John Stamos: I Didn’t Care if I Died

John Stamos (actor, producer, author of If You Would Have Told Me) breaks down all things Full House, from his extremely close relationship with the late, great Bob Saget, to his struggle to come to terms with his iconic role as “Uncle Jesse.” He opens up about his very public D.U.I. incident and why he finally decided to seek help for his addictions, his issues with not feeling smart enough, his thoughts on his teen idol status, and how he moved through his resentment toward his ex-wife, Rebecca Romijn. John discusses how his parents kept him grounded and motivated, ways he has found his ego has stood in his way, beginning his therapy journey after his dad died, what he loves most about being a father, and his meditation practice. Mayim and John reflect on parenting styles and he details his musical career and performances with the Beach Boys.
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[@m_brokenleg]

John’s words “Don’t be sad when I die, be happy because I lived” was exactly my own motto when cancer hit me eight years ago, along with “don’t be worried, just accompany me in this new & unknown road” to my family & friends. “We” overcomed cancer together.

[@colleenmasse9368]

I love how John asked Mayim questions. ❤..he is learning from her...she is learning from him.

[@user-gj9qc2qf3i]

Same!

[@tamirule4216]

I appreciated that so much 🎉

[@papondahoops]

I just realized that I don’t expect good-looking people to struggle. What an odd subconscious belief.

[@michelleday6876]

I had the same thought for years. Facebook, of all things, helped me to see that so many of the "pretty people" have more relationship ups and downs than I did. Kids from multiple partners. Revolving door of partners. Grandiose expression of love for their partner and then relationship is over. Arrests. Rehab stints. Etc. I thought to myself, "How have I, not a traditionally 'pretty person', been able to find someone who loves me no matter what that I've been with since 2001, and these 'pretty people' can't find someone that loves them half as much?" It's twisted thinking that being pretty means life is good. I think a lot of life comes down to confidence. We assume pretty people are confident in themselves, but that's not a given. The day I found myself (size 18/20) defending a woman, who was complaining that she was now a size 6 instead of a size 2 as she once was, was when I realized we all have our insecurities.

[@jodirollins]

That’s such an astute observation. I think that consciously and subconsciously we all think that people who look like they have it all together, do. Thank you for making your point and sharing it. It really made me think. And to me that’s the best thing a comment on KZbin can do. Have a great day.

[@opheliassecret5428]

Same. As I consider myself as not so pretty or a model type, I tend to think that if I was more attractive, I would have so much less problems. A good reminder that goodlooking people can really struggle, too.

[@marystrenke3050]

My friend's gorgeous blonde hair, hour glass figure and penetrating green eyes defined all her relationships. That's not what she wanted and she overcame it. I'm so proud of her. I love this authenticity of this podcast ❤

[@OrganicJewels]

You’re not alone.

[@taras6578]

I was actually quite surprised by how much I didn’t know about John stamos. I love how comfortable he was during the interview. He looks fantastic for 60.

[@WonderfulWorldofAwesomeness]

He looks fantastic for any age. He has a great style and taste too. I was a big fan of his when he was Blackie on GH, and liked his James Dean style then. I had no idea he was so humble and sweet and intelligent.

[@karenmaguire4250]

Prediction: Mayim will be the first woman to break the glass ceiling to become a major network evening talk show host, and will kill it. We are ready for something more. Jokes, songs and skits are great but this interview showed us the man. Brava!

[@lisak7380]

Network TV is not what it used to be. I don't think Mayim would want to host an evening network show. She has much more control and creative direction with this podcast.

[@tamirule4216]

But she could if she wanted to 😊

[@yeesh9215]

Yes, she is really good and articulate.

[@donnyjanast7093]

That ceiling was shattered by Joan Rivers,

[@sharonpink1]

Love John Stamos. Thanks for this interview. ❤

[@kimzwolinski9919]

I’m always a little nervous to watch interviews of people that I really like. There have been many times that the person was not a good person at all. I’m really glad I watched this. I really loved how John and Mayim were actually listening to each other. Great interview Mayim thank you ❤

[@bhc2023]

Agreed! It was comfortable and real, more of a conversation than an interview. John, thanks for sharing your truth.

[@angelaholmes8888]

I'm glad that John decided to turn. His life around and is now sober addiction is truly a difficult battle that not many win

[@AK-47-yall]

Dont know how i caught this so early but as soon as i saw John Stamos i clicked on the video immediately. I enjoyed hearing more about his personal challenges and the work he did and is still doing to be the best version of himself.

[@lovingmayberry307]

I have always loved John Stamos as an actor. I particularly loved his character on ER. It seems hard for me to believe, but I don't think I've ever seen him interviewed before. I really appreciate how vulnerable, honest and accountable he is of his life. I have an even greater respect for him now. ❤

[@tamaramccarthy8811]

He does an episode of Who do you think you are. On PBS. It's amazing watching him rediscover his family after the birth of his son and the loss of his dad. What a beautiful family and his cousins just accepted him and opened thier homes and hearts. Highly recomend❤

[@litaibarcena4041]

I loved how John interacted with you. He was sincerely interested in your perspective, your life and your feelings. We got to know you through his questions. You were both great on each other's. Thanks for this!

[@sharonsparks4366]

How enlightening. He is real. He is not one of his characters. I love him even more.

[@_Savannah__]

I literally love how Mayim diversifies all of her podcasts. Everyone she has on, they are all such unique different humans and have so much to offer to us other than the jobs we know them for. Because like us they are humans with human experiences. I love Mayims approach to letting them chat and talk about themselves while also connecting with each one of them about her life aswell. So clever, intelligent, intricate and beautifully thought out. Love Mayim, TBBT, and Blossom. Love how she sticks up for herself no matter what and sticks to her principles. She will be missed on jeopardy! (I only watched we she was on but I have nothing against Ken) Also pointing out how freaking beautiful she is, not just her smarts or brains or the fact she has a PHD!!🎉 But she’s so pretty and attractive (still somehow insecure which seems crazy to me) but I love you Mayim and Thankyou! Happy Holidays!! ❤

[@helenmurphree3434]

Enjoyed the episode 😊 the older I get, well I’m the same age as John, the more I see that we are all just human and need love and acceptance and support

[@iwnunn7999]

Back in the day when I first laid eyes on John, it was all about his looks and that great head of hair. It was nice seeing the human side of him.

[@LovinTheP3nB]

I enjoyed this episode a lot. John is a distant cousin of someone I grew up with. That minor link gave me confidence to write him a letter as a kid and got an autographed picture back. I have adored him ever since. (I was little, lol)

[@HostileTakeover555]

Full House was a big part of my childhood. I absolutely loved they were all close off screen too. I’m really looking forward to watching this.

[@lightningbug276]

The central character was Love

[@saragabriel4224]

Interviewing all these people: Mayim Bialik is amazing! 🙌

[@jillmacchitelli6473]

That was one of my favorite episodes. You two have excellent rapport.

[@Leahd501]

Absolutely loved this interview Mayim. You brought out such a wonderful side of John . He is now living his best life and it's great to see how far he has come in his sobriety. it would be nice to see him do his own podcast. Just a great human all around.

[@KristinM626]

Yet another amazing guest! Thank you for a fantastic episode!

[@marisamartinezolivera]

Hey! “Uncle Jesse” is on the House! The MBB House! So good! A kind of terrific Xmas gift to all of us! Even if missing Jonathan opinions, Mayim does great “flying solo” episodes. As this one! Enlightening, learning from others hard struggles and second chances. Terrific!!! Happy Christmas to everyone who celebrate! 🎄💜

[@ColleenBrawley-wy8xs]

I got to see him play with the AMAZING Beach Boys at the Puyallup Fair in WA state in 1991. It was the 2nd time I was lucky enough to see the Beach Boys. Saw them the first time at the Yakima Fair in the early 80's. ❤

[@kittensugars]

Dang. I had so much teenaged love for this man...his pictures from 1980s teen magazines were all over my walls. John Stamos, and Rob Lowe. Nice to see him being all human. ☺️

[@tiffanyc7909]

Omg, I’ve been watching your podcast for a while now and it just dawned on me that you were CC on beaches and I loved loved that movie . For some reason I knew you from Blossom or just in shows from my childhood. . You were literally the reason I could watch beaches over and over again . I never put the name with the face . Wow !

[@kdmoonchildsworld]

I have been a John Stamos fan since General Hospital days! It has been fun to follow his career.

[@raywalker7029]

I love that John is wearing in-ear monitors throughout. A true musician.

[@orland0110]

Thank you so much for having the amazing John Stamos in this interview. I remember him so well from ''Full House". I love your channel so much Mayim! ❤

[@sandy-ke1kr]

Great interview. I love that you let people talk and just share things that they normally wouldn't in other interviews.

[@dznCatsWellnessTarot]

Really enjoy your podcast. Each one is an authentic connection and that can be rare these days IMO. I have been a fan of John Stamos since I was a teenager. I met him on the red carpet in California for the American Music Video Awards in 1985. We were on vacation from Canada and stumbled upon the awards show. There were hundreds of stars there and he was the only one who stopped. I got his autograph and then took a picture with him. He kissed me on the cheek as he walked into the building. He made me feel seen. As he was talking in this episode and asking Mayim questions it reminded me of that moment and that feeling. He wanted to see her. Blessings

[@Ford9065]

he seems like a man who has been redeemed and given a second chance, and seems grateful for it.

[@tricia9559]

I’ve just found an intelligent, interesting, channel - THANK YOU 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@MayimBialik]

So happy you found us, Tricia!! 🧠🫶

[@DBYouTubeHandle]

Blackie! “1981 acting debut at 18, as street tough Blackie Parrish on General Hospital, lasted a memorable two years.” I watched General Hospital after school.

[@skultat]

I thoroughly enjoyed the dialogue between these two. I love how real and open they both were. Normally I'm ready to move to another video after several minutes bc I just can't stay focused. This one had me hanging on every word. Thank you so much!

[@jflowj]

My childhood crush. I honestly don’t remember having a poster of anything other than horses and John Stamos. And he’s so engaging. I love to hear him address the Peter Pan idea in men and how all the things he’s really ever wanted came true, when he was able to put that persona aside and grow up. And that growing up is wonderful and beautiful and fruitful. This was great. You were great.

[@msmay2039]

Always great listening (& learning😉) You both still bring kindness in this crazy world! Thanks Blessings 💜

[@TheChatty_Kathie]

Such a wonderful interview Mayim! You brought out so much in John…things that he hadn’t spoken about in previous interviews. Great job…love your channel!!

[@eileenmitchell1141]

I love him. I saw him play drums in the Beach Boys band outside of Seattle at a fair. Amazing. :)

[@Kim-qk2vl]

What a great human being. Genuine, honest, humble. Wonderful interview.

[@TeddieBuddhaBear]

John had a poster of you on my wall. ❤😊 Still a heartthrob! Love how down to earth you are.

[@mtaheny1]

I met John once when we were kids. I used to go tothe same church in Cypress. He was really nice. Seems like a lifetime ago.

[@altaresjoyceee]

I just finished listening to this on Spotify 😊 its really great episode! ❤ i agree with John, "dont be sad when I died be happy because I lived" We went through and overcame all that came up in our so-called lives and his book looks really awesome like we can really learn a lot from there. So happy that John was here in the podcast and we also wish that Jonathan was there but all in all, you really did great Miss Mayim! ❤ Thank you for this new episode! Take care MBB Team! 😊

[@kierancarrero9816]

I just came across this interview and was so impressed with Mayim. John, of course is wonderfully real in this interview.

[@tudormiller887]

Great video. So, so honest.Wishing you a Belated Chanukah Sameach & a Belated Yom Huledet Mayim. 🎉

[@rachelcpeters]

I'd love to see you interview Lewis Black. He's retiring from touring and I think he's got some great insight on life.

[@rebblebb]

God this episode was everything, it was so wonderful thank you so much!!!❤

[@w.m.8126]

I’ve been waiting for this ! So happy to see John

[@neoshadowdukeofgames8223]

Thank you so much for another great episode!!!

[@GreenCatEye78]

Full House and Blossom-2 of my favourite shows growing up! I'm spelling "favourite" that way because I'm Canadian-Jonathan would understand but he's not there today-LOL 😀

[@HeyJude8331]

What a brilliant interview!

[@erineileenj608]

Loved this conversation. ❤️

[@charlottestewart5802]

Great interview. Actually, it was a great conversation that we were allowed to eavesdrop. I love you, and as soon as Alex Trabek announced his cancer, I told my husband you'd be a perfect host for the show. Really! And you were. As soon as you walked off, I knew you would not be back. I see why you did it, and I understand why you are forever replaced. Sad.

[@shellyroman1321]

What an amazing conversation you shared with each other. ♡ Thank you

[@michellemurray4044]

Great show. Sorry when it ended. Such thoughtful discussions

[@joanmurphy2166]

Thank you both. 💚🌿🎄🌿💚

[@mariaa5572]

OMG such a great interview/podcast - I'm happy I got to see him in Cabaret back in 2002 on Broadway in NYC!

[@RedHeadThriller10]

like i said i grew up with blossom and full house you always bring out the best in people on your show. im sorry to hear about jeopardy their loss lol... you are gorgeous and intelligent. ❤

[@tessajetta8146]

How awesome and great this interview is!

[@danastonerock]

This was so good ! ❤

[@carolpayton4864]

That says alot about John being able to speak his truth about his life. He comes across as very caring for the ones who are his friends and family.

[@FutureMemories2024]

I love his authenticity! What a great interview! I like him even more now after watching this.

[@sharonpink1]

Stumbled across this interview. Glad I found it.

[@christinaspy535]

I appreciate that John's room looks like Uncle Jesse's room

[@annfromma8456]

It is a good reminder that "celebrities" are still normal people with all the foibles and insecurities of everyone else. I think that as a society, we put them on impossible pedestals that no one could ever attain. John, enjoy your wife and child, the days go by so quickly and they are your best and most important legacy.

[@moosehunzie1880]

❤❤❤ loved this episode

[@mims503]

Authentic, wonderful. The notes from his mom are so lovely. Every episode I've heard (just recently found your pod) has been great. Thanks for this work. ✨✨

[@janeyjoseph1847]

Thank you Mayim & John, I have shared this so it may help someone that it resonates with in hopes they can overcome their condition and how it is effecting more than them.

[@LomaLIndagal]

Great interview!

[@superdougie10]

Incredable, .......Truly. And what a comfortable room he has in his home....

[@bonnywelsh4302]

This was wonderful ❤ I laughed. I cried ❤ I loved this podcast❤️

[@marystrenke3050]

I loved this!!!

[@LoisAGrimm]

John doesn't give himself enough credit. Several times he said or alluded to this idea that he wasn't intelligent or deep enough. I found many of his statements and observations to be profound and moving. I really enjoyed listening to this conversation.

[@ginabadeaux9319]

i am 64 and couldnt believe i was only 4 years older than John ,i love him and hope all his dreams come true ,i love your show ,than you Mayim.

[@mammaj3874]

To you both: Such a great interview! I loved the give and take. I appreciated your vulnerability. Thank you for sharing you!

[@OrganizeCreateDecorate]

What an excellent interview, Mayim. John was great. I learned so many things I didn't know about him.

[@brianmassman6016]

Mayiim, this is smart and emotionally healthy. You input is valuable and I will watch this channel for sure!

[@meganc731]

I was so delighted with this interview. Went to a Beach Boys concert last summer and I was wistfully hoping we’d get a visit from Stamos, apparently I brought it up loudly and often enough to trigger discussions (plural) around us about John.

[@cyndimanka]

I learned this thing about others like you talked about towards the end. I love this saying. People don’t care what you look like etc they’re too busy thinking about themselves

[@Pancake_cake_cake55]

This was interesting, I enjoyed myself and I learned a lot.

[@noraboghossian3487]

38:10 about failure holding back not going all in so that if you do fail you can say you didn’t really give it your all… YES! Of course that sounds right!! He was spot on. I hear this from my support group members (women going through a break up or divorce). This is one of the most common ways people deal with failure in relationships. Or that their partner deals with failure. They hold back. So that they can say I didn’t try as hard or I didn’t give it my all. And yes it is Not what people should do. Thank you for sharing. 🙌✨

[@pamelawoodsum8608]

Wonderful video

[@kaylajensen9670]

What a truly genuine person!

[@stephaniemurphy1997]

Beautiful!

[@urinluk24]

I loved this show!!❤️

[@user-nb5og8ho9d]

Such authentic soul just adore JOHN STAMOS❤❤❤❤❤

[@catwhisperer968]

This was one of my favorite podcasts. Thank you both. You two should collaborate with a few guest. He is good bringing people out of their shell.

[@tamirule4216]

I agree.

[@marieazrak1951]

You were honestly one of my favorite characters in full house when I was growing up

[@catloverKD]

38:07 about failure is the most relatable thing I've heard in my life. I have an amazing manager who is trying to help me get over my fear of failure and fear/inability to deal with criticism for a possibility of a promotion in the future; and this just clicked. "If I give it my all and I fail, then I'm a failure." Which my dad found entirely unacceptable, and in response, would criticize and lecture me until I finally went no-contact.

[@suelillard87]

Love him! First loved him when he was in General Hospital, Blackie Parrish

[@antoniaroennau684]

Great podcast

[@Sexygirl31ify]

Oh wow ❤❤❤❤ I never liked stamos if anything I dislike him dearly lol but in this podcast I LIKED Him……. I do love how he looks he always looks great ❤❤❤❤ very good looking guy. And not only that he was so relatable on this podcast. He is a fluent and great speaker. I love you John stamos. This podcast made Me change my mind about you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Blessedmommyuv4]

I have loved this incredible man since I was 11!!! 😍

[@Sam-ef3bj]

Always enjoyed his acting. Loved the beautiful words he said about the passing of his friend Bob Saget. I have had many friends in AA and NA who were helped enormously and have been clean and sober many years. Not saying that is the only way, just those were some folks that I met. All of the folks I met, did a lot of very very hard work to get clean and sober. Wishing everyone well who is dealing with these issues. I have also lost 5 friends to heroin addiction. So, there are hopeful stories and also very very sad ones.

[@angelinamclaughlin-heil]

Wow this was very deep!

[@lisathomas1622]

The great awakening! Welcome everyone to who you really are, an amazing spirit having a human dream. ❤

[@PelvisPresley420]

This episode is a good one

[@Rosiepooh75]

This was really an interesting listen, and I especially appreciated how much he takes ownership of his role in things that didn't go well in his life. You can only grow when you recognize where your weaknesses lie ❤

[@MayimBialik]

👆👆💯

[@nancysangma5263]

He's 60 ?! Looks 30 years younger ! Great energy ftom both. I found your channel today btw Mayim, and I'm loving it ! ❤❤

[@plantculturescomics]

Love that, " if you didn't like it, we didn't make it for you!"

[@tomlichnofsky.7048]

Awesome Episode 👊✊😊 Happy Holidays to all Seasons greetings 🎄⛄🎅😆👍🍁

[@soultrekotc6635]

Loved this. Thanks for sharing this side of John.