HOT WINGS Q&A!

[@KnightofGascogne]

Wow, you went pretty deep for a challenge video. Thank you for your honesty and for allowing yourselves to be both vulnerable and unapologetic - as you should be imo. I'm not sure all the tears were because of the hot sauce. On a lighter side, It was also fun to watch your burning faces. Edit: comment edited because I'm a grammar nazi! :p

[@veronicaharms]

You two are beautiful together. Don't let anything tear you apart.

[@oliviacraft24]

You guys are so sweet! I'm so sorry you have to deal with homophobia in Utah but it's super brave for you to be yourselves and living your lives honestly in a place where most people aren't going to see that. You're setting an example for people who may otherwise fear coming out in your area, which is amazing. Anyway thanks for the upload! I like the Q&A style!

[@KnightofGascogne]

Homophobia is everywhere. I've seen videos of other lgbt youtubers who were verbally harrassed, even threatened, in the middle of LA, a supposedly liberal haven (fyi It isn't). Mormons are more conservatives and (imo) uptight, but at least most have the decency not to scream slurs and threats right on their faces. It might seem more hypocritical, but lgbt people don't seem to be at risk in Utah and the midwest in general. It's not the case in big cities when you get out of your LA West Hollywood, SF Castro or NY Village bubble, if you see what I mean. ofc the deep south is openly hostile, or maybe I'm prejudiced?

[@oliviacraft24]

@@KnightofGascogne Totally, just based on what they said, getting stares and such may be uncomfortable and in more conservative areas it's less normalized, so for them to be holding hands in public for example is something that other lgbt people around them might see and think that they can do too. Which is great!

[@KnightofGascogne]

@@oliviacraft24 I totally agree on that part. They're indeed an example and that's great.

[@byzinski]

Olivia Craft I lived in SLC Utah & LA & San Francisco and I saw more militant Homophobia in San Francisco & LA with VIOLENCE than I ever did in Utah

[@mgdd322]

I replayed 19:49 so many friken times I just cannot with sooo much cuteness , I hope your love lasts forever , even in the afterlife 😊💙🏳️‍🌈

[@sarah956madge]

I love that you did not give up on each other ❤

[@ghezalA]

ok Kale @ 6:42 made me do the ugliest cackle I think I've ever done in my life. anyway BRILLIANT VIDEO, GUYS!! I find it so damn romantical that Kale revealed she has a bad memory but she remembers the exact dessert she was eating when on a lunch date with Jess in their teens. also s/o to "..... that tastes like poison." Loving all the vlogmas content this year, keep up the fantastic work!

[@suavey.]

Thank you so much for this 😊 It's a little difficult for me to express myself because English isn't my first language but I just want you to know that I really appreciate you doing these kind of videos/story times/Q&A's. You said earlier that you are still trying to come to terms with putting yourselves out there and sharing your story, so just know that you're helping a lot of people (including me) dealing with similar problems. I also love that you decided to "spice it up" a little by doing a different kind of Q&A! You're awesome and this channel is one of my favourites on here 😃

[@michellerbn]

I loved this video so much. I swear you guys are the best at q and a's

[@kk33613]

Thanks for sharing. I find that you are both very brave for sharing your lives with us out here in internet land. It takes a good bit of courage to talk about times in your life and relationship that were difficult. Not everyone can do it. I wish nothing but good times for you both. I know from experience that it's all worth it. I had a wonderful 28 year relationship with my partner, whom I lost four years ago. I miss her terribly. Just keep loving one another and enjoy the time that you have together.

[@jessicadasilva6160]

I thoroughly enjoyed this video! you guys are such a great team and it is nice to know that a love like this can be found no matter the circumstances, please don't stop sharing the way you guys are cause you will never know how inspiring you are to many people!!

[@lisalittle5850]

I just watched this video after not having access to KZbin for 5 months. I have never watched the other show. I would just like to say that you two have really gotten more comfortable with the medium. I’m sure it was a gradual progression, but having been away for awhile I can see how you have grown and made your channel more meaningful, funny and relaxed. Keep it up! Happy to be back!❤️😎

[@valn16]

Your families are so lucky that you still feel like having a relationship with them.

[@sportsandmusic12]

Omg those 25 minutes flew by! Loved the video and the answers you gave to each question!

[@RagnarWolflord]

Your reactions to the hot ones were priceless, just an fyi if you ever decide to do different brands of these but if you drink milk instead of water it will help with the burn.

[@scrumps101]

You ladies are wonderful, intelligent, beautiful and kind. I am the mother of 3 incredible children and I think any mom would be proud to have daughters like you. I also live in Utah, Utah County, and it’s been incredibly difficult for the friends I have who have come out. I was born and raised in CA and moved here about a decade ago having no previous experience or knowledge of the LDS church. The churches prominence here is in the 90 percent range and I was shockingly surprised when learning of the impact the church can have on the gay community. It can be VERY hard on someone to come out who has been a member. I’m happy that you ladies have found peace and confidence in your sexuality and relationship ❤️ and I hope all great and wonderful things for you both. Keep doing what you do, it works beautifully.

[@naelbell]

It's really fun for me to hear about your high school days because I lived in that same small town for a few year and still visit from time to time. It's like a game of "do I know where they're talking about?"

[@amberperez3005]

Will you guys do a “gf picks my outfit” or give each other a makeup/hair makeover...? I’m so curious to see what the other spouse is capable of lol

[@Pocahontas2853]

"I just love you so damn much."

[@givememore4free]

Congratulations Markel for standing up for yourself and your lifestyle. Much respect. People think saying that's so gay as an insult is really degrading. And this is coming from a straight female.

[@Justmichy1]

Very interesting about your relationship and the reaction of your church, oh how they try to control!!! Glad you both found each other!

[@mtbikingaddict]

I read the church essays on lds.org (you have to search well for them as they buried them deep in their website) and my foundation of my belief for the LDS church started cracking and falling away. Then I read the letter that Jeremy Runnels wrote to the CES director regarding questions he had on the topics of the churchs essays, and studied them out for myself, and those cracks are now shattered pieces. I too was raised like you. Strong LDS family even to this day, I even served a mission. I completely believed in the LDS church. It was my heritage. It is in my DNA (Believe it or not) I have not had my name removed from the records because like you, what does it matter. If they excommunicate me, then so be it. I won't lose sleep over it. I once believed but now I see.

[@williamsandrelli4309]

You both are obviously have the kind of love that over come anything

[@mcelliotdawson7700]

Goodness.. we love you so much Jess and Kale . You are the best couple ever. Love your stories about what you went through to be together 💕

[@LivingLife233]

This was an emotional rollercoaster! The questions you answered got deeper and more serious and your reactions to the hot sauces got more and more hilarious hahah Thanks for you honesty and sorry for laughing about your hot sauce pain

[@wendysnelgrove5870]

Love the deep dive on this. Thanks for the true sharing.

[@Dary39]

So this actually took me 45 mins to watch because I keep rewinding the video to rewatch your facial expressions after taking a bite. Sorry I was entertained by your suffering. I hope your lips feel better today!

[@datbamastud22]

My favorites! I've always loved yall's story..#couplegoals. Did either of you date other girls besides each other and when ya'll had to sneak around to meet up was it because of your parents or just the area you lived in? I did my share of sneaking around too in high school but I just didn't want my parents to know.

[@renee2994]

Hey u two did good...I would have been crying... Lol continue believing in God He has never hated u that is mankind...love u two.ur both funny n so cute together

[@Leslieluvsscooby]

I absolutely loved this video. I love how real and honest you are. Y'all are the best. 😘

[@tushay17]

Love y’all so much!! Man, u guys were hurting on the last two wings. Such troopers for us or me your biggest fan. Lovely ladies!!

[@paolab1112]

Love you guys so much. Thanks for being so open in answering questions!!! Wishing you all the best life has to offer 💕

[@sierrasinterests]

What's your favorite part about the holidays besides spending time with family and gifts?

[@proverbialsunrise7]

This was SUCH a great format for you guys. I’ve been watching for a few years and I really feel like I connected more to you in this video - based on the comments, so did many others. Love your content and hope you guys have a great holiday season💖

[@behindthelens3609]

Wow, around 18:00 really got the water works going for me.

[@celiawhite3071]

I think i would have enjoyed your vlogmas even without the hot sauces. But it was funny, remember burn going in/burn going out, sorry! I do love your Q&A's youns go into such detail, love it! Been following youns from the beginning. Yes, I'm subscribed and my notification bell is on. I always click "like" before I watch. Knowing it's going to be good content! Love Kenai too!! Merry Christmas!!!!

[@LUCIFEE28KEYS]

Loved the Q&A... not keen on the edit with the music throughout. Really nice getting to know you better though. Have a good Christmas! Xx

[@mistyrideout7763]

One of the best videos! You ladies are so real, thanks for that!!

[@rosehunsinger8671]

the best one yet a lot of people can learn from you 2 and how you came through together you fight for your love and thats great to see drink milk for the hot sauces LOL

[@Vanessasrmills]

I just love watching you guys. You give me so much hope ❤️

[@MrDrumGarden]

I might be wrong, but you two look way more relaxed this vlogmas than you did in the video's half a year ago. You look relaxed, honest, happy and hot (....I mean because of the sauce....). I wish you a great life together.

[@FakeMeganRose]

Loved this video! Thanks for always being so open and honest with us ❤️

[@diannanielson9757]

You both did a good job answering questions. Thank you

[@dash8278]

This is such a great video!! Thank you for being open!! 😊💯😊

[@rebelkattslbc646]

I love spicy food but I have bad ulcers so no spice for me!! 🖤💙

[@ShyanneHawkins97]

I fractured my cheek bone and I had a bad concussion I don't remember anything from that accident but I get migraines and I can't breath out of my right side of my nose and I get sinus infections alot and that eye twitches it drives me insane

[@MIGFAN1]

You brave girls thank you for your honesty a great video.

[@janetquiroz4379]

Hola my beautiful queens you guys look si pretties my favorite couple ever happy holidays I love you guys

[@emotwetter]

You guys are my favorite youtube couple. I miss utah so much, i miss elmost evrything there

[@minn.1]

Thank you for sharing, love is love ❤️ , and it is so inspiring.💪

[@darnellray8568]

I just wanted to say Jess and kale you guys make a beautiful couple I love your KZbin videos

[@Blue12854]

Love this video and i love you guys so much!!

[@jasminemoreno7874]

Y’all are awesome! Great video!

[@janinavlogs]

Holding hands with my gf in public, I don’t care what other people think. I’m just scared of someone attacking us or something. There have definitely been times when we were wary and stopped, but thankfully, knock on wood, no confrontations

[@nadithslife2295]

You guys are amazing! i will support always!

[@jacquesdaigle5835]

This is the third time that a write a comment to you guys. Even if i am a 77 year old man, I am always in love with you! As far as religions are concerned (I am a former catholic now an atheist who is sick and tired of listening to all preachers. I believe in GOD. He has created human beings All the problems on earth (wars hunger and suffering etc) are man made.

[@amyrl100]

Markale - I love your shirt! I've been looking for a good flannel shirt. Where did you get yours?

[@isabellesofia6529]

You two inspire me. ❤️

[@judd42]

Will you gals ever move from Utah?

[@leticiahernandez6331]

Nice challenge video great job kale and jess hope your feeling a little bit better 🙂👍🏻👭🏳️‍🌈🎄🐶

[@Julesnicolee1]

I absolutely loved this video 💛

[@markhughes3560]

Thank both yet another great video thank..

[@CdnCwby09]

I love both of you, you two make me smile every time I watch your videos you also make me laugh and Kenai (sp) god I feel bad if I spelt it wrong lol

[@evaunger1883]

We love you guys we hope you two will be ok off you eat the spicy Wings thanks for your video ❤️❤️😍😍

[@Eliizaamarivv]

When is Kale’s “story time: coming out” video going to be release? We have Jess but not kale ☹️

[@caitjones334]

I think they have said when she is ready

[@starsmoonight]

People you need to subscribe...they are the best

[@Dary39]

Yay it's up early!!

[@kindlyunspoken2]

Loved this video!!!

[@momovigil]

You guys ever think about doing collabs with other lgbt KZbinrs?

[@KnightofGascogne]

+ that comment. I'd like to know too.

[@Onedogonelove]

Tis MoJy yeasssssssssssssss

[@lorawolford3344]

Hi guys what football team do you look

[@victoriarosee67]

Thank you for making this video

[@alyssa7937]

You are so nice and sweet! As per the sauce “Valentina” is a must have at a Mexican household, jajaja! Add it to Lays, Ramen, soup, you name it.

[@tanyafran3329]

I need to try this! I love hot sauces

[@BambinoMn]

Great video!

[@sabrinagarcia1222]

This was cool and fun.

[@kiiso513]

Anyone else think Markale looked like Steph from The Fosters in that picture?

[@lizstevens6872]

Question: Kale, how do you know what poison tastes like??!!?? 😏😂

[@MzBr3ezy12]

Don't wait too long tho... Cuz damn I'm 31 now and u just never know if you can.

[@AnxiouslyLiving]

With your names still being in the record of the church, do you still have to give 10% of your income to them? At least that's something I've read about members. Or is that something thats more of a choice?

[@KaleandJess]

So they call that tithing, and it is a choice but it’s also asked if you’re a “full tithe payer” in interviews for church callings and temple recommends. They ask that you give 10% of your income to receive blessings or something 😂 never was a huge fan!

[@ferncowsnake]

You are both beautiful Merry Christmas Happy Pride

[@Pocahontas2853]

Jess! Are you ok?😂

[@gwenhutcison]

I love you guys xoxo you were so brave 🌈🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 xoxo

[@apturpiya6506]

My breakfast...😋😋

[@trudie13]

💕💕💕

[@wanderlyduga]

Oi 💚💛Brasil 😜

[@lorenaaguero255]

😁😁😁😁😁

[@Pocahontas2853]

Markale seems to handle the spiciness pretty well.I hope you're ok though.

[@Pocahontas2853]

Are your tongues ok after this video?😂

[@monkey77209]

no hate but the background music was really distracting and just felt out of place for the video

[@renee2994]

yes thanks I was one asking if u were still practicing Mormon.. remember GOD is bigger than any religion. it is man hatred that is poured out NOT GOD..and on another note ur both crazy for putting the sun in ur mouth...lol but it was fun to watch

[@MadamePopova]

I hope you weren't judging religious, conservatives, Republicans, Kale. I'm a conservative, republican Christian and so are most all of the people I hang with and we don't stare, judge or hate or say mean things to people for being gay. If I was weirded out by people for being gay do you think I would still be here watching your vlogs after all these years? Just like you, I also don't deserve to be judged or stereotyped because of my way of life.

[@rubygarcia2936]

Mme Popova so based on her personal experience it is likely that people in her area with these demographics have shown a certain reaction to her and Jess. Why? Because of the rhetoric that gets put out by leaders in those demographics. She admits that people don’t always react in a negative way but that she manages her expectations. If you are a religious republican living in Utah you are likely being represented by leaders who actively voice their disapproval of same sex marriage/love. If that’s not who you are then unfortunately most of the time you’ll need to clarify.

[@divah1901]

music sux y'all

[@mcelliotdawson7700]

Goodness.. we love you so much Jess and Kale . You are the best couple ever. Love your stories about what you went through to be together 💕