Are They, Aren’t They?

[@childfreechick2980]

Just because a man does the bare minimum of being nice to you, does not mean you let him enter your home, your body, your pantry, and your wallet. Let this be a lesson ma’am.

[@ericdrudeboy5408]

The pantry sis ?😂😂😂😂❤️👑

[@blackestknightx8881]

A lesson for what?? Not to threaten people

[@startpupsinc9758]

Or woman...

[@childfreechick2980]

@@startpupsinc9758 no I said what I said..

[@7StreamsofIncome247]

Hell yeah it better mean that

[@deetoopretty6099]

We do too much for men who hasn't earned anything from us

[@onejohnson7202]

What’s to much?

[@deetoopretty6099]

@@onejohnson7202 sex, cooking, giving money, doing things with his kids...all the things she was doing or trying to do to make him pick her and in the end he makes it known he aint willing to do the same for or with her. 🙄 but you already knew that cuz you're a man at least your picture is of a man

[@lailanimessina1473]

@@onejohnson7202giving boyfriend and husband treatment when he’s only there for sex, food and a ride to the store

[@BigBoss-zi5ss]

It's called desperation and it's sad when it happens

[@jasonwhitfield6161]

She obviously didn't earn his time either

[@AmySimmers-h9e]

Im weeaaakkkk Judge thought deadass meant she was threatening to kill him😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@davidc2984]

I think he pretended not to know. He’d already determined that he didn’t like this woman and was trying every way possible to rule in favor of the defendant. And that’s what he did. JM is really a piece of work, very biased, inconsistent and fickle.

[@chadaidavis92]

He showed his age fr 😂

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

​@@davidc2984....she is not attractive or very feminine looking to JM...,he is a mess.

[@RoseArnold40]

In this day and age all messages text/VM should not include slang. Being articulate can save you money etc... let that be a lesson

[@lailanimessina1473]

That’s one of his “jokes”. Like he didn’t know 🙄 He knew lol

[@_EricaKeyz]

Doing too much for a man that’s not yours too soon. See how quick he was to say what y’all had was basically nothing. Then go on to still force yourself in his life when he was basically playing the field. You can’t keep someone who doesn’t want to be kept. Sounded like a lemon car from the jump.

[@ibmortality1617]

He still got the draws and played her like a flute!🤡. You made it all about “doing too much for a Man” when it was about her making a dumb decision to to mix business and pleasure. She wanted that D and got played. Prolly happened to you as well🤡

[@blackestknightx8881]

It sounded like he was helping her out and she wanted it to be more

[@bryanjohnson8982]

What did she do for him

[@_EricaKeyz]

@@bryanjohnson8982did you not hear the first 3 mins of the show? She cooking and inviting him over and barely knew him. That’s what I’m referring to. Why do all that when he clearly stated they were NOTHING!

[@lailanimessina1473]

@@_EricaKeyzshe obviously ASSumed her cookn would make him want to move right in 😩 I don’t understand women that act desperate or needy for dudes smh

[@simonsez1787]

She was scorned. And understandably so. She started to panic when he switched up real hard and end up going lower than him with the threats.

[@sussieasempapa6787]

He ‘Rapier(ed) her😮😮😅😅

[@boogster9526]

Switched up how? She shot her shot and he wasn’t feeling her like that…so what he do?

[@colereviewsyt]

Understandable? You girls are really clueless out here

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

She should not have agreed to let him move on his own terms to do the repairs.

[@blackestknightx8881]

How about she should have gone to the dealership

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

@@blackestknightx8881 agreed

[@really...8359]

i thought JM “knew all the slang” but he don’t know the most new york saying ever? deadass means serious “im so deadass rn” “are you deadass”

[@BlueHilary]

He knows what it means. I believe the only reason he said it was a threat was to double down on what she already said about bringing her brothers to harm him.

[@lailanimessina1473]

Dead ass B 🤣🤣

[@alexusfx763]

Right my boyfriend from Brooklyn he always say that 😂

[@Reigntaylor333]

We know he doesn’t know all the slang. He’s still existing in his day 😂😂😂

[@kgames1748]

"The most New York saying ever" 😂😂

[@debramitchell]

Judge Mathis needs the urban dictionary on standby 😂

[@HeyTidi]

He needs that urban dictionary ASAP! PRONTO! 😂😂.

[@lailanimessina1473]

He was “joking” like he didn’t know lol he definitely knew

[@rubyjaez]

2 weeks withouta car is too reasonable. I disagree with his verdict. Women need to be wiser and less trusting

[@chenithaelliott4835]

He gave her the car too begin with she was without a car before she met him and all she did was buy a battery and pay for minor work on a free car. She was doing all that rushing because he got the sex and wasn’t into her like she wanted him to be. How was she going to get to this new job if she hadn’t met him or he didn’t offer to give her the car even offered to give her half of the money back she had been spending on fixing the car if he couldn’t get it running right for her. I would’ve gave her the money back and took my car back and told her to kick rocks. I promise if he had been still dicking her down and coming over when she called him that car could still be in her yard not running and they wouldn’t be in court. No values or self respect

[@karensmith6815]

Deadass ain’t mean she gonna kill her judge lmaoooo

[@mikeprice8307]

Doesn't matter. Defendant won 2x. By veiled threat & text to him to keep car & $

[@jeromegaines8062]

Yeah judge methods was wrong there

[@Orlandoloc83]

So what does cold world means then? Like she comes off trying to be smart but she’s a hood booger in disguise

[@erieyoung2615]

😂😂😂😂

[@NickysWorld88]

As a New Yorker i can tell he is lying😂😂

[@Reigntaylor333]

That entire part 😂 I can smell the finesse 😭

[@teejay9533]

Word, I know my people.

[@NickysWorld88]

@@Reigntaylor333 🤣🤣

[@NickysWorld88]

@@teejay9533 exactly 😂

[@PaulPaid]

Matthis definitely dropped the ball on this one. He sold her a lemon and acting like after 5 days its not his problem. Then dragged his ass about paying her back. The woman has a job she needs to get to.. on time.

[@blackestknightx8881]

When you buy a car from a private owner then the sale is "as is" unless you can prove they knew about a problem and didn't tell the buyer. She knew the car had issues therefore she assumed responsibility

[@deetoopretty6099]

And she knew she had a job before trusting a man she didn't even know! See a sucker lick a sucker

[@dadabg8747]

Yep ​@@blackestknightx8881

[@PaulPaid]

​​​@@blackestknightx8881?....You watching the same video? She gave him the money to change the battery. That's it. Please tell me when in this video she stated she knew the car had any other problems..... thank you.

[@blackestknightx8881]

​@@PaulPaidthe car wasn't running. That is a huge issue. You females are so gullible. A man isn't buying buying a non running vehicle unless he knows what's going on

[@thinkglobalactlocal4898]

Acting like he a BOSS, scamming chics, bro MAN UP!!

[@dadabg8747]

He admitted he was creeping on his shawty on LIVE TV, He told shawty he was going help get her car fix when his mechanic come back from the lost of his fam. 5 days wait time for a FREE CAR, ain't bad. She ain't have a car before, so how was she going to get to her new job anyways 🤔 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@boogster9526]

What he do to her? Im confused…he gave her a free car and she couldn’t give him time to get it fix…what he scam her out off?

[@leahnole9771]

When the defendant confesses on this show that while he was seeing you he actually had a girlfriend. Instead of you being good and embarrassed about him making you look bad on national TV, your reaction is: "Well at least he is honest!" Women do better!!!!

[@misha5347]

Curious, what was she supposed to say

[@sereneamani1713]

THAT woman. All women don't need your admonition.

[@lailanimessina1473]

Hopefully ur taking ur own advice since ur talkn to all women 😂 And she literally said that because SHE DIDN’T KNOW HE HAD A GIRL 🤦🏻‍♀️ Sooooo why the hell should she be embarrassed or feel like she did something wrong when she’s just now finding out 🙄 That’s like an oxymoron statement lol

[@karendorsey4780]

The plaintiff trusted the defendant way too much! The plaintiff is a woman scorned! A lesson learned! You teach people how to treat you!

[@MrLenroc82]

Mathis dont know what "deadass" means 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@NKAB4]

Right that was not a threat 😂😂😂…

[@ldd2112]

Right. With his lil soft gangster self!😂😂

[@tom11zz884]

You have to look at it in context. She threatened him earlier, this was a continuation of that threat. Mathis knows what he is doing here.

[@simonsez1787]

⁠@@tom11zz884yeah a continuation, thas how I interpreted it too. She started bluffing with the “you ain’t worth it.” She tried to wordsmith it and JM wasn’t having it lol Ion know what these lil jokers above thinking lol.

[@deja14]

That annoyed me 😂

[@maryksnyder1155]

Not a good decision! He had no intention of fixing the car!!!

[@sereneamani1713]

How do you legally support your conclusion?

[@1845hunt]

How do women end up liking guys like this is beyond me smh. He's gross everything about him.

[@HNiCDuke]

Mathis always looking for a laugh. I didnt think asking the plaintiff if "he had a happy ending" (during a massage) was a distasteful joke. What a 🤡

[@universaldollie]

JM being Nosy Parker. Off color question by the judge.

[@favorjanae6464]

He’s turned into an asshole over the years 🙄

[@wadilotus]

He’s an old perve. Remember, he’s been with his wife since college so he doesn’t have that much outside experience (aside from a few outside affairs, i’m sure). He lives vicariously through other people’s sexual experiences.

[@MsShae]

Why she offer up distasteful information?

[@HNiCDuke]

@@MsShae a massage is distasteful? How is that the same as a sexual favor?

[@NeseS84]

Judge be trying to keep up but don’t know all the slag😂😂😂😂

[@TeeDee79]

I don't call folk ugly but the defendant ain't cute enough to do so much for in the beginning of their 'affiliation'

[@sereneamani1713]

So if he was cuter (in your opinion) it would have been okay to "do so much"?

[@DaGreatOne1979]

They look equal to me

[@jewelsdayspa7764]

That part!!!😂😂

[@BADDIE_lol-y7v]

@@DaGreatOne1979Right! She’s not cute either..

[@elvickRULES]

@@DaGreatOne1979he’s not obese so he’s better off.

[@whatsbehindthefog]

My girl JuJu is such a sweetheart in person; sucks that this happened.

[@YAHsaves777]

You know her personally? Why did she put so much trust in this guy she barely knew?

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

@whatsbehindthefog...,she has trouble with the guys?

[@Lynette_Shine]

Please tell her for me I Love her Name "Judaea" spelled Judea means "the praised one"! I don't know if she sings but tell her focus on her inner-being in song and praise unto a Holy God! There is a praise inside of her she needs to get in touch with so she can be free from the trap of low self-esteem. She is beautiful inside/out! Peace and Blessings be Judaea, I pray, Amen

[@BigBoss-zi5ss]

She seems like such a nice person and imo she is very cute...no offense but some women are so desperate for a man when they don't need to be

[@gt43025]

Wow 😮 That changed quick 😅

[@itsjustmeshay]

Not this her voice 3:44 😅😅😅he outta line

[@lotisbomb6448]

😂😂😂

[@erieyoung2615]

😂😂😂😂

[@theoracle2760]

Ironically, all that hood talk the defendant said the plaintiff engages in when she's not putting on the act is exactly what ended up losing her the case. Lol.

[@blackestknightx8881]

Alot of these females move like that

[@geo745don]

She tried to hide the hood talk in court, can't take the Ghetto out of some females

[@chelseacruise6570]

I wonder what happened when someone told him what “dead ass” means.

[@LadyLightOwl]

I must admit I have done this in a different situation before, being scorn and ran away a friend , this was a look back of realization that healing is still needed and can’t rush the process, so now everytime I see myself doing this I catch it for the most part, it’s sad us women don’t realize sooner and end up losing out, on good men , no fault of others besides the real one that drags us through the mud and we still haven’t found away of forgiveness towards ourselves for allowing it… 😢 sad but yet learning

[@tgrant6518]

This is the truth.!

[@TheeMichellesMind]

JM needs to stop the BS. Can’t tell me his “I know the game!” self didn’t know what deadazz meant! 🙄😩😮‍💨

[@tanyaparker-callsign.kk7ic238]

She reminds me of my former self young dumb and full of you fill in the blank. Be quick to listen slow to speak and slow to be angry…so your days may be long. Bible KJV

[@ieshaanderson1317]

He told her about the situation with the mechanic. That's not in his control. She was impatient and i believe she wanted more of a connection with him. She saw he wasn't interested in anything more serious on a romantic level and coupled with her car needing repairing caused her to become emotionally out of control. I hope she learned her lesson on being more patient, restraining herself better when things don't go her way and finding men who are single who are on the same page that she's on.

[@LuiCambio]

Homie sound like Gangstalicious 🤣

[@patriciamcallister9261]

I disagree with that verdict! He never fixed the car!

[@ak24553]

I think she was harassing him and he just didn’t feel like being bothered. She used the car to get to him because she liked him.

[@inukoko2012]

Not him admitting to cheating on his gf. Lbs she dodged a bullet. He wants to be a bachelor.

[@opulence_prime]

She said you’re “deadass” not worth it. JM misinterpreted the slang. But not only that. He knows that guy finessed her by sleeping with her to sell her that car. She was soft on him and had she waited a lil longer she’d have proof he never intended to fix that car.

[@gregoryewilliams4291]

The judge held her accountable for using those words and the context she used those words. JUSTICE SERVED....😊😅

[@KayB-l5h]

Should've never mixed business with crazy

[@michellefreeman3659]

He wasn't attracted to her. If he was he would of moved quicker. Mathis, don't even know what deadass means.😡😡

[@sereneamani1713]

Why is either part of your statement important?

[@antoinetownsend7665]

She blew in her hand like she was holding a razor 😂😂😂

[@jgwphilly1969]

"dead ass" does meam seriously

[@darrellgalloway2749]

Judge Mathis Ain't From NY Dead Ass 🤣🤣🤣

[@andreholliman1169]

Jm freaked out 😂😂😂😂

[@jawanabrown1923]

The face of the lady in the red jacket behind the plantiff when she said "massagessss".. she looked shocked. @1:43 😂

[@babygroot81]

She mad he didn't like her😂😂 plain and simple

[@shai9256]

You’d be crazy to come on this show & explain anything to JM. Lol ain’t no telling what personality you’ll get. Sheesh

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

She wanted HIM..... period!

[@JayMonaeee]

Girl STAND UP 🙄

[@BlUubErRyKuSh]

ALL NEW YORKERS RIGHT NOW👀👀👀 “LIKE ARE U DEADASS RIGHT NOW JUDGE” DEADASS, DEADASS..

[@Scorpiolyf_91]

I can tell he believes he looks more attractive than general society would think. She seems a bit desperate and definitely not his type. She was toooo excited to talk about cooking and massaging him.

[@koycchao86]

She got a little attention 😂😂😂😂

[@greatmind3842]

She's mad because he doesn't want her!

[@teegreen3909]

Yup

[@trishondac]

Somebody tell judge “deadass” is a term meaning “are you serious” lol 💀 she was not threatening that man

[@baldheadronbhr76]

So the man is not at fault for saying he was going to fix the car, and never fixing the car because of that loose contact they signed? Wow🤯

[@dadabg8747]

Damn.... Double pay. 😂😂😂

[@annamariegowithme]

He sure minimized her quick as soon as he started talking just shows how men vs women look at things

[@locafly]

This has to be a joke, right? Judge Mathis doesn’t know what deadass means? 😹😹😹🤦🏽‍♀️ #stopit

[@LuiCambio]

14:11 She said "cold world". Brah, you made it cold 😂

[@dartist3971]

Boy I swear you women something else. He presented himself well, crossed his T’s and dotted her eyes. 😂

[@sussieasempapa6787]

So basically he was trying to live up to his corny name. ‘Rapier’?😮😅

[@sereneamani1713]

This case involved one woman. So who is your comment addressing?

[@dartist3971]

@@sereneamani1713 the woman in the case.

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

Big Shirley fell for him too quickly. Next time don't use chemistry when it comes to dating, use logic.

[@sereneamani1713]

She'll probably do that when you learn not to body shame.

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

@@sereneamani1713 Body shame? No way!

[@insanelybeautiful4090]

I bet your mother looks worse

[@russellejoice7532]

Why did his mama name him Rapier?!?😢😂

[@xxxx2935]

. ( MATTHEW) 24 : 12.. "And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold".

[@NaturalElicia]

Amen

[@Jsarmy87124]

read the bible in private

[@xxxx2935]

@@Jsarmy87124 .( PSALM ) 19 : 3.. 4 .. "There is no speech nor language, Where their voice is not heard. Their line is gone out through all the earth, And their words to the end of the world". Thank you for your time.

[@lb.3199]

​@@Jsarmy87124Why read in private? The world is in turmoil b/c people don't adhere to the commandments.

[@sereneamani1713]

@@Jsarmy87124 No need to do so in private.

[@KayB-l5h]

Judge has a perverted sense of humor

[@williamharris5976]

She thought because he slept with her meant he actually cared for her lol

[@lindaalvarez8855]

The Defendant was a low cheating louse. She was stupid or naive to give him money. They're TOXIC for each other!

[@onejohnson7202]

Nah she just stupid.

[@kathleenwhite2236]

Judge Mathis got it so wrong! I usually don't watch him that much. This whole case was one of the reasons why. His stupid remark about a happy ending was uncalled for and his verdict was pathetic!

[@isaidwhatisaid2750]

The names alone

[@waymanquinn3084]

I just don’t like the judge decision he sold her a lemon. A working woman who didn’t have a lot of money. She is out a car and has to pay this man money for selling her a lemon. Black woman justice right!!!

[@teegreen3909]

True

[@gonegirldiaries]

it gotta suck to try to sue someone & you’re the one end up having to pay them🤷🏾‍♀️

[@allinme2008]

Goyle be running to get the tea 🤣

[@K_Cole0128]

This is her voice “yoooo!” He had her sounding like baps from making da band.

[@nycgirltee]

Soon as he started talking I knew he was from Queens 😂

[@kayekaye08]

Seems like a bit of love bombing but sis is too old to fall for the okie doke.

[@dadabg8747]

This case, Mathis gave off Judge Judy Vibes..... 🤷🏾‍♂️🤣

[@JustTubbyRich]

He doesn't know what "deadass" means? That's OLD, i thought he's "from the streets"! 🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mathis is such a fraud.

[@chinnupllc709]

Sis you were sprung on this man for what reason I have no idea. I think she was using the car and buying the car “to help him out” thinking it will eventually bring her the man 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@tawandamaddox3344]

Deadass 😂

[@chinnupllc709]

@@tawandamaddox3344 I’m just saying that’s the vibe I’m getting 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Jsarmy87124]

really mr MATHIS ?????? Deadass: serves as a slang way to emphasize or intensify a statement, functioning like the word seriously or the slang for real, I deadass met Beyoncé at that concert or Dude, deadass?!

[@kennethwilliams4909]

Backfired !!

[@jasminelu_2957]

😂😂😂JM really help around Quarantine days

[@rickysmith5150]

Judge Mathis got mad at her for using deadass slang. 😂😂 he said” you trynna do somethin to him”

[@MichaelBellJr81]

She's mad because she found out he had a girlfriend

[@ULTRXBLXCK]

"Dead ass," is not a threat. But she was in there lying lol Still, she seems like a nice woman and I hope she finds someone (without a girlfriend) to treat her nice.

[@ebeleifedigbo506]

Lmao DEADASS 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kjayelindsay9931]

“De@d @ss is slang in NY JM 🤣

[@Erica-zg7yo]

Doyle face at the end. He definitely was disgusted.

[@roxyj3182]

lol man I miss THIS version 😂😂😂

[@keyturn23]

She text him "you dead ass" 🤣😂🤣 She should've ending the statement with a ? "Are you dead ass?" 🤣😂🤣

[@simplysteve9718]

😂😂😂💯💯💯

[@Tashamac86]

Damn JM was not playing wit her

[@lovicebrinkman1]

Judge Judy would have said next to the harassment and then say, “step out”!

[@WarGrowlmon18]

She should've just had him fix it!!!

[@joniquesuggs3875]

Clearly she was angry cuz she was always stranded due to the car…she can’t do nothing with his empty “ima fix it” responses…. So absolutely she was mad mad. Judge just team men and didn’t like her.

[@sereneamani1713]

That wasn't really a team-men judgment. She doesn't realize the error of her ways. This was a mild ramification. Threatening bodily harm is against the law. Being mad doesn't excuse illegal behavior. You can go to jail.

[@beb5407]

She trusted this stranger and was giving him money. She was doing to much to keep this man and get a reliable vehicle. She wasn't thinking with her mind at all business first.

[@angelinaharrison1120]

He's a Lame Dude!

[@brandancharles3292]

Her fav word must be "right"

[@DannTann66]

That was very rude to ask the woman that question.

[@adrianknight1406]

Love the defendant's honesty about his philandering ways. I can identify with him especially because I'm like that as well. Best to be honest. Nonetheless this case bolsters the fact as to why you never elect to purchase used shit. It'll always come back to bite you in the behind in the end as it ultimate did the plaintiff amongst other things..

[@Jsarmy87124]

you can identify with him being a PHILANDER. why are you lying to us ! how you can do that to the GATEKEEPER. Your hate for women especially white one tell us another story But thank you for your rage bait comment all this year

[@sereneamani1713]

Adrian, Adrian, Adrian. So are you honest in general or are you speaking of philandering ways? Being honest about philandering just means you tell the truth and don't try to hide who or what you are. Philandering in itself is a dishonest act.

[@agonzo6265]

Mathis gota know hood talk smh

[@carolharris5455]

She just mad because he doesn’t want her

[@sereneamani1713]

That too. But it has nothing to do with how she and he handled the situation.

[@lizbobo1]

Well an example of digging your own grave. The brother came prepared, he set you up & you fell for it. Girl, you know better now. 😮

[@K_L3n]

Somebody was clappin hard as shit in that last case

[@yemedemure414]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tjbooker9948]

Why hasn't he changed his first name?

[@Jojostrokesofficial]

😂😂😂he a hot mess

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

She bought the car, so she could stay in his life.....but she does not have it.