The neighbor needs to be held accountable, too. He had no business stalking his neighbor and her home like that.
@davids50065 ай бұрын
😂
@BellaLeoLicorice5 ай бұрын
I agree - what a dickhead. So many men think women are their possessions.
@hiswillbedone6425 ай бұрын
True I can’t believe he did that
@optoms11785 ай бұрын
It's just creepy
@ChronicLB5 ай бұрын
100% yes!!!
@tjrs2611 ай бұрын
if my brother did this…i’d be scared to even speak to him on the phone. and his sister saying that his child “doesn’t care what his daddy did” is gross and makes me think they told the kids that it was their mom’s fault
@christina5kids16grands11 ай бұрын
Agree. Disgusting.
@deanmullins69511 ай бұрын
How is that gross? When she was just stating what the kid had said. So your saying the kid is gross??
@junemarshall-kingsley56611 ай бұрын
All this fake forgiveness because they don't feel for the people who lost their lives due to this loose canon.
@newworldgrover858811 ай бұрын
@@deanmullins695exactly why should children hate their parents for having a bad marriage? Hate would cause more trauma.
@user3000511 ай бұрын
@@newworldgrover8588he murderer their mother ??
@michelelanders59149 ай бұрын
the sister praying for her brother to “come home safe” after killing 2 people smh insane
@behabtwa5 ай бұрын
i understand what you mean. he doesnt deserve to ever return home. i would still love and miss my brother too tho. luckily my brother is a saint.
@chimezieagumbah55885 ай бұрын
Such delulu
@deslow74114 ай бұрын
Sydney Morning Herald?
@nativeamericanfeather99483 ай бұрын
Agree..shows crazy runs in that family! Family or not. .wrong is wrong! He killed his wife and the mother of his children and another mother and his family is pampering him. Disgusting
@mjum90143 ай бұрын
I almost rolled my eyes out of my head when she started praying.
@childoftheking21136 ай бұрын
It made me sick to hear the killer say “this was a mistake and I wish it wouldn’t have happened”…NO dude, a mistake is getting her coffee order wrong or forgetting to take the trash out! You absolutely meant to kill her when you took a gun to her house! And then for his attorney to say “this was just a mistake”, made my blood boil
@anngitau33073 ай бұрын
i feel the same way!
@scotswumin55023 ай бұрын
So glad his inner persona was revealed as it led to that sentence by the judge
@RescueAlwaysOfficial2 ай бұрын
His attorney probably wants him in prison! 🤣
@GrammyDaweАй бұрын
I fell the same way, I screamed at my monitor!!
@adammcd942418 күн бұрын
Exactly
@catherineturley11 ай бұрын
Sister is psycho too. "Don't say anything incriminating". How about, "tell the truth and beg for mercy".
@dobiacco11 ай бұрын
That's sound legal advice.
@junemarshall-kingsley56611 ай бұрын
And all that praying, as if God would save his sorry tail.
@cattycorner811 ай бұрын
Apple does not fall far from the tree
@ashleypg170811 ай бұрын
She's DISGUSTING. Telling him the kids said they'd love their daddy "no matter what he did". The whole time, she's acting like what he did was a good thing. Disgusting family. Praying? Lmfao...ok...
@Marlaina11 ай бұрын
@AlWorth9738 That's like saying if only police existed, then no one would commit crimes. The law exists and police enforce the law but humans have free will and agency to break laws and rebel against law enforcement. Same with God. He has his laws but humans are free to break them, with consequences.
@PumaMama14511 ай бұрын
The neighbor is trying to minimize his role in all of this, but he is fooling no one. He knew he was throwing serious fuel on the fire.
@fran-gx3kf11 ай бұрын
YES, minimize after the fact because the outcome was horrendous.
@heatherwatson102111 ай бұрын
Exactly he’s a nosey pos!!!
@georgemonde823711 ай бұрын
He doesn't give 2 shits
@tomTom-lb5cu11 ай бұрын
Trouble making neighbor now 2 people gone. What business was it of his? Who in their right mind would do that ?
@monicabrill582110 ай бұрын
@@tomTom-lb5cu it is the wife's fault she knew what she was doing
@rennayvidal296711 ай бұрын
His family is also disgusting. They were on his side and this man killed 2 women in cold blood!
@-MattMcCauley-11 ай бұрын
It literally was not "cold blood", you di not know what the term means. It was what is called "heat of passion", an adulterous wife confrontation. That does not excuse it or mean it is not murder, but it does mean it is not "cold blood". Stop using legal terms you do not understand. You watch too much TV.
@rennayvidal296711 ай бұрын
@@-MattMcCauley- it is cold blood! It’s definitely not “heat of passion”. This man went there with the intention to KILL. He had loaded guns in his car, went in the house guns blazing asking “where is he?”. You’re the one who clearly don’t know what you’re talking about.
@lena-mariaglouis-charles703611 ай бұрын
@@-MattMcCauley- Projecting much?
@rmarvel16911 ай бұрын
Vile ppl
@genomic_11 ай бұрын
His sister 🤮
@preciousOne795 ай бұрын
This update from News4Jax makes me so happy. 👉"The Colleys' children, a 7-year-old daughter and an 8-year-old son, have been in the custody of one of Amanda Colley's family members since the murders." I know it drives him crazy to know that his kids are with Amanda's family.
@gabriellejones46173 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! This was about to ruin my entire night at work. Hearing him say as long as her family doesn’t get them made my blood boil over. 😭
@aomorimi3 ай бұрын
That made my day! Listening to his jail phone call where the person he’s talking to says his son said he’ll love him no matter what he did tells me all I need to know about his backwards family. I hope the kids are doing well.
@fionasheepwash27183 ай бұрын
Amanda's family I am sure will let the children know appropriate to their age what happened to their mum. As they become adults they will understand more and make up their own minds.
@vanessakelsie33332 ай бұрын
Sad they lost they lives however.All she had to do when he tore up her house was call the police. He would be in jail n they would be alive. Amanda boyfriend is a coward he just left her to die.
@2326-h9z2 ай бұрын
@@vanessakelsie3333How ridiculous. What was he meant to do against a man with a gun out to shoot him?
@lauratheus701210 ай бұрын
Could you imagine growing up and watching this knowing what your dad did to your mom and how he completely changed your entire life after he killed your mom? I feel so sad for them.
@saracaruso514810 ай бұрын
I grew up like that my father killed my mother too
@monicac15366 ай бұрын
@@saracaruso5148 im sorry for your loss.
@kathiward76 ай бұрын
@@saracaruso5148 So sorry!
@WiydumoBasilBerinyuy-y2o4 ай бұрын
Maybe the dad just ruined her mom cuz the mom already ruin him
@lauratheus70124 ай бұрын
@@WiydumoBasilBerinyuy-y2oHe didn’t ruin her…he KILLED her. And she didn’t ruin him…she divorced him.
@basicallyno172211 ай бұрын
He had a girlfriend the entire time, she had a restraining order on him, and the wife was estranged from him….what a double standard having psycho!
@daCubanaqt11 ай бұрын
He’s a narcissist. In his eyes his ex-wife was a possession to him. He can’t do any wrong, but everyone wrongs him.
@computerpro123abc10 ай бұрын
She missed the opportunity to have him put in jail twice!!! Playing games to get back at a spouse is not smart. Having a boy friend come to her home while she was still married was to be vindictive. Playing 2 men against each other(screwing both of them) was not smart. NOT running out of the house with her boy friend was not smart.
@cocothelovely10 ай бұрын
Said like a true psycho 🥴@@computerpro123abc
@TheBeezusjones10 ай бұрын
An abuser should be put in jail regardless of whether the victim wants to press charges . OBVIOUSLY, and understandably , victims fear an abuser will blame/ harm them for whatever consequences the abuser gets . Just like in the video , the murderer said "SHE keeps putting me in jail". (As opposed to "I have committed violence and have been put in jail as a result of MY VIOLENT ACTIONS")
@TheBeezusjones10 ай бұрын
@@computerpro123abc he was seeing someone else too. So.. should she have killed him ?
@samanthaschwartz231611 ай бұрын
The neighbor has blood on their hands. Also, NEVER tell me someone willing to take the life of their child's mother is a good father. Not. Even. A. Little. Bit.
@lisas824410 ай бұрын
@samanthaschwartz2316 Right. Neighbor should have minded his own business and refused to do any dirty work for the estranged husband. HIs hands are dripping in blood. And a man who kills the mother of his children is by definition the worst kind of father ever.
@jenivettebigham706010 ай бұрын
Pos!! Blood. He should pay child support to the children
@Justice-ef9sk10 ай бұрын
@@jenivettebigham7060RIGHT!
@martinfoster28010 ай бұрын
I'm sorry but I'm a single father of 2 with sole custody, no no some women are put on this earth by the devil, same sentence some men are too!!! Never the less I agree murder is never the answer, I'm just saying some women are just as bad as some men!!!
@ruthquetant737510 ай бұрын
💯‼️
@jeremyness23955 ай бұрын
I cannot even begin to describe how absolutely infuriating 911 operators talk during emergency calls.
@gogostephy15 ай бұрын
What the actual f*ck is wrong with them????
@DawnRoache-y9n4 ай бұрын
Hellllllloooo she's absolutely horrid.
@LS-sw6dl4 ай бұрын
@jeremyness2395 Agree 100% with sentiment. I shake with fury listening to them sometimes. There is a reason they talk like this, when you're soft and leave room for feeling people break down. They NEED people to remain calm to gather as much relevant information as possible, and as quickly as possible to get the proper people there. It's a tough job, I couldn't manage the robot, and snappy tones they have. It makes me mental.
@ASMRmomm4 ай бұрын
I agree I don't know if they are trained to be this way or are they all just numb zombies
@Jom-o4t3 ай бұрын
I agree. That are losers and bullies.
@coryjkrum11 ай бұрын
5 minutes in and I think the neighbor should be charged as an accessory to murder! With that picture he set the whole thing into motion. Good thing she didn't run to the house of the neighbor who started this all.
@xjcrossx11 ай бұрын
No way
@tww504211 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right he should be charged It was wrong for the neighbor to be involved at all. In the event that he asked me, I would have told him that I had never come across anyone there and wouldn't send a picture of another man at his house. Absolutely insane.
@vickiekasafirek909611 ай бұрын
I wonder how he sleeps at night.
@coryjkrum11 ай бұрын
@@vickiekasafirek9096 probably moved
@AndreWellness11 ай бұрын
Honestly, no he shouldn’t. J.R. Is a grown man who is responsible for his own actions. How is what the neighbor did any different from what a private detective would have done if J.R. Had hired one. We live in an age where once you step out of the bounds of your own home you should automatically assume that you are being recorded.
@ashleyjones856810 ай бұрын
The fact she saved him from going to jail so he wouldn’t be without seeing his kids but he killed her so she will never see her kids again. This is devastating
@susanreeve943010 ай бұрын
Excellent point.
@tamarinbush661310 ай бұрын
And then he and his family are trying to keep the kids from her family. Really sad 😢 And I hope her family got custody of the kids.
@ketoyacarruth91719 ай бұрын
Very heartbreaking and selfish 😢💔
@victorcampos77229 ай бұрын
Buy protection women! You think police or anyone else will come rescue you?? The answer is no, but your protection will give you a chance.
@jungkookspiercing9 ай бұрын
@@victorcampos7722or how about we tell men to go to therapy and stop murdering women!! Yes we need protection but it should be said that men need to do better
@LifeWnikk11 ай бұрын
“She kept putting me in jail” coward please. You never sat in jail even though you should’ve
@MsRose0010 ай бұрын
Exactly. She was being too kind. Kept refusing to press charges so he wouldn’t be away from his kids and look what good it did her in the end.
@welshwitch212610 ай бұрын
Well he’s there now! What a psycho SOB.
@Angelface1110 ай бұрын
That's exactly what somebody says when they deserve to be in jail. Because they never take a responsibility for what they did to get put in jail for goodness sakes
@Angelface1110 ай бұрын
@@MsRose00yep I've been there and sadly it happens to a lot of domestic violent victims they're try to be nice and compassionate or they're even scared and then it bites them many times
@Edgarto15610 ай бұрын
I know that was weird. What is he talking about. Did he mean she kept with the restraining order?
@TinathePomMom5 ай бұрын
@38:03 Never seizes to amaze me how the murderer wants recognition as a human being, and wanting to save their life, yet didn't care about taking their victim's rights, and life away!
@ninagage231111 ай бұрын
The Colleys' children, a 7-year-old daughter and an 8-year-old son, have been in the custody of one of Amanda Colley's family members since the murders.Jul 18, 2018
@de229611 ай бұрын
❤
@keychain303911 ай бұрын
Thank you for updating us!
@mickjagger111 ай бұрын
Awesome i was scrolling forever thru comments to get this update thank you..
@lisas824410 ай бұрын
@ninagage2311 You read my mind. I was wondering about that. Thank goodness the father's narcissistic family isn't raising them. It's easy to see how this self absorbed, poor me, despicable specimen of a male turned out the way he did. If he and his sister are any indication, the entire family is trash. If my brother murdered two people for any reason other than self defense, I would never have any contact with him again, ever. Horrid, disgusting people who think they are good Christians because they prayed. Thank you for the update.
@BeReal12810 ай бұрын
WHAT JUDGE AFTER LISTENING TO HOW JAMES SISTER HANDLED “TELLING THE KIDS MOMMY WAS GONE” WOULD LET JAMES FAMILY SEE THOSE KIDS - UNSUPERVISED!
@gypsydoll1411 ай бұрын
WTF!? His family acts like he stole a candy bar Jesus!😡
@christina5kids16grands11 ай бұрын
Completely infuriating.
@Leilexa11 ай бұрын
Candy bar Jesus? Never heard of that candy 🤦
@lizettmclat190311 ай бұрын
Remind me the Watts family
@gypsydoll1411 ай бұрын
@@LeilexaOH YOUR SO FUNNY GROW UP
@Marlaina11 ай бұрын
A glimpse into a family that raises someone who is capable of these actions. They seem like they're all capable of murder.
@berean6511 ай бұрын
A narcissist will always victim blame when they get caught.
@michaels522211 ай бұрын
Exactly. She admitted to cheating on her husband. You are right. She was a narcissist. She admitted that he was a good father to their kids which undermines the idea that he was a drunk. God bless
@michaels522211 ай бұрын
So, she did not work. A stay at home mom. Had everything. He worked hard to build a family and home and was kicked out of the home he bought and she brings her boyfriend into his house that he paid for.............
@berean6511 ай бұрын
@@michaels5222 He was also cheating. He was also very controlling. Both of those are Narcissistic traits. I'm not saying that she is not to blame. It takes two to have a conflict. She could very well have had narcissistic traits as well. Needless to say, it was a toxic relationship from the get go.
@waynepolo619311 ай бұрын
@@michaels5222 What did her friend do?
@tehminaadil637411 ай бұрын
@@michaels5222He also had a girlfriend at the time. He wasn't exactly pious. You can't justify him killing the mother of his children in cold blood.
@YONCE87015 ай бұрын
Crazy how he could move on with his life but she couldn't/wasn't allowed to. So many people have blood on their hands, starting with neighbour. Smh, his entire family are rotten to the core! If you are reading this, I hope & pray you don't get a single day of peace. Diabolical.
@luzt182Күн бұрын
💯
@samaralloyd5218 ай бұрын
You have to wonder... would James Colley's sister be talking about what an amazing mother Amanda and Lindy were, if they decided to gun down James and his friends? Or would she be crying for justice and death penalties? He's a horrible person, and a great father would NEVER have dreamed of robbing them of their mother and certainly not robbing OTHER children of their mothers. And his family is no better.
@SarahDonnellan-h8jАй бұрын
Perfect words thank you
@natasha8319611 ай бұрын
Mike Dickens is culpable. He claims he tried to talk him down, but then sends a picture of the boyfriend. What an utter toolbag.
@lakovkreativity11 ай бұрын
What a hypocrite, didn't he have a girlfriend himself?
@serenalee218710 ай бұрын
1000%
@johnsmith-ug5tp10 ай бұрын
He isn't culpable of anything and there is ZERO laws preventing a person from taking and sending pictures.
@ajourneytoessence216610 ай бұрын
@@johnsmith-ug5tpyou must be a bitter man with mommy issues to come here and make this comment. He was a troublemaker and busybody who got two women killed by not minding his own business.
@xoxogemvenus10 ай бұрын
@@johnsmith-ug5tpmen need to start being held accountable for femicide. These types of comments sicken me.
@TheBeezusjones10 ай бұрын
THANK YOU TO THE JUDGE FOR TELLING THAT MONSTER THIS WAS IN NO WAY "AN ACCIDENT"...
@thehorrorsilk6 ай бұрын
I really despise these defense lawyers. They were one million percent victim shaming and the fact they straight up denied it disgusts me.
@jeansteel15164 ай бұрын
And the one defense attorney was smiling and chuckling when he was talking about the situation in the first few clips. I was shocked. What a horrible man
@caraodoherty59403 ай бұрын
Lawyers were just as crazy as he was!!!!
@caraodoherty59403 ай бұрын
@@jeansteel1516 Defence attorney was just as crazy as he was!!!!
@avyluant94163 ай бұрын
for real!! i don't feel sorry people online had a go at the defense. trying to deny victim blaming by saying he was trying to save the killer's life? he even used a name that made it seem they were all buddy buddy. it was no longer the case of doing their job when he blatantly blamed the victims
@pinkysimmsBMMM7 күн бұрын
Not all but I agree this one is.
@Mystified197811 ай бұрын
He was not an amazing father. Amazing fathers don’t kill the mother of their children and their completely innocent friends. This guy was a complete loser. They were both moving on but he is obviously a narcissistic abuser with an anger issue. I hope that neighbor feels bad and thinks about Amanda and Lindy for the rest of his life. He was being a nosy neighbor thinking he was really doing something when he really fueled an evil monster. Shame on him. Shame on James ridiculous family for the lame excuses. I hope the kids are with her family with minimal contact with his crazy family. What a horrible story!
@basicallyno172211 ай бұрын
Top it off, the dude had his own girlfriend!!!
@Fuzzamajumula10 ай бұрын
I think the neighbor was enjoying himself and the power he had over other people's emotions. He's told himself he didn't do anything wrong, so I seriously doubt he thinks about the innocent victims. He's a total creep.
@tiamarie699710 ай бұрын
🗣️ ‼️
@LessaMeieam10 ай бұрын
Amen
@mkkrafts926110 ай бұрын
I believe the neighbor was enjoying the drama and wanted to continue to fan the flames.
@jamiemiesler32211 ай бұрын
This was not an accident. This was premeditated & frankly his family is pretty gross. The jail call “we know it was just an accident”🙄 Uh he murdered TWO PEOPLE!!
@christina5kids16grands11 ай бұрын
Completely disgusting. Infuriating really 🤯
@teresathayn517011 ай бұрын
So, what did he expect?!? That after mistreating her until she divorced him, did he really believe he could force her to reconcile with him?!? "Get back together with me or I'm going to shoot and kill you?". Narcissist's thinking baffles me!! Poor kids got neither parent now! Selfish pr**k!!
@RachelManies-ne6jg10 ай бұрын
He knew he had those guns with him and knew she was at home.
@rebeccagutierrez817010 ай бұрын
@@teresathayn5170The children never needed him. Chances are he tortured them as well as their mother. 😢
@kerikaykay075 ай бұрын
exactly why is the family pretending he didn’t do anything and that they want him to come home when he gets out of jail. And they want to have him come back to them. I wouldn’t be able to trust him. He’s a murderer. I hope his family doesn’t get the kidson the count of the way his sister sounded on the phone. She sounded psycho.
@Mandiann211 ай бұрын
The neighbor that took and sent that photo deserves jail too imo... disgusting.
@beatngu309411 ай бұрын
Yeah people don’t know how to mind their business smh
@crookedhalo4911 ай бұрын
Nah, friends look out for friends. Who knows the spin the husband put on the sob story to the neighbor. He is not responsible for someone else's actions.
@shannonscheffel736611 ай бұрын
I came to the comments to say this.
@Anna-pz9ry11 ай бұрын
Mike Dickens is probably an abuser himself. What an ahole.
@pnscar311 ай бұрын
Ohhhhhhhhhhh please
@ChronicLB5 ай бұрын
Damn, the SECOND he left court for violating his injunction against her, he calls her. Smh absolutely ridiculous.
@ginasousabranco56372 ай бұрын
He was on a mission
@WIPsandKits11 ай бұрын
The perpetrator, the neighbor, the 911 operator, the perpetrator’s sister…how do they live with themselves???
@P4trickSt4rmie11 ай бұрын
the judge who didnt send him to jail
@florentinepogen11 ай бұрын
I'm sure just fine. They all have to be sociopathic narcissists.
@BeReal12810 ай бұрын
@@P4trickSt4rmie EXACTLY! James had those guns - and unless he was taken into custody - had the murder planned out b4 hand! I imagine he regrets that one friend (behind the closet door when he opened it) got away! AND THE SHIRTLESS BOYFRIEND MOWING THE LAWN - - - THE MINUTE HE HEARD THE GUN FIRE BOLTED - - JAMES WASN’T THERE TO KILL HIM - JUST THE WIFE & HER FRIENDS!
@cv869210 ай бұрын
Because they felt sorry for the real victim( the husband) ho e is gone but no one has a right to take others life.
@xoxogemvenus10 ай бұрын
They don’t care.
@melpet44411 ай бұрын
His family…!!!! My gosh. Absolutely sickening case.
@vickiekasafirek909611 ай бұрын
What a complete coward.
@EssenceofCoils11 ай бұрын
You're being kind.
@mullcrumthesage11 ай бұрын
Who Lamar or the killer?
@robertpesa415711 ай бұрын
@@mullcrumthesage, yes
@catkit72811 ай бұрын
Lamar was a coward.too in my opinion , way he ran off not try help
@jimmytran597110 ай бұрын
@@catkit728he was just there to get a lil sum sum. Why risk your life for a side chick?
@canisha-anncalloway69975 ай бұрын
The defense attorney smirking while talking about the victim as if he knew her is beyond disturbing
@D_lola9 күн бұрын
He relates that why 😂
@glendadejesus149711 ай бұрын
Sad! She didn’t want to press charges to avoid the kids being without their dad for 1 year, and he ended up taking her kids away from her forever.
@lunacielo768010 ай бұрын
😢
@wakeupluv10 ай бұрын
😫 SMH
@well-see-what-happens-cent12953 ай бұрын
He took Amanda away from the kids & Lindy away from her husband and kids
@caraodoherty59403 ай бұрын
Being the narcissist he was even if Amanda pressed charges it wouldn't have deterred him from killing Amanda and her friend. Even with the restraining order it didn't keep him away from pursuing her!!!!
@AnthonyJ50411 ай бұрын
"He was a wonderful father" Yea, right up until he started breaking into her home, harassing her, and eventually killing her and her friend.
@angelareitz51224 ай бұрын
yep, and she was an awful mother.
@rennayvidal296711 ай бұрын
The sisters are only crying for their brother not for the victims. Sad.
@autofocus455611 ай бұрын
Why do you care? 😂
@smellymellss10 ай бұрын
@@autofocus4556why do you 😂😂 it’s a public comment section 😂
@autofocus455610 ай бұрын
@@smellymellss I don’t that’s why I asked why 🤡
@lunacielo768010 ай бұрын
They're a disgusting family
@canisha-anncalloway69975 ай бұрын
@@autofocus4556you must be one of the gross family members 😂
@Ezinma885 ай бұрын
It's laughable that so many seem to think she committed adultery. She's with someone new, and so was he. So who cares? What gets me is the slander and character assassination he did to everyone he could talk to about her. 'Dad, she won't stop putting me in jail'. When she literally refused to do so that very day. Doesn't want her family to get custody. When her family raised a loving person and mother. And, his family raised a murderer. Make it make sense.
@jswan31211 ай бұрын
His family is sleaze but they all think they’re good because they said a “prayer” 🙄
@skybornex11 ай бұрын
Seriously!!! That was ridiculous to me! Pretty sure God ain't listening to that prayer.
@christina5kids16grands11 ай бұрын
Agree 🤬
@genomic_11 ай бұрын
All the religious preachers out there please stop saying god forgives. Time and time again these criminals think that it’s okay to commit crimes as long as they pray to god for forgiveness.
@junemarshall-kingsley56611 ай бұрын
How vehemently and self-righteously the murderer said, "Amen."
@natasha8319611 ай бұрын
Agreed. This is not a case where his guilt is in question - he admitted to killing them. The family support is disgusting, but perhaps explains why he did this to begin with.
@pilotswife0610 ай бұрын
Rachel’s phone call and testimony is proof that people react differently when placed in a stressful situation. Her voice was steady and calm, despite having just witnessed her friends being shot, and narrowly missing being shot herself. Other victims have been criticized for not displaying “typical” behavior post attack. I’m glad they featured a witness and victim who was calm in the face of danger. Some of us go quiet and still when faced with a frightening situation.
@kat70476 ай бұрын
I’m like this. I’ve been in a couple of traumatic situations and I’m the type of person that goes completely calm rather than hysterical. I’m not sure why since I’m normally a pretty emotional person.
@VForShort5 ай бұрын
@@pilotswife06 🎯
@deek44682 ай бұрын
Very true !
@flotaylor817023 күн бұрын
I’m like this as well. I’m calm in very stressful/dangerous situations (I’ve been in the military for over 20 years) because I recognize that freaking out only makes the situation. I’m just not someone that overreacts.
@shawnadeyo11 ай бұрын
I cannot believe a neighbor would do such a low down disgusting thing. If that neighbor would have said "dude you are out of your effing mind I refuse to stalk your wife for you I refuse to be your personal private investigator and you need to quit with the bs. Leave her alone can't you see that YOU are the one with problems?!" All of this could have been avoided. But unfortunately he had a family that is just as disgusting as that neighbor so who knows....it's just unbelievable how some people instigate situations like this..
@NunyaBizness2.010 ай бұрын
I agree with you but he would have found out about the guy eventually. He had already found the toys and men’s clothes. He was stalking her. If he couldn’t have her, no one was going to.
@standback580610 ай бұрын
I’ve seen people on KZbin filming a girl getting beat up. Sick. Shawn, I’m with you. Or I would have told Amanda what he asked me to do.
@wakeupluv10 ай бұрын
@@standback5806 Exactly!!! I would've warned her too
@crystallatta877010 ай бұрын
I 💯 agree!!! Even though they're not the one's who actually did the killing, they did instigate and now defending him. That neighbor is shady af though, even if he thought sending the Pic was innocent (which he didn't) why wouldn't he go straight to the police once he text him that she'd "pay". That mf'r definitely knew he'd do something to hurt her😡
@HavianEla5 ай бұрын
@@crystallatta8770Exactly. Even if he thought sending the pic was “innocent” (it wasn’t), he STOPPED being an innocent bystander when he was forewarned and told NOBODY!!!
@nvrthirstyАй бұрын
I was so satisfied to see justice prevail in this case. Great jury prosecutor and judge.
@ashleygood461510 ай бұрын
Who the f**k says a prayer for someone who killed 2 people in cold blood?
@xiomaragomez664910 ай бұрын
That was nauseating to hear
@lunacielo768010 ай бұрын
His family didn't seem bothered one bit.
@Capgpro110 ай бұрын
Christians.
@MarkBigley10 ай бұрын
Actually religious people. 🤷🏽♂️
@hosea4_6829 ай бұрын
trump supporter
@milehighmom481710 ай бұрын
Just listening to him talk to his family on those phone calls, it’s no wonder he turned out the way he did. It’s clear he’s never been held responsible for anything a day in his life. I hope Amanda’s family got custody of her children.
@tiamarie699710 ай бұрын
Righttt!!
@EvaSalcedo2810 ай бұрын
🎯
@tonyag6910 ай бұрын
They did!!
@amandacantrell11468 ай бұрын
@@tonyag69That is the best thing for those babies. His family would've tried to tell those children growing up that it was probably their Momma's fault. Thank you for updating us on that. That is a silver lining in an extremely dark cloud, especially for those children. I really don't think his family needed custody of them for several reasons.
@leilachristie18614 ай бұрын
Yes, I swear some people just don't understand that it's supposed to be stressful to parent a child, you actually DO want a civilised person!
@rellwhitaker414411 ай бұрын
How do you violate a protective order and get probation
@genomic_11 ай бұрын
Right? And how delusional he and his family are to say that Amanda was giving mixed signals.
@melsutubeification11 ай бұрын
Right and he lied to his family saying she was sending me to jail…when in fact just that morning of her death she made the decision to not send his evil arse to jail… because of the children…meanwhile they’ll never see their mother again!
@Fuzzamajumula10 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@InMyPOV2u10 ай бұрын
States need to stiffen these laws. Better to act preemptively in court than to allow any person to do the same outside of court; that usually doesn’t end well as we see here.
@lunacielo768010 ай бұрын
Unsupervised!
@cynthiaweir56975 ай бұрын
Now this monster is playing the victim. What a weak coward. Bullies like him are always cowards. My condolences to the families of these two beautiful women.
@bethanystamper671311 ай бұрын
I'm shocked at how calm the friend is as she calls from the neighbors
@tatipachas52510 ай бұрын
Omg I was looking for a comment like this. I thought the exact same thing!! Just watching this, I put myself into this scenario and gave myself an anxiety attack so I have zero sense of how and why she was so calm. Especially after witnessing the murders.
@KassidyKennedy110 ай бұрын
She was probably in shock and her brain/body didn’t know how to process what she had just been through/witnessed.
@bethanystamper671310 ай бұрын
@KassidyKennedy1 your probably right! I just can't imagine going through all that! It's easy to say I'd do this or that but you never know until your in those shoes!
@eloisemarch628910 ай бұрын
Yes! When I heard her call, I immediately thought about how I’d 100% think she was guilty if we didn’t know who the murderer was. It was a real eye-opener to hear how actual victims sound in traumatic situations.
@Slitwheel9 ай бұрын
Funny. Yall females arent bashing the women by running from the crazy man but yall bashed the new boyfriend for doing the same. Females LOVEE blaming men for EVERYTHING 🤮
@busybee443611 ай бұрын
As a woman who narrowly escaped being murdered by my psycho ex husband, this story sickens and angers me. Yet another tragedy of unarmed, defenseless women killed by a monster. Ladies, I beg you, please get a firearm, learn how to properly use it, and stay armed 24/7.
@rooroo558011 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@oxcolette11 ай бұрын
My dog’s are a big part of my protection.
@Rach-baum11 ай бұрын
I agree. As long as you’ve mastered your emotions. Get professional training and take some defense classes
@JordanEndTimeServantOfYah14411 ай бұрын
@@Rach-baumdoesn't seem like the husband mastered his emotions
@3yearsago28711 ай бұрын
My question is, did you cheat on him for him to try to kill you
@kimberlymordal721511 ай бұрын
Called his dad and said that she put him in jail. his dad should’ve spoke up and said that’s what happens when you don’t leave her alone. knock it off!
@janays35506 ай бұрын
So his response to his wife, who "keeps putting him in jail," is to commit the worst possible crime and then follow it up immediately with another crime to ensure he goes to prison?
@barbmurraybabss6 ай бұрын
She kept him out of jail and that was a huge mistake
@pinkrubix11 ай бұрын
Did I actually hear the dispatcher ask the caller if those noises were gunfire during an emergency call to report an active shooter?
@rexchiquine604910 ай бұрын
yes,,,you did,,,
@greenerytuin57910 ай бұрын
Yes because you can’t assume they are gunshots. You have to confirm.
@veronicacruzcotten112410 ай бұрын
Some of the emergency dispatchers are ridiculous.
@juliaboyce33459 ай бұрын
The dumbest operators/dispatchers are so freaking insensitive because it's not happening to them. It can't be any worse than this. 😱👺👿😈👹😈👿😱
@Nenernener12311 ай бұрын
11:06 This is exactly why some states demand an arrest on domestic calls even if the person doesn’t want to lock them up!
@SharpTac11 ай бұрын
Yes! This should be the law in every state.
@joralemonvirgincreche11 ай бұрын
I thought that was the law in Florida. (From watching Cops.)
@NotSoNormal198711 ай бұрын
Yeah. Laws like this saves lives.
@IH8YALLL11 ай бұрын
That’s the law in Florida. When the police are called for a domestic violence call, one or both of the parties HAS to be arrested.
@KimmyP81310 ай бұрын
@IH8YALLL Correct. The problem was that husband was gone by the time they arrived, he didn't even live there and she refused to press charges. It's sad that women are so scared of their children not having a father that they're blind to the risk they're putting everyone in.
@mizzdizz814010 ай бұрын
My neighbor did this to me with my abusive ex. He knew when I left the house what time I came back, who was over my house, etc, which almost led to my demise. To make it worse, it was a woman with kids herself, and she knew what was going on. Despicable. I hate people.
@strongwoman26689 ай бұрын
Me to that's why I stay to myself!!!!
@nbla399 ай бұрын
I'm getting my own apartment soon and I'm super nervous of this happening.And i'm finding out where I live running
@VanessaCurry7118 ай бұрын
I’ve had smthg like that too I dk y ppl don’t stay in their lane bc I don’t even pay attention to what anyone is doing!!
@florinvid7 ай бұрын
You had bad neighbors
@donnahobson92636 ай бұрын
Hate your neighbor, but not all people are like that.
@fierybutmostlypeaceful17082 ай бұрын
That new boyfriend was like ✌🏽 and ran. That neighbor should be held responsible. He’s a weirdo and creep for spying.
@alliedavis514411 ай бұрын
That 911 operator needs to be fired
@jamiemiesler32211 ай бұрын
I agree. She was annoyed & was probably about to scold her for screaming in her ear when the poor woman was about to be shot & then was shot.
@rooroo558011 ай бұрын
First thing I thought. How tf you acting that way when someone is getting shot to death
@nanaman11 ай бұрын
It’s unbelievable how many of these people are in this position and behave as if it’s an inconvenience to them to have to deal with such things. Speaking as someone who has been through a similar experience.
@leestone814711 ай бұрын
Did she do a “huff” sound like this call was ruining her day … She had zero concern for women being shot. She better be fired what a disgrace.
@mylissa7311 ай бұрын
Absolutely! I could just see her rolling her eyes at the beginning of the call.
@Christina-xp9ys11 ай бұрын
Mike Dickens should be charged too! It was none of his business! Taking the picture and sending it to someone unstable was low down and dirty! 😠
@gms260611 ай бұрын
I feel he’s definitely involved in involuntary manslaughter
@-MattMcCauley-11 ай бұрын
"Charged" with what actual crime, Perry Mason?
@christina5kids16grands11 ай бұрын
I get that he seems to be culpable - but legally, he’s not. Morally? Yes.
@barbarayoung284611 ай бұрын
@@-MattMcCauley- Accessory to murder.
@aprilvilliar790711 ай бұрын
For a picture. No way. There are countless murder cases where the person finds out through a friend that their partner is cheating. You cant shoot or jail the messenger
@mazie795211 ай бұрын
She didn't press charges Didnt want him to be away from his kids. Now shes gone I wouldn't want this monster near my kids. Good father or not.
@-MattMcCauley-11 ай бұрын
Yes, he was a "monster" for being upset that his wife was cheating, put him out of his OWN house and had the new guy right there around his kids.
@rmarvel16911 ай бұрын
@-MattMcCauley- sometimes you need to move on! Now, the kids have no parent and he is in prison. Was it worth it .....
@mazie795211 ай бұрын
@@-MattMcCauley-you don't kill someone for that along with her friend. You file for divorce and custody You don't go around killing people.
@Girlhead11 ай бұрын
Yeah- I mean, to be fair, she just never imagined he'd take it this far. She was a good person, and he was not.
@rooroo558011 ай бұрын
@@-MattMcCauley- didn’t this fool have a gf. Wtf are you talking about
@TinathePomMom5 ай бұрын
@19:16 Lies Mike! The last thing he said in response to YOUR picture being sent, was "She's going to pay".
@Youtubing599911 ай бұрын
Why do 9-1-1 operators say Hello when people are screaming and there are gunshots going off ?
@nataliebussjaeger648810 ай бұрын
Because it is their job to keep the caller on the line. There are times when the caller cannot speak and keeping the line open helps to locate distressed and endangered parties.
@PrettyIIs202310 ай бұрын
@@nataliebussjaeger6488 But do they have to sound so cavalier about it sometimes even sounding annoyed??
@lorenalowry484810 ай бұрын
That 911 operator was annoying.
@sobrietywig297010 ай бұрын
@@nataliebussjaeger6488go sit down
@juliaboyce33459 ай бұрын
Most 911 operators are the most incompetent, of all and any human being. The worst and dumbest ever. 😮😮😮
@Sherry-f9y11 ай бұрын
Even if he could conceivable justify killing his wife out of emotions, why kill the friend?
@allencollins995111 ай бұрын
I seen another story on this and it said he blamed her friends for him getting divorced
@superunknown656011 ай бұрын
Single women who are friends of a married woman are always in there ear undermining the marriage
@jaxxo.39710 ай бұрын
Probably because Lindy was supporting Amanda in her ordeal with her ridiculous, self-entitled, hypocritical monster of a husband. Clearly, in Colley's twisted mind, nobody should have helped, or cared about, Amanda.
@juliaboyce33459 ай бұрын
He could never be justified, he murdered two innocent women pleading for their lives, like are you mad serious with your statement?
@allencollins99519 ай бұрын
@juliaboyce3345 I agree there is no justification for something so horrific the jury thought so too that is why he is on death row
@ottylorena10 ай бұрын
What a neighbor!!! I hope he thinks about what he did and the responsibility he has in what happened.
@davids50065 ай бұрын
Better than state farm
@MarvinetteAndroid835 ай бұрын
I agree; however, this man would have eventually found out and I doubt him finding out sooner than later would have changed the eventual outcome.
@kearobinson4 ай бұрын
@@ottylorena exactly this. Gossiping is a sin for a reason. Look what it led to. My heart breaks for her, her friends, and her kids.
@candysmith76114 ай бұрын
That neighbour likely would have no remorse, he likely behaves the same otherwise he wouldn't have done such a thing.
@andigordon83972 ай бұрын
@@MarvinetteAndroid83 Found out what tho -- they were separated - the husband was crazy and controlling - maybe he would have snapped eventually but that neighbor made it happen sooner -
@danagenovese66463 ай бұрын
So the boyfriend Lamar, left out of the house to save himself and then did not call 911? He left the 3 women to get shot to death. What a coward! Why didn’t he go somewhere and call 911? A wonderful father? That’s debatable.
@flannelpillowcase647510 ай бұрын
the fact everyone trivialized this whole thing all the way up until he literally committed premeditated murder, and some people STILL trivializing all of it afterwards is so telling of the society we live in. i hate humanity so so effing much.
@OverHand5 ай бұрын
facts
@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT4 ай бұрын
Seriously, the amount of people justifying this are disturbing tbh
@melluques84754 ай бұрын
You and your parent are human😔🙏🏻🕊✝️
@chaoswitch19744 ай бұрын
The way the law is written, we're incapacitated until an actual crime is committed. Have you seen minority report? It's a hard choice but it really is the best.
@nabacwagrc10 ай бұрын
And they even said a prayer for bud to get home soon. What a sick family🥺
@jamiekensington11558 ай бұрын
Yeah, absolutely disgusting
@Ilene-pz8fp6 ай бұрын
His relationship with his sister seemed a little incessant.
@dharmallars6 ай бұрын
No grip on reality, some people. Would they be praying for a different person to get out of jail if they murdered someone they love and then admitted it? Nope.
@treydaypnw10 ай бұрын
The Prosecution was Right in making it a death penalty case. He had zero remorse about killing those women.
@Sniffycloverdale4 ай бұрын
What about the kids?
@AndreaC_3033 ай бұрын
@@Sniffycloverdalethey’re better of with her family, then to live with a murderer!
@SR71GIRL3 ай бұрын
And I'll bet that eventually there would be another victim in the future.
@loyaldogpublishingllc9155 ай бұрын
Hearing the jail calls explains why this man took no accountability in his life”. Listening to his sister act as he is the victim and not having any remorse for the lives that were lost .
@SharpTac11 ай бұрын
"Amazing father"😂😂 How did she say that with a straight face. It's amazing how he murdered their mother.
@joko0901011 ай бұрын
Omg exactly. An amazing father doesn’t engage in chronic domestic violence against the mother and then murder her and her best friend in cold blood FFS.
@MsRose0010 ай бұрын
After harassing her for months!
@Justice-ef9sk10 ай бұрын
@@MsRose00I agree… but STALKING would be a better choice of word to describe his behavior/actions
@sobrietywig297010 ай бұрын
@@Justice-ef9skstalking IS a form of harassment...DUHHH
@shayvidatv11 ай бұрын
Yes ambien and alcohol is a dangerous mix but to blame this senseless murder on that is ridiculous!
@christina5kids16grands11 ай бұрын
Agree. When Ambien was sort of new, I was prescribed it for insomnia - but I also had an alcohol issue at that point in my life. So I mixed the two, and yeah - I was BLITZED. Really loaded. But to use that as an excuse for what he did is nothing but cowardess. There is no way on earth mixing those two would induce murder. No possible way. PS..I got help in 2012 and thank God I’ve been clean and sober since. ❤️ This is a horrible case.
@michellebarron198711 ай бұрын
I don’t drink but do take prescription sleeping pills most nights. I agree it’s no excuse, not even close.
@shawnadeyo11 ай бұрын
Exactly. And he was the one taking ambien and drinking alcohol. It's not like he was forced to mix the combo. Crazy.
@coffeecake180310 ай бұрын
10:56 Where are the kids during all of this?
@rmac539510 ай бұрын
@@coffeecake1803GREAT QUESTION
@Nenernener12311 ай бұрын
Hope the neighbor Mike Dickens has a reality check. Clearly nothing good was coming from that!
@xmateinc3 ай бұрын
Hope he gets sued for everything he has.
@kechiahignight56521 күн бұрын
Disgusting!
@alisonbumstead90175 ай бұрын
You KNOW his family enabled him! His dad was already making excuses for him! SICK family.
@Sali57922 ай бұрын
@@alisonbumstead9017 absolutely! Despicable human
@myunknownland9272Күн бұрын
Sad, as a Christian why did they not teach him that murder is not right. 10 commandments!
@brandymendoza139011 ай бұрын
Dang! The BF just booked it like he missed the school bus!
@sirenict764710 ай бұрын
Heck yeah he did and I don't blame him! Her ex was there to kill him too!
@Capgpro110 ай бұрын
And he survived without physical injury.
@melindapye743510 ай бұрын
Right?! I wonder if he has survivors guilt? Maybe he thought Colley would only shoot him but it sure makes him look like a coward.
@anneamus10 ай бұрын
Coward.
@clarencedolan69910 ай бұрын
@@melindapye7435Makes him look alive. He removed himself from a family situation that was none of his business. She was a booty call and not worth dying over….
@amandapaulsen209611 ай бұрын
It triggers me every time I hear someone call an abuser a “good dad”. Good dads are dads that do not terrorize their wife and children.
@jamiekensington11558 ай бұрын
😢
@FatmanNotFat6 ай бұрын
Wife has nothing to do with being a dad
@CraftsFromHome5 ай бұрын
SAME!!! Then how the lawyer said the abuser was trying to SAVE THE MARRIAGE..UMMM NO
@Midnight-cf9ph5 ай бұрын
@@FatmanNotFatactually it absolutely does. Especially if they’re the mother of your children, you should want to model a healthy relationship for them whether you’re together or not. Ya know, so they don’t grow up thinking abuse is normal and accept the same things they saw their dad doing to their mother. People really be out here trying to justify some of these cases. Not one reason makes any of this okay.
@ClownBlood-pt4sg5 ай бұрын
@@amandapaulsen2096 Any parent who murders the other parent or their own children is a terrible person and parent.
@HingleMacCringleberry11 ай бұрын
James is definitely a narcissist for getting a new girlfriend yet expecting loyalty from his exish-wife and telling his dad that it was all her fault he killed her. He said she won’t let him go but clearly thats not true.
@newworldgrover858811 ай бұрын
It’s called adultery and they both did it…notice that the cheating boyfriend took off faster than speedy Gonzales!
@deewhite79875 ай бұрын
How is it considered cheating if they are going through a divorce and going separate ways? You cannot identify it as cheating. It is simply moving on with her life.
@peanut131910 күн бұрын
Exactly, especially when he was seeing someone else too. What a scumbag. 🙄😔
@m2hnj11 ай бұрын
I just googled and an article from 2018 states that the kids had been in Amanda’s family’s custody since the murders. I hope that continues to be the case!
@queenbandz57078 ай бұрын
I hope that’s true hope they stay with her family!
@xmateinc3 ай бұрын
Yea I hope they dads family wont see them till they are adults.
@lulugracie10 ай бұрын
LADIES - PUT YOURSELF FIRST. Do NOT feel bad for putting your husband in jail or away from the kids when he is obviously capable of hurting you. SAVE YOURSELVES.
@BlackAmericanFlag9 ай бұрын
Or vise versa. Always Ladies and never Ladies and Gents protect yourselves and your kids.
@victorcampos77229 ай бұрын
Not all men do this.
@MarioMartinez-vh4dv9 ай бұрын
How about picking better men
@chiobabe21809 ай бұрын
@@MarioMartinez-vh4dvmost of you are trash
@sjames57779 ай бұрын
@@BlackAmericanFlagit’s probably because in this particular story it was a lady who encounter this unfortunate situation. You are right though…all people need to protect themselves.
@jamief2411 ай бұрын
Wow. His lawyer and family are disgusting. It was a mistake??!! No it wasn’t. Domestic violence never gets better; it only gets worse
@meca238710 ай бұрын
Right! A mistake is buying decaf coffee, not murdering someone
@PamelaGlasgow-ll5ur8 ай бұрын
And…..DV is NEVER an accident 😡 NEVER!!!!
@ek21375 ай бұрын
The neighbor who stalked and reported on Amanda should be tried and then sued by Amanda's family.
@valvodkaАй бұрын
For what?
@jikook745711 ай бұрын
The neighbor aided in their stalking and is complicent in their deaths. How did he even know the guy mowing wasn't hired from a lawn service?
@lizettmclat190311 ай бұрын
People are dangerous they dont think
@jikook745711 ай бұрын
@lizettmclat1903 if the neighbor did it for the "bro code", is he still supporting his "bro, the murderer?"
@johnsmith-ug5tp10 ай бұрын
Lawn service guys dont dress like that and there was no contractor truck/trailer Also, I am sure he saw him in the house and coming and going! ha
@jikook745710 ай бұрын
@johnsmith-ug5tp lol it could've been a friend or coworker's son or nephew. It could've been a guy cutting grass for a side hustle. U've seriously never seen any guy, ever, cutting grass shirtless? Why would u support actions that led to the murders of 2 women?
@twatts152310 ай бұрын
@@jikook7457 It’s not really a common site outside of Florida, to see people mowing the lawn shirtless.
@LoTheGoat11 ай бұрын
I’m so tired of these uncaring 911 operators
@ladymusic333Ай бұрын
Right? I thought the same, I've heard several of them yell at the caller and scold them. Horrible people
@Parismel10 ай бұрын
That entire family MAKES ME SICK
@sbordash032 ай бұрын
"He was an amazing father". An amazing father does not rob his children of the opportunity to grow up with their mother. Period.
@user-oy1fj6vq8f11 ай бұрын
Love the neighbor/friend telling the cops how he told him it’s no big deal…so what…let it go. There was ZERO reason to send that photo except to upset him. Real men protect women. Disgusting.
@Fuzzamajumula10 ай бұрын
I doubt he told him to "let it go". Those text messages didn't say "let it go". That 💩hole was stirring the pot.
@reinanaki64559 ай бұрын
The same person who took the picture and sent it to him SMH
@cocobenj0077 ай бұрын
@@user-oy1fj6vq8f Real men protect woman. That part.
@lmg429310 ай бұрын
His family?? Wow something is wrong with them too! And the neighbor should be held accountable!
@hanhes10 ай бұрын
the neighbor who sent the pictures is prime example of "mind your own business" also, wild how Lamar just ran like a track star without question😭😭😭
@af487210 ай бұрын
And left the women inside the house!
@laure266 ай бұрын
I feel bad because I could believe that he thought he was the target & separated himself but 😬
@profd656 ай бұрын
@@af4872 What happened to equality of the sexes and feminism? What was he supposed to do? Stay and jump in front of the bullets, so the women wouldn't get hit?
@profd656 ай бұрын
Wild how presumably feminist women expect the guy to remain in the house, and get shot.
@KerrieKruegner5 ай бұрын
The neighbors should be charged with stalker Hes is technically stalking her in behalf of the husband watching her coming and goings and invading her privacy
@minini55715 ай бұрын
You’re not an amazing Dad when you destroy your children’s home and terrorize their mother. You don’t deserve to have a relationship with any other humans. Ever.
@kechiahignight56521 күн бұрын
Everything gets drippy bc a parent does their job and calls them amazing; even when they’re selling drugs out of their home. Open your eyes.
@Jay_Bird11 ай бұрын
Ladies, please DO NOT hesitate to have your abuser thrown in jail. Don't save them "because of the kids." If this poor woman had let the deputy arrest him after he broke in and destroyed her home, she would be alive today. These abusers have no thought or care about you, so please protect yourselves and your kids above all else.
@KimmyP81310 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!
@jaybloc648510 ай бұрын
Vise versa
@lunacielo768010 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@Taradise859 ай бұрын
I wish I would have heard this advice 14 years ago with my son and my abusive ex. You are so right. Dont worry about the abusers feelings. Ultimately if they cared about there kid they wouldnt be hurting you
@bjbrown2 ай бұрын
Ladies. Please don't ever let a man talk down to you or make you feel unsafe. That is the end of the relationship. I met a man when I was 57 and he was very charming and nice. He turned into an abusive nightmare and I nearly lost my life. Nothing is worth losing your life, especially a man. Watch for the signs. My first missed sign was when he called his son and said that we had been together for two weeks and hadn't any disagreements. I should have eased out right then. I knew but didn't pay attention. It turned out badly but I am still here and he is in prison .
@jmaples822611 ай бұрын
This is why you need to MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS unless someone is in danger. The neighbor needs to face some type of consequences. Why would you do that?
@johnsmith-ug5tp10 ай бұрын
Like what? I female neighbor would have been snapping pics and sending them to her gf is her husband had some woman doing yard work if she was away. I am 99.9% sure you would have too.
@christinehawkins138210 ай бұрын
@johnsmith-ug5tp The neighbor aided in the killers stalking...the fact you can't see that IS disturbing
@christinehawkins138210 ай бұрын
@johnsmith-ug5tp Man you're a creepy thing 😳
@wakeupluv10 ай бұрын
@johnsmith-ug5tp This isn't about women though and all women aren't the same.
@johnsmith-ug5tp10 ай бұрын
Then stop making it about MEN!@@wakeupluv
@heatherbukowski21028 ай бұрын
These parents who coddle their adult kids who murdered people are... something.
@jenipherambani20225 ай бұрын
That neighbor snooping around and reporting to the aggressor is so cold.He needs to be charged for something!
@valokla1811 ай бұрын
The defense was victim shaming no matter why he did it.
@ashleeb851810 ай бұрын
Yes!! Two mothers murdered in cold blood by a psychopath and the defense is SMILING and justifying it. Garbage.
@Kris10Mel1011 ай бұрын
The neighbor that sent the pic to him is a sorry pos for stirring the pot further knowing she was terrified of him!
@lunacielo768010 ай бұрын
Now he has to live with THAT and the ENTIRE WORLD knows his name!
@RullVox11 ай бұрын
The neighbor that sent him the photo = An instigating busybody.
@stacyhamilton964810 ай бұрын
I can't believe he didn't call 911 though. The other friend left and she did but that dude just ran as far as he could
@sicomode74364 ай бұрын
She wasn’t cheating if they were separated. The neighbor should be charged with SOMETHING. Disgusting.
@Julie-k3t3 ай бұрын
Rubbish. Separated isn't divorced. They were both cheating, but no one should die for that.
@conniekabasharira70843 ай бұрын
@@Julie-k3tseparated is divorced however much the court hasn't decided so. You well know that when it's over it's over
@yvonneerrend821711 ай бұрын
Never comply and get involved with your neighbors!!. This neighbor really had a part in getting the wife killed!!.😮
@formationofwords29011 ай бұрын
The first dispatcher should have called off that day she sounds unprofessional UNBOTHERED and uncaring and TIRED!!!
@chrisgullett433210 ай бұрын
A dispatcher is supposed to sound like that. A dispatcher should always remain calm and show zero emotion. You seem soft
@formationofwords29010 ай бұрын
@@chrisgullett4332 BS! when it's YOUR loved one say the same thing and hope for the best!!! That is INCORRECT!
@chrisgullett433210 ай бұрын
@@formationofwords290 I would say the same. The 'if it's you loved one' is an unintelligent argument. Again, a dispatcher is not supposed to show any emotion, because they have a job to do. They are literally doing multiple tasks at once while on a call. They are not only alerting different departments, they are typing specific details to each department.. A dispatcher getting emotional is a quick way to lose their job. Grow up!
@formationofwords29010 ай бұрын
@@chrisgullett4332 YOu are a complete 🤡 Chris! Of course you're not supposed to show too much emotion but she is required to get as much INFORMATION as possible!
@formationofwords29010 ай бұрын
@@chrisgullett4332 BOTH of your responses are UNINTELLIGIBLE thoughts and arguments don't you EVER become a dispatcher because YOU are just as CLUELESS as the first clueless one.SMH.
@briannefowler10 ай бұрын
1. Her neighbor meddled and put her life in worse danger. 2. Her boyfriend ran for his own life instead of trying to save her. 3. Her husband killed her. Literally all the men around this woman failed her in every way. Sickening.
@cordeyj544910 ай бұрын
How could the boyfriend save her? Her husband had a gun the bf was unarmed. What you wanted him to do try to fight the damn bullets
@Sofiane-ld6du9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 true Also women always want their friends to be divorced and single and miserable like themselves No woman wants her friend happier than her
@nicoleespino86309 ай бұрын
@@cordeyj5449no but they had a better chance of all running outside…. ;( tragic 💔
@AlGrant-bh9or9 ай бұрын
He was a boyfriend, mowed the lawn, got some tail. Don't bring fists to a gunfight.
@Iamnotyourcis9 ай бұрын
@@nicoleespino8630 sure…
@Dream-wu4bn4 ай бұрын
What a neighbor to send pictures....It is wild out here...
@hungirl69cz2310 ай бұрын
He is a narcissist, he had a girlfriend, but he didn’t want Amanda to have anyone! 😡 The neighbor should go to prison too! 😡
@PaolaSanchez-hc5my6 ай бұрын
Nah. Why?
@sharonburnham59456 ай бұрын
@@PaolaSanchez-hc5my For provoking a crazy person...he knew that would provoke a crazy man going through a divorce..nothing but the devil..
@Ilene-pz8fp6 ай бұрын
@@PaolaSanchez-hc5mythe neighbor should be sued for wrongful death.
@PaolaSanchez-hc5my6 ай бұрын
@@Ilene-pz8fp Did the neighbor kill anyone?
@Ilene-pz8fp6 ай бұрын
@@PaolaSanchez-hc5my the neighbor participated. It referred to as contributory negligence.
@JoeyLloydPhotography11 ай бұрын
That 911 operator and that judge both need to be fired and in jail.
@jaysonwallerisacriminal331411 ай бұрын
Why the judge?
@JoeyLloydPhotography11 ай бұрын
Because that judge gave him a slap on the wrist during the domestic hearing @@jaysonwallerisacriminal3314
@lunacielo768010 ай бұрын
The judge is not at fault!
@LifeWnikk11 ай бұрын
12 months of unsupervised probation for breaking and entering and burning someone’s belongings?!!!!
@NotSoNormal198711 ай бұрын
What a weak consequence
@KimmyP81310 ай бұрын
And don't forget breaking a restraining order!!!
@wakeupluv10 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!
@duancoviero975910 ай бұрын
Florida!
@candicehenry82625 ай бұрын
Half way in this video and the call from jail with his family is sickening!!