Words a wife should never say to her husband!

[@FollowerofJeusChrist]

First one: 4:21 Asking the question "Why?" Second: 5:08 "Go to sleep" or "Wake up!" Third: 6:10 "Get it yourself!" Fourth: 7:03 "I have a better idea!" Fifth: 9:17 "I already know that." (it says 4, it's actually 5) Sixth: 10:55 "No. Not right now!" (it's 6 not 5 and for the last two) Seventh: 12:40 "Look at that person." (comparison) Eight: 13:43 "Giving ultimatums and threats." As a man I can say that the last 2 are the worst.

[@tellmesumthnggud188]

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[@QueenZsWorld]

don't embarrass or put him down, especially not in front of other people

[@Cantthinkofwhatshouldgohere]

Loving this content! Everyone thinks they want a husband but don’t know the first thing about being a wife according to what GOD SAID. Not what they feel or what the world says.

[@ladennayoung2939]

AMEN. EXACTLY. AND THAT'S APART OF THE PROBLEM.

[@marcosfigueroa9884]

two statements to add. You never and you always!

[@johnmecca9008]

Skip to 4:00 if you want to get to the topic of the video.🤷🏽‍♂️

[@angelairuoma2980]

Thank you so much lord help me to respect my husband and never say or act like that Thank you

[@michaelhumble9731]

She told that she just said it to make mad, but I said what comes out of a person's mouth is what's in their heart...

[@apostletarranceaustinsr1541]

Praise God for a Godly woman like this.

[@amirdavis9075]

Father God pray for Karolyn and her family may you continue to bless above and beyond have blessed God you and yr family in this month 2022 and 2023.

[@user-xr4xq7zl9m]

This is nice, and much of it is true. The problem is unfortunately there are some men not following God therefore every idea, plan, suggestion is not honoring God, the marriage, the family and even sometimes himself. This is great advice for someone with a husband who is willing to love his wife or at least somewhat kind. There are unfortunately many worldly feminist broken rude disrespectful immature messy petty wives, but there are also many dismissive controlling abusive immature chauvinistic mean unloving angry verbal (and sometimes financially and physically) abusive husbands. the part of this message about prayer and fasting is truly the best part because marriages are and have been under great attack.

[@MsBdoll87]

I think there is a scripture in the Bible that addresses how a woman with an unbelieving husband can win him to Christ with how she treats him. God considered those things…He knew there would be situations like those. The Bible has a solution to every problem. The issue is we dont know enough of it to benefit from it. I did say we which includes myself😊

[@StillaRoseYoga]

I appreciate the knowledge of how the spirit of xyz in relation to our actions and behaviors! Tbh, I’m guilty of 1-7. Feminism did a number on me growing up. I am reclaiming my rightful place as a wife and submissive woman. Thank you Karolyne ! ❤

[@Aangel452]

True relationships work together in unity. Even when timelines differ. Each should be aware of how much the other is doing within the relationship, family duties and everyday living and chores, especially if the female is holding down a job too. Balance is harmony, setting time for each other is harmony, your man appreciating your contributions with flowers and kisses, and you with surprise fun specialties and romance. If only we could all be happy and comfortable in a relationship that gets bigger with more responsibility, we all need to step up or get out!

[@shahmohammed-x4o]

You are too young to be this wise, unbelievable good advice❤️❤️❤️ keep up the good work

[@bobbymontgomery3374]

I'm a man of God and my sister in Christ you doing a fabulous job and God bless you I needed to hear that all my marriage but I've been trying to do the right thing just can't seem to reach out to her but what you just spoke of somebody what I've been dealing with and it comes and what a minute to win my soul belong to Jesus and I love my thick and thin like I said you I know it's going to help someone because he'll help me today

[@Ohole]

Asking why is good. I disagree with the first point, in actual fact he should be open in helping you understand why he is for something or why he wants you guys to take a certain step. Unless it’s in a rude way, I don’t think there’s anything wrong in trying to understand something.

[@cadenorris4009]

She made the distinction in the video Constantly asking "Why?" can be implying that you aren't satisfied with his leadership, but is passive aggressive in a subconscious way. If you ARENT satisfied with his leadership, that's OK. You two need to have a conversation about it honestly, instead of trying to constantly drag him down. There's nothing wrong with asking questions, but if you keep trying to sabotage your man by annoying him, that is wrong

[@33weaponxoldmanlogan24]

Why? Depends on the tone sistas sometimes use. With the eye roll, nasty tone in their voice. The heavy breathing, talking out loud to yourself where he can hear it. “I don’t know why we gotta do it like this” or” why you got me doing this” Even saying this on the phone with your friends about him.

[@Celest3.h]

she means dont ask why if ur questioning them all the time it shows u dont trust him or in his leadership but there is nothing wrong with wanting to understand something but they are different ways u could communicate that to them such as i don’t “understand what you mean by this could u explain it to me again?” yk…

[@nehagupta1166]

I never even thought of seeing myself better than him ever, I know he is the best but only one thing he knows a little bit less that is how to know people's trueself

[@jamesewing9202]

You will help quite a few women especially our ebony sisters in Christ. I expect women of the world, or sinners to be brutal with their words, & conversations. I understand it all starts with men being like Christ(Ephesians 5:25-33). But there are no conditions for either husband, or wife to follow suit with the God principles for marriage. Husband can't say I will love her "if she" fulfill a requirement or the wife saying I will submit "if he" does this. Thank you for the content & my prayer is the Lord will open many doors of opportunity for you to help our sisters.

[@theparttimehomemaker]

ALL of these are great tips. I haven't thought about some of them before. Thank you.

[@fisher4yashua52]

you are wise and honorable.. good teaching

[@MsBdoll87]

You’re beautiful! I love your hair! I haven’t watched the video…yet! I saw the thumbnail & had to comment on your beauty! ❤️

[@brebre8031]

You look beautiful on the inside and out. God bless you 🌸

[@jenniferlitanda3416]

This was good definitely not easy to put in practice

[@yojanadebkota3768]

But at least I wanna try so that I won’t regret it later even if it’s impossible 😢

[@lorielogan1816]

Since marriage is a ministry for a married couple they both "serve" one another equally, and it should never be (one sided) biblically. They both give and serve one another equally...

[@marilynriggins3445]

Thank you Sister I was looking for help this is my Second marriage and I prayed and asked the Lord for what I wanted in a Husband this time I lift nothing up to chance I was reading the word looking for guidance this time so I took a chance and look for teaching and came across your channel I’m pleased that I found you because this time I have Godly sound word to help me I had no problem with submitting it was who I was submitting to the first now I have no problem submitting to my new husband I just wanted to be sure I did commit that same behavior that brought about strife and negativity which was my part in all of it thank you so much for following your gift to the Sisters of Christ soon as I can I’m getting your book I have to wait my husband is in the military and we are on a fixed income and I need to ask him can I fit the book into our monthly budget yes I ask my husband it a sound gesture ladies so he can feel i including him in all my decisions in Jesus name bless you and keep up the good work 🥰

[@chinitareid8625]

Greetings, Mighty and very special Woman of GOD Lead me too say this right alot ôf private things in a KINGDOM MARRIAGE IS VERY, VERY. PRIVATE AND my Kingdom Spouse is very VERY, PRIVATE Thank you Karolyne for sharing.

[@ntokozisomkhwanazi6324]

Thank u very much. I am a culprit on this topic and I need to learn to get rid of these words

[@karrmen7972]

I can’t not wait to get this book Praise God!

[@amirdavis9075]

Amen my sister I got situation on my job a married man gave the woman on my job his number I told the woman saying can he be friends with her. I told her not to waste her time. I did all this in love because I don't him to messed up his marriage.

[@racheloshaksmusic]

A common connection between these things a wife should never say is dismissal. They all seem to dismiss the man in some way, dismiss his own choices and manhood. This is something we learn from Jesus period, to acknowledge people and not dismiss them, so if you are a christian, you should never forget to treat anyone and your spouse well just because you have grown accustomed to them. It's one of the curses God gave to Eve that she would desire her husband but he will rule over her and we start to feel helpless, but Jesus breaks the curse and instead we can rely on the strength of Jesus to empower us to love again and to pray for our spouses, as well as our spouses respecting us and loving us and also not dismissing us too.

[@Nkosingiphile_LadyWisdom]

This is so convicting, I think we can all learn from what you just shared. Thank you for sharing sis. Looking forward to reading your book ❤

[@cryptoairdroplover7172]

I think that on the part where she ask WHY might also be from a place of curiosity and if that's the case then it's not offensive. Also the part where she'd say go to sleep or wake up? It's the couples' duty to care for and help each other so saying he needs to go to sleep or wake up isn't all wrong, but they're all tied to how it is said, like you pointed out. You're awesome Karole! 👍

[@Camerashy03]

So it’s not okay to ask “why”? We should always be “be onboard”? What if what he’s doing doesn’t make sense or is just a bad decision? How should you handle that?

[@LenaReigns]

I think it’s all about tone and context. Asking why with curiosity by means of educating is different versus why toned with aggravation and frustration. The latter creates concern that he’s not trustworthy or he’s incapable.

[@Camerashy03]

@@LenaReigns thank you for the advice!

[@christys.3912]

We are allowed to share our thoughts in a respectful manner, but we are supposed to ultimately go along with whatever he decides. The bad decisions are on him, he is supposed to hold himself accountable. If he doesn't, God knows the heart. If we are doing our part, the rest is between him and God.

[@nehagupta1166]

I never wanted to look better than him and I will never ever want to look better than him in any field. He is the best, I want to see him being the best in every field in this world

[@JacylnFord]

🎉Thank You for making this video🎉

[@Nkosingiphile_LadyWisdom]

I see and hear God in you ❤ the humility, wisdom, beauty etc ❤

[@claricesmith9528]

This was wonderful and very informative! Thank you! 😊 ❤️❤️❤️

[@無你處无江湖]

The title " words a husband should never say to his wife" is also appropriate to the video.

[@tessieduplantis289]

I’m glad I came across this, It surly is A miracle For me.. Guilty of A lot, Ugh, Eye Opener Ouch lol 🦋🙏

[@esthermutua1287]

Thanks alot for this tips informative and amaizing

[@percynelson7726]

She does her happy move. Do it.

[@prettymphilembatha414]

Looking beautiful sis ❤ thanks for your wise words.... God increase you more and more

[@latanyaharris7160]

OMG, I say "I already know that!" all the time. So disrespectful! Thanks for this!

[@s5g9g6]

Wow! Great information! Thank you WOG🙏🏽❤️📈🙌🏾🦅🦅🩸🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@ramonacooper5407]

Thank your I need this !

[@nojo1986]

Love this. I'm wondering if you have videos addressing how us women who are married to men not following God should go about all this. I think a lot of this totally applies if he's still a good man, or even if he HAS GOODNESS I'm him. 💞💞 But there are some nuances to be careful about...

[@nojo1986]

I just got to the part where she addresses this. Clearly I need the book.

[@timfj-au]

"You should..." "I'm just saying..." "Why can't you..." "I asked , and they said..."

[@beverlysummerlin3739]

These are some good tips, but it goes both ways. You need to do a video where you tell husbands not to say these words to their wives. Many husbands, such as my late husband, say some or all of these things to their wives. I didn’t say any of these things to him. I was about to have a conversation with him about not saying these words to me anymore, but he passed away unexpectedly before I could do it.

[@jbbrown3095]

Great information, thanks

[@toyinadelana1914]

Thank you for being a blessing to me. Sending you love from Nigeria

[@nehagupta1166]

I will never ever give ultimatums because I know how bad it feels, it's like u tie someone forcefully or u forcefully torturing someone

[@AyushmitaChakraborty-o7i]

Loved this amazing video. Learning so much. May God help me to be an amazing wifey🤍

[@miraclemarble8523]

This is sooooooo THANKS SIS!!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@tinates7354]

God bless you. Great video

[@sandrave6056]

i love this, Thankyou so muchh❤❤

[@nehagupta1166]

I will never tell him "Get it urself", earlier also I never told him, I always did everything whatever he told me to

[@craigbennett7974]

Explains Some Very Important Reasons Why Our Marriage Is Struggling!!!😅

[@stephanieoliver8634]

If you should not treat them like a child and tell them when to go to sleep, what's with all the "baby" talk. Like: I've got you bae or baby or, bae I will get it in a minute or as soon as I can. Do our big strong men " need" this baby talk? Let me know because I don't talk to my husband using baby talk in every sentence or conversation with him. I'm just asking for clarity.

[@RAINSHOWER1217]

I think one that should not be said is “ You already said that !”.

[@veronicaisaacosawere4190]

Thanks. Please, where's the link for how we go to battle for our home & related stuffs?

[@nehagupta1166]

Marriage is a sacred thing and if it is with the person whom u love then it is till the end, there is no word comes like "divorce" in love marriage, I mean I don't take decisions easily in these serious matters like "marriage" beacuse i know marriage is not a game and if I take that big decision then for me it is for life. I don't know any word like "Divorce" then

[@Ohole]

Honestly, get it yourself is rude. BUT men should be serving us too. There’s such an emphasis on women serving their husbands but we don’t talk about it when it’s from the mens side. We are BOTH supposed to serve one another.

[@33weaponxoldmanlogan24]

Agree both sides should do for one another. But she is talking about women serving their husbands being the helpmate God created. Sometimes women take this , get defensive and start saying what the man supposed to be doing. God instructs both parties. Women focus on their part. I’m sure she has videos on what the husband supposed to do, treating his wife.

[@Ohole]

@@33weaponxoldmanlogan24 Yes I hear you, but it’s important to make things like this clear. That’s basically what I did.

[@ramonacooper5407]

Yes of course 50/50 !! ...God do tell husband to love their wives like God loves the church !

[@33weaponxoldmanlogan24]

@@Ohole Got cha sista

[@auntyj68]

Yes, it should go both ways. Some of the things she mentioned were things my ex husband used on me. Especially comparing me to other people to get his way.

[@desmondwilson2586]

There are older women that are not mature as you. I pray my wife gets it one of these days.Thanks Dear for the Confirmation.

[@daniellenorris7329]

I ask my husband why because I genuinely don’t understand the point he’s trying to make sometimes😂 I don’t ask because I don’t trust, I ask because I want deeper understanding

[@w3n33dam1racl3]

Im not going to pretend im okay with something. If I have questions, I have questions. If I already know something, it is what it is. I will ask what he thinks about it. But if he gets offended because i know something already, he got other problems

[@jeffsmiley81]

Women should trust their husbands as he TRUST GOD. While you are serving a GODLY man, he will reciprocate by meeting your needs as well. The Bible says that God is the head of man and man is the head of one woman. GOD MUST BE FIRST!

[@MercyNguyo]

Thank you for sharing such amazing tips Karolyne. I've learned a lot. Bless 🤍

[@themoonbleu627]

Only thing I say is the comparisons maybe that’s the worse idk bc my husband always complains about respect because he dosent like when I go out with the girls which is every blue moon smh

[@MoniceJeslene]

Does something like this exist, but for men?

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[@aleshiamonet9062]

Is there a list for things husbands should never say to their wives?

[@albertbowens9175]

a thing a wife should never do is to make fun of or laugh at him if he has a small penis...can you please address this for the ladys to not do...

[@101runaways]

How you use it is what matters. But yeah body shaming is not cool.

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How should she address it????? If it's actually small????

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She is so happy and she is so cute and pretty and beautiful and gorgeous and she is so fine too I wish she be my wife some day because she is so beautiful.

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What happened when your husband is very aggressive and harsh on you?

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..... Or, "you told me that already" , or "I've heard that story already" I'm trying to have a conversation with you.

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[@tonikallioinen6969]

How sensitive, weak and helpless is your husband? I'm pretty sure that he can give a bath to your children or get something by himself. Although if you call him to a king you are already in wrong place. Relationship should base in equality and common respect not one sided respect or serving one sided to one person.

[@stonemuk]

KJV 1 Peter 3:5-6 5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

[@l.williams6249]

The point isn’t that he’s helpless. It’s treating him with the kindness & respect you would want. Not rudely saying “get it yourself” or “can’t you see I’m doing something?!” By saying something like “Sure just give me a minute to finish this” you give him 2 choices- a) “of course, take your time, and thank you” or b) “oh never mind. I didn’t realize you were doing something. I’ll get it.” Obviously he shouldn’t be rude either treating you with kindness and respect.

[@tonikallioinen6969]

@@l.williams6249 telling that someone should do something by himself/herself is not rude specially when you are doing something. You can be kind without serving everything to other person. If you want that someone is doing everything to someone else then hire a maid.

[@andrewandleighannesmall-kr9hi]

…… how can you be a critical thinker and not ask “why?” Hmmm

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It’s more about using wisdom. Always questioning why shows a lack of trust. Occasionally asking why shows interest

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