Q&A: MOM LIFE TRUTHS! All the Tea on being a Mom | Julia & Hunter Havens

[@EzgiDikmeoglu]

I always loved you guys’ content even before getting married but after marriage and ESPECIALLY AFTER BEING A MOM you guys are my comfort channel ❤ thank you so much

[@aurorabarrera7008]

I’m not even a mom but I just love hearing your outlook on life on life. As someone in their 20s you’re super inspiring to me. I have definitely fallen victim to social media comparison and I think this is super helpful thing to remember. Love yall ❤️

[@chanrieclarke1607]

Juj, even tho I am not a mom yet myself I love listening to what you have to say. Preparing myself, you know. You always have such a good way of saying things. Been watching you guys for 6 years now and have been inspired ever since :) . Thank you for inspiring me - you are such a beautiful soul. Love you Havens fam

[@fatimavega7598]

THIS WAS SO GOOD! ❤ I'm a mom to a 14 month baby boy and I work from home and take care of baby. My husband is a carpenter and gets home really tired sometimes. It's so challenging and if I can afford the help I would get it however thankful to my boss who is so understanding. I don't have any time for myself and when I do I'd rather rest however not feeling my best, stressed, tired and overwhelmed. Thank you Julia for reminding me to take accountability and just DO IT! I've been getting up this week at 5:30AM to workout and I have lots of energy. Happy mama, husband and baby! It's a win for us all! 😄

[@barbarawallace1305]

So amazing to me to see how you yourself and your mind set has shifted to this incredible mother right before our eyes.. your a great momma ! And I enjoy watching you evolve into being such an incredible momma .. 💞

[@kyleeryan4993]

Juj!!! So good💘 I wanted you to know that the influencers you said you look for - family based, real, and the ones that leave you feeling good is your pages & channel for me!!!🫶🏼 Mom of a 2 year old & feel like it definitely took awhile to ‘refind’ myself but it truly does feel like it’s the best version of me. Been loving hearing you share your perspective on motherhood as well🙌🏼

[@Bettstudio]

Thank you for this Julia! I have always felt relatable with you. I remember you being so genuine about your anxiety and made me feel better. Now I'm ready to have a baby and listening to you was so refreshing as always! The way you compared insta to magazines was great

[@TRUTHBRINGER-ez9mo]

I just turned 40. My kids are 13, 7, 6, and 2. My kids are amazing and I love being a mom, I'm also juggling my own business. I went to the tanning bed the other day and I felt 20 again! I also have a stair master. I agree that eating healthy, getting exercise and giving yourself YOU time is a HUGE benefit! I workout when the kids are sleeping, and I sneak tanning in when the kids are at their sports. Protein is essential! 💪🏼 Love you guys! I'm so happy I found your channel!❤

[@meagansy]

0:11 I GET EMOTIONAL every intro seeing your little one on that carousel 🥹… when i see his smile, I think: J & H made a little love baby! He’s so precious!

[@kirstencheyenne4374]

The way your describing motherhood 😭😭😭😭😭🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶ughhh you said all of the right words🤯🤯🤯 HUGGS MY GIRL let’s get to itttt 🤸🤸 freaking love hearing from you guys.

[@kylaraemccabe7784]

I loved how you talked about your intimate time being about more about the time spent together than the “spice” ! My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we have a 10 and 13 year old. Our love has deepened so profoundly over the years, and that brings the intimacy level to incredible depths. I’d take depth over “spicy sex” any day of the week because that’s what builds a lifelong love and longevity. Not saying there’s never any spicy romance 🥰 but don’t chase that. Go deep together and go for the long haul. Your mentality is bang on!

[@shaynnapatsavos4957]

I absolutely love you! You are such a gem! An inspiration. You have gotten me through the worst times of my life. I admire the content you bring to KZbin, your true authentic self. ❤

[@user-cq1uv9fx4w]

Juj! I don't have kids yet but what you were talking about about overstimulation and you're 100% looking different now is so real. I've been in a helping profession and I've been so mad at myself because I used to be able to give so much and after being in the profession, I get so overstimulated easier than before and feel so bad and so out of my element with it. Hearing you talk about this too, has been super helpful and definitely break some of the stigma and shame down for me. ❤❤❤❤

[@janas_day]

love this chat! just cried to my mom today that i need help with my kid because she lives 2 hours away. i am exhausted.

[@Noturbasikbeautyxo]

I love these “one on one” Q&A’s because as a mom it’s the most relatable. I feel like I’m catching up with a friend and it’s nice to know I’m not alone 😅 Idea 💡 Hunter looks like an amazing father and supportive husband. I think it’d be fun for him to do one of these style Q&A’s so we can get insight on a man’s perspective.

[@shelbywatson1727]

Love this idea!

[@Kayteeshashore]

Love this Juj!! You look so beautiful! That blue shirt really makes your eyes pop! Also, thank you for being so real. It's truly admirable in a world of not always the latter. Xoxo❤

[@donnab6590]

loved your makeup today? would love to see a tutorial with products and application advice

[@rianaburger]

Your the best... Love you as a mom and know it is not easy

[@Emma62400]

Love how genuine you are juj ❤

[@okcourtneykay]

The little pep talk at 30:40 🫡

[@alexisnrod_]

I’m so late to this video cause mom life but I have to say being a parent is way harder than people think, my husband started his own plumbing business I’m a SAHM so my baby is glued to me 24/7 its such a blessing and I’m forever grateful but its so exhausting plus doing QuickBooks for my husband /paperwork is SO HARD with a toddler 😭 (she’s a week younger than Smokey) I also HATE asking for help too, I was EXHAUSTED the other day I needed a nap asap and had no help or anyone to watch her while I napped and I wanted to cry so bad. Shout out to all the moms for real 🫶🏼

[@daniellea629]

Yeahhh you’re the realest person on KZbin! I just had my second baby 2 months ago, 2 under 2 life! And the way you describe motherhood, social media, life outlook in general and what matters most…. You completely nailed it. Loved this video and hearing your perspective. Also, you are absolutely beautiful and I love that you do not look like or strive to look like every other girl on social media. You’re unique and I love it! ❤

[@graceguihurt2916]

I haven’t even finished watching the video and I’m in tears because I feel what you are describing and it makes me feel validated and seen 🫶 Thank you for sharing.

[@star5822]

I love you for doing this. My daughter is 2 and a half and it’s so true the balancing and finding yourself again is a constant struggle. If it helps any new moms my sister kept telling me after they turn 2 your hormones go back to “normal” like post partum mostly ends. Also once you stop breastfeeding your body changes again. So all that also is overwhelming with everything else but I do agree with her around the 2 age mark things get bit easier because they are more independent but things are always changing, just if you feel crazy hormonal just know there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. Therapy helps too 😅

[@supitsmelissaa]

Thank you for continuing to do these. They mean so much to all of us that have followed you for years. Thank you for never letting any haters or just time make you close up. Basically thank you for your vulnerability always ❤

[@Alemarie2023]

This was such an insightful Q&A 👏 🤗

[@kristindeltoro1948]

Hi! Tehe I had commented months ago… just wait until he’s walking and here we are! This is a super challenging time but I promise it will get easier. I feel like between when your bb starts walking until around 4, you have to have eyes in the back of your head bc they are into everything🫣

[@HasminRose]

My son is turning 16 months next week, and I'm finally asking for more help 🥲 needed this video!

[@alliecozart9725]

You are the absolute best💓 These are my FAVORITE type of videos!

[@tessdurocher7189]

these juj vids always give me perspective! my fav

[@Sydneyparker10]

We love you juj❤❤❤

[@nouranezzuldin9639]

Smoke is lucky to have you as his Mom ❤️

[@sheilakutis2934]

I love how real you are! And I love your earrings! 🫶🏻😊

[@taylordominic949]

Loved all the mom advice. I’m due in early Jan and am constantly stressing about every little thing. In regards to pregnancy weight gain, how much did you gain by 40 weeks if you feel comfortable sharing?

[@_ABYMAY]

I just love your Q&A’s. You give the most unbiased, wholesome answers, transparent answers. 🫶🏽

[@jerrihanson3823]

My best relationships were first being great friends where you always talk and when it goes further it feels so great. You and Hunter are best friends and having a child together just increases how you feel about each other. I don’t think you have to enhance your sex life, you just go off your love for each other. And you’re both very good looking and when you look at each other you should always remember why you hooked up in the first place. Go watch your wedding video every month, it’s all there.

[@isabelhernandez8595]

No because “I need to get go get dressed for bluey” is ur most iconic line yet 🥹🩵🩵🩵🩵

[@simple_naildesigns]

Life definitely changes in so many ways and if you can afford to pay for the extra help, go for it. 🥰

[@Raine278]

Love this... you’re a sweet soul x

[@paige_berger17]

Love you Juj ❤

[@paulapeeler3157]

Julia you looking GOOD at the intro.

[@christineprendergast3713]

Appreciate your honesty! ❤ did you workout during your first trimester? I’m struggling 🤢

[@clarissadoll3993]

Oooh earring details? Loving the cross ones

[@taragraham7549]

Mee too 😍

[@edieh6792]

Honest and heartfelt.. You are truly growing into womanhood .. 🦋🦋

[@magdac5592]

Do you have a link to your earrings? They are gorgeous

[@angelicasmith7451]

Earrings link please!

[@sarahcartwright3796]

Where are your two main earrings from?? I tried reverse search engine finding them and can’t! They are so cute!

[@liddleladyyx3]

What cream did you put under your eyes in the beginning of the video? After the repair cream.

[@brooklin_bernek]

Not having anyone to call on for help is so so lonely . As of right now it’s me my kiddos and hubs. We don’t even have a cousin. We lost the only people that we did have in 2022&2023 .

[@judyrivait2020]

This was a great vlog Thanks love you❤

[@joancarver1]

Been a subscriber for years, but I need a link to your videos on the Ninja creami… just ordered it and it arrived today but having trouble finding the videos I watched of yours. ( not sure how to “ re-find” them!) You guys are awesome!!! Looking forward to those creami treats!!!!!!!! Thank you so much!! ❤❤❤

[@genevievegranados]

Needed this video today. 😊 I’m In my first trimester and trying everything to distract me from the nausea 🤢

[@simple_naildesigns]

Oh no! Sending you love. Better days will come, and the nausea will subside.

[@JackyArtigas]

Really enjoyed this Q&A! Very relatable! Thank you for opening up and being so vulnerable 😊

[@deanaveres6678]

You are perfect juju!

[@christinazacarias692]

love Q&A's

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Love your channel ❤

[@hannahbatie]

Eeek! Been waiting for this😍😍

[@daughterofthemosthigh3366]

I love your answer to the sex question! Spot on!! Some people think sex is supposed to be to the moon and back every time. LOL! Your answer is perfect!! Also, I appreciate the maturity in your responses. Good Q &A!!

[@ericadeweever7711]

Looking Gorgeous ❤

[@jackiejackson-u8n]

They aren’t doing videos much lately 😢 I’m use to at least 1-2 a week!

[@kellyalyse8408]

Absolutely! It takes a village to raise a kid! All moms of young kids feel guilty..its normal...but once your child is older, you realize the guilt was something we did to ourselves...and our kids turned out fine!! Plus when kids are toddlers it is hard cause they walk around and we have have to watch them 24/7 or you worry they might get hurt...it is exhausting and I will be the first to admit, it can be very draining...I think once the child is 4 and up it's gets easier... Blessings, Kelly Jacksonville FL

[@debchaffin]

i wonder if we will be hearing an announcement soon cause you seemed very out of breath 😅😂❤

[@breemarie9393]

Yes!! I think tiktok is the absolute worst in that field. These people and family vloggers blow up but end up exploiting too much and I've seen countless families fall apart. I think it can be the most dangerous form of socials

[@sphunter8441]

High julia. My name is susan.im from florida.i am using my grandsons phone his name is also hunter. So when ever you see his name it will be me that is leaving a comment.thank you for inspiring me.i loved everything you said.thank.you and hunter for sharing your journey with us.i really learned alot from you.i definitely want to try your prebiotic you recommend. Again thank you for opening up to us.i love your talks.❤it's oct.21st that I watched your video.i really enjoyed it.have a bless day.❤

[@gabyargueta2723]

Love these types of videos soooo helpful and relatable❤. Julia, what freckle pen do you use?

[@amandipa8368]

Love you juj 🤎🤎🏹🦋

[@biyatekeela97]

Loved this one Juj. Thanks for the realness!

[@AngelaR_369]

Great video! I’m Glad you’re realizing materialism isn’t what our journey is all about. We don’t need to keep up with the Kardashians or Jones’s as they say. Name brands don’t define who we are or validate us. We must stop consuming the things we are conditioned to think we need. Our connection to Source is more important than losing ourselves in a Materialistic world. I like nice things, but I’ve cut back so much knowing that I really don’t need it at the end of the day. Much love Julia! You’re doing great ❤one step at a time 😊

[@bethraymond777]

You are the sweetest ❤

[@kimberlinaaa100]

Please tell us your makeup.

[@ginamarie5575]

I’m not a human mom . I’m a fur mom lol ….. yup it’s so individual…. Case by case I think …. Help seems to be everything…. I would watch smoke if I lived near you lol …..love your makeup look 🎉

[@Tkeough84]

Love you Juj🤍

[@taragraham7549]

❤❤❤

[@cechernandez]

You should never feel guilty for needing extra help to take care of your baby..it literally takes a village to raise kids and back in the day that’s the only way people survived. 🤍🤍🤍✨

[@sandraalmodovar4382]

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