Saying Goodbye To Grandma

[@southloupriverhomestead4696]

Grandma said her name was Beth but to the grandkids her name is Grandma. I,m here to say there are tens of thousands of us that call her Grandma and will miss her. Death is part of life and I thank you Justin for being brave enough to make a movie about this part of life. You make us feel the pain of loss but some how even though were sad that makes life sweeter. I guess we can take life for granted sometimes. Maybe this should be the movie you put into the film contest next year. To the people that don't understand why he shows Grandma when she is dying I,m sorry your not able to understand . Of course he has always had her blessing to show this.

[@nonasloanpatterson7929]

Thank you for sharing❤😂

[@lindao1327]

When it’s my time, I want all my family around me. ❤

[@malinpeh]

I have just watched a few of the latest videos about hurricane Helene, so don’t really “know” the family, but I do agree with what you wrote. It was a great video and a great homage to grandma Beth. ❤

[@kazziet7t352]

Beautifully said. ❤

[@terrihart2133]

Beautifully said. I had no words, just tears. Thank you.

[@heartofpinehomestead6151]

Lily’s crying definitely broke me 😢 She was a wonderful lady and I know she’ll be greatly missed. Praying for you guys

[@Sara040507]

Same. Just lost my dear sister yesterday and this brought it all back. ❤

[@heartofpinehomestead6151]

@@Sara040507 so very sorry for your loss as well 🙏🏼

[@theabristlebroom4378]

​@@Sara040507Sympathy and blessings for your recent loss.

[@ingridamador2022]

Same! 😭😭

[@marnaday4596]

Me too. Had to stop the video and pull myself together.

[@valeriemcclain9001]

Dying with dignity, surrounded by your loved ones, is a privilege that I wish everyone had. Your tribute to her life was beautiful, and you can treasure it forever. May she dwell in heaven with our Lord. And may the blessings of His love be with your family forever.

[@andreesimoneau6167]

How awesome to get to say goodbye to RIP grandma. What a wonderful woman.

[@miephoex]

That picture shows no dignity!

[@AfterTheRains]

I’m not convinced showing such a private family moment to thousands of strangers is dignified.

[@pmccoy8924]

Very special they were be able to consciously say goodbye. I don't know her and it was even emotional for me.

[@noble604]

miephoex - Agree. This is not what dignity looks like. Grandma didn’t just have the Rhodes as her only family. There are other members of the family to consider, as well.

[@digestiveleaf]

Please comfort big daddy in these times of sorrow i know he will most likely comfort yall but he needs some comfort aswell ❤

[@theJustinRhodesShow]

For sure. And so proud of him. Were keeping him busy after the hurricane

[@sandradee8880]

I lost it when I seen Bruce aka big daddy kissing his wife and wishpper in her ear goodbye. Must be so hard lose someone you spent your life with.

[@delanietrusty8051]

What a beautiful tribute, so many tears watching this! Thank you!

[@juliestevens717]

I am so sorry for ur loss guys 💜 I have been watching ur journey from Hurricane Helene to the new house. Ur children are absolutely amazing, the way they work on the farm All my love & prayers to all of u Jules from Australia 🇦🇺

[@countrygirlxo7188]

My husband passed away last month from terminal brain cancer. He was 31. We have 3 boys ages 7, 4, and 2, and currently 8 months pregnant with our first daughter. The worst part was slowly watching him lose the ability to do simple things. Like walking or talking. I take pride in knowing that I took care of him till the very end, he was loved. It was a blessing and curse watching him fade away, because I know that’s not how he wanted to be remembered. He is free now and soaring high. I tell my boys that daddy is in heaven building us a big house for when it’s our turn to see him again. 🌹🙏🕊️ death is never easy but then again life isn’t either. Each day is a blessing

[@hoppas77]

What a sweet thing to tell your boys. So sorry for your loss❤

[@dre.ale.1191]

Oh this made me weep… 😭 the image of your husband building a home for you all broke me. Giant hug, darling. May you find peace and joy on this journey without your husband.

[@CaroLinek88]

Oh no 😮😢 I'm so sorry. God bless you and your children.

[@tabp8448]

💔🕊🫶🏽

[@lee-annenavin3391]

You are the strongest and most incredible person. I wish you all the happiness with your boys and your wee girl when she's here ❤ xx

[@nunyabizznizzok]

What a beautiful tribute to your mother in law . May she rest in peace

[@hoppas77]

Whoa, haven't cried like that in a while. What a beautiful celebration of life video. So sorry for your loss.. My heart breaks for you all. Im so glad Grandpa Bruce lives right there so you all can comfort each other. I really enjoyed when Beth was part of the videos. Although we were 'strangers' it felt like I knew her after watching all these years. She was such a special lady❤

[@theJustinRhodesShow]

Thanks for crying with us!

[@Fotoeop]

Watching my children say goodbye to their dad was the worst day of my life. Yet, it was also a blessing. Thank you for sharing your blessing. God bless you all!

[@gunnshomestead6255]

Beautiful tribute & memories. Thank you for sharing such a personal moment of your lives with us. Thoughts & prayers to you all while you are going through this healing process…on top of everything else…

[@AlpacaMade]

Before I watch the video, let me offer my condolences to Rebecca, her sister, Justin, Jonah, Josiah, Lily, Gideon, young Henry and the larger families. Thank you for sharing your mother & grandmother's life with us, we are enriched by her presence.🕊

[@joycehaines2055]

Love never dies.

[@robyncherry9663]

What a Beautiful tribute! Grandmas are hard to say goodbye too! May her memory be a blessing to you all. I’m so sorry for your loss. I will miss seeing her too. 🙏🏽😔

[@lillievalentine8800]

This is an incredibly intimate family moment. I am humbled that you shared it. R.I.P Beth. You leave a legacy of love and joy to your family and thousands of us who follow your family adventures. The tears will pass but the beautiful memories remain.

[@jarrod7262]

Love your family don't ever forget hard times make tough men soft times make week men yall should be proud.

[@FLIPPER1439]

Lord 🙏🏻 heal and comfort family as only You Lord can ✝️🕊️🙏🏻 Beautiful lady🌷

[@kriswhite1344]

I HAD THE PRIVILEGE of meeting this wonderful lady at the HOA, in Virginia . She cared for baby Henry, she held him, rocked him and her smile was so big! GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.

[@paisleyjane9606]

We will all miss Rebecca's mom. For me, and probably many other viewers, there's the strong memory of her frequently in your kitchen separating milk or helping out in some other way.

[@Ziv-pm6ip]

She absolutely always lifted the burden of chores in the kitchen! :)

[@FreckledGemini]

Precious memories, indeed.

[@janetbecker4282]

What a Blessing to show the Love by Blessing her while she was still present. Now Gma is in Heaven no more pain no more suffering.

[@Hope-uc5fv]

Amen

[@TGTree]

And Amen, again​@@Hope-uc5fv

[@warnerroadhomestead]

I really liked her. One of my favorite people on the channel way back when I used to be a subscriber. Beautiful lady inside and out. Sorry for your loss.

[@The_Crow_Flies]

I absolutely love that everyone has had a chance to say goodbye like this and get that closure, because that chance is so incredibly rare. May she rest in peace and i wish peace to your family in this hard time.

[@susanhampshire9101]

I remember Grandma working at the dishwasher and washing the milking equipment… in fact she was always busy.

[@Happydaily24]

- To the kids - Your Grandma must of felt so at peace to hear how happy she made you all , and the memories you have with her! What a wonderful final gift of compassion . You have shown everyone how to give your people their flowers before they die! I am so proud of you! From just a lady who watches from UK. To Beth’s husband. I’m sorry you lost your lady , until you meet again ❤

[@wendyburston3132]

When my husband's mother turned 80 we gave her a huge party and ask the grandkids got together and sent her a different flower arrangement every month for a year. She would get so excited... So proud of her grandkids.

[@summerjennfarmstead]

I always remember Grandma saving the day. Countless times saying oh Grandma's in town and she's going to pick that up for us or grandma's going to head to town for us and take care of that. She loves you guys so much and will always be a part of the Hollar. See you on the other side, sweet Beth.

[@AB-ol5uz]

100% - she had a willing spirit and jumped in to help in whatever ways she could - making butter and other milk products, helping run errands, and so much more.

[@BuffyReisinger]

So sorry for your loss. Beautiful tribute to a beautiful lady. It’s crazy the resemblance between Beth and Rebekah at the 13:16 timestamp. Exact same smile, exact same laugh. Rip grandma.

[@lindadial7177]

Thanks for sharing this tribute and showing your children saying goodbye to their grandma! I also loved the parts where she told individuals what they meant to her on their birthday!!!! What a great idea for those of us who are grandparents ❣️ My condolences to all of you ❣️✝️❣️Praying for GOD’S comfort during these difficult times! 🙏 I am a new subscriber and found your channel since Helene and watching your videos for updates of recovery for your family!! May GOD truly bless you all ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@thedirtprincess3293]

This is so hard. It comes to all of us. Many fear it and contrary to the haters' kneejerk reactions, I think it is a service to let people see the humanity,the love,and that we all will face death. You did a good job.

[@mariadimarco8308]

My heart was touched both with sorrow and joy. Sorrow at the heartbreak we feel when our mom is no longer here. The joy is all the love she shed upon our lives. The wonderful memories is all the videos you can view over and over again to not only see but hear her sweet voice.

[@janohdegroot989]

Here I am in Europe, The Netherlands, crying with you all. Respect for sharing this part of your life. So honest.. so loving.. thank you 🙏. be good, bye 👋

[@rebekahmccaul]

So precious. Cried the whole video! 😢😭🙏🏻

[@lifeondyerfamilyfarm2655]

I am 2:45 into this video and bawling like Grandma was part of my family. Your children will always cherish memories of her. Makes me thankful of the memories I have of my Grandparents. I miss them terribly. Time is a thief. God bless you Rhodes Family.

[@Nancelot13]

It's wonderful to see how y'all handled that. Most people want to shield their kids from death...which is detrimental to them being strong, well adjusted adults. Right on. Much love y'all

[@AnneQ-bk6wi]

It is a privilege to bless our loved ones before they are unconscious or passed. My mother slipped into a coma several days before she passed. I was so glad I said goodbye every time I left her.

[@Bigjcomeon]

Literally can tell she was a beautiful person inside and out.

[@Psalms121KJV]

Precious family. What love. She was a blessing. God's peace and comfort.

[@growingbyfaith3424]

Sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences.

[@jodydarby]

So many folks do not 'experience' this phase of life as family. I find it honorable and helpful that you're sharing your pain, grief, relief with us.

[@tarey05]

Absolutely! ❤

[@albertabyers7157]

you can share it without showing grand ma like that. very disrespectful. yes everyone dies but we don't plaster it all over the internet. it is a private moment for the family.

[@AspenCreekFarms]

I do too. I didn't have this experience. Our families spread to the four winds and my kids are starting to as well. I'm trying to learn how to do life in a more healthy way to break chains of dysfunction.

[@hoppas77]

@@albertabyers7157 Many of us have been watching since 2016 or longer and we got to 'know' her. She was a wonderful lady and she’ll be missed by family but also us as well. Edit- I've missed her for awhile. She was always so joyful and full of life.

[@theabristlebroom4378]

​@albertabyers7157 You saw the thumbnail, you chose to watch, and you chose to make that very judgemental comment. Shut your mouth until you learn to adult, and MAKE BETTER CHOICES. SMDH

[@nancydavis4635]

Wonderful tribute. I am still crying!

[@saraslatter7973]

Me too😢

[@janicew6222]

Grandma was a beautiful woman, always running to town to pick something up, watch kids and help with family at the homesteading conferences. I'm blessed to have met her once. Heaven is enriched by her presence. Prayers for each of you and Grandpa as you grieve this loss.

[@czbylut]

Beth is a legend! the sweetest of grandmas. I sobbed watching the kiddos share their hearts for grandma. love you Rhodes fam!

[@pennyd1220]

Thank you for inviting us into these final moments of grandma’s life. It seems like we are being invasive but we all love grandma too. I am crying so hard. See you in heaven grandma. Prayers to your family.

[@juliescott5066]

Amazing how people that you watch on KZbin become family. Grama will be missed. I'm balling like a baby....God's blessings to all of you.

[@sunshinecindy570]

Thank you for sharing Grandma with us over the years. She was such an amazing lady! RIP Beth! ❤ 🙏❤ You all have my deepest condolences 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ruggedmountainhomestead]

Oh Justin, What a beautiful tribute to Grandma. I’m shedding tears with the family. These videos will be a treasure forever. Much love to all. ❤

[@elizabethtaylor4448]

A most brave & loving family. I applaud Justin & Rebecca along with her parents for documenting this time of love , blessings & celebration of life . Its all part of mourning the loss that is enevitable. For those who find it difficult & i feel that's most, maybe this will give some insight that death is not what we always imagine. That it can be full of love & sharing. My condolences to you all. Good bless you Gma. Thank you .xx

[@karenk7157]

What a beautiful thing to share your memories of her, with her.

[@phillipfish7235]

Making this grown man cry...God bless your family!

[@anitacravens333]

My Mom is also waiting on her wings and I thank you so much for sharing this . I think the fond memories shared with Grandma is one of the most beautiful send offs I've ever seen and we will be doing the same for our family. God be with you all

[@janis6697]

This is a wonderful testament to her life. How much she was loved and how much she loved back. Beautiful.

[@tanyabrown9839]

So loved, I wish everyone went through an end where they were loved like this.

[@marissadevantier]

Rebecca, I’m so sorry you lost your mom. Cried with you during the video. And Rhodes kiddos Grandma Beth sooooo loved you. Thanks for sharing so much love and care with us listeners to say goodbye to Grandma Beth as well.

[@annettemaddalone4297]

what a blessing to be able to give grandma her blessings before she passed she was such a wonderful women sue enjoyed watching her with the family hugs to all god bless you all

[@mio.giardino]

My fondest memories of your grandma will be watching her help on milk separating day. Shuffling jars in and out of the dishwasher and cleaning up after all the work. You gave her the best couple last year’s of her life; being able to see her grandchildren on the farm every day.

[@jbuggy3845]

Me too

[@OPUSBooking]

Sobbing with you all. What a beautiful family. She seems quite at peace. What a legacy to have planted the seeds for. May the angels embrace her more warmly than we can even imagine

[@pattiripley7599]

Grandma will be missed in this world. She was a lovely lady who spread joy to us all. Her memory will always be special

[@stevedaniels6050]

Such a wonderful tribute to an amazing woman but I feel that somethings like this need to be kept a personal journey of remembrance,love and grievance

[@awyomingprairiewife.8385]

Oh, sweet Lily, may grandma always live in your heart. Even our pain is bittersweet. Shine with Jesus grandma.❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻😇😇😇

[@lorigreen2192]

This video was so beautifully done. I cried right along with your family. I lost my mom to Glioblastoma in 2021. She was diagnosed in January and passed in March. It was my greatest blessing to be her caregiver during those 6-7 weeks, but watching this video brought back many of the emotions I felt. It's the most beautiful thing but the most painful at the same time. I send blessings to your family. All of you were so blessed to have been so close.

[@tabp8448]

🫶🏽

[@jagslayerboy9647]

When Lilly broke down I lost it 😭RIP Granma 🙏❤️🙏

[@newmexiconurse3336]

me too

[@GrandmaKarenHasAFarm]

me too

[@tammyshepherd1152]

Me too😢❤

[@cherylt8590]

me too😢🙏❤..

[@pamelacooley6457]

Same.

[@Suziluci65]

Such a fitting and beautiful tribute to a ver loved lady. ❤

[@Christinasgifts]

What an amazing send off I’m a caregiver and I always wished for just this only saw it once well done y’all honored her beautifully❤

[@sewadventurous3815]

The love this family has is overflowing. Thank you for sharing these beautiful moments. My prayers and condolence to you and your family

[@allanbonnieguffey5634]

What a beautiful tribute to your mom. Thank you for sharing her beautiful life with us

[@sandydaniels2668]

I’m so sorry for your loss but the fact you have home videos is the best part.

[@heskinin]

Heart wrenching😢 thank you so much for sharing grandma's last few days and the footage of previous months and yrs. Love your family, you are truly good people.

[@pamkotyk6901]

What a beautiful and heart wrenchingly human video.

[@marykappesser5145]

I lost my mom when I was just 20, and that is almost 50 years ago. The missing never stops. But, it's a moment of darkness, then the remembering comes. And joy returns. Thank you for sharing such an intimate experience for your family. I wish you all peace.

[@sherryschuman9299]

Praying Becca feels God’s presence, love and peace! God bless the Rhodes and family.😔🙏🙏🙏❤️an elderly lady in East Tennessee, GaGa.

[@orchidlife9482]

Big Daddy and Rebecca were incredible warriors for Beth! May this remarkable woman RIP… Much Love from PA!

[@haleybuntothehills]

Whew, what a wonderful tribute to a special lady, who was a part of a very special family. We will all miss Grandma. Prayers for Grandpa and the rest of you guys. You all are dearly loved.

[@rofireskyte6931]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I cared for my mother through her ALS, this deeply saddens me because I know how your family is feeling. Sending blessings to you. May grandma watch over you and protect your family. Rest in peace Miss Elizabeth

[@michellehernandez774]

Lilys sadness, look, and embrace with her mom when saying goodbye on their trip mirrored the final blessing. What a wonderful tribute.

[@MaMa-st2eg]

This is sad, but....most people never get to tell people who pass away the love, memories and how they knew they were loved. Awesome...

[@Gardengirlie04]

What a beautiful tribute to Grandma. Such a wonderful mom, grandma. My condolences to big daddy and your family.

[@kimclayton7728]

Amazing tribute to Grandma. Moved me to tears. Condolences to your family.❤

[@katya03316]

First i ever seen goodbyes/memories remembering with dying loved one while they still alert... this was very special thank you for sharing. Made me cry... i guess in our culture we are very stubborn and til the end hold on n hope the loved ones will turn around by a miracle n continue living instead of going... til the last breath my dad refused to believe my mom was going... he wouldn't let go... she was just 49... i was 19 oldest of 5 kids... having worked in nursing homes i knew she was not going to last much longer n i was ready to let go but my dad kept pushing interventions n wouldn't listen... my grandpa moved away so he passed peacefully in his sleep sourounded by his children... i cant imagine loosimg my dad... hes still alive at 75 n sees to be beating his cancer which was caught early stage ... so i want him around for long more time... my husbands parents are much younger but they dont live near nor help as much...

[@SheriAnnOlson]

We weep with those who weep. Praying for God's comfort in good memories and future reunion.

[@MonicaBrand]

Yes! Amen! What a reunion we will have.

[@leighfloyd4441]

P.S. What a gift to share her passing. That is what family is about. Supporting each other through EVERYTHING! She is right, "See you on the other side" Grandma!!

[@cinndot]

What a beautiful love story! Your grandma radiated with love and joy around her family. I could see it in her face. I was so touched the way her family loved on her and each one telling her hiw much she touched their lives. What a way to honor your family member. Families should aspire to be like yours. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your lives with me. May she rest in the arms of Jesus 🙏.

[@joolzmac1]

Goodness, that was hard for the kids but just shows how much they loved grandma. Lots don’t get the chance to say goodbye like that. Heartbreaking but fond memories, I’m sure. ❤️

[@janetterasmussen3937]

Oh my goodness, Grandma’s Genes are so strong. Rebecca is like Grandma and Lily is like Rebekah . Wow so Beautiful. The Memories will live on through your Children.

[@freedomat50]

I lost my MamaJean this past December and had the privilege of being with her those last 4 days and helping with the postmortem care after she passed. As a nurse I’ve done it for so many patients and to do it for her with the hospice nurse was such an honor. Thank you for sharing this intimate time with us and for guiding me to touch my grief of my MamaJean being gone.

[@joansmith3492]

Glad you showed what it really looks like and how hard it really is to loose your mother. We all know your mother is truly a good good woman. So sorry for your loss. Glad you have each other in your grief. lovely lovely tribute!

[@LisaMcConnachie]

I knew it was coming, and I never knew her, and yet here I am sitting and crying watching this. You have such a special family!!

[@betsywinchester1126]

I cried so hard watching this,, what a beautiful soul!

[@y.s.warren3706]

That was so beautiful for you all to say your goodbyes while she could still respond. My condolences to each of you. Especially Big Daddy. 🙏 🙏

[@Wilddaisyhomestead]

I truly appreciate what an example of truth and reality this is for all of us. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m sure your hearts are just broken… and God bless you for how you’ve shared and dealt with this and included your children in the process the way you have. How healing and honorable for all of you.

[@garybaker6548]

I just started watching the channel in the aftermath of hurricane Helene. I was very quickly drawn to the very strong family work ethic, kindness and desire to help others. This was one of the best tributes to an elder that I've seen. Grandma receiving the blessings from all the family members--young and old--was extremely touching. I'll be watching your channel regularly with great anticipation for years to come.

[@bjorkie266]

What a sweet tribute and memorial for a special lady! I've been following your family's journey since your kids were small, and I'm so grieved that you're special mom and Grandma is gone. She was such a spunky, vibrant person! Praying for comfort for you all as you remember her! 😢❤

[@valfrasier39]

Rest in Peace Grandma Beth. Prayers for comfort for the family. I enjoyed meeting you and Big Daddy though Justin's videos. I'm so touched to see that you gave her Blessings when she was aware.

[@gwenpowers6856]

This absolutely beautiful. What a legacy; what a wonderful memory for each of you. Wow. Thank you for sharing this lovely, personal, expression of family love and God’s grace.

[@CopperKettleFarms]

What a vulnerable and real moment that you've shared with us. Some of us have been watching you for almost a decade at this point (we got to meet you when you were in Maryland during the tour and Mr Gideon was still in diapers), and you inspired us to get into youtube. Best wishes for your family and thank you for letting us have a window into the love and commitment you all have for each other.

[@shawnleeriley2726]

It makes my heart sad knowing Grandma is gone but she will never be forgotten, Rebecca I love your strength.

[@ThatKraZeeKanuck]

Crying for you all - but she is out of pain and the hope of seeing her again is calming.

[@5GreenAcres]

Omg...Lilly and I think it is Josiah? You guys made me cry!!! What a beautiful tribute to grandma. I'm hoping she didn't get that thing that they convinced everyone to get in their arm? ALS, Cancer, heart attacks and strokes is what I have found. My neighbor (farmer) ended up with emergency apendectomy 2 weeks after. His daughter is a nurse and tried telling him not to get it. Now he has prostate cancer. Apendix is part of your immune system. What a lovely lady and she left this earth WAY too soon. What a blessed family. Rebecca you will carry on her legacy. God Speed healing in your wounded heart.

[@cathiwim]

My thoughts exactly!

[@diannasouthern2055]

You guys are the best parents and grands. ❤

[@siouxgerowsays]

SO hard to go through when you start crying. Grandma will be missed. May your dark times be brightened with great memories of her life.

[@TheMountainPiper]

Life is precious, and you all certainly have made the most of it. A beautiful tribute to who Grandma, a quite beautiful person.

[@BrokeDad809]

Dude! I normally don't get emotional watching KZbin but when your dad and now your mother-in-law passed. It got me.

[@jenniferwooley673]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Such a beautiful video for sad times.

[@leannekenyoung]

I lost my mom a few years ago and her birthday is coming up and a couple of days and I’ve been really sad missing her. After she passed I didn’t think I’d ever stop crying and then time passed and I was able to talk about her and all the happy times without the tears 😭 but I saw this and the floodgates opened my heart breaks for what your lovely mom and your family had to endure during her last chapter of life. Justin this was an incredible video and it shows all the love that everyone had for a very special lady. God bless you Rebecca and the tears will fade but the memories last a lifetime.❤️🥰🇨🇦🙏🏻🍁