Knowing the difference between a man who wants a piece of you vs. The man who wants to be a part of you will save a bunch of headaches, heartbreaks, and time wasting.
@justlue3804 жыл бұрын
Come on now!!!! I felt that!!! 😍
@nataliewaterman61144 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@delovelyday4304 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@illuminated_4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@illuminated_4 жыл бұрын
@Terrance Baptiste holding out sex will make a man manipulate a woman for sex . The way a knowledgeable woman carries herself a real divine man will automatically respect her because she respects herself in every way possible. Knowledge is power
@GODSPRINZES24 жыл бұрын
My husband passed away in 2017 & he wrote me a letter months before he passed away from cancer. I happened to have found the letter a few months later in my nightstand. There was a specific part of his letter that will always be in my heart and cherished forever! He wrote.... “There will be many men who want you, but only one will “DESERVE” you”! 😭❤️
@praeauthong4093 жыл бұрын
Diamondeyez his message so touching heart . I feel the special message from him really care about you. Like in a movie
@PopGoesNappy3 жыл бұрын
HUGS
@samboriboun22132 жыл бұрын
Aw😔
@emmabell15872 жыл бұрын
❤️
@babyfacefiji5 ай бұрын
Omg that’s so sweet of him.. I hope he’s looking down & happy for w
@kourtney1014 жыл бұрын
Nothing makes a man stay faithful but his own will. ❤
@listeningviayoutube72294 жыл бұрын
Preach!
@illuminated_4 жыл бұрын
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@illuminated_4 жыл бұрын
A man with knowledge and a woman with knowledge that will give them all they need to prosper .
@leslieweir70514 жыл бұрын
If ur absence doesnt make them want u, then ur presence shouldnt be around them...
@ShanaChow4 жыл бұрын
so true!! 100% agree :)
@marcuslane34 жыл бұрын
Fact
@sashaminx754 жыл бұрын
Amen
@vladsphilosophy4 күн бұрын
Only women would agree on this 😂
@KeebeMillez4 жыл бұрын
Men are exhausting 🤦🏽♀️ I gave up. Life is too short for all these mind games 🤷🏽♀️
@queenpisces90804 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯☝️
@bigdunks4eva3 жыл бұрын
Men are incredibly simple. Actions speak louder than words. Simply listen to his actions and you'll know how he feels about you. It's you women who make things complicated by refusing to simply just do what I mentioned.
@pris2533 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!
@WhitemenaresoSexy3 жыл бұрын
It pays to be Single
@motivatedinchrist6133 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@12Messenger4 жыл бұрын
Just walked away from a girl i was dating. Asked the exclusive question after we kissed she paused and waited like she needed to think abt it but in my mind there was nothing to think abt. I had been dating her for 7 months spending time with her and more importantly stopped dating other girls because i thought she was most special. I asked her if she would be my girlfriend she paused for a while i broke the silence and said dont worry abt it(i was pretty hurt that it was a question she had to think abt it) i ended the date a little early stated i had to be up early. She texted dont take my silence as a no(but i knew better than that) i told her how i felt and that i wanted a relationship with her and that i don't want to force it if it's not something shes ready for right now. She replied her ex boyfriend is crazy and wont leave her alone. In other words shes back and forth on the fence and wants to get back with her ex that left her but shes uncertain if she should leave him for good. I could tell from her answer she wont let go of her ex so i did a favor and said hey well i told u how i felt and....went on a paragraph..and said well hey it was really nice knowing you for the time but i rather just focus on my individual self and improving my life from this point forward i hope nothing but the best on you and your journey. Have a good one. She texted back i meant i cant be your gf right now what do you mean? We can still talk i care for you. I didnt reply back. The fact that she went that long of a time without telling me at least after the 2nd date that "i like you and want to date u but right now im healing or something like im hurting or something. It was as i felt being used to get her mind off of him. I'm dating another beautiful girl at my college now. It took a whole month not to wake up feeling like my heart weighed 40lbs and feeling sad it was almost uncontrollable that i felt that way first thing in the morning but being an active young male I would compete playing sports and doing other things to occupy my mind like i always did after school and work. It hurt but I really started to love her and had the thought of possibly marrying her in another year or 2 after dating a good time. Moral of the story dont be afraid to walk away from lukewarm girls who are on the fence about 2 or several guys bouncing back and forth playing with all of their emotions.
@anitaboyle67784 жыл бұрын
I love that you know your self worth and you valued your love and emotions. That's rare in nowadays boys. Keep it up. Men are worthy too. 👏👏
@markwhittaker68664 жыл бұрын
PREACH! Stay strong and stay blessed!
@sugarfreenow4 жыл бұрын
She could’ve really been afraid, I’ve been stalked by an ex before., but glad you recognize your worth and know you don’t gotta be apart of the drama.
@manifestationhappiness7054 жыл бұрын
Her loss, she’ll never find someone like you. Keep doing you King💕
@helenadair323 жыл бұрын
You a smart man and you did the right thing
@RiseAbove-wc2hs4 жыл бұрын
I had deleted all contacts that were no good for me going into this year. Today I was watching my motivation videos and all of a sudden a phone number with no contact name texted me saying oh hey I haven't talked to you in forever , and I thought we were friends and this and that. I was like I don't even recognize the number and if I deleted you as a contact last year you will not be coming back into my life this year. I blocked the number and deleted the message. I'm not a convenience to any man when they think they can just randomly text me because they don't have anyone at the moment. Learned that from you. Have to be strong in your convictions because you are worth your weight in gold if you chose to be.
@swalker36504 жыл бұрын
I deleted my contacts last week ive even started blocking I hate that this day and time has turned to a hook up culture it saddens me
@swalker36504 жыл бұрын
@@RiseAbove-wc2hs I was like that too still learning and trying to become a better person I'm glad I'm not the only one going through these things but some men are dogs they don't care about your feeling s they just trying to get that one thing I'm still learning maybe this Corona virus staying at home will give me a lot of time to meditate
@RiseAbove-wc2hs4 жыл бұрын
@@swalker3650 hold your strength and value so high that those type of men you speak of will cower in the presence of your greatness. You know the other night I was watching some videos on scripture late night on my phone and the next door neighbor texted me (who in my past life I was explicit with) and asked me in a disgusting matter to sneak over and mess around. I instantly replied that I no longer engage in sex outside of marriage. After that text was sent my phone acted crazy. I wasn't touching it but it started to flip though a bunch of videos real quick. I got scared and I threw it down and walked out of my room. You know I think the devil works through people and he at my neighbors house speaking into that guy to test me, then came over to my room. Had to show me in such a way that he knows I'm turning away from the dark. I mean I know that sounds weird but I think that evil energy can manipulate technology like that. You know like what poltergeist can do. My house is not haunted so I know it's not my house. Just weird and thought I would share.
@twaambomuzeya64404 жыл бұрын
Girl we need to talk i need to the same
@swalker36504 жыл бұрын
@@RiseAbove-wc2hs that s funny that you said that the guy u messed around with lived next door so do mine he left me and started messing with the neighbor just cause I didn't give him sex 1 day and haven't heard from him since but I have a feeling he going call or knock on my door sooner or later he just using her like he used me but she way older than him and she has a husband
@kisha9044 жыл бұрын
I learned this the hard way one year ago after my 3 year relationship ended. I actually thought we were in a relationship but his last words to me were “I can’t remember ever asking you to be my girlfriend”. Yup, after traveling the world together, being introduced to family members as gf etc. I was obviously his option until he found something “better”. These days my heart stays guarded!!!
@dclarke21794 жыл бұрын
He was looking for an out. Nobody really says will you be my girlfriend. But He has to introduce you to his parents or important people in his life as such.
@LindaObilo4 жыл бұрын
So sorry about this. May God restore you in all the places that you feel drained ♥️🙏
@clarkclarke4 жыл бұрын
Damn!!! And that had to be so very painful ....so sorry .... Hope you are working on healing the hurt and know this ..if you know nothing else ....THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!..... Because I know from experience that we women beat yourselves up and what to know what is wrong with us or what did we so wrong ... Be strong my friend 💝💕🙏🏿💕💝
@bmbmbmbmbmbmbmb4 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me. Makes me think, what they say about you not having to be asked to be their girlfriend is not true. Make sure you make it a requirement where its a formal conversation to be had
@dezziim.76534 жыл бұрын
😢
@tawandacargile74894 жыл бұрын
You just helped me make a decision.
@keiron.46124 жыл бұрын
What time we meeting then
@CherrellMishelle4 жыл бұрын
David Parkinson 😂😂😂
@keiron.46124 жыл бұрын
@@CherrellMishelle I'm sure that was your decision lol😁💕
@CherrellMishelle4 жыл бұрын
David Parkinson You just gotta troll huh? 🤣
@keiron.46124 жыл бұрын
@@CherrellMishelle yes I have to I'm quarentned lol
@StandupGirl-ym3ey4 жыл бұрын
"Don't confuse their desire with them valuing you!" 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌You said a word right there!!! Passing the collection plate right neowwwwww!!! Just ended a relationship because although he said he wanted me and our relationship, he want putting in work to keep me or this relationship! He couldn't see my worth and I shouldn't have to keep proving my value to him! If he cannot and couldn't see it, let me remove my whole self out of his view! I have no more time to waste!
@kandygurl13104 жыл бұрын
Intuition is everything!
@crisclay26784 жыл бұрын
Kandy Gurl lil that shit ain’t real ...that’s why chicks got multiple baby daddies and failed marriages
@ShanaChow4 жыл бұрын
100% agree!
@thechristiansocialite12224 жыл бұрын
@@crisclay2678 That's the point. They haven't learn to listen to it or just plain ignore that gut feeling to say "I pass." "I need not to engage with you." Whatever is hindering them in listening to their God given discernment is blocking them from hearing "No, thank you. I'll move on.". Both men and women. Neither are exempt from the baby making process called reproduction. Anyone you lay with is a potential parent for 18 years +.
@kandygurl13103 жыл бұрын
@smtechx5000 🤔
@leslieweir70514 жыл бұрын
ive been hanging out with a guy for 7 months and he doesnt want nothing but a friendship/ sex buddy when he isnt entertaining other woman....i had to step back because i actually really like him, and it sucks when u know they dont feel the same...
@swalker36504 жыл бұрын
I went through this last year with a guy broke my heart 💔 I l learned my lesson though
@LindaObilo4 жыл бұрын
Better to break up a relationship than a marriage. All the best.
@DrTLEvans4 жыл бұрын
Leslie Weir see this for what is, dear. If you want more, severe ties with him starting with closing your legs and cut him off. Don’t waste another minute on someone who has told and shown you they only want a piece of you. You are not a la carte. You show ppl how to treat you by what you allow. You can find the one who wants to be with you, holding on to someone who was meant to be temporary. Cut him loose and take some time to do some soul searching and build up your self efficacy. When you have high self efficacy, these types of brothers won’t even step to you. You will radiate and exude self confidence that will arrest and a man accountable for how he approaches you. You seem to know what you want, Queen. Don’t settle for anything less.
@listeningviayoutube72294 жыл бұрын
You must love yourself, 1st & foremost. Men can only do what YOU let them do.
@markwhittaker68664 жыл бұрын
Get rid of his ass. PLAIN AND SIMPLE!
@PreciousB19832 жыл бұрын
I was talking to a guy for months and he played mental gymnastics with me, we went through an emotional rollercoaster just for him to recently tell me he’s not ready for a relationship and he just wants a “sample” I told him we want different things and I’ll save my body for a king who wants all of me. I cut him off for good two days ago.
@mistypawlicki318902 ай бұрын
How'd tht turn out for you
@HazSut4 жыл бұрын
Wasted time is something we cannot get back. Do no allow anybody to waste your time know when to walk away and close the book. Protect your peace and sanity.
@smartkookie4 жыл бұрын
Don't confuse someone "investing" in you as love. Men will spend spend (money and time) for that 🐈 then drop you like nothing after getting it.
@smartkookie4 жыл бұрын
@ Don't have any sex with him without a commitment. Make sure everyone in his life know who you are and who you are to him. Tbh there is no real formula to this only preventive measurements to keep your heart protected. I just don't want you to be soo cautious that you miss out on love. You will know when a man truly loves you. He will respect you and go out of his way for you. Be safe out here young lady.
@directorclarkmonroe2 жыл бұрын
This goes for gay relationships as well. I’m not giving my goodies away to anyone and everyone who don’t deserve me. I’m so done with relationships at this point. I know this man who I like want his cake and eat it too and just wants to screw me. I’m not giving him the time of day anymore. He won’t get to even experience what sex with me will be like if he isn’t ready to be committed. I know my worth.
@memoir024 жыл бұрын
Looorrrd I just went through this 😭😭 He talked to me everyday for a month, complimented me, vibed with me, we hung out, and just when I was excited about our connection and thought he was ready to start dating me..he backs away and starts talking alot less, treats me like I'm not that important and eventually ends things with me. I was devestated and depressed for over a month...just starting to try to move on now. Guess he "wanted" me but didn't value building anything with me like that. Crushed all my hopes for having an actual relationship
@shekinahfire59364 жыл бұрын
That's why sweetheart, you have to date more than one man ar a time, to prevent this from happening.
@memoir024 жыл бұрын
@@shekinahfire5936 I've heard that, but what if you don't have options? I don't have men lined up to want to date me like that :(
@shekinahfire59364 жыл бұрын
He who have friends must show himself friendly. Open yourself up to get more acquainted with men whom you usually wouldn't, but use discernment of course. This is how men date; they always keep their options open, until they meet the woman they want to marry. This way, you won't put all of your attention and affection into one man, please believe, they always keep a spare.
@CeeP2112 жыл бұрын
@@memoir02 I had multiple men, but there was one I still liked the most. So while yes it's ideal to have multiple men, sometimes even that doesn't work if there is someone you really like. Heartbreak is just a part of dating whether you have multiple men or not. I'm sorry that happened to you. ❤
@ScaryToRemarry4 жыл бұрын
A lot of people want what’s quick and convenient. Let me get what I want from this person, that person... We repeat the cycle leading up to marriage. Soon as our spouse do something we don’t like, we ready to leave. The danger of a serial dater jumping into marriage.
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
It is bad. But prayerfully people will change in Jesus name.
This video is so on time! I just decided this week to stop wasting my time with a guy who obviously isn't that serious about me. His name in my phone is "He not ready sis" lol as a reminder 😂
@nataliewaterman61144 жыл бұрын
Wow! I needed to hear this. Thanks Stephan Speaks!! 💯 I have met three guys in the last several months (all at various times) saying they wanted to get to know more about me because they were intrigued and liked who I am as a person. With each guy, the conversations were good, even the their lasts texts and conversations ended on a high note and expressed interest. Literally, a day or so later I begin to notice habits changed in regards to communication. I asked one guy was everything good, he was like yep. So I'm like how are you so head over hills one day and the next you're dry. So I begin to evaluate each conversation with each guy...I reviewed my texts and they all stated something positive on both ends and I replayed our last verbal conversations (in my mind) and the same thing we got off saying we will chat later, have a great night, let me call you back in a few minutes and etc. Nothing alarming to say I needed to be ghosted. So I got in my feelings but soon realized maybe God is covering me from the men I don't need.
@shekinahfire59364 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯💯🔑
@jojose417 Жыл бұрын
Rejection is Gods protection
@annelieb47754 жыл бұрын
You are helping so many of us! Don't stop! Praying for you! 🙏🏽
@officialmarshaj4 жыл бұрын
On time Word! I just made a major decision, wasn’t easy but I believe it’s worth it...#growth #ValueYourselfQueen
@jackmu183 жыл бұрын
As did I girl! We got this and will get through🙏🏾💪🏾
@msve37304 жыл бұрын
You are preaching. Do not confuse their desire with them valuing you. Man I had this alllllllll wrong. Now I know why I'm not married , because every guy wasnt my husband. They just wanted to play with me.
@brendac91464 жыл бұрын
I'm sick and tired of it. My whole life I've never dated a man who really wanted a relationship just hookups. sigh.....
@jessicabarlow74123 жыл бұрын
Same sis same😏
@evolvedtwinflame11713 жыл бұрын
Same girl
@daleunderdue69354 жыл бұрын
That's why I stay by myself and don't put my trust, love, faith, etc. in a Male or anyone else but GOD. 🙏
@dianagentile76364 жыл бұрын
THATS MY GREATEST REVELATION ‼️ DO NOT NEED A MAN‼️ JUST NEED GOD‼️ 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️‼️
@daleunderdue69354 жыл бұрын
@@dianagentile7636 🙏 to that. Be safe, aware and stay healthy.✊🙂
@wisesavedone27214 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
All my trust love and heart belongs to God. God loves us and God bless everyone.🙏☺💕
@Genesis-1014 жыл бұрын
These men today are so superficial, I want something deep...I want something real...you feel me
@kervindor4 жыл бұрын
Yeah and women love to judge partners based on things they can control like how rich or tall they were born
@joev30664 жыл бұрын
Necole not all men
@Genesis-1014 жыл бұрын
Joe V ok Joe
@808HEAVEN3 жыл бұрын
of course the person who makes this comment spells "nicole" with an e
@nashonharris78054 жыл бұрын
You are changing my life slowly but surely.
@misswendy81414 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾Thank you for setting a standard for many others out there who may not be able to identify that they are experiencing this situation right now. I say this because when you know better, you do better! 👸🏾
@standingchampionkt53444 жыл бұрын
Honestly I don’t need anyone to invest in me. I just want my peace. God’s timing ❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥
@virgoqueen1484 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾 I tell my clients this all the time 🙏🏾 many are called few are chosen
@thechristiansocialite12224 жыл бұрын
That's a good one. I like that. I like to always find a scripture verse to apply human philosophy to. This scripture is not only speaking about being chosen by God for his purpose but you can also apply it to relationships which also has a purpose for God's creation.
@candicet64334 жыл бұрын
This is a whole word! Especially during this corona season, loneliness is real
@jartustevens98314 жыл бұрын
Some may want me but may not be for me. Deep 💞🙏
@ShanaChow4 жыл бұрын
so good! :)
@jartustevens98314 жыл бұрын
@@ShanaChow ikr💯
@stellakamau69944 жыл бұрын
There is a difference in seducing you and pursuing you.
@humbleheart26504 жыл бұрын
Stella Kamau 👏🏾
@ButterCookie19844 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@shanqanishaj.64112 жыл бұрын
Listen! 💪👏👏
@malebelomaphutha65663 жыл бұрын
'Don't entertain temporary people' …well said!!
@aushahector4 жыл бұрын
I love this! Confirms a current situation I’m facing. And to add, it doesn’t make the person a bad person _ you just gotta be willing to embrace the better you deserve! Took me a veeery long time to do so.
@lwhite4744 жыл бұрын
Sooo true
@youngking18224 жыл бұрын
I heard that👌 it's time to stop wasting time on ppl 💯
@kourtney1014 жыл бұрын
I believe you. For those who believe, spiritual discernment will always, ALWAYS caution u when your choice leads you away from God's instructions about a person or situation. 💙💙💙
@specialkchosen14614 жыл бұрын
You’ve been put in favorites again, I’ve chose not to date because I’m grinding hard for my future for the past 6 years still now. But I’ll definitely keep these videos. If women truly learn to lose themselves in God, the right man will come. Waiting is not in vain, Patience is a virtue.❤️! Remember my name you’ll see it in the future breaking barriers. Much love
@Laneshaturner4 жыл бұрын
I wish I could have heard it like that 20 yrs ago, I would been on a different path. Bit it's neva too late. Thanks Stephen
@joannadziokan32674 жыл бұрын
When I was 15yo I already knew I wanted peace more than anything else. I got blinded and distracted by this bad boy and my life changed for worse. I repeated this pattern few more times. I understood this is what I saw at home: mother and stepfather, arguments, jealousy, manipulations... I don't live a lie anymore. I try to work on myself now as I'm sick and tired of BS in my life. I know I invited all this. But no more. I'm currently single and loving my peace. Thank you for this vid Stephan :)
@dianagentile76364 жыл бұрын
Thank You 🙏 but I’m NO LONGER INTERESTED IN LOVE!!! STAY BLESSED ALWAYS!!!
@sophiarussellwalker50184 жыл бұрын
Identify who really desire being with you as opposed to those who just likes the idea of being with you.
@tanyarush17524 жыл бұрын
It took me a longtime to know the true value of me. Now that I've realized my worth with the help of your videos. I'm truly in love with myself and have kicked ALL of them broken..confused..waste of time..WYD men out of my life..Bye Boys!!
@pinkbuttercup2023 Жыл бұрын
I walked away! Today! I can’t continue to be with a man that does not want a relationship with me! He gave me so much attention! Taking me out all the time called me every day but that’s it! So today I broke it off and took my power back! Thanks to your videos I realized he was wasn’t the one!
@weilikang56109 ай бұрын
I wished I watch this video 3 months ago.
@missmarley19904 жыл бұрын
My ex is in my ear at the moment about coming back to relationship but accuses me of starting an argument every time I bring up the root causes of the issues! Bye Felicia!
@Jra225 Жыл бұрын
Works both ways. I began seeing a lady. I'm a great-looking guy, in shape, professional, intriguing, sexy, super intelligent and she has had more fun than she has ever had - This is what she said after I asked her “ where do you see this going ?” The flattered y was followed by “ I'm not looking for a serious relationship “. I said, “ ok, I will fall back .” I dropped her that second. After 5 minutes she called then texted then called. I'm good. We are both over 40. Ain't nobody got time for that.
@blessedchild19814 жыл бұрын
What Stephan? Did you read my mind or something? This video is right on time and the truth!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@clarkclarke4 жыл бұрын
"Do not confuse desire with value" Stephan .. WoW!!!!
@yvasarts3 жыл бұрын
many will want you but few will invest in you , wow... great way to put it
@tammyjacobs75654 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this ❤
@markwhittaker68664 жыл бұрын
Short and sweet and straight to the point. Excellent and insightful video.
@sylviacarter87744 жыл бұрын
So many wasters of valuable time....
@sylvialovencarter21793 жыл бұрын
@smtechx5000 Really???????
@debbiereid25434 жыл бұрын
Gee I just love the truth that you speak! Thank you! 💕
@kimduguay40614 жыл бұрын
Being single now, you are helping me to figure this one out! Thank you so much, I appreciate you
@chestervillaruel65654 жыл бұрын
Kim Duguay Kim are you filipino?
@robbyefulghum20384 жыл бұрын
Yes, Yes, Yes...Stephan you spoke the truth...
@gorgeouslady56124 жыл бұрын
The two men I have Dated We're Faithful to me. I have met numerous men In my life and they were All Gentlemen. I have No regrets from my past Relationships.
@CharCharJars4 жыл бұрын
WOW!!! Thank you, this described my previous relationships and I really appreciate you sharing. Learned that people want you to settle for their standards and as long I I believed things were going somewhere as far as a potential marriage, I made myself believe I should stay. I also know I'm in my growing stage and becoming more healthy to be in a relationship. I realized the more unhealthy relationships, the more my healing process is going to be held up. No more settling, no more entertaining people that don't really value me or not healthy enough for a healthy relationship. #HealthyHealingGrowth
@autumnbrooke17212 ай бұрын
It’s so hard .. especially when they’re actually a great person .. and a Loyal friend :: but they don’t want more ❤
@KingdomFocusedRM4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! I'm not wasting anymore time on temporary people. Value over desire, indeed. Grace and peace!
@Momo_202484 жыл бұрын
Let the church say Amen....what a word! Confirmation again that I cut off someone before I waisted my time.
@dvynthetraveler95093 жыл бұрын
Theres a woman I go on casual dates each time I visit her city. We met 7yrs ago but I lived across the country. She wants a relationship with me but doesnt want a LDR as Im away in the military for 2 more yrs, then Im moving to her city. We've each dated others in the meantime so I'm not exactly putting my life on hold, but she is the one I truly wish to be with.
@ericabailey70124 жыл бұрын
Facts
@keythjones95884 жыл бұрын
Very well said my beloved brother ✌️ and God bless you
@jamieking74714 жыл бұрын
You are teaching. I wish I knew this years ago. You have to be patient or those temporary people will use you up
@OrganixJD4 жыл бұрын
Thank you love! You have given me hope with your wonderful words of inspiration.
@evandawilson43794 жыл бұрын
True about that am going through that now looking for the one who really want to play their part in a relationship
@MsAdreaL4 жыл бұрын
Phew! I mean... Wow. Short, concise, and LOADED!!
@justlue3804 жыл бұрын
I think this was my last relationship of 2yrs 🤦🏾♀️....Keep telling him about his time and it just never gotten better and I kept waiting for it to come together on its own.
@maameekua99494 жыл бұрын
“Oh, the love that thought it; oh the grace that brought it.”
@leticiahana90634 жыл бұрын
Omg give this guy a Nobel price he speaks all the truths without deceiving people.
@wendybecker31764 жыл бұрын
Every time you post...it makes me cry! I appreciate so much your insight and how you often times bring it back to prayer. I have to believe that the past four years were not a waste with this man...but instead...a stepping stone to something better! Thank you for all you do.
@janeisaac38294 жыл бұрын
I am probably 15years too late....Nowadays i feel like i should just up and leave after trying to hold us together and its like he still doesn’t get me!!!.....It is well 🥺🥺🥺🥺😢
@markwhittaker68664 жыл бұрын
Better 15 years than 20 years or 30 years. Stay strong and stay blessed.
@hausofrlateish4 жыл бұрын
Yessss👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 preach it!
@sue-ellendouglas68914 жыл бұрын
Very true! My only problem is that the ones who normally want to be with me (and willing to go above and beyond to be in a relationship), I’m not attracted to 😫.
@jamilawilliams49694 жыл бұрын
Wow, you did that! You’re so smart man of God🙌🏽
@AnonymousAnonymous-rd1un4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully... said... I just backed off... No explanation..was needed... I appreciate those Words of Encouragement...
@biancaoctavia2294 жыл бұрын
I absolutely needed to hear this today. It has made my own living Reality true. It’s time for my CHANGE. I have been feeling this for a few months now about the guy I’m seeing and I’ve been knowing better as well. But today something hit and it hit different. I deserve what I need and not what he wants. Thanks Stephen 👏👏👏
@AMShute4 жыл бұрын
Your video seems to speak to everyone and not a specific group. Much respect, King
@user-cu6mf5ed7t3 ай бұрын
Plrase expand on this, its really important to figure out quickly what man is worth it
@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi88844 жыл бұрын
Amen to those willing to put in the work 🙏🏾. Thanks for sharing!
@j.i.l21673 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree it can sometimes be more to it than that .Not always how we are seeing it.
@prithvirathore6689 Жыл бұрын
So true💯
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
💯 yes!
@abigalestoll2 жыл бұрын
That's so true.
@mariolyndennis5224 жыл бұрын
Agree ✔️
@maccimorales19874 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this message.
@porschelehman49864 жыл бұрын
That's good, that's important, see what they really want, yes my time and money was waisted... One year and half gone, he really wasn't ready, listen to what there saying and how they, I think he wanted marriage, but four months before the wedding, he broke up with me, saying it's not God's will.... Wow it's been since February he broke up me, I'm still healing its a process, he was telling he wasn't ready after he ask to marry him on December 25th, 2019. There was signs but I should have broke up a long time ago
@tti49194 жыл бұрын
Maybe your wrong
@2011ThaMrs4 жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed to hear that
@debrasmith61534 жыл бұрын
This spoke to me so loud,this is so true...I realize people are so artificial at times...needed this motivation.
@LuxuriousGlamourStudio4 жыл бұрын
Short & Snappy yet more in this little video to save lives lol 👏🏽👌🏾 People sometimes ask me “why someone like you not got a man?” my response often, they compliment but leave it at that. Ngl I’m tired of sweet words that don’t go anywhere, I’m so over it 🙄🤦🏽♀️ Keep them to yourself Brandon if you ain’t willing to graft! Thankfully I’m only 21 so I got some time on my hands 💃🏽
@annmacdonald78753 жыл бұрын
So clearly put.. excellent advice for discriminating the Kings from the clowns
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
Wow i need this God is always on time. I'm not wasting my time. Thank you God and stephan great message really help me. Don't settle for less i deserve better. 👏☺🙏
@tinasasso37614 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! Real talk, so true! Thank you for all of your videos with encouragement for true peace and a healthy relationship.
@browneyezs30824 жыл бұрын
I see you Boaz!!!! Thank you! Keep standing on the word of God and your Ruth is coming. One of my favorite love story in the Old Testament
@mariamakoroma42424 жыл бұрын
Wow this is powerful
@margueritebridges90292 жыл бұрын
Stephan: Exactly! By the way, I did get two of your books.
@cassandralee84332 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@lebogangkwabidzane56594 жыл бұрын
Great content❤️❤️❤️
@user-yv1fh3fc8y2 жыл бұрын
I could have listened to you for hours on this topic.
@drbhawnabist33523 жыл бұрын
I am happy I came across this channel..badly needed it