Embalming Room Tour by a funeral director

[@jamesploof3795]

This woman, honestly a goddess, truly loves her job and is good at it, please, please give her the credit she deserves, she deals with our worst nightmares, thank you!

[@KaritheMortician]

Wow thank you!

[@stevetaylor5046]

She really is!

[@ildikoparker920]

I still want to see how it's done I'm not squeamish at all I have seen some horrific things in my time.

[@yolandamatthews5431]

@@ildikoparker920 yes they should

[@WhatALoadOfTosca]

@@ildikoparker920 It is illegal I believe to film it or for non qualified people to be present during the process, so you won't see it filmed.

[@christian-uh8vh]

I use to be an embalmer in the Philippines for good 5 years, but I quit because I can't handle children, breaks my heart. I left the job and moved abroad here in Australia. Now I'm a chef. I tell you this job is not for every one it takes a very special person to do this kind of thing. Much respect to you mam!

[@carolynpatterson1680]

Me too. Cremation is way to go. Donation then cremation. God Bless those that have to prepare f ok r eithee

[@joycehutchison1683]

Does every body need to be embalmed

[@clammykadaver1971]

@@joycehutchison1683 no, only if there is a public viewing or deceased is being shipped out.

[@maltesegirl58]

I am glad that I am getting cremated. Just burn my body and have a Mass and then put me in my mausoleum.

[@rogercoder1469]

Great video

[@cajnjules480]

God bless you for caring so much for other’s loved ones who have passed. It takes a very special person to handle/prepare a lifeless body.

[@nannettegregory8880]

Ur respect for the deceased is so empathic & caring....a great comfort for the families mourning their loved ones. Thanku for deconstructing the mysterty that is associated with funeral parlours.

[@deloresherman9279]

Amen

[@hmoi7424]

Thankyo

[@shelleyhuskey1870]

I agree

[@mildreddavis1836]

I agree with this.

[@mollyjackson4476]

Thank you so much for everything you do. I'm a 27 year old only child, my parents got divorced when I was only one year old. I lost both of them in 2020 in the same six months completely unexpectedly. Broke me to shreds. But it's the hard workers that do the work you do, that helps me so much and made it actually bareable. You're such a wonderful woman, I wish you the best. ♥️

[@lisah3621]

That’s so heartbreaking. I’m so sorry.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thanks so much!!

[@zolia.8981]

I’m so sorry for your loss of your mom and dad. Take it one day at a time sweetheart and lean on God✨

[@tc247]

I'm so sorry for the loss of both of your parents in such a short amount of time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope you have a great support system with extended family and friends. Blessings ~

[@danicavujevic433]

Hi dear ♥️ you are may hero to do wat you doing dear GOD bless you 🙏 and kipp doing and making as beautiful.Much love to you ❤ ❤❤❤❤❤

[@cyvonn]

It's so obvious how much respect you have for the "deceased" as well as your profession. Thank you for allowing us in. Bless you.

[@quinny6920]

I agree with ur comment . I lost my only child 3 years ago. It heartwarming to know most people that do this line of work are so respectful to our loved ones. I happen to know the funeral director who took care of my son so I wasn’t worried. I bet many are though. Thankyou

[@-savannah]

Very compassionate and respectful

[@Ara1_11]

I agree with your statement

[@aliciat2216]

I agree with you!

[@melindajoneshatchett2051]

How does a funnel home dress the deceased? I heard that they cut the clothes to get them dressed !!

[@toyman9642]

A British physician said it best when he stated, "Think of a dead body as a house where the owner has moved out." Good analogy. The body is just a shell.

[@katybug6572]

Patricia Westervelt wow.. you BOTH have put that beautifully.. love this! 💕♾🙏

[@karenprater8238]

So right just a temple and its like a person moving out the soul and your spirit has journey to another ram the spirit lives on just a shell and spirit and soul dwelled.

[@petunia4474]

@Robert Gardea You are so right! That is why I have decided, and told my family, that I DO NOT want to be embalmed! Not good for environment and also I want to go all natu-rel even if it means I have to be either refrigerated or to be buried asap. No metal coffin either....all wood. Better for the ground.

[@joycegallowayparker9652]

@Robert Gardea Yes, it does. It makes perfect sense for those of us who believe in God, and in Jesus giving us eternal life.

[@carolynclark9439]

Petunia p

[@thasnuff1995]

Kari, your tour was above and beyond anything I’ve learned from friends who are/were in the funeral industry. You should be very proud of this video. Thank you.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you so much!!

[@pinkcarnation231]

Years ago, I asked a friend who was a mortician to allow me to watch this process start to finish. I had seen every other part of the death process; I needed to see this as well. He was kind enough to let me watch him embalm several people. This was done with absolute respect for the deceased. While seeing the actual process is not something I recommend everyone do, it was essential for me. I was amazed at how it actually works, the problems that the mortician may run into and how they deal with it. I was also appreciative of this in depth look at the miraculous workings of the human body. But more than anything else, the most valuable affirmation I got from this is to know for myself that what the mortician is working on is an empty shell. The living presence has left the clay behind. It is one thing to be taught this, even to believe it. It is a precious gift to experience this for yourself. Thank you to the people who do this service; they are more important to the comfort of the families than most realize.

[@KaritheMortician]

thank you

[@pauline_raabe]

Very well said @pinkcarnation231

[@rebeccalynn0415]

I’m a 64 year old RN & I work in long term care with the frail elderly. At one time, prior to nursing school, I did consider becoming a mortician. I found this fascinating & would think it would be interesting to observe the process. I’m glad to know there are gentle & caring people like you who take care of my beloved residents when they leave me. Thank you. You are truly special.

[@dovie127]

rebeccalynn0415, I’m a retired nurse (worked long term care too) that feels the same as you do. I could have done this when I was younger. Very fascinating to me.

[@joymorrison6614]

I feel the same. Its something I always wanted to do with my life but never got around to it. Katie made this a very interesting video. Such a compassionate soul.

[@ruthie7368]

scoop

[@sabrinabrooks2259]

Thank you so much for calming my fears. I wish all funeral directors were as respectful as you.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thanks so much!

[@therealadrienne18]

I'm a nurse and even though I have seen alot of death you never get the opportunity to see this aspect of the end of life. I feel like the wonderful people in the funeral industry are definitely the unsung hero's of the difficulty journey when having to cope with a loved one passing away. I can personally say that when my grandma passed away I was shocked and delighted to see how much care they had put in to make her look like MY grammy. She was in liver failure and was swollen up 2 times her normal size when she passed. I was so worried about what I was going to see even though I'm a nurse and have become slightly more tolerant when dealing with death. When I walked up I was so happy to see her look like I wanted to remember her. I cried because I knew how much thought and care went and into preparing her. So thank you so much for all you do in the funeral industry. It makes a difference for sure!

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you for all you do as well!

[@jaimee8355]

It's about the money they rake in. They don't help those who can't pay. Hospice is the Angels 😇

[@kellymunsen7473]

Well Jamie E? That’s a very rude comment you put on here ! Remember something honey.....Even in Death, it cost to live and it cost to Die! So sorry that your heart is heavy! May God help you with your common ignorance! 🙁😂

[@rosanebaril1486]

@@kellymunsen7473 Very well said Kelly! May he help himself with his ignorance!!

[@aminaschmiat6476]

It's hard work they do but I prefer the way we do it we wash our dead & bury them as quick as possible & we treat ours as alive so we respect the dead we don't put them face down we turn to wash as its disrespectful to put them face down & I'd prefer not to be pumped full of stuff & wired shut so I'm glad we only wash then buried

[@donitalester5878]

Has to be a heart felt person to do this and what’s more being respectful

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you

[@jewellscott1654]

Very interesting!! If more info is available, please post!!!!

[@evelyndavis9756]

@@jewellscott1654 x

[@evelyndavis9756]

You know it's very sad what they have to do to the bodies I was told they cut you under your arm under your side like under your armpit down there years ago when my mother-in-law died it seems like a poor body has to go through an awful lot to be laid out for a day or two it's like nobody cares and you sound like I don't know if you care cuz you keep laughing at things and I don't think of it anything is a bit funny I like to see how you would be if they would chopping on you all up and everything so I think it's kind of sick that you're doing this on KZbin I sure wouldn't want you to do much to me about me

[@evelyndavis9756]

And I don't know why that says oh well Scott or whatever Scott on my video cuz I said more than that cuz I think it's just very very disturbing and disgusting that you're thinking it's too bad are you too better this the poor people and saying how old they look in this and that it gets very wrong I wouldn't want to be you doing it cuz it's to me disrespectful

[@Annastasiazink]

Not sure why this is in my recommended .. really not sure why I’m even watching this .. but you seem like a really respectful sweet lady who knows what she’s doing.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you so much!! Everyone is curious :)

[@brignjesus]

You are correct. She is so sweet and very respectful of family loved ones . Very gentle

[@Princess-gy5kx]

God bless you Kari !

[@livestock327]

Kari north can I Get a job in tis feild

[@ricgillis1280]

She's so nice, until if there was a chance of bringing someone back, I'll bet she can do it!LOL!

[@gabrieladeuschle3596]

My husband and I decided to pay it forward and donate our bodies when we die. My hope is that my death can be someone else's salvation; my organs can help someone else live. 💖

[@KaritheMortician]

THat is wonderful

[@VirgoCatleesi]

I signed up to do the same (University of Tennessee in Knoxville.)

[@michaelgreen-xb2nl]

Thank you for the informative. Video. You seem like a very caring and respectful person, and i for one would want you to personally administer to me in my time demise. Thank you for educating and explaining in layman terms. You are a gem!

[@carolynpatterson1680]

That's whaI did. Donate tissue eyes and anything else that will be a Blessing to someone

[@joywalker4918]

That's great that y'all decided to do that, I'm not gonna do that, I'm going to be cremated, I'm disabled, I've been cut on a lot in my life, and I just feel like, I don't want that to happen to me anymore, but y'all are being really brave, and it's a great decision.

[@marymartin9044]

“Absent from the body is present with the Lord” what a very sweet , informative and compassionate presentation. Hurrah for the caretakers that prepares your love ones 🙏🙏 ☝️

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you so much!

[@irenetyrrell6717]

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[@jacques74776]

Good morning how you're doing please to meet you my name is JACQUES I rather be Buried underground Dressed in a casket

[@mikethomas5541]

@Christopher Conroy Those are spirits , not people spirits , have you heard of familiar spirits ? Their demonic realm . If they are people spirits that people can see then fill us in , it’s actually written in the Bible people were tried to be brought back from the dead but they were familiar spirits n it’s never good to tamper with that realm . Just sharing

[@kellyjudy1]

Well Mary, that is 1 million % true (IF) (IF) a person is a Christian. So before you say things you apparently have no knowledge of, please don't comment .

[@Julie-si3hi]

This was really interesting, thank you for explaining everything so professionally and with compassion x

[@KaritheMortician]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@donnabevins4835]

I love the knowledge that you gave us.I lost my 20 year old son and this was informative to me. Thank you.You seem to be so respectful of the deceased

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you :)

[@gloriajeantoeniskoetter2755]

How much school do you have to have.?

[@daybyday0731]

Sorry for your loss😞

[@nettineptune8125]

My heart breaks for you. May he rest safely in the arms of our Lord x

[@misskriss848]

I'm sorry for your loss. Praying for your peace.

[@ginadillon2072]

You are a very sweet lady and I appreciate your professional and compassionate way of explaining the process.

[@SoaringSpirit1111]

I worked in close contact within the industry & learned alot. It IS an art making the deceased look as natural as possible, given the circumstances of their death's. Some funeral directors are more talented than others. A good presentation is a comfort to the family.Thank you for a really down to earth, intelligent & compassionate presentation.

[@KaritheMortician]

Yes it is! THanks

[@melissapowell315]

My closest friend passed when she was 17 yrs old due to a heart condition that she was born with. Due to her condition her coloring in life was not great. When I went to her wake the casket was opened and the makeup was so heavy including her lips that were painted up with bright pink lipstick. Her parents wanted the open casket as it helps with closure. I think it would have been better if the casket was closed. To this day I remember that lipstick.

[@heatherfreckleton4493]

Thank you so much for your passion, and service in this "end stage" of life. We ALL will die some day, it's comforting to know how the process behind the scenes is really carried out. Much appreciated!

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you!

[@zachthompson1573]

I'm a embalmer. You hit everything spot on. Well done. It's funny you mentioned getting fluid in your eyes. That happened to me today. Keep up the good work.

[@francinebailey12]

What cause a leaking from back of head on pillow

[@syg3540]

She keeps asking any questions but I don't see anyone answering. I heard they sell the organs or body parts Is Legal?

[@GreenHatPanda]

@@syg3540 No thats ilegal. A person has the right to donate their organs or body to science/hospitals but not everyone is approved. No funeral worker can legally sell your body or organs and there have been a few funeral homes shut down arrested and sued for attempting to

[@dianasimpson9285]

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[@TakeTheRide]

@@GreenHatPanda These people are in business. It's about the money.

[@JoeyFTaylor]

You are so respectful and sweet. I’m sure you bring a lot of comfort to a lot of families.

[@bunbee2025]

She could bring me lots of comfort!

[@brignjesus]

GOD ‘s gift.

[@agustindejesus7398]

Jo Foxx ....Jo, how.....their loves ones are already dead.

[@sitaragoonathsingh1106]

People must appreciate the hard work you do in presenting our dead loved ones in such a beautiful way .

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you for those kind words.

[@ShadesofSage]

I know most people find this morbid, but I think it’s so interesting! Thank you for sharing this process 🙏🏿. I learned a lot.

[@KaritheMortician]

thank you!!

[@ShadesofSage]

@@KaritheMortician You’re welcome ☺️

[@fixinggrace]

This is probably the most honest and compassionate presentation about what a funeral director does.

[@johnrauner2515]

A funeral directors job description is very simple. 1 - prepare the stiff to be burned to a crisp, popped into a box and given to the family. Or, 2 - prepare the stiff to be buried. It's not rocket science.

[@rubyhancock5483]

What

[@johnrauner2515]

@@rubyhancock5483 I said, her job is all about stiffy prep. She spends her working days with stiffys in her hands. This isn't the sort of job for somebody who doesn't enjoy holding stiffys.

[@dbrown44115]

Do they take organs out before embalming a body?

[@ryanmcmasterrr]

@@dbrown44115 no organs get removed during embalming. Embalming is where you drain fluids from the body and pump embalming fluid back into it through the circulatory system.

[@Tiki12t4]

This is a very challenging profession. I had no idea how demanding it can be. You guys get the crown. Thank you for all you do, we appreciate everything you do. Much respect.

[@tinkerbell1666]

Agree! I thought all they did was to drain the blood, take out the organs and done. I have so much more respect for embalmers.

[@maryannlohr9592]

@@tinkerbell1666, wow Carmen that was my thoughts also

[@evelyndavis9756]

Yeah we'll talk about other law to the place to get cremated in everything and day later out first as a charge $5,000 and this was the the two years ago the charger was to wash them that is outrageous crazy they're going to burn them up so why you want them all cleaned up that's crazy how you are and I can't believe you draw here on the show tell people how they're going to just hurt to read to me not hurt but destroy their what they look like is gross

[@evelyndavis9756]

@@maryannlohr9592 why don't you bring one of your relatives here or your husband or whatever and show what they do maybe they can practice on you

[@evelyndavis9756]

Why don't you stop all this crap and stop and just get off the channel tuck that people ask for writing you crazy that big needle I would never want that stuck in any of my relatives I guess it already been but you're a sicko you need to get off the air and I hope I can get enough people to get you off

[@melissaohlrich2418]

I appreciate the respect you show while explaining this process to us regular folks. You are very effectively teaching us the procedure of embalming, all while honoring those who were lost and needing your services. You are an amazing woman and I am thankful for the time you spent making this video so that we may better understand how this whole thing works. Outstanding work!

[@KaritheMortician]

I appreciate that!

[@beverlymyers344]

You are an amazing lady

[@lamonatkins1988]

Thanks, this presentation is so helpful and consoling. I often wondered how my wife’s body was handled and prepared when she died. The mortuary that I used did an exceptional job. Thanks again.

[@A10TOES]

I dated a furnal director/owner so I got the grand tour of seeing it “live”, which Iam a nurse so nothing bothered me, except when it came to embalming a child.

[@debkski6084]

@Robert Gardea Embalming SPRAY?? If you had watched her video, you'd know there's no such thing...

[@mahadevimahadev6937]

Did you marry with him?, yes, if not why, because his proffesion?😀

[@gkimunge]

Its the kids that always get you..i work in a trauma hospital and with adults its just another day...with kids everyone loses it.

[@almarivera7562]

❤️🙏🏻🕊️😢

[@A10TOES]

@@debkski6084 embalming takes place after blood is drained from the body and embalming fluid is delivered via a tube into the body. It’s not required by law to embalm a body unless you plan to have a showing, in a funeral home or church.

[@thisministry]

I'm a Pastor and I'm around death way to often and I'm so glad you are showing behind the scenes because this way people will know that there is nothing to fear and that there is the highest respect for the dead and the process of embalming is very good and practical. The embalmer has a big responsibility and trying their best to get the best results for the deceased and the family. Thanks again Pastor Steve Swaggerty

[@dianer558]

Pastor, well said!!! As a nurse, it is so very important to care for folks who pass away. We must care for them, praying for them and supporting their families. My faith as a Christian is strong and I know for sure the veil is lifted. Absence in the body is present with our Lord,

[@jefftalbot8371]

Hey Pastor, what the hell have you been smoking because I would like to buy some. When you die your body is done, period. Wasting land and polluting groundwater with formaldehyde so people can look at a dead body? No, it’s not respect, it’s a business. Try natural burial or cremation. Both options are more economical and easier on our environment.

[@DallasStorm43]

@@jefftalbot8371 You are a complete ass. Everyone in this world has a right to choose the way they want to happen with their bodies after death. Yes cremation is cheaper but do you realize a "natural burial" can be harmful to the Earth depending on the sickness? Just because you are wrapped in a biodegradable shroud naked doesn't make it any better than this. Apparently you didn't listen to her when they said they fully clean the body and use a wide range of stuff depending on the person to use while embalming. You should keep your negative and rude comments to yourself.

[@freedomatlast8756]

@@jefftalbot8371 Still taking hits off the bong.

[@JMac-27]

you think this takes fear away?? this has me mortified!!!

[@rogerdotson2484]

You are amazing. If anyone is thinking about going into this profession should watch you because you are a great teacher.

[@slampkin4531]

So much respect for you and your profession. My father passed away suddenly in 2020. The local funeral home did an amazing job. Seriously considering becoming a mortician.

[@KaritheMortician]

Big hugs to you. You should!

[@JennCampbell]

I don't care if others want to embalmed, but I don't. Not because of being worried about damage, but because it's expensive. I want a natural burial, just me in a hole. Feels most natural to me. I do want to thank you for taking the time to make this video. Learning about this was fascinating.

[@justintahair9119]

i dont wnat to be embalmed either me and my aunt talkd about this an di thinks its easier me and my aunt talked about this before she died of hep c she didnt want to be embalmed either in a slogan i use my corspe my choice

[@sunshine121561]

My husband recently passed and I was told that if you dont have an open casket or public viewing you dont get embalmed anyway.So I had to elect to have my husband embalmed.So if you dont want it to happen you cant be viewed..

[@JennCampbell]

@@sunshine121561 Embalming is NEVER required! It is not a law. If the funeral home told you it is, they committed a crime. They may have that policy, YOU have the right to go to a different funeral home. As for a viewing, my family and I see a dead body as nothing but an empty vessel. Please go to the YT channel Ask A Mortician, for more info on funeral laws.

[@lucyfilippo2938]

Suzanne Palmer that is soooooo not true. I cant believe they told you that

[@lucyfilippo2938]

Jennifer Campbell i know exactly what you mean. Wink wink.

[@avonee1976]

This is very interesting. I’ve always wondered what went on past the double doors in a funeral home that are marked Private or Authorized Personnel Only.

[@soulshinebrowneyes8350]

I have never watched a video concerning this final sensitive part of one's life. You made this so comforting even though this is such a sensitive issue. Your soft spoken voice and compassionate personality made this so informative. I thank you for putting this very informative and educational video up explaining what we all will face one day. I feel so much more at ease now. God Bless You!

[@quinny6920]

Well said 💚

[@chrisferris2444]

Creepy!!

[@katherineware2666]

@@quinny6920 0

[@robertgrant358]

Very well done. Your presentation was very informative and professional.

[@create.channeleileenelias4795]

Kari I have so much respect and admiration for people that have what it takes to do a job like yours does it take away your fear of dying and help you decide whether to be buried or creameated

[@deborah5212]

She’s such a sweetheart and I love the way she respects the dead that means a lot in my eyes !! God Bless You Kari 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you I appreciate that!

[@doristaylor9932]

HOW ARE THEY DRESSSED?

[@rosebennett9997]

@@KaritheMortician i alwAys wonder what happen after a persin dies

[@jonathonsemien9550]

Yes she is very very heartfelt.

[@UnderCver-bd1xh]

@@rosebennett9997 It sure is fascinating.

[@JohnSmith-dq4dx]

Thank you for this video. I could see many moments where you suffered retelling some aspects. You are beautiful. Your soul is gracious. You deserve the best. May You receive kindness, love, and beatitude - in all of your life.

[@KaritheMortician]

You are so welcome

[@SpartanX360]

When we die souls leave your bodies it’s just a empty vessel...

[@KaritheMortician]

Yes everyone has their beliefs on this

[@sister9670]

An empty shell, they say.

[@davidharkins5345]

I would like to learn to do you job.

[@teresabaker2015]

But it's nice to know that someone will respect it

[@crusader4273]

How do you know this...beyond a reasonable doubt?

[@JacquiSinclairNZ]

Wow, such great information. You show great compassion and skill.

[@thomashanlon2488]

Gosh I would pray someone like u took care of my loved ones when they past! I am a nurse and I work in the nursing home long time care so I fall in love with all of them and sit with them and pray with them if that's what they choose....I kinda always thought every one takes care of them like I do..yetbprob not true! It's nice to know there is really someone who cares like I do when they are no longer breathing

[@rednecksparky]

Have you ever had to embalm someone you knew?

[@tammygurl64]

I thought this was very informative and fascinating. I didn't realize the video was this long when I started watching but I couldn't pull myself away from it. You did an excellent (and professional) job with this. Thanks! 🙂

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you!

[@cjyates1]

You are so professional this is not grossing out viewers ..thank you so much for this important information.

[@susanwitteveen3565]

Thank you for opening my eyes to what is all involved for getting a loved one ready for visitation. I had no idea! I certainly now have greater respect for the skills that are required for a mortician. God bless you for your dedication for preserving the dignity of a loved one.

[@KaritheMortician]

You are welcome!

[@Texas_Rose_]

You should teach. You really know what you’re talking about with the subject at hand. You explain very well!

[@KaritheMortician]

I would love to!!

[@marshallbyrne9426]

@@KaritheMortician you are awesome God bless

[@jacquelinegleason1297]

Less scarie thank you

[@1057shelley]

My granddaughter is attending Gupton-Jones College of Mortuary Sciences. She’s always loved anatomy and cosmetology and psychology so she chose this field. You would be a terrific teacher at one of these schools!

[@VolcanoEarth]

I find this surprisingly fascinating, and your attitude about your work "bringing back loved ones" is comforting. I fear it won't be much longer before we have to make funeral arrangements for my parents, and I hope they are prepared by somebody just like you.

[@karenparker3428]

I hope so too 💯

[@theresemarrs2804]

How does body react from no embalming? How long till bones??

[@theresemarrs2804]

By the way you explain everything in a comforting way and Jesus takes your soul to heaven when you pass this is why you don't endure any more pain or strife . Amen thks again.

[@jodiewilson3255]

This is so impressive. Kari I loved the way you handled everything with such respect and gentle explanation. I learned about you from the Boys at Undertaking the Podcast and Grant Inman and his podcasts. This is definitely my new guilty pleasure.

[@chennao]

Hands down one of the most informative videos I've watched. Everything was done in a professional manner that didn't seem overly complicated and confusing.

[@KaritheMortician]

thank you!!

[@dianevandeweerd9572]

"ABSENT FROM THE BODY, PRESENT WITH THE LORD" HELPED ME SO MUCH. I AM 81, NEEDED TO DECIDE IF I WANTED CREMATION OR NOT. BEGAN THE PROCESS OF PLANNING, BACKED OFF AND NOW FEEL I AM MORE PREPARED MENTALLY TO COMPLETE MY LAST WISHES, INSTEAD OF LEAVING IT FOR MY CHILDREN. THANK YOU.

[@pulanemay4341]

Love to you. The question is do you see yourself being visited by family at the cemetery. Loved ones , taking flowers or tidy up your grave or not??? Is a nice beautiful vase at one of your children's home will do? Which child? Or do you have a favourite place , u wish your ash will scattered at??? Hopefully this help.

[@ashleykane4951]

Thank you so much for this, very informative. We can all tell that you truly value your patients and the care that is needed for them! What a blessing you are for families.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thanks so much!

[@govtuscia7105]

Very informative. Your a great teacher. calming voice make this easier to absorb. Factual, honest, caring. Thank you

[@KaritheMortician]

Thanks so much

[@vickybelair9711]

Thank you so much. I have been in pathology (secretarial) for 50 years and never knew what is done to embalm a body, especially after autopsy. You are a very good presenter, great information on how you do your job and what is done to the body for a funeral. You are very respectful and have empathy for the family. I learned a lot. Thank you!

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you!

[@BJo978]

Thank You Kari. This is my first video I've watched of yours. You have a beautiful spirit, not for what you do, but rather the compassion I hear in your voice.

[@kathydeppe6883]

Thank you so much Kari! I learned quite a lot & find it definitely interesting! You have a good way of explaining things & seem to be a compassionate person. Thank you for all you do.🙏

[@KaritheMortician]

You are so welcome!

[@1sloat]

Wow!! I didnt realized how much work goes into preserving a dead body!! You explain everything so well.

[@DivineInspirationsClothing]

I was a little afraid to watch this, but she gave a very professional & compassionate presentation that dispelled many fears I had about this. I worked for years as an ICU nurse, so am not "queezy" & I always wondered what the next process was for patients who passed away when families would ask questions.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you so much!!

[@lucyluvz12]

Excellent! Professional and compassionate presentation,God bless you for what you do .

[@vickibiehler7092]

You explain everything very clearly, I’ve always been very interested in your profession. I have a lot of respect for you as you not only are professional but seem to be a very caring person. You can tell that you care about the people you have to take care of especially for the family, I’m sure it gives them some relief knowing how good you are at your job.

[@aliciaperez3950]

Q do you get inbomb if you are going to cremated?

[@DianaMarie23051]

@@aliciaperez3950 only if you are having a viewing or not getting cremated or buried right away. Embalming is used to preserve the body so it doesn’t decay before viewing, burial or cremation.

[@williamscott9882]

I'm just happy there's somebody willing to do what needs to be done at the time of our passing, it'part of the true order of civil society, one that sees to its citizens from the cradle to the grave.

[@carresteigerwald3278]

You are an absolute gentle angel in how you explained everything. You have such great respect in your description of everything that happens. Thank you for your kindness.

[@KaritheMortician]

Wow, thank you!

[@suearmstrong9597]

You my dear are a.professional. Thank you for explaining this method in a most respectable manner. Than you for sharing. 😪

[@KaritheMortician]

So nice of you

[@veecrespo2663]

OMG, there is so much that goes on behind the scenes. Much respect and many thanks to you and what you do. Thank you for explaining the entire process.

[@KaritheMortician]

Much appreciated

[@javontaeetienne1373]

I have a question how does a creamation work

[@claudiascott6484]

Kari, all I have to say is "More power to you, and GOD bless you.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you!

[@vickilmyhand8954]

Thank you so much for caring about how our loved ones look,you seem like you are a very caring person🦋

[@KaritheMortician]

My pleasure :)

[@gratefulone6519]

I just happened on this video. This was so informative. I never knew the behind the scenes process. Thanks for opening your prep room to us. You are a great instructor. Hats off to you.

[@KaritheMortician]

Glad it was helpful!

[@BIGBOOTS1312]

this is something I've always been curious about. I love how even your facial expression were sensitive.. I love how through them you can tell you have passion. It takes someone special to do what you do.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you so much!!

[@armandoanguiano5685]

wow, my mom passed 2 years ago, this explains alot, thank you

[@rebekahkissel7629]

Revisiting this after years makes me appreciate Kari even more she is stellar woman. So professional thoughtful and articulate.

[@KaritheMortician]

wow thank you!

[@PinkRainProductions]

I think I’m more afraid of actually being dead than dying. The whole embalming process feels humiliating to me. Like I don’t want to die because I’m terrified of being seen dead and the embalming process happening. This was informal, and you are so respectful.

[@beckytaylor2991]

This. Everything you said....yes!

[@mittens2115]

The Muslims don't do any of this they just bury their dead in a very timely manor but most places say you cant have this done but you can! This is for the sake of viewings mostly. a natural burial sounds great to me.

[@amandalidey329]

Omgg girl mee too. I'm more afraid of being dead than actually "dying" i have a phobia of death. Its like thophobiac or something. Have since I was very little. Use to think i was always dying. I'm also a hypercondract & take meds for SEVERE ANXIETY. So for me death really bothers me.

[@annevetter6864]

I can’t believe we put our parents and three sibs and a niece through this....it’s cremation for me

[@monacrutcher9240]

This was so difficult to watch. My special needs adult son was embalmed & I've had thoughts of what if the deceased isn't dead during or prior the preparation, instead they're in a unnoticed coma. That individual can't communicate. I know it sounds far fetched but just think there have been deceased who've woke up at their own funeral. I tried opening my sons eyes at his viewing because he was born sleeping with his eyes partially open throughout his life. That's how I wanted him remembered. Though it would have freaked ppl out who weren't aware.

[@kathyweber5675]

This was very interesting. I lost my dad 2 weeks ago to LBD, he was cremated per his wishes. My great aunt did hair for a funeral home for 25 yrs. You have a very kind nature.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thanks so much

[@tumbleweed57]

I am an ICU RN and fund this very interesting. When I was in college I worked at a funeral home one summer in the office. Thank you for being so respectful and educational.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thanks so much

[@steves1112000]

Thank you for sharing this. Fascinating. It's obvious you approach your job with a great deal of care and compassion for the family. Thank you.

[@KaritheMortician]

You are welcome!

[@gerrybooker8765]

Would take a special kind of person to be able to do this job. I could no way do her job. Tough job but you explain it well. You are the Special Person. Thanks for sharing.

[@normacolon9618]

They make lots of money..mucho money!!!!

[@speakrighttogod]

You seem to be a sweet soul! Also very thorough and patient in your explanations. If I was learning mortuary science, I would love to have you as one of my instructors. God bless you and keep you!

[@ashleyw8526]

Thank you so much for making these videos and explaining everything In a comforting way. I'm 25 and I'm very sick currently on palliative care. I hope I have years left but I have had a lot of questions of what happens to us when we die so watching your videos have been very comforting and educational for me!

[@ashleyw8526]

Kari Northey Thank you so much for replying to me! One question I have is during the prep care can a person request that certain things be left untouched. I have quite a phobia about pelvic exams and things like that so I was wondering if it is possible for a person to request that there privates not be touched. Of course I know that I'll be gone by the time that it would happen but it still would be comforting to know that those wishes are fulfilled if possible. I know it's a crazy question! 😉

[@nancypetkovic6999]

At my brothers viewing while I was standing at his casket I noticed a pink fluid leaking on to the lining of the casket near his neck. I was horrified! I called the funeral director over and begged him to please take care of this before any of the other guests noticed this terrible mistake. He apologized and took care of it immediately. I will never forget that.

[@DrRocketTurner]

Extremely informative presentation; very well done! Thank you! 🚀

[@kathyhenry5423]

Thank u so much for explaining all of this, i just lost my mom a week ago and had to go thru arrangements and set up arrangements and i have always been curious how the embalming process has always worked. U r very pleasant and very calming the way u explain so u make it so much easier to try and understand and comprehend. U seem like such a very sweet lady!! God bless u hon for what u do, it takes a special person to do what u do!! Kathy, columbus, ohio.

[@SariennMusic73]

I'm so sorry about the loss of your mom. I lost mine when I was in 5tth grade. In 6th grade we took a field trip to the same funeral home she'd had her wake at. Well they took us to the basement where embalming etc took place.. It messed with me because as he showed what all the instruments did, all I could do was imagine my mom lying there. It wasn't easy. I give you props for your strength to watch this when you did. Anyway, I hope you have peace. It's never ever easy to lose anyone, especially a beloved parent. All my love to you.

[@lachicastephanie]

Sarienn omg i cant believe they took your class there. I’m so sorry you went through that.

[@virginiamcdaniel1587]

What do U do if their face is messed up

[@tammiedudley829]

Question please: My son was 18 years old and was in a hunting accident. The bullet went through his mouth and exploded the back of his head and severed his spinal cord.The funeral home did a good job of preparing him for viewing (all visible damage was in the back of his head). During visitation we had to change his shirt 3 times in a 2 hour window due to his neck constantly leaking A LOT of fluid. At the time I was too distraught to even ask why this was happening.....but now I feel comfortable and can ask Why did that happen??? Yes he had an autopsy because a gun was involved. Thank you so much for your inside look into what happens to the body when a person dies and before they are buried. This does help give a little bit more closure and fit pieces of the puzzle together (at least in my eyes as his Mom) as to all of the things that happened to him AFTER he passed away.

[@jaggerbaltich5561]

I am so sorry for your loss. That is completely horrible. Praying for you ❤ stay strong!

[@robinhankins5213]

Hugs.... from a mother of an only child. You're stronger than I could be. I hope your heart feels better.

[@introfiant30]

Chances are an autopsy was done. My guess would be that when they were suturing the autopsy incisions closed, they did not do an effective job of thoroughly drying that are and put sealant powder in the incisions.

[@ellwoodsmom]

I’m impressed with the cleanliness of the room. Thank you for taking such loving care of the deceased. Very interesting and informative video

[@KaritheMortician]

My pleasure and honor

[@leelaramtahal1125]

Does all that body fluids go into our drains and water systems lakes and rivers....hope not as we have to drink of the lake and water ways ....

[@j.vinton4039]

@@leelaramtahal1125 they do. That’s why there’s water filtration plants. Trust me, I was mortified when I found that out.

[@laurenashley456]

I had an inkling of what happened during an embalming but had no idea of all the different steps and things. This was so informative and the way you explained it, was with utmost respect for the deceased and family. Very kind. Thank you.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you!!

[@cathyslaton9998]

Thank you for what you do . My mom passed from cancer she didn’t look herself of course when she died ,but the person who fit mom did a wonderful job on her she looked beautiful and healthy like she was laying there asleep she hadn’t look that good in years and only had very little makeup on Thank you all your artists

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you for sharing this!

[@cathyslaton9998]

Kari Northey ,your welcome

[@joannvallery1752]

GOD BLESS YOUR heart. God has truly call you to do this. You are a special person. Thank you for all you do.🙏🙏🙏☝☝☝👏👏👏💞💞

[@angiemoreland4366]

My Mother passed 10 years ago. Still on my mind everyday. Saw this video and at this time can watch what happens. We had a wonderful funeral director. Never knew all he did but I remember thinking he was an artist. My Mother has dementia for 4 years, but he made her look like she use to before she got sick. God bless you all that help being that peace to families.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you so much!

[@hollyhlee]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I learned so much! I lost my mom in 2017 and my dad suddenly 18 months later. I didn't understand at the time why they said to bring something that would cover the neck area. It makes total sense now. God bless you! Thank you for your service!

[@camilamacedo1506]

wow! thank you so much for your work! wow! I did not know it took so much effort to prep a body. its definitely a calling! God bless you

[@aliasdoe3303]

How long does the effect of these fluids and chemicals last ?

[@robbevineau2337]

What an excellent presentation! I've clocked many hours in prep rooms, starting at age fifteen, through mort school, and decades beyond, and you covered the basics perfectly.

[@normabrahe1585]

Excellent presentation fr OK m the funeral director. Thank you!

[@tallgalval5721]

Very interesting. This video came up in my recommendations. I had no idea that so much went into embalming and getting the body ready. Thank you for what you do.

[@ellycory526]

Good and informative. I appreciate knowing what goes on behind the scenes to make better informed decisions for myself and family. Thank you.

[@michaeltarewicz6660]

Anything happens to me, I'm being embalmed, besides I won't know anything. I'll be in heaven with Jesus!

[@overcomer1921]

Only if you have repented and FOLLOW him and keep his COMMANDMENTS.. it's not just believing and confessing with your lips.. read your OWN BIBLE and OBEY it til the END.

[@lindamcmurtrey1823]

I wish all morticians would be like you. A caring loving attitude toward the deceased person is what the family wants, someone who does not look at them as just a body to embalm. Thank you for your videos, they have helped me tremendously!! Some people are afraid of dead people, like I used to be but these help a person to understand better, what has to be done for their loved one.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thanks so much!

[@sandragerken3170]

God Bless you for your compassion, and the way you are helping loved ones. Great job explaining.

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you!

[@joannajohnson2669]

You are AMAZING I can see How you picked this JOB ❤

[@chaysejameason1636]

Beautifully delivered and eloquently executed!! You answered questions I had forgotten I wanted to ask one day !

[@brendagervais5566]

Absolutely the most informative video I have ever watched regarding the happenings to our loved ones after they pass. Thank you for your respectful service to loved ones-truly a gift

[@KaritheMortician]

Thank you!

[@rhondaeaton8830]

Kari you are awesome. I’m so intrigued by all this information. Greatly appreciate you for explaining this process to us.

[@stevejarrettnc]

I respect so much what you're doing here. Thank you.

[@roncannon953]

What happens to the organs

[@peggydarling206]

Do you have to remove to brain ?

[@michelleredpath6483]

I always wanted to work for a Funeral Home but never followed through. Considering that I'm 3 months shy of my 60th birthday, You have been so much help with the understanding of what goes on behind the curtain.

[@carolbutler6932]

The Bible tells of "words fitly spoken". Kari, you have fulfilled that scripture as kindly and as professionally as anyone that I have ever heard. Thank you for that and thank you for the service that you perform.

[@KaritheMortician]

Wow thank you!