to be happy. America made it into a weakness. It's not.
@isaacverrall8782 Жыл бұрын
@@anabolicchicken4115 FACTS
@EddyJames Жыл бұрын
These guys really nailed it. If you are kind you feel good. If you are bad you feel bad. That is intrinsic. It’s for a reason. To help the village survive. Bad emotions will eventually make a person sick, and alienate them from everyone. And enough people helping each other will only produce more good things. Good podcast man.
@flightofthebumblebee9529 Жыл бұрын
I really had to confront stuff about myself to realize that and playing the "tough guy" gets really old quick especially when you're alone.
@nowis7404 Жыл бұрын
Not true,
@Maetaaaaaa Жыл бұрын
🎯
@Robert-lx7tx9 ай бұрын
Yeah it takes more energy to think negative than it takes to think positive.
@bublikstudioproductions96867 ай бұрын
We love you BRO, preach it man! Kindness Bible.
@DeadbeatSuperAffiliate5 жыл бұрын
There's a saying "talk softly, but walk with a big stick". If you're a kind person, you absolutely need to be dangerous in order to dissuade the masses from taking advantage of you. You also must be mentally able to shut it off at any moment when challenged by someone who perceives your kindness as a weakness. I've also noticed that... Mean, arrogant, and rude people are often perceived by the masses as being of higher status. In the USA, perception of status is what's valued most, and people learn to appear to be high status (rather than putting in the work to actually be high status). I've noticed that most successful people are usually nicer, friendlier, more pleasant to be around, and more helpful. Unfortunately, truly successful people in life are only about 5% of the population. So that means you are constantly surrounded by the self-entitled, arrogance of the failing masses. All in all, being kind is something very difficult to maintain in the USA. You'll take a lot of damage and disrespect in the process, and it's hard to keep from internalizing that and becoming heart-hardened by injuries inflicted on you by mean spirited people looking to build their confidence by trying to diminish yours.
@cosmiccwonder3005 жыл бұрын
"People looking to build there confidence by diminishing yours" So very true. Well said!
@sketchas69764 жыл бұрын
Teddy Roosevelt my man!
@123coolisme3 жыл бұрын
Good observations. Thanks
@forman2083 жыл бұрын
I honestly think it's the opposite. It's usually the ones struggling in life that are more humble and understanding, the successful ones are usually extremely full of themselves and aren't very kind or respectful. But obviously every group has it's good and bad
@dasher7873 жыл бұрын
@@forman208 it drastically depends on if they worked for it or not, dwayne johnson or joe Rogan seem pretty nice because they worked for their success. But someone that inherited money or got lucky wont have that humbling experience of working hard
@apeoftheplanets5 жыл бұрын
I think the best thing joe rogan has ever said for me is “immediately I was... angry... then part of me said ‘that poor bastard,’ and I went with that poor bastard.” He took a negative immediate response and provided a counter thought and went with the more positive thought for Joe. For the more negative among us im positive we can learn from that prime example honestly.
@mikasasukasa44795 жыл бұрын
yeah that sat with me. i follow this method every day and it ends up so much better, for all parties. continue to spread the love, especially for those who need it.
@jarryd81674 жыл бұрын
“If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.” ― Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
@anthonymckee40924 жыл бұрын
Letting go of anger and putting yourself in their perspective. I usually let these people act out their anger and have no reaction. It's weird some people just don't think then feel bad after I let them act out the anger. I think about my own self image. I don't want to be an angry unintelligent person that acts without thinking. I should feel bad for them because they let anger and emotion control life. If you can overcome your own self and let go of Ego. We can all find a better way. Judgement separates realization that we are all the same as human beings brings togetherness.
@PabloLink743 жыл бұрын
I was taking a walk the other day, and there was this little 3 years old kid walking beside his mother, he gave me a thumbs up while looking at me dead in the eyes showing no emotion, I thought it was so funny, it made my day a little better and still makes me laugh when I remember it.
@perry6712 Жыл бұрын
8 was walking and a woman snorted laughing and I keep thinking about that as well lol
@newageopinions8703 жыл бұрын
True kindness is when you give or do something for someone, and don't expect anything back. True kindness is purely doing for someone else with no expectations of personal gain of any kind on your part.
@gjatt74102 жыл бұрын
This also feels the best when u do it as well so I guess u do expect a feeling of good to come with the deed
@alecrochon35312 жыл бұрын
Why would you be kind to assholes?
@_siddharth4 жыл бұрын
Having good manners is one of the best qualities a person can have.
@joefunk764 жыл бұрын
No it isn’t. In fact, many of the shittiest people out there know how to use good manners to hide what shitty people they truly are.
@dhruvasudershan67053 жыл бұрын
joefunk76 You have a really good point. I’ve seen very mean people be polite when they either want something or when some form of authority is around.
@joegatton67173 жыл бұрын
@@joefunk76 just bc shitty people utilize manners doesn’t mean it’s not valuable
@pa_blo42203 жыл бұрын
Why do people keep conflating good manners/politeness with kindness?? Two different things.
@mollywright5243 жыл бұрын
Good manners are a useful tool. I It's true they are not to be conflated with kindness, but you can't be truly kind without them (almost everyone has some kind moments). Note good manners and good etiquette aren't exactly the same thing. "The Devil is a Gentleman."
@lenceagle16 жыл бұрын
As far as shame and guilt goes, I've found that thinking about the past is only helpful if we're learning a lesson. If we're not, we need to move on and just do better.
@Story_Yeller5 жыл бұрын
I've found that this works in the opposite direction. If you find yourself constantly thinking about the past, it means that there is a lesson to be learned from that memory that you haven't yet integrated.
@birthdayzrock14265 жыл бұрын
@@Story_Yeller so fuckin true
@Jillady4 жыл бұрын
lenceagle1 Bingo. Right on.
@Jillady4 жыл бұрын
Tristan “constantly thinking about the past” is never good. Present moment, always good and if not, get over it. Next.💚☮️
“I don’t want to live in a world where kindness is perceived as a weakness” -Keanu Reeves
@haydenpettit58293 жыл бұрын
‘It takes guts to be gentle and kind’ - The Smiths
@Itsnotanymore-ku7dz2 жыл бұрын
My favorite band right there
@Itsnotanymore-ku7dz2 жыл бұрын
_Love is natural and real_ _But not for you my love.. Not tonight my love.._
@justonequestion466 жыл бұрын
Im 22 and work in a corprate office. I say hello to everyone as i try to friendly and spark conversation on passing by in the hallways. There is always at least one or two people with that blank face as if they just seen a ghost!! I agree kindess is what we need. You are awesome Joe love the podcast!!!
@apeman20356 жыл бұрын
Zombies are over-medicated Be nice to them ...God is watching you
@Phantomoscar6 жыл бұрын
james manning I’m 22 and a fuck up. I barley make 500 a week
@gibememoni6 жыл бұрын
thats like 32k a year not bad at all for a 22 year old i see college grads working at target and lowes for $10/hr they got a useless degree and now aint worth shit
@apeman20356 жыл бұрын
The Dark Knight Ape Man do not believe the God Lie Evolution forged me in the crucible of savagery I am a Nice Savage ...Nice to the nice ...Vicious to the Evil P.S. Nice avatar you have Jordan Peterson works 10 minutes from where I live in Toronto If I run into him on the street, Do you want me to give him a kiss for you ?
@apeman20356 жыл бұрын
If I see you in prison I will call you Peaches And sell you for smokes
@markus15644 жыл бұрын
The “hallway guy” said to himself “ is that Joe Rogan saying HI to me in a Hotel”? Nah, it’s not happening...
@mcmuffinmcmuffin38193 жыл бұрын
Lol!! I thought the same thing.... dude probably wasn't rude, just speechless lmao!
@johnbell36213 жыл бұрын
Why would you say "Hi" to a random stranger?
@gary12133 жыл бұрын
@@johnbell3621 where are you from? just out of curiosity
@johnbell36213 жыл бұрын
Gary UK
@scoeybrad22213 жыл бұрын
John Bell 100% a cockney ;)
@artofvalor93963 жыл бұрын
Kindness that's real is so underrated. Definitely a sign of strength and humility. People often perceive it as weak. They are wrong.
@pavasite42783 жыл бұрын
Like morgan freeman said "You wanna know how to change the world, one act of random kindness" being kind and people acknowledging it is such a nice feeling and can make your day better
@ottovonbismarck63104 жыл бұрын
They really should teach basic psychology in grade school. I'm talking about kindness and adaptive ways to deal with difficulties, motivation techniques, and so on.
@user-fz3ip3ke8p3 жыл бұрын
We had that in catholic religion
@Dannniellleee3 жыл бұрын
Healthy relationship skills
@jordanjalaxy Жыл бұрын
I plan on staying a good person, and want to make it into the music industry so I can have a positive effect on more people
@ottovonbismarck6310 Жыл бұрын
I recently got rid of some bad depression with Stoicism. It’s a great system for looking at life and learning what is worth worrying about and what isn’t. It’s great for motivation and self-discipline, too. Everyone should be taught Stoicism.
@tallboybeats5447 Жыл бұрын
Yeah!!!
@juanribeiro736 жыл бұрын
Everyone you meet is a lesson on how to behave.
@aimoikonen3 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment!
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@BusyB073 жыл бұрын
Fck you man. Also, well said
@mar10ssj12 жыл бұрын
Treat everyone as a potential contact. A great man is one that has many friends.
@ivan.guitaraaa19032 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by this
@felixthecat27866 ай бұрын
I've gotten so much cruelty, nastiness, and manipulation for simply being kind and empathetic to others. It's a tough life to be kind. There are days where I just want to throw in the towel and snap at people, but it's not a choice for me. I simply cannot treat people cruelly. I just can't do it.
@TristanDeshaies5 ай бұрын
Same here, I feel the negativity growing inside me.. it’s a fine balance between being kind to people and standing up for yourself when you are being taken advantage of.. Stay well bro 🙏🏼
@1setten5 ай бұрын
My mom always said that to me. " You can always be kind" and choose your fights. Dont fight about petty shit, its a waste of energy
@jadecolagross44744 жыл бұрын
Seriously I hate how true that is. Kind people get treated like crap and often abused in the work place. You have different rules when you’re a nice person than your rude ass coworkers
@nz-bass-head63062 жыл бұрын
Stay strong 💪
@robotech9876543212 жыл бұрын
True, nice people get taken advantage from. It’s all about perception or fakeness
@halifaxredemption5 жыл бұрын
Being kind is a choice. One of my favorite quotes that is something I honestly try to live by is 'What good I may do, let me do it now, for I may not pass this way again'. I also think it's important to know that when you are being kind, you shouldn't expect anything in return, even acknowledgment of your kind act. Being kind to someone else is actually a gift for yourself and it feeds your character.
@FreshaDenaMofo4 жыл бұрын
The best way to be disappointed is to have expectations :)
@aj87144 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, now I realise where I was wrong..
@halifaxredemption4 жыл бұрын
@@aj8714 I don't know if you're being sincere or sarcastic. I hope sincere. :)
@pablosanchaz90294 жыл бұрын
📍
@alicedoors48263 жыл бұрын
No good deed goes unpunished
@kidqueero4203 жыл бұрын
I work as a cashier. Many families with children come through my lane. I greatly appreciate when the kids have good manners. And I always applaud the parents for it.
@banderas20005 ай бұрын
sometimes the kids have manners but the parents dont. thats crazy.
@TristanDeshaies5 ай бұрын
This video and comment section has restored my faith in humanity. Keep being awesome guys 🙌🏼
@epikcyne5 жыл бұрын
The reason why I love Joe Rogan as a person is because of how real he is and he also seems to be always striving for good. Joe isn’t even part of any religion, yet he is such a good hearted person. I have tremendous amount of respect for Joe.
@Thawhid5 жыл бұрын
The higher up people better not kill him for sending good messages and helping younger generations with advice
@stickerlady17744 жыл бұрын
But he’s not heaven bound.
@epikcyne4 жыл бұрын
Yea Ok because people say that religion makes you a “better” person. Just because they are considered God’s people, they think that they have more morals than non religious people.
@oncesavedalwayssaved2404 жыл бұрын
@Yea Ok The fact that Christians are the most persecuted group in the world today, I think the most bigots are anyone outside that group tbh
@oncesavedalwayssaved2404 жыл бұрын
@Yea Ok Sure. Especially Islam. But it just proves Christians are not the ones who are bigots
@zachmcclure88145 жыл бұрын
I always loved when I watch a UFC match and the guys hug afterwards or they tap gloves throughout the match. Takes a lot
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@yellowleaf28 Жыл бұрын
I like how Joe really observed how terrible he felt, was insanely honest with himself and us, and was able to articulate it. Unlike people to go to therapy and know $20 words but haven’t felt or lived their shiny new vocabulary . You can tell Joe understands a lot more than he can over-articulate
@DB980004 жыл бұрын
2:23 that guy wasn't being rude, he was probably just like "holy shit, was that Joe Rogan? Huh? What?" That would be my reaction.
@Ebeanslol4 жыл бұрын
My parents never really pushed me to say thank you, holding doors for strangers, to help out & what not but I am so glad I picked it up on my own, you never know what someone’s going through
@yellowleaf28 Жыл бұрын
Same here, I pick up things that feel good and useful to me, and extend the same to others. Didn’t have values forced on me early.
@flightofthebumblebee9529 Жыл бұрын
I try to be considerate and patient with people.
@tellitlikeitis50455 жыл бұрын
Joe Rogan is very generous, kind, and compassionate.
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@jesseramirez63783 жыл бұрын
When he said it pisses him off because they think were weak; I felt that
@classicrocklover56154 жыл бұрын
Two favorite Bible Scriptures: "It is better to give then to receive " and "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@adamcoyne2306 жыл бұрын
BE KIND. REWIND.
@Knifymoloko6 жыл бұрын
good ol daze. Made sure we rewound them
@FangMania98984 жыл бұрын
Wt does it mean?
@willleone74024 жыл бұрын
@@FangMania9898 Blockbusters dude
@FixItAngel6 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree. Be kind to each other.
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@gay4pay8823 жыл бұрын
@@sdotstadia315 hell nah
@joannarivera46783 жыл бұрын
My grandmother would always say that kindness is taught and learned at home. I saw my grandmother and parents be kind and lend a helping hand without any expectations..you never know what the other person is going thru.
@user-ci1yn8or2h4 ай бұрын
100% agree with Joe Rogan, I do this daily and enjoy being respectful and kind to everyone bc it costs zero and win friendships .
@nathanmaxwell28586 жыл бұрын
I learned how to be kind through hippies! i know they get a lot of hate for god know what reason..but they are legit the nicest, selfless people ive hung out with, they all helped each other out and well thats where i learned the behaviour and i gotta admit it does feel really good to be of service to others!
@authorbhattacharjee49573 жыл бұрын
I mean Jesus himself was kind of a hippie Here there's your answer
@AJ-xv7oh6 жыл бұрын
Always be polite and well mannered. But never forget this world is every man for themselves. If you let them, even the nicest person in the world will take advantage of you. Look after yourself first.
@bradagee90416 жыл бұрын
Ashley James Love your avatar. Best rap album of all time in this humble punk's opinion.
@daniellawler83694 жыл бұрын
Brad Agee - agree my man! Greatest rap album ever. Ashley well said!!!
@jonathanlavis74474 жыл бұрын
U guys are delusional
@daniellawler83694 жыл бұрын
Speechless Lasmr - lol false my man. What is the greatest rap album all time in your opinion my good sir? Illmatic is definitely top 5 all time if not #1. It’s hard to say that is an opinion statement my dude. If you really know your hip hop.
@jonathanlavis74474 жыл бұрын
Daniel Lawler Ik it’s not true because I don’t try to take advantage of others. U guys just clearly haven’t met a genuinely nice person in ur entire lifes
@enasajackson23193 жыл бұрын
Joe Rogan is like my daily cup of coffee don't want to go a day without it/him😁💯
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@dustinbrite24223 жыл бұрын
@@sdotstadia315 stop spammin you idiot
@kristennelson3190 Жыл бұрын
What the guest was saying about teaching your kids manners is SO important!!! Holding doors, greeting people, helping with bags, little things that are crucial for, just, maintaining civility. Simply being NICE, in general, is absolutely central to my own personal well being.
@Alex-tm6lc Жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen ! Totally agree
@banderas20005 ай бұрын
it really is. it's crzy how many ppl lack it. but those who don't it's always refreshing .
@RedFaceeee5 жыл бұрын
The world can be a sick place when you are unconditionally kind. It will make you unkind and hate yourself. Be kind to the right people who deserve it.
@samuelvelazquez88345 жыл бұрын
I say be kind, don’t be a pushover. That’s it, if you can tell the difference I believe you are solid. I am kind to as many people as possible without forgetting I should never expect anything in return.
@tylerz75695 жыл бұрын
Be kind to the people that deserve it 💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Feber20014 жыл бұрын
Be kind to yourself... don't beat yourself up.
@danpenia2194 жыл бұрын
Being kind doesn't mean being stupid. Have boundaries
@lokidude1004 жыл бұрын
Just be good to people in general, even if you don't know them. You dont have to let them take advantage of you. If you try to judge people in everyday interactions to see if they deserve your kindness, i feel like that can make you not only overly judgemental, but insecure and egotistical.
@Jowitaxoxo5 жыл бұрын
You are spot on, Joe!!! Thank you so much for speaking about this. You're amazing. When I was a freshman in college, I was walking to class and in passing, said hi to a guy on the school soccer team and he laughed in my face. I'll never forget how awful that made me feel; especially since at the time I was just a shy small town girl. These days (and over a decade later) the big city Jowita would've probably audibly disclaimed, "well aren't you just a peach?!", as I sashayed by him.. --Point being..-- that a-hole from college had TWO choices 1. Be a total douche or 2. Be kind. Ever since that moment I told myself I'd never be like him because I'd never want anyone to feel the way I did. ✌️❤️
@adamelmi5 жыл бұрын
Stay awesome people like him are miserable and they hate good people like you
@Jowitaxoxo5 жыл бұрын
@@adamelmi ❤️🤗 Thanks Adam. That was super sweet of you to say!!
@adamelmi5 жыл бұрын
@@Jowitaxoxo of course good people have to stick together for the sake of better future
@aminerkin98444 жыл бұрын
You are pretty. When you said hi to him, he probably was going through a lot of shit, fucked up a bunch of things, had a real low self esteem. He probably did not believe he was worthy of being said hi to by a real pretty girl, he thought you were fucking with him. I know this because I've done it and I've seen everyone else doing it at some point.
@iamzay49383 жыл бұрын
@@aminerkin9844 I second that bro
@MrHey633 жыл бұрын
I used to work in movie theatre. An elderly was next in line and i took his order. After he paid me, he said I provided good service and he appreciated that. He then saif he would but he didn't have cash, so he asked me if he can shake my hand (2 years before the pandemic). I had never received such kindness from a stranger ever in my life. I was so glad to shake this guy's hand because to me it was sign of mutual respect. I was already smiling, but for the rest my shift, i was in total bliss haha. Nothing could ruin my day!
@KimroyBailey2 жыл бұрын
The feeling and good health that being kind gives you is priceless
@Hoskii6 жыл бұрын
2:24 when you talk about the guy in the hallway i find funny. I'm from the UK. When I visited America for vacation, whenever i was in a elevator or in a close quarters environment, everyone says 'Hello' and smiles. Here in the UK, if you do that, you're a really weird person. Really remarkable how cultures differ on the most minor scale.
@balddonaldcerrone79306 жыл бұрын
Hoskii i’m from ireland and here everyone would be saying hello to each other so even across a short distance it changes
@samcooke3436 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's weird. Us Brits just don't like to talk to each other for some reason (even though I do).
@apeman20356 жыл бұрын
In Canada We respect your privacy But can also easily be very friendly You can have your peaceful solitude ...and then talk friendly with a stranger
@androiddev31236 жыл бұрын
I guess you must live in London or some other big city as i live about 70 miles away from London and strangers say hi to eachother here
@Hoskii6 жыл бұрын
AndroidDev I actually live in the Cotswolds. I’m surprised you say that, I find if you’re not really well known in the local community people just judge you and don’t want to talk to you ever.
@ronelkayam4 жыл бұрын
I was a modern dude seeking to “be free” and “go with the flow”, with no clear moral code. I did my best to be kind to others, but looking back, I was lost, I hurt others, and I just ended up getting hurt. The only thing that helped me was to get back to my roots. I am Jewish and became very observant. I am now happy and am living a life I am proud of. So, I like to think that I’m an example of how religion can be good. I resisted it for so long. It’s good to be home. If you feel the urge to explore a religion (preferably that of your ancestors), I encourage you to do it and reap the happiness and peace of mind that will come. Good luck and blessings, everyone.
@fuckingallthesehoes32954 жыл бұрын
Waterman i always wondered why some people are so submerged in religion and I started to notice it was because it gives clarity or peace to them and your example is one of that
@kylewatson6890 Жыл бұрын
Kindness isn't seen as a weakness out here in the country. It's just how people are.
@TristanDeshaies5 ай бұрын
I really miss that about living away from the city
@GibbyBoy28312 жыл бұрын
The best people are people who are nice even though other people have messed them around their entire life. Respect is a huge thing in life.
@guildedcalamity92936 жыл бұрын
I was raised to be polite and have manners and all that. We would wave and say hello to strangers..then I moved to more populated areas and cities...lol they would look at me like I was crazy for saying hello to a stranger.
@Huvrkrft4 жыл бұрын
I taught myself to be kind, instead of nice. Being polite is impressive and refreshing. Treating people like people is just as affective as feeding them grapes. It’s about respect. I used to be rude or manipulative to people and I chose to be that way because I was bullied but I’m so glad I decided that I have control over my life.
@Chtsht233 жыл бұрын
One of my job’s core values is to “be a good person”. It’s one of my favorites because I truly believe you should always try and be a genuinely kind person.
@m.m.m59594 жыл бұрын
Being nice is so underrated. Thanks Joe for shedding some light on the subject.
@dougthedoctor79165 жыл бұрын
very true. Always be kind because you never know what someone's been through. Being nice can change someone's life and it will change yours.
@bt-nb5tp6 жыл бұрын
I feel kindness is something the majority of our society considers weak and pointless, it’s about crushing and defeating your fellow man down instead of helping one another out. People I feel are either getting more robotic in that they don’t feel or care about anyone or anything or they feel bitterness and hate moreover anything even resembling compassion and joy...really bums me out
@arraikcruor64075 жыл бұрын
The only thing you can do is respond in kindness.
@jonathanlavis74474 жыл бұрын
They also hate themselves & don’t believe they can ever be happy so they try 2 ruin others happiness
@renda19823 жыл бұрын
It feels good when you acknowledge and validate someone's existence. Especially when it comes back. Like tuning forks we can amplify loving vibrations. We are pure Love. Some just don't know it.
@vickyl21133 жыл бұрын
One of the great joys of my life is teaching special education. My class of 7th graders was the kindest group of people would ever meet. I was so proud of them. The most fulfilling thing I could ever do is teach kids how to be kind.
@jaken.40445 жыл бұрын
I enjoy being humble and generous! It’s definitely a great thing in life! It keeps me going!
@ragegp68826 жыл бұрын
Joe "we need to be nicer" rogan
@haydenwigle20985 жыл бұрын
Joel “Hulu has live sports” embid
@BennyNegroFromQueens5 жыл бұрын
and?
@birddaddydetta4 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@ashmckinlay14024 жыл бұрын
Rage "Joe "we need to be nicer" Rogan" G P 🙂
@facedowngaming3 жыл бұрын
Lol he said the “N” word
@gavincrossley23463 жыл бұрын
My high school choir teacher taught all of his students how to be decent humans. He has an energy that is just contagious and if you weren’t a nice person you definitely turned into a nice person in his classroom.
@chrissnow5121 Жыл бұрын
Society needs to hear this people have lost their way and we need people like you I appreciate everything you do you are amazing
@NickPDX226 жыл бұрын
The reason and answer to life is #Love .. period
@jadelouisetidman74006 жыл бұрын
Guy likes himself a menstrual cycle! Mmm Nom nom nom
@tyetnic5 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say that necessarily, but I would say it's the preferred strategy for making it through life.
@wagnerp12135 жыл бұрын
You must not deal with society much but I feel you. Must be nice to be rich😂😂😂
@chopperking0074 жыл бұрын
Tell that to islam.
@rh-fy2tx4 жыл бұрын
@@chopperking007 islam is love. look into what real islam teaches you not what the media feeds you.
@philgerritsen46603 жыл бұрын
Joe is like a father we never had
@TristanDeshaies5 ай бұрын
Word
@gabrielbouvier99473 жыл бұрын
I've been crushed from being too kind to the point where I could no longer look someone in the eyes.. It's a hard world man.. But you gotta learn from those mistake and understand.. who is worthy of your kindness and with who you need to be cold as a rock ..
@twinkieman2373 жыл бұрын
Some of the most competitive and best athletes in the world have been the nicest people off the field/court/track. There’s nothing wrong with being kind, it’s more of a strength than a weakness. Even something as small as holding the door open is enough to make someone’s day better
@leviathan64364 жыл бұрын
This is why I love Joe! He is very kind and down to earth! Not only that, he is very motivating! I love listening to his podcast because of that! 🖤🖤
@TheHaters1124 жыл бұрын
Problem is that parents fail to give their children chores. Something they're accountable for. It teaches people how to appreciate things and people.
@miriaminverardi12604 жыл бұрын
I love how, when hiking, the norm (at least in Italy) is to say "hi" to people. Those little moments really warm my heart.
@anamartinez89084 жыл бұрын
I'm an American living in SE Asia. Ppl don't say hello here, ppl don't open doors for each other, ppl will enter the elevator as you're exiting. it used to piss me off but now I have realized it's just cultural.
@AndromedanPrince6 жыл бұрын
True, The state of society is very sad right now it's unbelievable how hateful a lot of people are and with 0 empathy of how they impact other people. I do my best to be polite and respectful but I've had times when I've held the door for a lady or picked up something they dropped and they just stare at me with a blank or confused look and don't say anything..
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@chanandler4567 Жыл бұрын
Yes. This lady at a store knocked over a large stack of items. I helped her pick them up, and I was doing so, she walks away from all of the mess she had made. Makes a person not want to help anyone ever again.
@silviasweidan6 жыл бұрын
Immense gratitude for your beautiful soul ... I LOVE your kindness and compassion
@matiasklecha10606 жыл бұрын
Izzy lol
@mohamedorayith46263 жыл бұрын
“You need your sword. It needs to be sheathed but you must have it”- J Peterson the 🐐
@kassachap3 жыл бұрын
Being kind is something we need in these times!
@justonwaits4 жыл бұрын
Keep being kind, keep spreading love, & keep being positive!! You never know what a simple act can make somebody feel!
@iwasbatman20603 жыл бұрын
1)- Being humble and kind is important. 2)- The unevolved majority of people do not know the importance of reciprocity in kindness, trust me I lived in NYC and I saw how people would literally give not a fuck for a starving homeless young girl or how under more severe life threatening situations. It made me sad and also confused like "So this is the reality of human nature this is how MOST people are". 3)- I think it's fair to be selectively kind. That is fair to me. You pick and choose who is worth being nice to based on reciprocity and how they are to you, not just being kind or even considerate to everyone because being that way among a sea of assholes will make you a sucker they dont look out for you.
@sdotstadia3153 жыл бұрын
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@mohsinbhat1848 Жыл бұрын
Even flashing a smile towards your brother is an act of charity ~ prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)😊
@susza893 жыл бұрын
100% agree with Joe. When I moved to UK from an old soviet country you could really see the difference in people and how they behave. Life is so much nicer and easier if people are kind and polite and smile. It really dosnt take much to make a big big difference. I used to think being kind is a weakness. Now when I see rude/arrogant people I just feel sorry for them...
@c.dreyer26323 жыл бұрын
I know this is an old podcast, but I am just seeing it . It is so important to be kind , I always tell my kids when they are leaving the house (when they were living at home ) “ Make it a great day, make good choices, be kind, I love you “ and when going to anyone else’s house “mind your manners” . 😊 I believe it worked and stuck with them . Have a beautiful productive day!!
@r.i.p796254 жыл бұрын
Kindness can change people greatly. And when you learn how to be kind to people you learn how to be kind to urself. Be kind for no reason please it’s so important I’m glad he said this. Forgive the pain others cause you and instead give them a reason to heal themselves, it’s not your job to do justice.
@andrewbieck11283 жыл бұрын
This is so spot on to the way everyone should treat each other. This is how we all can make the world better for us and our children.
@ronniefox50254 жыл бұрын
That last part about shame is so relatable. I used to go from job to job and be without for two weeks to two months but was consistent. When I'd live wife's family members they would not know my routine and drive so they would do nothing but stress me, lecture me like I've never wanted or had a job in my life. The shame and guilt they would think is helping me did as much for me as yelling at the sun to come up at best and stopped bme from getting jobs at its worst.
@dante39044 жыл бұрын
#1082 You’re welcome
@tanamh4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@coolman0000994 жыл бұрын
Nicholas Asemota I scrolled so far to find this
@tylerdurden78894 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude a lot
@vicino.4 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuuu
@Farrett2093 жыл бұрын
Ty
@laylaluann95413 жыл бұрын
I think that sometimes when strangers are nice we respond coldly because you don't trust why they are being nice. We grow up learning about manipulators untrustworthy people that turn on you tell others your secrets make fun of you . So theres this feeling of wanting to protect yourself and it makes you cynical.
@Handled1873 жыл бұрын
kindness is the only way for u to survive and have a good day. thanks for being so open.
@shaynestewart92972 жыл бұрын
Being kind to people who are constantly rude to you stings, for me the more i observe people, sympathize, understand encourages me to continue.
@adamscott22194 жыл бұрын
Great subject Joe. I’ve had many great mentors in life particularly at work but other places as well including my parents that taught me how to be kind with my words. I’ve since learned a few years ago that you must show kindness in your actions as well to be completely genuine. One of my staff that I was very fond of didn’t say kind things mostly but did random nice things for me like bring me in a delicious lunch or do things that were above her pay grade to help me. Sometimes I’d have a lot of pressure from above and walk around like a bear with a sore head trying to get things done and she picked up on that every time. She would think I was pissed off with her because I was in my own world and not really communicating and she would work stupidly harder to help me not knowing what was going on. I was sending out pissed off vibes and she was bearing the burden.....not good. So I modified my behaviour and also started doing random kind things not just for her but other people as well and life got a lot better. Now I’m hugely popular in the workplace and other places sometimes to the point it’s uncomfortable and I often wonder what they see in me. It’s a good problem to have though but I still consider myself a work in progress.
@Monklee635 жыл бұрын
Great to hear men talking about these things, Joe Rogan. Keep up the good work!
@GGTaino3 жыл бұрын
My mom made sure I grew up being kind, I swear people look at me weird when I do something that seen so normal to me yet so weird to others
@bamly32933 жыл бұрын
So much wholesomeness in the comment section that instantly makes me to become a better person. Love it.