How to Love Yourself | Self Love Tips 💗

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@lavendaire
@lavendaire Жыл бұрын
Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶
@eringuo9210
@eringuo9210 8 жыл бұрын
"It's not a competition, it's a community" such a beautiful phrase
@crystalcdavis9381
@crystalcdavis9381 7 жыл бұрын
I know right? Seriously considering this for my senior quote : )
@Ilovevedios44
@Ilovevedios44 7 жыл бұрын
💯 💯💯❤❤
@loursfloral5409
@loursfloral5409 7 жыл бұрын
What you quoted made me think of what a journalist said about the view of the world of politicians. He compared Macron's view (French president) and Trump's view. He said "Trump sees the world as an *arena*, Macron sees it as a *community*, that changes everything". ^^
@icymist2209
@icymist2209 4 жыл бұрын
1. Write a list of things you love about yourself 2. Write a list of your flaws 3. Level up Self Care - Do what makes you feel happy and confident 4. Don’t compare yourself!!! 5. Positive Afirmations/Mantras 6. Keep a Gratitude/Self Love Journal Also this video was amazing
@chitras854
@chitras854 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot
@denisemoss1393
@denisemoss1393 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@WishfulFawn
@WishfulFawn 8 жыл бұрын
Fake it 'till you make it totally works. When I'm having a bad day I always force myself to smile. It doesn't matter how bad it's going, if you smile you somehow feel that smile inside of you and it does lift your mood and makes you more hopeful 🌿
@elizabethlucile7643
@elizabethlucile7643 8 жыл бұрын
SO true. Theres a really interesting Ted talk video about body language and faking it till you make it! It's by Amy Cudy, you should definitely check it out! I definitely feel like when I force myself to smile I automatically feel happier. :)
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
it does! 😁 and yeah i've seen that TED talk on body language too - try doing power poses before giving a presentation or going in for an interview, it boosts your confidence!
@eringuo9210
@eringuo9210 8 жыл бұрын
Yass I've seen it.
@NicieWilliams
@NicieWilliams 8 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire hi!! which Ted on body language are you referring to. I would like to watch it
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
Amy Cuddy - kzbin.info/www/bejne/gaSQkICeZrabg8U
@UnJadedJade
@UnJadedJade 7 жыл бұрын
Topics like this are so SO important! Sending love xxx
@F0reverblessed
@F0reverblessed 6 жыл бұрын
I agree!! Self-love is an important topic. It's a journey that leads to a life of freedom and happiness.
@lindamariamargareta6262
@lindamariamargareta6262 3 жыл бұрын
agree!!!
@cloudiexlowf2402
@cloudiexlowf2402 3 жыл бұрын
Agree
@kashiyog
@kashiyog 8 жыл бұрын
appreciating my flaws.. wow.. that's something new for me
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
:) yay for new ideas
@kashiyog
@kashiyog 8 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire :D
@rowanelessar5892
@rowanelessar5892 6 жыл бұрын
Harshita Kushwaha It's something new and unfamiliar to a lot of people. Unfortunately we're taught at an early age to hide our flaws and weaknesses while shunning it in others. We're not taught one of the basic human traits - that is Compassion. Empathy. To ourselves and to each other. That's one primal reason why the world has been so sick. It's up to us to make the Change. But we can only effect the outside world by making those positive changes within ourselves and then sharing that knowledge, compassion, and light with the things and people we come into contact with. ✨⭐🙏⭐✨
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 6 жыл бұрын
German, Polish, Italian, Indonesian, and Vietnamese subtitles are now available! Turn on closed captions (CC) and select the language in video settings 💕
@leagirard1053
@leagirard1053 5 жыл бұрын
Tip to love yourself: have a text conversation with yourself, just like the way you would text a lover, build your relationship with yourself through this self-conversation.
@juliakristinamah
@juliakristinamah 7 жыл бұрын
These are great tips, and it is a great video! Loving ourselves more is not easy, but it is the most beautiful thing. It will take a lot of practice, but it is worth it.
@lvlc5
@lvlc5 8 жыл бұрын
to level up my selfcare I decided to do my nails weekly, make sure I fix my hair and not got out without makeup. These have been my non-negotiables and has been great. I can tell it has made a huge difference in my mood and self love as a hectic mom.
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
:) love that you have non-negotiables
@maishazarinanan5028
@maishazarinanan5028 7 жыл бұрын
LeydaLeon it's so important to have non-negotiables, so glad you are feeling better :)
@natashawilliams5876
@natashawilliams5876 8 жыл бұрын
You really do have to love yourself before you can tackle anything else in life. You know your worth and you are confident. I think you also help to encourage others to look within themselves and self love. Great video as always!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
yesss!
@annemiedingemans386
@annemiedingemans386 8 жыл бұрын
It's not a competition, it's a community ... So well said ❤️ xxx
@AnimeIntensity
@AnimeIntensity 8 жыл бұрын
I'm on the journey to self love more often since I've always had low self-esteem , but I actually feel like taking selfies actually help? If I take a picture of myself and it looks nice, I feel better about myself. It's not about the attention, it's just having the guts to be in front of the camera instead of behind the camera is confidence boosting.
@elizabethlucile7643
@elizabethlucile7643 8 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. I take hellllla selfies haha! Thats so awesome, thanks for sharing
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
yeah i agree! no shame on taking selfies - we all deserve more self love ^_^
@krystofperry
@krystofperry 8 жыл бұрын
You are one of the very few youtubers that always make me shine and realize that life is not as bad as it can sometimes seem, thank you for that (i'm a fucking fucking boy though, boys have hard days too lol)
@lavendergilly5843
@lavendergilly5843 8 жыл бұрын
Lilek I'm so sorry that there haven't been a lot of male positive role models yet for you
@krystofperry
@krystofperry 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
i'm so glad to hear that! ❤️ thank you
@gxddessglxup7528
@gxddessglxup7528 7 жыл бұрын
Lilek I love when boys are unashamed to say things like that! And I agree with you, boys have bad days too, and they deserve as much self love and self care as anyone else! Much love and power to you 🙏🏾
@krystofperry
@krystofperry 7 жыл бұрын
Alayna Sims thanks so much!
@ForrestNeal
@ForrestNeal 8 жыл бұрын
When I broke my back, I was prescribed medications for pain, anxiety, suppressed appetite, and other medications to help me focus in class while the pain killers made me tired. I found myself forming unhealthy relationships with them. What allowed me to prevent myself from having a real problem with them was loving myself. Loving being alone with myself and learning to love that experience. I now view the experience of breaking my back as a small part of me and I'm so thankful it happened because I wouldn't be who I am today without it. Thanks so much for making this video, I know it will be a big help many people who watch it!
@elizabethlucile7643
@elizabethlucile7643 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! I am so happy you got through that! It's so awesome you've gotten to the point where you realize that it helped shape you into who you are today!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing your story - how wonderful that you've learned a positive lesson from all this 💕
@denis_ds
@denis_ds 7 жыл бұрын
In the same way I am thankful to my anxiety because it made me realize how beautiful life is and how to appreciate every moment of it more often.
@Sophia-fl5ng
@Sophia-fl5ng 5 жыл бұрын
"nobody's better than you, and youre not better than anyone else, were all just on different path" ❤
@BeautifulSoulsArt
@BeautifulSoulsArt 8 жыл бұрын
I love your self-love tips! ♥ Also, it's really important to write down, read or listen to the affirmations on a daily basis (best all three ways), because our subconscious mind learns through rehearsal (and pictures - that's why visualisation is so powerful!). So if you are struggling with negative self-talk try to make this a morning habit. It really helped me! I'm still struggling from time to time, but it has become so much better! And always remember that start loving yourself is a process and will take some time. So please be kind to yourself and if you find yourself having negative thoughts - be aware of them and try to let them go. Don't jugde yourself because of it!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
thanks for your tips on self love!!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 7 жыл бұрын
Hi loves! Check out my new SELF LOVE playlist full of helpful videos on self love, self confidence, feeling pretty, and more ➝ bit.ly/2mPYIs8 You are beautiful and I am so grateful that you exist 💗✨
@katielowe8521
@katielowe8521 7 жыл бұрын
OMG UR HAIR IS GEORGEOUS
@oumy6899
@oumy6899 7 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire Thanks for the video 😘
@pandalynn7716
@pandalynn7716 7 жыл бұрын
I'd like to add something to those lists of flaws and good traits. Among the good traits write also something that is bad with having that trait (like nice- people can walk over me etc). And the flaws; what is a good thing with this flaw, like; I'm scared of everything - it makes me cautious when facing new situations. It's trickier with the flaws but very eye opening once you get it. That way it's easier for me at least, to love myself, flaws and all because it's all a matter of perspective. Nothing is really a "good" trait and nothing is really a "bad" trait.💖😙
@simratkaurwaan7849
@simratkaurwaan7849 7 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire I am not sure if you're gonna read this or no but I really really hope you do. You are beautiful inside out💛 I'm greatful I found your channel and I watch your videos when I need positive vibes. You've helped me become a better person. Loads of love ♥️
@chanoussa6746
@chanoussa6746 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much !!!
@Soulanii
@Soulanii 7 жыл бұрын
I did this for 3 weeks and it helped my self esteem so much. I'm actually able to think of myself as "cute" thanks,so much.
@marianachavez1089
@marianachavez1089 5 жыл бұрын
You speak truth, that's what I can say for someone who's into personal development. I do truly believe that if everyone in the world strived to become their best selves, we wouldn't have life threatening problems between our community. However it's our job to help people and inspire them to become their best selves as well. I always like the saying "Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime." I apply this quote here because it helps me know that I shouldn't shame others for not being more hardworking, smarter, etc. and tell them to change. Instead I should be nurturing and encouraging. However thank you for all your help. You are truly an amazing leader and it's wonderful that you help virtual communities worldwide.
@DrmPrncss97
@DrmPrncss97 8 жыл бұрын
i thought writing down what you're thankful for is a waste of time, but you're so persuasive that i'm gonna try it out now
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
yes! try it daily for 30 days & let me know what happens :)
@katyjayne1761
@katyjayne1761 8 жыл бұрын
Notification squad! 😄 "love yourself first before you can love your life" couldn't have said it better!👌💫❤
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
woot! 🙌💞
@michaelmuir5293
@michaelmuir5293 3 жыл бұрын
I wish there was videos like yours in my 20's, 30's, 40's, etc. Very motivating!
@biancajaramillo7992
@biancajaramillo7992 7 жыл бұрын
I know I'm only 10 years old, and I shouldn't be judging myself on my looks at such a young age-but I am. And this video is so inspiring and helpful, that I'm learning how to feel good about myself more and more everyday. Your all beautiful
@linhnd1083
@linhnd1083 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lavendaire. Your video comes to me in the right time. I used to be very depressed about myself and I felt disappointed every time I looked at the mirror. Losing my self-love demotivated me to do anything in my life. Recently, I feel much better and after watching your video, I know it's time to change my mindset and start loving myself. I'll follow your advice and hope I'll succeed. Thank you again girl :)
@elizabethlucile7643
@elizabethlucile7643 8 жыл бұрын
That is so awesome that you have learned to love yourself!! It is definitely a hard thing to do but once you get in the habit of it, it becomes easier and easier! Thanks for sharing your story. I'm sorry you went through that hard time, but it helped shape you into who you are today, which i'm sure is a pretty awesome person :) much love!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
i'm so happy that you learned to love yourself!! it's a journey for all of us, let's keep going together :) 💗
@linhnd1083
@linhnd1083 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I'm very grateful to both of you for your supports and advices. They make me stronger and become a better version of myself. Love you girls :)
@kqxx
@kqxx 8 жыл бұрын
Love this!!! I will always keep in mind self-love. I will keep in mind it's not a competition and don't compare myself with someone else. It's not competition it's a community. There's room for everyone. Omg I love this quote.
@elizabethlucile7643
@elizabethlucile7643 8 жыл бұрын
Not comparing yourself is so important! You can't let your light shine if you're constantly worried about being overshadowed by someone else!! There definitely is room for everyone!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
yep!! ^_^
@himanshijain619
@himanshijain619 4 жыл бұрын
1 Write down your strengths and flaws 2 Level up your self care 3 Stop comparing 4 Positive affirmations 5 A gratitude/self love journal
@akhileshtete9251
@akhileshtete9251 5 жыл бұрын
Me watching this video feeling positive .. No one: Literally no one: My mom: yelling at me 😏giving me negative vibes .. Destruction level💯
@neima8202
@neima8202 4 жыл бұрын
Same 🥺
@eshachandaliya
@eshachandaliya 4 жыл бұрын
Indian?😂
@niffrincontrols8607
@niffrincontrols8607 4 жыл бұрын
My mom is the only one who spreads negativity on me I am a topper☁😞☁☁☁☁😞☁ ☁💧☁☁☁☁💧☁ 🌂🌂😞😞😞😞🌂🌂 🌂😞🌂🌂🌂🌂😞🌂 I feel so sad
@avakhalili1881
@avakhalili1881 3 жыл бұрын
and that's fine !! honestly. this vibes cause that we are human. we all might be furious or angry sometimes and it's fine .... do not be sad at this !! Lots of love. x
@nicoleszmc
@nicoleszmc 4 жыл бұрын
Whenever I feel down or not appreciated, I go to your videos and watch these kinds of content. At the end of it, I always feel good and I realized that you don't have to be appreciated by someone else in order to feel validated. Appreciating you, yourself is already enough. Love you cos you're you. Thank you so much for this! I feel even better now ♡
@me-zs7tr
@me-zs7tr 4 жыл бұрын
I'm human, I'm imperfect, and that's beautiful. I love myself, flaws and all
@al3jandradc
@al3jandradc 8 жыл бұрын
this iS my year ... self love, self care
@violettepro204
@violettepro204 6 жыл бұрын
I feel that what you say comes directly from your heart because you say it with a lot of sincerity. Stay yourself and do not change anything
@jeanettemerstrand8851
@jeanettemerstrand8851 8 жыл бұрын
Your KZbin channel is absolutely one of the ones that I'm thinking "Wow, she's gorgeous! She's doing so well! Her videos are amazing!" :) You are so right though; comparison really is the thief of joy and I love what you said about life not being a competition, but a community! That was really beautifully said! I shared a video on "Self Love" on my channel a few months ago discussing similar thoughts as well, and I've really found that spending time with myself (self-care, taking time to write in my journal, meditate, etc.) has really helped me grow my self love. The same way that we fall in love with others when we spend TIME with them, we have to allow ourselves time alone to fall in love with ourselves as well! Thank you for this video!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
aww yes, it's a community 💞 i agree - journaling & meditation help grow my self love too
@avivit98
@avivit98 4 жыл бұрын
I'm one of this People that don't feel usually hope. And I'm crying because i finally feeling some hope. I love you so much!!!
@cristine5854
@cristine5854 7 жыл бұрын
Girl, you are right about social media. I deleted my instagram app during my 1 month camping trip last July and I realized God, I don't need it. I realized that while it had really joyful cute dog posts which were joyful to me, the other aspect of the filtered social media was something I did not miss, so I have not re-downloaded it since.
@shimmer410-o2i
@shimmer410-o2i 2 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful that you exist too. You're what gave me hope that I could love myself as a person and you're like a big sister to me.
@beccanine
@beccanine 7 жыл бұрын
Holy Moly!!! Either I'm channeling you or you're channeling me! I'm kidding but, GIRL, I agree and preach to my little tribe all that you are saying! Keep it Up! You shine so BRIGHT! Love and Light to you, Beautiful Soul!!!
@RiyaShah123
@RiyaShah123 2 жыл бұрын
1 make a list of things u love abt urself. If you dunno what to write ask ppl. Find the things that make you you. 2) write a list of your flaws. At its end it's ok that I have these flaws I am human I am imperfect and beautiful. I still love myself,flaws and all 3) level up your self care. 4) better self care 5) stop comparing urself to others irs not a competition it's a community. We are all here to bring our unique value to the world and there's room for everybody 6 affirmations. I am radiant I am powerful I am passion I am worthy I am love I am light I am magical I am incredible and I am wildly beautiful 7 gratitude journal
@salsamite
@salsamite 7 жыл бұрын
I've only just found your videos, and I think you're amazing. THANK YOU. I really need this right now x
@missejlouie
@missejlouie 8 жыл бұрын
I NEEDED THIS!!! The exercise is great. Love the tips on doing that little extra to make yourself feel better. So excited to see more from this series this month (^.^) Miss you!!!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
miss you too love!! xx
@evanamanda
@evanamanda 8 жыл бұрын
I love what you said about life not being a competition, it's a community. That is so true and when you think about it that way, it really helps us to want to help others and not put them down to try to make us feel better. Great video! -A
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
yes!
@victoriamullin8491
@victoriamullin8491 8 жыл бұрын
all of the advice in this video is great, but what really hit home for me was about comparing myself to others. It's like I've always known not to do it but until the words came from your mouth, I didn't even realize I was doing it. I compare myself to everyone and it's been my greatest source of unhappiness. I didn't realize any of that until this very moment. I feel like I was just hit with a truck but in the best possible way. Thank you for another beautiful and inspiring video!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
yes! comparison can tear you down. let's rather focus on the positives & on being the best version of ourselves 💞 glad this could help you!
@kyrstiejoycesanjose9335
@kyrstiejoycesanjose9335 5 жыл бұрын
I've been struggling to love myself ever since because of my flaws. You are like the light that help me see this dark world.
@oracle_ra
@oracle_ra 7 жыл бұрын
It was so hard to accept flaws, but I'm actually feeling good about me more. :)
@trishasparks3113
@trishasparks3113 6 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, your words are full of love...its not even 5minutes watching the video but im totally absorped...♡
@whatlauralikes.
@whatlauralikes. 8 жыл бұрын
Hi Aileen ! I'm super excited for February, self love and self care are so important and life changing !
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
💕
@tickedoffnow
@tickedoffnow 2 жыл бұрын
If everyone loved themselves then the world would be paradise ♥️
@cristinabrett9295
@cristinabrett9295 6 жыл бұрын
I've been watching all your videos nonstop like a Netflix marathon. I'm literally in love with your channel and what you stand for. I usually watch things pretty passively and neglect to implement things learned into my life. However, I find myself taking notes and committed to implementing all of these tips/ life advice into my daily routine. Your videos just give me life. I love your aesthetic. Please keep posting videos. I just cannot thank you enough. Thank you Aileen!!
@ruwansolangaarachchi5716
@ruwansolangaarachchi5716 4 жыл бұрын
Love yourself first. Self confidence .Let us think you love things. Write list your lovely things.Level up self care. Self forgive . Self worthy . Self respect . Stop compared yourself to others . Positive . Good. Power . Lucky . Loveable .keep gratitude .
@LifeByJazz
@LifeByJazz 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this - Self love is a daily practice & I do notice when I do the affirmations (even when I dont "think I need it") I need it more than ever & it goes such a long way! I'm so grateful for your work & am excited to share my story of self care /self love this month! This really hit home for me today so thank you.
@ToyaaaMarieee
@ToyaaaMarieee 8 жыл бұрын
I never even thought of recording my affirmations. I swear I stopped your video and recorded mine! That was an AMAZING idea!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
yay!! glad you could pick up a new tip :)
@katiethomas5889
@katiethomas5889 8 жыл бұрын
Once a week or more I take a nice hot bath. And, I watch funny videos online or bake fairly often too which always makes me happy! Those things also don't cost too much which is always good, in my opinion. I also got a new job recently and I am proud because I applied for it myself which is something I've never done before (my current job is right out of college)...
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
oooh baths are so nice 😊 i agree these things don't have to cost too much!
@katiethomas5889
@katiethomas5889 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah and whats funny is that all through middle and high school I just took showers but I saw a video on KZbin in college so I started again, except in Summer. At least once a week before bed I take a nice relaxing bath. And it's much easier to shave your legs in a bath!
@fatimamuhammad7296
@fatimamuhammad7296 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a teenager and I'm only 14. I really needed advice like this, and it helped so much. Thank you! Love yourself its important
@butlerka2606
@butlerka2606 7 жыл бұрын
"It's not a competition it's a community." That was a game changer in my book. Thank you! 💜💜
@yaelmatos3199
@yaelmatos3199 5 жыл бұрын
WOW! Its not a competition its a community. I love this!!!
@kaelangelo7032
@kaelangelo7032 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom about loving yourself. More abundance to you.
@jennyamaro7612
@jennyamaro7612 4 жыл бұрын
Lavenlaire! This so awesome! And it helps me so much!thank you
@beaoncaward8877
@beaoncaward8877 6 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that more people are starting to create genuine content like this! 💕
@NadineFelice
@NadineFelice 8 жыл бұрын
Your hair looks so amazing, and the purple shirt looks SO GOOD WITH IT!!! Your videos always hit me in a timely matter! Thank you so much for talking about this topic, and giving such helpful tips huhu you always inspire me in so many ways! Keep it up, Aileen!!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
^_^ thank you love! keep spreading the inspiration in your life!
@btssuejibae8130
@btssuejibae8130 6 жыл бұрын
Oh hi nadine!
@princessk5541
@princessk5541 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, you came right on time for me. This is going to be a huge challenge for me but I'm going to do it. I've suffered from low self esteem but it has gotten better over the years. I'm definitely going to work on the affirmations, that is something that I've always wanted to do on a daily. Thank you so much for this 🙂🙂
@katiethomas5889
@katiethomas5889 8 жыл бұрын
It can be hard to escape the negative self talk. Maybe once a day, say something good about yourself. And have you considered trying a new hobby?
@princessk5541
@princessk5541 8 жыл бұрын
Katie Thomas Yes I've thought about it. I've tried meditating I journal a lot. I really want to do some performing arts class like drama club, I absolutely love acting it's always been fun. I want to start writing a novel but I can never get it on paper lol. There are so many things 🙂
@SharifaGrace
@SharifaGrace 8 жыл бұрын
Keana Garnett Drama clubs are very good in building up self esteem. when you get to play a character who is different from yourself you start to learn about yourself and learn to love you for you. I studied Drama throughout college to Uni and it was the best thing I ever did :) I believe in Art we find ourselves. the best advice I can give you is to just go ahead and start your novel, it does not have to be perfect but it will give you the courage you need to pursue your dream. Remember self love is about you and nobody else, accept you for you and love you for you 💖
@princessk5541
@princessk5541 8 жыл бұрын
ShaCourage Thank you so much I'm definitely going to start that immediately lol. I have so many stories in my head and I'm eager to share 😀😀
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
good luck! i really hope the affirmations can boost your self esteem 💖 keep on!
@SharifaGrace
@SharifaGrace 8 жыл бұрын
Loved this video🙂🙂 self-love is a gift you can give to yourself for free “Beauty is about being comfortable in your own skin. It's about knowing and accepting who you are.” Ellen DeGeneres 💖💖
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
love it 💜
@robogirl8247
@robogirl8247 7 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire I don't like myself can u help me
@nina-rp2jb
@nina-rp2jb 7 жыл бұрын
you know aileen, your videos are so inspiring. Like it can raise my feeling up when I underestimated myself, in fact like you said "I'm beautiful. No one's perfect, no one's better than me. And I'm not better than anyone else." And that's true. And you make me realize that I really love all about myself :))
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 7 жыл бұрын
+nina yesss dear 💕
@ateardropofdawnlily
@ateardropofdawnlily 8 жыл бұрын
YES! NEW UPLOAD!! Thanks for brightening my day!!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
😄🎉
@sofita7
@sofita7 7 жыл бұрын
This is a great video! Love the sections on loving your flaws like you love the ones of your loved ones and on every individual being completely different- we are all unique! ❤️️
@wabi_sabi3340
@wabi_sabi3340 7 жыл бұрын
simply its amazing......and i loved it ......thank u so much for ur motivational words
@oldsoul3879
@oldsoul3879 3 жыл бұрын
i just love her energy 🥺❣ i feel so safe when I watch her videos and explore her channel.
@kanaboon3388
@kanaboon3388 4 жыл бұрын
Learning to love your self takes time effort and energy, cause you're building a relationship with your self and this is the most important relationship you're ever have in your life ❤️
@SH-ud6ey
@SH-ud6ey 7 жыл бұрын
I am going to try all of these, not long ago I was fighting depression & anorexia & I am learning to expect myself for me! You are so beautiful also & thankyou so much for this video! :)
@kushanimehta9425
@kushanimehta9425 7 жыл бұрын
I have come across many youtubers, but there's something so positive about your energy. I feel my day gets better just by seeing your video! Lots of love❤️
@gabriellaharefa8871
@gabriellaharefa8871 8 жыл бұрын
I just started to love u, Aileen. Thank u for the lovely messages in this video. U've inspired me to be a better me every day
@SomeOne-iq3uz
@SomeOne-iq3uz 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Thank you _so much_ for making this video.
@srushtibargale5429
@srushtibargale5429 8 жыл бұрын
Your quote collection is beautiful ! what a beautiful human you are, i cant thank you enough for being a youtube influencer ! LOVE YOU
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
aww love you!!
@lauraelzey6371
@lauraelzey6371 6 жыл бұрын
I use to think self love was conceited selfish but it’s the Total opposite!!!! It’s one thing to love yourself but it’s another to feel shame and guilt for you GOD given personality
@rathivenkatesh
@rathivenkatesh 8 жыл бұрын
Self Love...💖 I've started to love myself mainly after looking your videos... It gave me great positivity...I accepted the flaws...within myself and also others... which really reduced stress... Thank you for that... You were the main reason behind that... Love you Aileen Xu...
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
that's so amazing, I'm so proud!! 💞
@iremsakalli2354
@iremsakalli2354 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much. Your video helped me to love myself even if I’m watching it rn. The way you’re talking about self-love is calming and gives me hope and motivation. Thank you so so much again!
@mimmohyoungnjoroge3016
@mimmohyoungnjoroge3016 6 жыл бұрын
I'm very grateful i found your channel, girrrrl you're full of positivity. In my head you're already my bestie. Keep growing
@ElviraVik
@ElviraVik Жыл бұрын
Your videos are incredibly helpful for me! It’s such an important theme🙏💛
@smild24
@smild24 8 жыл бұрын
As a person who have depression before, I created my table diary called "Everyday is awesome" that is inspired by random image on Pinterest. On the table, I write the list of things, for example, reading a book, feel happy, waking up early if that day i do that thing. I will fill the gap. It helps a lot to make me see the value of myself in everyday and it is fun to draw new ones in every month.
@jimletavilla6569
@jimletavilla6569 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you lavendaire you have helped me alot. 💕 I will keep following you I’m just starting to love myself.
@Up369Up
@Up369Up 7 жыл бұрын
You deserve millions of subscribers Aileen. Love you
@jasmineforteza6517
@jasmineforteza6517 7 жыл бұрын
thank you so much. I'm actually struggling so much right now but considering this, it might help me. thank you. and you're gorgeous!
@thaolinhnguyen6850
@thaolinhnguyen6850 3 жыл бұрын
it is very inspirational and amazing. I feel better after watching this. Love you so much.
@unicorn-ek4pf
@unicorn-ek4pf 7 жыл бұрын
online is a highlight reel people post the highlights ie the good happy stuff not their struggles this helps a lot so next time your comparing yourself remind yourself your just seeing the highlights of someone's life.
@patugarnjaloenlap3276
@patugarnjaloenlap3276 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for made this Video. I feel so much better from whatever I feel bad. right now I know that I should focus and start from loving myself and getting better everyday.
@laraarab2713
@laraarab2713 5 жыл бұрын
Love to have friends like you!! Much love from Lebanon ♥️
@cloudiexlowf2402
@cloudiexlowf2402 3 жыл бұрын
Wow ! I AM FELLING so MOTIVATED after watching this video 🌸🌸 . I just love the ideas you have in your mind . It's extremely beautiful . Love with lavendaire ❤❤😊
@juliadeboer872
@juliadeboer872 7 жыл бұрын
omg! I just love this video, it makes me feel so happy!
@mcc9475
@mcc9475 8 жыл бұрын
The thing that helped me quite a lot is that I told myself that I had a bit of my mother, and a bit of my father in me. My looks are a mix of theirs, and my personality is also a mix of theirs. And I should be really proud of that. I should cherish and embrace everything that I have because it's unique. Every time I thought "oh, you're ugly / you're not good enough", I knew I was not only being mean to myself, but to my parents too. So yeah, dunno if it makes sense but that really worked for me (I was very insecure before).
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
aww you're so right about that, thanks for sharing
@HaNguyen-ew1xj
@HaNguyen-ew1xj 8 жыл бұрын
You are amazing Aileen. I have to say how incredible you are when you share everything. I'm grateful for what you did. Love you Aileen. Keep doing good work!
@lavendaire
@lavendaire 8 жыл бұрын
thank you
@samantha6302
@samantha6302 4 жыл бұрын
Ah! self-love, self-care, self-pampering is most important.
@melissapeterson4701
@melissapeterson4701 6 жыл бұрын
I'm LOVING your videos!! I'm starting my journey on loving myself & being grateful for EVERYTHING!! 😄💜
@jesi-in-France
@jesi-in-France 6 жыл бұрын
THANKS LAVENDAIRE FOR YOUR TIPS! YOU HELPED ME WITH MY ANXIETY!
@sapnagautam8123
@sapnagautam8123 6 жыл бұрын
i m so greatful that i found your channel and thanks for the amazing tips to self love 😊
@beatriza.4626
@beatriza.4626 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this and all of your videos you are helping me a lot
@chinmayeepriyadarshini9483
@chinmayeepriyadarshini9483 Жыл бұрын
God really opened the door which leaded to you✨
@radhamourya9396
@radhamourya9396 2 жыл бұрын
We all are different and unique. It's not a compilation, it's community. We are all here to bring arw own unique value to the world, and there's foom for everybody.
@cagedog47
@cagedog47 7 жыл бұрын
I’ve just found you and I think you’re incredible
@nathanielgovan9710
@nathanielgovan9710 Жыл бұрын
Thank you gorgeous woman and yes I have a lot of self love for myself. I love how you always inspire❤️💜💜💖💞😍😍💞💞💞💖💕💕💖💖
@spellinto
@spellinto 6 жыл бұрын
“it’s not a competition, it’s a community” wow wow wow
@jurochavieira
@jurochavieira 8 жыл бұрын
I loved the tips!! At first I confess I underestimated the video because of the title.. you know, it seems like an obvious thing.. "in order to love yourself you need to..".. but wow! how wrong I was.. you gave us really practical exercises.. real good and simple tips on how to do it.. thank you for taking the time to help us all!! kisses from Brazil!
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