Lazy Girl Habits to DITCH to become a Disciplined BOSS Woman

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[@a777maya]

1. creating lists & written plans, 2. cell phones are keeping you lazy, 3. vitamin d might inspire you, 4. enough with the victim mindset, 5. stop seeking approval, 6.choose your hard, 7. romanticize your routines🔥

[@carlaogwude2561]

God bless youuuu for this

[@CreativelyPhoenix]

😂 thank you

[@mzeastcoastgirl390]

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[@christinethetherapist8878]

Thanks was able to screenshot

[@lifewithkashmeere]

hunny that number one is one thing ima always do keep a few master list for everything to take the load off myself i keep like at least 2 planners too

[@jadaswindle8564]

I use my phone so much less now and I’ve also stopped making myself feel like I’m obligated to answer my phone every time it goes off. It’s a form of self care for me now. If I don’t feel like talking or responding, I don’t. It made me realize how much of a distraction my phone and my iPad were.

[@mmowec8159]

Right there with you!

[@KayMarsha.]

Yes I agree. Taking time for yourself is so important

[@cecesopretty]

So glad to see I’m not the only one who feels this way.. ❤

[@ibstayfly]

Exactly same here

[@KMA823]

This entire video and this comment was me exactly. Crazy how phone addiction can really be it for people including myself. I was constantly within seconds replying to emails and texts soon as they came in. The part where you said “if I don’t feel like talking or responding I don’t”. That is an entire form of self care because honestly sometimes you’re just not in a space to respond nmw the msg is. I literally had a falling out with a friend over this because of “leaving their msg on read” (mind you no read receipts on💀😂) but people with this addiction that don’t realize it and fix it will never understand it.

[@blazesiddy]

"being a victim of your reality will truly hold you back from growing" that hit me so good I needed to hear that!

[@kbkormega]

Something I noticed in this video is that a lot of the tips you gave are similar to those given to people with neurodivergency, specifically people with ADHD. I think a lot of the discipline advice we get from neurotypical people is to remove any and all distractions in order for you to get certain tasks done, however, for many neurodivergent people, a lot of those behaviors can be under-stimulating and actually make things more difficult, so I especially like the tips about romanticizing tasks to make them more enjoyable to do.

[@kassandramorris9741]

Yesssss

[@raimeyrae1278]

i have a problem with expecting too much productivity from myself and becoming overwhelmed to the point of total laziness.

[@DigitaITrapping-zu]

Girl don’t judge yourself, would you like to talk bout it in private?

[@astranova777]

Yes! The phone is an issue sometimes with the instant dopamine, so when you feel like crap you go for the phone. But the dompamine payoff of achieving a goal is sooo much better. I have to remind myself though

[@Chloestallion]

As a perpetual procrastinator and lazy perfectionist this video presented with me! I'm going to be much more conscious of applying your tips! Thnx great video ❤

[@mimiasmr6720]

The victim hood part instantly spoke. Made me cry. It was firm and straightforward but gentle at the same time. I KNOW I was meant to hear that. Wow thank you.❤

[@shaquana_]

It’s 3AM and this is the video I needed to see. Just a nudge to myself to get back on my self awareness flow and I love the reminder to romanticize my routines. Thanks Hailey!

[@lifewithkashmeere]

its 6 am for me this was right on time i needed a great word to pick me up

[@Theresa_A4]

This is so so important!!! I came to the realization too that discipline has nothing to do with how good it feels. It’s about what you know you have to do to get to your goals

[@KayMarsha.]

I agree

[@Just_Keish]

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Hailey you never disappoint. You’re never about the BS & always about getting your sh!t together. I enjoy your content and as a 45 year old woman it’s so refreshing to see a young lady grow into a classy, confident, knowledgeable woman with standards & morals. I hope for nothing but the best for you and your growth.

[@athyar1531]

I can’t thank you enough for making this video. It seems like EVERYONE else is talking about working too hard and needing to rest meanwhile I’m over here feeling guilty for not doing enough. I felt too ashamed to even start because of this. But seeing you talk so openly about your lazy era and how you overcame it took away the shame and gives me hope. Thank you so much! This is my first video of yours and I absolutely love your genuineness and authenticity! Instantly subscribed!!

[@symphonyonsax]

See idk if I’m lazy or if it’s just my ADHD. I DONT EVEN KNOW

[@lydjoy3385]

you are so right about the outside thing. I live in a beautiful gated apartment complex and we have so many walking paths/lakes. i've lived there for a year and hardly ANYONE is outside. it's absolutely insane

[@UcheOny]

This video just came at the right time! I just got done with law school exams yesterday and I already feel lighter and ready to pour back into myself with these tips! What you said about laziness being the result of overstimulation couldn't be more true, that's how I've felt the past few weeks with so much on my plate but today I feel energized :) I also have ADHD so I love that you touched on how that affects things as well. ❤

[@yesitsneema]

You're the big sister who's always telling us the hard truth we need to hear. Sometimes I hate how you even provide solutions, really not letting us settle for less 😂😂😂 A big thank you, Hailey. Thank you for pulling yourself out of your lazy girl hole- we wouldn't have experienced you otherwise. And even more thanks for sharing your wisdom with us ❤❤

[@Thelavishlylana]

I needed this TODAY! I was using my phone for devotionals or mediation music now I just grab my bible and have Alexa play music because I would fine myself unconsciously scrolling smh

[@bujotime]

How does this come at the PERFECT time for my lazy ass with exams coming up in a month and summer around the corner?? This is another reason why you're my fav youtuber!! Thank you!

[@merazhroberts]

I'm going to show this to my daughter. She's super lazy and she graduates on the 1st of June. She doesn't want to go to college and she suffers from depression and anxiety . Doesn't even want to come outside at all Andis very rebellious. So I feel she needs to watch this. Thank you for touching on this subject 🙏 Love your channel ❤️

[@user-fc2xk3uv8y]

thank you for caring about your daughter instead of just punishing her and coming at her with no understanding edit: typo

[@shaylove6499]

Your daughter sounds like me at that age (for reference I’m 22 now). No one ever sat me down and tried to see where my head was at. I felt like no one one cared, truly because the right questions weren’t being asked and proper advice wasn’t being given. My mom and I’s relationship wasn’t the best either, which didn’t help with the depression. Instead of labeling her, try to understanding why it is that your daughter seems to be isolating herself yet acting out.

[@adrionabella]

thank you so much. this video helped me realize there’s nothing really WRONG with me, i’m just burnt out. i need to implement these tips because if i allow myself to continue doing nothing all day, i will be choosing the WRONG hard. I will get myself out of this slump if i actually get myself up and out in the sun etc. thank you so much❤ you’re so awesome

[@destinieleach584]

For the beginning 2:13 when you were talking about fruits of your labor. Your parents didn’t enjoy the fruits of their labor so much because they didn’t work hard for themselves, they did it for you, and you were enjoying the fruits of their labor.

[@vonnahsimone]

a pajama ad for a "stop being lazy" video feels like an attack lmaoooo. love you hailey

[@tumelosebego8682]

thank you so much for this Hailey 🙂 i am struggling so much with laziness and everything you said just makes perfect sense

[@meganvazquez6176]

Just watching this video 6 months later. I actually just deleted my social media the other day to hold myself accountable and change my mindset

[@MariaRivera-mz2ix]

Brought to tears when you mentioned letting go of the victim mindset. For me personally is it scary to accept what has happened in the past and moving forward. It's something that needs to happen tho so I can thrive and become the successful person I know I can be. Thank you for such wonderful advice! 💕

[@JasmineNicoleCogdell]

Hailey, I love these weekly videos. As a life coach and content creator, I seriously take notes. I took 3 pages worth on this video! Thank you for all the life changing content you put out for us 💗

[@lifewithkashmeere]

same girl ( im not a life coach) but i did have my pen and notebook out always do sometimes it just sinks deeper for me and my mental glad to know im not the only one

[@JasmineNicoleCogdell]

@@lifewithkashmeere YES! I feel like I retain the information better and take it seriously by going the extra mile and taking notes! We are exposed to a lot of great wisdom but it often disappears because we don’t have anything to remind us of it, so I heard you’re more likely to execute your goals, etc if you write things down! Nice to meet you Beautiful Kashmeere! 🤗🩷👑

[@thereviewer2494]

Love this video Hailey. Currently battling laziness and these tips are shaking me!

[@CocoKall]

I have never related so much to a video and this is everything I needed to hear! I’m tired of being lazy and this is so helpful!!

[@healthyInsideOut]

Hunty…. you are my spirit person! I wholeheartedly support everything you’ve mentioned & am very thankful you chose to share it with us. It means a lot to hear someone dealing with the same struggles give advice on how they’ve overcame. My problem is finishing what I’ve started. I only pray that once I start I can continue without giving up until I see solid results. Thanks again!❤

[@chinyereogazi]

i love this concept! but people remember its OK. to not do absolutely something all the time as long as your not hurting anyone,in her case it was depression and she wanted out it.we live in a go go go society,and that anxiety to have to be doing something can also cause depression,do what your heart feels.

[@angelica1210]

I've been a silent watcher of yours since foreverrrrr but you literally spoke to my soul with this video lol and you're absolutely right. Our phones are keeping us captive from enjoying our lives and I'm guilty at spending way more time than needed on my phone than doing the things I need to get done. Thank you for the inspiration and the motivation ✨😩 and I'm so proud of how far you've come! 💛

[@lifewithkashmeere]

same im a big silent watcher i play these great videos while im cooking or cleaning love her videos

[@Reyrey_xo]

This came at a perfect time and I wrote down all the tips and even put my own tidbits that would help me understand what I need to do. The pajama sets were so cute and simple. I have a new goal set for payday ❤

[@AoKajii]

Honestly one of the rare videos I actually find helpful. You are able to put words on things I wasn't able to, thank you. I'll definitely come back here when I'll need a boost ❤️

[@vavavogue4070]

Thank you for this video. I am going through a slump right now because I feel like my life is not where I planned it to be. I found myself just staring at my phone (on all social media platforms) for hours just letting the day pass me by. This was definitely making me depressed. Thank you for sharing and please provide details on your top, super cute 🥰

[@chynawilson2140]

This is my current life. I’ve been trying to get out of my victim mindset for a couple months now. And I’ve been trying to be more productive. Video is very very relatable thank you for your advice 🫶🏾

[@katiana7772]

This video is so helpful to many young people! Thank you for sharing this, beautiful.

[@boob3subs581]

Just found your channel and I love the way you deliver the message, not mean or condescending but very understanding not in a super sappy way :)) thank you !!

[@kayemarieonline]

As a 34 year old women I must say this was extremely motivating! You are super dope and wise! Loved the video and content!💗💗

[@yaonlyexception]

This video was so relatable. Thank you for sharing💚

[@kbkormega]

Hi Hailey, I really enjoyed this video and related to a lot of what you said, and it hit me deeper than I expected it would. For me, A lot of the issues I had with "laziness" and executive functioning actually had to do with me having ADHD. As a woman, you are more likely to be diagnosed late due to our symptoms presenting differently. Essentially, if you don't have issues the way that little boys do with behavior in class, girls are often overlooked. Women tend to have the inattentive type of ADHD, and that's what I was diagnosed with in my junior year of high school. Since then I've learned a lot about myself and my type of ADHD, and it has informed my approach to how I do things a lot now, like setting cues, taking smaller steps so tasks don't seem as daunting, talking/coaching myself out of certain behaviors to give me a kick in the ass and keeping my phone far away in the mornings. However, something I've struggled with is unlearning that I was "lazy". A lot of the times in our culture, any issue you may have with keeping up with responsibilities throughout adolescent and adulthood are seen as an active decision to underperform and a moral failing. In my experience, unlearning some of the negative beliefs and assumptions people that were ingrained in me throughout my school career have helped me a lot in rebuilding my confidence and making it easier for me to motivate myself to do things. I say all of that to say I enjoyed this video a lot and appreciated all of the tips you gave, and this video and some of your others, especially your end of year clean up video from last December remind me a lot of myself and what works for me in helping keep my life in order.

[@haileygamba]

Thank you for sharing your story! You’re doing amazing ❤

[@user-fc2xk3uv8y]

im afab with the hyperactive type and i was never seen as having adhd. i was annoying and hyper, even a weirdo and a bitch but never disabled. its crazy! going to the doctor and having to ask "if i was a man with these symptoms would you say that to me" every time is so aggravating

[@se2664]

so how did you get diagnosed with ADHD in adulthood? Did you get frustrated with doing tasks and decided to visit a psychiatrist?

[@mirrawashington6637]

I clicked so fast but I had to realize I’m not lazy I use all my energy to survive 😢

[@janiaamenra3484]

That’s the thing. It’s THISSSSS but the tips are still very helpful

[@goddessvibez7954]

First time viewer! Spirit just knew I needed to watch✨ I truly appreciate this⭐️

[@mariahmonet2308]

“taking on nothing freezes me from the experience of caring what people think” I love that Hailey

[@officiallydenni]

I have binged all of your new content THE CHANGE IS REAL! You embodied your higher self and it looks fabulous on you! Im inspired to KEEP GOING!

[@gabriellesudal9004]

i b so depressed w no energy- the struggle is real😭😭😭

[@alexismays6013]

This video was so incredibly helpful and spot on! Depression can come from just not doing something you’re happy about, I feel like that some days and don’t know why but hearing you talk about that actually makes sense! Thanks for sharing 💕 looking forward to incorporating some of these changes

[@aishanicholee]

ive been HOPING for a vid like this the past couple weeks omg. you always come at the right time for me🧡

[@arshdhillon2423]

Your vibe is so pure and angelic 🩷🫶🧿✨

[@nayawritesss]

This was the video I needed, like a real life therapy session.

[@dr.orderz557]

Needed this been dealing with a lot and hard to be productive…. Thank you for the motivation !!

[@msashleirae]

I've always felt like or should I say have made out to feel almost bad for wanting/needing to romanticize my everyday life. In the beginning you mentioned your family, and I feel like mine is a cause of laziness. Having a family that use to be ambitious and have so many ambitions, to letting one circumstance happen throughout their life to cause them to just be complacent with life makes it feel less motivating to want to get things done or make a better life for myself. And being called lazy all my life since I was little girl, has always led me to having a victim mindset. But all in all, I'm working on it day by day. It's definitely easier said than done somedays... but I appreciate watching your videos to help reassure myself that there is light at the the end of this lazy girl tunnel lol. Thanks 💓

[@syuhadanordin3651]

ive never heard of the term the victim mindset. tbh i feel like the victim mindset has hold me down from doing and achieving a lot of stuff. thank you for this video

[@pilkingtonp79]

Again, FANTASTIC advice! Thank you for taking the time to put all of these thoughts together. Young girls really need to hear all this, and adults too!

[@codiephillips7889]

The cellphone ruining your life point is sooo accurate, ditched it in the mornings for my meditation and stretch, and to get a good chug of water in - i feel connecting this way connects me to myself and fills my cup up first instead of leaving me riddled with anxiety because I have my energy to 20 different things on my phone first thing. Thanks for always providing the big sis advice we need ❤

[@cubanmamiii]

Yessss I love this 🫶🏼🧡🧡🧡

[@herlifequotes]

I needed to see this video so much. I've been struggling to do my university coursework for a long while and this really gave me the kick up the ass I needed. I tend to be a perfectionist procrastinator, which can be a blessing and a curse, but in the end, it builds up stress. I'm so glad i came across this video when I did.

[@MySame18]

Thank you so much for this!! Im 24 doing my best to get my shit together. A day at a time it takes and definitely some words of encouragement like this from someone who knows how you feel. Again my love. Thank you.💖

[@lx9414]

Hailey you were sent from God himself! You have no idea how many lives you have impacted, how after I pray becuse im in a rut and in the DEPTHS of laziness and an unfufilling life I run to your videos. Love you always

[@MompreneurLady]

Geeez!!! This hits tooo close to home!!! Thanks Girl!💕💗💕

[@miaconyer4155]

I really appreciate this video. Thank you! ❤

[@LidkaElena]

Your videos are truly amazing! I understand you don’t take the compliments to heart but I wanted to say this anyways ❤

[@briezzybana4660]

So Happy you Posted!! really needed this!

[@7CHY]

This is one of thee best videos I have ever come across. I think you may have just completely changed my life for the better

[@brianamarieJ]

Thank you girl I needed this. What really spoke to me was choose your hard. WOW! So small but but so big!

[@mbbaby]

gurl you made me while watching this video to get up and wipe my makeup off, do my night skin care routine lol. love you queen ❤️🧚🏻.

[@Goldengirl88]

I’ve been slacking with my nighttime skin care routine , I’m going to try to romanticize it like she said.

[@taejahnicole1528]

Awnnn I hope you continue to grow this video taught me so much and made me aware of what I can do better in my days especially while I am out of school.

[@OhHeyNicky]

A video that couldn't have came at a better time. Its so easy to get stuck and caught up about life and what others say or do but in the end it's all about what we think about ourselves and how we want to go about that life. "Speak things into existence and stop listening to the noise." Love this

[@Jazz-zy2rj]

2:44 speaking directly to my spirit right now

[@sugarbriel195]

The irony of it all is what actually take most of my time Is NOVELS. I was thinking about deleting my novel apps and the thought just scared me.

[@ev6564]

I love novels too. KZbin takes too much of my time, ironically

[@yesitsneema]

You could try using novels as a reward, rather than deleting your novel apps altogether- as a reader, I trust you know the numerous benefits of reading. So instead of reading first thing in the morning, read only after you've finished a task. It really works, especially if the last chapter was a cliffhanger and you HAVE to know what happens next 😅😂 You could even relate the number of chapters to the difficulty of the task at hand- if you had to finish a difficult assignment in 3 hours, you could read 5 chapters. Clean your room? 3 chapters. And so on. This way, you get things done, using the very same novels that were once a distraction. Wishing you all the best 😊

[@key2urheartg907]

When I say this video was meant for me!!! That victim mentality really hits home, I have to move past it and start living my life. U spoke so much truth! Thank You!

[@JC-xq6hg]

This video was so needed, thank you ❤

[@therealceykaoir]

YOUR SO FREAKING FIRE FOR THIS 🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@carlibrooks1586]

Loved this video. Would love to see more of your every day routine!

[@xstellar3484]

Just found your channel. I’m on my healing journey and getting my sh%t together. 💚 We got this!

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Would you like to talk about it privately?

[@xstellar3484]

@@DigitaITrapping-zu for sure and how

[@itgirltai]

appreciate you so much Hailey! you’re literally a gem! 💕

[@KEYSHYcalinou]

Wow this video was made for me, this is exactly me. I am strugglig to go away from this situation in my life. I can’t wait.

[@candashiamcdonald9214]

You’re so real for this video, I needed to hear a lot of the things. The cellphone thing and the victim mindset heavy

[@acoupleofkays]

I've watched this video like 5 times in full since I found it, and everytime I watch it, I Iearn something new

[@shyannkirby1164]

This was exactly what I needed to hear. I thank you for this video.

[@Sittnprettyreads]

Wow I needed this the life I am creating is ditching lazy life to productivity and boss lady. Thank you. Definitely will add you to my list of what helped me change my life

[@kellly4982]

for some reason this video popped on as soon as i unlocked my phone 😂 this is my sign

[@ttmoore8750]

same, my phone is a prison sometimes and I'm actually putting off doing stuff until the last moment to prove to myself that I can actually do it in less time. I'm actually challenging myself to wake-up before 6am each day and get sh*t done until October 7th 2023.

[@Sittnprettyreads]

I feel like I go through moments of highs and lows ready to take on everything I have in mind and then I slip into a depression and become lazy. I am stuck in the house I strongly dislike my environment it could be worse I’m thankful but I want more. I’m 34 and just tryna to ditch the bs I preach to others. But I got this 🙏 thank you 😊

[@realsidehustleideas]

I feel like you were speaking directly to me. Can relate to all! Thank you for the reminder that I can take control of my life.

[@Ninagottii]

New subscriber ! Thank you. I feel like your a big sis / bestie just giving us advice. Its Sunday and I'm ready to not be a LAZY GIRL 💖

[@Arealurbanmom]

Sis this video is EVERYTHING! It can be on repeat for sure 💯 you really spoke the truth thank you for being transparent.

[@lias.toaster]

I loved this one! It wasn’t too fast and the movements were simple enough for me to go at my own space and lay the way I need to!

[@India-lz5di]

Thank you for this video. Definitely motivation❤

[@SR-mv2mf]

That lavender color looks so good on you

[@jewelorjewell]

I am literally full of gratitude after watching this video. You have touched on everything! The shift of perspective I experienced while watching is truly remarkable! Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and knowledge with us. 💗

[@TheButterBrand]

Hailey: ditch the cell phone use in the morning and at night… Me: watching this video at 8:47am…😆 Great tips as usual! 💯 thank you for these types of videos. I definitely stand on going outside to get some ☀️ it definitely helps to rejuvenate me when I’m feeling lazy

[@aditikatbamna]

Appreciate this Hailey!

[@majag9722]

This is such a great video, i love your mindset! This is almost making me tear up

[@roaming1996]

Perfect timing ! I never thought how constant rumination in my head was literally making me tired

[@yoparvs]

I related to the entire video. It hit hard. Thank you for making it. This is something I really needed.

[@jasmineali913]

NGL, it’s been quite a while since I watched your channel but yt recommended it and I will say you have grown a lot since I was last watching your videos

[@mon33333]

Thank you for this Hailey. I truly need it and appreciate it. Thank you for being vulnerable too, I relate so much to the victim mentality mindset and having to get out of this funk

[@wendyayebale8979]

I was REALLY able to relate to everything. I’m definitely subscribing. Finally found someone I can listen to during traffic hours .

[@justjasminee8706]

I took notes on your videos. and GIRL your advice made me want to jump out the bed and get it together all at once

[@dedethepositive1]

I love this and needed this. Thank you Queen!