My Best & Worst date with Korean Guys | Storytime

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My age? I was born in 1998 (24 Korean age, 23 International age)
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Where do u live? I go to uni in Korea(Yonsei) and live in Korea

[@abbyl4621]

I can't believe a company would advertise their teachers like that. Disgusting

[@KelseytheKorean]

I know but it’s so effective cuz it fits with the underlying culture in Korea

[@abbyl4621]

@@KelseytheKorean Fetishizing races or foreigners is so weird (not just in korea). I tried eastmeetseast in the USA which is suppose to be a mainly Asian dating site but most of the guys were people fetishizing asian women bc of kpop and anime

[@cameo403]

It would not have been an employer I would work for. It would seem it was her choice to work for them despite the way they advertise... 🤔

[@pauloromero5477]

@@cameo403 opportunities are hard to ignore you kno

[@alissad.8793]

I just went on their website and...damn, it's a lot to take in but I can see why it sells😂

[@phish2947]

*Grabs wine * I already know I gotta drink to this

[@KelseytheKorean]

Yep u should drink tea or wine🥂🍷💖

[@salvie777]

@@KelseytheKorean or maybe some vodka for this one 😹😭

[@mariannasanfilippo5819]

@@KelseytheKorean Was the guy pocket size like you could put him in your pocket? And if so you could leave him on top of a table in a restaurant as a decoration.😂🤣🤣🙏🙏

[@pepe4544]

@@salvie777 take this 🚬🥦

[@chanluvkpop]

@@pepe4544💊💉🥄 that also

[@herworld4545]

your face was shinning and glowing even after decreasing my laptop's brightness....to the lowest..wow..

[@KelseytheKorean]

Lmao thank u hahha

[@michellemichelle2639]

Dey, was that fact relevant to say? If you need to insult someone try not to be so passive-aggressive about it as you look obvious and it is a very negative thing to do.

[@raa7420]

@@michellemichelle2639 sis, that was the compliment of all complements, it’s alright! Who doesn’t want a brightness-defying glow? 🥲 Kelsey looks incredible

[@pearlkuntz]

There’s always creeps everywhere

[@KelseytheKorean]

VERY true! I feel that my foreigner friends can’t see red flag signs with Korean ppl cuz they just think it’s ‘cultural difference’ so I wanted to give some context thru my storytime😻

[@pearlkuntz]

@@KelseytheKorean 자기가 친절히 이야기 해주지 않아도 언젠가는 그들도 알겠죠. ㅍㅎㅎㅎㅎ

[@ajkhan0]

Dude watched way too many k-dramas. He thinks forcefully coming over shows his confidence and girls will fall in love with him. The dude is probably never around other humans.

[@simpleton3781]

I have absolutely no interest in exclusively dating a Korean guy or girl. But these stories are so interesting and I do think that the overall message / theme gives a good pieces of advice. But also I love how you tell stories and how you share different perspectives!!! It’s so captivating ❤️❤️

[@kleollle681]

You should definitely make a video about cringe interracial/international relationships. Meaning your thoughts about it and reacting to couple channels. I often notice that foreign girls tend to lower their standards when it comes to Korean men. For instance, many couples do a dressing "scandalously" prank and the Korean guy is often very sexist and tells her that she shouldn't go out or that her clothes are too inappropriate, even when it's literally clothes that teens would wear. Or people glamorizing toxic international relationships where both partners obviously have two different mindsets and they ignore it.

[@KelseytheKorean]

Can u hint me some channels to react to? I only have a couple in mind in terms of cringeness, but it would be really helpful if u can tell me some that you know!! Obvs I’ll be respectful and everything, but i really wanna analyze that phenomenon. Plz leave the channel name in reply here, or u can tell me thru dm if ur more comfy with that!! Thanks in advance😃

[@kleollle681]

@@KelseytheKorean I will dm you ! Thanks for replying!

[@capricorn8426]

@@KelseytheKorean I know people will get angry at me for saying this, but I think "International couple Jay and sasha" are cringey. The Korean guy is everything you always described, not saying he's a bad person. It's just he's a traditional controlling type of dude, but of course, it's romantic to some people

[@sevvalv.5180]

Jin hattie ,

[@graceanne4696]

I also think it’s so weird like the titles of the couple videos “With my KOREAN boyfriend eating KOREAN food” like um okay?? And??💀🤚

[@SweetDragoncandy]

Yo this threw me back to that one time I went to a cafe near yonsei/sinchon to study (far away from where i hang out usually) because I was gonna meet friends there for dinner later. Random korean dude approaches me and practically corners me in my seat. He kept asking all kinds of overly personal questions and bragged about how he is a yonsei student and he is so interested in foreign cultures blabla. Also asked if i have a boyfriend, if I've dated korean guys (huge red flags) At some point he started touch my earings and stuff and getting waaay too close. So, I decide I have to get away and told him I will go meet my friends right now (it was like 1hour befor i would meet them) and he started packing his bags and saying he'll bring me to the meeting location. I was super scared and panicking. Walked to around to a random building 2 minutes away and said my friends are waiting inside there... Super creepy and uncomfortable. I did not invite him to sit with me or tried to keep the conversation going, said multiple times how i really need to focus on my work rn etc. Maybe it's really SKY dudes lmao

[@untitled1464]

Omg that never happened to me at yonsei! I think u got a creepy stalker guy who hangs around campus locations bc he could be mistaken for a student. I notice usually sky students keep to themselves away from foreigners

[@nwabisa13]

I once said this and said if I go to Korea I'd be wary of dating coz of fetishizing and they thought I'm crazy!!

[@KelseytheKorean]

I feel that Fetishizing is a real thing in all homogenous countries, and Korea is not an exception

[@ajkhan0]

@@KelseytheKorean Yeah, in the subcontinent men fetishize white girls. I think it comes from an inferiority complex.

[@nwabisa13]

@@KelseytheKorean that's very true and unfortunately black women everywhere are overly sexualized it's so sad

[@graceanne4696]

Literally but I will never understand the foreigners who GO to Korea to date and then complain ab being fetishized like isnt that what you’re doing please💀

[@nwabisa13]

@@graceanne4696 exactly!! If you are dating a Korean just because they are Korean you are adding to the problem! It's unfortunate that it happens both ways but at the end of the day people do get hurt

[@graceanne4696]

Y’all please keep in mind too there’s a big difference between Korean and Korean American or like Korean Australian culturally so don’t think that if you meet a Korean guy in America or a less homogenous country he will have the same cultural beliefs(good or bad)

[@JP-cy2dw]

I think the point was that they have experienced other cultures, not that their cultures are the same. if they have experienced other cultures they will have less likelihood to be that type of awkward towards you (i think so the argument goes)

[@offensivesword4628]

Lol makes me wanna do my own channel, the korean american version.

[@alexxpanda6412]

Yeahhhhhh there are differences! Honestly I would rather date korean American or Korean Australian if I really had to choose

[@cocoapeach]

I have a feeling that ex-girlfriend of his doesn't exist lol.

[@calliesantana9524]

Lmao that was my initial thought

[@ana01678]

Her: “There are some girls who are awkward around guys and some guys who are awkward around girls” Me ( who is awkward around everyone😭): 👁👄👁

[@lilyLovesStories]

Kelsey, our personal informant lol. Thx girl! I appreciate U letting me know how to avoid the cringe 😬

[@alissad.8793]

Ah, same energy as the one Korean dude I used to hang out with until he called me a bitch for not wanting to introduce him to my white girl friends because I knew he fetishized them and I didn't want to make my friends uncomfortable. I still think the only reason he hadn't tried anything with me was because I straight up told him right away that we'd never be more than friends but he kept hanging out with me anyway because he thought I could introduce him to some white girls that actually wanted to be with him. He did own a coffee store so at least I always got free coffee out of it before he blocked me for telling him he was a dick lmao fun times

[@justasheep4427]

I always like to hear some creepy dating stories 😂😂 many thanks! As for those who overly fetishize people of certain countries, I would say they don't realize that they are not so different. People are people, no matter what part of the world: at most, certain traits are more likely to be found among the people of that country, but that's it. For example, in my country (Spain) we tend to argue a lot and say hurtful things when we argue, and I think in Korea you are more likely to avoid the conflict or remain more polite even if you argue... but you can find people with the opposite traits in each country, so if you like to avoid conflicts it just means that it's easier to find people like you in Korea, not that you should automatically ditch all the people from Spain and keep chasing every Korean guy/girl you see.

[@PrincessSakuno]

Jin's accent is so funny to me omg lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@No-yj3tv]

lmaooo frrr

[@whatshername9814]

That ad is like a university ad

[@ShanaMoe]

not me staring at you through the whole video because you look so pretty T_T Tell us your secrets to glowing like that

[@KelseytheKorean]

Naww thank u >.< it’s good lighting!! Hehe

[@sksksksksksksksksks]

Omggg what lipstick did you use???? It's sooooo beautiful😭😱❤

[@Valentino016]

"They try to use you to learn english" Thats super funny ☠️🤣

[@sunidhisarmah1955]

Ok maybe off topic, but Kelsey you look BEAUTIFUL!! I love your makeup ✨

[@leah0928]

ayee kelsey teacher coming through, no but I love your storytimes sis

[@Neha-hh6ni]

I love listening to you, you are like a virtual best friend to me. It's so fun listening to you 💃🦋

[@KelseytheKorean]

Aww thanks

[@Neha-hh6ni]

@@KelseytheKorean omggg 💃💃 Thankyou for replying me🦋❤️

[@jios6400]

i really like Kelsey to make a video about korean foods.

[@KelseytheKorean]

I’m on it!!!

[@loneranger668]

Kelsey: the moral to your story is; "Men or Women, Beware of your surroundings!"

[@elenah5810]

Ooof not him stalking you :// Great video kelsey!!! Lol the whole storytime I was distracted by your lip makeup, it looks really good! What lipstick/gloss did you use?

[@n25783]

Maybe it's a class thing? I don't think Koreans fetishize westerners. They fetishize Koreans that are "western" because it usually means those Koreans are rich. It's just my own speculation 🤔 what do y'all think

[@technicalmachine1671]

Westernised people and westernised Koreans are "easy".

[@purpleiw970]

my fav youtuber uploaded 💗

[@TinusTwilight]

Girl, I'm literally a magnet for weird and creepy people in Korea... I literally attract weirdos idk how... one time this one dude followed me from the subway for 5 minutes and then decided to talk to me. I was scared so I just said yes to everything, and then I blocked him on Kakao.

[@melaniebrady6816]

I’ve never been to Korea but I remember being on the app Hello Talk and I had a guy who became friends with me and we used to message each other, he then asked me if I was on Kakao and I told him no, then out of the blue he’d call me a lot and I refused to answer the phone. It freaked me out so bad that I blocked him in the end.

[@skleroosis]

Classical story how us women get into uncomfortable situations because we're conditioned to be polite and give men a pass for going over the line.

[@kclarke421]

Me who doesn't plan on dating but I'm coming for the food and work but as a black gal we get sexualized so much so I'm just preparing myself for random ppl who would wanna flirt in English with me: 👁️👄👁️👌🏽

[@nwabisa13]

Same!! Like I don't have that oppa kink id love to go live in Korea and work there and makes friends that's it, if i fall inlove whatever but not looking

[@justahumanbeing4]

If i come to korea i don't want to date..just want to spend quality time and chill, hope i have a good time there

[@ashb9655]

U r the best in storytelling

[@leelandluver]

Wow! Yeah, he was being creepy and stalkerish. Definitely several red flags.

[@peacelife]

Thx for sharing. The great topic again ahah. You are lucky that guy is not stalking you anymore. It seems like there are lots of those guys who fantasize about foreigners. Not sure if you know but when you were talking about the dating app and you showed the live chat option the 2nd video is of Joe he is from Jknews. He is somewhat famous. I follow that whole group. It funny how people I watched on youtube all come around. Glad you also collaborated with Jina too. I knew your personality would match.

[@oriono2470]

Can you do a lip tutorial? This looks so cool omg

[@scarsavage3519]

Ain't gonna lie, after recently cutting a Koran dude off after only knowing him 4 weeks, the guy made me super uncomfortable. I felt like he was purposely passively aggressively doing things to make me sleep with him. It was so cringe, that when I saw ur videos I had to watch them to understand why this guy was so casual about making me feel sexualized or uncomfortable. Grant it I am mexican/filipino and heavily tattooed. But he acted like I was some exotic side show freak and did not respect my boundaries 😡🤮

[@rzz_009]

And I'm again watching her!! Yess I just love listening to her!😁😁💜

[@KelseytheKorean]

Thank u💓

[@rzz_009]

@@KelseytheKorean oohh myy god you replied 🥺aww I love you 😘

[@denisejordan1094]

I know this is an old video but it's very helpful

[@fartunyep4501]

i love ur channel ! thanks for these stories

[@thvsg6970]

One thing that i just love listening to ur voice and other storytime lol💜

[@Abby-xe3sc]

Ok so I'm ready with popcorn let's get started now

[@meenakshinundy9492]

Yaa..finally I am early!!🥳🥳🥳

[@araverse]

We need to know this!

[@KelseytheKorean]

Yup for real

[@Arinaretina]

Hey so I checked out that EME Hive app, but apparently you need to pay to actually send messages on that app?? Which is absolutely ridiculous. I wonder if anyone’s checked it out and has a way around this??

[@uniquelyolmiche4736]

I am on the subway I’ll see you soon, that is some serial killer ass shit. Wtf you mean you’re on the subway, I didn’t invite you over crazy and she got a man. How is he this clueless and bold??????

[@emayearewhy7072]

I wish I would have known this when I met up with guys from ht and they asked me to smash on the third meeting because I'm "pretty."

[@estherandherlittleworld7821]

I was happy to see that you uploaded a new video, I really like to hear your stories, that guy is creepy 😂OMG

[@winterwad]

next video idea: i comment your dating stories with k men lol something to thing about, maybe ?

[@vivimorggan]

I dont Know how I got here but I liked your chanel. A hug from Chile :)

[@srijinamukherjee3782]

Woahh I am so early!!!!!

[@MrKinamyun]

누나는 이때가 젤 이쁜듯

[@daffo595]

I wonder if there's any stories like this from a guy's perspective? Kelsey would have more experiences dating men but I wonder how its like to navigate dating there as a dude.

[@KelseytheKorean]

I wanna know too!!!!! Havent seen content like this from a guy tho

[@daffo595]

@@KelseytheKorean omg tell your stories about cringe foreigners haha. We need to get shit on, too.

[@cameo403]

I think both males and females find things creepy when it is not from someone they are attracted to. We don't usually think things are yuck, if we think the person is hot.. Male or female. I'm sure guys have just as many creep stories of girls coming into them who they just aren't into.

[@pauloromero5477]

I use google image search all the time... But not to search for personal info / contact. Pretty surr that must he asked directly. I'm dying xddd

[@enimofe5100]

Yay im from Ireland. Love your videos

[@nwabisa13]

Lol eme hive is not available in my country 😭

[@mizzdeegrannde]

You're very good, bold and funny.. I want to be your friend❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@dauphongii]

Is liking particular things a race has (such as eye shape or color) the same as fetishizing?

[@abena8339]

Awww I’m an awkward person so this hurt my feelings a little 🥹 lol but I know it’s not about me so letting it goooo 🌬

[@godservant6450]

언니 왜 많은 K POP 아이돌들이 자살 😔로 생을 마감하는지 알려주실 수 있나요? 그들은 우울증 😔을 겪고 있습니까?

[@ca55iez82]

"english? I can help you with that" 😂😂 the only sentence about learning english in the whole video..yikes

[@bloomkeen9059]

I don't care so much about romantic/ sexual relationships, how is making friends in korea?

[@aishaadam7473]

Pls make a video how to get a job tips

[@aishaadam7473]

Or share in comments plz

[@Sabrina-ft4fq]

this is difficult I tried but I can not understand the Korean man.....

[@MultiCoolzero]

I date Korean Girl one time , it was my worst experience ever .

[@jaidybinns5095]

Why?

[@Angel-dg6mx]

You look so much like someone I know. Do you by any chance have a brother named Min?

[@Crabitat]

7:18 SNU! Like my old pal Cho Sang-woo. First in his class! Hope he turned out OK!

[@michellemichelle2639]

I like your site but it did concern me that your friends feel they need to get something out of a person to be friends with them. Sometimes just consider it an act of kindness to give someone a chance to learn how to fit in. It will enrich your soul in the end. After finishing your video the guy is really weird and inappropriate and I am sorry you went through this trying to be nice. Be safe.

[@Cutieeee_253]

Wow Kelsey been around the block and she only like 22

[@kimseokjin9200]

Can't stop thinking of psychological traumas the guy probaby got

[@KelseytheKorean]

Yeah let’s empathize with the creepy guy

[@kimseokjin9200]

@@KelseytheKorean a creepy guy can't get traumatized?

[@dnelleshambler632]

You must be the stalker she was talking about ☠️

[@kimseokjin9200]

@@dnelleshambler632 haha, quite expected assumption, I admit, but I guess in that case I would have known much more details about the story, wouldn't I?)

[@dnelleshambler632]

@@kimseokjin9200 i dunno you just sounded personally affected so I was checking ☠️

[@alexxpanda6412]

I don't like the fetishist culture of foreigners...... also If I ever did date in Korea, I would rather talk to guys that lived in other places as well not just Korea. Guys are cringe regardless, but some of these Korean guys are wild

[@BebeStellas]

There are obsessive, socially awkward people like this all over the world. I feel they just haven't found their own crowd, or lack social skills so end up in situations where they don't fit in.

[@abenaboadu1220]

Could you do a video on what Koreans think about black people because I know they fetishize foreigners but also heard that they are a little bit racist towards people of colour and I wanted to know if people of colour speak English do they fetishize them too or do they still get treated in a slightly racist way (btw idk if I spelt "fetishized" right sorry 😅) also what do they think about thicker girls instead of the "slim and cute" ones

[@fakegod1]

Should saying "most of such boys can be fuckboys" be accepted when saying the same for a girl aka slut shaming isn't accepted or say isn't a good thing to say .

[@D.i.a.n.a]

promoting school with *topless photo of a teacher* ....what the hell. what kind of *school* would do that? well, now we know

[@nwabisa13]

This is why I love Kelsey so glad I came across you 💜

[@KelseytheKorean]

Aww ty

[@calliesantana9524]

That poor weird guy I hope he’s somewhere being comfortable with being awkward and being himself. I like awkward people as long as they have their own personality.

[@EricaPapad]

that ad was.... cringy 😅​😅​😬​

[@whysosour935]

bro i’m so scared to use dating sites 😂😂😂😂

[@teatime9649]

I knew this girl who went to Korea with her family on vacation and she was stopped in the streets when she was walking with her family by a group of Koreans and they asked if they could get a picture with her. And their excuse was because they never really see blonde blue-eyed foreigners. I don't know if that's normal but I would find that highly uncomfortable.

[@nisaturker7549]

I was literally watching your videos rn and got the notification lol im so happy

[@matthewstein6838]

Australia 🇦🇺. Making an American 🇺🇸 accent seem classy since 1901. Too bad you lost your accent. Have goo’d one matey

[@DeadRebornKid]

0:18 Ayooooo!!! Dudes be on they Agent47 type shit for the @💀

[@KelseytheKorean]

Yup pretty creepy

[@difz]

Oh my god the first story scared me. I am Indian and our mother tongue is Hindi. I don't know where and how but I've got a mixture of American British English probably from watching animax, anyways our parents have always encouraged us to learn English as it's recommended everywhere in India from exams to job interviews. And this actually has caused me a lot of problems, my classmates made fun of me for not having that Hindi accent in English as well and speaking English as it's supposed to be spoken, it was crazy and this was one of the reasons i covered myself up and vanished in the background. But then when I got out of school and went to a college one of our professors pushed me to go on stage and i started giving speeches declamations, teachers loved it and obsessed batchmates would try to creep up in my dms. I have been getting both hate and obsession. But i don't get it, it's just another language, it's a skill which does no harm and i always love to learn languages with perfection to be able to communicate better and help foreigners out. I love accents and languages. But this doesn't mean i am some out going ummm notorious person 🤦‍♀️ you know what I mean. I am just me and i haven't even travelled outside of India. Dang that hate still sends shivers down my spine.

[@aissia6569]

Love that your are so honest and open with different topic. Happy to have found your channel recently :) Bonjour / hi from Canada

[@shammikhan8015]

wait lol thats joe from justkiddingnews at 22:32, that surprised me!!

[@tuqa4752]

Imagine he watch this video too💀👌🏻

[@norajama6987]

Kelsey님🤍 왜 이렇게까지 예뻐요❤

[@KelseytheKorean]

감사합니당💗

[@Kittycat-rm8hu]

I don’t even want to go to Korea but I enjoy ur videos.

[@donaldanfreud9595]

I watched all the video. It is very interesting. I want to say that I don't really know about people fetishizing like that but that one was creepy as f... I think it's okay to feel attracted to a race more than another but those awkward guys, well they are kinda dangerous I would say. I hope no one will fall in a trap like that

[@Alexandra-yd1iz]

First comment 😜

[@alisierra7950]

Can I ask do Korean guys date gay thank you for answering all of your video will help how's planning to live in korea

[@adaml.m3244]

Came late but I am here for the tea 😅

[@Miu-pv4ie]

Your hair and skin looks so good😍❤

[@jeovimsa626]

What are you actually studying? Your major

[@cynthiaacosta3271]

Bet he’s watching this like … 👁👄👁

[@antomaggia8664]

*downloading eme hive just cause Kelsey told me so* GET YOUR COINS GIRL 💅

[@KelseytheKorean]

Hahaha thanks for the support girl😍

[@sadness7897]

The last time I had a date I suppose that was in my previous life 😂😂... I'm not the correct man for a girl, so it's better to continue being single (I don't have a choice 😂😂😂)

[@mushroomseason]

just a tip, i don’t think that all foreigners should be generalized as not being able to speak korean

[@ClaireUSMC99]

WTF is up that teaching app?! 😅😲😳 Do you think its design plays a major role with the people it attracts??? Like that "SKY" stalker who is the epitome of a nerd! I doubt people like that change, his social awkwardness is part of his personality and mindset (he's creepy). Although it is impressive to go to a SKY school...like you said, some of its students and graduates lack social skills because they probably didn't participate in social extracurricular activities that mold a well-rounded personality growing up. They likely have parents who don't realize the importance for their children to have a wide range of friends and do things besides study and play musical instruments - as a result, they end up like SKY stalker. Whew, I am grateful to have parents who taught my siblings and I to be decent, help others, allowed us to think objectively and have make our own decisions - my mom is a medical doctor and my dad is a chemical engineer but they never look down on peopl because of their social standing.

[@emilyhong9083]

LOOOL i can relate so much with the study search yikessss