Jordan Peterson - Advice for very attractive men

[@steelframer]

My mom says I’m handsome

[@Earthling108]

lol

[@vg7985]

steel framer yeah, and "special".

[@94isthenumber]

Hahahahaha

[@societyreborn33]

She's lying

[@theunusual2051]

That’s what really matters bro

[@TehUltimateSnake]

Old lady at the gas station called me handsome today. Guess it's time for this video..

[@waleedimtiaz9994]

My friends mom called me handsome... Just felt like sharing it...it felt great 🤣

[@rufeilrahtieh7885]

Gas stations are a very stimulating thing for old ladies.

[@waleedimtiaz9994]

@@cesarzambrano7742 us boys never forget compliments....specially from older ladies.. They are more experienced in men and they probably don't lie... Guess we are handsome homeboy....

[@Ash01010]

@@waleedimtiaz9994 a shopkeeper called me handsome

[@waleedimtiaz9994]

@@Ash01010 what if we really are handsome.. And people don't say it to our face to avoid boosting our ego or to avoid awkwardness....

[@baderaqw]

The title: "Advice for very attractive men" Me an unattractive man: **clicks**

[@masterdanielgodwin3071]

hahahaha bruhhh

[@baderaqw]

@@masterdanielgodwin3071 😂😂😔😭😭

[@heh9719]

Yiu are beautiful in inside .

[@masterdanielgodwin3071]

@@heh9719 nahhh G looool we know what we are

[@preciousnana5789]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ethanhuntakabobturner4285]

When I was 23 years old I was out with two girls and a random man came up to me and told me not to let women destroy your purpose in life. At 44 I have been married twice and am currently separated. I have let women become too much of a focus in my life and have missed out on the other pleasures life has to offer as a result. It's a sacrifice I could have made back then but have been forced to make now. The continual need to be with someone and have someone validate you is a shitty substitute for finding inner contentment and being okay with yourself regardless of who wants you or not. Honestly, if you're young, find a dream that's higher than the fantasy of the perfect woman and you'll eventually find your dream and the perfect woman for you I suspect.

[@nosajting1321]

Legend

[@crypto-insights]

I follow you completely. I notice more an more that financial independence is a goal and a relationship is a goal that just needs as much investments too. You should adapt and invest in a relationship, but if the relationship asks you for to much change, change the partner. There is that special someone for everyone, just most men settle for less.

[@MrPunch09]

Damn Vince took some sack to say all that, appreciate the share.

[@shfd3832]

What if i need no validation but only sex from hot girl?

[@wakashmukhim8616]

Thank you for your wise words Vince as a 24 year old man I needed this kind of advice.

[@hidymatyas]

Two people have told me "You're beautiful". My mom and James Blunt.

[@anshulmehta1603]

Good for u.Even my mom thinks I am ugly.

[@hidymatyas]

@@anshulmehta1603 Don't worry, we still have James Blunt :)

[@MarusiFyren]

You're beautiful!

[@anshulmehta1603]

@@hidymatyas 😆😂 yeah.....thanks James Blunt

[@joaosas]

More like... James Blind, right?

[@CanadianReacts]

This is something I’ll never have to worry about.

[@nihilism6226]

Mancave Sports Just be born rly hot, easy.

[@CanadianReacts]

@@nihilism6226 too late for me, 🤪

[@nihilism6226]

@@CanadianReacts Try some voodoo ritual to transfer your soul to another, way hotter body or something, I don't know what else could help.

[@sudhanshuraj8021]

Metoo

[@StompDeni42]

I like your beard.

[@jeremiahnoar7504]

KZbin Algorithm, is this your little way of flirting with me?

[@josephgaviota]

XLNT question !!

[@rufeilrahtieh7885]

No, KZbin Algorithm is asking you to stop capitalizing your opportunities.

[@NICNAASTY_]

lmao

[@pablolloyd1450]

hahahaha underrated comment!

[@nicoleibundgut534]

Thats an genius tough, nice!

[@elidaiker3225]

I think women need this talk wayyyy more than men these days.

[@rasulkhalid5773]

Exactly

[@rasulkhalid5773]

Men can be average and if they have more to the looks and they are aggressive they can get very attractive female's

[@joys8634]

@@rasulkhalid5773 yeah but the women is only there for the money in that case lmao.

[@rasulkhalid5773]

@@joys8634 NO men should have other qualities. And most hot women are with average looking men. They are just confident a man doesn't have to very handsome

[@joys8634]

@@rasulkhalid5773 yes money lmao. most hot women during school are with hot men, but the ugly guys usually get jobs in stem so the women goes to them for resources. pretty obvious.

[@brianrooney9671]

“One good girl is worth a thousand bitches” - Kanye West

[@PB-dm1pf]

Wake up Mr. West

[@BenHailu]

Amen

[@mohsinakhtar7876]

...Worth more then ...

[@tannyglover3929]

@@mohsinakhtar7876 worth more THAN!

[@bugrahanakkus3565]

Guess kim kardashian more than thousand bitches

[@eileenkenney]

This is very comforting and validating for me to hear. My husband cheated on me throughout our entire marriage and left me because he wanted to "continue experiencing other women". He actually kept a list of every women he was ever with sexually, ranking their beauty among other things. Being left for such a shallow goal made me feel worthless and unlovable, and it's been a very difficult effort to rebuild my self worth. Hearing Peterson talk about the value of a monogamous relationship in the same way I view partnership is very helpful for me.

[@lucasgorjao1097]

Sorry to hear that. To be completely honest, you're better off without him, he seems like a very shallow douchebag. Hope you get over him

[@alexkizer639]

Wow, that guy was a douche. You’re worth a lot more than that, Eileen.

[@PatSimon182]

He's no different than an animal then if he behaves like that. His loss obviously not yours.

[@rtphotos4691]

He was a loser. Learn from the experience and note what attracted you to him so you will be able to identify it if you see it in other men.

[@Mohann-]

Pretty ridiculous behavior, hardly fitting of an adult. Hopefully one day he wakes up out of his childish delusions and realizes all that he has lost.

[@TheOutlierToday]

Idk y I'm watching this when I'm not attractive but this is interesting.

[@t-bagbagwell1327]

Just incase someone find you attractive keep this on mind hahaha Cheer up mate.

[@joshuamerzin8768]

If you believe you are or are not your correct

[@peaceonearth8693]

Well, people are not one dimensional. So, it doesn't have to be physical appearance. Say that you had dance skills or a super smooth personality. It's possible to be at the top in those areas and then that is an attractive quality. I'm going to pick on Billy Joel. Helluva singer back in the day. And, women lined up to meet him after concerts I'm pretty sure.

[@dances_with_incels]

I don't find myself attractive either but when I watched american psycho it changed me in so far as taking more rigorous care of myself. Of course excluding all the murder and killing parts.

[@bigrims5239]

@@peaceonearth8693 having a strong personality is not a replacement for points on the looks scale.

[@janscott602]

Sexual attraction is a kind of superpower. And those who have it are more often villains than heroes.

[@InimitaPaul]

I was a proper villain with it, not evil but not responsible enough, then I went bald. Karma’s a bitch! 🤣

[@Carbon-ation]

I was ugly and became cute, chunky and became fit, being attractive and acting it is indeed a superpower

[@aboy3064]

@@InimitaPaul Being bald does not limit your ability to get woman, look at Jeff Bezos and a host of other men. There is something else deep rooted that is causing your inferiority complex.

[@InimitaPaul]

@@aboy3064 Inferiority complex? I think you’re reading a little too much into what I said mate. The addition of the baldness was to add a touch of humour to my egregious behaviour, it’s not exactly something I’m proud of. Getting women is the easy part, finding a high value woman is the problem. Even Bezos was taken for billions by his wife and although I do have decent resources, I didn’t do all that grinding to give half of it away.

[@FoereaperGaming]

@@InimitaPaul I wish all my hair on my head would stop growing. Lol I'm tired of shaving it. My barber says I look like a character from the Vikings show lol.

[@hankriseshill1898]

POV: You’re in the room while someone else is receiving advice

[@brentoncollins7860]

Bro Im weakk underrated comment

[@atom8861]

You're Franklin being roasted by Lamar while he is getting this advice from JP simultaneously

[@CuPc8K3]

Just wear an eyepatch = 37% boost in attractiveness.

[@ashbrady588]

I’m pretty good at Math, so wearing 2 would mean 68% increase? I’m on it.

[@benr4978]

Then when they look at you, lift it up and wink at them.

[@ShowMeYoBoob]

what makes u think that?

[@dukeofanchor]

Add a stethoscope and plastic vampire teeth into the mix and you’ll easily 100%> boost in attractiveness

[@abcdefghijk8925]

Add a parrot that's also wearing an eye patch. Next level sh@+ you're welcome!

[@helioflanaganveiga]

I met my beautiful wife many years ago and decided to let go of all the previous promiscuity I had been experiencing in my life. Somehow it felt rather liberating. I guess the pressure of always being on the top of your game goes away and you end up putting more effort towards things that actually truly matter in your life.

[@demonicaxeman7264]

That’s the same reason married women start gaining weight and marital sex starts to decline. You stop trying to be what made you attractive in the first place because you feel you don’t have to put the effort in, anymore.

[@MrMatthewhg]

I've read some deluded crap in my time, but you win the prize. You are now older - as you admit yourself - and therefore physically unattractive to women. So am I. Welcome to the 80%, but remember how the opposite sex manipulate us. They rely on our misplaced vanity and trust in order to do so. There are no exceptions. As an unattractive man, you have very limited sexual options, and she knows it.

[@helioflanaganveiga]

@@MrMatthewhg you have wrongly assumptions about my age and my level of attractiveness. I am no longer a teenager, but although I’m in my 30s, I don’t feel or look old and gray. As a matter of fact, I have a fitter body, a more confident attitude, and even more stamina than a lot of blokes in their 20s. Probably because I’m taking good care of my body and mental health. I have had experiences in America with serves flirting with me in front of my wife. I’ve had girls approaching me at the gym interested in me. I’ve been stopped before during my morning outside workout (running and doing push-ups around the Capital Building) by this girl because she wanted my number. All of these things have happened after I reached my 30s. You can blame the accent in some situations or the fact that I’m not American living in America may make girls more interested automatically. Whatever you may be assuming about me, only reflects your own insecurities mate. I voluntarily chose to marry a woman whom I believe is the best fit for me. I wasn’t forced into it. I saw more value in starting a family than sleeping around. It’s called maturity, not necessarily “getting older”. It’s also called evolving. Age is indeed an objective variable of life, but it is not the sole determining factor for attractiveness. Mate, I hate to see a fella struggle in life, so if you’d like my personal advice, on top of following Dr. Peterson (which is a great thing you do here on KZbin), please check out the channel Alpha M, with Aaron Marino. I promise you it will help you cope better with your self-esteem. Have a great day mate!

[@MrMatthewhg]

@@helioflanaganveiga Well, firstly, thank you for your kind offer. The point I was trying to make was that as men get older, they frequently fail to recognise that they are no longer attractive to women sexually, but can offer them financial security. Unfortunately, vanity, and what you call self esteem issues mean that they are often in very deep denial about their new lower sexual status, and therefore become prime targets for manipulative individuals who marry them in order to secure a proportion of their assets in divorce settlements some years down the line, all the while reassuring the deluded man that they are still just as vigorous and attractive as any mid twenties stud. Anyway, great to hear of your successes and glad to know you have clearly avoided those pitfalls.

[@MrMatthewhg]

Long story short, we all need to be alert to any tendencies within ourselves towards vanity, delusion and especially denial as the years go by. This is not just a male problem, women are equally prone to it - classic example being the middle aged woman who goes on holiday and is fleeced by a young Lothario who takes all her savings. Same thing, for men or women - a refusal to be realistic about our declining sexual appeal and a willingness to believe flattery.

[@Yuls777]

I feel bad for young people these days. The depth of their life experiences have been drained by social media and current materialistic culture. There is no lack of food or clothing, but of true humans relationships and meaning In their lives.

[@StewieLokz3707]

I’d like to share a small experience. as all relationships, a problem came to surface. it was us against the problem, i made that clear to her. So, there i was telling her to express herself to me and how she feels but you know what the little girl does?.......... She flees the scene, goes to her house, probably locked herself up in the room and TEXTED me the response. TEXT!! I STILL can’t believe that happened. She’s one of those who take social media serious. Portrays to be one way BUT REALLY it’s the other. Mind you, im a quarter into this life shit so i suppose i fall into the category of young people. It gets challenging finding one who is mentally on par with you.

[@quizzlybear]

I feel sorry for older generations where prejudices and war was more prevalent. It works both ways. Hate it when people blindly look at older times with rose tinted glasses and in the same breath shit on younger generations

[@pvn2474]

Wrong. There most definitively is a lack of food and clothing! But not for you promiscuous hippies!

[@StewieLokz3707]

@Mike Kane I’ve watched patches of it. I’ll definitely give it a full view, once I get the time!

[@Cartman5101]

couldnt have said it better

[@connorlohse4097]

Accidentally clicked on this video and felt like I walked into the wrong classroom

[@nate_4594]

Maybe so, but most men are in the average range. It’s never worth it to put your value on outward appearance though

[@UnknownRED333]

Men take the red pill and focus on yourselfs not females, you focus so much on women that you forget completely about your purpose in life, us men we create, we build, we make things happen, you never know what your capable of but i can promise you that putting your focus on women and caring what they think so much will only limit you from becoming your best self which is what all men should strive for

[@minter4777]

Yes us men need to continue to chase the impossible and dive into scifi

[@marlom7882]

“You’ll lose money chasing women. You’ll never lose women chasing money” as they say

[@kaberigomes2117]

@@marlom7882 This is why you will never be that small percentage of men.. Money itself doesn't guarantee you to be successful with women, but is a evolution indicator of survival value. It's only one of the qualities that women seek. However if you look around, you will see there are several people with obscene money, and low success with women.

[@nathenstone7554]

@@kaberigomes2117 you’re probably a girl... just trying to deny your gold digger instincts.

[@jamesmccloud7535]

@@nathenstone7554 LMAO that's kind of sexist mate

[@rickyyang8963]

Just watching this for my next life in case I'm attractive

[@jackreidasaboboras3654]

😂😂😂😂🤧🤧🤧

[@raeannaroylance5401]

😅😂

[@anthonygato407]

That way of thinking is your enemy.

[@israelesquivel8633]

You dont need to be born attractive you can become attractive by mewing and working out.

[@mohammadqz8956]

@@israelesquivel8633 are you sure that it works on every one?

[@ThomasG1231]

It was around age 25 I started doing really well for myself financially, learned how to better groom myself, and got in really good shape. I went on 3 year rampage. Sleeping with multiple different women every week for years. It was an addiction that formed from insecurity. I wasn't able to get girls when I was in my early 20's or as a teenager and once I became more attractive and successful at life in general it was like I was a kid that had never tasted candy with an abundance of supply. It was fun for awhile, lots of fun. But I was getting lonely and yearned for a real relationship. Now I'm with my sweetheart of 4 years and am so much more fulfilled. Although I must say it was a good phase for me to get out of my system.

[@vladislavazenina]

👽

[@Drexeh]

What ya doin' searching on this video, bud?

[@manuelsalazarserna5320]

@@Drexeh He came here to give advice

[@Drexeh]

@@manuelsalazarserna5320 Soz chief, I missed the part where he gave advice?

[@aarongoodall4169]

@@Drexeh just giving his life experiences mate, who is really that arsed?

[@UnableToSpeak92]

Actually, it was Bill Burr and not Louie. But anyway... he’s right in his observation

[@dard4642]

Ron White did, too, but he is clearly talking about Bill Burr here.

[@The_Pessimist]

Bill burr is basically one of the best philosophers in our time 🤷😂😂

[@bigboy3454]

I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one that noticed that error.

[@kaleblundberg7479]

Both angry, funny gingers.

[@thediddler]

All overweight gingers are the same

[@The_Real_Daniel]

As an outrageously attractive man, this helped me out alot, God bless

[@a-jam8937]

Lol. Sarcastic much?

[@TrollHiddenCave]

I can feel your pain bro it's a real fucking struggle walking out the door having to bring a large stick to literally assault women who are trying to sexually attack me

[@TrollHiddenCave]

It really is a moral quandary because on one hand I'm hitting them with a large stick but on the other hand I got shit to do I can't just be having sex all the time

[@aladdout9454]

@@a-jam8937 jealous much?

[@The_Real_Daniel]

@@TrollHiddenCave Gorgious Peoples Anonymous meets every Thursday night at 7, coubting on seeing you there bud, stay up, stay beautiful 🙏

[@grndiesel]

There is another side to it. Hypergamy. Yes. Choose wisely, because these women may want you for the wrong reasons.

[@vg7985]

You want those women also for wrong reasons.

[@grndiesel]

@@vg7985 Exactly. And that's part of the warning in my original statement.

[@Polyglot_English]

Like there are some right reasons, lol

[@LeoMoraesfr]

Yea. I think the tendency is to have less and less stable relationships.. because everyone will be playing the hypergamy game and nowadays with all the illusion of options we have, it's gonna be crazy

[@brucewayne8322]

Depends on her upbringing as well choose wisely

[@thosekids321]

As a ridiculously handsome and great looking guy, this helped me. Thank you

[@AdityaPrasad007]

I don't know if you are being sarcastic or not.

[@martinmollerup2265]

:-)

[@Mq6vL9Bu]

"The problem with treating others as casual sex partners is that you treat yourself as one simultaneously." Qft.

[@BarriosGroupie]

No, it's an "a" problem rather than the "the" problem. A problem is that you're sexually using a person that you have no long term interest in, not wanting anything to do with them afterwards... which is a very crappy way to treat someone IMO.

[@cIiffe]

@@BarriosGroupie not if it's mututal

[@BarriosGroupie]

@@cIiffe Yes, however Jordan is putting the emphasis on the problem caused to themselves rather than focusing also on the other person. I'm glad people have the opportunity to use one another as casual sex partners if they want; so long as they don't end up believing they're better than one another.

[@elzurdico851]

it´s not a problem if you are the one choosing a casual sex partner, you have the power to do it with pretty much anyone you want, is the nature of a hunter you can actually choose its pray.

[@ZoneTwelveOnline]

@@elzurdico851 I have done that all my life. The point is you are also not taking YOURSELF seriously and not having a very good relationship with SELF. If you ever wanted something more good luck finding it because someone (myself included) that way inclined has no how to treat themselves seriously led alone anyone else. I seem to be learning this the hard way.

[@LittleMissHoop]

I'm amazed that no one else has talked about such an important and universally relevant topic in quite this manner. JBP is amazing and refreshing.

[@patm3802]

It's actually impossible to talk to someone about this who doesn't share in the experience. To others, it just sounds like complaining about being attractive and they not only can't relate, but actually despise you for thinking you have a "problem".

[@hijodelaisla275]

@@patm3802 "actually"

[@patm3802]

@@hijodelaisla275 What's the point you are trying to make here? Genuinely just confused.

[@danmera6958]

I feel bad for those unattractive folks watching this, including myself. It's like hearing a starving kid watching a rich kid complain that he doesn't know which restaurant to go for lunch.

[@Tsotsis1]

Indeed but mr Peterson is a bless for everyone ,hehe

[@kevinwilson3337]

@Sai Sai looks matters more than money

[@kevinwilson3337]

Yep , I feel pity for them too because the black pill is very real

[@theStepFamm]

i have a friend who never ever stops commenting on how good my life is and how bad his life is financially compared to mine. he has no idea i had less than zero dollars until i was 31. i just let him play his whole "must be nice" "poor me" attitude up and eat my sandwich in peace. i do the same thing with ugly guys. as a "good looking" man (every girl i ever dated insisted i could be a 10 if i just "got my shit together") aka made more money. i lost every girl i loved during that time of brokeness, so i can safely say you need not worry about what you look like. they all stalk me now that im doing better. i cant get them out of my direct messages and i see them viewing my stories on my instagram and they cant fathom that i finally "got my shit together" and am happier single. i can truly attest that its all about what you have and what you've done with your life. it might be harder to get into the womans door as an uglier person, but once you do - make sure you're interesting. ive seen the hottest girls end up with dudes who are fucking ogres and as a mildly attractive person it always astounded me. i was sure that i could be good looking and broke and still be in a happy relationship, its just not true. girls have a million guys creating plans with them - asking them out on plane trips to diff countries etc. when youre broke you literally cannot compete. girls get sick of eating turkey sandwiches and watching tv every night. they have zero respect for the grind a man has to have in order to keep them around. so be careful of who you chose. you dont even want this type of woman 99% of the time. maybe one night but as mr. peterson stated, it becomes very very empty and shallow very very quickly. save yourself the STD and stay single until a woman who isnt a total spoiled whore comes around. they exist. good luck

[@WT_Neptune]

Don't worry, there's no winning. Loneliness yearns for company and crowdedness yearns for privacy.

[@TrueUnderDawgGaming]

That was actually Bill Burr's joke; not Louis CK

[@GabrielSilva-cn4qu]

Curious to see you here😂

[@Darcopz]

for real why tf you here

[@thatoneguy978]

@@Darcopz 💀💀💀

[@ahmadabbas3380]

Actually it came came from Patrice O’Neil then made a joke by his freind bill

[@jpm199]

More like norm macdonald's joke

[@apc7774]

When I capitalized, it made me feel empty. Towards the end of my shenanigans, I caught myself looking to see if the women would stay the night afterwards, and very rarely if ever did that happen. I learned that what I really sought in the intimacy was partnership, not the shallow satisfaction of instant gratification. Since then I’ve practiced voluntary celibacy, choosing to respect myself and wait for the right woman. Oh, and I also got an STD once, definitely want to keep avoiding those. Nothing compares to how sacred it feels to share real love with someone. Sex without love is empty.

[@YoMamasLlama22]

i need this right now; im exhausting myself with partners but finding it still hard to say no to women who want me and it feels quite empty. I want to move on to something healthier but grew up with a scarcity mindset regarding romantic relationships so its challenging

[@ginagray8040]

From what I’ve experienced in my own life this seems pretty true. The attractive, successful men can get any woman they want, as many as they want. It’s a natural law plain and simple.

[@gasmaskboi19371945]

I’m a 6ft 4 very attractive man in good shape. Here’s the catch... I’m autistic! It’s one hell of a combination!

[@SuspiriaX]

what kind of hell?

[@solemagus4761]

GET IN THE DAMN EVA SHINJI

[@Princess15732]

awwwww you better be mine cause I love autistic people. :)

[@gasmaskboi19371945]

@@Princess15732 Well thank you!

[@skywatcher9176]

I was once handsome but then the high ground got to me

[@tromboner6061]

what's meaning of high ground??

[@skywatcher9176]

@@tromboner6061 my profile used to be a picture of darth Vader, and this was a star wars reference

[@tonygicz8]

This video is pretty accurate I've always chose to be faithful to 1 woman I've never found it satisfying to have more than 1 girl it just doesn't feel right, cheers to all the faithful people out there. 👌

[@kovir2555]

I‘m so glad I found this. My gift is hard to handle sometimes..

[@oreas1372]

😂🤣

[@officialremydou]

Who realized it was Bill Burr’s joke about the bus full of Swedish women

[@loganwillett2835]

also it was skandinavian women lol

[@benfrank8649]

I did!

[@gabrielortiz3811]

Title: "Advice for very attractive men" Me: I guess I'm moving to another vid then.

[@alfauno1255]

Lol

[@Ratmus1]

I still don't know why I clicked on it.

[@Ash01010]

then why u here?

[@Ratmus1]

@@Ash01010 *leaves*

[@RiZeLegiT]

have confidence my brethren, there’s a huge range of things that girls find attractive in men. Sadly physical appearance seems to be huge go to but not all girls are like that. Also! if she only cares about your physical appearance then she’s shallow because eventually you’ll both be old and wrinkly...those girls are a little superficial. Just work with what you got, highlight the great features about yourself always!

[@backchattvsports2905]

His observations are spot on in my humble opinion! If u are attractive to many people this means you are striving to be a better version of yourself which is a good thing your reward for improving yourself leads to more romantic options which is a meaningful reward but if one fully accepts this opportunity they actually decrease the value of what is meaningful and this leads to a loss in value.

[@7777Melchizedek]

Huh? For some reason I can’t wrap my brain around this

[@ShaneBoy]

its like a balance.

[@andywashere9743]

It’s kind of like if I’m this attractive to this person and that attractive that person, then why settle? I heard almost the same compassion from the both of them so yeah its a strange place sometimes

[@backchattvsports2905]

@@andywashere9743 very true😬

[@avidier7347]

I’m not bragging, I’ve been called attractive my whole life and I found out that it means nothing in today’s society Atleast for a guy.

[@pedrotorresjr2078]

Me too, i get a lot of dirty looks from both men and women..

[@AbigaleKirsten]

@@pedrotorresjr2078 for being good looking? 👀

[@thedarkdivinity7525]

@@AbigaleKirsten For blocking their view of his good looking friend.

[@ven0IVI]

That's good actually

[@CeeDoubleU]

@@AbigaleKirsten yes for being good looking. It makes people uncomfortable. Men and Women. If you were attractive, you'd understand..

[@carbonseven1st]

Never call your wife “the final hole”

[@nickohdub]

😂

[@nickohdub]

LMAO

[@rudra_baldaniya]

No matter what you do just keep loving her and don't let her know otherwise your life will end up as a hole 😂

[@benderisback619]

Wtf 😂😂

[@kaqueburlington4278]

😂😂😂

[@akshayrao2706]

Others : I am kinda attractive , let me see what this man has to say in this video Me : Let me see what advice I can give to my attractive friends

[@Teabonesteak]

"Very attractive people need no advice." -Thomas Paine?

[@fadilahmed3137]

Okay superman

[@V_baddict]

Finally, KZbin algorithm knows exactly what my problem is.

[@thrillofbattle3801]

This distribution / lack of access to the fck pool results in problems for the whole world. Or at the very least millions upon millions of males. No matter if you get it or don't, most don't.

[@AGI1234]

Having a lot of partners sounds cool. The disgust look I get from girls when they ask me how many and I don’t know, feels like a smack to my face. As one girl put it, “My mask is that of dozen red roses, but underneath is a bunch of red flags”. I haven’t been with anyone intimately in 5 months. I created nothing out of something special. I was wrong for thinking it was how I could feel love.

[@ivanestades5903]

Well, if you are really atractive, any woman will consider being with you, at least in the short term(sex) but if you can choose, then you will most likely choose the ones that you consider most sexually pleasing. Those atractive women that you would most likely choose have most of the time thousands of sex offers by many different men and have had their share of banal sex, more than you think they did or than they would like to let you know at least so any of those women at any point of time they put on their stank face are just being plain fucking hyprocrites, and in reality, maybe sadly, you having no idea how many people you´ve been with is a sexual boost for them.

[@supergobgoblin424]

I love making women drink my seed

[@Burimenzi]

My wife called me handsome today. This video just came at the right for me.

[@AboutHisBusiness777]

I have been extremely promiscuous in the past, slept with many girls but still felt incomplete and alone. It is a sacrifice to choose one but definitely better for the soul, and is also what God ordained for us, because he knows what’s best for us

[@Thegangsta00711]

@TRUTH _ I can be alone but building a house, that thing would look shitty af 😂 how about just making a sleeping bag so I can relocate into different parts of the woods?

[@jacobs3671]

I had points in my life where I was the big shot who all the girls wanted to be with and parts of my life where I was just a regular guy or even a total loser...In the end, genuine soul connections is what matters to me 💗✌🏼

[@Gulag00]

When and how were you the big shot?

[@Bear-kb4kt]

i rate myself as a 6.5/10 having a body count of 36 by 22 years old. i don't plan on staying with 1 woman. a woman LOVES how you make her feel NOT you. she loves the idea of you but NOT you. a woman always says "i love how he makes me feel" "i love how he holds me" but as soon as she stops feeling that she will yeet you out of her life so fast youd get smacked right into a new reality so hard that you forget what way is up and down, she will up and leave and youll be left wondering what happened LOL

[@sickathanyouraverage4404]

Very true. It's like dudes should just get the sex while they still can and expect her to leave at any moment.

[@FOH45]

yup.... exactly my experience too

[@UnknownRED333]

Very true, i like to see that red pill knowledge is getting around, men need to start accepting reality instead of living in the fantasy a woman creates.

[@shessoheavy6130]

That's precisely why you never settle down and always have options. That way when she does something you don't like, gives you drama, etc., you're not left holding the bag and can go see those other options.

[@bobbyrodgers6677]

Or since I know covid makes some of this stuff difficult. Find girls you find attractive on social media that you think have high morals (its very easy to tell which girls dont have high morals) and date them. If you see red flags, then dip

[@Achilles94627]

I'm quite an attractive guy (you'll just have to take my word for it) and I've dated dozens of girls over the years. But when I reached my mid-thirties, I realized I wanted to have children one day in the not so distant future. And I want my children to have a good mother. And I want my children to have a father and a mother who are together in a stable relationship because I believe that is what will be best for them. I'm always going to be attracted to women, and I'll always be tempted to an extent. But if you want to settle down and start a family then you need to put your temptations aside and focus on the lives of your children. It's simply about growing up and taking responsibility.

[@carlhung9817]

Good luck finding your unicorn.....

[@trappart9209]

@Ex happy to hear it! Too many people believe that finding proper partner is impossible

[@AbigaleKirsten]

@@carlhung9817 to find a nice partner is a fantasy? Yikes for you

[@rikipotsticker9653]

Problem is having the ability to build desire and attraction is NOT the same thing as having the ability to build REAL intimacy and authentic connection. Might be a little out of practice.

[@bribri4275]

I was looking for a sensible comment, and it took quite a while to find it, but I’m glad I kept the faith because here it is! I hate to know that some men are so disconnected from their power and purpose that they fail to realize their influence in all this. The best thing a MGTOW man can say is that he doesn’t want children.

[@ats4670]

It’s easy to rag on the outrageously attractive man, but until you actually experience it you’ll never understand. Girls practically throw themselves at you. You are listened too and taken more seriously than others. You can’t go out anywhere without all eyes on you. People will do things to make life easier for you without you even asking. I spent the first part of my life as the “ugly duckling” and can say from personal experience that now being in the top looking category of men, it’s insane how different I’m treated!

[@raskult]

@@elbercho boi don’t get played and wasted I swear.

[@By.daniieel]

Oh wow, so terrible 🤦

[@Cloudland117]

I always thought having ten girls interested in you was really only as valuable as your favorite one. So just pick your favorite

[@philipfoster6014]

The Power of Saying NO...NO... So easy & tempting to say YES... YOU get out weaker with a NOD... you get out Stronger with a NO...

[@callumballantine1328]

KZbin recommended ME this, that's all I'm saying...

[@eatingmyyouthtocasablanca449]

😂

[@klopez9473]

I'm female and it recommended to me. Maybe I got attractive male energy .

[@callumballantine1328]

@@klopez9473 you call that Big dick energy, and that's a compliment no matter the gender

[@ifluxion]

As a former simp, I always used to think that I was a noble man thinking about one single women. After I quit being a simp and rose through the socioeconomic status, I got a good wife and my life is great. However, then I learned that Jordan was right. I became attractive for other women like never before, which revealed my true nature. I remember back in high-school and college where all these attractive guys get all the girls, which I saw in disgust but with envy. I can now truly understand how they feel. I just happened to never be in that position until recently. All I can do is to never act on those feelings, and shake my head and think about something else. I was never a noble man.

[@NobleVagabond2552]

Idk i see a certain degree of nobility in what I just read

[@societyreborn33]

Agreed. Nobility lies in your ability to introspcet on such a level imo

[@dborwankar]

After you quit being a Simp, what did you do that changed you?

[@pocnit]

@@dborwankar "rose through the socioeconomic status"

[@martinluizaga]

As a non native english speaker this took me several relplays to grasp what he was talking about. But he’s SO CLEAR in the end! (also thankgod for the captions)

[@redhearse2380]

Me, an average looking woman watching this 👁👄👁

[@Poison69]

Your honesty and self acceptance makes you better looking than any other Swedish super model.

[@raskult]

._.

[@uk9383]

Its rare to hear average women actually say that they are average. Most average women think they are a 10. So if you are actually average respect

[@raskult]

@@uk9383 well yea because average looking women are pretty

[@uk9383]

@@raskult ummm. Average eans about half are better looking than you and about half are worse looking than you. so if you are average and you say that you are a 10 means that basically noone is better looking than you

[@Phoneticak]

You quoted loui CK.. it was Bill Burr

[@adamhamilton3757]

Best to have a long term relationship with a solid 7 or 8. Anything higher will be too much effort

[@xDARK.xKNIGHT]

U sound like my father. He’s been saying that same statement ever since he divorced my mom 😂 I’m still not gonna listen. I want a baddie with a fat booty.

[@davida5053]

@@xDARK.xKNIGHT lol

[@Rjcuatrocinco]

@@xDARK.xKNIGHT living high on the hog. That's that premium lifestyle boiii. What's your credit score.

[@kevinwilson3337]

@@xDARK.xKNIGHT a 7 or 8 is still a very attractive woman with options. The majority of men can’t even get those !!!

[@draskodamjanovic2905]

Imagine settling. Lol weaklings.

[@kierankilpatrick9251]

I once told a girl that you can't really separate romance from sex. She said yes you can, people do it all the time. I failed to include that its not possible if you have enough respect for yourself, you can't and won't separate the romance.

[@lt.cuttlefish]

And thats just your life. Plenty of people can have sex with someone they don’t have romantic feelings for and are honest to their sexual partner that its just for sex. It works for them but not someone like you who correlates sex with love. And thats not a bash at you, just showing that people view sex differently than you.

[@kierankilpatrick9251]

@@lt.cuttlefish true, however that comes with its complications like everything in life. I believe it is best avoided, because having multiple sexual partners, especially when in a relationship, curves your morals. Thats my take anyways

[@Coldestaevadoit]

@@kierankilpatrick9251 ole cuttlefish here missed the point of the video and your message so i dont think he will ever get it as he is a different type personality than you. As Peterson mentioned , you cant treat others as casual sexual partners without treating yourself as one which in essence means you are placing a low value on yourself. For every time you have that casual sex you are devaluing what that type of intimacy can be and mean on a deeper level for when there is someone special in your life. Some people seem only capable of self love so they may not get it. Different personalities=different goals=different choices=different outcomes and which outcomes are better is in the eye of the beholder.

[@kierankilpatrick9251]

@@Coldestaevadoit that was absolutely beautiful, ive never been able to fully articulate that, thank you

[@WhoIsRah]

@@Coldestaevadoit spot on. you can want that but you shouldnt really want that as youre basically doing yourself a disservice because it can be so much more than just casual sex and it lowers your own value as well.

[@squamish4244]

It was a confidence-booster for me as a very shy young man to know I was attractive to women; I had a number of relationships from casual to serious before I met my wife; but I didn't go crazy or anything. I've never thought that much about it except that it's a nice thing to be and fun to flirt with lots of women.

[@dt3947]

I’d say growing up with current era Rap (not hip-hop) glorified these toxic actions for me. It almost destroyed my life multiple times and I’m glad I found a woman to love and cherish as she is.

[@vsander09]

Every generation of rap glorifies it. Also, metal and most mainstream rock used to do the same just not as egregiously.

[@Theromanreagent]

POV: More unattractive people clicked this than attractive people

[@PoofyKittyPants]

There are way more unattractive people.

[@carlosjosejimenezbermudez9255]

Statistically that is accurate.

[@gregtheflyingwhale]

attractive doesn't mean successful among women. I don't think I am attractive very much but I consider myself more narcissistic than average. One (and not only) girl told me "why are you not as good as you look?" implying I didn't meet her expectations when she saw me at first. This is the most BRUH moments I had.

[@rtphotos4691]

Your comment should be at the top simply because you listened and learned. It's true. The most attractive men become ugly if they are ugly on the inside. Most men underestimate the need to be humble, caring and aware of others.

[@ennuiii]

@@rtphotos4691 facts brother

[@linklinksson6885]

Facts.

[@stevenporter7065]

Remember that theoratically nature says to pick the most desirable traits for the environment in mating, so one of those you having physical prowess, another could be how smart you are if the environment is right but thats rare, confidence is huge and probably the most important while its my belief anyone can become fit I believe its easier on a phyiscal level to become confident mental is more debatable, so guys just learn to be more confident mentally and physically its a more attractive trait, stop telling yourself your not this, your not that, start building yourself up, society tells us from a young age what we are by their insecure standards so you become like them tearing yourself down. Why dont you stop looking in a warped mirror of insecurity and start building yourself up with a good mirrior that shows flaws and good qualities unbiasely so that you are able to learn how to go forward instead of looking at warped mirrior that makes it impossible to see a path forward. I also need to do this! Hope, yall find whats important in life!

[@dylaneasley6281]

Damn. Spot on

[@mushuchicken8256]

Beautifully written. Thank you

[@lihclore]

yes.. greatly summed up.. some people just don’t have the hearts for this, i mean i don’t know personally, i have enough confidence to get myself freely by yk but i just feel as some people don’t have any hope or desire to get better.. just sad

[@hansstringuer9805]

@@lihclore There is nothing sadder to me than see people giving up on themselves.

[@joeblowseph2433]

Looks is more important than confidence. Same with status and ability to financially provide.

[@improveyourlife2877]

Once you find the "one", you can spend more time on more meaningful things like your business, your hobbies or a good, deep relationship with your partner, etc. But you have to go through that dating and hooking up phase to find the 'one'. The problem is that a lot of men get stuck in this phase because it is fun. While they are busy chasing women, others can find fulfilment in so many different things.

[@Callmeab50]

I’ll remember this when I turn handsome.

[@GG-vq6ro]

The problem for most average dudes is that they still want the hottest girls. If you are a 6 then date women who are 6 maybe 7 but don't go for the 9 and 10s. I had a good friend who never had a girlfriend but he only tried getting the really pretty ones so he always got turned down. One thing this video misses is that not all women are super gorgeous either so there are still many women in the 5-7 range that are available. The problem is that most men lust after women who are 8, 9 and 10s. Those are the women who will always end up breaking your heart because they are always looking for someone better. If you are a 6 or 7 as a guy then date women who are more average looking and you will have plenty of selection. Those are still not ugly and much more down to earth than the 9s or 10s.

[@GG-vq6ro]

@Ryan D Not true. I mean it's true to some extent but in a society there are certain beauty standards that most can agree on. Of course everyone has their type and their taste but if what you say is true then this video would be wrong too. Why do only some men get their pick of the attractive women if everyone has different tastes? Obviously certain people are more attractive than other's so my original comment is still true.

[@imthebestdirector]

The problem is that the average women today want the top men. The 80/20 rule. It may have worked in the past but not today.

[@bulldogsnewleaf-m7g]

I'm fairly attractive, the 7-8's are the wives. Beautiful enough to be a 10 in your eyes, but not jaded by validation. I go after 9's now and just get ripped to shreds eventually lol not even by better guys - they just broken. I am too, which is why I do it, though. fml.

[@LordParticle]

I have no idea why I was recommended this, youtube must be smoking crack again

[@vg7985]

Lørd Particle lol. I got recommended this too, and I am old female. I guess, it's because of comments.

[@funkyguy99]

Maybe KZbin just doesn't know your butt ugly and therefore this recommendation need not apply to you.

[@LordParticle]

@@funkyguy99 Trust me. KZbin knows exactly how ugly I am

[@vikki8699]

I believe the same level of thinking goes for women too. Love Jordan Peterson, he is a legend of our generation!

[@klujics123]

Some Dating Advice. “You gotta know when to hold ‘em… Know when to walk away… and know when to run...”

[@chosenone6323]

I always feel like I can’t have a friend because of attractiveness they will show me this side to me that they want to be friends and then eventually they want to challenge me like a game on who’s better in life. I currently have 0 friends. It’s going to be hard connecting with future friends which is a must in order to advance in life

[@raskult]

I feel that

[@MuhammadAliGOAT]

1:45 He talking about Joe Rogan going to Las Vegas with Mike Tyson Mike talks about this on his hotboxin' channel, he said it happens to him everywhere he goes

[@t-bagbagwell1327]

Unfortunately they didn’t take me with them. I would’ve helped my boy there lmfao

[@LittleMissHoop]

Ew

[@MuhammadAliGOAT]

@@LittleMissHoop Mike said on his hotboxin channel (which is a MUST SEE - he is such a woke, experienced and wise man) he said "sometimes when I travel I will end up joining some of the organisers and sometimes they will say to Mike "hey mike which girl do you like the look of in this place?" and Mike said he once responded that some stunning woman who was clearly high-class out with all her friends, who never even knew he was there or probably knew who he even was and he said thats all he thought of it, nothing more than just a simple question - Mike said before he knows it one of the guys has approached and spoken to the particular random female, whispered something into her ear and she immediatley leaves all her friends and comes right over and sits on his lap.. Mike said he just can't believe it, he said "I WISH I KNEW WHAT THOSE GUYS SAID TO HER AND SAY TO THEM AT THESE HIGH-UP PLACES I GO, THEY WERE NOT EVEN PROSTITUTES AND DID NOT EVEN KNOW ME!"

[@MuhammadAliGOAT]

@@renediaz7041 damn, each episode is like an hour long minimum.. he has mentioned it a couple of times throughout some of his episodes.. i can't remember which particular episodes because i watch them all and there is loads

[@MuhammadAliGOAT]

@@renediaz7041 np, get watching them. they are great. its usually when he talks about going to russia or the power the guys in russia have.. check out all the main ones in order from the newest first to the oldest.. think he said it in one of the special big name ones recently in maybe the previous 2-5

[@MrPinkok]

*See the title: "That's the right video for me"

[@martinlovegoodie]

I'm a very attractive man and I always get looked at by other women and I have no trouble talking to other women, but I dedicate myself to my chubby girl and she's more valuable than any of those women. Now those man and woman all come to me and my fiance for advice. Whats more important is your own value and your own word. you will be more desirable by other women when you commit to yourself. Your word is way more valuable than having groups of women.

[@cpjosh8226]

Become the type of man that every woman wants, but be the type of man that chooses only one.

[@aimless-drifter]

I've been married for 8 years, yet to experience the "fulfillment of married life" you speak of. My mom was and still is a single mother. I wouldn't say that marriage is better or worse than being single, and don't expect fulfillment from marriage ether. It's just different way of life that might suite some people, but I don't think it's for everyone.

[@jayyano8180]

Treating others as casual sexual partners will likely enable others to treat you the same way. It is such valuable information, and you can take it a step further by perceiving all your actions and feelings through the same lens. Doing this will increase your overall self awareness because every thought and action will become more meaningful.

[@brambes1804]

“14 Year old boy fantasy” quit right I think.

[@stevenkoehler6018]

Very wise advice. I've lived this. I think he's right. I actually came to the same conclusion on my own.

[@Flexamillious]

Having multiple woman is fun but having one that you want and that one only wants you is noble

[@katherine132]

This was just a really long video explaining “don’t be a douchebag”

[@manudehanoi]

no, it's just saying "quality, not quantity"

[@oreas1372]

😂😂

[@mikeballer08]

Let a Playa play

[@snarlmarxxx1129]

youtube algorithm must be broken if this is being recommended to me.

[@chucknorris1257]

100% on point. 3 years ago I was living in London and had the best woman, we dated for a year, she was my bestfriend, lover, everything and I let BS get in my head.. I ended it to sleep around and party more, I got what I wanted and it lead me into the worst depression of my life; due to that and addiction problems. I was confused for a second because this is what I wanted right? Crazy parties, different girl every night, but I WAS WRONG, NOT A ONE of those girls came CLOSE to my ex. Had to learn the hard way. Im 25 now, and I despise influencers who promote such a life style because its depressing, nothing is real, I became suicidal due to that lifestyle of partying, sex, drugs/alcohol, no real friends or relationships, it's a dark and lonely place. Follow Wayne Dyer not Dan Bilzerian

[@WesternCowboy65]

Same here, was not worth it. Continue to improve and learn to become the best possible version of yourself. Someday we will find another great woman, but it requires patience!

[@raskult]

Tragic

[@hurlentropy6866]

You must be quite attractive. I can't pull any women even though I make them laugh. They tell me my face is too ugly to date.

[@edouarddonald4817]

These are the same advices my mom gave me when i was 16 and added that if i've ever planned to be rich asf ,i should find my wife while i'm still struggling bcz if it ever happens ,i'll be hard to find real love !Damn ,love u mom 😂

[@t-bagbagwell1327]

Makes all the sense. The best people are those who join your path when it’s difficult.

[@UptownSigma]

@Sash Campbell facts dont take dating advice from woman lmao

[@sethaldrich6902]

Your mom wrong, there has been plenty of women that left/cheated after they met their husbands when they were young and not successful. Just happened to Jeff Bezos recently, he had to give her billions.

[@FernandoRodriguez-uu6fj]

As a very attractive tall guy I can say its not enough. Helps and a LOT shure, but confidence and attitude is king. Even over money. Still sometimes I have empathy for some "other" men who are not very attractive or tall. I think I would be sooo low confident with women in that situation that I admire their strongnes...

[@hurlentropy6866]

I had girls make fun of my confidence and say I don't deserve to be this confident when your face is ugly af. I've had women make fun of my face my entire life. Being sufficiently attractive in the physical department is more important because you can't enter a sexual relationship without this condition being met. As if every guy in the planet is perceived with the same light when they act confident. I think not! A hierarchy will always exist. Perception will always be skewed based on how you look. Confidence is king after you meet his condition. It only sustains what was already alive (interest sparked by physical attraction). Let's morph your face to look like a girl and see how far your confidence gets you (assume you don't know of the change in appearance). It won't land you with a heterosexual women.

[@squamish4244]

The last surviving veteran of the Austro-Hungarian army in WW1 was 108-year-old Franz Kunstler. In an interview given at the age of 107 to an Austrian magazine, Künstler was asked about "the most important thing in life". He answered: "I was a handsome man and had many women. But more important is to have a good wife, with whom one can share one's life."

[@panamahub]

Lesson: Chad must pick the one.

[@Loriorealestate]

I have always found J.P.'s advice partly obvious to the point that I want to say "why didn't I think about that" and partly practical, very obvious. I have enjoyed his contribution to our young adults both male and female. I especially like his view about gender bias, opportunity of outcome v. equality of outcome and exposing fresh ideas on what to do about inner office sexual and patriarchal Tyranny. It refreshing that it is coming from a university professor. University Professors have been America's Achilles' heel. lastly, I like that he acts as if God exists....

[@ameraceffj]

so what he's saying is that top 10% of men that have their pick of the litter should settle down with 1 woman, while that 80% of women ride the cc until they hit the wall. not for nothing, but if I was one of those guys (which im not) I would pump and dump til my peg fell off

[@choco1199]

Lol

[@ForsakenXennial]

Women are more comfortable with their bisexuality these days. You may have even noticed more and more beautiful lesbian couples lately. Well as byproduct women are realizing they'd rather share a top man than settle for less. Yay.

[@bobbyrodgers6677]

So you lack morals essentially

[@choco1199]

humpin’ n dumpin’ isn’t all it’s cracked up to be

[@illusiveman1]

And that’s exactly what I’m doing on these dating apps as a 30 year old attractive 6”0 foot chad/Tyrone (think Jeremy Meeks/Trey songs/Chris brown) I really see life from a different perspective. I have a fiancée but chest on her regularly free of charge with 18 - 25 year olds raw 😂 I’m broke to I still live with my dad. Can’t make this shit up. I have proof If anyone wants to call me out 🤣 why should I settle down now when I still have my good looks and height and women still get wet for me? Fuck outta here!

[@AxemanMessiah]

Loyalty can only be measured when you stick with your people after several opportunities not to do so, otherwise you are as loyal as your circumstance.

[@raskult]

Agreed

[@0rnami]

"Attractive men" *Sets Tiger Woods and Arnold Schwarzenegger as the standard of attractiveness RIP

[@soorajnair150]

@Chidori457 sorry don't agree. I believe if you are poor noone cares about u.

[@0rnami]

@Chidori457 I think the video says it best: most men (say, 80%) have only a small selection of women (say, 20%) to choose from. The inverse is also true; the top 20% of men have the lion's share of women (80%) available to them.

[@soorajnair150]

@Chidori457 well in india thats not the case

[@tyronelder3161]

@Chidori457 damn bro you sound like the man, meanwhile I ducking suck man

[@Exachad]

I think the video means attractiveness as in whatever is attractive to women. The richest men in the world can probably get more women than middle class or even fairly rich handsome men. Beauty (especially facial beauty) is very important for most people, but once you start hitting the top 1% (or even top 5%) of physical attractiveness, it starts becoming more subjective and personalised. I can always agree with someone on whether "x" person is attractive or not, but it's like impossible for two people top ever agree if someone is a 10/10. On the other, things like money, power, and fame are more objective and one dimensional, so far more women can agree on it. That being said, choice becomes less meaningful the higher up you go. If you can already attract a few thousand women, for example, why do you need a million? You can never go out with all of them and a few thousand is a large enough sample to have some pretty attractive women. But still, by definition, the feature that will objectively attract the most women in the world is an insane amount of amount of money and fame.

[@gunner23]

I'm more interested in the psychology behind why woman flock after these men who they know are married.

[@theStepFamm]

they have visual evidence of what it would be like with them, and they can crop out the woman and put their head into the frame in their imagination. with facebook social media etc, they can literally envision what their future could be like if he just chose her instead, and the thought of that challenge excites them. if a woman sees a man raising kids and being "cute" on his social media, her primal instincts kick in and she sees someone who can protect and feed their children too

[@gnarwhal7562]

Forbidden fruit man

[@edheldude]

Because the married ones are most likely the ones with the qualities women are after? That's why these men are married already. Nobody wants to settle down with a non-provider. Both women and men who have lots of partners often seem to think (narcissistically) that their so-called success is defining _them_ instead of being evidence of traumatic attachment patterns between them and their partners. These people are looking for validation and having many narcissistic sources validates their grandiose false self-image, and keeps up their trauma. What we really need is love and connection, which this attachment style does not provide them. Men probably have less biological incentive reproductively to examine their behavior while the wounded women will eventually go after married men because they show the traits women are actually looking for.

[@JeremiahWatkins-zv8bn]

Being attractive, and being attractive with ego issues are two separate things. One is dangerous. If you are attractive, stay humble. If you aren’t, lmfao, don’t treat those you find attractive special. Treat them like you would anybody else. You never want to feed ugly egos

[@Rjcuatrocinco]

This is what I've learned over the years. Especially growing up being called/considered "attractive" by people around me, whatever that means. I hate superficiality now, I hate people who act like they're the shit and above others because they happen to look good. I naturally treated people the same before, but I make it a point and really focus on treating everyone the same now, we're all on this fuckin planet and all gonna die. It sounds cliché, but what's inside is most important. Good people are hard to come by.

[@ohyeahyeah-xt1zr]

You the man bro

[@Jshwaa68]

So much truth and wisdom there, but there is a devil out there saying, "Go for it anyway". Such a struggle.

[@zockerswat3532]

I love seeing an animation to this. I like hearing Jordan Peterson in general, but having something visual as well helps a lot!

[@weinerherzog5925]

Having an endless string of casual relationships isn't a model to emulate. A committed triangle is the best as everyone complements each other.

[@joostdekoning4938]

As a medium status male I was lucky enough to have a few relationships and find a wife that I love. To be honest, if I was a high status male I'm not sure if would have been able to settle down.

[@amcspaceape1580]

In other words, your wife is ugly and you wish you had more options lol

[@societyreborn33]

Lol these comments

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

I knew it , I just knew it , I am that very very attractive man

[@LonskiBig]

...This is worth sitting down and thinking about...What is the advantage to selecting "one" ??...The advantages are many, but what if the girl doesn't "select one", but has in her heart to have a fling of 1- 2 years and then go back to playing the field ??...That is an American problem...Promiscuity would then be the "defense"

[@stealz5000]

Then you move on and pick the next one. Hopefully you learnt something on that first relationship and it leaves you with a bittersweet aftertaste and not just bitterness. A relationship ending doesn't devalue everything that's happened during its course. Plus if you really have women throwing themselves at you it won't destroy your self esteem. It's still going to hurt, which it should if it was a relationship worth having. But life goes on. If you hide under a rock in fear of getting hurt, taken advantage of your life is not going very far.

[@chrisricks6363]

@@stealz5000 well said

[@bobbyrodgers6677]

So essentially promiscuity would be defending your ego

[@LonskiBig]

@@bobbyrodgers6677 ....It's "calling a spade, a spade"....If the '50's style of marriage is what women want, then men could go for that, but it isn't what they want....They want to fck a football team...Christina El-moussa case in point...She should just admit what she REALLY wants

[@bobbyrodgers6677]

@@LonskiBig what do you want?

[@Milestonemonger]

"You're only as faithful as your options" -- Chris Rock

[@richardw3347]

-not really. if your a horn dog or have a scarcity mindset, then yes.

[@PinoGietermaai]

A funny thing is that i do not consider myself that goodlooking, not that i'm ugly(i guess), but when it comes to getting with women, i learned that the way you handle and present yourself, your confidence and the way you talk is much more important than actual looks. I got with women way out of my league with better looking male competition surrounding me, simply by looking at them a certain way and saying the right words at the right time. Especially saying the right words at the right time is something you can practice easily. You don't need to look like Brad Pitt(or whatever male figure that women find attractive these days) to bring home that woman of your dreams. Just make sure you come across confident and tell her the truth about the way you think she looks (don't overdo it, you'll look cheesy).

[@andrepipo4542]

just be confident