To Anyone Going Through A Breakup

We lose ourselves when we fall in love with someone that is moving faster than us.
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[@joeykidney]

Thank you everyone for watching, if this advice helped at all, can you like the video? It really helps me

[@dolly_8869]

Thank you Joey.

[@dolly_8869]

❤️

[@LibraButton]

This helped tremendously, thank you

[@wurmie]

thank you for making this video joey

[@yunggchina]

Thank you ❤️

[@amurphy4004]

It's not them leaving that hurts, it's the memories that follow.

[@aegufm4531]

Exactly that. I didnt even know how to put this into words but you described how i feel too. Hang in there, im sure it is gonna be okay

[@amurphy4004]

@AeguFM thank you friend, you too.

[@aegufm4531]

@@amurphy4004 thanks appreciate it :)

[@williamlu2423]

😥

[@kaspervalentin7018]

And the memories we have to forget... :(

[@morghanprice.]

I lost myself trying to hold onto someone who didn’t care about losing me.

[@kimberlyjames1591]

Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Sam who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Sam always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

[@David-wj9tq]

Dear I will introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer from POLAND who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's a very good man

[@David-wj9tq]

Wh'atsapp him now

[@kala9912]

Exactly

[@WholeHeartily]

Same

[@commondirtbagz7130]

I think the worst part of a breakup to me is knowing you’re healing just to potentially have it happen again.

[@scannner7499]

It happened twice this year to me.Damn

[@commondirtbagz7130]

@@scannner7499 what happened if you mind me asking?

[@tigerexo6577]

@@scannner7499 damn same bruh….. I had 2 relationships this year and both of them ended up in breakup. 😢especially this recent breakup, it hurts the most.

[@commondirtbagz7130]

@@tigerexo6577 we’ll find the right person man. Unfortunately most of life is just waiting for the good parts in life.

[@androidgamerxxx]

Going through it right now. Hurts like hell. But hey, I will rise again. We will rise again.

[@originali_t]

This break up makes me not want to love again..

[@vofcoffins1038]

Give yourself as much time and soace as you need bro. I hear you, it sucks but try treat yourself with love and understanding ❤️

[@abidsalim6183]

Love does not exist , i learned to be selfish get what i want from people and throw them. And if you don't want to be like this, people will hurt you until you be like this .

[@NayanTopic]

Hugs to everyone who are dealing with breakups

[@tracyspencer1674]

Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

[@tracyspencer1674]

Message him on Whatsapp

[@tracyspencer1674]

✛2347030894892(☉｡☉)!!!

[@Hex111]

Ty

[@anomaly_101]

I really do wish I could have a hug right now. That’s all I want. My gf I feel like is about to break up with me. She’s getting fed up with me. Other things contributed too But she’s helped me so much in the 6 months that I know her. She used to like me a lot. And it’s hurting so much that she just wants me gone now

[@salt.8989]

"Break-ups heart so much because you envisioned your entire life with someone else to the point where you have lost who you are without them." This is so true 😭

[@Alex-zu4lj]

Hey I just had this happen to me like 2 h ago but I really want her back

[@Sonnyhahobv]

​@@Alex-zu4ljsame 💔💔

[@Alex-zu4lj]

@@Sonnyhahobv she is now trying to get my best friend and so now I'm getting her cousin 😠

[@Sonnyhahobv]

@@Alex-zu4lj that sucks dude

[@RoxyCherryRozy]

What spiritual adviser and what did they do? ​@IhuomaChinonso

[@KawaiiCat2]

The hardest thing about a breakup is the fact you are with them and a routine forms and now you have to live without that routine. Without them in it

[@utsachakraborty4379]

Truee!!

[@thattenorsax7453]

Exactly right! That’s how I feel right now, expecting him to text me every morning and night and now it’s like uh??? Or like stuff that he did at school yk.

[@canvas_125]

Yes! I lived with mine for 10 months…I used to love my loneliness until he changed my mind, but now that he’s gone, this loneliness is different and harder. When you got so used to their warmth and affection…

[@Deku2698]

We lived together for 5 years.. I got together with her when I was a kid with 17. Now I am nearly 25 and have to live without that person. It’s unbearable.

[@namzer0]

yeah...

[@Tommy-Eagle-USA]

Don't chase someone who isn't looking for you.

[@Liquidish]

There is another type of break up no one talks about. It is when both of you care, but both of you cannot get close enough, but you still try till one party gives up. It is a sense that everything could have been fixed but lack of ability to express yourself fully leads to eventual coldness and end of relationship. You get nothing except emptiness and uncovered feelings. Like death of a small tree, which could have become big oak but didn't become one. Nothing but sadness looking at such situations.

[@cocinasvizcaya4792]

Just happened to me i feel so broken right now

[@juepaul691]

It happened to me 4 days back ! I know we both love and care for each other but we just couldn’t stand each other

[@baggycamera4825]

Same four days ago. 💔

[@lingshyanchong3184]

happened to me 3 days ago. im just glad to know im not alone

[@ulgenkarabulut2893]

Same here, a month has passed. Still in contact. No hope of recovery or getting back together. We will see each other for the last time, a couple of days later, before I turn in for military service. Her choice. Our loss. For those who are out there, going through a similar situation: Stay true. Let it flow. Don’t fight it, embrace it. Let it hurt. God knows you have earned it.

[@prithvirajdj]

I didn't expect myself to be here. It's fine.

[@Gracielouisex]

Do you feel better now that it’s been a few months x

[@nerinelva7075]

I just broke up yesterday,im doing fine..cuz everthing happen for a reason..hope u doing fine too!​@@Gracielouisex

[@gurnoorshoker78]

@@Gracielouisexhbu?

[@muraahh]

​@@gurnoorshoker78 hbu?

[@NicoWaifu]

@@muraahhhbu?

[@sxshha]

when you trust a person too much, you either get a person for life or a lesson for life🙃

[@mariomuysensual]

Damn

[@MrJypsye]

An honorable risk were all willing to take

[@akchannel5222]

i got a lesson

[@exposethefraudsr.i.p.tokir3336]

Yea learned after sex don't say I hope this is what you want and I wasn't trying to be a arse hole

[@daphneytadlocj4041]

Lesson..it's ways a lesson.

[@Donaldhelmick]

I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.

[@paulariano334]

I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.

[@Donaldhelmick]

If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@paulariano334]

His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

[@Donaldhelmick]

Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.

[@farinabanana4878]

Stay strong please. I miss my ex so much, ours was a 1.5 yr long relationship but known & loved him since 4 years. He’s the best, I know he still loves me but I caused him trust issues so we had to break up. I tried everything to regain his trust, gave him full control of my life but it simply wasn’t enough, his mind got polluted because of my past. We decided to go NC for at least a week and so far it’s horrible. How’s it going for you? I know that rn I feel that will love not again.. I know that can be true in future but this breakup has taught to me appreciate things that I otherwise took for granted, like my mom’s unconditional love or when it rains or a supportive friend. I know there’s more to life than just that one person. I know we can overcome this painful situation and learn to love ourselves and not lose ourselves despite missing our person.

[@vampire8650]

What hurts the most is meeting someone who changed u into who u are today, yet you cared the world for them but they didn't bother losing you.

[@snaggeer2090]

Exactly this

[@umangsawkar2379]

got my heartbroken last night and I feel this. it's like a hard punch in the gut.

[@tcamvs4019]

My heart got broken almost 2 months ago...it's so hard and I though I was doing better but all of it just came and punch me in the gut. She moved on 5days after I broke up with her, I just wanted a break cause we moved to fast and there were some things I tried to work through with her but in the end I realized she didn't love me the same way even though when I told her I wanted to marry her in the future she said yes....maybe that's what hurts more is cause I could see my future with her and I truly loved her 🥺🥺 and then she went and had adult fun time with another woman not even a week after she said we could try again.💔💔

[@armani9861]

you can accept that and more if you love her.@@tcamvs4019

[@KevinLockettTV]

It's been about a month and it's crazy because it feels like she doesn't miss me at all.

[@Good-Morning-Media]

When he said “I’ll see you when you go through your next breakup” first time I laughed in a while…

[@nicetomeetya6775]

lmao i was like no shit i ain't ever gonna fall in love again

[@David-wj9tq]

Dear I will introduce you to the same Spiritualist who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's good.

[@David-wj9tq]

What'sapp him;

[@ameliatheexotics3926]

I was already questioning what on heart I’ve learned from those past minutes and then he literally killed me with with the worst possible thing he could say to give me any sense of progress and feeling confused to hell .. but .. I’m gonna give it the benefit of the doubt that it was all planed … or not .. im just raising an eyebrow for 5 minutes so he deserves this content interaction but LIKE WHYYYY LMAO

[@annmarie6870]

And that’s when I’ll be back and watch this KZbin video

[@luguy8347]

I feel that it’s like a death. And, the stages of grief are hard work.

[@christophermclaughlin5650]

But like a death that haunts you wondering where you might see them next, wondering who they’re with and where they are now. Never getting to see someone again is sometimes less difficult than wondering who you’ll see them with 😔at least with death you can kinda make peace with it, it’s final and you work through your grief without all the constant worry of bumping into them or wondering where they are

[@Eve17705]

I’m here to listen if you feel like sharing

[@christophermclaughlin5650]

@@Eve17705 thanks a lot :) that’s kind

[@joeykidney]

And they will always be hard work, but that doesn't mean that you aren't strong enough to get through it

[@fractionsoflife]

@@christophermclaughlin5650 Have you ever lost someone to death?

[@Therealplotski]

Remembering how she’d look in my eyes and smile at me brings me a pain worse than death

[@LorenzoASR1927]

i feel you brother, same here, hope you will heal

[@ellalala777]

i hope your doing better. I feel the same way about him right now.

[@msdreamliner787]

Are you better now?

[@agnesmotshepe1494]

😢

[@stringofspades2]

and this is me right now. He loved me so much and i loved him, but it never worked

[@kennysmith3399]

This shit hurts like hell. I have my days where I’m doing well and then she pops up in my mind and my emotions go back to square one. I cannot take this feeling of hurt and anguish. I’m clueless as to why things happened the way that they did

[@thecircle.2563]

Same here. He just ended things and sometimes I'm doing great but some days like today I just feel like crying.

[@chantilychua399]

Same

[@filoboyryan]

She’s on my mind first thing in the morning, and I remember she’s with someone else already after a week. Hurts.

[@kennysmith3399]

@@filoboyryan I promise you brother, things will get better with time. It will still bother you, but not as much. Use this time to focus on you. Better yourself for yourself. That’ll make you feel so much better I promise. For me it’s still a bit fresh so I go through the emotions from time to time, but I don’t sulk in it anymore. This was your sign to do better and grow. Just do it, as Shia Labeouf would say

[@filoboyryan]

@@kennysmith3399 thanks brother we’ll get through this 🤞🏽

[@junipereffe]

2 year relationship gone, 4 year friendship vanished. broken up 3 days before my birthday. I've been dealing with heavy stuff like death in the family and just mental health problems and it just caused our relationship to break because she didn't really want to work through our problems after a while. Never thought it would turn out this way, im beyond heartbroken. Its upsetting knowing how easy it could be fixed too. I hope everyone scrolling the comments find themselves, and find peace. I hope I will be able to.

[@richelledeguzman7453]

We broke up days ago. Yoy are not alone. Let's fight this battle

[@georgepanagiotou8673]

I feel u brother.. I’m in the same spot as u hang in there.

[@junipereffe]

@@georgepanagiotou8673 Its rough i know but we will be able to get through this! Just remember your best is more than good enough and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.

[@junipereffe]

@@georgepanagiotou8673 im afraid thats how ill be in the future, since she was my first relationship and basically first everything. Im really stuck on everything we did together and it just sucks it had to end so badly since I still have feelings for her. You'll find someone amazing out there, and im proud of you for making it so far after something so hard. I recently got out of my relationship which made me make the comment.

[@junipereffe]

@@georgepanagiotou8673 you are very kind. i wish you the very best and if you ever need to vent this little comment section will always be here hopefully :) treat yourself nicely, because healing is a difficult process for everyone. take care 💗

[@kevinkev9996]

I was in a ten year relationship that ended three weeks ago. This is the most difficult thing I have ever dealt with.

[@martharobert8213]

My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

[@11lvr11]

absolutely the same here..its day second and i'm in hell, i live alone in our apartment now and every inch reminds me of him

[@dystephiary]

I feel you. Mine was seven and ended three months ago. I still feel like I died

[@partykrew666]

I'm so fucking sorry man. I can't even imagine the pain you're in. I hope you have a merciful and speedy recovery.

[@rebeccat9626]

It’s so true. It’s essentially like losing a loved one: not being able to see or talk to each other anymore…

[@hananjnn]

four years down the drain. grieving for someone who's still alive knowing they're doing well without you is exhausting; but at the same time it's the pain that keeps me alive. it's the only piece of him left on me. he was the one, i feel like i'm being sawed in half

[@noway5529]

In the same boat, it sucks cause I know that they deserve to be happy without me too

[@jellymoonbun]

This is me rn as well. I hope it gets better soon, i feel like i'm suffocating

[@stringofspades2]

@@jellymoonbunsame. it’s the worst feeling ever

[@signalinternet5934]

@@jellymoonbun i got the tattoo of her name now

[@ilovebread_hcw]

same situation, dw you're not alone :)

[@glitchmaster_xx]

The worst part of a breakup that it doesn't come from a normal person, it comes from a close special person to us.

[@hrzwoods]

lost my first ever love today. i feel like ive genuinely lost a part of myself, sick to my stomach and can’t eat. i miss him so much

[@Sadlythatsme]

I’m feeling the exact same. My girlfriend recently broke up with me so suddenly. I’m terrified and lost. I have nobody to talk to and I just really need someone to talk to. I’m struggling so freaking much it hurts, it hurts like hell

[@itzmishi8527]

@@Sadlythatsme5 months later, how are you doing my friend?

[@nathanmugisho1254]

Hope you’re feeling better today

[@Lauren-zy4vf]

How are you now

[@Chris84844]

My girlfriend and I just broke up now, we were together for 2 years and lived together for just over a year, it hurts so much, I don’t know what to do with myself, I have no one to talk too, I can barely move, I’m so in shock and broken. We did absolutely everything together, we planned our future together and now it’s all just gone, i don’t know what to do with myself 💔

[@lovethedarkrp]

I just lost my first ever relationship two days ago. Felt like death, I thought I'd pass away, but I didn't. It was necessary because we weren't right for each other and now I'm learning to look back and smile at the joy they allowed me to have.

[@asmitasinha4549]

😢😢😢😢

[@Hanovlogsss101]

Sending hugs😢❤

[@Ririmetiri]

This happened to me yesterday. I ended my first ever relationship because since the beginning I saw that he didn't care for me and he pushed me to end our things. And the worst thing is that when I told him that I want to end things w him he said "ok" bcause apparently as he told me there did exist times that he didn't feel anything abt me. I really wish you have healed and I wish I'll get over it soon

[@EB-sw4gb]

I'm in the same boat. My ex is leaving because he feels like he needs to figure himself out outside of the relationship and truly consider what he wants. We might get back together, we might not, but we're gonna try to be friends because we truly support and care for eachother and click well. I know that may not be your situation exactly, but I can resonate with your feelings. Life is a long, long time, and all the joy and pain we feel is what it's all about. Keep going. Things will be okay.

[@rsal4214]

Hey just wanted to share my story. I left my ex about a month ago. This because our futures just dont align. I love her with all my heart and i know she does the same. I would love to be friends with her but i just do not see a way in where we could just be friends. This is why we went into no contact even though it is one of the most painful things i have gad to endure in life. I wish you the best and i hope you guys will find eachother again.@@EB-sw4gb

[@katiet9448]

i’m 2 years late but i’m watching this bc i literally cannot stop crying

[@janalikesdaisies]

two months passed since you wrote this comment, but i hope you are doing better now - im sending you lots of hugs

[@katiet9448]

@@janalikesdaisies Thank you :) you’re very sweet. I’m much happier now, im lucky to have great people around me that helped me through it

[@Willyy013]

Im at day 1 of it right now and seing this gave me a little tiny hope

[@katiet9448]

@@Willyy013 awww i’m sorry love, i promise you it will get better and you’ll soon realize what you deserve

[@UnderSky_onk24]

I just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday and I'm literally crying right now, what an unbelievable sad day it was....

[@nidhikuril4475]

It’s been 3 months and I still cry everyday before going to bed.

[@user-ip5vu8om8n]

it’s almost been a year for you, how are you feeling now?

[@ytfwudd399]

Lost my first love literally hours ago. “I will be with you for the rest of my life” is the dumpiest promise I could have ever believed. Edit: I really appreciate all the people leaving their experiences with breakup down below in the reply section. Its comforting to know that at least you’re not the only going through all the pain. Its been a year since Ive posted this comment and so far I’ve been doing well (tried new things like pursuing my hobbies etc.) To all the people going through their breakup, i just want to say that you are not alone. We are all strangers from across the world yet we are going through the same thing as you are. Its going to be tough for sure. Its been a year+ since my breakup and i still think about her all the time, reminiscing about all the wonderful moments we had together. But eventually it will get better and your wounds will heal. Stay strong yall.

[@kaldoriastory8011]

Same just happened to me, about an hour ago, I hope that you’re doing better now, and I’ll be able to get where you are without ending myself. Strength and hope to you

[@jacobbeaumont6854]

12 hours ago man not easy. BUT IT ALWAYS GETS BETTER

[@fyessssss]

9 hours for me 😔

[@kay9_]

2 days ago. I cant cope. We've been going for over 3 years and i dont think il ever find another girl like her again. Im 20, she was my first love.. i dont even want to live anymore

[@swordfucker69420]

Same what a load of BS well I was the one who said that but she left anyway

[@blessybinnypaul2020]

"Just because you are familiar with the pain of a heartbreak, doesn't mean that you are prepared to face it"

[@agg6097]

I’m sitting in my truck listening to this video again after my second break up. Hurts so bad I feel my chest getting heavy. I loved her and she just left me without any hesitation. I know with time I will get better but it’s only been two weeks. I will comeback to this comment once I’ve completely healed. I wish everyone going through a breakup will find their true love this year as I will.

[@kriiii]

Stay strong brother.... Try the path of spirituality it will help you to overcome this situation.. I hope you'll be fine soon 😊

[@MultiHumphreys]

At two weeks myself right now. Feels like an eternity. In 4 years I’ve never gone so long without their voice or touch

[@explicitjoshh6757]

I’m 21 I was with my fucking soul mate for 2 years when one night after. Work she went to a bar to get drinks with a “coworker” didint tell me shit told me she was going home next day didn’t come home till 12 and she sits me down to tell me she slept with another man she wasn’t even fucking crying bro what the fuck my birthday was on the 8th I can’t believe this we lived together and all bro she doesn’t give a fuck man I’m so fucking lost I feel like I’m drowning I just feel like I will never fucking heal I put all my eggs in her fucking basket bro I really did I thought we were gonna get married we were so fucking good idk where it went wrong I want her to fucking pay for it and I know god will do his work but at the same time I don’t want nothing to happen to her because I truly loved her like no one before I’m first real relationship man I wanted this shit for the rest of my life and just like that it’s all over and all she has to say was she was drunk she’s sorry

[@riazijabar5296]

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[@IsaiahTheAnimator]

Same brother

[@ponzopa]

okay but why do i feel like i’m never gonna love someone as strong ever again

[@ponzopa]

now im dating someone else. not the same at all. even tho it sounds corny af she ain’t giving me that same special feeling. and now if i break up w her she’s gon feel the same as me till she does the same to someone else till we all fucked. if you’re in a happy relationship hold on to that shit as hard as you can. you’re truly blessed

[@kimberlyhudson3653]

Do you need help? To fix. your broken relationship?

[@kimberlyhudson3653]

He helped me not quite long. and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

[@kimberlyhudson3653]

Wha'tsapp.......zzzz....

[@baileec8789]

how long have you been in your current relationship?

[@FM-oc7ol]

What hurts more is knowing they're not broken as you are about it all. Kinda makes you wonder if everything really meant as much to them as it did to u. And that thought is poisonous

[@chet_irl]

@IhuomaChinonsodude what

[@EsotericPain]

in 2 years people change, sometimes they need to experience some things alone

[@ShawnMoore-vi1fj]

what gets me is that i know there just moving on without me so easily. while im stuck here dealing with the pain.

[@imissme8313]

Update how are you

[@korosu8424]

I feel this! The best I can do is put her out of my mind but it's hard

[@carllobidica1352]

I feel u man she literally just say that dont you ever communicate with me and my family ever again about 3 hours ago im just 17 but it still hurts a lot i didn't know that a person can feel this much pain over to a text they just say.

[@ShawnMoore-vi1fj]

@@imissme8313 Sorry for late response, I’m pretty better, doing things like hiking or making new hobbies helps alot.

[@ShawnMoore-vi1fj]

@@carllobidica1352 I feel you. It will get better with time bro i promise

[@AnitaJason-s4d]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here...

[@Adakataba]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@AnitaJason-s4d]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@Adakataba]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@Adakataba]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@AnitaJason-s4d]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@RohitKamath]

To anyone who is experiencing a bad breakup, hang in there! Don't lose faith in love. There is someone out there, Yes you thought you were gonna marry them, have kids, start a family with them and all these fantasies came crashing down. Maybe you're feeling lost ; lost because that one person whom you talked to everyday is now gone, but HANG IN THERE MY FRIEND. THIS WORLD HAS SO MUCH MORE TO GIVE YOU!

[@kaia7484]

Thx man means a lot and those who are recommending people who can help to bringup ex.. Wtf is wrong with u... She left me saying Iam just a looser.. After even if she come how can I go back normal... How can i trust her.. Iam gonna try to go out more as possible...its getting harder staying at home.. Thx for all people who are trying help

[@RohitKamath]

@@kaia7484 stay strong brah! 🙌🏾

[@SilverVibes]

The world's given me hell so far and the one time I found love it was lost. I want nothing more in this horrible, evil place.

[@LuizFreelances]

This means alot man, thank you. It's Hard.

[@kurtpunchesthings2411]

I've never had a relationship so thus no breakup how I would react simply depends on how long we were together if we were married I gotta be honest would probably throw myself under a truck or off a bridge

[@abbysdiary8734]

I broke up with my ex 5 months ago after being together for 2 years and I’m still crying because I love him but things just weren’t working out. I hope everyone going through a breakup finds peace

[@ericaroundtheworld]

I can't find peace at all

[@abbysdiary8734]

@@ericaroundtheworld Its been 3 months since I posted that and I can say that I feel significantly better. I'm at peace with the breakup and though I still think about him, its not was often. I know it may seem like you won't find peace but with time, you will

[@trueone3093]

Your the one who dumped him so why were u crying. You women blind side us and prepare yourselves mentally months before y’all leave us and where the ones that are left crushed .But hopefully u find peace

[@abbysdiary8734]

@@trueone3093 just because I dumped him doesn’t mean I emotionally prepared for it. I was still in love with him when I broke up with him and I told him that. Don’t you think that maybe I broke up with him because he wasn’t treating me right? Just because your ex blindsided you doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone.

[@trueone3093]

@@abbysdiary8734 …. Yeah I kno but as guys we don’t be knowing that we just be assuming that you females are own to something else… thanks it’s good to hear a female point of view…. I wasn’t trying to sound rude or anything but Did you find your peace

[@hellboy656]

Everybody has their own hardest part of a break up, but for me its missing what we just once were...and how amazing it was. .and its like youll try to do whatever you can to go back to that and its almost impossible

[@banca7576]

this.

[@SanAndreasMediaDepart]

@@banca7576 i hope you're okay

[@Lherme]

same

[@boombaybay1697]

Fr, the time i spent with her the smile and comfort she always gave me i cant ever forget

[@ssophiastars.]

i know.

[@lameart2041]

I got dumped last night. I told him to do what he wants and what he thinks is best for him , I won’t beg him nor will I do anything to stop him. And he chose to leave, he said he doesn’t love me the same anymore, he said he lied to me that he really loved me a lot (just 2 hours ago). I said okay go if that’s what you want, I’ve begged you the last time you wanted to leave and I gave you 1 month to love me again but if you still don’t feel anything and is this suffocated you can leave. And that was it, he left. This morning I despised him and hated him for all the false promises he made but right now in the evening, I miss him and can’t stopped crying. Never in my life have I thought this man that fought so much to get me would let me go through this hell.

[@happycreature3993]

same. it's been 4 months to me

[@Timothee_022]

Heyy !! I have exactly the same story as yours . My ex broke up with me about a month ago This guy worshipped me . He did so much for me . We talked for about 8 months before he proposed to me and we were great together. We had fun , we connected emotionally . It was great . He was very mature and loving even after 9 months of the relationship . During disagreements He often stressed how great we were together and how he sees us settling together. He wouldn't let any small misunderstanding or flaw end something as perfect as what we have. I felt blessed to have someone like him . I treasured hum and both of us made each other feel in love . After all this, he broke up with No concrete reason . He made me go through hell without a care . I too held my head high and didn't beg or anything . I did make an effort for him to speak his heart to me , to try and understand him but he said he didn't love me anymore and doesn't wanna stay . I was left in a complete state of disbelief. I respected him too much to think he could do something like this to me . How r u doing ?? Please lemme know if u learned something from your experience that u wanna share !!

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

You’ll find somebody better. Somebody that won’t be like that.

[@lameart2041]

@@Timothee_022 hi its going to be about 3 months now and I'm doing really well, i don't love him as much as i loved him before. I miss him though but I've come to accept that not all people are meant to stay in our lives, some people that hurt us are blessing in disguise, they're not bad people but they played the role that was given to them by universe and left after finishing their job. I don't despise him but im so grateful to him as he treated me with love and respect the 2 years we dated, the ending wasnt that great but it was a very necessary leason for me, ive learned alot in these 3 months, Ive learned how to let things go with the flow without whining how its not how i wanted it to be. Changes are inevetable and so are things that are meant to happen, whats meant to happen will happen no matter what ,so we have only two choices either be miserable when it happens or either accept it and be at peace. we havent talked ever since the breakup and i hope we never ever talk in the future and i hope we never cross paths again because his role in my life has ended and its time to meet new people.

[@khusheer8826]

It’s the same for all men. Somehow they have this hold on their emotions to the point where it’s easy leaving your loved one rather than fight or make efforts. My ex apologised for this one mistake he kept on making and I believed his words every time he said he wouldn’t do it. And the last time I confronted him about it when he made that mistake again he told me that somehow it was my fault because of one thing I did years back that he’s still not over. So the only reason he kept doing that thing was because he was still mad at me. But here’s the thing he also apologised for no reason. All that promises of changing didn’t mean a thing. Double faced much. That’s when I realised he has changed he’s not the same anymore,he would be happy to let me go. I had begged him from the past 1-2 years to make efforts and give us a chance, all this to realise that he would actually be happy without me and that’s what he wanted. Broke me tbh but I made that decision for him. I let him go. He never tried to get back ever since and I feel like I made the right decision. Hurts like hell but I’m pulling myself up. So the lesson is I don’t trust men (not in a bad way) no matter how vulnerable they show themselves to be they’re much stronger than that. They can love you today and hate you tomorrow that just how it works

[@Harry-po7cw]

Just knowing that they are moving on so easily without you has got to be the worst thing about a breakup. You are sat here suffering while in the back of your mind, you know they aren’t.

[@grandpa5628]

yeah man she breaks up with me Saturday and at school Monday she is laughing with all her friends and by the next week she is talking to another man laughing and engaging the same way she did with me 3-4 months prior

[@ihateattunementless4529]

​@grandpa5628 she dumped me this saturday too and I have not seen her for 4 weeks its so fucking sad she said its because she only see me as a friend now prior to the break up I noticed that she was usually not chatting the way she is. She would not ask about me and say I love you but I still kept on loving her so much showing that I cared I knew something was off then bang dumped me and I wont be able to see her again since she will be switching schools and lives far away

[@cal3bj917]

I’ve sent her every paragraph I can think of, I have no more words to type. It just hurts because it seemed like something we could fix so easily, but I ended up losing the person I’ve loved the most in my whole life over something we could have talked out

[@MaciEszti20]

Hi , same happened with me a few days ago, he broke up with me out of nowhere , a few days before the break up he said he love me so much and things like that then we had a problem i tried to work on it he vanished then 1 day later he said he want to break up because the little things accumulated in him and he just close everything saying he love me and hug me and then breaking up

[@Thecharmedonee]

Heal save your dignity and heal learn from this and love to love another day god bless

[@Jobeatzdaproducer]

Bro I kno how it feels,I just lost my girl over stupidness😭😭

[@danien2411]

Same 😔 I was making mistakes I didn’t realise I was doing, our communication just fell apart, and I had a miscarriage and just turned into someone who wasn’t me, I regret all the things I said and the times I acted out. I’m on day 11 and this morning I was absolute wreck

[@Jobeatzdaproducer]

@@danien2411 hold on hun,you are not alone...And things will get better in time,I know it hurts but it will be over

[@KyleAdler]

Working through a divorce with my highschool sweetheart right now. To say it hurts would be a massive understatement. Looking back though, I'm grateful for everything that has happened. All the fun times, the memories, and the moments we've shared. I've had relationships before but she was my first love. I was so sure that she'd be the one holding my hand when we're old and grey. But you know, shit happens. Despite all that though, I hold no resentment towards her. She taught me how to love and what it feels like to be loved. She was there for my darkest days and she was right there beside me for my best. I'll miss her greatly and I wish her all the best.

[@rodrigocarvalho5468]

Praying for you to be strong enough to overcome whatever heavy feelings you might feel 🙏

[@unearthlybeing9894]

🥺🥺🥺 you’re so strong I commend you 🤝

[@lombo0075]

Just hold your head up buddy , i know it hurts and im with you,your comnent helped me a bit right now...

[@ErikHansenDrums]

This was 2 months ago and I hope you're doing much better and still improving every day. I'm going through something extremely similar to what you wrote, just yesterday my high-school sweetheart of 10 years left me. It's going to be an uphill battle.

[@exclusivelytay4114]

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[@jenniferorot842]

it hurts so much this awful feeling feels like everlasting

[@saifal-balushi469]

Me too💔

[@asha4487]

it really does and the pain is just so indescribable, even friends who try help u heal ill never fully understand and its okay, just know ur not alone, were all here for the same reason right now.

[@user-ml3is7rb9j]

Elowen Rasmusov is a compassionate psychotherapist who has guided countless individuals through the challenging journey of a breakup, providing invaluable support along the way.

[@Williamsay_]

It’s been 1 year since I’ve first time saw this video, at that time I thought my life was finished. I first wanna thank you Joey, theses 3 min have helped me so much. For everyone going through this, trust time, be grateful that relationship made you realised that he/she wasn’t « the one » and ofc take care of yourself. You are strong, We are strong.

[@Me-rd7po]

i still feel like they were the one. and if only i acted right. it's been 1 year now and i still think about him from time to time. i still reject every guy that comes my way cause i just will never love them as much as i loved him. i hate how he moved on so easily from me tho.

[@luc8254]

​@@Me-rd7poabout the same happened to me. I'm a guy tho. Took me years to get better after she broke up with me, I HATED the fact she moved on like I was nothing while I was in so much pain...

[@malintheng9050]

It been 10 months i still think he is the one I reject other i can not love other guy then him just keep me pain everyday

[@Williamsay_]

the fact that they moved on so fast make them even less worth your time

[@1997PROx]

Reading everyone’s story makes me feel like we are all connected. Going through a break up is something I’m not used too and knowing she would be the one till death hurts that she is gone. To anyone dealing with this right now I hope you heal beautifully. However long it takes we take it day by day.

[@chihienbui4635]

It’s strange that pp criticise me for not handling a break up well bc i do not have experience on that. Wth? Am i supposed to break up many times in my life to know that? Is living a happy live my fault this time? Wth? Wth?

[@Clarkbrown-ju9lh]

“One day you're going to remember me and how much I loved you… then you're gonna hate yourself for letting me go

[@Theyluvlanna]

The amount of pain you have to be in to make this video makes me even more sad I just went through a break up and I can’t seem to find myself and this helps but I can’t stop crying

[@asha4487]

its okay, youre not alone, 1 month in and its still back to square one for me, its worse when the ex has already moved on with their life, and so fast after more than 1 year together. I hope you find peace and i hope i do too.

[@kuwaitcityroyvlogvd4316]

Elowen Rasmusovs impact on the lives of those shes helped through breakups is a testament to her skill as a psychotherapist. She has truly made a positive difference.

[@sriyaray3141]

Who is she??

[@loganbergeron8866]

Completely out of the blue, it’s insane to feel this amount of pain in my chest. I cannot believe humans are able to feel this pain, she was the one and I hope the universe makes the right decision Edit: it has been 5 months nearly 6 months since the breakup. I feel much better about the whole idea now. A few months back i deleted all photos and all messages, i would be lying if i said i didn't get sad when i thought about her still. Still not ready to have another relationship. I guess this is the time to grind fellas

[@preslolee1575]

It’s truly unbearable

[@UnfilteredEmotion]

I'm with you bro, how is it going ? It's been 4 days for me and I'm suffering so much

[@yestrech]

@@UnfilteredEmotion how's it going? 10 days for me

[@imissme8313]

@@UnfilteredEmotion update ?

[@gamenotfound9376]

how is it going now? 3 months passed and I am now into this shitty feeling.

[@gregsong2286]

My heart is broken, my whole soul is . I've lost. I've lost in school, I've lost in family, I've lost in love, I've lost in everything. I guess now I know what an idiot I was for simply believing someone telling me that they loved me.

[@snehahappiness3227]

You are loved!

[@mikolajjlewicki7950]

feeling like u G

[@DorienMayaJohnson]

Writing this from our shared account. I do not wish this type of pain on anyone. My only advice, please, if you have a good one. Hold on to them, love and cherish them, value their morals, and never treat them like anyone else. Love them as the individual. Show them off, travel the world. Never take any moment for granted. I am unsure what my future holds as I feel my purpose in this lifetime is diminshed. But I will continue to swim.

[@FETFAZIDIS]

She lost all feelings for me basically overnight. Just because of one small mistake. It hurts

[@Iamj4red]

Then she wasn't the one. "When you're in love, you just don't throw it Away. You work it out"

[@FETFAZIDIS]

@@Iamj4red She literally came crawling back today.

[@Alexandre-rv7vj]

@@FETFAZIDIS Brrrruuuuuuuuuuuuh

[@thisiskindacrap13]

​@@FETFAZIDIS damn dude, how are things rn for you two?

[@FETFAZIDIS]

@@thisiskindacrap13 Sadly not so good at the moment. We both are kinda stressed out because of work and other private stuff so if we're lucky we can see each other maybe once in a week. Feels like we are slowly drifting away and it hurts. I just hope it gets better... Sorry for the long text but it somehow feels good to just right it down.

[@misha6751]

You know that feeling when you miss them when you hear the songs you two used to sing together...... sometimes you couldn't listen to the song because it hurts too much......I guess I had a long way to go ahead but we are humans and we are still learning.....thnx, Joey, your videos always help me feel I am not alone.

[@sabycute8]

Youre so right

[@beingakhiL]

In logon ki bakwas pr mat believe karo Bheek mein mile pyar ka kya karogi

[@mikioni]

😭😭😭😭

[@exclusivelytay4114]

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[@exclusivelytay4114]

Yes I couldn’t play so many songs 😭🤣

[@patrickkarrow]

Broke up with my girlfriend two weeks ago… hardest thing ever. We both loved each other but we were on different paths. It was so hard to say goodbye to her. Thank you for this. I really needed this.

[@patrickkarrow]

@@kingdomofanimosity2684 feeling a lot better now. It takes time to get better. Don’t hold in your pain, it only makes it harder.

[@patrickkarrow]

@@kingdomofanimosity2684 take it one day at a time dude.

[@patrickkarrow]

@@kingdomofanimosity2684 yeah man, I know that feeling too well. Work on yourself, you got this!

[@Bigpapa830]

I feel you man I just broke up with my girlfriend today because she was always too busy to call or hang out during the summer and we are going two different colleges so I know for a fact she would just not have enough time to talk to me which is just not how a relationship should work. On the bright side we ended on better terms and became closer in friends

[@sauvage9764]

I had a similar experience, today though. Sometimes it's even harder when you still love each other and have no reason to hate the other person :( I hope you're doing okay now

[@AverageGaming09]

Just happened to me too... we've been going just under 2 years. And those were the best years of my life. Everything changed once I graduated HS... she was 2 years under me. I knew in my head that this probably wont work out, but I surpressed the thought. As she started band and made new friends she had less and less time for me. And I just started college. And last night she pulled the plug. Im hurting so much. She gave me wonderful memories that I'll never forget. She was my first everything. Now I dont have anyone to talk to because my friends are busy with their lives. Life is a bitch

[@blazedoesSHORTS]

the breakup didn't hurt but the memories of your loved ones hurt. it keeps on flowing

[@KiM-xb5pz]

Feeling pain in the heart and not being able to cry out hits different

[@kellypamely]

I haven’t been able to cry too. You are not alone. We can do this, I believe in you!

[@musicwithyatharth1223]

Elowen Rasmusovs dedication to her clients well-being is evident in the transformation Ive witnessed in those who sought her help after a breakup.

[@kafelejohn3625]

Lost my first loved one. I feel myself tearing up writing this message with the flood of memories. I never felt like I have with her. I miss her so much. I want to come back here when I’m healed too

[@asha4487]

youre not alone, we can get thru this its okay

[@ihateattunementless4529]

​@@asha4487❤💔

[@usmanbaloch5118]

Elowen Rasmusovs ability to create a safe space for healing is remarkable. She has a gift for helping people rediscover their strength after a breakup.

[@bigananikagiso6413]

Next breakup? I just never want to get into a relationship again

[@lindabryan6854]

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[@lindabryan6854]

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[@bigananikagiso6413]

@@lindabryan6854 like I said, I dont want a relationship

[@bsherman4353]

This has taken my soul. I feel so empty. I don’t feel worthy. I let someone change me and now I don’t know myself anymore. Praying for anyone going through this at anytime sending you all love.

[@cesarcontreras8764]

I hurt because I had to let go of someone who I grew comfortable with even though I knew he wasn’t the one. I kept trying to lie to myself, I kept trying to force it on me. But it hurts that they are no longer with me ❤

[@user-og7hj9bs2z]

“I’ll see you when you go through your next breakup”!That was deep.

[@tialammers9551]

I lost myself, I lost my way in understanding who I am as a person. I truly deeply felt so connected with this person. Knowing I am not alone makes the situation more easeful. Thank you for this and hopefully this pain can change into something more beautiful.

[@DaenaMichelle]

Let's try to change this pain into something more beautiful, as you say, I like that It's hard not to think "Why bother anymore" after things like this happen, really... thoughts like yours are appreciated

[@tialammers9551]

@@DaenaMichelle i am glad thank you and keep loving yourself !!

[@BitcoinLifeToday]

How are you holding up now? I lost myself too. And I have to find myself again and get trough life. I'm lucky that I have support that I can talk to. But it is still a super hard process.

[@tialammers9551]

@@BitcoinLifeToday I am doing a lot better than I was. I’m happy that you had people to be there for you. Now I have learned a lot within myself that everything happens for a reason in life. People come and go and that’s how we learn. The pain was the hardest and it still hurts. But I make sure I surround myself with those who give me the same amount of energy I give to them. At the end of the day you are all that matters. Focus on self love and there you will flourish I hope you are doing okay! Stay strong and you got this

[@BitcoinLifeToday]

@tialammers9551 This is a beautiful reply! I'm glad you're doing better! Keep up! You can do this, and so can everyone else. It will hurt, but we will heal enough some day!

[@justcurious5175]

Got dumped last night and it's excruciating. I don't know how to move on from this pain. Breakup after a breakup, i just cant do this anymore it's too much.

[@srianna0416]

Same,I can barley walk

[@hudunchi]

What kills me is not the leaving of them but them sharing the same experience with someone else😢, but patience is a virtue

[@user-yr7ts8jt7r]

I feel the same way

[@wrightcarl1181]

It's that constant wonder about whether or not they ever think about you still. Those quiet moments when you wake up in the middle of the night are the toughest. That aching sadness. I guess we'll all look on this one day and wonder what we were sad about about. Hopefully so, stay strong 💪 - Update, it does get easier, still some darker days but not as bad. Keep strong people, time heals

[@kairah4776]

Hopefully. I need that to be true❤

[@MrCraftkeks]

thank you

[@alejandrozepeda1439]

Thank you

[@truestrength-oz5kk]

Do you.think.your ex will.ever think about you even as years go by ?.im in a new relationship and yet i sometimes get flashbacks of memories of my ex and me and i feel guilty about it

[@softstarryskies4736]

When you keep thinking about him and it hurts so much when you know he’s the only thing that keeps you going and now he’s gone I just keep telling myself to keep going and I’ll find somebody new

[@callmevec638]

Alright ignore all these bots commenting, but I understand you ive felt the same way. But we cant depend on someone else for happiness, once you find happiness alone you are truly ready for what life has to throw at you

[@sunflower7874]

It’s so true. but I know I’ll never find someone like him, who have me the same feelings, thoughts, and everything.

[@jj_3149]

He’s so special to me and I did a lot of things for the first time thanks to him so I think I won’t be able to forget him and the beautiful memories we made together. It’s the memories that drive me crazy. I think they’re gonna haunt me forever. When I look at the photos, I instantly get miserable and depressed. I hope time will help me heal.

[@breezy4874]

Elowen Rasmusovs therapeutic approach is both nurturing and insightful, making her an ideal choice for anyone seeking guidance during a difficult breakup.

[@aurum9413]

Going through a breakup rn. 7yrs lost like a bubbled popped. It hurts like hell, it feels like my heart was literally ripped right out then I found this video. Sooo, thank you person from the internet. Gotta accept that things don't go always the way you want them to. Just gotta keep treading through life. Hugs to the people going through the same 🫂

[@milff6969]

how are you feeling?

[@aurum9413]

@@milff6969 2 months in. So far so good. The first month was absolute hell. It's a bit better now, more manageable.

[@milff6969]

@@aurum9413 so proud of you

[@muaywub4882]

Its been 3 Weeks for me now. She left me after 5 years. I dont really know what to do with my life now. I dont want a relationship ever again if the people dont stay. I hope you are feeling better now, because i dont think i will ever feel normal again.@@aurum9413

[@tsuki8548]

Hii, how r u now?

[@KhoaNguyen-qu3ic]

I lost myself trying to hold onto someone who didn’t care about losing me

[@tap.my.profile.to.whatspp.him.]

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[@ashaedwards5085]

Me too.. I cared more for him that he cared for me.. he ended it like it was nothing 😢

[@corteltube]

Watching my daughter go through this right now…it’s crushing her…and momma😢 she is strong…time passes. She will find herself again.

[@kazzeproduction7305]

Its no surprise that Elowen Rasmusov is a sought-after psychotherapist for breakup counseling. Her expertise and kindness are truly exceptional.

[@charitodalisay993]

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[@Nikki_1427]

Day 6: I’m so broken inside, I can’t eat, sleep or even think! It’s almost like I’m walking around my apartment lost and afraid. I feel so hopeless. I can’t stop crying! 5 years with you and 6 days without you 😢idk what to do anymore!

[@ChillyCholo_]

You wallow in the pain and choose to keep moving. That’s what I’m doing on my day 6 as well.

[@oliviahurner1343]

Day 6 as well, hope you are taking it day by day and finding peace little by little, the pain will eventually disappear and then thats where all the fun begins. You are not alone, there is light at the end of the tunnel for us

[@Nikki_1427]

@@ChillyCholo_ thank you. I really appreciate your comment! I’m here if you need to chat!

[@Nikki_1427]

@@oliviahurner1343 I’m sorry you also are going through that! I’m here if you need to talk

[@ritik2028]

i chased a girl so much that i destroyed my academics in engineering now starting all over again with a new life in pursuit of becoming a pilot...i hope u get over it...take care missy ;-)

[@MowbzDubstepFM]

As someone who feels like I've felt nothing for a long time, acknowledging that I am going through emotions/pain right now meant a lot.

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[@ayonnaconcepcion8392]

this the one

[@briancisneros8595]

Me

[@briancisneros8595]

Emotional numb

[@ashleyking3120]

god damn. the worst thing was neither of us wanted to but fate wasn't going our way so it was better to let each other live instead of causing more harm by trying to fight it

[@kara6753]

I lost the love of my life yesterday, I thought he'd be my future husband, thinking about him with someone else while I still love him hurts...this pain is unbearable

[@marinamaievska700]

I understand. Same feelings 😭🫂

[@Theterriblechief]

I ended my relationship on 1st of Sept, i was going to marry her, but she had inappropriate relationship with the other guy, its really hurt and its killing me

[@FaythZed]

Same. You'll be okay!

[@chidiebereekechukwu4332]

I am just crying

[@viro_4145]

I lost the love of my life before 4h ...

[@ryancapobianco8303]

even if it’s just one month, it still hurts. we did more in one month than anyone else has for me in years. i felt like this. it sucks. it’ll make some sense sometime soon

[@MitchellTalks]

My fiancée left me just over a month ago. We lost our baby in a miscarriage in April so this year has been very tough on so many levels. Walking round the house knowing there is no one there to talk to anymore. All the laughs and cries we had together. All just…gone and I feel so lost without her and what our family could have been. I have been hitting the gym lately and lost a stone in 3 weeks. But it’s when I get home I still can’t knock the feeling of emptiness and sadness. She helped me with my anxiety. Now that’s back with a vengeance and I struggle to cope. I really do hope it gets easier

[@daisyfuller9426]

i’m so so sorry, i really hope you heal and learn to find peace and happiness by yourself. remember there will always be someone that loves you, even if you don’t know it.

[@MrUHTiger]

I feel you it's hard to know that when your partner is mentally drained you try everything to be by them and help them to be told it's too much and they just can't deal with it. I understand your pain I go to work come home to an empty house lonely as hell like you I joined the gym but would come home to Memories that made my heart sore 😢. Hopefully our hearts will find peace

[@MitchellTalks]

@@MrUHTiger They will my friend. If you need a friend. Get in touch man

[@MrUHTiger]

@@MitchellTalks Thank you I will definitely be needing someone to reach out to as my mentality is destroyed, lost lonely I'm always trying to put on a brave face at work but my heart is wrecked even at the gym I tear up when I'm about to finish at the gym as I know I'm going back to memories Great and bad but I seem to nit pick what I could have done better to help I tried to reassure her that I'm always going to be there and always would. To be told that it's not me it's mental health and that makes me feel so useless, helpless and not needing me to help through the pain... I would like more advice and help my brother I'm really finding life hard..

[@jadensu750]

Same! I had soo much anxiety before knowing her, and then when she came into my life she helped me soo much with my anxiety, she’s a good person but I really fucked up since it was my 1st relationship and I didn’t know really what I was doing… I really tell her I’m sorry for everything but I’ve fucked up so bad she doesn’t believe me and the way I screwed the relationship up was by my silly actions which were accidental as well, I never hurt her on purpose, I never would, I hurt her accidentally too much because of me being clumsy and I wish she’d just understand it’s been 5 months later now since the breakup and I’m a changed person for the better, but she doesn’t believe me anymore

[@TheAngieRash]

Today is the first day of going through the most important break I have ever had to go through So Far. I do believe that I can find a love out there that is my perfect match. There are so many people in the world and, after years of going through the ups and downs of my life, I know I'm capable of finding someone that loves me how I've always wanted to be loved. I'm so mad at him for not being honest with me. But, this is just the first day without him. Maybe I'll look back on this message in the future and remember where I was, and be happy with where I landed.

[@caseunkadios286]

One thing I've learned about breakups is that even if you think it's healed and enough time has passed, the past breakups will still randomly hurt and haunt you. You may feel scared, even in a great relationship, and it will take a lot of time for you to truly open your heart completely to another person for fear of it getting hurt and broken again. Thats normal, for we all feel that way, like they say once bitten twice shy. Also, another thing that may happen is our heart may randomly hurt. Whether it is for a specific reason or for an unknown reason, and we feel the pains of past breakups coming back with renewed vigor. Both of these have happened to me, to be honest. Randomly, i will cry or break down, and it feels like a shard of glass is percing my heart even after its been years since the breakup, and i have processed my feelings and have let them heal themself. Other times i try to have a relationship with someone, whether romantically or platonicly, and i find myself scared, holding back, hiding away parts of myself that i think they wont like or that i feel ashamed of and attribute to the failure of my past relationships. Most of the time i feel normal and am an every day happyish person but then the breakup comes back to haunt me amd i feel like hiding in a dark room, curling into a small ball and crying myself to sleep while listening to love songs that only end up fuleing the pain even more for some reason. This has happened to me more than once so i know others might feel the same way as i do. Even as i write this im wiping the tears from my eyes while hugging my phone and feeling like im not enough for people and will never be enough for people even though i know thats not true and that i have so much to give to others, but hey what can you do when your mind says one thing and your heart says another. Im just saying even in my pain, there are others out their that care for you and, though might not have gone through exactly the same thing as you, understands what you have been through and will be there for you. From one shattered heart to another, i hope you can see the joy of life eventually again and enjoy the love and light it gives you and if nothing else know this: theres at least one person out there, even if they are a complete stranger to you, that cares about you and cherishes the light you hold protected deep inside of your heart out of view even if you cant see it yourself. I hope this post helps you, the reader,out and feel appreciated and loved for the special being you are to me, to everyone around you, and to the world for each light shines in its own way and each light is beautiful and special.

[@santjevana8279]

"One partner loses who they are and become dependent to the other. And once that weight becomes to heavy, someone has to break." This is exactly what happened between us. Thank you for the wise words.❤

[@lolitkanovel6415]

😭

[@santjevana8279]

Update: looking back at this relationship, It was actually very toxic and I'm glad it ended. I just didn't realize that when I was in love.

[@gamu7690]

She broke up with me yesterday. There wasn’t a single doubt in my mind that she wasn’t the one. I was so happy and content, I never doubted her to stop loving me for a second. I feel utterly broken and alone, everything that I thought I knew has been turned upside-down. I don’t know anything. I miss her so much, and sadly enough I would take her back in a heartbeat. I feel like I’ll never stop loving her. I want to hate her because that would be so much easier, but I can’t. I love her so much. I’ve decided to write once a day to express my emotions on a page. Hope it helps. Thank you KZbin comments for being my venting dump

[@thespiritual355]

I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest🥰🥰

[@thespiritual355]

He helped me bring back my ex permanently few days ago, without any delay, after six(6) years of separation🥰🥰

[@trippydonna2400]

Hang in there man. It’s gonna hurt and cry it all out. There’s no time limit to heal, you are only human. You’ll hurt and feel and go on. Even though it feels like your world has lost its meaning. Believe me, you are just shedding a new skin

[@bala-tik6505]

My boyfriend broke up with me less than a week ago and I feel the same way. I love him so much but I wish I could hate him so I could move on dreaming about finding somebody else. All I can do is think about how special it was for me. We split up in the spirit of friendship and a possible comeback in the future, so a part of me is still waiting for his distraught call to make up and try again. I hope you're doing better now.

[@lucebastid6531]

I know how you feel, and i hope you are better now. One thing that i have learned is that now that i love myself and i have confidence, things are less painful when i have breakups or a broken heart.It doesn't mean it does not hurt like hell sometimes, but you will heal, slowly and love might be painful, it is also a beautiful feeling :) it's not your fault and i am sure you will find a love in you, and maybe who knows, someone else soon

[@xpr0249]

I lost my first love yesterday, she was so special because she was the first person that really gave me the feeling of love and she was the first person to ever feel real love from. She went from the most important thing to kind of a stranger in a day. It feels so strange, she’s just a person now, not my girlfriend anymore. I cried like never before and I still do watching this. It hurts so much

[@ellasui6602]

I’m approaching the end of the healing process now but I still remember feeling so painful that I wanted to cease existing. Never felt that much pain in my life. But I was incredibly lucky that my ex was an honest and kind person who tried to do as least damage as possible. I am very very grateful for him. And to all those still working on their process, just know that the pain will go away and you will feel so good and relieved by the end.

[@imissme8313]

How did you know you were reaching the healing process

[@ellasui6602]

@@imissme8313 I guess you just know when you’re over the person. When you no longer hurt or cry when you think about them.

[@imissme8313]

@@ellasui6602 how long did it take you to final get over them sorry for the questions I’m just going through it rn and I’m lost

[@ellasui6602]

@@imissme8313No need to be sorry for the question. I’m sorry you’re going through this. It took me around a month for the pain to stop..

[@geenaone8263]

I don't want this video to end. I wanna keep listening to you. This is medicine.

[@sparks6477]

The last 4 years of my life I loved her and helped her grow into who she is, after the break up I realized I felt like I had nothing. I reached out to friends that I stopped talking to for no reason other then I just didn't think about them. Her words to me were "stop living for me live for yourself, don't contact me" I hung on the pain of don't contact me. But I think she realized that not only did I love her, but I loved her more. More then myself. More then she loved herself. I would take care of her and never expected It back, I unconditionally loved her and wanted to help her grow. I think she realized that she could not love me the same way, not that she didn't love me. I know she did, just not how I did. I lived for her. And now I'm trying to live for me. I miss her everyday its been painful not just saying goodbye to the past but the future we envisioned. Saying good bye to the names of the children that won't exist, saying good bye to the pets that we won't adopt. I hope she's doing well, and I hope she will one day learn to love unconditionally like I did with her.

[@xa1706]

Oh, this really touched my heart. I send you my best wishes and I hope you do a little better (even if it’s just reaaally little) each day. I know it hurts, but believe me, you’ve got this, you’ll get through this.

[@sparks6477]

@@xa1706 thank you so much

[@dunkow]

@@sparks6477how are you now?

[@Inside_the_Male_Mind]

Hoping you find the right person this time around, someone that matches your intensity.💪

[@miemiecutie]

grief is the proof of love is real

[@lieutenantligma4917]

Losing someone isn’t hard, Leaving someone you can’t stand to lose because they’ve done you wrong more times than your able to forgive. Not being able to trust a word they say knowing how many lies you believed because you loved them too much to accept the truth. Coming out of the relationship afraid of another because you can’t handle going through all that again because it will kill you, emotional or even….physically.

[@solcitocrochet]

nobody was talking about this, how hard is being the person that notice that what is best for both parties is to break up even if it hurts! leaving when you love them deeply but you already talk and tried to manage the problems, but for the "left one" never notices the real problem, but that is because it was never a thing that wanted to change at first

[@tatianarebolledo5038]

This was super helpful. I am going through my first breakup. We were together for four years, got engaged and I was convinced they were the one for me. Turns out that wasn't what she wanted. The hardest part are all the memories and mementos over the years. Feels like the last four years of my life are gone.

[@aidanmohrman9493]

That makes it a lot easier for you that she made it clear you weren’t what she wanted. At least now you can pursue something real. I was truly in love with the girl that I immaturely broke up with 2 months ago. (together for 1.5 years) I begged for her back and she no longer trusted me. It was my first relationship (i’m 23) and I realized how immature and wrong I was throughout our time together. I believe the girl truly loved me but I messed up so bad she never wants to talk to me again.

[@highplainsdrifter699]

Attachment is the root cause of all suffering. Stay stoic

[@afrojalam9596]

The pain is unbearable

[@iamwoody22]

Day 2 after the breakup of my 11 year relationship to my childhood sweetheart, her decision to end the relationship hit me out of the blue, i tried to save it but it felt wrong loving someone who has 'clocked out'. I feel numb and have struggled to sleep and eat. Im hoping in time i will heal, to anyone going through a similar situation i wish you all the best you will get through it. Hard life lessons always make you stronger, keep going.

[@samanthaowens7241]

I'm 35 and on week 2 we were together for 11 years as well with no children then out of the blue he says he's moving out no explanation no nothing . I was in such a state of shock all last week but it didnt take long for the shock to wear off and then suddenly realize im 35 and alone now all that work wasted and thought of starting all over with some one new seem so impossible and daunting. The pain is so raw I cry myself to sleep most nights I can't eat I can't sleep only go home when I absolutely have to its so hard being there in that house some hours are better then others but right now it feels like I'll never have peace again

[@iamwoody22]

@@samanthaowens7241 That sounds awful Samantha. The first month is very hard, your whole life has been turned upside down and like me it seems that you were blindsided. However, I can say now that at 3 months I feel much better, so hang in there it does get better trust me, you might not think it at this moment in time, but you'll look back and see your improvement. You haven't wasted time, someone, somewhere, whatever you believe in was really looking out for you, you don't need someone who cleary doesn't respect you in your life, so they removed themselves. I promise you, you will find peace, once you rebuild your life, and find someone (if thats what you want) you'll thank him for setting you free. The best gift is now your freedom, its up to you how you use it. Dont worry about your age, your still young and don't rush it, good things take time, make sure your properly healed first. Once, you can be indifferent to your ex you'll no your ready. Keep going your doing great. Dan.

[@Ichigo-gp9vq]

Hey, is it weird that I'm feeling my life has no meaning now? She left me out of the blue this morning without telling a good reason. Last night we talked nicely, she even said she loves me and that she doesnt want me to disappear. I keep checking my phone every 5 minutes to see if she texted me back. She actually blocked me from all our socials and completely off contact. It's night and I absolutely cannot sleep.

[@gabrielrivera5758]

​@@Ichigo-gp9vq its not weird but the reason is because you have made that girl your life purpose and that's where you messed up. find a new purpose and pursue that your purpose should never be a person

[@iamwoody22]

@@Ichigo-gp9vq It's not werid at all, I felt pretty simular the first month or so. You will go into shock, i.e. out the blue, not sleeping eating etc. This is because we evolved in tight social groups and thus brekaing up with someone is like being thrown out of your tribe, you now have to survive by yourself. However, you'll likely have close friends and family so try and reconnect with them. My breakup has led to me improving my relationship with friends and family. Your life has plenty of meaning, like me you put your ex on a pedestal and thus she was the meaning of your life, you likely had your own purpose before you met her, so try and regain it, but it does take time. Once, you start to live your life for yourself, you'll actually thank you ex for dumping you, that may seem strange now, but sometimes its a wake up call that you need, everything else in your life will improve and in time youll be ready to meet your next partner, if thats what you want. I can remember the same out of the blue feeling, but again many people are very poor communicators and wont really tell you the honest truth. You in time will realise that you dont actually need a reason, judge people by their actions, and her action is that she has left you, you don't leave people you love. Honestly, as hard as it is, if you dont need contact i.e. you have kids, then go no contact and remove any pictures etc for your room or phone. Its very hard because you'll be craving her attention like a drug addict, but its the only way you'll get over her. Also all the stuff about her still loving you and wanting to be friends is total bullshit, I'm sorry to be harsh but women will say this just to be nice, or to keep you as a backup plan. Again I'd advisd you to go no contact, if you want to be friends in the future once your recovered, then so be it, but right now just cut her out. I hope this helps bud, please just give yourself some time, don't make rash decsions, as your emotions will be running high and that can led to recklessness. It really does get better, I promise you in 3 months time you'll look back and be proud of where you are. Keep going your doing great, life has some nuch in store for you. Dan.

[@fightingwarrior5893]

It really hurts especially after you thought they were going to be the one. Then they just leave you and go away like nothing ever happened. It’s heartbreaking and it messes with your head. It’s very hard at first but you will find it again and someone better some day.

[@savindirupasinghe7989]

My first ever relationship is broken now. I imagined everyday with him, my future, my family, my life... he was in every aspect of my future. But things weren't aligning with us. He had different goals than mine. I tried to fix with his, and I succeeded, but he never adjusted mine. I was under suffocation, and I realized I should leave him for the best of both of us. I still miss him soo freaking much, I cry every time I remember him, I can't eat, I can't focus on my work. I feel lost everywhere. A part of me has gone and vanished. I just can't hold this pain. We tried to fix but never a success. I believe the universe has better plans for me and him. I wish him all the very best!

[@alexporter8526]

It even hurts more when you know that they'd been together for months before you find out.being cheated on is so traumatizing you lost the hope to love and trust again. Seems like people normalizing cheating nowadays.

[@FruityHappiness9]

Yep..also got cheated on. Its absolute garbage

[@zygas658]

This is my third time watching this, I'm a month into a breakup from a 3 year relationship, and I genuinely feel like I can't live my life anymore, like I don't even have a life anymore.

[@Iamadessinagreen]

Mine was for 3 yrs too n it’s hurts We couldn’t be humble enough to assist n work through our simple issues but things was too much deeper as individuals. Traumas that not being fix so we cant enjoy a healthy version of an relationship without toxicity 😢 We soooo good together ☹️

[@oliviahurner1343]

Hi i'm in the same exact situation, knowing that i'm not alone helps. I am experiencing feelings I did not even know existed and my life seems to have turned upside down overnight. However, I know there will be a time where we are moved on and don't even really think of this person anymore. I know that sounds harsh (especially when you are still in love with that person, like myself) but point is there will be a time where we realize its only up from here. Keep your head up I am rooting for us!

[@manmany6437]

you deserve better,Wish them well,and let them go

[@marinamaievska700]

I experience exactly the same feelings rn I truly understand you

[@lieyoonie4756]

How r u now??

[@nartman3477]

Just gone through a break up, I knew it’ll happen eventually, as nothing ever really lasts forever. I’m however a bit relived but it’s still hard to breathe. It’s just hard to carry 4 lives at once, friends, family, your partner, and your mental health. It’s gonna take time to recover, but stay strong out there guys! Edit: hey guys I’m back haha, I want to disclose a few things, after getting out of another relationship (this one a bit toxic), you have to realize it was no one’s fault and you need to accept the fact that you too aren’t for each other. Having a better view of what love actually mean could help you cope a bit. Want what’s best for the other person, don’t be selfish, talk things through if needed. Love someone at your best and you’ll be able to give them the world, ba baii!

[@antonios2002]

how’s it going buddy ?

[@nartman3477]

@@antonios2002 I’m feeling great thank you

[@antonios2002]

@@nartman3477 any updates brother

[@nartman3477]

@@antonios2002 feeling much better now, I’ve basically let go if love and started working on myself, I feel better than ever

[@dunkow]

@@nartman3477how long did it take for you to feel better? It’s for me now more than a month ago and still feel shit about it. Don’t feel I will get over it..

[@D0M0C0RE]

This is hard. Both of our first loves. Teenage love. We have been through so much together. Nobody thought we would end up together especially not us. She brought me to hospital one time when we were just friends. So innocent. Everybody was so happy we were together. It ended tonight. I wished her a nice life, it was so hard to get those words out. Ill return to this comment once the heartbreak has healed

[@D0M0C0RE]

Bro I don't care

[@yonatanmelkamu9221]

The one person I wanted to live my life with left me and I really feel broken and lost. This video reminded me of what's important and that is myself.