THE 4 MONTH SLEEP REGRESSION IS HERE | DAY IN THE LIFE WITH A NEWBORN AND A TODDLER 2020

[@britniecarter1688]

I’m not a mom yet but I LOVE your videos. I watch every single one. Very real and raw and I think that’s what we need to see. Your such a good momma!!

[@alyshock22]

Kayla you are such a hardworking person. I also love how honest you are:)

[@alexnoriega8680]

Riley has the best personality 😊

[@fayokemi_tolu]

I totally agree.

[@Dollytimebabies]

I agree to.

[@ashleynicole2546]

My dude is just over 5 months and we just started the Ferber method a week ago. He was exactly like Jackson and slept horrible, and now he sleeps at least 6 hours before waking. He went to bed at 9 last night, woke up at 4 for about 20 minutes, then slept again until 6:30. The first couple nights were rough, but now it is way better. You can start the Ferber method anywhere between 4-6 months, so Jackson is definitely old enough!

[@lindsaybauer6295]

That cracked me up "breakfast is so yummy!" "No it's so yucky" hahaha i love Riley she's great!!

[@viviancristy9291]

"This is my toddler, Riley, she's 13 years old 😂

[@Hana-wr4rg]

😂😂 sleep regression side effects 😭😂

[@heidimargaret306]

Omg Riley and Jackson are the cutest, him in that Yoda outfit was the best 😀 and Riley is so precious and a smart little cookie, you have a beautiful family 😀❤️🌻

[@magorzatalebioda771]

I believe that babies change all the time and our patience will be rewarded, sooner or later, so don't worry Kyla! 🌻Jackson is always cute and looks really happy! Even after a worse nap 🙂 So he feels really happy is his momma's arms and that makes up for all the tiredness and devotion. I know what I'm taking about! 😄 My baby is 14 months old and has better and worse days. Sometimes I have to go back to her room a milion times to put her for a nap that would last 30 minutes 🥳 and my coffee is always cold 😅 But then, after she wakes up she greets me with the brightest and cutest face ever and that's what matters. Sending lots od love! ♥️

[@aljoharahmansour9011]

Could not agree more ! 💕

[@blindhousewife8866]

The way she was in the morning with her baby brother...que dulce!💙

[@rosariotan7936]

Happy Mother’s Day Ma’am kayla.

[@helensagar]

Jackson makes a lovely little Yoda, bless him. ❤️❤️

[@junesammy-robidoux2305]

Oh my gosh I swear we are twining my Joe is also a huge Star Wars fan. And he is determined to make baby boy a fan.

[@KaylaBuell]

June Sammy-Robidoux how funny!! Yep, Joes a huge fan so he’s got Riley hooked!

[@mommyjaslynn]

I get to your videos late sometimes but I always get to them😄

[@chrissypacheco9635]

"no, it's so yucky"... Riley is so adorable 😊

[@AyeshaRameez]

I'm going through this 4 month regression and my son only hss 15-20 minute naps and just wakes constantly throughout the night. He also doesn't take a dummy which means he only finds comfort in me. I feel your pain

[@susancabaniss1309]

Happy Mother’s Day Kayla ❤️

[@beingveronique]

They are both so adorable.

[@brittanymiller8855]

Like I always say I love your videos and honesty but Happy Mother's Day !!! A day early but wanted to tell you!!⚘💐🌺🥰

[@tiffanygreen4524]

Great video ❤️❤️❤️hope baby Jackson is doing better Riley talks a lot for her age I wish mine talked as much as Riley she’s so adorabale

[@korynnnolte4290]

Jackson is so stinkin adorable! Riley too!

[@KaylaBuell]

Korynn Nolte thank you so much!!!

[@Jessica-ch1fo]

I love your videos! When Riley says "no. Nooo 😍" I would for you to do a video on how you created your youtube and is this your only stream of income? I am a stay at home mom and want to start a vlog but not sure where to start..

[@anamartinez7489]

Riley is a whole mood! She is so cute and funny ❤️

[@KaylaBuell]

Ana Martinez-Lopez hahaha she sure is lol she’s so funny but totally a handful these days 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

[@angelkitten86]

First of all I want to say that I love watching your videos! My baby is 3 months so I feel like I'm right behind you in these milestones. Second, have you tried any baby subscription boxes? I would love to see you do some unboxings.

[@crystaledkins1261]

Our boys are so similar with sleep! (Born jan 3rd) I can get him to sleep pretty easy in his crib during the day but at night he wakes every 20 minutes until i bring him into bed with me 😭 when i do manage to get him asleep i cant sleep! Do you find when hes sleeping in his bassinet you have troubles falling asleep if he is not beside you?

[@yyhhsss]

hey mama, are things becoming more manageable for you now? My boy was born on Jan 7th and I've been struggling to get him to nap longer and sleep longer at night. It's so overwhelming as a FTM and the 4-month sleep regression is kicking my butt too....

[@dayanacruz4408]

I love you kids they are adorable 😍😍🥰😘 I’m happy to hear that Jackson is doing better.

[@catiedobbs3254]

Oh my goodness you're babies are so adorable and beautiful 💗😍 God bless you and your family 🙏

[@Yaimialiah]

Your children are the cutest💕💕. I have a 3 month old girl and i get some ideas from you😁

[@KaylaBuell]

Yaneli Vences aww thank you so so much! ❤️❤️ hope your little one is doing great!

[@kayleerae907]

Hi! :) I just wanted to add that my son did not have anything to sooth him like a pacifier or blanket until 1.5, until then he refused anything and ended up getting attached to his bottle which I finally got him completely off of at 1.5 years and then I made him a small blanket like the size of his belly - so he couldn't suffocate, I have fears of that stuff. So I know what you mean when you say your son has nothing to sooth himself! It's sooo challenging and I feel bad for them because they don't know how to comfort themselves. Until a year old I rocked my son completely asleep with a bottle, he now is attached to his blanket and I have made him three - one for the car, one for my parents and then our house. 🤦🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️ Love your videos!! My favorite are just the day in the life with your kiddos and hubby ❣️. I have a 2.5 year old son and a 1.5 year old daughter 💗

[@fartunhassan9857]

Love your videos and ur family 🙌🏼 can you please tell me where you get your nursery chair?

[@sophiaharper723]

We just got the same vacuum/mop & it’s amazing! I have two kids as well & this saves my life haha!

[@dariadubinina9980]

Hi! I normally don’t comment but just wanted to share something 😊Ghee is a good substitute for vegetable cooking oil, but not for butter because ghee is its refined form, so it’s better to use natural butter

[@brendahyatt2976]

Omg baby Yoda 😍 so dang adorable

[@snacksloveoc69]

What carrier is this ? My lil man doesn’t like the the Boppy one .. so I wanna try a new one. Thank you .. I love watching you.. ur kids are so cute !!! 😘

[@philippapay4352]

Greeting Jackson with his cute double chin. Glad he slept somewhat better the prior night. So, you just tell Riley that you want breakfast because you are hungry and then you take her downstairs and give her breakfast after you have gotten yours ready. She can eat it or you can save it for snacks when she starts needing them off and on until lunchtime. You cleaning up the kitchen with Joe while Jackson is in the wrap was hilarious because all you can see is his little legs kicking away. I suspect the curtain from the dining room to the deck may take such a beating from Riley that you may not want to replace it until you see how long it lasts from her being obstinate about what she wants to do re: the deck and going out to play, so moving the curtain on her own quite often. Save some money. Good for Riley, being a "Star Wars" fan. I think your roses are gorgeous. So much beauty to cheer us in the springtime. I am not suggesting this is true, but have you considered if he cried for 3 minutes, then 5 minutes, then 5 more minutes and had then exhausted himself enough to sleep that maybe he just needs to cry himself to sleep a bit longer and will then figure out self-soothing to get himself past that? He would be highly unusual if he did not figure out some self-soothing tactics when he's tired. Does he have a pacifier or teething ring attached to his sleep sack now, so he can grab it to help with self-soothing even during the night when he partially awakens amidst sleep cycles? He may get the gist of it even with what you are doing. You will see. He had colic, Riley didn't. That made a difference early on, too. It is the worst to have to listen to your baby cry, but when you put him down you must understand that his needs have been met and it's complaining because that's his only language and he wants the repeated comfort he has not had the chance to learn that he can provide for himself. This is a good way to ease into later training. Try to remind yourself that even though it is getting to you that it is costing him the rest his brain and body need to cement memory and move along at full speed developmentally. Cat naps without full sleep cycles being completed cannot go on forever without some detriment. You are on a good trajectory. And trying solid food may help some. Give it time. He may now be associating your rocking him with the fact that you are going to put him down and he isn't ready, by his lights. You may have to get to the point of bathing him, reading to him and rocking him while you nurse a bit, but not waiting for him to seem ready to sleep. Just put him down when he's done feeding and leave the room. The crying does tire them out because it is not due to a need that isn't met. You and Joe both know you are watching the monitor, that his needs have been met, he has the owlet on his foot, and he has to learn to sleep well for a lifetime of needing sleep daily. So, ultimately the crying is wearing him down enough to sleep and not how many times you are rocking him, since Joe just got him down finally. It seems he has an approximate time limit on how long it takes him to settle. Let him move around after 24 minutes. He's not in distress. He's not even crying from grumpiness because he wants your attention. He may during any given nap figure out how to go back to sleep on his own. Let him make noises until he cries. He does seem to be moving around a lot. But, lots of children do once they are in a crib and can roll over on their own and it's all part of their sleep time or going to sleep time. It isn't fair how dang cute they are when they awaken and smile at you. I thought I would die of cute seeing him in the little Yoda outfit all crocheted for a jedi master.

[@rheahenderson5675]

The relationship between your little ones makes me broody for baby 2 🥰😆

[@mammamia3661]

Riley is such a good big sister !

[@cristinarevoredo9151]

Hi Kayla! First things, your babies are precious and I really like watching your videos! Second, I wanted to ask how did you teach your baby girl not to touch your phone (or what you use to record the videos). My baby is 10 month old and I can't use the phone or iPad because she wants it hihi. Just curious to see if there is something I can do to help her loose interest in these things. Thanks for the suggestion. Bye bye from Italy! 🇮🇹

[@cristinarevoredo9151]

Oh yes, I hope Jackson is doing better now, I preyed for your family

[@iluvrunnin4life17]

How is Jackson doing after his accident

[@KaylaBuell]

Phoenix Vervynck we took him to the pediatrician yesterday and she said he looks good. I think he’s a little sore..a little fussier than usual but other than that he’s happy and smiling thank God!

[@anheletafermin3642]

She is so sweet with him 🥰

[@KaylaBuell]

Anheleta Fermin usually she is lol she’s just making a lot of loud noises lately and it terrifies him poor thing! But obviously she doesn’t know lol

[@anheletafermin3642]

Kayla Buell of course! She’s found her voice, and we love to see it! Her poor brother will learn to love it too! Lol ❤️

[@laliquepretorius2009]

Happy mothers day ❤️❤️

[@DaisyCampuzano]

I’m not looking forward to the sleep regression 😭 lol My baby will be turning four months next week!

[@pricilagonzalezz5444]

He looks adorable on that pink suit 😍 LOL

[@shwetapatki3845]

Hey Kayla..try massaging Jackson with any oil or moisturizer for about 5 minutes right before you bathe him. I struggled with my baby's sleep for 10 months. Finally at 11th month, my baby's sleep has improved and massage has played a role I guess ! All the best to you !

[@KaylaBuell]

shweta patki thanks!

[@kaydeandougal9259]

Awwwww too cute!

[@kastevabenton7883]

Love watching your videos when my little guy won’t sleep at night 🥰 I find my son is sleeping a litter better just can’t get him to do longer stretches... if anyone has any tips please let me know 😊😊

[@ISRAYAHYA]

hi what was that vaccum stick you used in the kitchen? looks so convienant.

[@KaylaBuell]

ISRAYAHYA it’s this! I love it! www.amazon.com/dp/B07FX5K4D6/?tag=geygi0c-20

[@ISRAYAHYA]

@@KaylaBuell thank you!.

[@innanananana83]

Our second baby is the same age as Jackson. She had started to take two hour naps in the afternoon. Guess what... Now we're back at 30 mins. 4 month sleep regression sucks.

[@clauwitje4670]

So many toys 👀! Wauw

[@lekhasameeksha2566]

Hi Cn u give a link frm wr u got that soft toy in d crib?? M looking for it n m nt able to find it Plz do share d link

[@hasalaxx]

🥰 they are so cute😘

[@KaylaBuell]

hasala thank you!!

[@calvinliu6304]

Happy Saturday

[@kristinagriffin8421]

My son just started his regression and its AWFUL!!! Pleaseee dear lord tell me it doesnt last too long. Any tips?

[@bridgetaddo7781]

What is the name of the cleaning thing that you sent them to your house

[@MegenShep1985]

We have the older roomba and he's so dumb lol. We named him banks. But when he doesn't get stuck he keeps our house clean.

[@BrittneyHaith]

Hi, did you overcome the 4 month regression? Do you let them cry it out or keep rocking baby to sleep?

[@BrittneyHaith]

Lol please help I have a soon to be 4 month old and last night he woke up every hour

[@pamellabanks5237]

what baby carrier do you use?

[@largefamilylivin9629]

My daughter also has a teenager personally lol she’s 2

[@JessicaAdametz]

My little guy is just a couple weeks younger than Jackson. He also is a horrible napper! Takes 30 min of rocking just to get him to nap for 20 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Origami_world.]

I'm watching the video too well So cute I'll come see a video next time I pressed the like button

[@rosie-maerebornmummy3147]

How is Jackson doing I hope he is feeling better

[@KaylaBuell]

Laura Ann Kelly thank you! He’s doing good Just a little sore but that’s to be expected. He’s still smiling though so that makes all of us happy 😊

[@rosie-maerebornmummy3147]

Kayla Buell my husband and dog got attacked on Sunday

[@ashlynngilliam4581]

Buy these color grabbers. They’re a life saver!

[@KaylaBuell]

Ashlynn Gilliam I’ll look into those! Thanks!

[@ioanarosca6985]

Heeei we also have one like that, but ours is black and we also call him Wall-E. Your's is white so it should have bin called Eve. 🤭

[@y.gonz_]

My daughter just turned 4 months

[@nc8593]

My love for you I i was the way it it is a fun day to go to play it love love

[@p9enny15]

Wait I need that gadget you used to VACCUM stuff 😳

[@c.m.8590]

It might be a little late for this but have you heard of the 4s (set the scene, swaddle, sit, shush/pat) method? It's from one of the baby whisperer books. It's a no cry sleep training method. We started it at 7 weeks and by 10 weeks we were putting him down just a little drowsy but awake and he soothes himself to sleep in a couple minutes. Our son used to fight us SO badly going to sleep with the screaming just like you're describing and now he self soothes and takes 2 hour naps. Even if he does wake up he wiggles a bit then goes back to sleep. I hope you finally find something that helps ♥️

[@poojamangal62]

Please massage warm oil on jacksons feet and legs before bedtime to help him sleep longer..it really works..ive left this comment on so many of your videos hoping u see it and it helps u get rest

[@nituthakkar3433]

Pooja Mangal Which oil do u use

[@poojamangal62]

@@nituthakkar3433 coconut in summers , winter castor..but any oil works! Including basic olive oil

[@Myoptima]

I’ve never heard of this does it also work for naps?

[@poojamangal62]

@@Myoptima 100% pour warm water on babys feet and follow it with oil massage. Swaddle baby..u won't be disturbed for 2 hours minimum

[@bebeg8502]

Maybe he Doesn't like the mama roe because he doesn't like view he gets from being in there maybe move it where he can see everything everyone

[@KaylaBuell]

Bebe G I’ll try that thanks!

[@Dollytimebabies]

Breakfast is so yummy, Riley, no no it's so yukky!! Miss Riley xox