Kym Marsh : Teen Mums and Me

www.Kym-Marsh.com

[@Princescyther]

"I'm here in the NORTH to find out" lol I dunno why that made me laugh so much.

[@Kels42]

For being 13 she is actually a great mom. Compared to some of these moms.

[@Maybenottoday525]

Kelsey Jo yes. That is so scary to me to think of a 13 year old getting drunk, Having sex and then a baby. Just seems unreal. Mom is just a baby still. So hard to imagine. It was hard enough for me at 19.

[@NonnieNonsicle]

@@Maybenottoday525 Seems pretty crazy to skirt around a barely 13 year old getting drunk and having sex; Just how drunk was she? How old was the boy? How drunk was the boy? Were they in a relationship or did they just meet? Like, was this actually consensual???

[@alanaswiss]

..but it's wrong to place the blame solely on the mothers. Where are the fathers in all of this?!

[@kitkat0304]

thank you!

[@sexycougar7140]

Alana M Men can and do walk away...its a woman's responsibility to not get pregnant as she is the one who can't walk away...

[@swingro2011]

Actually it is both parents fault and their parents for not teaching their stupid children how to use protection. The idiot father is not absolved. But only the woman decides the future of the child witch is not quit fair. The child has no say in this. It starts his life emotionally handicapped.

[@vilecrocodile9171]

Alana M they're in jail

[@amyxoxo5008]

Sexy Cougar reading your comment made me laugh are u for real? It takes two to make a baby! Unfortunately males will always be years behind on the maturity scale

[@gracepattie]

What a superstar, Kym! I remember when I was a HUGE Hear'Say fan. I read something you said that left a massive impression on me. You were asked what you'd do with a pound, and you said you'd be a 50p sweet bag for each of your kids. You're amazing!!

[@nonnalove]

Hello from the USA. Great program, and I love the way you share your own experience with everyone. 👍

[@shannonstudd-charlie8433]

I do give a lot of these young moms raising these babies as single parents....Never mind the judgements from anykbe because people will always judge not matter what.

[@maryCCFarm]

they all were great Moms.. Proud of them all...

[@judithshalders6560]

It’s annoying that the Fathers aren’t even mentioned let alone made to step up and support those children 👶

[@tammiepage6489]

If a man doesn’t want to be part of a child’s life you can’t force him in forcing him pay child support you know that I know court has the right to do that revision of the riser that that’s between two people that decide to make that kid should I step up oh hell yes he should step up if you don’t wanna be in the child’s life you can’t make them my real father never want to be my life and I never knew him but I did have a step dad that raised me so I was lucky to me he was my father because he did everything and father does but you can’t criticize about the fathers because if they don’t wanna be a part of his life then they know they’re not going to be and That’s sad

[@kaseymigliaccio2519]

How do you know that the Father's of these babies have NOT "been made to step up" ? They weren't even mentioned, like you said, so how can you even speak on them?

[@kaseymigliaccio2519]

​@@tammiepage6489 You should definitely practice using some punctuations when you type comments. It's SO important because without it, we have no idea where your sentence begins or ends and it all becomes so confusing! It's almost like just one continuous jumbling of words that you've crammed all together and it doesn't make any sense.

[@judithshalders6560]

@@kaseymigliaccio2519 just an educated guess

[@user-el5px4zz9i]

Love kym Marsh I felt so sorry for her

[@sonjam314]

This was really something hard to watch!!! As a teen mom 26 years ago it brought back the hard ships. I was 16 pregnant and got married!!! By 18 I was on my own but my daughter did see her dad continuously throughout her life which was very good!!! Man life was so hard but we were blessed to have our families for moral support and if we needed a night off they were happy to have our daughter for the night. By 18 we were divorced and it added to the stress but it was the right thing for us and emotionally it helped me drastically. He has always been an active part of our daughters life. At 22 I was pregnant with my 2nd daughter and after I refused to have an abortion he walked out. We later got back together and for the most part he stayed active in her life, then alcoholism really took over. I had to keep my daughters safe from as much as I could. I was a very determined person who would not go on assistance so I worked my but off and went to college and earned my nursing degree. As my girls grew up my fear was that this would happen to them. My mom was 17 and I was 16. Thank goodness they both broke the cycle. I did lose my friends back then but I had new friends that were older and it was where I fit it best. Thank goodness everything worked out and my babies didn’t have babies at a young age. They are 26 and 21 now. Neither have children but my one daughter has lost 2 babies😢💔

[@b_jean755]

I got pregnant at 13 and had my son at 13 and I can definitely relate to that 13 year old mom, I didn't wanna go out cause I knew people already said things about me and said I was a bad mom when they didbt even know me and I knew they would only say it more if they seen me out with my friends without my baby but after 7 months of never leaving the house for longer than an hour without him, I learned that people were gonna talk and say what they wanted no matter how great of a mom I was and I was honestly very lucky to have the support I did and I had just about every Friday and Saturday night after he went to bed to be able to go out with my friends and still be a teenage in some ways, same thing when it comes to things at school cause I finished high school and my parents would watch him and let me have some freedom to still experience all the normal high school stuff as much as possible

[@MsZoedog66]

Good show...Kym is in a great position to offer empathy t these girls, which is probably sadly lacking for them.

[@christinefougere1444]

I enjoyed this very much

[@tiatonks8762]

Just watched this and I cried, here I am now in my late 50's and never had a child and can't even adopt because I am single. What I would give to have a child. Hannah letting her child eat of the floor is so disgusting...

[@helenajesstarzak1408]

+Tia Tonks Everyone needs a licens to drive a car, to catch a fish and so on... But any idiot can have a baby. I really get mad when I hear about or see bad parents!

[@kitkat0304]

and why do you think that you have the right to have a child and Hannah doesn't? maybe you should examine your heart and you'll find the real reason why you were infertile. and adoption IS possible as a single person,but maybe the adoption agencies see the same thing in your personality that I did.

[@sexycougar7140]

MizzyTheQueen wow that's a cruel thing to say to someone who is is infertile!!

[@robynjohnson1759]

my child spends most of the week being cared for by a lady who never had her own kids. she watches my daughter and a few others all week for almost nothing, but she has a house full of kids. see if u can be a help to a young mom. theres plenty of love to go around.

[@itsjustme5707]

Have you considered fostering?

[@Emma.......]

This 13 year old is definitely more grown and a more responsible parent than most adults! I hope her and her families life's turned out amazing 👏 ❤

[@maddihuskergirl]

Personally, I think having babies this young without an established relationship is a mistake. But I dont know why everyone in this thread is getting so negative. Everyone makes mistakes, and the consequences of those mistakes CAN haunt you or make life difficult for you after the mistake is made. But it doesnt mean that life isnt redemptive. Dealing with the consequences of your own mistake is part of life, but it doesnt mean you can redeem the time and make the best of it. Im especially proud of Rubies mom. She obviously has it hard, but she is working so hard to restore what she has lost and provide for her little one. People dont deserve to be condemned all their lives for a mistake that was made. They should be encouraged to work even harder to restore their life.

[@strawberrygurle]

madison van winkle yes! It may not have been what they planned but it did keep her clear of bs. The blonde youngster is my fav, and I don’t think it’s an act. Drunk at 11...12? Might have been the best thing she could’ve done.

[@Maybenottoday525]

madison van winkle agreed

[@djpanda255]

Yes!! A teen mom having a supportive family us also very crucial to success. Many young women don't have that.

[@jackiemaddox4577]

I so agree! I can’t believe how many of these comments are giving accolades to these girls rather than stating how to educate young teens on having respect for themselves and NOT TO GET PREGNANT. A country is only as good as its educated population. .

[@Maybenottoday525]

Thx for posting and sharing. Great eye opening video. I always said that having children has been the hardest job I’ve ever loved. I have three All now are teens but my first I had at 19 and 15 months later I had twins. Then my husband got sent overseas when they were 2 and 4 years old. Very hard but we made it! Moms can be so very strong In even the hardest situations. I now have terminal cancer. They have given me an expiration date but I plan to beat it! Even tho my babies are 16 and 17 now, they still need their mommy. Beautiful story and definitely so brave of you to share. Inspiration most definitely and a way to show what can happen and how hard it is as a young mom.

[@cpmffeilberg4970]

God bless and heal you Abigail. I'll be praying for you.⚘🌷🇨🇦🙇‍♀️🙇‍♂️🇨🇦

[@Maybenottoday525]

Cpmf Feilberg thank you so much and God bless you daily! ❤️🙏💪

[@cpmffeilberg4970]

@@Maybenottoday525 you are very welcome. 🙇‍♀️⚘🌷🌹🇨🇦

[@laminage]

In The US it's just as bad and forget The Fathers. What's so sad is that a lot of young African American Men who are in Prison admit that The Gang were like "Fathers" to them, and how they paid with their Freedom and ending up in Prison.

[@Maybenottoday525]

laminage so very true. I’m in the states as well. But many white boys/ men are doing the same now. I don’t think it matters the race. It’s the mind set in these kids and their parents being to busy out having fun instead of raising their own children and then they are left to the streets to raise them. Or their parents are working constantly because things are so very hard for people right now and money is tight and the kids become latch key kids. It’s heartbreaking. Then the generations just keep continuing it instead of breaking the cycle. I was on of those kids who’s mother was single and working two jobs while my grandma raised me.

[@Maybenottoday525]

Aye, I should have said tho, I myself have three children and have been married since the age of 19. We just celebrated out 18 year anniversary in August. I don’t know how we stayed together but we did. Neither one of us ever gave up on each other and took staying a family first because I came from a broken home and all I wanted was a real family, and my husband grew up with parents that stayed together like us so that’s all he knew was you don’t give up. I’m thankful we broke at least my side of the families cycle with many many women in my family being married more than once and basically everyone of them finally gave up on love and are all still single and don’t want a man around. I’m so thankful for my husband. Don’t know where we would be without him. Blessed and I’m so thankful for it.

[@buggiebuild1]

I just watched the Kizzy Special for the second time, and I remember four or five uploads. After I saw this one, I just had to rewatch, I got pregnant at 13, had my son at 14, and no one here in Florida USA looked at me sideways, and honestly most of my friends had kids as well ,multiple, 🙄I did not, second & only other son when I was 28 ,I was a lot more patient as a young mom, believe it or not, I couldn’t wait to get back to work when I was older, having said that, the trolls really trolled Kizzy, to the point you can’t comment, and I appreciate the work heart and soul you’re putting into this special for the teen moms that you have met, I recognized you, but didn’t remember your name, that’s come full circle now😇, if you find yourself, young and pregnant, do what you feel is right, and remember, the naysayers are usually the ones that have went through it, or someone in their family have, or they’re just down right nasty, do the best for your child and family, because in the end, that’s who really matters✌🏻💕

[@AHunt2024]

Kizzy is now married and has two other children. She seems to have done really well for herself! She's proven all those trolls wrong like she said she would

[@djpanda255]

Levi is an amazing mother period, not even considering that she was 13 when becoming pregnant. Teen pregnancy doesn't discriminate. It happens in ALL walks of life, races, & economic backgrounds. There are so few boys who step up. It reflects poorly on THEIR parents. If my sons EVER impregnated someone, they would be held responsible. It is a shame, but it is reality. The boys sticking around is a very slim statistic. I do not understand why young women are not considering adoption?? Especially, when they're already living in poverty. Placing your child with an adoptive family is the most selfless act a mother can take, to love their child enough to want the best future possible, & hopefully break the cycle.

[@hollyboniface2198]

Where are the dads????

[@petal979]

+Holly Boniface Exctly!

[@Wiegirlcabin10]

That is not true! It is an equal fault between the male and the female! Raising a baby alone is not a punishment! It's a consequence. Just because a teen get pregnant at a young age doesn't mean they are a whore. It means they made a choice with a male to have intercourse without protection. They have a decision to not raise the baby. They choose to raise the child the best they can.

[@vilecrocodile9171]

Jail

[@megankane9076]

Lily Powell u do realise that protection only works 99.9% of the time

[@byfaroffthebest]

doesn't the state make the fathers pay child support? here in switzerland they have to....but then of course we have very little underaged mothers....

[@strawberrygurle]

elizabeth Farron really? I’ve heard so great things about your country. I know you’re biased but your country iis referred to as the best country in the world for their residents

[@kallie9229]

Becky A what about her comment negates that?

[@ozzibear]

American also has child support laws but more and more men are signing over their paternity rights in exchange to avoid payment. Women are also allowed access to medically safe abortions. It only ever evens out when both parties are excepting of what having a baby for both of them mean.

[@petal979]

3:00 Ive been in that mothers shoes, its the most heartbreaking place to be

[@Kels42]

She really lets her baby eat food off the floor?! 🤢

[@tammybuksh447]

Plenty of babies do that, Drop their dummies put them back in their mouth, same with their bottles. It can actually be good for their immune system.

[@kimkuhns2454]

It makes me sick to hear a 13 year old even having sex, where the hell were the parents? If someone say I can't be with them 24/7 is crap! At 13 I KNEW 100% where & what my child was doing. I kept them involved in sports & FFA raising animals learning responsibility!! I NEVER forced them into things they didn't enjoy I made sure it was something they enjoyed. My daughter's are now very successful, married and living life b4 kids they are 23 & 26 I'm proud I lead my kids in the right direction. Plus at 13 a child body is not ready to give birth it's barely just in puberty. SMH.

[@cohenr6039]

I’m sixteen, and I’m not a mother but I often babysit my eleven year old nephew, seven year old nephew and my one year old niece. It is stressful, but honestly, I find the cleaning and caring for them therapeutic. My niece is currently living with us, and I don’t even find the crying disturbing.

[@tarantala111]

Children having babies!

[@ozzibear]

It's been going on forever... It's really not new.

[@Wtvrflotesurgoat]

When I was a young mom I was never allowed to ask for help since society disapprove so much. No one brought us dinner after I gave birth. No one checked up on us. Once I was older and had my second people were bringing us dinner asking how we are doing ect…f u k society.

[@alanaswiss]

Hannah is very irresponsible. I'm sorry but giving your kid junk food is completely unacceptable. She's supposed to be raising a healthy child. Her child will be ill living on that shitty food. If you think you're responsible enough to have unprotected sex and risk catching an STD or falling pregnant, you should be responsible enough to understand adequate nutrition.

[@michellehenderson7777]

+bereal said That's really rude of you.

[@fannyortiz9493]

I wonder how she is foing now?

[@DreamaCorbyn1]

So by that logic you're own mother is irresponsible since you probably eat junk food yourself.

[@Nikkii199045]

Wtf im just seeing this stuff for the first time!

[@blessingsalways1496]

where are the father's in all of this? It's the 🚹 and 🚺 responsibility to take care of their children, it all can't just be on the woman alone. People should not look at women who are infertile as something wrong with them as a person and that's the reason for not getting pregnant, it's biologically.

[@cpmffeilberg4970]

People need to be as hard, if not harder on the men who bigger off after getting a girl pregnant.

[@aliciarodriguez5865]

Are you kidding??? You're watching your daughter eat food off the floor and you just ask what it is?? I'm sorry, I'm a teen mom too, but I would NEVER let my daughter eat food off the floor! Who knows how long it's been there!

[@pkimz3017]

Alicia Godin 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 My kids eat crap off the floor all the time. I know how long it's been there. Less than a day. I sweep and vacuum every night before bed. Dishes might not be done, but the floors stay clean.

[@joybarrett-jones3618]

Me either, just gross. Especially since she clearly states she never even cleans the damn floor. I clean my floors EVERYDAY and if I drop a spoon I would still wash or rinse it before letting my kids use it. Forget about eating food off the floor. Old food at that.

[@tammiepage6489]

Newsflash a lot of kids eat food off the floor babies do it a lot and so this is a little bit older the kids like I’ve seen eight-year-olds doing it and the parents are not in the server room and actually is kind of good for the main system that’s why lotta kids made up the whole five second rule I’m having as gross as shit but don’t sit there and judge and make a big deal just because you won’t go to Ruth it and I don’t deal with it either but don’t judge it and I don’t judge it

[@marlo8528]

They dont offer financial education classes for those on benefits?

[@acesophia3113]

I am 17 with 2 under 2 but I love being a teen mom

[@jlb6624]

AceSophia 311 , you have your entire life ahead of you sweetie. Strive to set and meet your goals. You can do this! When you get discouraged, remember the best thing about a setback is a comeback! ~someone in the states who believes in you 👌🏻

[@becibabe7364]

I was a single mum to 3 kids worked my ass off never collected a dime

[@bronaghmurphy5643]

Do you know what the name of the documentary was that Jack and Kym made of their wedding. If so do you know where I can find it?

[@pearlkelly6337]

have you tried googling her name, clicking the shows she has been on, finding the name an then searching it

[@kelseymccollam5148]

I feel like this would’ve been way more interesting if she brought her 13 year old daughter with her on this show kinda as a birth control method lol like teach her a lesson on why she wants to break the March women tradition. Idk maybe the young girl didn’t want to be on camera or her mom wanted to keep her out of it but I think that would’ve been interesting as a perspective.

[@ryanberry8395]

Her daughter is a mom now tho ahahaha

[@april547]

What is this benefit thing? Where u can pay rent, food, etc? In the us u get 300 food and 200 welfare..? I don’t think it’s bad, I think the person may realize they wAnt to make more money and go back to school and have the support of benefits.

[@liambent]

you know telling your daughter your gonna kill her if she ends up preggers isnt gonna stop it from happening... and i hate when parents say that to their kids.... whats it achieving nothing!!

[@sugamamajackson6171]

Why is the babies heads so big! Other teen moms in england have big heads and plump

[@koisneurotypical]

What's a "gym-slick" Mom? (Levi)?? Sorry, I'm from the States- I have no idea what that means. Thanks for the upload- I really enjoyed the show :)

[@Maybenottoday525]

Jen O I’m wondering as well and am from the US as well. We should google it.

[@Amy-yl6mt]

I Googled it and came up with nothing! Lol

[@cypresswendler4980]

Gymslip mom. A school girl mom

[@raybray1276]

How disgusting letting you baby eat of the floor. I'm 21 years old and my partner is 18 and we always make sure the home is clean. I clean my floors addlest 3 to 4 times a week and my whole house is always clean. Even the shower mostly every 2 days is been cleaned and my unborn sons room even though has not here yet is always clean . I'm not being nasty at all but a baby needs a clean home like clean floors as babies walk and crawls on the floor and gets there toys of the floor to play with.

[@Orlak3lly]

Awkward moment when Kym’s daughter DID become a teen mam!

[@Maybenottoday525]

Orla Kelly yep

[@maeganmurray8748]

Didn’t she become a Mam at 22? Don’t know if I’d count that as a teen mam

[@curlyyasmin181]

She was 22. That is not a teen

[@cassandramalfoy]

If she doesn't like cleaning, does she realize that her child is eating things off the floor that is dirty and bad for her child germ wise?

[@pkimz3017]

Cassandra Calderon actually no it isn't. It builds their immune systems, which makes them less likely to get sick. Also, kids find things to eat. No parent cleans perfectly , and if you do you aren't spending enough time with your child. Priorities

[@rettaparker8776]

Cicibbyd 15 That’s wrong, all wrong!

[@EmilyyJadeeSeithh]

Why is not available in my country sort it out please grrrrrr

[@Dantotherivertosilenceme]

Download hola

[@bouncingback3]

Cuddling is what got you into this! 😒😂😭😒

[@vegana13]

is kym an iluminati ?

[@kallie9229]

No idea who kim is but she was low key siked talking with her mom about her child being the third generation of teen mom. OH LOOK. ITS GENETICS

[@girlfromthevillage403]

Why is this lady making out that 18 is a child ? she keeps saying 'teen mum' like thats what she was. But she wasn't. In the UK you're a LEGAL ADULT at 18 so sorry yes she was a YOUNG mum but she was by no means a TEEN mum. Edit : and before people start i was a YOUNG mum. I had my son at 19 and yeah i struggled( and struggle still sometimes) but i would never refer to myself as a TEEN mum. Also it is really annoying that this woman keeps trying to push the narrative that the grandmother's are raising the babies and the mums aren't involved. She said she was in the wrong eventually but still. Not good enough. ESPECIALLY when she was a young mum who got judged constantly herself. She should know better than to judge a book by its cover but i guess she thinks shes better than all that now that she is older 🤦‍♀️😒

[@beverleyjouannet5102]

Fathers are probably in school......

[@kallie9229]

Beverley Jouannet that’s generous

[@narayani2357]

Why is abortion not a choice???? These young gals shd not be punished by forced motherhood,whn the boys are hvng fun outside😥😥😥😥

[@DreamaCorbyn1]

Forced motherhood? Do you ever consider maybe keeping the baby was theses teenagers choice and that she didn't want an abortion... Not everyone believes in abortion and forcing abortion is just as bad as forcing someone to birth children.

[@DreamaCorbyn1]

Takeaways are ok once in a while hannah needs to learn how to cook and make better choices.

[@chizobaiwuchukwu2015]

This is what happens when you have loose morals

[@szorohov85]

where is the goverment??? who in his right mind gives ateen raise achild??? on benefits??? while alot of families waiting for ababy for years. where is the justice to the taxpayer

[@lunadog71]

so what do you suggest? Taking the child from them by force and giving it to a 'deserving' family?

[@szorohov85]

this teen take atvantage of that. and thats how she getting the money. that the sucker taxpayer work hard to get. this called parasite lifestyle. do you think its fair? to the honerst people who work 20 years for small house? and study 4 to 8 years in uni?

[@deetoms5494]

szorohov85 I'm a person who has been on IVF and had 10 attempts, one child from this and had miscarriages. Ive had people hide pregnancies from me and tell me when 5 months plus and apologize for being pregnant. Sometimes pregnancies aren't planned but that doesnt mean they should be forced to give that child up. There are MANY ADULTS with children who neglect their child and do lots of damage and can cause death. These teen girls will do ok if they are kept an eye on and have the support. And before you ask yes sometimes life isn't fair to those that want children and couldn't have them but doesn't mean you penalize others for our own grief n loss