What’s 1 thing you wish you never heard?

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Thoraya

Thoraya

Күн бұрын

This question was suggested by my friend John! I met him a few months ago on a bench at Balboa Park. Since then every time he sees me filming he asks about my question for the day.. we typically talk for 30 minutes discussing the question and so much more. Recently, he came up to me and said that he had an interesting question for me to ask strangers.. and this was it. He said that his answer would be- when he found out on average there are 12 dead spiders in a jar of peanut butter. He wishes he never heard that because he loves peanut butter!!
I hope you all enjoy this episode! I love you guys!! #bekind
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@sylviaobonyo3656
@sylviaobonyo3656 4 жыл бұрын
"A life worth living is not counted by years" Wow
@HeyNcamiHey
@HeyNcamiHey 4 жыл бұрын
That guy seems extremely intuitive and wise
@jensonneake8887
@jensonneake8887 4 жыл бұрын
Thats be some deep shit lol be interesting to hear peoples answers though
@xerilaun
@xerilaun 4 жыл бұрын
🥺
@swisdom9117
@swisdom9117 4 жыл бұрын
Time stamp?
@izraomar6794
@izraomar6794 4 жыл бұрын
@@swisdom9117 6:31
@zoetudor7026
@zoetudor7026 4 жыл бұрын
“you turned out how i prayed you wouldn’t” -my mom
@elzmat
@elzmat 4 жыл бұрын
Zoe Tudor aw hope you’re ok! that horrible.
@maggiemeii
@maggiemeii 4 жыл бұрын
❤dont listen to that
@mariajoseperabeles6926
@mariajoseperabeles6926 4 жыл бұрын
Same for me. My mom always criticized the rude way my aunt (my dad's sister) was. And when I grew up. She told me I was exactly like her (in manners). When I was little she always told me not to be like her. And at some point I was a little like k her (my aunt) I don't know if it was because my parents were very violent with each other and I could control the anger, or if I behave like that for a long time because she repeatedly told me we were alike.
@El-82603
@El-82603 4 жыл бұрын
The way you turned out was beautiful. Your mom hoped you wouldn’t turn out beautiful so a guy wouldn’t start liking you and you and that guy make a new life with a new family and leave your mom. Your turned out beautiful and the reason she said that is because she did t want you to leave
@Cait606
@Cait606 4 жыл бұрын
That’s not right. I’m very sorry
@markalocasesjr8181
@markalocasesjr8181 4 жыл бұрын
I had the biggest smile on my face when she said she beat cancer!
@christinam.98
@christinam.98 4 жыл бұрын
O yes, and I really hope that it doesn't come back, and that she can live the life she wants
@davidhintz1
@davidhintz1 4 жыл бұрын
Oh me too! Just wanted to hug her.
@maryannkalo5003
@maryannkalo5003 4 жыл бұрын
markalocases jr thank You Jesus
@gozdiigozdii8935
@gozdiigozdii8935 4 жыл бұрын
@@maryannkalo5003 Your Jesus has nothing to do with this
@maryannkalo5003
@maryannkalo5003 4 жыл бұрын
Gozdii Gozdii for me... He does :)
@darkherostardustchannel3699
@darkherostardustchannel3699 2 жыл бұрын
"People have it worse than you" I just felt like I had no right to be upset.
@darkherostardustchannel3699
@darkherostardustchannel3699 Жыл бұрын
@@lilnub3017 Same I can't cry anymore and I miss it. Looking to get therapy for it so fingers crossed
@salinadale5529
@salinadale5529 Жыл бұрын
This is what my parents say to me. I can’t trust them with my emotions anymore, it feels like I have to hide them.
@nathanwilliams9264
@nathanwilliams9264 Жыл бұрын
Are y’all American because y’all sound American
@darkherostardustchannel3699
@darkherostardustchannel3699 Жыл бұрын
I'm a Hong Konger@@nathanwilliams9264
@JesusIsKingMyLord
@JesusIsKingMyLord Жыл бұрын
Gospel of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 For God So loved the world that he gave his only Begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not Perish but have Everlasting Life. Jesus Christ Died on the Cross for all the sin of the World, and now we can be Forgiven of all of our sins and be washed clean by the Blood of Jesus Christ for our iniquities trespasses... now all you need to do is Repent of all of ur sins (Repent means Change ur Mind turning away from sinful things and being truly sorry with all ur heart, and if you Repent and still go back to sinful things nothing will happend but if you are truly serious Lord will change ur life forever) (example of repenting Father God I ask in Jesus Name please forgive me of all my Sins I acknowledge that im a sinful man/woman I am truly sorry and trust in Jesus that he lived suffered and died on the cross for me and my sins so I can be Forgiven was barried and that you rised him on the 3th day please wash me clean with the blood of Christ make in me a new heart that can love and forgive Lord change my desires change me Lord Jesus come into my life change everything about me make me a new creation fill me with ur HolySpirit...)is what sin is Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of eternal life in our Lord Jesus Christ. and the only way to heaven is Trough Jesus Christ there is no other way! John 14:6 I Am The Way The Truth And The Life No Man cometh to the Father Except Trough Me. and you are saved by Grace Trough Faith not by works, we cannot save urselfs from sin we don't get to go to heaven becausewe don't get to go to heaven because we are a Good People we are not!, we cannot earn ur salvation it is given to us as a Free Gift all we need to do is receive it! Romans 3:23 For All have sinned and Felt Short of the Glory of God. There is none Good but God!, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Revelation 21:8 KJV. JESUS CHRIST IS THE ONLY WAY TO HEAVEN REPENT AND BELIVE THE GOSPEL.
@catsneky
@catsneky 4 жыл бұрын
"Never have children because it was the worst mistake I ever made." -Mom
@emmac.j.8374
@emmac.j.8374 4 жыл бұрын
Cat Snek oh man I hate this. This is almost as bad as once recently, my mom yelled at my younger sister,”you make my life a living hell” and this is giving me kinda PTSD. This is why I’m not having kids when I’m older. I don’t want to mess up my kids lives like my mom did to mine. I don’t want to talk about it but long story short I don’t want to have kids for many reasons, this being one of them.
@SU9ERCHARGED
@SU9ERCHARGED 4 жыл бұрын
My parents say that but then they back it up and say “unless u got everything to settle”😂😂
@sourad.e5661
@sourad.e5661 4 жыл бұрын
Probably Buddha okay I get not wanting to have kids for your own reasons, but don’t tell people not to have kids because of overpopulation, that’s a stupid reason
@senya2610
@senya2610 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that happend to you I'm sure you're a great person. Please don't let it affect you. It's easier said then done but I belive in you!
@yitlerxyeezus
@yitlerxyeezus 4 жыл бұрын
"If I left you alone there would be nobody that would take care of you"
@g996
@g996 4 жыл бұрын
The innocence of that kid who said he wished he never heard that Santa isn’t real is so heartwarming after hearing about the other struggles that the young adults went through.
@Danny-de1ry
@Danny-de1ry 4 жыл бұрын
Grace Burke nah its the other way around he wished that people didnt lie to him that santa was real so in short he didnt want the bs from the start
@Ruzovy_
@Ruzovy_ 4 жыл бұрын
@@Danny-de1ry exactly, if i had kids im not even gonna tell them about santa.. its nlt because i dont wanna spend money on them.. of course i would.. but if youre gonna lie to a kid from birth to 7-8 years old.. how will they be able to trust you?
@ThaKidd1006
@ThaKidd1006 4 жыл бұрын
You heard that wrong. The kid is super logical since he was young and he's saying his brain was hurting like when you say America is part of what continent and someone goes the North continent. That pain that makes you go wait what did i hear that right. Is the dilemma he was facing.
@g996
@g996 4 жыл бұрын
Nah I meant about how he didn’t want to tell his brother to let him have the fantasy for longer, sry for the misconception
@g996
@g996 4 жыл бұрын
I said his innocence is heartwarming not his problem
@anjelarose1089
@anjelarose1089 4 жыл бұрын
“That was years ago, you should be over it by now” -My mother, who’s brother molested me when I was 7 years old.
@thalia7104
@thalia7104 4 жыл бұрын
It was his decision to molest her, but it should have been her mom's decision to tell him to go to hell (and call the police).
@liakirwan
@liakirwan 4 жыл бұрын
I am truly, truly sorry to hear. I hope you’re okay now, there are so many people out there who love and support you. Don’t listen to what you’re mother has to say, she clearly doesn’t understand the pain you’ve gone through and I admire you so much as a person for being so brave and getting past it❤️❤️❤️ sending my love
@KP-bt3fd
@KP-bt3fd 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry, I hope that you are alright now! There will always be people here to help you and support you!💖💖💖
@bTs-it7tb
@bTs-it7tb 4 жыл бұрын
Thalia whaaat...?
@jennycajustine8853
@jennycajustine8853 4 жыл бұрын
Same here
@burntthetoast
@burntthetoast Жыл бұрын
"I'm going to die a junky" My twin brother said this to me after he overdosed, and I had brought him back with two shots of Narcan, CPR, and holding him up in a cold shower. When we got him to the hospital, it was just me and him in the room; I'd rode in the ambulance and my parents were following behind in the car. Just us two, no nurses or doctors, and he said it to me as he broke down. We were about 24-25. He died three years ago after an accidental overdose at the age of 27. I miss him every day and wish I could have changed the outcome. He had to know I tried everything I could, I tried it all to get him to quit. He has to know that I tried, right..? Just saying this to the wind.
@theseus0767
@theseus0767 Жыл бұрын
You can only do so much. Addiction is a tyrant, and your brother lost control. His actions were not your doing. All you could have done was offer help; if he chose not to take it that is on him. I don't mean to sound like I am dehumanizing him or blaming him; I know addiction is tough, firsthand. Please just don't blame yourself. I am certain that is the last thing he would have wanted.
@XPurpleMyth3
@XPurpleMyth3 10 ай бұрын
🫂
@MelloMe_
@MelloMe_ 9 ай бұрын
Yes, you tried and he knew you did. Now it's important to forgive yourself for not performing a miracle and living a full and happy life. You deserve that.
@ashleyking9093
@ashleyking9093 9 ай бұрын
You did everything you could have done. You did a lot more than most family members would have done for a loved one to begin with. It's so very clear that you loved your brother and cared a lot about him. It is not your fault at all. Stop blaming yourself please because it's not your fault. There's no one to fault, there's no one to blame at all in this situation. Please forgive yourself and your brother too if you need to and live your fullest life. He wants you to live a happy full life. He knows its not your fault he knows you did everything you could. I promise. I've been in an extremely similar situation myself.
@lunatone3333
@lunatone3333 8 ай бұрын
It's not your fault.
@14gt1
@14gt1 4 жыл бұрын
Isn’t it interesting how people laugh whilst they are talking about terrible things that have happened to them. Maybe a coping mechanism? That stood out to me.
@ProMrLecoq01
@ProMrLecoq01 4 жыл бұрын
It definitely is, I did that while at my therapist and she asked me why I was laughing. Im not usually sharing how I feel so I just started laughing when we were talking about how shit my social life has been. It’s a coping skill when you’re surprised and don’t know what to do or say
@ninasaletta2732
@ninasaletta2732 4 жыл бұрын
I believe it’s something people do when they’re uncomfortable talking about something bad/traumatic that happened to them
@gretastahl5597
@gretastahl5597 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed, it stands out to me as well. I feel like they don't want others to pity them, or they want to act like they're ok, they want to handle it themselves. I think its, sometimes, a false sign of ease.
@gretastahl5597
@gretastahl5597 4 жыл бұрын
Like an attempt to lighten the situation and to make it "ok." They're definitely uncomfortable.
@anarolon6998
@anarolon6998 4 жыл бұрын
It is nervousness, it happens to me all the time. Telling something terrible makes me fell awkward, maybe it's the same for them. When I found out my grandpa died I had to tell my brother and I was kinda laughing and it was because I was nervous. Hope that makes sense 👍🏼
@jonrios1389
@jonrios1389 4 жыл бұрын
“It’s ok we could always see each other tomorrow” the day before my girlfriend passed away
@taylynntuell9903
@taylynntuell9903 4 жыл бұрын
I could not even imagine the pain and heartbreak I'm so sorry
@winterfyleth5103
@winterfyleth5103 4 жыл бұрын
no one cares
@cringeman4199
@cringeman4199 4 жыл бұрын
You'll see her in Heaven
@helenaln5646
@helenaln5646 4 жыл бұрын
Pizza Lord that’s so true 🦋
@taylynntuell9903
@taylynntuell9903 4 жыл бұрын
@@winterfyleth5103 If you don't care, why comment in the first place?
@katiehe985
@katiehe985 4 жыл бұрын
“he is no longer with us now” - school principle on a close friends suicide when we were 17
@listerinebottle63
@listerinebottle63 4 жыл бұрын
😕
@jokutyyppi4226
@jokutyyppi4226 4 жыл бұрын
@@listerinebottle63 what do you mean?
@mahraba874
@mahraba874 4 жыл бұрын
Ouch, frick
@kidMONSTERISH
@kidMONSTERISH 4 жыл бұрын
this happened to me too, exact same words, and same age
@sastina6714
@sastina6714 4 жыл бұрын
@@jokutyyppi4226 its an emotion
@vivianrobertzhang9418
@vivianrobertzhang9418 Жыл бұрын
"You're a monster." When this person said this to me, they caused me to question myself, who I was. It definitely contributed to the depression stage of my life
@lightspeed-mecharena5929
@lightspeed-mecharena5929 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you have to be a monster to provide for yourself and your family. It's one of the harsh realities of being a man. This doesn't mean TRY to be a monster but when you know you have to you have to.
@pria7538
@pria7538 Жыл бұрын
Were you, though? Self examination and questioning is not always a bad thing.
@poopakabra541
@poopakabra541 Жыл бұрын
ooga booga
@brazenzebra9581
@brazenzebra9581 Жыл бұрын
The only issue you should be concerned with is...were they right?
@erikman9642
@erikman9642 Жыл бұрын
you'r a pizza
@nates5373
@nates5373 4 жыл бұрын
Production manager: “So how close should we put the camera?” Everyone else: “Yes.”
@samruddhi7262
@samruddhi7262 4 жыл бұрын
Big Oof lol yessssss
@edgars.8544
@edgars.8544 4 жыл бұрын
I don't think they put it next to their face, i think they just zoom in, but still funny!
@noviraamirr
@noviraamirr 4 жыл бұрын
To capture the emotion i guess
@misssunshine5604
@misssunshine5604 4 жыл бұрын
I hope these people are ok with it and know that they are filming them this close so.
@Hannah_96
@Hannah_96 4 жыл бұрын
She does this on purpose so you can see their imperfections and their emotions
@glamam3914
@glamam3914 4 жыл бұрын
“I’m embarrassed to be with you in public” my cousin said to me when I already have social anxiety and a low self esteem
@Rossoinred
@Rossoinred 4 жыл бұрын
I hope things got better for you, stay strong!
@KitKat-nf5ev
@KitKat-nf5ev 4 жыл бұрын
Man that really sucks. I’m sending love your way💕
@real_super_nova
@real_super_nova 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@najajahajahahahaja2220
@najajahajahahahaja2220 4 жыл бұрын
Omg that’s terrible to say that to someone.. I hope your feeling better about it stay strong💞
@user-uy7fe2yo7e
@user-uy7fe2yo7e 4 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, I have social anxiety and low self esteem and my parents told me that a bunch of times.
@notanevilrussian9674
@notanevilrussian9674 4 жыл бұрын
“I don’t want her in this family anymore.” -Dad
@ieatpancreas2005
@ieatpancreas2005 4 жыл бұрын
Aw I'm so sorry you had to hear that❤ just know no matter what you're important and loved❤
@dylankok488
@dylankok488 4 жыл бұрын
f
@Abigailissuperswag
@Abigailissuperswag 4 жыл бұрын
:C
@schirin2385
@schirin2385 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for you💕 i had to listen to simular things and even tho I'm still in a really dark place rn things will get better. You deserve more love and care and i really hope you are aware of that 🌈💕
@metal.angell
@metal.angell 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so so sorry he said this. You don't deserve this at all! I wish you lots of happiness and I hope you are doing okay. I totally feel this tho. My parents said the same to me, after the doctor told us I have a severe disease..bc I'm a bother for them
@nisashaqiri
@nisashaqiri 2 жыл бұрын
"Fix yourself, go see a doctor or something. I don’t know how to deal with you anymore" This was said by a good friend of mine shortly before he ended our friendship. It really hurt me, getting confirmed that I‘m just a burden. Ever since I‘ve became quiet, I tend to not talk about my feelings because I‘m scared I will have to hear those words again.
@justadudewholovestool2457
@justadudewholovestool2457 Жыл бұрын
Stay exactly how you are, or were. Talk to someone. A friend, a trusted family member, hell, even me. I don't know what exactly it is you need, but i may know how to help you, even if it's the tiniest bit. I am here for you, denisa.
@leelaverma5248
@leelaverma5248 Жыл бұрын
awesome
@brycetwyning4436
@brycetwyning4436 Жыл бұрын
People will alawys say mean things and sometimes they dont really mean it. Try not to care what other people think or say. The only person who will be with you for the rest of your life and who has always been with you is yourself.
@music0cool
@music0cool Жыл бұрын
It may be harsh but it may be true, it can be a good wakeup call to change things
@freddiemeyer4563
@freddiemeyer4563 Жыл бұрын
that person was a lazy freind , dont worry u will meet new freinds in your life that will make u feel good
@lesliebenson3915
@lesliebenson3915 4 жыл бұрын
“Mom is not coming home, she is dying”- my dad. She passed away 7.5 years ago from cancer. I love and miss you, mom
@afiginetteahado2090
@afiginetteahado2090 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. You're so strong i love you
@sunnystevenson9994
@sunnystevenson9994 4 жыл бұрын
Have a good day and remember there are good things that happen just look for the good
@elysian8823
@elysian8823 4 жыл бұрын
im so sorry! i love you, okay?
@luckycharmasmr4634
@luckycharmasmr4634 4 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺❤️ bless you
@thegamingkids_234
@thegamingkids_234 4 жыл бұрын
Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here and you can pray to God, please never lose faith or feel like your alone, feel free to reach out to me!
@nerualsivad
@nerualsivad 4 жыл бұрын
"We don't have time for that, you have school." - My mom, when I begged to go to my best friends funeral at the age of 12 after finding out they'd been shot and killed in an accidental shooting. The funeral was out of town and my parents decided that me going to the funeral was an inconvenience to them and also I would have to take time away from school, which they said was more important. I promptly failed all my classes that year, so...
@spacebear238
@spacebear238 4 жыл бұрын
Neru Vadsi Your Mom is an awful person.
@KitKat-nf5ev
@KitKat-nf5ev 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you had to endure such a loss, and it was probably just salt in the wound to have to endure this too. Sometimes parents can be so selfish and not look beyond themselves for the wellbeing of their children. I’m sending love your way💕💕
@afishwithagun2190
@afishwithagun2190 4 жыл бұрын
I call bs.
@user-bl3fl7cu7p
@user-bl3fl7cu7p 4 жыл бұрын
@@afishwithagun2190 🖕
@rolphahl7515
@rolphahl7515 4 жыл бұрын
@@user-bl3fl7cu7p 😳
@forestmartin3324
@forestmartin3324 4 жыл бұрын
“ Dad is in the hospital. He had a heart attack”. Don’t worry guys, he’s still alive and doing well
@meep9963
@meep9963 4 жыл бұрын
Oh!?
@lxmon4137
@lxmon4137 4 жыл бұрын
Wait, really? How'd you know? I'm glad he's alive and well!
@graceonthebus8103
@graceonthebus8103 4 жыл бұрын
How u know him
@FreakRaider
@FreakRaider 4 жыл бұрын
Literally got the same call twice before as well
@forestmartin3324
@forestmartin3324 4 жыл бұрын
《berřýçhii》 thank you
@sadenox
@sadenox 8 ай бұрын
i just realized its been a little over 4 years since this video was made. I hope that girl who had cancer lived through it and is living her life to the best
@kt1pl2
@kt1pl2 8 ай бұрын
Me too.
@zuhal2264
@zuhal2264 14 күн бұрын
I happened to find her Instagram account, she’s doing fine, luckily!
@TheAquaticCat
@TheAquaticCat 4 жыл бұрын
“I’m not your therapist, I don’t care.” - my ex boyfriend when I told him the story of how I developed suicidal thoughts
@mana.a
@mana.a 4 жыл бұрын
Well I care - Ur not alone, watever happens Ur life matters. If it helps, Id give u a big hug.
@dani1215_
@dani1215_ 4 жыл бұрын
Wrong guy then
@elizabeth7854
@elizabeth7854 4 жыл бұрын
TheAquaticCat My mom when I told her I was depressed: Where are the nearest asilum here ? She needs to be treated.
@Stoic_med
@Stoic_med 4 жыл бұрын
How can people be so mean?
@jorjapanda1224
@jorjapanda1224 4 жыл бұрын
I’m only 10 and I have had suicidal thoughts and my mom found out and she has done nothing
@emilywylupek5294
@emilywylupek5294 4 жыл бұрын
“Your brother passed away in a car accident early this morning.” Shifted my entire life..
@elsaberisha6452
@elsaberisha6452 4 жыл бұрын
Im sorry for your loss, I hope you're doing good.
@vic.664
@vic.664 4 жыл бұрын
i lost my two brothers in one week, one was in a car accident and one got killed, im so sorry for your loss and we'll get better just have to be strong a little longer , youre in my prayers
@emilywylupek5294
@emilywylupek5294 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks y’all for the prayers, I appreciate all of them. ❤️ Life has been up and down since then. This happened my senior year of high school, I ended up graduating anyway, and still a year early at 17 like I planned. Now I’m about to graduate college in May 🎓
@Techie1224
@Techie1224 4 жыл бұрын
@@emilywylupek5294 go ahead, what are you looking to study ??
@nikkilouise7899
@nikkilouise7899 4 жыл бұрын
I lost my brother in a car accident too. I'm sorry for all of your losses. It's been 2 and 1/2 years for me. Still hurts just as It was day 1.
@urtepau3646
@urtepau3646 4 жыл бұрын
Ask people: What is the thing you feel the most guilty about?
@beatrizthomazini9850
@beatrizthomazini9850 4 жыл бұрын
YES PLS
@lastchance1101
@lastchance1101 4 жыл бұрын
I used to not defend people when people were talking bad things behind them. I never participated in this gossips and rumors but i am guilty of not defending people when rumors spread about them. I learnt to not judge people the hardest way
@KiritsujuEmiya
@KiritsujuEmiya 4 жыл бұрын
Lost my 25 years in pleasing others over my own happiness.
@juanitaauelua2693
@juanitaauelua2693 4 жыл бұрын
I feel guilty for not being there for my son when he got into some trouble last year I wish that it was avoided and that If I knew wat was going to.happen I could have helped him
@jara4566
@jara4566 4 жыл бұрын
that I left my best friend alone when she told me that she was suicidal
@moj1338
@moj1338 2 жыл бұрын
The teacher who talked about school funding, I loved that. It was so important for her that it was the first thing that came to her mind. That made me very sad and angry that our society does not make education one of the first priorities.
@pheladidikgale1071
@pheladidikgale1071 4 жыл бұрын
“I wish I never heard about racism.” Feels.
@pheladidikgale1071
@pheladidikgale1071 4 жыл бұрын
NONYA Business uhm. A preference for a certain group of people?
@pheladidikgale1071
@pheladidikgale1071 4 жыл бұрын
NONYA Business yeah that’s pretty racist. You’re basically saying that all people with a certain skin color are the same and you don’t “prefer” all of them because there’s something about them you don’t like.
@pheladidikgale1071
@pheladidikgale1071 4 жыл бұрын
NONYA Business that’s unarguably racist. But if you have no problem with being racist, then okay.
@nes1309
@nes1309 4 жыл бұрын
NONYA Business There is a difference between having a preference and being racist. Do you think it’s okay for people to stare at you weirdly and say bad things because you have a different race than them? People that have a preference for a specific race are not immediately racist, those are two different things.
@andreipop5805
@andreipop5805 4 жыл бұрын
@@pheladidikgale1071 dude, I prefer green-eyed girls more than other color. Does that mean I wouldn't want to be toghether with a girl of another eye color? Of course not. That's silly. But I'll alwais find green-eyed girls mkre attractive. It's just how we are build. This is pretty much what @NONYA business said.
@NAT-ld1sh
@NAT-ld1sh 4 жыл бұрын
"I took his pop tarts" This comment section is depressing , i'm just tryna cheer you up
@__saigikus
@__saigikus 4 жыл бұрын
bro that caught me off guard and i started wheezing-
@lakshvini8181
@lakshvini8181 4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@andreibobdemei
@andreibobdemei 4 жыл бұрын
Your profile pic IS depression.
@chickentamales6837
@chickentamales6837 4 жыл бұрын
This one made me the saddest
@kimberlynliquet4166
@kimberlynliquet4166 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I never heard trump again jokes don’t come for me trumpers
@malihabaig1228
@malihabaig1228 4 жыл бұрын
“No one likes chubby people” “you are a fatto” “it’s how I say that I love her” “it’s just a joke.” -my family It hurts more because I was not over weight at all.
@aleme1306
@aleme1306 4 жыл бұрын
don't listen to them💜 you're beautiful and amazing!! Stay stong my love💗💜 I'm sending you my support
@winniemaereact1391
@winniemaereact1391 4 жыл бұрын
I get that... I always got remarks on my body when I was a kid (by other kids and even sometimes my parents)... Now I have an ED and when I look back, my body was perfectly fine
@maverickjames6119
@maverickjames6119 4 жыл бұрын
this makes me so incredibly angry. your family better have health insurance cuz im coming over there to smash them with my fuking ukulele. do these people not understand what an ed is??? like jesus christ
@savanaadolphsen9245
@savanaadolphsen9245 4 жыл бұрын
Emjee CB literlly same here. I see pictures of how I looked when they made those comments to me and it breaks my heart. I looked great and now I have an ED because of it 🙃
@ciara6138
@ciara6138 4 жыл бұрын
Don't listen to them❤ them people are just jealous of you❤🥺
@sisyphus69420
@sisyphus69420 Жыл бұрын
“We don’t have a relationship because you don’t want one.” I didn’t do anything to you dad.
@여학생-c1u
@여학생-c1u Жыл бұрын
I am really sorry to whatever is happening in your life right now, I know you can get through it 🙏 ❤️
@angelsalazar3893
@angelsalazar3893 7 ай бұрын
Im sorry to hear. Hope you're well. One love.
@WhitePOWERranger1
@WhitePOWERranger1 4 ай бұрын
Did you do anything with him?
@thekatelouise6406
@thekatelouise6406 4 ай бұрын
You deserved a better dad. I am sorry. 🖤
@liaml.e.5964
@liaml.e.5964 3 ай бұрын
I can understand you. Life gave me two fathers (father and stepfather), and they amount to less than one. I tried for so long to connect and yet... Yeah. My heart bleeds for you but know we are not alone :)
@shutup9460
@shutup9460 4 жыл бұрын
This is proof that Every Stranger has a story behind them
@Rayan-kf2yf
@Rayan-kf2yf 4 жыл бұрын
Actually... Every *thing* has a story behind it
@Ruzovy_
@Ruzovy_ 4 жыл бұрын
@@Rayan-kf2yf my piece of shit floating in the toilet rn
@meerabzaidi9445
@meerabzaidi9445 4 жыл бұрын
Everyone has hard times
@Rayan-kf2yf
@Rayan-kf2yf 4 жыл бұрын
lorinamae • yep that thing as well The atory comes from the very first animal/plant depending on what u ate
@shutup9460
@shutup9460 4 жыл бұрын
lorinamae • 👏👏👏
@loafofbread9313
@loafofbread9313 3 жыл бұрын
“Your not depressed your just dramatic” - I physically hate the word dramatic it makes me sick
@user6627
@user6627 3 жыл бұрын
i know what you mean
@LilymcSummer
@LilymcSummer 3 жыл бұрын
Can relate “You’re being overdramatic” No, actually, I’m being under dramatic, you just don’t understand at all...
@Lynn-fy6xj
@Lynn-fy6xj 3 жыл бұрын
@@LilymcSummer they really don't understand trying to hold bricks together with an Elmer's glue stick
@suzanasathya7653
@suzanasathya7653 3 жыл бұрын
I understand that
@jennabrown8365
@jennabrown8365 3 жыл бұрын
This...so much 😭❤️
@shkurterestelica143
@shkurterestelica143 4 жыл бұрын
Another question could be “What do you miss about being a kid?”
@BijBijTCG
@BijBijTCG 4 жыл бұрын
I think most answers will be the same(if they had a abuse free childhood)
@shkurterestelica143
@shkurterestelica143 4 жыл бұрын
B .S Could be but not necessarily
@JustAnotherLondoner
@JustAnotherLondoner 4 жыл бұрын
@@BijBijTCG what would most people answer do you think?
@mamedia1582
@mamedia1582 4 жыл бұрын
Having a dad
@irisbitchesz123
@irisbitchesz123 4 жыл бұрын
Being oblivious to the pain everyone goes through
@EmreCanKorkmaz
@EmreCanKorkmaz 2 жыл бұрын
*"Son, I guess it's about time for me to leave."* My grandpa, four days before he passed away, told this to me while I was shaving his beard because he couldn't for the first time in his life. No one else knew about this, and no, he didn't commit suicide. He simply decided to let go... as the obsessively independent, emotionally mute, stubborn man he had ever been. Yet, he's also been the biggest role model of mine in his exceptional way of life as a godless humanist, solely for the love of and respect for humanity. I was both overwhelmed with pride that I was the person he shared his last secret, and crushed with sadness that he's leaving and it's impossible to change his mind. I miss you, distant man with a well hidden heart of gold. I miss you so much, you stubborn angel in disguise.
@loremaster5456
@loremaster5456 9 ай бұрын
A heart of gold from a person from then is worth hundreds of hearts of gold now. Because so much of our time is taken up by distractions, we hardly have time to develop who we are. Having someone with true heart of gold in your own heart can be one of the greatest things you could ever feel.
@That_One_MF_0
@That_One_MF_0 4 ай бұрын
Damn, almost reminds me of my own grandpa. Sadly he passed away in 2019. He had a heart attack suddenly and i called everyone because i and only my grandma was there with him. Sadly, my father wouldn’t believe it was a heart attack and due to this, he was not able to reach the hospital in time. But something happened me to a month before he passed away and made me spent as much time with him. We played chess together and i wish i could play with him one more time...
@abbyb6958
@abbyb6958 4 жыл бұрын
“She’s so annoying I kinda wish we weren’t friends” -my “best friend” talking about me to someone else :/
@greyarea805
@greyarea805 4 жыл бұрын
Time for a new friend With how many people are lonely there’s always room for another friend
@shetto
@shetto 4 жыл бұрын
Dont be annoying then
@peacecookie34
@peacecookie34 4 жыл бұрын
she isn’t your best friend. get a new one 💕💕
@yourdisappointedmother4326
@yourdisappointedmother4326 4 жыл бұрын
First time
@kate-gn9eo
@kate-gn9eo 4 жыл бұрын
That’s not a true friend, you deserve better
@pleb1105
@pleb1105 4 жыл бұрын
“Your brother was in a shooting.” He’s okay, but I cannot imagine life without him. He’s a navy pilot in training. I love him so much.
@marandachapman8650
@marandachapman8650 4 жыл бұрын
God bless YOU and thank your brother ❤
@sitrewvien2518
@sitrewvien2518 4 жыл бұрын
Pleb, not to down your story but I am so incredibly happy that your brother is still with us. My sister was lost in a domestic violence shooting in 2017 and I’ve had the largest hole in my heart since.
@lengb4831
@lengb4831 4 жыл бұрын
Nathan Reed i hope you are okay after that tragic incident, may that stupid shooter rot in a jail cell for the rest of their life ❤️❤️lots of love!!!❤️❤️💕💕💕💕❤️❤️
@angrycactus158
@angrycactus158 4 жыл бұрын
This comment took my breath away. We are so so so grateful for your brothers service.
@StreamHub3
@StreamHub3 4 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/aYPEc6OagMx9idk
@հօժօx
@հօժօx 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm disappointed" -My father the first time he saw me have a panic attack in public. Usually my mother deals with these, unless she "doesn't want to deal with my shit." I have several other ones, this was just the first that came to mind
@magnetosolos4068
@magnetosolos4068 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that this has been said to you. Nobody should be treated like this
@paige7761
@paige7761 4 жыл бұрын
dont worry baby, things will always get better
@reb5343
@reb5343 4 жыл бұрын
I understand this, a panic attack is not really understood by some parents and 1. It literally feels like you're going to die and can't breathe, and 2. it can't fully be understood until you experience it yourself. I hope they get better for you, and I hope you know that you matter.
@oliveintheroom1336
@oliveintheroom1336 4 жыл бұрын
Once my friend had a panic attack and I was the only person there that knew what was happening (Besides her parents but they didn’t see, they were doing something else) And I have no clue how to help so I start panicking. The words I wish I never heard was “Leave them alone, they probably are mentally ill”~Some Stranger
@serenity_dreamz3333
@serenity_dreamz3333 4 жыл бұрын
Aww I may not know u but I’m most definitely not disappointed in you and your dad shouldn’t be either. Panic attacks means something is going on or wrong, do u need someone to talk to cuz I’m here 🤗🥺
@theletters9623
@theletters9623 11 ай бұрын
"I don't care what school taught you, your feelings don't matter" was the thing that caused an eight year old me to tell my mom to ask my dad to stop telling me he loves me because he clearly doesn't. She later told me that he cried when she told him that and my only thought was "good". Its too damn bad that he never figured out that every time he shouted that with that horrendous nails on a chalkboard voice, over a child crying about things like toys being broken, the thing he implied at the end of that sentence was "only mine do"
@ss9329
@ss9329 4 жыл бұрын
Aww the kid who wish he'd never heard Santa isn't real is adorable 🎅
@jesuislapluie695
@jesuislapluie695 4 жыл бұрын
❤️😊
@Deus_Almighty
@Deus_Almighty 4 жыл бұрын
He said the opposite ;D
@christinam.98
@christinam.98 4 жыл бұрын
Yes he is, and by the way, he is such a real smart kid! Omg, he's a real genius I guess. Hope he's doing well in the future and gets what he wants out of his life.
@ss9329
@ss9329 4 жыл бұрын
@@Deus_Almighty True 🙃
@lavans06
@lavans06 4 жыл бұрын
lmao...kid needs to see the movie Santa Claus [1,2,3] of how he gets to houses without a chimney :) lol
@deborarietveld9171
@deborarietveld9171 4 жыл бұрын
Ask people: what's a song that reminds you of someone you love?
@powertothelocaldreamer3803
@powertothelocaldreamer3803 4 жыл бұрын
Love this one
@michyx2732
@michyx2732 4 жыл бұрын
👏
@andreamadrigaldelaparte2589
@andreamadrigaldelaparte2589 4 жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@seg1102
@seg1102 4 жыл бұрын
Debora Rietveld yes! I always wondered if people have songs for others cause I do for everyone around me.
@shaunavaz3774
@shaunavaz3774 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@LukaKnott
@LukaKnott Жыл бұрын
“I’ll make you pasta the next time you’re here!” last words my gran told me. she died like a month after my visit. i regret not calling her, not messaging her. i miss her so so much. I love you gramma
@purplegirl6132
@purplegirl6132 4 жыл бұрын
"You look like a monster" - my father at 12 year old me for being overweight. Edit: Thanks to everyone that left a kind comment and to those that have experienced something similar: know that you are a beautiful, briliant and unique person that deserves all the love in the world! Love yourself and others and stay safe in these difficult times ❤️
@Techie1224
@Techie1224 4 жыл бұрын
overwieght can be beauty but not from capitals prospective as they need fast work force 😅
@tomatosauce3675
@tomatosauce3675 4 жыл бұрын
@@clumsy1421 i feel sorry.
@noahwuzhere2713
@noahwuzhere2713 4 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE PERFECT AND AMAZING AND I LOVE YOU!
@sunnystevenson9994
@sunnystevenson9994 4 жыл бұрын
@@clumsy1421 Don't listen! They are wrong you are beautiful and we all love you! Have a great rest of your year 2020 or not.
@purplegirl6132
@purplegirl6132 4 жыл бұрын
@@clumsy1421 I know how that feels, but please know that it is NOT true. You are wonderful and you are loved. Keep trying hard for yourself and nobody else. Much love ❤️
@ppgbubbles28
@ppgbubbles28 4 жыл бұрын
"Every time you hug me or touch me, I get the creeps." My mom said this to me. I was battling depression and we were going through extremely tough times that gave me trauma. I felt so empty inside after hearing that as I'm an affectionate person and to hear that I gave her the creeps? My own mom? I have not hugged her since or hug her when she tries to hug me. It really, and still does, hurt.
@randomnameforarandomnerd8400
@randomnameforarandomnerd8400 4 жыл бұрын
I feel that man. That's how my dad is too. I hope it gets better for you and that you'll be able to receive the comfort you need and deserve :)
@dieseluniversityclips
@dieseluniversityclips 4 жыл бұрын
justsinclair hug her when she tries to hug you, you’ll regret not hugging her someday
@mannyheffley8336
@mannyheffley8336 4 жыл бұрын
Im very sorry😞
@itzpurplegirl
@itzpurplegirl 4 жыл бұрын
justsinclair You should tell your mom that it hurt you....
@andrewromitti2038
@andrewromitti2038 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t hide secrets tell her that wasn’t cool and no offense but don’t be a jerk because you not accepting those hugs you might be offended but she might be crying in her room because she thinks you don’t love her. One day when she’s gone you’re going to regret those moments so just make sure to be honest with your feelings
@that0neweeb68
@that0neweeb68 4 жыл бұрын
“i kinda had a bad childhood” *laughs nervously* its so sad because thats the only copising mechanisms we have:/
@chlorophyllheart
@chlorophyllheart 3 жыл бұрын
Well, laughing or crying, so two mechanisms. Humans are odd beings.
@sketchycousin
@sketchycousin 2 жыл бұрын
It's a toss-up between "We failed as parents" and "You're confused because you were s3xually assaulted last year". Both in response to me coming out as a lesbian. I'm proud of who I am and no one can take that away from me.
@lifeless-n8p
@lifeless-n8p 2 жыл бұрын
dont listen to anyone else's opinions about you because the only opinion that matters when it comes to you is yours
@aurora8749
@aurora8749 2 жыл бұрын
It often happens that gay people were sexually abused, so they have a point. Really consider it. And it's okay either eay
@proinseasnihanluain4735
@proinseasnihanluain4735 2 жыл бұрын
I think some of the energy behind how they reacted might have been from surprise. I hope they have accepted this and you can accept that perhaps their reactions weren't ideal but they don't need to be. You're happy as you are and you're proud of who you are. I just want to say I think it's really good that your parents knew you were assaulted last year, that shows you have a good relationship with them to begin with. I'm sorry that happened to you. It means a lot that you felt you could come out to them at all, a lot of people hide their sexuality from so many people, family and friends and more. I hope things have settled and that you can forgive them for blurting out those comments.
@decristal48
@decristal48 2 жыл бұрын
You're proud as you should 💙 Don't deal with anyone's bs and you do you, hope the best for you!
@thechucklingchicken7047
@thechucklingchicken7047 Жыл бұрын
I hope you come to your senses and realize that it’s all fake.
@xoSamLovesYou
@xoSamLovesYou 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I never heard: "the only time I've ever lied to you is when I told you I loved you"
@blackbeltufc439
@blackbeltufc439 4 жыл бұрын
Jeez that's mad
@xoSamLovesYou
@xoSamLovesYou 4 жыл бұрын
@@blackbeltufc439 yup... one of the worst feelings i have ever felt
@xoSamLovesYou
@xoSamLovesYou 4 жыл бұрын
@Blosh3 hmm... I'm still with him. We've been on and off for the past 5 months. I've got that mindset where i love him so much, I'd just let him treat me whatever way he wants...
@xoSamLovesYou
@xoSamLovesYou 4 жыл бұрын
@Blosh3 i guess i should do that
@arcticrebekah8930
@arcticrebekah8930 4 жыл бұрын
Sam x I totally understand that mindset it sucks so bad me and my bf recently broke up and I feel so much better now that I don’t have him dragging me down it’s hard but worth it
@kailafry1178
@kailafry1178 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm so sorry. He's brain dead"- I wish I never had to hear those words about the man I wanted to marry. He passed away a year and a half ago and there is not a single day where I dont think about him. I truly believe he was my soulmate and it breaks my heart that I wont get to spend the rest of my life with him, but I know he's always with me and I will see him again someday ❤ I love you Gaige.
@cheesestickhathreturned6875
@cheesestickhathreturned6875 4 жыл бұрын
Kaila Fry I am so sorry..
@analenaaaaaaa
@analenaaaaaaa 4 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry! I really hope you'll have a wonderful live will meet him again when your time has come... wish you the best
@catvalentine4317
@catvalentine4317 4 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine what you must be going through... I prayed for you and hope that god will give you the support your partner would've given you. Lots of love.
@noemiegonthier3240
@noemiegonthier3240 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry and sending all the best so that your heart can one day heal
@hm-jb7vy
@hm-jb7vy 4 жыл бұрын
That must be the worst thing ever!! Its so sad to hear of stuff like that, but it’s beautiful how strong your love is. You’ve been very strong, i hope your happy and that you will one day reunite
@kris-pt6tu
@kris-pt6tu 4 жыл бұрын
"I wish you were never born" - My very loving father
@anishasulthana2015
@anishasulthana2015 4 жыл бұрын
i'm so sorry! just know there's always people out there who love you so much and care for you! keep strong and safe!
@malikamagdenko2163
@malikamagdenko2163 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I feel ur pain dude... "I wish u were never born, u r such a mistake ugh why didn't ur mother abort u..." -my father...
@syntia1458
@syntia1458 4 жыл бұрын
@@malikamagdenko2163 god loves you
@timidesoul
@timidesoul 4 жыл бұрын
That’s terrible. You deserve so much good in your life. A parent should never have any right to be so cold hearted. Stay strong. x
@BudgetFilms5714
@BudgetFilms5714 4 жыл бұрын
F in the chat plss
@jimhally2349
@jimhally2349 Жыл бұрын
"If you want, I'm willing to apologize and make amends. As long as you are willing to do the same..." A text I received half a year later from my (no longer) best friend of over a decade that sexually assaulted me. This event was the hardest thing I had ever tried to overcome in my life and completely fucked me up mentally even to this day. And to be reminded of what happened so directly by this text message made everything worse. I wish I never received this message showing me that this person was still trying to contact me after the most fucked up thing I have ever experienced. It made me feel like this person has no remorse for what they had done and for whatever reason thought we could be friends again after it happened. It made me view the entire situation in a completely different light, and especially when I was still trying to overcome what had happened. If you have ever experienced something similar to this, please get help. I didn't and I made some very, very bad decisions I will regret for the rest of my life. Trying to battle something like this alone is the worst thing you can put yourself through and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. If anyone read this, I appreciate you taking the time. Enjoy what you can in life, even if you feel like you've hit rock bottom, it can only get better from there.
@masterpys2693
@masterpys2693 4 жыл бұрын
"Don't call me daddy." My dad, to my little brother who was 4-5 years old at the time, while he was on a jealous rage bc my mom saw someone she used to like at my cousin's wedding. My family was trying to calm my dad when my little brother ran up to him saying 'daddy, daddy'. Broke my heart to hear what he said to my brother and his image in me shattered from that day on too.
@ask6037
@ask6037 4 жыл бұрын
Noooooo, that brakes my heart
@KaZeGamingOnYT
@KaZeGamingOnYT 4 жыл бұрын
Dielku The K9 breaks* brakes are for cars lul
@whyyoumadsuckmydick4309
@whyyoumadsuckmydick4309 4 жыл бұрын
@@KaZeGamingOnYT you understand it tho, no one cares. Maybe English isn't his first language, Jesus not everyone just speaks English. So shut the hell up.
@whyyoumadsuckmydick4309
@whyyoumadsuckmydick4309 4 жыл бұрын
@@KaZeGamingOnYT AnD iTs lOl
@KaZeGamingOnYT
@KaZeGamingOnYT 4 жыл бұрын
WHY YOU MAD Suckmydick based off your username and playlist names, i can infer you have an IQ of a rock. English isn’t even my native language, it’s Samoan
@endergirl8820
@endergirl8820 4 жыл бұрын
Mom:”I stayed with your father even after he beaten me, threaten me, cheated on me because I wanted you guys to have a father” This broke my heart because my mother suffered a lot. She could have been with someone that makes her happy and safe. My dad has gotten help from the church 6 years back. He’s better than he was, and I love him. But I will never forget what he has done to my mother. :/
@sasy1533
@sasy1533 4 жыл бұрын
It really messes you up... Because you realice the reason of her suffering is basically... You. My situation scarily similar. My dad is been good for two three years, but the trauma of all that happened doesn't let my mom live her life to the fullest
@xr._cele_.ry22
@xr._cele_.ry22 4 жыл бұрын
Replying to this is like crazy because sadly my father hasn't changed. He stopped physical stuff but the stuff he can say hurts more than any hits. Can't say I love him but I do have hope he will get better before it's too late. My mom got stronger though and started defending herself :) I'm happy for u dear that ur dad changed 💖
@yassqueen3904
@yassqueen3904 4 жыл бұрын
My mom finally broke up with my dad but he is still threatening my my and the people that is involved my mom saying that she is still his legal wife and he could be with my mom until he die He isn't even inlove with her. HE JUST WANTS MY MOM TO HAVE A MISERABLE LIFE
@gracethomas8610
@gracethomas8610 4 жыл бұрын
I love ur mom
@julianarose3060
@julianarose3060 4 жыл бұрын
omg.. i can’t even tell you how much i can relate. my dad cheated on my mom and was abusive as well. if you ever need someone to talk to i am here.
@Drux.i
@Drux.i Жыл бұрын
My husband, who generally is a very kind and amazing man, one time very jokingly told me "You ruin everything". I knew it was a joke, and he felt so badly for hurting me. But for whatever reason that has stuck with me every day since.
@ioeee7563
@ioeee7563 Жыл бұрын
An acquaintance of mine once said: "In every joke, there's a grain of truth." I think, he's quite right about that.
@pessimist6366
@pessimist6366 Жыл бұрын
A well-wisher of mine recently told me that I've become odd 'coz he's gotten the success in the field in which I failed at the last stage. I've become different 'coz of my own insecurities. I guess it's never easy to make people understand your true thoughts.
@siobhanmairii
@siobhanmairii 7 ай бұрын
I’ve had this said to me many times and after so many times, you begin to believe it, even if it’s not true. I’m sorry this happened to you, even if they thought it was a joke 😢
@agostoned9455
@agostoned9455 3 жыл бұрын
I asked my mom what hospice was. Tearfully, she replied, “I’m dying Jules...” She passed away a week later. She passed away from colon cancer when she was 42 in 2014. I was only 14. I miss her everyday.
@bella-rx3yc
@bella-rx3yc 3 жыл бұрын
i’m so so sorry i can’t even begin to imagine how heartbreaking losing someone so close to you must have been
@SS-qd3ow
@SS-qd3ow 3 жыл бұрын
This comment hurts 😞. I’m so sorry , I don’t know the feeling but the short experience you shared brought me to tears...
@crowmedicine3890
@crowmedicine3890 3 жыл бұрын
That's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you have to be without your mom.
@arthurjackson3287
@arthurjackson3287 3 жыл бұрын
May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God, Rest In Peace...
@ballknocka0001
@ballknocka0001 3 жыл бұрын
💔💗💔💗💔💗 that is definitely a heartbreaking moment & you are not alone!
@nakkilama
@nakkilama 4 жыл бұрын
"see you tomorrow at school unless i get sick or die!" -my best friend in third grade well, guess what.. that day she got in a car accident and died on the spot
@magnetosolos4068
@magnetosolos4068 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you lost her
@lereloleloshakirashakira7710
@lereloleloshakirashakira7710 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss
@moonlightlunar44
@moonlightlunar44 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss
@GabeSurtos
@GabeSurtos 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss.
@nakkilama
@nakkilama 4 жыл бұрын
it's been many years, i'm over it :) she was very important to me but i had enough time to grieve and cry. thanks for... supporting me i guess? have a nice day everyone :3
@nookac0la
@nookac0la 3 жыл бұрын
“You’re not depressed stop doing stupid things like that(suicide attempt)” -my grandmother who abused my siblings and i for years.
@antoinetharmal8669
@antoinetharmal8669 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry, I hope you are doing better now, 🙏💕
@KittyCat-dp2lc
@KittyCat-dp2lc 3 жыл бұрын
@@sephie9882 im so sorry for ehat your going through but your incredibly strong and i know i might never come across you again i wish the absolute best future for you, keep tour head up (and sometimes it’s ok to have sad days) ❤️❤️❤️
@-lakshya7288
@-lakshya7288 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@arbor8445
@arbor8445 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, how are you holding up?
@grayeditsthings2137
@grayeditsthings2137 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Kouddii
@Kouddii 11 ай бұрын
When I was 7, my dad was in the hospital and after a few days, my mom brought us all into the room. "His heart stopped beating, and he died." I remember her tone, voice, expression, everything. It felt like the world froze. I just stopped thinking, but the silence was a killer, too. It was painful. I wanted to cry, to sob, to scream, but I didn't. It hurts to know that I can't talk to him ever again, because in the moment it felt unreal. It fills you with regret, y'know?
@tannergatto7633
@tannergatto7633 10 ай бұрын
I felt the exact same when I got the news that my grandfather died. I think was about 14-15 and the details of that day are foggy but the moment my mother told me “he has irreversible brain damage and won’t make it through the night” is burned into my mind. My mom hugged me and it felt like it lasted hours, I ceased having logical thought, my world just shattered. Though I wasn’t quiet it’s exactly as you mentioned every time i would stop to take a breath from crying, the silence was overwhelming it felt like being underwater.
@Kouddii
@Kouddii 10 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I hope you were able to recover mentally from that experience. Thank you for sharing this.@@tannergatto7633
@jamallfigaro
@jamallfigaro 4 жыл бұрын
"Your mom went to the hospital last night." "She didn't make it." If you ever wondered if you could spiritually die...that was it for me.
@kate-gn9eo
@kate-gn9eo 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry, losing someone like that is heartbreaking, just now she’s looking after you in heaven and that she’ll always be with you ❤️
@Abcd-sl1mf
@Abcd-sl1mf 4 жыл бұрын
So sorry man! Genuinely don't know what I'd do if I ever heard this.
@Daniel-uy5uh
@Daniel-uy5uh 4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@morganismism
@morganismism 4 жыл бұрын
My father was in the hospital for years, they gave us too much hope. He was so weak, back and forth to the hospital until he had to practically live there. It hurts man, my own mother telling my dad is gone.
@rb13atgm
@rb13atgm 4 жыл бұрын
my mom was in the hospital for 2 weeks. she had started radiation treatment for cancer the doctors caught early and she got sick with pneumonia. radiation weakened her immune system. we held our breath for 2 weeks praying she would oull through. they put her in a medically indiced coma cause she couldnt breathe on her own. was at the hospitsl the day she died. i had come from out of town to see her. she was already in the coma by the time i made it there. my brother and i left the hospitsl to get dinner. went back to my hotel to get some things and change. was driving back to the hospitsl when i got a call from my brother. i answered the phone to hear time of death is 8.35. she's gone. mom's gone. found out she went into sudden cardiac arrest. its been 10 months. and i ztl haven't foind the will to live again
@boothebeloved
@boothebeloved Жыл бұрын
"people die, it's just a part of life" -Mom. My mom said this to me and I remember after she said that I really put thought into it and realized that I don't even know how I'm going to deal with my mother being gone one day, it terrifies till this day. I don't want to loose my mom, I love her so dearly :(
@irenejang6553
@irenejang6553 4 жыл бұрын
idk why “you’re not college material” hurt me the most
@rcgroundzero
@rcgroundzero 4 жыл бұрын
it’s always insulting to have your intellect (or capacity thereof) undermined, but they’re not the reason you get from point A to B, disregard and proceed to succeed. Corny but somebody will need to see this somewhere 🤷‍♂️ - wisdom of groggy ass premed
@nedas2195
@nedas2195 4 жыл бұрын
That basically means someo e called u stupid in a different way
@Niqquhchris6
@Niqquhchris6 4 жыл бұрын
Nadine's ASMR you go Nadine!
@melissabelleza1
@melissabelleza1 4 жыл бұрын
Dude the sameeee
@kuruneel1809
@kuruneel1809 4 жыл бұрын
not too long ago i thought about changing majors and university/city and i talked to a lot of people. this one friend told me it wasnt something she could imagine me doing which hurt a bit
@sweetestpiano
@sweetestpiano 4 жыл бұрын
this comment section is making me realize how many awful people there are in this world :(
@cleoblackbird2210
@cleoblackbird2210 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr like damn I thought what happened to me was bad
@hopeh6176
@hopeh6176 4 жыл бұрын
But look at all the likes 💖 Stay positive be blessed. Nasty people love to have a platform
@navy-26
@navy-26 4 жыл бұрын
Damn
@gorillatrading5452
@gorillatrading5452 4 жыл бұрын
Stay positive, my friends. A balance must exist between the truly amazing and the truly evil. Be the light you wish to see in the world. Dont let these fuckers bring you down. Fight until the day you die. Struggle and scrape and fight and push. You have people to prove wrong. I know I do.
@nobodysbaby5048
@nobodysbaby5048 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, A really good vignette of the viciousness that's out there.
@sasoriharuno2898
@sasoriharuno2898 Жыл бұрын
Not necessarily these words that I wish I didn't hear, but they are the words that come to the front of my mind when I heard this question. "Will absolutely see you there". Last words sent to me by the very first friend I made when I moved at the age of 4. I had not seen him in person for a long time because of separating social circles, pandemic, etc. This was the last message of a conversation where I said I was so excited to see him at our High School graduation in a month or so... He was found dead a few weeks before graduation due to complications with diabetes he had developed a long time ago. I never thought it would catch up with him. He was a really healthy, athletic, genuine guy, and I am still heartbroken now a year and a half later that I hardly ever spoke with him for so long despite us being great friends for most of our entire lives. It really tore up our small town, showed me how many lives just one person touches. Rest in Peace RIffe, If I make it up there I can't wait to see you again.
@w3irdthings935
@w3irdthings935 Жыл бұрын
Rest in peace
@eldritch-sys
@eldritch-sys 4 жыл бұрын
“You’re choosing to be sad.” “Aw, is it cry-time now, you little baby?” -My parents, despite me suffering from depression
@janabucekova7819
@janabucekova7819 4 жыл бұрын
ᖇᗩᗰEᑎᑕOOᑎ im sorry to hear that, it must be terrible. I hope you’ll feel better soon.
@eldritch-sys
@eldritch-sys 4 жыл бұрын
Kawaii Master Thank you, ill be okay. I only have to spend a couple more years with them lmao
@eldritch-sys
@eldritch-sys 4 жыл бұрын
Richtofen How??? You cant choose to not be depressed????
@federicavalentini5615
@federicavalentini5615 4 жыл бұрын
Don't feed the troll , it's just some idiot searching for attention, you can't be "less depressed" I am clinical depressed too, I know how it is, it's shitty when people don't understand, hold on.
@RanitaFrowilmL
@RanitaFrowilmL 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry this happens to you as well, I can’t talk about my depression with my parents because all they will tell me is that I am choosing to feel this way, which doesn’t make sense at all. I understand that there are ways to feel a little bit better or distract ourselves from depression, but when we try to talk about it with someone all we need is their support.
@floortjeappel3648
@floortjeappel3648 4 жыл бұрын
"ofcourse she is being bullied, look at her" -my second grade teacher
@WeirdYetNiceChaot
@WeirdYetNiceChaot 4 жыл бұрын
Floortje Appel Yikes :( . I’m so sorry. Those teachers who bully children should lose the right to teach. I hope you’re doing okay with it today. Have a lovely weekend
@yousraidir2289
@yousraidir2289 4 жыл бұрын
Doesn't deserve to be a teacher!
@cleomarie5016
@cleomarie5016 4 жыл бұрын
Wow no child should ever have to experience this from an adult or anyone. I’m so sorry.
@katelynstambaugh6706
@katelynstambaugh6706 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes adults are so immature and pretend they’re better than what they are, no one should be on a pedestal.
@valeriegamelin1732
@valeriegamelin1732 4 жыл бұрын
Omg im sorry
@pixieversa
@pixieversa 4 жыл бұрын
“i don’t wanna be friends with her cause she’s too depressed” that hurt because she said it behind my back. edit: i realized i wasn’t very clear sorry the misunderstanding i was pushing my sadness on her or anything. i don’t really talk about my feelings so sadness really affects me physically, like i don’t talk or just stop being happy.. sorry for the misunderstanding:)
@marisadermacho
@marisadermacho 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you feel that way, although I understand where this person might be comming from. Maybe they are just not capable of handling a friend with depression, and they, as sad as it sounds, need to set priorities. If that is the case, they probably feel very guilty for not being able to be there for you. But for them this friendship might be toxic. This is just speculation tho
@user-jm4ll4mr3w
@user-jm4ll4mr3w 4 жыл бұрын
hi, this hasnt happened to me but it feels like that a lot when i have ever tried to talk to my friends about how i feel they just suddenly can’t talk to me or change subject and it feels like they don’t care, so i never opened up to anyone and it sucks. i think your friend said this wrong, what she meant to say is ‘i can’t help her’ but she can see you’re suffering. I think if it’s really hard for you find someone to talk to e.g. a counsellor where someone will listen and help, and then you’ll be able to be your best self with your friends and won’t be overwhelmed by your emotions which might be overflowing onto them
@zamz7350
@zamz7350 4 жыл бұрын
I feel sad for you and I also understand your friend. I love my friends but I feel like they are often depressed. Sometimes I get depressed too but not as much as them. I really want to be there for them and I don't want them to feel like I don't care, because I do care. But sometimes their sadness affects me and makes me feel sad... what I'm trying to say is that maybe your friend talked about your situation with others because she needed advice, It doesn't mean she doesn't love you. I think you should talk about it, maybe you can work it out :) (Sorry for my grammar, English isn't my first language😅)
@lexxy6305
@lexxy6305 4 жыл бұрын
@@zamz7350 lol you have PERFECT english
@zamz7350
@zamz7350 4 жыл бұрын
@@lexxy6305 Thanks😊😁
@Caine_west
@Caine_west Жыл бұрын
My grandpa (who I considered my father) passed away in front of me when I was a kid. In the days after that, whenever I cried about it, my family told me to stop, and called me a crybaby. Eventually I learned to just hide everything.
@kt1pl2
@kt1pl2 8 ай бұрын
Wow...that's absolutely horrible. Let me guess, you're a guy right? I think it's so toxic that men aren't allowed to express their emotions. You should have been comforted, not ridiculed.
@Caine_west
@Caine_west 8 ай бұрын
@@kt1pl2 thank you
@brendabennett4829
@brendabennett4829 4 ай бұрын
So sorry that wasn't right
@thebrothersdim5440
@thebrothersdim5440 2 ай бұрын
It hurts that anyone is treated like their emotions don’t matter. I hope you are doing well in life.
@mollydaniels7098
@mollydaniels7098 4 жыл бұрын
“How can that still affect you?” 7 years after I was sexual assaulted when I was 9
@dhikradouifi6533
@dhikradouifi6533 4 жыл бұрын
omg stay strong
@devonquin
@devonquin 4 жыл бұрын
I still got that - from the people who refused to help me - 20 years later. Because *they* "couldn't do it." They never cared, except for how it affected them. I guess it should be sad that "they" were my parents, but I guess that it's not so uncommon anymore.
@yoongisbicep
@yoongisbicep 4 жыл бұрын
someone said to me "that's what couples do, what were you expecting?" because I just started dating the man who assaulted me.
@axserwz5022
@axserwz5022 4 жыл бұрын
That's so sad, I'm sorry you had to hear that, there's no age that you should stop being affected by that at, but I do hope that you get over this and are able to move on and grow🤗
@eddietasker9110
@eddietasker9110 4 жыл бұрын
I know that feeling my friend, someone even told me I was lying. People can be such arse holes at times.
@pixeypiez
@pixeypiez 4 жыл бұрын
on my way to the hospital after a suicide attempt my “mother” said , “we aren’t taking you because we care, we’re taking you because we have to” i’ll never forget that
@MikaMoonlight
@MikaMoonlight 4 жыл бұрын
That's the most horrible thing ever >:( Hope you get to live with people who truly values you, soon. Stay strong!
@kitkat70453
@kitkat70453 4 жыл бұрын
i can’t imagine how hard that must have hit you i am so sorry
@leoneabbacchio2098
@leoneabbacchio2098 4 жыл бұрын
Gis your address bro I just wanna talk with her 😤 that's not okay
@elmariajin3369
@elmariajin3369 4 жыл бұрын
That's messed up, I know I'm just a random person on the internet but I want you to know that theres people who do care, I care. Please please please stay strong, i know that wont mean much coming from a stranger but I honestly wish you the best and dont want anything bad to happen to you, she doesn't deserve you
@Mike-mm8gg
@Mike-mm8gg 4 жыл бұрын
Where is your "mother" right now? I wanna talk
@Mia-xx4tm
@Mia-xx4tm 4 жыл бұрын
"You're useless, a disappointment. You're never going to find someone who truly loves you, any boyfriend you'll have is gonna cheat on you anyway" - Mom and Dad ❤️
@Mia-xx4tm
@Mia-xx4tm 4 жыл бұрын
@nirujah s Thank you so much... I hope so, at least I'm really trying!
@caseyvallis
@caseyvallis 4 жыл бұрын
I can in fact, relate to this one 💔😭
@paige7761
@paige7761 4 жыл бұрын
dont worry baby, things will get better
@freehuggos7766
@freehuggos7766 4 жыл бұрын
you'll find someone as amazing as you for sure
@crybaby684
@crybaby684 4 жыл бұрын
stay strong
@margotveldschoen5316
@margotveldschoen5316 Жыл бұрын
“ Did you know that dad never loved you “ - i don’t think any child needs to hear this at the age of 9 or any age for a matter of fact
@angelsalazar3893
@angelsalazar3893 7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you heard that. Hope all is well in your world. One love.
@kyracourtemanche1250
@kyracourtemanche1250 4 жыл бұрын
“He commited suicide a year ago” My online best friend who I would text everyday and one day he stopped responding but I would still text him everyday because I didn’t want to give up on him and a year passed then his mother finally noticed me texting him everyday and she told me this
@lionking0110
@lionking0110 4 жыл бұрын
That’s so sad 😞
@bananarama9174
@bananarama9174 4 жыл бұрын
Why tf do u have an online bestfriend
@kaylize.2470
@kaylize.2470 4 жыл бұрын
bananarama bro people have online best friends you dumb???
@makaylanovak1415
@makaylanovak1415 4 жыл бұрын
@@bananarama9174 what the hell is wrong with you dude.. sometimes people meet someone online that they connect with, theyre telling us about how his BEST FRIEND killed himself and thats what you have to say? dissapointing..
@whispers9245
@whispers9245 4 жыл бұрын
@@bananarama9174 Because if they're true friends, they're always there when people around you desert you.
@rubygutierrez6563
@rubygutierrez6563 4 жыл бұрын
“It’s a shame she became pregnant! She was so smart, she ruined her life!” A high school teacher who had recently found out I was expecting. I had my baby, and went on to receiving a Master’s degree, and am currently attending law school; no life ruined here 😊
@hendreackermann9389
@hendreackermann9389 4 жыл бұрын
Wow that is amazing. Good for you not letting others stop you from achieving your dream 👏
@lynaehall9726
@lynaehall9726 4 жыл бұрын
I had similar experiences. But my life wasn't ruined when I had my baby, it was saved.
@mycheeving1733
@mycheeving1733 4 жыл бұрын
@Kayla Montez-Gonzaloshe lost it though.
@annsophie801
@annsophie801 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I wish you the best, this is inspiring👏
@oh7507
@oh7507 4 жыл бұрын
good for you! hope all is well :)
@aychess4265
@aychess4265 4 жыл бұрын
"You are the reason why I'm drinking." - My alcoholic dad after I confronted him on being drunk at 10 am. He told me it was my fault because I had been diagnosed with depression and anxiety disorder. He said he couldn't deal with an insane person. He said he never wanted a daughter like me. He had been drinking since I was 13. I was diagnosed with 16. Im 20 now and I still break down when I think about it.
@emilyirvine7431
@emilyirvine7431 4 жыл бұрын
I really hope you are okay, and I know it might feel like a lot but don't just carry the universe on your shoulders turn it into wings and use them to soar :) I hope this helped.
@susiem.2068
@susiem.2068 4 жыл бұрын
I don't want to sound disrespectful but he's got nerves talking about insanity when he's confronted by a 16 y.o. who's been diagnosed and strong enough to seek help and council and keep going at life while he's drunk at 10 in the morning. You're not the reason for his misery bad choices happen but these choices are made. You're not responsible. You're a strong, worthy individual and you're a fighter. keep going you're going to make it.
@NIV3913
@NIV3913 4 жыл бұрын
Stay strong ☺️💪🏻❤️
@Rossoinred
@Rossoinred 4 жыл бұрын
I hope things got better! I wish you luck!
@sygshszhshsh9091
@sygshszhshsh9091 4 жыл бұрын
Lol imagine being depressed and ur dad drinking such gay people
@Properfv
@Properfv Жыл бұрын
Anyone who sees this comment I am sorry for whatever you have seen or heard. I hope you get back from whatever you are going through. Do not care about other people's opinions of you. When you do not care what other people care about life is easier. Life is hard it is an undeniable fact. I hope you are all doing well. Good luck And God bless
@choerrim7745
@choerrim7745 4 жыл бұрын
Something I wish I had never heard was when my friend told my I had won the lottery. One day I was going to visit my mom at the hospital because I regularly visited her, as she had lung cancer. I played the lottery very often because you never know whether or not you'd win it, so I gave it a shot. I only played the Rolling Cash 5 because I knew I'd never win the powerball. That day when the numbers were announced I had found out I won $160,000. I delayed my visit to my mom to cash in my winnings, not expecting or knowing the news that would appear later. As I was driving to the hospital, they called me telling me her pulse had completely stopped. My mom is worth way more than $160,000.
@jessicadanielle4872
@jessicadanielle4872 4 жыл бұрын
사나 I’m so sorry honey 💕💕💕 don’t worry you didn’t know. You can’t predict what will happen
@ouo7398
@ouo7398 4 жыл бұрын
ですねな? 府にはならない?❤️ Guys don’t like my comment I spammed random letters😂 y’all think it’s a deep comment, look てえへえ
@aliszbuyaki3369
@aliszbuyaki3369 4 жыл бұрын
사나 awww noooo
@car_go_vroom_vroom8602
@car_go_vroom_vroom8602 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry, dude.
@seabiscuit7116
@seabiscuit7116 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that must have been so tough 🙏😔❤️
@naomithomson147
@naomithomson147 4 жыл бұрын
"I wish u weren't born" - my grandma after I accidentally put the dish in the wrong place. Shit still affects me.
@JimBobBella
@JimBobBella 4 жыл бұрын
Naomi Thomson that’s really harsh I’m so sorry
@jakethedog1483
@jakethedog1483 4 жыл бұрын
The hell is wrong with your grandma? Also l'm sorry for you man
@hyesterettsjustituariuskvn431
@hyesterettsjustituariuskvn431 4 жыл бұрын
This must be a joke man #grandmaoftheyear
@trippy5519
@trippy5519 4 жыл бұрын
BTS cancer
@cd1471
@cd1471 4 жыл бұрын
@@trippy5519 BTS?
@joodyuniverse2322
@joodyuniverse2322 4 жыл бұрын
“Your dad doesn’t want us any more he has another family “ I was 9 y.o
@aleezanazeer1702
@aleezanazeer1702 4 жыл бұрын
i feel really bad for you, stay strong and positive..... love you😊💖
@joodyuniverse2322
@joodyuniverse2322 4 жыл бұрын
Aleeza Nazeer u don’t need 2 I’m living a wonderful life know Thanks 4 ur caring💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@aleezanazeer1702
@aleezanazeer1702 4 жыл бұрын
@@joodyuniverse2322 your welcome😊💕
@Brydant1
@Brydant1 3 жыл бұрын
My mom used to say things similar to this im glad youre doing better now
@joodyuniverse2322
@joodyuniverse2322 3 жыл бұрын
@@Brydant1 omg I really wish u live a wonderful long life Lots of love A stranger
@natileroxs5226
@natileroxs5226 10 ай бұрын
I think one thing I wish I'd never heard was someone I thought was becoming my friend say that I was 'weird' in a casual, off-handed way (and not in a positive way). It really crushed me and my confidence was shot for years after, making it practically impossible to make friends at university because of that thought sticking in my head that everyone was thinking that.
@brrdboy
@brrdboy 4 жыл бұрын
"Your brother is in the hospital, he attempted suicide." Literally the worst words I heard as a 11 years old boy, knowing that I was apart of his attempted suicide.
@florisvanoverdam2083
@florisvanoverdam2083 4 жыл бұрын
I know how thats feels and that is the most heartbreaking feeling stay strong❤❤
@lecapo368
@lecapo368 4 жыл бұрын
zoe eoz good idea help a brotha out 💯
@vara0005
@vara0005 4 жыл бұрын
"we're not friends anymore ,bye" - my best friend who promised me that she won't leave me Edit: guys I’m okay now 😂 I’m fine without my “best friend” I’m living my life to the fullest ✌️
@Youngrasshopper_
@Youngrasshopper_ 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sad I know yeah
@ymir9418
@ymir9418 4 жыл бұрын
I lost my Bff too she replaced me
@x.dreamy.xx.edits.x1031
@x.dreamy.xx.edits.x1031 4 жыл бұрын
Elvira 1810 - I F E L T T H A T🥺
@bluesky-xi9zv
@bluesky-xi9zv 4 жыл бұрын
I really wish that's the worse thing you'll hear in your life
@jennymcpyg4359
@jennymcpyg4359 4 жыл бұрын
you know people will come into your life but eventually will leave you but the best one will stay no matter what.
@aurorab8202
@aurorab8202 4 жыл бұрын
“Nobody wants you, your dad didn’t want you your grandparents didn’t want you, I don’t want you” thanks mom such sweet words I don’t deserve such praise 😌
@aurorab8202
@aurorab8202 4 жыл бұрын
Oof I should mention don’t feel bad for me, I’ve made my peace with everything, forgiveness is key❤️
@thegamingkids_234
@thegamingkids_234 4 жыл бұрын
Whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here and you can pray to God, please never lose faith or feel like your alone, feel free to reach out to me!
@mohammadsarker648
@mohammadsarker648 3 жыл бұрын
I hope your doing better!💝
@mohammadsarker648
@mohammadsarker648 3 жыл бұрын
@Nicolas CHAPARRO I hope your feeling better!!! Sending a virtual hug!
@mikestyles83
@mikestyles83 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that so much and I emphasize. Im sorry you had to experience that, but just keep onwards and upwards even if it is to show them wrong. Much Loves
@Lily.-
@Lily.- Жыл бұрын
Last week I overheard my mom tell her best friend that if she didn’t have kids she would’ve killed herself by now, and she told my dad that she wanted to commit suicide but couldn’t because she knew we needed her. It absolutely broke my heart.
@TristanLeeCurtis
@TristanLeeCurtis 4 жыл бұрын
“I’m sorry,Alexis is dead” Alexis was my best friend of 10 years and died at the age of 17
@dinamirm.9290
@dinamirm.9290 4 жыл бұрын
You know, im going to give my kids the news like: they're free now
@camitbhh7476
@camitbhh7476 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss🥺🥺🥺
@TristanLeeCurtis
@TristanLeeCurtis 3 жыл бұрын
@@dinamirm.9290 that’s way better. Hearing it like that hurt. I would have preferred it to be “she’s free now” or “she’s in a better place”
@bandgeek7922
@bandgeek7922 3 жыл бұрын
My names alexis. Seeing this comment made me cry. Ive been battling depression for two years now.
@shfhjdhdudyevrv
@shfhjdhdudyevrv 3 жыл бұрын
@@bandgeek7922 hi beautiful! So I can’t help your depression, I understand it’s more than an average person can do. But I can distract you! What’s your favorite color? How was your day? Do you have any hobbies? I hope you respond!
@musicenjoyer11
@musicenjoyer11 4 жыл бұрын
The lady with lung cancer is amazing! She is very beautiful and deserves the world! 🥺💗
@nikkistahr7105
@nikkistahr7105 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, so beautiful so full of life
@shortszoo
@shortszoo 4 жыл бұрын
stage 2 cancers are not as deadly as they sound.
@mompounder4797
@mompounder4797 4 жыл бұрын
@@shortszoo they still really suck Though. beating cancer is a huge thing, ya know?
@isabelmexin8701
@isabelmexin8701 4 жыл бұрын
@@shortszoo It still is a very scary thing and it can totally change your lifr
@tahliaborck
@tahliaborck 4 жыл бұрын
She might be laughing through the pain
@dwilson2548
@dwilson2548 2 жыл бұрын
Another easy one... The horribly disgusting sound that came out of my mother's mouth when I had to tell her over the phone that my brother her baby son had just passed away. Thank you very much for asking and listening.
@leenartatez632
@leenartatez632 4 жыл бұрын
"She's like Sleeping Beauty, but there's no one who would ever kiss her." -my friend who've i've known for 6 years It just hit me. I never really thought of myself as an ugly person but that made me feel like the ugliest person on earth. It still sticks to me. It really hurts to this day.
@tommie751
@tommie751 4 жыл бұрын
buddy boy chum it’s alright bec everybody has different preferences and your friend is fake for saying that and I believe that you should black list that person
@gamingwithbayan.k7492
@gamingwithbayan.k7492 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes these types of people get jealous and talk shit like this this doesn’t mean that you are ugly, I believe everyone is beautiful in his or her own way
@namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404
@namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404 4 жыл бұрын
buddy boy chum they’re not a real friend
@okcx3682
@okcx3682 4 жыл бұрын
A real friend would tell you their perspective but in that way is wrong you should cut them off
@valentinofontaine2444
@valentinofontaine2444 4 жыл бұрын
@@okcx3682 pretty much a friend wouldnt give you fake hopes of ''you are attractive'' but would tell you the truth about your uglyness in a more nice way
@oldacc2584
@oldacc2584 4 жыл бұрын
"mental illness is the work of the devil and you should just pray" - mom
@trucywrightirl
@trucywrightirl 4 жыл бұрын
That is messed up-
@cringeman4199
@cringeman4199 4 жыл бұрын
@@trucywrightirl how is that messed up? Its true
@cringeman4199
@cringeman4199 4 жыл бұрын
Yup
@trucywrightirl
@trucywrightirl 4 жыл бұрын
@@cringeman4199 Wdym it's true- ಠ_ಠ
@jessebrickley1395
@jessebrickley1395 4 жыл бұрын
Broken Infinities the devil wants you to feel depressed to feel as if you got no worth so you can slip away from God. It’s so important to pray just before you sleep and when you wake up. One takes a moment of your time. Stay safe and God bless
@sophievanmarwijk7521
@sophievanmarwijk7521 4 жыл бұрын
For everyone out here: - it's never your fault you are molested - your mental health problems are not attention seeking - no one has the right to say when you should be over something - there Will always be people who Will love you - mental abuse is abuse - being of any race, gender or sexuality doesn't change how you are allowed to act and what you are allowed to think And everyone telling you different doesn't deserve your love. Just be kind people, it isn't that hard.
@calemmontiel338
@calemmontiel338 4 жыл бұрын
This is so important
@scoobydoo_forever
@scoobydoo_forever 4 жыл бұрын
This made me cry
@GoddessYolan
@GoddessYolan 4 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@AnkaMara7940
@AnkaMara7940 4 жыл бұрын
True
@abigail6297
@abigail6297 4 жыл бұрын
What's molest
@karien3431
@karien3431 2 жыл бұрын
Three things I wish I never heard - about ten years ago my mom told me that when I was born my dad didn't want me, he told my mom to take me and leave, at first I thought it was taken out of context, but so many things were starting to make sense. My older brother was always favored by both of my parents. In 2009 my dad told me and my brother that my brother was going to be the only one to inherit from him. He passed away last year, he kept true to his word that I wouldn't inherit. But I think the worst thing for me was that about 3 years ago he told me that he didn't need me in his life and so we didn't speak until a month before he passed. I still have no answers as to why he felt this way about me.
@proinseasnihanluain4735
@proinseasnihanluain4735 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you went through that. I wonder did he question if he was your biological father?
@Willy_Warmer
@Willy_Warmer 11 ай бұрын
@@proinseasnihanluain4735 that's probably the most likely answer tbh
@bombay3201
@bombay3201 10 ай бұрын
Omg I'm so sorry you went through that I know the pain of rejection
@perky-t5941
@perky-t5941 4 жыл бұрын
“You’re Gorgeous.” I don’t want to go into detail, but I was assaulted. The assailant kept using compliments as an excuse as to why they were doing all of this to me. To this day, I cannot stand being called gorgeous or beautiful, because I feel gross and dirty.
@luna_888
@luna_888 4 жыл бұрын
Perky -T What disgusting human beings they are. I empathize with you so much. The same thing happened to me not too long ago and it affects us so much more than anyone can imagine. Don’t think for a moment it’s your fault because you’re “gorgeous”, etc. We will get through this. I’m so sorry.
@Prodshmura
@Prodshmura 4 жыл бұрын
Thats horrible to hear
@Mp3tjuh
@Mp3tjuh 4 жыл бұрын
Thats horrible. :( Those words are supposed to be a compliment, I feel for you.
@Prodshmura
@Prodshmura 4 жыл бұрын
@@Mp3tjuh wish for the best for her honestly my stomache dropped after reading this
@claweerj1278
@claweerj1278 4 жыл бұрын
Perky -I can relate to you so badly. To me happend something similar and i‘m now paralised or start to get a panic attack when somone makes compliments about my looking because this person complimented me all the time. It haunts me. But it‘s not YOUR FAULT !! Just keep that in your mind.
@shannonoconnor9832
@shannonoconnor9832 4 жыл бұрын
“Don’t message me that your having “suicidal “thoughts because if you do go I’ll get arrested for not doing anything about it”- my ex best friend
@mintbutterfly10
@mintbutterfly10 4 жыл бұрын
That's so horrible. I don't even know.... That's a twisted up horrible cruel thing for a "friend" to say. I'm so sorry. Good on you for reaching out. You are worth time and effort 💓
@shannonoconnor9832
@shannonoconnor9832 4 жыл бұрын
ljwilliams10 thank you so much ❤️ I’m glad I made it out
@Techie1224
@Techie1224 4 жыл бұрын
@@shannonoconnor9832 you can massage me as you like , and hope you have a nice life ❤️
@imanevilpotatoe7546
@imanevilpotatoe7546 4 жыл бұрын
What a douch
@shannonoconnor9832
@shannonoconnor9832 4 жыл бұрын
MUHAMMED KH thank you so much , I’m ok now though 💗
@hermionerivers4302
@hermionerivers4302 4 жыл бұрын
“girls make this stuff up all the time, you were wearing a short skirt, how are you different to any other attention seeking teen” a police officer the night i was raped, i was 14 on the way home from school wearing a netball dress
@light3272
@light3272 4 жыл бұрын
what? how can a police officer say that kind of thing to a victim???? I feel bad for you, hope you are doing ok now :(
@ayobamifayoyin
@ayobamifayoyin 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through that and worse, hear that comment. I really hope you're doing good
@maverickjames6119
@maverickjames6119 4 жыл бұрын
im so sorry for you and any other victims who've gone through this. stay strong
@somebodyoncetoldmetheworld5873
@somebodyoncetoldmetheworld5873 4 жыл бұрын
I'll told my guy Jesus. He said his daddy said he's going to hell.
@magnetosolos4068
@magnetosolos4068 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. It isn't your fault. It's only theirs and I hope they are in jail forever now
@pokelolmc6826
@pokelolmc6826 Жыл бұрын
"KEEP YOUR OPINION TO YOURSELF!" -my mum when I was seven and lost control of my anger in an argument with my brother's friend during the drive to school; as an autistic kid, I was always confused by vocal delivery/tone of voice and controlling my emotions when speaking was really difficult. Hearing mum getting angry at me repeatedly for honestly speaking my mind just made me fear I should never speak up/have my own opinion at all or people would always scare/hurt/threaten me for being disrespectful. "Respect is earned, not given" is another one, especially since she used it after she responded to my disrespect by yelling/hurting me back. It made me worry I never deserved to be treated nicely or with basic decency- because all I could understand was that I didn't already deserve respect and love, and never would if I couldn't somehow figure out what this weird dubious concept of "respect" actually meant. All it seemed to mean was completely silent obedience to authority and a whole lot of self-minimising people pleasing. To this day, I still struggle with overwhelming confusion about what/how I really deserve to be treated by others, and I always worry it'll never be good.
@stephanieandriamanantena2383
@stephanieandriamanantena2383 Жыл бұрын
Hi! I just really wanted to answer this. It is really important that you know that none of what she said is true. If you have to cling to one thing, cling to this: you are entitled to as much space in this world as the next person. No one can tell you the space your are taking up is an incumbrance. You don't owe it to anyone to put their comfort first. Speak your mind. Laugh out loud if you think something is funny. Tell the people when they are being inconsiderate towards you. Your feelings matter, just as much as anyone's. You know, there are no absolute truths. No one dictates the rules. We're just all on the same footing. And you are entitled to as much space as anyone else.
@pria7538
@pria7538 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like she was genuinely trying to raise you and teach boundaries. You stated yourself that you were yelling at her when she made the statement about respect. Not sure what happens in your head but maybe some self evaluation is needed.
@Ninsidhe
@Ninsidhe 7 ай бұрын
@@pria7538 it really sounds like you have no idea of actual healthy parenting. Maybe don’t comment on the experience of Autistics if you don’t comprehend what being Autistic is like. Hitting someone for hitting someone is not teaching that hitting is wrong, it’s just teaching _who_ gets to hit others. Same with yelling, saying terrible things etc- parents demanding that children behave better than THEY do is hypocrisy of the first order.
@pria7538
@pria7538 7 ай бұрын
@@Ninsidhe Umm, my best friends son was diagnosed with autism and retardation and my brother-in-law is also handicapped. Maybe YOU shouldn't speak to things YOU don't know. With that said, that old adage of "hitting or yelling only teaches the behavior" is an opinion, a theory at best. Kids start hitting as soon as they can swing their arms, without provocation. And having been on the planet for quite some time, I've seen PLENTY of kids who were NEVER spanked and will curse and hit the hell out of their parents. Some will even kill them. So miss with that nonsense. Please accept you have a theory and I likely have greater experience. Especially have raised three of my own. OR NOT. I couldn't care less. His mother was right and hopefully one day he sees it. If not, he might end on the street and hopefully you're there to provide him shelter.
@kevinnguyen4300
@kevinnguyen4300 4 жыл бұрын
“You act a certain way that makes everyone hate you”
@Ia-dg1bg
@Ia-dg1bg 4 жыл бұрын
Bro I can actually relate alot holy
@viktorijapuc5637
@viktorijapuc5637 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel that way about myself...people don't say it but they act like they're thinking it. You know what, you have your own energy if people don't like it you can always find someone who will and if all else fails that person could be yourself.
@marienovak7270
@marienovak7270 4 жыл бұрын
I mean is it because people think you’re weird or because you’re an asshole to others?
@enbi5440
@enbi5440 4 жыл бұрын
@@marienovak7270 it's a fact that people can randomly dislike others without any reason
@brink2961
@brink2961 4 жыл бұрын
“Your sister shot herself.” Rest In Peace Erin. Edit: thanks so much for the support! It means a lot. ❤️
@taylorlee5652
@taylorlee5652 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss Rest in Peace 🙏
@LukeWri
@LukeWri 4 жыл бұрын
WHAT? why would she shoot herself ): I'm so sorry... no one deserves a short life, no matter how much people say it.
@iwatchytwhenimbored1636
@iwatchytwhenimbored1636 4 жыл бұрын
if you need to talk to somebody i’m here
@jenniferi.4385
@jenniferi.4385 4 жыл бұрын
Damn. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
@Mosss101
@Mosss101 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry. my mom had similar expirience . Her sister drugged herself.
@m.s.6298
@m.s.6298 4 жыл бұрын
"No one in this family loves you. Remember that." My mom told me in an argument. She probably doesn't recall saying this anymore but this is something you take to your grave and sometimes, I can't help but hate her for subjecting me to such pain. 🙃
@thevipblink8571
@thevipblink8571 4 жыл бұрын
Not every adults are made to be parents, here's the proof. No parent should tell this kind of things to its child. You're revelant💪
@norctic
@norctic 4 жыл бұрын
Ah I’m so sorry. Please remember that you’re worth it. Don’t let your mother’s words take too much of an effect on you.. Stay strong
@jclinton4473
@jclinton4473 4 жыл бұрын
you are worth it my friend. its their fault they dont see it better yourself always ps it hurts them to see you doing well
@KitKat-nf5ev
@KitKat-nf5ev 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you had to go through that. I’m sure it’s not true! Sometimes people make very rash decisions in the heat of the moment that they don’t really mean. I wish I could have a chat with your mom.
@chxxn_856
@chxxn_856 4 жыл бұрын
M.S. The attacker never remembers, it’s the victim that remembers
@serpentinewoods7952
@serpentinewoods7952 4 жыл бұрын
“First god takes my Tati, then he makes my Nani gay.” My dad comparing my older sister dying to me coming out as gay. I haven’t been able to truly open up to him since and it still hurts me after all these years.
@pilarhunter3154
@pilarhunter3154 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. I hope you find someone who supports you regardless your sexuality.
@october2842
@october2842 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Nataly, if you have a computer with Minecraft, there's a server that would love to have you! Everyone's so accepting there. The server is called QueerCraft, and you can join at mc.queercraft.net (that's the server IP)
@ornella539
@ornella539 4 жыл бұрын
Forgive that person, because God called us to walk in love, to love Him above all else and to respect our parents. Call out to God and seek Him truly in prayer, and He will reveal to you Jesus Christ is the way, the Truth and the life. He changed my life completely and healed me from depression, insecurity, bitterness, unforgiveness and so many things. He can completely change your life and free you, heal you from all of your pain and scars and give you a joy, peace and hope in following Jesus Christ, repenting of all your sins and being born again in Him, that no and nothing else can. I strongly suggest you watch Derek Prince’s ‘how to be delivered (from evil spirits/demons) (1995)’, it will change your life if you truly watch it and pray with Him, and on KZbin you can watch many testimonies of ex homosexuals, who were lead out of that community and lifestyle, some are not Christian but most of them testify their change by God’s free gift of salvation through Jesus Christ, and I know some people with that story also. God loves you so much He sent His only Son Jesus Christ to die on the cross for your sins and the sins of the world, not to condemn the world but to save it: “God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life” John 3:16. May God bless you, heal you from all pain and lead you to salvation
@anikakinakudaka3097
@anikakinakudaka3097 4 жыл бұрын
Ornella Or, Nani can find another support system whose intentions aren’t to “convert” her to homosexuality. A support system that will accept her for who she is and her sexuality...
@seancraig8815
@seancraig8815 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@scia3107
@scia3107 4 жыл бұрын
"We found his body in the water." Rest in peace dad.
@user-ny4uo2kr9l
@user-ny4uo2kr9l 4 жыл бұрын
ecks dee
@anagonzalez-mm4sz
@anagonzalez-mm4sz 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh im so sorry for your loss may he rest in peace
@aliclarke1917
@aliclarke1917 4 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace
@user-xb9ef3lw5n
@user-xb9ef3lw5n 4 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss
@melaniesk12bish30
@melaniesk12bish30 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss, I truly hope you and your family are ok, I’ll be praying for you.
@cybrmarky
@cybrmarky 4 жыл бұрын
Ask people: “What is your biggest regret in life?” “Is there someone you wish you could forget?” “What motivates you?”
@chicka9427
@chicka9427 4 жыл бұрын
My answer to the first one is being born. :)
@miguelbengochea4247
@miguelbengochea4247 4 жыл бұрын
Mark Serrano not tapping to my fullest potential 2 my sex lover for six months I wish I never met him 3 my motivation is seeing a better future where humans can just live with out the bullshit
@mnb4414
@mnb4414 4 жыл бұрын
Mark Serrano Jesus I have so many
@GoldenSpiderMonkey2480
@GoldenSpiderMonkey2480 3 жыл бұрын
These are all fantastic questions!
@dae.9510
@dae.9510 3 жыл бұрын
1. Being born. 2. My family right after I move out. 3. My goal of transitioning into a male and living a successful and happy life without abusive parents.
@michellemuonio6861
@michellemuonio6861 Жыл бұрын
I asked my husband.. "what will we do if we can never have kids?" And he said, "I guess just live life without meaning." It broke my heart.
@agnieszkabroniarek8271
@agnieszkabroniarek8271 Жыл бұрын
Your life will always has a meaning.
@kt1pl2
@kt1pl2 8 ай бұрын
Our son recently left the nest and I was thinking about this. If you can't have kids they have Big Brother/Big Sisters. Maybe he could mentor a kid that really needs him.
@kellydoll9335
@kellydoll9335 4 жыл бұрын
“She’s not gonna make it” You don’t expect to lose your baby niece. I wish I could re-live that day just to hold her again.
@lanadelreylvr92893
@lanadelreylvr92893 4 жыл бұрын
The same thing happened with my cousin, she had a baby with her now ex boyfriend and she didn't make it. That was 4 years ago.
@bengeller3683
@bengeller3683 4 жыл бұрын
1. “Look who we have. The fat gay one.” After no one chose me for their team in PE and then I was placed on a random team. The team captain said this to the teacher and pointed at me. 2. “You probably listen to Taylor Swift. I can’t wait until a few years from now when you come out as gay.” A bully in my Spanish class who thought it would be funny to say this in front of everyone I looked up to. This was after I said that I liked pop music in Spanish. 3. “Can’t you just suck it in already?” From my dad after taking a shower. This phrase ultimately traumatized me and sent me into a bottomless pit of anger towards my dad. 4. “Your unibrow is looking thicker than ever.” This was the breaking point for me and caused my long-lasting and ongoing trichotillomania. 5. “He’ll never be good enough to do singing as a career.” My dad to my mom when they didn’t think I was listening. However, hearing this only inspired me more to pursue my passion for singing to prove him wrong. That’s it...
@kalebmiller9579
@kalebmiller9579 4 жыл бұрын
all of those other ones are bad, but what upsets you about someone pointing out a unibrow? If you are that put off by it that someone mentioning it is offensive and causes your "breaking point" then you can just trim it off and maintain your eyebrows
@froggdoggs8551
@froggdoggs8551 4 жыл бұрын
Kaleb Miller it may not be that big of a deal to you but just because you don’t think it’s bad doesn’t mean it lessens the pain for someone else
@Asami_sa
@Asami_sa 4 жыл бұрын
@@kalebmiller9579 i hope this doesn't come out as rude cus its really not meant to be, do you know what trichotillomania is??
@kalebmiller9579
@kalebmiller9579 4 жыл бұрын
@@Asami_sa I dont, I assumed it was some sort of result of all of this trauma, and that it might have been something yo do with anger? But I'm not 100%
@Asami_sa
@Asami_sa 4 жыл бұрын
@@kalebmiller9579 ah ok i understand, its a hair pulling disorder, that worsens during periods of anxiety. So im guessing because of this comment that this person kade it kind of triggered and began the whole disorder.
@ayabe_ayabe
@ayabe_ayabe 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm going to tell whoever I want about your depression stuff, I won't keep it a secret just because you want me to." My mom said to me last year while I cried that I don't want her going about telling everyone about my darkest thoughts and feelings and starting rumours. 23 years of trust instantly broken, I have not told her anything regarding my mental health ever since and it hurts that I can't trust my mom with anything anymore.
@aleme1306
@aleme1306 4 жыл бұрын
oh I'm really sorry to hear that😔 stay strong, you can do it. You are an amazing person. What your mother did was terrible but I hope you feel better soon💗💗sending you love and support
@dravidianalchemist
@dravidianalchemist 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry, you can message me on insta @hell0kittyslut._ if u need to talk (yes Ik I have an interesting name 😂)
@shanellhixenbaugh55
@shanellhixenbaugh55 4 жыл бұрын
i am so sorry that this has happened to you. truly. i know what depression and anxiety feels like. and it can become even worse when someone tells it. i am glad you don’t tell her anything anymore, that is the healthier thing to do. i hope you are doing better now. i wish you well.
@bibsbeezASMR
@bibsbeezASMR 4 жыл бұрын
Please write it down nobody will see that but you, you won’t have to worry about nobody talking about it. it will be your own lil secret. Stay strong and know that it’s just how this world works and that there’s ppl out there who’s life is wayyy worst then ours. I also can’t trust my mom😅 or any family member.
@justhairr
@justhairr 4 жыл бұрын
@@bibsbeezASMR noo honey, depression isn't something you should keep to yourself
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