Paternity Test

[@koolking_4k]

Not begging no mf body to bring me my child if I gotta catch the train I gotta catch the train 😤

[@reka-mp2lk]

Spoken like a real man!!!!

[@swagkid9975]

Straight💯

[@TSR228]

Period. Real father!!!!!!!!!

[@KittyInkel]

Exactly. And she said he has time to go to the club. He should ask whoever takes him to the club to take him to see his son. Hopefully they can figure it out and learn to co-parent.

[@yolandac9334]

That part!

[@thrillerkas]

Tf does $20 a week do for a child?? “I try my best” TRY HARDER WTF

[@pernidatheinvader336]

That’s not even a good pack of diapers not that Family Dollar brand bs cause I’ve seen that a lot dudes out here buying family dollar diapers

[@c3servicesofatl]

She should have never had his child to begin with. He had no car, no job, no house and he didn’t marry her. Why did she think having his child was a good idea?

[@thrillerkas]

@@c3servicesofatl I agree

[@ljgil850]

i mean what does 0 dollars do for a child???..all bruh need is the right circle around him and the right encouragement..bruh game will step up in no time

[@dadabg8747]

That's all the courts want. You can tell she bitter and he a street dude so he going forever be in debt....

[@oodief88]

The way some of these men get applauded for doing the bare minimum. Good lord. I'm glad I was fortunate enough to have a father who didn't make excuses and bust his ass to make sure I was taken care of.

[@philomenaezeh7770]

Thank God for a good father.

[@quentinsowell3704]

She was trash too tho

[@itzlexxii]

@@quentinsowell3704 yeah, she was trash for having a child with him

[@stevenedwards1284]

How about stop laying down with men like this then you won’t have to worry about being in this situation

[@khdawj2768]

​@@stevenedwards1284 how about not being a broke arsehole guy

[@jasonito23]

I have a daughter that lives in GA. I'm from Ohio. When my daughter was living with her mom, I used to go to Georgia to get her and I would take her back to Georgia. Later I got custody. But if this man wants to see his son, he needs to find a way. It's not on her to take her son to him.

[@ronnimartin7033]

She can still work with him. It isn't about the mother or father. It's about their son!

[@cindysammy2513]

If you can get a ride to the trap house, you can get a ride to get your son!!

[@CYKG2023]

Facts!

[@dadabg8747]

Not necessarily. People would give you rides all day to your spots. But if you trying not to show your Son that you in the streets, why would you want them to see the people you hang around? Or be in a car that possibly smells of drugs

[@wordplay1415]

Exactly! 20 minutes away is close enough to see that baby everyday

[@heathab...._-_]

EXACTLY 💯

[@corazoncubano5372]

If he can get a ride to go down to the courthouse to petition to have his $42 a week child support order reduced to $20 a week he shouldn't have trouble getting a ride to go see his son. Disgraceful. Plain disgraceful some of these dudes who are quick to call themselves fathers.

[@takenyahulsey9959]

There is no excuse for the non custodial parent to not be able to work two jobs and give something . The custodial parent has to sacrifice everything. There isn’t any trying ..

[@alyssag.5758]

I can't believe a judge ordered him to pay $20 a week. A 9 year old needs more.

[@jasonito23]

@@alyssag.5758 That order was made while he was in prison. I'm sure of that.

[@allymaree8812]

Right! noncustodial...he has plenty of time to work that much more. it ain't like he gotta do the kid's laundry or make meals, play chauffer for the kid to get to appts/activities, etc. 😒

[@diamondbrown5811]

I hate this one he really had the nerve to call her bitter when she’s taking full time care of their son working and all 80 dollars is not nothing

[@michelleg7444]

He got his child support reduced from $42 to $20 and that’s to be commended?!

[@brittneyberry4934]

Period...and her child is being denied on top of the bare minimum and she gets called bitter smfh.

[@jaycesmith7899]

How much is she supposed to get? Child support is a hustle anyway that goes against the dads 95% of the time. He told her he didn't want her to have it but she did anyway. She's bitter now and it sounds like the kid is going to be in the streets anyway.

[@LamaraRowe]

Right! Talking about doing things “when he can” like a child only eats, gets sick, uses electricity when he can. Worthless

[@c3servicesofatl]

The dollar amount wasn’t being commended, his efforts were being commended.

[@michelleg7444]

@@c3servicesofatl which were?

[@HeatherWho11.10]

One time my daughter's father gave me $100. A few months later, we were at court for him being like $16k behind in cs and he says "I gave you $100. That money was for my daughter, not you" and the judge goes "well how long did you think $100 would help take care of your child for?" 😂

[@tellnolies8530]

A whole $100!!!? 🤔🤪

[@HeatherWho11.10]

@@tellnolies8530 right 😂 every dime he gave went to our daughter. When that $100 didn't last several months, he assumed it was because I spent it on myself 🤦🏼

[@modestinemungo4661]

👀: Me..if I would have been in that courtroom

[@HeatherWho11.10]

@@modestinemungo4661 I know right. The judge and I both got a good chuckle out of it

[@modestinemungo4661]

@@HeatherWho11.10 Good morning lady, @ least you got a $100 1 time. I use receive $12 every 2 weeks for my daughter...Now tell me what could I have bought my daughter wit $12?. Glad i was married and working during those turbulent tines! 🤦‍♀️.

[@reka-mp2lk]

I cant believe judge mathis let him go on with all them excuses its definitely not fair that all he can pay is 20 dollars and the mom have to pay the rest...we as mothers cant just do wat we can we gotta go above and beyond for our kids so he should do the same...was very disappointed with judge mathis with this. case that lady aint bitter she deserves some help!!!

[@blackwomanwatching9700]

Exactly... JM was trippin trippin 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@tamiasebopetja]

This goes both ways ,stop having kids with broke men !

[@alyssag.5758]

Agreed. Who wouldn't be unhappy if they were getting $20 for child support? She's supposed to have a smile on her face?

[@pauloskidane2819]

@@tamiasebopetja They don’t see it like that. They think all American Black Men should pay for the mistakes of a few.

[@kay22100]

Why is judge giving him props for doing the bare minimum?? Omgosh. The bar is set so low for black men. My husband’s dad took 100% care of him and put him through college. and yes he’s black. $20 a month is nothing.

[@kailo7001]

the real issue is why is she keeping the son away from his father and poisoning his mind about his own father?? that is evil. The father wants to be in the child's life and its not fair that you women get away with destroying kids by turning them against their fathers its wrong and disgusting. When us men leave is because of y'all NOT because of the child

[@kay22100]

@@kailo7001 She also said he’s trying to put the son against her as well so who knows who’s telling the truth?? One truth we know for sure is he’s been giving this lady only $18 or $20 a month for this child. That is shameful and ridiculous

[@TSR228]

So low...

[@kay22100]

@Kobe Bryant Well $20 is far from outrageous. He could go work at McDonald’s and give more than $20 a month. I bet he spends more than $20 a month on himself!

[@pauloskidane2819]

@Sweet Doll Face black men makes more then Latin men yet Latin men get cooperation from their women and they women actually respect them and cherish them despite their social economic status.

[@AllaboutMarjorita]

The fact that he thinks $80 a month is enough for a child makes me sick. Stop enabling these men and make them get jobs.

[@Unap0l0getic]

$80 sounds like that's all he can afford.

[@AllaboutMarjorita]

@@Unap0l0getic that’s why you don’t have kids if you can’t afford them. He could get a better paying job or get more then one job. The mother can say that’s all I can afford when bills are due, when the child needs something.

[@doyoulikeme8765]

Right. Get a damn job and pay for your kids!

[@RooseveltAliWashingtonX]

She knew that the dude was, is, and will probably always be a bum. That said, no woman has to get pregnant. The choice was all hers!

[@wecountingmoneyoverhere2517]

Protect your ovaries!

[@thetiredfemme3652]

She said “not me” with a swiftness like that’s a problem but ma’am you slept with him and without protection so being from Gary is the least of your problems

[@kimberlyhampton5332]

Exactly

[@annameade8570]

True!!!

[@jazs2300]

RIGHT!!

[@londonblues7070]

☺😄😁🤭

[@tiffanyjohnson7466]

Exactly lol I’m from the region and I was like girl you ain’t to far from it

[@winniebassette9591]

Judge Mathis Fell for the okey doke. The plaintiff was saying a whole lot of nothing. $20 in child support...smh

[@reka-mp2lk]

Exactly

[@crystalinez831]

Real shit.

[@ljgil850]

in total yea it may not be a lot but its better than a deadbeat..some effort is better than none at all..i believe judge was giving a glass half full perspective..ijs

[@reka-mp2lk]

@@ljgil850 thats the problem we give credit to men for doing what they suppose to do I guess the mother has to pick up the slack amd just take the lil 20 dollars he can give her ...but this is why we as women need to be careful of who we produce children with simple as that!

[@ljgil850]

@@reka-mp2lk i mean buddy just gotta step his game up, which i agree..getting outta gary would be a big start..aint no money there..its so many in the comments calling him bum and talking like he a deadbeat because he didnt magically transition from a street guy to a beyond minimum wage employee..its just not realistic under their circumstance. she knew what it was and still slept with buddy..where her accountability at??

[@NastyWorks]

Stress about what? Paying five dollars at a time. You should be embarrassed. Know damn well that’s Yo kid. Got six fingers

[@1shaymocha]

😂...but not funny.🤭yeah that's your child 🖐🏾

[@natalyawest219]

hes paying $20 each month meanwhile shes probably spending $300 on her son every 3 weeks

[@NKAB4]

Exactly standing up there in that Zoot Suit...

[@c3servicesofatl]

Probably? If she has him on child support knowing he can’t afford it, she’s definitely getting help from the State. He’s a poor provider and she’s a bad mom for selecting him as her child’s father

[@ljgil850]

man that lady could thought about that while she was on top a bruh..na her accountability is just as pertinent

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

@@NKAB4 💀💀💀💀💀💀 @Zoot fit

[@alyssag.5758]

And he's doing the best he can? Pathetic. He don't need to have any more children.

[@Indigobliss377]

How is it her responsibility to get his child to him??? Sir get on the train! He really got praised for the bare min and she got called bitter for what? Judge Mathis missed the mark on this one. I'm disappointed in the way he handled her.

[@helena3631]

Judge Mathis missed the mark this man not doing shit ..doing the bare minimum especially that low child support he paying what a joke..what a waste

[@keekeemason738]

Yea, I agree. I've noticed that Judge Mathis is biased when it comes to these men and their raggedy behavior toward their children. It's really disgusting.

[@jfriday8317]

Yep your son is gonna care about that yep silly as women

[@sweetsweet81]

It's both of their responsibility to make sure the child sees his dad. She needs to bring him some days, and he needs to catch the train or a ride with friends on others. It's a joint effort...well it should be anyway.

[@Bih1stOfAll]

@@sweetsweet81 That's crazy as hell and no judge would order that. Why should she go OUT of her way when he isn't doing the same?

[@melany7988]

So he only pays $20 and he expect her to use her resources and gas money to bring his child to him. Smh I bet he find a ride everywhere else. also I don’t think she is bitter if the two mothers of his children are working together apparently he is the weak link.

[@kevinknox1239]

That's what the court says he has to pay.

[@1990KeyonaJones]

@@kevinknox1239 yea after his ass reduced it from $42.. pitiful

[@basemanawakens6089]

She picked him...

[@taylornorris3489]

Why should she have to go out of her way to drop her son off just because he doesn’t have a car?

[@pharoh32]

I’m guessing cause that would be the right thing to do for the child.

[@murieltillman9554]

I can't figure that one out, either. She's already doing the brunt of the work taking care of THEIR child. Then she is supposed chase behind and enable him by taking time out of her life and schedule for this guy??? Wrong answer. This guy needs to put forth at least SOME effort for his child. He's already showing the very bare minimum. There js not a child alive that can be taken care of on $20. a month. She shouldn't even set the bad example of having to take her child to this guy. Her child should even expect more from his/her own father. He's capable of getting everywhere else he wants or needs to go, the least he can do is make a way to see his child on a regular basis. Come on, people. Damn.

[@itazuranakisu]

That’s BS. The right thing would be him working as many jobs and hours possible to get a bus or a bike or skateboard and get his butt over there. She’s doing most of the heavy lifting and it speaks to having so much nerve to demand more. Not like he’s going to give her gas money.

[@Ev-rd2lw]

​@@pharoh32sound foolish

[@cjjallah]

Judge Mathis is dumb for that comment.

[@CookingwithCj319]

I was cracking up about her cousin being his case worker lol.

[@sweetbeloved623]

Judge Mathis was so hilarious on that part about the cousin😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@YourShadowKeeper]

Yeah, she said it was her cousin's wife. So her cousin was married to his caseworker, which isn't a conflict of interest at all. She has no obligation to give a rats-ass about her husband/wife's random cousin.

[@shannonbrown6032]

I did a little bit because my sister had the same shit happen to her but she did this to other people so it wasn't unheard of but i am from Cincinnati and a wrap is a wrap but a lot of females do this and this man wasn't even the father it truly made me mad

[@lovingcareheatingandair6794]

He has that baby boy mentality. I don't like it.

[@brittany___]

I knew he reminded me of someone! This man is Jodie 2.0.

[@moodykim9182]

Lmfaooo...Is she Evett??

[@kay22100]

@@brittany___ 😂🤣🤣😂

[@jazs2300]

He’s a professional at selling “you know what” but can only afforded $20 a month?? That’s not professional sir 🤣They’re both a mess

[@mpendamuziki]

People always have a choice with whom they have kids with. Don't have a kid with someone who's struggling then complain later what you get.

[@steelwill78]

Brokest drug dealer I ever seen!

[@jazs2300]

@@steelwill78 that’s what I’m saying 😭 he’s down bad

[@msmulisha]

He we go judge capping for the guys as usual. It is the man's responsibility to pick up his own child.

[@lomaxlomax6152]

I think she should help him with that for the kids sake, but what I did not like is Judge Mathis giving him props for making $20 and $30 child support payments, I was like ummmmmm excuse me.

[@jadeburnham5493]

The way that judge mathis conducts court AND himself speaks volumes to me, IJS I've never seen a "grown man" consistently be in support of any men NOT doing FULLY what he is capable of doing to provide for their child! I used to watch him years ago and stopped literally because of this type of behavior and when this video came up on my timeline I thought why not give him a chance...NOPE still an IDGIT smh!

[@beautifulllb9493]

Exactly!

[@KeyKeyJournals]

@@lomaxlomax6152 I agree with your entire comment

[@alyssag.5758]

Especially if he's only giving her $20. Why the hell should she have to act like a car service?

[@beautifulllb9493]

TWENTY DOLLARS A MONTH and he deserves respect and leniency??! JM can sometimes be too nice to these “reformed” street dudes. He was just cussing her out and threatening her life. So she wasn’t “bitter”, she’s fed up!

[@theredwhoop9372]

Mutt hush

[@beautifulllb9493]

@@theredwhoop9372 Typical response. Bye thug!

[@theredwhoop9372]

@@beautifulllb9493 you definitely look like yo daddy wit yo handsome azz

[@warrenhunte7890]

It's not much but it's more than 0. The judge mentioned that the dude had at least 600 payments documented. Judge probably has many men come before him who don't pay child support and don't give anything at all on the side. It would have been unfair for him to treat this dude as if he was a complete deadbeat

[@adennis2529]

Exactly! We’ve all been there. Judge Mathis is an Ass hole. This 🥷 is a damn beat. He’s only paying $20 a month bc his broke ass is being garnished. He’s not paying voluntarily. He had to be forced.

[@robn314]

Judge Mathis be tripping! She damned if she do damned if she don’t . He think women supposed to except the bare minimum

[@1990KeyonaJones]

Right, accept bare minimum on the sake that he's "trying". Get the fuck outta here 😭😭

[@ABGwithSass2]

Exactly!

[@pauloskidane2819]

@@1990KeyonaJones She rather would see him still in the streets hustling like he was when she met him.

[@shelocsher2396]

And jump for joy over “effort”

[@robn314]

@Ghetto Nitzsche it’s giving I hate women 🤣

[@leibaluv3204]

The mother showed a lot of restraint! Judge Mathis did her dirty!

[@MuvaTwerks]

Not Judge Mathis giving this man a golf clap for doing the bare minimum 🙄

[@PALIVE-mp6gn]

It's rare so we applaud a man being there in some way, shape or form

[@loveandlight_]

I respect him for trying his best the man did state that's he's trying to better himself and get out of the streets. Much love to him ❤

[@MuvaTwerks]

@@PALIVE-mp6gn rare that men take care of their children? So sad.

[@MuvaTwerks]

@@loveandlight_ I get it. Children can’t eat trying tho. And need & deserve so much more. 10 years is too long for a child to go without.

[@takenyahulsey9959]

That’s not fair. She should be applauded .. nobody would applaud a mother for just “trying”

[@VirgoCali89]

He got money for a nice suit and jewelry but can't pay for a DNA test 😆 Had to go on TV and blast his business for a free test

[@MaeSekou]

Sis if you think that’s a nice suit then.... 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@alyssag.5758]

Not surprised. He can only afford $20 a week in child support. Not sure how you keep a roof over a child's head with $20 🤷‍♀️

[@InkedUpBarbiee]

Rumor has it, the suit and jewelry is his other baby mama brother's. He let him borrow it.

[@orihellcon]

Sis you right. And every female that come on this show broke too. He could have borrowed the suit and jewelry.

[@ChiChiMaryT]

What nice suit 😆

[@astrology4u]

I think he was hoping the child was not his so he wouldn't ever have to pay anything again.

[@Hymnology001]

True

[@kemaratkins1275]

Awww imma stop reading the comments i wanted to find out if he's the father you gave it away.

[@SISTAGURL]

Facts

[@donnahenderson5857]

That guy ran a whole game on JM and now back at home laughing with his homies about JM 😂😂😂😂

[@RoseTea77]

That part!!!

[@6ftwalka783]

He lied with his first story. “You ain’t gon tell em” 🤣🤣🤣

[@Fredied84]

It's not that he not trying he just didnt have It !!! so the little he making he even giving that....and jm saw the effort not the amount

[@marine552]

I couldn’t believe JM fell for that smh

[@ariamarshall5161]

@@Fredied84 when u WILLINGLY make children who didn’t ask to come here...There is NO such thing as “trying”. He’s do the bare minimum & that’s unacceptable.

[@araineacutebrownnurse7315]

When you meet a guy like this , why have a child by him ?! I JUST DONT GET IT 😩. Why do so many invite pain and chaos and dysfunction into their lives and then have kids and subject them to the same crap! ?DAMN !

[@c3servicesofatl]

It’s a cycle perpetuated by the single moms. The plaintiffs mom probably did the same thing to her father so it’s normal for them.

[@SamuelsReview]

When he asked for her to get an abortion, I wish she would have asked him to terminate all rights... This type of drama is anxiety causing for all involved

[@changesme110yearsago9]

@@c3servicesofatl or a cycle perpetuated by men not being in their son and/or daughters lives.

[@c3servicesofatl]

@@changesme110yearsago9 that child should have never been born and a woman has the final say on if a child is born or not. Men don’t have a say in that so the women have a larger responsibility

[@changesme110yearsago9]

@@c3servicesofatl yeah, that’s a right you give up when you decide to fuck someone know there’s a possibility. Sad to say

[@Iolani88]

Man that's bull!! JM really did the Mother wrong. $20 can't even fill the gas tank up. This whole episode is a mess. That man played the judge and he fell for it. Praying the Mother and son are doing well

[@Lololololol199]

Agreed!! Jm a fool!

[@jasonallen3678]

He gave her max amount he could give her,or did I miss something?

[@PrincessZaire100]

@@jasonallen3678 after calling her bitter and shaming her for not recognizing all this man’s “efforts”. He was $15k in rears but he was only paying EIGHTY DOLLARS A MONTH. $80 a month is the amount of a standard electric bill in the summer months, but yet she’s bitter and ungrateful 🙄

[@jasonallen3678]

​@@PrincessZaire100I was talking about the Judge not any of that political crap..

[@burnellgraham8171]

A grown man paying twenty dollars a month is embarrassing

[@lexsc2dc]

When she laid down with him, I am sure she was aware of his financial struggles. Things don't turn into gold because a baby is born. Good luck.

[@ltorgerson2348]

She deserves alot more than $5000.00..from that unmotivated man.

[@classicstorm]

Small claims court can't go over 5000...

[@tikiyawadley5793]

He’s a smooth talker!

[@prettyblkgyrl74]

I understand Judge Mathis wanting to uplift the father and his efforts to become a better person. But I feel Mathis was completely out of line for calling the mother BITTER. She didn't deserve to be disrespected like that on television. 😡

[@PeggyRabbit32]

who knows what we didn't see? We don't see the entire case

[@rodericksears638]

He said that because of a comment that she made trying to cut this man down in court. She didn't know where this man lived but sent her son somewhere that she didn't know.

[@niece585]

But if you bitter your bitter

[@joviamckibben6030]

Let’s call a spade a spade. She definitely seemed very negative to me. We don’t see the full case but what we did see was her being shady about what he has at least “tried” to do.

[@SISTAGURL]

💯💯

[@Davanee08]

Calling her “bitter” was completely out of line. And he’s a bum. Smh

[@septube26]

Yes, it was. Judge Mathis can be a real jerk.

[@ljgil850]

na...a bum wouldnt be in court at all. bums dont show any kind of effort ever..either..smh

[@tarahill8488]

She seems a little bitter he just call it how he sees it she made a negative comment everytime the man say he did something she's bitter as hell 🤣😅😅🤣🤣😅🤣 but he still gave her money

[@jasminasinanbegovic6225]

She is bitter. But has no reason to be, she chose who she will stay pregnant with. They both have they're part in this

[@nikkikelly5918]

And I’m sure he was a bum when she laid down with him so she’s a bum too!!!

[@jccanteen]

So all a dude has to do is dress up his pitifulness while doing the bare minimum and he gets a standing ovation 🙄 She’s somehow responsible for giving him rides to visit his son 🤨 He’s 15 grand in arrears but gets credit for buying an outfit here and there 😑 He lacks a good relationship with BOTH of his children but he’s the victim and she’s bitter 😒 yeah ok

[@shirleencharles3845]

I agree

[@brittneyberry4934]

Pretty much smfh. Couldn't have said it better Jaye.

[@gabriellesparkles8105]

I see your point but she is responsible for the well being of her son and seeing his dad tops the list. If it takes her putting out more then we all know she shouldnt have to then that's what it takes. She gotta remove ALL her personal feeling out the way.

[@takenyahulsey9959]

@gabrielle sparkes.. she shouldn’t have to do all that. It’s ok him to be in his son’s life. Not on her .. she shouldn’t put in any effort for his in. Let him try himself

[@greenergreensdelivery4259]

Gabriellesparkles True! He has to bring more to the table especially now knowing the son is his. We saw a few minutes of what goes on in their lives but it’s obvious she didn’t care if he spent time with their son or not. Parents need to put the children first when they end up in these situations and not make their feelings more important than the child’s future. From the triggered comments it’s obvious they aren’t the only ones that need to learn this.

[@sweetbeloved623]

Lol!!!!!Dude the case worker is the girl cousin that suppose to help you with your case😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bachelor3000]

That was wild. However, considering what he was paying a month was very low; it looks like the cousin’s representation was fair despite the obvious conflict of interest

[@RowDy2Times]

@@bachelor3000 it all depended on how much money he makes but definitely sounds fair

[@nanapearlpearl2696]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bachelor3000]

@@RowDy2Times agreed

[@moodykim9182]

😭😭😭😭

[@mielissa100ify]

He called her bitter and that was wrong. She’s the parent that stayed. He knew that child was his, he just used that as an excuse to cover up why he’s inconsistent as a father. He just acknowledged that he has a legitimate job after running the streets for years so why would she wanna send him over there like that?

[@basemanawakens6089]

Why did she pick him to have a child with?

[@samdasilva1914]

So when she met him he was "unemployed", running the streets, had other children.yet within a year she had a baby by him?

[@wildfiregirl1556]

I would have ran like hell.

[@bluescorpion7]

You have a point certainly. But given that the child was made, he should’ve made an effort to do much better. Moms don’t have a choice when the child gets here. We strap up and handle our own

[@Toybonnie635]

42$ to 20$ omg! That’s a shame

[@listencarefully1497]

Well if his son lives 20 mins away then why is he waiting for her to bring his son over. Walk and go get him yourself.

[@rakim2988]

Unbelievable

[@chawklitWarrior]

Lol, it might be a 20 minute drive but a 3 hour walk

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

U ever walked in Gary Indiana??? Tf outta here

[@TesusTv]

Lmaooooooooooooooooooo

[@christiandilday7543]

Facts if you check Google maps 20 min drive equals 2 hour walk to and from the houses

[@zuarisrael1646]

Do anybody believe in marriage before carry

[@kay22100]

Right and they look at folks who wait until marriage to get pregnant like we’re crazy lol

[@misterbee66]

I do, I am extremely against fornication.

[@tonyagarner9088]

Yall sin free I guess.

[@foreverblessed6443]

@@misterbee66 how's that working out for you?

[@misterbee66]

@@foreverblessed6443 It is working great for me, celibacy.

[@kamarfinley832]

KZbin tryna say I seen all judge Mathis episodes on KZbin they gotta be lying 🤣🤣

[@HAZYHEAUX]

Same here, I have been searching for new episodes 😂😂

[@larhondalivelife]

Right. He need to just drop throw backs

[@peacheskong2245]

Alll of you crackheadssss😭😂😂😂😂

[@HAZYHEAUX]

@@peacheskong2245 aw hush up now 😂😂😂

[@WifeyType19841]

@@peacheskong2245 😂🤣😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@kimberlydorsey1435]

That suit he got on ain't working 4 him, but he thinks he looks good, WRONG

[@TheSolitary1]

awww i like it. His mom probably went D&K suits and dug deep in the racks.

[@TheSolitary1]

......ok no i looked again, yea he too young for that sugar daddy suit.

[@live2152]

I’m mad the judge acting like this man doing a good job.

[@abovecealevelhrs4356]

Wow! Her face when he called her bitter very uncalled for and it kind of upset me. How is she bitter when the dad is the one bringing her there for a paternity test. She probably was living her life taking care of the child they had together. Gregg Mathis your wording was inappropriate with this case very bias...

[@blackbunny5841]

He called her bitter because he feels she could have at least acknowledged the fact he makes sure he gets his son stuff all the time doesn’t matter if it’s stolen or not .

[@sweetsweet81]

Exactly!!!! She didn't even have proof to back it up. It was purely out of spite.

[@yung1717]

You don’t have to acknowledge the bare minimum. In fact he’s doing less than the bare minimum he’s a bum

[@ciaras3170]

He made sure to get him some stolen clothes the handful of times he saw him that ain’t much sir. Also he claims he can’t see the child cus the mother doesn’t bring him but I guarantee he gets everywhere else he needs to go. His city has perfectly fine public transportation

[@PrincessZaire100]

@@ciaras3170like she said… he can make it to the club, and to the studio, he can make it her house to get his son

[@hadley407]

This man needs to realize that buying a child clothes doesn’t put a roof over his head or food in his belly!

[@queencharlibee1991]

Wtf is he gonna pay his ex bitch rent for??? Tf . She can do that her damn self.

[@bearcathampton5844]

Transportation is and should be 50/50 in any scenario like this. She is flat out wrong...and sounds bitter.

[@LADILADY67]

Wow...she’s called bitter while he’s the one being a dead beat.

[@britaneymartin5985]

Oosooap

[@lomaxlomax6152]

Exactly, Judge Mathis gave him props for making $20 and $30 child support payments.......like excuse me.

[@heathab...._-_]

That's why people really don't think his court show is real because of this here

[@beautifulllb9493]

EXACTLY! Can’t believe he gave him credit for paying only $20 a month. Bye 😑

[@jenniejanine1976]

This judge doesn't want her to say anything. This guy is a joke.

[@kdcarter9443]

A drug dealer that can't come up with $40 a week? What is he selling Aspirin?

[@tribecca4578]

Tums

[@RoseTea77]

All they gotta do is hit Mathis with the i'm trying to change my life and he jump on they side! Mathis thinks he's hip to the game but he gets played time and time again!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@_MoneyMike_]

Yea these chicks think they can come in there , lie and weaponize the system..that day is over

[@rebeccarose3991]

“She was my cousin at the time” ... oh okay...

[@loveandlight_]

I laughed my tail off 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@highlander666]

Lol

[@jasonr.9863]

She may have divorced her cousin, I am assuming that’s why she said that.

[@oodief88]

It makes perfect sense 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@tiyeh503]

😂😂😂

[@natalietylerrobinson]

Both of them aren't sounding good at all. Absent father with all the excuses under the sun and after 10 years, he couldn't afford a private test? What a great drug dealer. 🙄🙄 He should've gotten a normal job, no matter what and provided a stable and consistent presence for his children, that's a truly trying father.

[@deetheefoodie]

I can’t believe JM called her bitter 😔😔

[@Elanjdriab23]

Her comments ARE BITTER. Pple especially our pple buy stolen goods all the time ... its a bitter comment bc its common in our community but she is calling him out under malice circumstances

[@moeshamitchell185]

@@Elanjdriab23 What exactly would she be bitter about? She seems to have grown meanwhile he’s the same man she met. The stolen goods comment implies that he’s failed to make a decent living and provide LEGALLY for his child.

[@kailo7001]

what do you call a mother who lies to her kid and turn him against his own father for the sake of revenge even though she's hurting the child too, what do u call that? thank u.

[@Elanjdriab23]

@@moeshamitchell185 just bc he is the same ol guy from then doesn’t necessarily make her un bitter😭😂 some women are bitter simply bc THEY couldn’t be the one to change the guy. Not with wifey ways or a baby ... sometimes bitter has NOTHING to do with him and all about the child involved bc some women think a baby will better the entire relationship and when the child doesnt create that positive change, the child is treated as a pawn in a game .

[@pauloskidane2819]

@@Elanjdriab23 Thank you I don’t expect bitter bw to get it because they have such a hatred towards black men however to make slick comments like that is not cool

[@juliethomas-begay1742]

When JM said bitter, the look on her face was crazy deadly! Wowzers

[@nicholesamuda9557]

Judge teach alot in most cases. Education in every case.

[@Queenbae34]

How you praising a man who was order to only pay 20$a week and couldn't even do that lol I love you judge but this is crazy that woman over there working hard taking care of her child for all these years and you praise a deadbeat she didn't even put him on support until the child was 6 judge are you doing crack

[@Cscott1821]

He does this often! “What else do you want to say bitter”..... I feel like if I was in her shoes I’d probably be bitter as well

[@warrencarter1555]

Because he was trying to uplift him because he seen that he has made an attempt to be there . Judge Mathis a real one . No matter your past if you are turned around in the right direction. My son 12 I had him on my own since he was 6 months I never once received assistance or child support from his mother. Guess what I ain’t holding no grudges if she gets her life together and comes to me and my son with good intentions I won’t shun her . I ain’t bending over backwards either but I wouldn’t come in between their relationship. Kids are smart and if you raise em right they know how to deal with different relationships

[@1doubler1]

@@warrencarter1555 right‼️ the man had proof that he did more than the minimum child support mom was just in her feelings a lil

[@va3826]

I like him but I'm kinda noticing he does this to dark skin black women a lot, like he decides he doesn't like them right away this guy admitted to selling drugs and said he won't go pick up his son he needs the busy working mother to be his personal driver too .. like what? $20 a week will not even cover school lunches

[@FreeeJ]

@@va3826 there goes the colorist card and that man never said he sell drugs at this point of time

[@DarkReapersGrim1]

I have one question that wasn't answered after watching this video. Who is the crackhead in this story?

[@reestillbloom]

He is the professional crack seller...😊

[@ThatGirlMaya313]

😂😂😂

[@peacefreedom4930]

He called himself a professional at drug dealing. Yet, he has no transportation and claims to be incapable of sufficiently proving an adequate quality of life for his son. Note: children still require basic necessities even when a parent fails to provide. Still, he wants to lecture us on the mother’s “ ways “. This is a lot of audacity and enabling.

[@marygoodman3350]

Get 2 jobs if need be to help your child. Most importantly put him before the streets

[@timothysandridge7365]

Two job?!? Once he do that, the child support is going to go up

[@moeshamitchell185]

He would have to be a critical thinker and apply himself to do that. He’d rather rap, club and be a weekend dad

[@lovingt934]

@@timothysandridge7365, he only give her $20 a week so he should want the CS to go up. If he’s a real man like he claim to be.

[@jennzifur]

@@timothysandridge7365 🙄 I hope you don’t have children.

[@timothysandridge7365]

@@jennzifur it was a joke. Relax

[@TiffStawberry]

This case reaffirms that the BAR IS SET LOW for these "men."

[@KayaBea]

I'm so sick of these men saying "I'm doing the best I can" Your best isn't putting food on the table. What if the mom, who has custody of the child, would let the child starve for 3 days & say "well i'm doing the best I can"????? Of course some mother are bitter! I'm not saying that it's right, but do you know stressfull it is to only be able to count on yourself to take care of a child??? The mothers just have to except crumbs because that's "the best he could do"?? fuq outta here.

[@isaackid]

He’s acting like Jody from the movie Baby Boy lol 😂 .

[@JD-yj8bw]

Judge Mathis love talking about his accomplishments. No shade lol. I think he love to hear his self talk lol.

[@doyoulikeme8765]

Yep.

[@BossGaming-xo2gt]

Definitely

[@cheresalcalhoun]

Hahahahah

[@TheSolitary1]

Like Steve Harvey

[@Kokoshannel666]

@@TheSolitary1 you ain't neva lied

[@jusmejaussyb8237]

Really, Judge?! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@nrobinson3622]

All his crying and whining is for the birds.. he’s so annoying 🙄

[@sentoutministries777]

Judge Mathis be so off sometimes with how he see these cases.

[@brithousen6706]

The bar for these men has really been set so low that it’s literally in hell. They’re really applauding that man for doing the literal bare minimum (if even that) for his child. She’s literally providing the majority of care for the child when all he’s required to contribute is $20. 🤦🏾‍♀️ He has the nerve to get mad at her because she’s not wanting to coddle his grown ass or play personal taxi (when she’s literally doing everything else). If he can materialize a ride for his street activities, he can materialize a ride for his own flesh and blood son. Enough of the “just trying” and excuses. Kids don’t survive off of just trying. Mom doesn’t get the option of just trying. She has to make things happen. He needs to grow up, take full responsibility, and make things happen. He has sons that are looking to him for guidance. They need better than “just trying.”

[@kailo7001]

that 5k wont be enough to fix that child once he grow up without a father. Stop keeping kids from their dads!!!!!!!

[@basemanawakens6089]

She picked him...

[@itazuranakisu]

@Kai lo don’t make such a silly joke. If he felt she was keeping him away from him he could’ve gone to court about that. But again it would require his lazy butt to find transport. Maybe he should think about that before he tries to procreate again. Having a form of transport and a job are bare minimum for being a functioning established adult. It’s not something that requires applause or pats on the back especially when he’s contributing less than bare minimum for how much it takes to raise a child just on the money side. He should be working enough jobs and hours to afford a bus ticket, a taxi, an Uber or a bike. To do anything less is being a deadbeat.

[@willthrill3319]

Not sure the child is his.

[@shanikaayanna9767]

He said he begged her to bring the son to him because she has a car and he would have to take the train… so when she didn’t bring him, why didn’t he TAKE THE TRAIN?!?!

[@msmulisha]

Trying, trying trying ... Lol . she is actually doing tho. But he is the believable one. Lmao dude is a bum, his child is 9 now.

[@ljgil850]

well considering bruh tryna get outta the steet/drug game..yea the transition is rough. If he aint got no trade skills, how much u think buddy gonna actually be able to afford in support?? if he was a deadbeat he wouldnt have showed up to court or gave nothing in 9 years..sooo her accountability here is just as pertinent.. she laid up with buddy. she dont gotta take care or raise dude, but she aint gotta be bitter because of the life choices she proceeded with either..it dont work like that..

[@m1m1williams2]

He's been trying for 9 years to get a DNA test. He only found out a year prior to coming to court that his case manager at child support was her cousin. Had her cousin given proper advice that wasn't biased he probably would have found out that was his son years ago.

[@lastdays7855]

Attn Women: stop laying down with men who credit is messed up, don’t have a job, uneducated, lives with his parents, has several other children by several different women, he doesn’t have a car, no ambition, no motivation, etc.. the only thing they can offer you is sex. 🤧🤭😩

[@wildfiregirl1556]

Amen. I bet the sex sucks too. Not worth it.

[@rainypuddz]

If he’s in the streets, he should’ve been giving her cash and she never would’ve taken him to child support. A broke drug dealer is an oxymoron.

[@ChanelNJ]

Judge Mathis is trippin! He really just called her BITTER?! I can't even watch anymore smh

[@Adaawo]

Judge Mathis really giving this man credit for $20 a month 🙄

[@jas8471]

He said that his childrens mothers work together, so the fact that they deal with each other amicably speaks volumes to how immature that man is. How is the judge siding with a man who lives 20 mins away but makes excuses as to why he can't see his son? Mind you he got his child support reduced to 20 dollars a week. Your son can't even join a sport at school on $80 a month because he also need necessities such as food, clothes, haircuts etc. I don't even want to think about how costly the boys birthday party is with no help.

[@TSR228]

Lol this Judge is satisfied with this guy paying $20 a month to his kid. The bar is set so low for black men.

[@basemanawakens6089]

So black men are the problem?...not th black women making poor choices in the men they choose to have kids with?

[@TSR228]

@@basemanawakens6089 the kid is here already. Time to take care of it. Nice try tho.

[@basemanawakens6089]

@@TSR228 nice try? She picked a bum to have a kid with...she cant complain about a situation that she created...

[@TSR228]

@@basemanawakens6089 yeah the chicken and the egg.

[@basemanawakens6089]

@@TSR228 still refusing to hold her accountable huh?

[@lialia3153]

All I can do is what I can? I wish we could say that to our child. This man is PITIFUL AF. Can’t go get his child 20mins away tries to put her down as a mother but she bitter? Wow all I can say is wow

[@katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364]

Once your child is born, you give up your money for your child first before you think of yourself... It's just a natural given....

[@mashondaknight9132]

This man is a whole bum and just trying to stunt one of them daddies that wants to be a father when it's convenient and the judge shouldn't have given him a pass

[@moeshamitchell185]

Lol exactly the sad part is the ppl who are poor judge of character thinks he a good man 😂 he said he’s trying his best after nine years. Children don’t need you to TRY, they need you to do it. Furthermore like she said you can go to the club but can’t get a ride, Uber etc. to see your son. She has to drop him off after working 9-5 and being her sons SOLE provider. Pathetic

[@kevinknox1239]

What about the mother does she have some responsibility in the matter she should have swallow those babies

[@basemanawakens6089]

She picked him...

[@kaie981]

“if she call herself a christian woman of god” how low of you to call her faith into question when you can’t even get yo ass on the train to go see your son that you love so much

[@rubyjaez]

He could make his way to get his Son. I hate how all the responsibility falls on the woman. He’s a grown ass Man. He can make his way to bars, clubs, and family members homes he can get a ride to pick his Son up.

[@XyThree]

I could go on a tantrum about the minimum support but I'm more concerned about women that willingly lay with men like this, have their children, and get upset at lack of support like it was some elaborate scheme or magic trick. TF u thought was going to happen?!?!

[@kaeshalae1]

Yeah I’m so mad at him for being pathetic but she’s pathetic too.. cause I wouldn’t even have a FWB situation with him let alone have HIS baby😖

[@biggboi3932]

Can’t believe the judge fell for his bs

[@chellychellsworld5047]

He know how to get a ride to get his drugs to sell but he cannot get a ride to get his son. I’m so mad at Judge Mathis for this

[@crystalinez831]

I am so confused... how in the hell this man come up in the court dressed like shaft and is proud to be giving 20 dollars a week and can’t even make that. He’s one of those fast talking bullshitter.

[@NKAB4]

I feel her if he can go run the streets...he can go pick up his son...my daughter’s father use to do whatever it took to run the streets...his mama used to always ask why you don’t bring her over here... I told her just like he makes away to party in the streets he can make away to get her over there...

[@leelew.1462]

So if she only pay $20, $30 and other little money, is that ok? He doesn't get a sugar cookie for doing bare minimum. He's a bum.

[@omark2423]

I hate when people use their kids as weapons towards each other. The kids see and hear everything.

[@DET.RACHELM]

When you say to yourself " I have time to watch one more judge mathis episode" , then you look up and a hour has passed 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kimberlynatasha7]

JM: “Where ya’ll from, Gary???” The Defendant: “No, not me.” 🤣🤣🤣

[@butterflyblessbless5836]

😂😂😂

[@glowshow8930]

I can’t believe he called her bitter he’s being bias on this case

[@bestillpatience6380]

That $5000 want even count toward his state child support arrears! SMH he still owes every dime when they get home! 😜

[@nannynewsviews542]

Really,I wonder why? Won't he have to pay the show back?

[@mrshappilymarried1]

Any amount he pays her will count towards his arrears..if he shows proof.

[@jeremyjones8917]

And those are facts me being on child support my self

[@bestillpatience6380]

@@mrshappilymarried1 depending on his state they want except a civil litigation suit as a criminal case payment,

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

@@bestillpatience6380 child support is a civil matter. The failure to pay causes punitive damages-fines, suspension, jail.

[@aijeelawson5129]

I really feel like this was a waste of time, he knew that was his kid! Wish them the best moving forward

[@jamesstewart522]

Gary to Michigan City is about 20 minutes like he said. I live in MC. He could have just caught the south shore train to get his son. But also he could have found other ways to get a DNA test done if he really wanted to.

[@Kuttie03]

Why doesn’t he get on the bus to see his child or ask the same people that’s giving him a ride to the club.

[@jamesofalltrades4359]

Hold up……. How can someone be your cousin….. AT THE TIME. Lol 😂

[@DJ-vj4vi]

Why is the parent that stays in their child’s life called bitter?😮