How To Handle Shame About Sexual Desires? | Sadhguru

[@hunk261]

"Be the driver of your life, not driven by some compulsions." What an idea to lead our life process!! Thank you Sadhguru for all your wisdom to transform human beings🙏

[@madhavwadavi]

When one consciously handles the four basic instincts Food, Sex, Sleep and Death consciously, they can be called Human Beings : Sadhguru ❤

[@diwashshrestha5518]

How to handle death?

[@mohdfarzankhan991]

@@diwashshrestha5518 kya krega jeekay maza arha hai kya jeekay

[@bnravindra1989]

Understanding the limited nature of things is the key🙏

[@Punarjagran]

rather finding something which is not limited, a better substitute.. than grammer to banish urge mere

[@Dee-kk8pe]

Harsh Universal truth 🙏

[@nagaphanikumar5411]

4:30 to 4.40......oh my god....only sadhguru can tell like this ....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I really bow to his feet with all my gratitude

[@anirudh9900]

I'm so thankful that Sadhguru has spoken sexuality more. I felt that I needed a bit more guidance. Hopefully with this I will become the driver. Thank You Isha Volunteers for making this available to the public. It's a blessing to have Sadhguru in this lifetime to guide us.

[@vshnram5745]

Sadhguruji made me feel, that Im doing my best to grow spiritually and all we have to do is to master our mind and senses like how we've learnt to bike or drive better. They say that anger, emotions are measure sticks to know how attached we are to our body. The more water of self love and devotion we pour into a tea/coffee stained cup, it'll eventually become a clean cup and transparent water. So let's go on with our sadhana. A rock might break on 20th blow, but that doesn't mean the previous 19 blows were useless! No, they were very important in building our strength and reaching our different stages and goals.✨🙏✨

[@yellove484]

Nothing to feel ashamed off , it's natural instinct . Society pressure makes u hide , n not express openly . Within ur mind u can analyse it n find to fulfill it . Gradually u will evolve to conduct yourself consciously n seek the higher self n find peace ❤ ❤❤❤❤

[@jack-e-designs]

I think it’s only expected he talk about this as it’s energy if coupled with heart energy or just an act it’s energy it flows through us and he’s right about primals if you deny a hunger you risk bingeing . I think restraint is something some people should learn. 💗

[@benjese7047]

​@@yellove484I felt ashame of when I felt into sexual instinct but this is giving me a great wisdom on how to handle it. I got what I needed. Thanks too ❤❤❤

[@venkatramannarayanan915]

​@@benjese7047 The very realisation and its acceptance gives great relief. Don't you think so......

[@discord_and_entropy]

Absolutely! So many people I know act like sex is not real, despite loving to do it mindlesly. They become something and then it doesn't matter to them. But to be present with your lover as you were the whole time you were meeting, eating, sleeping working, playing, bonding with them, and having a continual line of continuity in the relationship throughout the sex makes it as real as it should be. Like an extension of cuddling.

[@karthikv5521]

Shambo, don't know what good deeds we have done in our past life to hear such great deep insights

[@piyushjaiswal9283]

Chant Hanuman chalisa 12 times daily for 6 months without a single day break. You will have superb self control.

[@mONuepoch]

•There"s so much I could say and elaborate on however I'll keep it simple: I so appreciate Sadhguru's humor specifically relating to sexuality. ~Embracing your sexuality is such a beautiful feeling. It's the flowing of juices enmeshing through your veins.Yet the key is to channel your energy into ways which do not consciously affect yourself. Exactly Own it and be your own driver. 🏵️

[@ARPITSHRIAPRIL2289]

Elaborate on the processes to be adopted to become driver from being driven

[@Ram-nd8cb]

What he meant is, you can be driver of you life which means you decide where to go or being driven by instincts or mind compulsions or life situations.

[@tina74166]

Beautifully said ~ 💞

[@abhishekmahanta1112]

Blind Western culture adoption is destroying a large number of youth in our country, thank you so much Sadhguru for showing us the light of truth. A human being can do everything consciously 🙏

[@swaushort]

We blame West for everything, are we making our choices, or they? If anything, Science and technology develop in the West to a larger extent, if they gave themselves up to senses, they would never attain that. Whereas we claiming to know everything, never give up our sensual drives, for more active pursuits.

[@rdog421]

“Blind western culture adoption”? In India women are gang raped and treated like animals so I wouldn’t try and blame “western culture “ for your own culture’s animal like shortcomings!

[@BeatsByQue]

I hope someone doesn't misinterpret this and think: "I guess instead of doing it in shame, I should do it in pride" that's still a compulsion.

[@explorer.samrat]

A much needed discussion for today's obsessive youths. 😊

[@jayasrivastava8053]

"Today's"??

[@ARPITSHRIAPRIL2289]

But he didn't talk about the process to act consciously and in spirituality

[@jayasrivastava8053]

😂 That in your own context

[@jayasrivastava8053]

7:45

[@BallsOfSteel2310]

Not youth even all ages

[@madhusudhank5193]

Wonderful words! Be the driver, not be driven. This idea will definitely help one in becoming a conscious response from being a instinctive reaction

[@MinglingwithAI]

Excellent point that you addressed Sadhguru! Beautiful explanation of a topic thats still considered taboo! Pranaam

[@jabalatiwari6497]

Sadhguru advice touches the heart🙏🙏🙏

[@Yetipfote]

2:39 he's speaking to us, men of culture!

[@Mankemista]

Lmao didn’t know I’d have find another MOC here 😂

[@lolong5976]

Lol. Please don't associate Sadhguru and his teachings to your perverted men of culture bs. Whenever yall want to seggsualise women, y'all brush off your creepy comments under the label of mEn oF cULtuRe 🤡

[@shaleensingh3896]

😂

[@raymondtendau2749]

ON BODY Body means different things to different people. For a child, the body and its functions are unfamiliar and new. A child is coming to terms with the body's basic functions and is learning how to maintain and preserve it. For the youth the body is a vehicle fuelled by hormones and all it takes to Hijack the attention of the youth is Handsome face or Svelt body. For someone in the middle age, the body begins to reveal it's true quality, transient and temporary. Limbs, organs and parts of the body one's unworthy of notice now begins to nag and demand consideration. For the Old, body means Pain and difficulty. -Sadhguru

[@ssuvigya]

Thank you Sadhguru for sharing your profound wisdom and insights. Your teachings have truly transformed my perspective on life and inspired me to be a better version of myself. Your clarity and depth of understanding are truly remarkable. I am grateful and blessed to be in your presence. 😇😇😇 🙏

[@polinagrein1681]

Where there is Love, there are Relationships!❤

[@upschelpers]

Thank you Sadhguru. You're my breath. No one in this world understand my inner questions other than you. I'm so lucky to have you within me.

[@shantanuagarwal5789]

How's he within you?

[@anandmehto5595]

​@@shantanuagarwal5789 😂😂

[@kapindrasinghrajpoot8779]

​@@shantanuagarwal5789you need much conscience to understand it ❤

[@anveshavyas450]

Very true.।। Human have self consciousness, spiritually connecting God consiousness which animals don't have .।। Knowing thyself as brahman Or pure consciousness is the key to brahmacharya.।।

[@Tomara710]

Very true... intimate relationships can be conducted with the highest of dignity in a sacred bond. Being bombarded with sexual images and perverse ideology which makes no control the preferred way is designed to undermine all that is good .

[@anveshavyas450]

Very true

[@RedhaRaza]

I like his openess to talk aabout these cultural subjects

[@3Merlin]

Namaskaram, Sadhguru! I bow down to your wisdom. Thank you for the definition of spiritual process...

[@swatiyadav2671]

Only You can put an absolute perspectives on sexuality Sadhguru ❤❤❤🙇🙇🙇 others either glorify it or condemn it

[@ssbsathish]

He is conscious in his thoughts 🤔

[@BlackPanther44549]

I glorify it evry day why i do that iam sou dumb i say it too me evry time until my brain understandst i dont more want too masturbaite any more

[@kishorek2807]

Very much needed insight about the most compulsive thing that is going on right now 🙏

[@suklapaksa8643]

Thank you, Sadhguruji, for your words of wisdom on this topic.

[@RakeshKumar-yb8zn]

Well said guru ji. Even I also faced such things in my young age. I was behind my aim and my surroundings was saying to me that I am abnormal as I was not behind sexuality like those sexual seekers 😁🙏

[@katekupaza9385]

Sadhguru, the one who has been lighting up for me!

[@mridulgoswami2645]

This was really helpful for me. Something that is difficult to talk about but very much relevant. Thanks Sadhguru for making it clear 🙇🏻🙇🏻🙇🏻

[@_AshishKumarUR]

I have also same question and look sadguru is here

[@govindamallick9181]

Thanks for this session Sadhguru ji👏

[@prabhatsingh6290]

🌺जय श्री राधारानी जी🌺 🌺जय श्री कृष्णा जी🌺 🌺जय श्री राधेकृष्णा जी🌺 🌺जय श्री राधे राधे जी🌺 🌺श्री श्रील प्रभुपाद जी आपको शत् शत् नमन🙏🙏🙏🌺

[@GROWITHME5]

I think this advise is the only thing i needed , from now on i will pick my choices ,thank you guru ,love from a buddhist from sri lanka

[@al3xj]

Explained with such compassion and wisdom

[@vivekanandturamari3952]

Namaskaragalu Sadhguru 👋🎈 Lot's of love from BELAGAVI KARNATAKA 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

[@faridkhalili0]

Outstanding wisdom! Whenever I listen to this gem feels as awe-inspiring as the first time I did. Thank you Sadhguru for you presence🌹🙏🌹

[@annika_0702]

Satsang is a great place to sleep 😂😂 I remember my mother when she was doing her Yoga classes. One day, the instructor was teaching the ladies Yog Nidra. They were to be laid down and meditate (kind of like Narayana Vasudev is portrayed). My mother experienced a mystical feeling during the process which she still can't explain till today. She said her whole body felt like a stone and she couldn't move it. It was like "leaving" the body as she had reached some other dimension of consciousness. The thought of that scared her so much she opened her eyes with a start. She was bittersweet at the feeling of coming back, but nonetheless the feeling of the unknown can scare any human being. But the most funny part was when she looked around to see that almost all the ladies had fallen asleep (some were even snoring loudly) and the instructor lady was facepalming herself 😂😂😂

[@tina74166]

😄

[@26rushabh]

Sadhguru has very nicely explained about what is truly needed to us in our life to be happy and blossom

[@tselisoncholu7914]

I love when he says,we are "human beings and everything can be done through choice".lt is not about orientation or religion etc.It can't be labeled if you are born with it.lt is your existence.Hurry❤.

[@rajkumaralagar4828]

Thank you Sadhguru for guiding youth in the right direction❤

[@krishnalagar]

Hi raj

[@haroonashrafi1669]

This channel is just like oxygen on Earth , thankyou sadhguru 😊

[@emanuelsoham-miller145]

Thank you Sadhguru, om shanti shanti, and bless you. I needed this talk. It’s is not about morality- right or wrong, it is about desire, intention, action-or lack of action, towards compulsory desires. I appreciate your BEingness.

[@shankarvishnu4740]

Namaskaram sadhguru🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Agastya_Muni]

Ofcourse all those humans who are in dis-ease are sexually transmitted dis-ease😂! Sadhguru's Humour is unmatchable 😊

[@pranavshah32]

He thinks he's a comedian 😅

[@shijuk8478]

That's a Wonderful Answer

[@thorrex]

No, he said every person is a sexually transmitted disease. Don't make it look morally bad.

[@Agastya_Muni]

@@thorrex but I can assume that someone who's at ease cannot be dis-ease, it's implicit 😄. So even though we all start our lives being a dis-ease, our aims should be to be at ease at all times!

[@JUSTINthisworld828]

Hari Hari guru-dev, I love that he knows exactly what to say. 5 years has been so short a time, in 5 mins he changed my life. Now anytime I have fear, I think of the love of the guru.

[@madhunp2139]

Beautifully explained 💛

[@sidhusid8210]

Thanks Sadhguru ❤️

[@TysonMichael77]

I found true freedom in this video, thank sadguru

[@aliyahkulin3246]

I never knew I needed him.

[@Tapan6666]

Good luck good video ok thanks ❤

[@magdyfarrag2835]

Fantastic explanation, deep understanding and convicing answer from a gifted blessed great man. Thank you sir.

[@virupakshakumbar4203]

Namaskaram Sadhguru

[@DJQ401]

Responsibility is the greatest asset you can ever carry ❤

[@shankargouthamayapilla]

Me too a stock market trader

[@sumitkulhari...3376]

We all are blessed with this wise man, and we are grateful for that🌸🙏🦋🌱

[@Elina.uuu_bau]

Best speech ever❤

[@Dee-kk8pe]

Excellent explanation in simple understandable way ! God bless u with more Divine knowledge . Aum Namah Shivaya .... Hare Krishna ♥️

[@timepassmrk752]

Sir, as usual worth watching your message ❤

[@banashree580]

wonderful explanation......thank you Sadhguru.

[@gamefeitz]

Hii

[@govindarayaprabhu727]

Though Sadguru has given superb meaning for the subject, it should reach our youths. I am on that way and hope you too work on that direction.

[@rajkumarchakravarthy9964]

Wonderfully put across, truly enlightening. Thankyou for the input.

[@himanshuraj9751]

Samaj ka asar padta h true ❤❤

[@primitivemediations530]

Thank you sadhguru. When i was a child i had a dream about what you spoke about being the driver and sadhguru more than anything i want that. Thank you 🙏🏾💗 so much my love for you is infinite.

[@devikamp]

Great explanation!

[@siddharthparabofficials...4314]

True❤

[@devshah_16]

'Instead of being driven, be the driver' ❤

[@Innocence_2005]

Great I think it is not easy to explain such things in such a easy way

[@saipalurisinger]

Becoming conscious is the solution to every goddamn problem we have on this planet and it's also the most difficult thing to do because one moment we are here and the next moment we are elsewhere. Try this tonight, when you go to sleep try to watch the last moment when you shift from wakefulness to sleep. Most of us miss it so easily. That's where Yoga come into play. It helps you to understand and conduct every small aspect consciously. Once you sleep consciously, you can also die consciously. Pranams Sadhguru for speaking about just about every aspect of life. 🙏 It's genuinely his compassion for all beings that he's doing this. Each one of us are forever indebted to him 🙏🙏🙏🙌

[@sarahtong2286]

very nice message

[@kamleshpatel153]

Sadhguru Answer always intrigued me 😅

[@sauravgogoi1471]

Total bliss Guruji, thank u 😇

[@govindbisen388]

Thanks Sadhguru. It was my question too

[@yashaswisingh8596]

Thank you sadhguru for teaching me the power of choice

[@pradeep-ic7sp]

Great explaition

[@oonaamookhao]

I want and will be the driver! Full throttle SADHGURUJI!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@sumitkulhari...3376]

Conduct it by choice, not by compulsion Instead of being driven become driver, that's the spiritual process.

[@r.kgupta4080]

Instead of being driven become a driver ❤ you are the god sent messenger sadguru .. it’s our blessing to have with us for our guidance 🎉❤🙏🙏🙏

[@lalayyl]

Really nice, thank you

[@alienallen2983]

👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚

[@rickyprince390]

Greatly said , namastar 🙏 sadhguru ji excecise are thoughts 💪 mere guru

[@DavidOkikiAmayoJr.]

Wisdom.

[@AJOYDAS9]

From where did Sad Guru regain so much knowledge ??????🤔

[@BlackPanther44549]

It is al most imposiblle just whit meditation and cold shower and sport

[@Mikisworld2000]

Well explained❤ Sadhguru

[@prathamsingh3075]

Shambho❤🙏🌼

[@sivasairamchitrada5247]

Thnx for trimming & uploading 🙏

[@sandeeppotluri9477]

Thanks sadhguru for wisdom

[@roloduarte5007]

I agree with you Sadhguru.

[@arjunsuparnam]

Sadhguruve Namah ❤

[@Stushunek]

Хорошо сказано.

[@tinahurley743]

Thank u❤❤❤

[@elijahrevell1201]

Are you driven or are you the driver. That is gold

[@midhon]

"If you are the driver that is spiritual process"

[@vbanerjee]

How eloquently sadhguru ji is synthesizing the ontological fabric of existentialism is humanism.

[@Anil-gd8qm]

NAMASKAR RAM ✨✨

[@eleanor7242]

We all have Basic instincts - humans have choice , not act by compulsion. Conscious choice !

[@ritanyadance5118]

Very well said

[@zayayoukhanna5930]

As long as you’re conscious and aware of what you’re doing you become a human being and not an animal. It Requires a lot of practice and attention but it’s doable and once you’re the driver then you’ll enjoy the ride wherever the road takes you. Much love to everyone❤

[@bharatkumar-wr7wl]

Thank you sadhguru. This means that there is a possibility to conduct every situation consciously and aestherically.tbamk you

[@Beastcoastal]

Tysm😊

[@bibhassen9819]

#Love From West Bengal, India 💛💙❤️🇮🇳