Jordan Peterson: Women always reject these men

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[@NiteMeir]

"Women will always reject these men" *Recommended to you*

[@myotherusername9224]

username checks out

[@reyagu4607]

@@myotherusername9224 😂😂

[@guillemvidal1958]

HAHAHA true

[@commalTl]

Yeaaah same and I just gotta let down by someone recently too even after they said yes to a date lmao but I’d like to believe maybe this is a sign pointing us in the right direction...

[@workingclassilliuminaty]

hahh

[@mvnorsel6354]

" Women always reject these men". I expected my photo to show up on the whiteboard.

[@patrickvonjanicke658]

Funny

[@claytonwilhelm7314]

😂

[@carloscjr23]

I feel you, that tittle is talking to me men. Like I would open the video and dr. Peterson would be pointing and looking directly at the camera.

[@diego1776]

🤣🤣

[@darkmessiah9566]

Mine too

[@MrRomulorp]

Man, it's so delightful to see a professor that is actually passionate about his job

[@lightbeforethetunnel]

Yes, well said. His passion, I believe, results from him realizing that he's still learning himself. He never gets to a point where he feels his current understanding represents reality with 100% accuracy. Some professors (and people in general) think they already learned all they need to know which leads to dogmatism which then leads to Animus possession.

[@tajamalanwar935]

Too passionate than necessary

[@devin2489]

@@tajamalanwar935 how the fuck can someone be too passionate? 🤣🤣

[@ProfShibe]

@@tajamalanwar935 ???

[@TheSuperbadkneegrow]

X professor

[@JO-mg6xc]

When I was married, at the beginning, my wife used to treat me like I’m some kind of a pagan god. She used to burn things for me……breakfast, lunch, dinner. I don’t think she was trying to please me…

[@FocusedFighter777]

Wtf hahah. Stay away from insane people, and I mean men/women altogether.

[@mikewood9514]

Wahahahaha.same here. Had to leave her when it progressed to trying to burn down the house.

[@rosem5041]

Behave, 😂maybe she wanted you to cook🙂

[@dee5331]

Sounds like you grew up in a home with a dad that belittled your mom. No disrespect either way

[@RapperJayT]

Lololol

[@MichaelSeethaler]

If I was a women, i would also reject a crocodile with a clock in its stomach chasing me.

[@icareg]

Gay

[@scottthegreat9393]

😂😂

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Thank you.

[@MichaelSeethaler]

@@bentoboxofire7404 whooooosh

[@LadyMercutia]

As a woman I can promise you I have indeed done that on multiple occasions.

[@AryanSingh-fg3oc]

Me: clicks a video with the title of Jordan Peterson explaining rejection of men Me after 12 minutes: I must worship the Egyptian eye

[@EricHrahsel]

@@AryanSingh-fg3oc u

[@akbarkhan-nq3xl]

The channel is click baiting

[@edusam666]

Hahahaha. He does beat around the bush a lot.

[@indiaajay1234]

Aryan Singh hhahaha ... we need more men like you in the society who can shout the truth ..👏👏👏

[@izasoup7944]

@@AryanSingh-fg3oc damn I haven't seen this much bullshit in a comment in a long time.

[@mds6387]

Hit home when Peterson started talking about being betrayed by an intimate partner. Immediately questioned if the past was real, and what is real in the present. I questioned my whole past, present, and future. It's a terrible feeling that cannot be described. I'm just glad that I got over it.

[@sasamusic27]

@Blan_K don’t be a victim of the past. work on yourself and building character. see at as a lesson.

[@JariBegus]

​@Blan_K I'm looking for this answer, too. I'm currently in a similar situation to what you describe. Peterson says in this video that redemption comes when we understand the moral of our life's story. When we find out the truth, and why things happened the way they did. But what if it is impossible to find out what happened? What if you cannot get the answers, to learn what your mistakes were? The truth is easily concealed, or distorted, or withdrawn. What happens then? My guess as of right now is that you (1) assume what the truth may have been, and base your restructuring of your world upon this assumption. This makes me wonder what kind of person you must become to be capable of such determination and self-deception. The other option, of course, would be to (2) try to ignore the gaping holes in your knowledge of the past. With this, however, you learn nothing, so redemption may never come. This is a serious and complicated question, and I am afraid I do not have the capacity to answer it.

[@JariBegus]

​@Blan_K I have a problem with not caring. To me, everything in life is a system of inputs and outputs. If you can model the problem, you can predict the outcome with good certainty. But if you cannot model the problem, or if suddenly the model collapses, you are lost. There is no more certainty. I have to care, because if I don't, I can't piece together the truths in my life. If I'm left wondering for the rest of my life "Why did she leave?" and "Did she leave me for somebody better?", then I can't model the past anymore. Suddenly what I thought was truth is not, and I have no way of grasping it. The fact I don't know why she left also means I'll never learn from it. We were supposed to help each other grow and work on each other, but without the partner's insight, you are doomed. I thought we were working on making ourselves happy. I was the happiest I'd ever been, because I thought I had her by my side. We helped each other through so much -- When I met her, she was suicidal, she cut herself, she had anxiety, didn't want to meet people. Now, she shines so brightly it's incredible. She wears dresses, she is finally proud of who she is. I was there through all of that. She was my pride and joy, but apparently I was not hers. And it hurts. It hurts knowing I bet everything I had on her, I helped and saw her grow, and in just one day I lost this bet, and nothing makes sense anymore.

[@JariBegus]

​@Blan_K Thank you for the kind words, brother. With time, I hope I can accept the hole in my knowledge -- though so far in life, most of these holes were simple enough to patch up, as learning is one of my greatest virtues. This will be a new challenge, an opportunity for new growth. I don't fear thinking I wasn't good enough, but I know I wasn't putting in 100%. At the end, because of what had been happening in my professional life and education, I was stressed, and couldn't deliver more than say 50%, but I know that I was there for her with all my available capacity. I do not blame myself, and I do not blame her, for not always being there for me when I needed her. I do, however, regret the knowledge that from now and until forever, my mind will be plagued with the idea that things could have gone so well. The life I expected to live is now gone, and my reaction to THAT is what I truly fear. Perhaps my growth was stumped in this relationship, because I wanted to see her grow. Perhaps I had become too passive in my own development. Whatever it is that disenchanted her, I cannot say. But this talk with you has given me resolve: This is but a stepping stone to my growth. Godspeed man. If you ever wish to speak, know that my heart and mind are open.

[@heartspacerelaxations6924]

@@JariBegus are you perhaps mildly autistic ? I could be a mile off but I heard AS is a different way of perceiving the world. More logical / formula like.

[@jeffrichey3623]

I've found some people will not "like" you out of resentment or jealousy. I used to never be a classist. But, then, when I started doing very well, I found I could only talk about my life around people who were doing equally well. It was quite disappointing to learn this. I've always had the capacity to be happy for others success, regardless of where I was at. I would still be happy for others, if anything, to just learn from their stories, so I could try to pattern my choices after theirs. It was disheartening to learn that others I cared about had difficulty being happy for me. And I could not be myself to protect their egos.

[@laughinghyena170]

I too have found this out

[@joey4482]

Sounds to me like youre trying to protect your own ego

[@jeffrichey3623]

@@joey4482 Looks to me like you have difficulty reading.

[@shaddyraddy92]

In that case, emotional detachment is a blessing.

[@xKateshi]

@@shaddyraddy92 Hell yes

[@geoattoronto]

You make sacrifices in the present so the future is better.

[@TheRightWay11]

And you learn from your past too so that the future is better.

[@addictedtonothing23]

@@TheRightWay11 what about sacrificing the past and the future to get as close to the present moment as possible?

[@alphastateofmind4336]

@@addictedtonothing23 that would be called a drug addiction

[@addictedtonothing23]

@@lewislister7720 i think you need to be in touch with the present moment. Otherwise you see your life through the eyes of the past. Emotions are the endproduct of past experiences and when you thinking the same thoughts, performing the same actions, living by the same emotions then you are connected to your familiar emotions , means your recreating the same life .

[@KaiserNick375]

@@alphastateofmind4336 LMAO fuck lol

[@annacroixx]

He takes the most basic and pragmatic notions about life and makes them magical and exciting.

[@oscarbaltodano6457]

Pragmatic yet considered a genius because he knows how to break it into words. He said in another video how he immagines in words instead of pictures. And with theoretical things, only the nost basic are chosen to be agreed upon. And this is for a college class. I want to buy all of his books and books of nietzche and jung and the others as well. I need thiscommon sense knowl3dge in my brain NOW!

[@samuelmorse784]

Neither and Jung is pure psychobabble. At least this guy gives practical advice.

[@annacroixx]

@@samuelmorse784 Peterson himself reveres Jung as a genius, so get your facts straight. Sounds more like you can’t grasp Jung and are lashing out.

[@annacroixx]

@Yolo 2.0 🙄

[@samuelmorse784]

@@annacroixx Complexes, archetypes, animus, and other fancy words. All about the subconscious. I get it I just don't see much value in it sorry.

[@liamgittins5112]

I really like how he takes stories from history and connects them to make sense in modern times today

[@vibez.no.cartel]

it's slightly a bit more nuanced than he put it, but i guess reductive rhetoric will always gets around quicker than deeper understanding. 🙄

[@josephelsayyid6028]

“So you’re healed, when you get to the point where you’ve grasped the bloody moral of the story.” This is why I keep a Google Keep note to write down “lessons” of frustrating events that happen in life. Those reflections of what you did (even if the events that occurred weren’t ultimately your entire fault) bring immediate relief to a mind that is rattled by an upsetting situation that happened.

[@gc99289]

Do you really need to write it down? Just go over the chain of events and signs that were there and take stock of it. It'll come back to you later in a similar situation and you can use it as a basis for what to expect.

[@laszlokaestner5766]

"The purpose of memory is to prepare you for the future". I had never questioned why we have memories before, they just sort of happened. This line both posed the question and provided the answer in one. Now I understand the essence of why we have memories and what learning is about.

[@S1mcard]

Im pretty sure you have known the purpose of learning before, but ok

[@mhv91]

@@S1mcard May be he just realized the depth of unconscious learning. Our mind stores a lot of information and sometimes one doesn't question why that memory keeps repeating. It's different than just saying "I'm practicing/learning this skill so tomorrow I can be better at it".

[@3rdshura]

if memories shape who you are all of you controlled by bertholdt.

[@massimo9113]

he is brilliant. that part blew my mind cus i never would have come to that conclusion. amazing

[@RTU130]

W

[@haveraygunwilltravel]

I realized that when you decide you don't care what women want, talking to them is easy. Funny thing is they are more receptive because they know.

[@scrimgamingchannel9573]

No cap

[@PaulFugate-cc7mn]

Exactly!

[@goncalobaia1574]

Really? Cause I tried and it really hasn't been working for me

[@icyrenaulto1944]

@@goncalobaia1574 lol , there is your problem right there ... why are you trying ? Just chill and go with the flow and don’t force anything.

[@imalamboman12]

@@icyrenaulto1944 beware turning to stone. If you pretend you don't care a bit too much, that's what happens to you. You become expressionless.

[@supercat380]

Professor Jordan knows how to project and illustrate his subject lectures in the best way possible!

[@Techinvestor567]

Imagine all your lectures this energetic and inspiring. People would actually start to listen, to think about what they just heard, to remember.

[@kambuku__3670]

I would love to see what his exams look like

[@briscoelang2436]

"Lable the parts of the brain"

[@danielblair6952]

Did you clean your room? Don't lie, I will know.

[@MrPrince416]

“Ladies put away your textbooks, men please meet in the courtyard you have one hour to go into the world of chaos and slay the dragon”

[@ricoludovici2825]

@@MrPrince416 Women, you will choose from among those who return. There will not be enough to go around.

[@Sasquatchbones]

Question one, how many benzos can you snort within an hour?

[@de7904]

Guys and girl should learn to have a backbone. Physical attraction always helps start a relationship but character, and if both really want to commit determines if their relationship will last.

[@nemooutis-marcusboateng7459]

Bah. Relations are idealistic to some depending on their strength and self-sovereignty.

[@xarmy5669]

anxiety is the crux of every relationship

[@de7904]

@@xarmy5669 i take anxiety medication. It helps!

[@xarmy5669]

@@de7904 I dont mean anxiety for leaving ur moms house. I mean females forward think more than men, if a female feels shes going to spend next year, ..or next week alone she while develop anxiety over it as a fear of not knowing when its going to end. So she will begin a relationship, any relationship.

[@de7904]

@@xarmy5669 😂😂😂

[@Cander617]

Our world and humanity as a whole would be so much better if all of our teachers taught with such passion and in such a way that made a person interested and want to learn like Jordan does.

[@wadesaleeby2172]

Become the teacher 🤔

[@xavariusquest4603]

That lecture piece was massive, engaging, and remarkably useful as an insight into the individual psyche and the root cause of the most devastating aspects of group dynamics. I wonder to what extent the students find this piece similarly valuable.

[@solodollloooooo]

It must be insanely difficult to be jordan peterson. You know he's lived through every type of trauma he touches on and he took the time to make the chaos intelligible enough to teach it. Respect

[@mcleanconklin7025]

He's obsessed, I love it!

[@BboyKeny]

His story is one of redemption

[@tommyv2317]

That's also why you should take his vision of the world with a grain of salt: there's truth in it but it's also the representation of life filtered through his own experiences and obsessions. And unfortunately sometimes it is a bit overlysimplified or at least one sided

[@caralho5237]

@@tommyv2317 example?

[@tommyv2317]

@@caralho5237 well at the beginning I was seduced by his charming personality and bought his book. Then I started noticing that his way of arguing doesn't leave much room for any debate, he seems to deliver truths rather than exposing a point of view, and you can tell it from his body language, the words he chooses, the style etc. He's kind of... Aggressive in exposing his theories and he's relying a lot on his charisma and his brilliant intellect but often the outcome of his reasoning sounded a bit.. forced to me ..like the famous lobster example: that looked to me like a random fact in the animal kingdom was used to justify a theory on human behaviour. Or like the way he denies that there has been an historic oppression of females by the opposite sex: I agree that the way the left wants to pursue sex equality is stupid and inefficient but we can't deny facts like women wer denied the right to vote or the way radical islam treats women as inferior beings.. His book (12 rules) disappointed me a bit as I felt he is trying to present his view of the world as some kind of universal truth. He seems to me to be very pesimistic about human nature and he tries to convince the reader that life is mostly about suffering. For example he quotes the Bible a lot as a source of archetypes , and in doing so he forgets that that is just the product of one of the many different cultures that mankind has created over the centuries (surely if he analyzed the Bagavad Gita he couldn't have reached the same conclusions).. In 2 words: he's very biased. He grew up with an obsession for the evil that humans hide inside and he decided he found the explanation but it just seems to me he s trying to convince other people (and maybe himself) that his opinion is the only acceptable one. I don't know how to explain it but... Eric Fromm and other humanistic psychologists tried to explain events like the Holocaust in a much more objective, accurate and unbiased perspective. Then I dug into his personal life. I usually keep one's personal life separated from their work/message, but in this case I couldn't as JP tends to behave and present himself as a guru or a role model, even if he denies it. And I found out much inconsistency. He developed an addiction to anti depressants which is totally human and understandable but it sounds the opposite of his "stand with your shoulder straight" attitude. He went on a 100% carnivore diet and he publicly advertised its supposed benefits on a podcast : I mean.. he's a doctor and this is a really dangerous claim. He also kept involving his daughter in his public appearances and he supported, or at least didn't try to stop, her "Lion Diet" scam (basically she's selling advice/psychological support on how to be a 100% carnivore. Look it up, it's pretty weird). And a bunch of other stories from his colleagues as well, about his ... delusions of grandeur. Again, I hate using personal issues to discredit the thought of a person but in this case I see a preacher more than a scientist so I think he should live up the messages he delivers. Long post I know and English is not my native language so I apologize for the mistakes.

[@AAA11546]

The emotions JP is putting with his voice and gestures is just incredible

[@paulgutierrez467]

This made me relive the feeling I had when I relized my ex and I were done. In a positive light it meant I was free. And in a negative light it meant I had to find meaning in it to be at peace. Both are important and it was so well descibed it brought that feeling back. Incredible

[@jacqueslee2592]

Well, he inspired a new generation of students who spent thousands of dollars to hear what they could have learned through experience or by reading his book. University should not teach about gender, women, and sex, it should be to teach about jobs.

[@paulgutierrez467]

@@jacqueslee2592 while I hear what you are saying I definitely think there is a place in this world for what he teaches. I've learned many things from listening to his videos. I find this much more important than any other school subject in my daily life. Critical thinking is not something many people practice and I would rather this be a gen ed class than some other garbage they make mandatory for students

[@berndschneider1993]

I found myself in depression for a year rn and this stranger from the internet kickin my ass verbally helped better than anything else

[@frankwelch3594]

Me to!

[@m.xoxo.b]

“And it’ll pay off at a place and time that doesn’t even exist yet.” WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@Mo-fd7qd]

Lookin like a snack

[@sonnystaton]

Sacrifice, dealing with chaos, dealing with malevolence, handling failure & rejection, being judged in public, dealing with the fear of an unknown future, facing your worst fears, all things I & know my son learned growing up doing an intense realistic martial art. Or you can do years of therapy & attend many semesters in Dr Peterson's classes.

[@TheNewHope2010]

I really loved your description of "gang mentally". You are right on in my opinion. Hope of a better future is everything... because it subconsciously controls every little thing you do right now and day to day.

[@MontyQueues]

he's a good teacher, it's a shame people are too close minded to see his brilliance

[@juliosanchez95]

I love how he makes the simplest of ideas sound intellectual. Stupid people must think he is a genius.

[@Perditions]

I like JP. But I get the impression a lot of people are too close minded to question JP. I'm sure both exist.

[@sussett]

​@@juliosanchez95Simple ideas are really not "simple", they are just a simplified version of a more complex and large process. Just like being born, or simply being "alive". Humans often reflect on something so common and "simple" as being alive, and yet, you're stupid enough to ignore it. I hope you grow up from this salty self you've turned yourself into.

[@Fidelio116]

@@juliosanchez95he explains you.

[@MontyQueues]

most people have the common sense to respect their teachers @@Perditions

[@zombiekila187]

This speaks to me on whole other level, I've been extremely frustrated to lose opportunity's with people I've liked and lost them due to my own issues that weren't letting me be. I was to afraid of this or that or constantly thought about the idea of losing them as soon as they started to like me. It's discouraging sometimes cause when it happens over and over and over again it starts to make you bitter inside and make every bit of improvement you've thought you made seem as though it was completely futile. The first step though is too realize that you have issues though and work them through but the hardest part is to fix it, for me it's at least the idea of losing someone so dear to me and being left alone once more. I'm still somewhat in a stagnated state but I'm doing my best to work on myself, it's the worse when sometimes my mind tells me more no matter how hard I try I'll fail nonmatter what. Then I have to fight it and think "no fuck that, I'm going to give it my all no matter how many times I fail. you just have to believe in yourself.

[@imalamboman12]

I think you, myself (and a lot of men) put too much pressure on ourselves to be absolutely perfect before we enter into a relationship with a woman. No one is ever going to be perfect. Even long successful marriages are not perfect, but you need to get out there and do it because that's how you'll learn, and you learn best when you are moving. You can't change gears when you are not moving. Also, they may be afraid of the relationship falling apart shortly after beginning, but you'll never know unless you try. And whatever happens it will be an experience you learn so much from.

[@zombiekila187]

@@imalamboman12 it comes at a cost, as it may; pain is the best teacher.

[@LionNezTV]

@@imalamboman12 love your convo guys. true, many are too harsh to themselves, when in reality women like to date "projects". women can see potential far better in men than men can do by themselves. but when you date and find a significant other, so many start to stagnate, to lose themselves and their purpose. until you get heartbroken and wonder where it all went wrong. and then you start over again, you become better and date better women. it's a cruel cycle and probably will always be. like in the last minute of this vid. you heal to become a better person, you make sacrifices in the present so you get a better outcome in the future. and honestly as dull and obscure it sounds, maybe that's all that it is to life, same from an evolutionary point of view. You try to get better, and that's where human beings are imo the happiest and most content, when you grow. You accept the pain and suffering, the sacrifices, and start to love them the same you love the fruits of your labor and your hard work, or you get bitter and feel resentment for the rest of your days.

[@xeres7688]

@@LionNezTV nope, it's about looks only

[@zombiekila187]

@@xeres7688 If it was then how come someone that thought I was mega cute suddenly just lose interest, personality counts as well.

[@serPiza]

I do not have money to pay for particular mental care and let me tell you videos like these help a lot.

[@lettheworldburn2998]

Get the mental help you need.

[@thesanfranciscoseahorse473]

A lot of "mental healthcare" is just unnecessary pills and pharmaceutical prescriptions so, this may be a double benefit. Unless you actually do need the pills. Then maybe it would help. But I think most don't. Especially most people who struggle with depression. That depression comes about for most because of their living situation and their life-style. It's a rarer few who actually have major chemical imbalances not associated with life style or environment.

[@karlvonbahnhof6594]

Thank God for KZbin, my mental health was falling apart, but luckily found this man, Alan Watts, Eckhart Tolle and the channel School of life, they are changing my view on life 🙂

[@tylersoto7465]

You can go to a county hospital that basically provides free healthcare, you can go to free local support groups for depression and bipolar etc, cognitive exercises help , herbal and nootropics supplements can help

[@ericd4130]

So good to see these young people getting good information. You know it will positively affect their lives😊

[@haurgalok4244]

“ you make sacrifices in the present so that you can make the future better” facts

[@hellavadeal]

Like Peterson's lectures. To build something new, you must first make room by tearing out something old. All buildings start under the ground and work up. When you find your world torn down and you are in a hole, that is the best time to start a new foundation. Rebuilding lives is the hardest construction job on earth. Giving up just leaves you in a hole 6 feet down. It is the challenges in life that define us. The winner is the one ready to go the long haul despite setbacks and difficulty. "Trust no one and 'no one' will let you down." Machiavelli. A life without trust is a lonely soul. We all must trust someone some days. If you are trustworthy, people will trust you. But even the best of us make mistakes. The smarter of us sometimes make the worse ones. Their actions effect more people. Sometimes thinking about it will paralyze you. We need each other to move forward to a better life.

[@shaf1ke]

hellavadeal ‘Sometimes the people with the worst past, create the best future’ - Umar Ibn Al Khattab

[@hellavadeal]

I love irony.

[@Blokhead101]

Wish I could pin these high rank comments somewhere.

[@justjordan6186]

This is a good piece of advice

[@hellavadeal]

@@justjordan6186 Thanks, be the change you want to see. I got this from other people , because nothing is new under the sun when it comes to these things. Blessings.

[@yaelrar.4460]

Packed classroom. Obviously no one gets sick or sleeps late for this class!!

[@ricksmith7232]

His wisdom and insights are truly a breath of fresh air. He has a way of really putting things into perspective that very few can

[@lebowe6131]

One thing women dont like is.....a male soporno

[@shmlanda]

@@lebowe6131 did you mean a soprano? as in the singing register?

[@lebowe6131]

@@shmlanda yes a woman's singing voice

[@eyeseewho77]

Such a great video. Not sure if it was actually great, or because of its relatability to my life at this very moment. I feel like it’s the ‘seeing of oneself’ in his words which allows for greater interest and understanding.

[@chaitanyavelamala7268]

The intensity with which he teaches is his conviction manifesting itself in making people realize why they should sacrifice their own pleasures so that they can leave a better world behind for the coming generations to live in

[@chris432t6]

A functional representation that increases your wisdom is Dr. Jordan Peterson. Thank you JP!

[@Nexesys]

I could listen and would love to have a conversation with a mind like this. He's able to explain experiences I've been having most of my life. The one saying I've learned to hold above all in life has been "Some times in life you need to realize a poor investment and simply cut your losses." That goes for people too. You can exercise this once you have been alone, learning and understanding yourself. You cannot understand others or relate to them until you learn yourself first.

[@greenlanterncantake]

I sometimes forget how good his lectures are and then I stumble on one and go “oh yeah I should keep watching these” lol

[@stevegandalf4739]

"Women always reject these men" -- the ones who stare at their laptop screens throughout a Jordan Peterson lecture.

[@pourushsirohi4091]

🤣

[@stevegandalf4739]

@Joshua Bull I 've met quite a few women who have a problem with touching men's feet. At least there are some who don't :))

[@nickcage6389]

@@stevegandalf4739 i have a problem with women touching my feet its weird

[@christianrayfield4365]

Good thing I’m using my phone

[@sohnjakrivenski4242]

I would loove to actually be at a Jordon Peterson Lecture and sure i might stare at my computer screen occasionally becuase he has Big Brain ALL THE TIME and me only sometimes so he looses me now and again

[@flystraight7994]

The content is much more rewarding than what the title imply.

[@bobpearsall7737]

this lecture is actually about time horizon mechanics, impact on choices, planning, net present value - good stuff

[@joseabad2552]

Thanks for sharing have a wonderful day ❤

[@silkroad1201]

Jordan: "....anyway, that's why I don't eat bagels for breakfast. Moving on..."

[@elmateo77]

Me: Clicks video titled "Women always reject these men" Jordan Peterson: "There's a crocodile with a clock it its stomach." Me: "I see. My problems all makes sense now."

[@LuisRodriguez-ej5yw]

Lol makes sense to me 😆

[@wazzap6524]

This happens to me in most of Jordens videos.

[@Nick_Taylor.]

@elmateo77, do you recognize the reference to Peter Pan?

[@elmateo77]

@@Nick_Taylor. No I've never seen the movie.

[@Nick_Taylor.]

@@elmateo77 Captain Hook, Peter Pan's arch nemesis, gets chased by a crocodile with a clock in its belly. It's a metaphor for an angry middle aged man who's held captive by a job that eats all his time. Peter Pan lives in Never Land and leads the Legion of Lost Boys, because he sees these crocodiles hunt Captain Hook and thinks to himself: "See! This is why I never want to grow up!"

[@jcarden6615]

my professors are nothing like this. These lectures are gold. This is education.

[@agathamaya76]

Starting at 8:34 -> the story of my life after my 11 year relationship/marriage collapse. Here still trying to collect and sort out the pieces. I pray to God I'm able to find someone that could help me process the chaos of my life. I wish Dr Peterson was my psychologist. This man is legend and pure wisdom. Your videos have really helped me pulled through this last year

[@exanto3441]

hey no matter how far we are on the Earth, I feel you cos Id experienced smth similar and trying to recover aswell. The main thing for us is the will, we still fighting for the better tomorrow for ourselves because we want to be happy, so you are strong enough to process it if you realise that there are things that should be changed. sry if this message is messy, just trying to express my thoughts and emotions and my english is not perfect, I hope u feel good the year after your comment

[@Snakebloke]

@Sigmund I feel like you shouldn't be the one doling out advice.

[@commonsensecomment]

You are going to be ok

[@cpetrizzi]

He can be your psychologist....at $500,000/hour.

[@ChooseLoveToday316]

Agatha the truth is you have to love yourself and your spiritual higher power who loves you and anyone else you think you should. Everything else is "stuff".

[@joepalmer3241]

These are all fantastic so far. What a treasure, this presentation of information, dusting off the dormant things we know about ourselves almost forgotten. Humanity, wake up.

[@g.v.d.m9894]

Jordan realy is a great teacher. Hes so pasionate

[@Softman264]

Wisdom!

[@bobfrost8321]

This is how I envision Aristotle lecturing at The Lyceum.

[@angelg2638]

Altho Aristotle's audience were most probably not thinking of their next shift at Starbucks, or who to go out with from Tinder. or Grindr. Guy first row on right side is so obvious about being bored, and not paying attention.

[@danielkyavata6233]

@@angelg2638 To me, the class is a perfect representation of society. It's a perfect backdrop to watch this against.

[@Innoz1337]

I'm pretty sure Plato was rocking the Academy, and Aristotle rocked the Lyceum....

[@greatemeraldgoat5029]

Idk if Aristotle ever lectured high out his gourd on benzos.

[@juliosanchez95]

I love how he makes the simplest of ideas sound intellectual. Stupid people must think he is a genius.

[@ceebarnes-hurt8901]

His last portion of this lecture dealt with betrayal of a partner but it also perfectly hit women who are suddenly thrust into widowhood. I will watch this again and again.

[@TetaroSeth]

I hope you're doing ok.

[@soulpowerful]

@@TetaroSethThis! Comments like yours give me hope for humanity.

[@MAM-pd9mx]

the Bible says you can find a new partner... NOT IN THE MODERN SENSE LOL... Just that a relative lost his wife in a very tragic way, and in the midst of his extreme trial which lasted some years, he could find love again.

[@ambassadorTAI]

I'll really like to be lectured by Jordan Peterson. His unique and vast knowledge of all delivered to you in 1000 doses so simply it's confusing at first because there is so much you think you got, then when you listen again you hear so much you missed the nth time of listening. God bless Jordan Peterson

[@josgoossens9059]

Hey Thankyou Mr. Peterson and Essential Truth.

[@dannybaloi]

9:00 is the point that Doctor Peterson described exactly what happened to my through my last 2 years...I feel a lot better now that I believe I know the answer that will make me trust my self and women again... ( or at least will solve a big part of the issue ), This also gave me a lot of hope, because the confusion and the problem seems unsolvable most of the time, which comforts me. Thank you Doctor Peterson! and thanks to the person who uploaded this.

[@MoiLiberty]

Daniel Baloi What is the answer for you? Please share. Thanks.

[@ghani3952]

I thank you for time stamp.. I really, really, really, needed the advice too.. I'm on that scenario.. Almost shattered myself..

[@tobey4678]

@@ghani3952 I hope you three; the guy who commented, the second guy who replied and you to have everything you want back in your lives. I truly mean it. I hope the best for you all and good luck in your lives, don't worry we're here for you all. ❤️🙏

[@dakotamedlin48]

I honestly have few problems with my life that he describes i just enjoy listening to him talk he smart af and i learn some stuff about human nature

[@PushPullPp]

@ 7:30 the best explanation of how and why we react to betrayal.

[@dyegodinizsouza]

Thank you for the information. That's very useful.

[@dal8963]

How does he understand the depth of pain so accurately that he has probably never experienced, its mind blowing to think someone could truly understand it the way he does. I never knew that pain could exist until my entire being was ingulfed in it. I truly almost died of a broken heart but thankfully I lived and dont even know that person that died within me for tge better.

[@mcleanconklin7025]

He understands bc he is one of the most brilliant psychologist and hyperintellects. He is utterly obsessed with knowing true psychology.

[@jaipanesar6027]

Me too

[@johnsmith-wk2tb]

He's a psychologist.

[@adamsowa5927]

You obviously don't know anything about his life. Him and his family have been through tremendous trauma.

[@herbythechef7624]

Hes been through a lot, but also listening to 1000s of people problems you can see patterns in behaviour and learn from them. Jordans intellect is no accident. The man has studied the human mind all his life, and continues to every day

[@susanb5058]

I wish I could hear more where this cut off. I don’t understand how a person can come to terms with such a huge betrayal and be able to go on without concern it would happen again.

[@xafter828]

These students are so lucky to be able to study and learn from him while being in the class physically

[@solidstehl9546]

This is absolutely true. I would add however, a caution, to be honest with yourself but also compassionate. The common denominator may be something or even someone you never thought to look at. If you are to change your life, do so Iin small increments. Be willing to do the hard work, but don't try to shoulder the blame of the world... A good therapist (which I am not) will know the difference

[@strangeman6733]

Allowing things to magnifi to a point of personal kaos then facing its reality is a point of inner reflection that can really change you. Its the next chance of living a better life. Your choice... its your ticket, take the ride.

[@pmunoz2008]

Imagine being at the university and see Jordan B. Peterson enter the classroom.

[@joela.4058]

I mean to be fair that’s what he did for the vast majority of his career before getting famous

[@tonitakemi7804]

@@joela.4058 Lucky bastards.

[@richardmorris6957]

These students sure don't seem enthralled by him. Is he talking way over their heads? Idk but it is discouraging to watch.

[@richardmorris6957]

The girl at the far right of the front row NEVER MOVED. Is she alive?

[@teepot4539]

First class honours for everyone

[@alamistheking]

Gosh it is amazing listening to him, and some students look bored and distracted...I would love to be in one of his classes for sure!

[@finestoffreedom3170]

So glad I could sit and listen 👂

[@russellovemuscle]

Omg from the 9:00 mark on spoke to my soul. He put into words what I never could. I tried to explain to my ex how it made u question everything in a marriage of 11 years but I never could explain it near as good as he just did. I don't think I have got to the better u part yet and that was 5 years ago. Perhaps the therapy part would help but instead it has just made me pessimistic and resentful and not like people in general. I always say if u think the worst about people you're usually pretty close to right.

[@davidcawrowl3865]

Wish I had had a professor like him in my college years. Makes you strain mentally to keep up, but what a strain.

[@greatone2155]

Imagine "straining" to keep up with jordan peterson.

[@Aforghani]

People need to focus on self improvement as much as they can and ask themselves how they can be better. Try to repair/fix whatever issue is causing your problems as best as you can

[@charleyjr.iriarte7428]

I feel ambitious after watching his classes! AHAHAHAH! Bless this man! So honest about his terms. So relatable!

[@StarBadger07]

This had nothing to do with why Women always reject certain men

[@adamherman1581]

Start worshipping a Horus and you'll see....

[@StarBadger07]

@FatalPies I have no idea that's why I clicked on the video. This video has nothing to ddo with the title.

[@tateroberts9093]

Listen to what he’s saying instead of looking for a concrete answer

[@BboyKeny]

@@StarBadger07 I thought it was pretty clear. Women reject men that are riddled with problems in his personality that he's ignoring. Whether it's having poor social skills, self-negligence or having low self-esteem. Especially when you try to fake any of these things, it comes of wrong. I think the best way to get to know yourself is by writing down a journal at the end of the day and walk through the situations objectively. Then look at the situation from an outside perspective. When you do this for a while, you will see patterns. Patterns of good social interactions and bad ones. But in regards to social skills, it's the easiest way to improve your relationships. Most people suck at it, so it's not weird that interactions can differ vastly. It's usually as easy as showing a bit of interest. Say hi and ask how they are. Don't pretend to pay attention but be active in the conversation. Don't make assumptions, but turn your assumptions into questions. You know, be the person you think other people should be. Be strict to yourself and tolerant to others.

[@joelstephenson8017]

@@BboyKeny that last line is a rule of mine. Nice to see others talking about it 👌🏾

[@KaneBannanas]

I like to think they're all sitting an important exam and Peterson's just rambling at them for 10 minutes

[@jazz_and_tea]

Wow, every sentence and minute or second has been filled with pearls of wisdom. Wow, so revelatory, eye-opening and deep! I am stunned!

[@ReluctantPost]

If we were, in fact, healed by having figured out what went wrong and ensuring that it would not happen again, then we would rarely be healed. Escaping vulnerability typically carries a terrible price tag, no matter how desperate we are to do it. We usually get to a place where we _think_ we know the whole story of what happened and why, or someone like Jordan working with us thinks he or she knows it, but in my experience as an old person, our declarations and certainties, or declared uncertainties, as our final conclusions to act on, rarely prove to be the entire, accurate story in long-term retrospect. I have watched people in great difficulties choose alienation in recent decades more than ever, as a result of betrayals and deep disappointments of all kinds, and while we assure ourselves and everyone around us of how certain we are of our knowledge and our hard choice, maybe even how proud we are of ourselves for making it and maintaining it, behind the scenes its permanence can cement our disappointments and our anguish--freezing them in time and place behind the wall of years--rather than achieving the best resolution that might have been possible with more work, more patience, more watching, and better communication (even through a third party if needed). Long-term outcomes really matter, especially when those around us suffer from the poor ones as well (such as our children) when they are not their fault, no matter how many coats of veneer we may try to cover them with.

[@caseyreeves1017]

I hope those kids realize how lucky they were to of had Jordan as their professor. My god, when I went to college I couldn’t stay awake to save my own life.

[@SilentNinjaaa]

@@MT-kx2uc lmfaoooo

[@mazrio128]

Wow. Your command of the English language is as beautiful as the expression cellar door. Money well spent (we can surmise). “I hope THESE students realize JUST how fortunate they were to HAVE HAD Jordan as THEY’RE (jk) Professor. MY GOD! When or MY GOD; when I ATTENDED college (just because you WENT to college doesn’t tell us much. You obviously didn’t go there to grab a book on syntax) … attended college, I couldn’t stay awake to save MY LIFE” not my OWN life. So, basically what you’re saying is you were able to stay awake to SAVE THE LIVES OF OTHERS but NOT YOUR OWN OMFG

[@JackRabbit1612]

@@mazrio128 holy shit you are insufferable. it’s called colloquial english, einstein.

[@szymoniak75]

@@mazrio128 i don't think you have many friends

[@austinhartsell3709]

What an intelligent being. His ability to explain such complex ideas is incredible.

[@goldkhw]

I think his IQ is 151.

[@blitz19113]

That’s an INTP to you.

[@SirContent]

lol, wait till u see how quantum physicist can dump down the subject to dinner time anecdote

[@lebowe6131]

@@goldkhw he has an annoying woman's voice

[@vibez.no.cartel]

it's slightly a bit more nuanced than he put it, but i guess reductive rhetoric will always gets around quicker than deeper understanding. 🙄

[@avhadmahesh9189]

Thank you sir for this details

[@MasteryOrder]

If mastery and masculinity are things of interest to you, I invite you to use the resources on the Mastery Order Channel and challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood to become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

[@Marz7]

That last bit about betrayed by a partner in a relationship really hit home for me.

[@sonnyroy497]

Me too. It very painful.

[@tahaakbar8206]

"Back then you'd last about 15 minutes." Cracked me *up*

[@christophedallaporta8836]

Life will never change and never has. If your lazy, you won't be lucky either. Hard work plus more hard work, that's the name of the game. And anyone who says it ain't necessarily so is a liar or a fool. Naturally you might just sit on your arse all day when everybody else is trying hard but if you end up alone and bitter by the time your 40, you will known who is to blame.life today is just as hard as it was back then only with variations.

[@thesanfranciscoseahorse473]

I think region is important too. Some places in the world continually beat people down with poverty and a near complete lack of work. Or, they have work options that pay so little that no amount of overtime could ever overcome their poverty. OR, you have jobs that physically or mentally destroy the workers within a handful of years. I think hard work is important, but it also matters WHAT type of work you do, and what it pays. If you don't have any particular skills to get paid more, aquire those skills. If the job is breaking you down, either adapt or get a different job. If there are no jobs, flee. Leave. Move somewhere else. Same in regions where the cost of living keeps you trapped in debt, find somewhere more affordable.

[@bjh3661]

Watching the students in the video: every one of them staring into a laptop screen as if typing notes will capture the essense of Dr Peterson's discourse. WE are the ones watching and learning, now, on youtube. We can pause. We can digest. We can resume playback when we are ready. The density of insight from Dr Peterson is overwhelming for most mortals without these luxuries of control. THANKS TO WHOEVER FILMED THESE LECTURES FOR THE BENEFIT OF HUMANITY.

[@AzazelTheMisanthrope]

These titles are clickbait, but I still enjoy listening to this man.

[@rickywinthrop]

I have a narcissistic mother and an ex wife who was allot like her (Freud winks). As a result of surviving those two black holes, I give approx 0 damn's what any woman thinks about me at this point and as a result I found myself having a far better relationship with the women I did meet going forward because I didn't have an attachment to the outcome of our interactions, meaning I was far more genuine and open leading to the great 13 year partnership I have been in with the wonderful woman in my life that actually likes me for who I am and not just for what I can do for her. Always be genuine with new people so you attract the right ones and do not compromise your values just to please anybody else ever , regardless of gender or desire. Patience + passionate disinterest became my go to mindset for most problems in life based on how well it has worked out with my partner and has helped me in so many other parts of my life as well. Not caring what others think (while still being polite and affable of course) draws people to you like a strong magnet...life is just so odd sometimes 😂. The more you want the less you get, the less you get the more you have. Weird! Best of luck out there everyone, you got this.

[@pwhippie07]

i don't care about the title, still wondering why it's so often misleading on your channel it's the content i know is good anyways

[@c1rcl3s]

I've noticed the titles are always really off. My theory is the uploader doesn't understand the lectures whatsoever.

[@STOPPEDINCOLORADO]

Kristine That’s pretty pessimistic. Have you ever considered that because of the large range of topics addressed, the uploaded doesn’t really know what to title the video?

[@c1rcl3s]

The topics of the title aren't addressed

[@aleksanderorzechowski5580]

The titles are misleading because their purpose is not to represent the content of the video, but to convince as many people as possible to click on the video and gain views. It's called clickbaiting

[@mariuspieter]

It's because you don't understand the psychology behind click bait, people gravitate towards controversy, if it was a title the was mundane you wouldn't even pay attention to it

[@Waawawiwaa]

The message for all the men to whom this video was recommended is do not take anything personal,learn and evolve into a new you with what you learned!

[@willshad]

There is nothing to learn. 99.9% of the women will reject 99.9% of the men every time no matter what. Unless you are a rich celebrity your only chance is to go through tons of rejection to find a woman who will say yes. There is no 'Alpha male', or generalizations about what women will or won't find attractive.

[@DraconiInfernalus]

rich people(celebrities)are a*holes the same amount as "normal people" are. because of their huge ego they think they can buy everyone everytime. Did you ever pay someone to like you? Do you like chicks who are just want your money and are not slightly interested in you as a person? I think not...

[@LaFonteCheVi]

@@willshad Your comment is exactly why you are single. "or generalizations about what women will or won't find attractive." Unequivocally false. Studies and experience make it pretty damn clear what most women want and find attractive. And it isn't lots of money. Like he said in the beginning of the lecture, YOU are the problem. And instead of actually trying to solve the reasons why women don't like you, you whine and blame women. Which, makes you even more unattractive and gross. Stop being so pathetic. Your coveting of women is pretty sickening. Learn how to be a decent and valuable person and maybe women would like you more.

[@praetentious2925]

I took the message to be don’t worry about it.

[@nocensorship8092]

The message i got was that i should just hate women right away because then I'm spared the struggle

[@dickenballs3913]

This lecture fits me to a tee. I've started reading his book 12 rules for life.

[@petermullenberg1878]

this man is fantastic!

[@roc6596]

I love making a better future, I know that I'm sacrificing the present, but it doesn't feel like a sacrifice, the sense of moving forward towards a goal makes life meaningful and I become happy, and it's not like the sacrifice is pointless, because it pays off, everyday get the payback from the yesterday I sacrificed, and so it becomes something valuable

[@davidwade4291]

You have a well functioning brain and, hopefully, social network, Ro C. Make the most of them!

[@MrZZooh]

The opposite of making sacrifices now to get a good payoff is even more fascinating because if you don't make any effort now, you will have to make sacrifices in the future.

[@christophedallaporta8836]

True fact, if your not 100 percent dedicated to building your future, turning yourself into a machine life will have nothing nice to throw at you. Now if you're born moderate, the best thing you can hope for is to have little self awareness. Doing our very best is what we got to do. Layziness doesn't make happiness, only loneliness.

[@MrTmenzo]

You either cry now and laugh later or laugh now and cry later.

[@Irakproductions]

I literally will listen to any of his lectures doesn’t matter what it’s about. He’s just so charismatic and passionate about his teachings. I don’t always agree with everything but man is he right majority.

[@MasteryOrder]

If masculinity and mastery are things of interest to you, I invite you to use the resources on the Mastery Order Channel and challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood to become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

[@ozgott1415]

The last two minutes really helped me understand myself.

[@austinryan9382]

8:59 exactly what happened to me put into words

[@detroitMC313]

Gotta love, respect, and appreciate psychology.

[@saurabhpakrashi1290]

Man what he speaks is so deep,my friends don't listen to him and i can't articulate his ideas well,man i guess i have to ponder on his thoughts alone or maybe i can become more articulated

[@jeremyevans710]

0:45 "you know.. YOU KNOW??" 😂

[@R2d2..]

Humans in general like what they can’t have and don’t feel attracted to people who chaise them But I feel like a lot of people aren’t ready to admit that

[@youngOG87]

I feel like many people especially these days will be caught in this endless dating cycle forever.

[@Xneto1996]

8:58 Rule 10, from 12 rules for life

[@alexbrower2425]

I really am and feel blessed that Jordan Peterson is able to put feelings that the human being contends with and or is able to experience or to not not experience it's just truth on noones side other that fact and what you consider fact is up to you but this man has gone by science as we know without discrediting faith as well you are a true inspiration thank you and I'm so glad to have discovered your existence

[@jamessouza7065]

Yes! ..Peterson is absolutely correct! And it is also important to remember that Danny Glover starred in the 1985 Smash-Hit Summer Blockbuster..."The Color Purple".

[@jasonjackson3114]

His voice pans at least1.5 octaves here. He's in the zone.