HOW TO UNDERSTAND YOUR HUSBAND OR BOYFRIEND || YOUR HUSBAND WANTS YOU TO WATCH THIS || WHAT MEN WANT

[@BerniceDauda]

Notes: 1. Trust his leadership (Example: What Eve did not do, "Let me ask my husband") 2. Speak life to him in private and in public. Be encouraging (Example: Abigail's words to David) 3. Give him space to process (Example: Esther taking time to talk to King Xerxes) 4. Pay attention to him (Example: Jezebel's attention to her husband) 5. Support him without being controlling. Offer value without imposing 6. Contribute to the things he does. Get interested in the things he loves. 7. Pray for and about him.

[@LajuIren]

Thanks for watching

[@beatriceagbabiaka1827]

It's worth it Thank you ❤️❤️

[@CynthiaKunah]

Good evening ma, please can a lady marry a guy who is not spiritual as her

[@LajuIren]

Please Subscribe

[@orjibaby]

I have subscribed o mama

[@erinolajerry]

Me too

[@imisioluwafajimi]

What stood out for me is “give value without control” and “I should be okay if things don’t go my way”

[@yomaibuje621]

Thank you so much ma for this video. This was a whole sermon for me. I wrote down almost 4 pages of points. May your wealth of wisdom never run dry ma.

[@kayodemattojo]

It's that moment Jezebel became an example 😂😂😂 the vastness of analogies drives home every point Thank you, PL ❤

[@Yappytee208]

Emphasis on Giving him space 😭 it’s hard but I’ll try😂

[@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dw]

😂😂❤❤

[@ADayintheLifeofTee]

For real. I don't even know how to do this.

[@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dw]

@@ADayintheLifeofTee may God guide and help you as you try.

[@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dw]

Also, you can sit with him and discuss it. ✨

[@priscillachinsembu4669]

Just keep busy...you have a life of your own..your own interests and all ...​@@ADayintheLifeofTee

[@edwinaampadu3487]

Thanks for the video PL. Can you kindly do a video on finances in marriage? How does it work? Joint account together with personal accounts or everything is joint or individual. I would appreciate your advice and perspective.

[@loly.z]

I want this teaching too

[@asubiojorejoice6369]

Same here

[@TaiwoAdetola-qg7dw]

❤❤❤ Every week on PL's channel is a breath of fresh air. She talks about very important topics in very simple and edifying ways. I love it here! Amaka, why haven't you subscribed? 👀 Plus, PL's laughter is so contagious😂. ❤❤❤

[@emeeliagape]

I love the way you smile. It makes us want to watch it more. Love, love, love it.

[@ADayintheLifeofTee]

Let people's individuality grow even though you're now 1 with them

[@ephatagh3642]

In this generation we will normalize Godly wisdom. Thank you PL for churning out this timeless truth.

[@thetemitopeojo8261]

Yes. Abigail is so smart!! I loved her answer. She was very diplomatic, yet soft.

[@ADayintheLifeofTee]

The part about giving time to process...very difficult. Thanks for the Analogy. Esther was giving him time and space to process. Mary too... Communicate it; leave it with him, leave it with God. Give God time to work on your behalf. (Lol. What do I really need Jews for).

[@ojotuleemmanuelokutepa]

Everything you said here is super spot on my PL Ma! “Support without control” is a such a spot on counsel!

[@EniolaOmoboni]

You look so beautiful PL, thank you for the heads up, I would use these when my man comes🥰❤️

[@Obianuju-Nwankwo]

I love you Pastor Laju. I'm a Big Fan❤❤❤

[@marvellous-goddavid2401]

Support without control... Beautiful video PL! GOD bless you!❤

[@Davidovbiagele]

I love how, Detailed, Insightful and Intentional this video and the other version of it are; Very Solid points, very interesting examples from Scriptures (even the most unassuming ones) 😅. Great analogies, and to cap it off I discovered that they’re the exact same length to the last second. PL you deserve some accolades 👏 Thank you ma

[@kiswendsidalydieyanongo1391]

Offer help and value without control ❤

[@dplusgraphixstudio]

PL , God bless you. I have watched the what ladies wants too. I would advise this is also reinstated at upcoming Ladies Conference. You capped it all.

[@fiery_angel]

Nnayi let us die here😭😂 So many secrets and valuable wisdom🥺God bless you PL❤

[@temi45]

Trust his leadership. 👌🏼 Very profound.

[@morganrucker9275]

I loved this video. I’m in a relationship now and struggle with understanding my partner sometimes. I’m going to try to soften up and take your advice. I’ll report back if we get married lol

[@peteradeleye5713]

Thank you so much PL for this content, you are doing well ma'am. The aspect that resonated with me although I am single and not yet in a relationship is women speaking life to me. That really touched me.

[@vivianjohn1555]

You look so beautiful here Your skin routine is it 👌

[@GracefullyKaren]

Everything that you said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Speaking life is key. Wisdom is principle. Support, being an awesome cheerleader. God bless you 🙏🏿.

[@OluwadunsinTekobo]

Thank you so much, ma I like watching your videos ❤

[@florenceimakan]

PL is such a wise woman❤

[@BlessingOpatewa]

Here catching up with PL ✍️

[@imoleokediji5047]

It's this person is our enemy and should be prayed against for me 😂😭 Support without control, very solid

[@agomisrael]

Insightful

[@onomebenjamin7525]

Thank you so much ma'am.. God bless you with more wisdom... I love and celebrate you Ma.

[@temi45]

On my way to my WhatsApp community so they come to follow sharp. 🏃🏽‍♀️

[@ThisisDikky]

Here early to mark attendance! ✅

[@blessingochifea1794]

Thank you PL ❤ I learnt a lot

[@Comfort_Ebi]

We're set!💃

[@odeytheresao]

Thank you PL. God bless you ma.

[@peaceeromonsele4999]

PL is so full of wisdom! Thank you, PL. ❤

[@oshowise]

Support without control! That's my stand out point! Thank you PL. this is so spot on. I'll make sure my woman sees this🤭🤭

[@reveleerhemaushindiwangu8330]

This video popped up when I was facing a difficult time. God bless you ma😇

[@manelbrempong2585]

So educative!!!❤️. God bless you so much ma❤️❤️❤️

[@moyindeoshunsanya7700]

This is so so much wisdom, I’ve learnt a whole lot, I’m watching this all over again, I really want it to stick to me

[@olusegunabraham9015]

God bless you Ma'am... You have no idea just how many men you have spoken up for. This was so profound ❤

[@favourosaghaede9070]

I enjoyed the talk, but this look is giving 😍😍😍

[@karennwaomonoh1295]

“What do I really need Jews for…”😂😂

[@cynthiaihuoma751]

😂😂I heard that too😂

[@InspiredGrisele]

Guilty about time to process. Thank you Ma

[@estellenachela6592]

You need to let people's individuality grow even when you are now one with them.

[@UdoyeTobechukwu]

Speak life to your man always, Compliment, pray, support, Acts of service and pay attention to him. No truer words

[@ADayintheLifeofTee]

Thank you Pastor Laju...I'm happy I'm not alone with the way I behave. I pray your tips will help me do better. It can be difficult, but hearing it said is reassuring

[@joyigunma8267]

Awesome video! Thank you so much, PL!❤

[@temidayoadekunle4154]

Thank you PL. I’m grateful to God, for the day I stumbled on your channel ❤

[@victoryughakpoteni6942]

Thank you ma’am ❤

[@favourmmesoma48]

Thank you ma I love you so much ❣️

[@ikechukwuanumudu9470]

Let me share with my wife 😊😊

[@MasqueradeHQ]

Royalty + Royalty 😊😊😊😊

[@BlessingOpatewa]

Value Value Value 🔥🔥

[@thetemitopeojo8261]

Thank you ma for this video. I like how you started the video and didn’t generalize men’s needs.

[@ikechukwugrace8559]

Very insightful. God bless you ma

[@agnesbadzi8579]

Emphasis value and offer help without control

[@elizabethshiawoyaomoworare8328]

Thank you so much for this beautiful masterpiece

[@DeborahBriggsDB]

Thank you so much, Mama ❤🔥 Just started watching and the first point is so spot on! 👏👏👏

[@BlessingOpatewa]

Oh my goodness! Why do I feel guilty learning all these for free?😂 So much value! 🔥 I’m proud to say that I do 60% of these for my husband🙇🏾‍♀️. I’ll need to improve on the remaining 40%. God help me 🙌🏼 Thank you, Pastor Laju Iren.

[@beckyakhilome7236]

Good evening Not about the video though...wanted to ask when ll mistakenly yours be showing in uk cinemas...checked already. Thank you

[@alerotune]

So good! lol @ ‘not your enemy’❤

[@Franklinodaro]

Thank you for this video PL🙏

[@nueljaszper3333]

You see that " When she watches football with me" is is an irrefutable KEY. 😂

[@romadeogungbemi2962]

Lmaooo Nnayiiii😂😂😂

[@UchechukwuEdeh-t4t]

Offering value without control

[@favourndakara]

Thank you, PL.🙌🏽

[@bridgetojo]

We are here again!!!

[@Olamideofthenations]

This is very insightful Thank you ma

[@oluwaseunusidamen]

Thank you PL

[@stephenolosunde2942]

Get interested in the things he love... Kaiii ❤

[@Mide_lite]

Learnt alot ma

[@tolulopeelizabeth7142]

So insightful ma

[@Catxdthbkid]

Thank you

[@ADayintheLifeofTee]

I've been looking forward to this episode.

[@maameamabainson2254]

First time watching your video, I really enjoyed it thanks❤

[@ramalucid16]

Wow!! These words are heavenly inspired I believe. God bless you and more grace🙏

[@glorycharles6035]

Super excited for this episode ❤️🥳🥳

[@FaithAdegboye]

Thank you, ma

[@Nkemhalim]

PL!!! Thank you, mama❤

[@Yappytee208]

Thank you PL🎉❤

[@girllikevivi]

I'm not yet married but I'm glad I got to listen to this, so I can apply this when I get there 😊, thank you ma for this.

[@kpesugilderus11]

Is boyfriend allowed in Christianity?

[@ajibolap]

PL!!!

[@EniolaOmoboni]

You look so beautiful PL, thank you for the heads up, I would use these when my man comes🥰❤️

[@oluwatobiloladeborah5337]

Thank you PL😊

[@Thomas.Makinwa]

PL, you're one of the best teachers I know! Thank you for these gems❤

[@imisioluwafajimi]

Thank you PL❤❤❤

[@treasurebenson9773]

Thank you soo much PL this was extremely helpful and enlightening. ❤

[@DesignwithNanya]

Hi PL, I love the way you use bible references to butress your points.

[@joshuaobioma9933]

Beautiful

[@chuwanzichristy2518]

Thank you Ma

[@kanifechinyere]

🔥🔥🔥 Quite insightful thanks you PL❤

[@DeliahFashions]

❤❤❤❤

[@ogechionyeaboh7502]

This is beautiful

[@vanessaonuoha2437]

These are gems❤! Thank you PL. we are wiser for it

[@Beingempresspearl]

Full of wisdom ❤😊