Rewarding your children for achieving their pre-determined reading goals is not bribery! Excellent parenting skills. Great job! 😃
@DRUGSTOREMAKEUPDIVA3 жыл бұрын
And even if they think it is, (they shouldn't, bc it's not them, but I digress) just like she said, they're her kids & it works for them. My mom used to tell me that I was going to put her into bankruptcy, & wouldn't take me to any store with her bc I'd beg for books, & the librarians loved me.🤓
@angieineverettcust29342 жыл бұрын
I agree. We all work for rewards. Would you go to work if you didn’t get paid?🤣🤣🤣
@lissyadams64972 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I didn't think it was either. They're amazing parents!
@BeckyValkyrie2 жыл бұрын
I agree!!!!
@tinaabert52373 жыл бұрын
Bribery is a payment for anything that is illegal, immoral or socially unacceptable. What you are doing is rewards !!!
@kelliebaranowski3 жыл бұрын
Welp….that’s genius. We don’t have kids, but we do own a restaurant that we both work in 16 hr days. Keeping track of business, household, gardening is something I’m failing at. This may be the answer. Bless you for this video 😂
@aleshiasterland4603 жыл бұрын
Jessica, you are just wonderful.. I homeschooled for 15 years. Sons now in 20’s… planner is a blessing. You are not using bribery!!! It is a wonderful way for reading rewards. Blessings Helena Montana
@texasnana5552 жыл бұрын
You are such an inspiration to women in all different stages and lifestyles. I am in awe of someone who can raise 7 children and also do everything else you do on a daily basis. Yay you!! I am a planner enthusiast also. I am retired and don't have any children at home and we live in town, but I still have things that I need to keep organized. I am a writer and find that my planner helps me keep up with everything thing that comes along with that. And like you, I find that stickers make it more fun & useful. May God continue to bless you and your wonderful family.
@lucindasutt73653 ай бұрын
Great information. Almost any way to encourage childhood reading is an absolute for the child to thrive and enjoy and excell in his life's endeavors.😊
@Karisa13163 жыл бұрын
I don’t think “bribing” (within reason) is wrong. We call them rewards. I think if it helps create good habits, it’s a fine idea. Everyone should do what works for their family.
@aprilhutchens21053 жыл бұрын
We all get bribed. People wouldn't work without bring paid.
@Nicole112253 жыл бұрын
Great idea .I would be lost without my planner .
@tamararoberts93073 жыл бұрын
Jessica, you are a remarkable woman ❤ your children are so blessed
@tamararoberts93073 жыл бұрын
Was wondering...do y'all garden?
@kayladionyssiou36363 жыл бұрын
I didn't see the links for the sticker shops, when you get a chance could you please add them. I'm really liking the aqua pencil stickers. Thanks for sharing your ideas! 😊
@Minnesota_Mama_Bear3 жыл бұрын
You said you'd link to where you get your stickers from for your planner. I don't see the link here. HELP? 💚🌞
@NightfallHomestead3 жыл бұрын
As a mom.of 6 there are some things with Rona that actually made my life WAY easier!
@aprilhutchens21053 жыл бұрын
I love to use pretty stickers in my planner too ☺️ (I recently lucked upon some Happy Planner stickers at the Dollar Tree which was amazing!)I only have 2 kids left at home and one is not even homeschooling yet, but just being a homemaker there's a lot to remember! Here's to taking our chosen careers seriously!
@cherylpresleigh64033 жыл бұрын
We don’t have children at home anymore and I won’t go back to in store shopping either. I find it saves me money as well by not walking past things that I would use but don’t have an immediate need for. I’m a paper planner girl too! I’ll throw notes into my phone as a reminder but it’s the planner that is the most helpful. Have a wonderful Christmas with your family.
@erzsebetmoise21692 жыл бұрын
Jessica, You are such a blessing for me!
@donnaingle13593 жыл бұрын
I’m 62 years old I think I need this in my life.We have so many Drs appointments and planning for garden can be a little bit overwhelming as we age.
@BecomingaFarmGirl3 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard of the EC planners and really appreciate this practical solution and a peek into “how you do it all”-it’s also great having a historical archive to reference from year to year. Thank you! God continue to bless ya’ll.
@janicajohnson97279 ай бұрын
So I did a year with plain planner. It has made such a difference that I ordered an Erin condren planner for this year. I am retired, and loving this method so much. I love the new planner! Such good quality. 🎉thank you so much!
@kallasusort29862 жыл бұрын
Planners are wonderful - I use the Bullet Journal - buy any type of journal you want - they have video's and a blog. Your planner system works great for you. We each live such different lifestyles - each to their own. You are really put together well - with so many children you have to stay organized - it is a skill of its own. Let alone farming , home schooling - I'm exhausted just thinking about it. LOL
@LisaPaulEddy_3 жыл бұрын
The reading rewards are awesome! I’m a teacher and anything you can do to get them to read is great.❤️
@MoonFireGypsy3 жыл бұрын
I’d love to see a video on woopie pies!
@hissimpleblessings22003 жыл бұрын
I've also been working on getting all of my lists into one planner. I use the Happy Planner so I can add & remove pages as needed and you have inspired me with some great ideas. May your family have a blessed Christmas!
@soynati_a3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so inspiring and giving me tools for organizing my chaotic family life!
@laurielyon18923 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you found a planner that works for you. I chose the Happy Planner a few years ago and that's what works for me. I love being able to take the pages out easily if I need to. They also have notebooks with blank paper that I can write anything on and add it to where I need it. I've used the vertical, horizontal and dashboard layout. I use the dashboard for daily things that need done. I used horizontal layout for my Bible time. I write things down from my devotions that spoke to me and have a place to keep my running prayer list. I love adding stickers to my planner. It's my quiet time to decorate and plan. This year I made some pages for my pantry inventory and right now they are in the notebook but I will add a section to my planner and add it into it after the inventory has been completed. I have made sheets for meal planning where I made a list of chicken recipes, beef recipes, etc. and I go through them when I plan my meals for the week. I hope your family has a very Merry Christmas and that you enjoy your time together as a family!
@candymckinnon85543 жыл бұрын
Love that planner. I have lists everywhere,, then I misplace them. I agree that you do what works to get your children to read. I am 76 and I still love to read. I know that it is because even in the summers Mom and Dad would bribe us to read everyday. That is when I developed a love for books. Love your videos
@deanna48143 жыл бұрын
We are a family of 7 and the curbside pickup has been a blessing to us too. Even my favorite restaurants have started it. We don't eat out but we do sometimes do pickup and not having to bring 5kids in with me to pick up the food has been nice.
@kimk52052 жыл бұрын
Yes 👏🏼👏🏼 Lisa Frank and trapper keepers. 🤣🤣🤩. I actually bought myself a trapper keeper this year to help organize my kids’ school papers etc. it has a total 90s vibe , I love it. They also come with sturdy metal rings now vs the old plastic kind.
@ellenbarczak89353 жыл бұрын
I can't find the link to the stickers you ordered. Help Please!
@lynsmith26983 жыл бұрын
I so agree with not having to go into grocery stores. I am retired so no kids but living in a remote area I find it a little overwhelming to go into big grocery stores. Besides I actually save money by not going in and buying a whole mess of things that weren’t even on my list. Great video Jessica
@lifeattheterrace3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica, this was really interesting to see how you organise so much into your day. Although I’m only a family of 4, dinners were throwing me and once I bought a dinner planner it made me use what I have in my pantry and fridge better than winging it and then feeling stressed at dinner times. You’re very inspiring, thank you for another lovely video. I’m excited to join in your no spend pantry challenge x
@ldg26553 жыл бұрын
That planner is exactly what I need! I am super impulsive and distractable and, though I make to-do lists to keep me on track, I need a way to record what and when something was done, and what needs to be done next..
@Just-Nikki Жыл бұрын
I love my Erin Condren daily duo gal and I love Planner kate stickers because they are reusable so I get many uses out of each sticker.
@RafaelaMoning3 жыл бұрын
I still remember when our baby budgies opened their eyes for the first time 🥰 Thanks so much for your helpful videos!
@lindaedwards97563 жыл бұрын
I’ve always had to write things down to remember them . I took copious notes in school and college because something about actually writing helps me remember. Just the way I learn I guess. And at 65 I still use planners . Rewarding children appropriately helps them make the association between responsibility and results . It will benefit them in the long run .
@CreatingSelfCarePlans2 жыл бұрын
So glad that you found a planner that helps you with all the things you have to keep up with! I really wish I would have started planning sooner, but now that I'm using a planning system that has helped me reduce overwhelm, I'll never go back. PS I never want to go back to shopping in the grocery store either. I started doing grocery pick-up when I had my fourth child and to save time since we have to travel quite a ways to even get to the store. Game changer.
@LittleByLittleWeGo3 жыл бұрын
Love car waiting. I have several kids with adhd and they crawl the walls in small spaces. I don’t do well in grocery stores either. Love when other moms can relate.
@jessicafitzsimmons99042 жыл бұрын
A friend of mine sent me a link to this video and I'm so glad she did. This adaptation of the planner is genius. This is going to revolutionize my task management at work as well help me at home with meal planning, fitness, chores, and other hobbies. I'll be buying two! Thanks so much for sharing!
@carlashuler50043 жыл бұрын
I always glean ideas and inspiration from your videos. There are no children in my house, but I am a very busy person and want to be more organized with daily life. I love the quote that Benjamin Franklin once said, "By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail." This is so true. May you have a Blessed and Merry Christmas with your family, and may 2022 be an awesome year for you. God Bless.
@graywoodhomestead8453 жыл бұрын
I love Erin condron planners!! This year I decided to try the Buget Mom planner and have since decided that next year I’m going back to Erin Condron. Simple , beautiful, functional. Love! I’m also a big fan of grocery pick up. Love and blessings to your family!
@lindasewell18102 жыл бұрын
Love using a planner. Keeps me focused. Love how you modified the planner to suit your family.
@lady_lighthouse_20232 жыл бұрын
I was wondering if you’d consider doing another planner video like an update on how it’s working for you & any tweaks you’ve made ❤thank you for sharing
@meganrodriguez28803 жыл бұрын
So glad you found a system you like. I’ve been loving the Passionate Penny Pincher planners and additional things they have for Bible reading and housecleaning systems. 💚💚💚
@meganrodriguez28803 жыл бұрын
@@lynnsimard9810 yes ma’am! They have a Facebook community group and lots of great resources.
@katiegoodrich16812 жыл бұрын
I just started watching your videos about a month ago. You're family is so beautiful! I have been trying to come up with a system that can organize everything in our house. We aren't homesteaders (although that's my dream). I try to make as much as I can for my 2 boys that's natural and healthy. This video was very helpful. I've been making an "everything in one" list....it gets messy and hectic. Thank you for your organizational help that I hope to use soon.
@whiskeywomanwhisks3 жыл бұрын
I love getting my teeth cleaned!!! I’ve got to get my life better organized! I don’t know why I’ll be so organized for a long time & then something happens and I’m running around like a chicken with my head cut off! Exhausted and wondering what I did all day🤦🏻♀️🤷♀️😵💫 It’s always so hard to regroup-it’s overwhelming! It’s been on my mind a lot lately-to get my life together🤪
@ashleyd6213 жыл бұрын
Which stickers do you use for your planner?
@megvoss33292 жыл бұрын
I never call it "bribery." It's called incentives. We have it all areas of lives. Why should it be different raising children? I think you are a fantastic mother and home manager. We can see it as you share all areas of your life with us. You are most generous. Thank you.
@janetpaulsen1953 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes. I never want to go back to in store shopping.
@melissathrasher84253 жыл бұрын
I agree. I don't want to wait in the waiting room or go grocery shopping in person again. I really like this planner!
@lindalagarce89963 жыл бұрын
This is awesome! Good for you, I used to have to.create my own notebook when we homeschooled for basically the same things. Since we no longer need it to homeschooling, I’ve been looking for one for my garden and future media planning. I think this will be perfect, thank you for the share, hugs and love from Texas!
@tweetytje007 Жыл бұрын
Wauw thank you for sharing this!!!! That looks like a super handy planner!!!
@mjgbabydragonlet3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! While I am not raising small children, this was helpful for me.
@andreabeth3 жыл бұрын
Perfect Jessica!! I have always depended in a planner. I agree having a fun, cute planner makes it fun while keeping you sane!
@chasingmoonlightfarm3 жыл бұрын
I can't remember to actually LOOK at the planner daily. Lol! 😬😂
@samanthakuhr81133 жыл бұрын
Jessica - thank you for sharing your Erin Condren Teacher Planner! So happy you love it.
@sandrafishman65883 жыл бұрын
Wish I had used a planner back when my 6 children were little. I just used a monthly calendar to mark important dates, and when I started to homeschool. just used my head and notes everywhere. Not an ideal system. Now that the children are grown and out of the house I find I still need a planner. Thank you for the ideas and have a wonderful Christmas!
@Minnesota_Mama_Bear3 жыл бұрын
I'm on the hunt for a planner also. Thank you for this video! May I ask WHAT KIND OF REWARDS DO THE KIDS GET FOR READING? Also, I'm right there with you on curbside pick up. I don't have a big family, but I have a huge issue with people. People are rude and sometimes scary. I've hated public shopping my entire life. My mom used to drag me out every year for school shopping. Most girls would love a new wardrobe, but I didn't want to go to the big city shopping mall and walk through all the people. Try on all the clothes and as a kid, feel lost in a jungle of adults. Nope, I'll stay home and shop for things that I don't need to see or touch before I buy them. Season Blessings 💚💚🌞🌞
@lifebeyondthesalary24583 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only one who makes the planner work for what I need it for lol. Love your ideas & I think I’m gonna snag a few of those ideas!!!
@lynnking51863 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I have a planner I use for our finances but have not done a very good job with planning for homeschool. I don't like feeling unorganized. This will help. Great ideas! Again thank you for taking the time to share.
@denisecole61283 жыл бұрын
I love love love grocery delivery and curbside pickup for grocery and other stores! I think it saves money because you are not browsing and picking up impulse items.
@kathleenritter45323 жыл бұрын
This planner must be a huge help to you. Love it. I dont think it's bribery, more like a pay day. When we more for 2 weeks, we get paid. Same thing. They are earning their reward. Great job!!
@maryfail23933 жыл бұрын
Thank you for Shari g that- my kids are grown and moved away but I need this and just ordered my teacher planner to help me!! I feel my homestead will run more smoothly and efficiently also❤️❤️
@carolwhisenhunt75043 жыл бұрын
Love the info. I use calendars Also. To much to remember. I enjoyed this very much. I too love waiting in cars and curbside pickup. I don't like going into stores anymore. Thank you Jessica. Merry Christmas to your precious family. Be blessed.
@karenhunter8969 Жыл бұрын
OMG! You have perfected organizing. Great job!
@threerivershomestead Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! 😊
@sherryruddell35883 жыл бұрын
Great video! I have no kids at home, but I could use a planner like this....former teacher in me, I guess! When I take the time to do a weekly meal plan, life is so much simpler for me. I teach piano lessons and have those lessons down on my calendar. They seem to change a lot. One of the things I noticed was your beautiful, neat handwriting. Bless you and your family.
@lamia28453 жыл бұрын
Awesome ideas for the planner ! Thank you and God Bless You all !
@crystalr.castillo27842 жыл бұрын
wow, this is an amazing set up 🙌🏽 thank you for sharing
@hobocamp10723 жыл бұрын
I use a teacher planner too! I'm in NY and need to keep very detailed records for my homeschool paperwork. This gave me some great ideas of how to use every inch of my planner, thank you! I think rewards for reading is great 👍
@amyhowell40003 жыл бұрын
So pleased you have found a planner that works for you. Xxx
@BeckyValkyrie2 жыл бұрын
I love this! The weekly spread would work great for the block scheduling I use. And it would be so nice to have everything in one place. I haven't found a planner that does that, but this looks perfect! TY!!! 🙏🏻❤️
@carolynsinyard13063 жыл бұрын
This video is excellent. Thank you for sharing how you keep up with your busy day. The last time I had to go through chemo really messed up my brain and I lost a whole lot of my short term memory. I have sticky notes all over the place in our house just to help me keep up with what I need to do each day. I believe this planner system will help me a whole lot.
@MySemiCountryLife3 жыл бұрын
I love to use stickers in my planner! I also use highlighters to help me color block my time. My kids are older now ( 19 & 16), with only one at home, so I can plan more down to the minute. I love the Passion Planner system because the layout works best for me & the covers are beautiful. However I must be honest I only buy them when they are on sale lol. I have it marked down when to purchase lol.
@BucketListHomestead3 жыл бұрын
I also like horizontal and I still use paper too and I also like pretty and neat lol
@SavedbyHisMercy3 жыл бұрын
This was super helpful as usual, Jessica 🙂 Thank you for taking the time to share it. As a budding homesteader and homeschooling mama to 6, that planner system looks like just what I need. I like the horizontal version too, and couldn't imagine the vertical one working for my brain either. Have a super, blessed time off as a whole family, and a Christmas and New Year filled with God's Shalom peace, good health and much joy 💗💗💗
@cllibutti87113 жыл бұрын
Have a very merry Christmas.
@micki79502 жыл бұрын
What company do you use to purchase the customized stickers from? I like the idea of peeling a sticker off instead of my own handwriting for the column titles. Plus it would save time! Thank you for sharing your journal tips. ❤
@JustTheTwoOfUsHomestead3 жыл бұрын
I get it…I’m exactly the same way. I need to write things down in a visual, organized way (not digital). Thanks for sharing your tips and tricks 😉
@klevesque3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been liking the Plum Paper Planner. Labels are able to be customized and it’s less $$ than an EC planner.
@karenlyle3223 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas 🎄
@kaybusby75073 жыл бұрын
I use a planner daily and it's just me but it really does help when I do a lot of volunteering.
@aessidhe63043 жыл бұрын
Excellent system!
@UOlover133 жыл бұрын
Can you share the links to your stickers please?
@shadegarden73753 жыл бұрын
Merry CHRISTmas!!! 🎄🎁🙌🏻🙌🏻
@ritabaker31133 жыл бұрын
Christmas blessings
@sasssass60903 жыл бұрын
I think the same thing about the appointments
@lisanowakow36883 жыл бұрын
I love the planner, great idea!
@glindamarine82483 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed ur info!
@cassie_plans3 жыл бұрын
This is awesome! Thanks for sharing!
@heidibriggs33843 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I need to get better about organizing my life. This gives me some great ideas!
@jessicas.98593 жыл бұрын
I so agree with you! I love those great things that came out of it all!
@UOlover133 жыл бұрын
In the past I’ve tried using bullet journals and other planners to keep organized but I haven’t had any success sticking to them. I think I might try this one out. My schedule isn’t as busy as yours since I have an almost 4 year old, almost 2 year old and a baby due in March. But my daughter likes a very structured routine and likes doing “school”. So I need to organize my meals and chores better to be able to do more activities and school with them!
@amymello74813 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I needed this.
@rethawilson62893 жыл бұрын
Amazing . T u . We so enjoy your family here in Bristol va. While j enjoyed raising my three children . I'm enjoying all my grandbabies and GGB Noella ROSE 🌹
@alexandreamartens55613 жыл бұрын
I usually buy two plum paper planners but I realize I didn't need to get the other so this year I got the teacher planner thanks to you. I'm about to have my fourth baby and with a daughter with Adhd she lives off of lists so I'm hoping this will condense our books to just one.
@carolwengel46403 жыл бұрын
Jessica, I hope you & your family have a very blessed Christmas & a happy new year! ✝️ God bless you, Carol in Phoenix AZ ❤️🎄🙏
@artkeepsave72063 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much - I did decide to go with selfmadeplanner because I’m not in the US we don’t have so many pretty options - and I also like pretty. You gave me some great idea to think about 🤗🙏🏼🍀
@alystodola2 жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica! Thank you for this video. It has helped me decide on a planner (I went with the life planner vertical, my mind can’t do horizontal 😉) and also figure out how to maximize it and set it up well. This has been so helpful. Thankful for you!