"How Can I Style My Blasian Daughter's Hair?" Korean Mom Asks Black Woman For Help..!

[@Ridescence]

Thank you so much for having me on this episode

[@el-dawn]

you were amazing!

[@sodayum]

true! u were awesome!!

[@Mary-dk7mc]

you are beautiful and your personality is charming. You slayed this.

[@ashlaav]

Side note, you are stunning!

[@naoodles2630]

Thank you so much for being in this video. This stuff is important for the mothers and especially for the children!

[@Biotoze]

She is a fantastic mother for wanting to learn for her daughter.

[@UrHusbandBeatsU]

Honestly she had no other choice but to learn it 😂😂😂😂

[@kkurlio_]

@@UrHusbandBeatsUyeah but some moms would just send her to the hair salon instead or have the daughter learn versus them having to

[@JLitul]

@@UrHusbandBeatsUShe a real good Mom! Some non Black mothers to Black biracial children don’t even bother to send them to salons. Some just do their hair badly and call it a day. Don’t ask for help or do research or nothing. I’ve seen it a few times. Smh

[@이효민-w8h]

​@JLitul it's sad that those dads that actually have the hair type don't teach them or do it themselves

[@kkurlio_]

@@이효민-w8h i mean it is a bit rude to assume that our dads are always the black ones but anyways i ado agree that it is messed up that (sometimes) the black parent leaves the white parent no experience whatsoever with a baby who has really curly hair

[@Sunnycowleaf]

I can't stop laughing at the fact that Bomi needs to be constantly bribed with treats and candy to stay sat down 🤣

[@keba773]

😂😂yes full as a tick off junk when they finish.

[@KBRoller]

That's toddlers for you 😂 Easily bored, tiny attention span, prone to wandering off -- but easily controlled with food 😂

[@cantoneseconnection]

lmao truly!! Bomi just snackkin and get taken care of i love it XD

[@OfficialAtlantaDiva]

Baby these toddlers are something else! Especially girls. I literally have to have a tablet, fruit snacks and a juice box for my daughter to stay still to do her hair 😂😂 I'll be lucky if she falls asleep lol

[@Minimissmaimai]

When I got my hair braided as a kid I was sat down in front of the tv with goldfish and juice so I wouldn't get up 😅 bribery works so well😂😂😂

[@anarbee]

I love how kind and patient Rianna was towards the mom, she wasn't judgmental at all and tried to explain things in a easy way to help the mom and the child. She did a great job, I hope to see them all more on Giggle!

[@cosmari245]

The interactions between rianna and bomi were also very cute

[@alethiacampbell1365]

Absolutely she done a great job! Patient with mum & child Well done 👏

[@nerluvsyouu]

@@lerga14he might not know either

[@ChildofYAH]

​@@lerga14Black men for ya

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

​@lerga14 Also her black grandma and aunts from dad's side, idk why they didn't say anything, even virtually they could have said something.

[@justagirl6761]

I love how Bomi is just being a kid and is so disinterested in having her hair styled. She's adorable

[@macoleman]

Yep, Bomi is just there for the snacks and vibes mainly

[@4cuttime]

@justagirl6761 Yes, so adorable!

[@kay9301]

The way the mom was so attentive to Bomi even while listening to Rianna’s explanations on her hair, I just love to see mothers who are actually emotionally attentive to their kids. It’s so healing😭

[@sweetdulcesunshinenyc]

Nah that's not accurate..the mom had zero control the child dominated...meaning she has zero discipline no control. Unfortunately, the child is spoiled have zero sense of following directions..out of control which leads to problems in society. The child is old enough to OBEY do as parent instruct..

[@kay9301]

@@sweetdulcesunshinenyc what are you yapping about bro. I didn’t say anything about Bomi’s behavior or discipline or whatever else you mentioned. I only commented on how attentive the mom was. Because of how she wordlessly would open food for her and listen to her while simultaneously listening to Rianna’s instructions. I could not care any less about what you thought of her behavior.

[@areszverse]

@@sweetdulcesunshinenyckey word :Child

[@cherryice4603]

​@@sweetdulcesunshinenycChildren can very easily act up ik situations like this. Even the most well behaved ones.

[@sweetdulcesunshinenyc]

@@cherryice4603 correct, but if there was teaching from start the child would act out less..it starts at home. This is not new, some parents do nothing and create a menace since they were raised being self entitled no rules what the child say is law, which is not good for society since they taught these type of self entitled child that it's about them and that's not reality. Self entitled spoiled children with zero rules discipline, majority grow up to be a problem in life which affects me you the world. Again no disrespect to anyone in this video or in the comments. I know I'm not the only one that noticed in this video.

[@akossarfo-kantanka7231]

As a biracial daughter to a Ghanaian father and white American mother, I can’t tell you how much your care about her hair will mean to her as an adult. My mom has always made an extreme effort to make sure my hair was cared for, but also to remind me ALWAYS that my hair and skin was beautiful. Moms like this never get the praise they deserve

[@suzygirl1843]

This is proof that Africa is Easternizing. We are definitely moving away from the West

[@DieAlteistwiederda]

My dad was a stay at home dad for a while but even before that learned to braid hair and take care of it just so he could do that for us kids. So now that he has been dead for a long time I still get to remember sitting on his lap and him braiding my hair as a small child. Our mom of course could do that too and could do fancier hairstyles but he learned and learned to do that one thing well. My older brother also learned to braid hair which then helped him once he had his own kids and he was a single parent for a while. It's such a nice bonding activity.

[@lilianasaba9846]

Do you use water to moisturize your hair? I am African and for a long time I didn't know water is very good for my hair. Now I know I use it a lot. Just wondering if it is a game changer for your hair. Water is good for natural hair for all Africans not sure about mixed race.

[@theinvisiblewoman5709]

⁠@@lilianasaba9846sis water is good for all hair types especially curly girls, race doesn’t matter. Water is the only form of moisture you can give your hair.

[@reginag4246]

Praise for being a good parent? You’re supposed to be kind and good to your child why do you need praise for that? That’s the gift of a parent. Taking the time to learn how to do your child’s hair is what you’re supposed to do.

[@smtc-9]

애기한테 최선을 다하려는 인종이 다른 엄마와 그 엄마를 도우려는 같은 인종의 타인의 모습이 너무 아름답네 .. 세심한 눈빛이 너무 사랑스러움 ❤❤

[@현-z1s]

맞아요! 저 스타일리스트분이 "아파? 안아파?" 이 문장을 한국어로 말해주셔서 저 엄마와 아이에게 배려해준다는걸 느껴서 더 따숩고 좋은거 같아요!

[@KT-qk7kc]

She is mixed. So Bomi is Korean and she is also Black.

[@user-tj9hb9qj9f]

저도 이렇게 생각해요~ 너무 보기좋네요 ㅎㅎ

[@lamarugarecommends2950]

Shall we talk about how much Rianna is good with kids?? She was trying to create a connection between her and Bomi before styling her hair, she was engaging her a lot (eg. letting her smell the products as well) - loved it so pure

[@Alisonsgachaverse]

Ikr

[@Vava-yf4zr]

She was SO sweet during the whole thing! Even if Bomi doesn't understand it now I hope when she's older she can watch the video and see that someone cared so much while teaching her.

[@lousimms1422]

Maybe she has a kid or children of her own

[@delphinidin]

@@lousimms1422 that's what I thought

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

Such a good hairstylist and patient

[@whknws9595]

i love how even though her daughter's hair wasn't looking the best in the beginning, it still looked very clean and cared for. She was always doing her best even when she didn't know what she was doing and wasn't afraid to ask for help, wonderful mother

[@Mijah1016]

One thing you can assure is that Korean moms are insane when it comes to personal/their kid's hygiene and cleanliness. She may not know how to style the hair but we can be assured that baby is cleaner than most Americans. Most Koreans shower twice a day which many Americans think is too much for odd reasons. 😅

[@ChronicF]

Yes I felt the same way. Some people just don’t try and it’s upsetting to see cuz it’s the kid that has to pay for it but she was doing a great job keeping her hair clean and even knew it’s better to comb through the hair with fingers for detangling instead of a brush like you would for thinner hair

[@EphemeralPseudonym]

tbh east asian hair also does really well with finger combing, which is interesting when you think about it 😅 considered opposite hair types

[@small_and_dangerous2068]

Yes! My sister and I share a father and both of our mothers our white so we are both Caucasian. However she had a daughter with a black man and when my niece was a baby it was obviously fairly easy to maintain her hair. However as time passed and her hair grew longer, my sister decided to take her to a salon specifically for black women and she sat and listened and learned as they walked her through how to properly care for my niece’s beautiful hair. She said she returned more than once for more product and styling advice, especially as my niece grew more and more and her hair texture changed from being more baby soft to more natural. Now my sister can do her hair in her sleep! She did make the mistake of leaving my niece over at my house for a sleepover and after a fun day swimming, I realized I didn’t know what to do with her hair 😂 I know brushing is painful so I combed it as gently as I could and just put it into two space buns so it was out of her face.

[@jaysahunter256]

Nah, i loved her little afro in the beginning. She's gorgeous either way ❤

[@molly.elizabbeth]

I appreciate her reaching out and admitting that she isn’t knowledgeable. A lot of mothers don’t want to accept that they don’t know what to do & allow their pride to get in the way of their child feeling confident and comfortable in their natural hair. Her daughter is beautiful & doing her hair will be a wonderful way to bond with your gorgeous daughter ❤

[@SobrietyandSolace]

My mother has totally different texture hair to me as her dad is white Irish and Eastern European. I used to hate sitting there for hours as she oiled, detangle and braided my hair. We don’t speak now for other reasons but looking back I do appreciate the fact she put so much work, time and money into caring for my hair properly

[@katherinedelacruz9876]

@@cocoday6215 0:46 0:47 😅

[@dittoroxursox1o1]

Back in the day the mother would just perm her hair, ruin the texture, and call it a day. Some mono-racial people have a nasty habit of judging, but as a biracial person I will never fail to applaud mothers who ask for help ant try to learn when they recognize they don't know how to do something.

[@jessieqk12]

I don’t understand why she would even need to be embarrassed. Black women give so much hate to white people for not knowing how to do their hair, but why would we know? She spent her whole life never having to know up until a few years ago. Black women have dealt with their hair their whole lives so they have lots of experience. That’s how it works. Shame anyone who judges this mother. She’s embracing the difference and learning. Everyone had to learn at some point. Black girls just did it much earlier in life.

[@jeffwilliams2828]

@@jessieqk12 ​​⁠​​⁠ ​​⁠ You’re judging right now. You’re judging and seem to have a real lack of knowledge about the LEGAL history of black women’s hair in western countries. Black people have EVERY right to be upset at the legacy of racism and today carriers. The ignorance and lack of education was culturally intended and something black STILL fight today, with things like the CROWN Act recently passed into law. Sit and observe, and maybe uh.. stop judging. Nasty habit.

[@sueyoungg_]

As a blasian girl with wild curly hair and a chinese mommy, this made my heart smile so big 🥺

[@JamaicanToast]

I dont believe you're blasian. Everyone is trying to hop on board because they think its cool

[@a.g.demada5263]

​@elcortez5434 why are you so short-minded ?

[@flattery1111]

🤗 Your message made my heart smile ❤

[@a.g.demada5263]

@@flattery1111 it's an answer for my message ?

[@JamaicanToast]

@@a.g.demada5263 I'm not short minded, I do not believe this person is blasian.

[@MyFictionalChaos]

THE STAFF PASSING THE BALL BACK TO HER IS SO CUTE

[@mingwang5403]

IT ISSS IT WAS SUCH A CUTE INTERACTION!!!

[@kittylover4eva]

YESSSS I THOUGHT NOBODY ELSE NOTICEDDD MY HEART WAS MELTINGGGG

[@bridgetanderson939]

I grew up with an Asian mom who had a hairstyling learning session with my black aunties when I was growing up! ❤

[@px9ik]

❤❤❤

[@michikosmith3262]

same!

[@jdstep97]

You have to love those black aunties. ♥

[@marcinattack]

What a sweet memory and a great thing that you got to see your mom and aunties working together to care for you in such a special way growing up 🥹. People don’t realize how much things like this can affect a child’s perception of not only their caregivers, but of themselves as well ❤️ may everyone be so blessed!!!

[@amoraacho6181]

That sounds so sweet

[@sallamander]

as someone who had an abusive mother/strained childhood, these videos are so unexpectedly healing. just a kid allowed to be a kid and adults learning and caring for her. i thought it might be triggering, but it was actually heartwarming.

[@solomonpnq]

Real nice to hear, hope you're far from your past difficulties. As the child in a situation like this, sometimes I find myself feeling angry when seeing people my age living out a carefree life, but I realized that just breeds more negativity. Kids who can't care for themselves shouldn’t grow up earlier than they really should. Glad I'm not alone in these trials :)

[@luvmishka5381]

I am so sorry to hear that, but hapy this video helped! 🥰😇😄

[@danniellejohnson448]

Same comment and thoughts exactly😢❤

[@carlagaribay2115]

I wish you healing, im sorry about what happened

[@mwabachisembele1512]

❤❤❤

[@brxwnie_bxy]

I love how the mom didn’t really scold her child for wanting to get up and move around while getting her hair done. I was yelled at quite a lot as a kid because I had really bad ADHD which made it hard to focus on anything. Seeing her be so gentle made me happy :))

[@alexia3552]

08:17 I appreciate the person off-screen who is playing ball with Bomi to keep her entertained! 10 minutes of hair styling feels like an eternity when you're 3 so I'm really glad they were patient with her

[@tf2_jpg]

Exactly, it was so cute just watching the person O.S. pushing the ball towards her and even laughing omg

[@mononoke_hime_ham]

For real, it takes a village!!!

[@Wintershaped]

I knowww this was so cute 😭😭 when I noticed I was like omg 🥹

[@annainspain5176]

Bomi was already prepared to leave when they got started with the actual styling, she behaved so well in spite of being bored.

[@Lulu10-t9k]

This is how it should be. Cultural differences can also bring us together. Helping each other because its whats best for the child and that was very heartwarming.

[@triplehearts914]

I 100% agree with this!

[@genevievedolan1288]

It always concerns me when the braids are falling right in front of the eyes, it can’t be good for them. I would have found it very distracting to have braids in front of my eyes like that. But other than that what a charming video of a wonderful cultural exchange!

[@QDR315]

You're living in lala land, that's not reality.

[@lazygirlfinance]

@@genevievedolan1288from experience, the braids are not distracting.

[@Chibbykins]

​@@QDR315 that's not *your* reality. And I feel sorry for you. I'm black and so many of my family members have partners of a different race. Sometimes it's awful, sometimes it's wonderful, just talking and learning from each other and making fun of each other

[@LiD0349]

I love that this isn’t solely for content, it’s genuinely helping this mum to take care of her daughter’s hair, the camera crew and audience is just there for the ride in the background. Is it the bare minimum? Yes. But is it something a lot of parents who have kids with hair like Bomi’s take the care and time to learn and actually put into practice? No, unfortunately it isn’t. Little Bomi is going to feel so much better now that her mum is learning how to do her hair properly. Side note - anyone else’s autocorrect incorrectly correct “Bomi” to abomination? I had to keep frantically correcting it 😂

[@nerdycurls6253]

It's a blessing when parents with different hair from their child actually try to learn what to do. My mom never figured it out 😂 but I'm definitely going to show my kids how to love their hair.

[@LiD0349]

@@nerdycurls6253 hopefully you have learnt how to take care of your hair, and how to love your hair. I always love seeing how diverse black/African hair can be styled as. It’s a great way to express yourselves and it’s always so beautiful! I’m sure you’ll do an amazing job at teaching your kids how to take care and love their hair. 😊

[@nerdycurls6253]

@@LiD0349 I have thank you ☺️ I actually have been using the cream mentioned in the video, I love how soft and bouncy it makes my hair.

[@anika_diaryシ]

Bro Boni be having a mukbang there! 😂

[@SobrietyandSolace]

@@nerdycurls6253I used to bemoan having to sit for ages whilst my mother did my hair. I was jealous because her texture was so different as she’s half white but I appreciate the work she put into my hair looking back now

[@Scarspain]

I think that it’s very critical, when black fathers don’t learn about their children’s hair, and they expect for a woman to do that all the time you can switch up your roles, but I think that black men should be educated on how to do their child’s hair. It shouldn’t always be the mother that needs to do it But the fact that this mother is Korean, and she took time to learn about her child’s hair is amazing, but I really wish that fathers would put in more effort to learning about their children a bit more to help out

[@layloo5244]

Men in general need to be more involved in child care. Why is it always the mother dressing children up and taking care of their appearances?

[@l.2620]

​@@layloo5244 Yeah like it's 2023. As a man I'm ashamed that this isn't the standard yet

[@angietoonz6605]

yeah i was a bit...put off that the mom knew NOTHING despite having a child with a black man. Why has this father not educated her on anything? I can only assume he wasn't taught how to take care of his hair, but he's a grown man with a kid...and had a child with an asian woman and she clearly won't know. Just getting some bad vibes from that tbh.

[@Dhfhucudu]

Wdym switch up their roles? They can have an equal role to play being the child’s parents, to do her hair. It’s not default a mother’s role to do her kid’s hair. Yeah the mother shouldn’t always be doing the hair is an understatement. The father should be doing it half the time too.

[@naomim0218]

@@angietoonz6605he probably doesn’t take care of his hair, let alone know how to take care of a lot of coily afro hair

[@KayoEll]

I'm a White pediatrician, and content like this has been so helpful for me in my job! I have a lot of East African immigrants in my practice, and the very much appreciate that I can tell them what brands of products to look for (Shea Moisture has become my go-to for my own wavy/curly hair when it comes to treating seborrheic dermatitis). More importantly, the foster carers of my Black and mixed-race patients have no clue how to take care of coily hair -- they don't even realize it needs special care. Being able to provide KZbin links for carers has been a game-changer.

[@ljay4525]

This comment really speaks to significant flaws in medical schools. We have got to get away from white being the default when the majority of the world's population is BIPOC. I sincerely hope you're advising them to go to Black hair and skin care providers.

[@cheetahgirlfan32]

Absolutely

[@miraclelove9388]

Sheamoisture isn’t good. Stop recommending that b.s

[@savvivixen8490]

It's really encouraging to find professionals that take the time to learn about our specific needs as it pertains to ethnicity and culture. To know you guys are out there helping others despite the info/care not necessarily being applicable to yourself is really wholesome to me. To go out of one's way to help another with an experience you may never have.... There's something really special about that. ☺️ I hope we all can do a little more of that. 🫶🏿

[@laprimeradama]

@miraclelove9388 So share what does work.

[@SnozBerryQueen]

I really wish more mothers to biracial black children would do this. You guys have no idea how damaging it is to not have you're hair looking right as a kid because your mom didnt care enough to learn. Good on her for this.

[@ilovegot7754]

Im sorry but this is sickening having to watch black women YET AGAIN help people who dont care about her. Why didnt she ask the black man she breeded with for help? These interracial couples will insult black women but come running to us for help, its embarassing . if you need helo doing hair go on youtube, us black women are not your maids you call for help.

[@en2p187]

Or dad lol because the dad can also learn as he has hands and a brain and is the direct race responsible for said hair. Both ideally but it's not up to one person.

[@sweetnaomi56]

💯 biracial black children with black moms don't have this problem.

[@bendemare5270]

more parents* both dad and mom / whoever the parent is

[@Moon._Baby]

@@sweetnaomi56yea it be the ones with NO black mom or women around

[@extraordinary_]

보미 너무 귀엽다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅜㅜㅜ 리아나 시크해보이는데 보미 앞에서 이모같이 잘놀아주고 웃는거 멋있음ㅜㅜ

[@Jl2damax]

She was hanging on every word the stylist lady was saying. What a good momma, doing anything she can for her baby no matter how small it may seem 😢❤

[@a.g.demada5263]

She reminded me my own mother who had to learn that too because I was adopted and later my sisters too. We're born in Madagascar and grew up in France

[@jamesheng1878]

This kid is the living definition of “OH MY GOD WHAT IS THAT I WANT THAT OOH ITS SHINY LETS GO”. So goddamn cute

[@Marine616]

In my experience this stage is before or after the terrible two's XD

[@bleachnbones7107]

She's the kind of kid that almost makes you want to have kids in the future. Then you watch an episode of Supernanny or something like that and you're like "nope, I'm good"

[@sabrinanite]

in my personal experience, I was an ADHD kid without a diagnosis. Got mine at 23. She seems very distracted

[@hanadoarte]

​@@sabrinaniteyeah, she reminds me to my little sister. I have asperguer and OCD, she has ADHD, it was really exasperating growing up with her, so, watching this video I was thinking, either she had ADHD or she is extremely spoiled and she always do what she wants.

[@FhinxET]

@@sabrinaniteit could be that, but kids are generally have a short attention span to what they find interesting. Up to the future I suppose

[@kpe02]

Bomi did a good job considering she is 4, that energy is umatched🤣 Her hair turned out so freaking cute too 😍

[@overgrownkudzu]

since this is korean age, she's actually only 3 years old, koreans count from 1 not 0

[@Lemonade_Stand_]

​@@overgrownkudzuya i think she said 41 months which is 3 years 4 months.

[@leewindy-19]

​@@overgrownkudzu indeed. And most koreans are accustomed to just using months to determine age rather that year to avoid confusion.

[@ericmills9839]

@@overgrownkudzu this is true, but they just passed a law changing to the more common starting from zero. Not sure how long that will take for people to express that in practice, I imagine a generation at least.

[@bds6276]

중간에 보미한테 공 굴려주시는거 넘 귀엽고 다정해요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@teshi1424]

this video is so wholesome. i love this content, it made me so happy. as a mixed race girl with a black mum, i love when she does my hair, watching this brought back so many good memories and i loved it. what an amazing mum and teacher

[@ilovegot7754]

Im sorry but this is sickening having to watch black women YET AGAIN help people who dont care about her. Why didnt she ask the black man she breeded with for help? These interracial couples will insult black women but come running to us for help, its embarassing . if you need helo doing hair go on youtube, us black women are not your maids you call for help.

[@imrightyourewrong7441]

​@@ilovegot7754Keep crying

[@sweetnaomi56]

Me too ❤😊

[@kijanajenkins2546]

Yep, this video is wholesome. 💕

[@TheUnderground007]

​@@ilovegot7754💯

[@akanksha_soren]

I love how both women are so accepting of each other and nobody is shaming Bomi for her hair 🥹🥹🥹

[@eBunnee]

Why would anyone shame her hair?!? HER HAIR IS GORGEOUS 😂

[@jellybee4531]

@@eBunnee bc many ppl in korea are racist

[@TuberoseKisser]

I mean...one of them naturally has that hair and the other one is literally her mother.

[@ARajantara777]

😬

[@Ummh25]

​@@eBunneesome people do, seen a mom hating her mix daughter hair say not interested to learn a d she prefers it strengthen, so everyday preparing her 6 years old going to school by strengthen it on a daily basis which is very very bad and dangerous. Since she is an influencer or a social media star, black people told her that she need to embrace her daughter mix race hair, she literally insulted the black community hairs , which her mix race daughter hair ressembles

[@Chartail1]

Its so great that mum was willing to get help. Truth is when you are in a country where 98% of the population (or more) are all the same ethnic group, and where most people have never met or even touched African hair, you are limited on what to do, especially with a language barrier aswell. She did her best going to youtube and such, hopefully this video will reach other families with biracial kids.

[@corimyers4985]

Oddly…same in America. And some parents NEVER learn how to take care of their kids hair. And of course most white Americans don’t even understand black or,bi-racial hair and believe me it causes problems.

[@astrogranoff]

It’s actually not as limited as you’d expect, since the heavy presence of the military bases means that we have districts that cater to US army reserves. So you have specialized barbershops and import stores (as well as clubs lol) that cater to the Black population. :) That being said, there are still very few Korean-language resources available so this was a really cute premise for a video.

[@Comments_From_All_Channels]

Spray oil in it when you style it

[@teresam5199]

Black women should never do this. Non-Black women shouldn't even think about using Black women to serve as their maids and caregivers. If they are going to procreate with Black males, they need to figure it out the best way they can on their own and not use Black women to service them and their children.

[@aiQuia]

More parents (and guardians) who aren’t black but care for black or mixed black children should ask for help like this. Because many of them just neglect their children’s hair simply out of ignorance or cut their hair. I hope Bomi’s mom is learning more and more so she can keep Bomi’s hair cute 😊

[@SelenaY.1331]

Unsure why guardians is in (). They don't get recognized as much so I hope you change your wording in the future authenticy include them without using (). I agree yet certain grown adults who are ignorant are not accepting to have an open mind so sadly they will sick in their ways. Overall I hope this changes over time because if there is a child with kinky hair that they're taking care of it's the bare minimum. Yes it can be time consuming yet its important.

[@allisonhache4759]

@@SelenaY.1331I have hope that the more media shows non-curly haired parents and guardians of curly haired children learning how to care for their children’s hair without shame or embarrassment, people will have more open minds about learning how to take care of their own kids’ hair. People sometimes feel ashamed that they don’t already know or they don’t know where to go to learn, but the more widespread the knowledge becomes in an inviting, respectful way, the more likely it is that people will want to learn imo❤

[@Des17S]

​@@SelenaY.1331The () is as an add on. They were talking about parents and guardians. A guardian would mean it's not the parent but a grandmother, sibling, or just current care taker. They're acknowledging that kids aren't always in the care of their direct parents for one reason or another and even if you aren't the parent but a guardian, you should still learn how to care for the child's hair.

[@SelenaY.1331]

@@Des17S you're assuming that I don't know what a guardian is- which I do I was in foster care. Yet my point still stands becsuse guardians are just as important at the parent and doesn't need to be in ()

[@Des17S]

@@SelenaY.1331 It's...just proper to put that there with the sentence structure they used...they could have not put guardians at all but by putting it there they're acknowledging that some kids caretakers aren't their parents.

[@JustLouns]

I love how hands on she is as a mother. Not many people should be a mother or even the mother of a mix child but she definitely exudes warmth. She’s not defensive or being weird. She genuinely love her daughter and want to be able to care for her hair!

[@bambimelson4945]

Bomi's mom was SO INTO IT! Great job. And the stylist was so warm and professional. I also love the mom's willingness for her baby. Blasian moms of Pasadena stand up!!😂🤗😍💛

[@ShaSha-kq6th]

Lol not Dena!! Lol I'm an ubwr driver in LA and I picked up a passenger who was vietnamese her daughter was blasian and her daughter kept saying mommy her hair is like mines! It was so beautiful and heartfelt. We exchanged beauty secrets❤. Shot out to those who wana learn cus our hair is very very historical and important to our self esteem as shallow as that may sound😢

[@allisonhache4759]

@@ShaSha-kq6thnot shallow at all!! I’m white as white can be but when my self esteem is low I focus solely on my hair and remind myself how amazing it is😅 learning new hair styles is one of my main forms of self expression/self care. It’s also one of the most reliable ways for me to connect with my sister, which can be hard because our personalities clash A LOT. Hair is so important to ALL humans, no matter their race, gender, culture, or hair type. Everyone deserves to love their hair without shame or embarrassment, because that leads into loving yourself ❤

[@ShaSha-kq6th]

@@allisonhache4759 AMAZING!!! THAT'S SO TRUE!!!!

[@myvillagehasnoelders]

I love this so much. The mom trying to learn. The stylist wanting to teach. The baby just being a baby. And your platform giving them this space. I just love everything about it. ❤❤❤❤

[@lunerlilly]

Right!? The whole room enjoyed it. Like it was nice how someone behind the camera played ball with the little girl. And how everyone had fun participating and watching.

[@teresam5199]

Nope, they should not use Black women to serve as their maids and caregivers. If they are going to procreate with Black males, they need to figure it out the best way they can on their own and not use Black women to service them and their children

[@hrhux]

Auntie rianna was so cute 🥲 watching this connection of cultures made me emotional. She was so dedicated to teaching and the mom really wanted to learn how to take care of her babygirl. I hope they stay in contact. im glad bomi has this moment recorded so she can see just how much her momma loves her when she grows up ❤

[@EverythingisH8speech]

There’s no connection. Just appropriation

[@Unouna10]

​@@EverythingisH8speech so bitter

[@marsmallowtoast]

the baby is black girl how the hell is it appropriation lmao ​@@EverythingisH8speech

[@BoldLoveMinistries]

@@EverythingisH8speech🙄…

[@onyeenoma]

Now we need a video on her styling her daughter's hair next to see the improvement! Was fun to watch!

[@RaccoonsTrashVault]

Bomi was just the cutest! So happy to see that they allowed her to just be a little kid and play around and have snacks so she wouldn't get overwhelmed. Bomi was just in her own little world. Rianna was a champ the whole way through. This is the kind of patience that should earn you sainthood.

[@B.ELLAMusic]

This makes me so happy to see. Bomi’s mom is very bubbly & sweet with a learning spirit. Rianna is a gem for teaching her how to style Bomi’s hair. Bomi is super cute 🥺♥️

[@B.ELLAMusic]

Also I use Shea Moisture Curl Smoothie cream! It smells so good 🫣

[@plushwishes]

Yes you can tell she wants to learn , this was too cute

[@ExotiqBeautii]

That Black woman is SOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL! She looks like a doll!

[@gabriellagalli8564]

I instantly thought she was Tiana from The Princess and The Frog

[@TrapaholicsxX]

so the mom isnt?

[@daniellarkins3849]

​@@TrapaholicsxXthe mom is pretty as well. Please don't start any drama.

[@antibrainiacs]

"I like pancakes!" "Oh so you hate waffles" no that's whole nother sentence ​@@TrapaholicsxX

[@TrueBeelzebub]

@@TrapaholicsxXI guess if you like oranges then you must hate apples

[@psychopopbunny]

Love how the mum is letting Bomi still be a kid while trying to help Rianna keep her still enough to be styled, all while learning from Rianna. Rianna is also a lovely person for teaching them and styling Bomi so well while she was trying to run off and play. Adorable video overall 😊

[@saunteringShades]

Ah yes.. working with children truly is a struggle... but seeing everyone do their best to try and work with an innocent child was heartwarming too. Lovely episode! The hairstyle came out so cute.

[@ALT1308_]

We were all like that when we were kids, so working with children is not a struggle if you keep saying that

[@thereisa]

7:10 Cultural context for the English speakers… When Bomi said, “I’ll be back soon” in Korean, that was said with such sass. Like her mom’s trying to coax her back cause Rianna is waiting for her… and Bomi’s reply was kind of like, “ah, don’t bother me this will be real quick.” There’s a certain final-ness to the statement. Like she is the boss of how her time is being spent. That’s why mom and Rianna absolutely lost it. 😂😂😂

[@sillyladtan]

It was already hilarious how she kept them waiting, but this added context makes an already funny moment even more hilarious! 😂 Thanks for sharing!

[@Ninkira]

Omg TYSM for sharing the language nuance!!!!!! Amazing hahahahaha 😂

[@Mzvandal]

It’s crazy how she’s 3 and is already trilingual 😮

[@LyraReid]

Kids being sassy isn't cute or funny.

[@HARUACHOO]

@@LyraReidbruh, theyre kids they don't know better 😭😭 they’re gonna make mistakes

[@TheMbangel]

I watched the video with the Korean dad first, so seeing an energetic child is whiplash. His daughter just sat their and didn't movie, while Bomi was all over the place. Love kids' different energy.

[@ItsYaBoiV]

My niece's father was a lovely man from Jamaica who sadly passed away during military service when she was still very little, and as far as we knew he was estranged from his family. Due to other circumstances, I had temp custody of her, and while youtube helped, what I did was take her to a black owned salon and essentially asked if I could pay to get a crash course in how to care for and style her hair. My family is Native American, so niece has crazy thick 4b hair. I'm forever thankful to the lovely ladies who helped me, because seeing it in person was so much more helpful than just watching it online. 😊

[@carpediem8855]

So glad she asked Bomi whether it’s painful or not, especially as our hair can also be quite full but with a sensitive scalp, loved loved loved Rianna’s interaction with her! So cute!

[@afroloid2028]

That child is adorable😭😭 yet again another decent informative video!

[@뿌애앵-z1h]

애기 너무 예쁘다 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 어머니도 애기 머리 묶어주시려고 배우는 모습 너무 예뻐요 ☺️애기때 엄마가 머리 묶어주시던거 생각난당🥹

[@xxprettylittlethings]

I love these sort of cross cultural videos. They make my heart happy

[@wolfinthewheatfields3224]

same - just the mixture of language too... i dunoo... i love when people speak whole conversations bouncing from one language to the next, it absolutely tickles the brain xD

[@teresam5199]

Is it really cross cultural. When do Korean women help Black or African women take care of their children?

[@jessg4678]

I love how they let Bomi just be herself and left it in the video. It made it more real and relatable. Bomi looks adorable with her "kitty hair" ❤

[@KaeMaiden]

Nah...

[@Bom.3d]

?@@KaeMaiden

[@defokochuan]

@@KaeMaidenwhat?

[@KnowThyself_life]

The patience and care Rihanna shows for Bomi and her mom is so beautiful!! 😊

[@ryeojin]

I am biracial and I raised with a mom who didn't know much about curly hair. We lived in a community where learning resources were sparse in terms of caring for my hair type. It is so nice to see mixed hair care becoming more prominent in the online world! To those parents who are learning to care for your kid's hair, don't beat yourself up if it takes long time or if it doesn't look perfect. It took forever for myself and my mom to understand the quirks of my hair, and the changes in texture that come with puberty, but ultimately I grew to love it and the memories of my mother doing my hair are some of my fondest ones. So long as you teach your kid to love themselves and love their hair (no matter the type), you are doing an amazing parenting job.

[@JamaicanToast]

Blasian is different

[@Sweetblue2231]

I often wondered what non black mothers of mixed racial children did if they didn’t know how to do black hair. As a black woman it could be challenging. I Would love to help someone who’s struggling❤️

[@JamaicanToast]

@user-my7lg7rf6j I think there are more than enough from the actual blk community that don't know how to maintain their hair. That's a good place to start

[@Sweetblue2231]

@@JamaicanToast I have enough help to go around

[@seekinghimdaily92]

@@Sweetblue2231Make sure those that get your help… *PAY YOU.* 💯

[@kaykpegasus]

It is a big deal for a black person to explain the importance of baby hair AND show you how to style baby hair!!! Kudos to Rianna. You crossing boundaries girl!!!

[@chrystianaw8256]

Styling baby hair is more an African American thing, it's not really done in Africa. They tend to leave the edges alone.

[@lavender9071]

@@chrystianaw8256ur correct but it is trending. but yes baby hair is unique to african american culture but anyone in the black or hispanic diaspora can do it

[@kiri101]

@@lavender9071 Idk how much of it is African-American influence but it's been prevalent in the Black British population for ~30+ years. ngl it was really sweet to see that bit.

[@lahlahemerald9000]

​@@lavender9071 What?!? Her hair isn't unique to African Americans. You're trying to say AA grls & Wmn don't have different textures of hair?! Where have you been all your life? And you must have never left there. 😒

[@BukiChristianAngel]

We do the baby hairs in Africa too. A trend is a trend.

[@yebasido9215]

Them trying the wrangle the daughter in so they can finish her hair is so funny 😂 It’s really sweet that they don’t scold her and are very patient

[@terrinarobinson7781]

There aren't enough people talking about how cute it is that the behind the cameras person was playing with Bomi😭❤️

[@elly0459]

공 다시 돌아오는 거 너무 귀엽다 안보이는 곳에서 애쓰고 계시는 스탭분들 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@kawah2]

I think this is so beautiful and a very special moment for the mother. oh also the little girls hair needs to be encouraged to her that it’s beautiful and she doesn’t need to straighten her hair bc everyone else’s is straight!

[@Jellybean_93]

A moment to appreciate the kind person off camera who was playing roll the ball with Bomi 🥰what an adorable video! So sweet of Rianna to help this mother understand her daughter's hair needs!

[@a707-q8r]

i love how the staff was passing the ball back and forth to her so cute

[@Liz-gl3bo]

Kudos to mom & Riana in the way they balanced their agenda with learning along with being mindful of Bomi being a kid 🥹

[@D0bby-1S-FREE]

ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ현장에 계신분들은 너무 난감하고 민망하셨겠지만...시청자 입장에서는 너무 귀엽기만하네요~아가들 한 자리에 앉혀놓는게 보통일이 아닌가봅니다ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ귀여운 보미...너무 귀여운 어머님과 스타일리스트분...

[@andreatonkinson9662]

White mom here that’s been caring for a biracial Black and Puerto Rican foster child with a very similar hair texture. She is now 3 (I have had her since she was a baby). I use a very similar process to what Rianna has shown, so it’s reassuring to feel like I’ve been doing things accurately. But that is definitely thanks to hair care training, talking to other moms who are black or have biracial children, black hair stylists, and lots of KZbin videos! And it’s a continuous journey because the hair texture continues to change as she grows, and I keep wanting to tackle more challenging or detailed hairstyles.

[@purplelove3666]

There's no such thing as a black and puerto rican, Puerto Rican is not a RACE is a f nationality, Americans man, it's 2023 and y'all still don't know the differences?

[@Vivian1107]

​​@purplelove3666 Puerto Rican is an ethnicity. Our nationality is American. Black is part of our race. There definitely are black Puerto Ricans.

[@SnowPeatalsx]

@@purplelove3666There’s no need to be critical. She was sharing the details of her background. Her daughter has a diverse background. ❤ She clearly loves her too.

[@SnowPeatalsx]

@@Vivian1107 Yes. I think the user you replied to was focused on the wrong thing. This is about learning good hair care. The daughter’s ethnic background is beautiful. ❤

[@Zoe-dy4uk]

@@purplelove3666just wait until you find out that Puerto Ricans are American 💀

[@jojomargaux9295]

Omg, why am I crying y’all. Why can’t we all live like this with each other. Just living living, helping and educating each other. Bomi is pure gorgeousness, her mom is beautiful and the lady who is the tutor is just amazingly gorgeous and smart. I hope more ppl can see this and learn something❤❤❤😊

[@Trepanation21]

For real, I love seeing connections like this, it just feeds my soul. I grew up in a very diverse area in California with diverse friends, and it just always makes me so happy when we can celebrate our differences and share in the variety of beautiful things across cultures. Role models everywhere in this video!

[@DoyinVoice]

i agree humans are pretty amazing just like you !

[@nyandoo0]

보미 귀여운 머리 너무 맘에 들어서 신난게 여기까지 느껴진다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 신나가지고 우다다다 하고 혼자 화면 밖에서 옹알옹알 말하는거 넘 귀여워🥹🥹

[@mystical_pegasus]

This is so adorable and cute. I love how the mother was so willing to learn and figure out what is best for her daughter's hair and Rianna being so willing to teach the mother what is best for Bomi. I would love to see more of this!

[@mairaleao]

I loved everything about this video. Mum, Rianna, Bomi hyperactive cuteness energy. The tips. The end result. Loved so much.

[@Jade-fw6ni]

I'm mixed/blasian, luckily my mum is half black and my dad is Asian so she grew up knowing the techniques of how to do black hair which were passed down from generations of women in our family and properly took care of ours throughout our childhood. I remember once my mum was in hospital though and my dad was clueless how to style our hair, it was only a few days but the first thing she did when we came to visit her was tell my dad off for letting our hair get so messy and immediately get a hairbrush to start styling it!

[@prettycyber8332]

I’m like you my dad is Blasian. My mom 1/4 Asian and Black. So she taught me. Her hair has loose curls. Thank goodness for my mom

[@purplelove3666]

Then you are not blasian ,you are a quadroon,blasian are people who are literally half Asian and half black,your mother is a blasian not you , people really need to learn about themselves ,you are more Asian than you are black ,

[@youtubestreets3915]

That's the big difference between mixed kids with black mothers! 😍🎯

[@nubianqueen9675]

@@kaya856 A lot more than you think

[@leelee8614]

@@kaya856right ? That’s what I said they’re white but if you’re 25% black they’re deemed as quarter cast but a lot don’t like that term.

[@Sea_Creature_OfLarge_Scale]

Theres nothing I love more than seeing women helping other women, the fact Bomi's mom was willying to learn for her daughter and that she was having fun doing so also made me so happy, this video is so healing

[@marvelholt21]

I hope as culture diversifies and more people are exposed to more experiences, Bomi will have more resources to access in terms of her hair! I had a friend in high school who was adopted by a white family and she told me that her mom never really learned to do her hair, and she started doing it herself very young. I'm happy to see parents of mixed kids putting in the effort to keep their kids hair healthy!

[@Thoughtfulflow]

Yes I was adopted white mom and it’s a burden as a child trying to figure out the hair thing but my mom is alway curious and willing to learn. She also not afraid to stop a complete stranger and ask where she got her hair done 😂😂 Thank God for that 😅

[@TayRevs]

My moms mixed as am I and she was adopted by white folks as well, gave her so much love but in the 60s they didn’t have a lot of knowledge, and in turn my mom didn’t really know how to do my hair. I now teach her things!!

[@morganqorishchi8181]

My brother is black and our family is Central Asian (Uzbek). My dad, who does all of our hair, went to a salon and basically just asked for advice. The women there were super helpful and very supportive. I don't think my brother did any of his own haircare until he graduated high school and got into his dream university, tbh. Before that he'd just go to our dad.

[@greymatters7039]

This is SO beautiful. Not too long ago mixed raced Korean children were adopted out. Mommy loves her baby and it’s beautiful to see. ❤

[@racheal2036]

Fact

[@Kamille-lb7jo]

She's dojg it because its acceptable now. She's no different

[@louisasmiles]

The mum is fantastic. She tried and Bomis hair wasnt too bad. Rhianna ia a great instructor and very patient.

[@yunji9169]

꼼질꼼질 까까 먹는거 귀엽닼ㅋㅋㅋ

[@kimleemoon]

Thanks to Rianna for helping precious little Bomi & her mom. Bomi has beautiful hair and I’m glad her mom is interested in learning how to care for and style it. By the way, Rihanna’s hair and makeup looks gorgeous! ❤

[@teresam5199]

Absolutely not! Black women should never do this. Non-Black women shouldn't even think about using Black women to serve as their maids and caregivers. If they are going to procreate with Black males, they need to figure it out the best way they can on their own and not use Black women to service them and their children.

[@Reverse_Cowgirl-cat]

I remember cutting my bf straight thick asian hair the first time and feeling unprepared, its a real learning curve working on different hair textures and gives awareness to people different than you in a way most dont think about.

[@jenlal8214]

So maybe this is not as relatable, but my husband has a lot of hair and he’s part Mexican and I’m 100% Colombian and my hair is thicker but I have less hair than my husband… my son has blonde hair, but he has more of my thickness and I’m starting to see the volume in his hair.. it’s wavy…so working with my hair for so many years I know this boy is going to need some sort of moisturizer and a little cream down the way to control that volume that I tend to have. It’s interesting for sure 💖❤️

[@BeccaDaily]

Rianna's patience and kind, the Mom is committed to learn and care for her daughter's hair, and Bomi is just a beautiful bubble of joy!

[@wendyayebale8979]

I have a mixed baby as well and this video was VERY INFORMATIVE and so authentic with toddlers being able to be themselves. This is what truly goes on with hair .

[@anarchist_parable]

I'm a Black Caribbean woman who married a white man and I had to learn how to style my children's hair too. It came out curly-straight. I have 4c hair and so does my entire family. Even moisturizing this is different.

[@la1576]

I completely agree. I’m a a daughter of a black caribbean mum and white dad, my brother has completely different curl pattern and hair texture too. My mum had to try multiple products until she found what worked for us. Some of the ‘black products’ were too heavy and some of the ‘white products’ were too light. I’ve got three daughters who all have different hair and I’m so grateful there is such more variety out now compared to when I was growing up 😅

[@daikonyum3688]

OMG WHAT COUNTRY! I’m from Trinidad but I don’t have curly hair since my mom is Venezuelan and my dad is half Trini and half Venezuelan, BUT IVE HEARD THE HORRORSSS of curly hair it’s always tangled but once you style it it’s STUNNING

[@la1576]

@@daikonyum3688 My mum is from St Vincent and my dads from England but has Irish heritage. Having curly hair is defo a journey, but once you learn what works for your hair it makes a massive difference with maintenance and styling. With my daughters ive managed to work out what works for them individually, but i still struggle with my own mainly because i just can't be bothered 😅

[@christinem1458]

Bomi is so cute! I love that this momma is learning her daughter's hair. When I was a kid, we didn't have these resources, plus parents in the Philippines didn't take kids out of school for lice, so at one point, my mom got so frustrated, she had a barber give me a boy cut. I was crying the whole time because I felt so ugly, and the barber was doing his best to cheer me up. It took at least one year to grow back to a feminine length (like in the middle of my chin to the base of my neck, not exactly the shoulders). I felt so ugly that whole year. I'm so glad baby Bomi's not gonna have that problem

[@Makingthemarks]

I hope the auntie and the mom keep in touch so she can teach more hair styles ☺️☺️

[@hungrychat7304]

I hope not

[@veroniquemeika9971]

​@@hungrychat7304💀💀 tf ?

[@Whimswirl]

@@hungrychat7304why?

[@SaraiFletcher]

@@hungrychat7304why

[@candyferret4789]

@@hungrychat7304why ?

[@legomham]

보미 진짜 귀엽ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 시간과 정성이 듬뿍 들어가야해서 오래걸리겠지만 머리가 빵실빵실한게 진짜 너무 예뻐요

[@Lifeoflove360]

The anxiety I would have with little Bomi running around especially when you were about to put her ponytail in her hair would send me. You are a patient soul. And the mom is very calming and encouraging to little Bomi. Such a cute style!😊

[@mkelly534]

I loved this. Moms unite to help their children. Truly universal

[@KatieHall4352]

Just as I was thinking "she needs some toys" thats exactly what happened. Its so hard for small children to sit still for a long time. Bomi did a really good job! This was so cute!

[@DraidtheSpacePirate]

So wonderful to see a mother take the time for her child. The teacher did a fantastic job at making both mom and child feel respected while keeping the lesson moving. ❤

[@Aardappelpurree]

the woman doing the hair has such good vibes! with how she let the little one sit. It was so cute :)

[@ARGhostie]

It's so sweet how they both roughly know each other's language to hear, but mostly speak in their own.

[@iolani.t]

this warmed my heart and reminded me of my mom. my dad is jamaican, and my mom is chinese and native hawaiian. she has wavy hair, so when i was born with really curly hair, she took the time to learn how to style curly hair and she eventualky taught me when i got older so i could do it on my own. im so glad theres parents out there so genuinely care for their childrens well-being like this🥺

[@malanmoody8313]

Sooo cute! They chose a very kind and patient person to teach the mother. The mom was so pleasant and Bimini was so cuteee! Great video

[@mikasablackerman6776]

I love this cultural exchange. I got excited when I saw Shea Moisture because I use it on my biracial daughter. Bomi’s hair is beautiful

[@ruckbarbie]

Omg what a BEAUTIFUL little girl. Holy cow. She's truly gorgeous.

[@Kamille-lb7jo]

Typical fetishiser

[@YS-wj9qt]

두 분 너무 보기 좋아요!!! 딸을 위해 기꺼이 조언을 구하고 배우는 보미 엄마도 기꺼이 아는 바를 친절히 알려주는 리아나 님도 너무 멋지세요. 그리고 보미는 너무 귀엽네요❤ I love all of them!

[@lalatahala]

the part where the person behind the camera was pushing the rainbow ball back to bomi was so so cute 😭😭

[@judithmendoza3304]

as a toddler mom, this is sooo real . the bribing with food and toys to get them to sit omg

[@minwonruuu2283]

The staff going "BOMI BOMI BOMI-" is so cute lol

[@serendipity7256]

보미 넘 귀엽네 가만히 앉아있지 못하고 계속 움직이는게 우리 조카같아서 보면서 계속 웃음ㅋㅋ

[@Kon_Bae]

it's always great to see a parent take the effort to learn to care for their child even with something like hair care especially when it's so different from what her own hair. what a great momma! also love how playful and patient Rianna was with Bomi! she did a great job in both styling and teaching

[@legallybl0wn]

bare minimum

[@russkiraider01]

Aww! That was so lovely! Seeing them all together and the love that is shared makes me smile! Thank you for teaching Bomi's mum how to styler her daughter's hair!

[@tic857]

Bomi is so cute. I hope she stays vibrant and cheerful like she is in the video. Mom is great. She has a great skill of being able to be attentive to her daughter but also pay so much attention to the lesson. Rianna is so patient and she is a great auntie.

[@rexican26]

The way they both drop their heads in laughter when bomi walks off again ❤😂

[@wonyena]

the mom trying to see all the brand names of the products rianna was using is so cutee she was so invested in learning 😍

[@paulineb66]

Bomi’s mom is one of the most open minded and joyous women I’ve ever seen.