How to Stop Intrusive Thoughts

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Julia Kristina Counselling

Julia Kristina Counselling

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@taz_trader
@taz_trader 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I randomly got intrusive thoughts two days ago and I had been obsessing over them for those whole 2 days, it made me mentally exhausted and very fearful. This video helped me and I feel a lot better.
@julieengholt8939
@julieengholt8939 4 жыл бұрын
I really liked your analogy of how would we talk to a child about this feelings. That's how we should be talking to ourselves. I'm going to try that. I can tell others , but struggle with my inner self thoughts. Thank you!!! Blessings to you for all you do!!
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
Keep me posted on how it goes Julie
@julieengholt8939
@julieengholt8939 4 жыл бұрын
@@juliakristinamah thank you Julia for your kind response!
@destellazo
@destellazo 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Julia, Im a guy from Mexico who suffers from anxiety. I found your vids by accident while I was looking about Mindfulness and I found them really helpful. Most of your topics are relatable to me. In this pandemic, you are a lighthouse that leads to a healthy mental life. Thank you so much and my best wishes for you.!!
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Destellazo, ​If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@traumamom4338
@traumamom4338 4 жыл бұрын
This is on repeat!! Very insightful and as always I appreciate you.
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate YOU - and I'm so glad it connected
@sylvtrav
@sylvtrav 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, I’m on my moms iPad just to watch you. I’m going through something rn and these thoughts keep coming and staying. I’m only 11 but I worry about things easily. Thank you so much for these videos and support, your the best,.
@april82daisies
@april82daisies 4 жыл бұрын
funny when you said “No? Just me?” Because I’ve always thought it’s just me that has those what if thoughts... Something is wrong with me, no one else thinks those thoughts.....
@daikij74522
@daikij74522 4 жыл бұрын
hahaha no they're very common actually
@bakedpotatoes5545
@bakedpotatoes5545 3 жыл бұрын
it happens to alot of people indeed
@april82daisies
@april82daisies 3 жыл бұрын
Right, completely agree & I knew that... I think what I was trying to say with my comment was how cool/funny in a good way as in I did not expect Julia to say exactly the same thing I do. I find her so relatable & helpful.
@admirbarucija2018
@admirbarucija2018 4 жыл бұрын
I’m excited to hear your advice on how to stop/minimize intrusive thoughts! They pop up every now and then, and when they do I can’t seem to stop myself from thinking about them
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
Let me know how using this way of dealing with them goes.
@admirbarucija2018
@admirbarucija2018 4 жыл бұрын
@@juliakristinamah I think it's very helpful, and I normally would reassure or comfort others when they go through situations like this, but I haven't been allowing myself that same care! Talking to ourselves like we would a child is a brilliant strategy, often when I get intrusive thoughts I jump to the worst possible conclusions, even if the issues I'm thinking about are not actually there yet.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
@@admirbarucija2018 ​If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@lucyalexandra.
@lucyalexandra. 3 жыл бұрын
I have emetophobia and the scary thoughts are so constant, but I really appreciate this video it feels like a hug and is motivating me to try to think more rationally. thankyou
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Lucy, ​ If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@TheMgarvey
@TheMgarvey Жыл бұрын
I have one fearful, harming thought - not aimed at anybody - just a thought, when I go to bed. Ir seems stuck on the left side of my head. It's been happening for 3 years, ever since I lost my job. Sometimes I don't actually think it, but the shadow of it is there the minute I put my head on the pillow. I do a short meditation before sleep, and I can usually sleep 4 hours or so, but if I wake up, I can't really fall asleep completely. Today, after breakfast, I felt achy, and wanted to lie down. The minute I did, I felt the need to think the thought in order to rest, but if I did, I would so upset, I'd have to get up. So I tried to think of positive things, but the shadow of the thought did not allow me to fully rest.
@chanuppuluri8726
@chanuppuluri8726 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. I don't always do this, but when I HAVE done this, I usually handle the issue with a level of calm and patience and stability that might even seem disproportionate to the issue at hand. It's good to know that this is a good technique. It's honestly good to know that being comforting AND honest with oneself don't exclude each other and don't have to lead to shame.
@galeokibby2617
@galeokibby2617 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I have shared this with my granddaughter. I hope that she will find it helpful. Thank you.
@djszal
@djszal 3 жыл бұрын
Dude, your videos are so spot on and true. I've watched so many of your videos so far and each one was eye opening to say the least. It amazes me how this information is not taught to children or adults in our cultures. Especially here in the states. Your videos encapsulate what it means to live a healthy mental life. I'm so glad to have found you on a random KZbin search and I'm also thankful for you to have pursued this life purpose of yours. You're helping so many people. Me especially. Please don't ever stop what you're doing. Peace.
@joyoverley5259
@joyoverley5259 4 жыл бұрын
ThanQ Julia, great content always. May I share a nugget, when a negative untrue message enters my thoughts: A. 5 seconds to remove before roots are established B. My spoken or sung words uses a higher part of my brain and I can't intentionally think on what I am singing and the other thought run around in my mind. C. have a go to scripture, song or something uplifting and directing of thoughts. My go to is Philippians 4:8 What so ever thing are Honest (I intentionally think on how I love each of these as I am speaking them OUT LOUD, but quietly.) What so ever things are: ~ True ~ Just ~ Pure ~ Lovely ~ Honorable ~. . . ~ THINK on THESE THINGS. I continue saying it until I have moved away from the untrue assaulting thought. This was HUGE in creating healthy thoughts. I hope this helps many the way it has helped me for 16 years.
@chrisdigitalartist
@chrisdigitalartist 4 жыл бұрын
Last year I had a lump in my throat and was convinced it was lymphoma. I had a major panic attack. I am so grateful for the tools I had learned in the Shift Society. See you later for my last 😢 Zoom meeting Julia.❤🙏
@christinelefkowitz6851
@christinelefkowitz6851 4 жыл бұрын
I had a lump on both sides of my neck and it was non Hodgkin Lymphoma. Please if anyone has any lumps have them checked out by a doctor. I kept saying oh it’s nothing. 😬
@chrisdigitalartist
@chrisdigitalartist 4 жыл бұрын
@@christinelefkowitz6851 I am so sorry to hear that. How are you doing now? Sending love.❤🙏 I got my lump checked out for sure but I still wasn't really trusting the nurse...So I got it checked out by a doctor too just in case.
@christinelefkowitz6851
@christinelefkowitz6851 4 жыл бұрын
Ch00PrivateAccount 00 thank you! Cancer free.. Thank god. But it’s been really a challenge . I lost my business and a lot. Trying not to obsess over it. 😰
@cristinadiaz6414
@cristinadiaz6414 4 жыл бұрын
Such a good topic and relevant for so many people.
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
So glad it connected Cristina - thanks for taking the time to let me know.
@BrikeneDionizi
@BrikeneDionizi 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one to have those strange thoughts. Thanks, I now feel relieved 😊
@AbdullahArRafi
@AbdullahArRafi 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks a ton for this one! Often I don't have a problem with helping out my friends when they're going through some intrusive thoughts or such issues. However, I often find myself being freaked out when I have any intrusive thought, and then it goes haywire like crazy! I think that's because something called 'lizard-brain' part of the anatomy is playing its role to only keep us safe.
@mamabear5488
@mamabear5488 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Julia! You must read my mind! Thank you so much! I just had to tell my boyfriend he was causing me anxiety from all his thoughts he was throwing out, one after the other! In a loving way of course!❤
@inesmacaya8064
@inesmacaya8064 4 жыл бұрын
Dear Julia, I want to thank you for these wonderful videos that have helped me so much to rebuild my life, especially those about how to manage emotions, and like this last one about controlling our thoughts. I found you, some weeks ago, through the internet and let me tell you that from that moment on I can see everything more clearly and above all I have found a rational explanation for everything I used to think and feel. So, all this has made a great positive change in my life. Speaking of positive attitude I would like to tell you, that one of your best videos is TOXIC POSITIVITY, excellent! Thanks a lot again Julia. Kisses from Barcelona, Spain.
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
It's so good to connect with you Ines. And I'm really glad we found eachother. Thanks for your kind words and for being here.
@erwinsmith2066
@erwinsmith2066 4 жыл бұрын
You posted this right when i needed this.
@rapadura1225
@rapadura1225 4 жыл бұрын
FEAR! I can only say this! the worst thing to do when afraid is pretending you’re not. I have spent the last twenty two years fighting with the worst form of fear, and all alone. And wasn’t fear of diseases or even death! In the contrary it was fear of everything! A very strange and uncontrollable fear of existence itself .and I instinctively did what you are recommending! It doesn’t work in the long run it makes it worse rather. telling your self that you are not afraid when you are , it’s like feeding the beast that is out to get you. Try and be honest , run towards it, look at it, seat with it if you can! You’ll find that it will burn itself out. Honesty with yourself is the key 🔑 trust me...
@nottobecompared4099
@nottobecompared4099 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Pretty much sums up how I’m feeling now but I can’t stay like this. I’m fighting each day & just trying to stay grateful for what I do have. Life is a gift & tomorrow isn’t promised to nobody. Hope you’re doing better now but I do understand what you mean.
@orangepakova2507
@orangepakova2507 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this! It happens to me quite often, and this technique really helps me calm down! Many blessings!
@VideoCesar07
@VideoCesar07 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I have no problem being able to help others deal with intrusive thoughts by walking them through their fears and rationalize why they are thinking what they think and how it may or may not be in their control or that since there is no evidence to support or debunk what they feel that there is no reason to really worry until that evidence arises. Me on the other hand, I will hang on to my intrusive thought and run with it. Sometimes it will only take a couple of hours to back of from that ledge and other times it can take days to get past it. Definitely one of my more self-destructive behaviors since I am aware that I am acting on zero evidence but I will dive in to the deep end.
@angelchen5303
@angelchen5303 4 жыл бұрын
oh my gosh i really needed this so so much thank you so much for this video
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Angel, ​ @Trudes If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@meaghanparent8740
@meaghanparent8740 4 жыл бұрын
See the thing is, if my 5 year old came to me with a pain, i would do what you said and be strong and calm on the outside for my son but honestly on the inside i would freak out.
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
It's okay. You can still be that calm, safe and grounding person for yourself even if there is some simultaneous freak out going on.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Meaghan, Practical action is needed. ​If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@sylviaolivares5379
@sylviaolivares5379 4 жыл бұрын
Thank for covering this topic, it is an area that I believe would help most of us. I have a mental health board on Pinterest and have shared this video to help other people following my board. Thank you so much Julia Kristina😊🙏❤
@arthurlockwood8735
@arthurlockwood8735 11 ай бұрын
God bless you. My dear. We are. All the same in this thing. ❤️🇬🇧🙏😎
@Victorinoff
@Victorinoff 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Julia, after seeing lots of videos to keep calm from them, I just found a great video. Thank you for the advice.
@joea4501
@joea4501 2 жыл бұрын
Great Julia, thank you very much !!
@meloy1989
@meloy1989 4 жыл бұрын
It always happen to me due to my anxiety problems and Thank you for the great video
@mandyrichmond3989
@mandyrichmond3989 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Julia I wish you were around when my children were young... I love your work ♥️
@CherbearAnn
@CherbearAnn 4 жыл бұрын
So so good 😊 I’m gonna try this technique next time I need it! Thank you for being you!
@55maltesers
@55maltesers Жыл бұрын
I get intrusive memories, if that's even a term. I remember something. I re-live the emotions of the time, and it's usually either anger or embarrassment. Quite often my mind makes up a story of how I wish I had reacted. It happens mostly when I'm trying to sleep, and I lose sleep.
@victoriastallard
@victoriastallard 4 жыл бұрын
As always thank you so much Julia for teaching us about things like this because I do struggle with intrusive thoughts every day & I am really trying so hard to learn how to stop them & watching & listening to this video is going to help me to learn how to do this with myself because I know that with a small child I wouldn't over react instead I would be calm and talk to them calmly about the situation so now I know it's what I need to do with myself and I appreciate you so much for helping us all with this ❤️ I always look forward to listening to you & learning from you 😊
@Ffsdevgj
@Ffsdevgj 3 жыл бұрын
I know the feelings, have a Ton of those.... and they’re very disturbing!
@susietressler3478
@susietressler3478 4 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah I have those quick little weird thoughts.
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
Glad I'm not alone ;-)
@briannaw.7226
@briannaw.7226 4 жыл бұрын
my problem is having overwhelming bad in life but also when i examine all areas of my life I see nothing to look forward to and focus on to balance out my bad thoughts.
@instinct7176
@instinct7176 4 жыл бұрын
Anybody like so scared of not caring about other people’s pain that they just stress over it and then like start to feel like you don’t care about other people pain but you still do
@thegodofsilence5580
@thegodofsilence5580 4 жыл бұрын
You’re so cool, thank you for all your hard work
@bobburch2151
@bobburch2151 4 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your videos but my thoughts are more than if I could have done more for my love one than I did
@butterbean3892
@butterbean3892 4 жыл бұрын
I think you just fabulous and love the videos you make!!
@MagicAngleSculpture
@MagicAngleSculpture 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Julia! Not just you. 😉
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
okay, phew 😉
@joannaokenwa8571
@joannaokenwa8571 4 жыл бұрын
This is insightful, but thoughts about my past mistakes or regrets can be really strong like anxiety too, puts me off and find myself back in that black mental hole, like my brain keeps grabbing desperately on defeating thought 😔
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Jo Jo, ​If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@judekillar2473
@judekillar2473 4 жыл бұрын
I always listen to this every night and it helps me a lot thank you for this information
@madonnahooper4872
@madonnahooper4872 4 жыл бұрын
Great examples of reassuring and being compassionate with myself.
@seanblackwell6241
@seanblackwell6241 4 жыл бұрын
I get lots of emotional, fearful and really negative thoughts, of stuff playing out in my mind, that engulf my mind, and they feel so real. I also have similar dreams at night, having the same fearful reactions, that wake me up in a sweat sometimes. Is the process the same for these types of emotional thoughts?
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Self-compassion in this way for what your dealing with will be incredibly helpful and healing
@Blah-blah-blah696
@Blah-blah-blah696 3 жыл бұрын
I've been like this for month's, I'm am mentally exhausted of this constant intrusion.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
​@@Blah-blah-blah696 If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Sean, ​ If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. You can heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@paulinewhalen6761
@paulinewhalen6761 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your message
@skullxwrapper9968
@skullxwrapper9968 4 жыл бұрын
I used to get anxiety from the thought but now I don’t anymore but they are still there I’ve been experiencing this for 2month
@pamelakasper6212
@pamelakasper6212 3 жыл бұрын
I am back ! This happens all time !!.
@daikij74522
@daikij74522 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Julia! Do you mind doing a video on how to be assertive next? Love you x
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Karma, Assertiveness is very important to succeed in life. Avoid being passive or aggressive. Never say "Yes" when you mean "No". Join some public speaking courses. No assertiveness training is needed but practice in your daily life. Walk with your shoulders held high and give good eye contact to everyone. Never compare yourself with others in terms of appearance or finances. Quality of friends is more important than quantity. Public speaking courses vell benefit you. 10 minutes of daily mindfullness meditation will keep you relaxed. . Best wishes. Shyaaam sir--Consellor.
@laurathompson2948
@laurathompson2948 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! I shared it🦋💜!
@Mark-c2c5c
@Mark-c2c5c 8 ай бұрын
My intrusive thoughts are different to what you are describing, they are not specifically events that i am worried about, they are racist, ableeist, xenophobic etc, they are a result of a year of OCD thinking caused by meth use and the resultant psychosis and paranoia, I cannot deal with people being in my head and i'm having a destructive and bizarre reaction. I also have a problem with contstant sub-vocalization and I feel like I am constantly on stage, this is a bizarre trap that I am seriously struggling with. I cannot think or even read or type without everyone around me hearing it.
@erikarefined
@erikarefined 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you!
@ucdcrush
@ucdcrush 4 жыл бұрын
What about the idea of a "secondary disturbance"? I.e, what's troubling the person is not the actual thought (they might recognize instantly that it's irrational, far-fetched, etc.) but that troubling thoughts keep popping into their head, and they would prefer to not have them. Would you suggest they repeat this technique of addressing the thought rationally every time it comes up? Or at a certain point aren't they better off recognizing simply that they are having the intrusive thought again, and not spend extra mental energy rehearsing and repeating that it's irrational? It's the idea that what you resist persists.. which seems to fit with the idea of mindfulness and acceptance, but not as much with the idea of deconstructing an irrational intrusive thought each time it pops into one's head. That seems like more resistance.
@shen2738
@shen2738 4 жыл бұрын
When it happens, i can't get out in my head. I start to worry .. what's going on? What's happening? What's wrong with me? Later I try to search in google what was that?
@hueso5071
@hueso5071 3 жыл бұрын
I have intrusive thoughts because of my depression. It comes and goes, one day I’m perfectly fine and can think clearly, then the next day I have intrusive thoughts and feel depressed.
@subhanuchamaka9873
@subhanuchamaka9873 3 жыл бұрын
thank you dear ................this really will help
@giuliamelchiorre6190
@giuliamelchiorre6190 Жыл бұрын
You are definitely not the only one with the catastrophic steering wheel scenario 😂 I think sometimes this is also a way to enjoy the reality of being healthy and alive, compared to the horrible hypothetical things that could be happening instead :)
@valentinanocross8677
@valentinanocross8677 4 жыл бұрын
Omg the laughter and love you cocreate. Everything wonderful...in every video. How did you get so real?
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
In all honesty, letting myself be myself has taken a lot of work, but it's been so worth it. Glad you're here sis.
@pfa2075
@pfa2075 4 жыл бұрын
Very helpful, thank you Julia
@joannepigliavento7930
@joannepigliavento7930 3 жыл бұрын
This course looks great. I don’t see the cost anywhere. 😊
@judekillar2473
@judekillar2473 3 жыл бұрын
This is really helpful
@christinemorrill3518
@christinemorrill3518 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yes, very helpful.
@JuliaHope1
@JuliaHope1 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!!
@Cowgirlupjo
@Cowgirlupjo 3 жыл бұрын
Enjoying your videos! I can't find the link for the meditation you mentioned. Can you please post it?
@seanblackwell6241
@seanblackwell6241 4 жыл бұрын
How can I stop having intrusive feelings, emotions, and my imagination running wild over my partner, who is being very passive aggressive towards me. I am now aware that I have many codependent traits. But I'm finding it very difficult to get out of this disfunctional relationship, which is very painful. Thank you. ❤
@pranansubba9587
@pranansubba9587 4 жыл бұрын
Wow great I too have this kind of thoughts.
@rendezvouswithben9187
@rendezvouswithben9187 4 жыл бұрын
Hi! this is a very good topic. i haven't finished the video coz i need to go and be somewhere but i saved it to "watch later". PS: you're looking really good today, Julia.
@valeriavega9421
@valeriavega9421 4 жыл бұрын
Could you please do another video about this topic? I've been dealing with this recently specially since the quarantine started
@lenas5613
@lenas5613 4 жыл бұрын
I've heard the term catastrophizing. Would that be a term for this?
@vikramkaramchandani5116
@vikramkaramchandani5116 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Julia I like all your videos they are very relevant, insightful and give me the courage and right guidance. Im going through OCD because of which I repeatedly check geysers, door locks etc. I would need your views or any video insight on the topic of how to deal with OCD and also anxiety related to future. Thanks Vikram
@farahhabib8298
@farahhabib8298 3 жыл бұрын
In the same boat :(
@jonathanjollimore4794
@jonathanjollimore4794 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know how but when the guy I talk to 80% of the time is that dis-bodied voice in my head and all I have to go off of is what I know and past experience it doesn't have a lot of good things to say. EDIT and voices screaming threw the wall and arguing I hear those voices too
@billyswado
@billyswado 4 жыл бұрын
You re doing a great great job, you re helping a lot of people. May ask if there any side effects of mindfulness meditation because I have read a lot from little stress to panic attacks.
@shellychatelain9377
@shellychatelain9377 4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this🤗
@annemoretti3173
@annemoretti3173 4 жыл бұрын
I have a fear of being homeless. After I went threw a foreclosure with a landlords house 2 yrs ago i have an a apt now. When its time to xiqn new lease I get scared sm thing will happen
@robertaborovicka1321
@robertaborovicka1321 3 жыл бұрын
Why does people get stomach pains when they have anxiety what cause that? And what can you do when you have a family member to keep on telling you you can do better you can do better how can you teach yourself that you can do better? And how can you leave your past in the past
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Roberta, If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. It is very simple. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@buffplums
@buffplums 4 жыл бұрын
Yes agree I have those thoughts too
@americasariesson1862
@americasariesson1862 4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to ask - post relationship with someone who was a cluster b ..self isolation, intense dreams their real, suddenly watching myself outside myself and overall very vigilant. All of these began to dissipate over the years and I’m not as paranoid of others. Are these PTSD symptoms? I only associate that will traumatic events. ✌🏻
@MariaSantos-gm7ps
@MariaSantos-gm7ps 4 жыл бұрын
thanks Julia
@61rdf
@61rdf 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing Channel!!
@swastikpoddar7446
@swastikpoddar7446 3 жыл бұрын
I was finding for some more relatable vdos regarding intrusive thoughts and till now I found nothing more relatable than those which you said right at the beginning......Even sometimes I feel like what would happen if I touch the plug after turning on the switch ......These thoughts are really disturbing ......Hope I will get some help here....Let me continue watching it
@tgfbrofan-base5997
@tgfbrofan-base5997 3 жыл бұрын
Can anyone tell me If they sometimes get worried because they have thoughts and it makes you feel excited to do it but you dont please help
@edwarddunphy3099
@edwarddunphy3099 2 жыл бұрын
Is their any medication that reduces intrusive thoughts
@GregsWorkshopOregon
@GregsWorkshopOregon 4 жыл бұрын
“Yes, the COVID is a very real possibility. The chances are good that we will all eventually get it, but the chances that we’ll be very sick from it are pretty low.”
@ricomcblyat2613
@ricomcblyat2613 4 жыл бұрын
Intrusive thoughts mm,this is not normal,this seems OCD related
@hereshoping6992
@hereshoping6992 3 жыл бұрын
Relentless thoughts
@lizelliott6528
@lizelliott6528 4 жыл бұрын
I have BPD and many other issues but this seems crazy. Is this a common thing? It seems to be totally irrational to me almost immature. I don't understand how a mature adult could get all worked up about a hypothetical situation that hasn't and probably won't happen. Anything can happen at anytime it's the risk we take just by being alive. At worst we die. Big deal we all do eventually. Crazy stupid to me
@nottobecompared4099
@nottobecompared4099 3 жыл бұрын
Just shows us how anxiety will take over & trick us.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Liz, ​ If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
@@nottobecompared4099 ​ @Trudes If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Very simple. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@jannesorensen7904
@jannesorensen7904 4 жыл бұрын
Loved it
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 4 жыл бұрын
Really glad it connected Janne.
@bugoykikay8074
@bugoykikay8074 3 жыл бұрын
i have a bad intrusive thoughts that i really hate and it made me so anxious like hell and keeps popping up on my mind for no reason but i am able to just kind of block it everyday and i pray but all i do is let it pops up like a notification in cellphones i notice once i dont let it piss me off it kind of goes away i feel like its just bullying me for no reason its been a week now. was there any recommendations on why is this happening to me
@nottobecompared4099
@nottobecompared4099 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@christopherpape4823
@christopherpape4823 4 жыл бұрын
yoo i have more of the former all the time. like i could do this thing, right now. what if i did? it can be kind of terrifying.
@captaindan1000
@captaindan1000 4 жыл бұрын
My last intrusive thought came to me when I ate the wrong thing. A few too many spicy jalapeno peppers. I thought the fiery pain in my stomach was never going to go away. How's that for a bad spot? Nothing like your brain and your belly being on fire at the same time. "AAAH! Caramba! Muy caliente! Fuego! Fuego!"
@hereshoping6992
@hereshoping6992 3 жыл бұрын
Subscribed
@silascochran9705
@silascochran9705 4 жыл бұрын
Timing on this one Julia I'm dealing with all this stuff one day there's a pandemic the next day there's no toilet paper the next day people are killing each other and shooting children and I am dealing with some kind of skin problem fungus ringworm something it's driving me nuts then I had a problem at the doctor's office they gave me a questionnaire that asked how many people I slept with are you shiting me so I walked out nice to hear from you
@Abel_Makkonen_Tesfaye-0
@Abel_Makkonen_Tesfaye-0 2 жыл бұрын
Needed
@sohelshaik2744
@sohelshaik2744 3 жыл бұрын
I have thoughts that what if i do intrusive thoughs
@sohelshaik2744
@sohelshaik2744 3 жыл бұрын
It makes me trust less on me
@petergarcia7627
@petergarcia7627 4 жыл бұрын
I usually try to push them away but I don’t think that helps
@mitchelllombard3789
@mitchelllombard3789 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn't. It just makes it worse because you're then fighting the thoughts and that will make you more scared of them coming back.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
@@mitchelllombard3789 ​ If negative thoughts affect your internal physical health visit a psychologist. Heal yourself with determination. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 10-15 minutes. Slowly negative thoughts will reduce and relax the mind. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more healing enter the following on google search “528 Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”” and listen for 5-10 minutes before sleep. Repeat softly in the mind. You will get relief quickly. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@jimsolinas491
@jimsolinas491 4 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@truthBtold2
@truthBtold2 4 жыл бұрын
counselling or counseling (one L) ?
@kennethjenkins1094
@kennethjenkins1094 4 жыл бұрын
No not just you!!! lol
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