“Give her some tissue if she crying fr” JM please 😂😂😂😂
@welsha7484 Жыл бұрын
I had to pause to lmao 😂😂
@Shesnoangell Жыл бұрын
Read this at the exact moment he said that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@yannabon3273 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@amariw44 Жыл бұрын
this the part that took me out 😭😭😭
@KennorisGreen-in1qx Жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😭
@lespat2469 Жыл бұрын
Starting off fake crying and start to laugh is INSANE
@_MoneyMike_ Жыл бұрын
Crackhead behavior, surprised he didn’t say it
@knightclassic1 Жыл бұрын
She only wanted to be on a Show for some extra attention to make over millions of people to feel sorry for her
@theprettyone9474 Жыл бұрын
My mother does that too! A real narcissist
@gavinactivateja3869 Жыл бұрын
yep she crazy
@agray7474 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@goldie2011 Жыл бұрын
The mom certainly showed her true colors at the end. Clearly doesn’t have an ounce of empathy, remorse or regret towards her daughter … and that’s pretty sad smh
@gettheedgenow7079 Жыл бұрын
I confess: my mind shut down when I saw the mother's crocodile tears quickly metamorphosize into laughter when she was called out by JM. There are very few legitimate reasons to abandon your child. You gave her nothing, and then, you have the audacity to sue her? (May God's blessings and grace be with the daughter -- now and forevermore).
@iamsincerelyjas Жыл бұрын
Aaaaaameeeennnn
@JM_HUh11 ай бұрын
Exactly!! Makes me appreciate my parents so much. They weren’t perfect but they did a lot for us & would have never abandoned us. They for damn sure would never sue us even if it was over a million dollars!! That’s insanity after being a dead beat!!!!!!
@bajangenetics4008 ай бұрын
P⁰0😊
@bear3279 Жыл бұрын
treat your children well or they'll ghost you the first chance they get ..
@RacieRain Жыл бұрын
She shouldn't have borrowed money from the mother she didn't want to be bothered with.
@christiandilday7543 Жыл бұрын
Yeah fuck them deadbeat dad's smh 🤦♂️
@yayalee1695 Жыл бұрын
Not true nature can turn anyone into a selfish scum bag
@1stisraelitessweetness17 Жыл бұрын
Being in the nursing field treat your child/ children good because it's the best thing to do everybody's have to get old some day.
@MsBizzyRae Жыл бұрын
@@RacieRainyou clearly didn’t listen to the whole case. Some people hone in on one thing and don’t pay attention to anything else. She has every intention on paying her mother back, but just because someone lends you money, doesn’t give them a right to mistreat you OR change the terms of the repayment agreement.
@Keykiscorner Жыл бұрын
I cannot stand mothers who treat their child like garbage and then once the kid defends themselves or ghost them... all of a sudden they forget everything they've done to their child and play victim.
@NoMam-h3c Жыл бұрын
Smiling lovingly over at her like she did a good job because her daughter speaks well.. Didn’t do a damn thang
@queennola3039 Жыл бұрын
Happens sooo often, even expecting the child to look after them in their older age.
@JM_HUh11 ай бұрын
This lady was pissing me completely tf off! She should have been begging for forgiveness, not fake crying, smirking & tryna be cute. Ain’t nothing cute about being a dead beat parent 😒
@karendorsey4780 Жыл бұрын
When the defendant called the plaintiff by her first name. I knew there were issues between them! Which is truly sad!
@Proverbspsalms7 ай бұрын
Well, she didn’t raise her. Why would she call her anything other than Lisa or whatever her name is?
@jew-el1 Жыл бұрын
17:28 daughter was being manipulative and she feels justified because of their history. Judge should have ordered her to pay‼️
@knowledgeispwr Жыл бұрын
Exactly he didn't help her by not doing his job. He basically said it's ok to disrespect your mom in her home and refuse to leave because she sent you to live with your grandma and aunt.
@kerrywhite5253 Жыл бұрын
As he has done plenty of times before. He's always said that after a year, that's enough time to expect repayment. He's very fickle, and he often lets his personal feelings do the ruling.
@sgrinnage Жыл бұрын
Or given her a date to pay
@antbankzbruh Жыл бұрын
Case had already finished and 5secs of outro is at 1728 ? 🤷♂️
@cynthiawallace7108 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! It's a lot of parents who aren't fit to parent kids, if that was her, she did that right thing, let someone else raise her, Judge Mathis should've given her, her money.. Period
@rae1632 Жыл бұрын
There's nothing more annoying to my ears than hearing someone fake cry 🙄
@fundifferent1 Жыл бұрын
seriously. They're just talking in a crybaby voice for no reason LOL. Just basically manipulation.
@RomansRevenge123 Жыл бұрын
The ending told me everything I needed to know about the mom smh
@LosAngelesLaura Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!! Talking about “I don’t want to be a part of anything…. I already have my grandkids” Ugh she made me sooo mad and sad! I’m crying!
@AuthenticJoShow Жыл бұрын
Prayers for the daughter. 🙏🏽
@knightclassic1 Жыл бұрын
FINALLY I'm glad you didn't defend the Mother
@kandi668 Жыл бұрын
JM always letting his emotions get in the way of ruling with impartiality.
@JacksQueen. Жыл бұрын
Every dang time!!
@louluna796311 ай бұрын
In the end he saw through the mother bs. Crazy she switch as soon as he walk out the room.
@bronsonperich94305 ай бұрын
How long have you been a lawyer?
@justmedoingme3 ай бұрын
All the time never fails
@thetallgiirl Жыл бұрын
When the daughter called her by her first name i said "Oop"😂😂😂
@t.robinson8565 Жыл бұрын
She wasn't a mother to her
@maryoaks3228 Жыл бұрын
Mother should have chalked it up to back child support and left it at that. Just making things worse.
@JacksQueen. Жыл бұрын
I’m on the fence with this case and the judge. His daddy issues come out every case now.
@draydavis07 Жыл бұрын
💯 facts
@blackestknightx8881 Жыл бұрын
I used to like judge Mathis but the more cases I watch, the more I question his ruling
@JacksQueen. Жыл бұрын
@@blackestknightx8881right. He usually says 90 days is reasonable payback time, now with this case it’s pay whenever. Be fair across the board. I’m not taking up for her mother being a deadbeat either. Separate issues.
@Orlandoloc8311 ай бұрын
The hairstyles is so corny….
@shalandafreeman57810 ай бұрын
I agree with you
@jacinthbailey448310 ай бұрын
They look so much alike ... Both very beautiful women.. I would marvel at my beautiful daughter and want to be a part of her life
@cici864_4 Жыл бұрын
Call me devils advocate but you feel like this but didn’t have a problem asking her for money? You should’ve asked someone else
@infinitig37x84 Жыл бұрын
Now that’s true she shouldn’t of took it so what she offered it
@sgrinnage Жыл бұрын
I agree
@sgrinnage Жыл бұрын
No one sees that she's holding that money over the mother's head. I would just tell her to keep it and allow her to learn the lessons she couldn't teach her
@StyleMeTeem Жыл бұрын
This!!! Judge let his emotions get the best of him on this one. That girl has no intentions in giving it back
@infinitig37x84 Жыл бұрын
@@StyleMeTeem you right i was thinking the same…she trying to get her mother back from the past
@RacieRain Жыл бұрын
He does the most. If she felt betrayed or abandoned, don't borrow money, and then block the mother.
@urluvizmyluv1999 Жыл бұрын
Id rather go to JJ than JM. At least she doesn't take things personally.
@kerrywhite5253 Жыл бұрын
Nope. JJ cares about nothing. Judges shouldn't put their personal opinions in the verdicts.
@shellshellr469 Жыл бұрын
I get her mom wasn't the best but i wouldn't take money from someone i thought was that horrible. She should have got it from the folks who raised her. Im sure she showed off for social media...
@knowledgeispwr Жыл бұрын
Sounds like she probably burned some bridges with the Grandma and Aunt. Probably doing what she did to her mom to them. I don't doubt it was a scam and she went to party and made up a story to get the extra $200.
@tierradeas5606 Жыл бұрын
💯
@29blaquegurl Жыл бұрын
No seriously, everyone siding with the daughter and there has to be some level of accountability for her part. My mom didn’t raise me either but I can give credit where credit is due for trying when I got older. Now as far as this case I totally agree with you and JM just irritated the heck out of me.
@JM_HUh11 ай бұрын
Idk, I feel like after abandoning your child & they still want to deal with u, nothing should be a loan. She should have just given it to her, that’s the least her mother could do
@x.goldenbarbie9369 ай бұрын
Let’s not blame the victim
@Renrens-LionessofJudah Жыл бұрын
The daughter had no right to be on social media exposing the family environment. I would ask her to leave too and if she didnt, i would of asked to police to excort her out. Not every one is attention seeking always on social media. Have some respect for peoples home. Mom should of been paid tue money she was owed. The judge was not fair in this case. Note where is her father?
@yurekagiles1618 Жыл бұрын
She was raised by her father (side) his sister, and the mom stated "she reaches out to her father requesting the daughter to call her".
@sv53048 ай бұрын
the mother should clean her house and have it presentable, so that she shouldn't be embarrassed about it.
@kierrakeith5828 Жыл бұрын
Judge Mathis acted on pure emotion. This ruling was unfair. The plaintiff should have been awarded her money and possibly he could have broken it up into payments.
@sherondavidson9781 Жыл бұрын
Exactly he was very bias on his ruling she was not intending on paying her back and she still not going to pay her back
@ebonyrave Жыл бұрын
she owes her after bringing her into this world unprepared 600$ is nothing
@namegame-b9f Жыл бұрын
Exactly@@ebonyrave
@casonyasmithers5614 Жыл бұрын
What are are you talking about, he did order her to pay, he just gave her more time.
@jahjah91 Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@mariooneal2913 Жыл бұрын
She cry then smile wow
@darkskinss Жыл бұрын
I can't. 😂😂😂😂
@aaa-pp Жыл бұрын
Suing your daughter you never raised. smh
@blackestknightx8881 Жыл бұрын
Well then the daughter shouldn't have borrowed the money from her mother
@draydavis07 Жыл бұрын
@blackestknightx8881 💯 facts
@PrincessZaire100 Жыл бұрын
@@blackestknightx8881nah, it’s back pay. I don’t understand loaning money to a child you never raised, instead of just giving it to him
@knightclassic1 Жыл бұрын
Mathis had way too many cases of Deadbeat Mothers sues their own kids. As a Black Man, this what bothers me about these SELFISH BLACK PARENTS who has Kids UNPREPARED, They think their Kids owes them when they wasn't asked to be here
@blackestknightx8881 Жыл бұрын
@@PrincessZaire100 that's not how the arrangement was set up. It was agreed upon to be a loan. The person that borrowed the money understood that as well
@KayB-l5h Жыл бұрын
Wow the daughter is something else. That ending the mama was right. Nobody has to kiss her a** to be able to see the child she hinting at. She tried it . Judge was wrong she should have 30 days to pay her.
@speakalways356 Жыл бұрын
But she said it wasn't a child
@JojosOasis Жыл бұрын
While I sympathize for the daughter, I do believe she got on sm acting out and tbh, that would have fired me up as well. The way sm has a hold over ppl, I can absolutely believe that happened.
@PrincessZaire100 Жыл бұрын
SM?
@cocoafierce4975 Жыл бұрын
@@PrincessZaire100 think social media
@aquoyahrobinson1630 Жыл бұрын
On point, I get ppl are hurt about not having their parents in their life but you can’t continue to hold that over a person head especially when they have tried to build a relationship. Believe me I’ve been in the defendant position but I never still til this day hold that over my mom head. I must understand that is year I will not get back. All I can do is accept who she is now. My sister went to her grave hold a grudge against our parents. I feel like this our parent could had did a lot worse but that’s not what happened
@melanin666carbon5 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Same space with different places
@DesCiii Жыл бұрын
Exactly how I see it too.
@ShanetteLewis Жыл бұрын
JM got abandonment issues and is totally biased… judgements always based on emotion and not facts and law.
@adrianknight1406 Жыл бұрын
This case was sad on both sides. I'm at a lost for words because there's so much deep rooted pain and anger here understandably so. The loan is the least of their problems.
@knightclassic1 Жыл бұрын
Its always Struggle Black Families, its been going on since Dr King Jr passed
@adrianknight1406 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely the truth. I wholeheartedly agree
@sgrinnage Жыл бұрын
Every race faces Abandonment. Black ppl just gets publized and shamed
@KayB-l5h Жыл бұрын
Yeah the defendant shouldve done better raising her daughter but Judge wasn't going let her make it cause he was holding her accountable for what his dad did. The daughter say she forgive her but she tried to manipulate Judge with the backstory to get out of 600 bucks she knows she owe. If she don't want a relationship with her she shouldn't have one with her money either.
@montmont986 Жыл бұрын
The judge Verdict was A horrible decision on this case , you could see he didn't like the mom . I get it , The daughter felt as though Her mom wasn't the Best of mom BUT mom was there when she needed that money ! Hmmmm ?
@kerrywhite5253 Жыл бұрын
💯
@nolaniecy303111 ай бұрын
I literally go through the same thing when a woman is raised without a mother it does traumatize you, especially if your mother sees nothing wrong, and always criticizes you 💔
@sha1genesis Жыл бұрын
Judge your wrong. She still needs to pay her mother.
@knightclassic1 Жыл бұрын
What if your Mom didn't raised you or disown you, Would you still borrow money from her and you pay her back, even if she didn't have a damn about you?
@JacksQueen. Жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@tiffenyholliday2821 Жыл бұрын
I agree too! The daughter is not that innocent
@H.p.N19 Жыл бұрын
@@knightclassic1 key word is borrow.. She should've just asked for it if she wasn't going to pay it back.
@sha1genesis Жыл бұрын
@knightclassic1 no matter what this is business, I'm not certain how you're built, but when you owe anyone, PAY THEM.
@SammieBleu Жыл бұрын
He be in his feelings a lot!!! Her mom needs to take accountability for whatever she neglected in her childhood.
@dawnbriscoe6898 Жыл бұрын
True. On the other hand, if the daughter is stating she'd pay her back, than that's what she needs to do.
@makya77450 Жыл бұрын
I feel the defendant had the idea of using her mom & when she asked for her stuff back she'd fake a fallout.. mentally she probably feels that her mom owes her. Smh we never know what our parents went through we should be more mindful of that
@Mz_Ak47 Жыл бұрын
And u can tell the mom don’t fuck over her she wouldn’t be saying how she a good person
@anastacia0189 Жыл бұрын
oh well if she was using her? her mom do her owe her 😭😭😭 are you crazy? that's hella child support 🙇🏿 & if she went through sht, why have a child? & then another? didn't she say, "her son?" ... accountability, is the word of the day 🤎
@mistasofly Жыл бұрын
If this is the way Judge Mathis ruled when he was a REAL judge in detroit, no wonder he had to step down to be a fake tv judge. I feel sorry for the men who got sentenced to ridiculous amounts of time, just cause Greg was in a pissy mood that day.
@gabriellawisteria Жыл бұрын
$600 for 19 years of no support in anyway... Seems fair to me 🤷🏻♀️ Maybe the mother should have gone to the event with her as well, might have been beneficial for both. The mother's attitude at the end just shows how much she had never cared about her daughter or their "relationship" .. it was appalling She went from "I don't know what happened to our relationship" ...to...."I don't want anything to do with you" quick 😔
@knightclassic1 Жыл бұрын
$600 should've been given to her, Not Loaning, Her Mother been owe her more than $600 for Abandonment and Pain & Suffering for haven't been in her life in 19 years
@gabriellawisteria Жыл бұрын
@@knightclassic1 exactly 💯 I am so happy JM applauded the daughters level headedness and accomplishments though having been without Lisa. Because she did have a mother, which was her aunt and grandmother. The "mother's" demeanour and switch up at the end made my stomach churn
@Fannyyyyy_ Жыл бұрын
She acts like my dad 😢 I don't even bother him because there's no point.
@gabriellawisteria Жыл бұрын
@@Fannyyyyy_ i'm so sorry...and she has a father too, which means he might have also been a deadbeat if he wasn't deceased or anything of the sort. 🤗 You are better off! Stay strong.
@Scrilla2times Жыл бұрын
@@gabriellawisteriaI think she talked good about her father
@urluvizmyluv1999 Жыл бұрын
So if i can not provide a good life for my child, I'm wrong for leaving her in the care of her father and his side of the family? He probably would prefer a mother abort their child or neglect them.
@ValarieGast Жыл бұрын
RIGHT, JUDGE MATHIS CAN BE TOTALLY WRONG SOMETIMES AND HE GETS RUDE AND UPSET😮. SHE DID BEST, ESPECIALLY WITH HER FATHER/FAMILY.✌️
@lotusgsxr750 Жыл бұрын
Parents should do EVERYTHING in their power to raise the kids they had. Would you say the same thing if the father wasn't there? JM would probably prefer that she got her act together at some point. Her best was never to show up as a mother as a minor at all. Atleast admit it outright, that she didn't even try to be there period. She tried not to even mention it and try skip over the point, and got defensive and say, "So you want to go there!"
@urluvizmyluv1999 Жыл бұрын
@lotusgsxr750 she did, and she determined what was best was for the child's father, you know, the other parent and his family to raise her until she is in a position to do so.
@Shaun.T32 Жыл бұрын
That's not the point, HIS point is, how can you abandon YOUR child and act as if SHE owes YOU.
@urluvizmyluv1999 Жыл бұрын
@@Shaun.T32 did she borrow the money or nah?
@morgan94 Жыл бұрын
Idk why but I felt like the daughter was just waiting on her chance to tell JM exactly why her & her mom didn’t get along…..she stood there very quietly & patient….then boom!
@kristophermorgan2302 Жыл бұрын
Very bright inspiring young lady.
@codiestrauss8132 Жыл бұрын
Judge Mathis your Rude and Disrespectful for talking to the mother like that
@Myob590 Жыл бұрын
I agree sometimes he gets on my nerves. Yes he can be very rude. l
@naenae5279 Жыл бұрын
Judge Mathis was on the right person side on this one! Unless the “mom” was paying child support while somebody else was raising her child, I feel like she shouldn’t have sued her daughter because if she actually raised her she would’ve spent waaaaaaayyy more than $600
@jenniferconley1192 Жыл бұрын
I didn't agree with JM but when I read your comment it opened my eyes to the bigger point. You are right. The mom should have seen it that way too. Hope the mom read your comment. At first I was like daughter should pay her mom back in a timely fashion. But when you point out she didn't even raise her probably didn't contribute financially in her upbringing the mom should have left it alone. Thanks for a good eye opening comment
@Diana_222 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@reelewis922911 ай бұрын
That’s back child support , she ain ask to be here . Take care of your kids !!!!!!
@SwearToGlam Жыл бұрын
I like how not only do they look Alike but they showed up to court matching as well
@justcuz9585 Жыл бұрын
He should never down a mother to the child idk he’s wrong for that!
@nettricegaskins1871 Жыл бұрын
The plaintiff exhibits "textbook narcissism" and sociopathy. I can relate and it's a shame.
@nhughes1162 Жыл бұрын
Yes I did state that I said this is the reason ,she has some type of mental illness but not an excuse
@OaklandMind11 ай бұрын
TEXTBOOK! & a lot of these commenters sympathizing are giving textbook “raised by” syndrome (but don’t know it yet) and/or apologists.
@teneciawhitehead9926 Жыл бұрын
I think she should have paid her and I believe she did do that to her mom
@aiziajackson-bartholomew73467 ай бұрын
Smiling after crying is despicable. She can’t even fake cry every time she smiles.
@lunacy3 Жыл бұрын
3:44 “Give her some tissue if she’s crying for real” SCREAMING 🤣🤣
@njchic9145 Жыл бұрын
The daughter running game!
@lifewithtonez2358 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry but I kinda feel like the mother isn’t as bad as this case made her out to be..she couldn’t care for her child so she left her with family but was apart of her life the whole time… that’s real & that’s showing love rather than other mothers that put their kids in the system 🤷🏽♀️
@shani9165 Жыл бұрын
Right , that’s real that she acknowledged that she wasn’t ready to be a mom . She could’ve abandoned her or put her in foster care .
@dedrickhannah8891 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way!!! JM really just gave her the green light to do whatever she want cause her mom didn’t live with her 😒
@nanchanger Жыл бұрын
Sorry for what?
@nanchanger Жыл бұрын
@@shani9165 she also could've not had a slutty lifestyle...
@ThickSenpaii Жыл бұрын
Fathers do it everyday. Can't care for the child leave the relationship and leave the child with mom. Whats the difference ?
@Iolani8811 ай бұрын
This made me call my kids and remind them I love them and support them each answer every day. Smh the judge did right on this one.
@indianicole239511 ай бұрын
She owes her mama the money regardless of the history they have. Judge Mathis awarded The defendant because of her history with her mother not showing up. If they would have been on judge Judy or any other show. It would have been completely different
@elopersdmv Жыл бұрын
All those tears and then at the very end, we met the real mom. She has y’all fooled. Glad JM saw through her bull.
@TR3ASURE Жыл бұрын
The sight of her mother enrages me!! Thank God this girl has resilience because her mother is the epitome of narcissism and that’s not easy to overcome especially when it’s the one person you expect to protect and understand you.
@FeliciaMullins Жыл бұрын
What is it to give your child $400.00 when you went 19 yrs paying hardly anything? Just gift it to them…..400.00 is such a small amount to gift your child when you’ve been an absentee parent.😢
@kerrywhite5253 Жыл бұрын
You have a point. However,maybe the mom wasn't in the position to give it to her.
@FeliciaMullins Жыл бұрын
@@kerrywhite5253 very true! However, thats the cost of being a parent…making sacrifices. It’s tough but being a parent is a choice.
@monetblue2321 Жыл бұрын
“Give her tissue if she crying for real!” Come on now unc 😭
@mrs.carter3060 Жыл бұрын
Unc be showing out sometimes for no reason 😂😂
@monetblue2321 Жыл бұрын
@mrs.carter3060 FOR NO REASON 😂😂😂😂
@jeffjeff3275Ай бұрын
Giving her more time on someone else's loan is crazy
@fundifferent1 Жыл бұрын
It's a toxic, unhealthy relationship. Classic case of neglected child feels entitled to disrespect the parent because the parent wasn't there for them as kid and the parent feels entitled to a relationship and respect simply because they are the parent. Just pay the lady and go your separate ways. Call on holidays and birthdays, bring the kids over for supervised visits on the holidays and move on.
@latonyanarcisse7112 Жыл бұрын
That mother is a piece of work
@MrsOrganics Жыл бұрын
The daughter is horrible! Give your mother back her money!!!!
@LaLaVango Жыл бұрын
The daughter is terrible????? You must be a bad mother too !
@MrsOrganics Жыл бұрын
@@LaLaVango not as bad of a mom as yours! Lazy eye hoeeee!
@tagz3924 Жыл бұрын
@@LaLaVangoshe is terrible person. Y’all letting sob stories that doesn’t have to deal with the case blind y’all
@x.goldenbarbie9369 ай бұрын
@@tagz3924 you must be a bad mom too
@kakaeyoka63956 ай бұрын
She is terrible 😢
@Bossthedoss Жыл бұрын
This not right she grown she trying to get revenge… This not the way young lady if my mama ask me to leave her home I got to go….
@kandi668 Жыл бұрын
Simple as that.
@crazylea11 ай бұрын
Their lack of relationship is disheartening. All those comments at the end though from mom...sick
@freereign911 Жыл бұрын
Give your mom a chance, she maybe a wonderful grandmother to your baby💔
@monique_dannigirl7111 Жыл бұрын
Why do Parents who didn't pay NO CHILD SUPPORT nor help financially SUE their Adult Children for Money..
@X.Sheislia Жыл бұрын
She better charge that $600 to the streets. Her crazy self 😂
@geminlove24 Жыл бұрын
JM literally always rule from emotion. I knew he was going to find some way to say the Mom lost. Mom definitely seems like a piece of work tho. I think most people in the comments disagree on the ruling
@Iammaintopicbritt10 ай бұрын
That little ass $600 after not taking care of her, her WHOLE LIFE😭😭that’s her moneyyyy ! she owe her more then that shit. I hate bad parents🙄. The judge didn’t hear nothing else after she said she wasn’t a good MOTHER !
@OaklandMind11 ай бұрын
This mom is one of those “missing missing reasons” moms who become estranged and grow old crying about being abandoned to anyone who will sympathize. (Even though this one actually set that tone and is owed no relationship whatsoever). Look it up! There are whole websites about children who were raised by narcissists becoming adults and the sad mind games of the later-years that those parents usually fall into once the abuse is cut off.
@melanin666carbon5 Жыл бұрын
Great episode!!! Similar to what I’m going through. Especially with a parent with mental issues… a lot of elders back in the day with disabilities wanted children so bad for several reasons. To each is own yet the child suffers. I totally feel for the defendant. Smmh
@AuthenticJoShow Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽
@Naturalbty85 Жыл бұрын
Same thing me and my sisters went through with our mom who is bipolar
@melanin666carbon5 Жыл бұрын
@@Naturalbty85 no family members want to assist my mom. Pensive! Yet I do realize that they didn’t get her the proper medical treatment or learning how to cope with my parent so called disability. The 50’s era I’m pretty sure was rough. As a child I had to research cause I couldn’t understand why so called family wouldn’t help my mom. It’s society fault instead of helping ppl they encourage birth. Yet to once again have ppl go through torment. What a cruel World /Life. Yet I ask to be here before I was even born. My creator Got Us!!!
@sgrinnage Жыл бұрын
We choose to come in this life and the people we come through. We have to start asking "what did I come to learn by choosing this",?
@melanin666carbon5 Жыл бұрын
@@sgrinnage exactly!!!
@1allinnature Жыл бұрын
Judge ruled with personal emotions rather than law in this one! Any small claims judge would have ruled for daughter to pay back or given a reasonable timeframe which it should be paid back! Couple more Of these and judge Mathis will definitely lose more viewers
@rosegreen844111 ай бұрын
Excellent decision!
@debbielovingyahisrael6459 Жыл бұрын
Wow, that mom was heartless so sad and the daughter looks like her.
@jacquelineadams9512 Жыл бұрын
the judge was wrong for that verdict ....
@badseedent4827 Жыл бұрын
Worst trauma 🤔🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ this guy has way to many momma issues
@youmakemelaugh1797 Жыл бұрын
You would be surprised at how many have and still suffer!!💔
@cupofchi_ Жыл бұрын
He’s right though. It is one of the worst traumas. Our parents are apart of our identity which is super important when it comes to self actualization. Take the parents away, and it is impactful on the way we view the world.
@NeishaNee12 Жыл бұрын
People who never experienced it never will understand. To go through that is soooo traumatic. Thank God I’m a very strong individual who went to therapy. I worked on my trauma but I still to this day never talk to my mom or dad.
@Sheherhis Жыл бұрын
Defendant probably needs to let her mother go. When you say they can be good people but it comes with crossfires when you need help.. Thats some narcissistic ways
@servantsofthemessiah7209 ай бұрын
Matthis needs to grow up. He has anger for trauma he went through. He cares little for facts all emoition.
@sonyagemini712 Жыл бұрын
When she said her daughter would clean her house and was like a friend, I knew it was going left after that. 😂
@LeolaGlamour Жыл бұрын
Who sues their kid off 400?! And thats if you RAISED THEM. She really thinks she doesn't owe her?
@humanoidmale7567Ай бұрын
The daughter was disrespectful and manipulative.
@cheikhsarr5176 Жыл бұрын
I don't agree with the judge. She owes her mother money she admits so she got to pay. There should not be extra time for payment plans. The verdict is biased because of his contempt towards the mother. It is my opinion.
@shawniquariley1024 Жыл бұрын
They both have beautiful brown skin
@CeCeMe1 Жыл бұрын
As someone who wasn't raised by my mom... I am on the moms side. I see a delay in mom and I can tell she did the best with what she had. My mom was a teen mom and my grandparents raised me. They wanted my mom to just MAGICALLY get a job and a home. My mom was barely functioning as a damn adult with parents that gave orders and NO MF DIRECTION. Talked bad about my mom to me like she was the problem. My grandparents took good care of me but dropped the ball on still being parents to my mom. My sister was easily brainwashed into thinking my mom was the villain when it really was my grandparents. They weren't bad people, the were just ASS BACKWARDS. The daughter reminds me of my sister. Selfish and will ask a blind dog for money...turn around and act like you robbed her if you ask for it back.
@knightclassic1 Жыл бұрын
I hope your Children will turn their backs on you when they grow to be adults if you're going to take your kids out
@Bih1stOfAll Жыл бұрын
@@knightclassic1 WTF?
@1stisraelitessweetness17 Жыл бұрын
@@knightclassic1You're petty never disrespect someone telling there story agree to disagree. A father or mother may have made wrong decisions like most of us do does mean you don't supposed to respect your parents. No matter what parents should still be respected being the strong one shows God your heart because at the end of the day you suppose to honor your father and mother.
@TanayjsaRivers Жыл бұрын
yo mama had 18 years to get her life together stop with the excuses i understand people speak down on others but that should have made your mother want better for herself and her child. Dont make excuses for grown adults
@jabulanimadlingoziblondes981 Жыл бұрын
What a smart beautiful daughter
@Quinn-TalkThatTalk70309 күн бұрын
As a mother who mother was on drugs i didn’t hold that against my mom. My grandmother was the best person to care for me. This girl needs to understand what are mother been through
@geem3262 Жыл бұрын
How is this man a judge ..the law is the law she clearly owes her mother the money ..he gets emotionally attached to things in there personal life and chooses a side based on that and judges are not supposed to..he need to take notes from Judy
@velocityofgenerosity Жыл бұрын
the daughter chantall is so beautiful. and seems like a smart, sweet girl. she is very resilient and emotionally intelligent, with a good head on her shoulders. i am so proud of her, and i wish her the best!
@CanMac8870 Жыл бұрын
She said she HAD FORGIVEN HER MOM. HE SHOULD HAVE LET IT GO. He seems to PROJECT UNRESOLVED ISSUES OF HIS OWN ABANDONMENT FROM HIS FATHER ON TO OTHERS
@PrincessZaire100 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. People think forgiveness means the same access and that’s NOT the case. Just because I forgive you, that doesn’t mean I have allow you to be in my life. Forgiveness means that situation no longer has any control over me emotionally, and that it’s no longer weighing me down. Forgiveness and forget are two words that don’t belong in the same sentence
@jvmcghee85410 ай бұрын
JM has a legal obligation to adhere to the law and in this case he did not. The daughter owes the mother the money she admits to borrowing no matter how absent she was as a mother. I love JM but he got this one wrong and I see he took this one to heart. The mom clearly is no mom of the year therefore I probably wouldn't have asked to borrow money from someone I don't fool with but that is just me. These adult children will call out how bad the parents were but still take money from them and I think sometimes it is all out of guilt. The parents gave them a horrible life and out of their own guilt they think money is going to make everyone forgive and forget. Lady just cut that as a loss and move on. If she pay you back good she a woman of her word, if not take it for what it is; out of guilt you gave her the money and thats that..
@JaponicaEdwards Жыл бұрын
She is a beautiful daughter on the inside. She has so much love and grace for her mother I pray that she and her mother, who, because she deserves that relationship.
@Real-vi8gl11 ай бұрын
The daughter is full of it
@Bulldog3232 Жыл бұрын
What did the judge want the mom to let her daughter to be homeless and live on the street like her. She did right if she was homeless and let her father/aunt watches her. Everyone doesn’t have money like some individuals.
@codiestrauss8132 Жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for the mother she not perfect geez have a heart.
@_MoneyMike_ Жыл бұрын
I don’t she abandoned her child she don’t get sympathy
@highlander666 Жыл бұрын
She was raised in a "very well" home, interesting 🤔😂 the grandparents always raise their kids🙄
@_MoneyMike_ Жыл бұрын
Lol
@kashoutg2330 Жыл бұрын
My mother would cuss me tf out if was on fb live telling people her house dirty lol
@innerouterbeauty82317 ай бұрын
RUN GIRL RUN! I wish I was smart like her but made the mistake of believing my parent cared for me too and would change and regretted it big time. The mom seems like she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. They will abuse you one minute and say they love you the next. They are two faced back-stabbers. The fact that she abandoned her daughter then had the gall to sue her for a measly 600 bucks is ridiculous. So sorry for you. You are truly better off on your own. God bless you. I am so happy JM understood cause he was exactly right in this case. :)
@dionerhodes13088 ай бұрын
🤔 I think mom needs therapy. 🤦♀️
@tamelasutton4228 Жыл бұрын
Wait, "Get her some tissue if she crying forreal" I'm weak.😂😂😅 I LOVE JUDGE MATHIS
@Missyjjm Жыл бұрын
I didn’t like this ruling… he need to stop acting so emotional
@namegame-b9f Жыл бұрын
I think their personal issues should be irrelevant to her owing money 🤷🏽♀️
@anitablue5769 Жыл бұрын
Mom wasn't wrong about social media. Pay your mom ridiculous.