Off The Record: Do White People Actually Get Disciplined at Home?

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Special Thanks to Our Guest & Friend:
Kalyne Lionheart
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Cast:
• Hosted by Steve Greene
• Commentary by: Anthony Lee, Bart Kwan, Nick Dunn, Ryanimay
• Edited by Candy Edits: www.candyedits.com
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[@Zhcwu]

Ryan's dad sounds like more like child abuse than the other stories.

[@bethnichols2875]

His dad sounds like he was watching too much WWE wresting to get his punishment style from.

[@chinoskateboardv]

Dude had straight up issues lmao

[@potassiumlover3991]

All of Ryan’s stories have been so shocking lol, the ex gf, the accident with his friends, his abusive dad lol geez

[@user-ol3ln9wq4q]

Ryan deserves it tho

[@Hotdogfanatic]

@@user-ol3ln9wq4q no he doesn’t wtf, you obviously have mental issues and should seek professional help if you think that. I’m gonna pray for you

[@anakaren7833]

I’m laughing at everyone’s stories then we get to Ryan and my mouth is wide open. 😅

[@zubabee]

@kc myth i notice steve was TOUCHY with Kalyne this ep, are him and Nikki good?

[@juanfranco9832]

That Ryan Bit at the end was the best! anyways Whats up with Steve and Kalyne lately huh? i noticed that too in the couple of videos they were in.

[@FairanAngelina]

@@jadensrfish1980 which episode does she talk about it?

[@looloo960]

@@jadensrfish1980 they deleted it because you’re lying😂

[@focusblast1768]

choking with a belt is craziest thing I've heard. At the surface ryan seems like the most sound/down-to-earth person, I wonder if he has any mental trauma from all the stuff he's went through

[@Dave_of_Mordor]

of course he does. who wouldn't when they being "raised" by people like this?

[@miayoung2943]

He talked about another story on jk of him yelling at his mom and it was the only time he had ever gone off and she had a heart attack in the middle of him yelling at him dudes been through traumaaa but he said it made the relationship better later on (i can’t remember if it was his mom or dad)

[@dowhatiwantc7637]

@@miayoung2943 I forgot about that story yeah would never want to yell at moms ever ever again it wouldn’t be worth it

[@wanglee21]

And I thought my dad throwing kitchen "knive(s)" trying to kill me was bad. I ran away from home for months because I didn't know if it was safe to go back. It was attempted homicide from my dad. Still to this day I contemplate to file charges on him to get him locked up.

[@N-xi2zh]

@@wanglee21 bro or sis.. it definitely is abuse/ attempted homicide... but yeah keep distance at least. you don't need people like this in your life.

[@bryantabut]

I don't know how I'm still shocked whenever Ryan tells a story. His stories were on another level. 😵

[@nkdy_95]

Anthony's face was literally me when Ryan was telling his story..

[@goldenchild22]

I’m glad Ryan turned out to be such a great person,and you can see how much of a warm caring person he is But it is kind of sad that he might not realize his dad was abusive,and that his punishment stories are not like his other Asian friends This makes me realize that this guy has been through a lot of traumatic things in his past,from his ex gf getting into that accident and his dad being abusive. But he still came out on top with such a positive look at life Ryan you have made me a super fan 🙌🏽 Wish more people were like you

[@evoltaocao5078]

the worse of it wasn't the physical pain but the hatred i've felt from them... parents back then were crazy.

[@King_Me]

Wym back then it’s still happening to this day

[@evoltaocao5078]

@@King_Me i'm sure it is but in general it has dimished. 20 years ago every parent beat their kids.

[@Sai-ns9ky]

True

[@chiuna2000]

I got beating growing up but Ryan’s stories sounds extreme, even for Asian parents.

[@Ameliarodriguez1101]

I feel like Ryan brings up these topics in a way to vent about his stories. Like his way of opening up. Wish I could hug little(boy version) Ryan

[@cherryptrp5718]

Once again here's Ryan having 9 lives. No one and nothing will ever Kill Ryanimay!

[@bethnichols2875]

Kalyne's story reminds me of the stories from back in the day when you'd hear about someone getting caught smoking and their parent would make them smoke a whole pack or carton till they would get sick, in hopes they would never want to smoke again.

[@MyLife-og2kr]

And then they develop nicotine addiction and their parents wonder why they become drug addicts.

[@danicahannaford737]

my mom told me if i smoked she would make me do the same

[@perit7140]

Lol reminds of the principal in Matilda with the chocolate cake

[@dowhatiwantc7637]

@@perit7140 that’s a goated movie I love that scene then she breaks it over his head lol

[@tysontran123]

"I didn't hear no bell" 🤣 Nick is the funniest

[@amenamohamed5457]

Omg, Bart reminded me about a time where my mother what to make a simple American fish sandwiches for lunch during a school break. But she African and not really great a reading English. She forgot bread and had to go to the store. She told all us to come down and I just remember it smelling weird. And so I asked or went into the kitchen and seeing it was blueberry bread she bought. She didn’t want to waste it and she already put sandwiches together. So one by one she made us all eat it sitting next to her watching us eat this fish and blueberry sandwich. I couldn’t eat fish or blueberry for years.

[@chriscarter5197]

My father would pretty much beat me whenever he felt like it growing up. It might have started out as discipline but as time went on, it basically became a weekly event. If my father had a bad day at work, I would find out about the hard way. It started out with belts until I was about 9 or 10, then it was just closed fists. I definitely got knocked out a few times. By the time I was 15, I finally had enough and stood up to him. I’ll never forget, he was about to lay into me for forgetting to bring my gym clothes home from school to be washed. We were in my bedroom, he tells me to stand up and just as he was getting into my face, I looked him dead in his eyes and told him if he put another hand on me he better kill me, because if he didn’t he better not go to sleep. I think he saw the seriousness in my eyes. He walked out of my room and came back about an hour later to apologize, holding back tears in his eyes. It’s the first time and last time I ever saw emotion out of him. It was crazy. He never put hands on me again. However, the next time I got in trouble and I was being “disciplined”, my father decided to lock me in the basement for 3 days with half a loaf of bread and a solo cup to get water out of the sink. I was so confused on how a parent could lock their own child in the basement for 3 days straight. After that, I pretty much would beg to be hit again. Needless to say, we’re not homies. But I will say, as I got older, I made a conscious decision a long time ago that I would never have children, in fear that I would do the same thing to my kids. It sucks but I could never take that chance.

[@michael43567]

Man.. this is tragic. Sorry you went through that

[@saharayahabibti]

if there’s any way you can heal from it, I think having kids(when you are ready) would be the final step of overcoming your trauma. i think the complete rejection of the idea of having kids would be always be a reminder to you of that time in your life and your dad shouldn’t have that power and control over your future. it would be a final f*k you to your dad for being the parent he could never be when you build a loving family with your partner and know you have people who will love you unconditionally and one day take care of you. Putting that aside. For right now, if you’re really set on not having kids( then build a cat/dog/etc. family ahem), it may help if you think of the idea of having kids as a “one day, when I’m ready.” It would help expose the idea to be more focused on yourself and your future vs your past overshadowing the whole idea. build trust in yourself that you will never be what he was. not sure if this makes sense but i guess it’d be like mental exposure therapy?

[@CowboyCookie]

@@saharayahabibtithat’s solid advice

[@kristenrandolph9718]

Literally the story of growing up in a poc household my mom would go crazy with the belt for the dumbest stuff

[@codyfromhumanresources6435]

I have a military dad. One time I stayed out past my curfew with friends so he woke me up at 4AM(just a couple hours after I got home), gave me a headlamp, and told me I had to pick every weed in the front and backyard. I wasn’t allowed to go to sleep until he came home from work that evening and made sure there were no weeds left. He assured this by calling me every hour and making sure I was awake while he was at work. If that ain’t discipline I don’t know what is lol

[@roshie187]

Sounds horrible and excessive...

[@codyfromhumanresources6435]

@@roshie187 oh definitely. His and I’s relationship has gotten better since I moved out, but I do still have a lot of pent up anger towards him that I’ll probably never mention. He was a raging prick about 75% of the time, but I have him to thank for saving my siblings and i from a much more dangerous and neglectful environment living with our mom. That’s something I don’t know if I can ever repay him for.

[@dethan221]

@18:48 “they wouldn’t do that…they’re birds” that killed me LMAO

[@GYSMelanie5]

I'm the youngest of 7 so I got zero discipline, by the time I came along my parents were over it. My siblings had me all the time. I will say that my mother could ignore with the best of them though. That gutted me as a child. The stories my siblings tell of beatings they sounded borderline abusive. I would say however between my white friends and my black friends, my black friends definitely got it worse. Their parents would make me go out back and pick a switch out for my friend to get hit with. Pretty hard-core.

[@brandonducepec1970]

Happy to see where Ryan is today. Such a champ! An awesome human being

[@jasonliu7615]

Damn didnt no steve had it that hard. How did he come out alive with that childhood?

[@hitops61]

I know that Steve is a troll; but he still got me! 😑😡🤡

[@JayChanII]

The way Ryan "un-alived" himself at the end 😭😂

[@adrianhernandez8227]

6:50 when nick said he was baked af and his mom was grilling him about it, i said the same thing in my head when that happened to me “ just survive just survive”🤣

[@JM-cm1ew]

My very Christian mother threw the Bible at me like it would expel the disobedience from my body

[@cozyrrr]

me and my sisters didnt get it too bad but the stories my mom told us of the things our grandparents did to them for punishments was on ryans dads level so i understand where hes coming from lmaoo

[@weweweLit]

lmao steve with the twist

[@bryanquisco6342]

Anthony: somebody call the IRA Steve: dude, somebody call Herb Dean 💀😂😂

[@jenn22socal]

😢Ryan my heart hurts for you. I’m sorry that happened to you.

[@starburst391]

The worst is when you bring up how strict they were, they look at you like you’re crazy and deny everything!

[@susienight6118]

Brooo that white man had me in the first half 😂 he brought me back to my high school memories. Not a lot of Mexicans but a whole lot of rich white people ( had to walk 3/4hours to get to that school) they talked just like that white guy 😢and then it would be about the wrong shoe brand they didt get and that’s why they wanted to kill themselves 🥸

[@CuongChanster]

My younger brother throw food out the 5th story window when my mom was leaving for work. But little did he know, it landed by my mom's feet when she was walking to the car

[@tinabeee7350]

My mother was a fan of using wooden spoons on our backsides. She kept them in a crock on top of the stove for ease of access.

[@Two_Wheel_Therapy]

My mom used a wooden spoon on our knuckles that shit hurt!

[@kakuella]

I was boarderline ok-ish with all stories and then there's Ryan's 👀😳😬

[@endorsippa4331]

😂😂😂 siblings is no safe space 🤣 😂

[@aydenmcfly1362]

I remember getting whipped by a belt and then being a pretty good kid after that 🤣

[@Jiaxin2008]

Dude my brother legit had the same food throwing story as Bart but with fried eggs… LOOL

[@GYSMelanie5]

And Bart 🤣🤣🤣🤣his stories are everything!

[@FigWidIt]

Sibling betrayal always hurts but its expected every time lol

[@briglover8179]

yo i would never forget the time my mom whooped me cuz of a lottery ticket. theses stories brought back so many memories. Its crazy how it seems like all poc go through the same things growing up.

[@allybali]

social security LMFAOO

[@tiffanyapril3528]

At the end, Steve just made everyone in that room felt 10x worst 😂😢

[@aydenmcfly1362]

Funniest episode yet, and it got real!! Thanks for sharing you guys!

[@closcer3950]

ryan is describing the most insane stuff ive ever heard and theyre all just making jokes and laughing. like how tf are they not shocked at that. even ryans acting like its some casual thing wtf

[@ZeeNastee]

I don't know if I can say disciplined, my mom just beat the hell out of me whenever she felt like it. Eventually I was taken away after she tried to kill me with a knife.

[@kurossive5150]

Too much sharing in the internet dawg

[@ZeeNastee]

@@kurossive5150 I mean, the question was presented and I answered. If you're bothered by the subject then it's probably not the video for you.

[@Barely___Editing]

It’s called child abuse

[@Barely___Editing]

Possibly attempt murder.

[@DemonFox369]

How are you?

[@vicenomad4137]

Another banger careful boys and careful girl!!!!!!!!!!!!! Loved this one had me laughing all through the video

[@holdenedits6607]

This was great, would also be excited to see what Ryans ep would consist of!

[@rklalduhsaki3387]

I was laughing at Bart,Nick and Anthony's punishments and then came Ryan....straight up abuse from the first one😮😮😮

[@RangerHouston]

I was abused so badly by my parents i’ve been diagnosed with 2 mental disorders. I can’t get attached to people, i’m extremely vigilant and defensive. I flinch into a defensive posture when people try to shake my hand or high five me. It’s awful.

[@Dave_of_Mordor]

if you ever become a killer, i hope you go after your parents first. most of the time, i never hear stories about killers going after their abuser. it's always them going after someone who has nothing to do with their upbringing

[@fetalfart2507]

@@Dave_of_Mordor what the fuck...

[@RangerHouston]

@@fetalfart2507 it’s fucked up that he’s not wrong. I have a deep deep anger inside me, my defense mechanism for my pain. But it’s there and it’s powerful and it wants to lash out and hurt those close to me, it wants to make the world feel my pain. Extract my “revenge” on the entire world. But every single day i wake up and i choose to use all of that pain and anger to instead help those around me. I know, more than anyone, what a smile and a friendly “hello” can do. It’s the smallest acts of kindness that often mean the most.

[@alany8880]

Ryan is the 🐐

[@unkn0wn922]

me and my sister talks abt our beating during our childhoods, like it's a good time 😂😂 it's fr traumatizing but at the same time it's funng 😂😂

[@808BAMFasian]

Ryan’s story is similar to my brothers. I saw him get punched and beaten and hung with a belt from the roof.

[@VivianWLumbley]

the very end with anthony and ryan 😂😂😂

[@sxhxlzxb]

Ik Barts parents are deadly at beating him, it’s nice he ain’t get into it but instead just the story

[@susannguyen1461]

Love Barts thorough questions

[@wanglee21]

lol That ending was epic. White people disciplining with eating candy and hugs. Asian people you didn't know if you would make it through the night with your life....

[@Dominicwylai]

Me and siblings always stuck together when getting trouble with the parents!

[@testing123.]

Love you guys ♡♡♡

[@unit03]

Kalyne's bro is Bruce from Matilda 🤣🤣

[@Pomichidai]

You can do it brucey! You can do it! Bruce bruce bruce! ✊🏽 (Sorry Just had to do this)

[@smrniskool]

Damn Ryan has had such a rough life 😪

[@runeass]

I remember, I went with my mom to the dentist and I refused to open my mouth to get my loose teeth pull, we went back there twice. My mom got so mad she slapped me so hard, it fell out.

[@markbacani4552]

i really love off the records

[@kojmas]

Me in 6th grade My teacher: write a funny story about you and your parents Me writing a story about my dad trying to kick me, missed and kick the wall and I laughed. Dad's in trouble

[@AstarionWifey]

DUDE SAME 😂 I remembered teachers pulling me aside and asking if I needed help

[@p90p90]

One time I got in trouble for fighting with my younger brother, and my dad kicked me so hard I flew back about 3 feet and it hurt like hell but as a conslation prize I was able to fly in the direction of my brother who I had the fight with and knock him back also. of course I got an additional beating for that also.

[@CuongChanster]

At my white friends house. Is the first time I've seen my friend yell back at their parents and tell them how sh!'y job they were doing

[@MichaelJin74]

Hot wheel tracks are brutal. Was moms favourite weapon of choice. So bad that at birthdays people thought I love them so they would by me sets. Let’s say when I cried when opening the gift it was tears of joys. 😂 They hurt but unfortunately the tracks tend to shred and crack when it hit something dense. The. It becomes even worse.

[@flex19112]

LOL @ that ending

[@ninjakp9457]

The ending got me!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@bethnichols2875]

Omg Ryan!! I was not expecting him to fall on the floor like that. 😂😂 Edit: hopefully he learned the proper way to fall from Yoshi.

[@ricac.2102]

I talked back a lot and thats a no no to my parents so sometimes I got hit, but most times they usually just threaten. There was a time tho where my mom got fed up so she taped my mouth and tied me to a table 😅

[@maximustitan8171]

What did Steve just did at the end? He's hugging her? lol

[@bethnichols2875]

He hugged her because she was the one sitting next to him at the table at the time; as part of the bit to make the story funnier.

[@thatvietguyonline]

😂😂😂 damn Steve

[@the92r]

jeezus.. bart/anthony/ryan .... crazy ep

[@vangwizard]

Steve's white privilege story killed me lol troll master.

[@Gamerx900]

“somebody call herb dean” 💀💀

[@mitchs3559]

Filipino dads are either very chill or very extreme. No in between

[@belladobie3937]

*Ouch 😢

[@beauxjones8793]

Yes. My Mom hit me with a fucking coffee table over algebra homework & me being an asshole

[@khokrs710]

And then they forget and we have to forgive.

[@ZenWrap]

same as Ryan - 3 different categories physical mental emotional

[@FiveSubj3x6]

I got my ass beat And I needed it when I was a kid , lolol

[@user-zb6lg1xj3k]

My mom made the same bread except in like 2009

[@nonyobiz6481]

My dad used to whip me bad with that dang rooster duster!! That shit don't break, it started shred apart which made it worst when I got hit cause now it makes little cuts!! But I was a really bad kid. It got to a point where getting hit with the rooster duster barley hurt anymore, I was getting numb from it so my dad used electric cords instead.

[@Coolmist_]

Ong Asian parents are just built different

[@Mvrko.J]

I feel nick my mom would get my sisters to help toughen me up and help discipline me due to lack of dad so its hard to trust em🤔the same older sister I confined in snitched and had to beat my chest til it bruised purple

[@acefaaace]

remember the stuff my parents did and now I have a 2 year old an 11 month old. And boy haha I can see where my parents are coming from now 😅

[@michael43567]

Yeah you can't trust female siblings

[@mattgarcia6631]

I fucking love nick he makes the videos

[@aggies5963]

Is Ryan still in contact with his dad? I was hoping he'd mention this

[@jenn22socal]

Ryan😢 my heart breaks for you. I’m in tears God I’m so sorry this happened to you.

[@saidabana9742]

The uncomfortable atmosphere when Ryan is telling his abuse stories

[@DamnAwesome]

Goddamn Ryan's Dad is kinda crazy, bro did too much, I would say he's lucky to have such a talented and still loving son towards him!

[@mikeactual7640]

The 80s were a bloodbath😂 we got fucked up in public on the regular and nobody said shit

[@GYSMelanie5]

My God Ryan second third grade that's young! Jesus. I'm so sorry.

[@clubkr6517]

Yes they get disciplined. Mom will say ''Go to your room''! What a great punishment.

[@bupehara64]

i have a similar story but mine was with cigerrete buds, i got whopped after school 😂😂

[@KasheYan15]

Thank gawd bart was here for this one 😄

[@kookamanga]

who else knew steve was going to do that? lmao

[@77LDK]

lol Ryan is wild! 🤣

[@cobaltblue5523]

20:07 oh shit this one is just messed up . I understand spanking but damn .

[@user-ol3ln9wq4q]

Someone tell Steve not to wear that chain in NYC “Woo” is a gang term

[@zubabee]

Ayo Steve has been touchy with Kalyne lately, are him and Nikki good?

[@Pharaoh_The_Great]

Glad someone else noticed… it’s kinda sus 🤔

[@bethnichols2875]

There is nothing going on between Steve and Kalyne other than friends. He's friendly with all his friends. And he hugged her; since she was the one sitting next to him at the table at the time; as part of the bit in trolling the others to make his story funnier. He and Nikki are in love and are fine. Stop reading more into it.