Is this a video to convince ourself that we are too good for anyone an evryone in the world?? Or a video taliking about something super obvious that you should have learned as a young teen?

My husband does literally every single one of these. I love him, but if I had it to do all over again I don't know if I'd get married again.

Ive been going through this my whole life i forgot it was abuse

if someone calls you a fat pig and you are overweight do' not take it personally they just want to fell better about themselves. Really?

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Brilliant video really helpful and still relevant thank you for posting all those years ago! 🙏🏼

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I hear so many excuses. “I don’t want to end up in the psych ward” “If I go for you, I won’t really get better” “I want to beat depression alone”

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My ex wife was a great PRETENDER She would HIDE her TRUE feelings True emotions True self When we got married After 6 months of marraige her true SELF started to come out from behind her MASKS she would use to HIDE HER TRUE SELF 😮 That was my rude awakining that someone or anyone could be so deceitful 😮

Positive people are emotionally mature Positive people who have achieved a certain level in adulthood to be emotional maturity and Immature ignorant nieve selfish people Are people that are too negative and they cannot be positive because they are still too ignorant

Negative people are just a part of life How many times have you seen a Hollywood movie that does not have Violence ? Angry people Rude people Negative people are everywhere that's what you need to understand so don't get frustrated too much you will not find 100,% positive people on an average day

I have a friend we've been friends since we were 10 years old we're both 63 now we lost touch for 30 years and when we did meet up again he was totally narcissistic! I had a great career and he did not and so the first thing he does is start belittling and slandering me. When we have get togethers people start talking about someone about being ill or whatever and he turns it around to be about him! So that friendship ended! People quit going over to his house and barely any contact made with him. I don't need jealous friends like that!

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You might have just saved the relationship between me and my daughter.

Absolutely

Why Not me? If Not me then who?😮‍💨

Deborah Dempsey I just love you and your solutions Thank yoi

I love your videos and I really appreciate all you say ❤ I’m trying so hard to just be myself all the time but sometimes brain can’t even come up with anything to say so I just stay quiet even though I’d love to join a conversation. I think my brain has found a way to even prevent me to saying anything that might get me rejected or unliked that I don’t even have the option to mess up and I don’t know how to fix that

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I have a terrible time with this 🥺

Hey Julia. This video actually helped me understand the exact reason for me being people pleaser. Thanks for explaining very well and I’m gonna start working on myself.

Great idea. Put friend in same position

Wow thank you 🙏🏾

It affects our self-respect

AND YET PEOPLE DO ROUTINELY JUDGE DISABLED PEOPLE NEGATIVELY, and thus treat disabled people horribly.

Except that what people think, how they perceive us, and how they treat us stand between us and our goals. Friend group inclusion or not. Job offer or promotion, or rejection. So no, we fear being held back from our forward progress in life, by repeatedly blocking us from advancing in our own skills by their negative perceptions and how they treat us.

What do you tell the user. To not lose friendship

Thank you soo much Kristina….so within, so without♥️✨🩷🎄…..this is a very succinct explanation …..former ppl plsr ✨

Hi my name is dirk De Bruin I have a great friend he is like a brother to me we don't live in the same town we rarely talk with each other's i am the only one who starts the conversation

Totally feel this. Too much thinking of said, etc. thanks ❤

By forcing accountability

Someone recently overshared and she shutdown afterwards and actually became distant and extremely cold. She shared deep personal stuff and we new acquaintances.

I've had a recent experience with someone who overshared but she is the

Thank you this just what I needed to hear ❤

+juliakristinamah #ActuallyAutistic *師匠 ꜱɪꜱʏō:* *The school systems o' the late-20th-Century United States having failed me, I've a general agnosis on relational fundamentals, including but not limited to needs, boundaries, trait integration, emotional regulation, &c.:* Mind you, back in the 1960's, the United States in Congress Assembled, and the State of California and the 東宣北米神聖教会 OMS (viz., Oriental Missionary Society) Holiness Church of North America (a Wesleyan conference offshot from majority Methodism, and the child conference o' the 東洋宣教會 Oriental Missionary Church, a society founded 1902 at 大日本帝國東京市 ᴛōᴋʏōꜱɪ (now 日本国東京都 ᴛōᴋʏōᴛᴏ), JPN) under them, were at the foot o' the learning curve for neurodivergent education, thus the subsequent five decades of immature resources to which I am witness. Gutstein and Sheely's design-patented Relationship Development Intervention Program (Gutstein Sheely & Associates PC, % The Connections Center for Relationship Development, and The Monarch School, both Houston, TX, USA), the theory and model whereof are described in Steven E. Gutstein PhD, _Autism ⁄ Asperger's: Solving the Relationship Puzzle: A New Developmental Program That Opens the Door to Lifelong Social and Emotional Growth_ (Arlington, TX, USA: Future Horizons, 2000), wasn't released until the Turn o' the 21st Century. I'm also an exception to Thais Gibson PhD's (The Personal Development School, Concord, ON, CAN) rule of children having no Attachment Style at birth: BORN Dismissive Avoidant (per the latest research both at The Connections Center for Relationship Development and at The Monarch School), diagnosed with Kanner's Syndrome (after the late Chaskel Leib "Leo" Kanner MD) at John Muir Memorial Hospital (now John Muir Health Walnut Creek), Walnut Creek, CA, USA, before my first year was out. For nigh onto five decades I's oblivious to internal, unconscious mental and emotional blocks that were eventually discovered (in my case, three decades post hoc) through a meta-analysis o' studies _galór_ on both Autistic and Allistic by Steven E. Gutstein PhD, who made it his mission to follow up the aforementioned Dr. Kanner in identifying and cataloguing neurodivergent adversities - blocks that not only derailed growth-seeking and prevented my learning relational fundamentals but also, upon seeing the disastrous effects of controlled substances - but NOT before playing the fool of Proverbs 7 - set me up for Legalistic Perfectionism, among whose symptoms are ANTalcoholism (viz., HARD aversion to controlled substances even to the point of dry-drunk syndrome), and ANT'hedonía (viz., PAIN where there should be pleasure). I never developed senses of/for emotional essentials in relationships due to said mental and emotional blocks presenting as a condition named 'üpothümía (Gk. ὑποθυμίας "insufficient emotion"): In fact, I have YET to experience a Guiding Relationship as defined by the aforementioned Dr. Gutstein. I also found Arthur L. Farstad et al., _The Evidence Study Bible: All You Need to Understand and Defend Your Faith: Commentary by Ray Comfort_ (Newberry, FL, USA: Bridge-Logos, 2011), to give insufficient training to the Autistic and other neurodivergents.

My partner complains about pillows , toilet seats , dog food not being zipped tight , wrong spoon , you name it . I explode at times . And have caught myself starting to complain about things . I don't want to end up being this way .

I honestly feel like you made this video to talk to me like I was in a one-on-one session with you. Thank you so much for your content. It's very helpful. I appreciate you and what you do

Simple, informative, and practical! Julia, you are amazing at what you do! 💜

First of all, wow! Thank you for your amazing videos! Your insights have also taught me the importance of not over-investing emotionally in situations that don’t serve me. Truly grateful for your wisdom and content!

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This is bad information so sad.

Thank you. It is my first christmas since my mother died in January.

I spent whole time of my youth desperately missing people who were absent with their love I deserved.... And it made me something...I developed restricting distance in which people are like weather to me.... nothing more. Some are like sunny day, some are like storm.. but when are gone then are gone. Nowadays in my mature life I've never reached situation of missing anyone who went or I let to be gone....

Thank you Julia, we just lost a second child. This was timely & a beautiful reminder for me❤

Thanks for showing up this way. I really enjoyed this format. I found it calming from mind to heart. Watching you write this out, I can feel the effects. Thanks for all your help over the years. I credit your videos often for the success of my personal growth. Thank you!

I always compare myself in the workplace with some coworkers. I always feel like they get all the attention and I don't know why I care, as I don't like alot of attention. Hopefully, this will help me just accept me exactly as I am,

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