क्या माता-पिता के खिलाफ जाना गलत है ? | Love, Career & Parents | By Anubhav Jain

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ज़िन्दगी में सबसे ज़रूरी दो लोग हमारे माता पिता ही क्यों होते हैं ?
माता पिता हमें पाल पोस कर बड़ा करते हैं, इतना प्यार करते हैं, तो क्या उन्हें गलत मानना या उनकी बात पर अमल ना करना एक अपराध है ?
अगर माँ बाप ही हमें त्याग दें तो क्या करना चाहिए ?
अपनी ज़िन्दगी बर्बाद कर के माँ बाप की इच्छाएं पूरी करना सही है ?
माता पिता को समझाना और समझने के लिए वक़्त देना कितना ज़रूरी है?
इन सब महत्वपूर्ण सवालों का जवाब जाने इस वीडियो के माध्यम से।

[@sanchitasingh2216]

Regarding Parents, I love my father the most,whom I lost during Intermediate cbse. Done arranged marriage during job on recommendation of Chachaji .Brother is in Gujarat. I am in Noida. Life is full of love. I felt empathy for everyone, God returned so much success and son is doing extremely well in his teenage. I am guardian of my younger sister. Took charge of her love marriage and protected her from social evils. The reason for liking Anubhav Sir's content is His MATURE PERSPECTIVE TOWARDS MANKIND.

[@AnubhavJain]

Happy and inspired after knowing about your life. God bless you :)

[@unikeassy]

Meri saadi marji k khilaf ho rahi h wo bhi humse 12saal bara admi se wo bhi paiso k liye uske pass sarkari job h aur bahut Sara Jamin h isliye main sabko bol diya larka pasand nai h fir v jabardasti mera saadi karwana chahte h Mai 23 ki hu AVI wo larka SSC CGL ka job krta h kyq kare bahut depression me hu Puri life barbaad si ho gayi h wo larka se saadi se phele na dekhane ka rasm h na baat karne ka lekin kisi trah Mai us larka ka number le kar usko msg kiye aur puche apkq age kya h itni choti baat k liye wo Apne family ko Bata diya ki larki call ki h aur papa ki bula kar bahut bazati Kiya uska father aur firv saadi nai tora humse

[@unikeassy]

Koi rasta hi nai bacha agar koi suggest karna chahte h toh plz kigiye

[@poojatiwari3644]

@@unikeassy kya aap arranged marriage hi Krna chahte ho,ya phir koi h jisse aap marriage Krna chahte ho,agar aap kisi or ko chahte ho or wo bhi aapko to aap ghar me sabko bta do sach.

[@rinkigupta3538]

@@unikeassy आप घर मे ही समझा सकती हैं कि मैं नही करूंगी आप लोग जानो आपका काम जाने ...आप अपने पर अडिग रहिए ,मुझे नही करना है बस घर वाले भी अजीब होते है उनके लिए रिश्ते जोड़ने से मतलब होता हैं उस रिश्ते से उनके बच्चे खुश है या नही इस पर ध्यान बिल्कुल नही देते ...बस खुद से मुक्ति मिल जाये आप भाड़ में जाये ...कल को कुछ होता भी हैं तो उसे आपकी किस्मत बताकर खुद किनारा कर लेते है बहुत तकलीफ होती ऐसी सोच से

[@vishalthakur3944]

"Maa baap hamare bohot Kuch Hain lekin Sab kuch Nahi hai" This line deserves infinite likes.👍

[@Loootaddda]

Maa baap hame samjhe to hame bhi haq hai unhe samajhne ka but agar maa baap hame na samjhe to haq hai hame bhi na samajhne ka Maa baap hamesa mahan hai hamari jindgi hai hame jina hai to faisle bhi hame hi lene honge

[@Loootaddda]

@Rupali Soni thanks but kaas har bacche aur har maa baap yeh baat samajh pate 😔😔😞🙁😏😞😢😌😌😥😕

[@shivshakti78]

true

[@shibanimeher6278]

Rytji

[@digeshnetam7931]

right

[@sacreations3994]

Duniya selfish h....Maa baap bhi bure wqt me bojh samjhte h....Jo kamata h ghr me bs uski izzat krte h....Bhale to care na kre...But jo struggle kr rha....Care bhi kr rha ...Uski koi value nhi h....Aye din suna suna kr paka dete h.....Samaj samaj krke na jane kya kya bol jate h...........Kash aap jesi thinking sbki hoti,to ajj ko depressed na hota .........Thanks bhayi♥️🙏😊

[@lovelykumari4438]

Same mere sath bhi aisa ho rha 😐

[@komalingle8687]

sahi he 😔

[@komalkumari2722]

Same mere saath

[@user-bb8eu7ty4s]

हां यही मेरी भी समस्या है

[@aashutyagi3273]

True

[@AnubhavJain]

दोस्तों मैं खुद अपने माता पिता को जीवन में बहुत ऊंचा दर्जा देता हूँ मगर कहीं बार माता पिता नहीं समझ पाते की उनके एक गलत निर्णय से उनके बच्चे की ज़िन्दगी बर्बाद हो सकती है, ऐसे में हमें अपने जीवन के लिए कठिन निर्णय अकेले ही लेने पड़ते हैं , और माता पिता के खिलाफ भी जाना पड़ता है, परन्तु हमेशा अपने माता पिता को ये समझाएं की हो सकता है की वो नाराज़ होकर आपको त्याग दें पर आप उनके लिए हमेशा खड़े हो और उनकी एक आवाज़ पर जहां भी होंगे चले आओगे।

[@sachinjangdeofficialmusic5087]

बहुत बड़ी depression में जीते हैं किसको चुने करके😭😭😭😭😭

[@ramandeepkaur15]

Sir mere life m ye hi time chl rha h mom bole h. Nikl jaa es ghr sey bahar m kya kro abh presuree

[@kanikaarora1981]

@@ramandeepkaur15 kyu ni smjte mumma papa hm hr roj mrege agr kisi or se shadi krle to

[@user-rf9vc5jy8v]

Love you sir Thankyou so much

[@priyankakushwaha3367]

Right sir

[@poonamshukla7043]

बहुत से माता पिता,ऐसे गलत निर्णय लेते हैं कि बच्चे की पूरी जिंदगी ही डिस्टर्ब हो जाती है।और जीवनभर सिर्फ वो रोता रहता है,अपनी बिगड़ी लाइफ को लेकर

[@tanyakhan5485]

Same 😢

[@Jbf_academy_lkbhartisir_lkbsir]

Hm bhi

[@Arhan__GAMING-r1x]

Sahi

[@targetpointclasses34]

Bulkur shi hl bar mata pita shi nhi hote vo kbi kbi apni echao ko pura krne ke liye bacho ka sahara lete he

[@NehavarunRaghav]

Bilkul galt karmo par life likhi hoti hai love marriage mai 100% mai se 90% pareshan hojate hai but arrange marriage mai 100% mai se 10% hi pareshan hote hai time ata hai jata hai esha kuch nhi hota jo paida hote hi handicapped hota hai ushme bhi maa baap ki galti hoti hai vo bhi apni life khusi se jite hai

[@meenukaltagdia6757]

Na to parents shaddi krne dete h na marne dete h bss gut gut k jeete rho vo sirf ye chahte h bss vo apni marzi se shaddi karvana chahte h or agar vo glt nikla to vo hamari kismat ....na khud pyar dete h na dusro ko dene dete h Unko bss duniya ko dikhava krna h

[@Deepanjali210]

Right

[@ShrutiDerma]

very very true

[@tanvirkaur1278]

True 🥺

[@_butter1022]

Ryt di

[@actorseemab]

Right bro

[@thatbonggirl3897]

'Maa baap bohot kuch hai but sab kuch nhi hai'... I salute your bold personality 👍

[@sudeepmallick2721]

Mere liye mere maa baap hi sab kuch hai , wo jaisa chahenge waisa hi krrta hu mei ,,, tum jaise logo ki taraf nhi hu , maa baap kabhi bhi bura nhi chate apne baccho ka

[@user-bb8eu7ty4s]

मां बाप ऐसे दो इंसान है जो कि बच्चो की जिंदगी बिगाड़ भी सकते हैं और बना भी सकते हैं

[@Aye998]

Mere jivan bigar diye hai

[@surajsamad319]

Maa baap ka baat maanke mera to life hi jhand hogaya hai

[@bajrangitv12]

Maa baap humesa sahi nhi hote, humesa mere husband ki life control karte h, or muuje pitaai karwa dete h

[@inspectorujala494]

@@Aye998 mere bhi

[@shidhanshupatel1307]

Right

[@SonuKumar-vj6zs]

KZbin pr ap first person ho jo proper solution dete h problems k

[@anju-dharavishesh4134]

Ekdm correct... Mujhe 1 vedio ne 1 bre trap.. Dellima se bahar nikal dia Sir ne

[@savitrinair8027]

Bilkul sahi. There is a lot of difference between giving respect and living with those parents who do lot of blackmailing by being emotional and making their children scare saying if you don't do this you will not get what you want etc... Parents are our well wishers that doesn't mean we are slaves of them. Well said. Well experienced. But luckily i and my husband is very strong to go away from my inlaws to make them realise our worth. Today we are a successful married couples and doing well in our career too.

[@sakshigupta1331]

Really thnq from bottom of my heart 🙏🙏.....I am facing the same situation in my life from last 4 months....but sir now your words inspirate me to take stand for life.... because life is totally your ....you have to go through every situation of your life alone....thanks a lot sir u help many of people...I wish God give U a very healthy and prosperous life ....

[@jbstudypoint]

बहुत ही अच्छा समझाया है आपने सर, धन्यवाद, ज्यादातर सभी के साथ ऐसा होता है, कुछ जिंदगी भर रोते रहते हैं माता पिता की बात मानकर कुछ खिलाफ जाकर अपनी जिंदगी खुश तरीके से जीते हैं बाद में माता पिता मान जाते हैं

[@prachetagarg6418]

बहुत ही प्रशंसनीय बात-मां बाप मालिक नहीं है ना ही हम उनके नौकर हैं।

[@commonmanindian4339]

मां बाप बच्चों के नोकर होते हैं । उनके बचपन से लेकर बडे होने तक ? 😇🤔🙄

[@NeerajKumar-rn8ji]

Mere Mata pita mere sabse bade Dusman he

[@reddiamondcoachingbymintub6949]

@@NeerajKumar-rn8ji kya kiya ...?

[@pallavigupta2934]

​@@commonmanindian4339 नहीं होते किसी को पालना तो माता-पिता का कर्तव्य हैं लेकिन बात यहां पर पालने की नही ब्लकि जीवन की आजादी छीनने की हो रही है

[@mausamsingh1816]

जबरदस्त भैया कितना सुन्दर बात समझाते हैं आप मां बाप हमारे लिए बहुत कुछ है मगर भगवान नहीं है सही कहा आपने आप सचमुच एक महान इंसान हो आप एक दिन दुनिया की सोच बदल दैगे मुझे आप पर विश्वास है आप बहुत समझदार है मुझे आपका हर एक वीडियो बहुत ज्ञानवरधक लगता है

[@esaniesu9937]

Mere parents to hamesha yhi khte hai hamare Ghar ki ijjat bachaye rkhna ye sentence sunsunkr thak gayi hu lekin yhi shochti hu jb tk life me success nhi ho jati hr kast tane sahungi aapke vidio mujhe smhlne me bahut help krte hai god aapko hamesha khush rkhe bhai ji

[@livelovelaugh220]

Now parents agree?

[@MeriMaa-yc5yo]

Same

[@kapildagur4425]

Jo bhi log comments kr rhe hai vo sb kuch chhodkr sirf apne carrier pr dhiyan do sir please kyuki ye to sach hai ki abhi bhi time hai koi apka sath de ya na de time apko jarur kamyab bna dega bs apne cartier pr focus kro faltu ki bato pr nhi meri bat se kon kon सहमत हैं

[@sonli93]

Aap jaisa parents hone se bache kabi duk nh honge bhaiya..

[@AnubhavJain]

Kaash :)

[@tubeshoot4519]

😰😭😭😭😭

[@pushpasharma4897]

@@AnubhavJain bhai plzz bahut jaruri bat karni hai apse 😭😭😭😭

[@aadityasharma3747]

Parents kse bhi ho vo apne ko is duniya me laate h

[@subhankardasvlogs6794]

Mera maa bap kabhi muzhe samjhe hi nahi I fell depressed due to my parents bcz usne muzhe sare jagah ko insert karaya

[@nainarathore9826]

Aapka jesa insaan shayd bhagwan se km nhi.. aapko koti koti pranam. 🙏🙏 Aapne jo baate kahi wo sb sch hai meri life me.. parents , smaj , rishtedar sb k liye hme apna pyar ko chhodna pd rha hai...

[@rocky-mu9sk]

सर उनका हक है गाली दे मारे लेकिन भेदभाव करते हैं न तो इतना दुख होता है की बता नही सकता मैं हर कोशिश करता हु की उनको अच्छा महसूस करा पाउ लेकिन वो हर बार मेरे को छोटी नजर से देखते हैं, बचपन से ही 😢😢😢😢 और मेरे छोटे भाई को हमेशा प्यार सम्मान, सब कुछ मिलता है

[@rajkishor8487]

Mere sath bhi Aisa hi hota hai

[@nishabharti8677]

Mai to mummy se humesha jhagda karti hu kyuki wo meri chhoti bahan ko bahot pyaar karte hai

[@user-my2kz8gw2e]

मेरे साथ भी ऐसा ही है में बड़ी हु मेरी शादी नही हुई छोटी की शादी हुई उसके दो बच्चे है मां बाप कहते है तू छोटी बहन से जलती है जरा सा कुछ बोलो तो बहन ससुराल चली जाऊंगी धमकी देती है और फिर में डांट खाती हू की तेरी वजह से हमारी बेटी चली जायेगी

[@mylife-es1tr]

Mere sath bhi esa hota hai😢

[@amitpraste8573]

भाई यह मेरे साथ भी होता है बड़ा लड़का हो ना मेरी जिंदगी में सबसे बड़ी मुसीबत है

[@pawanbhairewari]

Bhut badiya video ... Sab loog bolte ha parent ache hote ha but real main asa nhi hota . maa baap bhut fark karte ha jab unke 2 bacche hote ha. Mere parent muje bhut parshaan karte ha. Aur mere bhai ko bhut pyar.

[@ALPESHBARSAGADE]

Sahi kaha 😢😢

[@mad_in_2020]

Going against Parents is not alway wrong. Sometimes you want to be different because your family is Dysfunctional and Toxic. But if you try to not tolerate their drama then be ready to face emotional threats.

[@juhisingh4523]

Main ye sab face kar ri hu approx 1 year se ... kabhi kabhi kuch zada hi hurt bhi ho jati hu lekin fir khud ko Sambhal bhi leti hu

[@ishant944]

​@@juhisingh4523try to be self dependent first ASAP. Then try to make them understand u. If they dont then its just ego & never try to compromise with it. We have a lot of people who care about us but in reality there is just one person who truly care about u and that person is u. Never lose yourself for the sake of others. ❤ Be confident in urself and stay strong 💪

[@juhisingh4523]

@@ishant944 i am already trying to be independent ..and somewhere in my heart there's a little hope.. ki ek baar main independent aur successful ho jau to sab thik bhi ho jayega🙂🙂

[@ishant944]

@@juhisingh4523 i'm happy that u are trying. Efforts matter a lot. And even if no one understands u its better to live by yourself rather than live with them & hate them every day. If u are by yourself at least u wont hate them. Just tell them that u love them and will always be there for them if they ever need you. But you dont agree with their thinking so u wont follow it.

[@krox477]

Most Indian families Are Dysfunctional

[@milinparihar9874]

Every parents should be like you With friendly and understanding behaviour... Love you sir...❤️

[@SukhrajKaur-jm7zd]

Thank god !!!Bohttttt relief mila aapki baate sun k wrna mujhe to lg raha tha k maa baap hmesha sahi hote hm hi galt Hote h.. thank you sir🙏🏼

[@AhmadAfaque]

Jo bache chahte hain ki wo Apni marzi ke Malik ban jayen phir wahi Jab khud maa Baap bante hain to apne bachon pr limitations lagate hain.. Ye dohri mansikta nhi to or kya hai?

[@PrashantSharma-es3mx]

Sahi h jaruri nahi ki maa bap humesha sahi ho , maa baap galat bhi hote hai , kyunki esa hi hota hai jab yadi bete beti apni pasand ke ladke ladki se shadi karna chahte hai par jo maa bap hote h wo itna against ho jate hai ki unme or dushman main koi antar nahi hota hai

[@anandsaini1842]

Aapki videos se kaafi logo ko shi direction mil skti h jo decision lene m ghabra rhe h.....ya unko ye smjh m nhi a rha ki esi situations ko kse handle kre... You are a bold speaker sir🙌✨

[@yuribhargave8630]

I Really appreciate how boldly you gave the answer to this now i think i know what to do thank you for helping me to choose right path ❤

[@ajitgaikwad5201]

Thank u so much sir, muze bhi ghar se nikal diya hai 2 saal hue lekin me bhi ghar nhi gaya, jab ma baap ko pareshani hoti hai hospitalized hote hai tab sab chod ke unke pass chala jata hu unko achha lage ya na lage... Kyo ki mene meri marzi se shadi ki hai..samaj ke dar se hamari shadi ke against the but jo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai.. Khud ke pair pr khade kaise hote hai 1/1 choti si choti cheez le ke khud ka ghar kaise chalaya jata hai sab experience ata hai or bahot kuch sikhane ko milta hai..

[@AnubhavJain]

Bhai tumne saabit Kiya hai ki ek mazboot aur accha insaan kaisa hota hai, apna farz bhi nibhate ho aur apne decision ke saath bhi khade ho, bhagwan tumhe hamesha khush rakhe

[@user-qi9rg5eo6b]

Your video taught me a lot today.. 90% logo bhut jaldi judge Kar lete hai agar parent's or children's m controversy ho gaya hai to children's hi hamesha rong honge ''parents are always right in the eyes of society ,, isliye kai youngest alone rahne lagte hai kai or pyaar dhudne lagte hai Kuch drugs ka sahara lete hai parents ko bhi samjhna chahaiye unh ke sabhi decisions right nahi ho sakte

[@dimplebairagi8556]

मेरे मम्मी पापा मुझे ऐसा फील करवाते है की तू हमेशा तेरी मर्जी चलाएगी तो बहुत रोएगी हमारी बद्दुआ है तू कभी खुश नही रहेगी अगर हमारी बात मानेगी तो खुश रहेगी

[@annuuuu6662]

Aise badhuwa mere vi papa krte hai

[@MehwishKhan-h5x]

Mere to ye bhi ni kahte hmari bt manegi to shi rhegi hmesha baddua ulta seedha neend bhi haram krke rkhi hui h meri

[@madanbaberwal2419]

Truth

[@anthemoftheheart5928]

Sahi he yr

[@MeriMaa-yc5yo]

Same sister 3 sal se kaid hu sister please hmse bat kriye

[@PramilaRana_]

100% sahi baat mata pita ke emotional blackmailing se kai bar bacho ki jindgi narak ho jati hai mata pita ko ehsaas bhi nahi ho pata ki unhone kya Kiya hai

[@twinklekushwaha8345]

Sir ki ek video to viral hona hi chahiye ki har Ghar me , sabhi maa baap us video ko dekhe, Sahi kaha na 👍🏻

[@J--H--M]

Yes 100%

[@gameplayshivam3473]

Ha tabhi parents samjhege

[@poonambai5392]

TV pe jse add ati h wse sir ki lecturs ki add ani chhiye taki serial movie dekte time maa baap dekr 😄

[@dimplebairagi8556]

राइट

[@anjalivimal7044]

My parents do not love me .. always keep venting their anger on me.🥺😞😞

[@beastmotoz]

Why ? What do they say and for what reason

[@whatsaapdata3463]

I m with u

[@bhaktisadhnachhanel1976]

Same here

[@aakashjain2207]

@@bhaktisadhnachhanel1976 yaaa same 😭😭

[@pallavim7870]

My mum also😣

[@shivshaktiss5116]

Sir AAP hame jine ki rah dikhate hai , kash aapke jaise ye poore log ho jaye to koi bhi dhukhi na ho , AAP bhut achchhe hai sir

[@StudyHub588]

Sir ap ka ye vedio dekh kr mujhe thodi Shanti Mili... At this time me bahut hi pareshan hun kuch nhi samjh AA Raha ki kya krun...

[@sushmasingh8201]

Sir,really appreciate,,,maine apne ghr walo ko ek saal se mana rhi hu,,,pr vo ni maan rhe h,jabarjasti shadi Tay kr diye h,,is 1 saal ke andar unhone mentally ar physically bht torcher kiya h,,kai baar hath uthae h,mera mn suicide krne ka v kr diya tha aisi situation la diye the ki jb v hath uthate tb mai poison dhundhne lgti,agr us waqt mil gya rhta to aaj msg type ni kr rhi hoti,,meri ma to aise bolti h ki kha lo na jaher ya fassi lga jao ,lekin isi ghr me maro bahar jake ni marna h,,mere papa.ko ulta sidha smjha ke unse v hath uthwa di mere upar,,bht mental pressure se gujri hu,,hr tarah se smjha ke dekh liya pr ni maan rhe,ab aapka video dekh ke decision le liya h kya krna h,,sundar sakal dekh ke to hr koi shadi krna chahta h pr jb aapki kmi jante hue aapse shadi krne ko ready ho usse behtar ar kuch ni h,,,,mjhe skin disease h pr vo ldka ko koi dikkat ni h,,usne mjhse kha ki phle hm india ke dr se aapko dikhaenge thik ni hoga to abroad dikhaenge,,ar maine jb ma baap se bola ki aap jo rista dhundh rhe h usko meri problem btaiyega to ni bta rhe h,,,inko dar h ki khi ni hoga btane pr,,,phr mai q us ldke se shadi na kru ar apne parents ke hisab se kru

[@believer3017]

Sir Bachhe smjh aane k sath hi adult hone tk apne parents ki bhut inzzat krte aaye hai ..unke har decision ki respect krte aye hai .....just because apne career or future ko bnane mei unke decision unke smjh or experience se hume sahi guidance milegi unki thinking ki respect krte aye hai...par kai bar mostly parents ki thinking specially in girls case ek chiz par atak jati hai shadi.....agar kuch express kiya jaye ya apni life ko lekr career goals ko lekr friends ko lekr fir usse parents apne ego par apni respect par lekr girls se ek hi bat bolte hai hogyi pdhai 1-2 saal or krlo fir shadi krao ..uske bad khush rhna ya dukhi ghumna firna jo krna kr lena ......I observe these things or fir hum itni mehnat krke pdha rhe likha rhe sb tumhari khushi k liye din rat ek kar rhe ...aise cases par parents kai bar bachho k aage apne apko victim bnakar bachho ko yh jtane ki koshish krte ki unhone unko desrespect kiya hai jabki aisa nahi hota. Sir aise cases mei jab koi bachha mature hai adult hai par abhi financially independent nahi hai ek bde ambition ko lekr chal rha hai par aise emotionally bhut tut jata hai sunkr then how to deal with parents or consult them??Please try to make a video on it specially for girls. Thank you so much You are doing great work, this is called actual social service and I am sure this will lead to a huge social reform what our society needs the most in present time. GOD BLESS YOU SIR.

[@dollusingh426]

Same problem nd very stressed

[@krox477]

Bro most Indian parents consider their children as retirement plans

[@anju-dharavishesh4134]

Yes Sir.. I really admire your guidance.. Aap bhut clearly situation ko deal krne ka rasta dikhate h.

[@deepshortvideos6978]

Ghr ki sari property ldko k name or ghr ki izzt ldkiyo k hath me unki koi life nhi hoti kya

[@Dearenglish8]

Kya baat kahii

[@MeenuSharma-yz6xg]

Kya bat khi h..mam... sacchi h...prr is bat pr maa bap keh ge..tera ghr ye ni agla h

[@theemailid5020]

Very well said deepika... Bhenchod sale fuddu Indian society.. Paisa property dene ke waqt ladka dikhayi deta hai aur izzat izzat karke Ladkio ki zindagi jhand bana dete hain

[@komalkumari2722]

Sahi bol rahe ho ap

[@banisharma175]

Ryt deepika

[@jaswindertiwana2973]

ਉਹ ਵੀਰ ਜੀ ਤੁਹਾਡੀ ਗੱਲ ਨਾਲ ਸਹਿਮਤ ਹਾਂ ਪਰ ਕੁਝ ਗੱਲਾਂ ਏਦਾਂ ਦੀਆਂ ਹੋ ਜਾਂਦੀਆਂ ਹਨ ਕਿ ਮਾਪਿਆਂ ਦੀ ਉਮਰਾਂ ਦੀ ਕੀਤੀ ਕਮਾਈ ਬੱਚੇ ਪਿਆਰ ਵਿੱਚ ਲੁਟਾ ਦਿੰਦੇ ਹਨ ਪਰ ਰਿਸ਼ਤੇ ਫਿਰ ਵੀ ਨਿਭਦੇ ਨਹੀਂ ਜਾਂ ਤਾਂ ਇਹ ਹੋਣਾ ਚਾਹੀਦਾ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਬੱਚੇ ਆਪਣੀ ਆਪ ਕਮਾਈ ਕਰਕੇ ਆਪਣੀ ਜ਼ਿੰਦਗੀ ਕੱਢਣ । ਜਦੋਂ ਬੱਚਾ ਵਿਆਹ ਦਾ ਫੈਸਲਾ ਆਪ ਲੈ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਉਹ ਪੈਸੇ ਕਮਾਉਣੇ ਵੀ ਖੁਦ ਸਿੱਖੇ ਮਾਪਿਆਂ ਦੇ ਸਿਰ ਤੇ ਐਸ਼ਾਂ ਨਾ ਕਰੇ ਫਿਰ ਮਾਪਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਕੋਈ ਫਰਕ ਨਹੀਂ ਪੈਂਦਾ।

[@shiromansa22]

Hnji ji par eh gl alag hai....gharwale bache nu keh skde ne ke tu apna kma te kha sade to koi umid na rkho...par ohna nu apne decision aap to len Dene chaide ne...dukh sukh kismat de hunde ne

[@SaumyaVsmehandi]

Thanku so much sir thanku so much

[@m.chandanchandan6842]

Thanku so much sir g ... Now a days suffering from this torture 😌😌😌😌

[@nrityadrishtiamarclassical4950]

Aap ki har baat bhut he logical he ..

[@meghanawagh7991]

In Art of Living youth courses, it is said "Do not confuse your love and respect for your parents with the obedience you have towards them."

[@snehapathak2241]

एग्री,, किसी को बुरा लगे तो sorry,, मेरे मां बाप तो इतने हारामि हैं , की मेरा रेप कर दिया चाचा मेरा , , कोई एक्शन नही,, में बोहोत दुखी रहती थीं । पर अच्छा ये किए की मेरी शादी कर दिए । मेरे hb से ही मुझे सपोर्ट मिला प्यार मिला,सब कुछ जान कर भी , मेरे hb की मैं बोहित आभारी हु

[@Sudanrajofficialtabla]

Same yar mere sath bhi something

[@Gmviral]

Case kyo nahi kiya chacha pe.

[@vaishnavishrivastva3246]

Hmesa apne ache ache vichar dete rhna bhaiya,,taki hm sb ko himmat mil sake

[@SagarSingh-ty4gj]

Hamare phool jaise rishtey ke bich caste aa gayi kisi ko sachhe mann se chahna uski kadar karna galat to nahin kehte hain mann chaha insan mil jaay to zindgi khushiyo se bhar jaati hai or har kaam me mann bhi lagta hai.

[@RajKumari-zg8jn]

Ap ekdm sahi bole ho....hmara rista v bht khubsurat....pr cast prblm aagyi h.....o insan ke bina dungi berang h.....

[@ipltakjhak4400]

Cast yaar 🥺

[@LovepreetSingh-eg5th]

Shi gll ya ji tadi hogya tada viyah k nhi ik te yaar cast problem bot ya sade nal v eve hi ya yr pta ni cast lyi keda kanoon ya

[@manjuyadav2317]

Same problem yha bi h caste issue 6yrs ho gya h family man ni rhi h marriage ko

[@34k_subscribers]

Sir AP bhot mature ho thank you so much ki AP apni smjh dari se logo ki soch bdl pa rhe ho vaise me bhot choti hu ye sb khne ke liye bt aj ki duniya ki purani soch ki vjah se ap jese adviser ki bhot jrurt hai thank you very much Sir AP bhot accha Kam KR rhe ho hope ki AP bhot jldi susses ho paye es Kam me 🤞🤗😃💙💙

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you Muskan, God bless you :)

[@34k_subscribers]

@@AnubhavJain 🤗🤞💙

[@fashionworld3726]

काश आप पहले मिल गये होते सर । आज मै अपने बाप के दबाव डालने पर उनके अनुसार करियर चुना। आज तक मुझे पछतावा होता है। मै सभी से request करूगा की Sir ji की बाते हमेशा याद रखना।

[@shivani99975]

Y video mujhe tb mila jb m love career or fmly in tino s ld rhi hu thanks sir

[@diluji9286]

True thinking sir ji 👌🙏MA bap jindgi krab kr dete Hai Asa bhi hota Hai ✅👌🙏

[@Yalla_Habibi_Cat1]

Parents aur relatives apne khud ke vichaar se ladka ya ladki pasand karte hai apne bacche/bacchi ke liye bina jaaane ki uski kaisi pasand hai. Yehi to kaaran hai bharat ki adhiktar shaadiyo ki tutne ki. Ab parents ke aur bacche ke vichaar kaise match honge ye parents sochte hi nahi hai. Fir baccha resist karta hai to emotional drama karke bacche ki pasand ko maar dete hai .😠

[@kuldeepjat1951]

😂 sahi kha bhai emotional s mar dete h

[@mukeshpandey4412]

Excellent, India jaise desh me aisa koi nhi baat karta sab ma baap ko bhagwan he mante but hota aisa bhi hai ki ma baap shaitan hote fir bhi koi india me is tarah ka baat nhi bolta is tarah ka awaz uthna chahiye. India me to sirf bachon ko he galat thehra diya jata hai hmesa.

[@shibanimeher6278]

Ryt

[@seemakumarisharma4104]

Man baap hamare bahut khuch hai per sab kuchh nahin . right aap ki vajah se main apna ek faisla le liya . iske liye THANK YOU

[@rabitabarai2161]

Respect father ,mother.And focus on your carreir .

[@Aaditislifestyle]

Very true your lines are awesome 👌 thank you so much for guide us 😊

[@ln7937]

Sir I really appreciate your boldness. I wish your views reach out to everyone who still confine themselves to casteim & religion. Also I wish we as young generation bring out this revolution for betterment of society. All the best.

[@shrijain780]

Thankyou sir Bhaiya ap mere liye angel ke roop me aaye ho 🙏

[@AnubhavJain]

God bless you :)

[@Nawabimran8661]

Thank you sir for guiding us you are great 👍🙏❤️

[@birendratanti5212]

Bahut achhe se explain Kiya aapne iske aapko pure Dil se satute Thank you so much, ye samjhane ke liye ki maata pita hamare liye sabkuch hai bhi or nahi bhi thanks a lot

[@RiteshPrakashVickky_25july]

Exactly.. I respect my parents but i m against my parents decision towards my career.. They want me to secure a good job nd settle my life but i want far bigger.. Nd my dream is to form a grt career in singing field.. nd i m working on my passion..😊😊 but need support of people's..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@AnubhavJain]

All the best brother, God bless you with huge success :)

[@RiteshPrakashVickky_25july]

@@AnubhavJain Thanku bhaiya..❤️❤️😊🤗🤗

[@Shreyashi_2007]

Muje bhi singing and rapping krni h but mere parents support nhi krte or bohot bolte h or maarne ko bhi uth jaate h Please can you support me I really want to talk with you

[@vibhamehra4649]

Thanks sir aap ki video dekhkr sukun milta h Mai aap ki sari video dekhti hu

[@singhmehtab3708]

3 saal se mna rhi hu sir ghrvalo ko...8 years ka long distance relationship hai...relative involve krky bhi smjhaea...Father says one thing only lok kya kahengyyy??? Now am Fed up want to choose my life😑

[@kk1084]

Same happening with me they are giving threat and now I have to visiting police station due to all their narrow mind drama

[@snehlatasingh8602]

न जाने आपके शब्द कितने लोगों को नई जिंदगी दे रहे हैं🙏🙏

[@kapiltyagee827]

Thanks so much dear 💘

[@himanisharmadilse2038]

Love your every word bhai...

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you Himani :)

[@-somemoments_of_life_2492]

Isiliye Maa papa se love hone k baad v mai unke khilaf hun....

[@AnujKumar-pc8im]

Bilkul sahi kaha aapne

[@nushkienush4881]

Same😢

[@Tommywith]

Intercast marrige ka naam le dein to hum bacche bigad gye hain ,hum unki ijjak nhi krte, mummy pappa ke liye..

[@srvplwl]

Kuchh nahi pta hota Indian Parents ko. Mehnat kro or jeevan ke mje kro. Respect them, don't be their slave

[@stutisharma5080]

Bilkul sahi bol rhi ho ap

[@twinklekushwaha8345]

Aisa Sunai me aata h ki kisi ko pasand Kiya Matlab, tumne to bharosa hi Tod Diya, Ye Kon sa logic h yr. Bina bataye shadi karte to bharosa Tut ta wahi sahi rehta, ego hurt karke kuch saalo me accept Karna padta fir..

[@Tommywith]

@@twinklekushwaha8345 right, vaise bhut se aise log bhi hote hain jo shadi se phle maa - baap ko mnate hain aur shadi kr rhe hain bta bhi dete hain, nhi mante to apni mrzi se shadi kr lete hain, ab inhe bhrosa tod diya, bhagkr shadi kiye aisa bhi kha jata hai...

[@twinklekushwaha8345]

@@Tommywith ha bt yaha apne Dil ki baat batana Matlab ye hota h ki, Hume pata hota tum aise pareshn karogi to hum tumhari shadi 15-16 saal me Kar dete😣☹️ Jabki Mera to kehna ye h ki ek baar apni ladki par bharosa to karke dekh lo shyad apki soch use dekh Kar chnge ho Jaye🥺

[@smart.city.VARANASI]

aaj ye video mere kaam aayegi... kyoki mai aise hi situation me hu.... jaha pr mere ghar wale maan nhi rhe hai...4 saal ke pyaar ko bol rhe hai...bhul jao.. rishtedari me badnami hogi... or jabki wo apne hi cast ki hai... realtion me aati hai..or wo bhi mujhse shaadi karna chahti hai..full support karte hai shaadi ke liye... lekin uske pariwar wale usko dara dhamka rhe hai maar rhe hai.. jabki mere ghar me mera koi sath nhi de rha hai... sab mere mummy ko sikha diye hai... mummy bhi un logo ki tarah bol rhi hai bhul jane ko.... jabki mai kaise btau... ki ye bhulne wali chiz nhi hai life me.. ab mai kya karu.... Kanoon ka help lu? kyuki nichle samaj me Right Justice nhi mil rhi hai... or hmdono hi बालिग है

[@HinduOrHindutva]

बहुत सुंदर भैया।। 👌👌 आप ही मेरा जीवन बचा सकते हो अब।। में जिसको अपनी जान से ज्यादा प्यार करता हूँ वो भी मुझसे शादी करना चाहती है लेकिन उसके माँ बाप ने उसको बहुत ज्यादा डरा धमका दिया है।। अब आपकी वीडियो देख के मुझे उसको समझाने में बहुत आसानी होगी।। 😊😊 Thank u soo much bhaiya.. 🙏🏻😊🙏🏻

[@marotikarle2473]

Very very helpful speech bhai thank you 🤗 so much bro

[@AnubhavJain]

Welcome, God bless you :)

[@Nitin_thakur007]

I am happy for you bcoz your videos contains no or negligible dislikes☺️

[@viplove6934]

Sahi kaha apnay sir, Same haal mera hai sar mai gulam hu!!!😔😔😔 Thanks sir aap sahi and paatay kee baat kahatay ho🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@kesharishukla5166]

Sir you have great courage to guide children agaist bad habits of parents

[@palak_this_side2334]

Bilkul sahi baat h.....👏👏👍

[@sachinjangdeofficialmusic5087]

बिल्कुल सही 😭😭😭

[@anushritabal8640]

Thank you sir for showing us right path.... Always grateful to you 🥰

[@AnubhavJain]

Welcome :)

[@chauhandhaba7110]

@@AnubhavJain sir please no.sent

[@KrishnaSingh-so2lu]

I fought against my parents for a girl for a year and even had to leave home. But, the girl ditched me after one year when I said something to her in a fight. Now, my parents think they were right to oppose that girl and now I cannot do anything. Yesterday I eavesdropped my mother saying that I lack sanskar. I am unemployed, now have a bad image before my parents already and single. Now I have to marry on their terms.

[@giftu1824]

Hahahah.... I feel you... He is not ready to fight for it and I am stupid idk what i am doing.. i am just having constant fights with my parents.. i am not even talking to them... My relationship with them was already doomed and now....

[@ashokyabav2634]

सीनियर सिटीजन एक्ट 2007 पास होने के बाद बेटों की मजबूरी हो गई हैकी पिता की बात को मानना ही पड़ेगा चाहे पिता चरित्रहीन हो

[@santoshimourya5335]

🙏. your words are very valuable sir.. this world needs people like you

[@SurajsainiSurajsaini-ms4ik]

आपकी बाते सुनकर मैं रोया बहुत सर

[@jaymatadiparamadics4219]

You are the best teacher of my life sir i learned a more motivational thought to you. I never waste it I'm confident now I believe that I can change difficulties in easy way.... Thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@birendratanti5212]

Mera bhi yahi samasya tha sir or main bhi bahut confused tha ki ya sochke ki mere mata pita toh kabhi bhi mere bare mein galat sonch nahi sakte , kyunki Mera manna hai ki jiwan un logone diye hein toh unlogo ka pura adhikar banta hai ki mere bare mein achhe sonchne ka but mujhe pata toh tha ki apne maa baap hamesha apne bachon ka achchha sonchte hein par sidhi bat bolu toh kabhi kabhi apne maa baap apne hi bachon ka jiwan nakh bana dete hein, but I always love you mom and dad, I never live of my life both of you, but sorry Mera bhi life hai or mujhe bhi achhe bankar jina hai,

[@Meenukhan103]

Hi all mene bhi apne parents ke khilaf jake shadi ki h mene unko bhot convince karne ki kosish ki mene apne bhai aur parents ka bhot jada torture bhi saha par wo log nhi Mane mere husband muslim h mai hindu aur hum same gali mai rhte the Humara 12 saal ka relationship tha isliye humne shadi ki kioki mere husband ne mera bhot wait Kiya wo apne ghr mai sabse bade h aur mai sabse choti unhone ne bhi bhot kuch saha mere liye aur hum dono ek sath ab bhot khush h par still meri family baat nhi krti 😢😢

[@shbhat5303]

Expection in relationships is big mistake.

[@chandinisahu9068]

Right dear....

[@dilainediyara1826]

Thankyou for this video❤ felt good!!!

[@comedy_fact9488]

सर जी माँ बाप के खिलाफ जाना कोई दिक्कत नहीं है दिक्कत है समाज की की समाज के लोग दुनिया के लोग क्या कहेगे मुद्दा ये है इसी वजह से बच्चे माँ बाप की खिलाफ नहीं जाते.... इस पर आप की क्या राय है सर रिप्लाई जरूर देना..

[@_saloni_778]

Yes sir btao is pr aap kya bologe

[@kaynatsony6313]

Bahi hum comant iss liye padh rhi hu itni rat ko ki ek gana h dunya me kitna gam h mera gam kitna Kam h bahi mera to life mera bap asa barbad Kiya h mar mar kr लास बना दिया h Aaj ,5 sall se bed se uth ni pati hu asa bap kisi dusman ko ni Dena bhgwan itna rat ko sone k wajh dard se ro rhi hu mujhe jina ni ilaj k liye pesa ni h he bhgwan

[@DineshKumar-yk9ex]

Heart Touching Empression 😭😭

[@Cinemapagalpan]

Sir aapne bilkul wahi kaha h jo is waqt dil par beet rhi h aapki samjhayi hui baat muje bohot achi lagi thank you so much sir 🙏

[@priyadwivedi1860]

Ye sb bolo to maa baap bolte hain ki hm log se Jada Kaun tmhara bhale chahega.. Hmne bht duniya dekhi hai aur hm jo hm karenge wo acha hi karenge... Kro apne Mann ka,aane wale waqt mein na pachtaye to kehna,khoon k aansu na royi to kehna .. Sir ab ye sunane k baad kaise koi soch Sakta hai ki kuch kre And for me my parents are everything me unhe dukhi nhi dekh sakti lekin wo bhi nhi kr sakti jisse mjhe nafrat ho

[@rk50shah]

Same mere sath v h

[@incredibleourbharat3452]

Thank you sir ...I m always confused about this issue ...now it's clear in my mind .... Absolutely right .. thanks a lot 👏👍❤️

[@Abhijeet_singh17]

Sir ये सब बोलने की बात है मेरे मां बाप मुझे बिना किसी गलती के रोज गलियां देते है अब बताएं मैं क्या करू मैं कुछ बोलता हूं तो मारने pe उतारू हो जाते हैं और गाली भी ऐसी ऐसी जो कि सहा ना जा सके जैसे : पागल, दोगला , बेटीचोड ,भरुआ , दिमाग से पैदल अब बताए मै क्या करू मैं बिहार से hu plzz reply 😭😭😭

[@sapnaparmar586]

Your sach amazing person pheli baar kisi ne meri mann ki baat boli h thnku sir kassh har parents ye baat smje

[@mamtakrishnani8003]

thank you bhaiya bahut jarurat thi aise video ki after facing tooo much things kas mai aapse mil pati or apne problem bata pati

[@punjabstudies5196]

Ur channel will grow really fast...bcoz ur content is very good....we can relate our issues with your thoughts....

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you :) My biggest vision in life is no youth, shall commit suicide or fall in depresion, anything that follows is a by product.

[@sonamnegi1211]

@@AnubhavJain u r such a good soul good bless u sir

[@kyansharma]

What an apt and succinct way to put it sir! Absolutely loved the video! :)

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you Kyan :)

[@iqrakhanam3363]

@@AnubhavJain sir mere parents ne mere bua ke lrke se shadi krne k lie bola h mgr hm kisi dusre s pyr krte h hm kese smjaye parents ko plzzz btaye 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@jyotipaswan3497]

Anubhav sir aap ko sun ke sachme sahi or galt k difference mai samjha gyi ab jitne v man m uljhane sankoj der or guilty fill ho rha tha ....mujhe sahi galt sab k ferk samjha aagya sir Thank you sir dill se♥️

[@roopsaini.0642]

sirr apne mere mnn ke bojj toh bhut hlka kr diya, 😢😢😢

[@Norebirthtemple]

Jaruri nahi h k khoon k rishte hi sahi h.... Maa baap b ek insaan hote h or wo aapse galat b ho sakte h ....

[@rashmisingh2893]

U r right BE STRONGER

[@maneesh2148]

Dear Anubhav jain sir ji Really I like your all motivation and so I am proud of you and also I salute you with true heart

[@AnubhavJain]

Thank you bhai :)

[@hardikgjjr219]

My grandparents have same mentality like 'We're the owner of our child! It's their responsibility to take care of us, no matter what their condition is!". My father has a younger brother, and my grandparents did not maintained the balance between both. They loaded my father with their responsibilities (since 20 years!) by the logic that he is the elder son to them, and relieving my uncle of all! If parents are well wisher of their children, then why do they take such type of decisions where one child is suffering and other is having great time of his/her life! Despite seeing the unbalance, they feel like they've taken greatest decision ever! Now as a grandchild, how can I have respect for them?

[@AnubhavJain]

I have seen this same problem in countless families. These are some age old flaws in our culture which need to be mended.

[@aditya8568]

Same problem bhai . My grandparents is like devil's on entire earth .