This video breaks all Korean dating fantasies/Storytime of my creepy Korean ex

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Kelsey the Korean

Kelsey the Korean

Күн бұрын

Story time of one of my Korean exes. Also I explain some Korean dating characteristics from my story!
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0:00 intro
0:53 storytime
17:04 Korean dating culture explanation

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@aspenjones8841
@aspenjones8841 3 жыл бұрын
Imma be honest kdramas normalize unhealthy and sometimes abusive relationships also TW ...sexual assault and fat phobia as much as I love kdrama this is a serious problem
@fartunyep4501
@fartunyep4501 3 жыл бұрын
whats tw
@aspenjones8841
@aspenjones8841 3 жыл бұрын
@@fartunyep4501 trigger warning
@aspenjones8841
@aspenjones8841 3 жыл бұрын
@@fartunyep4501 having these topics might trigger victims so I always put a tw so they can feel safe
@fartunyep4501
@fartunyep4501 3 жыл бұрын
@@aspenjones8841 ooh okay i didnt know what it stood for. thanks
@jakayyyyyy6151
@jakayyyyyy6151 2 жыл бұрын
Some kdrama are good let's not generalize it that all kdrama glorify bad relationship
@theseasonsoflife
@theseasonsoflife 3 жыл бұрын
He sounds like the Korean version of the “Nice guy”, someone who feels entitled after doing what they think is nice or romantic. 🙃🙃 We literally cannot escape men like this ANYWHERE HOLY
@milkbread5036
@milkbread5036 3 жыл бұрын
I have had my fair share of "nice guys". I feel like they're worse than "fuck boys" because at least fuckboys tell you what they want, whereas there's SO much deception with NiceGuys. They act super innocent, sweet, caring to get sex and then when you don't give it to them, they call you a bitch, whore, ugly etc.
@godischungha4599
@godischungha4599 3 жыл бұрын
honestly this is why i like women, i’ve been questioning for a long time if i’m bisexual or just lesbian and this video + several others validated my thinking. i think i like the idea of being in a relationship w a man, but i wouldn’t do it myself bc im way too scared of getting hurt. both nice guys and rude guys can end up deceptive and manipulating.
@milkbread5036
@milkbread5036 3 жыл бұрын
@@godischungha4599 The good thing is there IS more than those two categories of men (although sometimes it feels like that's all there is..). I'm not sure your sexuality, but the fact you said you're scared means you haven't found the right guy (I feel the same way). But I'm sure we keep meeting people and eventually someone will shine :)
@theseasonsoflife
@theseasonsoflife 3 жыл бұрын
@@milkbread5036 they are far worse!! They are so delusional it’s kind of scary. It’s insane to me how much media use to (and probably still does) pushed the agenda of the Nice guy deserves to have whatever they wish for after doing anything remotely kind/nice to the person their interested in, cause dudes have internalized that as what they should do to get what they want which is disgusting. I hope you find someone that cares and RESPECTS you and your boundaries 🙌🏼
@theseasonsoflife
@theseasonsoflife 3 жыл бұрын
​@@godischungha4599 As someone who's straight, I also am scared of dating in general, because I have encountered nice guys pretty much since elementary school all the way up to college. The important thing is to recognize any red flags or oftentimes you'll get a gut feeling that this guy isn't a good person, right when you meet them. If the guy doesn't respect your boundaries or decisions he's not worth your time or energy! I hope you find what you're looking for whether it's a male or female :)
@Angelazriel
@Angelazriel 3 жыл бұрын
my gf literally left me cos i told her love in korea is not like kdramas she said " you ruining my dream" like i am ruining your dreams cos I am telling you the reality?
@bhavya.d1897
@bhavya.d1897 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 sorry bro... your ex was a delulu?
@Angelazriel
@Angelazriel 3 жыл бұрын
@@bhavya.d1897 basically
@themelanatednomad6989
@themelanatednomad6989 3 жыл бұрын
Dodged a bullet 😂😂😂
@shreeparate897
@shreeparate897 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry but your ex so much dramatic 😒
@lachio636
@lachio636 2 жыл бұрын
Run! Fast !!your ex is toxic!
@user-dc4sm3lg1z
@user-dc4sm3lg1z 3 жыл бұрын
Kelsey is here to break down all kboos fantasies, and I am here for that!
@jungwonofeden4603
@jungwonofeden4603 3 жыл бұрын
idk why I laughed so hard at that haha
@jaidybinns5095
@jaidybinns5095 Жыл бұрын
I'm here for it too I'm loving the stories .😍🥰
@cassiadsouza709
@cassiadsouza709 3 жыл бұрын
To be really honest, I've never found jealousy or being possessive over your partner attractive, in real-life and even in dramas. At least in dramas I can over-look that but I still cringe. I don't even get why people find it cute like excuse me I'm a fucking human not a thing you can possess and secondly, being a little jealous is only natural but restricting your partner from doing things because you can't control your emotions... BOI BYE. You know it's a big red flag when your partner starts acting like your parent lmaoo
@moonshinemermaid
@moonshinemermaid 3 жыл бұрын
Uhh im possesive too 😂
@cassiadsouza709
@cassiadsouza709 3 жыл бұрын
@@moonshinemermaid it's okay unless you're restricting the person you're dating with to do certain things that are normal just for your benefit
@scarletpearl4701
@scarletpearl4701 3 жыл бұрын
But it’s actually good if he’s restricting you from doing bad stuffs
@Anna-zp1ok
@Anna-zp1ok 3 жыл бұрын
@@scarletpearl4701 I would see that more of looking after a persons best interest and see it more protective than being possessive.
@lunali7209
@lunali7209 3 жыл бұрын
SAME!!! i find it to be an insult too. like basically you are implying that i need to be controlled and watched or otherwise i would go out and cheat on you?
@miadebbas6593
@miadebbas6593 3 жыл бұрын
some guys, not only in korea, are also as controling to the point of asking you to unfollow every single guy friends you have on insta just because you commented on their pic or liked it once before you met him because he feels they are a “threat” to the relationship
@KelseytheKorean
@KelseytheKorean 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah i know those guys too🤯
@godischungha4599
@godischungha4599 3 жыл бұрын
damn it’s sad that ppl still can’t believe that a guy and girl can be just friends w each other
@brookefairfield8659
@brookefairfield8659 2 жыл бұрын
my friends bf is like that and it pisses me off so much. like he has no right and that shows that he doesn’t trust her and is wayyyy too controlling and that’s bad. ive tried saying something but it’s tough
@franisthebest1234
@franisthebest1234 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen girls like this too. A girl in my class made her boyfriend (who were all friends with) block all the girls in the class because she was so jealous we were friends with him. Some people are just not fit to be in a relationship tbh
@abinayasivakumar8919
@abinayasivakumar8919 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Nyanya07
@Nyanya07 3 жыл бұрын
Seeing my comment in the live stream and being the first one here, priorities ✨
@KelseytheKorean
@KelseytheKorean 3 жыл бұрын
Love uu💕
@Nyanya07
@Nyanya07 3 жыл бұрын
@@KelseytheKorean I LOVE YOU MORE 😾❤️
@reniceeccles117
@reniceeccles117 3 жыл бұрын
My internet connection: Nah
@kclarke421
@kclarke421 3 жыл бұрын
@@reniceeccles117 THISSSS 😭😭😭😭
@KH-lc6se
@KH-lc6se 3 жыл бұрын
i love how kelsey is just a reality check when it comes to korea and korean men
@adalovelace521
@adalovelace521 3 жыл бұрын
This particular brand of love bombing seems a culture thing, but this kind of pressuring behaviour can be seen in Europe too. It's just less accepted here and that's the difference.
@lilyLovesStories
@lilyLovesStories 3 жыл бұрын
I can't breathe! Texting constantly?! Checking in?! I can't do it.
@moonshinemermaid
@moonshinemermaid 3 жыл бұрын
That's what i want texting everyday , often 😀
@Anna-zp1ok
@Anna-zp1ok 3 жыл бұрын
The guy gives me major "nice guy" vibes. Especially when he started calling you a bunch of names when you broke up with him
@NiaG34
@NiaG34 3 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie I kinda like the idea of asking the person to be gf/bf after the 3rd date. It sounds better than dating someone for 3 months who could be dating other ppl and not knowing if ur going anywhere 😭
@thaiscarvalho2711
@thaiscarvalho2711 3 жыл бұрын
I think is really weird because you're going to date someone you don't know, like, this person that I meet three weeks ago is my bf/gf??? I would barely know them
@NiaG34
@NiaG34 3 жыл бұрын
@@thaiscarvalho2711 You could date someone for 2 years and even marry then and still not know them too. Time doesn’t really matter to me as long as you’re getting to know that person but I would rather get to know them knowing we’re the only ones dating each other and not dating multiple people.
@thaiscarvalho2711
@thaiscarvalho2711 3 жыл бұрын
@@NiaG34 For me, I would only date someone If I have feelings for them and I don't think I would grow this type of feelings barely knowing them, it's not about knowing everything about the person I think it's because for me the boyfriend/girlfriend tittle is really heavy, like she said in the video, it's not normal to say to the friends that you are dating so quickly because you are still knowing each other, for me this is weird, because having someone with that tittle it's because they're important to me, so I will let my friends know first thing (Sorry if it's difficult to understand, English isn't my first language)
@NiaG34
@NiaG34 3 жыл бұрын
@@thaiscarvalho2711 Yes I understand and I get that too. I imagine that I will already know of this person before considering dating so after a few dates I wouldn’t mind a title. I think because in Korea the gf/bf title isn’t a big deal the first year or so in mostly because some only get into relationships for fun/ sexual relations because hookups are taboo so they will need a title for that.
@thaiscarvalho2711
@thaiscarvalho2711 3 жыл бұрын
@@NiaG34 Ohh I get it, like if one of my friends (Or someone that I already knew) asked me on a date and I kinda of can see having a relationship with them, I believe a few dates is enough too, but I understood like she said in the video, she meet the guy one time and got asked on a date, if it was with me, a few dates wouldn't be enough
@kiayang1992
@kiayang1992 3 жыл бұрын
I am living vicariously through your dating life. Lol! I agree, who the hell would know that accepting a doodle means you're paired for life now? Oh gosh.
@KelseytheKorean
@KelseytheKorean 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr😂😂
@lemonstrangler
@lemonstrangler 2 жыл бұрын
hi, will you accept my heart ?
@nairobie755
@nairobie755 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't date someone I couldn't feel I would trust around other men. I also wouldn't date someone who wouldn't trust me hanging out with my female friends. I find the whole concept of dating someone you don't trust deeply disturbing.
@kundaigogoma9420
@kundaigogoma9420 3 жыл бұрын
Omw yesss someone has finally said it, this is why these days I don't watch k dramas that much, they romanticize toxic behavior especially from the man all in the name of love like in the heirs I don't understand how people liked young do( Kim woo bin ) like he was bullying her all because he couldn't say I like you, or boys over flowers where gu junpyo literally abducted jandi from school and bright him to his house for a makeup over like wtf, or this arm grabbing nonsense I will slap a guy who will even try it because wtf is that I could go on and on lol😂
@milkbread5036
@milkbread5036 3 жыл бұрын
I hate the wrist grab and yanking the woman. Try that on me and you will have no arms...
@KelseytheKorean
@KelseytheKorean 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@kundaigogoma9420
@kundaigogoma9420 3 жыл бұрын
@@milkbread5036 exactly 10 years ago i found it cute then I grew up and now I'm like this is abuse 😑😑
@FruityHachi
@FruityHachi 3 жыл бұрын
and i guess to counteract it, kdramas romanticize toxic behavior from women too (like in it's okay to not be okay) which is just as bad it's so hard to find a kdrama where both the man and the woman treat each other with respect, i found more respectful characters in action/crime dramas than in rom-coms
@kundaigogoma9420
@kundaigogoma9420 2 жыл бұрын
@@FruityHachi bro!!!! Omw!!! You read my mind famm!! (sorry you got me excited) like ko mom Young was sooo toxic and they were on some it's okay to not not be okay like... That woman was crazy and she needed to go to a mental institution like actually crazy how do you go around stabbing people, pushing them stairs, beating and shouting at people, etc and go unchecked nahh I didn't not like that at all, the message they were portraying was SOOO BADD!! I watched it because people said it was amazing and the hype but nah I'd defo not watch it again that was a bad psychiatric or mental health show Watch kill me heal me or it's okay it's love. I loved those 2
@twinklepatel3543
@twinklepatel3543 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhh ....not only in Korea...in India there is a type of boyfriend...I mean cringy types...but it looks romantic in only dramas...n the worst in real life...
@Awmsies
@Awmsies 3 жыл бұрын
Oh trust me I know lmaooo
@SE-gs6gd
@SE-gs6gd 3 жыл бұрын
That snorlax gets me every time. I wonder what he's dreaming about 🤔
@cierrahilton3006
@cierrahilton3006 3 жыл бұрын
Dying inside at " that fucker" I have never laughed so hard lmao
@am32074
@am32074 3 жыл бұрын
I thought the guy is like 20-21 or something and was like "that's not creepy" then you said he was 25 and like- Who knows how many times he did that like he sound like he did it many times that he knows what to do to guilt shame someone into a relationship
@eglep1048
@eglep1048 3 жыл бұрын
Gosh this reminded me one time I texted my boyfriend at 2AM if he’s coming home that night when he was partying with friends and he texted me back at 6AM “yeah” and didn’t. Quite the opposite lmao
@the_only_living_ghost
@the_only_living_ghost 2 жыл бұрын
The way she stopped and laughed about him being like “but you accepted my heart”
@kriziacortez2227
@kriziacortez2227 3 жыл бұрын
“It sounds like fucking Cinderella shit.” HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I CANT 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@hannelie5191
@hannelie5191 3 жыл бұрын
There are definitely parts of the US with similar dating/relationship expectations (no hanging out with the opposite sex, calling to check-in etc). I think it’s kind of been looked down upon in just the last few years, but there are definitely still people who think that way. Also, when you talk about becoming boyfriend and girlfriend after a few dates, I think the wording you might be searching for is “dating exclusively” or in an “exclusive relationship”. That’s what we would say in the states to differentiate from going on dates with different people in the same time period.
@user-dc4sm3lg1z
@user-dc4sm3lg1z 3 жыл бұрын
Of course, when SK is under USA influence for more time than any other East Asia country.
@kclarke421
@kclarke421 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so confused 🤔😭😭
@NiaG34
@NiaG34 3 жыл бұрын
That it’s common in Korea that u get into a relationship after a few dates. That’s not common in America
@SugaBabieT
@SugaBabieT 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think it's really in certain parts/states in the US but more so just a person to person thing instead. There is most definitely plenty of people with that mindset.
@hannelie5191
@hannelie5191 3 жыл бұрын
@@SugaBabieT that’s fair. I guess I was thinking of the more conservative (cough cough southern) areas of the US, but you’re definitely right that it’s all over
@wiredayan9719
@wiredayan9719 3 жыл бұрын
The moment that you felt guilty because of the drawing its the moment everything went downhill.... i detest guilt trippers... men...
@adaml.m3244
@adaml.m3244 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Kelsey. I love how you are authentic without sugar coating the truth. I know Cha Cha Cha from dancing with the stars. Thanks for sharing your story 😊
@peanutbuttersquid6124
@peanutbuttersquid6124 3 жыл бұрын
I can't stop laughing this story is so bizarre lol l want more storytimes kelsey
@katherinedcfrancisco9347
@katherinedcfrancisco9347 Жыл бұрын
I so love the way you tell your stories... so bubbly and charming, and so real... no sugarcoating...
@agnedragunaite3418
@agnedragunaite3418 3 жыл бұрын
I simply love your personality! I ended up in these dating videos while doing reseach for my studies in Korea and I dont regret, your personality is so much fun!
@DinoNuggiessss
@DinoNuggiessss 3 жыл бұрын
I’m really proud of you, I admire how you stand up for yourself!💖
@MJ-eh8er
@MJ-eh8er 3 жыл бұрын
That livestream was so fun! keep bringing us good content Kelsey!
@fizkallnyeilsem
@fizkallnyeilsem 2 жыл бұрын
Im filipina, watch out for Men giving gifts (even if you werent dating yet) under the guise of being simply nice or chivalrous, cus he might be expecting for something in return like anything he demands, and get pissed when a girl doesnt follow those demands big or small. Thats already a red flag
@alienwolf3
@alienwolf3 3 жыл бұрын
I love the way she tells stories 😍🥰
@sophiemary9117
@sophiemary9117 3 жыл бұрын
Well I‘m german and I met this korean guy on tinder (fully korean but born in germany)... he brought me to the nicest dates and got me flowers and cooked for me. I felt like I was in a k-drama. After 3 months of weekly dating and also sleepovers I‘ve wanted like a small commitment and he was like: I know you wnat a relationsship but this is to much pressure bla bla. Suddenly he kicked ne out of his instagram follower list and also unfollowed me. After I asked him why he did that he said: well I spent to much time on social media so I decided to only follow and have followers of my friends and familygroup! I just kicked him out of my life! I‘ve never been treated like that
@Anya-nv8cq
@Anya-nv8cq 2 жыл бұрын
Weiß nicht, ob das am koreanischen Hintergrund liegt oder das einfach nur der typische beziehungsunfähige Tindertrottel war. Hab viele solche Leute kennenlernen dürfen.
@notsirat
@notsirat 3 жыл бұрын
So basically he wanted you to make him your first priority 😬 It's creepy. Anyways you are out of that relationship that's what we care about.
@Alexamw
@Alexamw 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Kelsey 💖
@sashab9611
@sashab9611 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all need to remember that men are still men and to not judge people by their race 😭
@ameeshakaur5176
@ameeshakaur5176 3 жыл бұрын
You're one of my fav fav korean youtuber!❤ love ya!
@katherinebui6740
@katherinebui6740 3 жыл бұрын
ugh we're the same age but ur miles ahead of me in the confidence and self-acceptance game!! ty for inspiring me to catch up & for suffering 2 yrs ago so u can give us this funny storytime now LOL also thank u for teaching me what love bombing is, love knowing i've been a victim of that as well
@josephinekona7322
@josephinekona7322 2 жыл бұрын
It's nice that u're telling all koreaboo about the reality of the society... I really like ur videos.. love from solomon islands
@ninime101
@ninime101 3 жыл бұрын
In the Philippines, it's the same. Some people appreciate giving updates and stuff? In fact, some couples even share their SNS credentials so they can check each other's inboxes. --- but that's not everyone. But personally, anything is good but as long as it's agreed upon. That's what communication is for. --- love from Manila. ❤️
@zefersanity6537
@zefersanity6537 3 жыл бұрын
manila is a shithole no offense
@ninime101
@ninime101 3 жыл бұрын
@@zefersanity6537 um you suck no offense
@yanna1625
@yanna1625 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Some couples are like that and it's normal.
@vidhiagrawal9874
@vidhiagrawal9874 3 жыл бұрын
Yup...... Here in India people think its okay to give your social media accounts and I am like please grow up......
@tamerebel
@tamerebel 3 жыл бұрын
@@ninime101 good one haha
@thismeetup8173
@thismeetup8173 2 жыл бұрын
You are speaking the truth as always in every video.
@josepharato5885
@josepharato5885 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video
@emilyspector2728
@emilyspector2728 Жыл бұрын
Yaaayyy story time!!!!!! 😊😊😊
@annette1982
@annette1982 2 жыл бұрын
On a first date my date's discussion slowly veered to the question, "would you want to get married?" Whaaaaat!!! I was soooo creeped out and uncomfortable. I changed the subject talking about the location of the date to which I never had been, the food, the weather, etc. He asked the question again OMG - I responded by saying, "I am presently working on my college degree and the coursework is heavy." Throughout it all the first time he asked the question I knew HELL NO!!! There will never be a second date. If I get creeped out on a first date, I immediately cut it off.
@pamellamichelly8370
@pamellamichelly8370 2 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE SO AMAZING ❤️
@PINKLOVER658712
@PINKLOVER658712 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video!!!!
@vampirequeen953
@vampirequeen953 3 жыл бұрын
I just love you!!! You're awesome!!!
@sittingaloneinvip
@sittingaloneinvip 3 жыл бұрын
new follower!! love this!! do you have a q&a? i’m interested in learning more about u! 🥰
@maya613
@maya613 3 жыл бұрын
Somehow, the demands to not spend anytime apart with mixed groups--makes me think of the crazy KPOP fans--crazy insecure, crazy possessive. All that texting sounds like a horrible job...yikes
@mysticalhuman
@mysticalhuman 3 жыл бұрын
my favourite korean- kelsey the queen
@NotAMuse
@NotAMuse 3 жыл бұрын
Dangit I missed another livestream! But we get more content so yay!
@tinkymcginnis
@tinkymcginnis Жыл бұрын
I think trashing a guy in public just because he liked you more than you liked him is extremely toxic and weird
@kclarke421
@kclarke421 3 жыл бұрын
5:11 Nov 11 Pepero Day Noted👌🏽
@trishaannsison9340
@trishaannsison9340 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like we'd get along so well as friends in real life hahaha more power to you fam 👏
@maryjanewesterlund9958
@maryjanewesterlund9958 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like the two of you had spent a little time together, though not on a “date.” As you acknowledge, it’s part of the culture to quickly identify as a couple, then create a relationship. In any case, it sounds as though you were incompatible in your expectations. You nailed it when you said he had a Kdrama mentality. I’m not sure he was “creepy”. You just were extremely different in what you wanted from a relationship.
@346ego
@346ego 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I was as confident as you, that’s awesome... I’m older and I still find myself in awkward situations with guys because I don’t know how to assert myself properly :/
@lizzien5846
@lizzien5846 3 жыл бұрын
Omg. Half way thru and I’m terrified!
@ocytocine96
@ocytocine96 2 жыл бұрын
Kelsey really chose to take everyone of out fantasies and destroy them
@kclarke421
@kclarke421 3 жыл бұрын
I don't watch kdramas 💀💀💀 I do like their detective series etc, and I'm at ep 1 of Law School although I'm not studying law😅🤣🤣🤦🏽‍♀️
@shamidkpzd
@shamidkpzd 3 жыл бұрын
I only like the crime or sci-fi ones. The romance ones aren’t my cup of tea.
@whenyousmileismiletoo5419
@whenyousmileismiletoo5419 3 жыл бұрын
Same i love ocn drama
@theegeekmew6017
@theegeekmew6017 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Kelsey, I have been trying to find info on this anywhere out of curiosity, but how does dating work for people in korea that are atypical, like divorcees, with or without kids, single parents with kids, or widows? Also, are age gaps a big deal in korea?
@traceyjenkins2069
@traceyjenkins2069 Жыл бұрын
It’s show respect and showing concern.Because sometimes when drinking it can get out of hand.
@mariacarrillo273
@mariacarrillo273 2 жыл бұрын
Kelsey, I love you hahaha that’s story it’s wild, that type of behavior it’s not ok
@sanjanadey9940
@sanjanadey9940 3 жыл бұрын
Ohh I just noticed my comment was there in the thumbnail 😂😂😂...otherwise watching it again because I just love Kelsey's voice 😅😅😅😁😁🤭🤭
@gabethepianist7572
@gabethepianist7572 3 жыл бұрын
Holy macaroni :D Dating life here in europe is totally the oposit.Its so interesting hearing about these stories.
@mjacabal1724
@mjacabal1724 2 жыл бұрын
My comment is late. I love this video!!! Thank you! Also, what's the name of the product you put on your lips??? 🥺💕 it's so pretty.
@hotspicy296
@hotspicy296 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate "Calling every hour". Same situation.
@hoseoksbabygirlavqustina9985
@hoseoksbabygirlavqustina9985 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos, i never skip or keep watching at the half of it . Loves from Azerbaijan💜
@am32074
@am32074 3 жыл бұрын
He probably watched too much k-drama 😂
@annaganzelevitch8477
@annaganzelevitch8477 3 жыл бұрын
wait where did you get that giant plushy? Loved it so cute
@dalina-0-0
@dalina-0-0 3 жыл бұрын
Oh we're actually the same age 😃 also props to u for not taking the bad behavior of ur ex, there were a lot of red flags and the romanticization of these controlling and jealous behavior is really concerning. For me trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. Also if you're bi etc then ur just screwed, can't drink with no one xD But besides that the story was super interesting and man how cool was the ballroom exam👌
@theescorpio565
@theescorpio565 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a gyopo. I'm in my late 30s now but when we met, we were in our early 30s. I met him online first and then later dated him in person in Daegu. My ex would always contact me when he was drinking. But what was crazy, later I found he was actually cheating LOL. He was really controlling and rude to me about everything. When we broke up, he was really nasty about it even though we broke up because he was cheating.
@eddie9159
@eddie9159 3 жыл бұрын
Gurl my birthday is 11/11 like peppero day 😱 awesome video btw! But like what’s up with the dude? Like what is his deal? So creepy!
@athokmanyang3924
@athokmanyang3924 3 жыл бұрын
ok but kudos to your friend who asked if he could give out your number first! ugh the respect! 🥺✨ also really sorry that happened to you 🤍
@ezrascarlet814
@ezrascarlet814 3 жыл бұрын
Hey! Please tell how to make friends in korea. Like how to start a conversation with them. Sense of humor. Possible topics to talk etc.❤️
@amiid
@amiid 3 жыл бұрын
This is quality content 👏🏽🥰 seems like he wanted to show off the relationship more than he wanted to be in the relationship
@lalabee3308
@lalabee3308 2 жыл бұрын
I just like story times 🙃
@halle_cutters1996
@halle_cutters1996 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, I have a question! I notice that when Dispatch outs a couple, the picture usually involves walking in the parking lot, going to or exiting the apartment, etc. Is casually hanging out at each other's place a strong evidence of being in a relationship especially if it is just the two of them? Thank you! Hoping you'll answer this. I love watching your vlogs 💕
@watchoutcrazy
@watchoutcrazy 3 жыл бұрын
Yes it is! In Korea you don't really hang out with each other in your apartments, mostly because many still live with their families, maybe not as many celebs, but I'll get to that later on. So people who are not living alone meet outside with their friends and for some sexy time mostly go to motels with their lovers. As for celebrities, they can't really hang out in public, as they'd most likely get noticed. But you'd occasionally see celeb friends from the same sex hanging out and it'd not be a big deal. However having a male and female celeb hanging out would immediately raise suspension and celebrities mostly date in either their car (dark windows) or their house, in case they're living alone. I hope this answers your question.🤗
@halle_cutters1996
@halle_cutters1996 3 жыл бұрын
@@watchoutcrazy Thank you! I've read many international fans questioning DP's reliability by saying two people can casually hangout at each other's places with no malice. But I know Korea is still a relatively conservative country so people rarely invites a friend of the opposite sex into their place to just casually hang out especially if it is just the two of them. This is also the same in my country, it is unusual for platonic friends (man and a woman) to stay and sleepover at the other's place. This usually happens if they are already in a romantic relationship.
@enchantrathomas7761
@enchantrathomas7761 3 жыл бұрын
this guy was bold but interesting story...a bit creepy tho also love the snorlax❤
@Jordannnnnnnjones
@Jordannnnnnnjones 3 жыл бұрын
LOL “ball hall” ballroom hall!!
@silviad9314
@silviad9314 2 жыл бұрын
... He didn't have any dating experience... AND apparently any common sense either 🤔😅 thanks for your video. I love your Snorlax plushie, what size it is? Where did u get it? I soooo want one just like that one 🥰💖
@pppppppieeeeeee
@pppppppieeeeeee 3 жыл бұрын
I wanna learn those dances!
@jeannette6676
@jeannette6676 3 жыл бұрын
Where did you get that Snorlax plushie is all I’ve been wondering this entire time 😅🥰
@upthedown1
@upthedown1 3 жыл бұрын
Preposterous. That would not fly here. Why would you need to report to each other. You can tell each other you are hanging out as a courtesy which is okay but not a constant string of texts and calls.
@chickenwithlaserlegs1485
@chickenwithlaserlegs1485 3 жыл бұрын
The only thing I have to say is to tell your S.O. where you are just incase you get into trouble so you can let them know. Usually you should tell your trusted family member/trusted friend where you are if you do go out. The only reason why I say this is because women typically get assaulted or kidnapped on outings. So I am afraid of going missing and if I do go missing I'll want to leave the easiest trail so I can be found. It is girl code, there have been many times where I have been followed/tracked/pursued BUT nobody would know where I went if the creep actually kidnapped me because I didn't tell someone where I was. BUT there's a point where it becomes controlling if your S.O. pressures you to tell you your location and who you're with constantly. They don't want to help you, they want to control you and make sure they have control over you knowing this info. And then they can use their insecurities to guilt trip you. The reason why people glorify boyfriends for telling their girlfriends their locations is because they think their boyfriends are doing this out of love but in reality it is performative so they can compensate for their obsessive behavior and so they can use it as an excuse and gaslight you whenever they are toxic to you. They try to justify their abuse by using this form of passive love-bombing.
@Ciaseea
@Ciaseea 3 жыл бұрын
The calling thing is too much. I like to check in often during the day but hourly! Nah
@jiji1241
@jiji1241 3 жыл бұрын
5:43 that was sweet aww
@brendamedina7008
@brendamedina7008 2 жыл бұрын
I just clicked on to ur video since I was curious of ur story, but wow.. I did not except how relatable ur ex would be to mine😭 I also felt guilt and ended up dating him afterwards.. and he tried to be the best bf for me but I did find it cringe and kinda annoying.. but he’s still trying to get bad together and idk what to say..
@brendamedina7008
@brendamedina7008 2 жыл бұрын
***I forgot to add that he wanted to text like every hour 24/7 and would always want to see me everyday.. idk I just found him so cringe 😬
@90Hsly
@90Hsly 3 жыл бұрын
For something they are called "kdramas" i mean.. not real, the only thing is real, is that, they show their korean culture, as food, work, and traditional things, etc, i love kdramas.
@shivangi1523
@shivangi1523 2 жыл бұрын
In some kdramas when guys act jealous over trivial things and ask their girls why she's smiling to other boy (who's a friend) it's so cringe some people shame western movies or series for being so straight forward and not how they aren't like kdrama. But if some guy asks me why I'm smiling or talking to a guy I'm gonna break his bones... I hate these cringe bullshits. I mean in a relationship if you're obsessed and jealous all the time over little things then bitch that's not a relationship it's bullshit.
@thewakeupcalltruthtobetold6490
@thewakeupcalltruthtobetold6490 2 жыл бұрын
There's a perfect story about you can never satisfy a woman
@sugar_plum_fairy
@sugar_plum_fairy 3 жыл бұрын
7:35 when you start laughing, I thought *I* wouldn’t be able to stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@remuspierre8965
@remuspierre8965 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@estherandherlittleworld7821
@estherandherlittleworld7821 3 жыл бұрын
Wowww, it reminds me of so many dramas I watched where the guy out of nowhere will tell someone the girl is his girlfriend without even asking, and that's like romantic 😂😂😂 crazy
@Missymissy25
@Missymissy25 3 жыл бұрын
I met a guy like your ex too, but I distant from him after the first date 😅
@CyberMew
@CyberMew 3 жыл бұрын
He’s moving at light speed lol. But the art was decent though. I thought it was printed/bought elsewhere lol
@kafikafi
@kafikafi 3 жыл бұрын
Thats why we gotta feed ourself in right portion.
@Lovely-gg2jk
@Lovely-gg2jk 3 жыл бұрын
Girl my ex ( korean in korea) asked me to be his girlfriend, no told me I was his girlfriend 2 days after we first met like wtffffffff It was such a weird relationship from the beginning 😅
@abercrombiedarren9759
@abercrombiedarren9759 2 жыл бұрын
Crushing Koreaboo's hearts...I LOVE IT!
@deandean926
@deandean926 3 жыл бұрын
No worries it all changes after guys stop trying to impress you or stop-showing you off to their friends. It’s might Korean culture but as a western it has happened to me a few times while dating. But it wares off when they realized that I am so not impressed & have decided to move on to some else all who is not all about getting everyone’s approval or attention.
@kclarke421
@kclarke421 3 жыл бұрын
4:22 but I'm not straight 💀💀💀 So it's not really romantic, just fun
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