The Power Of No Contact | Now She Regrets Letting You Go & Wants You Back

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[@hacker576]

How do I book a consultation?

[@benvasquez6606]

If she disrespects once give her the benefit of the doubt but if she blatantly thinks your a clown??? You gotta show your the main character.

[@MrMan-fx3ow]

Type shit

[@KenjakuTV]

Type shit

[@Vision-dd8fl]

I learned the hard way. This chick I dated disrespected me once pretty seriously.. I walked away.. She pleaded for another chance. I gave her a chance, she only pulled that shyte on me again. Kicked her to the curb.

[@BeatsbyZay]

No contact does work. My ex didn't say she wanted me back directly, but she ended up telling me she missed me and she apologized for never appreciating what I did for her. I appreciated that and kept it moving. I was already dealing with a new chick so my feelings for my ex pretty much faded away.

[@clarkkentwearsglasses]

“If you’re destined for great things, why would you take back the girl who didn’t want you” 🏆

[@GJones247]

Being a man, your immediate goal is always to see her character before investment. This video came literally after a chick tried to pop back up. Bruh you on one.

[@Romiiot]

fr dudes in hs thought i was trippin when i told them i never had a girlfriend because i need atleast 7-8 months to understand that person(ofc imma hit but a relationship hell no... you can still barely know somebody after a year or 2) college was the same thing dudes getting in relationship after a month. im 23 rn and i been with multiple women and still only had one girfriend and we together rn(she told me after we got together she thought i wasnt into her cause i wouldnt do what the other dudes did)

[@swagdaddy1242]

@@Romiiot the vetting process needs to be on point bro and you’re right 7-8 months is not enough time to get to know a person

[@GJones247]

@@Romiiot smart move. Today's world is a lot different than when I was in college. Yalls women move way different.

[@kennyran1]

Bye .. charge her to the game

[@phildavies7738]

I've been in no contact now for just over 4 months. I've not heard a thing. That tells me everything. It was hard, but now I've levelled up. I've realised I've outgrown her. I've added so much value to myself and learnt so much about myself. Looking back, I am glad it went this way. Otherwise, I would have stayed a fool. I'm getting the attention of other women and even had a woman ask me out. But I've come to realise now that I'm worth more. So politely declined their offers. I'm gonna choose who I want in my life. Also, they need to add value to my life, as I will be adding it to there's. Good luck all. This is all sound advice. It's hard for months, but it gets easier. And I'm so proud I didn't contact her and break. I'm stronger than I thought I was. Result 😊

[@driftango]

Result 💪🏾

[@rogue_spirit]

Well done bro! Keep it up, stay strong and may Allah bless!

[@doubleJJ01]

I broke no contact 2 times but everytime i ask her about the relationship she is confused , she doesnt want me to go nor want to get back together, she told me she is not sure of what she wants , and when i stop texting her , it will be complete silence, now its been 12 days that she ignored me yet again , its hard cuz we studied in same university

[@driftango]

@@doubleJJ01 she wants attention. Don’t give in. Remember that attention is a woman’s currency

[@doubleJJ01]

@@driftango okay but how can u be sure that she wants attention

[@ryanxzry]

Funny thing is, she told me multiple times about how much she hated her ex and wanted to be with me instead and the next day told me I should “move on” and went back with her ex 😂. Women

[@marcosaruca5283]

When women are talking about another man means hes on her mind major red flag

[@233kosta]

If I'm gone, I'm gone. There's no taking her back.

[@jordanprice9285]

Word. There's no talking. You're done with. End of story.

[@DJSelphi]

Never enable bad behavior, if she wants a "break" let her have it and don't ever look back. If she wants back in she will be the one to reach out first and have to go above and beyond to earn that privilege.

[@OGTrollTroll8]

But still smash and pass (with protection). Don’t give her a relationship.

[@GabrielJamesMusic]

Never let em back. Don’t even smash. Let em go

[@Wartah20]

When you love yourself you don't need a woman to love you. The results of putting yourself first are priceless

[@FelipeEscobar86]

Being a sigma has kept me from a lot of relationships and headaches.

[@flameelorm]

Some of these chicks will go for about 3 to 4 weeks thinking by that time you might have healed of the hurt and wants to creep back. They text and call you as if nothing happened. Funny. Just stay Silent and indifferent. She will self destruct.

[@RG-br9ns]

Try 1 year Plus , and with “ Do you Remember me?” 😐

[@nathanialware1699]

Lol this literally happened 26 days to be exact talking about I miss you and are we still friends. Busted those cheecks 4 days later after the come back

[@LeeEverett1]

And she's getting clapped during that 3-4 weeks by other dudes

[@Thomas-yu7dh]

Man I’m so conflicted rn. It’s so hard for me to grasp that you could be otp with someone, go out with them, maybe even have sex, then the next day you get a “It’s not working out.” I understand why, another dude came into the picture, but that really is mind boggling just how fast things like that change. I cannot grasp it at all.

[@rubyTech]

It’s alright to be conflicted esp as a young man in the relationship market. Women usually internalize their true desires and plan better than most men, so when you get utmost love / attention then it’s abruptly followed by her ghosting you it means she has been contemplating and coming to that breakup long before the day she disappeared or ended things. They keep their eyes out for a “better deal” which usually isn’t but perception is a mofo. Keep your head up and don’t be too hard on yourself since many of us men have been through this

[@rugslash6680]

It's not hard to grasp, women today have unlimited options on their phones via insta/snap/tinder/hinge etc, the game has changed and women will never settle until they lose their leverage in the market

[@TheSnoozeFox]

Women have the mind of children

[@SwissvmillieYT]

another banger and your right don't go back to her if she dumped you level up and find a better chick

[@Dru2maBoii]

No contact is for her to get right or get lost...

[@whodat1967]

Months later, she's slowly trying to re-insert herself into my life. Too little too late, bc now i don't want her back. Thanks Josten for helping steer me right!

[@akou12]

How so? What happened

[@Gggjkkfddeetyiooolnhg]

Real talk. I just be watching these for the Tik toks at the start. Funny ash

[@24Ruiner]

It’s incredible to watch, how delusional the “dream man” girl is, especially. Like a train wreck , we can’t look away.

[@jaxandrews4840]

Another nuance tks to you Josten at 42 years old I'm still learning. Thumbs up fellas

[@bodywornbobby1146]

Mannnn, that part about denying their key card.... 😂 And yes I can confirm, NEVER argue with a girl and they absolutely hate the silent treatment.

[@benjaming.2218]

Eons ago before red pill culture, I went no contact with a woman that adored me. It took 6 months and guess who came back knocking on the door for some Netflix and chill??? Haha I said no thanks.

[@isaac2nice]

Great video. These girls stay coming back they couldn’t deal with me blocking. She over here telling my friend I should hit her up 😅😂

[@DelsynYanga]

The power of No contact series is back gang, keep dropping them No contact videos, man need to know this

[@manofyourdreams1259]

Video came the right time. I had my ex spin the block, never contacted her

[@TheSnoozeFox]

Was seeing my female flatmate at the start of the year, she decided to go to Ukraine for a month and when she got back flaked on me twice, after doing it multiple times before. Called her out on it and she flipped out saying she didn’t like my behaviour and needs some time. How can they be so evil and just drop you like that? I did so much for this girl and she just used me.

[@Vision-dd8fl]

She flaked on you multiple times before.. Your the fool and not her.. A self respecting man would have walked away the first moment she flaked on you. She doesn't respect you, because you don't respect you.

[@TheSnoozeFox]

@@Vision-dd8fl The thing is we slept together constantly AFTER she flaked on me so I was confused

[@TheSnoozeFox]

@RexJacobus-bb1vw I can now, she can be another mans headache

[@AcceBWCity]

@@TheSnoozeFox Sometimes a girl doesn’t have to respect you to sleep with you, she’ll just use you for the time being for whatever reason even if it’s for sex. Something was suppose to be done about her flaking the second time something boundary strong. Consistently calling her out isn’t enough after the first time because it becomes repetitive in sounds like nagging, and starts to seem feminine. Now it’s like she can do it and you’ll just complain and allow her back into your life easy. So after the first time it starts to make you look low value if you don’t for lack of a better word punish her not literally but make her earn her spot back to where she was not just come back in at the same spot but you’ve allowed it so many times she basically called your bluff.

[@joshuawalker4846]

Magnificent video Jay! The power of self confidence Focus on yourself and self improv and watch your life and goals sky rocket 🚀 Thank you Jay for the words of wisdom

[@kashifsaleem5498]

Brother your No Contact videos are very helpful. I just give No Contact to one of the lady and now she is trying to coming around me so bad. But I am hungry for grind not for her anymore.

[@greg1493]

I had a couple of lesbians hit on me at the hair cut place today. Not quite sure what to think about that! 🤣 Keep doing the good work!

[@skrabio]

Gentlemen. Never take trash out to the curb and then bring it back inside.

[@BIG.C141]

Josten my boy you always on time playa us men send ourz salute 🫡 🔥 💯

[@christianhcevallos]

You the man Josten, appreciate your videos 🙏

[@shadegambino7370]

S/O to you for giving all the real gentlemen in here sound advice bro. This is something that I for sure do until this day and you’re right, if they were really feeling you or realize the lost a real one they will definitely spin the block 💯

[@BoogieSmurf_]

Bro this video came right on time 💯🔥

[@Coleh90]

If she doesn’t seem to care then there’s someone else in her life she’s moving on with (/top of roster) 😭🔥 I’ll make sure I don’t return to her now and don’t get disrespected.

[@jossell911]

Great vid as always💯

[@ceddygwap2795]

A chick i like and fucced wit last year who played wit me popped back up last week talking about "I finally found you, you should call or text me sometime" which is cap cuz 5 months before that she added me as a friend on facebook and even sent me a back handed apology like a week after she stopped fuccin wit me to play the field... I didnt forget how she made me feel and how she was unapologetic bout her decesion so i dismissed her ass wit the quickness not bout to use me to boost yo ego

[@Dark0_Cl0ud]

😂😂😂 just found this channel. Handsome men unite 🤣

[@theboyinblavk4752]

2 years strong 💪🏾

[@pastcaring1]

So I blocked this girl and for a few days she was writing crap in some group chats were in it’s funny as she said she didn’t care 😂

[@flameelorm]

One thing to help you hold on with no Contact is to remind yourself about why you left in the first place.

[@kennethyoung4892]

Another great video

[@jsstapia4]

Facts bro

[@jaymaymer]

1. No contact 2. She comes back around 3. Tell her u just wanna be friends and then only contact her for favors (actual help with something not sex. Dont sex her) or when u need a female wingman.

[@Vision-dd8fl]

Dumb advice

[@jaymaymer]

@@Vision-dd8fl not it isnt. It's great advice. If u got something better share it already

[@godsbruh]

forever no contact

[@Viktor_Babyn]

Gold here😊

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

They really think this shit is cute.

[@doubleJJ01]

I broke no contact 2 times but everytime i ask her about the relationship she is confused , she doesnt want me to go nor want to get back together, she told me she is not sure of what she wants , and when i stop texting her , it will be complete silence, now its been 12 days that she ignored me yet again

[@MrMan-fx3ow]

Ex texted me after 1.5 months of NC to say happy birthday. What does that mean? She’s the one who basically broke things off so why even hit me up?

[@flameelorm]

She is telling you she misses you and regret loosing you. Play it cool and treat her like a normal chick and watch how she crawls back begging for your attention.

[@stellar_cartographer]

She’s fishing for clues

[@Vision-dd8fl]

​@@flameelormNonsense. She doesn't want him back, she is getting smashed by other dudes.. she only checking if this sucker is still invested in her. If she was really into him, she wouldn't have dumped him in the first place

[@LeeEverett1]

​@@Vision-dd8flShe could still miss him even while getting smashed by other dudes and realize that he was better than them. Personally I'd just give her a simple resonse "thanks", let her do the initiating, and try to smash and dash.

[@icecreambeats101]

0:03 I’m glad he left 😃 😊

[@thetalkinggrowthchannel9262]

Im 30 yrs old nd i got this chick i used to date in 4th grade just hit up last week tryna "catch up" lmaoo this shit wild as hell

[@Tayte25]

💯 Let’s Cook

[@sirmodd6199]

I had a chick like that… Thought grass was greener came back later smashed for two months for the freeski and she was buying all the food drinks etc…

[@kenonewarfield6949]

💯

[@OM-pu9yi]

what about if she comes back after 5 weeks? should I give her a chance?

[@OGTrollTroll8]

Take it slow. No emotional investment yet. Let her work for your time, attention and affection. She has to earn everything. Do not give it to her easily or quickly.

[@visionentertainment8006]

This👆🏾

[@OM-pu9yi]

but shoul I take her back yes or not? @@OGTrollTroll8

[@Preston_Taylor]

5 weeks? Give her a chance for what? She’s been getting split and using two hands with spit…don’t dare take her serious, that’s a no look pass

[@OM-pu9yi]

so should I still give her a chance?@@OGTrollTroll8

[@koollikedat]

💯💯💯

[@jcermeno1368]

🔥💯🔥

[@BENTAYGA2]

What’s your present relationship status

[@solomonpegues1909]

Facts

[@mikefranck0]

😎🔥😎🔥

[@scottraley5927]

When she does mess up Josten and we leveled up can you make a video how you deal with them if maybe you only want to smash HELP

[@Preston_Taylor]

You answered your own question. You smash and that’s that. And only tag her IF she’s doing what you want, never forget giving her your rod is ultimate validation for her

[@Maroboyy_2Ss]

HIMMM

[@JaYohanes]

Block her

[@itsathejoey]

Yea no contact doesn't work. I've tried it a few times and nothing.

[@MrMan-fx3ow]

Depends on what you’re expecting to happen I guess

[@flameelorm]

No Contact is not a strategy to get her back. It something to help you get over her. So if you do a no Contact with the expectation of getting her back, you got it wrong.

[@itsathejoey]

@@flameelorm Lol yes I get that. The getting over her part works, but the her wanting you back part doesn't.

[@alejandrouribe5426]

@@itsathejoeythen she’s not for you bro, take it as a blessing. Move on, elevate your life and you’ll find the right one soon. Meanwhile work on yourself and become a MAN of VALUE. Become the type of man that can attract the right woman, a woman of value.

[@stellar_cartographer]

@@itsathejoeyyeah, I feel like the wanting you part back is snake oil bc the whole point of no contact is getting back to you

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