Scott is her partner, they live together under the same roof but if he isn't allowed to share the discipline with the mother, then it's obvious she doesn't trust him, and if this is the case, then they should end their relationship. One can't build a healthy partnership without trust.
@ashleydawson25862 жыл бұрын
If they are her children from another relationship then the discipline should be left up to the mother. Besides a time out if the step-parent is watching them and they need to be punished. Beyond that they shouldn't be disciplining children that don't belong to them.
@JazzyHarley222 жыл бұрын
@@ashleydawson2586 No bc would you just leave your child/children to a family friend or relative or nanny and tell them that and then guess what?! When they aren’t disciplined by them, that’s giving them free reign to truly set them up for a possible accident waiting to happen!! Do you think teachers and the schools shouldn’t have rules and discipline either??? Yes they most definitely do!! Same with any kind of household!! There’s rules everywhere you go in life!! Period!! And for good reason! And there has to be trust in a relationship especially when blending families!! Just bc one isn’t the father or mother doesn’t mean the children can get away with freakin murder! Rules are rules and discipline is needed for a good reason no matter who’s roof you’re under especially your own!! No excuse!
@Unbreakable2452 жыл бұрын
But you need to put your kids first Not your spouse
@Unbreakable2452 жыл бұрын
@@JazzyHarley22 whatever Ur kids come before ur spouse In my country at least
@Unbreakable2452 жыл бұрын
@ayuggie uhh If the mother is there than she should be the one at least A step parent is NOT a real parent Also Single parents should not date Your children is more important than any partner and they need to come first
@rachaelerin12 жыл бұрын
“You CAN give him what he wants, but you have to give him what he NEEDS first.” 🤯
@1999jessjess2 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy I spend way more quality time with my dog then the average parent with their kids
@babesmagee12 жыл бұрын
Spending time with the dog doesn't take much energy or creativity 🙄
@1999jessjess2 жыл бұрын
@@babesmagee1 idk what you are talking about…
@ladybucket97982 жыл бұрын
@@babesmagee1 kinda shows you dont know much about dogs tbh.
@stoicqueen85577 ай бұрын
I can't decide if it's sad or hillarious that people seriously disagree with you on this 😅 One thing is sure - I hope they stick with dogs!@@babesmagee1
@katiethomas58892 жыл бұрын
Letting a child have no limits is as damaging as too many limits.
@purpurina56632 жыл бұрын
Maybe more. Limits are a sign of care and protection; I’ve seen children with no discipline and they feel unloved. Also, limits help develop a secure person, who is able to exercise self control.
@judyyoung16952 жыл бұрын
There are 7 in my family and my mom screamed empty throats or just turned it all out. My Dad tried but they would argue, she didn't want us to have consequences. We were the wildest, loudest and most chaotic family I've ever known. We needed discipline from them both but ultimately they divorced w/two teens left. I understand my mother now but it's still not any different except we have changed, not her.
@jneher29922 жыл бұрын
@@purpurina5663 qaa
@CJ-ft9yo7 ай бұрын
Isn’t that the same thing ?
@MsJubjubbird2 жыл бұрын
The cheerleader boy was adorable and very mature
@youandiwillmagnify2 жыл бұрын
Morgan, the cheerleader boy, is adorable and I hope he goes on to be great. Stay strong, cutie.
@SparkHomeschool2 жыл бұрын
Nanny Jo, what you do is amazing and sooo needed. Strong families create strong communities. How can I do what you do???
@ingridmccall93632 жыл бұрын
Jo, you are absolutely the best. Beautiful too! X
@babesmagee12 жыл бұрын
You can look at degrees in early childhood education/development, family sciences, psychology, elementary Ed...
@SparkHomeschool2 жыл бұрын
@@babesmagee1 Thank you. I’ve taken Early childhood education classes and have been working with kids professionally since 2004. I don’t have any children of my own though, and feel hesitant to tell parents I offer something like this
@GhislaineMutombo2 жыл бұрын
I am in awe of her too😍. I also admire the empire she has built using her passion. Amazing beautiful being .
@mcgirlletsgo71352 жыл бұрын
The little boy who only eats mashed foods could have autism. It could be a texture issue for him. He’s very young so it could just be a toddler thing but it would be something to watch.
@billybobkumar92312 жыл бұрын
Sensory feeding disorders are typical -- and most outgrow it. My nephew did by age 3.
@christyzeeaquarianated26002 жыл бұрын
My son's 10, and he hasn't outgrown it. It's a constant struggle everyday. He only eats beige-coloured foods 🙄
@babeytlau71122 жыл бұрын
I never knew
@babesmagee12 жыл бұрын
You always tried behavioral modification first and go from there. Jumping straight to a disorder is an anxiety inducing and usually unnecessary.
@MsJubjubbird2 жыл бұрын
If he's developing normally then it's not a conclusion one should jump to. Fussy eating is normal in kids.
@barbvillarreal74402 жыл бұрын
This episode Nanny Jo looks so beautiful❣😍 He husband is a lucky man! 💞🤭😄
@4kassis2 жыл бұрын
I preferred the videos that showed just one family instead of this format that jumps back and forth between all these different problems...
@barbaraunderwood17622 жыл бұрын
When u remarry with children that new spouse is the stepparent & telling the kids they don’t have to listen to stepparent is wrong & child saying u r not my mother r dad & I don’t have to listen to u is also wrong.This lady is wrong in not stepping up & telling her kids this n man is your stepdad & u have to listen to & do as he’s told u 2. Thankfully my kids loved theirs & to them he was their father all the way.
@jordynniccole74342 жыл бұрын
While I agree with most of this, its also SUPER important if the child had their father in their life prior to step dad, the step dad should tell the child " I am in no way shape or form trying to replace your father, your dad will ALWAYS be your dad. However, your mom and I are married now, so that means we share the authority and discipline. Meaning you need to listen to me and do what is asked of you. If i give you respect, i expect respect to be given back, alright?"
@carolharris23572 жыл бұрын
One thing for picky eaters is if they eat, fine, if not, too bad. They won't starve. Let other kids take the food until the kid gets jealous and starts to eat dinner. Morgan gets to be around all those girls, cheerleading.
@elizabethsmith33742 жыл бұрын
27:41 I'm going to college to be a teacher I can't just leave work at work teachers have to bring work home we're too busy during the day teaching to do things like grading and planning during that time 🤣
@jackiemarshall37112 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how parents think that correcting a child once they start the wrong behaviors is crazy. Children as young as 6 months understand the word no they have heard. You have to stop thinking everything they do at the baby stage is cute because when they get older you no longer think it's cute. And then people don't want to hear their children cry why not if you know there is nothing wrong. Put the child in the crib or playpen for those naps and do what you need to do if they cry check on them without picking them up pat their back give a kiss talk to them and then leave. They will calm down and either play or go to sleep. The issues are the parents issues not the children at a young age. And please be a parent we are not their friend in the normal sense of the word.
@Pirategirl4nightwish2 жыл бұрын
Babies have no concept of right or wrong. They are exploring and learning about everything for the first time. Same thing with one year olds. Two year olds know when they aren’t supposed to do something. You can absolutely set up boundaries with young toddlers, but redirection should be used instead of discipline.
@terriegym2 жыл бұрын
@@Pirategirl4nightwish 1 year olds certainly can be aware of what is naughty or not. My kids learned no was no very early on.
@croach21942 жыл бұрын
Corey is a gorgeous little boy with a huge smile;.
@hughlindsay540 Жыл бұрын
Complete lack of boundaries and discipline. It is not harder today than it was before. There is a role reversal where the children rule the family.
@peggycarson44202 жыл бұрын
I don't know how the kids pick this up?We dident hit so our kids dident hit
@samanthajohnston92692 жыл бұрын
I think Supernanny rocks but it doesn't really seem like she's helping any of these families. The little boy with tantrums parents were basically told to chill out and no mention as to how to deal with the tantrum. I think the way she did things before was way more helpful.
@gillianbrookwell16782 жыл бұрын
I agree, I think that little boy does have problems that even Jo is unable to correct.
@Pirategirl4nightwish2 жыл бұрын
Really? I often ignore a tantrum because giving it attention just makes it last longer and escalate. The mom was clearly causing the behavior because she kept having unrealistic expectations of cleanliness. Kids make messes! Shouting at kids makes them angrier and shout back at you. When she changed her behavior, the boy’s behavior improved.
@Vesperrv2 жыл бұрын
The mom even admitted her behavior changed and it helped. I don't think it was so much as chilling out but learning what was a priority and what wasn't.
@roxiamety31572 жыл бұрын
I'm 49 years old woman, i have two sons! My parenthood wasn't simply because of big lack of knowledges how to be a good mother and first of all a GOOD WIFE! I think there is smt wrong in every society about not inform young people and prepare them for such important thing as a marriage! For me to have a family is most of expensive in terms of psychophysiology stress and moneys challenge! We are adults and we should be honest with ourselves when we decide to have a child, because education is not in the books IT IS IN OUR PARENT BEHAVE! if a women not respect her man (as it clearly showed in video with a stepfather) and viceversa how u pretend that your children would respect u!? OUR CHILDRENS JUST COPY EVERY OUR ACTION, WORD,THE WAY WE RELATE TO EACH OTHER! Good parenthood for all!
@doriswalsh39292 жыл бұрын
Prayers 🙏😂😆💪🥰🥺🥰
@peggycarson44202 жыл бұрын
Hello Jo
@classicbird26272 ай бұрын
These constant switches to the "road show" are somewhat annoying. You always lose the thread when you start to really get into things.
@luciaelias65382 жыл бұрын
Mdr frère leur intro quand tu la regarde t'as l'impression de mater une pub lol en plus la musique en dirait grave une pub
@doriswalsh39292 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh 😂😆 disappointed . But disapline matters and it matters and works . Good morning 🌅 day
@rosievasquez43782 жыл бұрын
What the heck does this lady think you're not going to have your house is not going to be spick-and-span anymore when you got kids clean your house after you take put your kids to sleep sometimes but at 8 to pick up that's it you're not going to have your house spick and span when you got children anymore
@TheRooibosSuite2 жыл бұрын
Why is it Mothers who feel guilty?
@cocobeans37422 жыл бұрын
8:25 I was actually quite concerned with how Joe handled the situation. The child said that he was really mad at mum, of course this could have been a typical situation but what if the child has adhd or somthing! What if he is just frustrated because no one understands him. I have to say I don’t think you can just give out advice before knowing the full story. Other than that love u Joe😊
@mariaagnes47282 жыл бұрын
Just because the whole story has not been revealed to you doesn’t mean that Jo doesn’t know it. Remember that all of what is filmed is edited and you see perhaps 10 percent of what is filmed.
@MsJubjubbird2 жыл бұрын
Because more often than not it is a behaviour management thing. Jo is not qualified to diagnose psychological disorders and, even then, given the impact a diagnosis has, one needs to be very cautious about that.
@nieskespears8362 жыл бұрын
I think there is a whole team working with Jo. She is not doing this by herself. I trust that there are specialists talking behind the scenes. If not, if what is shown to us is really the whole thing, I would be worried too!
@wilmarhinehart81112 жыл бұрын
Parents don’t nip bad behavior in the bud the FIRST time disrespect is shown!
@martheseturner9952 жыл бұрын
My mother gave me this advice when I had my children. Thank God I listened.
@susanweidelt15702 жыл бұрын
Kids also have to nany toys
@Littlemouse8842 жыл бұрын
Morgan 💞
@myroom46402 жыл бұрын
Discipline needs to start, as soon as possible!!!! These days many parents are HOPELESS. A child NEEDS correction from the word go!!! Why do they tolerate such outrageous behaviours. On the other hand, kids NEED lots of hugs and kisses : that creates security and shows them how much they are loved…………
@Pirategirl4nightwish2 жыл бұрын
What’s your definition of “as soon as possible?” Birth? Babies and one year olds have no concept of right and wrong. They are exploring and learning about the world for the first time. Redirect behavior that is unacceptable, especially for toddlers.
@myroom46402 жыл бұрын
@@Pirategirl4nightwish NO: they have no concept of right and wrong. BUT: if one starts teaching them, they will grow up KNOWING the difference. You see some pretty bratty toddlers that are way out of control= in shopping centres etc. it’s the parents fault…………….
@mariallorensdepner58522 жыл бұрын
@@myroom4640 Exactly!! Witnessing all of those public tantrums and constant sniping back and forth played a major factor in me enjoying a child-free life.
@myroom46402 жыл бұрын
@@mariallorensdepner5852 Oh don’t you want kids???? I couldn’t have anymore, and it’s extremely heartbreaking. 😢😢😢😢😢
@rayemartineau86442 жыл бұрын
💓👍👀 4/26/22
@jnelletrim14782 жыл бұрын
Remember God loves you.♥️ John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life. Please turn your life around and repent🙏 The clock is ticking.
@tamzinmenadue48872 жыл бұрын
Which God are you talking about ?..there are so many to choose from
@recluse47882 жыл бұрын
Please don't try to turn this into something about religion, it isn't really necessary.
@JazzyHarley222 жыл бұрын
@@recluse4788 Exactly!
@rayb.6345 Жыл бұрын
Jesus is exactly what is needed, and The Bible is a great parenting tool. Galatians 5 has a list of what to look for in friends: peace, patience, self control, etc… Lying and manipulation and constant arguing is behavior we keep a boundary with, not embrace, Romans 16v17. Wisdom is choosing Godly behavior, and foolish behavior is doing wrong, Proverbs 10v23. Life is more about than money, it’s about your soul, and choosing to have Jesus Christ be your Lord and Savior will promise your soul salvation forever, John 3v16. Every parent and every soul needs Jesus for guidance, help and salvation. God bless you all