Ladies, don't do this when dating. please!

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[@josephhoneyblue3847]

Settling is still a CHOICE and people need to be accountable for bad choices... 🙉🙉🙉

[@victoriasegall3404]

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[@margaretaburke5604]

that's the mistake that I made I settled for someone that was already with someone at the time I was single and decided to give him a chance because we know each other for yours as friends, been with him for 4 years and it was a toxic situationship, wish I never had made the choice to be with him...

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Wow! I hate to hear that but it's definitely a lesson learned.

[@treetrunk5000]

True

[@gusmonster59]

I just stopped dating. I am better off alone than with the men I have met.

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Nobody's better off alone. Remember you accepted the men you met. The real issue is why?

[@Grace-4me]

I agree. Dating has become overwhelming. I'm going to take care of me now

[@mercifulmercedmemoirs6457]

Sex is only good for a season. DISCERN DISCERN DISCERN. TEST THE SPIRIT ALWAYS. 💯 SHALOM 🔥🙏🏼🔥🦁

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

That's a fact.

[@lindalewis8001]

Hey I agree with you I will not settle loving single life great advice wisdom thanks for sharing 💓😘

[@AndreMuhammad-hq3qt]

Thank you my Brotha for saying this TRUTH. "...NEVER settle..." Try to always SELECT!!! 👏😎👍🏿

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Big factz

[@michellestreeter4368]

I’m tired of being with this guy who wants to do things but I’m left organizing the plans. Where to go, how to get there, what to do, etc. what happened to the men who just say, I’ll be at your place at 8pm. Be ready???

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

@michellestreeter4368 Those type of men are out here. Don't settle for the ones that aren't doing the planning if that's what you require.

[@deborahgloria3867]

Good advice. Don’t settle.

[@gloriaray3084]

Say that AGAIN an AGAIN an AGAIN thank you

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

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[@roses4me451]

@@30uprelationshipcoach I told a mofo one time: "I don't eat leftovers & scraps! If you can't invite me to the table when dinner is served, don't invite me at all!" (I got my own everything, & he mad 'cause I won't let a FELON live with me, drive my car, etc.)

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

@@roses4me451 wow! I respect your stance.

[@liyahwillis4215]

Great message ❤

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

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[@crownedqueen6246]

This is 💯 percent correct.

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

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[@iron.addict]

Thats actually great advice.....To me settling is a mindset and if you truly feel like you're settling, then you're not gonna be truly invested or give your all.....And that will be something that you will know and your partner will know also.... Never settle but understand not settling doesn't mean it will end well....but thats life

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Thanks for the comments.

[@shayorgan8929]

I needed to hear this Coach P. I struggle with knowing my self worth sometimes, thinking I'm not good enough for any man. I'm working on building my confidence and trying not to keep getting in God's way and knowing that, He knows what He's doing with me. God bless you and keep up the wonderful work you're doing for us 🙂🙏✌️! Oh, I just subscribed to your channel (newbie).

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Definitely sis. You deserve the best. Always remember.that.

[@MsLove-lb1vz]

I agree 100%....🙂

[@melanindawn2050]

You told no lies.

[@chassidylindsey4792]

Amen!! Great message!! Thank you for sharing this message with us!! God Bless you and your family!!🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️💙💙💙💙👍👍👍👍⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

I appreciate you

[@chassidylindsey4792]

@@30uprelationshipcoach Thank you. I appreciate you as well.

[@JustTeeTee777]

Thank you for the message ❤

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

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[@josesantana27]

Absolutely appreciate this word of advice, Coach Paul. I am a new subscriber to your channel.

[@jengriffin152]

Thank you, handsome nd wise Brother.

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Thank you sis. 💙💙

[@jengriffin152]

@@30uprelationshipcoach ❤️!

[@Tiljuana-777]

Thankyou for this message and i agree❤💯💯

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Definitely. Thank you for the response.

[@marieestelle709]

Thanks amen ❤🎉😊

[@thisisCOBI]

Preach

[@susandejohnette6409]

What you say is sensible regrading dating; however, given the current state of affairs regarding your people, your intellect & wisdom should be directed to a higher purpose. We need black men to please wake up, learn about our real history & stand up & help to reclaim our heritage & identity. We are the Original indigenous people of this land, & have ownership rights to America & its attached resources: crude oil, petroleum, natural gas, water, acreage, gold, silver, etc. Our families, communities, and schools should not be poor. You the black man was once the ruler of the world, co created with the black woman, to create humanity. So you & others like you have real work to do, this is not my battle along…

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Respect.

[@user-oz5vl2ho8v]

I think your video may have fell on deaf ears. For the most part, the average woman is not settling. It’s the man because women date up. Men date down. They all want edgy guy, muscular; financially successful business executive. The problem with modern women isn’t settling. It’s expectation and prioritization. They all want the type of man that either doesn’t exist or if he does, they want him all to themselves. They don’t understand that they may not qualify for him, especially in a monogamous relationship. Sure he’ll rod their guts out but certain women actually begin to think they qualify for that caliber of man just because of their sex-based relationship.

[@ronj7658]

Not settling has made a lot of women single and lonely at 45.

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

Really? I know a lot that didn't settle and are in great relationships. It's all about perception.

[@Tiffany-un3hw]

Smh! I hope you don’t have daughters. Single doesn’t mean lonely when you have a fulfilling life. If a woman doesn’t meet the right man until she’s 65, I’m sure she’ll end up much happier than a woman who settled at 30.

[@ronj7658]

@Tiffany-un3hw I want my daughter happily married with her own family before she's 30. That's the proper way to do things. I don't want her to be 35 sleeping around with different men and wasting her life like American blck women.

[@Tiffany-un3hw]

@@ronj7658 There’s no proper way to do anything. Do what makes YOU happy. I’m glad women are waking up and doing things on their own terms and not being people pleasers to satisfy society’s expectations.

[@ronj7658]

@Tiffany-un3hw so you're basically saying you'd rather your daughter be sleeping around in her 30's and 40's than be married with a family?

[@lindalewis8001]

Hey bro frist time watching guy interesting in me i donate plasma every now then assistant manager never ask me out what do you think i will not chase him let me know in comment section thanks for sharing blessings

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

A man goes after what he wants.

[@soundvibes4182]

When did settling become gender specific?

[@victoriasegall3404]

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[@carmelcapricorn7701]

IKR. I approve this message. PSA.🪮🌺

[@30uprelationshipcoach]

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