On Being Ugly

this is maybe more important for me than for anyone else
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[@prisk9816]

"Being 'beautiful' is not an accomplishment. - And being 'ugly' doesn't have to stop you from making accomplishments." Word.

[@mabena5759]

PrisK woah I read this comment exactly the time she was saying it😂

[@Maysoon3121]

PrisK TF , she is not ugly

[@Evil_Beauty]

"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment.", neither is being ugly, you don't get points for either but I would take it over being ugly any day.

[@prisk9816]

Anastasia Nikki when did I say that she is

[@Maysoon3121]

PrisK your comment is too paradoxical , it s no compliment either .

[@ehhilfe2917]

HONEY YOUR MIND IS ART

[@jazmyneanaya9575]

lisa Xvxv amen

[@MichikoMana]

Preach Sister

[@malizzaacole5995]

lisa Xvxv AGREEEEE

[@wihh87]

It totally is. I feel tears jerking out of no where

[@helloootheresirr4839]

yes yes

[@coralakey]

The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.

[@DHarvey-Scarola]

very true

[@Stylomagic]

Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull. And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything. Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too. And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life. I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.

[@0001Nikola]

I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.

[@Heyitsdaave]

Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad

[@j.celestekee658]

Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.

[@waxtrax_]

I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways

[@overdosedmiawallace]

I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented

[@eloise-mariebamford1737]

Overdosed Mia Wallace YESS

[@geanidrl7527]

Ok philosopher 😂

[@overdosedmiawallace]

@@geanidrl7527 ok comment that apports nothing to the conversation😘✨

[@geanidrl7527]

@@overdosedmiawallace What do u mean

[@PGOuma]

@@overdosedmiawallace i mean it kinda did. It was a joke about the conversation

[@lottiej742]

Whether shes ugly or not, she has an amazing outlook on life and damn.... Shes an inspiration. Im happy i clicked on this vid. Subbed x

[@aestheticflower8584]

Lottie J-Urie this was recommended to me and at first I was like???? excuse you KZbin??? but then I actually loved the video

[@itselena43]

she just needs makeup and she's fine

[@itselena43]

and a better haircut

[@Ana-dl7zl]

Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial

[@sleepybb8781]

She isn't ugly. And doesn't need to change anything. She is perfect the way she is.

[@MotifMusicStudios]

How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕

[@K-a-n-d-i-s]

I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also. Our judgments should always be: John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge. 2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says? Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

[@hannahanderson5658]

As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.

[@mpro9446]

this is beautiful

[@yettiluch1]

Unfortunately that's what i did. Stay away from alcohol. It's a trap.

[@WilliamsDarkoh]

you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.

[@NegativeAccelerate]

Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty

[@dalpaengi]

@@NegativeAccelerate bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care but people are more then their bodies. I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl. she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized. and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day. now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..

[@tylarjones9281]

Damn. She is like...the best therapist ever. I think I can finally accept myself.

[@finemrespice7031]

The fuckin point!!

[@melissaharding7754]

I was the 666th like

[@lottiej742]

This video is too pure for me. I loved this so much. Amazing person.

[@TheLuckyShepherd]

Lottie J-Urie. I wish she'd come back and make more videos. I'm going to sub in the hopes...

[@evad2180]

I love ur profile picture!!

[@DoctorDoom69]

Lottie J-Urie what when you look like a model in your photo ???

[@rachelisodd9548]

Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?

[@marixcx]

Zac Loves Yaaa That's kali uchis (a singer) on their pp

[@esm1817]

Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤

[@LeeorAlexandra]

Your energy is so pure and clear I feel it from my screen

[@gigixxx1836]

^^

[@Mi-gs7xg]

Lol ikr

[@sarbnitrof4663]

Can you feel her Chakra too?

[@onepunch9578]

Aaron White no it’s nen

[@sarbnitrof4663]

lel yeah i bet. I bet she can sense her ki as well.

[@jasminerichardson3041]

“I never want to get into this place where I feel like what I look like, is more important than what I do.” Wow. I loved that.

[@tl4176]

That is beautiful

[@LauraLaura-mv4xh]

but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.

[@eveline-d1p]

​@@LauraLaura-mv4xhOut of all, Your comment touched my heart ❤

[@pillbugm8914]

@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.

[@user-iz5nu3fm6q]

Why did KZbin recommend me this ? Is that a sign...

[@Porknappa]

it is! same here 😆

[@morgyn6417]

Guess I’ve joined the club 😂

[@Amina-yl7im]

X maybe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jjzamorano88]

X facts what they tryna say

[@elyjulie1389]

same lol

[@SudeshKumar-jz2xd]

"Being beautiful is not an Accomplishment And being ugly does not have to stop you from making an Accomplishment" These words touch my soul deeply❤

[@alma4833]

she is someone I would genuinely love to have a conversation with

[@jwalt8019]

You have an amazing outlook on life.

[@justiceteachesAI]

Clarence , you’re a virgin judging by your attitude

[@megbubbz]

I get back to this video once a year to cleanse my mind lmao

[@suzyyqq7046]

@@joys8634 are u happy now

[@fee6145]

Please remember me

[@megbubbz]

@@joys8634 lmaooo thanks sis

[@megbubbz]

@@fee6145 i will :))

[@fee6145]

@@megbubbz thanks c:

[@Ruckus88]

You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.

[@lovequinn3030]

i dont think she's ugly at all either, shes just.. normal. i think the fact this video has been made really goes to show social media ruins our perspective.

[@thelibtard7358]

Having this sharp and insightful mind at a young age is way more exceptional than having nice cheekbones.

[@sydneyreyes7852]

The Libtard exactly

[@Ahmed-nc2qz]

naaa she's depressed so this "insight mind" is irrelevant lol

[@malevolentgg9675]

I prefer nice cheekbones

[@vvthetalentlessduo6976]

Ok

[@Xxrocknrollgod]

Malevolent GG agreed

[@joelymatthews9627]

she doesn’t act ugly, that’s all anyone should notice

[@natasharules770]

'Should'

[@thatsEforEveryone]

@@natasharules770 what about it?

[@natasharules770]

@@thatsEforEveryone well, most people don't. Seriously, the first thing people see is looks, not personality

[@thatsEforEveryone]

@@natasharules770 which is why they said should , people should care more about personality than looks

[@hine6063]

First Class Experience exactly.

[@CrayCristy]

Holy crap please write a book

[@ryanjohnston8237]

wait... I thought she did write a book. A story book.

[@womp9465]

Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a KZbin video

[@womp9465]

Turk Means Strong! I read this over like 3 times and I still can’t understand wtf you’re saying lmao

[@Pensive_117]

@@womp9465 This is why you people aren't in managerial positions.

[@solitudence]

Tea Times Two shes so ugly

[@suzzsheff4988]

"being beautiful is not an accomplishment" Thank you for saying that. However not even gonna lie your eyes are stunning.

[@aerbald]

It is. But for your ancestors, not yours made.

[@michaelg9082]

@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves

[@aerbald]

@@michaelg9082 Aye, and never underestimate prestance and presentation

[@jimmyj4044]

Being beautiful is absolutely an accomplishment, you just don't try hard enough.

[@sushipbestdeck8995]

That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment

[@MangoMonster34]

Her brain is beautiful. She seems like an amazing friend to talk too and hang out with

[@LOL_MANN]

Pretty privilige > inteligence

[@indiawalker2778]

"being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow I wish people could understand this.

[@nefelibata4190]

more like a privilege.

[@ShockResistor]

Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.

[@CelestialDraconis]

Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives. Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.

[@dweliq2993]

Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.

[@elleelle5847]

I'm Purrito In what way? If beauty is determined by genetics, then what is the accomplishment? What - popping out of the right vagina? Lol

[@ohwell6571]

Everyone commenting how she's not ugly in your opinion.. You're completely missing the point

[@thatsnotmyname4091]

thank you.

[@burpreynolds3250]

They're probably not missing the point, but rather commenting their opinion... Just like you.

[@kaitlin3102]

Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.

[@perfumaphilia3246]

We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.

[@grosslyincandescentsnowfla6924]

She just needs to looksmax

[@DavisAshmon899]

I wonder how she’s doing now

[@rosie5348]

Ilya K ( laughs in logan paul)

[@Isabeltherat]

Ilya K “not dead! just living the good ugly life!” in the description of her channel :)

[@noodlery7034]

@Ilya K ????

[@brucopera]

Same! I wish she had instagram or something. She just seems like such a nice person

[@toooooor]

Il mio Nome. @moonsludge

[@madtheghost337]

In a time when looks and superficiality reign tyrannically over all virtues, your words and character have been a breath of spring garden air and a most refreshing break from the sulfur and waste of contemporary standards. Thank you. Clearly, you are beautiful.

[@anjaraj]

I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..

[@Danipieee]

Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!

[@mistywest6295]

Anja R me too

[@mgal6234]

If you worry about it when you’re young, it’s hell when you get older... It will bury you.

[@winnieheart]

This was posted 4 years ago but was recommended to me today 🤔

[@MarilynbabyZ]

winnieheart's adventures girrrrlll me too lol I was feeling real ugly lately too 😅

[@queenbeyonce1538]

winnieheart's adventures ME TOO

[@Alyssa18633]

winnieheart's adventures same

[@alina24499]

saaame

[@jessicaflowers6795]

winnieheart's adventures SAME!

[@1tecito]

Everyone on the comments be like "you're not ugly!" completely missing the point of the video

[@ashley1919100]

Kala Meet beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[@rein2430]

Forreal I think she is ugly and that's ok

[@issyxox8416]

no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite

[@theblackrose3583]

True but no point in think you se rugby when you aren’t. That’s just believing a lie

[@silvia___228]

I honestly dont think shes ugly tho shes average

[@nikaweres]

You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.

[@Xbitxx]

I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities

[@4ka07_muhammadrizky]

The way she speaks really attractive to me,she talks like a lady

[@laysoe2257]

Gay

[@Xbitxx]

Lay Soe your mother...

[@laysoe2257]

Hamm lol daddy’s mad

[@maylily820]

Lay Soe you probably have the intellect of a fetus if that’s your only comeback. You sound like a 9 year old

[@ambram22]

"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow. I needed to hear everything she just said.

[@myaatheist2744]

Right on ✊

[@treacheroustea926]

@Brother Paul It’s not coping, it’s the simple truth. Nobody works hard to be beautiful, you were born beautiful or you weren’t. No effort put in at all. Do you think being born with a pretty face is an accomplishment?

[@treacheroustea926]

@Brother Paul That does not make it an accomplishment. To me, being beautiful is something you were born with. Do you train to become beautiful in the womb? No, there was no effort put in at all. Nothing. An accomplishment is something you gain after working towards it. I have good eyesight, is that an accomplishment of mine or is it something I was born with?

[@treacheroustea926]

@Brother Paul Yes, I have. I think having successful surgery is an accomplishment and they can be proud of that accomplishment because it’s something they worked towards getting IE money, time, etc.

[@Joao-ur7ey]

It actually is if were ugly and put the effort in becoming better looking like going to the gym, eating better and healthier, sleep better and etc.

[@carlingnugent]

I agree with her that humans are super bizarre looking as a species.

[@Danuxsy]

That doesn't make sense, everything is relative.

[@hasou5289]

@@Danuxsy it does how is it relative when we are literally the only species with completeley different looking specimen each generation

[@princessofpower4862]

Tigers are the most beautiful species. Humans are funny looking lol

[@nathanhunnisett6199]

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[@masonprice1522]

@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild

[@breathej.4872]

Hands down, the best KZbin video I've ever watched. Thank you for this, I really needed it. God bless you.

[@NameePark]

Wow this became so deep so fast within the first minute and half this is amazing. Thank you for this.

[@lc7862]

NamiiCho The way she talks is absolutely amazing. I respect her for doing this.

[@kathy7600]

aahhhahahaha lOVE U NAMI

[@kylajohnson9848]

I’m blown away by your mind. You’re obviously a deep thinker and you’re able to see things in an new way and communicate it clearly and concisely to us, which I really admire

[@littlekidloverifykyk256]

agreed! love it

[@shadyfranco8881]

Agree

[@leaharvey5201]

I would add: ...which I think is beautiful :)

[@vivisuehodgden3148]

I’m not just saying this bc ur calling ur self ugly but when I first clicked on the video I fell in love with ur eyes

[@stxxk]

Tru

[@yarakarim1821]

Same

[@Mx.Pickle]

Me too!

[@miyanasidney2696]

Me too

[@Anno888]

Why the fuck you lyin'?

[@lesliehasenkampf7088]

No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way. You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!

[@marwaq7800]

The passion in her voice... wow

[@FoxyBoxery]

*Hitler speech plays quietly in the distance*

[@akalink77]

KZbin lowkey calling me ugly by recommending this.

[@lovenostradamz9888]

akalink77 same

[@daisygonzalez8999]

Same 😂

[@graceguetschow4198]

No, it's saying that you might like this, not saying that you are ugly

[@Tamiiiiina]

or that you seem insecure

[@kelliannespry3912]

right

[@KB-cc7yd]

I think you're eyes are a beautiful shade of blue. I also think your voice is super soft and soothing.

[@artvid-1915]

Kaylee B that's literally what I thought!!

[@Tyrenexg]

You might never see this comment, but you just saved my life.

[@wisecracker1294]

And that is a beautiful thing!

[@BeckyLamyHamy]

I re watch this video every so often. Please don't ever take it down.

[@maddieperkins8137]

okay but your eyes are some of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen

[@sweetjello_7057]

Yea...no

[@kaylania591]

Exactly wut I was thinkin they r nice

[@heyimmary1876]

I agree. :)

[@Sara-em3il]

you're missing the point sis

[@Meowgang123]

Maddie Perkins Ugh, can you just watch the vid

[@TheDaha]

Who else is watching this after '21 years old: NO friends' ?

[@gabor6259]

I watched this BEFORE that.

[@hazy92]

me 😂 i love KZbin algorithms

[@TheDaha]

​@@hazy92 I feel like my FBI agent was th one who recommended me this (┬┬﹏┬┬)

[@hazy92]

@@TheDaha is they trying to tell us something..... it makes sense now..

[@TheDaha]

@@hazy92 mhm! 😂

[@valerieschleiter1780]

That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels

[@chimoz_820]

A deep thinker is infinitely more beautiful than a person who is physically attractive and cannot think deeply. Your perspective is wonderful.

[@PockyNinja8]

Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.

[@zaidabdullah6183]

She became a deep thinker because she is ugly

[@muffinman5741]

not really

[@missstewart5218]

soo you're saying that people cant be both physically attractive and 'deep thinking'? xd

[@hommegirl]

Zaid abdulla this is so true. I feel like when you are not pretty, you have the time to think deeper and realize stuff that people don’t see

[@daceelee]

I think ugly is a state in which someone presents themselves. It is an attitude and demeanor which goes beyond physical terms. The fact that you can accept what you think is "ugly" is the reason why you are so much more beautiful than so many people out there. Your vast understanding and high level reasoning makes me feel so superficial due to the importance I've put on looks. It has no substance. You have substance. You have something real. You have something intangible. Keep your magic forever.

[@NonStopParis]

Who TF decided what beauty is anyway

[@Maha-wm9tx]

evolution, that's who

[@buttaz3000]

babies lol

[@kateisaknowitall]

Natural selection

[@laurasosweet]

white people

[@Ayesha_5782]

NonStopParis Society.

[@leslyminaya2167]

Thank you for the message Kara ❤ I hear you and I see you and you helped me today 🙏🏽

[@drewkiely901]

This woman has both walked and articulated an emotionally deep journey that an extreme few are capable of . ABSOLUTE BOSS. 👍🏻👊🏼👏👍🏻👊🏼👏

[@BrendaTheeSolarGirl]

❤❤❤

[@TheVirginGary]

Your only ugly if you're non-Christian but fear not, this means that you can become beautiful.

[@ivanmeulenberg]

im high of the za but i totally agree with what you said drewkiely

[@K-a-n-d-i-s]

That's beauty

[@BunnySpaceMachine]

​​@@TheVirginGary congratulations on posting the dumbest comment on KZbin!

[@hermione5050]

I wish life was as simple as loving yourself because there are always people that have something to say

[@frarfarf]

Exactly. No matter how much you love yourself it will never change what other people see when they look at you... and if you're not attractive you will be rejected and alone, simple as that. Having a great personality doesn't help at all either

[@gonzalezgalerokatiamariana7167]

Well i belive that if you dont love yourself you can change and be the person that you want to love.

[@boutqtmr1760]

I love your comment and love uall i need self confiance follow my instagram and send me a message about it i want to talk about that my IG : purpose69_

[@lifeisbeatiful123]

Heri Demsas it’s easy to say this if u are attractive

[@larahdz8788]

sam bandora Believe me but no matter how attractive you are everyone has something they don’t like about themselves, we are all beautiful remember that :)

[@dazzaondmic]

A lot of these comments are missing the point. Thank you for sharing.

[@queen_niya9980]

Honesly... Like people just make me cringe now of days.

[@jsdbdsb5866]

Yeah. Theyre all 'oh just wash ur face" "oh dear ur so beautiful" and the entire video flies past their heads.

[@yvesfromloona1647]

Queen_Jay honestly*

[@shooklizard9039]

Alot of idiots that can't see beyond looks

[@yvesfromloona1647]

shook lizard A lot*

[@mylittleruralhomestead]

I feel ugly is an attitude, not what someone looks like. I believe personality is beautiful and how someone treats others.

[@Nooobbb232]

Your eyecolour is so beautiful

[@lilyhill5095]

Mia Wallace I know! I couldn't stop staring at her eyes. The colour is incredible

[@svar4842]

Still ugly tho

[@svar4842]

thomascampr haha calm the fook down, just a lil joke

[@somethingaboutfootball702]

Axel 1010 a joke... right..... haha...ha...ha

[@svar4842]

No ketchup, just sauce, raw sauce BOOM YO GAA The ting goes GRRRRAAA pap pap ka ka ka skibidi pap pap and a pu pu drrr boom SKEEYAA

[@bellabastien969]

People keep telling her to put on makeup and style her hair to be pretty. Apparently the point was not clear enough. Her intelligence, depth of thinking, and understanding are far, far more beautiful than some mascara and foundation. Ah society, we have been labelling the wrong things as beautiful

[@rachelanderson5619]

Bella Bastien who cares how smart she is being smart isn't physical beauty, that's not the point the point is she's happy who she is and that's all.

[@stigludwigsen]

Intelligence isn't physically appealing dumbass.

[@bobbyhill9830]

Rachel Anderson being attractive is everything

[@rachelanderson5619]

Bobby Hill I never said it wasn't, so you might wanna read my comment again.

[@zaxlorax7605]

Bella Bastien Easy by you to say it unless your pic. isn't you. Don't you think?

[@edithasd2806]

She is pretty she just loves her self the way she is and that's the most attractive thing I found in one person

[@bruh-hf8xt]

YEAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH

[@MO--rn4zh]

yes i've watched this video so many time and i fall for her every. damn. time.

[@SmIle-eq3be]

Yoo I legit see nothing ugly about her!!!!! Am I trippin?????

[@melissavezzoli2554]

Is when you don't like yourself that you're ugly. I'm ugly.

[@edithasd2806]

@@melissavezzoli2554 that's why she pretty

[@AyeAyeAmanda]

I remember watching this video 10 years ago, a year after you put it out and changed my life. It morphed my entire perspective. I came back to say thank you very much. ❤

[@theinternettrashcan]

I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD I AM UGLY AND I AM PROOOOOUUUD

[@heinzlitzel3818]

Wow spongebob was already talking about it a long time ago lol

[@harbear7325]

@@heinzlitzel3818 was seconds away from commenting this then i saw ypur comment XD

[@heinzlitzel3818]

@@harbear7325 HAHAHAHAHA

[@patrickbucheli7656]

I don't agree with that. Don't be proud to be ugly because if you would be proud, that would mean that we never have to brush our teeth, never take a shower etc. Don't be proud to be ugly. Just don't care what other think about you and try to get the best out of you. Inside and outside.

[@oddity4650]

I think I am ugly I just accepted how I look, oddly people say I am not ugly, it don't change my opinion about my self thou.

[@LifeIsGoodYouShouldGetOne]

Oh. My. Lord. You. I'm speechless. You're so smart and so confident, why is this video not famous? You're gonna make it big, please keep being the way you are. Your way of thinking is truly a gift.

[@lupamartins8830]

KZbin: 31 year old virgin 21 with no friends On being ugly Being ugly: my experience Me: Are you trying to tell me something

[@aciddecay]

The fact that I’ve watched all of those 😭

[@divyanayak9594]

I know I am ugly 🐸 Nobody needs to tell me thattttuyyytt

[@Brandon-nl1nf]

Broooo😭😭😭😭 the same thing just happened. Now u got me thinking.....

[@aciddecay]

@0 0 seriously! It’s honestly sad

[@kushpie7973]

Ikr

[@mayagarcia9855]

your wisdom has brought me to tears 10 years later. I have so much love for you stranger.

[@fakingdeep6418]

A quote that resonates with me through this video was by F. Scott Fitzgerald, “No, she wasn't beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.”

[@shavonneproctor7763]

expreshayne ☺

[@catbennett5251]

That was very beautiful, I'm sure you're beautiful as well.

[@adrienne2618]

totally agree

[@amysteriousdisease7168]

that is amazing quote thanks for sharing

[@NoName-mm6gh]

expreshayne do we have microscopes to look inside?

[@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom]

I think you have gorgeous eyes.

[@whengrapespop5728]

*^*

[@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom]

I love the " When Grapes Pop. That is wonderful.

[@Kinobambino]

Centsible Living With Money Mom right!

[@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom]

I wish she would post more videos.

[@suzannedestinee4351]

She has beautiful features and eyes. If she wore make up and did her hair, she would be ‘beautiful.’ She doesn’t choose to do that and I think it’s great.

[@isaiahjackson9983]

It’s so sad that 95% of the world doesn’t have a mind like hers 😩🙌🏾🔥

[@alessias.4733]

Including you.

[@tomaspalomaki5814]

Alessia S. Am I ugly? U don't even know what I look like.

[@alessias.4733]

@@tomaspalomaki5814 what? I was saying that most people don't have a mindset like hers and most likely the person who made that comment is just as superficial as most people.

[@wren7574]

That's a random number

[@sarahgloria1402]

If you really think like this you won t give a fuck about what others think

[@atisha505]

i hope she is living well, love you💚

[@mamaluigi6949]

Once I started accepting the fact that I am ugly, the word "ugly" took on a new definition. It became more of a concept. An ever changing opinion. Ugly and pretty are two sides of the same coin. Honestly, I don't find anyone ugly anymore. I feel like I have been released from society's idea of the ideal body and beauty standards have become so trivial. I also became less judgmental of others. I see people as humans. There are still days where I feel terrible about myself, but I'm trying to look at myself how I look at others. I still see people that are "ugly" "pretty" "cute" "fat" "skinny" but they are still people. We are conditioned to label people the moment we see them. I've learned to look past that and I've begun to realize how beautiful everyone is. Not because of how they look, but simply because they are human. Humans are amazing! You can be ugly and beautiful at the same time :) You are beautiful. I'm not saying it as a compliment. It's simply my belief. Thank you for this video.

[@K-a-n-d-i-s]

Everyone is beautiful in their own unique ways. Everyone is amazing. I know how corny I sound but I truly beleive it.

[@GoldenPurplle]

I thought I was the only one. Like when I was a kid I thought of everyone as beautiful. No one was ugly to me when it comes to appearance. As in no one. I didn't focus much on the looks, I focused on people's character n' how they treated me. But now I'm all grown up and I've got a taste of society's beauty standards, it started to mess up with my perception of everyone. Now I'm slowly getting the hang of not being obsessed with looks

[@marthas.4456]

I love your comment. You are right. We are all beautiful. Regardless of the beauty standards. There is much more to humans than the outward appearance.

[@peterlittlehorse5695]

"Ugly and pretty are two sides of the same coin" BINGO. In just the same way that love and hate are side-by-side whereas apathy is at the other side of the circle or emotions. Contrary to what the media will tell you, the cookie-cutter, magazine 'bunnies' are the boring, unattractive ones.

[@princesskatelynrose]

Her words are absolutely beautiful and so inspirational, but on another note, I love her voice.

[@WildCosy]

Katelyn Rose same ❤

[@thesaddestdude3575]

Yeah her voice is great.

[@princesskatelynrose]

Carlos Spicyweiner damn, you’re a really big dumbass, aren’t you?

[@Nixie_536]

❤ ❤ ❤ ✨

[@anasousa8556]

"Being beautiful it's not an accomplishment and being ugly doesn't have to stop you from making accomplishments". Perfect. You are beautiful for creating such an important video, love. Keep inspiring ❤️

[@ewaijulka]

Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')

[@thewatermelonseed1300]

This should be a Ted Talk.

[@harleyquiinnnn]

YES! So much more people should hear that!

[@BubulinaMC]

Most regular women look like this in the morning, without make up, bleached hair and styling... she just looks like a regular woman to me.

[@everly9629]

ikr? blonde? blue eyes?

[@IIIISai]

facts

[@guymontag1078]

True

[@User-1939t9]

ngl i thought she was a guy in the thumbnail, not ugly, just a normal guy. when saw her face closer up and realized she was a girl i thought it was really cool. idk but i definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. something about her facial features just work together so well that make her look so much more interesting (not in a bad way) to look at than any instagram model i've seen (cause they all look the same). idk her face is may not be beautiful but i like looking at it

[@acspeter7]

She looks like Scarlet Johanson without makeup 😁

[@Erecura]

"What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness." - Leo Tolstoy

[@carla-vv2xw]

it's actually "It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness." lol

[@Erecura]

It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.

[@rightwingersexposed8800]

Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial. General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.

[@SuburbanoidMisfit111]

What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?

[@LCbabyxO]

Teresa Benites omg yes.. amazing quote

[@hermitwatcher8997]

Given this was 10 years ago, it was a bit ahead of its time

[@doravarga2766]

damn your voice really is soothing and calming I could listen to you talking all day

[@alanforrest9120]

I'm so jealous of her mind

[@finn6612]

But you're too busy being good looking? Or why are you still jealous and not thinking already?

[@radfordpilgrim4393]

Mr Vin why do you have to take a negative out of what he said tho?

[@EkszEnvy]

Mr Vin is talking about himself.

[@alanforrest9120]

+Clarence Lannister Well. lets see. The use of her words and the meaning behind them gives me the impression she is an intelligent human. I could be wrong but usually if it looks, sounds and acts like a duck, it is one. What's the problem? Because I never insulted anyone calling them sad and miserable or making assumptions about peoples feelings towards themselves just because I see someone give a compliment SMH

[@alanforrest9120]

Wow! Jeezus. I just gave another person a compliment. It doesn't mean I'm a homo or that I'm literally jealous of her. Jealous is just a figure of speech, meaning that I think she's got a lot going for her and she impressed me. Get a grip. +MrVin whoever said shit about being good looking, stop hating and just accept that sometimes humans give other humans compliment! Dayum

[@carltonjohnston8408]

I don’t like the comments of “you’re pretty” or “you’re not ugly” because that totally defeats this whole topic. That’s like saying yes it’s important to not be ugly, let me convince you that you’re not ugly. This is about even if you are ugly or are judged by someone as ugly, how to not be hurt by it, not feel like shit, not let it impact on your self esteem, not be self conscious of your looks, not feel inadequate or not good enough. It’s an incredibly hard thing to be ok with and I like how Kara is trying to adopt a mindset whereby she can be ok if she ever feels or thinks or is judged as ugly.

[@EyeLean5280]

But what if we a) really don't agree that she's ugly and b) worry that she's coming up with all this other stuff but actually isn't able to shield herself from feeling bad?

[@LovelyDay11]

But very very few people in the world are ugly (they are usually deformed in some way) and this girl is in no way ugly. It’s important to have a realistic view, somebody calling her ugly does not mean she’s actually ugly. So you don’t accept you’re ugly and then not get hurt but realize you’re actually not ugly and the other person currently holds a fantasy image in their head they deem as beautiful and that has nothing to do with you, your looks or reality. Reality and objectivity is important. Learn to discern truth not adapt your emotions according to other people’s views, that’ll get you in trouble in life.

[@carltonjohnston8408]

@@LovelyDay11 There are so many flaws in your comment. Lots of people hate looking at their image in mirrors or photographs, they don’t like how they look, they think they are ugly. What you say in believing you’re not ugly is impossible if you do believe you’re ugly. What if you have been called ugly many times in your life and you know you’re not good looking, how can you believe you’re not ugly and that anyone who says you’re ugly is wrong? What you say does nothing to address being hurt at being or being judged as ugly. Ugly is subjective, attractiveness is subjective. But the whole subject here is how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if judged or seen as ugly by others. What you say does nothing to address these issues, you’re actually pouring fuel on the fire because what you are saying is “ugly is a terrible thing, it’s so important to not be ugly, let me tell you that you are not ugly, so it’s ok”. You do think being ugly is a terrible thing don’t you?

[@carltonjohnston8408]

@@EyeLean5280 but that’s not what this is about. What if someone wants to do a video about “how to be ok with being ugly, how to not be hurt if you are judged as ugly by others”. Are you going to just respond - oh you’re not ugly so it doesn’t matter. This is a topic lots of people want to try and change their mindset on. I wish Kara did this video by saying “I know I’m not ugly but I want to do a video on why you shouldn’t be hurt if you think you are ugly or judged as ugly - so that people don’t keep responding by dismissing the topic by saying “you’re not ugly so let’s not even go there”.

[@Bejeodiehrubridjehfoekdjriwknr]

@@carltonjohnston8408i think you are reading into their comments too much. Most people watch like 10s of a video then comment. The only context the commenters have is a video title implying the person is ugly, and the face of a person who most certainly isn’t ugly.

[@viennajordan9279]

People who are "ugly" always have much better personalities

[@sitas9827]

"In a blind world, how many people will you impress?"

[@jamalempfehlung9841]

What

[@hancy3013]

@@jamalempfehlung9841 if everyone was blind would you still be beautiful

[@hideouslyugly1361]

The world isn’t blind in seeing how ugly I am cuz that’s exactly what I am and it’s obvious😔😣

[@equim7363]

The problem is, we don't live in a blind world. Alternative version: "In a hermaphrodite world, what will be the point of being beautiful?"

[@hideouslyugly1361]

@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth

[@TheUazula]

a lot of people immediately weigh in or whether or not she's pretty. did you even watch the video?

[@weow7573]

THANK you

[@shooklizard9039]

They did but they didn't take in anything she said to busy thinking of ways to change her appearance

[@GenericWhiteBitch1980]

Do I have to watch the whole video? I was gonna just leave a random comment about cats and hope it was in context somewhere with the video 😂

[@oliviatella445]

Your soul and heart is both beautiful and pure in this video. And that is something I can admire and envy from people like yourself.

[@oliviatella445]

Jake Tomlinson No, just saying the video is very eye-opening.

[@bryaney779]

Woah I just saw you on the compliment video on danielas channel

[@bryaney779]

You seem like a such a sweet person

[@paulinehajek4269]

You're a star. Shining so brightly. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤

[@sweetiepie9411]

You seem happy and honestly that is the best thing many of us could ask for.

[@santiagocarreno5881]

Hey shes not ugly

[@sweetiepie9411]

santiago carreño I agree w/ you, but the video is much deeper in meaning.

[@videokid4899]

Danny DeVito is not exactly handsome. And he's short to boot! But he managed to marry and from all accounts has had a very good marriage. He's also had a great career. If he'd moped around about being "ugly" instead of focusing on the things that REALLY matter, how far do you think he'd have gotten? You people put FAR too much importance on beauty. And yeah, if you're not particularly physically beautiful, maybe you won't attract the most beautiful woman - but you could find a real gem of a woman beneath that "average" or even "homely" exterior. Beauty, after all, DOES NOT GUARANTEE A HAPPY AND FULFILLING LOVE LIFE OR MARRIAGE! Plenty of Hollywood divorces attest to that.

[@sweetiepie9411]

Rebecca's Videos I agree, I'm not saying being physically attractive doesn't have it's benefits... It just doesn't guarantee anything...It doesn't equal happiness and it never will.

[@videokid4899]

Yep - And the older you get, the more you realize that truth.

[@natalia.l4777]

You're probably the most inspirational human being on this planet, to me anyway.

[@ninaschmelich9526]

she's not only fucking intelligent - the way she talks you can really HEAR it - her voice and eyes also are so damn beautiful it's so sad to see wonderful, inspiring and interesting people disliking their appeareance but YOU GO GIRL

[@elliottmarcel7723]

Vro when i saw the thumbnail i thought she was a guy lmao, she could trick a girl to date her if she didnt talk, except she wouldn't even get a girl cuz shes ugly af

[@ZoëNesbit]

elliott marcel stfu

[@jerilynn5717]

elliott marcel you must be insecure

[@user-iq3xc5gc1f]

Oh come off it Nina there's nothing more frustrating than condescension through comments like "you are beautiful for this that or the other" No, leave it out. If you're physically ugly then beauty is immediately ruled out because it's a measure of physical appearance. Don't try to push this nonsense mangling of the term. Ugly people like myself still like to admire beauty and it's hard to do when you bastardise the term for "muh feelings".

[@Mrmachinegunner131]

Amen

[@aliaraujoa]

this was so good to watch. I spent most of my teenage years being the ugly one, especially at school, and I let myself believe and suffer for that for a long time, even in college. it took me a long time to realize all of this you're saying, but when that happened it was one of the happiest and satisfying moments of my life. don't let any sucker define you like that.

[@marthas.4456]

your comment just shows even good looking people like yourself are pushed to believe they are not pretty enough. Sadly bullies want you to believe the worst about yourself because it makes themselves feel better.

[@lford2337]

What the hell? If that's your real pic and you think you're physically ugly, you have a distorted view of yourself vs how the world sees you. The only thing I think is ugly is your opinion of yourself. get out of that warpped mindset and get comfy with yourself so you can take part in life

[@VaginaJuice69]

I feel the same way about my average weiner size. ☺️

[@333ryansmith]

What a beautiful message!! I couldn't have put it better. How you see the world is amazing and i wish more people could share your views. Also i wish this recommendation wasn't 4 years late ugh

[@kyla6168]

Fr!!

[@addie3118]

what the fuck it's you again

[@ebassandukulele8356]

we go the same places ryan Smith i see you everywhere

[@dalesmith4609]

Dad??

[@SharlenesJourney]

This is my second time seeing u 😂😂😂 it's okay cause I be everywhere too 😂

[@spyrex3988]

I've been called ugly so many times it doesn't even hurts or feel meaningful lmao

[@hasou5289]

Opposite for me

[@po.po.poquito]

Right? Lmao for me it's fat. (In my childhood) Like *yawn* tell me something new, it's not an insult anymore.

[@nathanhunnisett6199]

ATTENTION THERE IS HOPE kzbin.info/www/bejne/sJPdhWNmeN6kY8k This Is hope, and never give up, it's going to be hard if your in a bad state but never give up. Science behind mewing : kzbin.info/www/bejne/hKfSiZKtetmqes0

[@TheSelena2721]

Same here, I get mad when someone says I'm cute or pretty, I turn into a monster and ask why are you lying to me, tell me how ugly I am and I'm good.

[@jimmyj4044]

Ugly

[@miss_nohemi]

I can listen to your voice all day. So soothing and informative.

[@anon19086posts]

If you made a podcast I would listen to you for hours! You have such awesome philosophical takes on beauty and life! It was quite soothing to listen to this

[@xoluxxoxo5696]

damn she's so smart. she has an amazing way of thinking.

[@idcman]

what a beautiful human being.

[@kimmyymmik]

- camilla I mean it’s okay if someone is ugly tho.

[@Tikumu-nh9wo]

@@kimmyymmik that's not the point of her comment.

[@NoName-mm6gh]

- camilla virtue signallers, it's not bad being ugly

[@NoName-mm6gh]

netflix and electrical bill no chill that's not the point

[@user-blue_sky1186]

Plastic

[@TheDailyEgg]

"I'm ugly and I'm proud" --Spongebob Squarepants

[@zenov8469]

inspirational stuff

[@astoldbynickgerr]

SpongeBob was on to something then...

[@nathanhunnisett6199]

ATTENTION THERE IS HOPE kzbin.info/www/bejne/sJPdhWNmeN6kY8k This Is hope, and never give up, it's going to be hard if your in a bad state but never give up. Science behind mewing : kzbin.info/www/bejne/hKfSiZKtetmqes0

[@6ixlxrd]

"Is that what he calls it?" -Squidward OG Tentacles

[@avalon_in_the_sky]

this actually opened my eyes a lot, even ten years later. thank you :]

[@joe.falchetto]

honestly i really hate when someone says "everyone's beautiful / pretty" - i'd really prefer if they said "beautiful or not, your worth is not based on your looks". that's my biggest problem when it comes to body positivity and the body positive movement; they should focus more on the inherent value of being a person, regardless of looks, especially because saying that "everyone's beautiful" doesn't cancel insecurities and self-esteem problems. to me at least, i had a pretty big self esteem problem until i realised that i don't have to be pretty to deserve love and respect. so what i think is no, not everyone's beautiful (what's beauty anyway? there's no way to quantify it, since it's not objective, so there's no point in saying that), but regardless, everyone's human, and we are all worth something.

[@elbinalejandrofelizgonzale1742]

I do understand your points and agree totally, but I think that in large part of what body positive movement is about sums up to 3 things, 1. unlearning toxic habits and self loathing that one acquires growing up, by exposing oneself to the world, (if you can show yourself to people on the web, you can do it in public), trying to overcome years of bullying and judgment that sticks with people even after decades, and feeds mental illness, 2. holding the bigots accountable, in present day bigots like to hide behind "FACTS and LOGIC", but their real intend is to hurt others, it is true that some people are undeniably ugly, but that is not a invitation of a constant reminder, the language that a person uses to describe others can tell you what their intend is, 3. normalize and give a chance to others body types, people with different bodies exist, and they have necessities that the market often ignores, so they raise their voices so their necessities are met just everyone else's, I think the internet has show that the mainstream standard of beauty is just a lie and there is more diversity in taste that people thought, and it is a good that everyone can see it. Sorry for the bible, just wanted to let some thoughts.

[@jaiafrica6112]

This is how i feel. Most of the people on this video telling her otherwise are full of shit cuz when they see someone else online that they dont like they have no problem saying that they're ugly. People love to act fake nice for likes.

[@manoelafirmino1052]

girl/boy/other thing what you said is amazing i will post on my status of wpp

[@ChideraStephen]

Lovely

[@Andy-ly2tz]

This is something that got to me, it made me emotional. I despise when people tell me I'm beautiful because I know I'm not, but you reminding me that whether I'm beautiful or not I'm worth something truly made me genuinely happy.

[@erinmylungs8711]

“I never want to get into this place where what I look like is more important than what I do” - needed to hear this. Thank you ❤️

[@erinmylungs8711]

@Aniah Rose 🙁 sorry?

[@bigcaulkhead6140]

@Aniah Rose And you...are a muppet. Shut the fuck up. I’m sure that cat in ur profile pic is ur only friend. Poor cat.

[@Damien773]

Looks matter. Especially in the society. It matters even more in women in the entertainment industry and other industries, society likes to constantly sexualize women so it can profit from it.

[@iamkindofconfused]

@@erinmylungs8711 Don't listen to that bullshit, your eyes are beautiful. You are beautiful, this person is just weird.

[@ilyadratutin6385]

She is ugly and you know that idiot

[@ModsOnSteamDeck]

The irony is that being comfortable with being unattractive is... attractive? Think its a confidence thing!

[@poppymoon4122]

For sure!

[@agirlhasnoname3580]

The most unattractive people to me are the people who knows they are attractive, it’s weird ngl

[@ModsOnSteamDeck]

@@agirlhasnoname3580 completely agree

[@helloootheresirr4839]

A girl has no name why tho. I love people who are confident and know that they are atttractive. I just don’t like people who boast about it.

[@miljenko4209]

it just comes of as creepy and cocky

[@nnjack9931]

This is old and just popped up. You are not ugly at all.