What’s 1 thing you wish you never heard?

This question was suggested by my friend John! I met him a few months ago on a bench at Balboa Park. Since then every time he sees me filming he asks about my question for the day.. we typically talk for 30 minutes discussing the question and so much more. Recently, he came up to me and said that he had an interesting question for me to ask strangers.. and this was it. He said that his answer would be- when he found out on average there are 12 dead spiders in a jar of peanut butter. He wishes he never heard that because he loves peanut butter!!
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[@Ygzedot]

Isn’t it interesting how people laugh whilst they are talking about terrible things that have happened to them. Maybe a coping mechanism? That stood out to me.

[@ProMrLecoq01]

It definitely is, I did that while at my therapist and she asked me why I was laughing. Im not usually sharing how I feel so I just started laughing when we were talking about how shit my social life has been. It’s a coping skill when you’re surprised and don’t know what to do or say

[@ninasaletta2732]

I believe it’s something people do when they’re uncomfortable talking about something bad/traumatic that happened to them

[@gretastahl5597]

Agreed, it stands out to me as well. I feel like they don't want others to pity them, or they want to act like they're ok, they want to handle it themselves. I think its, sometimes, a false sign of ease.

[@gretastahl5597]

Like an attempt to lighten the situation and to make it "ok." They're definitely uncomfortable.

[@anarolon6998]

It is nervousness, it happens to me all the time. Telling something terrible makes me fell awkward, maybe it's the same for them. When I found out my grandpa died I had to tell my brother and I was kinda laughing and it was because I was nervous. Hope that makes sense 👍🏼

[@jonrios1389]

“It’s ok we could always see each other tomorrow” the day before my girlfriend passed away

[@taylynntuell9903]

I could not even imagine the pain and heartbreak I'm so sorry

[@cringeman4199]

You'll see her in Heaven

[@helenaln5646]

Pizza Lord that’s so true 🦋

[@taylynntuell9903]

@@winterfyleth5103 If you don't care, why comment in the first place?

[@kenziemarie374]

Winterfyleth wtf man

[@g996]

The innocence of that kid who said he wished he never heard that Santa isn’t real is so heartwarming after hearing about the other struggles that the young adults went through.

[@Danny-de1ry]

Grace Burke nah its the other way around he wished that people didnt lie to him that santa was real so in short he didnt want the bs from the start

[@Ruzovy_]

@@Danny-de1ry exactly, if i had kids im not even gonna tell them about santa.. its nlt because i dont wanna spend money on them.. of course i would.. but if youre gonna lie to a kid from birth to 7-8 years old.. how will they be able to trust you?

[@ThaKidd1006]

You heard that wrong. The kid is super logical since he was young and he's saying his brain was hurting like when you say America is part of what continent and someone goes the North continent. That pain that makes you go wait what did i hear that right. Is the dilemma he was facing.

[@g996]

Nah I meant about how he didn’t want to tell his brother to let him have the fantasy for longer, sry for the misconception

[@g996]

I said his innocence is heartwarming not his problem

[@darkherostardustchannel3699]

"People have it worse than you" I just felt like I had no right to be upset.

[@darkherostardustchannel3699]

@lilnub3017 Same I can't cry anymore and I miss it. Looking to get therapy for it so fingers crossed

[@salinadale5529]

This is what my parents say to me. I can’t trust them with my emotions anymore, it feels like I have to hide them.

[@nathanwilliams9264]

Are y’all American because y’all sound American

[@darkherostardustchannel3699]

I'm a Hong Konger@@nathanwilliams9264

[@JesusIsKingMyLord]

Gospel of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 For God So loved the world that he gave his only Begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not Perish but have Everlasting Life. Jesus Christ Died on the Cross for all the sin of the World, and now we can be Forgiven of all of our sins and be washed clean by the Blood of Jesus Christ for our iniquities trespasses... now all you need to do is Repent of all of ur sins (Repent means Change ur Mind turning away from sinful things and being truly sorry with all ur heart, and if you Repent and still go back to sinful things nothing will happend but if you are truly serious Lord will change ur life forever) (example of repenting Father God I ask in Jesus Name please forgive me of all my Sins I acknowledge that im a sinful man/woman I am truly sorry and trust in Jesus that he lived suffered and died on the cross for me and my sins so I can be Forgiven was barried and that you rised him on the 3th day please wash me clean with the blood of Christ make in me a new heart that can love and forgive Lord change my desires change me Lord Jesus come into my life change everything about me make me a new creation fill me with ur HolySpirit...)is what sin is Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of eternal life in our Lord Jesus Christ. and the only way to heaven is Trough Jesus Christ there is no other way! John 14:6 I Am The Way The Truth And The Life No Man cometh to the Father Except Trough Me. and you are saved by Grace Trough Faith not by works, we cannot save urselfs from sin we don't get to go to heaven becausewe don't get to go to heaven because we are a Good People we are not!, we cannot earn ur salvation it is given to us as a Free Gift all we need to do is receive it! Romans 3:23 For All have sinned and Felt Short of the Glory of God. There is none Good but God!, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Revelation 21:8 KJV. JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY WAY TO HEAVEN REPENT AND BELIVE THE GOSPEL.

[@catsneky]

"Never have children because it was the worst mistake I ever made." -Mom

[@emmac.j.8374]

Cat Snek oh man I hate this. This is almost as bad as once recently, my mom yelled at my younger sister,”you make my life a living hell” and this is giving me kinda PTSD. This is why I’m not having kids when I’m older. I don’t want to mess up my kids lives like my mom did to mine. I don’t want to talk about it but long story short I don’t want to have kids for many reasons, this being one of them.

[@SU9ERCHARGED]

My parents say that but then they back it up and say “unless u got everything to settle”😂😂

[@sourad.e5661]

Probably Buddha okay I get not wanting to have kids for your own reasons, but don’t tell people not to have kids because of overpopulation, that’s a stupid reason

[@senya2610]

I'm so sorry that happend to you I'm sure you're a great person. Please don't let it affect you. It's easier said then done but I belive in you!

[@vr4n4]

"If I left you alone there would be nobody that would take care of you"

[@markalocasesjr8181]

I had the biggest smile on my face when she said she beat cancer!

[@christinam.98]

O yes, and I really hope that it doesn't come back, and that she can live the life she wants

[@davidhintz1]

Oh me too! Just wanted to hug her.

[@maryannkalo5003]

markalocases jr thank You Jesus

[@gozdiigozdii8935]

@@maryannkalo5003 Your Jesus has nothing to do with this

[@maryannkalo5003]

Gozdii Gozdii for me... He does :)

[@zoetudor7026]

“you turned out how i prayed you wouldn’t” -my mom

[@elzmat]

Zoe Tudor aw hope you’re ok! that horrible.

[@maggiemeii]

❤dont listen to that

[@mariajoseperabeles6926]

Same for me. My mom always criticized the rude way my aunt (my dad's sister) was. And when I grew up. She told me I was exactly like her (in manners). When I was little she always told me not to be like her. And at some point I was a little like k her (my aunt) I don't know if it was because my parents were very violent with each other and I could control the anger, or if I behave like that for a long time because she repeatedly told me we were alike.

[@El-82603]

The way you turned out was beautiful. Your mom hoped you wouldn’t turn out beautiful so a guy wouldn’t start liking you and you and that guy make a new life with a new family and leave your mom. Your turned out beautiful and the reason she said that is because she did t want you to leave

[@Cait606]

That’s not right. I’m very sorry

[@burntthetoast]

"I'm going to die a junky" My twin brother said this to me after he overdosed, and I had brought him back with two shots of Narcan, CPR, and holding him up in a cold shower. When we got him to the hospital, it was just me and him in the room; I'd rode in the ambulance and my parents were following behind in the car. Just us two, no nurses or doctors, and he said it to me as he broke down. We were about 24-25. He died three years ago after an accidental overdose at the age of 27. I miss him every day and wish I could have changed the outcome. He had to know I tried everything I could, I tried it all to get him to quit. He has to know that I tried, right..? Just saying this to the wind.

[@theseus0767]

You can only do so much. Addiction is a tyrant, and your brother lost control. His actions were not your doing. All you could have done was offer help; if he chose not to take it that is on him. I don't mean to sound like I am dehumanizing him or blaming him; I know addiction is tough, firsthand. Please just don't blame yourself. I am certain that is the last thing he would have wanted.

[@XPurpleMyth3]

🫂

[@MelloMe_]

Yes, you tried and he knew you did. Now it's important to forgive yourself for not performing a miracle and living a full and happy life. You deserve that.

[@ashleyking9093]

You did everything you could have done. You did a lot more than most family members would have done for a loved one to begin with. It's so very clear that you loved your brother and cared a lot about him. It is not your fault at all. Stop blaming yourself please because it's not your fault. There's no one to fault, there's no one to blame at all in this situation. Please forgive yourself and your brother too if you need to and live your fullest life. He wants you to live a happy full life. He knows its not your fault he knows you did everything you could. I promise. I've been in an extremely similar situation myself.

[@lunatone3333]

It's not your fault.

[@nates5373]

Production manager: “So how close should we put the camera?” Everyone else: “Yes.”

[@samruddhi7262]

Big Oof lol yessssss

[@edgars.8544]

I don't think they put it next to their face, i think they just zoom in, but still funny!

[@noviraamirr]

To capture the emotion i guess

[@misssunshine5604]

I hope these people are ok with it and know that they are filming them this close so.

[@Hannah_96]

She does this on purpose so you can see their imperfections and their emotions

[@jjmadrid23]

Dr: You have cancer. Girl: Shit! Best response ever. I’m glad she’s still here to tell the story.

[@lory4305]

Hello Alice from teotfw

[@Slimtailz]

ツLory whay

[@introvertforlife898]

J.J. Madrid Cancer isn’t deadly like it used to be

[@jjmadrid23]

Ava Johnson my aunt, neighbor, and grandma passed away of cancer...

[@introvertforlife898]

J.J. Madrid I’m sorry to hear that but more people survive from it today

[@anjelarose1089]

“That was years ago, you should be over it by now” -My mother, who’s brother molested me when I was 7 years old.

[@thalia7104]

It was his decision to molest her, but it should have been her mom's decision to tell him to go to hell (and call the police).

[@liakirwan]

I am truly, truly sorry to hear. I hope you’re okay now, there are so many people out there who love and support you. Don’t listen to what you’re mother has to say, she clearly doesn’t understand the pain you’ve gone through and I admire you so much as a person for being so brave and getting past it❤️❤️❤️ sending my love

[@KP-bt3fd]

I am so sorry, I hope that you are alright now! There will always be people here to help you and support you!💖💖💖

[@bTs-it7tb]

Thalia whaaat...?

[@jennycajustine8853]

Same here

[@vivianrobertzhang9418]

"You're a monster." When this person said this to me, they caused me to question myself, who I was. It definitely contributed to the depression stage of my life

[@lightspeed-mecharena5929]

Sometimes you have to be a monster to provide for yourself and your family. It's one of the harsh realities of being a man. This doesn't mean TRY to be a monster but when you know you have to you have to.

[@Mita7538]

Were you, though? Self examination and questioning is not always a bad thing.

[@Killsalamandr]

ooga booga

[@brazenzebra9581]

The only issue you should be concerned with is...were they right?

[@cadevaughn7596]

It's at this point you question why we pursue the "advancement" of the human race. When life becomes a game of stepping on people to make yourself tall, is it worth playing?@@lightspeed-mecharena5929

[@sylviaobonyo3656]

"A life worth living is not counted by years" Wow

[@HeyNcamiHey]

That guy seems extremely intuitive and wise

[@theallseer97]

Thats be some deep shit lol be interesting to hear peoples answers though

[@xerilaun]

🥺

[@swisdom9117]

Time stamp?

[@izraomar6794]

@@swisdom9117 6:31

[@katiehe985]

“he is no longer with us now” - school principle on a close friends suicide when we were 17

[@listerinebottle63]

😕

[@jokutyyppi4226]

@@listerinebottle63 what do you mean?

[@mahraba874]

Ouch, frick

[@kidMONSTERISH]

this happened to me too, exact same words, and same age

[@sastina6714]

@@jokutyyppi4226 its an emotion

[@lesliebenson3915]

“Mom is not coming home, she is dying”- my dad. She passed away 7.5 years ago from cancer. I love and miss you, mom

[@gigisnotrealifear]

I am so sorry for your loss. You're so strong i love you

[@sunnystevenson9994]

Have a good day and remember there are good things that happen just look for the good

[@annacortezz]

im so sorry! i love you, okay?

[@luckycharmasmr4634]

🥺🥺🥺❤️ bless you

[@thegamingkids_234]

Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here and you can pray to God, please never lose faith or feel like your alone, feel free to reach out to me!

[@sadenox]

i just realized its been a little over 4 years since this video was made. I hope that girl who had cancer lived through it and is living her life to the best

[@kt1pl2]

Me too.

[@zuhal2264]

I happened to find her Instagram account, she’s doing fine, luckily!

[@julialee4180]

“Ugh I can’t handle life I need to go throw up” -My mom’s boyfriend mocking me for having an eating disorder when I was 16

[@crow_your_beloved]

that is literally disgusting im so sorry :(

[@virex8414]

Find peace in God. I struggled for a very long time with an “eating disorder” too. God heals

[@littlebear9842]

@@virex8414 amen! Nothing God can't fix if you have faith in Him.

[@inthemaking2362]

Omg that's horrible. I hate when people do and say such horrible things because of their ignorance. I'm sorry that happened.

[@julialee4180]

Thanks all for the kind words. 5 years later I still struggle but am much better ❤️

[@nerualsivad]

"We don't have time for that, you have school." - My mom, when I begged to go to my best friends funeral at the age of 12 after finding out they'd been shot and killed in an accidental shooting. The funeral was out of town and my parents decided that me going to the funeral was an inconvenience to them and also I would have to take time away from school, which they said was more important. I promptly failed all my classes that year, so...

[@spacebear238]

Neru Vadsi Your Mom is an awful person.

[@KitKat-nf5ev]

I am so sorry you had to endure such a loss, and it was probably just salt in the wound to have to endure this too. Sometimes parents can be so selfish and not look beyond themselves for the wellbeing of their children. I’m sending love your way💕💕

[@afishwithagun2190]

I call bs.

[@user-bl3fl7cu7p]

@@afishwithagun2190 🖕

[@rolphahl7515]

@@user-bl3fl7cu7p 😳

[@glamam3914]

“I’m embarrassed to be with you in public” my cousin said to me when I already have social anxiety and a low self esteem

[@Rossoinred]

I hope things got better for you, stay strong!

[@KitKat-nf5ev]

Man that really sucks. I’m sending love your way💕

[@real_super_nova]

Same

[@najajahajahahahaja2220]

Omg that’s terrible to say that to someone.. I hope your feeling better about it stay strong💞

[@user-uy7fe2yo7e]

Oh yes, I have social anxiety and low self esteem and my parents told me that a bunch of times.

[@Thumpadoom]

i think the worst thing i have ever been told was "Nobody cares about how you feel, just deal with it" from my parents who i thought were caring and loving of me but that made me realize how much they didn't care for me

[@ibax013]

Ofc they care, nobody cares except them and ur wife

[@johnd5398]

Yeah....wrong video.

[@ibax013]

@@johnd5398 whats wrong

[@Thumpadoom]

@@johnd5398 still heard it form someone so

[@Marcell.Lovett]

nobody cares about how you feelings in reality anyone past the age of 13 understands that lol

[@shutup9460]

This is proof that Every Stranger has a story behind them

[@XeXDragon]

Actually... Every *thing* has a story behind it

[@Ruzovy_]

@@XeXDragon my piece of shit floating in the toilet rn

[@meerabzaidi9445]

Everyone has hard times

[@XeXDragon]

lorinamae • yep that thing as well The atory comes from the very first animal/plant depending on what u ate

[@shutup9460]

lorinamae • 👏👏👏

[@alexadansereau3701]

“Look what we have here, a depressed and suicidal kid after giving them an amazing life, how ungrateful” - mom Edit: I'm way better now, in a better place and happier, thank you for all the support

[@brimuffins6155]

That's a great profile picture my dude

[@thenbhdgirlie]

i love how they always think that they’re right and we’re wrong

[@brimuffins6155]

@@thenbhdgirlie Do you happen to like Star vs. The Forces of Evil?

[@alexadansereau3701]

@@brimuffins6155 It's wonderful isn't it?

[@Jakknifed]

Same thing happened to me when I was a kid. My parents never even bothered worrying until I attempted suicide.

[@that0neweeb68]

“i kinda had a bad childhood” *laughs nervously* its so sad because thats the only copising mechanisms we have:/

[@chlorophyllheart]

Well, laughing or crying, so two mechanisms. Humans are odd beings.

[@moj1338]

The teacher who talked about school funding, I loved that. It was so important for her that it was the first thing that came to her mind. That made me very sad and angry that our society does not make education one of the first priorities.

[@notanevilrussian9674]

“I don’t want her in this family anymore.” -Dad

[@ieatpancreas2005]

Aw I'm so sorry you had to hear that❤ just know no matter what you're important and loved❤

[@dylankok488]

f

[@Abigailissuperswag]

:C

[@schirin2385]

I'm so sorry for you💕 i had to listen to simular things and even tho I'm still in a really dark place rn things will get better. You deserve more love and care and i really hope you are aware of that 🌈💕

[@metal.angell]

I'm so so sorry he said this. You don't deserve this at all! I wish you lots of happiness and I hope you are doing okay. I totally feel this tho. My parents said the same to me, after the doctor told us I have a severe disease..bc I'm a bother for them

[@NAT-ld1sh]

"I took his pop tarts" This comment section is depressing , i'm just tryna cheer you up

[@__saigikus]

bro that caught me off guard and i started wheezing-

[@lakshvini8181]

❤️

[@andreibobdemei]

Your profile pic IS depression.

[@chickentamales6837]

This one made me the saddest

[@kimberlynliquet4166]

I wish I never heard trump again jokes don’t come for me trumpers

[@forestmartin3324]

“ Dad is in the hospital. He had a heart attack”. Don’t worry guys, he’s still alive and doing well

[@meep9963]

Oh!?

[@lxmon4137]

Wait, really? How'd you know? I'm glad he's alive and well!

[@graceonthebus8103]

How u know him

[@FreakRaider]

Literally got the same call twice before as well

[@forestmartin3324]

《berřýçhii》 thank you

[@sisyphus69420]

“We don’t have a relationship because you don’t want one.” I didn’t do anything to you dad.

[@여학생-c1u]

I am really sorry to whatever is happening in your life right now, I know you can get through it 🙏 ❤️

[@angelsalazar3893]

Im sorry to hear. Hope you're well. One love.

[@thekatelouise6406]

You deserved a better dad. I am sorry. 🖤

[@liaml.e.5964]

I can understand you. Life gave me two fathers (father and stepfather), and they amount to less than one. I tried for so long to connect and yet... Yeah. My heart bleeds for you but know we are not alone :)

[@ss9329]

Aww the kid who wish he'd never heard Santa isn't real is adorable 🎅

[@jesuislapluie695]

❤️😊

[@Deus_Almighty]

He said the opposite ;D

[@christinam.98]

Yes he is, and by the way, he is such a real smart kid! Omg, he's a real genius I guess. Hope he's doing well in the future and gets what he wants out of his life.

[@ss9329]

@@Deus_Almighty True 🙃

[@lavans06]

lmao...kid needs to see the movie Santa Claus [1,2,3] of how he gets to houses without a chimney :) lol

[@pleb1105]

“Your brother was in a shooting.” He’s okay, but I cannot imagine life without him. He’s a navy pilot in training. I love him so much.

[@marandachapman8650]

God bless YOU and thank your brother ❤

[@sitrewvien2518]

Pleb, not to down your story but I am so incredibly happy that your brother is still with us. My sister was lost in a domestic violence shooting in 2017 and I’ve had the largest hole in my heart since.

[@lengb4831]

Nathan Reed i hope you are okay after that tragic incident, may that stupid shooter rot in a jail cell for the rest of their life ❤️❤️lots of love!!!❤️❤️💕💕💕💕❤️❤️

[@angrycactus158]

This comment took my breath away. We are so so so grateful for your brothers service.

[@StreamHub3]

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[@pheladidikgale1071]

“I wish I never heard about racism.” Feels.

[@pheladidikgale1071]

NONYA Business uhm. A preference for a certain group of people?

[@pheladidikgale1071]

NONYA Business yeah that’s pretty racist. You’re basically saying that all people with a certain skin color are the same and you don’t “prefer” all of them because there’s something about them you don’t like.

[@pheladidikgale1071]

NONYA Business that’s unarguably racist. But if you have no problem with being racist, then okay.

[@nes1309]

NONYA Business There is a difference between having a preference and being racist. Do you think it’s okay for people to stare at you weirdly and say bad things because you have a different race than them? People that have a preference for a specific race are not immediately racist, those are two different things.

[@andreipop5805]

@@pheladidikgale1071 dude, I prefer green-eyed girls more than other color. Does that mean I wouldn't want to be toghether with a girl of another eye color? Of course not. That's silly. But I'll alwais find green-eyed girls mkre attractive. It's just how we are build. This is pretty much what @NONYA business said.

[@jimhally2349]

"If you want, I'm willing to apologize and make amends. As long as you are willing to do the same..." A text I received half a year later from my (no longer) best friend of over a decade that sexually assaulted me. This event was the hardest thing I had ever tried to overcome in my life and completely fucked me up mentally even to this day. And to be reminded of what happened so directly by this text message made everything worse. I wish I never received this message showing me that this person was still trying to contact me after the most fucked up thing I have ever experienced. It made me feel like this person has no remorse for what they had done and for whatever reason thought we could be friends again after it happened. It made me view the entire situation in a completely different light, and especially when I was still trying to overcome what had happened. If you have ever experienced something similar to this, please get help. I didn't and I made some very, very bad decisions I will regret for the rest of my life. Trying to battle something like this alone is the worst thing you can put yourself through and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. If anyone read this, I appreciate you taking the time. Enjoy what you can in life, even if you feel like you've hit rock bottom, it can only get better from there.

[@xoSamLovesYou]

I wish I never heard: "the only time I've ever lied to you is when I told you I loved you"

[@blackbeltufc439]

Jeez that's mad

[@xoSamLovesYou]

@@blackbeltufc439 yup... one of the worst feelings i have ever felt

[@xoSamLovesYou]

@Blosh3 hmm... I'm still with him. We've been on and off for the past 5 months. I've got that mindset where i love him so much, I'd just let him treat me whatever way he wants...

[@xoSamLovesYou]

@Blosh3 i guess i should do that

[@arcticrebekah8930]

Sam x I totally understand that mindset it sucks so bad me and my bf recently broke up and I feel so much better now that I don’t have him dragging me down it’s hard but worth it

[@nourmohammedmansour620]

“ if your father ever gets a heart attack and dies, it’ll be all your fault “ - mom

[@typicalcookies8123]

Im so sorry she's so wrong x

[@valeriemenendez8676]

the same thing happend to me except that my mom told me if she died it would be my fault :(

[@den861]

My father says the same thing about himself. "When I ever get sick and die, it will all be your and your sister's fault." I hate to hear that he's not the only one saying shit like this.

[@annacortezz]

Dont let her words get to you! You are strong and loved and I am here for you!

[@angelabenton1002]

Pls. Go and hug your dad .

[@TheAquaticCat]

“I’m not your therapist, I don’t care.” - my ex boyfriend when I told him the story of how I developed suicidal thoughts

[@mana.a]

Well I care - Ur not alone, watever happens Ur life matters. If it helps, Id give u a big hug.

[@dani1215_]

Wrong guy then

[@elizabeth7854]

TheAquaticCat My mom when I told her I was depressed: Where are the nearest asilum here ? She needs to be treated.

[@Stoic_med]

How can people be so mean?

[@jorjapanda1224]

I’m only 10 and I have had suicidal thoughts and my mom found out and she has done nothing

[@LukaKnott]

“I’ll make you pasta the next time you’re here!” last words my gran told me. she died like a month after my visit. i regret not calling her, not messaging her. i miss her so so much. I love you gramma

[@emilywylupek5294]

“Your brother passed away in a car accident early this morning.” Shifted my entire life..

[@elsaberisha6452]

Im sorry for your loss, I hope you're doing good.

[@vic.664]

i lost my two brothers in one week, one was in a car accident and one got killed, im so sorry for your loss and we'll get better just have to be strong a little longer , youre in my prayers

[@emilywylupek5294]

Thanks y’all for the prayers, I appreciate all of them. ❤️ Life has been up and down since then. This happened my senior year of high school, I ended up graduating anyway, and still a year early at 17 like I planned. Now I’m about to graduate college in May 🎓

[@Techie1224]

@@emilywylupek5294 go ahead, what are you looking to study ??

[@nikkilouise7899]

I lost my brother in a car accident too. I'm sorry for all of your losses. It's been 2 and 1/2 years for me. Still hurts just as It was day 1.

[@abbyb6958]

“She’s so annoying I kinda wish we weren’t friends” -my “best friend” talking about me to someone else :/

[@greyarea805]

Time for a new friend With how many people are lonely there’s always room for another friend

[@shetto]

Dont be annoying then

[@peacecookie34]

she isn’t your best friend. get a new one 💕💕

[@yourdisappointedmother4326]

First time

[@kate-gn9eo]

That’s not a true friend, you deserve better

[@nookac0la]

“You’re not depressed stop doing stupid things like that(suicide attempt)” -my grandmother who abused my siblings and i for years.

[@antoinetharmal8669]

I am so sorry, I hope you are doing better now, 🙏💕

[@KittyCat-dp2lc]

@@sephie9882 im so sorry for ehat your going through but your incredibly strong and i know i might never come across you again i wish the absolute best future for you, keep tour head up (and sometimes it’s ok to have sad days) ❤️❤️❤️

[@-lakshya7288]

❤️

[@arbor8445]

I’m sorry, how are you holding up?

[@grayeditsthings2137]

❤️

[@theletters9623]

"I don't care what school taught you, your feelings don't matter" was the thing that caused an eight year old me to tell my mom to ask my dad to stop telling me he loves me because he clearly doesn't. She later told me that he cried when she told him that and my only thought was "good". Its too damn bad that he never figured out that every time he shouted that with that horrendous nails on a chalkboard voice, over a child crying about things like toys being broken, the thing he implied at the end of that sentence was "only mine do"

[@masterpys2693]

"Don't call me daddy." My dad, to my little brother who was 4-5 years old at the time, while he was on a jealous rage bc my mom saw someone she used to like at my cousin's wedding. My family was trying to calm my dad when my little brother ran up to him saying 'daddy, daddy'. Broke my heart to hear what he said to my brother and his image in me shattered from that day on too.

[@ask6037]

Noooooo, that brakes my heart

[@KaZeGamingOnYT]

Dielku The K9 breaks* brakes are for cars lul

[@whyyoumadsuckmydick4309]

@@KaZeGamingOnYT you understand it tho, no one cares. Maybe English isn't his first language, Jesus not everyone just speaks English. So shut the hell up.

[@whyyoumadsuckmydick4309]

@@KaZeGamingOnYT AnD iTs lOl

[@KaZeGamingOnYT]

WHY YOU MAD Suckmydick based off your username and playlist names, i can infer you have an IQ of a rock. English isn’t even my native language, it’s Samoan

[@eldritch-sys]

“You’re choosing to be sad.” “Aw, is it cry-time now, you little baby?” -My parents, despite me suffering from depression

[@janabucekova7819]

ᖇᗩᗰEᑎᑕOOᑎ im sorry to hear that, it must be terrible. I hope you’ll feel better soon.

[@eldritch-sys]

Kawaii Master Thank you, ill be okay. I only have to spend a couple more years with them lmao

[@eldritch-sys]

Richtofen How??? You cant choose to not be depressed????

[@federicavalentini5615]

Don't feed the troll , it's just some idiot searching for attention, you can't be "less depressed" I am clinical depressed too, I know how it is, it's shitty when people don't understand, hold on.

[@RanitaFrowilmL]

I’m sorry this happens to you as well, I can’t talk about my depression with my parents because all they will tell me is that I am choosing to feel this way, which doesn’t make sense at all. I understand that there are ways to feel a little bit better or distract ourselves from depression, but when we try to talk about it with someone all we need is their support.

[@հօժօx]

"I'm disappointed" -My father the first time he saw me have a panic attack in public. Usually my mother deals with these, unless she "doesn't want to deal with my shit." I have several other ones, this was just the first that came to mind

[@magnetosolos4068]

I'm so sorry that this has been said to you. Nobody should be treated like this

[@paige7761]

dont worry baby, things will always get better

[@reb5343]

I understand this, a panic attack is not really understood by some parents and 1. It literally feels like you're going to die and can't breathe, and 2. it can't fully be understood until you experience it yourself. I hope they get better for you, and I hope you know that you matter.

[@oliveintheroom1336]

Once my friend had a panic attack and I was the only person there that knew what was happening (Besides her parents but they didn’t see, they were doing something else) And I have no clue how to help so I start panicking. The words I wish I never heard was “Leave them alone, they probably are mentally ill”~Some Stranger

[@serenity_dreamz3333]

Aww I may not know u but I’m most definitely not disappointed in you and your dad shouldn’t be either. Panic attacks means something is going on or wrong, do u need someone to talk to cuz I’m here 🤗🥺

[@boothebeloved]

"people die, it's just a part of life" -Mom. My mom said this to me and I remember after she said that I really put thought into it and realized that I don't even know how I'm going to deal with my mother being gone one day, it terrifies till this day. I don't want to loose my mom, I love her so dearly :(

[@agostoned9455]

I asked my mom what hospice was. Tearfully, she replied, “I’m dying Jules...” She passed away a week later. She passed away from colon cancer when she was 42 in 2014. I was only 14. I miss her everyday.

[@bella-rx3yc]

i’m so so sorry i can’t even begin to imagine how heartbreaking losing someone so close to you must have been

[@SS-qd3ow]

This comment hurts 😞. I’m so sorry , I don’t know the feeling but the short experience you shared brought me to tears...

[@crowmedicine3890]

That's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you have to be without your mom.

[@arthurjackson3287]

May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God, Rest In Peace...

[@ballknocka0001]

💔💗💔💗💔💗 that is definitely a heartbreaking moment & you are not alone!

[@moose7336]

"You're so ugly, I wish i never made you in the first place!" Me yelling at the pizza rolls I burnt in the microwave

[@leah-rejoiced946]

OMG 😱 IM SO SO SORRY U HAD TO GO Through THAT TRAMA SO SO SO SORRY this is the best comment

[@R.Pantoja1661]

😢

[@christinetaylor6694]

You had me worried bro

[@ouo7398]

Your racist to black pizza rolls? Support there culture

[@Jmoneylax45]

I have been through this tragedy so many times I’m here for you

[@pixeypiez]

on my way to the hospital after a suicide attempt my “mother” said , “we aren’t taking you because we care, we’re taking you because we have to” i’ll never forget that

[@MikaMoonlight]

That's the most horrible thing ever >:( Hope you get to live with people who truly values you, soon. Stay strong!

[@kitkat70453]

i can’t imagine how hard that must have hit you i am so sorry

[@leoneabbacchio2098]

Gis your address bro I just wanna talk with her 😤 that's not okay

[@elmariajin3369]

That's messed up, I know I'm just a random person on the internet but I want you to know that theres people who do care, I care. Please please please stay strong, i know that wont mean much coming from a stranger but I honestly wish you the best and dont want anything bad to happen to you, she doesn't deserve you

[@Mike-mm8gg]

Where is your "mother" right now? I wanna talk

[@Kouddii]

When I was 7, my dad was in the hospital and after a few days, my mom brought us all into the room. "His heart stopped beating, and he died." I remember her tone, voice, expression, everything. It felt like the world froze. I just stopped thinking, but the silence was a killer, too. It was painful. I wanted to cry, to sob, to scream, but I didn't. It hurts to know that I can't talk to him ever again, because in the moment it felt unreal. It fills you with regret, y'know?

[@tannergatto7633]

I felt the exact same when I got the news that my grandfather died. I think was about 14-15 and the details of that day are foggy but the moment my mother told me “he has irreversible brain damage and won’t make it through the night” is burned into my mind. My mom hugged me and it felt like it lasted hours, I ceased having logical thought, my world just shattered. Though I wasn’t quiet it’s exactly as you mentioned every time i would stop to take a breath from crying, the silence was overwhelming it felt like being underwater.

[@Kouddii]

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you were able to recover mentally from that experience. Thank you for sharing this.@@tannergatto7633

[@sophievanmarwijk7521]

For everyone out here: - it's never your fault you are molested - your mental health problems are not attention seeking - no one has the right to say when you should be over something - there Will always be people who Will love you - mental abuse is abuse - being of any race, gender or sexuality doesn't change how you are allowed to act and what you are allowed to think And everyone telling you different doesn't deserve your love. Just be kind people, it isn't that hard.

[@calemmontiel338]

This is so important

[@scoobydoo_forever]

This made me cry

[@GoddessYolan]

Love this!

[@AnkaMara7940]

True

[@abigail6297]

What's molest

[@deborarietveld9171]

Ask people: what's a song that reminds you of someone you love?

[@powertothelocaldreamer3803]

Love this one

[@michyx2732]

👏

[@andreamadrigaldelaparte2589]

Great idea!

[@seg1102]

Debora Rietveld yes! I always wondered if people have songs for others cause I do for everyone around me.

[@shaunavaz3774]

Yes

[@sasoriharuno2898]

Not necessarily these words that I wish I didn't hear, but they are the words that come to the front of my mind when I heard this question. "Will absolutely see you there". Last words sent to me by the very first friend I made when I moved at the age of 4. I had not seen him in person for a long time because of separating social circles, pandemic, etc. This was the last message of a conversation where I said I was so excited to see him at our High School graduation in a month or so... He was found dead a few weeks before graduation due to complications with diabetes he had developed a long time ago. I never thought it would catch up with him. He was a really healthy, athletic, genuine guy, and I am still heartbroken now a year and a half later that I hardly ever spoke with him for so long despite us being great friends for most of our entire lives. It really tore up our small town, showed me how many lives just one person touches. Rest in Peace RIffe, If I make it up there I can't wait to see you again.

[@w3irdthings935]

Rest in peace

[@naomithomson147]

"I wish u weren't born" - my grandma after I accidentally put the dish in the wrong place. Shit still affects me.

[@JimBobBella]

Naomi Thomson that’s really harsh I’m so sorry

[@jakethedog1483]

The hell is wrong with your grandma? Also l'm sorry for you man

[@hyesterettsjustituariuskvn431]

This must be a joke man #grandmaoftheyear

[@trippy5519]

BTS cancer

[@cd1471]

@@trippy5519 BTS?

[@perky-t5941]

“You’re Gorgeous.” I don’t want to go into detail, but I was assaulted. The assailant kept using compliments as an excuse as to why they were doing all of this to me. To this day, I cannot stand being called gorgeous or beautiful, because I feel gross and dirty.

[@luna_888]

Perky -T What disgusting human beings they are. I empathize with you so much. The same thing happened to me not too long ago and it affects us so much more than anyone can imagine. Don’t think for a moment it’s your fault because you’re “gorgeous”, etc. We will get through this. I’m so sorry.

[@Prodshmura]

Thats horrible to hear

[@Mp3tjuh]

Thats horrible. :( Those words are supposed to be a compliment, I feel for you.

[@Prodshmura]

@@Mp3tjuh wish for the best for her honestly my stomache dropped after reading this

[@claweerj1278]

Perky -I can relate to you so badly. To me happend something similar and i‘m now paralised or start to get a panic attack when somone makes compliments about my looking because this person complimented me all the time. It haunts me. But it‘s not YOUR FAULT !! Just keep that in your mind.

[@kris-pt6tu]

"I wish you were never born" - My very loving father

[@anishasulthana2015]

i'm so sorry! just know there's always people out there who love you so much and care for you! keep strong and safe!

[@malikamagdenko2163]

Omg I feel ur pain dude... "I wish u were never born, u r such a mistake ugh why didn't ur mother abort u..." -my father...

[@syntia1458]

@@malikamagdenko2163 god loves you

[@timidesoul]

That’s terrible. You deserve so much good in your life. A parent should never have any right to be so cold hearted. Stay strong. x

[@BudgetFilms5714]

F in the chat plss

[@natileroxs5226]

I think one thing I wish I'd never heard was someone I thought was becoming my friend say that I was 'weird' in a casual, off-handed way (and not in a positive way). It really crushed me and my confidence was shot for years after, making it practically impossible to make friends at university because of that thought sticking in my head that everyone was thinking that.

[@irenejang6553]

idk why “you’re not college material” hurt me the most

[@rcgroundzero]

it’s always insulting to have your intellect (or capacity thereof) undermined, but they’re not the reason you get from point A to B, disregard and proceed to succeed. Corny but somebody will need to see this somewhere 🤷‍♂️ - wisdom of groggy ass premed

[@nedas2195]

That basically means someo e called u stupid in a different way

[@Niqquhchris6]

Nadine's ASMR you go Nadine!

[@melissabelleza1]

Dude the sameeee

[@kuruneel1809]

not too long ago i thought about changing majors and university/city and i talked to a lot of people. this one friend told me it wasnt something she could imagine me doing which hurt a bit

[@aurorab8202]

“Nobody wants you, your dad didn’t want you your grandparents didn’t want you, I don’t want you” thanks mom such sweet words I don’t deserve such praise 😌

[@aurorab8202]

Oof I should mention don’t feel bad for me, I’ve made my peace with everything, forgiveness is key❤️

[@thegamingkids_234]

Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here and you can pray to God, please never lose faith or feel like your alone, feel free to reach out to me!

[@mohammadsarker648]

I hope your doing better!💝

[@mohammadsarker648]

@Nicolas CHAPARRO I hope your feeling better!!! Sending a virtual hug!

[@mikestyles83]

I feel that so much and I emphasize. Im sorry you had to experience that, but just keep onwards and upwards even if it is to show them wrong. Much Loves

[@urtepau3646]

Ask people: What is the thing you feel the most guilty about?

[@beatrizthomazini9850]

YES PLS

[@lastchance1101]

I used to not defend people when people were talking bad things behind them. I never participated in this gossips and rumors but i am guilty of not defending people when rumors spread about them. I learnt to not judge people the hardest way

[@KiritsujuEmiya]

Lost my 25 years in pleasing others over my own happiness.

[@juanitaauelua2693]

I feel guilty for not being there for my son when he got into some trouble last year I wish that it was avoided and that If I knew wat was going to.happen I could have helped him

[@jara4566]

that I left my best friend alone when she told me that she was suicidal

[@Properfv]

Anyone who sees this comment I am sorry for whatever you have seen or heard. I hope you get back from whatever you are going through. Do not care about other people's opinions of you. When you do not care what other people care about life is easier. Life is hard it is an undeniable fact. I hope you are all doing well. Good luck And God bless

[@tuhndruh6982]

“Hey, your brother was found dead at home in his bedroom. He killed himself” -The police man explaining to me how my own brother killed himself. You always were my favorite sibling bro bro

[@AJ_Dressage]

Rest In Peace I don’t know him but I know this pain not the way you did I’m so sorry he will be dearly missed

[@Rose-zz8wl]

he’s in a better place trust me make him proud and give ur other siblings love too! he loves u the way u do, i’m sorry

[@zebraislife]

Rip

[@geraldinechadwick130]

Sorry for your loss and sorry for the policemans insensitive way of delivering such devastating news. Much love.

[@ParkJimin-co8jz]

Rest in peace, don't worry, he's in a better place now, stay strong

[@jamallfigaro]

"Your mom went to the hospital last night." "She didn't make it." If you ever wondered if you could spiritually die...that was it for me.

[@kate-gn9eo]

I’m so sorry, losing someone like that is heartbreaking, just now she’s looking after you in heaven and that she’ll always be with you ❤️

[@Abcd-sl1mf]

So sorry man! Genuinely don't know what I'd do if I ever heard this.

[@Daniel-uy5uh]

❤️

[@morganismism]

My father was in the hospital for years, they gave us too much hope. He was so weak, back and forth to the hospital until he had to practically live there. It hurts man, my own mother telling my dad is gone.

[@rb13atgm]

my mom was in the hospital for 2 weeks. she had started radiation treatment for cancer the doctors caught early and she got sick with pneumonia. radiation weakened her immune system. we held our breath for 2 weeks praying she would oull through. they put her in a medically indiced coma cause she couldnt breathe on her own. was at the hospitsl the day she died. i had come from out of town to see her. she was already in the coma by the time i made it there. my brother and i left the hospitsl to get dinner. went back to my hotel to get some things and change. was driving back to the hospitsl when i got a call from my brother. i answered the phone to hear time of death is 8.35. she's gone. mom's gone. found out she went into sudden cardiac arrest. its been 10 months. and i ztl haven't foind the will to live again

[@endergirl8820]

Mom:”I stayed with your father even after he beaten me, threaten me, cheated on me because I wanted you guys to have a father” This broke my heart because my mother suffered a lot. She could have been with someone that makes her happy and safe. My dad has gotten help from the church 6 years back. He’s better than he was, and I love him. But I will never forget what he has done to my mother. :/

[@sasy1533]

It really messes you up... Because you realice the reason of her suffering is basically... You. My situation scarily similar. My dad is been good for two three years, but the trauma of all that happened doesn't let my mom live her life to the fullest

[@xr._cele_.ry22]

Replying to this is like crazy because sadly my father hasn't changed. He stopped physical stuff but the stuff he can say hurts more than any hits. Can't say I love him but I do have hope he will get better before it's too late. My mom got stronger though and started defending herself :) I'm happy for u dear that ur dad changed 💖

[@yassqueen3904]

My mom finally broke up with my dad but he is still threatening my my and the people that is involved my mom saying that she is still his legal wife and he could be with my mom until he die He isn't even inlove with her. HE JUST WANTS MY MOM TO HAVE A MISERABLE LIFE

[@gracethomas8610]

I love ur mom

[@julianarose3060]

omg.. i can’t even tell you how much i can relate. my dad cheated on my mom and was abusive as well. if you ever need someone to talk to i am here.

[@midnightvalkyrie]

I wish I never heard my mom tell me my brother was going to do better than me and that I was not going to accomplish anything. For the longest time I resented my brother because of it and I wish I had known better and not allowed that to ruin my relationship with him. We are in a much better relationship and we connect a lot more than we used to. I feel that her telling me that had discouraged me from wanting to be better so many times but here I am now with my bachelor’s degree and going for my second bachelor’s. You can do anything you put your mind into, don’t let what someone says make you believe you can’t do it.

[@choerrim7745]

Something I wish I had never heard was when my friend told my I had won the lottery. One day I was going to visit my mom at the hospital because I regularly visited her, as she had lung cancer. I played the lottery very often because you never know whether or not you'd win it, so I gave it a shot. I only played the Rolling Cash 5 because I knew I'd never win the powerball. That day when the numbers were announced I had found out I won $160,000. I delayed my visit to my mom to cash in my winnings, not expecting or knowing the news that would appear later. As I was driving to the hospital, they called me telling me her pulse had completely stopped. My mom is worth way more than $160,000.

[@jessicadanielle4872]

사나 I’m so sorry honey 💕💕💕 don’t worry you didn’t know. You can’t predict what will happen

[@ouo7398]

ですねな？ 府にはならない？❤️ Guys don’t like my comment I spammed random letters😂 y’all think it’s a deep comment, look てえへえ

[@aliszbuyaki3369]

사나 awww noooo

[@car_go_vroom_vroom_vroom]

I'm so sorry, dude.

[@seabiscuit7116]

I'm so sorry that must have been so tough 🙏😔❤️

[@Mia-xx4tm]

"You're useless, a disappointment. You're never going to find someone who truly loves you, any boyfriend you'll have is gonna cheat on you anyway" - Mom and Dad ❤️

[@Mia-xx4tm]

@nirujah s Thank you so much... I hope so, at least I'm really trying!

[@caseyvallis]

I can in fact, relate to this one 💔😭

[@paige7761]

dont worry baby, things will get better

[@freehuggos7766]

you'll find someone as amazing as you for sure

[@crybaby684]

stay strong

[@floortjeappel3648]

"ofcourse she is being bullied, look at her" -my second grade teacher

[@WeirdYetNiceChaot]

Floortje Appel Yikes :( . I’m so sorry. Those teachers who bully children should lose the right to teach. I hope you’re doing okay with it today. Have a lovely weekend

[@yousraidir2289]

Doesn't deserve to be a teacher!

[@cleomarie5016]

Wow no child should ever have to experience this from an adult or anyone. I’m so sorry.

[@katelynstambaugh6706]

Sometimes adults are so immature and pretend they’re better than what they are, no one should be on a pedestal.

[@valeriegamelin1732]

Omg im sorry

[@Drux.i]

My husband, who generally is a very kind and amazing man, one time very jokingly told me "You ruin everything". I knew it was a joke, and he felt so badly for hurting me. But for whatever reason that has stuck with me every day since.

[@ioeee7563]

An acquaintance of mine once said: "In every joke, there's a grain of truth." I think, he's quite right about that.

[@Fall7timestandup8]

A well-wisher of mine recently told me that I've become odd 'coz he's gotten the success in the field in which I failed at the last stage. I've become different 'coz of my own insecurities. I guess it's never easy to make people understand your true thoughts.

[@siobhanmairii]

I’ve had this said to me many times and after so many times, you begin to believe it, even if it’s not true. I’m sorry this happened to you, even if they thought it was a joke 😢

[@fobburgerson9561]

that college student girl who had cancer is the most positive and most determined person I have ever seen

[@bubblebunny3088]

Yeah

[@Ivorydragon111]

Props to her. I had brain cancer at age 10 and now I'm 31. Never stop fighting.

[@techmania5957]

@@Ivorydragon111 hope you are doing well Lots of love💜

[@jgzbaby777]

I thought the same thing

[@jody8466]

I so relate to the young lady diagnosed with lung cancer...I reacted and felt much the same way she did

[@purplegirl6132]

"You look like a monster" - my father at 12 year old me for being overweight. Edit: Thanks to everyone that left a kind comment and to those that have experienced something similar: know that you are a beautiful, briliant and unique person that deserves all the love in the world! Love yourself and others and stay safe in these difficult times ❤️

[@Techie1224]

overwieght can be beauty but not from capitals prospective as they need fast work force 😅

[@tomatosauce3675]

@@clumsy1421 i feel sorry.

[@noahwuzhere2713]

YOU ARE PERFECT AND AMAZING AND I LOVE YOU!

[@sunnystevenson9994]

@@clumsy1421 Don't listen! They are wrong you are beautiful and we all love you! Have a great rest of your year 2020 or not.

[@purplegirl6132]

@@clumsy1421 I know how that feels, but please know that it is NOT true. You are wonderful and you are loved. Keep trying hard for yourself and nobody else. Much love ❤️

[@brrdboy]

"Your brother is in the hospital, he attempted suicide." Literally the worst words I heard as a 11 years old boy, knowing that I was apart of his attempted suicide.

[@florisvanoverdam2083]

I know how thats feels and that is the most heartbreaking feeling stay strong❤❤

[@lecapo368]

zoe eoz good idea help a brotha out 💯

[@ch007eh7]

"Yes". That was my father's answer to the question whether he would rather have me dead than happy.

[@OliLolipop]

Oh shit. You deserve better ❤❤

[@ppgbubbles28]

"Every time you hug me or touch me, I get the creeps." My mom said this to me. I was battling depression and we were going through extremely tough times that gave me trauma. I felt so empty inside after hearing that as I'm an affectionate person and to hear that I gave her the creeps? My own mom? I have not hugged her since or hug her when she tries to hug me. It really, and still does, hurt.

[@randomnameforarandomnerd8400]

I feel that man. That's how my dad is too. I hope it gets better for you and that you'll be able to receive the comfort you need and deserve :)

[@dieseluniversityclips]

justsinclair hug her when she tries to hug you, you’ll regret not hugging her someday

[@mannyheffley8336]

Im very sorry😞

[@itzpurplegirl]

justsinclair You should tell your mom that it hurt you....

[@andrewromitti2038]

Don’t hide secrets tell her that wasn’t cool and no offense but don’t be a jerk because you not accepting those hugs you might be offended but she might be crying in her room because she thinks you don’t love her. One day when she’s gone you’re going to regret those moments so just make sure to be honest with your feelings

[@nakkilama]

"see you tomorrow at school unless i get sick or die!" -my best friend in third grade well, guess what.. that day she got in a car accident and died on the spot

[@magnetosolos4068]

I'm sorry you lost her

[@lereloleloshakirashakira7710]

I'm sorry for your loss

[@moonlightlunar44]

I'm sorry for your loss

[@GabeSurtos]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[@nakkilama]

it's been many years, i'm over it :) she was very important to me but i had enough time to grieve and cry. thanks for... supporting me i guess? have a nice day everyone :3

[@kevinnguyen4300]

“You act a certain way that makes everyone hate you”

[@Ia-dg1bg]

Bro I can actually relate alot holy

[@viktorijapuc5637]

Sometimes I feel that way about myself...people don't say it but they act like they're thinking it. You know what, you have your own energy if people don't like it you can always find someone who will and if all else fails that person could be yourself.

[@marienovak7270]

I mean is it because people think you’re weird or because you’re an asshole to others?

[@enbi5440]

@@marienovak7270 it's a fact that people can randomly dislike others without any reason

[@Caine_west]

My grandpa (who I considered my father) passed away in front of me when I was a kid. In the days after that, whenever I cried about it, my family told me to stop, and called me a crybaby. Eventually I learned to just hide everything.

[@kt1pl2]

Wow...that's absolutely horrible. Let me guess, you're a guy right? I think it's so toxic that men aren't allowed to express their emotions. You should have been comforted, not ridiculed.

[@Caine_west]

@@kt1pl2 thank you

[@brendabennett4829]

So sorry that wasn't right

[@thebrothersdim5440]

It hurts that anyone is treated like their emotions don’t matter. I hope you are doing well in life.

[@cw9986]

"Why did you make me meet him!?!" - Screaming at me in tears, my 10 year old son after waiting 3 years to meet his birth father who apparently was finally ready. My son was so excited, dressed up and ran up to hug him but was given a "handshake" and wouldn't speak to our son. He broke down and it was the most painful experience and guilt I've lived with in this life. Almost 8 years later that day still haunts me, along with all the abandonment issues he has suffered with it.

[@cricketsong1967]

CW, as a middle-aged adoptee, I offer you huge hugs, and I want to thank you for being open-minded and open-hearted enough to offer your son the opportunity to meet his biological father. My parents never wanted to discuss adoption and made me feel incredibly guilty for my curiosity and later for my desire to search. The guilt trip was unbearable. I understood that their defensiveness was out of fear and tried to help them understand that I wasn't seeking to replace them or abandon them. They didn't understand. Ironically, that is the reason we are now estranged. They are not comfortable with emotions or emotional topics. I'm writing this to tell you that although your son had a heartbreaking experience meeting his bio father, he may have resented not meeting him if he'd never had the chance. Your heart was in the right place. We try and life is messy and unpredictable. It sounds like your son has a big heart like you. Give him lots of hugs, listen to his feelings, validate them, and assure him you understand. And that you love him unconditionally and will always be there for him. ❤️

[@cricketsong1967]

I re-read your comment and realize your son isn't adopted (right?) but I still feel the same way. You wanted him to have that opportunity. For what it's worth, I clearly remember my dad refusing to hug my son when he was about 7 or 8 because he "wasn't a little kid anymore" so he should just get a handshake. Seriously??? If he'd been female I believe hugs would still have been allowed. 🙄

[@cw9986]

@@cricketsong1967 Thank you so much for your comments and reaching out, and sharing your own story!! I'm so sorry that you experienced heartbreak that you could relate to with my son's experience and mine as well. No, my son isn't adopted, his father is a firefighter involved in saving other lives, being a father to another son, and a step father to 2 others which only has continued to dig in the dagger in my son's heart since he was 10. But whether biological or adopted, ALL children are deserving of their parents love, and to be denied a hug by flesh and blood then an entire family he could have had is such a shame. What I have learned is that some parents are just not deserving of their children's love, and I believe my son has realized that too. I feel addressing the absent fathers and mothers of our children...young or grown is so important. It has become an epidemic with long term emotional scars and consequences. Thank you again for your support!💗 My heart was absolutely in nothing but the right place, but as loving mother's/parents it's difficult to get that agonizing voice of my son's out of my head. I am so thankful for this place to talk, learning other's stories and send my love and compassion to you and all who are who are hurting. 💞💞

[@cw9986]

@@cricketsong1967 Life sure is messy. I'm so very sorry that your parents couldn't understand why you wouldn't want to know more about your birth parents... When I think of all the people just doing DNA testing to find out more about long lost relatives, including myself as most of my family is gone, I think it is absolutely natural!!! I want to know anything I can, relatives from generations away... heath concerns that I should be aware of that ONLY your biological parents can tell you...or DNA. My son has wanted the same and I allowed it. I am 44 years old so I really do understand to some degree. I'm in Social Work and see the agony of those who have grown up never knowing their parents, no answers and unfortunately some pretty awful stories. Yes, the world can be downright cruel. But I accept... and would embrace you with a HUGE hug!! We're in this together. Uplift and support. 🙏 May you find peace Paula, you seem like an amazing human being. Love from 🇨🇦

[@gingersnap3024]

I'm so sorry!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@abbyreasoner3273]

something beautiful about each person: 1- her eyebrows are amazing 2- his teeth are rlly white 3- her dimples are adorable 4- his hair is beautiful 5- her freckles are very cute 6- his skin is super clear 7- his lips are very full 8- his smile is so genuine 9- his eyes are beautiful 10- his smile made me smile 11- her laugh 12- his smile lines 13- i like her nose 14- her eyes are a beautiful color 15- her eyelashes 16- his dimples 17- his beard 18- i like his jawline 19- i like the nose ring everyone is beautiful.. look for the beauty in everything.

[@Yellow.1844]

18 is crazy attractive

[@dinozaurpickupline4221]

God would have liked this comment! even if you don't believe, the universe for your eyes a judgment to be passed on

[@chelseamoropa5027]

God bless your beautiful soul❤️🙏🏾

[@tutuaram9622]

And your soul is beautiful

[@ornsteinthedragonslayer7516]

Fake I'm not beautiful and never will be

[@hiiimrach]

“I’m sorry I can’t find a heart beat” “What colour coffin would you like for your son?”

[@listenboimafurstlovstory5890]

wait ,they actually said things like that to a mom?

[@hiiimrach]

@@listenboimafurstlovstory5890 unfortunately it’s one of the questions S asks when you have to plan a funeral :(

[@listenboimafurstlovstory5890]

@@hiiimrach but the part with "for your son?" isn't it too hurtful?

[@abigailbarnes1655]

My heart died reading this

[@alexandriamaez7836]

I am sincerely sorry for your loss. I pray for healing and blessings to come upon you and your family. Death of a child is something no parent should have to experience.

[@dwilson2548]

Another easy one... The horribly disgusting sound that came out of my mother's mouth when I had to tell her over the phone that my brother her baby son had just passed away. Thank you very much for asking and listening.

[@malihabaig1228]

“No one likes chubby people” “you are a fatto” “it’s how I say that I love her” “it’s just a joke.” -my family It hurts more because I was not over weight at all.

[@aleme1306]

don't listen to them💜 you're beautiful and amazing!! Stay stong my love💗💜 I'm sending you my support

[@winniemaereact1391]

I get that... I always got remarks on my body when I was a kid (by other kids and even sometimes my parents)... Now I have an ED and when I look back, my body was perfectly fine

[@maverickjames6119]

this makes me so incredibly angry. your family better have health insurance cuz im coming over there to smash them with my fuking ukulele. do these people not understand what an ed is??? like jesus christ

[@savanaadolphsen9245]

Emjee CB literlly same here. I see pictures of how I looked when they made those comments to me and it breaks my heart. I looked great and now I have an ED because of it 🙃

[@ciara6138]

Don't listen to them❤ them people are just jealous of you❤🥺

[@pixieversa]

“i don’t wanna be friends with her cause she’s too depressed” that hurt because she said it behind my back. edit: i realized i wasn’t very clear sorry the misunderstanding i was pushing my sadness on her or anything. i don’t really talk about my feelings so sadness really affects me physically, like i don’t talk or just stop being happy.. sorry for the misunderstanding:)

[@marisadermacho]

I'm sorry you feel that way, although I understand where this person might be comming from. Maybe they are just not capable of handling a friend with depression, and they, as sad as it sounds, need to set priorities. If that is the case, they probably feel very guilty for not being able to be there for you. But for them this friendship might be toxic. This is just speculation tho

[@user-jm4ll4mr3w]

hi, this hasnt happened to me but it feels like that a lot when i have ever tried to talk to my friends about how i feel they just suddenly can’t talk to me or change subject and it feels like they don’t care, so i never opened up to anyone and it sucks. i think your friend said this wrong, what she meant to say is ‘i can’t help her’ but she can see you’re suffering. I think if it’s really hard for you find someone to talk to e.g. a counsellor where someone will listen and help, and then you’ll be able to be your best self with your friends and won’t be overwhelmed by your emotions which might be overflowing onto them

[@zamz7350]

I feel sad for you and I also understand your friend. I love my friends but I feel like they are often depressed. Sometimes I get depressed too but not as much as them. I really want to be there for them and I don't want them to feel like I don't care, because I do care. But sometimes their sadness affects me and makes me feel sad... what I'm trying to say is that maybe your friend talked about your situation with others because she needed advice, It doesn't mean she doesn't love you. I think you should talk about it, maybe you can work it out :) (Sorry for my grammar, English isn't my first language😅)

[@lexxy6305]

@@zamz7350 lol you have PERFECT english

[@zamz7350]

@@lexxy6305 Thanks😊😁

[@kailafry1178]

"I'm so sorry. He's brain dead"- I wish I never had to hear those words about the man I wanted to marry. He passed away a year and a half ago and there is not a single day where I dont think about him. I truly believe he was my soulmate and it breaks my heart that I wont get to spend the rest of my life with him, but I know he's always with me and I will see him again someday ❤ I love you Gaige.

[@cheesestickhathreturned6875]

Kaila Fry I am so sorry..

[@analenaaaaaaa]

Im so sorry! I really hope you'll have a wonderful live will meet him again when your time has come... wish you the best

[@catvalentine4317]

I can't imagine what you must be going through... I prayed for you and hope that god will give you the support your partner would've given you. Lots of love.

[@noemiegonthier3240]

I am so sorry and sending all the best so that your heart can one day heal

[@hm-jb7vy]

That must be the worst thing ever!! Its so sad to hear of stuff like that, but it’s beautiful how strong your love is. You’ve been very strong, i hope your happy and that you will one day reunite

[@Lily.-]

Last week I overheard my mom tell her best friend that if she didn’t have kids she would’ve killed herself by now, and she told my dad that she wanted to commit suicide but couldn’t because she knew we needed her. It absolutely broke my heart.

[@kellydoll9335]

“She’s not gonna make it” You don’t expect to lose your baby niece. I wish I could re-live that day just to hold her again.

[@lanadelreylvr92893]

The same thing happened with my cousin, she had a baby with her now ex boyfriend and she didn't make it. That was 4 years ago.

[@munchiecrunchie6144]

The lady who had lung cancer is so pure. She keeps smiling and she just wants to bring joy to people and you can tell. She is a good woman 😔

[@saron4445]

@Laura Smith .yeah

[@sharonmufalali7660]

She’s so beautiful 😍

[@certiimxhzn]

Yea you can tell she's the type of person to make everybody around her happy

[@hwillis8]

@@sharonmufalali7660 I’m in love 😍

[@itsalexbruh95]

She's an absolute inspiration. To be able to finish school and not fail anything after literally being told that you could die is nothing short of remarkable. I don't think I'd have that kind of strength if I was in her shoes, she's truly amazing

[@tobytaylor7227]

If aliens ever visited, this channel should be one of the first things we introduce to them to learn about us

[@ihateu_xx3295]

...lmao wtf 😂

[@kekemarie-rn8cc]

@T C no it's not

[@bellet3615]

Toby Taylor Yes! I like where your heads at 😂

[@giovannaflasmo3001]

T C it’s ignorant to assume aliens speak English.

[@paaaaoavaaavovo]

Because aliens understand english

[@karien3431]

Three things I wish I never heard - about ten years ago my mom told me that when I was born my dad didn't want me, he told my mom to take me and leave, at first I thought it was taken out of context, but so many things were starting to make sense. My older brother was always favored by both of my parents. In 2009 my dad told me and my brother that my brother was going to be the only one to inherit from him. He passed away last year, he kept true to his word that I wouldn't inherit. But I think the worst thing for me was that about 3 years ago he told me that he didn't need me in his life and so we didn't speak until a month before he passed. I still have no answers as to why he felt this way about me.

[@proinseasnihanluain4735]

I'm so sorry you went through that. I wonder did he question if he was your biological father?

[@Willy_Warmer]

@@proinseasnihanluain4735 that's probably the most likely answer tbh

[@bombay3201]

Omg I'm so sorry you went through that I know the pain of rejection

[@shkurterestelica143]

Another question could be “What do you miss about being a kid?”

[@BijBijTCG]

I think most answers will be the same(if they had a abuse free childhood)

[@shkurterestelica143]

B .S Could be but not necessarily

[@JustAnotherLondoner]

@@BijBijTCG what would most people answer do you think?

[@mamedia1582]

Having a dad

[@irisbitchesz123]

Being oblivious to the pain everyone goes through

[@sweetestpiano]

this comment section is making me realize how many awful people there are in this world :(

[@cleoblackbird2210]

Ikr like damn I thought what happened to me was bad

[@hopeh6176]

But look at all the likes 💖 Stay positive be blessed. Nasty people love to have a platform

[@navy-26]

Damn

[@gorillatrading5452]

Stay positive, my friends. A balance must exist between the truly amazing and the truly evil. Be the light you wish to see in the world. Dont let these fuckers bring you down. Fight until the day you die. Struggle and scrape and fight and push. You have people to prove wrong. I know I do.

[@nobodysbaby5048]

Yeah, A really good vignette of the viciousness that's out there.

[@joodyuniverse2322]

“Your dad doesn’t want us any more he has another family “ I was 9 y.o

[@aleezanazeer1702]

i feel really bad for you, stay strong and positive..... love you😊💖

[@joodyuniverse2322]

Aleeza Nazeer u don’t need 2 I’m living a wonderful life know Thanks 4 ur caring💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@aleezanazeer1702]

@@joodyuniverse2322 your welcome😊💕

[@Brydant1]

My mom used to say things similar to this im glad youre doing better now

[@joodyuniverse2322]

@@Brydant1 omg I really wish u live a wonderful long life Lots of love A stranger

[@MrPerfect_Pokemon]

For me it was "People may look nice, but they're not always good people." This just changed my entire perspective about people. I tought the world was a happy place, but it was all a big pain. Everyone is constantly batteling to be better than anyone else. Or trying ro ruin something for someone else to make themselves feel better. I don't know how people can be like that. I know there are nice people among, but if you try to be nice you get pushed away by society. I don't even get space to walk when there is much room. I am always the person who has to go out of the way. I was bullied back in the days, and this made it even worse. I didn't trust anyone, I had no friends, and didn't want to go to school. I failed a really important test, becouse I wanted to go away. Later I picked it up again, but my trust is still gone. How people treat eachother is just painfull to watch, and makes me think: "Why am I here"

[@mackenziedesire7515]

I totally get this, _but_ I also hope you don't let it change you! Sure, a lot of people suck, and are mean and selfish, but a lot of those people are broken and sad too, y'know? That doesn't excuse the behavior, don't get me wrong, but I do find it helps sometimes to remind myself that a lot of people tearing others down are doing it because it's been done to them. It all sucks, sure, and being kind gets so exhausting sometimes, but don't let all that negativity break your spirit! People may not express gratitude for your kindness, but I am confident that many have felt grateful for it. I feel like this all sounds very corny. Either way, I hope you find some kind, wonderful friends (even just one makes a huge difference, I promise!) who make you feel like being here is worthwhile, if only to spend time with them. And, from one softhearted outcast to another, I hope you know that you are strong and brave and wonderful yourself for being kind and going out of your way despite the world not often treating you in kind :)

[@mia4.u984]

"I'll never leave you" i wish i didn't believe so much in that phrase.

[@thegamingkids_234]

Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here and you can pray to God, please never lose faith or feel like your alone, feel free to reach out to me!

[@TobyBanci]

Fernanda Hernandez same

[@CreepyHandedMan]

Yes. You know, they probably meant it when they said it. It just wasn't a promise. Even they probably didn't know that. The hardest thing is trusting again. After having this happen to you, how could you imagine having children with someone ? What if they leave too ? But at one point, you have to. Someone out there deserves your trust. It's a gamble, but it may be one worth the risk.

[@raycatzxz]

:(( i went thru the same thing, I dated someone, and i actually thought she was my soulmate considering ive dated alot of people and she was the only one i really loved and wanted to marry in the future and have a future with in general and she told me "ill never leave you, and i hope you never leave me" i made the promise and she did too :( then she recently broke it and left me bc she got over me, it hurt but its fine, i just hope youre doing well :) sorry for this little vent, i just had to let it out :')

[@aklnoyz]

You'd think that it would be true but a few words can end that. "We're done." "I'm breaking up with you."

[@aychess4265]

"You are the reason why I'm drinking." - My alcoholic dad after I confronted him on being drunk at 10 am. He told me it was my fault because I had been diagnosed with depression and anxiety disorder. He said he couldn't deal with an insane person. He said he never wanted a daughter like me. He had been drinking since I was 13. I was diagnosed with 16. Im 20 now and I still break down when I think about it.

[@emilyirvine7431]

I really hope you are okay, and I know it might feel like a lot but don't just carry the universe on your shoulders turn it into wings and use them to soar :) I hope this helped.

[@susiem.2068]

I don't want to sound disrespectful but he's got nerves talking about insanity when he's confronted by a 16 y.o. who's been diagnosed and strong enough to seek help and council and keep going at life while he's drunk at 10 in the morning. You're not the reason for his misery bad choices happen but these choices are made. You're not responsible. You're a strong, worthy individual and you're a fighter. keep going you're going to make it.

[@NIV3913]

Stay strong ☺️💪🏻❤️

[@Rossoinred]

I hope things got better! I wish you luck!

[@sygshszhshsh9091]

Lol imagine being depressed and ur dad drinking such gay people

[@danielmason4041]

“Your Dad’s heart stopped and we were unable to revive him” - My heart shattered...

[@asherwhitman3790]

Daniel T I am so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain, my dad passed when I was young.

[@MA-zy9gz]

I'm sorry for your loss. I know how horrible the pain is. I lost my mom in a similar manner 2 1/2 years ago and it was extremely hard to cope with.

[@youshouldntcareaboutmyname1132]

Daniel T im so sorry for your loss. Sending my condolences 🙏🏻♥️

[@parker2516]

"Your father has passed away" same bro

[@kevrockz88]

That is exactly what I was told 6 months ago I feel your pain sorry for your loss

[@pokelolmc6826]

"KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOURSELF!" -my mum when I was seven and lost control of my anger in an argument with my brother's friend during the drive to school; as an autistic kid, I was always confused by vocal delivery/tone of voice and controlling my emotions when speaking was really difficult. Hearing mum getting angry at me repeatedly for honestly speaking my mind just made me fear I should never speak up/have my own opinion at all or people would always scare/hurt/threaten me for being disrespectful. "Respect is earned, not given" is another one, especially since she used it after she responded to my disrespect by yelling/hurting me back. It made me worry I never deserved to be treated nicely or with basic decency- because all I could understand was that I didn't already deserve respect and love, and never would if I couldn't somehow figure out what this weird dubious concept of "respect" actually meant. All it seemed to mean was completely silent obedience to authority and a whole lot of self-minimising people pleasing. To this day, I still struggle with overwhelming confusion about what/how I really deserve to be treated by others, and I always worry it'll never be good.

[@stephanieandriamanantena2383]

Hi! I just really wanted to answer this. It is really important that you know that none of what she said is true. If you have to cling to one thing, cling to this: you are entitled to as much space in this world as the next person. No one can tell you the space your are taking up is an incumbrance. You don't owe it to anyone to put their comfort first. Speak your mind. Laugh out loud if you think something is funny. Tell the people when they are being inconsiderate towards you. Your feelings matter, just as much as anyone's. You know, there are no absolute truths. No one dictates the rules. We're just all on the same footing. And you are entitled to as much space as anyone else.

[@Mita7538]

It sounds like she was genuinely trying to raise you and teach boundaries. You stated yourself that you were yelling at her when she made the statement about respect. Not sure what happens in your head but maybe some self evaluation is needed.

[@Ninsidhe]

@@Mita7538 it really sounds like you have no idea of actual healthy parenting. Maybe don’t comment on the experience of Autistics if you don’t comprehend what being Autistic is like. Hitting someone for hitting someone is not teaching that hitting is wrong, it’s just teaching _who_ gets to hit others. Same with yelling, saying terrible things etc- parents demanding that children behave better than THEY do is hypocrisy of the first order.

[@Mita7538]

@@Ninsidhe Umm, my best friends son was diagnosed with autism and retardation and my brother-in-law is also handicapped. Maybe YOU shouldn't speak to things YOU don't know. With that said, that old adage of "hitting or yelling only teaches the behavior" is an opinion, a theory at best. Kids start hitting as soon as they can swing their arms, without provocation. And having been on the planet for quite some time, I've seen PLENTY of kids who were NEVER spanked and will curse and hit the hell out of their parents. Some will even kill them. So miss with that nonsense. Please accept you have a theory and I likely have greater experience. Especially have raised three of my own. OR NOT. I couldn't care less. His mother was right and hopefully one day he sees it. If not, he might end on the street and hopefully you're there to provide him shelter.

[@smarttv8068]

"i'm sorry, i can't come back anymore." -my mom I still miss you to this day, i love you so much.

[@dianagrigore4235]

💔 THAT'S SO SAD!

[@saoirseroche1391]

Why can’t you go down to her

[@andreaslb8872]

Wtf

[@mistadude]

Wait what happened did she pass? Or are you just making up some story to get likes

[@justcallmealfred1848]

@@mistadude maybe she left. Some parents abandon their children for their own happiness. For their own selfish needs. It's sad that they gave birth to a gift for them to give it away in the future.

[@alessandraleigh9919]

“I dont want to live anymore.” -my grandpa, when deciding to stop his cancer treatment after 24 years in and out if remission.

[@user6627]

Ily

[@kristagrym]

Omg What happened?So sorry😞

[@Mexicobeanpole]

I’m sorry, but accepting that someone has had enough and is ready to move on to the afterlife is kind and healthy.

[@boenana-3054]

@@Mexicobeanpole agreed. People say suicide is never the best way out but in this case, he was going to die anyway and just wanted to end the pain. I understand that completely especially if the same thing would happen in a few years.

[@Sarah-p2k9r]

"If only we could choose our children" -my parents It always hurt every time I hear it,coming from the people who made me, I just wished they never made me in the first place,that would be so much better

[@Some_kind_of_wonderfü]

💜

[@mollyv8b705]

God made you. You are wonderfully and beautifully made❤ you have a purpose❤

[@libertylibertylibertyliber1520]

Fûck them. Just know that you are wanted and you will get out of that relationship. Parents should never talk to their children like that. And can the people in the comments stop bringing religion into this.

[@marencalma13]

"If only we could choose our parents..." All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children. But that is another story.

[@jecintawangui3727]

What!! that is so heartbreaking am so sorry dear

[@berthacorona3862]

Years ago, as a teenager (I'm 59 now). My dad said I was too stupid to go to college. I went to college at 27 yrs as a single mom and did it all on my own. I received my Bachelor of Science degree in my mid 30's. As I was graduating, my sister told our dad "look dad, their's your daughter graduating... you know, the one you said was stupid." I never asked him to help me for school. I am happy I was able to bring my children to see me. It doesn't hurt anymore. When my children were of ago, neither one wanted to go to college. I did offer to pay for any schooling or trade school. Always encourage your children for achievements. 👍

[@loafofbread9313]

“Your not depressed your just dramatic” - I physically hate the word dramatic it makes me sick

[@user6627]

i know what you mean

[@LilymcSummer]

Can relate “You’re being overdramatic” No, actually, I’m being under dramatic, you just don’t understand at all...

[@Lynn-fy6xj]

@@LilymcSummer they really don't understand trying to hold bricks together with an Elmer's glue stick

[@suzanasathya7653]

I understand that

[@jennabrown8365]

This...so much 😭❤️