Amen to this. Lust of the flesh has always been the struggle that comes back to haunt me. I was 29+ years virginal and consecrated myself hard in my 20s. It was easy because I wasn't in a relationships and trained my mind/heart to focus on literally everything else. The sexual desires returned full throttle in my 30s... I actually found a man I enjoyed on a emotional/mental/friendly level. He amis supporting my mission for purity but it is difficult ya'll. Slipped but am returning back. These child bearing years are worst than my teenage years. I've always had a super strong libido. God has really been with me for it to take me 30 years until I've been with a man. If you fall into sin, get back up and restart. Don't let guilt, shame, disappointment keep you away from God's love and presence. Praying for you all.
@manusouth835210 ай бұрын
Sexual disair do have womens? Please tell men
@Blakserenity7 ай бұрын
Same! I struggle with a powerful desire as well and often find it difficult to think about other things.
@CherryJ29116 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@miromimimaya4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much as muslim girl I'm grateful that I heard something touched my feelings ❤
@veronicaatkins280610 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️it’s hard to be single as a Christian . Usually people talk about men feeling lust but we as women feel it too❤️
@SuzenKabini6 ай бұрын
....and men have better chances of getting married than women 😢
@shimmer410-o2i6 ай бұрын
Yeah even though I've never been in a real relationship I feel like it'll be harder to find a man that doesn't feel no s*x is a turn off.
@niksynjeri30775 ай бұрын
Honestly I am struggling in this area too to appoint of masturbating
@utamu777 Жыл бұрын
This video is right on time for me! I've been celibate for years but temptation still rears its head every so often. I love the story about how your husband ran away from you when you were dating - you really were blessed with a godly man! It's good for women to hear that these kind of men exist - who want to please God - and that we don't have to settle for sexually undisciplined men.
@TT-zc1pv2 жыл бұрын
Definitely on time. Thank you Jesus ❤
@brandenbarnett6093 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I have struggled w this for 27 of my 38 years. I have fasted and went to recovery groups over the years. I go weeks and months and then fall back into it. Feel hell bound for not overcoming it the way that you and others have
@TTSPFAMILY2 жыл бұрын
This generation need more videos like this.. thank you❤️❤️
@hectormedina7526 Жыл бұрын
For real
@lilanarcisse6470 Жыл бұрын
Maditation and prayer is the key. When we as a christian don't read the bible we live in open door for the enemy..
@Thedollvault Жыл бұрын
This is the helpful information. I’ve looked up several articles over the last few days to figure out how to navigate the single and sexless life while in pursuit of Christ. As I get older (early 30s) it’s challenging to ignore sexual desires with no sign of a partner and marriage in sight.
@LalaLeia7869 ай бұрын
How do you ignore sexual desires please I want this every month i have to struggle with sexual feelings
@shimmer410-o2i6 ай бұрын
I thought I was a good girl. Still a virgin. But I've been exposed to masturbation and horny guys. I want God in my life. I want to be innocent because I never want to be a bad girl. But the hornier I get the harder it is to think about fully surrendering my life where that is something that can only be obtained through marriage 😭
@brandenbarnett609310 ай бұрын
Karolyne!! I struggled for 25 years of lust and sexual sin, its been a struggle but the desire is gone!! Like the Lord took it away….i read your flashcards w verses on them last year just pray others can be delivered!!!
@l.i.l.i.s.e.l.l.s Жыл бұрын
I’m at a point where I realize I can’t watch most popular shows , read romance novels , or even hear music that’s not Christian .
@Blakserenity7 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you mentioned your transparency when you asked God to help you with your desires. I have been chaste for 10 years after I was raped by my first boyfriend. My second boyfriend and I had no restraints because I didn’t care; my purity had been taken from me. The third guy I liked used me for 1 night then threw me away like cheap trash! That was when I said “God, never again will I lay down with another man before marriage!” And I have kept that vow! Now I met this incredible man of God who is literally everything my heart ever desired. He’s pure in body and spirit and it is ME who is struggling with these sins because of my past. When I have these thoughts, I lay in bed and just cry because I do not want to break my vow and I do not want to take HIS sexual purity from HIM. I’m glad to know that it’s ok to have thoughts about your fiancé but to run from them and to ask God for help. Thank you so much!
@Shinningbright979 ай бұрын
I cant no longer retain myself. Went through a huge spiritual attack last year. Didnt really for one year. Dealing with a lost right now, depression, no job, witchcraft etc...fasted 3 days last week and now i masturtabed. Its like i have mo desire to flee away from sin. Im so tired. I dont even want to pray like i used to.
@tanyac73839 ай бұрын
Please do not give up. Do you have a church or people who can encourage you right now? Even if not, cry out to God and be honest about where you are and keep getting up. The enemy wants you to throw the towel in and wallow in sin but refuse to. Repent and ask God for strength to look to him. I used to struggle with masturbation and the enemy would say you will never be free but here I am free! Its not easy but freedom is worth the struggle. Also seek help for what you went through, masturbation maybe a way for you to comfort or heal yourself but God can do that infinitely better! Praying for you.
@Shinningbright978 ай бұрын
@@tanyac7383 Thank you so much Tanya ❤️ and sorry for the late reply. I was at a point where even typing seemed difficult. Thank you for your advice and prayers. It means a lot to me ❤️ May God bless you abundantly and continue to use you as a vessel to encourage others. You are a gem! ✨️💕
@Sara-zb4sz2 жыл бұрын
I really needed that ! Thanks a lot Karolyne
@sarahmoise2 жыл бұрын
Always on time ! Stay blessed sister 🙏🏽❤️
@janae-naudia2 жыл бұрын
This was so needed 🙌🏽
@Christianadayklee9 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this information I needed it 😢
@jefferymoses37202 жыл бұрын
@Karolyne I want to thank you for this KZbin video lesson on "How to Overcome your Sexual Desires." God is an on time God with this practical yet powerful message to let us know you can still have the victory over lust. Blessings to you & your labor of love. Amen
@revthilak-oasisministries5927 Жыл бұрын
Great wonderful very helpful Thank you so much
@Adri.12042 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Karoline… I needed this !
@rethabilethaba33342 жыл бұрын
Your video is my conviction litreally secinds after maturbation your email of this video was sent i litreally felt the holy spirit speaking thank you so much
@fiifiyankson25852 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Karolyne....your videos are super helpful...may God strengthen you always.🙏🏾
@RoccoRubino0218 Жыл бұрын
Although I am a male, this has been enormously helpful.
@KaylaNicole316 Жыл бұрын
Good men exists.
@ClarisaMann092 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I definitely needed this.
@cuts2504 ай бұрын
May God bless you sister.
@Annahbri7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this sister
@marymartin97882 жыл бұрын
Love your message! Keep up the good work 🙏🏽
@BSG-z6y2 жыл бұрын
Amen, keep up the good work!
@soycristobalmartin6 ай бұрын
thank you for the video ❤ // btw your voice sounds weird because you did not take out the audio of the camera and just added the audio from the mic, making your voice sound double. ❤
@wrightthevision2 жыл бұрын
So luv this Kar!
@karolyneroberts2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sissy!!
@chosenkeke2 жыл бұрын
Thank you really needed this❤️
@tochukwumodebelu19206 ай бұрын
1. Separate yourself from the world... ( do this by living a life of fasting and dedicating yourself to God and not worldly things) 2. Flee sexual sin....RUN!!!!!!!!!!! 3.pyt on your spiritual Armour and fight Ephesians 6: 10-17
@lystrawallen77112 жыл бұрын
Thanks you I appreciate the wisdom
@dalanlambert53522 жыл бұрын
Glory to God. Alleluia
@DeesCritique8 ай бұрын
I really don't understand this reality in which we overcome sin continuously. It's my biggest challenge.
@kgomotsopetlele7990 Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤
@esthermutua12872 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot for this 🙏🙏🙏
@staciastayelevated61682 жыл бұрын
Thank You ❤🏃🏽♀️
@luckymedakgboy7993 Жыл бұрын
You are a Star ✨
@MrSa4582 жыл бұрын
Glory be to God big sis Karlone I just want to let you know that I've been staying away from doing anything until I get my God ordered spouce my dad keeps trying to get me to lay down and cause another soul tie So anyways God bless you big sis Karlone and you're beautiful family 👪 keep up the great work that you're doing for the kingdom of God 🙌🏿✝️🙏🏾🕊
@tabithaakanji7062 Жыл бұрын
Timely ✨
@20cutzz2 жыл бұрын
I've been praying for a husband since I was a literal child I'm 33 with 2 kids now and no prospects in sight. I'm so desperately lonely that as the old song says I imagine faces of many lovers, to ease the pain of having no one in my life. I don't think God's ever going to send me a husband. So what am I supposed to do. I can't stop sexually fantasizing and I'm not getting any in real life anytime soon..... No soulmate yet unfortunately
@bbrochelle772 жыл бұрын
Hey sis 👋🏾 as someone who's been celibate for almost 12 years my advice to you is to fall in love with Jesus. I know that sounds cliche, but once He's the satisfaction of your soul, everything else fades in the background. Truly, intentionally seek His secret Place. Psalms 27:4 has been my rock. Make Him your desire. By doing this all you need to do is seek, cry out, call, ask Him to show you Himself and He will not fail you. He's the only reason I haven't fallen. I've had opportunities to do so...literally had a woman invite me to her hotel room (I was a lesbian). But even then He gave me a way out. As you fill your heart/mind with so much of Him, nothing else will have room to get in. You'll then be able to immediately cast down the thoughts of previous lovers. If He has given you the desire for marriage, He'll come through. You first need to fall in love with Him and let Him complete you/make you whole. I hope this helps. Praying for your strength and victory 🙏🏾
@pariciajackline8470 Жыл бұрын
@@bbrochelle77 Amen 🙏 thank you 😢
@obeyaboniface1810 Жыл бұрын
thank you
@gindsl68911 ай бұрын
I was hoping she took the family guy version. If you know what I mean😛🙈jk! The video made a lot of sense.
@MinisterZyShonne Жыл бұрын
There was no link where you pointed
@nerissastewart8552 Жыл бұрын
First timer here
@DaRyteJuan10 ай бұрын
Antidepressants can take away a lot of sexual desire, especially Prozac. It takes about 6 months to clobber your sexual desire entirely.
@patriciabrown45802 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@doubledribble13003 ай бұрын
🔥🔥
@aisforapple2494 Жыл бұрын
If you're starving to death, you don't need to fast. I WAS CHEATED OUT OF MY RIB!