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[@LanaBlakely]

Please keep in mind that everyone's experience is different. There's no right or wrong way to feel lonely. If you feel lonely, you are lonely. And that's okay. Would love to read about your experience and feel free to share some tips. Hope you enjoyed the video.

[@jassgill8753]

This video came right at the moment when I needed the most

[@jassgill8753]

Amazing video

[@onearyf1641]

I m not lonely.. I m just self-partnered 😁

[@dan4o8nik]

Your videos always clear my head and make me cheerful! Thank you so much for doing these videos.

[@kevinsuarez8949]

I liked your video👍👍. In my case I was always accompanied by my classmates but with the passage of time, although I was with them, I felt that I did not exist or was taken into account in the same way as my other friends, that was because I was different as they were (I have a different way of expressing myself or thinking than normal people) and that's why they started to get away from me, that made me feel like I was alone in life, I felt I had to act and speak just like them to be accepted and deny myself or I would always be alone.

[@aslan5601]

For me, loneliness is when for once, I want to be around people and then I realize that there’s nobody to be around

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

Could you find someone who share the same hobby as you do?｡◕ v ◕｡

[@rawanalsofi7658]

Omg I relate to this so badly 💔💔

[@mylbii]

I feel you.

[@sujinkang959]

I feel that too

[@vanshikathakur]

There there ❤️ you'll get through

[@Daniel__2005]

I don’t have friends, I just know people tbh.

[@franfranfran]

Me too, in a way quarantine helped me realise that. feelsbadman :/

[@_cloud131]

I feel the same way...

[@z.anaser]

Its strange how I literally know a lot ( I mean a lot ) of people but no one knows me. Even the people who know me doesn’t know I exist. I’ve tried to text people and start a conversation with them but every time it feels like I’m forcing the relationship. Now I don’t even reply to any texts, I’ve switched my phone number so that no one calls me. The only reason I’m using social media is because of my online classes.

[@franfranfran]

@@z.anaser woah I'm the same. There's so many people around us yet no one clicks or understands how you work

[@papaisduniyakapapa]

@@z.anaser I have some friends, they only contact me when they need me for something :(

[@pallaviahuja9641]

This loneliness is eating me up from inside. Came here after crying, don’t want to live like this anymore!😭

[@kelseymathias3881]

I get it

[@Arabella-12]

@@kelseymathias3881 it's okey

[@tusharchandanshive9806]

I obviously don't know you but stay strong. I too am going through a very tough time myself. But let's hope Time will change and Nothing is constant in this world including sadness .

[@Sakkshh]

People are lucky to get friends to spend the time with to share their feelings ,thoughts. Feel so lonely sometimes

[@gunnamuma1021]

It's okay you are not alone ❤️ And one day you will find true friends too. So don't worry enjoy your life❤️ BTW are you from India

[@user-sb8hz1np5q]

This comment sums up

[@dannystark7668]

Hey if you NEED a friend,I'm always here ,a fellow loner. I'm ready to hear your story,talk anytime.

[@mVerma91]

Hi

[@ck_423]

I feel this way too eyes watering now bcs I feel this sooooooo strongly

[@seraphcozyy2047]

I get depressed when I see everyone having the best time with their friends and I'm just staying here doing nothing. Everyday I wake up and I don't even have a message. Its just horrible.

[@denisee8885]

same ..

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

Hey sera, do you have any hobby you wanna explore? Maybe you don't share the same value as those people? I'm sorry that you feel depressed.

[@sidrahhasan4688]

Same😢

[@ingridonthemoon3783]

Totally relatable 😔💜

[@lunalee6775]

I'm so sorry 💔 I hope things get better, I have same situation and it hurts a lot 😞

[@julieragheb4909]

i wake up everyday with 0 notifications. having no friends is heart breaking man

[@fullhd8721]

Get closer to ALLAH you will never feel lonely

[@stellahaze3743]

I LOVE YOUR USERNAME

[@saralimbu6104]

Same, we can be friends

[@bartleon]

I want to share. About Jesus. John 6: 35 And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst. Philippians 4: 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things. 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 21: 24 This is the disciple who is testifying to these things and wrote these things, and we know that his testimony is true. 25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they *were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself *would not contain the books that *would be written. kzbin.info/www/bejne/hIHSgnyMnpmHZ80 Where can one start reading The Bible? In The New Testament: The Gospel of John and/or Acts.

[@julieragheb4909]

@@fullhd8721 i’m a religious person and i pray all the time but it just gets worse

[@dolkarsy5576]

I skipped school because I’m crying from extreme loneliness. The reason I gave my classmates was that I missed by mom. It’s the first time I’ve felt this. I’ve always been alone but seeing other people going in pairs with their friends, have someone to accompany you at all times and not having someone to talk to has made me reach my limits. Hope this is the last time I pity myself for being alone

[@Kawai_nezukoo]

Relatable.....hope u will get good friends as time passes

[@divine1562]

Relatable...lots of love to you! You are worthy and lovable 💞

[@itsshardiana8138]

So am I 🥹

[@hafsasalman2489]

Your feelings are temporary and it's ok to feel this way practice embracing the feeling and embracing the feeling. and there's no need to feel guilty. Your going to make amazing friends and for now it's important to focus and make yourself a priority casue you matter.

[@itskeiran1701]

I’m going through the same. Don’t worry you’re not alone.

[@monafarag9590]

There's absolutely no one to talk to no family no friends , it feels like you're having a war that no one knows anything about but you.

[@Ariadne4]

Sometimes, I wish my birthday never came, because usually for all my friends' birthdays, there would be a group of friends who get together and organise a surprise party or something for them, but no one does it for me. I try to console myself saying they must've forgot, but it hurts, because I always try to make their birthdays special in my own little way, but no one else does it for me

[@lunalee6775]

Omg I perfectly relate. I always cry and feel awful on my birthday because no one remembered or wished me a good birthday, but on their birthdays I get them something...

[@Liana-ku1vb]

You are not alone because I am in same situation with you.

[@exuberantdemon7205]

Hey, Happy birthday to you in advance!😊😊

[@joonie8774]

Really I cry my whole bday Month becoz no one cares n no one remembers I wish I don't exist

[@akayabeck2004]

The last time I celebrated my birthday and received a present was when I was 8-9. ..I feel you

[@sharoncohen3803]

I feel like I'm in this sort of paradox where I want to socialize and hang out with a lot of friends, but quickly my social battery gets empty and I need to be alone. And then if I'm just a bit tiny more alone than I needed, I start feeling lonely again. It's weird. I also can barely find people who actually enjoy deep, meaningful conversations. But maybe I'm just not looking in the right places. Anyone feels the same?

[@TheBlackSheepDiaries]

Oh yea. I can relate. I've been on a journey, and interested in many things. I don't meet too many that want to get real about some things. Come see a silly old man dealing with it. Stay strong.

[@LiFeeIsSMusicC]

Yeah, that's me guurl, I feel yaa :/

[@lupelopez8410]

Same here :(

[@ripshannon]

FUCK you described it perfectly! It fucking sucks. I feel the struggle in my head, heart, soul..it hurts so bad. I don't know which way to turn when it all seems to lead to disappointment and further heartbreak. Because I just don't fucking fit in anywhere. My interests aren't like others. I'm too monogamous for most people. It just sucks dude. My life is going to be filled with loneliness unless something kills us all soon lol. My pessimistic side helps deal with it. 😅

[@aadyanayan2604]

Omg you just spoke my mind girl. I feel ditto.

[@luvs444]

To everyone in the comments I’m really sorry , I’m in the exact situation. I’ve noticed so many people feel lonely these days :( or have no friends or family. If anyone is reading this I love you ❤️

[@championmetal953]

"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone." - Robin Williams

[@Ysamwoo]

Felt Experience every possible way

[@shreyajain8873]

True ...even if u have frds u can be alone

[@maddy53]

This is very true. I feel so lonely now, but nothing is as lonely as living with someone who is supposed to be your partner and never wants to spend time with you.

[@shreyajain8873]

Even if someone is somehow spending time with you still they don't share that nice positive feel which can make other feel toghter Happens in relationships

[@soibeem]

when the teacher says: get into pairs everyone I'm the only one who wants the teacher to pick the Partners

[@bko5489]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/oJPVaqSMqa2knpY Hey Peter. Hope you enjoy this song :)

[@mc1080]

Omg sameeeeeeeeeeee

[@jess7655]

Same ")

[@shinichinana]

Me

[@jornneiss9765]

This is me

[@rainyclouds7631]

I just don't want to spend the best years of my life alone

[@nate_the_great8387]

Damn bruh, this brought me to tears because i think about what you just said constantly. There’s not a day that goes by that I wish I wasn’t spending my best years of my life alone.

[@clau6023]

same and that's all i can think about, i feel so alone every single day

[@wolfloversas]

Nate_the_Great83 Rainy clouds would you want to create a discord to talk every week/other week? Just a thought to create a place to talk

[@stephw3475]

Same.. I feel like I’ve already wasted all my 20’s. Turning 30 soon and I feel so lonely. My bf left me 4 months ago. And everything just went downhill again and it’s the worst feeling.. it’s a beautiful Saturday and I’m in bed wishing I was out

[@Sariine436]

When your going to school it is not the best years of your life smh. Ya need to stop spreading myths.

[@Pinky-rp6bl]

From my experience, I believe that over a period of time, constantly being lonely is not just what you feel, it’s what you become.

[@Luciferfan13]

I totally agree...I spend most of my time on my own now other than when I'm at work..its getting harder to start up a conversation with people..its so much easier to text..

[@sparklenights5421]

yeah it's like a habit, it doesn't really bother me anymore though, at least not on small scales, but the scale gets bigger and you get used to it more

[@itsmeeee404]

Exactly

[@mukeshsekar1525]

8 billion people in the world, but still lonely

[@sparklenights5421]

Crazy

[@quinn6756]

its sad

[@heyangel28]

that's so fucking depressing to think about

[@Cared_lesss]

yepp😣🥺

[@alexzie.]

you have 8 billion chances. how is it possible to die alone, then?

[@amyv9312]

I want a friendgroup like in the movies, I want to be able to send a text in a groupchat and then have them come over, I want to feel included. But I’m just sitting here, in my room, alone, every day edit: 1 year later and I can proudly say that I now have the best friends ever!!!! please everyone, just know that your people will come! just keep on smiling, everyone could be your new best friend!!

[@smurk6951]

Literally me everyday ur not alone

[@smurk6951]

Makes me wanna die

[@amyv9312]

@@smurk6951 :)) We just gotta remember that there are better times to come! We will get people in our lives that we can do these with!! right now just isn’t the right time yet

[@teacherparkshe7357]

You're supporter here...

[@Machelle3200]

I don't think that really exists. And if it does its rare. Smfh

[@l7rb]

my eyes teary while watching the comments section, no one deserve to be left alone.

[@inanimatemist8610]

I know, I feel so bad and want to be friends with everyone:(

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

Maybe everyone feels scared to open and to reach out.

[@ancetade2329]

Inanimatemist be my friend pls i have no one

[@georgeschofield6099]

@@TheLibraryOfEmotions that me hurt more talk about it have menlth health problems but did give heart soul into my relilship women wast nough woodt be they you listen my pain . I want reach out . I try best I been nice people but still get hurt I don't no ware going wrong. Maybe should nasty but that not me. Take care .

[@georgeschofield6099]

@@aishaarsh not alone often say to myself why . I cry lot. It painful. Hope you find happiness . Take care. Woodt be fare me to broad you with my problems.

[@migueldasilva8772]

The worst Loneliness is try to please others and then coming back to the reality that you couldn’t please everyone…😢

[@Bingbongq]

To me rejection is helpful it tells you whether you and another person are compatible you need to stop seeking approval from others

[@jyotipanwar1698]

Hey

[@migueldasilva8772]

@@jyotipanwar1698 how are you doing ☺️

[@jyotipanwar1698]

@@migueldasilva8772 m doing good... What about u ?

[@migueldasilva8772]

@@jyotipanwar1698 all good thank you I sent you a message on instagram😊

[@mirandaguastella8716]

The worst part of being isolated is that you may never have a hug or a conversation again. I was looking to see if others where going through the same & found this page . I’ve been on my own all my life and yes most of the time you can handle it but sometimes you can’t - it’s a killer.

[@ionelagrosu5100]

I wanna be friends ❤️❤️❤️

[@pwians786]

@@worldExplorer__ do u send every where same comment

[@marigunyaga9262]

@@pwians786 I thought so too He must have made lotta friends by now😊

[@pwians786]

@@marigunyaga9262 yaa 😅

[@blaketipewan4030]

Oh my gosh I. So lonely

[@aleks7844]

Ever since quarantine started, I've realised im always the one who has to text first with people. I just feel like im not wanted. It sucks :/

[@vorttevorvor4775]

❤you matter

[@GorillaFlakes]

Same...they probably feel the same way. But I doubt that for me

[@maryam-nusa]

Exactly and they won’t respond for so long even though they’re so active on social media and if they did, they would reply with one word.. oh and if I don’t text first, literally no one will ask about me, but they would still interact with each other.. I usually don’t care but I keep getting ignored, it hurts especially since we were “friends” for years.. it hurts, but I’m trying to learn new things and it’s getting my mood up.. and I want you to know that you’re beautiful inside out and they’re the ones who are losing a gem, so don’t think about them too much!

[@patriknagy68]

Yes.. thats what makes me give up on “friends” because its just feels one sided and I dont deal with BS.. life is to short.

[@SKumar-ki1yb]

I feel you...

[@micad482]

Hugs for everyone who feels alone.

[@georgeschofield6099]

Been that long sence had hug I given up ever being happy I try my best I was nice with my lady friend s. My problems only ever meant one nice lady in my life she die the other use me and dominant me I just can't win. I have given up trying love. Hug would be nice or even friend but seem to much ask for. Must be destiny be on my own. Give any thing be happy and get hug . It been nearly year on my own then break my cruse I meant a women in lockdown by chance we got on well but only texs me she would t speak on phone I except that. Then kept saying wanted me have dinner coffee I thought that nice . But every time ranger meet she never came . Didt Tex me. Only heard from her late that day after 10 night. Allway had excuse . Then one day ask me do her fav and lent her money she said Def give you back like fool did and never got it back . It got strage she wanted laptop computers for college and other stuff . She only wanted me when wanted things of me. I didt buy her that stuff . So I gave her up it kill me do that . If did hug me just once wood took that or even kiss once wild. You see now how hard it is me. You have nice day. Mica.

[@sreenathgs6422]

Thanks. The feeling is slowly killing me. I don't know how to overcome this😔

[@georgeschofield6099]

@@sreenathgs6422 do you have any menlth health problems like me like axtiety dresspression . At min the lockdown is spolie me I can't mixed what might help you if when we get back to normal. You can get referral of doctor and he sent you to day center and different ones they have keyworker like support worker. And get you classes and groups so don't feel alone . So when on your own feel down like do they come out to see you. See if they can help you. That my problems at min not mixed any one and it hurts. I am here to listen I can try cheer you up. Me been on my own now for 10 monlth. And live on my own 16 year in my flat . Me had lot of bad luck. Lost my mum of late and lost dear lady friend to. Cover 19. I don't no if wanted here my story it bit sad. Best advice give you love. You dresve be happy your not on your own I understand how you feel I have been they love.

[@georgeschofield6099]

@@sreenathgs6422 if need get out what upsetting you I am here to listen .

[@00imz]

ty hugs for u too

[@oluwatonilobatella5483]

Nothing worse than always being there for people when they need you and them never showing up when you need them

[@nayiu.555]

Fr though:(

[@joshuabuchanan1141]

Exactly

[@tomatof]

Moved to another country, being an introvert I am having a really hard time to make new friends, afraid of people but wanting to connect with people at the same time. Living thousand miles away from family and friends, feel like drifted apart from them and no one can understand me anymore.

[@athen3]

Take a deep breath, and then go with a broad smile to your place of work or study, and do not be careful and afraid of mistakes and the bad first impression. If we do not make a mistake, how will we learn? There are relationships that are destined to fail and relationships that live for a long time, so decide whether you will go through an experience in which you will live failure and success, or will you remain afraid and regretful? To be frank with you, I was wary of all kinds of relationships and I was afraid in my last year at school because I had just moved, so I did not talk to anyone because I was afraid of what they would say about me or what their impression of me would be, and here I am, regretting that I did not take the first step.

[@tomatof]

@@athen3 Thank you for the reply! It resonates with me that being too careful and afraid of making mistakes part. I am taking baby steps to break through, I hope you are too :)

[@tinkymcginnis]

Me too.

[@khizzard_069]

@@athen3 aatheena?

[@mary561686]

Hi! I'm in the same situation, even though I've been 6 years in my new country. Where did you move to? How old are you?

[@Ksjsj408]

You know when people say , “cut them off because they are toxic for you.” I don’t think they realize that those are your only “friends”. 💩

[@Liahh_490]

true

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

Most people are not perfect, if you don't actually value your "friends", just don't have too much expectation with them if you are going to stay with them because you know it's not a deep connections.｡◕ v ◕｡

[@Ksjsj408]

@@TheLibraryOfEmotions A normal person who is not perfect is different from a toxic person. A toxic person purposely chooses to act that way with you. It’s hard to let go of them because you feel like it’s better to be with them rather than be lonely. I have had friends like that. But luckily now I have let go of them but it can be very hard to move on when your not very social.

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

@@Ksjsj408 It must be really hard for you to move on. I feel happy for you.

[@gravityfalls8439]

@@Ksjsj408 yea I understand most of my friends are not toxic but just that they have better friends than me so if I have to be with them I just hope they don't have any other plans

[@supercalifragilisticexpial2293]

reading the comments really made me sad, so many people feeling alone, including myself. depression and anxiety suck.

[@haveaniceday9347]

+1

[@yourewatchingthewrongperso2019]

I know. It sucks. I hope the pain eases

[@cparada106]

I wish we could all meet each other and silently hang out hahaha

[@natalyaporter5730]

@@cparada106 yeah that would be great

[@eltoro969]

I had to press Like because then I became Nr 666. Sorry.

[@tthsbc]

first i thought my loneliness came from having bad experiences with other people, having spent my whole life bullied at school and then never being able to trust people or think they would be gentle and really care about me. that is part of it, but not the whole point. now i realize my loneliness also comes from the fact that i happen to have two rare deseases and no matter how much i try to explain how terrible and painful it is, no one will never truly know what i mean. many times i don't even feel like i belong to this earth, not recognize myself as a human being.

[@tthsbc]

nor*

[@biancahotca3244]

Oh, dear God bless you! Hugs to you and much love ❤️.

[@isabelahoward]

Oh wow. I relate to this so much. I’ve been bullied and torn down all my life. I understand this. I understand creating a wall of trust issues but wanting more than anything to have friends. It’s difficult. I don’t know what it’s like to have a disease but I’m praying for u. U are just as worthy if not more than worthy to have at least one good friend. Don’t ever stop. This pain feels never ending. Im not gonna sit here and tell u it gets better bc i cant say that. Idk that for sure… if i did i would be lying. Maybe it doesn’t get better but when u start loving yourself in the smallest way life loves u back. That’s a quote that’s been keeping me going. Probably the only thing on earth that’s keeping me going. Find something in ur life that u believe in

[@tthsbc]

@@biancahotca3244 that means so much 🌹 thank you

[@tthsbc]

@@isabelahoward i am so sorry for all pain that you've been through. i'm in tears with your words and support. i can't sag how much this saved my day, and i truly hope you can keep going and getting better. i'm sending all my kind and grateful energy to you. i'll carry your message in my heart 🌹

[@juanbautista3989]

It’s been 6 years since I last hung out with anyone. After graduating from high school I started losing touch with my friends little by little. I graduated from college almost a year ago and although I met a lot of nice people I couldn’t make any new friends or stay in touch with them and that became much harder during the pandemic. There are so many conversations I’d like to have, so many things I want to say but I don’t have anyone to talk to. I’ve been applying to jobs for 6 months and so far I haven’t gotten hired. I wanna have my own money so I can buy my own stuff and don’t have to ask anyone for anything. I have the desire of reuniting with my closest friends, catch up with them and have fun like I used to when I was a teenager. However, I learned during the pandemic that I have to let go of people who at some point I got along with but now things changed. I only miss my friends who only treated me right the whole time and always respected my boundaries.

[@Samantha-hj9bl]

This is legit me in college right now ..I'm literally joining an institution after covid..n I don't know wht to expect .. socializing drains my energy

[@osse1n]

Don’t forget: *It’s better to be alone, than in a wrong company.*

[@cosmicfxx]

Yes I agree... But still sucks being alone for a very long time

[@urboturbo1249]

i do agree for the most part, a wrong company often makes you suffer more. but there are times when you might need a bit of conversation, even with wrong people.

[@user-dl2hu3wq6h]

why is this the most liked comment? atm

[@igorquebec7315]

I enjoy being alone (even if still around people), even if it's for a long time.

[@ntm3970]

disagree

[@nynyc3383]

Having no friends hits different on the weekend 😭

[@fbiopenup5345]

Yes! It hits bad i know the feeling. Also having two or three friends that never make the first move to plan something with you but with others. It's awful!

[@fbiopenup5345]

@benjamin ramsey It's truly terrible that people feel like that. What's the point i don't get it...

[@k.b.1603]

Lol forreal

[@k.b.1603]

I do have friends they are all busy

[@nynyc3383]

Kell K I don’t want to be negative but they are not that busy.. trust me people make time for what they truly want 🙁

[@tangkamchimomin8502]

Seeing others in school having fun and enjoying with their friends make me feel so lonelyy😢

[@Lilyys]

I've become so lonely to the point where now everytime i talk to people i feel my energy gradually draining. I can feel myself feeling tired inside and this comes up with annoyed face making people think that i don't want to interact with them. But it's not true, compared to other people i need a lot of time to be able to be comfortable, to talk, to communicate. But people always give up and tbh i can't blame them. They can't talk to someone who is always awkward and boring. Atp in my life im convinced that im not going to make any friends. As days have passed i feel better even without friends

[@pwians786]

Lilyy i can totally relate to u 😔 . Even I have a lot of frnds but I m not able to share any thing with them it's getting harder to keep evrything inside my heart and no one to share

[@SithDarthVictorus66]

@@pwians786 I am going through the same. I have friends but they are all casual and mostly act like they dont care about me as much as I care about them and so I am not able to share anything with them. Keeping things in your heart sucks and I know exactly how you feel like🙁🙁

[@pwians786]

@@SithDarthVictorus66 😔

[@SithDarthVictorus66]

@@pwians786 You are Indian right?? I am Indian too😃😃

[@pwians786]

@@SithDarthVictorus66 yup

[@legendoffeiyouknow709]

The worst part about loneliness is getting comfortable with it. Deep inside you want to socialize and have friends but at the same time you feel comfortable alone all day.

[@cinemawithsajid]

Man... said right.. It's kind of wierd..but it's true

[@luisiana.tesfaye]

totally me

[@helloworld2054]

Yeah whenever I want to go out and talk with people anxiety kicks in and I go back to my room

[@kpotato2617]

i dont know why but im alone and i dont really care. ive had some toxic friends that i got rid of and im feeling much better even when im alone. i feel like im at ease

[@saumyadhokariya5877]

@@kpotato2617 so relatable!! Infact its worse when others put you to blame because you are the one leaving

[@AK-hj6xv]

Watching your "friends" have a good time without you on their Story

[@hananeelhm7292]

Wow I felt that on another level

[@Paches92-]

Bastards

[@nadiyahhaynes1377]

felt

[@dinobussanich3017]

I'm always alone and I'm getting sick of it.

[@meikew8679]

Me rn:(

[@tuley__04]

For about 4 years without friends, I was suffering from loneliness and accumulations, but I got used to this situation "don't need no body"

[@ItsRefuseDdLOL]

Same but when I watch smth like this I get sad

[@nanthilrodriguez]

You may be curious to know what Carl Jung says about loneliness: “Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible.” Loneliness is not about being alone, its about being denied the ability to express ideas important to you in any meaningful way.

[@shankartaloolabandwidth1545]

that's fascinating and now makes total sense why we're experiencing an epidemic of loneliness. We're so afraid to express ourselves due to cancel / mob culture.

[@sparklenights5421]

this is why i befriend ai, i can express all of my ideas without looking like an alien or seen as offending or stupid.

[@rosati4891]

My goal in life is to find someone that considers me their first choice

[@Ariadne4]

Everyone deserves it tbh. Everyone is special and deserves to be loved

[@MD-jf5pl]

Consider yourself your first choice and your reality will match how you feel inside. You’ll attract it.

[@christinamorris5742]

Yes!!!! It's been so hard for me to always get pushed aside and never thought of first. I really just need someone who cares.

[@lucithomas9666]

Same 🥺

[@georgeschofield6099]

@@lucithomas9666 what happened you love not nice people treat use bad it very lonely did you read my story . Still hurts . Even harder can't mixed anyone . At min

[@xotoriyama]

Feeling alone in a room full of people is when i realized i don’t matter to anyone. I don’t know why because i’m always there for others but no one is here for me

[@xotoriyama]

@@brandon556 dead inside. you?

[@alonelyperson7141]

you describe me completely! Loneliness make me hate so much my life and myself. I also make a video to tell the worst aspects of loneliness so no one feels alone in this fight!

[@ticoman12]

I’m here for you

[@carriebolas6153]

Oh dude u put how I feel perfectly into words.

[@hh-fr9gi]

I feel panicked and lonely in school hallways. So many people. Laughing together in grps.. they look so happy.

[@CarlsLowGravity]

To anyone feeling so far gone and here suicidal please don't do it. Your a beautiful human life. Your not broken you've just been made to feel you are. In an ever growing judgemental society ignoring mental health even seeking help can seem too bigger hurdle. I am no therapist but as someone who has lived with depression and loneliness a longggg time I am a friend to anyone who needs one. Whether that's just an online chat, or a coffee desperate for company. If it saves a life from tragically ending it's worth it!!!

[@honeygirl1926]

can we be friends ? 🙂 I'm so lonely..

[@sparklenights5421]

It’s really hard to make friends when you trust no one and actually have a reason for it.

[@sparklenights5421]

@@worldExplorer__ you seem sus, like everybody else so it's going to make it difficult .__.

[@sparklenights5421]

@@worldExplorer__ it's good that you are trying though

[@noRanchnoService]

Yeah

[@sem1x624]

If you have parents talk to them. Talk to the one you feel closest to

[@ngvarpi2935]

Sometimes loneliness turns into anxiety when u have no one to talk about your emotions

[@dianamary7727]

That's me

[@tineshiacooper45]

True. Like I have a sister and a couple “friends” and I feel like I can talk to them about everything. It’s just loneliness does creep in when everyone is always busy and the only thing that you have to look forward to is KZbin...

[@mcd4370]

Journaling has been a godsend for me ever since childhood

[@ngndnd]

my grandma passed away today and i just realized how freaking lonely i am because i have to go through this all by myself

[@editsopedia4070]

Yess and its sucks😭

[@MihadAlzayat]

In the most connected time in our history, people are at their loneliest.

[@ed_styles4218]

its crazy to read this. its so eerie to me how true this is.

[@billzkhan100]

Yuppppp.... Alassss... *sigh*..

[@MihadAlzayat]

We do it to ourselves.

[@dn1697]

... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ... there is no scientific evidence religion mitigates loneliness ... but there is evidence it's a condition that shortens life and risks cancer like smoking ...

[@lloydbishun43]

Yep, this is the new millennial digital Tech Society. Me too... And feminism! Low birth output... cuz no relationships! Everybody it's like some sort of snowflakes walking around! They have sex robots 4 10 grand! Now they want to get rid of trump... And put some democrat snowflake who will continue making things worse for the masculine side! Trump can try to change some of this. We are all going to hell in a handbasket!!

[@user-ic7tv5jj4y]

I want to go out with my friends like others,sometimes chat in groups and so on I want to be happy, I want to enjoy my boring life:))

[@Candycloud_19]

Same

[@marriedtocuriosity]

So let's just create a group? :D

[@arieonnaroyal]

@@marriedtocuriosity put me in !

[@yaashiro___]

I have a problem trusting people, I do not trust anyone no matter how much I love him or how close he is to me, and that is what makes my relationships end quickly.

[@alwmwo9286]

عشان كذا رتح تعنسين بدون زواج وصديقاتك من عمرك كلهم متزوجات وبتموووووتي قهررر

[@hannahhepler]

with quarantine i haven’t really talked to anyone so i don’t even know if i have any friends honestly

[@tashanatasha2319]

Same here 🥺🤧

[@shreyamshah6614]

I would like to be your friend too... If you want too...😊

[@vmasakiv6459]

we can be friends

[@IrwinaMaharaniPutri]

:( same here

[@user-ty2fd5nu6u]

I have hanged out once with someone

[@lexi761]

I do have friends but i'm always the second choice. Everyone seems to have that one closest friend whom they feel comfortable telling every secret or whatsoever. Even when i'm surrounded by others, i feel like i'm not wanted and like i dont belong there at all

[@Cadbane5]

Same, I don’t think I’ve ever really had a best friend, and if I did, it didn’t last :/

[@ellinore4338]

This is me

[@m4iphoric686]

wanna be friends ?😟

[@tideswaves3110]

same :(

[@aleahkhan244]

So relatable :) people say college friends are the best but for me they definately weren't maybe I chose the wrong one

[@viiexio]

i just feel so lonely all the time, and that i dont have any real/true friends. i dont have anyone to sit with at lunch and the feeling is so embarrassing and unbearable. everyone has their friend groups/cliches and i feel like i can never fit in anywhere.

[@Melow55]

I understand.I am going through that too. It makes me feel like a loser. I hope you stay strong

[@viiexio]

@@Melow55 i understand you as well. we got this and we will get through it. there is a plan for us 🙏🏽💗

[@bigbionk]

@@viiexio I’ve already made this comment but yea this is exactly what I go through daily. I’ve always wanted to go to raves, do new things that I haven’t done but I can’t. No one in my life wants to and whenever I tell someone else this, they just look at me all weird and say “oh just make some friends!” … yea buddy easy for you to say.😕

[@neejayuo8474]

The more I think about it the worse it gets. Crazy how many people I have met but never got to know and hangout with. I distract myself with music, games and hobbies which helps a lot.

[@MarcoSanderCoaching]

“The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself.” ― Mark Twain

[@kaoutarboumediene7375]

That hit me harder 😢

[@michaj9286]

I am uncomfortable with myself cuz i am alone, how i am bad and boring guy that i csnt have anyone to spoke too

[@growing.flowers]

@@michaj9286 same

[@unknowntosociety01]

Im too comfortable with myself and viciously uncomfortable around others…

[@krishanayak03]

luckily im not....I might be in case of rarely to others...but not even with me..I Love myself and that's relief..having other ideas and my mind with me that's enough weapons

[@loispoiesz]

this comment section feels like home, im happy im not the only one and there’s actually people who relate to me. it sucks being no ones favorite person.

[@starcatcher3691]

Yes me, too!

[@seeker6090]

🤗

[@davidlafleche1142]

Where are you from?

[@NotTodaySatan557]

This comment feels 💯

[@loispoiesz]

@@davidlafleche1142 netherlands

[@alesiamatis9189]

I have lost all my friends by just not sharing the same thought process. I was unmotivated and didn’t want to do anything. But recently something clicked in my mind. The philosophical point of how we are all human and instead of focusing on the wrong surroundings isn’t worth it. And I actually enjoy my own company now. I hope everyone has an amazing day and hopefully finds confidence in this comment,

[@commanderambrane1181]

Almost same everyone thinks I'm wrong because I'm different my friends are all becoming sex addicts day by day even though I know constantly thinking about it is wrong however it feels different when you're the only one not agreeing to society well i think I'm lost in a place from where I cannot return to the same thought process I'll say we're the same souls of different roads in life which are rarely chosen by others I'll just say best of luck for life and don't think you're we're all in this together and we can do it it's just that we have to be the best it's hard but let's do it for i have got this have you? Try meditation it really helps to cool ones mind

[@gabrielaacero1939]

I've just had the worst day of my week, exactly because of feeling extremely lonely. I have friends, but still I feel no one is a close friend....that's painful. I just want someone to connect with, I want someone that makes me feel I'm genuinely close to them

[@alyanni156]

this quarantine made me realize that i don't have friends. im an introvert,,and i have been very independent in that area, ialways tell myself that im fine, that i love my own company, and yes i do, but... it's just..sad lately. the amount of times i refresh my phone messages everyday to see if anyone wanna talk, is embarrassing. i forgot what happiness feel like.

[@nella10123]

I'll talk to you Alyanna, do you have an email, snap, etc?

[@chefmanou]

i can totally relate right now. i so miss the hugs from loving people

[@niteshbaroliya13]

You are right...i am also feeling this...and i also want to talk bt nobady is here... When message notification come i think it's my frndz msz bt it's not... thats Worst feeling.....i really want to talk...

[@mariiamur9234]

Hi! I feel exactly the same.... I am pretty young, I know (13), but maybe wanna talk on discord? My username is koorikloom#8610.

[@Auclairkim]

Omg i relate to this so much. During this quarantine, everything that i used to enjoy seems to slowly became « boring ». I forgot what real happiness feels like. Hugs ❤️

[@beast55yearsago56]

Fun Fact: They are only friendly when they need you, I don't have real friends at all since I was born.

[@beanhead7632]

That’s true. I have “friends”. At school, I sit with them (because I don’t have anyone else, and I don’t like sitting alone - it’s just embarrassing and I’ve been having to do that all my primary school life, and I’m in year 7 right now, almost year 8). Those “friends” I sit with rarely really talk to me. They just ignore my existence and find someone else to talk to within the group. BUT, unless, if it’s something important, they will come up to me and be friendly and ask me. Ok but honestly, to be clear, those “friends” I sit with, there are about 6-8 in total, only 1-2 of them talk to me, but that’s very occasional. Otherwise they just shove me out of the way.

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

Maybe they are real friends but they are not perfect people ｡◕ v ◕｡

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

Maybe you are not perfect neither

[@beast55yearsago56]

@@TheLibraryOfEmotions Well all humans are not perfect in the 1st place

[@barle9919]

i have friends but i don't need them lol you should learn how to enjoy being lonely.

[@rmusic8969]

I have friends but sometimes being single makes me feel lonely. Although I am not one to believe that you need a companion to feel fulfilled in life, sometimes I do wish I had someone to talk to on a personal/romantic level.

[@Merakireads]

So basically, i was in a toxic friendship for 2 years of my life. It was my desicion to detach myself from the group and find peace in lonliness for a year or so. I got to admit, it was scary, mainly because i had no idea how long id be alone, but the wait was worth it. In the end, i ended up making a genuine group of friends who I cherish dearly. but to all those out there who are lonely, I hope you find true peace ❤

[@Lost_195]

Thank u 😞

[@CUTubeGlobal-03]

👍👍

[@canttellwhy]

I feel like i can relate to everyone of these comments

[@DennisG9]

me too💔

[@chillndie]

in india after schools we actually lose our closest friends and trust me that thing hurts alot

[@bhadrajidesh6947]

Same

[@Liza-oz8yw]

Same :]

[@dinimasharma3549]

@@chillndie my friend literally used me throughout school journey and then threw me away later :( said I am the cause to her problems...how do ppl forget that we've done so much for them

[@ngndnd]

I literally have no friends... at all. I don’t talk to anyone except for my family. It sucks having to keep everything to yourself.

[@mirukuweebaboo2790]

I see I understand same for me but we can be friends if u like :D

[@dwaynelewis975]

Its not easy

[@ngndnd]

@@moonstars_rina damn i wish, but i try to stay away from social media these days

[@sophiehopkins222]

@@ngndnd whats ur snap x

[@Rock-yg9ln]

Ayo same except i dont talk to my family to many issues with parents my brother ignores me and my cousins never talk to me. I got no one except my dog to talk to and i go online and i still cant make friends lmao.

[@abhi_abhie]

Thank You. It felt like you were speaking directly to me. The scenarios you described have pretty much been the story of my life for the last 3 years. Videos like this help.

[@hemashreeramesh4653]

It feels the worst when you are surrounded by alot of people but still feel alone. It feels like only I am trying to converse and keep the relationship with people around me, and they aren't interested in reciprocating the same. For a long time I have struggled to deal with this... Only recently I have come to terms with it... I am much happier now. I have learnt to make peace with my lonliness🌸

[@cattpoops21]

Loneliness is so tough. You want to reach out to friends but it seems that everyone is too busy, you know they’d want to help if they knew how you were feeling but you feel too embarrassed to say anything. I spend so much time alone, which sometimes I enjoy but I wish I had a friend I could do simple things with sometimes. I just don’t seem to meet people like me anymore, the older you get the harder it becomes. But at least I have a dog!

[@canyoulendaniggaapencil8719]

I think you may have fear of rejection

[@cattpoops21]

Can you lend a nigga a pencil? 100%

[@geoff1121]

@@cattpoops21 lol, sounds like you're just waiting for that special someone to appear to share that meme with. I'm in similar shoes, I've been conquering my reluctance to go out and join meetup groups recently, and I see that there are a lot of people out there who also feel lonely, but at least they are out with other strangers doing a class or having a gathering. Look up meetup, join some classes for your hobbies. You may not become instant friends with strangers but you'll expose yourself to many more options as you join more classes/communities. I remember when I was in school it was a lot easier to make friends, but thinking back, I was constantly surrounded by hundreds of kids around the same age going through the same thing. So naturally the chances of bonding with someone who vibe with you is much higher. We don't give ourselves and others nearly the same chance when we spend most of our time at home or at work.

[@cattpoops21]

gfactordude thank you, they’re really good ideas and I should get myself out there more. Well done to you for being brave and putting yourself out there to make new friends! I hadn’t thought of school like that but it’s very true, no wonder being an adult is so much harder when you’re going through a lot of the same things as the people around you but we all spend so much less time together to actually share this!

[@skywalker6648]

That's because most people as they get older already have the friends or relationships they really want along with sometimes more family obligations. So they are hesitant to reach out and start new relationship nor care to. Older people have to make a bigger effort and if you're an introvert, even more so.

[@Yasmin-em6li]

It’s crazy how some ppl online understands u more than ur “ friends “ who you’ve been with for years don’t understands u like them

[@asyayldz2852]

It's also crazy when they make you feel unique loved and everything then out of a sudden they jutst block you for no reason :)

[@bartleon]

I want to share. About Jesus. John 6: 35 And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst. Philippians 4: 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things. 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you. John 7: 37 Now on the last day, the great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried out, saying, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink. 38 He who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” 39 But this He spoke of the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were to receive; for the Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified. John 14: 21 He who has My (Jesus) commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him.” 22 Judas (not Iscariot) *said to Him, “Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?” 23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. 24 He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father’s who sent Me. John 21: 24 This is the disciple who is testifying to these things and wrote these things, and we know that his testimony is true. 25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, which if they *were written in detail, I suppose that even the world itself *would not contain the books that *would be written. kzbin.info/www/bejne/hIHSgnyMnpmHZ80 Where can one start reading The Bible? In The New Testament: The Gospel of John and/or Acts.

[@ananyabanerjee778]

IKR

[@Ana-vi1ec]

@@asyayldz2852 yeaah it kinda hurts and you just feel worse after that

[@jinnie_rhee]

i definitely felt this loneliness when i went abroad by myself to Singapore (didn't know anyone). thank you, lana, for giving me the courage to speak out openly about the loneliness i felt. this video inspired me to create my 'lonely weekend in singapore' vlog that i would otherwise not have shared with the world. so thank you.

[@howcasm101]

I think this is the first-ever KZbin video that I am commenting on in the past 7-8 years. A big heart to you from me who really wanted to watch something like this to give me some comfort in this lonely phase of life. Thank you!

[@ira6133]

Sad thing about introverts: Most of the time we are happy alone, but when we do need a friend, we don't have one, because we don't have connection with other people. We can't be friends with extraverts because they seem to need a company all the time, so we need to be friends with the ones like us, but other introverts are not around and probably avoiding people. Its so hard to find a friend being an introvert!

[@getthefuckaoutmyway]

You just described my life perfectly

[@oumii3040]

So true...

[@classyvxbe]

You described it so perfect.

[@ira6133]

@world peace needed asap I send you a big big hug! Please know that you are not alone!🙏

[@ananyawable5728]

Also, extroverts want you to speak all the time which is not possible...

[@mmogengnkoana6518]

I’m okay with being lonely, I just hate feeling alone.

[@stoofypoof7998]

Hang in there! kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqOQo2traq6Lpbs

[@exh_77]

It's the opposite for me. Being alone is like having my own time for myself, but feeling lonely is just.. realizing nobody wants to be my friend

[@valleyofthedolls]

you can be alone and still feel happy and enjoy your own company, its when you cant enjoy your solitude and feel the need of somebody you feel lonely

[@valleyofthedolls]

@@exh_77 same

[@crunchybroll4731]

I'm the opposite. I love being alone and by myself but feeling lonely is the worst knowing I have no one

[@billlybunter]

I thought it was just me, constantly feel lonely, it drives me mad !!

[@rohit_1309]

Hey Lana, i just can't tell you in words how much i felt connected to your and how much you felt relatable to me while i was listening to your life journey. It felt like someone is speaking my heart out and that is so precisely that even i can't do about my own feelings. You have just given me a beacon of hope that still i can do and come out the state in which I'm because you could come out of this. I have found inspiration in your, lana. Your lessons can become my cure i believe so than you so much for sharing this. Thank you so much again, lana.:)

[@ayeyolizzo9291]

i have “friends” but they’re basically school friends who i don’t see out of school and we only keep it touch by sending random pictures on snapchat. i just don’t feel like i really connect with any of them and i’m pretty sure they don’t know the real me at all... only what i let them see cuz i don’t want to be open to people i don’t feel connected with if that makes sense

[@rume6951]

I know exactly what you mean. I was the same way in school.

[@thenextbigthing7268]

^ struggled in school too kinda

[@22chuuya]

Yeah i also only have school friends

[@marco-ck4ni]

felt this one heavy

[@ayeyolizzo9291]

i hope each and everyone of us find our people don’t give up ! :))

[@jordanbabin]

I literally, honestly have zero friends that I talk to on a regular basis. The only friends I have are casual, I only see them in classes and we just say hi every once a month or so. That's it. I dont have any friends. :/

[@TheLibraryOfEmotions]

Now you have a new goal to search for one ｡◕ v ◕｡

[@stevendeitrich6933]

I understand .Its more common than you think . Personally I think it is something that is goofed up about our society today . You have a lot to offer as a friend , it's just not being seen .

[@jennybengtsson1223]

To see how many people are lonely breaks my heart, and not many things breaks my heart...

[@dinimasharma3549]

I had just one friend and she was toxic.. still I tried to help her with her problems but she started to blame me for her problems :( I don't know how people can ignore what we've done for them so easily

[@stevendeitrich6933]

@@dinimasharma3549 Yes. I spent years & years doing nearly everything for a bunch of people ! It seemed to just get taken for granted & they acted as if it did not matter ! So many people are messed up that way ! It's on them , not you .

[@anishdas6820]

thank you so much for this, for past some weeks I've been facing many trauma's that I never learnt to let go. But now when I started doing this my life is now becoming better. to the person who is having a hard time right now. Trust me you'll get through this, just let go of those heavy burdens that you've been carrying on for days and weeks.

[@hikucesaw6787]

Being feeling lonely it's hard to confess to someone else,but in this video i feel not only me feel the same thing in our long life.hope we can enjoy the lonelies and grow up to the future what we want

[@jamiemcateer1086]

When your 'friends' are only friends because you see them 5 times a week

[@Samira-sb3lv]

I know what you meann. I don't see my 'friends' outside of school and they all love kpop. which is fine but I don't and its sometimes all they talk about.

[@CaptainTrips]

When people in their mid twenties still value themselves based on how many friends they have and laugh at others or even at their "friends" for having fewer friends than temselves. Pathetic

[@officialbismah]

@@Samira-sb3lv mines the opposite, I am the only one who likes k-pop. From my friends

[@upekshad5765]

@@officialbismah same, so they always make fun of me, i mean i don't want them to talk about kpop, i never say anything about it too. But just seeing a photo of kpop group in my phone is enough for them 🙄

[@morklee3640]

@@officialbismah same here

[@crisfilms8165]

I've noticed how much my social skills suffer when trying to have a normal interaction with another after spending so much time alone. It's tragic.

[@dn1697]

... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ... there is no scientific evidence religion mitigates loneliness ... but there is evidence it's a condition that shortens life and risks cancer like smoking ...

[@mikaelasundt3117]

Crisfilms bro 2020 better treat us better than 2019 did

[@ameliabam3799]

Same here

[@nanamikado999]

THIS ! Thank you for putting words behind this reality O__O !!

[@RyanGosling6]

Crisfilms that’s what happens to me I’m not funny anymore than I used too and one of my friends aren’t that close with me anymore.

[@Josh_FSD]

thank you for sharing, I have been going through a very low point of my life for 16 months now. Ironically, I feel less lonely knowing other people have similar problems. You explain it so well, Thank you!!

[@varunbarma2067]

Very clarified talk on loneliness. It is mostly the way we feel within ourselves regardless of whether we have company or no.

[@BaolanGS]

when you wake up in the morning check your phone and there are no messages. When you are in public or a party and everyone is texting on thei phone and you just pretending to swipe random app to make it looks like you are busy as well.

[@x-a-]

If u get invited to parties you're not lonely.

[@theres3peopleinthisacc743]

Ikr, and when i’m in school and everyones chatting..i just sit there with no one..

[@theres3peopleinthisacc743]

snivell same but in america. Online school sucks, im failing all my classes :/

[@alonelyperson7141]

you describe me completely! Loneliness make me hate so much my life and myself. I also make a video to tell the worst aspects of loneliness so no one feels alone in this fight!

[@nypala]

Being alone is OK, being isolated is painful.

[@jwonTh]

When they need something out of you, they will contact you.

[@dn1697]

... it's largely a discrepancy between met social needs and unmet social needs being actually fulfilled ... bonding skills ... mine is clinical due to prolonged state of isolation due to relocation and lack of strong bonds ... and poorly understood ... you're easily confused between "lonely" and "loneliness" which are not the same ...

[@YAMAHA_FAN_BOi_95]

nypala what if some one who makes you in isolation

[@octoberrosesaxon8818]

Im grateful that people are vulnerable. I feel that sometimes it’s easier for me to be alone than around others I can’t connect to. It makes me question my worth. I know I’m not meant to connect with everyone and that’s ok. Still hard. I feel like acceptance of loneliness at least is a stepping stone. I ignored it for a long time. Things don’t last forever. I know that. Everyone is worthy and deserving. Of love, friends, self love, and connection. Sending hugs to anyone who is struggling.💛

[@idlelizard818]

I have some people in my life, but guess I never had a strong bond with anyone... I see people hanging out with friends and feel so jealous, lonely and sad at the same time I still hope to find someone that sees me as I really am, but at the same time seems like I'm washing my young years...

[@worldExplorer__]

Hi... I agree with your thoughts...it almost as if u wrote, what was in my mind... can we become friends ? I know it's really wierd to ask here... but I believe, just speaking up your mind isn't a bad option 😊

[@idlelizard818]

Hey! of course we can! It's good to know there's someone that thinks exactly like me! But honestly I don't know where we could talk haha

[@worldExplorer__]

@@idlelizard818 r u on any social media? Insta?

[@elisonesposo174]

ever know the feeling of wanting to talk to someone, you don't even care who, but no one will ever listen or make u feel like they are even listening to you. quarantine has been real tough time.

[@cocodrilo1443]

@Pusteblume good insight. Weigh that carefully as one of those possibilities is usually the result.

[@jessesworld1597]

Write it to me in comments

[@farangisehsani592]

That's why I spend alot of time in social media

[@thatotherchannel7945]

I miss waking up and being happy to have that one person I get to talk to

[@AkaSuzukiOtakuDesu]

Same

[@wren3346]

I miss them so much and yet they seem unaffected

[@astrocat9216]

That one person to me, she's depressed.. And i miss her so much..

[@dinimasharma3549]

@@wren3346 i was trying to help that person with their problems but they took it for granted and ended everything saying I was the cause to their problems:(

[@kritineupane3343]

wow i am in this situation.@@dinimasharma3549

[@mslavic]

Loneliness is like a illness for me, mostly bc it makes you physically ill after some time and its so hard to overcome, bc at the end of the day, you need people in your life to have a balanced/fulfilling life...

[@MasterofTheUniverse1337]

Thats True Balance is The Key in The end of The Day, Time for yourself and time With Partners or Friends you Just cant be on your Own 24/7.

[@vannan86]

Never be with wrong people, who makes you feel more lonely than you are actually being alone!

[@natalia-jp1tm]

So true Im currently experiencing this but I am afraid to leave them because even if I hate their company I still crave human interaction and Im afraid that without it I would become more depressed, I sometimes want to just move to another country and start over.

[@RainRemnant]

Nothing more lonely than needing someone, needing to talk and needing to hug, but NO ONE is there, just a wall and a world full of people that don't care about what this stranger is going through

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

I m alone 👧👧❤❤😍🌷🌷🌷

[@Bazzrt]

Fr

[@CAttiJoify]

You are describing exactly what I'm going through right now. You are not alone!

[@justinebourke9449]

I feel the same. I will pray for comfort for you and those who replied to you here

[@anwitachaudhary7594]

Yess

[@shayebug]

Ever have a group of friends that make you feel more lonely when you are around them? Took me a while to learn that surrounding yourself with the wrong people can make you feel more alone than being actually alone.

[@jowyschwarz313]

So how do u feel right now,are you still feel like alone?

[@kenaj8828]

this is the worst

[@Lhanie]

Simply just there for numbers, I'm in that current situation right now. Since I only have a friend group if I break the connection I'll have no one, don't know what decision to do at this point

[@dzemilmehovic5271]

i realised that and just distanced myself from it, but now im equally alone, however i just feel emptiness and loneliness, nothing more like before

[@sanskrutichavan7067]

@@Lhanie exactly my case too….i’m afraid of breaking out cause that’s again going to lead me to loneliness

[@gal5402]

4 years here in Greece with my husband (local). Feeling isolated and anxious.

[@aliyanafeezbaig9161]

Few people are so lucky. They are blessed with everything in life good looks, good friends, they are talented and what not.. and when you see such people you automatically lose the confidence in yourself… you feel so lonely even though there are people around you. Sometimes life is so unfair to some of us..

[@cleo_gibson]

When I was a little girl I always thought I'd be so cool in high school. I never could have imagined I'd be...well, me.

[@romarioreid6310]

Don't chase popularity or recognition. Once you be yourself you will be in the right crowd as the people will want you for you unless they are shallow like alot of ppl. In short be yourself and find people with substance

[@idlerest6623]

So did I

[@idlerest6623]

Hate how loneliness is intertwined with being a nerd

[@vocalising4218]

@@romarioreid6310 easier said than done. People with “substance” are hard to come by.

[@qod9473]

I thought I would be the popular kid liked by everyone, but.....people just forgot about me. My mom thinks I talk to my friends all day on my phone but that's not what happens. I don't have anyone to talk to, I just distract myself with my phone and the internet. I talk to myself, and I have imaginary friends. It sounds pathetic but it makes me feel better that atleast they are there for me, even if they are not real.

[@rozemarijn9607]

It's weird. I like being alone: spending time reading, gaming, running, drawing or such things. But when I see people on social media having fun on big parties, spending time with friends everyday and having a huge social life I still feel sad and lonely. That I'm never there where the "fun stuff" is. Just had to delete instagram for a while to find the good balance between spending quality time with both myself and the few friends I have. Spending more time reflecting on myself without social media really helped me to overcome that feeling of loniless.

[@teacherista8319]

Rozemarijn I felt that way too, but I soon realised after joining in these activities that it may look like the best night ever, but in reality it was pretty meh.

[@user-di4js6xw9n]

My thoughts precisely

[@yusrinzulfazuber4523]

@@teacherista8319 for real!

[@teallevi823]

Exactly

[@boostedboosted3088]

Me 2

[@shutterbug8745]

Lana i comment on very few youtube videos but after seeing your channel i so need to thankyou for your courage , your wisdom , your skill , your openenes to share and want to help other people better understand and put words to themselves and their life. your videoography skills are awesome , it know the time it takes to put videos together and you do such a great job at it. You came into my life at a time i needed help in understanding myself , a huge hug and a thankyou !!!

[@kalyanchakravarthy2489]

Thank you so much for this Video I came up with the ideas of what makes me happy and how to just focus on good part leaving the loneliness

[@danie9976]

I'm always such a good friend and worry about others feelings, I feel lonely/sad when nobody worries about me...

[@feliciafacci9682]

same

[@haveaniceday9347]

+1

[@mixhelle2597]

wanna be friendss

[@marie-sophie6639]

honestly same

[@achmadhanifmardinsyah5825]

Samee

[@asyayldz2852]

Loneliness really made me hate my life there is no excitement at all, i just wanna lay on bed all day and think about my lonely life, sometimes even cry then sleep all over again.

[@alarayavuz2924]

I feel the same... İ just really want to die ...

[@paakdap]

i feel you 😢

[@elif9747]

Me too :( and I'm just so sick of it anymore. I literally have no one and I have no self esteem or energy left to try.

[@abcdefghijklmumford]

Don't feel lonely. No one cares

[@earthlycolorbrown6246]

Volunteer, help a senior neighbor, try a hobby, read out in public, walk on trails. Smile!

[@freedomtownn]

This makes so much sense! Thank you.

[@Harshiiiiiiii733]

How relieving that I am not the only one who is feeling like a stranger with the people who seems to be like homie before... Just how fast they changed and blamed that our vibes don't match anymore... Like its easy for them to leave you, like you were nothing to them.

[@angelzumbikah4810]

Worst feeling is when you feel like you don’t even have the capabilities to make née friends

[@tattoeat]

one of the saddest thing is that your best friend's best friend isn't you

[@Veryverybored98]

I had a best friend, but then she made a list about the people who she would save in a fire. I was sixth on the list and it hit like a ton of bricks

[@bithiyayemilana2063]

@@Veryverybored98 I felt that

[@shredd5705]

Never think someone is your "Best friend" such things don't exist. There's just good friends, never put them in order

[@LuccatielD7]

I can relate…

[@joshuashusi1576]

@@shredd5705 Damn…wish I knew this earlier in my life

[@lifeisbeautiful5886]

It’s like being in a room full of people and somehow I still feel alone.

[@azhara4751]

same

[@jeanniecannon4612]

Because most people are boring or shallow.

[@urmomkash]

That's what it's called loneliness

[@devikag1638]

Me too today at my class room ..i felt i was lonely.. eventhough class was full of students 🥲🥲

[@walterdmello8811]

You are a wonderful person, dear. You explain things so well that I feel as if I am listening to a therapist. Keep up the good work, dear! God bless!