Reacting to your *cheeky* childhood queer signs !!! 🙈

[@sappho-favourite-pupil]

When i was a kid - like 9 - i convinced everyone to let me play Lancelot in the school recital, just because i didn't want my girl best friend to "fall in love" with someone else [she's my girlfriend now].

[@TinkerandBelle]

When I was like 12 I was in the book thief and my best friend got liesal i literally tried so hard to get rudy cos yk they like fall in love and at the end they kiss my little baby gay heart ❤

[@mariebourgot4949]

So cute! :)

[@dandalstraphotography]

Supportive parent here! We live in a SMALL midwestern town in a red state. When my daughter came out we were so happy I got with a queer friend and organized our city’s first ever Pride festival! Hundreds of people attended and next year will be our fourth and it keeps growing!

[@KearaGraves]

LETS GOOOO!!! this is what I love hearing. Keep doing it !🌈🙏🏼The world needs parents like you!

[@honeyymintt]

This is wonderful!! I wish my parents were like this

[@Alex.Brandt]

Bravo monseur! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@ChickenNugget-c6h]

the “i never knew how to draw men” is the realest shit ever

[@KearaGraves]

RIGHT?!😂😂😂

[@vlogswaurieee]

IS THAT WHY IM BI?!

[@ChickenNugget-c6h]

@ lmao

[@SW33T_V3N0M]

WAS THAT A SIGN???? MY ENTIRE LIKE 4 SKETCH BOOKS ARE WOMEN

[@Dyoonii]

@@ChickenNugget-c6h but I thought men were easier to draw 'cause of their simple outfits and short hair tho....😭

[@suchitanaik1515]

I remember I had lots of affection towards all girls and wondered why are they so invested and interested to talk about boys lol

[@averyschrader5125]

Fun fact: I was looking at photos of me when I was around six, and I remembered that my favorite dress was orange on the top with pink on the bottom. My room had an orange wall, a white wall, and a pink wall.

[@princessthyemis]

epic!!!!!

[@averyschrader5125]

@@princessthyemis IK!!!

[@ChickenNugget-c6h]

GAY

[@ChickenNugget-c6h]

me too btw

[@Delaneyisbraindead]

When I was at Disney World as a kid, Snow White kissed my cheek and left a lipstick stain and I refused to wash my face afterwards. I was 5 lol

[@mariebourgot4949]

^^

[@chrxstxna13]

there are videos of 5 year old me at disney world all flustered and twirling my hair waiting for the princesses to come to our table at a restaurant....i only just realized a few years ago what was going on in those videos lol even if i didn't know i had a crush on them, i subconsciously did

[@lindseyw1345]

Wait I had the same story but for Cinderella lmao

[@KearaGraves]

SO CUTE!!!!!!!

[@likeamarigoldvent]

bro same but it was cinderella.. she gave me a HIGH FIVE and was like "ahhh i am never washing my hand again!" my mom looked at me.. she knew before i did ..!

[@l.a.u.x]

GUYSSSS I don't know if anyone cares but I CAME OUT TO MY PARENTS TODAY as Nonbinary and Pan and it went SO WELL I'm so so happy!!!!!!!!!!

[@camillelemarchand]

Congrats 🥳 So happy for you !!

[@KearaGraves]

AHHHH I’M SO SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!❤🎉 We love accepting parents 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@Nats-b7q]

I’m so happy for you!!! You are very brave!!!!

[@l.a.u.x]

Thank you guys so much!! 🏳️‍🌈🐼🐝

[@camillelemarchand]

@@l.a.u.x Of course !! That’s what this community is here for :) Thank YOU for being yourself and sharing this major news with us ! Take care 💗

[@milenajankowska6403]

When I was like 7 I kissed my best friend for school. I remember thinking she is so pretty and if boys can have a girlfriend why can't I haha

[@conlon4332]

Quite right too!

[@chrxstxna13]

i literally have a specific memory from school where i was thinking to myself that i'm jealous that boys get to like girls because girls are prettier

[@analuizahenriques1703]

I love how your hair is always so pretty, short, shoulder-lenght or long they all fit you so well

[@KearaGraves]

Thank you so much darling 💕💕💕

[@analuizahenriques1703]

@KearaGraves 🥰🥰🥰

[@MariaLuísRamalho]

When I was 10 I would talk to my friends about living together as adults because we refused to think that we would get boyfriends.

[@OreoBear-tw6dv]

This is extremely off topic but I feel like it’s worth sharing. I have 2 lesbian teachers at my school (who are actually married btw) and it brings me so much joy. I live in the south so most of my teachers are straight and christian. I really wish I could tell them (I’m in one of their classes rn) that I also like girls and think they are absolutely awesome!

[@gracebloome]

I asked my mom if I could be a rainbow for Halloween when I was like 13 (rainbows are one of my special interests lol) and she said “if you do that people will think you’re gay” and I earnestly was like “oh damn you’re right” 😂

[@hanahlbocanova6085]

When i was 6-7 i was obsessed with this movie character, watched the film she was in every single day until i got tired of it and ended up just fast forwarding to the parts she was in and watching that on repeat 😭😭

[@dAfoodie101]

not like childhood signs but a funny story: in spanish class we had a quiz and one of the questions was what celebrity would you take on a date? and i sat there racking my brain for a male celeb’s name when i really just wanted to put olivia wilde or alyson hannigan 😭

[@nolarsystem]

Omg so real! My science teacher asked the whole class a question: who’s ur celebrity crush? It was my turn and I was like…. Uhh Tate McRae?? Lol my gf was next to me. She said Vivian (censored last name) that’s my name so now the teacher knows we dating

[@OreoBear-tw6dv]

@@nolarsystem that’s crazy. I actually think I would have a heart attack (I live in the south so all my teachers are straight and christian)

[@nolarsystem]

@OreoBear-tw6dv oof

[@AEEIA.]

this made me cry! thank you sm for this validation, keara 💞

[@KearaGraves]

ILY💕😘

[@frostchild-nq8yi]

Dude for real end of the video "trying not to hate Christmas" that's what I always think during holidays, isn't family holiday trauma just the best 😩

[@KearaGraves]

AHHHH I FEEL UUU its such a hard time for a lot of people honestly.

[@nolarsystem]

When I was 7, I got kissed in the bathroom. We dated until she moved. I was in second grade lmao

[@yourlocalflatiron6124]

Stop that’s actually so adorableeee

[@nolarsystem]

@ ye it was like a little romance! We got married under the slide on the playground, and I never had the heart to divorce her when she moved. So I haven’t seen my “wife” in 8 years, and I don’t have her number. Sometimes I wonder if she still remembers me :)

[@someonesomehow379]

9:04 OH MY GOD I JUST REALIZED WHY I WAS OBSESSED WITH ROAR BY KATY PERRY like oh my god + the outfit-

[@Dyoonii]

Me too girl me too !! And I was just 7 at that time 😭

[@someonesomehow379]

@Dyoonii wait now I'm curious how old I was back then wait- 😭

[@someonesomehow379]

@@Dyoonii omg hahah I was 8!! that's CRAZY to think about 😭

[@GGlikesart]

@@Dyooniisame😭

[@someonesomehow379]

@@GGlikesart real!

[@hali625]

I was not breastfed, but some random lady at my nursery showed me how the milk came out when she was feeding her baby, and I was FASCINATED. I was 5, and I remember everything 😂

[@jennsumbera6435]

THE HAYLEY KIYOKO MVS WERE PEAKKKKK

[@jennsumbera6435]

ALSO FOR ANYONE WHO ISNT AWARE THERE IS A GIRLS LIKE GIRLS NOVEL BASED OFF THE MUSIC VIDEO 🥹 SHE RELEASED LAST YEAR AND IS RELEASING ANOTHER BOOK IN 2025 :))

[@sherylheidecker9025]

I like boobs and I was not breastfed. My daughter was breastfed and she is not into boobs. I don’t think there is a correlation.

[@Cinnamon281]

how dare youtube hide this from me for 30 mins >:(

[@__your_girl_abby___]

OMG i am so excited for this!

[@conlon4332]

I'm officially a nudist now (just officially became a member of the local club!) but really I always have been. Back in school when we had to get changed to go swimming, I would take all my clothes off straight away and then faff around and procrastinate putting my costume on, I'd brush my hair in the mirror, get my costume out and put my clothes away, and basically just find things to be doing until almost everyone else was already changed and then I'd put my costume on.

[@someonesomehow379]

17:36 I LOVVVEEE THISSS AWW 😭😭😭🩶🩶🩶

[@amyo2003]

AHHHHHHH I LOVE YOU!!!! i’ve been waiting for you to post this!!!!!

[@kenzie_ray]

I remember there was this girl in my kindergarten class I was looking at the Alphabet around the room and I saw that the first letter of our names were next to each other I then thought about the fact that it was a sign that we were meant to be

[@chrxstxna13]

me being unable to stop staring at keira knightly in the pirates of the caribbean. i was mesmerized

[@SW33T_V3N0M]

When i was 8 i got super excited when my swim coach (i was in the top class back then) said they were having a competition on the weekend and we would get to see her swim too... i got excited abt the fact that she was gonna be in a swimsuit

[@happylilbookworm6513]

This is hilarious and cute oml

[@SW33T_V3N0M]

@@happylilbookworm6513 i was i funny little baby gay

[@melanie4125]

GIRL! You were in fellow travelers?! I’m on the first episode and took a million double takes. Awesome job so far ❤

[@cherylmacedo5521]

YOU should be Person Of The Year on the cover of Time Magazine… (not you know who 🤬) I love your channel. Happy New Year to you and Ren 🤍🤍🤍

[@someonesomehow379]

12:13 omg stopppp 😭🩶 this is ADORABLE

[@MrW11YT]

2:07 As a bisexual genderfluid pagan who hasn't came out but still has heard my mom talk about my identity (she's talked bad about Paganism, bisexuality, and "people who think they can change their gender), I can relate. Anyway sorry for going on a rant, LOL.

[@JennyOkazaki39]

Th-u for all you've shared and advised about our queer lifestyle, you are a blessing. I'll always continue to check-in with your sweet videos about 'coming out,' and have a Happy Th-giving. 🦃❤❤❤🌈

[@camillex5916]

As a kid, I never drew boobs in any person, until someone pointed it out and it was very awkward (the worst getting them myself, and got my life back when discovering trans* tape)

[@AureliaMangan]

I earlier this year discovered that I was queer I thought I was bisexual but now I’m a lesbian and I also realise from what that person said I can’t draw men either and I’m an artist well I don’t have a profession I just like doing art

[@siirifani4ever]

When I was in 5th grade I had a boyfriend that I played hide and seek with, meanwhile I also had my girl best friend who I made out with lmao. And the best part is that even with that it didn’t really cross my mind that I could be gay like wth.

[@happylilbookworm6513]

When I was 11 me and my best friend said we were gonna grow up and have a florist together and live in two houses next to eachother with flowers all around it, and that the 2 houses were connected together so all our kids would have to do to play with eachother would be run through a short hallway everyday? 😭😭 Like they could just knock on eachothers doors or smth? 😭 But we insisted the houses must be connected into one house 😭😭

[@victoria.b5]

you look great as always❤

[@Sunriselover9013]

From the age 4-7 she-ra was my favorite show 😅

[@Aaron.T_82816]

20:19 The live action Jim Carrey Grinch is the only one I bother to recognize 😂😊❤ So in other words, yes. It's a favorite of mine!

[@mrscreepy7986]

The locker rooms 😭 I was small enough to be able to climb inside of the lockers and change in there

[@EstherHunt-p6d]

I was OBSESSED with finding Atlantis for YEARS because I watched the movie Atlantis: the lost empire (many, many times) and I wanted to be the one to find it so I could find that princess and marry her. Then as I got older, as a weird sort of manly ginger girl who looked a lot like Jonny from Hotel Transylvania, I started thinking when I was watching those movies that I was Jonny, Mavis was my wife, and the little boy was our son 🫣

[@thewaterfairylexy5127]

So cute!

[@brendam455]

Lol the lash out at the end was 👌

[@AnaLuisa-ls9gi]

When I was a child I liked to take off my Barbie´s clothes.

[@mentallyunstableram]

Welp... you're not the only one 😅

[@amyo2003]

hahaha thanks for reading mine!!!!! and the cute 👏👏👏👏 for mine…..

[@tommywilson9800]

Keara I'm genderfluid and you give me highkey gender envy

[@Polyglot85to90]

14:52 "I'm going to really miss debate" 🤣

[@patriciamillar2225]

There are a lot, looking back lol. But when I was 6 I somehow knew how lesbians "did it" or the basics anyway. Didn't freak me out and seemed so normal to me lol.. When I was in the 5th grade (10 yrs old?) i was a hall monitor and saw a mom come out of the office with a camel toe and i haven't stopped looking at girls since. Also, I understand that he discomfort (gay panic? Lol) in the gym changing room. If I could tell my younger self anything it would be: Please be your whole self, unapologetically so. Don't go through comp het, etc and hinder yourself out of fear. It's ok, I promise! (I'm 47 and sorting out a lot now and sad at how much time was "lost") Thank you for your content Keara. You're a sweetheart, funny, beautiful, amazing energy and heart!

[@swiftie777]

I can feel the gay panic through the phone💀💀💀

[@slaysweetie21]

omg one of my early nonbinary signs was when i had a fat crush on yellow the pokemon trainer which was a girl but she had to hide her identity so she was a boy and i wanted to be her so bad 😫

[@slaysweetie21]

this was when i was 11😭

[@someonesomehow379]

2:11 I love this!!

[@kristateufel124]

I always made my Barbie’s kiss 😚 ❤

[@colbyreed397]

With my story, it’s kind of similar where my parents aren’t supportive right now and I’m trans and I go by the name Maddie through my school, but your videos brighten up my day sincerely Maddie she/her🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

[@ambersjourneysinlife]

Omg keara, I always didn't like Christmas and felt bad about it, but then you started listing the homophobic family members, the fights about politics and being extremely overstimulated and that is why I hate it so much, and it just seems so much more valid to hear it from someone else.

[@HarmonyJorgensen]

I asked my mom what gay met when I was really young and she said it meant happy. So I asked if my male cousin who had a gf was gay and she couldn’t stop laughing. Then I asked “does that mean I am gay”. How did I not know

[@mariebourgot4949]

Thanks for this cute video Keara.

[@__your_girl_abby___]

i literally can't watch the jim carrey grinch bc one of my relatives used it as a tool of abuse on me when i was like 2 and forced me to watch it even though i was terrified. i am 24 and still have freaking nightmares... i am fucked up LMAO

[@mariebourgot4949]

🫂

[@__your_girl_abby___]

@ aww ty! 🫂

[@sorrellparker8507]

0:53 I literally got one for 8th birthday 😊😊😊

[@kileyslife7541]

My friend and I used to kiss so we could "find out what flavor our chapstick is" 💀 Idk what happened to her, but I'm queer🤷‍♀️

[@Taylorjean91]

I never got to come out to my mum but I think she always knew and I came out to my dad just over 3 years ago and he just laughed at me and said noone would date me and he walked away 😔.

[@mariebourgot4949]

🫂

[@roseafire8810]

For the longest time, I thought I didn’t want to marry anyone. Recently I realized that I just didn’t want to marry a guy. Soo yeah, now I dream of marrying a woman in the futur 🥰

[@PrimcessShanissa]

When I was younger I thought every male actor was hideous and I thought that was weird and that guys were supposed to be ugly to me and thought most girl actresses were gorgeous I'm apparently bi with a preference of women🤷 (My friends say they think I might actually be lesbian but still) And have a gorgeous girlfriend👍

[@paigemariePC]

still waiting for one of these confessions to be they watched you religiously growing up because same.

[@jimwalden-h9o]

The powerful expressions of Keara @ 4:04 @ 4:22 @ 6:34 @ 8:43 @ 9:46 @ 10:02 @ 11:20 @ 12:51 @ 13:08 14:12

[@ruaaosman5283]

Camo cargo pants!! Is that a sign 😲 OMG

[@ThreadedWishes]

I starred as a homeless man in a play in the summer of 2023 during the last day of summer camp. I am a genderfluid non binary person who doesn't get the respect and support I need. ❤💛💚💙💜

[@smooeyyyyyy]

I used to play this game with one of my friends when I was younger and we called it the baby game, essentially, she was the baby and I was the mother. I was a single mother and there was no mention of a father, where he was or what he was doing (idk if this counts but yk, a kid about 6 years old being a single mother without thought of a man being in the game seems pretty gay to me)

[@annamclachlan1979]

Literally wearing Grinch socks rn...

[@chiarabiffarino]

i just remembered i also would think at a certain point in middle school "if i was a boy who would i like" AND i'm pretty sure i also thought about becoming a nun but not for a religious reason let's say.

[@mothwithsocks]

i think my family knew from the moment i decided to be the father when we played family

[@__your_girl_abby___]

i'm sorry but Keara, you look so fucking stunning today!!!! (though you always do but today i had to say it).

[@gracefulolivetree4218]

When I was younger I wanted to be a nun because I'd read that in the middle ages the only way you could get an education and do shit if you were a woman was if you were a nun. My family is very much not religious.

[@PorpleBladeYT]

1:03 same me and my sister hate Christmas for the same reason tbh

[@piggylover8882]

When I was like 4 I had this like giant aurora sleeping beauty doll plushie. I would reenact the kiss scene where I was philip. Anyways I didn't know what gay was till I was like 10 and still didn't realize I was gay until a girl asked me out and I felt natural about it. Also wanted to "friend marry" this femal npc from a starwars ds game. It's fun growing up not realizing that it's possible for girls to kiss girls. I wasn't raised in a bad environment, I just never realized it was possible for girls to like girls because of heteronormity in things like disney movies and stuff. Once that concept was unlocked for me I didn't ven blink twice I just accepted it (and still didnt realize that meant I was gay. I was so innocent) It's both funny and sad looking back.

[@UrFriendlyNeighborhoodBassist-]

8:35 is so real 💀

[@Zafafishan]

Hey keara can you make a video on the thai gl series.

[@Ashs_on_pawz13]

I’m a girl and I think im bisexual, but at the same time I don’t ever want to date a guy or have a sexual relationship with them. As I’m typing this out i feel like to anyone else it would be pretty obvious to anyone else that I’m a lesbian but I feel like I’m bisexual. Dose that make sense? 😕

[@no-1-x9t]

Hey bro love your tats(tattoos)

[@hayli-liubusch7283]

I dressed masculin/adrogynous for most of my life everybody thought i was the wierd tomboy turns out im really just non binary

[@colbyreed397]

Thank you for your videos

[@Ranpo_Edogawa954]

Once when I was like 11 or 10 my cousin who was probably like 15 said that it was either him, his brother, or our other cousin who was the gay cousin, I just had to listen to him say that knowing I liked women but couldn’t say anything because most of my family was homophobic (I’m pretty sure we are both the gay cousins now)

[@thewaterfairylexy5127]

I always had one close friend in kindergarten, elementary school, middle and high school. I also had a friend that I knew since she was a baby (she’s 2 years younger). The close friend in kindergarten was a red head and I was obsessed with her even when she kind of ditched me, but she kissed me when I was at her house. In elementary school I had a friend who I stayed over and we touched each other private parts (we didn’t even know what we are doing). In middle and high school I had a close friend that wanted to kiss a girl and I was willingly while her other friends were to shy, she and I even made out. Also because we were so close classmates thought we were lesbians. My friend that I grew up with wanted to make out with a woman but was shy about it since we were still children and she and her other friend talked about that. I was always obsessed with drawing rainbows and on KZbin they were a woman that was dressed in the colors of the rainbow and even dyed her hair like that. Guess who wanted to color their hair like the rainbow when she’s older…me. I was as a child of 8/9 years very obsessed with Katy Perry I kissed a Girl and Carlifornia Girls. I was also a fan of Lady Gaga poker face. I definitely loved dramas where girls were dressed up as guys and made another girl fall in love with them. Sadly those dramas are always disappointing since the girls always fall for a guy, except for a recent Kdrama called the painter of the wind (even if the girls didn’t end up together, but it was definitely some love between them). I want children since I was a child, I never wanted to marry though or have a boyfriend. I just wanted children. I also was obsessed with female celebrities and singers and drawing females. I’m also very anxious being with a boy/man long therm or just being alone with them (including relationships, I feel like it’s to much and I break up very soon). And that’s not everything, but I wrote already enough and I still think I’m straight.

[@Lara-n2w]

Liking boobs because they feed you as a child is not a thing, you are just really gay, i'm a psychology student and maybe Freud thought something like this but there is NO scientific basis for this and also by this logic every person who was breast feed would be attracted to boobs

[@liviaramos365]

8:32 so true

[@Laurelyli]

As a kid I used to play husband and wife with my female friend and I always wanted to be the husband and make out with my wife all the time. And I always thought male bodys are just weird. Yet women are goddesses. But no, I'm definitely not gay.. 😅

[@swiftie777]

Some things are starting to add up.......i think i might be gay 😭 and thats really not gonna work for me 🥲 not against gay people or anything but i will never be able to come out

[@hayli-liubusch7283]

Side of my hrad shaved is literaly me

[@elphalindagirl]

I only played with Barbie’s never Ken. The Barbies even kissed and had babies together. I was 5.

[@Catradoraxlumity]

Any advice on how i can come out to my parents their not homophobic but I'm still nervous

[@Medusa-2-p7k]

I don't know if you'll see this and I do not know if you know what Gacha is, but I have 2 tell tell signs that I was Queer when I didn't know I was(I found out in 10th grade with my first girlfriend that lasted about a week and first kiss with that same girl that cheated on me after a week of dating): First sign was I only ever liked watching Gacha Mini Movies about Lesbian or Gay Romance no Straight Romance, I didn't get Straight Romance, I would write Mini Movies or Music Videos about Queer Romance still do also I would watch on repeat HeartStoppers, and second sign was when I found girl in red(you know that saying "Do you like girl in red") I got too obsessed with girl in red, I saw her in concert in Pittsburgh on November 29th, but anyways my home screen and lock screen is just a picture of girl in red. Also, my mom is homophonic, so I can never tell her that I'm gay(I am 18, by the way) Edit: Also, I know a lot of Lesbian/Gay and Bisexual Men and women as singers. And I loved them(just to name a few, girl in red is obviously Lesbian, Mad Tsai is Bisexual, SkyDxddy is Lesbian, Rosendale is Gay, Melina KB is Bisexual, and Zolita is Lesbian) and my dream is to get engaged to a girlfriend that i will once have at a girl in red concert Edit 2: Also I would listen to songs by girls or guys and be like "They sound gay. Are they gay?" And about 60% or 75% of the time they are either gay or bisexual so yay to my GAYDAR

[@Leo_music1]

We have a wall but all of the popular girls go in there because they say all the girls wanna look at them even though we were all like 🙈🙈 then they were all dancing naked with each other like girl what MAKE UP YOUR MIND

[@MrW11YT]

13:57 My family, basically.

[@dochics1053]

Its better now with the younger generation ,,when i was young you did not tell your mom you feel differently like a female now at a old age its to late to take hormones the only things I do wear panties and makeup unnoticed because people hate seeing a man like this and friends don't understand my doctor says be myself well it comes with problems, going out of town with a female friend and buying a new dress have makeup and going out i hope it works out fine .❤ 😂 ❤

[@DontCareL0L]

14:15 I thought your partner is non-binary? How can someone be "lesbian" and have a "wife" if their partner is enby and they are enby?

[@cedixx]

Some enby people do like boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife. Others prefer partner or sth else but it fully depends on the person :)

[@sappho-favourite-pupil]

@@DontCareL0L Because nonbinary people might not use gender-neutral words to describe themselves (either because they don't want to or because their native language doesn't work like that). Also enbies are included in lesbianism.

[@WeirdcoreLifeOfStars]

I’m 12 and when I was 10 I kissed my friend. I’m dating my other friend now (were both girls)

[@Brookiebee22611]

Finally some pleasant liberal fellows 😭

[@SigmaRizz-s1b]

I have a pixie cut as a girl at birth I am gender fluid

[@SigmaRizz-s1b]

And I was like 8

[@Arlowright-ky2bt]

i'am bisexual

[@StarshadowDreamer]

I finally have a girlfriend 😁😁