Ask a Married Couple! Are Your Assumptions About Us TRUE?

[@moniquegarcia8361]

Rarely do I hear couples explain the role of husbands like y'all. Beautifully said with staying true to what scripture says!! 🤍

[@KianandKyle]

Amen thank you for your encouragement! God bless you!

[@tiegz9770]

I think as Christians marriage is something that's very glamorized. People make is sound like this perfect, blissful period and it becomes something that a lot of us envy. I'm 21 and have this strong desire for the Lord to bring me my future husband. What I like about you guys is that you're very real about the ups and downs of marriage as a young Christian couple and I think that's something that needs to be discussed more in the Christan Community. I pray that with each year, God will grow your love for each other even more and that your marriage will age like fine wine❤

[@KianandKyle]

Amen! Well said 👏👏 We appreciate your love and support! God bless you!

[@Daria-h1r]

This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24

[@KianandKyle]

AMEN 🙌

[@jaydenbradley9892]

AMEN

[@TMBgarden]

16:23 Just to clarify one thing, it has nothing to do with a person being narcissistic with having a disease called narcissistic personality disorder. What the person commented referred to the disease, and, within the disease, according to the spectrum that the person occupies, he can develop different roles, and the boy who commented he mentioned specific types that the person with this problem manifests within the spectrum pathological. It is very important to know how to separate one thing from another, that is, the banal concept of "narcissist" of the person who has a disease with a personality built on a pathological structure that feeds on hurting others and never admitting their mistakes and that doesn't change over the years and the person goes through life with childish behaviors and without empathy with either children or spouse. Dr. Tood Grande describes the pathological picture very well. Another detail, no one can give a diagnosis by radio video, etc., a psychoanalyst or a neuroscientist specialized in cognitive therapy for a person with a narcissistic personality is needed. to be pathological, the person has to have this behavior all their lives, not in an outbreak or moments.

[@eileenfengler9057]

Y’all are really strong to brush away the haters like that! That would be tough for me. Kyle, I loved hearing you talk about your role as husband. My husband and I have been married for just over 5 years and we are very similar to you and Kian and we are always learning and adjusting to leading/submitting/deferring to one another. Praying blessing over your marriage and as you begin your next chapter in Hawaii!

[@KianandKyle]

Haters gonna hate 🤷‍♂️ we still love ❤️ thanks to Jesus ✝️

[@KianandKyle]

And yes it’s an ongoing lesson for sure! We appreciate you and your prayers and pray blessings over your marriage as well 🙏

[@Misszoecooks]

You know what? It’s ok to get on each other’s nerves. That’s normal. Because as the years go by you will bounce right back up and keep going with your day as if nothing ever happens and then you look back and realize how much you have grown as a couple. 😀

[@KianandKyle]

Amen that’s a good word right there 🔥

[@katienewton3130]

Kian you look great! You look lighter, not necessarily just physical (although I do see that!!) but just in your face and spirit, your load looks lifted!

[@KianandKyle]

Amen 🙌

[@fasilia1555]

Yess, who wears the pants is such a worldy statement. I love how you explained that! So much wisdom! Keep going 💪🏾

[@KianandKyle]

Praise God 🙌 thank you!

[@JulesoftheSouth]

It's also really rude to women and men no matter which way you slice it.

[@racheljay454]

So good guys! When my husband and I first got married we had a LOT of ironing out to do...we did our honeymoon by taking a roadtrip from the east coast to the west coast and we basically fought the whole time. Almost seven years later and we've got a super solid, healthy marriage, and while those initial first few months weren't easy they were so necessary to get to where we are. If we hadn't gone through those, all that stuff would be coming up now or even at some point in the future! Having God at the center of it doesn't hurt, either ;)

[@KianandKyle]

Haha great testimony! God bless you and your marriage!

[@anniemccarthyxoxo]

Kyle do you think you can do a video about the strongholds you mentioned with finances? I would love to hear about how you’ve been working through that. I feel like I have a hard time with understanding finances and my struggles in it, and it would be really nice to work through before marriage one day.

[@KianandKyle]

Yes I definitely can... Maybe on my channel since I am just starting that back up now! I'll wait until the Lord does a good work on me first though in that area before speaking on it since it's still something I don't know how to quite put in words with wisdom and understanding. Praying healing and breakthrough for you in this area in Jesus name! Please pray for me on this as well 🙏

[@ashleyvaeth765]

Love is a choice and it’s clear you are choosing each other ❤️

[@KianandKyle]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ashleyvaeth765]

LOVE what Kyle had to say about husband and wife roles. YES

[@KianandKyle]

An ongoing lesson from the Lord 🤗

[@trevorjackson5115]

You guys have been such an inspiration for me, I've learned so much from you, thank you for everything you've done. P.S. y'all should start a podcast

[@KianandKyle]

Wow praise God! And we're still praying on it! Probably will in 2022 :)

[@corik1065]

My husband and I also said 2 to 3 years before kids when we got married. We were pregnant a month before we hit a year. God changed our hearts and moved our time line up too. He has a plan

[@KianandKyle]

Haha love it! Yes He does!

[@beckyc7263]

You guys are going to be such a great couple for years and years to come! 💙 Thanks for all you do!

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you for your love and support 💙

[@savannahpearl5445]

Love this! Can’t wait to see what blessings Hawaii has in store!!

[@KianandKyle]

Thank youuu 🤗

[@MoTheCrown]

That end section was cracking me up so much, I had to replay it to laugh more 😂😂 love this video!! You both look so light and I can feel the joy through the screen. Hope you have a great rest of the week!! Also I really feel this new honeymoon stage! God is so good. He surely will carry out the good work He started in your marriage! I'm curious your take on what brought you to this honeymoon stage, as I remember you mentioned the last couple months were challenging.

[@KianandKyle]

😂😂 love it! Yeah we just learned a lot through the trails and tribulations and it brought us closer together. When you overcome obstacles together it definitely makes you appreciate each other more! The past few months of hardship were such a blessing in disguise 🤗

[@JMKrech]

Cool answers!!

[@KianandKyle]

Thanks bro!

[@Grace8381]

Hey Kyle, The Lord put you on my heart/mind so praying for you. Whatever you’re going through God wants to remind you he is with you and that you can do it. Blessings to you and Kian. Hope all is well 🙏🏻 ☺️.

[@KianandKyle]

Wow amen so good! I've been going through it lately so that's amazing He put me on your heart and you prayed for me! I appreciate your prayers and encouragement more than you know! God bless you!

[@Grace8381]

@@KianandKyle You and Kian are in my thoughts and prayers. Praying for God’s peace as you settle into your new home and new life. The King of Peace 🌟🎄be with you.

[@KianandKyle]

@@Grace8381 amen 🙏💙

[@rebeccaanne8546]

Kians hair is so pretty

[@ZenPepperClub]

Word up!

[@KianandKyle]

@@ZenPepperClub agreed! -Kyle

[@ZenPepperClub]

Go with the flow......

[@KianandKyle]

You already know!

[@michaelastockwell3252]

Hey beautiful, love your guy's channel! You often mention a book, love and respect or along those lines? Would you be happy to give me the details, I'd love to read it ❤ thanks

[@Vessel_ofCHRIST7]

Greetings to you Kian and Kyle! It’s such a blessing to be able to speak of you both… saying that because the Lord led me to your channels from the very start. Praying One day I’m able to speak of you guys on my channel (To even add it as a recommendation). From the get go you guys have demonstrated your love for Christ through your highs and lows, personal lifestyle, being so real, so transparent and authentic with the audience. And it’s the rarest things to see but it’s something I strive for and I do believe others would see that as well. It’s truly amazing how God is unpacking and unfolding things in your marriage. I’m in a path where he’s calling me to grow closer with him as he’s at work preparing me for the unknown! You guys have been just that! The example that you’re setting is impactful. It gives me faith to know that he’s knitting lives perfectly together. Your channel has uplifted me for various reasons I can’t even explain myself. So truly, praying he blesses you both on your journey! Love you guys in Christ Jesus. May his love dwells on the rooftops of your hearts, his grace to abound in you today, and forever. Shalom!

[@KianandKyle]

Wow this is so beautiful and humbling! Thank you so much for sharing, all the glory goes to God for what He does in and through us 🙌 I can tell He is working in you very strongly and I just pray blessings over your walk with the Lord as He leads you through the “unknown”. God bless you 💙

[@andibieri]

Oh my gosh, y’all were cracking me up at the end 😂😂 praying so many blessings over you as you start your new season in Hawaii, thank you for being such a light and blessing! 🤍

[@KianandKyle]

🤪😂 thank you!! 💛

[@suewolfgang5130]

Aloha Kian and Kyle, I love your humor, your love for each other and your love for the Lord!!! I’ve missed your inspirational faith moments, your honest conversations and laughing along with you on KZbin!!! Super excited to start viewing your Maui videos and to visit you in Maui!!! And hmmm…”The Lord has given me a heart for kids.” 😉 Sending love and hugs!!! 🙌💛🥰

[@KianandKyle]

Aloha mother 👋 thanks for the love and support! Don’t get too excited though we still got some time before kids unless God says otherwise 😂 We love you!

[@Celphoria]

Im so excited for your upcoming videos in your new home😍

[@KianandKyle]

Yayyy us too!!

[@keziahu1428]

Sincerely love you guys, the way you handle things, haha, Jesus is so present and active. God bless you both in everything. Thanks for making my day!

[@KianandKyle]

Amen all glory to God 🙌 God bless YOU!

[@Estiexo]

the way you guys handled those haters was so funny lol

[@KianandKyle]

Kill them with kindness 🙃

[@madisonltree]

You guys are amazing! Can’t wait to see you grow in the future. I cannot imagine how difficult it can be to have a part of your life online. Jesus has truly blessed y’all’s life :)

[@KianandKyle]

So sweet, thank you! All glory to God!

[@steph4441]

The way you describe doing the videos is the same as I feel about working out… lol

[@KianandKyle]

😂🤣

[@TehilaWorship]

Kians face from 12:42 for the next like 10 seconds lol😂😂😂 that needs to be slowly zoomed in on

[@KianandKyle]

Haha yesss!

[@Jess-ik1dc]

that was the smoothest intro yet ahahahaha love watching you guys

[@KianandKyle]

Ayeeee letsssss gooooo!! 😂 thank you!

[@cassidykowalski1869]

This video cracks me up! Love seeing your personalities 💖 Thanks for being so open and honest! And Kyle - you won't be an old dad! My husband is 35 and we aren't planning to start trying for another year! 😜

[@KianandKyle]

Yay thank you 💙 I’m just starting to “feel old”🤷‍♂️😂

[@Bleigh1584]

Praying for your move and anxiously waiting for the next video!

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you! 🙏

[@rebeccaanne8546]

They are both so interesting and beautiful people I love love watching how you guys are growing and changing in your love for God and eachother. God is working in both your guys lives. ♥️

[@KianandKyle]

Amen God bless you 💙

[@mjalphonse]

Thank you for your love and compassion towards the troller. What an example of Jesus. 🙏🏼 Thank you. Hate never heals hate.

[@KianandKyle]

Exactly 🙌 all glory to God!

[@ayah316]

That terrible assumption was hilarious 🤣🤪 excited to see your next video after you have moved! All Praises to the most high for the blessings that come out of the trials 🙌

[@KianandKyle]

😂🤣 right!! We appreciate you! God bless 💙

[@love_nela]

16:20 - 17:20 had me ROLLING!!! You guys are so funny!!! hahaahah!!

[@KianandKyle]

🤪🤣💛

[@lindsey3291]

I’ve dated a narcissist and Kyle is definitely NOT a narcissist 🤣

[@KianandKyle]

Sorry to hear that! But thanks for backing me up 😂✊

[@peytonst.romain2821]

It was truly nice to see yall so silly, especially at the end 😂

[@KianandKyle]

🤪🤣

[@theelizabethanway]

I love the videos you both do together! I love your relationship advice and wisdom 🥰

[@KianandKyle]

Aw yay we appreciate you 💛

[@TinaPriscilla]

That"they would not last comment" was disgusting shame on them. You guys are awesome!! ❤❤❤

[@tiegz9770]

They were probably just jealous

[@KianandKyle]

Haha it was funny to read... Some people just crack me up! But they are obviously hurt somewhere so we need to keep that in mind and just pray for them 💯 Thank you for your encouragement! We appreciate YOU 💙

[@jakeydude7149]

Can y’all do a video on engagement rings? I’m looking to buy one rn. And I want to be wise and a good steward as well as a good boyfriend/fiancé

[@KianandKyle]

That’s a personal preference. Not sure if we’ll do a whole video on that but I, Kyle, just found out what Kian liked and wanted and got it for her. But really it depends on what you partner likes, what’s in your budget, and what you feel good about. If you’re not sure what she likes and don’t want to give the surprise away, ask her mom/sisters/friends (women closest to her). I’m sure they can help!

[@jakeydude7149]

@@KianandKyle thank you brother! This helped out a lot! I’m praying for y’all! And I see the Lord working through you as faithful stewards of The gospel and how Christians should live!

[@shavaneciagriffiths9845]

I love you guys from Jamaica!!

[@KianandKyle]

So cool 🇯🇲 we love you too!

[@amygiommetti1661]

Love you guys can’t wait for your new videos in your new home

[@KianandKyle]

Thanks we love you too!

[@nataliebinam2550]

Kian are you still doing the gut health stuff? if so can u update us!

[@KianandKyle]

She put it on hold as we were traveling but we’re going to start again together once we’re settled in and will definitely keep you all updated!

[@gamewarden2813]

God has definitely blessed your move to Hawaii🙏 given those beautiful sunrise sunset photos on your instagram, it's like God kissed the sky🥰

[@KianandKyle]

He sure did! 🥰

[@francescogiangiulio2088]

4:35

[@Transformation.Massage]

You guys are great. God bless your marriage

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you!!

[@nannyheather5640]

You guys are my favorite KZbin couple! Thanks for always being You. You are both so humble and full of wisdom! Big hugs and love you guys💖 and Jesus loves you more!!!

[@KianandKyle]

Wow that means the world thank you!! We love you too 💛

[@marlybrown1930]

notice how Kyle always changes his answer based on Kian's reaction. (4:59) He is like tippitoing so she doesnt get mad. LOL

[@Mateogreat]

except when the topic of pregnancy comes up he seems to go in panic mode lol

[@marlybrown1930]

@@Mateogreat lol yes----- it's awk to see

[@Mateogreat]

Not sure why he panicking at the thought thier married and they have Jesus

[@KianandKyle]

Lol y'all are too funny. It's not that I change my answers based on her reaction... It's that her perspective gives me a new perspective that brings me to a new understanding which causes me to answer differently (from that perspective). Make sense?

[@KianandKyle]

@@Mateogreat Also, I'm not going into panic mode when pregnancy comes up... I'm going into reflective mode. Not sure if y'all have kids or not but the idea itself is quite nerve-racking. It will be a blessing from the Lord, however I'm still learning how to be a good husband transparently and bringing fatherhood into consideration is a bit overwhelming.

[@annaschwerzel9834]

in sum: jesus wears the pants

[@KianandKyle]

AMEN 🙌🙌🙌

[@ruthraatz8800]

Please tell me that you will do a house tour eventually

[@KianandKyle]

You already know Kian is all over that 💯

[@torikrasovska]

Kyle has cool hair!

[@KianandKyle]

😎✊

[@melanielye2296]

I’m sorry some people are very unkind! You are both wonderful ❤️ Wishing you all the best on your move :) love from Australia 🇦🇺

[@KianandKyle]

Thank you! God bless you! 🇦🇺

[@1love1hope1faith]

You Guys are the best loved how you responded to that terrible comment👌🏽😆🙏🏽

[@KianandKyle]

💙💙

[@Dancewithloveforever]

Did they sit in on our therapy session💀💀💀

[@KianandKyle]

🤷‍♂️ weird I know… 🤪

[@rebekahmonet3776]

Love from London

[@KianandKyle]

💛💛

[@sydonienathalia]

Y'all are goofy 😂

[@KianandKyle]

🤪😂

[@leannayearwood8826]

Love you guys

[@KianandKyle]

We love you too!

[@loudlittleroar675]

😂 I'm wearing shorts

[@KianandKyle]

😂🤣

[@rebeccaanne8546]

Kyle at 16:00 😆😆😆

[@KianandKyle]

🙏

[@threeblessings575]

My question is if the lord meant for us to be with the opposite sex, why did he make us so darn different from one another? It makes it almost impossible to stay together..

[@michaella-evelyn]

Hope this didn’t get to u too tough!! Some of the assumption weren’t very kind, something special with u guys ❤️

[@KianandKyle]

Nahhh it's all good! Thanks though! God bless you 💙

[@debraroth2388]

You and Kyle are funny you guys are a cute couple

[@KianandKyle]

We’re glad you appreciate our humor 🤪 we appreciate you!

[@debraroth2388]

@@KianandKyle well I just tell it like it is 😊💕

[@jakeydude7149]

Also I bet you guys are Calvinists or reformed!!!!! (Same)

[@KianandKyle]

Just Christians 😉 nondenominational followers of Christ ✝️

[@jakeydude7149]

@@KianandKyle Amen!!! love the content! And I really appreciate you guys and your openness! Y’all are a great couple too look to for advice! Thank you guys for being faithful stewards of the Gospel! Philippians 1:6

[@ashleyvaeth765]

All about Gods timing! If he wants you to have kids, he will make it happen. 😉

[@KianandKyle]

💯💯💯

[@AB-rh4cc]

What’s Kyle’s sign? Curious…I know Kian is a Libra 🥰

[@KianandKyle]

Scorpio

[@amygiommetti1661]

I could see you guys getting pregnant in the next 6 months

[@KianandKyle]

Only if He REALLY wants us too 😂

[@rebeccahazzard5628]

please don't eat on camera😣 all you can hear with earbuds is mouth noises....

[@KianandKyle]

😅 good to know, sorry!