5 Virgins vs 2 Secret Non-Virgins | Odd Man Out

[@jubilee]

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[@Sara-fn4zs]

the idea of the masks is not bad but having to pay 15$ for international shipping is very very high and inconsiderate from you. Seems like taking advantage of the situation and it’s very sad.

[@cpaps8500]

Instead it would much better to donate profits from your videos to good causes.

[@alyssajoyf]

I love the idea and the fact that you guys are trying to be considerate but isn’t it also important to inform people that face masks are recommended to only be worn if you have the virus or if you are around someone with the virus? A lot of people are wearing them just to wear them which is why there’s a shortage.

[@doesmynamematter1939]

Jubilee this isn’t an original idea by me but if you see PewDiePies vid you’ll know but you should do an odd man out we’re all of them are either all the moles or they are all telling the truth

[@cpaps8500]

@@jubilee can you confirm that you won't be profiting from this? Surely that would be unacceptable

[@cpl_]

This isn’t my own idea but we are all waiting for the “everyone’s a mole but they don’t know it” episode

[@biscuittano9974]

Yes

[@ThunderTK]

"Whoever the mole is step forward" *everyone steps forward*

[@DanielaGarcia-yc7dt]

BRUH THEYVE ALREADY SAID THEYRE GOING TO DO IT

[@JoWithTheFro1]

Cpl Xx but who would get the money??? Lmao

[@Not_it_is]

I think they have already done that in the psychic episode

[@rensmusicandartt]

It would be funny if one of the non virgins suddenly said “My daughter- oh wait...”

[@evanwilliams7739]

I mean, you can adopt kids....

[@chriswyatt9869]

@@evanwilliams7739 but tbh a lot of people who adopt are couples who can't conceive (so yeah probably have sex)

[@mafukun]

@Magical Gaming wat

[@kyattochan8812]

Magical Gaming 😂 fr

[@jaiahmed8907]

Adoption???

[@sloanecrisler]

These episodes are always like: “They didn’t talk so imma choose them.” “They talked too much so imma choose them.”

[@nvmuuu9903]

Ikr an fo the ppl dat voted da older girl r so judgmental jus bc she is older don mean dat she had sex

[@k.m8858]

nvm uuu Isn’t that the whole point of the game? For ppl to use their judgment and figure out the mole.

[@rizizum]

@@nvmuuu9903 It actually makes more sense, if you are older that means you had more experiences in life, one of those experiences could be sex

[@nvmuuu9903]

@@rizizum my sister is older than me and I have experimented more stuff than what she has

[@nvmuuu9903]

@@k.m8858 da whole point of da game is by using their knowledge to know who is da mole which is da liar

[@alliecasada578]

okay ivan is literally the most pure person ever. i wanna be besties with him

[@milasstudio409]

When Ivan began crying and began explaining his story of losing virginity because his girlfriend at the time forced him I got so sad for him. I’m proud of him for talking about it c:

[@sheesh1663]

:(

[@sheesh1663]

@G wtf

[@amykim1929]

@mochii HAHAHA

[@mamapika2194]

@mochii The Spider attacks again huh? 🔴👄🔴⛓️

[@kenma5965]

Spoiled😔

[@biacarreira3075]

Ivan is like the purest soul everrrr omg, I wish I could just hug him, so sad to see him crying at the end :(

[@natalie-bv1tv]

Ikr ;(

[@leiskecariaga]

Bro Ivan is too little to

[@javierperalta7648]

You like him cause he is tall lol

[@spidernymph8964]

I know 😞💔

[@alan8964]

Ummm pretty weird but ok....

[@MaanyaJ-x3j]

THEY SHOULD HAVE POSTED THE "everyone is a mole" EPISODE ON APRIL FOOLS AHH why.

[@celestialfoxx]

Missed opportunity

[@neramijic2440]

but like they can't film rn bc of the pandemic

[@MaanyaJ-x3j]

Black but that’s just for 1 small part of the whole episode, and hey, you never know, maybe they will

[@swarma_b33f]

nera mijic I heard that they already filmed it in late august. I don’t know if it’s true but I hope it’s coming soon.

[@maksenDK]

@Black lol. i have been thinking about the "everyone is a mole" every time i've seen these, but you are right :D that cant happen, unless they change the rules somehow :)

[@elizabethmccoy2749]

BEING SEXUALLY ASSAULTED OR COHERED DOESN'T COUNT AS SEX

[@s.n2269]

It is what it is.

[@emmanuelk.8215]

It does😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s n1gga got finessed

[@sophia.aquino.]

@@emmanuelk.8215 1. Why the hell did you use the laughing emoji? Being assaulted isn't funny unless your brain is fucked up or something. 2. As I saw in another comment, there wasnt consent. Virginity doesn't really have a solid definition. If he considered being raped as his first time then that's his choice, but if he wanted to wait for the opportunity to give consent and call that his first time, he could. The comment i was referring to earlier said that rape isn't sex, and i agree with that.

[@itsyaboiguus7308]

@@sophia.aquino. bet your funny at parties

[@kidlisaxx9627]

@@itsyaboiguus7308 and I bet your not , nothing about that comment was funny and you finding it so is sad .

[@mzzttn8293]

I’m so glad Kia was there. We’re in the same boat it’s not always about religion or some sort of chastity thing. It can be purely about how you feel and want you want to do

[@kiarahodgson7606]

Mzzttn it can also be religious as well as about how you feel and what you want to do just btw :) just cause it’s religious doesn’t mean you don’t want to do it

[@mzzttn8293]

kiara hodgson yes I know I’m religious lol I’m saying it’s nice when it’s not for that reason solely

[@LauraLaura-mv4xh]

@@kiarahodgson7606 yeah but I feel like people that haven't had sex yet just bc they haven't felt like it yet gets less representation than being a virgin for religious reasons.

[@mzzttn8293]

Laura Laura also people will most likely respect when you say it’s for religious reasons like as if when it’s not, something must be wrong with you

[@ehenry890]

It upsets me that I can’t go back in time and undue losing my virginity. My parents tend to frequently bash me about it. I like the way you think and I’m glad to know theirs people like you and Kia out there.

[@m.0666]

That girl Kia was really respectful and well-spoken, we need more people like her.

[@nick-kd2yx]

Marijana at times she was but some of the stuff she said was also really ignorant

[@jana-dy5et]

@@nick-kd2yx for example?

[@simbozo8918]

@@jana-dy5et yeah for example is right

[@mimi-bo1iy]

nick how?

[@nick-kd2yx]

Melody Moshi I just don’t agree with what she said about it. I think that there are a lot of stigmas shes generalizing to the porn industry and relationships in general like relationships just being dramatic

[@rubyzheng1908]

Ivan sounded really hurt because he was coerced. I just wanna give him a hug

[@JackInakiGago]

That's what I call rape.

[@aronsimpson3444]

I've been where he was it does hurt really bad the girl who I lost it to kind of convinced me that it would be okay because we loved each other I was very uneasy when she broke up with me it hit harder than any break up ever has

[@toomanyopinions8353]

Yeah. A lot of people don’t consider rape losing your virginity so again I guess that becomes subjective whether he’s a virgin.

[@anthonybonneau2267]

I think he is a she lol

[@bandanasingh6034]

@@anthonybonneau2267 what do you mean

[@XbirthdayXmassacreX]

I feel like when someone is sexually assaulted for their first time, they should still be considered a virgin. they didn't choose that situation, their choice should have been honoured. they didn't have sex, they were taken advantage of :(

[@oswald0_]

You got a brain

[@indeedConfirmed]

You can’t take advantage of another human that isn’t a child.

[@fbibarbie]

they were forced or manipulated to having sex they still had sex though.

[@springlocks9067]

@@indeedConfirmed That has got to be the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard, of course you can

[@sana.4.a]

@@indeedConfirmed you can if you force and drug them-

[@itsnancyc7807]

Poor Ivan he looks like he's been though a lot. I'm so sorry he was forced into having it when he didn't want to.

[@grunt117]

Yeah it sucks, but why are you sorry?

[@mrniz461]

Cole Clapperton 🤣

[@lovepuppy4627]

@@grunt117 because forcing someone to have sex with you has r*pe characteristics (even willingly because that'd be manipulation which is wrong). which is why we feel sorry for him because that wasn't a good thing to happen to him.

[@oh.honeyboy3418]

Itsnancyc is that called rape?..(serious question)

[@missidc8254]

Roman Avila Its called being able to empathize

[@dami9461]

6 deaf people, 1 secret hearing person

[@kikolopita2965]

That's a good one

[@ashmaz4811]

One could just spontaneously clap, and who reascts is found out

[@jasaih7220]

@@ashmaz4811 good point

[@s.a.8548]

@@navya4368 I always thought mute people were fictional lol I mean completely mute but has nothing physically wrong

[@jordangentile7450]

Yesss

[@poppypeppers]

"I voted for Lea because she was the oldest" Come on girl 23 and 24 are only one year apart, it's not like she was 10 years older than the rest.

[@tanyakrotowa]

PoppyPopsUp facts

[@mathieul4303]

She looks old and had colored hairs

[@zkxangel]

@@mathieul4303 BRUH MY SISTER HAS COLORED HAIR AND SHES 18 SO WHAT???

[@mayah4468]

also the one that said she gave no reason like girl she just told yall she was demisexual

[@dudemanbroguy5747]

Demisexual is a made up sexuality

[@bijanae]

As a virgin, I was 100% agreeing with everything Kia was saying and her reasons for not losing her virginity.

[@serialkillersweet1564]

When josh dropped to the floor like he’s been rapidly sucked into a black hole I died.😫 But then when Ivan started speaking on his experience my heart broke and you can tell he’s holding the tears back and the pain is lodged in the middle of his throat.

[@laniluv2261]

Ivan’s a girl?

[@serialkillersweet1564]

Lani Luv No? Not to my knowledge they used he/him pronouns so I believe he is a boy?

[@brendanc6694]

Sucks to go through pain and all but it would help him if he sees a psychiatrist. It’s not normal to not be sexually attracted to the opposite sex.

[@sideleanyang542]

@@brendanc6694 So you're on of those people ... 😒🙄🙄

[@oliviajones1837]

@@brendanc6694 You have the rights to your own opionion but you should keep it to yourself and not mention it in the comments. Let's please be respectful of everyone's feelings.

[@tylerbuckley128]

I can tell by Ivan’s positive attitude during this whole thing that he is an amazing person. I truly hope he finds the person he’s looking for

[@eevee128_5]

TBuckets Gaming I want to hug him

[@banbanbani]

Hello! Thank you so much! I hope you also find someone that loves you for who you are~

[@aprilramos6512]

I cried towards the end

[@ivanaa5298]

Ivan Joe 🥺

[@aprilramos6512]

Ivan Joe I cried at the end when you talked about you’re experience.

[@vivirahmawati3708]

Is no one going to talk about what Jazlyn said about “giving instead of losing”? That hit me hard.

[@localloner2965]

Ikkk

[@gorjessica]

I LIKE HER MINDSET

[@blubaylon]

"That hit me hard" imo it's just "deep" and just meaningless tbh

[@localloner2965]

@@blubaylon sure buddy

[@hollowvoidz3472]

Gamerren fr it’s not that deep lmao

[@cassieholmes5722]

Poor ivan he was trying not to cry...

[@secretwildlife5504]

When Ivan explained how he "lost" his first kiss, a redflag was immediately raised for me. I thought "if he lost it, then someone had to have taken it" and that already broke my heart to have assumed that, his timidness when speaking of the topic made me even more sad. After i heard his story I cried. I hope he is doing a lot better now and people can respect him for who he is and what he wants.

[@blizzykitty354]

I just realized that with your comment. I agreed with everyone else in the video at first, and I thought that the way he described his first kiss was strange, but it all makes sense. I think that what Jazlyn said about giving away your virginity it important, and you shouldn't go into anything with the mindset that someone is 'taking' it from you. I truly feel sorry for Ivan and I hope he's on the road to a healthier mental state.

[@MelodicMinnie]

its at that point i realized he did LOSE his first kiss not have his first kiss. and he also LOST his virginity instead of give it. he lost it to someone who didnt deserve it and it made me so sad

[@jiannypeacenlove]

Did I just fine my own cousin in the comments💀😔👋🏼

[@theintrovertedlife7029]

damn me and one girl was forced by a teacher to kiss on the lips as punishment...dark times ma...I was 9-10 yo...that was my 1st kiss

[@secretwildlife5504]

@@theintrovertedlife7029 Hey, I hate that such a thing happened to you and that other girl, and I hope that you are doing a lot better. No one deserves to have anything taken from them, especially when it comes to their body. You're strong, and however that event affected you, i hope that you are pushing through it!

[@EmilyClaireDaly]

This video was like growing up at a Christian high school. Edit: I loved my school, but sex education was non existent and it led me into some really tough situations... maybe I’ll open up about it on *my own KZbin channel*, because it has been a struggle and I’ve learn a lot! Now I feel empowered to make the right, healthy decisions (for me right now that looks like abstaining until I find someone I really love). Who else can relate?!

[@wickededogirl]

Idk prolly don't watch if you don't want to? I wouldn't think it's compulsory

[@turtletail313]

@@wickededogirl I think they meant the concept of this video reminded them of being in a christian high school, because a lot of people had to hide the fact that they weren't virgins. They're not insulting the video.

[@tobyhunt1106]

@@wickededogirl they couldn't have known what it would be like before watching it like clearly they'd already watched it at the point of commenting

[@sneakerhead6625]

fr the kids from christian schools are always the dirtiest and most experienced but we all have to hide it 😂

[@DaDualityofMan]

As someone who went to Catholic school, I think the repression only makes you more sexual lol

[@cierrathompson553]

I love Kia’s perspective and how she kind of breaks the stereotypes of just being a virgin because they are religious

[@lolitslea]

Yes! I’m not religious either and glad she could share from that perspective cause I got booted hahahah

[@saranemeth6958]

I could relate so much, although I now have a boyfriend and have done it since, but her reasoning was and still is very similar to mine! I was 20 at the time and waiting for true love and a partner I completely trust was the best decision. I don't have any regrets, the wait was worth it, and I encourage everyone to wait for the right time no matter their age!

[@nothankyou4432]

Samee!!

[@uncleiroh4650]

I mean, there isnt really a stereotype about all virgins being virgins anymore (at least for guys). Its mainly about dude’s not having game, lol

[@Jules999M]

Ikr!!

[@Ale-is1dk]

This is the second video I´ve seen Ivan in and my poor baby deserves all the love in the world!

[@Songsthesecond]

what’s the other video?

[@Ale-is1dk]

@@Songsthesecond do all asexuals think the same

[@moecho3909]

I feel so bad for Ivan in the end I hope he finds his peace and person soon🥺🥺🥺

[@banbanbani]

Hi Moe!! This is Ivan! Thank you so much for your kind thoughts.

[@janeying5955]

Ivan Joe subscribing to your channel!!!

[@shivanireddy6514]

@@banbanbani I feel you because I have been through the same thing. :(

[@wearethefanzz]

@@banbanbani Ivan!! Hoping the best for you

[@PlasmaVii]

​@@banbanbani Thanks for your openness. Feel being hugged!

[@Anubis_YT]

12:59 Everyone else : small gesture of happiness Josh : *_gets shot in the knees_*

[@milobrown2403]

Caylum Butler that’s not Ricky lol

[@Anubis_YT]

Milo Brown I had a feeling but I was too lazy to go back to the start to check lmao

[@artie9940]

I used to be a non adventurer like you, but then I took an arrow to the knee

[@유유유유융-n7d]

Caylum Butler LOL I keep rewatching that part, even the sound matched his fall 😂

[@jessicakendall3208]

Caylum Butler AHHH

[@GAMA-ck5tl]

Them: "virgins doesn't have certain traits and aren't special/different" Also them: "I just got these vibes from him that he had sex before"

[@Sid-ge9vb]

@WasabiLover not really , i felt much more confident in myself after i had sex , no trauma

[@sholos4478]

@@Sid-ge9vb or you're just insecure and you use sex as way not be.

[@drsquishybelly806]

GA MA grammar

[@horizonfan]

Covid-19 enters chat. Jubilee free real-estate to sell mask (oh wait let’s say we giving some away so we won’t look like a ass)

[@ken-yo2hz]

sholos damn you’re projecting it

[@allyyaykob9371]

7:36 this was a really brave thing for him to confess to strangers, many Christians struggle with this and it’s completely normal because we are all humans.

[@whitneyhoustonstan2472]

It’s easier to confess things to strangers IMO because I don’t care what they think. If I’m confessing to someone I know or love, their judgement matters to me.

[@shawerful5209]

Stage 1: Thats disturbing Stage 2: *unzip pants*

[@justawaffle6855]

Saying it’s normal is an excuse for being weakly minded and giving into lust

[@ramtigerfalcon8387]

​@@shawerful5209oh sheesh this made me laughed to hard.😂😂

[@millennialsensei7491]

They could of easily edited the part out when he tripped. Jubilee, why’d you play my guy Ivan like that 😂😂😂😭

[@grunt117]

Entitled Millennials for views

[@synohm7448]

Roman Avila Its more like for content because views is what people attracted to like thumbnail or The titles

[@ceii9268]

It adds spice

[@peachxtaehyung]

Where? I didnt even notice it

[@jessi3434]

Miranda Stephens 5:05

[@kenmahyu]

omg i feel so bad for ivan, hes one of those people who trip and hurt themselves but get back up and start joking about it D:

[@andreaespinoza7536]

me af

[@kenmahyu]

@@andreaespinoza7536 respect

[@britainman2395]

I put you up to 1k👍

[@huesername7476]

A lot of people around me, young or old, are like this. The people who joke the most tend to have gone through a lot. Not the healthiest thing to do. If I heard correctly, he's Filipino, right? Yep, a lot of Filipinos are like that here. Even a lot of comedians, the most popular here make fun of themselves.

[@shaunadelaney8119]

Huesername so they make self deprecating jokes, Shane Dawson tends to do that a l0oot

[@victoriak1866]

When Ivan started crying I felt that...sex is more than just a physical action, I wish people knew that.

[@nkemani8372]

Victoria K I felt bad for Ivan too. However sex for some people really is just physical and that’s okay too.

[@Aaakeith]

Nkem Ani Couldn’t have said it better ☺️

[@Im.me.hi.]

Nkem Ani i think it’s more than just physical. If it was just physical than it would be ok to cheat on partners and they wouldn’t be hurt.

[@uncleiroh4650]

Meh, depends on the person. Tons of people have sex and could care less about seeing that person ever again, lol. And just because hormones are released doesn’t mean you will forever be connected with a one night stand, lol. Yall watched one to many rom coms if you think that’s how majority of sex plays out

[@greyphantom100]

It all depends on how you view it personally and how emotionally mature you are. Sex can be just a physical action, or a set of physical actions

[@julietabado7640]

They took Lea out because she was the oldest or because no one knew what demisexual meant Lol

[@purewyd]

They voted her out cause she could’ve said “I’m a straight virgin waiting for my soulmate” but didn’t. Tf is demisexual mxw

[@hernandez1219]

@@purewyd People be coming up with the most random things

[@roxanne6245]

@@hernandez1219 demisexual is an actual thing, it’s like people are almost asexual unless they feel a strong connection with someone

[@hydnmc4321]

@@hernandez1219 fr

[@orphanrafferty1955]

Lolol

[@SulaimanNoorAhmad]

Do “6 sober people vs 1 high person” lol

[@Amghannam]

lol, I should go there. I always look high, even when I'm not. Actually no, I'll be voted out and lose :(

[@younes6532]

The opposite would be so much funnier

[@darkmind4881]

Sober guy will win because he's playing his card without getting noticed

[@quirkyquinn6687]

6 high people vs 1 sober person

[@Arma_Dei]

How about 6 high people, 1 drunk.

[@franklinajoe4862]

I’m so sad that guy was forced and I really hope he finds that person that makes him happy cause he seem like a really good guy

[@ismahanali952]

Franklina Joe yeahhh he made me so sad but he seemed so goodddd😭😭

[@amandas4783]

I was about to cry when he talked about it 😂😭 he looks so cute and innocent 😊

[@InChristWeTrust999]

He wasn’t forced he was manipulated. Completely different

[@Marina_7]

When Kia was so open about not having kissed anyone I was so happy, and everything she said about wanting to have sex and everything with someone you're comfortable with, as long as focusing on your studies first was so relatable. She was so nice and respectful too, I would love to be friends with her.

[@mayasanchez4014]

I feel like what she said is just the typical excuse for ppl who just don’t have luck in dating, that was always what the people I knew said in that case but who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@capp12249]

@@mayasanchez4014 Kind of sounds judgmental to say it's an "excuse". You don't need an excuse to be a virgin; there's nothing shameful about it. Yeah, she's waiting for a solid relationship and just hasn't met the right person yet. I'd say she has a pretty good head on her shoulders.

[@jackystar5099]

@@mayasanchez4014 yea no. Even if I was in a relationship I wouldn't have sex with someone until I fully trusted them. Not only with the sex aspect but the whole STI stuff and so on. But my situation is a bit different since I'm just not interested in dating and have my whole head into my studies. Sex is temporary but education lasts a lifetime. I've seen my friends go through dating and I don't need that drama at this point in my life. If I really wanted to have sex I'd honestly just hook up with someone.

[@elenisidiropoulou7475]

@@mayasanchez4014 Well, i don't think it is right to call it an "excuse". Some people have either different priorities in their lifes or they just haven't met the right person yet.

[@TheLifeWaster]

Her whole take on pornography was downright retarded though rofl

[@dylanfinch2951]

Ivan really fucked up when he said he "lost his first kiss" the blonde girl threw me off until she started getting really defensive

[@emi62507]

I feel like they should have probed him further on why he used “lost” his first kiss. I’ve never heard anyone use that with in relation to kissing before.

[@maloumasereel966]

I agree on the blonde girl (Rachel?), I was like... there’s no metal in gold rings but there is metal in craft store earrings 😅

[@blueshift231]

@@maloumasereel966 umm idk if u know this but gold is metal and she said she made her own earing and she "knows what's In them" so that means it's not from a craft store

[@maloumasereel966]

@@blueshift231 oops you’re right lol

[@hipopotamodata9932]

@@emi62507 true

[@brianitamargarita]

YOU CAN LITERALLY HEAR IVANS HEARTBEAT WHEN HES EXPLAINING WHAT HAPPENED TO HIM ): HES SUCH A BABY POBRECITO

[@s.a.8548]

Ughhhh that's literally my worst nightmare

[@bluebird8034]

@Anya Shah teared?

[@connorhorton3432]

They said ivan didn’t say enough when he explained a whole relationship

[@aryanjain7739]

Connor Horton cause he’s Asian

[@katewilkinson3640]

Aryan Jain what lmao

[@AKANII11]

@@aryanjain7739 wth

[@333-v3z]

Aryan Jain what does his race have to do with anything

[@natem1579]

@@aryanjain7739 nah, that Freudian slip was really damning

[@veroniqueclemesha122]

Ivan, if you read the comments, never repress your feelings or what you feel is right or wrong for you. Your ex did something very wrong and broke the trust between the two of you. You will find a person who will accept you for who you are ❤️

[@michelle6446]

This is wholesome

[@raymohntjong9119]

sorry if i post this comments alot in other comments, i just want to see people's opinion 🙏 Is it okay or NORMAL to bring people down when they're not virgin? Wether bcs they willing to do it or bcs of they have to, they need to pay school tuition, etc? Bcs that's what my friends do, they said non-virgin girls are not pure and not special meanwhile they're joking about sex and pleasures.. I'm kinda stressed and depressed after that, what should i do?

[@michelle6446]

@@raymohntjong9119 I didn't completely get what you're trying to say, but from what i understood, you're asking whether it's ok to bring people down if they're non virgins. And the answer is no. Virginity has nothing to do with purity. You're friends are weird af. Sex is just a physical act that gives pleasure and allows reproduction if you're willing. You can not be judged by it.

[@raymohntjong9119]

@@michelle6446 sorry for my broken english, but thankyou so much for answering. I think imma find new friendship circle after this

[@emersynweber4756]

i feel terrible for ivan, i completely understand everything he has went through because it explains alot of what i’ve been through too. i’m somewhere on the ace spectrum as well. heartbreaking he thinks that he lost his virginity like that. that event shouldn’t count to him :(

[@null8104]

Real talk though, there shouldn't be such a stigma around being a virgin. Everyone should feel free to do what they want without shame! It's honestly not anyone else's business.

[@yabeast1239]

no

[@swagcreated9147]

Datsizer you and the other person are the people she’s talking about lol

[@thelifeofro5946]

This comment right here!!!

[@Gulag00]

The stigma is if you a male virgin then you got no game. Kinda mean, im a male virgin but I want to get laid and can’t really cause I can’t connect with females very well.

[@frederikfalck7504]

Ight take it easy there buckaroo🤠

[@gerrysstruffle3535]

Box: turns green Dude in the middle: dies

[@Gaytorade7]

He really is a virgin huh

[@Hikarahime]

Gerry’s Struffle When you’re broke, any amount of money is life changing 😂 -a college student

[@spencergrubb5153]

13:00 Pull the lever, Kronk

[@Psychol-Snooper]

I thought that was one of the cutest most genuine things I've ever seen! And the fact that he said it was the most money he'd ever held made it more adorable. XD

[@Yaguilar1942]

Ikr

[@Baconmutt]

When this pandemic is over, someone please give Ivan a hug.

[@Briisneat]

John Brown periodt

[@tvbnine793]

Fuck social distancing I'd hug him rn

[@angelaalfonso4815]

He seemed so sweet

[@lynnettesanchez628]

Why

[@nathaliesanchez2060]

He almost made me cry. Who did that to him should die

[@checkmattee222]

I was shock when they mentioned their ages cause they all look like they're in their late 20s.

[@ninezerotwo1778]

They grow up so fast.

[@jackmurphy2565]

"I'm a virgin because of religion" "I'm a virgin because of sexuality" Me: "huh, so I really am the ugliest in the world"

[@PixelYouTube]

Im sure you arent!! But what a mood lol

[@cqrson8079]

why did you add the "me: blah blah blah" part?

[@jackmurphy2565]

@@cqrson8079 Why did Stephen Hawking die 1 year before he would've seen a black hole?

[@cqrson8079]

@@jackmurphy2565 because of natural causes due to being born with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis. what does that have to do with anything?

[@itsfinnickbitch63]

damn bro same here

[@marianachava]

Aww, Ivan's speech at the end low key broke my heart as he shouldn't have felt pressured to do something he wasn't comfortable with 😭 Hopefully he finds a good person that will accept him for who he is and won't pressure him like his previous partner 😭🙏

[@nestlawatr5643]

Mari-Chan omg

[@outgrown3094]

Mari-Chan if he was a girl that wud of been rape

[@justawildgengar]

Kingo Ninja no he’s saying if a girl said that they were kinda forced into it then everyone would be saying it was rape even though she had agreed

[@ZarryTheeGreat]

@@kingoninja2881 I don't think it was regret. He said he was pressured. Coercion is a form of rape...

[@laylagabrielleee]

Yesss that’s what I mean by boys can be raped too bro

[@voynich7119]

I really like Kia. She was so respectful on having a different opinion than the others. I'm totally on her side with the "abstinence is not gonna save the problem" statement, but I think it's a really good trait to be able to respectfully disagree with someone.

[@Poppy-tc7so]

Yea

[@steph2190]

@@ninezerotwo1778 …children?

[@thisisme4074]

@@ninezerotwo1778 red flag

[@ninezerotwo1778]

Wat

[@Cole444Train]

@@ninezerotwo1778 yikes.

[@zoemezzino3972]

Seeing Ivan open up made me tear up. I have the exact same story as him. I was coerced when i was younger and now identify as asexual. He is so brave

[@minsqi]

i hope Ivan is doing ok now, he's a beautiful human being and he deserves so much love.

[@user-he7sc3fg3r]

Is that a man kr wkmen

[@Insultthumb]

@@user-he7sc3fg3r not funny in the least

[@user-he7sc3fg3r]

@@playingpossum9656 nah prove it

[@Kounin]

He is annoying as hell..

[@Amber-jp3sl]

When he tripped and everyone laughed at him that just made me really sad😔

[@tjenaallamonsterdiggare6577]

We are getting closer to the "everyone is a mole" episode

[@jenniferd6606]

that would be amazing

[@Jaytharookie]

I hope so

[@jenniferd6606]

Nickname omg

[@StevenIovino]

That should’ve been an April fools one

[@jenniferd6606]

Nickname the physic one that’s kinda funny

[@americalopez9060]

My heart goes for Ivan literally ❤️ he was sexual harassed in a horrible way ... He deserves all the love he can receive

[@briannec2016]

That was was more than "harassed". 😢

[@20kroses]

Brianne C true 😞

[@Ikyft]

He was breaking down at that moment and tried to stay strong, I respect

[@lance4377]

I dont think you know the meaning of "literally"...

[@americalopez9060]

@@briannec2016 I know. And I was crying even hearing his part because I was more than "harrased" so I put that because I really didn't want to trigger my PTSD

[@imalwayspanicking]

Not me tearing up over Ivan. I'm ace too and that HIT me 😢 Hope he finds his one that can respect and accept him for who he is, I really do 💕💕

[@xmochilove]

Kia has to be one of the most well-spoken and eloquent person to be on odd-man out. She didn't get into anyone's faces to push her agenda, give any attitude, or any snide sarcastic comments or remarks. So glad she won!

[@kiasartip8447]

that is so kind of you to say, thank you!

[@theterrificteddy2157]

@@kiasartip8447 is that you in the video? If so, all your answers were amazing also you're like insanely beautiful.

[@kiasartip8447]

@@theterrificteddy2157 yes that's me, thank you!

[@user-ht9ug4zv6v]

@@kiasartip8447 Where about in the Middle East you're from? You said you were Middle Eastern 😊

[@kiasartip8447]

@@user-ht9ug4zv6v Persian :)

[@HikariTheGardevoir]

13:43 : *the winners wildly celebrating their victory* Literally *2* seconds later: *Ivan sharing an emotional story about coming to terms with his asexuality*

[@dontmindemeimjustdoingmybu3185]

HikariTheGardevoir hahahaha

[@buggybin]

I vibe with Ivan, the asexuality, the finger hearts, when everyone spoke over him he (seemed to) get shy, him stretching his lobes!! I hope he gets the respect in and out of romantic relationships that he deserves!!

[@coletrainhetrick]

Not from me at least.

[@chaizan9733]

@@coletrainhetrick what is wrong with you? What do you mean by thaz?

[@dannyr.5755]

@@coletrainhetrick ok...

[@yeetwchybaban]

Eh

[@imiconic4785]

y'all ignore coletrain, but yeah im really vibing with him!! he seems so sweet and he also.. is a kpop stan🥺💝

[@bigdaddy7538]

Ivan sounded like he was gonna cry after getting voted off

[@krazyk7679]

If someone every says “ IF YOU LOVED ME YOU’D DO THIS.....” respond with “AND IF YOU LOVED ME YOU WOULD RESPECT MY FEELINGS”

[@WTFBOOMDOOM]

Well said!

[@seandougherty5145]

KZbin Account#:457 it wouldn’t be yet, although it is still possible to get a restraining order without any past cases of abuse

[@juliodelrosario51]

The best respond to it is just leave him/her. They are abusing you emotionally and that kind of person is toxic for you and in the relationship

[@cromwellthewombat7154]

Finally, Kia's a virgin I can relate to. I don't wanna wait until marriage, I just want somebody who I have a deep connection with. I doesn't even have to be the last person I'll ever have sex with. I just don't want to regret it.

[@kyanatalebi7029]

nobody's talking about Kia! she has great values and is honest, I agree with everything she's said

[@jocelyn9266]

I agree, I’m a Christian and I personally don’t feel like anyone will marry because I’ve never had a guy I’m interested in have interest in me. I want to wait till marriage but I don’t think a guy will love me enough to ask for my hand. And even if I do ever find true love I want my soulmate to also have their virginity.

[@rockalinebellosa7907]

We’re on opposite ends here. I want to lose it before I die 😅

[@raymohntjong9119]

sorry if i post this comments alot in other comments, i just want to see people's opinion 🙏 Is it okay or NORMAL to bring people down when they're not virgin? Wether bcs they willing to do it or bcs of they have to, they need to pay school tuition, etc? Bcs that's what my friends do, they said non-virgin girls are not pure and not special meanwhile they're joking about sex and pleasures.. I'm kinda stressed and depressed after that, what should i do?

[@cromwellthewombat7154]

@@raymohntjong9119 No it's not ok or normal to criticise people for not being a virgin! There's nothing wrong with you if you chose to have sex, it doesn't make you less pure or make you worth less as a woman. Though I'm wondering what you mean by "if they have to to do it because of school tuition"? Nobody should have to resert to sex work for paying their eduction. I wouldn't judge that person for it, but I'd definitely judge the person shamelessly using them for sex.

[@artemish5560]

Ivan is honestly the cutest, he has such a positive smile, even when he's sad. Stay strong bro, we're all rooting for you to find the right one❤❤❤

[@grunt117]

Fairy _Bloomdrake gay

[@missidc8254]

Roman Avila It's honestly so sad & disturbing that you can't feel empathy for another human simply because of their sexuality.

[@grunt117]

Yoana Garay there’s nothing wrong with being gay or sympathizing with another person. I’m just saying these comments are gay

[@nenidetic]

@@grunt117 ...why though?

[@grunt117]

UselessTrash #22 the comments section is filled with sjw and soyboys.

[@Cocosmsh]

I just want to give Ivan a hug. U saw his pain when he started to talk about his experience .

[@imsam96]

Kinda wish there weren’t as many who were virgins for strictly religious reasons. I feel like so many people always assume people are virgins bc of religion whereas they are plenty of people who aren’t “waiting for marriage” they’re just waiting for the right person.

[@cindyndeda532]

It's because the majority do it for religious reasons.

[@edawhat3737]

@@cindyndeda532 "do it" do what? just because people arent currently virgins doesnt mean theyre abstinent

[@gabbyh.3022]

imsam96 yeah it made it hard for me to watch this video

[@leiremarcos5548]

I don't know if you are refering exactly to this, but... the "right" person doesn't even need to be a partner! I had sex for the first time with a guy I considered a hook up, not even a close friend, just some dude I met, I get to know him, liked his personality and had a chance with him to do it. As simple as that.

[@comethawk2663]

Waiting for marriage isn't necessarily for religious reasons either.

[@rebecca1517]

So did y’all miss the part when the lights turned green and that guy deadass fainted or

[@nanakay9274]

Too over-dramatic

[@lilylovessade]

When?

[@timmytoms__]

13:00

[@belkelly6714]

i cringed so hard

[@michalette]

It was so weird

[@fingordon6146]

can I just hold Ivan and tell him he is valid

[@noloyisolindankonzombi596]

Isn't she? She* not he? She/he looks like a She.

[@fingordon6146]

@@noloyisolindankonzombi596 well ivan said that he uses he him pronouns and is bio male and its not he/she it would be they

[@aniqueen3248]

Fin Gordon ikr I was fixing to cry especially when he squished his cheeks

[@itsaki7195]

I wanna do that too

[@JupiterKnight]

lol

[@royvoid]

I love ivan so much.. I lowkey look up to him He's so strong

[@karylsiao4941]

“Lost my first kiss” Low-key such a Filipino thing to say. It’s kind of how other talk about it here. Losing your first special kiss.

[@wallaceavila6560]

it's kinda similar in brazil. we say "losing your lips's virginity" after kissing for the first time.

[@indridcold3425]

I lost my first Manny Pacquiao

[@hipopotamodata9932]

@@wallaceavila6560 epa br

[@Sebastian-ur2tr]

Ivan is so wholesome, he deserves the best, PERIODT.

[@unyieldingdevotion]

Sebastian IVAN IS BABY OH MY GOD I FEEL BAD🥺

[@lol-fl4po]

amina nettie ahhhhh sameee 🥺👉👈💓😳💞💞💘

[@banbanbani]

Thank you!! YOU DESERVE THE WORLD

[@grunt117]

Bruh.....y’all are soft af

[@Densoro]

Roman Avila Sometimes the world needs softness. Aggression keeps committing irredeemable crimes against good people.

[@louiejoon5993]

I just wanted to hug Ivan through the screen and tell him everything is ok

[@sugarcookie1999]

I agree!!! He hit my heart, especially when he grabbed his face and had to take a second before continuing on, I know that pain. He needs lots of hugs!!♥️

[@juliennees]

Same

[@elbtrio7550]

Nah

[@elbtrio7550]

@@sugarcookie1999 nah

[@desireebarbozarivas8819]

Sameee

[@eagletmars]

I lost my virginity at 25. There is no shame in waiting. And religion doesn't have to dictate anyone's decision on when they choose to have sex. It's a personal choice, and as long as people are making the decision for themselves, and being safe about it, it doesn't matter what other people say or think.

[@afraidsari]

“Im not losing it, I’m giving it to someone” yooo thats the wisest reframing I’ve ever heard

[@jkid5627]

spekkio 🤮

[@afraidsari]

Jefferson Osorio ?? you should get tested

[@thorn2962]

@@ambrosia_fragments How do you know this?

[@rimun5235]

I think we should stop teaching the Vagina is some prize. Intimacy, fair enough, vagina, no.

[@hollyt9826]

@@rimun5235 Exactly its so misogynistic. I literally didn't realize men could be virgins, only women, and that says a lot about our society

[@mikukawaii9168]

Could you guys possibly do one where deaf people try to figure out who's not deaf through sign language?

[@jeffseid7176]

I think that's too easy because they would easily be able to tell. idk

[@jeffseid7176]

@Tuba Jesus good point!

[@mariejason947]

That is so good

[@FaithDavis]

@Tuba Jesus That's a good idea but at the same time it might make communication harder and I feel like total communication is needed to make a good judgement. If one signed language was used they could find the mole through issues in their stories etc.

[@mr.eeggbert1340]

It would take too long to edit and would take a lot of the dramatic tension out of it

[@deeemm5766]

I was half expecting someone to say "Later Virgins" as a joke after being voted out. Maybe I spend to much time on the internet.

[@breenaylaya6553]

Lmfaooo..

[@samuraijackclips6848]

that's would be hilarious

[@Excal123]

I love calling people virgins

[@shelbywhitaker8279]

Kia is legit spot on with everything! Especially with not teaching abstinence! That is such a damaging way to teach sex education.

[@johnnylego807]

What’s more damaging is lying about your virginity to an actual virgin. It’s evil.

[@fallonfish190]

We REALLY need to talk more about how men get assaulted too. It's never been just men assaulting women: men can be assaulted, and women can be the assaulter.

[@samanthastylinson799]

we do talk about that

[@niallshipsziamtoo5681]

@@samanthastylinson799 larry i see aha.. 👀 hello bestie :)

[@samanthastylinson799]

@@niallshipsziamtoo5681 why hello there :)

[@isaacpowrie465]

Good to see most people in comments talking out about how society rejects male rapes

[@dirkdiggler.]

Thanks, men are the true victims here. Like how people think whites cant be racist against. Its so tough to be a straight, white male.

[@kayt9137]

Jazlyn’s comment about “giving” rather than loosing was honestly so beautiful...

[@katywilliams8446]

In my Gender Communications course, we called it "making your sexual debut" rather than "losing your virginity".

[@justjazlyn1247]

Thank you 😍

[@nuriagiralt274]

Those are beautiful ways of saying it

[@RawrieAddicted]

Yeah and tbh you don't lose anything, you gain experience and perspective.

[@joelmiller2601]

and she still got voted off lmfaooo absolutely ridiculous..

[@breaddsoup]

Its so hard for ace people, just in general. He is so strong to tell his story and to even be in this video at all. Keep staying strong~

[@mayallyourbaconburn7133]

Emma Pilar Why is it hard from them. I’m ace as well and I don’t have any problem with. I just wanna understand.

[@mayallyourbaconburn7133]

Emma Pilar I mean yes it’s a bit lonely and in some ways loveless but there is way less stigma. Tho that just might be my experience. Im in pretty acepting suroundings to begin with.

[@gavs7980]

Emma Pilar there’s only two genders, and asexual doesn’t exist 🙈

[@olivebranch7769]

@@gavs7980 Oh wow.

[@breaddsoup]

@@mayallyourbaconburn7133 You know, I thought that way at first when I first realized I was ace, but looking through the Internet I've found that unfortunately a chunk of people, of course not everyone, but alot of people feel as though we aren't even apart of the lgbt+ community at all. And like even though we personally haven't dealt with alot, there are some ace people who's families don't understand and go as far as disowning their own children, I personally haven't even came out to my father, knowing that he would never understand. In this individual's case, he was forced into a sexual relationship that he didn't want which also happens to alot of aces.

[@seducedbysasquatch]

much love to Ivan, coercion is such a horrible thing to have to go through..

[@izzpizzagurl7536]

Ivan seems like such a sweet guy - my heart was with him from the beginning

[@para-yw9dn]

ikr i love himmm

[@passions4896]

EW EW EW EW BLEHHHHHH

[@zachwiz7681]

I like your name

[@lunalovegood6357]

Is no one gonna talk how rachel is such a good liar?

[@obitouchiha4739]

I would vote her out the moment she said "Yeah Jesus!"

[@Superfalcon-rf7og]

@@obitouchiha4739 yeah im not a Christian but i thought that people aren’t supposed to use his name in vain like that.

[@obitouchiha4739]

@@Superfalcon-rf7og Indeed, that was a mistake. I'm suprised she got away with that.

[@Superfalcon-rf7og]

@@obitouchiha4739 her tone and the phrase itself gives off a whole “idk what the hell im talking about” vibe

[@Superfalcon-rf7og]

@@obitouchiha4739 i sent another comment but on my screen it got deleted same for u?

[@user-ur4xq8cb4d]

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again: we need an episode where everyone is the mole but they think they are the only mole

[@delta606]

"I mess with pornography but God saved me" okay you're clear

[@jessegross9900]

“I don’t care when the time comes. When it comes, it comes.” You got that right Lea

[@Sam-bozone]

Jesse Gross I knew this comment was here 😂😂

[@natinatachy]

Ivan is so pure we must protect him at all costs. I hope he finds someone who deserves him. 🥺😭❤️

[@grunt117]

Natalie Ruiz you’ll forget his story when you move on to another video; quit virtue signaling

[@ekales_]

@@grunt117 😂😂

[@crossref233]

@@grunt117 quit policing people's comments when it isn't harming anyone

[@nya4198]

@@grunt117 do you even have feelings lol..

[@JuiceAddiction]

@@grunt117 yeah and who tf are you? And why would you even bother to post that

[@chipperFangirlsage]

ivan did not lose his virginity to his ex. That implies there was consent. he was raped. same happened to me when i was 8. if you believe in virginity, the concept of having sex for the first time, then if he hasn't had sex he's still a virgin. sex and rape are not the same thing

[@annie449]

8? omg. same, kinda. a boy year older than me (neighbour's half bro)...came onto me and just started kissing me...in the middle of a hide n seek round.

[@chipperFangirlsage]

@@annie449 Something that seems small to some can be scary for others. Im sorry if you feel he over stepped your boundaries

[@greta4804]

i wish i could upvote this ❤️

[@tabithawhitlock7618]

I think it happened to me last year I was fine at first but then I wanted to stop and I tried to pull away and get up but she wouldn’t let me and she told me it was ok and that I would like it I was so scared and I didn’t want it

[@chipperFangirlsage]

I'm sorry to hear this. Consent can be revoked. It sounds like you did revoke your consent and they ignored it

[@mon-ii6gg]

i was hoping kia wasn’t the liar cause i related to her so much

[@samajimenez7046]

same, i was like she better not be the liar since i also relate to her too, she sounded so genuine too :')

[@dianas7429]

Next: 5 people who have English as a mother language vs 2 who learnt it as their second.

[@emilyvbr1878]

That would be really interesting

[@monnawei5036]

i wanna be part of that

[@Amghannam]

The 2 "moles" would probably speak better English than the native speakers, lol.

[@Zouzou1021]

They wouldn't use slang

[@dyinginsidelol]

Amghannam it really be like that

[@nomnums13]

I really related with what the girl was saying about “losing” your virginity. I unfortunately did “lose” my virginity, had it taken. And then Ivan at the end.. i was coerced & robbed of my virginity. You’re not alone.

[@sophieluna2269]

Stay strong girl! You're not alone

[@lapingocha5]

Much love for you, thank you for sharing

[@ojitosrodriguez114]

The manner in which i lost my virginity, it left me with psychological issues (vaginismus). I get anxiety everytime i'm about to have sex for the fear of the pain i might feel... I wish people realized how things like these stay with us for the rest of our lives...

[@thade554]

@@ojitosrodriguez114 i wish you realized that you had sex because you wanted to and start getting over something that's in the past, or go to a doctor because you got issues

[@vromeave3195]

I’m sorry love!! Remember it’s never your fault and youre not alone in this, we may not know each other but I’m standing with you supporting you!!

[@lunesoleil7468]

i didn’t rly give ivan a second thought until the end when he kinda broke down but that rly made me feel for him and he seems like a cool & probably underappreciated person?

[@idioyjohnathon2054]

?

[@theohall5588]

as an ace who is still kinda figuring itself out, this was one of my favorite videos. and it really sucks that ivan had to go through that but i hope he is doing so much better now :)

[@chloegrace3793]

I wish more people understood that there are men like Ivan out there. There needs to be more support groups and therapy’s shaped towards men so they feel comfortable coming out and seeking help for the trauma they’ve dealt with.

[@MIRofTV]

"Teaching abstinence would not help the problem, teach safe sex" couldn't be more true ,Kia speaks so intelligently 👌

[@kiasartip8447]

I appreciate the kind words

[@LoriWolfcat]

Miriam Hosein Teaching abstinence and its importance is what should be taught when kids are kids. And learning to say no especially. Too many of my friends lost it like that gay dude. They just get manipulated. So many people get manipulated just because no one taught them what Real love is. Safe intimacy doesn’t work cuz so many people I know don’t like condoms and would gladly rawdog it. 😖 Teens would most likely still have intimacy, but I wish the pill would be advertised more. I’m a woman and I still don’t know what the heck it is.

[@sarkarteamgale]

yesss loved Kia!!!

[@laurynasdambrauskas6606]

Lori Wolfcat he’s asexual not gay, asexuals don’t want to have sex at all, gay people are attracted to the same sex, get your facts straight.

[@paro2210]

ye, also what happens while you grow up and become older. Like how women will have lost 90% of their eggs at the age of 30, so women can make an educated decision on if and when they want to have children. There are several women that have reached 30s and thought that they still had time to have children, but the chance of a successful impregnation goes down drastically after 30.

[@sergiopaloma7248]

Is no one gonna talk about how Rachel said she's allergic to metal while wearing an apple watch

[@hafren205]

I'm allergic to a lot of metals, I can wear good quality watches. She already said she's wearing earrings that she made herself so she trusts what it's made of. I believe she is allergic, if she really wanted a purity ring she'd have to spend good money on it, I'd say it's an acceptable lie

[@cherubiqueenergy4486]

I was reacting to the metal on a watch so I put a band aid on the underside of the watch to make it not touch my skin. Maybe she did something similar

[@moeruyona158]

She was lying like there's no way someone with metal allergy will be there because it's not a common allergy and someone will not make so much an effort to customize their watch and earrings. She can just were non metallic accessory.

[@brandonmendoza4493]

@@Megadog33 Well, Jubilee is based in LA, so I don't think it would be particularly surprising to have gone to Disneyland with a boyfriend or girlfriend or something lol. I think Cali residents have cheaper rates for Disneyland that's why.

[@foamythesquirrel8003]

@@brandonmendoza4493 not only that but if you are slightly lucky or lived there long enough u know someone that works at Disney and can get you in free or super cheap so I agree first kiss at Disney if you live in So Cal or Florida isn't so unbelievable not to mention the other disney locations outside the state's in a way it'd b kinda a cute memory like during the fireworks or some shizz

[@sophialucianamarielove8520]

No one is gonna talk about how beautiful Jazlyn’s hair is like I love her hair

[@oompaasha]

Rachel: “I voted for Lea because she was the oldest…” Me: A 28 years old virgin.

[@rajasaad6694]

Same here 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mayasanchez4014]

Woow can I ask why? If there is any reason? I’m 22 and not deflowered yet too lol

[@wesley5900]

@@mayasanchez4014 only coz we haven't met

[@duncan954]

Theres also a part of a song from video game rap battles pheonix Wright vs professor layton where he says to phenoix Wright your still a virgin at 35

[@samlynx2016]

I was thinking something similar! I'm in my 20's, I had a roommate that's still a virgin at 26 and one that waited until she married her husband, at the age of 30. The three of us are Christians but I also had a roommate that was 28, not a Christian, and still a virgin.

[@evelyngallego2222]

I was glad Kia wasn't the mole, her story is so similar to mine and it was really nice to feel I wasn't alone

[@EpicBunty]

Haha ru a virgin too haha

[@nitya404]

Same, I'm just rolling through life without any pressure of being a virgin. It'll happen when it happens, no need to force these kind of things.

[@sana.4.a]

@@EpicBunty maybe they just don’t mind staying a virgin for now? You made fun of people that were virgins in other comments like seriously what’s wrong with you

[@EpicBunty]

@@sana.4.a nop

[@hk-zx7kl]

I feel like Ivan just wants to break down and cry behind that smile 😢

[@guest-o5h-b7i]

Yeah. Ivan just did that in the video

[@hk-zx7kl]

@@guest-o5h-b7i poor guy

[@awkwardcutie]

I wanna give Ivan a big hug 🥺 I'm scared that will happen to me as well but I really hope it doesn't. All love you and people out there, please respect others boundaries ❤️

[@cyrilgutierrez1756]

You can tell Ricky is a gamer, he has the headset imprint in his hair LMAO

[@Ben-nz9cv]

Cyril Gutierrez 💀💀

[@geniebysnsd163]

😭😭😭

[@debruhh5491]

Out of pocket completely

[@hewastheloml1874]

LMAKDJDBEBE

[@Xemirah]

He could also really love music

[@youweremymuse]

I lost my virginity at 20, my roommate at 23. Not bc we're religious or waiting for marriage, it just didnt happen until then. I wish they had a few people like that, when I was a teenager I though lt I was a loser bc I hadn't had sex at 16. It's completely normal to be a virgin in college.

[@tina7151]

24. I just didn't find someone who I felt safe and comfortable enough.

[@joelGi]

I think it's different for men and women. I think the expectation for men is to loose it at a younger age when most of the population is a virgin

[@tabbycat3610]

I felt like a loser before losing mine and felt like I wasnt good enough if I didnt lose it. Needless to say I lost mine at 16, right before I turned 17. Def wish I wouldve waited to do it with someone I truly loved though instead of just wanting to "get it over with"

[@jasminandrade7935]

I’m about to be 18 and most of my friends have already lost it and I feel like a MAJOR loser bc I haven’t lost mine ☹️ like what if it just never happens for me

[@JuiceAddiction]

@@jasminandrade7935 u could lie and they'd never know. It's not really that life altering of a moment.

[@wheatbread5087]

Ivan is the perfect example of no doesn’t mean “convince me till I have sex with you.” He shouldn’t have been forced to give his virginity to that girl.

[@C-SD]

Exactly. Its heartbreaking. Think its good that he is willing to talk about it. There is a lot of stigma around males being assaulted.

[@jillleebean6327]

@C C I'm assuming you're a troll, but just in case anyone else agrees with you, it should be known that coercion is very much nonconsensual. Survivors can be coerced through threats of physical violence, emotional abuse, blackmail, or withdrawal of financial support. None of these circumstances indicate enthusiastic willingness to have sex with the rapist, therefore it is not consent.

[@ileachoffeverything6535]

@@jillleebean6327 It was creepy though especially for asexual people. Even if it was not rape she still seduced him into having sex with her when she probably known that he would not feel comfortable about it. Like just imagine the genders reversed then that would be called "rape"

[@Theoriginalstarkittnd93]

@Dimetri Drossos actually, some asexuals can feel romantic attraction. Romantic and sexual attraction are not the same thing. Someone who’s unable to feel romantic attraction is aromantic.

[@mariecarmen4921]

@Dimetri Drossos because it’s still his body