The bully is the problem. Not the target. The reason this goes on and on is because instead of fixing the problem, we are expecting the injured people to always pick a new tool. At some point the bully needs to be the one who STOPS.
@cathichristian4142 Жыл бұрын
I agree. This is a form of victim blaming in this video. Compare this to sexual harassment which is a form of bullying. Harassers don't stop that easily if at all until the schools put a stop to it.
@maze96973 жыл бұрын
I always had to fight back. Always. By my own experience, I know that relying on authorities or playing nice with the bullies are useless. Learn to fight and fight back. Period.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Yep, bullies view peace as weakness, and weakness is just something else to bully you for, just kick their ass
@ladytosha152 жыл бұрын
@@logeyperogi1805 lol, sound about right but not always it just great more chaos. Silence is golden n on the way u will find more strategies
@haos4574 Жыл бұрын
@@logeyperogi1805 not viable, the reason those people are bullies is usually they are bigger and taller. Learning martial art won't help either, in front of absolute strength, techniques are irrelevent.
@jameslightningappleby Жыл бұрын
Bang on. Bullies don't want fights they want victims that won't fight back.
@geauxbreaux89835 жыл бұрын
my daughter got bullied today... she starting boxing classes when she gets home. fear will not be tolerated
@evielopez47764 жыл бұрын
Remaing calm with a bully. Haha who are you trying to protect, the bully! My daughter remained calm ignoring the bullies for nearly half the school year. She was attacked being held down while another attacked brutal. Her best friend was taken to the hospital. All during the school lunch period. Not a school problem? Well it happened in school. The verbal assults happen in school. So where's your namby pamby advice now? File a police report? Change schools? Teach her to be an ace boxer? All sixty pounds of her??
@costazurra3 жыл бұрын
Absolutley...... bulling is not going to be stoped by kidness I will repeat Conor Mcgregor quote ifnyou can aim for peace aim between the eyes Parents needs to check their kids and call for meeting with other parents and adress the bully
@vili12 жыл бұрын
I Hope she's doing better now❤️
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Dumb parents will take it up with the useless school board and the parents of the bully, they’ll try to make it stop peacefully Smart parents know, peace isn’t an option, time to train your kid for war
@korbaisblessed25622 жыл бұрын
@@logeyperogi1805 train for war but practice peace. Psychological warfare is a much better instruction and it's more fun. You train the fists to back up the brain. While I feel what yall are saying in society it is a life ruining event to haul off and just punch anyone you feel is bullying you. "OH my boss was mean so I taught him a lesson" unemployed
@j.v.c64654 жыл бұрын
Going through a night mare! Because of my little 11 year old being bullied since grade 3. At Brentwood Park elementary School in Burnaby B.C (Vancouver Canada.) Many kids are evil heartless! PARENTS: develope kindness and INTEGRITY in your children's heart.... To build a better world for everyone.
@user11mc3 жыл бұрын
My granddaughter was bullied for 3 years in tropical elementary in cocoa Florida. Disgusting people go to that school. Poor child
@stefneespringnursery79482 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree with u. My child is being bullied. What did u end up having to do for your child?
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Some parents just don’t know about it, you need to teach your kid how to fight and send them to kick their bullies’ asses
@muthaafrika61372 жыл бұрын
Kids people got a RIGHT to go to school work without getting bullied
@markushorner19914 жыл бұрын
Most of what he says is true. But even this doctor has not addressed the number one issue that helps your child to avoid becoming a target for bullies. True Self-Confidence is the number one way for your child to avoid becoming a target. Be forewarned though. There are two types of self-confidence. One will help to protect your child. The other will make him a target. One is based upon accomplishments. The other is based upon compliments. The first one is True self-confidence. The second one is false confidence. Self-confidence based upon compliments will almost assuredly make him a target.
@checktheskies5040 Жыл бұрын
My kids won't open up,cry a lot and one always want to play out one never does as Xbox live is rife. How do I start...do they even trust me?
@watchingthecrazyworld7761 Жыл бұрын
I like your point but I disagree that Josh is mostly correct. He seems more clueless than anything.
@rachelsoulsings61882 жыл бұрын
Bullies who are emotionally bullying another and stops getting a reaction then begins physically asulting them. Because they are bullies and get a buzz out of hurting another person because they are hurting! But I will use your advice and see how it goes
@andrewau19933 жыл бұрын
what if the bully is the teacher himself and the principal is behind him?
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Ok, I said in another comment that moving schools is cowardly, but no, in that instance moving schools is the smarter play, there’s no escape from that Or…you’re an adult…the teachers are adults…oh yeah If your kid beats up the kid bullies, who’s to say you can’t beat up the ADULT bullies It always comes back to violence, just move schools
@Feminazi1dc2 жыл бұрын
Police lmfao
@chloesubliminals2345 Жыл бұрын
I am so lost. He said to impower your kid, teach them to remain calm. dont react to the bully. He will then leave them alone and move on to someone else. why is it ok for him to move on to someone else. and they have to deal with that. some kids are just not strong enough to handle this.
@chuymg3582 жыл бұрын
This is why , bullies never stop , we fight fire with water , wind with a fence , my neighbors and ourselves had a baby the same month my daughter's grow up together , but they believe in time out , or they grow out of it , their daughter cursed at the mom all the time and more , she became my daughter's Bully I show my daughter that there's always limits , but to defend themselves , my daughter punch the neighbors daughter after years of trying to settle the situation my daughter got tired , , now we are bad parents for letting out daughter defend herself, and again bullies are victims , everything start at home , is not enough to call ourselves parents we have to be there to be one,
@aslamartnet3 жыл бұрын
Bullying IS a school problem. Schools have anti-bullying policies in place. A good school has a zero tolerance approach to bullying. I’ve worked in such schools. You deal with the bully and if they don’t stop bullying other children you expel them for a day, week, term, etc. In the U.K. we will expel bullies. The U.S. seems to have a more liberal approach to bullies. If bullies aren’t being dealt with I suggest parents remove their child from school until the problem is addressed. Allowing bullies to get away with their bullying only creates bullies that grow into adult bullies. Don’t put up with bullying, period.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
BOOOOOOO Let the kids fight You wanna know why bullying is a problem? It isn’t because the schools don’t have consequences for bullying, it’s because bullies don’t give a shit about the consequences, but if they realize they’re not gonna be able to bully a kid because that kid can fight back, the bully will most likely back off You may not like it but violence gets results without screwing over any one’s futures either (because if you’re expelling kids then they’re education gets screwed up and that’s not good for anyone)
@bryanwaters40602 жыл бұрын
Punishment makes the victim a bigger target. Than make the punishment bigger until the Bully finds out its not worth it anymore!
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
THAT DOESNT WORK EITHER YOU DUMBASS BULLIES MAKE IT WORSE BECAUSE THEY DONT CARE ABOUT CONSEQUENCES OR RULES, TEACH YOUR KID HOW TO FIGHT BEFORE THEY END UP DEAD BY THEIR HANDS OR THE BULLY’S
@nettlesana3 жыл бұрын
Who else is crying while listening to this? This will not be tolerated
@evoke29763 жыл бұрын
crying? over this? my god, Ana!
@stefneespringnursery79482 жыл бұрын
What did u do to help your child?
@sharkzgaming983 Жыл бұрын
Honest to goodness, my child has stayed quiet, calm and kind 100% of the time (because that's who he is) for the whole year in a class full of bullies. And they haven't stopped. Not once. He is the most resilient child but now he's getting depressed. He stands out as different and they never, ever stop pointing out the differences in the meanest ways possible.
@clarinetist18 Жыл бұрын
Oh, wow, that sounds very frustrating!! I've heard some where that changing teachers/classrooms or schools, if possible, can be one of the best solutions for that level of bullying. Hope everything gets better for your child. ❤
@DevilRoom3604 ай бұрын
My kid got bullied in school, he's a good kid that doesn't like trouble, I tried telling him to go to the principle to talk to him, I got a nod that it says "sure" but I know he wouldn't do that, and that people responsible for kids, they do nothing, I told him, to give a clear red line and make a stance, but you're right that would make these kids even angrier, I'll go to talk to the people responsible and I got a feeling it won't be the last time. I just want him to be able to defend him self in the future.
@theA731N3 жыл бұрын
Full disclaimer before you watch 7 minutes of this great video, it’s not going to work go to a different video. Doc is unrealistic. Being pushed over for being unresponsive is still bullying.
@someoneinmd31693 жыл бұрын
His approach is unrealistically optimistic. Bullies back during his time might've been easier to deal with, but with social media and the circumstances that kids are brought up in now, bullies are far more vicious. Bullies are not going to care if your kid has self confidence or not, they'll simply pick someone to vent their frustrations on just due to slight physical differences or if your child is one of the smallest in his/her class. As a parent, sure, teach your kid social skills and kindness, but at some point you need to step in and get the school to fix the problem, or get your kid to a different school. It sucks, but it's better than having your kid bullied for years and years. It will be years and years, because if the bully is in your kid's age group, they're going to stay in that age group for years to come.
@stefneespringnursery79482 жыл бұрын
What did u end up having to do to help your child?
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Or just teach your kid to fight My dad did that for me and I haven’t been bullied in years Before you try responding with something like “Violence is never the answer” I’m gonna tell you right now, I’d rather solve a problem through violence than run from it like a coward, yeah, I said it, attempting to peacefully resolve the situation is a fruitless effort and moving your kid to a different school is cowardly, teach your kid to fight, that bully will back the hell off
@vili12 жыл бұрын
What the hell is this? When you are dealing with a psychopathic kid, there is nothing to be done but violence or the threat of it usually works. The bullying stops only when the bully knows he Will be physically Hurt if he continues. Thats it. But, you really must be convinsing, psychopaths are very good at reading peoples weaknesses. You must be serious, very serious. And you must deliver. If protecting your Child means prison time, you must be ready. This is literally the situation. No pampering, no talking, action! Some childrens lives are permanently destroyed by these bullies. Do you want your Child hanging from a noose bacause of bullying or do you spent a year In prison for aggravated assault? Im not joking. This is serious.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Dude I considered suicide because of bullying when I was a kid, and it wasn’t until I beat the shit out of that bully that it finally ended So yeah, violence is the way to go
@tameshiar.thomas22545 жыл бұрын
But what if the authorities are NOT taking things seriously?? My son is being bullied daily! I’m extremely tired of it.
@alanmercieca30865 жыл бұрын
Go to the sheriff, they have more power.
@alanmercieca30865 жыл бұрын
there is always someone that you can go to, like the superintendent. The mayor. It is illegal for the authorities to not take things seriously, they are not doing their job at all.
@alanmercieca30865 жыл бұрын
Usually the best way to stop bullying is to, get the majority of the school on the bullied person's side, yet not in a way that bullies the bully, bullies are unusually sensitive people, if their feelings get hurt the more mean they get, sure they feel that they could torture someone else endlessly, yet if they are teased in the slightest, they loose their minds and act insane. I don't know your Son's situation, so not sure what might work best. Search youtube for "stand up against bullying alan", to see my playlist, many ways to stop bullying, and to prevent it in the videos. I am making some of my own videos for it. Prevention can stop most chances of bullying from happening, a lot of schools are not putting any real effort on prevention.
@marissahammond77202 жыл бұрын
Honey I’m going through it to the school has failed the cops don’t help I feel helpless
@jenessig42382 жыл бұрын
Same here too my girl always comes home tells me she get hit in the bus and the school principal was saying today something and she still was getting bullied from the other girl they are not action from the school only warnings and writing down nothing else so how u can stop a bully then ???My daughter starts to be scared going to the bus I don’t know what else I can do to help my 7 year old daughter to stop this other girl
@markrooney46554 жыл бұрын
What do I do when both law enforcement and teachers ignore the bullying?
@vili12 жыл бұрын
Violence. Thats it. If the bullying is so serious and nothing is done, you Must protect your Child! How can you look In the mirror if something happens to your Child and you didnt help?? Im just laying it out for you, im trying to help you. I know what it feels like as a parent. And I was a bully as a Child.. I did awful things to other kids. If I had a beat down then, I know I would have stopped
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Teach your kid how to fight and send your kid to KICK SOME ASS
@edaenahuerta45966 жыл бұрын
I went to the police my daughter was choked twice by the same little boy and threatened that he was going to kill her. They said unfortunately they are not able to do anything since the child is under 10 years old the school is informed I don’t feel comfortable sending my daughter to school because of this
@AGENTSAVAGE216 жыл бұрын
My son is 10 and being bullied at achool. We are having our first meeting tomorrow. If things do not improve I will be homeschooling him.
@alanmercieca30865 жыл бұрын
That is wrong, and it should be illegal, just because the boy is under 10 years old, that is BS.
@DYLANYOUSONOVABITCH5 жыл бұрын
I would beat the living shit out of the kids parents
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
I’m 3 years late, I don’t care Teach your daughter how to fight and let her loose That shouldn’t even be a question, the police can’t legally arrest a 10 year old, if it’s that bad then you need to let your daughter defend herself, quit suggesting this idea of peace, IT’S NOT GONNA HAPPEN TEACH HER HOW TO FIGHT BEFORE SHE ENDS UP HEADLESS BY THE TRAIN TRACKS
@yhernandez08315 жыл бұрын
What if you child has special needs? How am I going to keep him from being a target? Switch schools?
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
…that’s something I didn’t really think of when it comes to fighting If your kid has special needs…yeah you might be better off switching schools, if your kid doesn’t though, then teach them how to fight
@rickybosman61583 жыл бұрын
If you let you're fist do the talking,I guarantee you will never be bothered again.
@amylee89693 ай бұрын
Lol but you’ll be suspended while the bully plays the victim 🙄🤷🏽♀️. That’s happens. The victim become the villains when defending themselves
@ioncewaslost1762 Жыл бұрын
Yea this is unrealistically optimistic. When a kid is being bullied and keeps being told horrible things about themselves they start to believe it which leads to depression and sometimes self harm.
@frogirl7862 жыл бұрын
You should totally step in and handle bullying for your child.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
No, no you shouldn’t Teach your kid how to fight and make them solve the problem them self What’re you gonna do as a parent? Beat up the bully yourself? Have fun getting arrested for assaulting a child Teach your kid how to handle it themselves, you can’t protect your kid for their whole life, they need to be able to handle problems themselves or they’re screwed
@readmarx4203 жыл бұрын
My typical advice is to get violent with no warning. In my experience (I was severely bullied) a beat down works best. None of your advice would work in reality.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Yep, and anyone who says otherwise can have fun watching their child suffer
@nicholusbaker28302 жыл бұрын
Sorry but if my sons are ever bullied at school I will be there that day or the next and demand they do something about it. If the bullying continues I will pay the parents of the bully a visit.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Teach your sons how to fight, pay the parents a visit if they try to flip the script
@austinbradley3411 Жыл бұрын
Best thing for kids being bullied is to teach them self defense.
@watchingthecrazyworld7761 Жыл бұрын
You will never get an alert that your student is being bullied. The school will do everything to deny that. Josh then said "his friends" Up until high School often it will be girls who do the bullying. Also It is absolutely false that your kid has all the tools to handle the situation. He states that bullying is done to get an emotional response. This is simply not true in many cases. One example is that often a bully will bully to gain attention or credit from an audience or their friends, that has nothing to do with an emotional response. Another example is when bullying is done with the intention to make a video and post it on social media for attention, again that has nothing to do with a bullied persons emotional response. In fact in a way he is victim blaming by suggesting that a bully victim has all the tools to prevent bullying. If he or she is still being bullied, is it their fault? I understand what Josh is going for, however he is simply wrong. Bullying for kids most often occurs at school, therefore it becomes a school issue. There is very little that is positive in this video. Please look elsewhere for help with bullying, Josh seems out of date on today's bullying.
@vanessabayardo97884 жыл бұрын
Only reason I'm going to the baptism, amid covid, is to protect my nephew who will be taken there, as I already know a kid who has bullied him will be there. I will carry him the whole day if that is what it takes to protect him!
@stefneespringnursery79482 жыл бұрын
Hi. I'm a mother of a bullied child. What did u end up having to do to help your child?
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
@@stefneespringnursery7948 I’ll give you some simple advice as someone who used to be bullied (physically and emotionally) Teach your kid how to fight, whether that be boxing lessons or just at home practice I’m gonna tell you this simply, bullies view their victims as weak, because the victims are too scared to stop the bullies, and when the victim goes to an adult like a teacher or the police (please do not go to the police, they can’t really do anything that will protect your child), the bully will view that as weakness and the bullying will get worse It’s only when your kid teaches their bully a lesson that the bully will realize “Oh crap, this kid is serious, I better not mess with them” because nobody wants to mess with the kid who’s willing to fight Why would a predatory animal go for the weaker members of a herd? Because they’re easier to bring down, don’t let your kid be the weaker member of the herd And I know you might say that violence is never the answer, but I’m gonna ask you this plain and simple Would you rather have kids be afraid to hurt your child, or would you rather they continue doing so? And the school will go against you on this argument, but at that point just work around them, bullies don’t care about the rules, they don’t care about consequences and so the only way you’re gonna deal with them is by playing their game and winning
@solitatorres3682 Жыл бұрын
Now in days you have to stand up with your child, these kids don’t care and have weapons.
@chumpess2 жыл бұрын
Good advice, but not always possible when your child isn’t neurotypical.
@BIVESNUMBERONEFAN10 ай бұрын
And educational environments are to be safe for all💛
@1980THELBC5 жыл бұрын
Bulling isn’t always that simple to deal with, good advice an I understand it and how it can work. In my situation it’s different, unfortunately this advice only summed up police but when that fails what then? Wait for a death threat to be murder?
@yussufabukar323 жыл бұрын
Just get strong enough to combat the bully rather that be physically or mentally . When ever I’ve seen a bully get defeated I’ve never seen them go back to that person again
@theA731N3 жыл бұрын
@@yussufabukar32 stop giving advice
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
@@theA731N no, they gave good advice Bullies do what they do because they see their victims as weak, if their victims try to get help from others, that’s viewed as weakness, leading to worse bullying Fighting at the end of the day is the best option, beat the crap out of the bullies and make them afraid to mess with you If you try and tell me “Violence is never the answer” then I’m gonna tell you to get realistic and quit living in a peaceful fantasy world
@theA731N2 жыл бұрын
@@logeyperogi1805 and if the kid getting bullied gets his ass beat by the bully, that’ll show that bully right? A bullies prey comes from jealousy not necessarily the fact the kid is a weak easy target.
@stevemorse108 Жыл бұрын
It took me one year to fight back the guys who were bullying me when I was in a new school at age 15....I was insulted and goaded into fighting every day. I was new at this school and a whole gang would provoke me. I fought the gang leader finally and his palls intervened right away to make sure I didn't give him a beating. These guys never bullied me again and I thought that I should have fought back much earlier. Sadly one of the bullies committed suicide not long after leaving our school and the one I fought died young after attending a school reunion where he was confronted by several people he bullied. He denied any wrongdoing but we could see that he was ill at ease.I am not suggesting any Karmic retribution just saying that I think that both were not well balanced and certainly not happy.
@cloydxx2 жыл бұрын
It's not a black and white situation, while we think ignoring bullies and not giving them time that sadly only makes them bully more. I know shocking right but I was kind the whole time! Nah doesn't work like that but am going to tell you something Fight. Back. Excluded from school because you defended yourself? Good who cares, I know if I was a parent i would never punish my children for doing the right thing.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
THE ANSWER IS SO SIMPLE BUT NO ONE WANTS TO SEE IT BECAUSE ITS NOT A PEACEFUL APPROACH HUMANS ARE NOT PEACEFUL, WE JUST ARENT, ACCEPT IT AND HELP YOUR KID WHILE YOU CAN
@user-ox1ig1ht6q4 жыл бұрын
Not sure how your kid can be calm and kind 100% of the time or it won't work. Isn't this requiring a kid to be a saint, to be someone as spiritually mature as a person who has been reading the Bible for years, praying and experiencing the cross for years? And you may rehearse for ages, but when the situation comes and a bully says something unexpected, your kid fails and it starts over again as a vicious circle.
@stefneespringnursery79482 жыл бұрын
What did u end up doing to help your child?
@user-zl9cr8kc2s Жыл бұрын
This needs to be talked about at the "dinner table" before bullying happens too
@gabsandes50556 ай бұрын
my son is being bullied by a 6 ft tall kid my son is 10 years old and is ignored by all the adults at school they protect the bully instead
@jessicamillman44052 жыл бұрын
I dread to think how the suggestion to practice bullying with your child could get misconstrued.
@posey19822 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. It is the first I have been able to bring myself to partially watch since the insodents. My son is in first grade, so the teenager stuff is a bit beyond what he can handle. But it is something I need to learn about, so I can teach him. If you have any references for physical and psychological bullying of a disabled student, please share.
@muthaafrika61372 жыл бұрын
They bad send the bully away. They mad dogs that DONT belong in regular school
@marissahammond77202 жыл бұрын
What happens when nothi g is done and the school retaliates to the victim as I’m calling cps and it’s u founded and yet with all documentation police reports etc the child isn’t being helped and the school continues to ignore and doesn’t file DASA after several complaints up to the board and when a psychiatrist puts down that the school has not taken the right measures and they are not safe at school. And puts that the school hasn’t held any accountable bullies resulting in your child losing out on education
@brandyj.83216 жыл бұрын
where are examples /modeling for us parents? can you please act it out with us :-)
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Lemme act it out for you School: punishes bully Bully: Alright then, I’ll just keep bullying this kid but I’ll make it worse because I don’t care about rules or consequences You want a happy ending? Teach your kid how to fight already
@jennyd57282 жыл бұрын
@@logeyperogi1805 fight physically ?
@aliciaortego60042 жыл бұрын
Thaks for this helpful and insightful video. It has really great advice for parents.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
No, no it doesn’t Enroll your kid in boxing lessons and let them go beat up the bully, when the school calls you in to discuss a punishment for your kid because they will, tell the school off, let them know you’re not gonna punish your kid for sticking up for themselves If the school suspends your kid, take your kid for ice cream (or any treat really) I’m not trying to encourage you to make your kid a violent psycho out to kill bullies and rule the school through intimidation, I’m telling you that bullies don’t care about consequences, they don’t care about the rules, that’s partly why they’re bullying, so the best thing you can do is help your kid beat the bully at their own game
@padma16882 жыл бұрын
@@logeyperogi1805 if the bully is not physically violent, violence is not an option. The child may end up in juvenile center. So yes empower them for physical altercation, but violence is not an answer to emotional bullying.
@JHoneySanchez6 жыл бұрын
Great advise. I will try this. Thank you
@muthaafrika61372 жыл бұрын
Stop sending the child to skool
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
No, that’s a horrible idea, that’s encouraging your child to run away from the problem instead of confronting it Teach your kid how to fight and when the school inevitably brings it up with you, you explain the situation to the school really simply that you’re not gonna punish your kid for defending themselves and the school better not do it either
@carolzerucha7429 Жыл бұрын
“Ignore them and they will stop” is a huge LIE!!! Bullies *NEVER STOP*!!!!! The only way that bullying stop is to get out of the bullies’ environment, like go to a new school. My parents were in denial that my brother, sister, and I were being bullied at all. In their eyes (this was mostly Mom), they believed that we we’re so nice and sweet that there’s no way anyone could be bullying us. However, that’s the precise reason we were bullied-because we were nice and sweet! Dad would just tell us “kick them in the ass” without teaching us *how* to do it, so we failed to fight back effectively. The only way it stopped was to move to a new school, where the bullying dropped a lot. It’s Mom’s denial that still gets to me. I cried for hours and hours at the kitchen table about all of it. How could she not believe me? Were my tears liquid lies? Was I delusional? She didn’t believe me, and she only started getting a clue when a kid pulled a knife on my brother. That got us transferred to another school at last. Words are knives, but they are invisible, so I wasn’t really being hurt. What the heck was her disbelief and denial all about? Why was I not believed? It’s only when my parents were into their 60s that they understood, way too late.
@ricardoalmanza50882 жыл бұрын
To bad it doesn’t work , violence helped my kids out 2021
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
THERE IT IS, AN ACTUAL SMART PARENT
@mrMakeItHappenBaby3 жыл бұрын
my son is 7 years old he got pushed in the mud he came home and he was very angry when he comes home saying he hates me he dont love no more and just been very angry he getting picked on at school and th teachers tried kicking him out of school for sticking up for his self
@stefneespringnursery79482 жыл бұрын
What did u end up doing to help your child?
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhhhhhhhh yeah…schools care so much more about their reputation of teaching good students that they hardly care about the actual students That’s your fight, not the kid’s
@karenanderson94724 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! This is Genius and it works! Thank you!
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
THIS SHIT DOESNT FUCKING WORK, QUIT LYING
@chrissutton44262 жыл бұрын
See all that happens is the bully gets in trouble again do you think he really cares if the bullied kid tells no it's more ammo for him to come back from his early vacation and be that much meaner to that port kid I have seen it and not proud but have dun it
@yolandapierson52132 жыл бұрын
My son has learning disabilities and lack social skills. Do you think he can do this? I fear not.
@thatgirlswoosiec3672 жыл бұрын
I disagree.
@user-uz7fb9ki6r4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the good information
@brettpatetto6847 Жыл бұрын
They just give you some real advice that works and cut through the red tape here I'm a 70s 80s child you know side being spanked when I deserve it my dad always told me to defend myself bully picks on me then defend myself and kick their ass. unfortunately that's the only thing that works bullies only respond to violence and most bullies are weak so that's the only way they'll get respect from you and stop picking on you if you tattletale or you know do all that stuff it will just make a situation worse I don't know why the kids today aren't taught this maybe parents are weak I have no idea but these ways do work tell my kids the same thing even at 18 and 15 my kid was bullied when he was 10 years old he didn't go running off his teacher or to resolve issue just like the law sometimes you got to take a long to your own hands I told him to kick his ass stop being pushed around by this kid it worked so parents there's toughen up your kids a little okay they're spoiled enough for their phones and their gadgets and all this stuff make them a little stronger okay.
@sabrinamohammed18014 жыл бұрын
Hi Josh Great Video
@Pandagurl2182 жыл бұрын
So here is my question, my son who is on the ASD who recently had a student walk up to him and throw water right in his. To me, this was enough of an escalation to cause me to go to the authorities. The officer then told me this is a society problem, and my son has a better option to stand up to him by punching him in the face. So this the answer to bullying to become the bully… and that folks is exactly how the flame within Ethan crumbly and Adam Lanza was ignited. They are not ready to address the real issue in society though 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
I hate to break it to you, but yeah, because if your son goes to others for help instead of confronting the bully, it’s viewed as a sign of weakness I know this from personal experience, you teach your son how to fight and your son teaches that bully a lesson If you view that as “Becoming the bully” and say “Violence is never the answer” then my question to you is “Have you ever been in a fight before?” Violence isn’t fun, but it has been, and always will be necessary, you can’t avoid that truth, it’s better for your son to go beat the ever living crap out of that bully than for him to come to adults for help or try avoiding the bully, those are signs of weakness, and weakness leads to worse bullying It’s not becoming the bully it’s teaching a lesson, you only become the bully when you go overboard and continue even when the problems been resolved
@Pandagurl2182 жыл бұрын
@@logeyperogi1805 you’re absolutely correct. I have told my son to react accordingly, with that being said my child being on the spectrum has significantly reduced pain reception. Think children who bash their heads for stimulation. I’ve expressed to the school a fight between him and a neurotypical child will not be fair. There was the recent video of the guy who has been bullied but Didn’t comprehend whacking a person over the head with the chair was wrong, very slippery slope unfortunately.
@chumpess2 жыл бұрын
I have a daughter with ASD, and the bullies are other girls. She’s being verbally and emotionally bullied, even at home through the phone. Because of her difficulties in social situations, she doesn’t understand that these girls “love bomb” her, only to make her the butt of jokes and ridicule her in front of everyone. She’s suicidal, she’s picked the skin off her toes and fingers to the point of bleeding, and all she wants to do is go to school, learn, and be accepted. I saw a conversation today where one of the girls said “it’s not my fault I have to use tone indicators on your stupid ass because you’re too dumb to get it”. That particular girls mother even texted my daughter directly…which is completely inappropriate. When parents can’t work with other parents, and choose to involve themselves in the drama, it makes it near impossible to stop. The school can only do so much, and in the meantime I have to hide anything my daughter can use to hurt herself. I wish there was more understanding about kids in the spectrum. We know more now than we used to, but there’s still more work to be done.
@mil21445 жыл бұрын
Guys I need help... :/ my kid Elijah is getting bullied horrendously in his new school and idk what to do I’ve tried everything but the school dosen’t care :/ he’s getting picked on because he’s the new kid in school and on top of that his father abuses him and he’s got all these bruises and scars all over him from both school bullies and worst of all his dead beat father... :/
@pandascribbles72115 жыл бұрын
Millie K this exact same thing is happening in my sons school they almost make it like it’s his fault.. I don’t know how to help but I plan on putting him in some martial arts classes and run though every day what he can say in response to these bullies and who he can talk to
@pandascribbles72115 жыл бұрын
Your son really should get counseling immediately I am so sorry 😞
@mil21445 жыл бұрын
Omg thanks so much, I’ll try that but I mean there was an incident last year when he went summer camp for 3 weeks and he had to stay in a tent with his bullies from his previous school and it was really bad :/
@mil21445 жыл бұрын
Manda Panda he’s stood up to the bullies before but that ended up really really badly
@nm27955 жыл бұрын
Millie K I’m so sorry u and ur baby are going through this! My prayers are with y’all. I wish I knew what to say to help or give advice. I just want u to know I’ll be praying for you and truly hope u can get this to stop
@johnbyerlein66823 жыл бұрын
Also litigation against school district for tolerating bullying works well especially when it is tolerated against special needs students and people of color. Only $$$$$ pain makes change happen.
@stefneespringnursery79482 жыл бұрын
What do u mean litigation? What worked for u to help your child,?
@muthaafrika61372 жыл бұрын
It ain't their child they don't care
@JenessaAndKingston11 ай бұрын
This is horrible advice! You dont tell a kid to remain kind and calm 100 percent of the time when they are bullied. And basically telling them to ignore the bully. Thats what bullies like they want to feel powerful and feel that people are afraid or them which is exactly what they get when they know they can do and say anything to a kid and he wont do a thing about it . Don’t ever tell a kid to just ignore it do you know how invalidating that is?
@acn972 жыл бұрын
Rehearse what though? Specifics please ??
@johnbyerlein66823 жыл бұрын
You also need public policy to punish, isolate and confront bullies with painful consequences.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
CONSEQUENCES AND RULES DONT MATTER TO BULLIES, SERIOUSLY, WHEN WILL YOU GUYS GET THAT THROUGH YOUR HEADS IF THEY MATTERED TO BULLIES THEN THERE WOULDNT BE BULLIES TEACH YOUR KID TO FIGHT ALREADY
@leslieann9562 жыл бұрын
What about the teachers that bully kids what do you do about them
@betaferraz13 жыл бұрын
What are the basis for your saying? Is it scientifically based or just an opinion?
@muthaafrika61372 жыл бұрын
Ain't nobody dixon to 💋 no bullies azz
@petsforlife45813 жыл бұрын
I'm very sorry but my child was threatened with a scissors I teach Ed him always have witnesses or be near a camera on the school premessis. That way the bully can be cought red handed. Then you can openup up a legal case and other bullies will stop if they see they can get in trouble with police an other authorities
@petsforlife45813 жыл бұрын
Children that are bullies must be taught there are human rights annlaws that protect citizens and do they realy want toget involved with legal matters.Teatch your child to have witnesses and even beter if you can have camera footage
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
That’s a somewhat smart way to do it, but your kid can’t always be within view of a camera or witnesses What is so difficult to understand about teaching your kid how to fight?
@muthaafrika61372 жыл бұрын
They underpaid
@realhousewifeoftransylvania1.0 Жыл бұрын
Worst advice ever
@KimmieJ19202 жыл бұрын
Part 1 already done. But they won’t do anything because of course with mask mandates she can’t see these kids faces and they know no one is watching in the halls at school.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
TEACH YOUR KID HOW TO FIGHT
@daramebaziyan Жыл бұрын
💗💗💗💗
@johnpatmos44052 жыл бұрын
“Repent ye: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” -Matthew 3:2 KJV "He that hath the Son hath life; and he that hath not the Son of God hath not life." - 1 John 5:12 KJV "...Sirs, what must I do to be saved? And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house. "-Acts 16:30-31 KJV “He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.” -1 John 4:8 KJV “Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away.” -Matthew 24:35 KJV
@danielmartin89136 жыл бұрын
2 Comments: 1, a video on what the "scenarios" are, please. 2, you've got some dead air at the end of your video, looks like the editor forgot to cut it.
@Thestrappedgrunt5 жыл бұрын
Wow !!! This guy is advocating being a RAT !! I would be busting my sons head for snitching, that’s the lowest thing anyone can do. If your kid can’t grow a pair and handle it like a man, and go fist to cuff, the father has failed his child. Fighting is a very important skill to train, from birth to death. These limp wrist’ed snowflake is an embarrassment to men.
@batman65404 жыл бұрын
This is kind of true...very true
@heatherbennett43294 жыл бұрын
Neil, I'm just curious if that was how you were raised? Did your Father have the same mentality??
@markushorner19914 жыл бұрын
Mr. Schaler, you are an idiot. You are a typical parent who thinks that being bullied is a right of passage. You are the type that thinks that "Boys will be boys." This is the attitude that gets children hurt or even killed. Twelve-year-old kids do not have the capability to act like "A Man." It is so obvious that you yourself are a bully. You have some very serious issues that you need to deal with.
@logeyperogi18052 жыл бұрын
@@heatherbennett4329 trust me, as someone who was physically bullied on a daily basis, what he said is true, your kid needs to fight back, because curling up into a ball and begging for it to stop is just viewed as weak and pathetic, an even better target for worse bullying The way he phrased it sounded a bit like toxic masculinity but the message is simple; defend yourself, it’s your problem, your responsibility to deal with it