The TikTok Incel in an Alpha Male Costume

[@emmalouisesrensen311]

If a person unironically uses the terms alpha and beta to describe people that’s a red flag right there

[@josjoererg]

especially because those people are often the same ones that say the lgbtqa acronym is too long

[@pebzex]

or “submissive/dominant” I SWEAR HE WOULD USE BREEDABLE TOO LMAO

[@lavender8703]

a kid in my chorus class does it 😀 CHORUS LIKE WHAT???

[@MayLina]

The funniest thing about it is that the alfa-beta male theory have never been true and was disproved shortly after publishing 😂 i love knowing this fact and watch people talking sh*t they know nothing about lol

[@laurabelacqua9064]

@@josjoererg and they probably never talked to an lgbtq+ person. some even use just use lgbt+, most of us don't fucking care, honestly, someone is always gonna be left out.

[@MayLina]

“Girls, do you know why you are single? FEMINISM!” No, my guy, that’s why you are single😂

[@Man-ej6uv]

BRUH

[@chicka-boom7540]

Yuuuup.

[@caitlinhogan5258]

Also more women realise they don’t need to attach their worth to being with a man, and won’t put up with shit like this. So I’m like... yeah I know, why do you think pointing out that feminism gives me the choice not to date if I don’t want, and not to date someone who doesn’t treat me like a human going to make me change my mind?

[@Tarumarugan]

Damn 😂. Headshot 💥🔫

[@cocolime6496]

I see so many men blaming feminism not only for women not putting up with their shit but for pretty much every problem in life (most of which are not actually problems but signs of progress and awareness, usually they're only "problems" for them) and it gives me a little spark of joy. i take it as a sign that we've done something right

[@serious_about_men]

This guys video is a great example of “when you’re used to privilege, equality feels like oppression”

[@LoneWulf278]

*Perfect* usage of that expression. 👏🏾👏🏾

[@TheAbigailDee]

WHOOMP THERE IT IS

[@vlimans2795]

take! my! Fuqing! like!

[@likeastickaastickaastickaa2686]

PREACH

[@TheMzshaw]

Omg yesssss!!!

[@cremesiccle]

i love how for men like this, "feminism" has just become shorthand for "anything women do/say that i dont like"

[@snakes7303]

“Women dont like me,????? Feminimsins!! Fenimismms!!! Feminissnm!!! Famnenism!!! 😡😡” Like you sound like my broken alarm clock repeating the same annoying ass “BEEEEP” do you think other stuff? Like 🧍‍♀️

[@ember9361]

Same with Karen, Karens are unreasonable, entitled *racist* old women. Now it means just “woman I don’t like” No, Jared, the 6 year old girl crying upset at her brother is not being a Karen.

[@verybarebones]

@@ember9361 yeah, I've seen any woman standing up against a crazy dude being called a Karen

[@vv285]

also same with "simp". it's originally used for those "nice guys" but now it's "oh you see women as human beings? simp" seems like there's a pattern here

[@shely_D7vil]

It's funny how hating and villanizing feminism is a common trait in fascist regimes, even before Hitler's times. When I hear this ignorant people ramble nonsensically about feminism all I really hear is the Futurist Manifesto lol.

[@TheGrossDemon]

Hey now, he didnt say he loved his mother unconditionally, he said she loves HIM unconditionally. Judging off that, he probably only likes women that put up with his nonsense and doesnt try to make him stop being a terrible person.

[@peachy_lili]

dingdingding

[@rVnsunshine]

Hard agree.

[@somethinggamar9119]

Probably why he goes for teenagers because he knows they'll feel guilty if they don't offer him that unconditional love 🤢

[@juliettedemaso7588]

Solid point. 👏

[@angelsweet9611]

IM DDDOOMMINNANT!! 😂😂

[@anoni6108]

"youre never gonna be my queen, you're not my mother" oh boy Freud is partying in his grave with this one

[@wolfie1234100]

Oedipus complex, who?

[@cataclysmicmystics]

@@wolfie1234100 Psychosexual stages _who?_

[@rVnsunshine]

i hate freud but I guess he was right sometimes😒

[@cataclysmicmystics]

@@rVnsunshine unfortunately

[@anoni6108]

@@rVnsunshine hes (curtain Guy) just a stan trying to prove he (Freud) was right

[@abcxyz4653]

I don’t think he was hurt by women, I think he was raised around sexist men and then further radicalized by online spaces for men. He’s just parroting basic talking points that the alpha redpillers always say.

[@MayLina]

Might be either, might be both, we don’t know, but you have a really good point here.

[@tradutorajuliana]

I think it's a mix, he was raised to not be aware of his feelings, then he blames other people for his suffering all his life... then he loves a woman but she leaves cause he's a dick... ta daaaaa he's on tiktok now

[@thefemalefuture1]

Must be both. (btw if so, they didn't hurt him enough 😉)

[@abcxyz4653]

@@tradutorajuliana Yess I agree, it’s likely both. I’m only doubtful that being hurt by women is the *primary* root of his misogyny or that he’d change if he met enough women who treated him nicely.

[@duresh08]

Redpill is so fucking stupid. Just treat women like humans and not an algorithm? Fuck is that a lot to ask for? xD

[@SolarisMusic]

"women have hurt me in the past. shoutout to those women" absolutely fuckin' SENT me

[@Sparkle__Punk]

If you're tired of the gender norms that expect you to pay for everything, let me introduce you to a little thing called 💫feminism💫

[@PlantingAshley]

LMAO RIGHT

[@griffin8217]

And if you like the idea that you shouldn’t need to bottle up your emotions because “you won’t be manly enough” let me introduce the idea of ✨feminism✨

[@Lina_92_]

Haha absolutely

[@groovydiphenhydramine9707]

YES this is what feminism is and more people, men and women, are so misinformed on what it really means

[@duresh08]

YESSSS xD

[@sseraphim2818]

I'm very convinced he doesn't understand what and why feminism just *is*. He's more concerned with attacking women and foisting his frustrations onto all women because they are not accepting of him and other disgusting men's abuse. Women are starting to realize that they don't need to accept men who mistreat and degrade them. It's a beautiful thing to see.

[@PlantingAshley]

Yeah completely, hes mad that he cant find a women to just do whatever he wants because he pays the bills. He wants a women who wont make money for herself, so shell be forced to rely on him for everything, and he holds that over her head to get him to do what he wants. Gross. Financial entrapment is why when divorce happens you split the resources, made so that mostly women, (but men can be financially entrapped too), will be able to leave an abusive situation without becoming houseless or cash poor. And i agree its amazing to see women do life on their own. I think mysogenistic men are scared that women think they dont need them anymore, when really, women dont tolerate mysogeny anymore

[@fizasohailkhan5380]

Well said

[@ember9361]

Saw a dude complain that the movement of “don’t get involved with toxic guys” is “the same shit” as the “treating undesirable (read: ND) women like _damaged goods_” movement. It all made sense. These dudes are incredibly self centred. They don’t think women are protecting themselves from bad relationships. They think women are targeting “broken” guys and calling them toxic so they’re excluded from the dating pool. They’re not getting dates because women are meanies. It can’t be they have insufferable personalities, nah. P.S.: I specified the type of dude I am talking about in my comment: “these”. These dudes who Behave Like This. Not All Men, yeah yeah Definitely these dudes tho

[@brett8460]

@@PlantingAshley A girl I went to college with is married to a man like this but he isn't quite far gone yet (still a red flag though). She kind of quit her job to become a stay-at-home mom and when I say "kind of quit" I mean her husband kind of coaxed her into it because she wasn't planning on doing it but she has about 10k in a secret savings account on standby in case she needs to get the fuck out.

[@ilovebittingrumps181]

@@brett8460 goes to prove , she gave in

[@demonicharmonic1838]

men using fucking ABO terms like astrology will never stop killing me

[@officert5147]

This comment is killing me holy shit you're right gbsbfhjsk

[@eddydrouet1888]

What does ABO stand for?

[@jaychang6723]

@@eddydrouet1888 Alpha, Beta, and Omega

[@eddydrouet1888]

@@jaychang6723 thx 🙏

[@GwendolynnBY]

we should pretend like we've never heard of "alpha males", and whenever they call themselves an alpha, just respond "sorry, omegaverse isn't really my thing"

[@byg0lly]

"Women want to be dominant in relationships" "Most women are submissive" Huehh???

[@harinder13137]

I just want to wear a maid costume and be buff and 6ft

[@TheAbigailDee]

Does not compute

[@permanentstateofawe6544]

I just pictured the buff dude in a maid costume with the oni-chan audio on tiktok

[@submissiveproviderstboth9485]

When the ENVIRONMENT IS RIGHT! 🙊

[@mistressofstones]

Yeah... why no consistency?? So annoying.

[@jennysissonen1522]

I'm physics student, every time someone describes themself as an "alpha" I think about that weak alpha radiation that isn't strong enough to pass through a paper

[@baguettegott3409]

Gonna start calling myself a Gamma Male now - really high penetration power... Also I'm ionizing, so who's gonna dare to challenge me? Of course, everybody in their right mind will stay very very far away from me... hm. Maybe you *should* go for alpha dudes, they're so damn weak that they could never hurt you. Unless you swallow them.... you know what I'm stopping this odd metaphor here, I think it's going too far lmao

[@DrBitchcraft.]

For me, men who talk about ABO, just reminds me of omegaverse fics I read as a teen.

[@MissMoontree]

@Baguette Gott, Your Gamma comment nearly killed me. Too strong

[@yl6467]

@@baguettegott3409 omg, so I googled Gamma Male and it's actually a thing

[@toniotrussardi8126]

@@yl6467 bruh whats next smegma male?

[@SoVidushi]

This guy doesn't realize that women prefer being single to being in a relationship with someone who doesn't realize their worth (as everyone should prefer). His argument just falls flat.

[@kaiwryn]

So much this. If you want to date me, your company needs to be just barely better than being by myself-it's really not that complicated, lol.

[@tiakhanna2192]

Yup. Why would anyone date someone who doesn't make them feel good or make them better (as in, a better person or a better version of who they are)? His idea of a relationship is the 1950s one where women were expected to stay at home taking care of the children, cooking and cleaning in return for the husband to not beat her or some shit. Also, is that an INSIDE inspired pfp?

[@neptunegrl3425]

I also don't know who gave him so much hope. He's single for a very good reason because he loves himself way to much to love anyone else.

[@mohmohthesmog7179]

Can we talk about how this dude had a high schooler as a girlfriend. He’s like 24. Like are we not going to just call him pedophile

[@welpppppppppppppp]

telling on himself-- translation: "I groom my partner into my ideal by just bulldozing all their boundaries and taking advantage of their naivete" lmaoooooo

[@瑞希-h2b]

?????? fr 🤢 disgusting

[@iiirecol]

he is not necessarily a pedophile. he probably dates teenagers because they're naive and easier to take advantage of.

[@sumlem]

@@iiirecol both, both

[@Lovi3Dovi3]

Not even surprised 👌

[@avam3740]

I don’t get how this guy can, unironically, call himself an “alpha” then get upset when girls call themselves a “queen”

[@coolcat6341]

No Queen beside himself 👑👸he is the queen

[@ninawth]

I didn't need feminism to tell me I'm God's gift to this earth, because I already knew 😏

[@gwendyb7077]

SAME

[@HobieInTheBox]

Period 💅🏼

[@stupidass69420]

SAMEEE YUHH

[@kelseyspolejourney5417]

omg I just typed this comment but deleted mine because yours was first (and funnier)!

[@anoni6108]

Exactly 🖐🏻😭

[@manishdas9213]

We cannot solve misogyny online. Is the best quote I have heard in awhile. Living in India the country where every person just assumes it is a womens job to clean up after you. It is very difficult to voice yourself without being called a pseudo feminist. And yeah it is becoming better but is it enough? (No I don't think so). So that was my small rant and the video is great I love this community of yours and you especially. ❤️

[@snehapradhan5591]

hey from india, and yes you're so right!

[@bestiebombshell6368]

Ugh so very true

[@hazytapes1179]

So true 😭 Shaadi banaalo humse 👉👈

[@kingayy9267]

Be the change you wish to see in the world.

[@sanjanarajesh7359]

Bro omg an Indian man being a feminist?? This makes me so happy

[@eggymoon]

If a man compare you to his mother, he doen't need a wife: he needs education (because at this point jesus is not going to save his ass)

[@aateeq2451]

Freud is smiling from his grave because of him.

[@justchilling7712]

More like a caretaker

[@z.6480]

My guy needs to learn to take care of him self and go to school or smthn😐 like have YOU wondered why you're still single 🤨

[@Chirpieshome]

He's a manchild lol

[@justchilling7712]

Men like him will complain that a lot of women prefer a boyfriend who’s taller than them, but then also won’t date a woman who’s taller than them because it’s “emasculating”.

[@duresh08]

This has more to do with insecurity imo. Poor analogy

[@glamglam8347]

@@duresh08 thanks for proving their point smart one

[@duresh08]

@@glamglam8347 Short men have a hard time accept themselves being their size and that has NOTHING to do with you. It is not for you to decide how they feel. And how about not being a condescending prick on the internet first? And you wonder why people don't take men's insecurities seriously smh

[@Agaricus_cuscus]

@@duresh08 how is it poor analogy. Do you think tall girls arent insecure about being tall too?

[@thetempestlilac3599]

@@duresh08 So only men feel insecure about height?

[@beatricefox937]

Only you can give me faith in humanity while describing the worst in humanity. I struggle a lot with the hatred coming from all different sides of the internet and your videos feel like a safe space. Thank you.

[@Lincoln_Bio]

I know, right? :D

[@mothboy420]

same

[@maya.n]

Omg is that dianna agron "coming out"?

[@beatricefox937]

@@maya.n thank you for noticing :)

[@rusilea]

Yes, it is also my reason for subscribing him

[@UdoADHD]

Did he say he’s the bread winner?? When he has a shower curtain for blinds??

[@staszewaM]

Those are regular (bed)room curtains, it's just he didn't hang them properly through the curtain rod...which a 'manly man' that he probably thinks he is, should know how to do ;)

[@UdoADHD]

@@staszewaM I actually recognize the curtains and they are Walmart brand DORM ESSENTIALS 😂.

[@staszewaM]

@@UdoADHD Who knows, maybe you are right 😂 I've seen some people saying those are Ikea's and I have similar looking ones that are meant for curtain rods (not that I would expect that guy to know how to 'install' them as it seems like he hasn't figured out how to clean and cook).

[@Wildtingz]

He lives in his moms basement. He’s more of a bread eater than winner SMH

[@z.6480]

@@staszewaM he's complaining about women but can't even properly hang a curtain 😭 from his logic, a man should be able to do some building and setting up shit, including this curtain.

[@demerrara]

any man who calls himself an alpha is nearly guaranteed to be into pegging. i dont make the rules i just enforce them

[@andreaf8404]

LMAO

[@bloohazze]

This sounds like punching down onto people into that…

[@demerrara]

@@bloohazze i’m not i promise :) i’m personally not into it but i know and respect a lot of people who are. i just mean people who tend to over-assert themselves as dominant in relationships are covering for a submissive side that they might be ashamed of

[@shanayahayes6394]

I don’t think being a bottom=being submissive, ikwym regardless

[@komos3719]

Fuck yeah

[@lolafierling2154]

I've dated dominant men. It really wasn't so great. Actually the "dominant" men I've dated have been abusive. I've also dated "submissive" men. Oddly enough I've only dated one "submissive" guy who was abusive. All the others were just respectful, kind, intelligent, thoughtful and funny. Seems like this dude has ZERO idea what women want or like. I'm sure there are women out there that would be happy being treated like this. But I'm sure there others who really wouldn't be happy being treated like this. Also having a kid means you've done everybody on the block? I have a kid. But I'm mostly called a prude by men. Because i won't have sex with random guys. Because I've not had many partners. Idk its almost like women get bashed no matter what they do or don't do. We're constantly being given mixed messages on what we should be doing. "You need makeup" "you ok better without makeup" "you should have sex with me" "you're a slut for having sex with men" "you should be less promiscuous" "you're a prude no man will want a woman who won't give it up on the first date". Like guys.... PICK ONE FFS you can't have it both ways. It's not only obnoxious but it's also CONFUSING. Can women ever do anything right? Not trying to say that women also don't do this. But I feel like I see it less. Maybe that's my fault for not being in places where I see women doing this often. But from my point if view it seems like I just see more men than women doing this. It doesn't really seem like "dominant" guys even like women. Are we just a sex toys? Maybe someone needs to send this guy a doll. But he wouldn't likethat either. Becauseshe wouldn't take orders from him. If he keeps publicly being likethis he'll end up... Lonely or abusing someone. I hope he didn't end up abusing anyone.

[@bloohazze]

The point these days is to just do you. Not worry about what other people are saying, the mixed messages don’t matter and that’s not the point. The POINT is telling a woman (in this case) what to do with themselves in the first place.

[@thefemalefuture1]

You're incredibly strong, keep going girl ❤️

[@lolafierling2154]

@@bloohazze its not always that easy though. It's not just people. Its the media, movies, music, TV shows. It can feel like the entire world is pulling you in every different direction. I'm 33. I'm good with who I am. As a younger person it hurt me a lot hearing people constantly telling me I was bad and wrong for all sorts of irrelevant and conflicting reasons. Its really easy to say "just do you and don't care about other people". Its a lot harder to live that way. Trust me I know because I have lived that way. While I can't stop myself from feeling the things I feel I do what I want and dont outwardly show that I was hurt and confused. But that never make anything feel any better. Being myself and being treated badly for it didn't just magically stop hurting. I didn't get tougher. I am autistic and I don't think I have the capability to act like everyone else does. And while it's liberating in a way to not care what others say it's a lonely way to live. Everyone wants to be part of a community. Everyone wants to be accepted. I chose to not act on that instinct and be myself no matter what. I'm no better off for it though. We humans are pack animals. Going against evolution by ostracizing oneself is really hard and I can't blame those who can't or won't.

[@lolafierling2154]

@@thefemalefuture1 💜💜💜💜

[@LoneWulf278]

Don’t pay these kinds of guys any mind. 90% of what they say makes no sense and is statistically inaccurate. But you can’t reason with misogyny. They’re unstable and miserable. Just do you.

[@MotelMaxwell]

I can't stop thinking about the way he spelled equality

[@thelonelymustard]

maybe the real feminism is the friends we made along the way

[@aateeq2451]

Yes

[@utipessien6231]

Always has been

[@Dustrin]

Thank you, lonely mustard, for this eye opening comment

[@yoshita4140]

if he's a traditional man who wants a woman who cooks and cleans for him and takes care of the house, why is he not dating trad women? women with traditional values do still exist, just like men with traditional values still exist. if you're such a big dominant man, look for submissive women then, it's really not that hard. it's his fault for dating women with more liberal values lmao.

[@aateeq2451]

Hearing trad woman is giving me war flashbacks from the Trad Wife thing in Tumblr

[@yoshita4140]

@@aateeq2451 pls😭😭

[@thetempestlilac3599]

He seems abusive tho. And he'll take advantage of traditional women. Being a traditional man doesn't necessarily mean being abusive.

[@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty]

@@thetempestlilac3599 yeah but that's low-key the point of wanting a "traditionally gendered relationship", like trad women are literally just willing abuse victims so all relationships they get into are kinda abusive. It's sad but true.

[@reinadelosrizoss]

@Conner Kent No

[@UnfilteredMay]

about him loving his mother, i suspect that misogynistic men exclude women whom they feel are an extension of them (like mothers/sisters/daughters). so him loving his mother doesn't necessarily mean he's not a misogynist

[@starchannel123]

It's sad because most of the time they love their mothers because like he said "she loves him unconditionally" and deal with his bull shit. Misogynists are also almost always raised by any sister that they have growing up and learn to expect service from women in the household.

[@UnfilteredMay]

​@@starchannel123 right that's another thing! it gives them a sense of entitlement and an expectation that every woman should be submissive by default lmao

[@gulpgulpgulpgulp5417]

Yes and i believe most of them "love their mother unconditionally" just because if they don't they get bashed by other men... Aka the only people these "alpha males" are seeking validation from

[@TheAbigailDee]

Perfectly summarized

[@MissMoontree]

Once was with a guy who lived with his parents and was all about family. He would do anything anytime for his mother. Ended up being the worst boyfriend. On the other hand, just after him I dated a guy that moved out of his parents house. He would often be annoyed with his mother. Treated me like I was the most valuable person in the world.

[@getyourownshoe]

As an Ikea nerd, I can confirm that is actually a curtain, but it is not hung properly through the curtain rod. 😅 Thank you Duncan, awesome video!!

[@retroduck5740]

This concludes that the dude didn't know shit about hanging curtains right

[@Number_6ix]

I like to think the curtain was specifically hung in the “I’m gross but at least mommy still loves me” fashion of adult human beings living through a pathologically arrested development.

[@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty]

@@Number_6ix bruh I just didn't know how to use power tools and now it's melted to my window 😭

[@pennyforyourthots]

It looks like one of those curtains where they only sell one panel to get you to spend twice as much, but he didn't realize it until he got home. I know Walmart does this at least, where they'll sell one panel of a blackout curtain.

[@Tanuki-cl7qi]

This is probably going to sound weird, but bear with me. I really appreciate that you mentioned you'd been hurt by non-binary people. I'm kinda familiar with videos like this, people talking about mysoginists in the dating pool, and it's always just man versus women. It's so small, but even just acknowledging we exist offhand in something like this is extremely validating. Wish you good luck in school, and I hope my fellow enbies give you sweets and treats sometime soon.

[@papaya3642]

i agree 🥺from one enbie to another🦋🌸

[@v1ped]

1111%!!!

[@kellycowley3535]

+Tanuki 1029 If you haven't already I suggest you check out The Queer Kiwi channel since her intro to most (if not all) of her video's acknowledges non-binary people.

[@bariumdead]

My favorite is when in one video he says women have a natural, strong intuition of others and then in another video he complains about women calling him toxic and a narcissist.

[@basicradical3581]

-oop👀

[@cauliflowerhead2735]

Oh gosh yes 😂 He is a treasure trove of contradictions

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

Some people just really tell on themselves and don't even realize it.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

😅😅😅

[@HowdyHowdy_]

"I Diagnose You With Delusion" better make its way into a form of merch.

[@rini9325]

9:10 No woman ever labels herself as a "high value" woman. We don't look at ourselves like commodities,unlike men like this guy. All women are equal in value to me( pls don't respond with "even female criminals?" like no, obviously not. All women doesn't literally mean all women lol)

[@4swordsluver]

right? I have only ever heard men use the term "high value woman"

[@gusmackenzie2361]

Allow me to introduce you to r/femaledatingstrategy

[@shisexee]

@@gusmackenzie2361 Reddit?

[@Andrewbait]

Loooool there's plenty of women who absorb all comodity based dating lingo specially on this platform you just live a privileged life that shields you from it

[@llgg9744]

@@gusmackenzie2361 begone redditor

[@alicedeathbelle]

Even though this video is specifically about this guy’s misogynistic views, you actually helped me realise that I was doing the exact same thing to men. I mock them and go on huge rants about how much I hate men and how I think my partner will inevitably leave me or cheat on me because every man I’ve talked to from a teenager to an elderly man has told me that they’ve cheated on their wives. I assumed sex was the most important thing and I couldn’t even fathom the thought of a good man who respects their partner and never hurts them. I’ve been projecting that onto my partner since day one and I’ve only just started to notice the toll it’s taken on him and his self-worth. Excuse me, I need to go tell my man that I love him and appreciate him for never being any of those things.

[@Dojafish]

Good for you

[@alyssapinon9670]

You dropped this 👑

[@LGrace-xx1cf]

"the ideal goal is for him to meet women who prove him wrong" puts the obligation to help him on women in a way im not comfy with. young women especially can be led to believe by a lot of popular media that just being nice enough to a guy will fix him and can easily fall victim to manipulation. it's clear that he already is preying on impressionable young women, which you rightly fault him for, but forwarding that sentiment and narrative about Good women fixing men is dangerous to the same group of people. he doesn't need to meet better women, he needs to realize the women he already knows and knows of are better than these caricatures.

[@KuncanDastner]

oh I definitely didn't mean to imply that it's any woman's job to fix him- I said empathy is taught through experience, I only wanted him to be around people he could listen to and contextualize his misogyny. It's never on women to fix broken men like this, but I also don't think men can fix misogynistic men because there's no women involved in any of the growth. I don't claim to have all the answers, but I wanted to clear that up a little

[@bruhjime2675]

"you're submissive to the universe" and they say astrology is fake🙄

[@His_scars]

Periodt. 😱🙀✌️💅✨

[@SuperNicktendo]

My wife and I work together as a team and we're rocking life right now. The entire economy is based on a two person system. This isn't the 50s where one person can buy a house and a car and live on their own (I wish I could buy a home on my own, that would be cool to have a workshop for woodworking) but yeah. Work together and win at life.

[@ninawth]

What if you don't have a partner, though? E.g. when you're aromantic.

[@SuperNicktendo]

@@ninawth I'm not saying to get a partner, I'm just saying the system is based on the assumption there are two people (hotel rates are based on double occupancy etc) Before I met my wife I had roommates. I don't know if I would have purchased a home with them though. But it is possible, my friends did it right out of high school and the main one bought their shares when he got married.

[@ninawth]

@@SuperNicktendo Thank you for your answer. Due to my socio-economic background, I think it's highly unlikely that I will ever own a home, but I have heard that many people are forced to rent with a friend, because there are no affordable places to rent for only one income. It's very depressing.

[@cozycasasmr4510]

I'm happy for you and jealous at the same time 🥰 I hope one day I can have a partner whose a team with me

[@imamenace7709]

Men who act like they are the only ones that can provide for independent females are like gaslighting moms and dads that think you can’t rent out an apartment, because you’re still a “child” to them that can’t cook or clean for yourself.

[@kotabee3630]

I’m afraid of certain men, I have trauma around that. However, I don’t generalize them. I know not all men will hurt me and that’s the difference between irrational and rational fear of a gender.

[@hatersrmotivators6477]

But enough men r danger to women child and other men.

[@jadecoolness101]

We are still scared of sharks and bees despite people rarely being attacked. 1 in 5 women will be as/saulted by a man in her lifetime. So the fear of the whole gender is justified. We don't know which one is going to make us the 1 in 5.

[@hatersrmotivators6477]

@@jadecoolness101 actually its 1 in 3 according to Google

[@jadecoolness101]

@@hatersrmotivators6477 I don't listen to google. I'm not trying to sounds like I have some superiority complex or anything, but I was referencing statistics directly from police sources. It probavly IS more than 1 in 5 considering how many incidents go unreported, but. Until the main sources start saying 1 in 3 like google does, then it's safer for me to reference 1 in 5. Because if I say 1 in 3 and then someone finds that "more legitimate source" then that someone will go 'no this one fact was wrong so everything you said is wrong' you know?

[@jiminplsletmehit7620]

@@jadecoolness101 Then what do you listen to? You go to the police station and ask them for their statistics on male s3xcrime arrests?

[@abcxyz4653]

If you can’t buy a curtain rod or change a smoke detector, you don’t get to call yourself an alpha provider. I don’t make the rules

[@decoraqueena6413]

I get the feeling there's no window behind that curtain because he wants to prove that he's not living in his mum's basement

[@Ilikefrogs..]

@@decoraqueena6413 He could still put up a curtain rod or something.

[@beverycarefuljohn586]

The entire thing where people make up a person to argue with is the most annoying type of content to watch or read.

[@ShanemanFP]

Angry Strawman Destroyer™️ is a thriving social media genre, for sho.

[@rVnsunshine]

This guy is “dominant” and “infertile” 😠 Edit: I also think he needs an intense lesson on bdsm dynamics. Maybe he’d be a less shitty person if he did, because #1 in bdsm ethics is consent and power, which this guy seems really confused about.

[@aateeq2451]

No one give him access to 50 shades of grey or After or Twilight, he’ll explode.

[@GDL364]

The terms dominant and submissive are not always used in a sexual context.

[@screamprincess_m]

Not to mention that the submissive is the one that truly is in control. They give consent and give the dominant power to dominate over them. It's earned. The submissive gets a lotta hate for being "weak" but really they're not 🥺

[@gorefieldluvr6921]

Men like this always want the trad wife without being a trad husband. Its all or nothing man. You cant have the cake and eat it too

[@Schinzo__]

Then what’s the point of making a cake? To sell the mf

[@angeljaceherondale]

As someone with sensory issues, can I just say your voice, music, editing is always very soothing and calming which is very helpful.

[@underhypedandoverrated]

If someone failed to replace the batteries in their smoke detectors, convincing me to believe what they are preaching is already not off to a great start

[@bendingbananas6540]

I wonder how he would take it if someone ironically said he looked submissive and breadable ..i just know he wont takr that well at *all* 💀

[@Douliette]

I'm so glad i'm a single feminist damn (nothing to do with the fact i'm aromantic and very disinterested in dating, obviously. It's the feminism.) Jokes aside, this kind of guy... honestly, when yall are creating your own problems by only dating the archetype of The Women TM instead of the actual real person in front of you... you don't get to complain lmfao go sit over there yall are grounded

[@anoni6108]

😭

[@wolfie1234100]

I guess I like nice guys? I like the people I date to treat me nicely and with respect. That is not strange, right?

[@ArsonBeanTanks]

Thank you for calling out the smoke alarm thing. It's in SO. MANY. tiktoks and I'm like OMG how can so many people not know about changing their smoke alarm batteries???

[@phil6748]

Oh boy, he was being railed raw on my timeline by every gender. I don’t like to rail on short men but sometimes… Oh let’s not forget he’s dating a minor.

[@LeeraChan]

love how this dude rages about how he hates that the women he dates always ask him to provide for him and buy them stuff, but then it turns out that he dates minors/barely legal girls who probably are still and school and literally still need someone to provide for them. Like. Dude, the solution would be to go after adult women you know.

[@borednerd5767]

"being submissive isnt bad" yes i agree anyone can be anything "its inherently feminine thats why i cant be submissive" ah. i see. so it IS bad for a man to be submissive. i see.

[@newhopeelena]

this just makes me want to quit social media even more and live off the grid but i love Kuncan's youtube videos way too much for that to happen

[@sophisocynical]

someone called him "submissive and breedable" once and he had a mid life crisis

[@juliadandy6019]

Ah, nothing says "I'm dominant" more than saying it, really shows a lot of confidence and power

[@jaerae8144]

He's "dominant" over what? The imaginary women in his life? 😂😂

[@happythredz]

literally AHAHAHA

[@franz3810]

ok you killed me hahahahah

[@rVnsunshine]

My favorite thing is when men like this make fun of other men for respecting women as people. They’ll say “who are you trying to impress bro?” …….. the… the women? Like it’s so funny because even if male feminists were only doing this to pick up girls, isn’t that what misogynists would want? What do these guys want them to do? “Oh yeah bro sorry you’re right women are stupid and deserve no rights” ??? Lol men like this are vying so hard for male attention and don’t even realize it… is it really a surprise they all hate women

[@morganvording1036]

I find that, when it comes to dealing with pain, people usually fall into one of two methods of thinking: the 'I had to deal with it, so you have to, too' and the 'I had to deal with it, so I don't want you to deal with it, too'. When a person who happens to be part of a marginalized group (or even a person who isn't) hurts you, you can decide whether you will become defensive of yourself by attacking that person and the group that they are a part of, or you can act against the societal structures and institutions that predisposed that person to pain, that pain possibly being the reason they hurt you (aka, they chose the first option that I described). Of course, the second option only occurs when the problem is more serious than 'a woman broke up with me because she didn't like me,' and marginalization actually plays a role in the problem. I think that this is a big difference between marginalization and activism, and the reason why people don't always choose activism is simplicity: it's easier to blame the individual, as well as the groups that they obviously belong to, than abstract notions such as structures that might be ingrained in you. Idk if this made any sense, and this is also just a theory, so I would love to hear anyone's thoughts. :)

[@morganvording1036]

I forgor to say that Nate sent me, thank you so much Nate!

[@sunnyandthechlo]

I agree, it's a cycle and you can choose to keep feeding into it, or stop it. You can choose to just keep going with what you know and lashing out because you are hurt, or look inwardly at yourself to see if there is something you can change in your own mindset. It's tough but the outcome can be so worth it. Unfortunately a lot of people don't want to do the work, don't want to turn the mirror on themselves and I think it's because they don't want to see their own insecurities.

[@matrixodlum4969]

9:10 women want EQUILITY. i will always fight for equility. equility is so important. i think everyone is equil

[@erikkison]

Equality is like communism. It sounds good on paper and we want to strive for equality, but in practice equality never works because we are not robots who can do a job as well as the next robot. We all want to out smart one another. We want to prove we are right.

[@matrixodlum4969]

@@erikkison looks like someone completely missed the point! anyway u spelled equility wrong

[@internationalfailure9997]

"Let me get this straight, women want equality? I'm the queen" is unintentionally funny

[@fredos8170]

i'm so happy to see men talking about these topics with the intention to learn about misogyny, thank you so much ✨ it gives me hope

[@alexismercer3965]

It was also proven that he preferred the age group of women to be 18-21 because they "have less baggage" and have been "ran through less" garbage garbage human

[@friendly_exists8004]

I feel like these "Alpha males" never been in real love, like if you ACTUALLY love a woman you would act diffirently and respectful towards her. Same goes for women, if women love someone they will do the same. Atleast i hope

[@tianasao]

My brain is tired of this nonsense it really doesn't take that much to change your damn smoke detector's battery, what happened to being the breadwinner

[@swing4027]

There's so many of these types of men, I've encountered them in the wild IRL and there are even more online and they all seem to be the exact same people. I've just started tuning them out as soon as they start spouting their "alpha male" "dominant" "girls dont like nice guys!" catchphrases (phenomenal video as always btw duncan!)

[@cupcakkerares]

I haven’t finished the video but I REALLY like the idea of paying for each others food on a date. Like I find it really cute. You buy your dates food and they buy yours. But I’m gay so idk if it’s different. I just think it’s a nice equality from time to time.

[@komu..]

oh wowwwww men giving advice to woman about their attractiveness ohhhh waoooo No but really can they stop really, i don’t do things that make others attractive, i do things that make me FEEL attractive for myself, and men giving advice to woman about that really rubs me the wrong way Sorry, English is not my first language

[@emy747_inc.6]

I like submissive men more then dominate men edit: i regret commenting this i might delete it

[@daydreaminie2683]

Sounding very submissive.. and breedab-

[@rini9325]

@@daydreaminie2683 **ahem** you mean submitted and readable?

[@daydreaminie2683]

@@rini9325 ah yes.. ehe.. stupid autocorrect:[

[@somabalestra1131]

Why delete?

[@anna_banana414]

cheesecake and duncan dissecting alpha male mindsets? what a great way to spend my time ✨

[@rebeckaandersson9306]

It is in fact a curtain but without a curtain rod. I can’t put into words how disturbing this is to me.

[@ADHDandD]

Tis' heresy of the highest order

[@anna_banana414]

how is it even being held???

[@rebeckaandersson9306]

@@anna_banana414 My guess? Stapled to the wall. My theory as to why there’s no curtain rod? He’s threatened by having another rod in his apartment.

[@rebeckaandersson9306]

@@beigeturtleneck7511 Oh my god, you’re right.

[@lailaabdullah1571]

The way this guy keeps affirming that he is not and cannot be submissive makes me think that he's just trying to convince himself and secretly wants to be pegged sooo bad

[@crystalcoleman1985]

My husband is in rehab and almost died due an accident. According to the Incels, I am waiting on the life insurance. Nope. I advocated for his health, and he is on the road to recovery! When I said, “in sickness and in health”, I meant it! I was a pain in the butt to the nurses and doctors making sure he had the best of care. Seventeen years as a couple; sixteen years married, I fought like hell to get him the best of care.

[@carlotta3104]

I hate the thought that some teenage girls see how many views this guy gets and are influenced by the bullshit he spreads. I could get so mad at this man child but as you said, none of us are gonna change his mind. So I think you already did the best thing anyone can do to counteract his misogynie: break down why he's wrong and offer an alternative. Thanks for the very good video, Kunc

[@staszewaM]

It's mostly guys who are 'influenced' by this sort of content, although you are right- some girls will see that and think that they have to be a certain way to appeal to guys, which in a way creates a chamber reinforcing or somewhat creating the reality of the stereotypes he's spitting. Fortunately, he was getting hundreds of thousands of views while only few hundred likes at most; most people saw through his bs.

[@cupcakewithouttheicing]

Duncan: "a while ago" Screenshot: "two weeks ago" bestie, no. you're already back in the rabbit hole 😭 Also, 2:35, 10/10 joke

[@anoni6108]

Oedipus called he wants his complex back Yes commenting for the algo :^) I'm a kuncan pusher

[@rVnsunshine]

Also, every man who has ever insisted on paying after I asked to split the bill, has been abusive and expected something (🙄) in return, and then if/when I refused, “coincidentally” brought up how they paid xyz.

[@Sarablueunicorn]

I'll tell you something. I lived in China and i went on multiple dinner dates with asian men, they always wanted to pay the bill, they would even be sneaky and pretend to go to the toilet and pay in advance because they were afraid that me a western white woman would insist in paying or splitting. Were some of these men interested in sex, yes! But they never throw at my face that they had pay for this and that, they would count their losses and move on. As I'm back in Europe, i realized how lazy and disgusting men act in dating apps, and after 1 year i agreed on a date in a public space not far from where i live (only 1 dude was up to it), he paid some meat buns and I paid drinks after. I have to mention that my bun was 6 euros and the wine was 3 euros, so in total he spent 3 euros (4 dollars) worth of a piece of bread. Later on he asked me to come over to have lunch at his place (i had made clear i wasnt up for casual sex or meet men at their places) when i declined he not so subtly told me "I paid your bun". Thing is even if i hadn't spent a cent with he would still feel entitled to request for sex, probably he would say "i spent my time walking with you". It really doesn't matter. If a man sees you as a sperm deposit he won't change this view because he paid or not for dates. If you agree in providing sexual services for free he will see you as a free wh*re', if you agree in providing sexual services after having him investing he will see you as a high value "wh*re". That's it.

[@wizz2081]

"Not to interrupt the community theatre going on here" DUNCANN 💀

[@blue-dabad33]

every day I'm amazed how so many men who claim to be straight hate women so much??? like i thought the whole point was to like women?

[@nexothepianist4337]

I feel like these kind of guys on TikTok just got heartbroken and try to convince themselves that it's not their fault

[@TheSilverphoenix88]

A true man does not feel threatened by a woman. He values her as his equal and not a competition he is lazy and entitled to dominate

[@anagogic1748]

I think a big problem with these,, you're not my mom, you don't deserve my love" men is sometimes the fact that their moms make idiots out of them, in the following way: a mother has a son, she may or may not have a daughter or two, but a son is valued more. Daughters are always forced to learn the ways of the household, cooking, cleaning, responsibilities, often if the daughter is the older sibling she is tasked with taking care of her younger brother or other siblings. The son is never tasked with this, either because he is younger or the mere fact he is a son so he isn't expected to be a caregiver other than money. The mother thus dotes and spoils her son, where he gets the message a woman is beneath him, (except for mom, ofc), doing chores is beneath him and he needs to be taken care of. Call this a hot take or an unpopular opinion, I think all human beings, regardless of gender identification should learn how to run a damn household, how to feed themselves and make food, how to clean, how to fix minor problems, because when you grow up, nobody will be expected to do those things for you. I know some people in the comments will say, oh don't blame the moms, it's the patriarchy, I agree, but SOME MOTHERS shouldn't further fuel the patriarchy by treating their daughters like shit for being born first or with a vagina, and should focus on inspiring change and equality as parents and people responsible directly for a new generation. I grew up in a family where both on my mom's and dad's side their moms made fools out of their younger sons, my uncle and my father are very juvenile in their ways of thinking and expect their sisters to take care of things, where moms berated and treated my mom and aunt like shit, but gave all their love to the sons. If there are any mothers of sons reading these, love your son, but please don't make a fool out of him by teaching him that the love and worth of a woman is only measurable in how obedient and serving she is. Please teach them to be wise and kind, to know how to cook and clean after themselves and to not be like the dude from tik tok.

[@bluedragon5320]

I agree sometimes I feel like I'm a bird in a cage and they won't let me out of the house just cuz I'm a woman. I'm 20 but still they tell me how to live

[@siahenderson1490]

Men and some women need to realize.. feminism doesn't mean "F, men I hate men" it means.. "F it. I'll do it myself"

[@karleigh8508]

this dude: i’m DOMINANT!!!1!1😤 i’m an alpha MALE also him: you will NEVER be my queen you narcissist

[@mal992]

no because i’m only 2 minutes into this but i already know this video is gonna be so good 🕺thank you for talking about this, shit like this is so harmful!!

[@lilylarson1474]

I love your profile picture

[@mal992]

@@lilylarson1474 HAHA THANK U I JUST CHANGED IT BUT WE LOVE LOKI IN THIS HOUSE!😏

[@lilylarson1474]

@@mal992 you’re welcome, yesss 🙏 I’ve had the same Loki pfp for a while

[@Fillo.]

He literally gives the same vibes as the homophobic classmate that is gay but won't accept it

[@Takeasec]

Umm, maybe it’s called being equals in a relationship? Why can’t they just love their partner, BE PARTNERS. Geez.

[@morganlefae267]

Well folks, it's official. He's not only full of nonsense, but he's also a creep. I love how he's telling women how to act, yet clearly prefers children. That does make sense though. He apparently doesn't want to be boyfriend or husband, he wants to be daddy. Jesus.

[@carlyeliza5222]

“Why don’t you drive your Ford Mustang down to the malt shop and buy a milkshake for a nickel” lmaooo 😂😂 I had to replay that part three times. Adding that one to my repertoire

[@anna_banana414]

posted only 5 minutes ago and there’s already a dislike?? no one could’ve even finished the video yet lmfao 😭 these “spot the angry “alpha” male” games are getting easier and easier these days

[@bigfiach1052]

most underrated youtuber

[@missantrafalgar782]

As a person who considers themselves in a stable relationship. You would have to be suffering from some major insecurities in your masculinity or femininity to listen to guys like this. I am not perfect, my relationship is not perfect but these advice channels or the worst and it's always the wrong type of single people talking about relationships.

[@MissKashira]

Submissive women reject him because it takes less than five minutes for them to realize submitting to this man would be a death sentence. No one wants to be vulnerable in an unsafe environment and does this guy seem like the type of person who could keep you safe? He can't even keep the window in his mama's basement safe with actual curtains.

[@foodeaterwaterdrinker]

mr dominant alpha male doesn't know how to put up a curtain

[@Tiny_Koi]

This is the funniest roast I've ever seen.

[@vihansubramaniam3593]

This guy claims to have gone through many girls, has he realized that maybe the problem is him?

[@aven7580]

not maybe, definetly

[@anweshadash4327]

"Bullshit calling" had me dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@madameklowny2654]

this "alpha male" reminds me of my ex. He deep down hated women, was a coddled wittle mommy's boy, and always chased underaged girls in vampire aesthetics. What sent up a huge red flag was when he complained that women called him a narcissist... because that's exactly what he is. Hate to go off on a tangent but.... dudes like him are just ass hats.

[@justchilling7712]

If you need your partner to lack a sense of self worth in order for them to be with you, you don’t deserve a partner in the first place.

[@juliafrease282]

Ah yes, alpha males on TikTok that think that they are better than the gender who gave birth to them. (He’s probably a mommas boy which is super ironic)

[@RachCan]

This dude is so fucking awful but also EQUILITY ⁉️⁉️⁉️ is making me laugh SO hard

[@davidnissim589]

He was later exposed for dating a minor (he's 24/25), which really isn't surprising given all the stuff he's said. I'm surprised more people aren't talking about that.

[@bureksapecurkama]

3:57 he's not submissive. He is submissive and breedable.