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@aaronchai-hong133310 ай бұрын
Bro it's unbelievable how unacttractive these women become as soon as they start to speak!
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
This is a good thing! You can never say you were “blindsided” by a woman. Unless you think all women are not like that instead of thinking all women are capable of being this way.
@LJonny2210 ай бұрын
Dude I'm 68 years old. I am amazed at your wisdom at such a young age! You nailed it when you talked about don't lose a valuable long term friendship with your friend over a shallow short relationship with a woman. I managed to figure this out on my own and fix it.
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
Women are always pissed when you choose your family and friends over them. I’ve experienced this time and time again and all those women who tried to pull that crap are not around now but my loyal friends and family are still here till this day.
@adammitry601110 ай бұрын
Sure sign of an abuser.
@dengmayol280010 ай бұрын
Don’t let someone get comfortable with disrespecting you.
@yungdistroyer7mega10 ай бұрын
Had this women tell me i wasn't giving her enough attention and that she needs it. She then pushed for me to date her, I said no. Couple hours later she's talking to other guys in our workplace. I've distanced myself from her for about a week , now she constantly stares at me and position herself around me. I'll never speak to her again
@dan_453110 ай бұрын
King move
@TrojanIMO10 ай бұрын
I just walked away today, literally 3h ago. I’ve been getting spammed since
@jeffronoloyo168810 ай бұрын
I walked away from just under 3 yrs Best decision ever Never Gamble with your PEACE 💯
@darkleaves356010 ай бұрын
"it's weird if a guy don't have friends" translation :" I am terrified this man is comfortable being alone"
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
Funny part is women will move on to your best friend or friends or family members when you break up I take it as “it’s weird you have no future prospects for me to jump to” this is why I tell dudes you don’t need to have your woman around your friends.
@titoslounge194610 ай бұрын
This is cope. A man can feel comfortable being alone and still have friends.
@iBullyDemons5 ай бұрын
"Its weird that you want to meet my friends so bad"
@scottverge93810 ай бұрын
Self respect is absolutely key. It should be your number one priority. If she's disrespecting you and you tolerate it, you're not respecting yourself. And that will lead to her respect for you dropping even futher. I so wish I'd had some self respect when my marriage fell apart. Instead I chased her. And I'll likely regret that for the rest of my life.
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
It’s all about that forward progress brother! We learn from our mistakes and elevate 💪🏾
@scottverge93810 ай бұрын
@@theultimate577 That's a good point, I've absolutely learned my lesson about chasing an ex and really chasing any woman that's not showing overt signs of attraction.
@scottverge93810 ай бұрын
@@JostenJ Thanks for the inspirational videos man!
@edwardlouiscruz9 ай бұрын
Damn. I never want to be in your shoes. But there’s hope. Don’t give up! And most importantly, your story serves as a learning lesson for many of us. Your pain isn’t in vain!
@scottverge9389 ай бұрын
@edwardlouiscruz I'm recovering and building myself up, thankfully. And I totally share it as a warning to all the other men out there.
@bYz4rEel10 ай бұрын
Never let the disrespect from a woman fly when you stand on business and we are all gonna grind and make it!
@OGTrollTroll810 ай бұрын
I got hit with the "if you were a real man" line a couple of months of ago with one of my main chicks and instanlty I smiled and knew i made it out.😂💪
@oscardanielweeb10 ай бұрын
I faced emotional manipulation and she tried to get me to be in the friends zone after dating for two years and just walked away.
@briangarcia838410 ай бұрын
As cliche as it is to say this, it really is true how strong your intuition is. When something feels wrong, there's a chance something is wrong. If there's someone you're seeing and something feels off about them, don't ever ignore that shit because she's sweet or she's kind or you guys had an amazing time together. I was dating a girl for two years. Throughout that time, I ignored those red flags because it was my first relationship and I was naive. I always had hope that it was just a bad day for her and things would be change, but shit stayed the same. There was always something she got mad about or needed an explanation for. It got exhausting. Never again, bro. Trust your gut. You know yourself. Stay strong.
@chandlerarmstrong700310 ай бұрын
Going through it now, I’ll be 30 next month, she’s the first girl I dated and been in love with and the hardest pill to swallow is once you allow the disrespect to go on for so long it’s already too late.
@chandlerarmstrong700310 ай бұрын
“If you were a real man= If you were a simp” bro thank you so much. I love chess so I intuitively understand what you mean, this shit resonates with me. I knew all along once I started breaking the chains she couldn’t handle it. I’m very structured and I have to have things in a certain sequential order. Holy shit man thank you brother.
@DavidSaintloth10 ай бұрын
A point from an older gentleman, don't expect to get all these modes of self respecting behavior for Men right the first time. It's easy to backslide especially when the chick locks you in with some quick cheesecake before her bad behavior is revealed. I've had that drag out my walk away time just because i was enjoying the cakes... Still it ended up a long term negative that i could have avoided on the first hint of her bad behavior. Don't think you'll get it perfect the first time you see the red flag but keep stretching for perfection. ✊🏽
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
Thanks for tuning in
@edwardlouiscruz9 ай бұрын
Truth
@misterdyce2u10 ай бұрын
The frappe girl can kick rocks I don’t drink em all the time but I can still drink it. It’s coffee
@johnmivule-novabow814310 ай бұрын
Bruh the more i see these Tik Toks, the more i realise these girls be telling on themselves, lmao. "Say this to get his money" me: "ooh say less, ill keep that in mind, you ain't getting my money tho"
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
It’s a good thing brother we can never be finessed or played with when we understand that all women are capable of this.
@johnmivule-novabow814310 ай бұрын
@@JostenJ indeed, we take what we hear from them and Adapt. gotta stay COLD
@jahbrae10 ай бұрын
The first clip is literally explaining glorified pr*stitution. 😅 dating is kinda wild nowadays
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
I love it
@RipitSlipit10 ай бұрын
Hey good timing on this one bud, walked away from one today because she was giving unappreciative gold digger vibes. Im no simp and made it clear im not a sucker and just said bye - But the thing was i knew it after the first date and didnt trust my intuition. You said it best; first sign of games, turn around and leave. And that comes with knowing your self worth and not taking anything below your standards
@100JK10 ай бұрын
2024 going to be a good year, with all this high level game we all eating good this year 🤞🏿
@bane672410 ай бұрын
" Why are you so desperate to be with people who hate you?" - Starlight from The Boys
@kevinrock415910 ай бұрын
Damn right walking away.
@derrickulous10 ай бұрын
This man always picks the best TikTok examples😂
@Noir0rioN6 ай бұрын
FACTS
@Dru2maBoii10 ай бұрын
No woman can do anything to you that you don't allow....
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
Facts
@joshuawalker484610 ай бұрын
Immaculate video Jay! The power of walking away Such a power tool but not to many ppl take advantage of it smh. Thanks for the great wisdom brotha
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
I hope you’re doing good brother. Thanks for checking in and happy holidays 2024 is ours!
@dannyh929010 ай бұрын
Easily the best KZbin channel I've discovered this year. This dude don't miss 👊🏽
@zKsery10 ай бұрын
Nah I'll end the year to that! Literally found this guy at like .... 800 subscriber? He had like 6 videos and they spoke to me, 50k+ subs later here we are
@leonbatista76548 ай бұрын
My way or the highway 😂
@jaunitolee499910 ай бұрын
😂 a woman's game is all about to get you attached to them and you to go weak for them lol, don't give her attachment or any sort of commitment, let she work it. Let her tell you, "good morning, have a nice day, "love you", etc. And deal with other women too, your game as a man is to get her attach, act like you're all into her, like she is in control, and then pullback, that's what they do to us lol, so hit them with their own game. Don't expose your game to her, always let she expose her game, and trust me she will expose her game first lol.
@BaconPvP10110 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I’m not the only one who knows this
@4669Mikehines6 ай бұрын
That's facts. Been saying this
@truflyness9 ай бұрын
That first shawty was tweaking lmaoo
@qadashchaayah14410 ай бұрын
Excellent video. I definitely needed to hear this. Thank you. 👍🏿
@holland919910 ай бұрын
As a male I love when these Women tell us what to look 👀 and watch out for and how they do it 🤔🤣🤣🤣 we have Friends all sorts of Friends we just don’t tell you because your not part of the male Inner Circle ⭕️
@JasonHamilton-c6c9 ай бұрын
This guy is spot on, especially with the topic of entitlement, my late grandfather always told me how you start is how finish 6:33
@timidjawa63242 ай бұрын
I think guys should raise their standards to a point where if the girl they are seeing/dating thinks that sex is some kind of payment for your service/attention/assistance/investment, and not something that she herself should normally enjoy as it is, then to hell with that woman. Sex is an activity that both parties enjoy. If a woman doesn't enjoy it with you and just exchanges it for something else, then this is a woman to that isn't worth your time.
@Tayte2510 ай бұрын
Let’s Cook Boys 💪🏽 #HimGang
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
My brother 💪🏾
@henniebabi51898 ай бұрын
Walking away is having self respect
@201cag10 ай бұрын
Jay with another banger 🔥
@CraigMcfly19859 ай бұрын
That's the only choice: moving forward.
@etodillerx209510 ай бұрын
Him gang💪🏻
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
My brother 💪🏾
@kodachromefilms10 ай бұрын
Bruh you know where to find these quality ladies 0:00-4:17 👍🏾😂
@SankiKingOfficial10 ай бұрын
1st girl needed a therapist 5 years ago
@Studio-of1th9 ай бұрын
My ex had therapy from the age of 16. She was 38 when we broke up. She's still broken. Therapy is a red flag for me.
@emdm0001100010 ай бұрын
Omg, I got so angry with the gold digger at the start
@JostenJ10 ай бұрын
Why get angry? You should laugh
@emdm0001100010 ай бұрын
@@JostenJ You are truly authentic JJ! I guess I got upset because this month was the first time I encountered such a mindset from a girl in real life and hadn't realize that there really is this attitude out there. The girl that I am talking about was a tik toker with 50k subs, I guess that's why she was brainwashed. She spoke about "How should I be a man to a lady". If you care, I can send you the details of the story. Again, thank you for your content.
@yousefobaid91709 ай бұрын
Im going to get me a frap after this vid just to make a statement
@erogarojoedareno44549 ай бұрын
I will be respected & not accept delusional beliefs 💯💥
@robertcampos22947 ай бұрын
💯
@DuvalLB8 ай бұрын
I did all of these in my 20’s just straight disrespect
@dosemulero396310 ай бұрын
LET’S COOK!!! That first chick voice was annoying
@El28z6 ай бұрын
0:50 = III-0-4
@oddjobz985810 ай бұрын
That man with the vocal fry in the beginning is disgusting
@IvanBosnjak-j9e9 ай бұрын
2:35 is she driving while holding a phone ?
@oolivalpp24 күн бұрын
Bro she bleeds for 5 days every month and not even die... and you are shoked she can drive and film while driving.
@thetruthoutside842310 ай бұрын
Why does this thing, the so-called female in the beginning, talk like that?
@thetruthoutside842310 ай бұрын
Entitled for what? The thing is that the bring to this world is a creature who would suffer a lot of painand sufferingand DEATH. . I don't see the point here.
@BAsed_AFro10 ай бұрын
Islam can not possibly pave Western Civ over fast enough! 🍿
@jamilmcclelland83046 ай бұрын
they talk too much
@goodie124theskater79 ай бұрын
Hey brotha what’s your email there’s a situation I want you to talk about on your next video