Debunking Genderfluid Myths!

[@uzzielalanis5870]

At what temperature does gender fluid become Gender solid

[@jj28524]

best comment among all

[@Tomieeeeeeee]

What about gender gas!?!?!??!

[@longliveplanetawesome3223]

@@Tomieeeeeeee Technically both liquids and gases are fluids, so really it's a question of what kind of fluid the gender is.

[@Tomieeeeeeee]

@@longliveplanetawesome3223 exactly 😂

[@Moldy_Spaghetti]

Lol

[@fizzybug]

especially the one where you don't just wake up and say "wow im a ___!" im genderfluid and i tend to just forget gender exists then i think about it and just go "yeahhh that sounds about right for today."

[@candlelamp8729]

Never heard someone explain my morning routine so explicitly lmao

[@cxffaye]

Same

[@UNlTED_KlNGDOM]

I'm not trying to be rude but you don't get to decide what gender you are today you are boy or girl if you like it or not

[@fizzybug]

@@UNlTED_KlNGDOM also not trying to be rude /gen, but thats not what it is. fair warning, this is probably gonna be a long explanation that you didn't mean to get lol the quick response is, your right, no i can't chose wether im a boy or a girl or whatever else. but thats not quite what i mean lol. ok, very long explanation-- when people are transgender, its not quite a choice. you can't really control what you are or are not, and thats okay. its also incredibly difficult to understand, which is also okay. sometimes people think that when i say im trans, they think what im saying is "i know im in the body of a female, but i think its male now", like being transgender means to change your sex (based on physical attributes) rather than gender (based on mentality/comfortability) which, while the confusion is understandable, this is not the case. because theres a difference between sex and gender, they are not always interchangeable terms. everyone is assigned male, female, or intersex (which you might wanna google or something if you don't know what that means) when they are born. for example, i was born female. which means that even if i don't feel comfortable with my body or whatever else comes with being this sex, i cannot truly change that. no amount of surgery, or hormones, or whatever else can change that. the majority of people who are trans understand that. gender is different from sex. this is something much more fluid and malleable. while there are the main two sexes, there are many more genders, and yes, it can be difficult to understand. for example, im genderfluid, which means that the labels im comfortable with change (in case your wondering: yes it's infuriatingly confusing, no i don't force anyone to try and make me comfortable, 99% of the time i just use neutral terms like they/them to make it easier, and no its not just being indecisive). other people can come out as the opposite gender than their sex (ie FTM (female to male), MTF (male to female)), some people have it a bit more complicated, and some people don't quiet align with anything (agender) or simply don't want to have a label. (if you choose to do research about different genders and see something like dreamgender or cakegender (both actual things i saw, unfortunately) or whatever else that is equally super weird, please ignore it. people who make these are trolls and the only purpose these "identities" have is to mock others) pronouns are an entirely different thing, but to simplify it, pronouns to not equal gender. for example, you could be born male and go by all pronouns, yet still be cisgender (when your gender aligns with your sex). basically, gender is kind of messy and difficult to understand. but it doesn't hurt to call someone what they want to be called, unless its something really weird but thats not a gender thing so we don't need to talk about that :D just try to be respectful of others, its not too difficult and it can make them feel more comfortable and could really make their day :] and i apologize for this super long reply lmao, probably not what you were expecting. if anyones actually read it, then i hope you have a good day/night

[@UNlTED_KlNGDOM]

@@fizzybug thank for clearing that I just wish it didn't take so long to read that lol

[@_JD_Heart_]

The first one speaks to me. Cause like I’m always masc presenting but am still genderfluid.

[@KearaGraves]

yesss absolutely! i’m mostly femme presenting these days, but a couple months ago i was mostly masc/androgynous and it’s still changing constantly!

[@Screamingcryingvisibllyshaking]

Same

[@Great_tusk]

Damn you had the official account respond to ya

[@castielwinchester6734]

Same

[@Andres.Duran.J]

He

[@caffeinered]

For me it is like taking two drops of different coloured dyes and placing them in a glass of water. As you watch them decending as pillowing clouds they intersect, swirling around each other in layers, slowly intertwining mixing. There is always movement, there is always fluidity. No point is fixed but I expirence being simultaneously at a multitude of varying poins at any given moment.

[@fuckingfreak4101]

This is such a beautiful way to put it , this description has rlly boosted my pride today thank you! Xx

[@jonm2416]

Doesn't the fact that you associate certain feelings with a feminine gender and certain ones with a masculine gender make you worse then those horrible binary folks you are in conflict with? You're the ones mandating certain feelings to a certain sex.

[@Portahooty]

@@sevilliane here’s an example: do you feel like your gender? A genderfluid person feels like a gender the same way you do, only what gender it is changes (if you need an example of how that works you can just reread the comment)

[@keenanvincent1751]

This sounds like a really sad way to get attention

[@jiggyman-pj1zl]

Y'all are just bored dude you don't want to be manly or feminine so you like to choose a gender?

[@sillygooseswift]

Yes yes I wake up most mornings and think: I feel like shit, no gender just shit.

[@justintime1993]

It's because you feel like you have to keep up this bs gender fluid charade around your generation of friends to be accepted. Ditch the friends and just stop worrying about which gender you're going to represent yourself as today. You're driving yourself nuts. That's why over half of y'all are ki**ing yourselves. You're just not happy with how God created you because you have this peer pressure that you have to be trans or whatever to be accepted. Find God and be who you are and live your life and you will be fine.

[@cloudambient]

Uh, "cis" people don't wake up and "feel" their gender either. You people are just crazy and looking for attention. Convince me otherwise.

[@realtensaki]

Best one 😂

[@hamat0leonard0]

im sorry but i saw this comment and instantly thought of bo burnham SDFJGLK

[@Kel74943]

Real. So real.

[@sheepreviews2046]

Tbh I don’t fully understand Gender-fluid. Just glad that it allows people to be who they feel they are.

[@SeaBreeze-w9999]

Who they feel they are isn't the same as who they really are

[@Daemonic_Mike8116]

As Genderfluid when people ask me what gender or pronouns I have decided to respond with: "Dont give a shit. Call me a bitch, sir, ma'am dont care. Just dont piss me off"😂

[@harpersmith9493]

at what temperature (in Fahrenheit) do you become gender-solid? and is there any possible way you become gender-gas?

[@devinstewart1072]

I am gender fluid. We become gender-solid at 42 degrees Fahrenheit, and we become gender-gas with the help of tacos.

[@babyduckwithaknife1271]

my girlfriend came out as genderfluid a while back, and I understand and knew about the myths, as I am a demigirl, but my favorite way to ask them what pronouns to use for the moment is always "tits or pecs".(yes I did ask if she was okay with it first)

[@apinchofdisappointment]

Hi fellow demigirl

[@trentosborn4242]

Imaginary land must be way better than reality.

[@chasemartin4450]

Same thing applies to your Church :)

[@manahelh.6104]

@@trentosborn4242fr fr Delulu asf

[@manahelh.6104]

@@chasemartin4450 you compare a two day trend with and ancient religion that’s funny

[@MatthewCorreia-mi9wg]

Imagine being a liquid

[@spikypancake1661]

Good to know! My sibling is genderfluid so I'm always glad to know more about what they experience.

[@GhostRider-yc7kr]

It doesn't exist

[@candlelamp8729]

Aww that’s so sweet! I’m sure they’re lucky to have you :)

[@ltus6324]

@@GhostRider-yc7kr true lol

[@Me-Does-Editing]

@@GhostRider-yc7kr You guys just can’t stop spreading hate, can you? You always gotta turn something happy into something bad just cause you feel like it.

[@GhostRider-yc7kr]

@@Me-Does-Editing someone can't take facts lol

[@jg2745]

I'm a demigirl and the last one was really well said. like sometimes I wake up without knowing how I feel so I just choose some clothes that I like at the moment and when I'm outside I realize I don't like them because they're for example too feminine and I feel more non-binary at the moment and it usually lasts for the rest of the day. so yeah, I usually realize who I am when I'm already around people and can't change anything about my visuals anymore (':

[@naomiruiz30]

Fellow demigirl here and I feel the exact same way!

[@cloudzack1090]

Jesus christ how the fuck do you live? The whole thing sounds like a mess

[@splooky3425]

Oooh hi fellow demigirl 🖤💓🤍💓🖤

[@splooky3425]

@@sevilliane Demigirl is someone who identifys with womanhood partially and something else. There's a lot of different cases and it can be different person to person. For example I use they/them pronouns and for the most part consider myself non-binary but I don't mind my female body too much and she/her pronouns sometimes.

[@splooky3425]

@@sevilliane granted that you began this with "either your a boy or girl", I don't think you will be very respective to what I have to say, and frankly I'm very tired today, and don't feel like having to defend my gender to a stranger, (note this is not meant to be aggressive) I do ask if you wish to learn more then look it up, on KZbin their are many non-binary and demi perspectives that can help you understand and took the time to explain in way I probably could ever. With all due respect, if you truly want to learn.

[@razzberrypop]

A good thing to think about when people assume an identity dictates presentation: A non-binary person doesn’t need to be androgynous to be nb, just like a woman doesn’t have to be feminine to be a woman, etc This applies here too :) to be gender fluid, you don’t have to play into what ppl think gender fluid ppl should look like

[@potatoperson582]

I feel number three through and through the amount of times where I am just floating through the gender universe is Extraordinary

[@sourwitch2340]

mood... I'm mostly female, but sometimes fluctuate into a specific subset of xenogenders, that seems to keep expanding, and the amount of times I started out the day as a woman and then suddenly started feeling more like a potted plant, to a snow leopard, to a marionette, and then just ordinary woman again is, wild.

[@1993rufus]

@@sourwitch2340 🤣🤣🤣 i know, I also wake up as male but suddenly i feel like i need to be launched into space because i get the feeling i should be a planet in our solar system!!!

[@SeaBreeze-w9999]

No such thing a s a gender universe

[@slipknotmfkrlocust8843]

Yep, these are all true, feels good to see this being shared.

[@VerdarJei1396]

I recognize you from several slipknot comment sections, cool!

[@slipknotmfkrlocust8843]

@@VerdarJei1396 I get that a sometimes, I used to get it every 3 days or so lol, howdy.

[@GhostRider-yc7kr]

It doesn't exist dude lol.

[@slipknotmfkrlocust8843]

@@GhostRider-yc7kr lmao ok

[@GhostRider-yc7kr]

@@slipknotmfkrlocust8843 just spreading facts. People think Gender Fluid is a thing, it's not because it doesn't exist. Everyone should know that already

[@Harvyy99]

Fact#1: you don’t have to be non binary to get attention

[@johntrevy1]

You also don't have to be an uncompassionate douche bag.

[@Salemroadkill]

Can’t speak for others but I can speak for myself. Im not genderfluid because I want attention. Im genderfluid because Its how I interpret my feelings and no ones stopping me from expressing them in this way.

[@ferrisbueller9991]

@@Salemroadkill And that is all ok. It just seems to be a really popular way nowadays.

[@kaosoverlychaotic]

​@ferrisbueller9991 its not anymore popular nowadays, it just seems like it because people are getting more educated on these new terms that describe our lived experiences. At one point in time, being left handed wasnt accepted in society and no one talked about it. Does that mean left handed people didnt exist?

[@vampiricicarus979]

I have a gender schedule I’ve figured out a bit. I wake up: feel too tired for gender. Agender. Get ready, feel preppy, feel feminine: Demi girl. Move through the day, non binary. End of the day, I’m tired, I feel strong and chill, guy. Sleep, I dream and am not affected by the cycle. And then some weeks, or days, I’m just stuck in one gender.

[@someanimefan5990]

I have a race schedule similar to yours: Mondays i feel lazy so im black. Tuesdays i feel hardworking so im Asian. Wednesdays I feel like blowing shit up so im middle eastern. Thursdays i feel like dominating people so im white

[@wyatt_iley]

​@@someanimefan5990💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@johntrevy1]

Something that confuses me. To all the people who say that the person in this video is looking for attention. Do they not realise that the person in this video would already have attention anyway? They are gorgeous, they will already have people flocking to their feet, LGBTQ+ or not.

[@historyrepeated4239]

Every human has varying degrees of masculinity and femininity. So, to state the obvious fact of being gender fluid , is just as useful as saying you identify as a human. Claiming your gender, or how you present is a fairly obvious way to gain attention or to seek validation through arguably artificial means. So, instead of focusing on true character attributes….kindness, empathy, determination, love, etc., we focus on trying to get instant validation through classification. Why else would you make a video or state what you are or how you present so vehemently? Yes, in 2023 we are unbelievably egocentric. Very sad.

[@johntrevy1]

@@historyrepeated4239 Trust me, there is nothing masculine or feminine about some people I know. You are just using the abelist cop out card to belittle people who are different. Like I say this person in the video is gorgeous, there are far more effective ways to gain attention than declaring gender.

[@historyrepeated4239]

@@johntrevy1No, it is not. To immediately turn this into some kind of accusation of belittling is not useful. Although personal attacks might be preferred by some to shut down conversation. We are all different and I’m certain you don’t really know every masculine or feminine thought in these people you know.

[@ferrisbueller9991]

@@johntrevy1 By shaking ass? Yes. But with this they retain a specific ingroup's attention and their respect.

[@ferrisbueller9991]

@@historyrepeated4239 What is wild to me is how people use hormones and not feel right. FtM They use Testosterone, #1 complaint is a emotional state of apathy Mtf They use Estrogen, #1 complaint is that they aren't emotionally stable. How can you know what you are but than be surprised as you chemically assimilate. Neither side really knows how it will feel. Chemically w/ your phycology. Your psychology after people start treating you different, actually seriously see you as the one sex you were going for. I mean bio women don't really know how bio men perceive things, same with the reverse. It is not as if we don't have many long videos of people who de transitioned (which sadly get their voiced snuffed out because if regular people hear them they will stop believing in the "science" of all this) The social sciences, they have never led us astray.

[@apollodiomedes7654]

Can i have a bottle 1 litre of gender fluid? I need to refuel.

[@justinfelt748]

This is a great idea, Keara! You're a genius! Happy Thursday!😊😙💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷🌈💜💜💜💜💜💜💜😊👍

[@GhostRider-yc7kr]

No she isn't you're just slow

[@FennecFoxLabs]

I have seen you saying stuff like this in like 10 comments do you spend all day telling people they are dumb or something?

[@woozisguitar450]

Thank you for helping me on my journey to accepting and loving myself as a pan, ace and genderfluid individual Keara!

[@dsr637]

Myth #1: Gender fluid identity is more than just a narcissistic fashion trend for terminally online zoomers.

[@insertname1452]

oh no, are you scared that gay people actually have rights now and are starting to open themselves to the world more 😣😣

[@dsr637]

@@insertname1452 Why would I be scared of insecure zoomers following a fashion trend for social approval? Plus 'gender fluid' people aren't the same thing as 'gay' people. You're not too bright, are you?

[@iniciu.]

sounds like you're the terminally online zoomer

[@SeaBreeze-w9999]

@@insertname1452Gender-fluid isn't the same as gay. Gay actually means something.

[@user-lp6gq7lt4b]

I don’t get it if your a girl why would someone call you he/him. I’m not trying to be mean I’m simply just trying to understand

[@VividlySkip]

MYTH 3 OMFG THANK YOU!!! I CANNOT COUNT THE DAYS I WAKE UP AND MY FRIENDS ASK HOW IM FEELING (for compliments if my gender jumps around more than usual) AND I JUST SIT THERE TRYING TO FIGURE IT OUT. you are amazing fr tho

[@bellamckinnon8655]

Thanks for educating Keara!! You bring such a personability and realness to these topics that straight clinical notes definitely wouldn’t. This is way better. Thanks!!

[@ferrisbueller9991]

Watching tik tok/youtube shorts is obviously gonna be more fun than reading clinical notes. Or reading anything... that requires more that 20 seconds of attention. I'm thinking people should read/listen/watch more things like Jung and his Animus and Anima.

[@valxuemusic4567]

Lord, what has happened to this generation 😭

[@screaming.crying]

We became more accepting

[@valxuemusic4567]

@@screaming.crying accepting? You mean "brainwashed"

[@jadeee9658]

@@screaming.crying became crazy and delusional**

[@Kaixcs_]

​@@jadeee9658you do NOT know a damn thing about delusion 💀

[@Kaixcs_]

​@@valxuemusic4567argue with the science bro

[@Qorvid20]

I feel like I kinda needed that last one, I feel like I've set that up as an unrealistic expectation for myself.

[@basedengineer4962]

I have a genuine question. I identify as non-binary and have for a while, but I’m starting to notice that I feel more masc on some days and more fem on others, and some days like neither. I’ve been wanting to find someone gender-fluid to ask this, but can gender fluid people be non-binary sometimes? edit: i’m genderfluid now lol

[@jeremytherien1429]

uh yes of course lol

[@junebunny0712]

Genderfluid is under the Nonbinary umbrella, so of course!

[@anSealgair]

Feeling like neither is agender. Sometimes I feel like this. You sound like genderfluid. I am too, sorta - demifluid. Changing but not feeling a lot of anything. It’s all under the enby umbrella.

[@Lia-uf1ir]

If course! I’m trans genderfluid and non-binary but that doesn’t (have to) mean that I always feel like neither male or female. Sometimes I do, sometimes I feel more feminine (which is why I also call myself a demigirl or demi-non-binary) and sometimes I feel like I’m both male and female (though I still struggle to accept my male side - when I discovered that I’m trans I initially thought in binary terms and rejected my male side (though I’m still not sure whether me feeling male is because I was raised male). I think your question is also about labels. I myself am often not sure whether I should use labels because I feel like there isn’t the one label that fits me so I use several. I would recommend to just experiment and try to use different label to see which ones fit or if any fits at all. It’s all fine. Remember, you decide what labels you use just like with pronouns - these things only you can decide. Don’t let anyone tell you what to use.

[@jonm2416]

Let's also admit that you people invented this for attention.

[@johntrevy1]

I can think of far more productive things to get attention, this isn't one of them. Try again. 😂

[@jonm2416]

@@johntrevy1 I can too. That's the freakin point.

[@johntrevy1]

@@jonm2416 Okay. Good for you I guess?

[@jonm2416]

@@johntrevy1 Trying a little too hard, huh? 🤣

[@johntrevy1]

@@jonm2416 I don't understand.

[@SurgeTheBold]

Or you could stop caring so much and live your life.

[@averageday]

💯

[@johntrevy1]

Um, they ARE living their life. Their BEST life I might add.😊

[@Fenrir_Claw]

For me, I usually can’t figure out which gender I feel like on the spot, I usually feel like male and female. Sure, sometimes I feel more female or more male, but usually it’s both

[@rose_magic.]

As a gender fluid person thank you

[@eponanymphaea]

What pronouns do you go by? New to your channel but love the content so far. You are lovely 💖

[@EleFontana]

Hi, here’s a recent video Keara made about their pronouns: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bGSwfodvpKaZrKM Hope it helps💜

[@eponanymphaea]

@@EleFontana thank you so much!

[@ferrisbueller9991]

I go by Gorlax the Destroyer. Unless I'm in my pet play suit, If I'm leashed I'm Buster.

[@Karmialol]

This is helping me with my gender Og i thought i most likely genderfluid then i heard myths and said oh most likely not then Right now im Agender and i feel comfortable but im not sure if its my gender yet!

[@anSealgair]

You can be agender sometimes and still be genderfluid. Some are agender all the time.

[@youknow4267]

Whats an agender 💀

[@mariaphillips8568]

@@youknow4267 basically just no gender ig I’m not sure exactly but I’m pretty sure that’s what it means

[@illumizoldyck3528]

Thank you! My gender sometimes changes after a month or two and on occasion every other day. I always thought to be genderfluid it had to be daily and it greatly confused me in my gender journey

[@ihavenoideawhatimdoingwith4240]

As I've said before, Sometimes it's T-shirt and jeans to feel masculine. Sometimes it's a hoodie and leggings because I feel nothing or both. Sometimes it's a dress and pretty ribbons because I feel fem AND THEN THERE'S DAYS WHERE YOU WANT ALL AT ONCE OR YOU DO ONE AND THEN FEEL THE OTHER It can be so damn frustrating LMAO

[@yington]

Did you read a book from the 1920’s about gender stereotypes or something?

[@conejitoburrito6526]

Bro I wish I'd had this when I was questioning, now I'm fluid and proud :)

[@-BIGMANJIMGAMERBOYZREALGSLIME-]

I’m a solid

[@conejitoburrito6526]

@@-BIGMANJIMGAMERBOYZREALGSLIME- lmao that's nice

[@GhostRider-yc7kr]

Dude it doesn't exist

[@conejitoburrito6526]

@@GhostRider-yc7kr good for you

[@screaming.crying]

@@GhostRider-yc7kr idk why you don’t do something useful

[@ds986]

I'm genderfluid and just hearing this makes me happy

[@riyummy]

I don’t even have a specific one I use. I just never even think about it, but when I do, I just kinda feel them all out and just go “yeah that sounds good for now”

[@greenthebean3910]

Ahh thank you, that last one is one I struggle with, I always feel like I should know right away or I’m faking it

[@rowanedwards1380]

I sympathize greatly. Myself I am non binary so not a whole lot of questions as to who what when but boy oh boy people can be a bit of a pain sometimes

[@GhostRider-yc7kr]

Non binary or binary doesn't exist, you're male or female not a bot or an AI

[@rowanedwards1380]

@@GhostRider-yc7kr says the person who seems to think he is a flaming skeleton. I don't think you are making the argument you think.

[@Designer239]

Honestly I never really knew about this. But I’m already done with being Gender Fluid , cuz I’m jus a lot much better jus being as a female only. Even though I am a lesbian.

[@ilovecats21]

Nice

[@Designer239]

@@ilovecats21 Thanks ☺️

[@Nightmares-]

For me, sometimes I wake up and "oh, I guess I'm a girl now" and sometimes it takes a bit for me to figure it out

[@mommarae10]

Serious question. How do you know that the way you feel is “like a boy” if you’re a girl? If you’ve never been a boy how do you know how that feels? Or do you just assume that since there are only two genders to pick from?

[@skeley6776]

Like a lot of things in the LGBTQ+ community its all just based on stereotypes.

[@goblinmod3180]

Finally someone said it!! My gender usually changes in small steps over long periods of time, so I go by they/them pronouns almost all the time and don't really feel the need to change my presentation. I always feel nonbinary, just different levels of feminine and masculine, but since people think genderfluid equals "boy on Monday, girl on Tuesday etc", I just tell people that I'm nonbinary 🤷

[@johntrevy1]

Same.

[@SeaBreeze-w9999]

Lmao

[@miraculousdream7028]

As a genderfluid individual I can confirm this is correct.

[@jasondrobick2363]

Privileged spoiled brat

[@MarsBarsssss]

It’s the middle of the day and I STILL CANT FIGURE OUT WHAT GENDER IM FEELINGGGGGG

[@flopstick_]

Sometimes in the middle of the day I start feeling too masc in a unconfortable way...and then I start being dysphoric because Im feeling like a girl. I WAS ASSIGNED GIRL AS BIRTH!!!!!

[@paintedshoebox3619]

Whenever you feel like your AGAB and you're like: "Oh God, I'm faking. I'm lying for the attention. I'm making it all up." Even though you change again later and have only told like,,, 2 people

[@ferrisbueller9991]

I think it is fine for people to not know themselves. I mean when it comes to must everything else we don't so why would this be different.

[@dinosaurFURRY]

Anyone else who Is gender-fluid | 👇

[@kurrylove3243]

My dysphoria always tells me “I don’t care” every day so like I just wear whatever :/ Idek what gender I am but I literally don’t care what it is as long as it’s not just female alone 😂

[@GoatsRCoolerThanU]

I’m genderfluid and YES. YES

[@adamnasir2]

Not valid

[@GoatsRCoolerThanU]

@@adamnasir2 no one asked you 😭

[@adamnasir2]

@@GoatsRCoolerThanU Didn't have to

[@5tarrySage]

Im a genderfluid and sometimes i dont feel like a boy or girl. Sometimes i feel.. NONBINARY. Uhh, is that even possible? Genderfluids help.

[@OverHour]

The entire thing is a myth.

[@Awildmay202]

sometimes in the day I just have to reflect to myself he, she, they and see how i feel gender wise. if your cis do you wake up and i mediately go GIRL ‼️‼️ or BOY‼️‼️‼️ no, it takes some reflection

[@snarkysnake372]

As a genderfluid person this is litterally so true thank you 😫

[@thatgaygirl]

Omg thank you I’ve been confused about my gender identity,knowing that genderfluid isn’t just like changing genders ALL the time like others say

[@GhostRider-yc7kr]

Gender is male or female. You're one or the other, genderfluid isn't a thing. It doesn't exist and never has. Stupid people

[@candlelamp8729]

Well, for some people it is! But the great thing about being genderfluid is you can be whatever you want WHENever you want and it doesn’t matter :)

[@frledt0ast]

Yeah, but it's just not real

[@laienna8759]

prove it!

[@Stardipped_Paws]

If ppI are genderfluid, then its real

[@rainbowflyingllammmaaa7839]

Cryy

[@Screamingcryingvisibllyshaking]

Exactly! I present masc most of the time and I don’t think I’ve ever felt completely one gender or the other but I’m still genderfluid

[@555.kyomei]

I’m gender fluid and regardles if the gender i feel I almost always use they/them

[@yellowbutter3808]

I’m genderfluid and this helps me feel better about who I am

[@yellowbutter3808]

@@sevilliane you don't have a valid opinion. you either support the lgbt or not. you cant just decide to be rude just because you feel like it.

[@yellowbutter3808]

@@sevilliane well i don't identify as genderfluid anymore because i realized that im non-binary so i couldn't really tell you what its like

[@yellowbutter3808]

@@sevilliane well to me, being a man or a woman never sat right, with me it makes me uncomfortable being referred to as a woman and the same for being referred to as a man, so i just chose the middle ground and it makes me comfortable with my body and who i am

[@2405phuong]

@@yellowbutter3808 just say you have a mental illness at this point

[@Portahooty]

@@sevilliane intersex people exist, they aren’t a man or a woman they are both, and they are born like that

[@sadieeekp]

As a genderfluid person (that identified as a demigirl for a while) I love this! I used to use they/she pronouns but now I use they/she/he/any pronouns, and for so long I felt invalid as a they/she genderfluid person. Thank you for this

[@ru.edits_]

i am genderfluid and have been going with they/them for the past month. i’m dying to see if i am non-binary

[@anSealgair]

You definitely are non-binary too

[@ru.edits_]

@@anSealgair too? you mean genderfluid AND n-b??

[@anSealgair]

@@ru.edits_ Genderfluid is under the enby umbrella. Enjoy 💛🤍💜🖤

[@invalid3194]

Me running away with the gender fluid

[@anSealgair]

You come back here mister, I mean missy, I mean

[@cloudambient]

This poor girl needs to get out more. Hope she matures past all this stuff.

[@johntrevy1]

Oh I'm pretty sure they get out as much as they need to. 😊

[@cloudambient]

@@johntrevy1She doesn't.

[@johntrevy1]

@@cloudambient You know them personally?

[@cloudambient]

@@johntrevy1She's literally just a woman saying she's not a woman. I don't need to know her personally to observe that.

[@johntrevy1]

@@cloudambient Oh, so you are a mind reader now?

[@cjames9320]

How about we just lock them all up?

[@insertname1452]

how bout we lock all homophobes up?

[@rainbowflyingllammmaaa7839]

Why?

[@cjames9320]

@@rainbowflyingllammmaaa7839 they are destroying our culture and our society. If they can't figure out left from right, up from down, or xx from xy, they have no place in society. I don't hire these people, because of how toxic and selfish they are, and how destructive they are to everyone around them.

[@rainbowflyingllammmaaa7839]

@@cjames9320 lol how?? Are you stupid? Keep crying, snowflake.

[@CM19986]

@@rainbowflyingllammmaaa7839 so that mental illness doesn’t spread in to wider society. Suggestion: we build a dome round you all, and you can all have your own little world where men and women are the same. You can also just randomly decide to be neither a man or a woman. You can all tell eachother your preferred pronouns and dye each others hair. And in the process, you all leave the normal, functioning members of society alone and stop bothering everyone with your identity crisis’? Sound good?

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

After 60 yrs of feeling like an alien, I'm finally just going to acceprt I'm neither...I overall don't wake up feeling either/or. I grew up a 'tomboy', but I wear trousers and dresses because they're comfy, and make me feel good, not particularly gender presenting. I'll stick with she/her because, well, it's been 60 years of answering to that, and it's not that important to me. I'm still working all this out to be honest, and feeling like I'm a big fat fraud, and worried by talking about it, just makes me look like I'm seeking attention..wish me luck.❤

[@drunkie3186]

Can I find this in autozone?

[@Andres.Duran.J]

I am so proud to say that im a male

[@randomguy7473]

I identify as incredibly handsome

[@Cutiepatootie11037]

As a genderfluid, my gender feels like everything that got fit into one catagory. No, im not multigender.

[@ashwain24]

This really clears up some questions I had about myself, thank you😊

[@cocoa_alpaca]

Myth #4 You have a good therapist

[@ado-]

shit i might be gender fluid

[@SOLOMONDAMIANAARON]

I am gender fluid forever 🔥!

[@theblackrainbow1]

Oh the good old pronouns , society biggest most pressing issue

[@Found_your_Rachel]

Myth number 4 : She thinks we r inspired or interested

[@johntrevy1]

We are?

[@Game822snake]

That "don't recommend this channel" looking sexy

[@usedtissue6871]

Ong 💀

[@otaku3OBSESSION]

I consider myself a genderfluid dude. I’m always feeling dude, but like sometimes other genders occasionally.

[@utterlychaotic5814]

i often feel more fem/masc/nb in the middle of the day... when i'm wearing clothes don't fit with the gender i feel that day.

[@paulblart7378]

Oh my god your clothes don't change your fucking gender. I've had it with this stupid generation of acceptance

[@ryanmorejon5813]

This is all true Keara and thanks for showing it to us I love it ❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@Jonas-ej7id]

Let's debunk some myths about a myth?

[@sd_g0thic_kd765]

I'm questioning being genderfluid, and this does help me figure out what will happen if I come out as genderfluid and/or what genderfluid is. Thank you 😊

[@sarahking5598]

And if you are like these myths, you’re valid. Everyone is different and unique ❤

[@maxquen5560]

Don’t accept a lie to make u feel better. Accept who u truely are biologically

[@johntrevy1]

What lie? I had been lying to myself for near 39 years and now I have come out I feel liberated.

[@Arretito]

who you are born biologically isnt how you have to be your whole life, im not lgbtq or anything and like, i dont understand the hate? you only see the cringe of it on the internet, people with these preferences in the real world you would never even notice unless they told you. this "embrace who you are biologically" is complete bs and ignorant as hell. get real 😘😘😘

[@shwembo]

It's all a myth

[@vixymix101]

Nope

[@gingered_pierce]

Yep. Can confirm that first one. I'm Fluidflux to be more specific but I've been stuck in this demiboy state for quite a few months and just recently had a femboy week. :) It may be annoying to keep changing to make the disphoria less bothersome but it's nice to switch it up sometimes. Just takes awhile to get used to.

[@Me-zz5zy]

Thank you! I’m genderfluid and having a not great day and seeing this really made me feel better and less alone :)

[@d3l1c10uspancak3s]

Thank you... I've been feeling this way. So, I could feel like a boy for one day and be masc presenting that day, but feel and be feminine presenting the next day and be that way for a month straight, and I'd still be genderfluid? I get told I'm not genderfluid if I'm a girl way more than when I'm a boy...

[@cxffaye]

Sounds like me except it shifts every few weeks it seems

[@isiajahhhahahababblvjylvjy1034]

I love your hair!! How is the haircut called?

[@sincerecinnamon]

Question: I don't have access to a real binder, so is using a sports bra that I take the cup thingys out of, stretched a small bit tight, okay to use for as long as the school day is? Two of my trans friends do this, but I want to be sure that it won't hurt before I do it. It isn't too tight, but I haven't tried it long term yet and I don't want to hurt myself

[@hazelgrace1193]

Woah. I think I just found a new term for myself???? I did NOT know this is what genderfluid meant. I never really cared about my pronouns so I always said call me whatever. I don't care. Some friends call me he and others call me she.. etc. It doesn't bother me. Ofc though I like being called by my birth name but is that what Gender fluid is? A dress honestly however I want and what I want. I was born a female and am comfortable in my body and the parts it has. It's the pronouns I don't really care about.

[@Noomi_Zoomi]

This made me realize im gender fluid. I used to think that until I started thinking all these myths and then now that I know that these myths are fake I now know that I am gender fluid.

[@waterbratt5390]

Why is everyone hating on gender fluid people

[@kelseyjaffer]

dude literally. most of the time i'm just like, floating around in the universe like "gender? i hardly know her!"

[@strawbeebop]

I thought I was a binary trans man last spring. The dysphoria was so bad, I wanted to peel my breasts off and chuck them into a river. I hated the sound of my voice when I spoke. The thought of having to tell my family gave me my first panic attack. Then it faded and I thought, "Oh, maybe I'm just non-binary and not being cis just freaked me out." Well now the dysphoria is back again this spring, so I guess for me, being genderfluid means having seasonal dysphoria 💀 Thanks, I hate it.

[@johntrevy1]

You are a wonderful human being, that is what you need to focus on. You are you, whether you at the time are a girl a boy, something in-between or something else. You matter and you are valid.

[@Moldy_Spaghetti]

I’m gender-fluid and I prefer she/her pronouns. I love y’all

[@Artpersonarting]

Identity is fascinating concept.

[@-Williamthegachatuber-]

OMG THE FIRST ONE IS SO TRUE I’ve been non-binary for like a month before now

[@johntrevy1]

No. You have IDENTIFIED as NB for a month, you have been NB your whole life. 😊

[@daplatypusgurl11]

I usually just try not to really think about gender and just think of myself as Lily, but when I do get thinking about gender I go spiralling down into gender dismorphia lane, so usually let's say I'm non binary or a girl (because that's my bio gender) to be safe