Kids Hate Their Step-Dad | Jo Frost: Extreme Parental Guidance

[@gillianbrookwell1678]

Scott is her partner, they live together under the same roof but if he isn't allowed to share the discipline with the mother, then it's obvious she doesn't trust him, and if this is the case, then they should end their relationship. One can't build a healthy partnership without trust.

[@ashleydawson2586]

If they are her children from another relationship then the discipline should be left up to the mother. Besides a time out if the step-parent is watching them and they need to be punished. Beyond that they shouldn't be disciplining children that don't belong to them.

[@JazzyHarley22]

@@ashleydawson2586 No bc would you just leave your child/children to a family friend or relative or nanny and tell them that and then guess what?! When they aren’t disciplined by them, that’s giving them free reign to truly set them up for a possible accident waiting to happen!! Do you think teachers and the schools shouldn’t have rules and discipline either??? Yes they most definitely do!! Same with any kind of household!! There’s rules everywhere you go in life!! Period!! And for good reason! And there has to be trust in a relationship especially when blending families!! Just bc one isn’t the father or mother doesn’t mean the children can get away with freakin murder! Rules are rules and discipline is needed for a good reason no matter who’s roof you’re under especially your own!! No excuse!

[@Unbreakable245]

But you need to put your kids first Not your spouse

[@Unbreakable245]

@@JazzyHarley22 whatever Ur kids come before ur spouse In my country at least

[@Unbreakable245]

@ayuggie uhh If the mother is there than she should be the one at least A step parent is NOT a real parent Also Single parents should not date Your children is more important than any partner and they need to come first

[@rachaelerin1]

“You CAN give him what he wants, but you have to give him what he NEEDS first.” 🤯

[@1999jessjess]

That’s crazy I spend way more quality time with my dog then the average parent with their kids

[@babesmagee1]

Spending time with the dog doesn't take much energy or creativity 🙄

[@1999jessjess]

@@babesmagee1 idk what you are talking about…

[@ladybucket9798]

@@babesmagee1 kinda shows you dont know much about dogs tbh.

[@stoicqueen8557]

I can't decide if it's sad or hillarious that people seriously disagree with you on this 😅 One thing is sure - I hope they stick with dogs!@@babesmagee1

[@katiethomas5889]

Letting a child have no limits is as damaging as too many limits.

[@purpurina5663]

Maybe more. Limits are a sign of care and protection; I’ve seen children with no discipline and they feel unloved. Also, limits help develop a secure person, who is able to exercise self control.

[@judyyoung1695]

There are 7 in my family and my mom screamed empty throats or just turned it all out. My Dad tried but they would argue, she didn't want us to have consequences. We were the wildest, loudest and most chaotic family I've ever known. We needed discipline from them both but ultimately they divorced w/two teens left. I understand my mother now but it's still not any different except we have changed, not her.

[@jneher2992]

@@purpurina5663 qaa

[@CJ-ft9yo]

Isn’t that the same thing ?

[@MsJubjubbird]

The cheerleader boy was adorable and very mature

[@youandiwillmagnify]

Morgan, the cheerleader boy, is adorable and I hope he goes on to be great. Stay strong, cutie.

[@SparkHomeschool]

Nanny Jo, what you do is amazing and sooo needed. Strong families create strong communities. How can I do what you do???

[@ingridmccall9363]

Jo, you are absolutely the best. Beautiful too! X

[@babesmagee1]

You can look at degrees in early childhood education/development, family sciences, psychology, elementary Ed...

[@SparkHomeschool]

@@babesmagee1 Thank you. I’ve taken Early childhood education classes and have been working with kids professionally since 2004. I don’t have any children of my own though, and feel hesitant to tell parents I offer something like this

[@GhislaineMutombo]

I am in awe of her too😍. I also admire the empire she has built using her passion. Amazing beautiful being .

[@mcgirlletsgo7135]

The little boy who only eats mashed foods could have autism. It could be a texture issue for him. He’s very young so it could just be a toddler thing but it would be something to watch.

[@billybobkumar9231]

Sensory feeding disorders are typical -- and most outgrow it. My nephew did by age 3.

[@christyzeeaquarianated2600]

My son's 10, and he hasn't outgrown it. It's a constant struggle everyday. He only eats beige-coloured foods 🙄

[@babeytlau7112]

I never knew

[@babesmagee1]

You always tried behavioral modification first and go from there. Jumping straight to a disorder is an anxiety inducing and usually unnecessary.

[@MsJubjubbird]

If he's developing normally then it's not a conclusion one should jump to. Fussy eating is normal in kids.

[@barbvillarreal7440]

This episode Nanny Jo looks so beautiful❣😍 He husband is a lucky man! 💞🤭😄

[@4kassis]

I preferred the videos that showed just one family instead of this format that jumps back and forth between all these different problems...

[@barbaraunderwood1762]

When u remarry with children that new spouse is the stepparent & telling the kids they don’t have to listen to stepparent is wrong & child saying u r not my mother r dad & I don’t have to listen to u is also wrong.This lady is wrong in not stepping up & telling her kids this n man is your stepdad & u have to listen to & do as he’s told u 2. Thankfully my kids loved theirs & to them he was their father all the way.

[@jordynniccole7434]

While I agree with most of this, its also SUPER important if the child had their father in their life prior to step dad, the step dad should tell the child " I am in no way shape or form trying to replace your father, your dad will ALWAYS be your dad. However, your mom and I are married now, so that means we share the authority and discipline. Meaning you need to listen to me and do what is asked of you. If i give you respect, i expect respect to be given back, alright?"

[@carolharris2357]

One thing for picky eaters is if they eat, fine, if not, too bad. They won't starve. Let other kids take the food until the kid gets jealous and starts to eat dinner. Morgan gets to be around all those girls, cheerleading.

[@elizabethsmith3374]

27:41 I'm going to college to be a teacher I can't just leave work at work teachers have to bring work home we're too busy during the day teaching to do things like grading and planning during that time 🤣

[@jackiemarshall3711]

I don't understand how parents think that correcting a child once they start the wrong behaviors is crazy. Children as young as 6 months understand the word no they have heard. You have to stop thinking everything they do at the baby stage is cute because when they get older you no longer think it's cute. And then people don't want to hear their children cry why not if you know there is nothing wrong. Put the child in the crib or playpen for those naps and do what you need to do if they cry check on them without picking them up pat their back give a kiss talk to them and then leave. They will calm down and either play or go to sleep. The issues are the parents issues not the children at a young age. And please be a parent we are not their friend in the normal sense of the word.

[@Pirategirl4nightwish]

Babies have no concept of right or wrong. They are exploring and learning about everything for the first time. Same thing with one year olds. Two year olds know when they aren’t supposed to do something. You can absolutely set up boundaries with young toddlers, but redirection should be used instead of discipline.

[@terriegym]

@@Pirategirl4nightwish 1 year olds certainly can be aware of what is naughty or not. My kids learned no was no very early on.

[@croach2194]

Corey is a gorgeous little boy with a huge smile;.

[@hughlindsay540]

Complete lack of boundaries and discipline. It is not harder today than it was before. There is a role reversal where the children rule the family.

[@peggycarson4420]

I don't know how the kids pick this up?We dident hit so our kids dident hit

[@samanthajohnston9269]

I think Supernanny rocks but it doesn't really seem like she's helping any of these families. The little boy with tantrums parents were basically told to chill out and no mention as to how to deal with the tantrum. I think the way she did things before was way more helpful.

[@gillianbrookwell1678]

I agree, I think that little boy does have problems that even Jo is unable to correct.

[@Pirategirl4nightwish]

Really? I often ignore a tantrum because giving it attention just makes it last longer and escalate. The mom was clearly causing the behavior because she kept having unrealistic expectations of cleanliness. Kids make messes! Shouting at kids makes them angrier and shout back at you. When she changed her behavior, the boy’s behavior improved.

[@Vesperrv]

The mom even admitted her behavior changed and it helped. I don't think it was so much as chilling out but learning what was a priority and what wasn't.

[@roxiamety3157]

I'm 49 years old woman, i have two sons! My parenthood wasn't simply because of big lack of knowledges how to be a good mother and first of all a GOOD WIFE! I think there is smt wrong in every society about not inform young people and prepare them for such important thing as a marriage! For me to have a family is most of expensive in terms of psychophysiology stress and moneys challenge! We are adults and we should be honest with ourselves when we decide to have a child, because education is not in the books IT IS IN OUR PARENT BEHAVE! if a women not respect her man (as it clearly showed in video with a stepfather) and viceversa how u pretend that your children would respect u!? OUR CHILDRENS JUST COPY EVERY OUR ACTION, WORD,THE WAY WE RELATE TO EACH OTHER! Good parenthood for all!

[@doriswalsh3929]

Prayers 🙏😂😆💪🥰🥺🥰

[@peggycarson4420]

Hello Jo

[@classicbird2627]

These constant switches to the "road show" are somewhat annoying. You always lose the thread when you start to really get into things.

[@luciaelias6538]

Mdr frère leur intro quand tu la regarde t'as l'impression de mater une pub lol en plus la musique en dirait grave une pub

[@doriswalsh3929]

Oh gosh 😂😆 disappointed . But disapline matters and it matters and works . Good morning 🌅 day

[@rosievasquez4378]

What the heck does this lady think you're not going to have your house is not going to be spick-and-span anymore when you got kids clean your house after you take put your kids to sleep sometimes but at 8 to pick up that's it you're not going to have your house spick and span when you got children anymore

[@TheRooibosSuite]

Why is it Mothers who feel guilty?

[@cocobeans3742]

8:25 I was actually quite concerned with how Joe handled the situation. The child said that he was really mad at mum, of course this could have been a typical situation but what if the child has adhd or somthing! What if he is just frustrated because no one understands him. I have to say I don’t think you can just give out advice before knowing the full story. Other than that love u Joe😊

[@mariaagnes4728]

Just because the whole story has not been revealed to you doesn’t mean that Jo doesn’t know it. Remember that all of what is filmed is edited and you see perhaps 10 percent of what is filmed.

[@MsJubjubbird]

Because more often than not it is a behaviour management thing. Jo is not qualified to diagnose psychological disorders and, even then, given the impact a diagnosis has, one needs to be very cautious about that.

[@nieskespears836]

I think there is a whole team working with Jo. She is not doing this by herself. I trust that there are specialists talking behind the scenes. If not, if what is shown to us is really the whole thing, I would be worried too!

[@wilmarhinehart8111]

Parents don’t nip bad behavior in the bud the FIRST time disrespect is shown!

[@martheseturner995]

My mother gave me this advice when I had my children. Thank God I listened.

[@susanweidelt1570]

Kids also have to nany toys

[@Littlemouse884]

Morgan 💞

[@myroom4640]

Discipline needs to start, as soon as possible!!!! These days many parents are HOPELESS. A child NEEDS correction from the word go!!! Why do they tolerate such outrageous behaviours. On the other hand, kids NEED lots of hugs and kisses : that creates security and shows them how much they are loved…………

[@Pirategirl4nightwish]

What’s your definition of “as soon as possible?” Birth? Babies and one year olds have no concept of right and wrong. They are exploring and learning about the world for the first time. Redirect behavior that is unacceptable, especially for toddlers.

[@myroom4640]

@@Pirategirl4nightwish NO: they have no concept of right and wrong. BUT: if one starts teaching them, they will grow up KNOWING the difference. You see some pretty bratty toddlers that are way out of control= in shopping centres etc. it’s the parents fault…………….

[@mariallorensdepner5852]

@@myroom4640 Exactly!! Witnessing all of those public tantrums and constant sniping back and forth played a major factor in me enjoying a child-free life.

[@myroom4640]

@@mariallorensdepner5852 Oh don’t you want kids???? I couldn’t have anymore, and it’s extremely heartbreaking. 😢😢😢😢😢

[@rayemartineau8644]

💓👍👀 4/26/22

[@jnelletrim1478]

Remember God loves you.♥️ John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life. Please turn your life around and repent🙏 The clock is ticking.

[@tamzinmenadue4887]

Which God are you talking about ?..there are so many to choose from

[@recluse4788]

Please don't try to turn this into something about religion, it isn't really necessary.

[@JazzyHarley22]

@@recluse4788 Exactly!

[@rayb.6345]

Jesus is exactly what is needed, and The Bible is a great parenting tool. Galatians 5 has a list of what to look for in friends: peace, patience, self control, etc… Lying and manipulation and constant arguing is behavior we keep a boundary with, not embrace, Romans 16v17. Wisdom is choosing Godly behavior, and foolish behavior is doing wrong, Proverbs 10v23. Life is more about than money, it’s about your soul, and choosing to have Jesus Christ be your Lord and Savior will promise your soul salvation forever, John 3v16. Every parent and every soul needs Jesus for guidance, help and salvation. God bless you all