Julia Jacklin - Don't Know How To Keep Loving You (Official Video)

[@tiananman]

I know this song might seem like a break-up song, but after listening it a thousand times and after being married for 10 years myself, I think it can mean something more profound, which is after you know someone so well, you feel like your love has to be such a different and much larger thing that you can barely comprehend it. When you first meet someone and you fall for them, you've barely scratched the surface of who they really are and what they're like, so your love has to change as you get to know them, and eventually it becomes as complex and flawed and weird as they are...

[@JennyShuttleworth]

Beautiful comment 🤍

[@poenan95]

and then you brakeup and it all means nothing.

[@marianwodkingston8504]

Thanks for that

[@kryssybee]

Exactly my thoughts

[@natalierachellouisesantana]

Yesss 🙏🏽❤️💗🤍

[@jackfittler8031]

This album remains so criminally underrated.

[@Nookdashiddole]

Having shit grammar is😅🤩

[@welcometobangkok8220]

Justin Stewart i read his sentence perfectly fine. you cant read or something?

[@HBC423]

@@Nookdashiddole is English not your first language

[@dclas1]

Masterpiece

[@teeniebeans9278]

Yes

[@ladolcevita789-k3b]

I know this song may be about a failing relationship but for me it’s about looking into a mirror and asking myself how to keep loving myself even with my flaws that I don’t like, knowing there are somethings I can’t change about myself. I suffer from bipolar disorder and there have been so many times that I’ve hurt someone I love because I couldn’t see what I was doing. I was acting on impulse.

[@karenvega2802]

Georgie Salgado I relate with this, I’m bipolar as well and I know this all too well

[@AmysTrilogy]

Hi Georgie, it takes maturity and time, I have been in a relationship with someone with polar for 14 years now, could i have coped when i was younger, no, it's not her, I was not mature enough, someone will love your flaws, and love all your personalites. Interesting people, people on the spectrum are worth the effort, it just takes time to recognise this. xx

[@LivingOnEarthFromPRX]

I really strongly think that you must hold in your heart that you are WORTH IT. The illness doesn't define you. It gives you opportunity to show your true emotional strength. The right person will feel lucky to be with you

[@Mich43lJH]

thank you for sharing this honesty, that i know so many of us feel. acceptance and understanding is the key to self improvement

[@luciataylor8068]

fuck i have BPD and seeing this comment was so relatable. it must be why i love the song so much

[@mazzymoon2612]

I listen to the live version of this song every day

[@alizaidi8239]

The Paste studios version? It's just so beautiful

[@alexiarodriguez1485]

joseph montano thank god im not the only one

[@lightshinee]

@@alizaidi8239 The recent KEXP version is also very good. I can't decide which one is better, but she gives her soul in both.

[@tigerzskelet0n]

Same!!!

[@lowrezshez]

Tiny desk introduced me to her and my god have I ever turned back

[@CrazyKonaKai]

Dont know how to stop listening to this record**

[@checkmate9]

Me2

[@carissanami5824]

me4

[@roisinomahony2501]

me5

[@Shay0008]

I love the moment she realizes, but then forces a smile and tries to convince herself to keep going.. Then eventually she let's go, stops going through the motions, almost taking off her necklace, but then deciding not to. Beautiful...

[@TheAllBlue139]

Yes! I cried when I saw that, because it reminded me of all the portraits of my ex in my sketchbook I almost cut out......

[@yolandagomez1213]

This is one of my biggest fears in life. I’m scared that I’ll find the love of my life and not knowing how to keep loving them after time passes. I won’t crave their hands touching me because it won’t be something new. There hands become my hands. We know all our stories and suddenly you just don’t know what to talk about . And it goes silent.

[@yankiv2640]

It isnt true love then 🙃

[@elizabethbednar6338]

I’ve lived with my boyfriend for 10 years and there just nothing left to say… I try to leave but he won’t let me.. what’s the point anymore?

[@elissard5541]

@@elizabethbednar6338 It's less about what there is to say and more about sharing experiences with them

[@tita4ewaz]

You nailed it. Woof, that's a tough statement but its true.

[@duaneviljoen1012]

Reality for most long-term couples.

[@tyrabarela4137]

I used to listen to this song when I was in a relationship with a childhood best friend. The relationship became abusive and neglectful on both ends. I used to stay up at night while he slept and cry to this song. Fear kept me from doing what was best for both of us... Years of wanting my feelings to change and pass. I just wanted to feel at peace with him again... it never happened. I used to listen to that line, "Who will I be...Now that you're no longer next to me?" because my reality became his. Now that it's almost a year since we broke up, I remember how broken and drained I felt during those days. I miss and love him dearly, but I hate how much damage our relationship caused both of us. Coming back to this song gave me flashbacks of those endless nights of screaming and crying. Now, I am a different person with different intentions. My love for him will always be with me, even if we aren't best friends and lovers anymore.

[@villanelle8888]

I feel yah!

[@elizabethito1986]

I'm sorry you went through such difficult times. I am going through exactly what you just described. Please tell me it gets better. Big hugs. Good job on getting out.

[@KrishnaKumar-bz5uu]

I love how KZbin comment spaces let me know that I am not alone. More power to you. I really hope we meet. Good vibes and prayers to you!

[@hannahmayz]

“What if I cleaned up?” As an addict, this line hits me every time. God I love this song, it makes me bawl. He loved me despite of my struggles, I wish I could have done the same for him - he deserved it.

[@MoistSugar]

Same. He hasn’t left me 😢

[@gavinphipps5564]

I would give my life to see my beautiful lady smile her beautiful smile forever 😢

[@j.marques2911]

She is without a doubt my favorite artist right now. All her music is goddamn beautiful.

[@warrenpeterbithell]

only recently discovered her shes brilliant

[@jelasco3775]

[Verse 1] I wanna want you, I wanna stay here like this I wanna feel it all every time that we kiss I want your mother to stay friends with mine I want this feeling to pass in time But you know my body now and I know yours We put so many things between these walls And every gift you buy me, I know what's inside What do I do now? There’s nothing left to find [Chorus] Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don’t know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don't know how to keep loving you [Verse 2] What if I cleaned up? What if I worked on my skin? I could scrub until I am red, hot, weak, and thin Too tired to run away What do I do now? There's nothing left to say [Chorus] Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don't know how to keep loving you [Verse 3] Into the darkness, or is it the light? Should I be waking up Or finding a place to sleep tonight? Who will I be Now that you're no longer next to me? [Chorus] Don’t know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don’t know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don’t know how to keep loving you Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well Don't know how to keep loving you Now that I know you so well I just wanna keep loving you

[@elizabethito1986]

thank you for the lyrics

[@cbob7]

When I listen to this I am captured by its beauty, then carried along by its narrative, and then crushed by its despair. It feels so deeply personal-the way that a well crafted novel can stop time and transport me to another place, and I don’t want the book to end, and I don’t want its characters to leave me, or each other. Then I have to collect myself for a bit before seeing anyone in my real life. .

[@thebetterlemonjello]

If you haven't taken a deep dive into her stuff yet, I believe this lady is probably the best lyricist of her generation. I know I'm just a rando, but go read all this woman's poetry then see if I'm not onto something. Bring the kleenex though fr

[@pamelasherman524]

Beautifully said.

[@DMIwriter]

I know this song is about love gone routine. But for me personally, the emotion and tone of this song is perfect for where I am right now creatively. I'm yearning for my past creative flow and uniqueness, but whenever I try to be creative nowadays it's very predictable, dull, and by-the numbers. It's like a passionate, affectionate, somber angst.

[@laurabadal1279]

Ditto

[@emjomama]

Devynn Hageman you put it into words

[@James925Lee]

struggle of an artist

[@mla2823]

@@James925Lee fr

[@aziara369]

Thank you for this, love. The fact that you put this comment up speak so much of how passionately you want to be in such a delightful creative flow again. But you're being invited in new light. Good luck! ✨💫

[@nataliecappellini2907]

This song always makes me want to sob for hours in the most beautiful way

[@thekinginthenorth989]

One of the best albums of 2019! It's up there with Titanic Rising (Weyes Blood), All Mirrors (Angel Olsen), Reward (Cate Le Bon), Oncle Jazz (Men I Trust), Jinx (Crumb), and Heard It In A Past Life (Maggie Rogers) just to name a few.

[@indistinctcolor]

I just got into Weyes Blood a few weeks ago and haven't been able to stop listening since.

[@gamaterian0122]

You're listening to... _Oncle Jazz_

[@taborda89]

Yup! I'd just like to add Designer (Aldous Harding)!

[@zainabnasibamkhabele.6310]

*I LOVE THIS LIST but we forgot "beware of the dogs" by stella*

[@thlulahippo]

Jinx is flawless

[@christiddyyuhhh]

I can't believe she's a local artist and I had to find out about her from Lana Del Rey. Julia's talent is incredible. Australian airwaves are sincerely lacking homegrown talent. Don't remember the last time I heard something Australian on mainstream radio. They should do better, it's shameful that so many great artists like Julia can be so criminally underrated in their home country.

[@sspaceboyy8717]

triple j’s alright, julia jacklin’s been on there for a few years now

[@kimbatwl4663]

Chris Valhallalalala You have to listen to JJJ to hear any current Australian music (and there’s heaps). The commercial radio stations only play US or older Australian music.

[@giuliana1644]

I agree with you. The only Australian singers I know are Julia and Angus & Julia Stone, and I think they deserve more recognition.

[@LASA569]

I like australian music, pues great, I have listened to Andrew Morris, but it seems he dissapeared years ago...

[@QKvox]

There’s also meg mac and Vance joy pumping out some amazing stuff, and so is MAY-A and the DMA’s

[@roisinhackett]

omg i audibly gasped when i saw this on my homepage!!!!!!! ive watched the paste studio version about five million and a half times

[@deirdrekiely6187]

Same. That version is the ultimate.

[@nikitee7876]

Please link it!!

[@EternalLife91]

@@nikitee7876 kzbin.info/www/bejne/hGq3hWihhJmjbbM&feature=share

[@MothmanBaddie]

Same.

[@kloknerka_]

I really need to stop being obsessed with this song....I'm afraid that at some point I won't know how to keep loving it💔

[@ivyisme2230]

Ha, good one

[@HopefulPablito]

As someone who doesn't have any one towards whom I feel like "I don't know how to keep loving" them, I tend to listen to Julia's song from a purely introverted standpoint. It really resonates with these moments when I feel like I've reached the limits of what I can become, this feeling that there's nothing more about myself than what I already know, and that it just won't be enough no matter what

[@matjones9244]

This album simultaneously breaks your heart and then brings you tea to help it heal.

[@dfleckhj]

The cane operator god bless you. . She is fantastic. I look her up as disabled man for seventeen years live with it. . No talk and trouble eating . The 🎉worst paralyze esophagus. Music makes me happy so keep your composing up. I listen every night every genre. Thankyou for asking me go on. Love all musicians. You keep the disabled alive and well. Really ❤️🌹🍺

[@firedoesnotdiscriminate]

"Who will I be ? Now that you're no longer next to me?" brilliant song and that's my favourite lyric, so true of many breakups.

[@jarydweyer]

Lana's live blessed me with this beautiful song.

[@MrManbags]

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[@neisaescamilla6011]

This song sounds 100x better live like omg I came across this artist as she was the opener to Mitski, she sounds incredible live. I would 100% go to one of her concerts if I were given the chance, from the first song she played which was the song called comfort, it made me really emotional without even hearing the lyrics that well, just the first second of her singing brought emotion over me. Incredible artist!!

[@ChickensinHighDef]

I was a little worried the video wouldn't live up to the song, but wow... It actually makes a great song even better.

[@musicmadinoz]

my mum passed away last year, i happened across this song on Rage not long after & it reminded me of the process of her death. Even though i know it is about a romantic relationship, when grief & pain is all consuming you see & hear it in everything for awhile. I thought of the last month of her life when she was losing herself, not able to speak with any sense, her mind taken over by delirium. How can i keep loving this other person when i knew deep down the real her was gone, the body soon to follow. And then i am consumed with grief & self hatred & guilt when she leaves, but the love is stronger than ever. I miss you mum, RIP my love.

[@sophiecampbell37]

Hey friend. I know this is random but I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what words to put here to convey the thoughts I have in a way which (I hope!) don't come across as imposing, but I hope each day you feel those feelings of guilt a little less, I don't feel you need to feel them. The way you see it is quite a nice way to think of it I think. I hope you have a great life x

[@musicmadinoz]

@@sophiecampbell37 thank you for your thoughts

[@elephantisland-audioproduk6020]

Also in love with everything about it in 2024: music, attitude, style, aesthetics, look.

[@giamaxon9206]

normally i don't listen to this artist much but this song is so vulnerable and quietly desperate and so rawly honest that i can relate way too deeply. thank you for putting words to those intangible pangs of the heart, and a beautiful melody to match

[@everaced]

Her songwriting is like a firework where it sizzles until the last line incinerates

[@ravenwinchester4628]

Saw her perform with lana and I was honestly so moved that I've had this song stuck in my head since I left the concert 😰 all of the best artists are always so under appreciated. This song is beautiful.

[@248winter]

That sounds like a core memory 🥺❤

[@JamesCurwood]

While the song is of a biblical level of epic, the video is so well-shot! I love the slow-mo effect and the continuous shots. How the hell do you only have 18k followers?! you should be winning a Grammy for this

[@tomsenft7434]

Mr. Curwood, I think I notice her singing in the video sometimes but other times not- like she's listening. It's remarkable.

[@TomClothier]

One of my favorite songs of 2019 for sure!

[@cleofrom5to7]

Heard this song 5 mins ago on Lana's Instagram live stream and I'm: IN LOVE

[@abbyasmine2592]

cherry bomb same!

[@Genny-Zee]

Safe to say my love for Julia hacklin has faded, so great to hear this song.

[@farflebfarfle]

Listening carefully to Julia sing is like being at a museum and staring intently into the heart of a priceless diamond behind a glass case. It is very precious and rare, and filled with tiny, magical details. I love it.

[@Orionsbell]

half a second in and i already said to myself "f*ck it's so good"

[@kiewea14]

Woah, such power in the little eye glances after that super structured start. Killed it

[@oatboylionel]

I saw her live and met her this past weekend. She is so sweet and laid back. She sounds the exact same 💖

[@checkmate9]

Amazing song with powerful words. When we are in a relationship we get to the a point where it is difficult to accept all the other person's flaws and we constantly asking are we satisfied and is it still interesting. We love to get to know a person and fall in love, it's harder to remain there later. One of the definitions I like to "Love" is to make your partner happy from the moment you get up beside him till the moment you fall asleep in his arms.

[@Schlutmilk]

I love how its in slow motion but the singers are perfectly in sync w the song

[@aziara369]

Took me a long time to know how it's done lmao ive always admired that in music videos

[@Simouneo]

@@aziara369 They shoot on a fast forward version of the song for the lip sync :)

[@IsraeliDino]

My oh my what are the chances, yesterday I looked up for the first time a live version and saw that KEXP posted a video the same day 11 hours earlier...now I look the song up again to find the official video posted an hour ago!?!? Thanks Julia for your excellent musicianship and terrific voice....create/perform/play on!!!

[@jorgevladimirgarciaperez1417]

we have had a very julia jacklin day i feel blessed!!!

[@IsraeliDino]

@@jorgevladimirgarciaperez1417 Indeed!!! As do I...and we should!!

[@maddytaylorbrandvold]

This song explains how I am feeling so perfectly. I can’t help but cry my eyes out every time I listen. It speaks to the grief in my heart in such a profound way. There is so much I could say. This song is healing me.

[@Rubberfooted]

Classic song and classic record. 10/10. Best one you’ll hear this year.

[@td6873]

She is one of my favorite new artists over the past year and a half.

[@hmlt9941]

I dont know, but seeing them dance like that makes me sleepy 😴 This song is so beautiful ✨🌙

[@nvdberg6906]

One of the most beautiful, honest and courageous songs I've heard in decades

[@ludwigvonn9889]

One of my fav discoveries this year... Keep up the good work Julia.. This song is pure gold

[@stefano.b65stef77]

there are so many great female artists around, real music is coming back

[@maki4420]

I just found julia and oh my god i see the light now

[@MyLifeAsLouis]

The very first time I listened to this album was during a 14 hour flight from Kuala Lumpur to Paris. I was browsing the music list and randomly played this album. Best decision of my life.

[@shavedparmesanprosciuttoan4317]

God if this song doesn’t relate perfectly to my current situation I don’t know what will. When all the magic and mystery is gone from your relationship where do you go?

[@eleveneightyseven4165]

You grow together.

[@betholivia99]

I heard this back in early 2019, the first song that I ever heard by Julia and it was mind-blowing to me. And it still feels like that today. When songs are mind-blowing, they have an impact.

[@rashmika9742]

Love this song, love the video, love those dresses: this is perfection.

[@breemccartney1182]

I love you so much, thank you for creative such works of art. Your songs are the ones that have helped me the most in this past year. Thank you thank you.

[@starboy4987]

The way ive never been in a relationship but this song touches me, her voice makes you feel what she’s singing about i cant explain I FEEL THIS SONG INSIDE ME

[@peachiepoopsie9598]

:'( omg sobbed through the entire video. wow. julia you just keep impressing me! you are wonderful lady, lady

[@HotFriesify]

Is this midsommar pt 2

[@replynotificationsdisabled]

Great movie ehh?

[@soucriant3035]

I wishhh

[@felipemarques7400]

R u jon smith?

[@Belsinef]

Just when I needed it the most.

[@paulpiazzon2964]

How beautiful that voice, the raw emotion. Is there anything this lady touches that doesn't turn to gold?

[@mahanmalek8317]

this is so damn hurtful , like the moment of truth ❤️

[@24iseeyou]

thank you lana have not stopped listening to her what a gem

[@daphnelol]

I think I've listened to this song about 500 times, it is just SO GOOD I am obsessed

[@petermariner6323]

I've heard this every day on Accuradio at work for the last 2 weeks, and it just keeps sounding better and better. Brilliant.

[@TGMusique]

This is such a refreshing song to listen in this day and age of spotify pop

[@zainabnasibamkhabele.6310]

*julia is like here music beautiful and elegant and soft and enchanting, in every way* 💙

[@milk_bath]

I can't wait to wake up tomorrow and play this again to my sweetie.

[@daphnelol]

ONE OF THE GREATEST SONGS EVER MADE !

[@mazzybee]

I love this song so badly ... I just bought the album Crushing on the bk of hearing this one track... beautiful melody...sentiment xx bravo xxx

[@5quidbilly]

Even in the darkest and loneliest of nights, there are truly beautiful things that exists in the world to behold. I loved the live version all year. ♡

[@felishareid3218]

Saw her live and she was lovely !! 💛 one of my favorite artist, they don’t make music like this anymore.

[@paulacamboni4820]

Well obviously they do

[@ricardodemp]

my tears typed this text.

[@dogdaybreak3157]

my cringe replied

[@c.nobody]

DogDaybreak lmao

[@DOUBLE0SEVUN]

Stay strong my man

[@christiancarmona7509]

dude, same... 😔

[@UmarAli-rf7yj]

I really hope she write all her songs because they poetic and beautiful .

[@Rikogunawan24]

Finally... My favorite song, playing almost everyday ❤️❤️❤️

[@vc5803]

whether we got past it or not every woman i was with for more than a couple months could have written me this song as letter. there always comes that break down, this point in the relationship where it's real suddenly and unexpectedly a real thing and that gets terrifying, and sad and unsexy especially for women and there's a strong impulse to just jet. so many old and near forgotten voice in my ear harmonizing with ms. jacklin.

[@pamelamansour5675]

This could easily be the most beautiful song of the decade!

[@thegirlwhohasflown]

This is beautiful. Julia Jacklin is great.

[@travisjulian3615]

I first heard this when it came out and immediately balled. This is the first time I’m watching her video after exactly a year we broke up, and after living together for 3 and half years, I thought I knew her so well. Now she’s all gone, and the world has changed. What do I do now when theres nothing left..

[@Israelg814]

Just discovered this song from you and it’s so so good!! 😭❤️

[@merkin771]

this is the Cooolness! so beautiful! Thank U!

[@jamesnaples4505]

Although the live versions I have seen are much more emotional, this is probably the most emotional song I have heard in years. Not too surprised that it gets zero airplay on our shitstack media.

[@Olivia-pb3uc]

i listened to this record 3 times through today and saw this posted while brushing my teeth- i’m in love

[@madeliene8286]

My favorite song off one of my favorite albums. Thank you, Julia.

[@user-yx4wx4oq4g]

this song is just the best

[@elanamarie0517]

I feel this song right now 😥 you cant force someone to feel the same way. We just grew apart.

[@amelianllorente]

I was addicted to this song from the very first time I heard it....

[@eduardodiaz1025]

Thanks Julia for this song, this is my favourite song of the year and one of all times.

[@UmarAli-rf7yj]

Another classic so soulful you got skills.

[@quezlark7875]

I hope there's a new album in the works. I miss the days of seeing new songs regularly popping up. She is possibly even better live.

[@xSwordLilyx]

The beat really compels me, I find myself moving to it without deciding to, while doing chores, when I have not danced in a long time, it's like if a lullaby was as energizing as it were comforting. To say nothing of the lyrics. Which I think are about truly knowing someone is to see every flaw they have and accept them, accept the predictability that comes, or also about not trying to please someone with impossible standards because love is not conditional and this is toxic. Also what you give up when you give someone up is much more than just them.

[@bleh641]

This is just simply phenomenal

[@Misarito]

Just beautiful, authentic and loaded with emotion. I love your voice and music. Thank you!

[@AndreFelipe-js6ok]

In love with Julia Jacklin!! What a soft voice.

[@samsuzza2008]

Really love this song. “Red hot weekends” Everyone gets bored I guess. Very cool tune, Love Julia Jacklans Work

[@cptmono]

A gem

[@anaoliveira4435]

Perfect music video for this song. She's so authentic! I'm in love

[@magicknight13]

Tearing my soul apart. Thank you 😢 love julia jacklin

[@stephenmolyneux7865]

This song evokes a 90's road movie that evokes the 50's. Heartbreak

[@maimoon9176]

i love how much i can relate to music like this even tho i've never been in a relationship, i just imagine when i do, this is gonna have more meaning to me ❤

[@markmooney9416]

Thank you Spotify for leading me to this, beautiful.

[@risovicify]

What a voice and style.