If you can spare me 6 minutes, you'll get 10 years of your life back

[@lauriexwang]

What’s one step you’d take today to start living more fully on your own terms?

[@JasmineIbrahim-y9z]

stop worrying.. this would be a huge step.

[@richardkloos5916]

just seening this 6 minutes, got me in tears

[@dalemiller5271]

@@richardkloos5916 that means you're ready for a change and your body could not contain its passion for your best life.

[@dalemiller5271]

@@JasmineIbrahim-y9z Trust

[@dalemiller5271]

Write the first page ✍

[@b.2392]

"The pain of feeling stuck is always worse than the pain of taking action." 👍

[@lauriexwang]

Absolutely! 🙌

[@graceweber2822]

Exactly.

[@sandramedina9482]

I’m stuck

[@iInspireSuccess]

You are absolutely correct

[@jatinho_jato]

I felt this personally. Seriously, go after your goals and don’t worry too much about what people think. Everyone’s too busy focusing on themselves

[@SKAMMA1]

I watched this...went into the kitchen where my wife was working on the phone, asked her for her undivided attention and we shared a deep embrace, i told her how wonderful every moment spent with her has been and thanked her for everything we share and continue to experience together. She was moved deeply. Thank you

[@l.patrick3155]

That was beautiful...

[@Tmate4444]

Just did this and she asked wtf is wrong with me

[@judith018]

Wow, I was moved. Thank you for sharing.

[@l.patrick3155]

@@Tmate4444 🤣🤣🤣

[@lauriexwang]

This is so beautiful and thank you for sharing the moments of your life and how this video moved you ❤️

[@invertedflatspin9676]

I love that quote..."You don't need to know every step...just the next one.". Very powerful statement.

[@lauriexwang]

It is, and it's something that transformed the way I live and work. When we look back to all of the actions and steps we've taken, we will realize that we are where we were suppose to be all along 🙌

[@kallegrabowski8972]

I don't know why the almighty Algorithm brought me here, but i am so glad about it 😉

[@robertsmith2088]

I disagree I think having a long-term structured macro plan with several steps towards an ultimate goal is invaluable. Quotes like that are nothing but aphoristic nonsense. Avoid aphoristic language and focus more on details if you want to make actual progress.

[@Random2960]

@@robertsmith2088 no

[@tusniatowshi]

You have just helped a suicidal person get momentum when she had none to talk to. I hope this warmth returns to you too, Laurie. You made me fall in love with you in 6 minutes.

[@alexaf7400]

I feel the same way. Hope you’re doing a little better though

[@virtue1495]

strive to fall more in love with God each day and yourself and take lessons from the rest! Life is a special gift and I pray you will keep fighting for it. Wishing you well friend.🤎

[@logantibor]

agreed

[@Phoenixat40]

You are the most important person in your life. Learn to love yourself and know that you are never alone. There are others out there like myself who are walking life alone, but I've realized how this alone time has made me a stronger person who no longer depend on others to live. Know that you always have us on KZbin to talk to so don't be a stranger. Take care always.

[@abecause9011]

Bless you. Sending you a hug.

[@__Lucas]

"Clarity doesn't come from waiting...it comes from doing." I really gravitate to this...thank you

[@MichaelWarbux]

"Every day you stay in place, is a day you're further away from living the life you really want." That's a powerful statement.

[@AlvinsThoughts]

that's depressing

[@swimbaitninja4761]

Clarity doesn't come from waiting, it comes from doing! Thank you Laurie!

[@lauriexwang]

Yes it does and I'm grateful you resonated with this video ❤️

[@jessicarogers9420]

It does matter, money does. My lack of money prevents me from going out with my friends. It prevents me from traveling to see my friends. It means family no longer invites me for vacations because I cannot afford to take days off. Yes money does matter to stay connected and enjoy life

[@camilamachado7247]

Yeah, that's hard 😢

[@carmenhealer4635]

Be honest with friends and family and do things that are free like taking walks, taking on the phone, writing emails.

[@seembertsav4809]

I can't agree with you more

[@jessicarogers9420]

@@carmenhealer4635 sure but single parent that doesn’t live near friends. I do some but it’s mostly with others that have children. Otherwise there’d be paying for a babysitter. Also, everyone seems so busy. My notes and letters are rarely get replies. Being able to take a simple 30 minute walk has become a life goal.

[@Wanyiha-G.1]

​@jessicarogers9420 if others are not available to you at the moment, it's because you are in a season of isolation. Do what you must now cause change is coming.

[@johnmausteller]

You don’t have to be great to get started , but you have to start , in order to be great

[@lauriexwang]

Very true.🙌

[@UniqueGeekFreak]

You are good and great as you already are, whether you started or "accomplished" anything. Don't fall for that trap of only being worthy & valuable when you have achieved this or that. Be happy now with yourself ❤

[@robertsmith2088]

So what are you saying, we have to treat every single moment as the first day of beginning something? Sounds like something I'd say to an infant who's never started anything in his life.

[@simonalexandero]

Every day you wait is a day you could have been closer to where you want to be.

[@lauriexwang]

🙌🙌🙌

[@mariolambrechts3306]

Everyday i wait, i am closer to were i want to be, out of here 😉

[@simonalexandero]

@@mariolambrechts3306 😢

[@jatinho_jato]

The fear of failing shouldn’t be stronger than our desires

[@simonalexandero]

@@jatinho_jato 👏

[@buffalo068]

I am 74.. When I was 60 I started realizing that life ends.. I learned many of the lessons you're teaching.. This is an excellent summary.. I hope you can reach young people because most people wait until death are until they are very old thank you

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for sharing your personal story. I really hope that more people realize that earlier than later, we can all make the most of this beautiful life 🙌❤️

[@MagicOfHorses9706]

I just turned 60 and so many days lately spent feeling as if life is over. That I've come closer to the end. Will I live to be 70 like my Mother did or even beyond? Scary. Ten more Summers? But like that saying 'one day at a time' or just live in the moment, yes so true. Thank you for your comment it really helped. ❤❤

[@MagicOfHorses9706]

​@@lauriexwang Thank you too Laurie ❤❤ so glad you came up on my feed, new subber 😊. Bless you!

[@TravisBHartwell]

"Clarity doesn't come from waiting, it comes from doing." Thanks for the timeliness of this small sentence. It's what I needed today.

[@lauriexwang]

Glad this video showed up at the right time for you 🙌 let’s go live this life ❤️

[@alwayslearning7672]

Funny because I always thought that clarity comes from "not doing". Just stopping and observing.

[@debracisneroshhp2827]

​@@alwayslearning7672, What is meant is, when you "do" something, or "move" in a direction you think you want to go, clarity shows you whether or not you are moving toward or away from what you really desire as you take each step. 🙏😇✨💫🌱🌿🌻🐝🌳🌎💖🙌😺

[@Z3ROMyth]

Amazing quote 🔥🔥🔥💯.

[@tunesmith86]

@TravisBHartwell Exactly! This is the reason I always jump queues and insist on being served first. If you want something, just take it. If you snooze, you lose. This mindset really does work and can get you quite literally ahead of others in most situations. Just maybe don't give this advice to someone who is suicidal though, as I did once and it was taken slightly out of context..

[@luciaalboaie1042]

1. I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself. 2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard. 3. I wish I had the courage to express my feelings. 4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. 5. I wish I had let myself be happier.

[@seytanhakliymis]

Courage is not doing something without fear, but doing something despite fear 😎

[@lauriexwang]

Absolutely

[@lawrencekoh]

*Do what you want to do* *Don't just work work work* *Sit down alone and think* *Go out and see the world*

[@henrymuhindi1858]

❤

[@painintheass6549]

Sit down alone and don't think

[@flemminghansen6500]

​@@henrymuhindi1858 Except if work is what makes you happy (no. 5) and true to yourself (no 1.)

[@tamsinthai]

I have. and trust me, its not all that.

[@flemminghansen6500]

@@tamsinthai yeah. Because everybody else is wired the same way you are. For a period of time, work can be a lifesaver. Literally

[@sophia4573]

Start even if you are not ready ..... I WILL 🙏🏼 I spent all my life getting ready for things I couldn't even start. Being a perfectionnist is hard. I didn't take any step before too much planning. If something was missing, I ended up canceling my goal. I didn't live in the past & I didn't live in the present ... I was always in the future. 2025 will be different. My happiness will be my goal. I will learn to be braver and to challenge new things without too much overthinking. I will balance between work and fun because all my life was centered around studies and work. I was always ranked first in everything I did but it didn't bring me joy. I want more balance and I want to do what I love. I will start a new journey without thinking about the outcome. Thank you for this inspiring video 🙏🏼😊

[@rogue3143]

To me what opened my eyes was seeing all my aunts and uncles dealing with health problems. I find it crazy how at one point they were young thriving living having fun and now they’re sick all the time or in the hospital or even dying. It makes me sad that life doesn’t always get better the older you get and the NOW is the time to enjoy life because you may not be able to later. I’d say that also so many young people that have died. My cousin was my age and he died last year in an accident. Liam Payne was also someone young who just died and so on. Everyday we have is a blessing and we just have to remember that none of us are invincible.

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for sharing this. It’s such a powerful reminder that life can change in an instant, and we often forget how precious our time really is. Seeing those we love face health challenges or lose their lives too soon really does bring everything into perspective. The “right time” to enjoy life is now, as you said. Each day really is a gift, and it's moments like these that make us appreciate the present so much more. Thank you for sharing your heart here-it’s a message we all need to remember.

[@Centimilli]

It's called being healthy. Being active.

[@skyriminspace]

Remaining happy, grateful, joyful IN SPITE of chronic health issues..... man, that is some god-tier human behaviour.

[@TheCompleteGuitarist]

"You don't need to know every step, just the next one." This is how I try to live, this is profound. Thank you for reminding me/us.

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you and I'm glad this was a timely reminder 🙏

[@neemaalex9399]

I watched my mom dying with breast cancer and this was an opening eye for me to be grateful for everything and every moment is precious to us

[@AdamSimon]

Sorry, may they, you, and all those that she knew find peace. I experienced something similar. Thanks for the reminder.

[@lauriexwang]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Watching someone you love go through such a difficult journey must have been incredibly hard, but it’s beautiful how you’re taking her experience as a reminder to cherish life and be grateful. Moments like these truly shift our perspective, reminding us how precious every day is.

[@YK-rs8pm]

I’ve experienced the same ( was young ) so I didn’t get the same lesson from it

[@robertsmith2088]

It's physically impossible for that to happen because your brain is not even wired to be constantly happy all the time unless you're doing a shitload of cocaine. On the other hand you can put yourself through a lot of suffering and then feel extremely happy for smaller things as you re-expose yourself to the respective dopamine, epinephrine inducing stimulus/stimulii. If you think you can overcome the hedonistic treadmill, than you're not human.

[@waltervonborstel-se3rz]

I love being by myself. NO B.S. pure joy.

[@fastingcoach9711]

Dito

[@EverywhereisHE]

Success is achieving what you want in life. Happiness is being satisfied with what you get… Happiness is Priceless!!!

[@lauriexwang]

Priceless indeed! 🙌

[@robertsmith2088]

Happiness is a trap.

[@mortengu1385]

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift-that's why it's called the present.

[@lauriexwang]

Beautifully said!

[@Outis187]

So deep. You are like a wise kung fu panda.

[@marie-francoiset9402]

@lauriexwang That’s a very old quote. At least since the 70s. Maybe older. The person who made the comment didn’t originate it. lol Great vid by the way. Glad the algorithm sent it my way 👏🏼😎

[@conoranstiss2385]

​@@marie-francoiset9402I believe it is a quote from Eleanor Roosevelt, I saw it on a coffee mug years ago. Lol

[@NikkiLofton]

Thats wonderful

Ive never been wealthy, but ive been rich. Living in the moment has been my piece of mind. Live simple live minimal live without debt and the world just feels different. 5:53

[@samuelasare1790]

You just gained a follower, I needed this at this point in my life. “There’s no perfect moment, the moment is now”

[@lauriexwang]

I'm really glad this video came to you at the right time ❤

[@janjan-sw3ee]

Its not just getting 10 years of life back. Its the meaning of life in 6 minutes. Thank you for the video!

[@robertsmith2088]

No it's not. That's rubbish. This is something someone would have prepared for either a chinese person or someone from the U.S. living in a superficial society. But there's a shitload of people who didn't grow up in such places, and wished that they'd learned investing sooner, so they could actually get more time back rather than working for someone. Here's a lesson, there's always value in hard work. Do not listen to some aphoristic quotes saying I wish didn't work as hard. That's rubbish. If you're working well towards a long-term goal which will bring long-term happiness to yourself and loved ones around you, do not let anything take you away from that. Also even better is to work for your own assets rather than someone else's. Also did I mention, learn how to invest early?

[@TheCandleofWisdom]

Sharing never makes you lose anything; instead, it spreads light to many others. Thank you so much!

[@lauriexwang]

I'm grateful you resonated with this message, please help spread it to those who need to hear it ❤️

[@Jesse-0008]

You are so right when you say that we should just start before we are ready. Magical things will happen! That’s what I recently did with my KZbin channel. I just started, and I noticed as I go along, I learn a little something almost every time I record a video and upload it. Thank you so much for sharing all of his wisdom. Have a great day!

[@lauriexwang]

It's amazing how much we learn through the process, and your experience is a perfect example of that. Thank you for sharing your journey 🙌 Have a great week ahead

[@Jesse-0008]

@ and I must say that I enjoy the process of learning a little something almost every time. It feels good. You have a great week too!

[@Sillydonuts322]

This was so special, and I really thank you for posting it. As I’m laying around thinking of how I want to change, I looked up “how to change” videos, and so many of them had the “be better, do more than this person, glow up in 90 days” message. Your video and words felt so much kinder, and for lack of a better word, healthy, and I mean that with no offense to the other creators. Thank you!

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you and I'm grateful my videos resonated with you. What you said really means a lot. I believe that we all value things differently in life. There is no one perfect way to live a life true to ourselves and I just hope to use my message to inspire others to live a life that they truly want. Thank you for being here and sharing these moments with me ❤️

[@templokat]

This video just changed my life. “Clarity doesn't coming by waiting it comes my doing.” Is so powerful. I wish I heard this sooner

[@lauriexwang]

All you need is that next step, you've got this! ❤️

[@TheStrataminor]

This is very true...

[@elitechampion]

This is a very good mantra to live by! So many people are lazy, waiting for a sign from god. They don't realise that god doesn't exist and it's up to them to make the best of life!

[@nickbeliz1945]

the "clarity by doing" comment was eye opening. I'm sure there's some neurological explanation to it, but put simply, nothing beats experience. And your comment in minute 3:20 on not knowing what the next step is, if you haven't read Michael Crichton's "Travels" (non fiction), I recommend it> He relates to climbing the Kilimanjaro. Basically you can't see the top from the starting point, but as long as your putting one step above the last step, you will end up at the top! Thank you for such clarity.

[@lauriexwang]

Sometimes we overthink, but real understanding seems to come when we’re actually in the process, facing each step as it comes. Thank you for the book recommendation! I love that metaphor about Kilimanjaro-it’s such a perfect reminder that we don’t always need to see the whole path to make meaningful progress.

[@DEBTFREEMIKE769]

That’s cool you’re talking about this book. I literally purchased it 3 weeks ago. I think the regret about working hard is why I preach getting out of debt as fast as possible. Short term pain for long term gain.

[@lauriexwang]

That’s amazing, really cool that you got this book recently, thanks for sharing your lessons! 🙌

[@larrychong]

Not all debt is bad but many people do not know how to use it. We don't teach financial literacy in our educational system unfortunately. Debt to acquire an income producing asset is good leverage. Credit card debt paying only minimum balances every month is bad.

[@kan0762]

Money makes a huge difference in each of these aspects of life you mentioned, it is true you can be happy but it would always make a huge difference if financially you were freerer. I think people should understand the importance of it and it is obvious that the financial status in general depends on the whole context of the system of society in the country as a whole. But yes one thing that everyone can do is curtail their expectations from life and try to be ok with things not working out.

[@lauriexwang]

Money buys freedom for so many of us, you bring up a great point. We all value things differently in our lives, some value achievements and wealth while others may value experiences and relationships. Only we know how to live a life true to our own values and live a life true to ourselves 🙌❤️

[@AA-dd5kn]

Hi Laurie, it’s 5:11 am and I woke up at around 3 am stressing over an email I got from the president of the company that I work at. I’m sitting here trying to figure out what to do with the email and after a prayer I opened up my iPad to see this see video pop up in my feed. I was going to ignore it at first but something guided me to watch it. I’m glad I did, your message touch so many points that I have been struggling with for a while now. I’m a 50 year old male very successful professionally and financially but so miserable. I’ve never really taken the time to stop and focus on what I have in front of me, my amazing children and wife. I hope this video will be my seed for the future that I want to have, be less concerned about my career and financial stress and more about the stuff that really nourishes the soul! Thank you for sharing this very inspiring video, I look forward to seeing more content and help me on this journey. With love from Montreal Canada. Alex.

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt message. I’m so glad this video reached you at the right time. It’s easy to get caught up in work and stress, but it’s inspiring to hear you’re focusing on what really nourishes your soul-your family and yourself. I resonate with many of the things you said having experienced that in my own career before I came to this realization, which inspired me to do the work I do today, in speaking to organizations and coaching individuals to live intentionally and make time for what matters. Recognizing that is such an important step, and I’m excited for you as you embrace this new chapter. 🌱

[@Snitzler4710]

The president of your company is only as important as you believe. You and your family are what truly matters in your life. Make a real plan, save your money and retire early. Freedom is for those that fight for it. Best wishes to you and NEVER underestimate true value.

[@justdruofficial]

I started KZbin in August and it is as though scales fell off my eyes. So much is happening and I’ve evolved a lot in just the three months. Don’t wait on whatever it is people. ❤

[@lauriexwang]

It’s amazing how much growth can happen in such a short time when we just go for it. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤️

[@levmoses742]

So cool! I love YT and this video is perfect. I do use the timer tho. I can get lost in it for hours otherwise.

[@leslieiris7093]

Yes . Don't wait because than it may be too late. We are not promised tomorrow. Today is all we have.

[@prabhurajhan8911]

I'm subscribing

[@recommendmovies]

Go girl! Subscribed❤

[@karenhardie1132]

No one at the end of their life wishes they worked more. Family, friends, relationships, experiences are what is important.

[@smithy1578]

"no man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. it is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable." -Unknown writer dedicated to Socrates

[@-._.-KRiS-._.-]

@@smithy1578 And it doesn't cost anything to exercise and strength train. Push-ups are free.

[@donjohn2239]

Bs. Tell that to someone from a third world country. You people act like some know all people.

[@noidsuper]

@@donjohn2239 Those people have no choice. Hell many in first world countries these days don’t have that choice. The reality is that if they could afford it, the vast majority of people would most likely regret working so much if it wasn’t strictly necessary for survival.

[@chandrikadas9163]

I don't regret work and will never regret it. I love my job. It fulfils me in ways, nothing else possibly could and has given me the life I have. Not everyone is the same

[@PlanofBattle]

“Clarity comes from doing, not waiting”. Beautifully put.

[@epicriosonlinemoney3654]

"Get Busy Living or Get Busy Dying" - Shawshank Redemption

[@lauriexwang]

Love this quote and movie! 🙌

[@maonezinyagalu9393]

Red.!

[@TM-pn3zk]

without money, good luck

[@RAJ_Yes_RAJ-]

HOPE is a good thing, maybe the best of things

[@lfic]

“I was ashamed of myself when I realised life was a costume party and I attended with my real face” ― Franz Kafka

[@CaixadeSkinner]

For me it was the opposite. I felt better when I stopped pretending to be a character.

[@ifeanyiemmanuel4729]

​@@CaixadeSkinnercan I say both - depending on context ? That's it

[@CaixadeSkinner]

@@ifeanyiemmanuel4729 Maybe life demands that we all wear a costume at times.

[@ifeanyiemmanuel4729]

@@CaixadeSkinner yeah. When dealing with the conventional experience in the outside world, it's full of pretence and political correctness - so you wear a costume (do like they). When it's about your real development, don't sugarcoat anything - go bare (without costume ). More like going for the truly truth so you don't deceive your own self For example, everyone wants to be a doctor but you know you are deeply yearning for being a dietician. It'll make it all ok, if you go for your heart desires and not attempt the costume of being a doctor

[@nick_m4826]

Happiness doesn't come at the finishing line, it's found in the process in who we become along the way.👌 Very nice.

[@Talik13]

Videos like this are SO HELPFUL. I've learned this lesson very early in my life... like around Middle Grade or High School years. It defined how I looked to the future of work and "hustle culture" and I realized that nobody doing that is happy when they die. I saw people who focused on work, like my dad, do NOTHING but work to provide for us... but I didn't really get to know him at all. He never had any hobbies because he only had work. That was his ENTIRE life... and I feel like, even though I don't have the "American Dream" I've been, on average, happier and more fulfilled.

[@samuelitooooo]

I reluctantly clicked into this video expecting hard truths to swallow. It ended up being validating. A life of constant hustle terrifies me. I want friendships. I want to continue pursuing my hobbies and travel. I want to enjoy what I do. I've always wanted those things. It's not your primary message, but you do touch on these regrets.

[@shawnmyersm.s.1219]

"You don't need to know every step; just the next one" 😀Awesome!

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you, I'm grateful you resonated with this video! ❤️

[@ChristinaB-mj3tj]

They say there are two days in the life of a person that are most important 1. The day you were born and the second one (2) The day you find out why !! Laurie you have found out why and have answered your calling so never stop doing what you have been called to do !! You are a magnificent speaker whose compassion is felt ! Watching your video moved me so much and I just want to say thank you for being such a Blessing ! Continue doing what you love and you will never work another day in your life. God Bless you ! Christina

[@lauriexwang]

Christina, thank you so much for this beautiful message! It means the world to hear that the video resonated with you like that. Finding purpose has been such a journey, and knowing it’s bringing something positive to others like you makes it all worth it. 🙏

[@777STMIA]

I love the " begin before you're ready" statement. This has come up a couple times for me recently; I'm taking it as a sign. Time to begin! Thank you Laurie. Blessings everyone.

[@lauriexwang]

Maybe it’s meant to be! Thank you 🙏

[@JoeriCreates]

Unfortunately, sometimes, being stuck will feel so familiar, that change will feel even more scary. Yet I believe your message here will push a few people to get in gear. Love this.

[@sandmandealer4640]

"We buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like" -Dave Ramsey

[@lauriexwang]

very true!

[@JDB4197]

This was actually a line in the book Fight Club written by Chuck Palahniuk in 1996 made into a movie in 1999 starring Ed Norton who spoke the line. Seems that people threw Dave Ramsey’s face with this quote as a meme.

[@LuzVelascoOropeza]

Which means that, ultimate happiness, for many people, is impressing enemies and people perceived as superior. It's all about a wound of rejection. We just want to be loved and included. The lengths we will go to just get that small revenge. It's crazy.

[@dannysmith5518]

@@JDB4197 dude giving Dave Ramsey credit for this quote is wild

[@carmenhealer4635]

I don’t enjoy Dave’s arrogance and meanness. This was not his quote.

[@stamatiamcgrath7992]

You don’t need your know every step, just the next one.. such a wise statement!! Thank you for this great advice. So true ! We need to learn to enjoy the journey of like every step of the way.

[@lauriexwang]

This has been transformative in my own life and I'm glad that you found this useful! ❤️

[@Ines-rv7pw]

okay i didn't expect to get this emotional when i clicked on this video, thank you for sharing this, i think this will change my pov of life

[@lauriexwang]

Wow, I'm grateful this video resonated with you. Let's go live this beautiful life ❤

[@Nareia-m7v]

This resonates so well for me. Been hesitant to publish my stories for 5-10 years because I always think I ain't good enough yet. Then one day, a few month ago, i thought "F-k it" because i will never be good enough, but if i start, i will get better. That is how stuff works. We get better at what we practise. Even if i dont even have 10 people reading/listening, it is still worth it. For me.

[@genericwatcher2439]

When my grandmother was on her death bed in the hospital, she had so much anxiety and regret. She left everything to my Mom and told her to LIVE NOW! Do not wait till you retire to travel, do not wait till "X" to do "Y", do not wait! If you can do it today, do it. My Mom started traveling, helping other people and doing the things she was afraid to do. When my Mom was on her death bed, she was relaxed, told us she was ready and when she closed her eyes for the last time, she was at peace. Do! Yes, you still have to save some money for tomorrow and retirement, it is balance, not saying spend every dollar today, just say have goals on a regular basis and do them, you will be so much happier.

[@whitewolf9547]

I watched this video about 5 times back to back. I was laughing out loud a few times. This information is so real and refreshing. Thank you for this gem because you are touching hearts going this deep ❤

[@lauriexwang]

Glad it was helpful! And I'm really grateful that this video was helpful to so many. Now let's go live this beautiful life ❤️

[@alak8956]

Wow.. I am taking at least two sentences I wrote down while listening to this video.. "Clarity doesn't come from waiting, it comes from doing" and "You don't need to know each step, only the next one." Thank you, very motivating. You got a gift to catch people attention and provide much more that they expected at the beginning.. Staying for longer to explore more of your content.

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you, this means a lot! I'm glad you resonated with the video and look forward to sharing more with you ❤️

[@evansrvs]

What an INCREDIBLE title holy shit. I actually didn’t have the willpower to even put this in my watch later, I had to watch it immediately.

[@stutikhadka6044]

"At the end of the day it is not about what you've achieved but who you became in the process" really hit, I am really proud of who I've become now, that is my biggest achievement, and I will strive to be the best version of myself a life on my terms! Thank you for this video!

[@curtisyoncis7880]

Thank you for that. Just what I needed to hear right now. Some of my very favorite quotes: "Will your life be an inspiration or a WARNIG?", "Fill your life with memories-not regrets", "Worry will never solve a problem", "Action puts you a day ahead-procrastination puts you a day behind", 'The material "things" filling your house were all once MONEY", "The more you know, the LESS you need" (from a sticker on a bicycle), "You can eat an ELEPHANT one bite at a time". At 79, two things I know for sure: Your children will be grown and gone in what seemed to be the blink of eye , one day you will wake up and suddenly realize you are OLD. TIME is the most valuable commodity we have.

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙌

[@mariamehab5822]

It's the first time for me to listen to someone on social media and felt that she is real not just chasing likes and comments. She had a real message 💕💕

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you and I’m grateful you resonated with this message. 🙌❤️

[@goldeneggduck]

People desire different things at different stages. This is a process that happens layer by layer. Don't cheat by jumping to the end and look backwards because that won't work. Without the mistakes and wastefulness, there would be no recognition to treasure what's valuable either. Cheating won't work.

[@rokko_fable]

I agree with the first part. but heeding advice from elders is not cheating.

[@MichelleJones-p4e]

Beautiful video! Happiness isn’t a destination; it’s the journey! Work towards your goals, but also watch a sunset, smell and brush against a rose, hug your friend, write a letter to someone telling them what they mean to you. ❤️🌹

[@lauriexwang]

Well said and love this. ❤️ Thank you for these beautiful reminders. I always believed in work for what you want, but don’t forget to pause and be grateful for what you have. It’s this balance that leads to both success and satisfaction.

[@MichelleJones-p4e]

@ Agreed! 🌹

[@FinancewithZara]

saying no to people who don't have a value in my life in a positive way

[@kingtrance307]

I just tell them to piss off.

[@brain_station_videos]

This video is a powerful reminder to live in the moment and prioritize what truly matters.... It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, but we need to slow down, appreciate the beauty of this life itself, and pursue our passions. Thank you for sharing such a valuable message! ❤🙏

[@lauriexwang]

Absolutely! Thanks you and and I’m glad you resonated with this message 🙌❤️

[@taiwoadebayopaints]

This is about to change my life, I’m going for it guys!!!

[@lauriexwang]

🙌🙌

[@susangorman2479]

This was a real wake up call. Thank you for making such a short video that was direct and to the point. I will be watching this over and over again. Powerful words! I feel like my daughter and I reside under the same roof, but aren't living as a family. She will be off to college in a few years and I need to make changes now to make the time we have together matter.

[@lauriexwang]

These times are very precious, I remember the time after i left home for college, it was different when I returned for visits. I really treasured those times I lived in the same house as my parents. Thank you for sharing your story with me, your daughter is very lucky to have a Mom who thinks like you do. Make the most of each moment together ❤️

[@leslieiris7093]

Yes. Love your daughter the most you can. Life is too short. Make her a very special dinner.that you know she will like. And tell her that you love her❤

[@oenway]

This is so true. I lost my mom this year, and life just changed. A different outlook to see something new and Thank God for everyday I wake up.

[@lauriexwang]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one, especially a parent, changes everything, and it makes us realize how precious each day truly is.

[@janeforrest6838]

Sorry for your loss,my lovely mum passed away in April she was my best friend and I don’t know if Iwill ever feel that loved again,but we spent so much time together and did everything we could over the years so for that I’m grateful

[@oenway]

@lauriexwang Thank you. Yes, it does change your perspective. Things I once cared for don't matter, it's all about family & friends even more.Thank you for the response & video. 😀😄

[@oenway]

@janeforrest6838 Thank you and condolences to you and your loved ones. she passed in March 3 days after her bday. My mom & I were close too so much is lossed but Thankful for seeing the positive side of everything now.

[@saracrazy7425]

I’ve always lived my life based on how the others expected me to do things, way to act and talk.. last year I reached my bottom and I asked for help to a psycologist and it was an amazing journey.. it’s not easy to dont please other every single days ( and I cant say I’m succefull in that every single day) but i’m moving forward and try to be myself. Today was a rough day and your videos appeared in my homepage.. I take it as a sign! Good job, you were really inspiring

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for sharing your story and I'm really grateful my video showed up at the right time for you. You've got this and sending you lots of good energy. ❤

[@rogerhargreaves7726]

Start living your life! Do what you want to do! Don't waste time doing things you don't want to! But tomorrow I have to go to work, and the next day and the next. And in the evenings I will cook and clean and do the washing etc and on the weekend I will take my child to her sports clubs and work in the garden and try to do some home improvements that have been waiting for years for me to have some spare time. None of these things I want to do. I'm not waiting to start living my life, I'm trying to live it now but there always seems to be something more important than my things.

[@lauriexwang]

I hear you completely, as a parent to a toddler with (more busier social plans than me on the weekend), so much of life as a parent feels like it's filled with commitments and tasks that never seem to end. It can feel like our days are spent taking care of everyone else while our own dreams are on hold. Balancing what "living life" looks like with all the responsibilities we take on is a tough challenge. But even in the midst of it all, finding those small pockets of time for ourselves can make a big difference. Plus kids have this wonderful way of making time stay still and reminding me to be present as they grow so fast. You’re doing your best, and that’s no small thing!

[@dinabaxter5393]

These are such timeless lessons that more people needs to hear and thanks for sharing this. ❤

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you! I hope more people can realize these, if you know anyone who needs to hear this let them know ❤️

[@SoulCareOver50]

Great video! As someone who's had some challenging few years and starting over again, I'm embodying a lot of what you've said here. You're right that tomorrow isn't guaranteed and I'm trying to do more things that bring me joy 😍

[@lauriexwang]

You got this! It sounds like you're in a powerful place of rebuilding and focusing on what truly brings you joy. I’m glad the video resonated, and I wish you all the best on this journey forward! 🌱

[@FitforLife-o6i]

The way you break down complicated studies is so helpful!

[@lauriexwang]

I'm really glad to hear that! I look forward to sharing more 🙌❤

[@jelita_]

I don't know what to expect from this video but after hearing this, I completely agree. Live our lives now, don't wait untill something happens to be happy ❤

[@lauriexwang]

Absolutely, the key to lasting happiness isn’t just in getting what you want, it’s in appreciating what you already have.

[@XeRo333]

This is very motivating and so very true! Ever since I was born, I've been into music and playing the drums. I've always wanted to do something with music, more specifically to be a session drummer for a band or an artist. I'm almost 30 and that has yet to happen. Fear and doubt have taken hold of my life, and I've passed up the very few opportunities that I've been offered simply because of the fear of saying yes and my routine changing. Now, I'm filled with regret and wonder if my lifelong goal will ever come to fruition.

[@lauriexwang]

It’s never too late to pursue what lights you up, and I can feel your passion for music in your words. Fear and doubt can be powerful, but they don’t have to define your path. The fact that you’ve always wanted this shows how deeply it resonates with you, and that’s something worth fighting for. It’s okay to take small steps toward your dream, even if it feels overwhelming. You’re allowed to change your routine, to step outside your comfort zone. Your dream is still very much possible, and by facing that fear, you might just find the opportunity you've been waiting for.

[@tomtomdishman4029]

God bless you all who are hurrting.

[@Secre3.3]

thank you, watching your videos calms my mind. you're my therapy. your voice is such a lullaby.

[@lauriexwang]

Aww thanks I'm glad my voice is helpful 🙌

[@SabrinaEBouker]

Always good to be reminded about our reality, only passengers on this earth ❤

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for this beautiful message, and we can all make this life count ❤️

[@leslieiris7093]

Yes the real reality is that we will die. Sooner or later. And that we will spend eternity. Either in. Heaven. Or. Hell. Where do you want to go?... Choose. Jesus. Christ. He is the only way. The truth and the life. John.3.16.kjv. bible.

[@oflidiggy]

Let's be honest we can't get our lost years back....but we can change ourselves starting today

[@TheNerdyGeekLife]

This came at the right time in my life. Thank you. I'm going to watch it twice so I can get another 10 yrs back. 😎

[@lauriexwang]

Haha, I love that! 😎 Glad this came at the right time for you and here is to making this life count 🙌

[@StephanEbert-e7q]

Thank you Laurie =) Your Video helped me to take a step back and rethink about my actions. I really changed my live couple of years ago and I'm now in the change process. I really try to live more in the now, let go of the past and trust in future. I also just do things I like and I get energy and an meaning from. So I quit my job about one year ago and now I really TRY things instead of thinking about them. "Clarity does not come from waiting, it comes from actions" I really liked that one :)

[@lauriexwang]

That's great to know and I wish you all the best on this exciting journey ahead. Take it one step at a time 🙌

[@chareajohnson2320]

I lived in Korea for 6 years. The entire experience changed my life forever. During those years, I felt like I truly live my life to the fullest! Thank you for reminding me of that time!❤😊

[@lauriexwang]

That's wonderful and I'm glad this video brought back some great memories. Thank you for sharing your story! 😊 Here is to living our lives to the fullest.

[@louarmstrong6128]

Do the Koreans live life to the fullest. I knew someone that was very superficial in college .

[@marie-francoiset9402]

@louarmstrong6128 Sir or madam now I just *know* you aren’t going to judge an entire race of people based on your singular experience with ONE Korean person, right?

[@louarmstrong6128]

@@marie-francoiset9402 why would you say that? I asked a question to gain information. Am I not allowed to ask questions?

[@lauriexwang]

Hi everyone, I just want to take a moment to say how truly incredible it is to see the response from this video. Each share, comment, and new subscriber reminds me of how deeply we’re all connected in this journey toward living intentionally and fully. Thank you for being here, for sharing your thoughts, and for choosing to be part of this path. I've tried my best so far to respond to as many of you as I can, because the comments section really touched me from each and everyone of you. I’m grateful to be in this space with you-to learn, reflect, and grow together. At heart, I’m just a person striving to make meaningful choices in how I live each day. Because I believe that our choices carry the power to reshape the stories of our lives, and I’d like to share with you the one choice that changed mine.

[@pablorivera7722]

Amazing message. I've been stressing similar sentiments to family members, friends and I wish I could make them understand. I will share this channel and this video with them. Perhaps they will then understand. Thank you for this. 🙏🙏

[@lauriexwang]

@@pablorivera7722 I'm grateful that I get to share this message with you and many others, thank you.

[@Yurialdantas]

Find the NOW in your life❤

[@lauriexwang]

Absolutely!

[@tara.ta-rah]

Thank you for easing my anxiety as well as giving great advice on how to move forward.

[@lauriexwang]

I’m really grateful this message resonated with you ❤️ please share with anyone else who might need to this 🙌

[@desireesnyder2280]

Yes love HIS love we share with ourself and others and being true to myself and others. Thank you LORD FOR TJIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMAN SHARING THIS. THANK YOU LORD. BLESS HER MIGHTILY.

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you lovely, all of the best wishes to you

[@soyinkamotunrayo]

Indeed, our process in the journey of life is where we find fulfillment and joy. When you finally achieve your goal, you look back at the struggling times and smile that you won after all. “Live in the moment, don’t live in the worries” Thank you ❤

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for this beautiful comment ❤️

[@soyinkamotunrayo]

@ Thank you more🫂🫶🏼

[@TommyintheAttic-q9g]

Great video Laurie!! There's a lot of good thing in here. Thanks for your insights! This is the reason I work only 2 days a week with minimal needs and spending. I have 5 days to work on my music and writing books. For me, truly living is self expression. Giving from who I am to this world. I love the fact that you say happiness is in the here and now, and that we create as we walk forward... In action. I really like this video and will listen to it every day for a month to motivate myself! Keep up the great wisdom-attitude! Thanks

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for sharing your story. I love what you said about giving from who you are in this world. Every single person matter. We all have an unique gift to share and I love that you are focusing on yours, and working towards your dreams. I'm grateful you resonated with the message, let's go make the most of this life ❤️

[@joeslow-275]

I've knocked out most of these things .... 1.) I'm at the right spot in my company where I make good money but low stress ( I'm trying to NOT move up any higher lol) 2.) I talk to my parents at least once a week. 3.) im getting better at resolving problems in friendships and relationships and focusing on personal responsibility and forgiveness. 4.) I moved far away out of my comfort zone to pursue a life I truly desire. 5.) I ignore people who try to tell me i have to live a certain way... I choose to be single and will NEVER SETTLE. As soon as I find my person and people I will be completely fulfilled but in the meantime I will enjoy what i have with lots of gratitude.

[@lauriexwang]

Thanks for sharing your story 🙌🙌

[@markknivila8383]

A Hospice nurse said how, she's never ever heard a person, near their end, ever say how they wished that they would've spent more time at their scrappy jobs! Absolutely true! Great video, Laurie!

[@lauriexwang]

Glad you resonated with this video and here is making the most of this beautiful life!

[@robertsmith2088]

I don't think there are even people alive today who think like that. If you find someone let me know. I'd be intrigued to find out how their brain is wired.

[@MyKhalilovic]

You can't escape life regrets no matter what you do or don't , it's human nature

[@henrybasic7386]

90% agreed!

[@user26912]

You can escape regrets by practicing according to the Buddhadhamma. When mindfulness and concentration is developed regrets won't get hold over the heart. You notice them and accept them quicker with wisdom.

[@life_in_gen]

I learn to not waste time on overthinking/procastinating this is what hold us back. We have hundreds of things we want to do because we are overwhelmed. Stop overthinking, get up and do it! Whats alot worse , laying on the couch doomscrolling for hours or doing something for hours like cleaning, doing the dishes, reading a book, learning a skill, improving yourself everyday.

[@Ednastein1086]

*I'm glad you made this video,* it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $89k biweekly and a good daughter full of love..

[@FritzMickens]

Please how ?

[@FritzMickens]

Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞

[@Ednastein1086]

It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.

[@Ednastein1086]

$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....

[@Alvarezdavid-z7e]

Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!

[@raymondlin8728]

I Quit my job. I went from 275lb to 190lb without diet and exercise or pills I no long drink beer, wine I eat less junk food I have time to clean the house, yard, I dont get angry I appreciate the people around me, even when they "nag". I know it may be for my, our good I knew i hated my job, and some of the people there. It was not worth the time, stress, anger, and alcoholism it caused. Now im free. My hair is back, and black. My early dimentia is going away. My sky high cholesterol and blood pressure is normal without medication and exercise.

[@sammysanchez1738]

Proud of you, glad to hear

[@jeroenvermeersch4875]

But you have to get another job in the future? How to prevent getting sick again of it?

[@stevegonzales527]

I always told people this. You can lose and gain money, you lose time from your life but you can never gain it back. I don’t celebrate birthdays/ Christmas / valentines or any gifting holidays, if you appreciate someone make sure they feel appreciated don’t wait for holidays to show it as you never know if they’ll make it to such holiday

[@helyas1999]

I just found this video, and I know that it's not an accident! Been stressing about what to achieve for 2025, finances, etc. until I feel low and empty. Feels like I'm setting too much pressure on myself that I forget to enjoy THIS MOMENT NOW. Been really obsessing about the future. I mean, yeah, it's great to be an achiever, but do not ever ever overdo it. So thank you! Your video gave me a much better perspective of WHAT I REALLY WANT in life.

[@carltheyoda2155]

I launched my business today and really needed to see this!! 11/11/24

[@lauriexwang]

You've got this! 🙌

[@GorbixElite01]

Congratulations on the promotion to C.E.O!

[@OurSpacewithJuliet]

This is the best video of all times

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for sharing this moment with me ❤️

[@keniblk]

I did book the flight and took the cruise.. now I’m in debt 😵‍💫😆

[@RaiBontempo]

Wow I completely agree and how I live my life now. And it's great. Not many people really get it as it's something you have to discover yourself. Watching this video just inspires me to continue on this amazing path.

[@lauriexwang]

We all have different things we value in our lives. And once we are aligned that's when can live a life true to ourselves. Great to hear that you are already on this path 🙌

[@AttilaKozma]

4:07 my problem mostly is, I don't know what the next step should be

[@SigmaMindset313]

❤

[@DanielWyatt-x2e]

I wish I had learned most of these principles about seven years ago. Many people find themselves stuck in the traditional cycle-go to school, get a job, and work tirelessly without exploring alternative opportunities. Unfortunately, this mindset can cause them to miss out on life-changing financial insights. In 2020, I experimented with the stock market, and the results exceeded my expectations. Now, I'm considering investing an additional $190k in the market. I've heard that some investors are still seeing impressive returns, even with the current downturn. Do you have any recommendations?

[@HotManP-l5g]

Steer clear of 'too-good-to-be-true' schemes. It's wise to consult a fiduciary advisor, as these professionals are among the most reliable in the industry, providing personalized guidance tailored to a client's risk tolerance. While not all advisors have the best reputation, those with a proven track record can be invaluable.

[@FrankJaaay]

I've been working closely with a Financial Analyst for about 8 months now. These days, it's tempting to jump into trending stocks, but the real challenge lies in deciding when to sell or hold. That's where my advisor steps in, guiding me on the best entry and exit points in the industries I’m involved in. It’s been a worthwhile decision-I’m up 40% in profits in just 5 months, starting with an initial capital of $160k

[@CarddtReddt]

What's the best way to find a reputable financial planner? I'd be interested in learning more about the professional who assisted you. I'm planning to retire in two years, and I’ll need reliable management for a significantly larger portfolio. I can't afford to take any risks.

[@FrankJaaay]

Rebecca Lynne Buie has consistently been my top recommendation. She’s widely recognized for her expertise in financial markets and has a strong track record. I highly recommend her.

[@Toni__Michelle]

Thank you for the recommendation. I looked her up and reached out via email. I'm hoping to hear back from her soon.

[@hadibrat48]

Hi laurie, im in my 42 atm and feeling fucked up in life. Really need booster for gradually changing reality in my life coz i realize im not in my prime anymore. Life knocked me hard. Hopefully im catching up to the fullfilling life i meant to be. Ty 4 the content.

[@dalemiller5271]

In Latin Philosophy the past is an inaccurate memory, and the future is still a dream. Neither are real, but the present is real. The present is what you choose to make of it at this very moment. Today is the beginning of the rest of your beautiful life. Let go of the past and have compassion for those that hurt you and especially for yourself, giving yourself permission to start fresh today. I truly hope you feel better soon that you choose that for yourself as your "first step for living more fully on your own terms".

[@lauriexwang]

Hey there. I feel your words deeply, and just want to say-42 is absolutely not too late to start turning things around. Life can throw some tough punches, but every new day is a chance to make those small, meaningful changes. Even if it feels gradual, each step forward is powerful. Sending you all the encouragement as you find your path back to the life you want. You’ve got this, one step at a time.

[@50in5]

You're authentic and truly helpful. Your honesty comes through. Thank you for your video. You just gained a new subscriber. Sending my love and gratitude your way. Much love.

[@lauriexwang]

Thank you for your kind feedback and I'm grateful you resonated with the message. Welcome to the community and it's great to have you ❤️