“I cannot cry because I know it’s weakness in your eyes” wow. It just hits harder now that we’re older.
@happyface47113 жыл бұрын
Or it's because we are finally feel comfortable to cry now. It's sad. God bless you nia I hope it gets better for you.
@CP-nl1uo3 жыл бұрын
Or because we get attacked when we cry, because we cry
@misfitbrit19893 жыл бұрын
Maybe we cry because we've held the pain in too long. Because we've had to be strong too long. Crying isn't weakness. God bless y'all ❤
@CP-nl1uo3 жыл бұрын
@@misfitbrit1989 , how would we get rid of our psychological pain without tears?
@CoconutGirl3333 жыл бұрын
@@happyface4711 Exactly how I feel. thank you so much and god bless.
@cayennepepper2424 жыл бұрын
I grew up with a toxic mother but I'm breaking that cycle with my children her mistake will not cost the future relationship I want with my children
@rachelcollins29284 жыл бұрын
I wish you a good health
@crispycreamz24934 жыл бұрын
Same but with my father tho
@marianmoon31464 жыл бұрын
More power to you girl!
@jjging43084 жыл бұрын
Britta Balfour honestly my dad was an alcoholic and was raised with really good parents but some bad things happened to him when he was a teen and it causes a lot of problems for him in relationships he and my mom had a very volatile relationship but he was never toxic to me or my siblings always supported us as much as someone who is struggling with alcoholism can he was less toxic than my mom who had a really bad relationship with her mom but was a fully functioning member of society I’m still thankful for her providing all the things I need I just feel like my dad loves me and my siblings more I can tell how much he means that when he says he loves us as he really wants to protect us from all the bad in this world I just feel more love in the way he speaks compared to my mom who just seems a little cold
@jjging43084 жыл бұрын
Britta Balfour I want to be a parent who’s fully there for my kids like my mom but really let them know how much I love them and believe in them like my dad did
@whereisthelove41183 жыл бұрын
This song is so emotional. Makes you want to cry. The fact that Clive Davis hated this song and called Kelly a horrible songwriter is terrible and baffling. Kelly worked hard to get this song on an album. And no one liked this song until it became a # 1 hit worldwide. But, in the end, it all worked out for Kelly. “Because of You” got on the album, it became a hit, and it became one of her biggest hit songs to date. And so many people can relate to this song in one way or another!
@notjokeyaya44683 жыл бұрын
sorry? lie about trust. I can deceive people who believe in my goodness. which in fact I have a lot of sins and mistakes. but I don't want anyone else. fall with my mistakes and sins. avoid it. it was devastating and never came back. especially losing loved ones. not changing other people's wishes to follow mine. but what is the real truth. you will be disappointed if you see me but believe me if it's the truth it is for you not for me. but thank the true God. if you are disappointed make a superman version come down from the sky and help you. You know . you don't lie inside. it will never exist and happen. is this like an endless word? up for debate. I don't feel like my age is getting old and don't want to keep admitting mistakes. remember the death of the corona virus has been in thousands in each region. even the farthest areas. many people are sad and desperate for those who experience it. money and lives are falling inappropriately. faith began to shake violently. an atsmofer of sadness and despair . which one do you want to follow?
@D2FFDK3 жыл бұрын
@@notjokeyaya4468 What on earth are you on about? I'd like to think you have a sincere response in your heart but what you've replied with is just a mess that (on a first read) has very little connection to the original post...It honestly just sounds like you are airing something in your soul that maybe should have been a comment all of its own. in response to the original comment: I can't believe there was opposition to such a lyrically and musically powerful song. I cry every time I hear it because it resonates so deeply with me.
@Tan-yv1sh3 жыл бұрын
F Clive Davis.
@misfitbrit19893 жыл бұрын
Can definately relate. My mom is trying to steal my house right now and I'm homeless now. She's a practicing alcoholic - it will kill her sooner before later. And how to forgive her before she dies is going to be a beast. Everyone can relate to this song in some way
@liendiep34043 ай бұрын
This is why I honestly feel that there should always be therapy sessions in school. Not a “counselor” but an actual psychologist on campus everyday.
@JavraK.Z.L22 күн бұрын
Only in the US there are counselors, here in my country, there aren't even counselors!
I think this is Kelly Clarkson's most powerful hit. She pours every ounce of emotion into this and it's heartbreaking.
@nicolenazimek13806 жыл бұрын
I love these song it's remind me my husband first time we kiss and..
@D2FFDK6 жыл бұрын
This and "Piece by Piece". I think they go hand in hand really. A part 1 and 2. I would suggest watching her live performances of Piece by Piece to see what I mean.
@marlonnotice4686 жыл бұрын
I love dis song
@trgoohileshea28206 жыл бұрын
@@D2FFDK Piece by piece is one of her greatest live performances. To make Keith Urban and Jennifer Lopez cry (as well as all of America) is quite an accomplishment. I liked the acoustic performance much better than the studio version. I still think this is her best studio release. It's heartbreaking.
@D2FFDK6 жыл бұрын
@@trgoohileshea2820 Yeah I see what you mean and agree completely! Her live performance of Piece by Piece was incredible but this is for sure her most emotional hit as a studio release.
@adyaparamitaputripratama27863 жыл бұрын
To everyone who have family issues, who never feel loved, who have traumatic experiences and etc,just wanting to let you know that you are loved. You are worth it and the scars you have doesn't define you. You are you. You are loved by many. Please stay strong for a bit, stay strong for that new music you've been anticipating, stay strong for wanting to eat the meal you've always wanted, stay strong for your friends who loves you even if they don't show it right away.
@princessofedits72303 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@quiezel52873 жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@courtneypopich31173 жыл бұрын
Lol
@harryboyes28123 жыл бұрын
Thank you, friend 👍
@adyaparamitaputripratama27863 жыл бұрын
@@courtneypopich3117 is there something funny?
@DeborahLipscomb-m2t3 ай бұрын
This is one of Kelly's best performances! Just beautiful!
@notVulture3 жыл бұрын
Every children deserves a parent, but not all parents deserves a child... -Unknown
@terabyte23073 жыл бұрын
Your words should get repeated......children should not bear the burden....kids....just want "parents" to care........
@ghazalysi65743 жыл бұрын
my parents don't...wish I wasn't born
@lisamalabonmanoban14813 жыл бұрын
Precisely
@helenebennie39613 жыл бұрын
@@ghazalysi6574 that is terribly destructive to your self esteem. Hard to reach out and seek the people who will love you after that - that is the point of the song. Do you mind me asking how old you are?
@ghazalysi65743 жыл бұрын
@@helenebennie3961 nobody likes me tbh...even my friends, I'm always the last priority to them which I don't blame them because when my mom can say such terrible stuff to me how can I blame strangers...the point of this song for me is to never have a child and never make someone live through this hell, I mean this world... and I'm 23 btw I just graduated from university
@susanfriel72534 жыл бұрын
If I could meet Kelly I'd tell her how her song help me deal with the pain of my father's abuse.. thank you Kelly I love you God bless you!!
@monsieur97434 жыл бұрын
He was teaching you to be strong x
@salmaznagui78424 жыл бұрын
@@monsieur9743 yeah, teaching her to be strong in a worse possible way
@ivanajeremic70364 жыл бұрын
@@monsieur9743 abuse isnt teaching
@سعودالعتيبي-ع3ض4 жыл бұрын
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@neea94 жыл бұрын
Stay strong!🤗☺️
@denielviernes71253 жыл бұрын
This will forever be my song to my parents. No one knows how it feel to have a family that looks complete outside, but inside its already broken.
@martinjames46003 жыл бұрын
Millions know exactly that. I hope you really don't think it is only you?
@lucilenelima48573 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@denielviernes71253 жыл бұрын
@@martinjames4600 a lot of people do know how it feels. What I meant was no one knows how it feels unless it happens to you.
@mariahconklin41503 жыл бұрын
Yep I know the feeling. A lot of people are in denial because if they see their own pain it will kill them. I feel my pain and own up to it but my parents are unable to, co workers are unable to, etc. I’m blessed to have someone in my life that understands who is helping me grow a long with Jesus. I pray that God heals your families brokenness and gives you time to heal. I cut my dad out of my life which means I have to cut my step mom and half sister out of my life to. I never enjoyed her analyzing me either sense she’s a therapist it just never felt authentic
@matthewroderique74682 жыл бұрын
you totally hit the nail on the head, I got out when my father died(I was 16), it took 22 years for me to even think of my family, my mother died a few years ago and I finally told her what she did to me, you never treat your children with distain, it will follow them through their lives.
@ArvinLisingspitfire08773 ай бұрын
Brings me to tears whenever I watch this. I do recognize I am broken too.
@KrC_Games7 күн бұрын
same... maybe we will surive...
@ayalacohen99943 жыл бұрын
I’m 16 years old. And I’ve never was a child. This song hits me so hard, I feel like the lyrics was written about me. Thx Kelly for this beautiful song.
@moonlightbae29603 жыл бұрын
Me too, my father was an alcoholic with complication and he loved to humiliate my mother and me and my little sister. As a child, I injured myself and had anxiety neurosis. Currently I have no contact with this man, I am happy and I have everything I want because I earn a lot and have a lot of friends. This song reminds me of the horrible moments my father sent me 💔😥
@shxdique58663 жыл бұрын
Me too, my father was horrible when I was growing up. He never cared for anyone other than himself and left when I was about five.
@sylvainletourneau95413 жыл бұрын
Take care of you... That's a song..... getting me deep thinking,
@loronthompson73443 жыл бұрын
@@shxdique5866 same but I chose not to publically share my story as I don't want sympathy
@shxdique58663 жыл бұрын
@@loronthompson7344 then why are you sharing it now?
@SarahEllen-rh5km5 жыл бұрын
"I was so young you should have known better than to lean on me." That one lyric summarizes my entire childhood in a way I thought no one else understood.
@Hotziggaty5 жыл бұрын
Sarah Peterson it must have been so hard for you. Many children are placed in that position by broken hurting parents. I retreated into drugs and alcohol, unfortunately my children lived through it with me. Now they have both had their struggles, very hard. My father abandoned my young mother and her four children when I was four. The cycle goes on and on.
@cisticbox21995 жыл бұрын
That one lyric make me cry...
@ajsoltani5 жыл бұрын
When my mom was depressed she would use me as a therapist. Just dumped all her problems on me. I was in high school and felt like I was the adult at home. Didn't tell her about the stuff I was going through because I didn't want to add to her problems. Which is why they found out about my suicidal thoughts from my psychiatrist about 1.5 years after it started.
@xtrnl9995 жыл бұрын
@@ajsoltani I'm sorry to hear you went through that. You were likely right to hide it from your mom. Mine would lecture me about how I had to grow up and be more grateful whenever I mentioned my depression to her.
@CorinaCampbell195 жыл бұрын
Same.
@kingjade419510 жыл бұрын
My aunt was the one who introduced me to This song which was 4 years ago, 2010. She was probably the only family member I ever had that Cared for me. My parents are just a pair of Messed ups. A few years later, she passed on from having cancer and the only thing I have left is this song to remind me of her...And I break down everytime I hear this song. Thank you Aunty, Because of you, I actually felt loved for that once... :') God bless anyone who listens to this song and get feels .
@ruijosedasilvagibbongibbon170610 жыл бұрын
Oi boa noite, gostei de sua Historia e muito bonita, e ao mesmo tempo muito triste. Tchau gostaria de ser seu amigo. RuiBradok
@henryebisike138510 жыл бұрын
I really and exactly know how u feel This gets me and explains what I feel and have been feeling for years And I'm glad that someone else knows my pain as well My parents were all fucked up and it felt like no one in the world cared about me
@ruijosedasilvagibbongibbon170610 жыл бұрын
Oi eu me importo. muito com você...você não disse se aceita ser minha amiga. escreva-me, adoraria saber mais sobre você...e sua Historia. Tchau RuiBradok
@angelocaetano386110 жыл бұрын
Olá, sinto muito você ter passado por isto. Sei que não é fácil, mas tente ser forte! Um dia isto tudo terá fim e você será muito Feliz..
@rebeccabajada291110 жыл бұрын
I don't know you, but surround yourself with people who love you :) Hope all is well!
@patriciabarbarit173213 күн бұрын
Une terrible maladie . Ce n’est pas celui qui oubli le plus triste , c’est celui qui voit son amour se perdre 😢 Merci Amel .
@darry397 жыл бұрын
"Because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty". That is for my mother. I pray one day I can forgive you for what you did to me.
@fredvega27927 жыл бұрын
darry39 i deal with this .. Hope u find peace
@brandonk4947 жыл бұрын
darry39 try to forgive her❤
@torijacklyn57047 жыл бұрын
Same wttf😭
@pandorasbox66077 жыл бұрын
darry39 I hope you find peace
@haileyardron4677 жыл бұрын
Stay strong💞 I know it’s hard but you’ve got to give it your all. Your a strong person. You’ve got this 💞
@byou.tfulnailz97904 жыл бұрын
“My heart can’t possibly break when it wasn’t even whole to start with” so profound !
@abducco31104 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@dawntraynor11524 жыл бұрын
N H
@nikkistigs4 жыл бұрын
That line kills me. Every time.
@sethabaca83244 жыл бұрын
“My heart can’t possibly break, if it wasn’t even whole to start with.” Gets me every time.
@stacilynnbranum62844 жыл бұрын
same
@wareagle48644 жыл бұрын
Me too. Me too.
@lanasteel10004 жыл бұрын
😭
@thatisrrlyhot4 жыл бұрын
I dont got it
@MouAresounTaPneusta4 жыл бұрын
Γμς τα, same. Today I was wondering how you call the emotion when you feel sad about losing something you never had in the first place.
@echastee3 жыл бұрын
To everyone who survived narcissistic or abusive parents I'm glad you're here today and I hope you never give up trying to be happy. It can be so much harder than some people will ever understand but you are strong and you have been through things nobody deserves to deal with. My heart goes out to you. 💜 I hope you can break the cycle. And that having a bad childhood doesn't have to define your whole life because you can be happy. You've already come so far. And if you're not ok... that's ok. 💜
@Littlekey1212_Backup3 жыл бұрын
im still stuck here trying to make it through this hell.... this song describes me... im a 16 yr old girl stuck with an emotionally physically and mentally abusive mother and brother and this is completly domestic violene her and i need mmoney an online job to leave to get to an online friend i want to meet that ive known for 1 yr and a half and im honestly about to have another breakdown i have depression fears anxieties...
@echastee3 жыл бұрын
@@Littlekey1212_Backup I hope you get out of your toxic situation and into a better place asap. You are strong to be going through this. I'm sending love. Nobody deserves abuse. I hope you can find safety and heal. I'm sorry I can't help more. I wish I could help you escape. I hope you can get an online job and save some money.
@Littlekey1212_Backup3 жыл бұрын
@@echastee thnks that means alot to me
@1234mikechris3 жыл бұрын
Being with a narcissistic is a very difficult situation, But when you find the right person to get you out you appreciate life more & you thank the person who got you out! I'm Not looking back, I was lucky.
@Lilirain01893 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@ha-kw5id4 жыл бұрын
Dear future child. I will never do the same mistakes my parents did. I will always be there for you and love you with all my heart. You will never be alone. You will always be loved.
@rosemaklari39044 жыл бұрын
h a
@missyfourtwentyxoxo3 ай бұрын
Are u laughing ? @@rosemaklari3904
@Anime_addict923 ай бұрын
Smae
@marnafointina7133 жыл бұрын
Broken home isn't choice,, but people's that lives with this kind of pain is stronger than anything..
@notjokeyaya44683 жыл бұрын
sorry? lie about trust. I can deceive people who believe in my goodness. which in fact I have a lot of sins and mistakes. but I don't want anyone else. fall with my mistakes and sins. avoid it. it was devastating and never came back. especially losing loved ones. not changing other people's wishes to follow mine. but what is the real truth. you will be disappointed if you see me but believe me if it's the truth it is for you not for me. but thank the true God. if you are disappointed make a superman version come down from the sky and help you. You know . you don't lie inside. it will never exist and happen. is this like an endless word? up for debate. I don't feel like my age is getting old and don't want to keep admitting mistakes. remember the death of the corona virus has been in thousands in each region. even the farthest areas. many people are sad and desperate for those who experience it. money and lives are falling inappropriately. faith began to shake violently. an atsmofer of sadness and despair . which one do you want to follow?
@notjokeyaya44683 жыл бұрын
edible fruit and not? God forbid it? and can't even eat it? talk about cause and effect? does God allow all these problems? with this belief? if we look at this world and its interests. anyone studying the true path and religion? why be so far away from the goal? when there is an incident or crime, it is natural and must???? ....? should I be that person? we must be vigilant? do we learn the truth? not as perpetrators of crime and making crime look positive and must be done. crime is crime. there is nothing good in it. even harm others and destroy your career. If you want money? not wrong? remember but the way? Stay with God? but we have to have a job, from what? that can make money right and not breaking. let alone insist on being right. clearly in God is the opposite? so use life and what we have wisely and well. before we know it. sorry for always coming late. try and think for real. not always use analogies to change paradigms and perspectives. keep fighting reality and repeating the same mistakes. become a science that contradicts the basic foundations of cause and effect and real logical thinking. what is real and reality. before we realize and it's too late. fill this day with kindness and enthusiasm. Don't forget to take good care of this corona virus. because the future of vaccines and the amount and level of economic income of a country are determined. only true vaccines. which can treat body cells that are attacked. heart and brain cells are cells that can only grow after decades. even have to be willing to spend energy that should not be wasted from this body on purpose.
@tbedard343 жыл бұрын
Stay strong miss lady
@notjokeyaya44683 жыл бұрын
cause and effect of disease and additives. bullying behavior of society or groups. epidemics and death. cause sub-controversial problems in the future. inner wounds and save a lot of controversial stories and conspiracies. not based on data or facts. but allegations and accusations or vents. mental health and mental health problems. if financial problems between friends. debts and receivables. must be paid. I don't want death. but my money back. my only business problem turned into enmity and evil. if money ..then money back. not death. or reply .. because friendship is not just built . even years for a trust as a friend. if the competition is not fraudulent behavior and a crime against the opponent. but improve your skills and good grades and develop your skills. if not dirty business. revert to additives if chemical and toxic elements are possible . addition.... on contagion... so the effect is many times lethal. on combustion smoke. goods and so on. with commonly found poisons. if it contains an element of intent. inhaled. as suspected at the start of the pandemic. toxins and germs. sabotage. in China it is no secret that since ancient times the kingdom. There are two roles in the palace queen and cook. who can rule within. the cook can give medicine and healthy food. but it can also poison and make you weak. slow or rapid death. I didn't mention this... in advance sorry? I don't mean to make rumors or conjectures. beware. beware of evil and double-tonguedness. bullying behavior for satisfaction, racism, irritation, fad, habitual nature, business, self-esteem, lack of competitiveness. no wonder found in children and the current situation. because of the downturn in the economy and circumstances. vigilance and caution. because this behavior is carried over into adulthood and without end. without any evidence and clarity of punishment. many are now conspiracies or fake news. either intentional or unintentional? even the reality of the evidence yet. can corroborate a truth that happened and the many tricks of hidden crimes with no visible basis. which requires an in-depth investigation. you may experience this situation. develop your abilities with positive values. stay away from those people. love your family and loved ones. not baseless suspicion. Corona doesn't just damage the lungs. brain. weakness of the body. emotion. profession social and others. but this situation is faced all over the world down to the lowest strata. not impossible could not happen. apologize and pray to the true God. whatever your religion. the good will still be there. kindness will lead you to the truth.
@notjokeyaya44683 жыл бұрын
deal with s.....attacks .with 90% . alert . maintain a distance. home and work masks. don't wear a mask talk a lot. replace a new one. hot shower. eat hot spicy soup. boiled eggs min 2 .vaccine. turmeric ginger. cooked and boiled garlic. pickled cucumber. normal. initial attack. Hot water apple cider vinegar max 2x a day no more than 3 days. stomach blood pressure and heart. coca cola salt. Chew betel leaf a quarter max 2x a day. daunt min 3x a day min. pineapple. fruits. red wine. guava guava juice. celery. pawpaw. papaya seeds. papaya leaf. warm lemons. eat well and optimal body heat. The d virus even survives with the doctor's drugs and vaccines weakened. hot room temperature in the car. sauna. min 20 minutes. with good rules and conditions and not dehydrated. medicine and consultation. Drink ginger at least 3 times a day. fit condition. vegetable and meat ginger pepper soup. sit and sleep in a slightly upright position. oxygen saturation. changing food variety. Avoid foods that cause excess stomach acid. without an empty stomach or tiredness. the help of friends and relatives. mandatory before ...and after recovering.... hot steam therapy. two spoons of salt min 15 minutes and min 3x a day. clean the ears and nose. eye drops. because the corona increases secretions in many parts of the body.
@katnisseverdeen97723 жыл бұрын
"...Because of you.... I don't know how to let anyone else in...." Hit me hard...Grew up in a family where both parents were emotionally unavailable...
@fellagaspersz75053 жыл бұрын
yesssss
@m-46823 жыл бұрын
@@fellagaspersz7505 I keep replaying the first like 40 seconds lol, it just hits me too hard
@notjokeyaya44683 жыл бұрын
edible fruit and not? God forbid it? and can't even eat it? talk about cause and effect? does God allow all these problems? with this belief? if we look at this world and its interests. anyone studying the true path and religion? why be so far away from the goal? when there is an incident or crime, it is natural and must???? ....? should I be that person? we must be vigilant? do we learn the truth? not as perpetrators of crime and making crime look positive and must be done. crime is crime. there is nothing good in it. even harm others and destroy your career. If you want money? not wrong? remember but the way? Stay with God? but we have to have a job, from what? that can make money right and not breaking. let alone insist on being right. clearly in God is the opposite? so use life and what we have wisely and well. before we know it. sorry for always coming late. try and think for real. not always use analogies to change paradigms and perspectives. keep fighting reality and repeating the same mistakes. become a science that contradicts the basic foundations of cause and effect and real logical thinking. what is real and reality. before we realize and it's too late. fill this day with kindness and enthusiasm. Don't forget to take good care of this corona virus. because the future of vaccines and the amount and level of economic income of a country are determined. only true vaccines. which can treat body cells that are attacked. heart and brain cells are cells that can only grow after decades. even have to be willing to spend energy that should not be wasted from this body on purpose.
@notjokeyaya44683 жыл бұрын
when you live in the forest alone in reality. with real knowledge and ecosystems. you shoot because you need to. even you realize that you are lonely. your heart doesn't want to destroy more. where you feel comforted by the presence of those who comfort you. the logic of this life will surely emerge. when the purity of the heart is not polluted by unrighteous thoughts. what do you shoot for? there's even a better way than archery. to survive? there's not even an end. all have a function and are used for something that is right and not justify something of the thing done.
@notjokeyaya44683 жыл бұрын
All jobs require good management. even in places of worship. when making mistakes and violations. in big cities. not an ordinary sight. but get used to it. when we do not dare to admit and bear losses and mistakes. but by taking the right or something basic. to cover losses from people's property or that is contrary to even violating God's law. be for the atonement and cover the loss, even make it a fantastic field and profit. good things, bad things and a feeling of dilemma (good people look evil and are annihilated) become a familiar image. it is so sad and unlucky if a righteous person experiences the same thing as an evil person. beware. remember the story of the brothers. his brother .did what was right and best for God. but his brother became jealous and killed his brother . not all good deeds, bring benefits for yourself, even for God. there were only four of them and who would want to see and for what? Be alert and don't let this heart be ruled by bad thoughts. if not the closest person? who can help? why everything is turned opposite. keep trying and spirit?
@craigmainland64033 жыл бұрын
Both of my parents died along with my brother at age 15 I have been a orphan since that date I’m now 29 and the pain will never leave my heart 💓 because I was to young to realise they where my best friends , Mum , Dad , Matthew I’ll see you in eternity I’m heading every day towards you xx
@donna-niajonathan67793 жыл бұрын
Be strong honey 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️
@mazuro12933 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about this but I do hope you can find solace and strength in God and know that they are up looking down at you and proud of all your little victories and accomplishments, plus the big ones. Take care
@craigmainland64033 жыл бұрын
@@mazuro1293 Thank you 🙏 your kind words mean a lot to me. Have a fantastic day , much love.
@abneernayyer18603 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️
@helderalmeida27903 жыл бұрын
I've no words to make you feel better.
@daniellen15436 жыл бұрын
“I’m forced to fake a smile a laugh every day of my life” honestly hit me
@bussabungchot71626 жыл бұрын
yu
@richardrodricks78826 жыл бұрын
What r u going through?
@parth36206 жыл бұрын
Ye same with me
@lawansomasuk43226 жыл бұрын
Me too..😔
@kristinabaker44336 жыл бұрын
💔We're not alone and there is Hope and Help 🌈
@lala_110228 күн бұрын
The song 'Because of you' by Kelly Clarkson resonates deeply with me. It truly defines my childhood and continues to shape my life even now. My mom is a kind and responsible person, but when things went wrong, she would turn to alcohol. She’d drink, get drunk, become loud and emotional, often crying uncontrollably. I couldn’t sleep when she was like that, and I still remember the shame it brought upon us. It was especially difficult when people visited our house, as she would always be drinking, and I was so embarrassed by it. The worst was when she and my dad fought-those weren’t just arguments, they were intense, with shouting, objects being thrown, and a lot of trauma. I’m sure our neighbors could hear everything. I remember feeling powerless, unable to do anything but cry. I thought things would change as we grew older, but even now, they remain the same. It hurts to see my mom still stuck in that cycle. I long for her to be the comfort and support that I need, but it feels like she’s no longer that person, even though she’s the one responsible for it. I always have to be the strong one because whenever I cry, it’s seen as a weakness in her eyes. I’ve talked to her many times about how alcohol is not the answer, how it affects me emotionally, but it seems like her feelings are prioritized over mine. It’s painful to realize that the person who should be there to comfort and support you is also the one who triggers those deepest wounds.
@MariiPilv4 күн бұрын
❤❤
@frankingenito2 жыл бұрын
She wrote this when she was 16. Very powerful song to be written at any age, let alone as a teenager. I think sometimes we forget just how good a writer Kelly is. Sometimes her songwriting gets over shadowed by her unbelievably beautiful voice. We all have our own opinions about music, but for me Kelly is the best singer I've ever heard.
@frankingenito2 жыл бұрын
In response to the comment from Breanna Jones that this song was written by Reba McEntire: The songwriting credits are given to Kelly Clarkson, David Hodges and Ben Moody. Hodges and Moody produced the song. Kelly has said that the song would not have gotten recorded without their help, so she gave them a songwriting credit. But Kelly wrote it at 16. It was about her parents divorce. Reba did record her own version of this with Kelly. Kelly released it on her Breakaway album in 2005. Reba's version came out on her album Duets in 2007. So while Reba did sing a version of it, she had nothing to do with the writing of it. I hope that clears things up.
@lovinglifehealth2 жыл бұрын
I just heard an older interview with Jewel speaking about how insanely gifted artistic Kelly Clarkson is.
@virginialudovicasofiabarbe11972 жыл бұрын
I love Kelly, her voice is great! But The Voice is, Whitney Elizabeth Houston... nothing against Kelly, she is fabulous! But Whitney is Whitney…love y'all!🤍🤍🤍🤍
@frankingenito2 жыл бұрын
@@virginialudovicasofiabarbe1197 That's what's great about music. There is something for everyone to enjoy. For me it's Kelly, for you it's Whitney. Everybody's happy. With all the hate in this world, music can bring people together.
@virginialudovicasofiabarbe11972 жыл бұрын
@@frankingenito oh yes! I'm totally agree with you! Everyone has his preference, his liking... Music unites! Music makes life more enjoyable ! Music is love, music is against the hate! Wishing you all the best! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍🤍 And sorry for my English I'm Italian...😊
@lumpython53514 жыл бұрын
Raised by single mom since I was five, I didn't realise how parent could affect their kids until I became grown man, there's something lacking inside of me but I thought I'm fine which is not. For many years I thought I've been doing right choices turns out I'm just escaping. Escaping from home, escaping my true feeling to anyone.
@romyoverbeek40864 жыл бұрын
Stay strong, you will learn to deal with it and feel better i’m sure.
@afcknusername999994 жыл бұрын
:(
@victoriasantizo48674 жыл бұрын
I hope, your able to come it and live the life your meant too live.... From personal experience, I realized it ok to grow up without father.... Was it painful yes, but in the end it wasn't him I was searching for.... I don't know your circumstances, but i know what you needed is already inside you.... I praying you realize this before it too late....
@dunn63573 жыл бұрын
Same feeling 😔
@victoriasantizo48673 жыл бұрын
@Ma2yves You mean it can be difficult...
@laestherminator3 жыл бұрын
It took me 30 years of suppressed trauma and 2 years of therapy to realize that I've been singing along to this song since middle school without knowing what it really, deeply meant to me. I forgive you, mom.
@justbreathing80033 жыл бұрын
You never deserved so much of trauma and suffering. You're so brave to forgive your mom... I wish you have a beautiful life ahead. I'm sure you'll become stronger and stronger with every moment passing by. God loves you.
@laestherminator3 жыл бұрын
@@justbreathing8003 God bless. Your kind words have lifted up a soul today 🙏
@The_holly_and_the_holy3 жыл бұрын
God bless you and everyone under this comment 🥺
@laestherminator3 жыл бұрын
@@mutias.noviani785 My heart goes out to you Mutia. You are strong--just one foot in front of the other. That's all we need to focus on.
@oliviadavis14643 жыл бұрын
I completely understand the pain I’m gonna through separation at the moment and I forgot who I am num to the world and no one can understand I don’t want to live but I have to we don’t get choices we are trapped in the scars they left us
@JayNaCall3 ай бұрын
I never cried so much than this song. This song literally told my whole childhood. I grew up with a toxic and abusive father that always hates me. He loves to manipulate others specially my mother who is the only one who loved me the most. The saddest thing is that I'm 16 now ... And I can't get over to everything. This song answered alot of questions that I asked my self. The chorus literally is what I'm going through right now. It's hard for me to trust, I'm to scared to take risk, I tend to not try something new as I'm too scared to be pointed out again and get scolded and it feels like I'm too scared for anything... I'm so lost.
@beebobart36102 ай бұрын
I wish you all the best. I totally understand how it feels. I’m just a couple of years older than you, but I had a similar experience. I grew up in an Asian family, where they valued boys more than girls. I have an abusive mother; she hates me and would hit me every day. I remember on my 14th birthday, she even told me that bringing me into this world was the worst decision she ever made. She said her life is worse because of me. Even now, it still hurts when I think of that. But I believe the most important thing is that you need to love yourself. Treat yourself as well as you can, be a good person, and stay positive. You’re not alone, and I know you can overcome this!
@MariiPilv4 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@lougeejoyce62515 жыл бұрын
This song makes me cry everytime I listen to it... Because I have a daughter, I'm a single mom. And I hope she'll never go through what I've been through (all the heartbreak, all the pain, all the lying, all the suffering and abuse)...
@dansen53385 жыл бұрын
I knew it
@lougeejoyce62515 жыл бұрын
@@dansen5338 you knew what exactly?
@lougeejoyce62515 жыл бұрын
@Justin Bieber and your point is?
@tinapartin15935 жыл бұрын
Me too 😭
@ibj35 жыл бұрын
I am a dad my daughter just turned 1 yesterday sometimes life can be rough i know because my childhood was not easy with my parents i was the black sheep so everyone even my entire family turned their back on me, but focus what you have right now don't let the past decide your life you can never erase the pain and it will always haunt you but don't let others suffer from your pains i did and i am a better man now after all my mistakes.
@JhericFury3 жыл бұрын
"Because of you, I'm ashamed of my life, because it's empty." Ten years later and it still gets me
@dsansil3 жыл бұрын
the song is from 2004
@cristhoferherrera91022 жыл бұрын
I dont know how to trust not only me but everyone around me :(
@myrnalucero39692 жыл бұрын
Oh my god this discribes me
@harumi.37402 жыл бұрын
!!!!!!!!!
@KaungMyat-ho8rr2 жыл бұрын
@@dsansil No bro Around 2010
@JeanPierre_63 ай бұрын
Who’s listening to this song in September 2024 ???
@DeeDee-ph1uz3 ай бұрын
Me😂
@chokchaipinphech47103 ай бұрын
Checked in
@norsuzainaabdrahman32163 ай бұрын
This is what happened to me...😢
@dominikakurach27823 ай бұрын
I am rigth now 😊
@Benh-im4de3 ай бұрын
😊
@hannahmaedamgo50612 жыл бұрын
The fact that Kelly Clarkson wrote this masterpiece when she was just 16.😭
@DukeEnglishTeacher2 жыл бұрын
Now I am more than double of her age that day and I just lying here to listen to her... That's legend!
@terryknutson32022 жыл бұрын
True Stuff Hannah?
@bikermice2 жыл бұрын
Not a masterpiece simp
@Anonymous-in4ed2 жыл бұрын
Wait. SHE WROTE it???!?! Omg.... Omg wow. Omg... Seriously?!?! Omg omg omg. Wow
@terryknutson32022 жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-in4ed please go back to sleep anonymous...........
@Lbyar2064 жыл бұрын
My 3yr old daughter said “Wow. She’s a good singer!” You’ve gained another fan tonight Kelly 💗
@boshiko35874 жыл бұрын
You using speaker to listen ? I using earphone though
@AngeljoyTamulaАй бұрын
Nov 2024 anyone?😂
@kellybridger9806Ай бұрын
Meeee
@super-edits98Ай бұрын
Yes. I am here!
@ngunchin934Ай бұрын
Here😅
@pjoy-hobbies8338Ай бұрын
❤
@gaaraofthesand0101Ай бұрын
👍🏽
@Lamiamia5894 жыл бұрын
Everytime I listen to this song, I cry. Everyone relates differently to it, it reminds me of my childhood, the abuse from by father, the family fights, screams, hitting. Every word, literally every word, hits so hard. I'll never be like that, I keep telling myself every time the song finishes. I'm 30 this month, and I still fight the demons from the past. But we all just have to be better, better than our parents, better than us yesterday. ♥️
@kutpanda91594 жыл бұрын
😥😥😥
@hannahmontanajoseph96664 жыл бұрын
💔😥
@katienewswanger4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry!!
@georgemckinney63184 жыл бұрын
😩😥💔
@Gleefan1344 жыл бұрын
Stay strong 💪🏼
@dianokas3 жыл бұрын
When she sings "I cannot cry because I know that's weakness in your eyes, I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh everyday of my life..." Always hit me hard 😔
@marcoantoniorodriguesfaria3553 жыл бұрын
Então de sua amizade há mim lá em Tweet em
@Elysiumsw3 жыл бұрын
me too. Every time I cried as a kid, I would just get yelled at.
@christlejanemonares56143 жыл бұрын
😭
@kamunanyak16853 жыл бұрын
U re not alone. 😭
@rafaelfactor1203 жыл бұрын
I feel the same as well
@somaticembodywork3 жыл бұрын
This song so beautifully and accurately shows the painful emotions that are at the core of childhood trauma and narcissistic abuse by parents and caregivers in early childhood. Powerful.
@sweetjoker08132 жыл бұрын
But u overlooked the trauma experienced by the wife.
@naomideviana89932 жыл бұрын
Yess👏🏽
@lidiomarbarbosa53302 жыл бұрын
@@sweetjoker0813 meio que caras assim só falam de homens mas nunca poe a mulher como abusadora
@tatetaylor63012 жыл бұрын
Don't think so simp
@Dreamtox1112 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. :’)
@Ashley084717 күн бұрын
December 2024???❤❤
@ladsonbarros206611 күн бұрын
Yes!
@stephaniekrystal40454 жыл бұрын
This was my life. My childhood. I can’t listen to this song without breaking down because it’s exactly how I feel, EVERY WORD, every verse 😭 I was physically abused since I was about 9mos by my mom. I was my siblings protector, everytime someone tried to hurt them I would take their focus off them and put it all on me. My mom and my stepdad beat me almost everyday for the tiniest reasons. I’ve watched my mom get her ass beat by men time and time again. I’ve seen my mom literally broken and I was there for he every step of the way, I’m a grown now and my mom still chooses men over her kids 😒 today is Mother’s Day and this is the song I’m playing 😔 I promise not to put my children through what my mother has put me through
@itsmeanit72904 жыл бұрын
Thank you so brave and kind, Krystal. I wish you a happy life❤
@YenNhi-rd2mh4 жыл бұрын
Me too, this song it's seems like write for my life. When I was 3years old I had saw my uncle hit my mom and my sister out of the houses where we were living. And because my dad is an alcoholic so I lived in violence seems every day. And now I grown up I cannot believe in myself in everything I do. It's empty. Really empty.
@donnasue78914 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry you had to live like that,,
@haleyh9014 жыл бұрын
You are so very strong to end the cycle. Please don’t ever stop losing faith. You are strong and there is good on the other side. ❤️
@maryamangel65956 жыл бұрын
2019. Still listening to it. I know i am not only one.
@cassfantasygaming5346 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a loving home.. with loving parents. My personal childhood experience is anathema to this song, yet hearing it saddens me on such a deep, primal level. Maybe its because i have two little kids of my own, and I would move heaven and earth to spare them from this kind of heartache.. no child should even have to go through something like this
@mrmagoo-i2l6 жыл бұрын
Imtiaz Sheik I’ve got two kids, me and my wife fight. Only mild though. My weird practical jokes don’t help. I put a rubber spider in her pocket. He he. She wasn’t impressed. My daughter loved it. “Whoooo a spider”, . Ha ha ha.
@mamanwbk56776 жыл бұрын
Yes l'm here, still because of you .
@ahmetsan20806 жыл бұрын
You sure you are not alone
@samcochrane3336 жыл бұрын
stfu come up with an original comment god damn
@awesome2827 жыл бұрын
To anyone who's been though this I'm soo sorry and I hope u make your life way more then your pass and live happy. Don't quit on life just look at the good things and make your future better than your pass
@serycleancooking7 жыл бұрын
thank you :)
@ChiaraIacobucci7 жыл бұрын
tina tunup So much needed words. They made me tear up
@itsdatzeldafan26947 жыл бұрын
thank you for understanding me :')
@Naomiyeiah59057 жыл бұрын
tina tunup you are absolutely right. The future is always brighter than the past.
@heatherdalton33787 жыл бұрын
tina tunup your a good person
@aslzlhm41554 жыл бұрын
hey, broken homies. it's still our Anthem
@islandneni18294 жыл бұрын
Definitely!
@missk62954 жыл бұрын
Yes :)
@Mihoyminoy1244 жыл бұрын
Yep
@kaitlynsweazy3184 жыл бұрын
@F. Santos
@jackiewanja97833 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@backtoearths4 жыл бұрын
"i was so young, you should have known better than to lean on me" gets me everytime.
@rachelluviano75144 жыл бұрын
Kelly is clearly talking to her mom in that lyric. I feel the same way as you.
@alyssonbarroso79474 жыл бұрын
Me 2
@afcknusername999994 жыл бұрын
I get what she's saying and I sympathize... I just don't know that I can blame my mother for looking for comfort or support, even though, I was young and I had no idea what to do. There were so many times I held a knife at the door or paced around with a baseball bat just bc I wanted to kill the guy that hurt her and I just couldn't do it.
@stephaniebennett98094 жыл бұрын
@@rachelluviano7514 this whole song is about her mom🥺 whats sad is people dismiss it as a break up song because they don't listen to the lyrics well enough but this song is so much more meaningful and powerful than a break up song. Anyone can get over a breakup, but a damaged relationship with your own parents? Now thats just something you don't recover from💔
@Justme052826 күн бұрын
November/December 2024 anyone?
@peshomeshogosho908319 сағат бұрын
Here bud
@KeluargaErvanСағат бұрын
Im indo
@chelsead6311 Жыл бұрын
Her voice & her song are so powerful. I don't know how she can sing it all the way through without bursting into tears. This song is incredible, just gives me chills.
@LinaLuiz Жыл бұрын
dgh26h5g6
@juliusnepos60138 ай бұрын
Indeed
@shortylok114 жыл бұрын
Can't believe she was only 16 when she wrote this. Because of her parents divorce. And her first label laughed when she tried to put it on her first album. Wow! Kelly Clarkson will always be super under rated. She is amazing! Her voice is just WOW! I'm glad she has a talk show now tho! Yey!
@МилаВаснецова-ж7т4 жыл бұрын
Да, это удивительно...
@marvinbayo57354 жыл бұрын
Nah, this is just a fairytale, another Love Song to be forgotten Erase all my data when I'm gone, when I am done with the visit on Earth Hays, I thought this is just another summer vacation Damn, I feel jealous
@huyninh88904 жыл бұрын
@@alyssalancto7781 Girl, it's a wide-known fact, not some fairy tale in your head. Kelly is literally one of the writers of this song. The duet version with Reba was released 3 years later.
@huyninh88904 жыл бұрын
@@alyssalancto7781 You are the one who should do some research LOL Breakaway the album was released in 2004 (which has Because of You original version) while Reba: Duets was released in 2007. Idk why you think Reba has anything to do with the writing credit of this song. The song was written and produced by Kelly, Ben Moody, and David Hodges (the latter two were members of Evanescence at the time)
@huyninh88904 жыл бұрын
@@alyssalancto7781 KZbin was not as popular back in 2004 so there are songs that were published on KZbin way later than their original release date. This mean KZbin published date is not a credible source for such information. Some simple Google search can help you answer the question of writing credit or release date.
@shosha17719 жыл бұрын
"because of you i'm ashamed of my life because it's empty" - truly because of you
@JohnSmith-qy2fh9 жыл бұрын
I'm going...geez we just met in the KZbin comments and you're already telling me to leave
@shosha17719 жыл бұрын
John Smith No Jack come back >> with Rose voice :P
@theguyyoudontknow34269 жыл бұрын
+John Smith Hahahahahaha Lmao
@artvolcano2309 жыл бұрын
+shaden hani my life is empty
@JohnSmith-qy2fh9 жыл бұрын
+art volcano join the club pal. Everyone is at some point in their life. I am now, last 2-3 months. Music helps, but don't listen to all depressing songs like this. Listen to some crazy hardcore rock, and all varieties of music.
@barbaralorrayne1297Ай бұрын
Quando eu era pequena na faixa de uns 7, 8 anos presenciava todas as discursões e violência físicas dos meus pais, e sempre passava essa música na tv eu não entendia a letra , mas quando eu olhava as cenas eu chorava tanto pq era o que eu estava vivendo. Eu implorava atenção dos meus pais pra se sentir amada. Essa música me marcou demais nela eu encontrava conforto que tudo ia passar🥹
@janicebaneg80306 жыл бұрын
The feeling that your all alone and that your family doesn't give a damn about you... it hurts... it hurts really bad. Then you watch this video and like realize that instead of crying and looking back at the painful past, let's just focus at the present and "I will not make the same mistakes that you did"
@suckanegg696 жыл бұрын
Get some friends mate also your parents DO care about you. But sometimes they show it in different ways
@kiyalsingh90685 жыл бұрын
Janice Baneg wow. Such strong words. I feel the same. But im human and question evrything
@kindraellerbee46685 жыл бұрын
Janice Baneg yup
@nikolakiedrowicz88145 жыл бұрын
I thing my mom not love me but she's love my sister. I'm just a fat brat 😔
@MisterPurdie8 ай бұрын
I know that feeling all too well. Because they don't. And now I cry in the middle of the night for the same damn thing!
@ScouserGirl894 жыл бұрын
to my future child or children, i will not allow you to feel the fear and pain that i suffered as a child. i will bring you up to know that you are loved and cherished. i will not allow anyone hurt or abuse you like my father hurt and abused me, for you will mean more to me than life itself. i will never allow you to feel as if you are nothing, worthless because even though i don't know you yet, i love you with my heart and soul and i can't wait to be your mum and to laugh and live life with you and create the most amazing memories together
@itsmeanit72904 жыл бұрын
You'll be a good mom, sis❤
@angryghiacchio49324 жыл бұрын
you'll make a good parent, dont let that change.
@gabbygabriella82198 жыл бұрын
You know what hurts the most is when you can relate to this song with your own father, the only thing is he didn't even leave.
@jan88538 жыл бұрын
I feel the same
@aislynnwilken83808 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that. but I can tell you that you're strong. and I'm proud that you've been this strong
@elenarodriguez6668 жыл бұрын
+Aislynn Wilken yea
@salmaa2228 жыл бұрын
same. he didn't leave. so i had to leave.
@TheNinchyy8 жыл бұрын
same here...he did not leave..but he was not a good father..he was an alcoholic and treated my mom very bad when he was drunk..and i was.also only a child when i saw all this stuff..i must admit he changed a lot in the last couple of years..but i just can't forget and forgive all the things that i witness and felt in my childhood..i think i can't have a serious relationship because of him..i really do not trust men because of him..i always think that they will hurt me in one way or another..so i always end it before it gets to serious
@lorddeyk713321 күн бұрын
tingin ko ito na pinaka magandang kanta na nagawa ng isang female singer. bagay yung boses sa tono, lalo na doon sa "because of you i find it hard to trust not only me but everyone around me" meron syang background voice na (Wooohh) + yung pattern ng boses nung babae, "I FIND IT HARD TO TRUST - NOT ONLY ME - BUT EVERYONE AROUND ME. kada line na nabanggit nya jan iba iba yung tono nya hindi lang iisa. parang kagaya lang sa One last song by A1, yung mga naunang linya sa chorus pare pareho ang tono pero merong isang line o dalawang line kapag patapos na ang chorus na mas magandang pakinggan ("and if you need me you'd kiss me and tell me how you feel. and if you want me you'd show me that your love is for real. AND IF YOU LOVE ME...(slow) + "YOU'D HOLD ME IN YOUR ARMS WHERE I BELONG". recommend ko ang earphones para sa mas quality na tono. MGA MELOMANIAC LANG ANG MAKAKARELATE SA MGA PINAGSASABI KO
@annaomodeo73186 жыл бұрын
Anyone with divorced parents knows how this feels and how true is this song, and the feelings of fear to fail just like your parents did
@valerynatale6 жыл бұрын
or parents who are divorcing. This song explain exactly the feeling...So modern in a sense
@kateFGMP6 жыл бұрын
My parents have been married for 30 years, and trust me. I prayed everyday to them get divorced. Otherwise I woudnt be here crying on Christmas day.
@your_princesa_isabelg6 жыл бұрын
Ikr😞
@ThePeachyCat6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes a divorce is better than a sick and toxic marriage. Since I am 12 years old I say too my mum she should make a divorce,
@marisah56826 жыл бұрын
yeah divorced? my parents had me and left each other i feel like i failed so bad
@skycendre2575 жыл бұрын
To everybody who feels like this song hits close to home: You're strong. You've come so far, despite everything, and this means you can pull through whatever you want in life. Don't forget you are loved, and that family is where the pieces of our heart belong - not bound by something so random as blood, but by choice.
@teargrande55815 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, especially the last part.
@laufxyson79605 жыл бұрын
I don't believe you but thanks :(
@endangabdulrojak2255 жыл бұрын
So bad
@HarleyQuinn8975 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤
@charlottelouiseguan61765 жыл бұрын
needed this, thank you.
@mystiwilkins8290Ай бұрын
No matter how many times I listen to this song, it makes me cry. And nothing makes me sad cry, ever. This song, though, it hits so close to home that it's not something even I can fight. That, to me, makes an amazing artist. Someone who makes songs that brings people's emotions out.❤
@MariiPilv4 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@minyoongitbh18484 жыл бұрын
When you're not an english speaker and all of your teen years this was about a broken relationship and now realize it'a about toxic parenting and abusive parents and now it just hits you REALLy close to home.
@traceyshrubb87554 жыл бұрын
❤️💜💚💐🌹🥀🌷🌺🌸
@liveanddoeverything4 жыл бұрын
Funny
@paulinax8944 жыл бұрын
100%
@alexandramariepapa93593 жыл бұрын
:(((
@dana44ism4 жыл бұрын
10 years flashed right before our eyes...Choose the right path young people, life is short and you don't want regrets! I'm 56 now...
@t.r.s.51292 жыл бұрын
I wasn't physically abused as a child, but I did experience emotional abuse and neglect. I keep coming back to this song because it articulates the experience so vividly and real.
@mariannemayparis2 жыл бұрын
Same here. CPTSD is a nightmare especially when you didn’t have the bruises to show. I hope you’re okay.
@annaliza85142 жыл бұрын
I pray you'll get better soon guys 🥺
@SanchoGracie2 жыл бұрын
Same.
@rosalia29402 жыл бұрын
***True love = the love of God!*** God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being Philippians 2:5-8
@jclyntoledo2 жыл бұрын
Same! 🥺
@natashaharlowe05242 ай бұрын
Both of my parents were very toxic in their own ways and this song hits really hard, even now...I always break down but I will never stop listening to it or stop singing it, like my heart will magically heal if I just keep going.....this song lets me get it all out for just a few minutes...
@oofart76965 жыл бұрын
Dear future child, I'll do everything I can to protect you from this world, I love you will my heart and soul ❤
@anymous84074 жыл бұрын
If you’ve grown up in an abusive childhood this song hits you on so many levels
@dianadinah244 жыл бұрын
I know
@tylerstewart63764 жыл бұрын
Yes so much that it hurts.
@rayanerodrigues50434 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I feel like this song will always hit me in a painful way.
@TheAnthonysblls4 жыл бұрын
yes everytime i heard this song it makes me cry coz i grew up physically and emotionally abuse
@tylerstewart63764 жыл бұрын
KIT KAT I luckily only had emotional abuse.
@AZS402 Жыл бұрын
"You never thought of anyone else you just saw your pain and now I cry in the middle of the night for the same damn thing" hits me so hard...
@joeleanairvine6688 Жыл бұрын
Yes, and if you have children, the song will resonate with them and be passed to their children as well. However, expectations to not have human emotions, just because you are a mother, is not healthy either. So, no one wins.
@dora_thedestroyer11 ай бұрын
@@joeleanairvine6688 Since when do people expect mothers to not have feelings?
@wendyblair307911 ай бұрын
The part that always gets me is “My heart can’t possibly break when it wasn’t even whole to start with.” Fucks me up every single time 😭
@LauraBeatriz-te4vy3 ай бұрын
"and now I cry in the middle of the night for the same. damn. thing" I wish it didn't resonate this much
@FaithJman694 жыл бұрын
Why is it always the sad songs that get the most love? The answer: because if there’s one thing we can all relate to, it’s pain. Be kind to others everyone. And stay safe.
@mioiz184 жыл бұрын
stay home, coronavirus is painful
@dhondiramshinde69324 жыл бұрын
So true
@dhondiramshinde69324 жыл бұрын
@@bobblesV4.0 you too
@hexmaniacgabby51604 жыл бұрын
Cause we all depressed
@MalivoreKai9 жыл бұрын
This came out 6 years ago. Still one of best songs I've ever heard.
@shaniabowser85649 жыл бұрын
Ikr one of my faves ♥♡♥
@jokc71799 жыл бұрын
Vi this song came out 11 years ago in 2004 on her album Breakaway and 9 years ago on radio in 2006. lol
@MalivoreKai9 жыл бұрын
Lol, you're right.
@missalaya74499 жыл бұрын
Not 11 years ago, 10 years
@billcooper35889 жыл бұрын
Alaya Basinger Oct 30 will be 11 it was released in 2004
@renedesir-y6f2 күн бұрын
When I sing this all my fear go away let’s all celebrate the day together in Jesus Christ birthday ❤🎉
@harunturkk3 жыл бұрын
I bet she had no idea how many lives she'd impact with this song.
This song resonates with everyone who went through rough childhood experience which maybe just little less intense to say traumatic because there are people who have been through worse, but doesn’t mean it affects you less. Some traumatic childhood experiences are hard to explain because you had food on your plate and a roof over your head. Your parents worked hard for you, and didn’t abandon you but emotionally they were not there, and you never received that emotional security to grow into a full happy adult. All those arguments, bitterness, chaos and fear left a huge hole inside your heart, who would you hold accountable? My heart breaks every time I come to this song because I see myself in that little girl
@Landaidaa2 жыл бұрын
Felt every word, hers and yours. I still cry when I see the video, and I repeat to myself "I will not make the same mistakes that you did". I am a mother now.
@hugomixtersilva13832 жыл бұрын
kkk
@junioraluizio29562 жыл бұрын
kkk
@kenyoliveiramilher7312 жыл бұрын
kkk
@fabianaagelinanunes81422 жыл бұрын
kkk
@madeevillanueva25395 ай бұрын
"I was so young, you should have known better, than to lean on me." GOT MY HEART BROKEN
@kcandrea62815 ай бұрын
uouo our own we can uouo uouo uo uo us uouououuonmuoweuoswm uouououuonmuoweuoswm uouozsosw uozemo someoneuo uouououuonmuoweuoswm uouozsosw uozemozsmozsuozsmozeuozozsmozwmoswuozozsmuozzosmozsuozozsuo some uouo uouououuonmuoweuoswm uouououuonmuoweuoswm uouuozozsuosmozwmossmosuozuozossasmoswuozozsmoxsmououozsmossuoxozsuuozsmozs more uouo uo uouo uouououuonmuoweuoswm uouououuonmuoweuoswm uouozsosw uozemozsmozsuozsmozeuozozsmozwmoswuozozsmuozzosmozsuozozsuooz
I'm still suffering from the childhood pain, hurt and insecurities. This song is touching the depth of my heart.
@leylaranime2414 Жыл бұрын
@@Unsolvedmysteries1 hope we won't suffer and be able to move on! We deserve a better life
@jeremyyy_1595 Жыл бұрын
I hope you feel better soon.
@akitsimi5912 Жыл бұрын
I'm praying for all of you . I hope you all will be okay . Stay strong :( 🤍
@angelinecheng4525 Жыл бұрын
Me too. Lyrics of this song very touching me
@greyskymy Жыл бұрын
I cried listening to this. It's so relatable.
@rosenbergbenadretti2 жыл бұрын
"Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in" is one of my all time favorite lines from any song
@thabielee25512 жыл бұрын
Mine is "My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with" it does me in every time I hear it
@ann07ps492 жыл бұрын
Because you won't get your heart hurt anymore if you don't let any possible threat in 👍 and after some decades, the loneliness is just a habit, like breathing anyway
@alexsoterios2 жыл бұрын
my life in one verse
@karenneukam87002 жыл бұрын
This whole song is like my theme song. 🥺😢😭
@gomestelhado2 жыл бұрын
sfbsf
@swanradha7 жыл бұрын
This tells the story of millions. But children should never have to be a part of this...
@Alejandromichael847 жыл бұрын
Yes, I understand. But, the parents need to understand that. My ex-wife left me - I could never do that to my daughter - to bring her up into a broken home - but, my ex is selfish and stubborn and only thought about herself - I could NEVER take her back, it would never be the same. She left, and I will ghost her for the rest of my living life.
@simonp44207 жыл бұрын
Because my parents abuse me when i was a kid. Now, im 25 yo and having suicidal thought. Abd think about it everyday. 😭
@brizia93237 жыл бұрын
Yes..... the damage is real and hard to fix. Im forced to live with an anxiety disorder, panic disorder, agorophobia and ocd. Too much traumatic events happen when growing up and now its hard to handle all the mental damage done by my parents. And still they like to point out the problems I have due to this mental disorders do they even know they caused these mental problems??? harsh ..
@swashbuckler96407 жыл бұрын
Radha Chatterjee That’s just how life is. I’m a child and I’ve just gone through so much in my life. Nothing dangerous, just a lot of mental abuse and being screamed at every day and being told terrible things. And I have a lot of family problems. It’s not better, but the past few days have been good so I guess that’s good.
@oliverbolts37597 жыл бұрын
Peggy Schuyler I disagree with the "or divorce" part heavily. My parents are divorced, but were mature about. I never heard them argue to my memory, I never saw violence, even to this day they can hold civilized conversation when discussing something about me as far as I'm aware, and I see both almost equally. There is no reason for two people to be in a toxic or miserable relationship for the child's sake, and that is what leads to the violence and cheating that will likely give the child trust issues and anxiety.
@julyichsan69123 күн бұрын
24 Desember 2024🎉🎉, and happy new year 2025❤
@fbidumbbee6 жыл бұрын
it's heartbreaking how many people can relate to this stay strong, lads and lassies, you've made it this far 💖
@pauliinah41966 жыл бұрын
❤
@mystic_wxf91946 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@AvaStar_3145 жыл бұрын
🖤❤️
@crazyfrog23705 жыл бұрын
Thank u my parents divorce wasnt that bad really but this song just gets me all sad maby i have an underlying issue with x
@emilyxx24395 жыл бұрын
dumb bee thanks, yea it’s hard, hope your okay x
@krinket949 жыл бұрын
10 years later and I still cry everytime I hear this song. but its such a wonderful song.
@mexicoinwonderland48079 жыл бұрын
Same
@KPNovelist2344559 жыл бұрын
+krinket94 Ten...?
@krinket949 жыл бұрын
+Armin Arlert the song is ten years old lol
@KPNovelist2344559 жыл бұрын
krinket94 Oh..I was kinda confused cause it was uploaded on 2009
@ambraali10469 жыл бұрын
it's a sad song
@Ramial-Helou29 күн бұрын
Thank you for making me cry whenever I need to when I can't on my own ❤
@Adam-lu9xk6 жыл бұрын
“Because of you I don’t know how to let anyone else in” that’s what really got me 😢
@jimmyjimmy65886 жыл бұрын
AZ 123 same😥😥
@chrismontano6136 жыл бұрын
AZ 123 "my heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with" ugh.
@lizbethgarcia18326 жыл бұрын
Que bonita canción me gusta mucho 💖💜🙄😹🤗😊
@MrFarazatul6 жыл бұрын
same
@shawnavanmoerkerque55586 жыл бұрын
ya I feel like that sometimes I've been through a lot in my life that makes me feel that way I'm a really shy person
@Ashbrringer4 жыл бұрын
2020 anyone? Nostalgia hit me like a train... Edit: 2021 and still going! Edit 2.0(2024): Timeless song.
@sweetplaces4 жыл бұрын
damn, time is going so fast
@valentinamatti364 жыл бұрын
Martin bezuch you are right... I'm in the 2020 and the time is going so fast... It was yesterday the I was at primary school and now, second of secondary school... I'm afraid of the time.
@Ashbrringer4 жыл бұрын
I was in primary school when the song came out... now I'm a college/university student...
@vikvik95734 жыл бұрын
ROMANIA❤️❤️
@Ashbrringer4 жыл бұрын
@@vikvik9573 I ain't from Romania, but respect for Romania from Macedonia :D
@SexyPrincess1110 жыл бұрын
This song is really inspiring and describes my life perfectly. My life is empty. All the people I love hurt me and leave me, everyone. I don't feel appreciated by anyone.
@Sunny93x10 жыл бұрын
Hopefully something good comes into your life.
@SexyPrincess1110 жыл бұрын
lilsunny1993 Thank you!
@Sunny93x10 жыл бұрын
SexyPrincess11 :)
@alexandruspiridon496010 жыл бұрын
SexyPrincess11 then you don't really have much of a life now do you. How much of an uneventful stereotypical life can you have to be "perfectly described" by a Kelly Clarkson song? are you at a 12 year old girl'd mental development age, but in a body of a 20+ year old person?
@angleordevile151510 жыл бұрын
Aww poor girl :( I dont like it when strangers are sad it only makes me sad!
@tatyana606328 күн бұрын
Kelly, despite this song being sad, it's such a great sounding one that's one of my favorites from August 16th 2005 I remember when I was 11 going on 12 then. I still enjoy this song being 30 going on 31 in a bit more than 2 months. This one is great like "Everytime We Touch" by Cascada. And "If Lovin's What You Want" by Rihanna. And they were both released the same day as this on A Tue. . You go, girl!
@bubblepopper12345 жыл бұрын
The first heartbreak is that of a parent
@sarahmarie82815 жыл бұрын
Yes u got it !!!
@olafelsberry92715 жыл бұрын
My biological father
@charismacarrillo70035 жыл бұрын
so true
@RyanMonroe09105 жыл бұрын
Took me until 37 to realize this. Life long problems because of it.
@kimscott95805 жыл бұрын
Yeah also songs about heartbreak where not about a boy I liked it was about my dad
@j-face6 жыл бұрын
crazy how she turned into a legend by auditioning for American Idol. I’m glad she did because who knows if we would’ve ever heard this amazing song. Kelly Clarkson is the 🐐
@sahiljindal70216 жыл бұрын
*American Idol
@Swagmittens6 жыл бұрын
The goat
@catlover17816 жыл бұрын
The goat? 🐐
@rose-wf6hk6 жыл бұрын
Kelly Clarkson is the goat 😂😂😂 omfg
@kendrasworld67436 жыл бұрын
She's a goat? Ok now we all wanna pet her😂🐐🐐🐐
@jesseniavargas6969Ай бұрын
When the lyrics "I cannot cry because i know that's weakness in your eyes" are your reality it's almost too much to feel.💔
@jesseniavargas6969Ай бұрын
I cried so hard from the deepest part of my soul.
@emmacolindres96748 жыл бұрын
This song brings back so many bad memories, but I continue to listen to it because it's the only way for me to feel anything, because after a while you just go numb to all the feelings.
@MikhaelAhava8 жыл бұрын
Yup
@lynnmadrell69788 жыл бұрын
tough times don't last tough people do xx remember that and live by it x
@MikhaelAhava8 жыл бұрын
"If you're going through hell, keep going" --Winston Churchill
@MikhaelAhava8 жыл бұрын
+Miguel_P i think it was him
@neasabrigh57588 жыл бұрын
same
@johnnyvvlog8 жыл бұрын
As a dad of 2 little girls currently divorcing my wife this hits my straight into my heart...
@NotSoFrozone8 жыл бұрын
I'm terribly sorry. As a person who's mother and father are split, the best advice I can give is to put aside whatever toxic feelings there are for the kids sake and hopefully they are able to see both parents throughout the year.
@chezza21168 жыл бұрын
that's really sad. always worse when kids are involved. 💔
@reneestephens13998 жыл бұрын
Just be there for your girls. Your relationship with them can survive and will be healthier if everyone is in a happier state of mind.
@chezza21168 жыл бұрын
Renee Stephens I agree. Two parents that don't get on can really mess up a child.
@bjcressy8 жыл бұрын
As a child of divorced parents at the age of 7, I preferred it most of the time when my parents were apart. They were constantly arguing and making each other upset, thus also making my sister and I upset too. When I was younger/teen years, I just yearned for my family to be put back together and I still do now sometimes feel sad when I think of my parents and how they're not married anymore. Looking back as an adult now, although it's sad, I feel like it's the right choice to separate, if the people in the relationship aren't happy anymore or constantly fighting because it does affect the kids. Hope everything works out for you 😊
@kxbts5 жыл бұрын
"My heart can't possibly break, when it wasn't even whole to start with" This makes me cry + thank you for the likes 😊
@marinaarzunity91345 жыл бұрын
Me too😭
@notjokeyaya44685 жыл бұрын
it is possible for a solar explosion some time or month in the future. in this year. some regions in Asia have experienced temperature increases earlier than usual and will continue to decline. unusual heat. heat stroke alert. flooding in the next month and hot like drought. Australia will have more impact on global warming with California. losses could be more in the coming year. takes a long time to recover. the effects of widespread warming and rainfall. cannot be taken lightly. that there is a lot of damage and fire in the world has destroyed forests in parts of the world. and Latin America is facing in the future. the earthquake alert will increase by 4 months in areas affected by the earthquake good wishes and prayers and security and peace.
@febgirl2204 жыл бұрын
So very true! Also, I was so young you should’ve known better than to lean on me... I hear pieces of myself so often in this song, a few are not “bad” but made me stronger n more aware of choices before I made them....I hope this is coming right to where nobody takes this the wrong way.... that’s not my intention. Another song that touches my heart is “Where is the Love”
@pamelabarrosdemelo41154 жыл бұрын
@@notjokeyaya4468 k
@pamelabarrosdemelo41154 жыл бұрын
@@notjokeyaya4468 oj
@queeniebelletagulob89097 күн бұрын
I'm crying rn this is the first time I watch this mv. The fact that this song is based from what she experienced with her parents is so heartbreaking no child deserves that 😢
@Jellyfish72733 жыл бұрын
“Because of you, I find it hard to trust not only me but everyone around me” This lyric hurts me really bad because i never trust people when I meet them because not matter how I treat them, I tell myself, they will leave, and it hurts so bad
@iasur73043 жыл бұрын
i hope you are doing ok...Deuteronomy 31:6
@violet.94923 жыл бұрын
Same
@__._13 жыл бұрын
Same 💔😢
@barbarahasse6273 жыл бұрын
So true, and so sad. Me, being like that and feeling like that, at the age of 55...it will never end.
@dumpytroll34733 жыл бұрын
i agree w u and its a constant challenge to build friendships and my father wonders why i dont have that many friends when it was partlyhis fault for treating me badly when i was still a child
@tigerfist11267 жыл бұрын
I well not let my family go through hell like i did when i was a child.
@razanhesham61727 жыл бұрын
Angela w If you're still married to him you need to divorce him . I know it must be hard but you MUST leave him!! Atleast for your kids' sake
@your_princesa_isabelg5 жыл бұрын
Same fam, same
@tsuki5865 жыл бұрын
U had Nintendo 64 and psx it Wasnt a hell dude.
@aliasuser_3 жыл бұрын
"My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with"... Dude I felt that🥺🥺🥺
@LoveAndMusic1233 жыл бұрын
Nie.k nie.kkeo to już
@vioe25373 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it
@DreamyVibezMusic2 ай бұрын
This sound is so wonderful. The person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness!
@洪伟霆5 жыл бұрын
Lyrics I will not make The same mistakes that you did I will not let myself Cause my heart so much misery I will not break The way you did, you fell so hard I've learned the hard way To never let it get that far Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I lose my way And it's not too long before you point it out I cannot cry Because I know that's weakness in your eyes I'm forced to fake A smile, a laugh everyday of my life My heart can't possibly break When it wasn't even whole to start with Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me Because of you I am afraid I watched you die I heard you cry every night in your sleep I was so young You should have known Better than to lean on me You never thought of anyone else You just saw your pain And now I cry in the middle of the night For the same damn thing Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk Because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt Because of you I try my hardest just to forget everything Because of you I don't know how to let anyone else in Because of you I'm ashamed of my life Because it's empty Because of you I am afraid Because of you Because of you
@АсяАлександрова-б6ш5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 💝💝💝
@apguerrero5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for lyrics. Regards from Guatemala.
@洪伟霆5 жыл бұрын
@@apguerrero Thanks, I'm from Thailand. 😊
@apguerrero5 жыл бұрын
@@洪伟霆 Really? Great. Do you speak English a lot?
@洪伟霆5 жыл бұрын
@@apguerrero I just studied in junior high school, can only speak basic.
@icya_09 Жыл бұрын
As someone who comes from a broken family, this song hurts so good every time I listen to it 😢
@alissonfernandes23083 жыл бұрын
Número de brasileiros escutando esse clássico 👇🇧🇷
@karenszalves24923 жыл бұрын
oioiKK
@katerinakrausova88073 жыл бұрын
@TheWinxMusa v z in cd 25 u zruší
@katerinakrausova88073 жыл бұрын
U7l9l
@MariaOliveira-ze1xo3 жыл бұрын
Oiiii
@germanadasilvacarneiro45283 жыл бұрын
Eu.
@carlaegerdie8123 ай бұрын
This song had even more meaning to me my husband suffered a?small stroke last Monday and he's not ok and I am not ok. They are still trying to figure things out and saying a TIA but symptoms and frustration is still there. Watching him like this is killing me because I can't do anything and he can't work so he thinks he is letting me down and he's not. This song is helping me face tomorrow so thank you Jelly Roll for it ❤
@nikhilnaik83143 ай бұрын
More power to you
@shannamaria3953 жыл бұрын
This song never gets old. For the ones of us who understand the lyrics. You deserve better than you may allow yourself. Life is too short to be stuck with misery!
@Lifeisgood-zu7gm3 жыл бұрын
True 💞💞
@soniajamalenfant36623 жыл бұрын
it is a very sad song really
@suds28083 жыл бұрын
yes im in misry
@nhoussin3 жыл бұрын
Oh, and war is a bad thing, too! You could have added that. And cancer! I mean, what's with cancer?!! ;-)
@andreyperes61913 жыл бұрын
@@suds2808 🙏
@jnozaki15 жыл бұрын
My tears fell, its so sad how some children had gone through heartbroken from the person whose supposed to love them the most.
@h4z3l_nut5 жыл бұрын
Supposed to...
@mariannamartinez41155 жыл бұрын
That hit close to home
@dansoy47975 жыл бұрын
yes … and although it may be the bottom of your life in the beginning … but … as time goes on and with the love and attention of others … your can actually over come that part of your life, as if it never happened …. Thank God ….
@SweetCupcakeBetty5 жыл бұрын
You said it perfectly :(
@kristieharbaugh64145 жыл бұрын
justice1 I cry when I watch this video because my parents divorced when I was a teenager
@IamthebestYup3 жыл бұрын
To everyone who has been through childhood trauma, You are amazing. You're so strong and I'm so proud of you for managing everything so well. I know you feel confused and helpless but please never give up on yourself. It wasn't your fault,you were just a child trying to discover the world... God has a gift for everyone who has been so strong to deal with a traumatic childhood,he has for you too and that's why he has given you so much strength. I believe in your power and I know you'll be able to get through this difficult journey and come out stronger with every moment passing by. Just because,nobody knows about your pain doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Your trauma is real and matters. Stay strong.
@yongyutyotin39973 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much
@mvannorden023 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 💕 I needed that
@melarredondo19693 жыл бұрын
Yes it is...I'm trying to find a homeless shelter to escape the emotional abuse 😢
@intansari46873 жыл бұрын
I'm crying read this
@CP-nl1uo3 жыл бұрын
Have been through childhood trauma - this reminds me of plants that are fed with poison instead of water. Have to survive this and it's a miracle to grow up psychologically strong or healthy after childhood trauma