"THE TALK" || Why I am Waiting

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kirbyisaboss

kirbyisaboss

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@CoachShaunie
@CoachShaunie 8 жыл бұрын
Completely agree. Waiting 'til marriage.
@snuggisthecute
@snuggisthecute 8 жыл бұрын
Coach Shaunie yes, stay strong. God is faithful and He will make it happen, continue to trust Him. He truly loves you!!
@patricia5603
@patricia5603 7 жыл бұрын
Coach Shaunie same.i hope that God will help me stay on this path
@wearechosenforareason6783
@wearechosenforareason6783 7 жыл бұрын
I'm thirteen and you have no idea how much pressure there is on my age to have relationships like that! I take dating into that where you don't date until you are spiritually ready for God! So whenever I get asked if I have a boyfriend I say "I don't want a boyfriend until I am age and spiritually ready, I save my heart for the right man and God takes care of me". If the person asking actually puts themselves wholeheartedly to God, the nod and agree but if they don't believe or are in one of those times where life seems fine without God, they might roll their eyes or not really care. I don't mind that because once I truely believed in God with my life, I don't worry about it!
@l.227
@l.227 7 жыл бұрын
We are chosen for a reason You seem to be very mature for your young age😊 God bless you ❤
@KMM496
@KMM496 9 жыл бұрын
No matter if I'm religious or not, I like that she's willing to put herslef out there, and talk about your religion freely. That's amazing.
@samchristine9568
@samchristine9568 7 жыл бұрын
Caitlyn Watson Christianity isn't a religion
@teamullaney2026
@teamullaney2026 7 жыл бұрын
Sam Khan if you gave God a chance you would be saved
@samchristine9568
@samchristine9568 7 жыл бұрын
Tea Mullaney first off I'm a Christian so
@teamullaney2026
@teamullaney2026 7 жыл бұрын
Wait what
@teamullaney2026
@teamullaney2026 7 жыл бұрын
Sam Khan oh I get what you mean now sorry I just didn't understand I'm glad your a Christian
@elizabethjoy3830
@elizabethjoy3830 9 жыл бұрын
You are the best person I have ever found on KZbin. Not even kidding.
@Kimberly-lv8dg
@Kimberly-lv8dg 9 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE
@hannahemily1518
@hannahemily1518 8 жыл бұрын
I KNOW
@ryankoffron
@ryankoffron 8 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Joy true
@lyxabeatrizaragon3502
@lyxabeatrizaragon3502 7 жыл бұрын
even pewdiepie has the biggest subscriber but Kirby is much better
@lexiesmiski
@lexiesmiski 7 жыл бұрын
true though
@thecomputernerd01
@thecomputernerd01 9 жыл бұрын
SO ENCOURAGING TO WATCH VIDEOS LIKE THIS. THANK YOU for speaking up! So much respect and love for you kirby! videos like this are not easy to make, especially in the youtube community lol but that's why we're here :) keep shining bright and spreading the love of Jesus! you got nothing to lose! Wooo
@coconutlollipop3410
@coconutlollipop3410 9 жыл бұрын
Josh! I love you so much! :) I'm so glad to see you encouraging other youtubers with the same beliefs
@kirbyisaboss
@kirbyisaboss 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Josh!! I love you, I am so glad that I am not the only one in this community trying to spread some love and light :)
@jessieprescott1535
@jessieprescott1535 9 жыл бұрын
kirbyisaboss this was a great video. im a new follower and fellow Christian and this is amazing advice
@Yas.271
@Yas.271 7 жыл бұрын
kirbyisaboss you're a such an amazing and wonderful woman in Christ. I'll keep you in prayers that you will meet your future husband at God's timing. and continue to stay pure for him, I'm staying pure for my future husband😊 also I'll keep praying and you're so loved and beautiful!!!😘
@RachelElise
@RachelElise 7 жыл бұрын
thecomputernerd01 Josh!!
@emmacatherine09
@emmacatherine09 9 жыл бұрын
this video is amazing on so many levels - thank you for putting yourself and our faith out there for the world to see! loved it kirby ❤︎
@catherine.connolly
@catherine.connolly 9 жыл бұрын
Emma!! 😍💗
@emmacatherine7764
@emmacatherine7764 9 жыл бұрын
My name is Emma and my middle name is Catherine
@emmabyers5282
@emmabyers5282 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Emma!
@gracecr8539
@gracecr8539 8 жыл бұрын
Ur LITTERALY one of the best youtubers. I love how u talk about Jesus in your videos. Please keep making more videos like this because it really changes my perspective on these topics.
@Carly-wp4hb
@Carly-wp4hb 9 жыл бұрын
From one sister in Christ to another, thank you for inspiring girls & guys around the world with this video. This message is needed to be screamed out into the world. God bless you! 💕
@emilygrace1038
@emilygrace1038 9 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@shotbybay9576
@shotbybay9576 8 жыл бұрын
I went through a really bad break up a few weeks ago. I haven't been to church in a few years and have since then sworn off religion mostly because of stuff from the bible that just doesn't make sense to me... But recently I've really been feeling the need to go to church for some reason. And although I've already done what you speak against, this video really made me think that I don't want to partake in that again before I am with my husband.
@kellysmith5515
@kellysmith5515 8 жыл бұрын
Keep going girl you're not alone
@daughterofthemosthigh4721
@daughterofthemosthigh4721 7 жыл бұрын
Hello! God is The God of grace and forgiveness. Do not let your past mistakes hold you back and bring you down. God is waiting for you with open arms. Don't be afraid to go to Him and ask for His forgiveness. He will never turn you down. You will find rest and He will mend your broken heart. Will keep you in my prayers :-)
@abigailmartin2569
@abigailmartin2569 7 жыл бұрын
Shot by Bay becoming a christian doesn't mean that everything gets easier. in some ways it gets harder. Just know that you have lots of other believers rallied around you and most importantly you have an everlasting god, a father who will never let you go or forsake you❤
@evebiggs1691
@evebiggs1691 7 жыл бұрын
God is calling you. go to church!!!
@cheddarcheese09
@cheddarcheese09 7 жыл бұрын
thats amazing! your desire to go to church is that tug on your heart from God, like he's trying to take your hand to lead you away to get to know him more :) He has so many plans for you and honestly the more you get to know him the happier you'll be, because only real joy is found in God. its only when i turn away from Jesus that i become depressed and feeling empty.
@taylordragovich
@taylordragovich 9 жыл бұрын
So many people are caught up with the idea that after a year of dating it is ok for you to do those kind of things which just makes me mad. Thank you for getting the work out there about this. It needed to be said. You are amazing
@Hoesntrix
@Hoesntrix 9 жыл бұрын
But what if a couple dates for 8 months and then is engaged for 2 months and then they get married? They would only have been together for a year so you cant just base it off the length of the relationship. But rather the trust, respect, and love they have for each other.
@taylordragovich
@taylordragovich 9 жыл бұрын
Well I have heard people say that it's okay to do that after a year of dating and that's what I was basing it off of but what I'm basically trying to say is people need to wait until they are marked to do that kind of thing. Too many teens do that kind of thing because they think they are in love and then it's harder to break up with someone once you have given that part of you to them. That scenario could be true. I'm just basing what I said off the rediclousness of what I've heard from other people:)
@taylordragovich
@taylordragovich 9 жыл бұрын
Married*
@beauty411fashion3
@beauty411fashion3 9 жыл бұрын
But the only difference between being married and dating is a contract saying you will be together forever... I'm not saying throw yourself at the first guy you meet, but sex isn't just a romantic thing, it is a something that all animals pleasure.. This isn't the 1920s..
@ellevanbragt4108
@ellevanbragt4108 9 жыл бұрын
Taylor Dragovich i don't think it's wrong to have sex after a year of dating, i only think that it's wrong to have sex if you aren' t ready for it or don't fully want to have sex, you know what i mean? it isn't a matter of time. i guess that you get that i am an atheist and don't believe in god when i say that, but i still really appreciated the video and think that it's amazing how people can dedicate themselves to their believes which really inspires me. so i am not trying to disrespect your opinion but it sounded like you think it's always wrong to have sex after a year of dating which i disagree with. is it still wrong if you get married later on and stay together for the rest of your lives? just curious. i am sorry if you think i am being rude, it's not my intention. ( yes, i am very careful that you don't think i want to offend you because i am not :) )
@millie7878
@millie7878 8 жыл бұрын
I'm 12 years old and I totally agree with you!! Thank you for making this video😊
@gracecr8539
@gracecr8539 8 жыл бұрын
Yes! I'm 12 as well and my teacher preached about this!
@jonathanberglund3330
@jonathanberglund3330 5 жыл бұрын
so glad to hear God bless you!
@willcarmack
@willcarmack 9 жыл бұрын
It makes my heart so happy you have gotten so successful on KZbin, you really deserve it Kirby
@plutosnightlight4383
@plutosnightlight4383 9 жыл бұрын
Although I don't agree with everything, I applaud you for staying true to your faith and just making this video.
@kirbyisaboss
@kirbyisaboss 9 жыл бұрын
+Pluto's Nightlight Thank you so much :)
@alexpie215
@alexpie215 8 жыл бұрын
+kirbyisaboss I agree 100% with everything you say!!! Thanks for sharing this! Love you Kirby! ❤️
@alexpie215
@alexpie215 8 жыл бұрын
Because I as well am a Christian and believe strongly in the Bible
@fallenslave6684
@fallenslave6684 8 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything what she said.
@giannapineda3817
@giannapineda3817 8 жыл бұрын
Alex Pie I am too
@annettehamilton4852
@annettehamilton4852 9 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful, Kirby. Also being a Christian and of a strong faith, I believe every word you said. I think that it's extremely important to wait for your true spouse, not someone you have desires for. I loved your metaphors because you made me think of this in a whole different way! 😊
@AuntieTay
@AuntieTay 7 жыл бұрын
I am so excited I found your channel, I was watching your testimony and my 10 year old overheard it and started watching with me. I have approved your channel as someone she can watch :) I will be letting her watch this too, I think it is great that you are being so upfront and STRONG in your morals and beliefs. Praise be to Jesus :)
@theone6799
@theone6799 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@seirawalknis6113
@seirawalknis6113 9 жыл бұрын
A lot of people might be leaving hate comment s but I just wanna let you know that this video was beautiful
@kirbyisaboss
@kirbyisaboss 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you :) I'm in no way trying to offend nor force my believes on anyone, I'm just saying something that's near and dear to my heart that I wanted to share with y'all :)
@lizbethmartinez9104
@lizbethmartinez9104 9 жыл бұрын
kirbyisaboss you really spoke out to me this video was so beautiful
@lizbethmartinez9104
@lizbethmartinez9104 9 жыл бұрын
love you so much
@lizbethmartinez9104
@lizbethmartinez9104 9 жыл бұрын
i love kirby because she really speaks out to me lysm
@vansantosdaddy
@vansantosdaddy 7 жыл бұрын
Sooooo true. Refreshing to hear a different perspective on the subject. As a man I experienced even greater ridicule for keeping my virginity until marriage. It wasn't easy (not going to lie) and guys are exceeding difficult about this subject (people made so much fun of me in High School and College). I've been happily married for 13 years and we love each other more and more each day. Sex is meant to be a gift and not something you just use and abuse. Face it... the more time passes and society's tolerance for sex outside of marriage is becoming less and less popular. Sex is like a fire... if you put it inside a fireplace it provides heat, light, comfort, and other good things... but if you put it outside the fireplace you can burn the entire house down, get seriously injured, or even die (in case people miss it... the fire is sex and the fireplace is marriage). Keep at it... you won't regret it.
@weradorkable350
@weradorkable350 9 жыл бұрын
I am happily surprised at all of the positive comments. Props to you for talking about such a touchy subject without being offensive or rude
@eddelizmorales6260
@eddelizmorales6260 8 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with every single word that you said Kirby. I've thought about this a lot and just like you, I'm waiting until marriage. Good explanation with the water! It really helped me understand why I should wait. Love your videos❤️
@ryanphinney6179
@ryanphinney6179 8 жыл бұрын
Same I literally have the same story
@mora003
@mora003 9 жыл бұрын
This was my favorite video so far kirby i love what you have to say and it was a very powerful message. I agree 100% .
@mora003
@mora003 9 жыл бұрын
And You do have to remind yourself that this is her own opinion and you dont have to believe in anything but she just saying how SHE feels and many people do agree with her
@sarahbiernat3630
@sarahbiernat3630 9 жыл бұрын
As a high school student, I'm surrounded by the topic of sex A LOT. You're only a couple years older than I am, so having your insight on this makes me feel content with my decision to stay a virgin for a while. I come from a very Catholic family, so these beliefs are prominent in my life. I don't agree with everything stated, but I do appreciate you speaking out on a topic that most people find too touchy. I understand where you are coming from and I just love what you have to say. :)
@nayshaortiz1687
@nayshaortiz1687 9 жыл бұрын
I genuinely cried and respect you for this. I thought I was the only one that wanted to wait for marriage, I felt odd compared to everyone that gives in to sex so quickly. To hear someone with the same exact perspectives as mine is uplifting. Thank you so much for this video.
@SilviaCancinos
@SilviaCancinos 7 жыл бұрын
You made me cry when you talked about abuse 😥 I went through this and hearing your words made me feel comforted. I love you God bless you ❤️
@heyimsarah8120
@heyimsarah8120 9 жыл бұрын
Kirby I'm so happy that you make videos like this. You're one of the only Christian youtubers I've seen and you're the only Christian youtuber that I truly see God's light in. Thank you so much, I love you and your videos. Keep doing what you do.
@dschager28
@dschager28 7 жыл бұрын
Just a disclaimer if anyone is confused.. SEX IS OKAY! GOD TELLS US TO BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY, BUT ONLY AFTER YOU ARE MARRIED!! Great job Kirby, I absolutely love this video.
@brandonjarmanofficial
@brandonjarmanofficial 8 жыл бұрын
Seriously so glad I found your channel. Its nice finding other Christian KZbinrs!
@JohnnySahn
@JohnnySahn 8 жыл бұрын
wow, a real role model for kids to look up to...even adults. I didn't think this existed nowadays. Amen! Stay true to the narrow, love not the world and finish the race girl!
@nataliejackson2345
@nataliejackson2345 8 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! Preach sister! my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and I agree with everything you said! Keeping God in the center is the only way to have a successful relationship!
@lydiamiller4418
@lydiamiller4418 9 жыл бұрын
Actually my church has these purity rings where you take an oath kinda thing and recieve the ring and you leave it on and once you're married you give the ring to your spouse.
@kennedymitchell2754
@kennedymitchell2754 9 жыл бұрын
Also I have a different apology than the water one. Say I had a paper heart. Every guy I've ever dated and broken up with, rip a piece from the heart. Then on my wedding day, I'd hope to give my husband a full heart instead of a ripped one.
@kennedymitchell2754
@kennedymitchell2754 9 жыл бұрын
Kennedy Mitchell analogy not apology
@hayleynewman2461
@hayleynewman2461 9 жыл бұрын
That's such a good analogy! 😃
@brennak2053
@brennak2053 9 жыл бұрын
+Hayley Newman I agree, it is pretty good huh? Another one would be a flower, if you are with someone a petal is ripped off. Even if only one is ripped off, I want to give my husband a flower with all the petals.
@kennedymitchell2754
@kennedymitchell2754 9 жыл бұрын
Yep, his videos are my life 😂
@kamikazezebra
@kamikazezebra 9 жыл бұрын
Great video, Kirby. I agree with you 100%. It's nice to see other Christians brave enough to speak their mind. You're a light in the darkness for the rest of us 😊❤
@sarahb891
@sarahb891 9 жыл бұрын
Kirby I feel the same way you do about this topic. It's strange because I wear a purity ring and I want to wait to have sex until marriage because of those same reasons you do and it's like you put the words that I've always wanted to tell people on why I want to wait right here for me. Thank you for doing this. I think it might be my favorite video that I have seen from you. And another thing. I think about my future husband ALL the time too. I actually started writing a journal to him because I saw one videos of yours that had you writing to your future husband and I thought oh my goodness! I want to do that for my guy too! You just inspire me so much. And help me through so much. Thank you for doing it. :)
@MichaelSm1298
@MichaelSm1298 9 жыл бұрын
Sarah Bell www.salon.com/2013/05/06/my_virginity_mistake/
@gertrudebiggins1049
@gertrudebiggins1049 9 жыл бұрын
The unpopular opinion will always have people who disagree, but I think you're really inspiring and a great role model to people like me. I've been thinking about this sort of thing as a "blossoming adolescent " and you gave me a sense of clarity. Thanks.
@dianamgleaton
@dianamgleaton 9 жыл бұрын
You brought tears to my eyes when you talked about those of us that have had things happen to us, I love you Kirby, thank you.
@snuggisthecute
@snuggisthecute 8 жыл бұрын
Yasssss girl. When I was 20, I lost my virginity to a boy who turned out to be a druggie. I thought it was love, but was so regretful that I let myself down and let go of my boundaries. Not just because I didn't save myself for my husband, Mike, but really because I didn't trust GOD. I thought He was taking too long to bring me a husband and I let go of my boundaries for something so silly. But God loves me and still forgave me and didn't leave my life. Today I have a man who loves God with his whole life and his whole heart. And I wish I waited for him because he was SO worth waiting for. God is so good and I'm so in love with this man He gave me.
@lenkachladkova1762
@lenkachladkova1762 8 жыл бұрын
When people ask me why I'm waiting, I'll just send them a link to this video.
@evebiggs1691
@evebiggs1691 7 жыл бұрын
Kirby, thank you for sharing this. the world needs to know this. As a Christian I believe this too. thank you!
@Jess_F89
@Jess_F89 9 жыл бұрын
Kirby I love your videos! I'm not religious but agree with you 100% to wait for the right person. You're a great role model for your younger viewers. x
@gau8699
@gau8699 9 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU KIRBY!! It's not often that you see content like this being put out by one of our peers in a way that makes it clear for us today, not what we hear in church, and it's really refreshing. You approached the topic in such a clear way, not trying to change people's minds, but to make them think, regardless of their religion. I'm loving you and what you stand for , thanks for putting a smile on my face :) xx
@isabellagiorgianni9846
@isabellagiorgianni9846 9 жыл бұрын
Amen! You're doing His work Kirby, I agree 100% with this video and couldn't have said it all better myself (as a 16 year old). Also, thanks for listening to your instinct by making this video, it's really been on my mind too! Keep on keeping on
@karinaolivares6061
@karinaolivares6061 7 жыл бұрын
"There's this cool thing called Jesus" 😂 This is just my second video on this channel and I'm in love with how straightforward you are and how great of a relationship you seem to have with God 😊 Thank you for being a great disciple of God, may he bless you forevermore ❤
@ulakalicinska3223
@ulakalicinska3223 8 жыл бұрын
I really love watching these videos I feel as though your advice is helping me to want to be and be a better version of myself not only for my happiness but for God to see that I am trying, and I really to want to become closer with God as I am Catholic so thank you for speaking meaningful words xx
@oheyitsrenee
@oheyitsrenee 9 жыл бұрын
This video seriously gave me goosebumps. Everything you said was so aligned with everything I stand for. You're such an inspiration, Kirby! I honestly have such a strong desire to be like you. I love the fact that you have nearly 70,000 subscribers and you're not ashamed of what you believe. So many people are afraid to share their Biblical beliefs with the world because they're afraid of offending others, but the Bible clearly states that those in the world will be offended by The Truth. But you care so much about every one of your viewers and want them to know and believe what you believe so that they'll spend eternity with you. I have so much respect for you. You're truly amazing. :)
@herhairhisglory
@herhairhisglory 8 жыл бұрын
good analogy with the water
@harveyabel1354
@harveyabel1354 7 жыл бұрын
I'll drink to that.
@adriananoriega
@adriananoriega 6 жыл бұрын
I’m staying a virgin till marriage for myself, not for my husband. I want to glorify God with my life. I want to abide by what God has called me to do: Live in purity.
@leon337
@leon337 9 жыл бұрын
That was really wise and nice what you said Kirby. Someone had to say that
@keithfromcitrusC
@keithfromcitrusC 7 жыл бұрын
Wow! True embodiment of God's light. I really love what you said about purity, and it's a clear reminder that God's grace is never out of reach. I literally cried when you spoke about this, because I have been struggling and trying to overcome my own sexual immorality, and I felt like the Holy Ghost really used this message to speak to me and grow my spirituality with Him. Thank You for being you!!!!!
@jademoore1162
@jademoore1162 9 жыл бұрын
Kirby, you keep doing you and spreading God's truth. Don't listen to the people telling you not to share your faith or to keep quiet. In our current times when our world is rebelling against God, us Christians need to speak up for our faith and what we believe in. Of course, we should never try to offend or spite anyone, but some things may seem offensive when they are pure truth. So don't worry about the people who are offended by your courage for the Lord, because you're doing the right thing girl, and you're inspiring me. Love you💗
@lissa2818
@lissa2818 9 жыл бұрын
Kirby you are a heaven sent. It's wonderful to know a person who shares the same beliefs of remaining pure thank you for your graciousness and compassion towards the sensitive topic of rape for those who are struggling to find peace. 💕
@SydneeClaire
@SydneeClaire 9 жыл бұрын
If anyone gives you hate for this video, ignore them because this was perfect. I love your videos and messages you give in the videos you post!
@rebecac.6395
@rebecac.6395 8 жыл бұрын
I completly agree with you, you've been very brave to stand up for what you believe, such an inspiration!!
@LiamGillin
@LiamGillin 9 жыл бұрын
I'm not religious at all but Kirby I totally respect your views and what you have to say. Sex is important and should be taken seriously. It sucks that people can't respect that some people wanna wait till marriage. If a guy or girl can respect your choices and their own choices then that's the best thing. Consent is also important.
@savandjaz
@savandjaz 9 жыл бұрын
This may not be a perfect video, but it is beauiful. a lot of people needed to hear this. parents aren't teaching their kids the value that they have nor is society helping with that. Boundaries are healthy if laid out in the right way. in EVERY area of life. so. props to ya girl. thank you for using your platform to share what's important in your heart no matter what viewers may think. people don't really understand when i say i'm saving myself for marriage, but that's okay with me. Just know. Whoever you are.. wherever you are. You are valuable.
@taniagarza122
@taniagarza122 9 жыл бұрын
This is one of the reasons why I love your channel, you talk about god and what you think knowing that you will get a lot of hate
@danysoria8974
@danysoria8974 9 жыл бұрын
Amazing video! It is so great to see someone finally talk about this on youtube, since I don't really see videos like this here, and I think this is a really important topic. You are beautiful and I love your videos!
@wesnix9784
@wesnix9784 9 жыл бұрын
I love how you talk about God and Jesus to your viewer's and you really help me find a way to visualize something to help me stay Prue, I made a promise to God and to myself to not involve myself in any sexual activities until I am married, and I also glad that you promoting that other should follow this rule.
@nathanburgett1599
@nathanburgett1599 8 жыл бұрын
I think its awesome your standing on the word Kirby. You are so wise for your years. An hes using your experiences, he turns the hurt into victory. Don't worry about what anyone thinks, it makes god's heart smile. i"ve slipped once in 9 years, an still waiting, he is faithful in his timing. When you do find him you'll be glad you waited. Our father knows what we need more then we do. Agape :)
@maudeoncamera6207
@maudeoncamera6207 9 жыл бұрын
I'm not religious at all but this is super insightful and though I disagree with some of the stuff you're saying, I do agree with some of it and I think that you're really smart and u give some a+ advice in here :^)
@kirbyisaboss
@kirbyisaboss 9 жыл бұрын
+maude on camera Awesome, I'm glad I could be insightful. Thank you for being respectful! :)
@gearsofjacobgaming43
@gearsofjacobgaming43 8 жыл бұрын
kirbyisaboss would love to hear from you because you have been through a lot of I'm going through and need help thanks
@kirubahelan9997
@kirubahelan9997 7 жыл бұрын
Gabriel Maj kindly do not compare. Everyone is unique. Your daughters are unique in their own way. Pray for them. Please do not expect them to be like someone. God will bless them and guide them through your prayers and counsel. I encourage you to get the book "Girl Defined" from Kristen Clark and Bethany Braid. That is an awesome book for young girls in my opinion. God Bless You:-)
@kelshawty
@kelshawty 6 жыл бұрын
maude on camera I’m not religious either but I agree with somethings she said for sure
@JustJosh365
@JustJosh365 6 жыл бұрын
Love this. Thanks. "Don't make good decisions, make wise decisions." Best quote ever!
@leen4801
@leen4801 9 жыл бұрын
i think by making this video you earned ALOT of respect
@ChantalAddo
@ChantalAddo 8 жыл бұрын
You're just one of the greatest people on youtube and you're so brave and wise. May the Most High be with you through it al!
@lucascurcio521
@lucascurcio521 8 жыл бұрын
Kirby, we need women like you in this world. Thank you for the video!
@jefflowery7397
@jefflowery7397 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Kirby! I am waiting also and for the same reasons. On my wedding night I want my wife to know that she has always been on my mind and that I waited for her and her only. I want my wife to know that I place such a high value on her that it was inconceivable to me to do anything but keep myself pure for her, for the rest of my life, if I had to. I want her to know that she is the only one for me. I want her to know that she can trust me because I was willing to wait and that I will always cherish her and always be faithful to her. I want her to know that I love her.
@samanthasonneveld7206
@samanthasonneveld7206 9 жыл бұрын
there's probably that average 12 year old watching this thinking "oh my gosh. she said the s word."
@sarahcarey1330
@sarahcarey1330 9 жыл бұрын
Actually 12 year old know alot more than you actually think they just keep quiet about it and I didn't think that so.
@samanthasonneveld7206
@samanthasonneveld7206 9 жыл бұрын
what? are you 12?
@samanthasonneveld7206
@samanthasonneveld7206 9 жыл бұрын
oh and i know how 12 year olds think because i used to be one
@sarahcarey1330
@sarahcarey1330 9 жыл бұрын
No I'm not 12 anymore and I know I had a smart brain and none of the sixth graders at my school would ever react the way that you thought
@samanthasonneveld7206
@samanthasonneveld7206 9 жыл бұрын
me and the 12 year olds in my sixth grade were and still are smart. we just had a little sense of humor to make a joke out of it.
@sydneymosshart5296
@sydneymosshart5296 9 жыл бұрын
This was amazing! I am so happy there are KZbinrs like you, who are not afraid and/or ashamed to share the word of God!
@TheKb07
@TheKb07 8 жыл бұрын
Parenthood done right! My respect for you has only increased.
@bronwynanne36
@bronwynanne36 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being such a Godly woman! I am a christian myself, and I have discovered that my beliefs differ slightly from those in my church. Your open-mindedness was really refreshing & for that i thank you!
@socialcasualty891
@socialcasualty891 9 жыл бұрын
"Maybe I've even already met him!" kirbyisaboss please don't get mad... cough cough ***** sorry Kirby please don't get offended I just ship you two! And ilysm btw ❤❤❤
@socialcasualty891
@socialcasualty891 9 жыл бұрын
And I think this is such a beautiful way to think about staying abstinent (sorry if I did not spell that right) you may receive hate on this because of your religion (I'm a Christian too so I know the feeling) but just know that your fans all love you and God would be so proud of you making this video :D xxxxx
@jazminbaez4575
@jazminbaez4575 9 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing I was like hmmm mikey 😏
@skylerabel5885
@skylerabel5885 9 жыл бұрын
I have grown up in a christian home and remaining pure has always been something that you were supposed to do for yourself and for God but i had never even thought about my future husband. It is like the ultimate act of love and faithfulness. Thanks for putting that into a new perspective! I also want to let you know that what you are doing is amazing and that you are making a huge impact.
@RedHatNat
@RedHatNat 9 жыл бұрын
well said. wow. you handled this difficult topic well.
@misscarolinax3able
@misscarolinax3able 9 жыл бұрын
Your message was beautiful and so well spoken. It was in no way "preachy" or "insulting." You were respectful and shared your beliefs and views in a very mature and eloquent manner. I love you even more now. You're so full of light and love, don't let anyone bring you down.
@evaswain8495
@evaswain8495 9 жыл бұрын
I am an atheist, and have often found it hard to fully grasp why people stay virgins until marriage (I myself am intending on staying a virgin until at least 20, but that's for a whole load of reasons), but this has made it clear for me. Thanks Kirby
@kirbyisaboss
@kirbyisaboss 9 жыл бұрын
I gotchu :)
@jacklucy9206
@jacklucy9206 8 жыл бұрын
When I first found your channel a few days ago I (wrongly) disliked you but I couldn't put my finger on it (something was off) and just dismissed you. Then I watched more and more of your videos and you talk about serious topics in a few of them and I realise now that I'm not a good judge of character at all. If I had watched your videos (and they had existed) when I was 11/12, things might have gone different for me but it's useless to think about what could have been. Although I don't know what you're like off camera or if you even care about youtube comments I really appreciate you making mature content that helps and gives advice to young people. You have helped me know that I'm not alone.
@naominiyobazira8242
@naominiyobazira8242 8 жыл бұрын
That's so right, i love how you put it. keep this up
@imelody29Official
@imelody29Official 9 жыл бұрын
kirby this is brilliant. literally everything I believe as Christian as well. Thanks so much for making this video. I'm really glad there is at least one other person who feels the same as I do. Most people look at me weird when I say I'm waiting till marriage. But I love how open you are about this topic and its really inspiring!
@RebeccaLee
@RebeccaLee 8 жыл бұрын
YAS GIRL. Love this I'm there with you . Thank you for making this
@kendrapinegar1459
@kendrapinegar1459 9 жыл бұрын
it's actually so encouraging to find youtubers who have the same beliefs as me because it helps to look up to someone and to know that what you're doing is right to someone you trust in. thank you for sharing this :-)
@daniellekramer93
@daniellekramer93 8 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting too! I'm 23 and still a virgin.
@natejohnson1099
@natejohnson1099 8 жыл бұрын
Danielle Kramer thats awesome!
@daniellekramer93
@daniellekramer93 8 жыл бұрын
nate johnson 24 and still virgin!!!
@maddiehanks710
@maddiehanks710 9 жыл бұрын
Wow. This honestly made me cry. This means so much to me and helped me get through stuff I'm dealing with right now. It makes me really happy that there's other girls out there that feel the same way I do. I have been dealing with things that happened when I was younger and it was tearing me apart because I know I want to stay pure and loyal to God and to my future husband but I thought that since I had been a victim of those awful things that that was impossible and I blamed myself for what had happened and everything. So I just wanted to say thank you so much for helping me through that. Much love.
@AllisonRebekeh
@AllisonRebekeh 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!
@thatoasterfly
@thatoasterfly 9 жыл бұрын
so proud of you for posting this. you shine for God and I love it . it's so encouraging
@sarahelizabeth6010
@sarahelizabeth6010 8 жыл бұрын
you are right i am remaining pure as well!! I have a boyfriend he is a christian as well!! and he is remaining pure as well!! it is about glorifying God!! you are right kriby
@sophievanderburg5895
@sophievanderburg5895 9 жыл бұрын
Kirby you couldn't be any closer to the truth. These days our whole world depends on what the media portrays. So I think that your amazing for showing what you believe in and doing what you believe is right. God bless you! xx
@eviesdrawings1312
@eviesdrawings1312 9 жыл бұрын
I'm not a christian, but literally everything that you have just said, was absolutely beautiful
@arielong4980
@arielong4980 9 жыл бұрын
Haha she is so pretty!! Anyway, u should read the bible( just a suggestion ) I mean from ur comment u seem pretty interested( idk is my judgment wrong? Sorry) and like the water metaphor is beautiful. If u agree with this, u should be able to enjoy the bible, it might be a little confusing but generally it is an amazing thing. And I know that u aren't a Christian but I am. And I am sorry for being such a weirdo. But I have one thing to add, God loves u. Even if u don't love him, he loves u. And he cares for you. Have a nice day!
@eviesdrawings1312
@eviesdrawings1312 9 жыл бұрын
Ariel Ong She is gorgeous! It does seem interesting to read, although I'm not a Christian and i might not understand it all, its good to try new things. I think that you believing God is a beautiful thing, and he loves you. Although I don't believe in God, I know that he loves you and how beautiful you are on the inside and out. Even though I don't believe in him, I do believe that in the period of time that Jesus was born, a similar figure to him was born, and I believe that that figure did incredible things in the world. That's something I believe. I also believe that you are a kind and caring person! I hope you have a lovely day! God loves you xx
@arielong4980
@arielong4980 9 жыл бұрын
Thank so much! Have a nice day( again )
@MichaelSm1298
@MichaelSm1298 9 жыл бұрын
Evie J M www.salon.com/2013/05/06/my_virginity_mistake/
@rebekahhiatt605
@rebekahhiatt605 9 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for being open with your faith! it's so refreshing to hear these truths outside of church :)
@classymonkee08
@classymonkee08 9 жыл бұрын
Your husband needs to stay pure for you too. It shouldn't be just one way.
@LoveLife-mk9bq
@LoveLife-mk9bq 9 жыл бұрын
This is so inspirational !!!! Lately I have seemed to fade away from my faith in God and Jesus. You've made me realise I need them and 2 months ago if you asked me about it I would say that I would wait. But lately I'm ashamed to say I haven't been acting that way. Thank you so much for opening my eyes. I really love you for this and you can make as many videos as you want about God and just know that I'll be listening to every word. Thank you x
@SingIn920
@SingIn920 9 жыл бұрын
I do not believe in god or any such thing, but I do believe that everything comes as it's meant to come, and that sex should be a sign of real love. It's so stupid that nowadays so many people just have sex without thinking. I think that you're right with everything you say, I just don't believe that there is like a supernatural power deciding everything over the lives of people... everything people do is their own decision and not the work of any other being. But as I already said, that is just my opinion. p.s. I love your videos Kirby you're so awesome and cute! 😊❤️
@arielong4980
@arielong4980 9 жыл бұрын
I agree with u!! There is no supernatural power that is forcing us to do stuff! I am I Christian. And FYI I respect ur opinion I hope u respect mine. Ok anyway, personally I believe that there is no one forcing us to do things, I think if God did that... That would be a absolute waste of time! I mean controlling people everyday is boring, it's like playing a game with plastic figurines. I feel God gave us a choice, and allowed us to live freely. And I believe that there is a God. I believe in The God. I mean u might not agree with me but its once again my personal view. God has provided my family with SOOO much! And I am extremely grateful. And this is why I do the things that the bible says, like Kirby said, because I love my God and I want to thank him for whatever he has done for me.
@arturoecheverria9865
@arturoecheverria9865 8 жыл бұрын
I'm a 21 year old guy in a Christian college and I've sat under the teaching of amazing pastors and teachers and this video is full of just as powerful insight and has blessed me tremendously. I'm blessed to see there are still young guys and gals who seek the Lord wholeheartedly. Keep doin what you're doin, and may God richly bless you
@dariusg7044
@dariusg7044 9 жыл бұрын
Man I wish I could find another girl like Kirby who wants to save it till marriage like me.
@deloresm7494
@deloresm7494 7 жыл бұрын
I just love you Kirby, when my daughter's eyes r opened, and she comes back to the Lord, she will be somewhat like you! It brings me joy! Thank you!
@BenjaminBigger
@BenjaminBigger 9 жыл бұрын
**100 Percent Emoji Kirby**
@tiffanygrisham3532
@tiffanygrisham3532 9 жыл бұрын
Amen. I have been on your channel for only about a good 20 minutes and let me tell you; God has a special plan for you. You not only preach the word of God but you explain it so it's clear to those who don't understand and I sincerely applaud you of that. God bless your soul
@haleycampbell9336
@haleycampbell9336 9 жыл бұрын
Kirby what are your thoughts on gay marriage or just the LGBT+ community?
@lunziaacero3556
@lunziaacero3556 7 жыл бұрын
Haley Campbell We don't accept it. We love them for sure as God love them and understand how they get to that and why. But as him we cannot accept it
@lunziaacero3556
@lunziaacero3556 7 жыл бұрын
But I repeat we should be kind and loving to them just as everyone
@cosettegerl9138
@cosettegerl9138 7 жыл бұрын
lunzia acero we? Just because you're christian doesn't mean you don't support LGBT i personally don't but there are a lot of Christians who do
@lizaw1
@lizaw1 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing the light into this world! This made my heart rejoice! Keep worshiping God with your serving :) God bless you!
@annabobanna7141
@annabobanna7141 8 жыл бұрын
100% love this video!
@lukapyon0301
@lukapyon0301 5 жыл бұрын
I heard you on the radio this morning Kirby and really felt God working through you as you talked about social media and how God has blessed you through this platform. It's so important that you've covered the topic of purity especially since you've made that promise to stay pure to the Lord. I was an athiest as a teenager and when I was 17 I foolishly gave away my virginity to a boy who didn't deserve it. I had a very rough childhood and my heart was already so hard that once my relationship with him ended, it only grew harder. I hated people and really thought everything was meaningless. At one of the lowest points in my life, God sent a man into my life to witness to me and show me the love of Christ and the very deep, internal wounds that were in my heart instantly washed away when I accepted Jesus as my Lord and savior. This man I met four years ago and we are now engaged and about to marry in 3 months. He is a virgin and although he is aware of what I had done, he still loves me, has forgiven me and wants to share not only his body, but his entire life with me. God has blessed me so richly and has washed me clean of all of my sins! To the young girls here, there will be lots of pressure to have sex but please don't give in. Instead, pray and rely on God. Set barriers and say no because it is not worth it. You want to share that special moment with the one who you dedicate your life to. God bless you all and thank you Kirby for what you do. :)
@NaomiBurgess99
@NaomiBurgess99 8 жыл бұрын
Couldn't have said it better myself!
@WisdomCalls
@WisdomCalls 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you are preaching this message. I encourage you to encourage your viewers to follow what the Bible says instead of waiting "till they are ready" since people feel "ready" a lot. We need to understand that there are HUGE benefits to doing things God's way and HUGE detriments to disobeying His way. I am so glad you are being BOLD for Jesus! Keep doing what you are doing! People need good role models because this world makes them feel like they are the only ones living this way, but it is NOT TRUE! Trust me, when you get married you will hope with all your heart that your husband has stayed true to you before marriage too! Unmarried people often do not realize that there is still temptation after you are married. The self control you develop as a single person is the self control you will still use to remain faithful to your spouse once you are married. Trust me this is so. Some people naively think that after marriage there is no more temptation. This is not true. There are seasons in marriage where you might not feel that close to your spouse and you might feel like getting your needs met elsewhere. There are also seasons with kids where your sex life is not as vibrant as before young children and fatigue sets it. It's important for people to realize that marriage has seasons of closeness and sometimes not feeling as close. Marriage is a work in progress because we are human beings who are not perfect yet. Trust me when I say, that there is nothing like a godly marriage! It is worth all the sacrifice and work both before and during the marriage! We need more Christian marriages that are for LIFE! I've been married to my husband for almost 18 years and God has been faithful to help us through every stage.
@junosuzuki2460
@junosuzuki2460 8 жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this at an earlier time, to be honest.
@GabbyGomez
@GabbyGomez 9 жыл бұрын
Any time the people I'm subscribed to talk about their beliefs and God, it just makes me feel so happy to know that there is more than just being funny in their videos. I agree with everything you say Kirby and I respect you so much. I love everything you do and your videos are great! :)
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