I grew up in an abusive household and my father took his own life in front of me when I was fifteen. I was messed up for a long time and was made to go to therapy and take medication. Once I became an adult I no longer wanted to take medicine or go to therapy. I simply started exercising on a regular basis, eating healthy and keeping my house clean and organized. That’s it. Doing those things completely changed my way of thinking. I’m a happy healthy adult. I do still get triggered from my past from time to time. But I just keep focusing on staying on track of my goals no matter how simple and it keeps me grounded.
@daniel-nw5iq5 ай бұрын
Wow good for you what are you trying to say? you want us to to clap for you u have been spoiled try dealing with that and being homeless
@daniel-nw5iq5 ай бұрын
I'm homeless and dealing with mental health didn't have the option for meds or housing so don't talk about something you no nothing about you spoiled brat
@Onlyfiber5 ай бұрын
@@daniel-nw5iq are you serious? You clearly haven’t dealt with your own issues. John is sharing his life experience and what helped him, to help others in similar situations. You are a crappy human being. You are what’s wrong with society. John, thank you for sharing, my wife grew up in an abusive household and suicide was not far from the picture. Thank you so much for being so strong in your life and striving for a better way.
@claireq25345 ай бұрын
That is awesome news to hear. I am sincerely happy for you and thank you for sharing your experience because it gives me hope (along with many other people who read your comment, I’m sure). Keep on doing what you’re doing and I wish you all the best for the future!!
@holisticpuffs74194 ай бұрын
Good on you mate. Love hearing stories like this.
@1283Stevo3 күн бұрын
I have never listened to a podcast that focus’s on the main topic and was never boring or I wished they would change the topic. What a great podcast. So insightful for me as a parent.
@Stoney197295 ай бұрын
I find it hard to understand why this isn't one of the most viewed conversations that Mr. Rogan has ever had.
@sherylbusch58535 ай бұрын
It was from Spotify. Rogan did a mass upload of previous shows.
@alexcychung5 ай бұрын
money.
@VideosBB245 ай бұрын
Cuz that woman is too bitchy and a whiney complainer. Thinks she’s a savior
@Chungus3600017 күн бұрын
because most of it is hogwash blaming kids for having mental issues raised in a world that has literally nothing to offer them
@panarba94855 ай бұрын
When I hit my early teens my stepfather constantly pushed and tested my abilities both physically and mentally, most times it was moving about 1000 bricks from one end of the yard to the other. I realised in my late 20s he had installed in me a discipline where I was totally confident in myself and my ability to do anything in life, because he had made it painful for me at an early age. Now I'm 50 and I'm very thankful for the tough love he showed towards me , I don't think I would have been the strong, resilient person I'm today if it wasn't for him.
@Average-Lizard3 ай бұрын
That’s awesome. Things like this remind me to thank my dad for being a great dad.
@seasnake3336 ай бұрын
"Every time someone wants to stop discussions, they're wrong." 100% true, but a lot of people don't understand this.
@bensmith64885 ай бұрын
Was told just yesterday I can't share my opinion that people should try to love themselves as they are before lopping body parts off.
@MaseratiChris5565 ай бұрын
Our government?
@michonmellenberndt59222 ай бұрын
.mm. P
@matey11447721 күн бұрын
Not really true. There are a lot of useless and even detrimental discussions.
@seasnake33320 күн бұрын
@ The difference is between you choosing what conversations you want to participate in and someone with ability to shut down a third party. Free speech demands that so long as it is mere talk, be it ever so ugly, you don’t get to tell other people they can’t have the conversation.
@hengineer4 ай бұрын
As a kid who was bullied, my parents taught me resilience. One of the thjngs my mom would always say to me "the best revenge is living well". Sure, kids can grow up scarred by it, but only if they get affirmation in those feelings. I grew up very resilient because of my parents.
@richardcarte3 ай бұрын
Feelings are part of our nature. You should learn to manage them. They’re therefore a reason. They’re one of the things that gives us morality. If you have right, suppress them that weakness.
@jim-baron4 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking out about therapy. Years ago there was no therapist in my high school or junior high school, and we were fairly fine. Now kids are more depressed than ever, therapy keeps becoming more prevalent, and the depression keeps rising. This might be an unpopular opinion, but the therapy session, ever since Freud , has been nothing more than an inverse of the confessional. What we need is not more therapy; what we need is God.
@sazza84sara5 ай бұрын
My daughter started having therapy and other agencies giving her support including taking her out of classes from age 11 when her brother died. After a while I started to feel like it was making things worse. She was constantly getting dragged back into the pain instead of figuring out how to move forward. Turns out they were calling her they and a different name without me knowing too. She would feel panicked when she didn't have someone available to talk to all the time. Now she's 17 and has taken a step back but still sees a couple of people because her mental health got scarily bad, but she now seems to have got certain benefits from some of her therapies, like CBT and psychotherapy but a lot of the "support" did exactly what Abigail said and what I said at the time, it kept her in it. Kept the focus on the bad.
@Modernmindcoach5 ай бұрын
Have you heard of Gabor mate or Peter Levine? Somatic therapy works amazing and could benefit your daughter further.
@sazza84sara5 ай бұрын
@@Modernmindcoach thanks, I'll look into it
@francispitts94405 ай бұрын
I’m so happy that I had a Father who was strong and held me accountable standards. He taught me to work for what I wanted and to keep getting back up no matter how many times I got knocked on my butt. I played sports and worked. School was fun and the times were very different. We didn’t even watch much tv. We played in all types of weather and cold. I feel bad for kids now.
@medp5 ай бұрын
I am dealing with 40 old friends with no kids giving anxiety meds to their pets. I live in southamerica so this is a real global issue.
@schmiggidy5 ай бұрын
Wow, talk about dangerous and deluded self-projection. WTF is wrong with women these days??
@Rugmunchersauce35 ай бұрын
To their PETS??! That is fucked up. Animals DON'T need anxiety medication. They just need food, affection and a home; if they have all that and no cruelty they won't be anxious.
@medp4 ай бұрын
@@Rugmunchersauce3 Yup, homeopathy and other kind of things to dogs and cats... I was shocked
@dayanagarcia9662Ай бұрын
🤦🏼♀️
@sws3162 ай бұрын
I was just like the kids she described during my teen years. I was put on prozac and abilify at age 9, diagnosed bipolar at 15, and put on a more elaborate med cocktail that I was expected to take for life. I'm an adult now, been off all meds for close to three years now and no longer identify as mentally ill. I recognize that I was before, but I don't feel like I need to see it as a permanent condition. I think my parents put me in psychiatry and therapy because, like she said towards the beginning of the interview, gen x felt like that was helpful for them and what they needed. I think it did more harm than good for me, especially on a physical level. I was having signs of kidney problems at 19 and at risk of multiple organ failure, diabetes, and brain damage if I stayed on meds for life as my psychiatrist had planned. Tapering off my meds and proving to the world that I can be mentally stable without chemical interferrance was a HUGE catalyst to my confidence and self-autonomy. When I have kids, I'm gonna try to try my best to be the person they can go to for support and help and avoid professional mental health intervention as much as possible.
@gulfcoastlife39018 күн бұрын
“Emotional hypochondriacs” - perfect phrase!!
@1968Lawman5 ай бұрын
@ about 25 minutes into the interview the discussion reminds me of something that I saw someone say to somebody else online... "Stop trying to infect me with your fears!" Everything today is fear-based, politics, media, just about every form of sales and marketing especially in the medical fields and pharmaceutical fields...etc. Just a mention, nothing else. Love the show Joe!
@MayBlake_Channel5 ай бұрын
As a Soldier and a truthseeker, I feel so validated (ironically, hahaha) to hear someone explain that the way society talks about 'Soldiers and PTSD' is hyper inflated. I've been in the Army nearly 10 years and I've known plenty of Soldiers with trauma from things civilians go through (abusive relationships, death of loved ones, etc), and few (if any) who had trauma from war. I really agree with her that war related PTSD is not that common
@Lena-ji2gi5 ай бұрын
I live in Montreal Canada and last year cell phones were banned in the schools. We can’t control what happens when they get home but when they’re in the school, they cannot have cell phones.
@Rugmunchersauce35 ай бұрын
Good. They are at school to LEARN and to listen to their teachers, not to be on their phones.
@VideosBB245 ай бұрын
Or you could make school and class a tiny bit interesting, then maybe people would want to pay attention to your drivel
@blondealterego5 ай бұрын
Make the classroom smaller and focus on things that kids can use not test scores
@QuebecHardwood4 ай бұрын
Vive Montreal!
@JoE_Songs4 ай бұрын
I would applaud and agree to 100%. But Canada is so far into censorship right now, that the reasons behind that are suspicious to me. The correct reasoning would be: no internet before 16, parents are responsible for their children, like in any other area. But the internet itself cannot be censored under the pretense of protecting children and adults from "hate speech" . Hate speech does not really exist. It was never legal term. It's an esoteric term. We have enough libel laws. Everything else leads us into an Orwellian future. Even now, YT is monitoring comments already. And even the politest person is censoring its own comments whilst writing. Scary, when you're noticing it within yourself.
@stargazer47846 ай бұрын
2 thousand hours of Joe Rogan was just uploaded at once.
@spgmezy68756 ай бұрын
😢 19:06 😢 19:06 😢 19:06 g6 G. 19:12
@eyesee3016 ай бұрын
It be like that
@LEERG6 ай бұрын
Waasup with that ? And I just found this female lmao
@happyshillmore6 ай бұрын
I can't believe I've listened to 2 thousand hours of joe rogan. I haven't listened that much to my friends & family combined.
@1LuckySavage6 ай бұрын
@@LEERGTheir exclusivity deal with Spotify ended a bit ago so they can post full episodes anywhere they want now.
@dianedorbin67836 ай бұрын
social media engineers are extremley knowledgable about human behavior and the propensity for compulsion and addiction. They engineer accordingly.
@Nicole-ww4lg6 ай бұрын
and people have been demanding the government regulate that but i think after covid and the recent supreme court ruling we all know why the government ISN'T stopping these evil assholes from manipulating us
@kookoo4mikeАй бұрын
One the BEST PODCASTS I’ve heard in awhile and I listen to A LOT! So enlightening and helpful. TY 🙏🏻
@EthalaRide4 ай бұрын
My mom had a saying/joke she'd say sometimes when we'd talk about someone playing the victim or making a big deal out of nothing. (In a Shakespearian voice, or Scarlet Pimpernel) _"OH, How I suffer, _*_when I think of how I suffer!"_* which is just a calling out of rumination.
@llamarama1114 ай бұрын
Oh thats perfect, thank you ❤
@Ruben-H205 ай бұрын
I 100% agree with her point on therapy.. 10000%
@charlesdarwin58455 ай бұрын
I'd never heard of her before but WOW!! This is the sort of 'Reality Check' people need. I look forward to hearing more about her & even read her book. Real world advice for real people.
@kentuckyslime4 ай бұрын
12:43 = Abigail mentions libraries. We have Bad Therapy (11 copies) and Irreversible Damage (4 copies) at my library. They're all checked out, and the wait list to get a copy is really long, so I don't know when I'll get them. I'm very much looking forward to reading them. Edit: I checked the online catalog for a library in another town I used to live in and they have copies of both books as well.
@MeMe-le5yt5 ай бұрын
Joe made a good point about it not being healthy to be constantly consumed with thoughts of self. We should try to be more others focused. Also, prayer and reading the Bible are things that have really helped me make it through hard times. Philippians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
@incitatus9535 ай бұрын
Prayer, also known as Meditation
@MeMe-le5yt5 ай бұрын
@@incitatus953 Well, meditation is when you're really contemplating something. Prayer is when I am pouring my heart out to God and asking Him for help with difficulties in my life.
@incitatus9535 ай бұрын
@@MeMe-le5yt in both you are in a state of focus and presence, only the intention is slightly different.
@MeMe-le5yt5 ай бұрын
@@incitatus953 I would say mediation is more inward where I'm thinking about what I've read in the Bible. Prayer is more outward where Im trying to connect to God by speaking to Him
@chuckb470Ай бұрын
Also; (paraphrase) "As a man thinks; so shall he become."
@andreaalexandranaks13802 ай бұрын
I got thrown into therapy at 13 for self harm and “depression”, which now I don’t think was depression but I was just a bummed teen that was influenced by social media. Therapy didn’t fix anything, I just got sympathy. I didn’t grow up in a stable household my mom has anxiety and pretty sure an eating disorder too, she hid food from me and told me to loose weight constantly when I was a healthy weight, she constantly had something bad to say about my appearance. My dad was sometimes physically abusive. At 17 I went back to therapy because I had extreme suicidal thoughts and social anxiety, they diagnosed me with avoidant personality disorder. They threw antidepressants at me, and did not tell me to exercise daily and fix my habits. at that point I was overweight because I used food as coping, and what I truly needed was to fix my diet. Anyways at 18 I realised anti depressants are a scam and I lost weight, fixed my habits. and man that helped me a ton, I still struggle immensely with body dysmorphia and anxiety but exercise and diet has truly healed me. Now I’m 20 and living with my bf and I truly believe they just exploited my problems
@BreakfastCake776 ай бұрын
Jennifer Bilek would be an amazing guest. She wrote Transsexual Transgender Transhuman. She’s fascinating and she’s done the research behind who’s funding this disaster of a crime against humanity
@deepthought66016 ай бұрын
“I can’t drive past my old middles school because of the bullying I have PTSD” “They don’t have PTSD” 😭 love that more people need to be frank about this
@scott-k2k2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@mariannegardner17620 күн бұрын
Abigail's book showed up in our local library just in the last 30 days.
@MichaelRector-qf7xp5 ай бұрын
Yes good communication can solve a lot of our problems
@Urvashi923 ай бұрын
I must tell you the subject is so relevant and close to my heart…. Sometimes I feel we should go back to farming and grow veggies for better life
@MJN_TheCouchSessions5 ай бұрын
Twenty years ago I worked in the VP's office at ASU, which included the graduation and ceremony office. Parents of college students AND graduate students would call in constantly on their behalf to ask questions, solve problems, obtain information, and complain. Back then we called them helicopter parents. We all joked about it, but all secretly lamented the eventual consequences that this would have. Those "kids" are now in their 40's. Moreover, I taught at universities for 15 years and had a first row seat to all that has befallen academic institutions and now larger society. It is a critical danger that must be navigated. Preferably not as a result of widespread conflict and war to "toughen them up," but by mentorship, reason, compassion, grace, and love. There is no other way.
@bigusdicus90044 ай бұрын
Jesus tought me 😊
@Chungus3600017 күн бұрын
thats cool and all but thats not gonna change the prices of housing and food. Our gen wouldnt be so depressed if there was actually something to work towards. I pray every night that hopefully i can afford a studio apartment hopefully before i starve or become elderly
@Anwelei2 күн бұрын
I work in a police department and some of the most angry parents who call in about their children’s belongings (impounded as evidence), are parents in their 60s+, as in their children are in their 30s and 40s. It’s absolutely incredible to witness.
@Average-Lizard3 ай бұрын
My life sucked in college. I was depressed and purposeless. I was prescribed anti-depressants and adderal after like 1 visit to the doctor… They didn’t help the depression. But the adderal did admittedly help me get through college while being depressed b/c I could study unnaturally well. Senior year my life was changed by Jesus Christ and my life didn’t suck any more. Stopped using the meds, stopped going to counseling. Still think it’s crazy how quick I got the meds. Doctor literally said: “would you be less depressed if you could focus better in class?” Wild
@llamarama1114 ай бұрын
I told my therapist “you’re making me sadder!” She fired back with “oh well some people aren’t ready to deal with it” I never went back…
@dufjdh3u87rhhdbhfhd3 ай бұрын
My therapist didn't think I was depressed becuase I could laugh at ridiculous things.
@llamarama1113 ай бұрын
@@dufjdh3u87rhhdbhfhd 😳 thats how we cope 🤷♀️
@gnosisdespirit2 ай бұрын
Is it a coincidence that when you break the word "therapist" up it becomes The Rapist ?
@lmsteller9736Ай бұрын
Fantastic interview! One of your best Joe. Congratulations.
@samuraiguy777Ай бұрын
Gym, hiking, cooking, positive friends, hobbies, orderly house (laundry, etc), paired with a daily relationship with Jesus works for me and many others. Not everyday is sunshine and rainbows but I have hope. Hope is so important.
@TrendingTopicsTess2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Abigail. Thank you. Thank you, Joe. Children are being saved because of you both.
@HillyDoyle8 күн бұрын
I've had some periods of therapy in my life and the first question I always asked was "how long do you think I will need to come here" and they look at you like its the dumbest question ever. Never even a remote timeline. I also found you can get to a point where you can talk about your problems to death and you end up repeating over and over until you pretty much get sick of the sound of your own voice...maybe thats the ticket haha! Ms Shrier makes some very valid solid points. Young adults seem very messed up.....
@samanthakwait87825 ай бұрын
The best thing I ever did for my anxiety was work out
@justinratliff45628 күн бұрын
Literally on her side the entire conversation until she said she let her NINE YEAR OLD DAUGHTER walk home from school. Insane.
@DippedInInkАй бұрын
Thank u for this podcast cuz a lot of us need to stop looking for the EASY way out, look within, become our own cheerleader and say "I Got This". We are all winners...we just need to fight more days than others to prove to ourselves that we are winners.
@jacobaguire24676 ай бұрын
Are these all the podcasts from Spotify that weren’t on KZbin?
@Nicole-ww4lg6 ай бұрын
yes
@zanderchiefs13774 ай бұрын
She’s really smart I got mad respect for her
@n64fan606 ай бұрын
JRE filling up my feed with more vids i can scroll through 😂
@maryannerazzo17376 ай бұрын
Kids need to be busy - volunteering, small jobs, hobbies, etc.
@gezag.hanniker19405 ай бұрын
gotta get them off their phones and off social media
@ihintrr5 ай бұрын
It's hard to get a job now a days, most places don't hire until 16.
@maryannerazzo17375 ай бұрын
@@ihintrr Volunteering a couple of hours a week is a good way to start.
@ihintrr5 ай бұрын
@maryannerazzo1737 true but where I live not many places are taking volunteers. The ones that are required you to be 18 and over.
@MyDogSteppedOnaBeee4 ай бұрын
They are coddled to much, not disciplined, learned from failures, taught life and social skills. Their Parents do to much for them they have to learn on their own with some guidance.
@sunnyflowers5517Ай бұрын
She’s 💯correct! What a great interview!
@087djpАй бұрын
Let's get this wonderful person and Dule Gomez on the same podcast
@akamurphyslaw71906 ай бұрын
The FIRST rule for an md: don’t do harm to people!!!! Healing is just the seccond rule…
@missyjet51775 ай бұрын
Since time began humans have lost loved ones and you have to learn to grieve and regulate emotions yourself.
@hengineer4 ай бұрын
losing someone young unexpectedly can be traumatic. Losing someone older from a common ailment isn't traumatic.
@izaacestrada36 ай бұрын
Joe's putting in that work 💪
@MichaelRector-qf7xp5 ай бұрын
We should have the next presidential debates on Joe's show
@raffin204024 күн бұрын
the best reason for therapy is for processing help. if you go thru something challenging or traumatic, having a good therapist to help you process what ever it is that youre having trouble processing is gonna be a big help. but you can also get this from a trusted friend or others close to you. but i get it, if you're isolated and unable to reach out to someone close to you, a therapist will help in that regard. anything besides that, i think its counter intuitive. focusing on your problems only makes them grow
@Rugmunchersauce35 ай бұрын
Excellent episode, again. Here's to bringing up a tougher generation who aren't screwed up yet who are also empathetic and intelligent.
@omniwinds6 ай бұрын
23:12 in 2016 kids between 2-6 didn’t have smartphones, but they DEFINITELY had ipads! thats a huge thing shes missing from that statistic.
@kosmikmusa6 ай бұрын
iPad is not a smartphone. There is a huge difference.
@bradjossi6 ай бұрын
@@kosmikmusa What are you talking about, it's a giant smartphone lmao
@VideosBB245 ай бұрын
But this woman is 100% correct all the time about everything she says. Can’t you tell by her tone of voice everything she says is fact
@user-cq1hf2eb4g6 ай бұрын
Been saying the same thing and Agree with her 10000% always get slaughtered on reddit but she is right
@Rugmunchersauce35 ай бұрын
100% mate, that's the maximum. 😉
@mashachahir1309Ай бұрын
What an amazing podcast, thanks 🙌🏼❤️
@ChikenChaser6 ай бұрын
This a good one
@alicialeopold27313 ай бұрын
I hope her book reaches parents and helps.
@michellemartinez1085 ай бұрын
Nice to see a woman on here with great information.
@BehindtheMuscle15 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@aleksandraguz8303 ай бұрын
It's horrible how simplified anxiety is presenting here. There is so much more then "bad therapist" and phones to it. Food, how mothers feels and been treated when pregnant with a child, toxins in air and water, news which constantly produces a only what is horrific. Whole system is doing everything to make sure people live in state of scarcity as they are easy to be controlled when they're not feeling safe!
@drewbissss4 ай бұрын
i was forced into wilderness and rotc programs at 14 and to this day i think the side effects of what she is saying on the effects on children are very prevalent to how it effected me and it is still happening today, very sad
@Ravenshade6665 ай бұрын
Talking about depression really got me back in time, i was really fcked up by it, since I've been child it fcked my life and no one cared, not even in school, luckily i didn't get bullied mich, standart amount, nothing serious, just because i was different, always sad and slow. I have panic attack symptoms very often, had a full blown one once, but avoiding stressful situation, like relationships and going to events helps :D I would be an interesting example of depressed loser who is kinda fine now with no help
@williamwhitten782011 күн бұрын
*I am 77 years old and I have never had therapy.* *I went to a marriage counselor with one of my wives once, and realize she was a crank.* *I got up and walked out.*
@DanielRyanScott29 күн бұрын
Thank you for stating the fact that the majority of soldiers who go to war do not get PTSD. I have talked to some people who expect it of you, or will even think your lying or a psycho because you are still fine.
@advantager355Ай бұрын
An interesting observation talking to Viet Nam vets and Iraqi vets were the differences in which they were deployed and returned. In Nam a lot of them arrived by themselves and were assigned to an outfit that they had to join up with and when they returned they returned alone. Iraqi vets went with the group they were trained with and fought with the same group and returned with the same group. Also the Viet Nam vets came back facing peace protesters with hate and the Iraqi vets came back with banners hero welcomes with the band playing.
@Newoldmom4 ай бұрын
Been going through some shit with my teenage daughter and I agree wholeheartedly with 17:04 her. And making ur self a victim makes u a victim. I’m all for self awareness and learning but therapy and needing an excuse for behaviour instead of moving past it is way more harmful than dwelling on things. This is why 40% of women under 30 have “mental illness” .. if I was in therapy I would be a victim and not a normal person about to make conclusive thoughts
@mustafakadhum880918 күн бұрын
She’s amazing
@ValeriePeterson-w5f5 ай бұрын
I totally agree with her about labeling a child !!!😊
@indianmonk33804 ай бұрын
This should have more views
@chuckb470Ай бұрын
Joe just re-released a ton of videos that were only on Spotify.
@victorhugo-g6i3 ай бұрын
i love this woman
@charlemagnetheFranks6 ай бұрын
Too many people don't know about this castration😢 but the pendulum swings both ways. The Tide is turning😊
@charlemagnetheFranks6 ай бұрын
People really don't know about it
@Rugmunchersauce35 ай бұрын
I really hope so. We definitely need to get back to being tough and fearless.
@charlemagnetheFranks5 ай бұрын
Midway upon our life's journey, In dark woods, we found ourselves lost, Through gates of woe and eternal pain, We tread to find the light again.
@medp5 ай бұрын
Ten years ago I remember the huge amount of kids talking ritalin and other psiquiatric meds. What about that now? Terrifing how they play with our heads with no consequences.
@tomaspodesta62012 ай бұрын
Now I understand why I see at least in social media so much distrutst in therapy, I get it. This its too much. It feels insulting that im getting in the same bag as any of those useless therapists as a future professional. Treating someone without you being mentally stable and healthy its the same as operating with Parkinson's: you can literally do more than a simple scratch, mentally speaking, to the person.
@static8255 ай бұрын
I'm getting my 5 year old daughter into therapy but I'm so concerned whether it's the right thing to do.. she has developed a fear of using public restrooms to the point where she's now wetting herself at school and she's also become irrationally afraid of bugs to where she no longer wants to play outside. I've tried talking to her about it but I have no clue how to correct this before it becomes even more of an issue as she gets older. Ugh!
@CounterpunchMMA6 ай бұрын
Much love to everyone looking for me from the subreddit !!
@noe42076 ай бұрын
❤
@victorhugo-g6i3 ай бұрын
is paved with good intentions
@chuckb470Ай бұрын
What is; The road to Hell. 😁
@jeffwhite-ii5sz6 ай бұрын
21 IN LESS THAN AN HOUR SOOO CONFUSED!!!
@laurab9725 ай бұрын
It’s cause these are re-released episodes he dropped all at once. These had millions of actual views.
@Rugmunchersauce35 ай бұрын
What's so confusing about it though, really?
@erinbuyense474510 күн бұрын
I think creatine would be a useful nutrition supplement for ADHD
@k31rifleman20 күн бұрын
American surgeons doing this never surprised me. Money money money. Cut cut cut. Ask questions later. The whole profession is myopic.
@aminshahsavar83485 ай бұрын
I love this podcast the one thing I have to say is I live in north America but my parents are immigrants so I was raised to stay with my family I don't think that makes me an unhealthy bird. Just a thought
@NestorCaster5 ай бұрын
1:37:03: because it’s like: parent or teacher➡️Counselor and or Therapist➡️Pediatrician and or Internalist➡️Drugs Prescribed. Most chains don’t involve a licensed psychiatrist or psychologist(preferably both), who actually specializes in the diagnosis and treatment of such illnesses, diseases and disorders, discussed. You in reality end up having an entire list of ppl, with varying levels of authority, and different opinions and beliefs about a potential issue with the child, who only know through second hand knowledge, or first hand experience in the subject, but not coupled with the education, extensive training(academics), and clinical research to truly recognize what they are looking at; just a bunch of ppl who want to do something, but only know limitedly, on how to even understand and articulate the problem, if there’s even a problem present. And what’s worse, they end up looking for a problem to fulfill their need or urge, to “fix” something they though needed fixing in the child/teen.
@crackdog35233 ай бұрын
A person that practices non-self doesnt really have an "I" that suffers. ceasing the rumination of past and present removes the ego from the experience. I.E. *my past / future requires my ego / identity for it to stick* Its why mindfulness gets such a good wrap. It can be an incredibly useful tool for the anxieties of dealing with modernity.
@rufus-t4156 ай бұрын
People need to read her book Irreversible Damage.
@Jack..F5 ай бұрын
what’s it about
@MeMe-le5yt5 ай бұрын
@@Jack..F It's about irreversible damage
@Jack..F5 ай бұрын
@@MeMe-le5yt just red her book bad therapy turns out it was about some bad therapy thanks
@keziah428Ай бұрын
yoooo 31:42 fun fact was SOOOOO TRUE. Relatable.
@toltecarts8493Ай бұрын
51:18. What is she talking about? . Taylor Swift said "Shake it Off" and even got a Grammy for it 🤣❤️😁🤣❤️😂❤️
@isokayz6 ай бұрын
All the Spotify episodes get released?
@laurab9725 ай бұрын
Yep😊
@Rugmunchersauce35 ай бұрын
Yes, thank fuck.
@collinaitcheson7285 ай бұрын
How does this only have 9k views???
@chuckb470Ай бұрын
Joe just re-released a ton of videos that were only on Spotify.
@lati_da5 ай бұрын
My mental health was terrible as a kid and teen because of the climate change hoax. They called it global warming when I was a kid tho.
@SouthGallaecian3 ай бұрын
The idea that abusive parents must have done something right because their child became successful is just vile.
@BetaBuxDelux5 күн бұрын
Watching JR get red pilled has been a beautiful thing.
@StephenOconnor-g2oАй бұрын
Having a father in the picture is key
@leylafael6422 ай бұрын
you think you can calm down the kid by saying “think about others” ?! If the kid has an emotional break down especially if it’s late at night and he/she overstimulated on the plane ?! This argument is not strong enough to calm down an adult who has a lot more control over emotions ! Such a BS
@willcollins56604 ай бұрын
Surprise we don't have a lot of people commenting. Usually Joe comment section is always in the thousands easily and quickly. But so far only 213 comments as of today.
@chuckb470Ай бұрын
Probably due to the bulk re-releasing of Spotify videos.
@chuckb470Ай бұрын
Joe just re-released a ton of videos that were only on Spotify.
@ClaireCopeland-n6y3 күн бұрын
Parents and teachers do need to step up and try to stop bullying. I dont believe in SSRIS for kids but Joe makes more sense than this woman. Not talking about your pain is like saying to a person with two broken legs "There is nothing wrong with you. Get up and run. And dont you dare cry" this lady is not spot on despite her degree.
@lesahubbard6696Ай бұрын
What if there just things we need help explaining to a child?
@TimG-lq1peАй бұрын
Then expain it.
@ResoluteRonin6 ай бұрын
Psychotherapy Not Surgery
@schmiggidy5 ай бұрын
Prayer, Love and Spirituality, Not Psychotherapy
@funafterfifty78336 ай бұрын
My ex and I went to a shrink for our marriage. She was way over weight and working nights who was she to counsel us? She told me had too much anger towards me and I needed to leave. Big regret there. I learned how bad it was as an Adult with AOL so many marriages were destroyed. Internet is altering our world with all the bad fakes and influence. My daughter is 40 she was told she was ADHD in 3rd grade they said teach her a trade you will not have focus for anything else. She is a Rock Star Multitasker super achiever. Thank God I didn't give her the drugs.
@kamwalker62966 ай бұрын
Most shrinks are feminist know it all karens or weak men scared to tell women the truth
@straytarnish94434 ай бұрын
if they take kids phones away during school they should put cameras in the classrooms that parents can monitor from parent's phones
@465marko5 ай бұрын
I feel like there's a HUGE cultural-zeitgeist, popular conception type thing that you HAVE to talk about your problems and feelings instead of "bottling them up". Because if you keep it all inside, you'll explode!! That seems to be the logic to it. And it sounds fair. And that view has been around for a LONG time, like at least since the 90s but I'm sure it's from well before then. And it's common sense now. Common knowledge. And it seems like it's not true... It doesn't hold water. The evidence doesn't show it. At least in a lot of cases. I agree with her, just intuitively and from experience, that taking on that mindset (kind of a victim mindset) just crushes resilience. It's like embracing weakness, or whatever the opposite of resilience is. I'm ashamed to say I have adopted that mindset myself and it's done me no favours.
@hengineer4 ай бұрын
And its just going from one extreme to the other. It goes from "all silence" to "verbal diarrhea". I think its trying to sell you a way to replace the way normal people process emotions. What women pay a therapist for they would normally talk with friends over.
@Sara-hy1kz4 ай бұрын
It's about finding a balance. Don't bottle it up. Recognize your emotions, acknowledge and address them, then move on. Don't live in them and don't ignore them.
@hasty-carnaage15186 ай бұрын
Joes podcasts have millions of views. This one supposedly has 5.5k? Lmfao ya right. "Coincidentally" this video doesnt even show up on the JRE list of videos.
@laurab9725 ай бұрын
It’s because when he went to Spotify they were taken off YT. Now that he’s back on YT he released a ton all at once. Like 2000’s hours of episodes.
@betsybabf7484 ай бұрын
This one has been on YT for over 2 months. It is very obviously being shadow banned.
@LoganNagol5 ай бұрын
This video is showed below tons of ones published after it, even when sorted by latest. I seriously don’t understand why
@chuckb470Ай бұрын
Joe just re-released a ton of videos that were only on Spotify.