Learn How To Cold Approach That Will Actually Get You Results. (Not What You Think)

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@Magicmayaa
@Magicmayaa Ай бұрын
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@twigmasta
@twigmasta Ай бұрын
I found my wife by ignoring women for 8 years, untill she simply approached me. She wanted to know my name. Pretty simple. I would never want somebody that plays any kind of game, or uses dating tactics from the internet lol. Simply state what you want, with no manipulation, and im all ears.
@NathanHaynie
@NathanHaynie Ай бұрын
I wouldn’t have ever given a woman my name. Just walked away
@twigmasta
@twigmasta Ай бұрын
@NathanHaynie My girl loves her father, loves men in general, and hates feminism. She truly understands. You have no idea how fun it is, to date someone who enjoys triggering feminists with you. Lol. You just gotta wait to find the right one bro!!
@NathanHaynie
@NathanHaynie Ай бұрын
@@twigmasta your right I don’t. It’s not worth it for me to take the risk hoping to get that diamond in the rough. I have been abstinent for going on 2 years and enjoying my peace. Does it such? Yes. But modern day women are not to be trusted. Some might say they don’t believe in feminism and hook ya. Then they start acting like a psycho. Not worth wasting my time
@NathanHaynie
@NathanHaynie Ай бұрын
@@twigmasta your right I don’t know what that’s like. I don’t know what It’s like to actually be loved by a woman and I don’t want to take the risk to find out. I am 42 and in shape not a bad looking guy but I have been nothing but used as an atm, a boy toy, controlled and manipulated and now that i am free, I am staying that way. I am not playing their head games. Some will say they are against feminism, then they wait till after they have you hooked and then all that changes.
@twigmasta
@twigmasta Ай бұрын
@NathanHaynie well Luke I said I was single ignoring women for 8 years, and 5 of those years was developing a friendship with my girl before we decided to be together. I observed her actions for years, even declined her romantically long before she proved to be consistent. My rule of thumb was not to date feminists, divorced women, women that wear makeup, tattoo women, women with children ect. My girl has Cristian values, and is super hot despite not wearing makeup. She drives a 2000 Volvo, has all antique furniture, and isn't high maintenance. She has long hair, dresses modestly like a lady. Ect. Bro we literally watch red pill content and laugh at 304 culture together. She's a video game nerd, so we spend weekends in alot. Haha. I'm just average myself. Literally going bald. You just need to find a good hearted nerd like I did.
@howtodrawcomicsnet
@howtodrawcomicsnet Ай бұрын
Great video! Women and Men need to hear this - The ability to socialize in general is becoming a dying art form.
@nickcalderone75
@nickcalderone75 Ай бұрын
100% agree! (sadly)
@twigmasta
@twigmasta Ай бұрын
Its not not masculine to let women approach. Ladies asked for this. Guys listen, your not less of a man to not approach a women. They made this mess. They need to make videos for women. Its not our problem to fix.
@royaladamx
@royaladamx Ай бұрын
Any man that thinks it's a woman's job to fix anything then you have lost the concept of masculinity. Us men are the fixers of the world , fix yourself first and don't look to women for anything.if you can do that I promise you, you will have more women than your hearts desire.
@generalblackblood3693
@generalblackblood3693 Ай бұрын
Cold approaching is literally THE worst way to get to know a woman. Women love it because it’s an ego boost but they also get that same ego boost when she rejects you. Unless you are an Uber Chad you will be rejected every time and the woman will get a dopamine buzz from rejecting you. Just don’t do it.
@samphelps856
@samphelps856 Ай бұрын
When you practice a sport in the rain, you're a superstar in the dry. Get in the lion's den so the lions pen is a cakewalk.
@bustedcookout1574
@bustedcookout1574 Ай бұрын
Then become and Uber Chad
@Cee_Eff
@Cee_Eff Ай бұрын
​@samphelps856 Been practicing for years, but God blessed me with the ick...not sure how much more practicing getting rejected will make me a superstar in the dry
@UserRobot215
@UserRobot215 Ай бұрын
Cold approaching is now considered creepy and harassment
@michaelcox7586
@michaelcox7586 Ай бұрын
I'll pass.. they're no longer worth it... but I love your spirit!
@fergoka
@fergoka Ай бұрын
They are worth it but not in the West...And if you actually get someone who is worth it, consider yourself winning the lottery.
@maskedman5657
@maskedman5657 Ай бұрын
​@@fergoka No they are especially not worth it in the west
@fergoka
@fergoka Ай бұрын
@@maskedman5657 That's what I said.
@fergoka
@fergoka Ай бұрын
@@maskedman5657 That's what I said.
@twigmasta
@twigmasta Ай бұрын
Just think of all the good video games you need to catch up on. Lol. Time better spent😅
@highcy1
@highcy1 Ай бұрын
Men stopped cold approaching because women used it against us and we took that privilege away and knew women would want it like it used to be but we gotta hold the line until women smarten the hell up as a collective, until that shift happens it ain't happening, for me at least
@nickn657
@nickn657 Ай бұрын
Respectfully, if yall were so happy being single and think women aren’t worth it then you wouldn’t be clicking on a video about cold approaching. Yes it can be uncomfortable and we can get rejected but at least we don’t have to worry about periods or childbirth lol
@bonorton5870
@bonorton5870 Ай бұрын
i only cold approach if i get a choosing signal if a girl looking at me alot fixing her hair while staring at me it's best to look your best keep your weight down hit the gym and be on Semen Retention to get a girl attention unless you already a pretty boy you got chris brown looks.
@Matticus-mb6wl
@Matticus-mb6wl Ай бұрын
Don't worry and just do. If it doesn't work, try try again.
@maskedman5657
@maskedman5657 Ай бұрын
@Matticus-mb6wl Nah fam this ain't it. Just don't cold approach in general. Unless you getting heavy signals
@Matticus-mb6wl
@Matticus-mb6wl Ай бұрын
No fear, I just meet friends wherever I go. If something develops out of that great. If not, be happy with yourself. Cheers my friend.
@shawn6306
@shawn6306 Ай бұрын
i may be a male but i have to be competely honest no thanks i'm good this is why i rather stay single forever i love embrace being single for the rest of my life i don't like to be told what to do being force peer pressure to do certain things i don't wanna do just to impress improve because i disagree with your advice that's why i thumbs down this video i don't resonate anything your saying at all but at the sametime i respect your honestly i just want to stay true to myself by being my real true self because i don't want to be certain way by being someone that i'm not it won't make me happy at all i love embrace being shy, weak, lazy, boring, good boy by being my real true self i think being shy weird being my real true actual self is so underrated i think that's a good natural thing not a bad thing i think there is nothing wrong if some choose to be shy, weak, weird, good boy by being difference i don't wanna be confident, strong and bad boy i think being bad boy, confident and stronge is overrated this video is not for me i just rather follow my heart gut instincts think for myself do what makes me happy by being my real true self
@fergoka
@fergoka Ай бұрын
If someone is not successful with women, it is me. Mostly because I just simply ignore them and I'm not that young. But women don't go for bad boys because they are bad. They have looks or earnings or a ,,fun'' lifestyle on their sides. Wome would prefer a good man with all those but they compromise if they have to.
@royaladamx
@royaladamx Ай бұрын
I can tell you have been hurt but I'm sorry you don't get to play victim. No one wants to be single forever. Us men can't give up. We have to band together and fix things because that is what God made us to do. So get your life together and let's do this 💪
@mafp22w
@mafp22w Ай бұрын
Eve was brought to Adam. Not the other way around.
@Chris-hp2gg
@Chris-hp2gg Ай бұрын
The juice isn't worth the squeeze.😂
@randallthomas5207
@randallthomas5207 Ай бұрын
I have ADHD, with an overlay of Autism. Sometimes things come out without being filtered. Current girlfriend, I went charging into the lumberyard, five minutes before closing, and she was standing behind the counter. I meant to ask her where the screws I needed were at. Opened, my mouth, and out came, “Damn girl, if you aren’t cuter than a speckled pup, and looking like you’d be way more fun to cuddle up with on a cold winter night. Can we go to dinner, and see if we get along, and want to take things further.” She smiled, and said sure. 18-years later we’re still getting along, and working on the further.
@lonwestover
@lonwestover Ай бұрын
Love you with basically NO MAKEUP!
@GeoffGaul
@GeoffGaul Ай бұрын
Love it Maya. Great advice. Thanks a lot!
@mdhazeldine
@mdhazeldine Ай бұрын
I don't bother with cold approach because the odds of success are so low, it doesn't seem worth the time and effort. I am looking for a woman with quite specific qualities, and just going up to random strangers on the street doesn't seem like a very good method. I wish dating apps were better at letting you filter for certain interests and personality types, but that doesn't generate money for them apparently, so they just focus on looks (what a stupid world we live in). I prefer to meet women in a more warm approach type situation, for example common interest groups, like classes or church. Where you at least know you will have something in common from the get go.
@sanjusimon1912
@sanjusimon1912 Ай бұрын
Hi Maya, I dont want to approach. I strongly believe sex energy to be transmuted to spiritual energy and could use it only for progeny. ( To bring a Soul to this earth whom God intends).So I am willing to accept a woman whom Universe intends. If not I will adopt 2 children and will transmute my entire energy to my Soul. God bless you abundantly, great lady 😊
@JeanPaulFernandes
@JeanPaulFernandes Ай бұрын
and how exactly are you to meet this women the Universe intends? Someone must approach the other and usually it's the male- and some ladies may be waiting for you to approach but you don't accept the opportunity that the Universe/God may be giving you. Anyway, let me practice what I preach and try to talk to this girl that has been giving me the eye a few weeks now :)
@sanjusimon1912
@sanjusimon1912 Ай бұрын
@@JeanPaulFernandes Bro,the most important factor is it is very difficult to find a lady who is willing to practice Brahmacharya even after marriage. I strongly believe in Hindu religious core that sex energy is for strengthening the Soul as well as only for progeny and not for pleasure. Yes, if I find a girl with same thoughts , I will accept her. Only if God wants .Thinking or talking with lust is against the principle of Brahmacharya. All the best, God bless you bro ☆
@Healthandwealth9422
@Healthandwealth9422 Ай бұрын
The most important and crucial thing to understand is that you shouldn’t overthink the conversation and you should let the conversation flow naturally
@smiles7631
@smiles7631 Ай бұрын
I'm not sure if other men will relate to this but I'll tell you my story. I'm pretty fearless with most things in life. I've raced drag bikes and cars, worked on cell towers for many years, shot all kinds of guns, rode wheelies on my motorcycle over 100 mph. I've never been able to approach a woman I was attracted to out in the world. I always met a girl through friends. I see guys make it look easy. Most of them are good looking guys and women seem hypnotized. I mean I think I got a set down there. But I guess they go hide when I see an attractive girl. I'm trying to get the courage up, but I need a 100% its ok look or I won't go there. Maybe I have some deep rooted fear of women for some reason. I haven't really been treated the best by them so maybe its subconscious. One thing I keep seeing is women will look my way but once I see them they look away real quick. Does this mean they have a boyfriend or something? Or they just shy? Maybe I scare them? Thanks Maya for the video.
@j3ffn4v4rr0
@j3ffn4v4rr0 Ай бұрын
I would NOT pay attention at all to the overly visible examples of the "good looking guy who makes it look easy".....these examples are actually the outliers which seem common only because they are obvious on the surface. In truth...it's not easy. It is always a risk! There is always the chance she will say "no"...but what actually is at stake? A stranger's opinion of you?? If you wait for a "100% okay signal" from a woman, well how often has that actually worked? My suggestion is don't worry so much about what something "means" and take an action based on your own desire and decision instead. BUT...yes, if she is looking and quickly looks away when you notice (especially multiple times) then she is giving you an invitation. You could say yes, it's because she's shy or scared...of course she is, because EVERYONE faces these same risks. "OMG will the other person accept meeee???"
@maskedman5657
@maskedman5657 Ай бұрын
@smiles7631 No need to be fearless. None of us are. Just don't cold approach
@seanm996
@seanm996 Ай бұрын
Yeah this resonates with me man. While I'm not quite the adrenaline junkie, I was always doing crazy stuff on mountain bikes in my early days, shot all kinds of guns (to the extent you can in Australia...) and today therapy for me is rev matching my old analogue car every day... But while all those hobbies are cool, and I won't ever go back to an automatic, there's something different about approaching a cute woman. Something I've only done less than a dozen times in my life. My first few times were very shaky. I was a bit too excited and didn't have enough experience. Of course, nobody does at first. It's a bit like when I first drove manual and stalled a lot. Or first time using a Glock and jammed it not holding it properly. All this to say, you're in for a decent adrenaline rush my friend, but please don't lose faith if you stall/jam up the approach the first few times, it gets more fun ;)
@MasterAaron
@MasterAaron Ай бұрын
I had the exact same exeprience. Do the same things as you too. Perhaps it has something to do with the way you are looking back at them. Many people have told me I have a resting bitch face or I always look naturally pissed off. So when I see someone I like I change a few things about my face's resting position and it works a charm.
@smiles7631
@smiles7631 Ай бұрын
@@MasterAaron I don't think I have a resting bitch face lol at least nobody has told me that. But I get your point. I do try and give the ladies a little smirk or smile when I see them. From what people are telling me it sounds like I need to just buckle down and do it. Put my big girl panties on as they say. LOL I made myself a promise to get out more this summer, instead of taking all my weekends working on cars for money. I really need some me time to have some fun and do some things I've been wanting to do. I actually have a little money after being divorced for a few years. Imagine that lol.
@samphelps856
@samphelps856 Ай бұрын
Lads, it's not the destination, it's the journey.
@kryptohawk4944
@kryptohawk4944 Ай бұрын
Facts. Great video
@antoniosanto182
@antoniosanto182 Ай бұрын
Well said!
@Impeturector
@Impeturector Ай бұрын
Great advice! Simple and to the point!
@jenjuni_
@jenjuni_ Ай бұрын
I like this aspect of approach. Thanks!
@ilovegodandjesusjohn316
@ilovegodandjesusjohn316 Ай бұрын
Ecclesiastes 8:1 Who is as the wise man? and who knoweth the interpretation of a thing? a man's wisdom maketh his face to shine, and the boldness of his face shall be changed.
@CesarJ13
@CesarJ13 Ай бұрын
It raises your Confidence level. Regardless of the outcome. Maya knows wassup 💯
@rkh3391
@rkh3391 Ай бұрын
It never raised my confidence level that’s complete bs
@KingdomAgeWarrior
@KingdomAgeWarrior 28 күн бұрын
Cold approaching will raise the woman's confidence level more than yours. 😆
@RasihBensan-cu4ge
@RasihBensan-cu4ge Ай бұрын
Men are rejected so many times by women in cold approach that they quit. A positive result in cold approach is very rare so men should not waste any time and energy cold approaching women. Stop cold approaching women. Let them do the approaching for a change and say no to them.Let them see what rejection is like.
@acquirecurrency-NYTX
@acquirecurrency-NYTX Ай бұрын
Bad advice. Men quit because they’re too afraid or uncomfortable to switch up the game. Women are rarely going to approach you, and if they do how sure are you that you have the personality and are able to hold a conversation emotionally. If you’re fine with rarely getting laid then just play it cool and wait to get lucky. But some men want to explore all fields and take chances. The more you approach the more you pull.
@sebk174
@sebk174 Ай бұрын
Just make eye contact before you approach.
@bladelazoe
@bladelazoe Ай бұрын
Truth be told man, Men are afraid because it's uncomfortable. Uncomfortable = growth. Women will NEVER approach unless she's super outgoing and wants to persue a man. But that's super rare. Women wait for men to approach. If you wait around for life to come for you, your gonna be waiting a long ass time vs going after what you want. Cold approach isn't even about the women, it's about becoming a much more masculine and confident version of yourself.
@maskedman5657
@maskedman5657 Ай бұрын
​@@acquirecurrency-NYTXLies. Cold Approaching is the easy part. Constantly approaching with the abysmal success rates is hard. You come across as those sleazy red pill guys who's never met many men
@antonboludo8886
@antonboludo8886 Ай бұрын
4:35 - She is exactly right.
@lachlaninglis9568
@lachlaninglis9568 Ай бұрын
I love your hear like this! Love the video, really clear message Maya!!
@nikol7951
@nikol7951 Ай бұрын
Excellent advice Maya. Men, be men, and approach. Let's reconnect to our wants and desires and act in this world, not virtually. Just the act of cold approaching is masculine, and empowering, regardless of the results.
@royaladamx
@royaladamx Ай бұрын
Keep working hard baby! I love what you are trying to give the world, and your unwavering passion is admirable! You might feel like you are alone on an island but there are more of us than you think.
@Omay151
@Omay151 Ай бұрын
Absolutely! 🙂
@danielmericle732
@danielmericle732 Ай бұрын
Yup, .... at 58 this Makes me Understand More and More of Us Men " Going Our Own Way " ....
@modemarcoj8026
@modemarcoj8026 Ай бұрын
I approve this message
@qsrfb
@qsrfb Ай бұрын
I remember the first time a woman was flirting with me, she was repeatedly smiling and making eye contact and I couldn't figure it out at first (I was in my mid-twenties). It was at work in a two or three week training class and we talked several times, usually after class. I just chalked it up to her being friendly. Finally on the next to last day of the class, she asked me out to dinner. That was more than three decades ago. So, yes ladies, making the first move can often work out very well. 😊😊
@maskedman5657
@maskedman5657 Ай бұрын
Don't give it up. Most women aren't gonna make the first moves
@morganyu812
@morganyu812 Ай бұрын
Don't cold approach. Let them make a move
@bonorton5870
@bonorton5870 Ай бұрын
Most women aren't going to make the first moves what they will give is signals Most women are more scared to approach men as we are to approach them.
@justadudeyz
@justadudeyz Ай бұрын
One of the best videos on cold approach I have seen thanks a lot
@lorenzrosenthal119
@lorenzrosenthal119 Ай бұрын
the worst thing is not the rejection from the woman. the worst thing is my rejection to myself when she rejects me.
@royaladamx
@royaladamx Ай бұрын
You are viewing it in the wrong light. You put pressure on yourself by looking at it through the lens of getting with a woman. Next time you see a woman you like just go up to her and talk about any random thing but just make sure you are not trying to get anything from her and keep repeating it and one day you will run into someone that loves you for who you are.
@devinbird2571
@devinbird2571 26 күн бұрын
I love this young lady
@joshual.1833
@joshual.1833 Ай бұрын
You rock!!!❤❤❤
@_Wickzard_
@_Wickzard_ Ай бұрын
My solution to everything about women always was and is DON'T CARE, they aren't worth it. I'm single all my life and I intend to be.
@royaladamx
@royaladamx Ай бұрын
They are worth it. It's beautiful to be in love. We need to change how we view women...why you ask? Because we are made for it. Stop being down on yourself and let's fix the world. We are men dammit we are built for this so pick yourself up and don't give up my brother
@_Wickzard_
@_Wickzard_ Ай бұрын
@royaladamx I don't need to pick myself up because I already am. And I can't give up on something/one in which/whom I have 0 interest. For men like me who chase success, women are only burden who bring nothing to table only pain, suffering, losing time, money and energy. Thanks but no I'm not interested in such a bad deal in which I give everything and could loose everything to gain nothing... I'll pass that deal to someone else who is blind and stupid enough to accept it.
@maskedman5657
@maskedman5657 Ай бұрын
​@@royaladamxNo
@brotheryari3349
@brotheryari3349 Ай бұрын
@@royaladamxthey are not worth it bro most of them will just destroy your heart and mental health
@KingdomAgeWarrior
@KingdomAgeWarrior 27 күн бұрын
I had a very lonely upbringing growing up, so much so, that I started to become comfortable being alone. The biggest thing that kept me from going that route was that I wanted children. I do love kids, plus, as an only child it was very important for me personally to carry on the family genetics. Now I will tell you, as a married man with a child, if it wasn't for my son, I would have wished to stay single. I love my wife and my son. However, God is the source of my joy. I could have served as an example of being single for God, as I believe some are called for. Paul in the Scriptures also said it was Ideal to be single as he was. I personally believe those words are speaking very strongly to us today.
@stephenandrich3864
@stephenandrich3864 Ай бұрын
I stopped considering this years ago due to the state of the social world but I’m glad you’re telling your perspective. Definitely going to start using this
@puncht37
@puncht37 Ай бұрын
The only traditional male thing that`s left? Oh, and paying for everything? No one likes rejection. And the women will make damn sure that they won`t be the ones being rejected.
@banthatracks_gaffisticks
@banthatracks_gaffisticks Ай бұрын
Damn, Maya. That's cold. 🥶
@latendresseaa
@latendresseaa Ай бұрын
Maya is cold? or the Weather is cold? lol
@banthatracks_gaffisticks
@banthatracks_gaffisticks Ай бұрын
@@latendresseaa It's a pun on the term, "cold approach"
@latendresseaa
@latendresseaa Ай бұрын
@@banthatracks_gaffisticks LOL ♥
@lorenzor7993
@lorenzor7993 Ай бұрын
Great video ❤ Guys, leave this venomus mindset. Once I started approaching women, I got so much more succes with dating.
@djmorphogen
@djmorphogen Ай бұрын
These days, I leave it to the woman to make the first move. Their collective mindset needs to change in order to regain my respect.
@royaladamx
@royaladamx Ай бұрын
As men we are the fixers of the world like it or not. So women's mentality won't change until we change as men. So sorry pal we don't get to play victim. Let's stand up as men and fix this crazy world
@djmorphogen
@djmorphogen Ай бұрын
@@royaladamx No victim here mate, quite the opposite. It's going to take a good one for me to engage. I've not got time to fix delusional women. Waste of effort that can be channeled elsewhere more productively.
@elftower907
@elftower907 Ай бұрын
Whenever I actually bother to cold approach it goes well.
@jchborg90277
@jchborg90277 Ай бұрын
Fantastic vid. Guys, pay attention.
@daneoman1000
@daneoman1000 Ай бұрын
I'm 42, always had cronic social anxiety, family and friends gave zero guidence on this growing up, I've finally learned the courage to cold approach, thanks. women should still give out signals
@Vetiun
@Vetiun Ай бұрын
the biggest thing ive learned is not to ask right away try to break the ice a bit with some fun banter
@Ordinal_Yoda
@Ordinal_Yoda Ай бұрын
Still considering prostate circumcision and removal of the seminal vessels. Just waiting for some wisdom.
@savagegod7638
@savagegod7638 Ай бұрын
i feel like cold approaching is very necessary for many reasons like giving you tough skin when it comes to getting rejected because think about it like this you see a fine women that you like and she doesn't see you. You cold approach as a man we are dewers and we go after the things we want it shows your a man and ya its cool to let her come to you from time to time but how are you going to get that tough skin if you don't approach what is there to be afraid of i'm 20 i haven't cold approach a women before but watching this video motivates me to do so because i understand that what she says has no affect on me and my life im not going to roll over and die because she says no i'm gone pick myself up and try again you only live once i can get rejected by 20 women and out of that 20 one says yes so i feel like its necessary from time to time especially if its a women you find attractive
@SaintPete21
@SaintPete21 Ай бұрын
good video
@kingcold5252
@kingcold5252 Ай бұрын
Maya seem like a genuine person. But this aint it. Cold Approaching usually gets men no where with women. Which is why most men dont do it. Complete waste of time
@acquirecurrency-NYTX
@acquirecurrency-NYTX Ай бұрын
Not a waste of time if you’re looking to mate. You just have no rizz
@shaneashby5890
@shaneashby5890 Ай бұрын
It’s like the old saying: if you want to catch a fish, don’t ask a fish. You ask a fisherman.
@antonboludo8886
@antonboludo8886 Ай бұрын
@@shaneashby5890 That is correct.
@antonboludo8886
@antonboludo8886 Ай бұрын
You might want to look up some of these PUA courses.
@shaneashby5890
@shaneashby5890 Ай бұрын
@@antonboludo8886 You can’t teach confidence, charisma, game, and charm; you either have it or you don’t.
@Dmitriy.Okhotnikov
@Dmitriy.Okhotnikov Ай бұрын
YOU ARE confident after 180 days of SR =)))
@7777srd
@7777srd Ай бұрын
"Social-media beings" - concisely sums up the 21st century thus far.
@BackeB
@BackeB Ай бұрын
Agreed 👍
@Spacepotato9000
@Spacepotato9000 Ай бұрын
Approach the girls that are constantly glancing+smiling shyly and then looking away a sec, and repeat it. 100% succes change they are into you!!!!1!!1!!
@phillight8651
@phillight8651 24 күн бұрын
Love your middle name, Lynn, it's mine also! You go girl, love your content!
@_Epictetus_
@_Epictetus_ Ай бұрын
I think my anxiety comes from possibly getting my heart broken and having to go through that.
@retireeslife4013
@retireeslife4013 Ай бұрын
I still love the chase. But your energy is otfc
@theultimate577
@theultimate577 Ай бұрын
What I do is approach like I would a friend, make a joke or comment based on something around you. If you approach in a friendly manner (i.e. without being very forward and sexual) rejection really isn't a big deal cos you haven't given yourself a way, just testing the waters a little, if she likes you, she likes you, if she doesn't that just means she isn't for you or it isn't your time and you can chill.
@anthonyc70
@anthonyc70 Ай бұрын
I've given up on ALL dating and relationships. If or when I meet anyone. It is always a simple conversation. Then take it from there. But it's over..you can say whatever you want.
@Yovry
@Yovry Ай бұрын
Yah, I have been rejected on EVERY cold approach that I have done. I'm almost positive it's because of how I look. I am doing whatever I can for that though, I hit the gym 4-5 times a week. Moday - Friday I do 100 pushups, 100 sit ups and 100 lunges per day, and I walk for 10 minutes - 4 hours every day depending on the day. I am also counting my calories. (For reference as to where I am now I weigh 210lbs and have a bodyfat % of roughly 29% with a muscle mass of 80lbs.) I am working my ass off to try and reach less than 15% body fat by mid October as I go on a cruise and want to have a body I am proud of for once when I go because I will be cold approaching women on the ship to try and meet people and see where it goes from there. it's just super immoralizing when for example I'm in the club, I try to talk to a girl, and she within 10-20 seconds shuts down the conversation because she spots a guy that looks better. It's honestly depressing as fuck.
@antonboludo8886
@antonboludo8886 Ай бұрын
The man will usually start the interaction. Her reaction is out of his control. "L' homme propose, la femme dispose."
@charleswoodruff9089
@charleswoodruff9089 Ай бұрын
You should do a video on the pros and cons of having a relationship. Both from his and her points of view. And then do a follow up video going through the comments of the previous video. That should be fun.
@g_factking
@g_factking Ай бұрын
Loving your video my beautiful Queen. It's still risky especially today with all the sexual harassment accusations etc to cold approach
@maskedman5657
@maskedman5657 Ай бұрын
So not worth it basically
@Steve24527
@Steve24527 Ай бұрын
I luv your advice you are a lovely girl with a beautiful soul too
@lexsteele2218
@lexsteele2218 Ай бұрын
Maya you already made a video on cold Approach. Most men are rejecting it.
@NUKEzx10r
@NUKEzx10r Ай бұрын
👏
@EternalLoveAnkh
@EternalLoveAnkh Ай бұрын
Where did you get your start doing this? RJ
@ryancelsley
@ryancelsley Ай бұрын
The first time I tried to approach a girl she looked at me like a beggar and walked off very quickly. That one hurt. I haven't approached since. That was 2020.
@royaladamx
@royaladamx Ай бұрын
That's because you are looking at it as an approach. Like it's a game. There is no game, just talk to a woman to see if you like her not if she likes you. It seems Suttle but it's a big change in mindset.
@dave-rn7zd
@dave-rn7zd Ай бұрын
You are right about Social media but there is the sexual harassment & all that stuff to. But in the day's before the internet it was easier. It's like the world today is totally nuts.
@Michael_Sony
@Michael_Sony Ай бұрын
👌
@Infarlock
@Infarlock Ай бұрын
Where was this video 2 weeks ago D:
@southwind73
@southwind73 10 күн бұрын
I’m 5’4” cold approaching just makes me creepy.
@lilianlonla
@lilianlonla Ай бұрын
To all of those who gave up on cold approaching… you’re missing out on amazing experiences 🤷🏾‍♂️
@bonorton5870
@bonorton5870 Ай бұрын
alot of guys don't want to get rejected alot that's why they gave up approaching.
@maskedman5657
@maskedman5657 Ай бұрын
Nah
@vaelicusthepaladin
@vaelicusthepaladin Ай бұрын
Yes make it more genuine, no gimmicks. Needs to be normalized and scaled to an acceptable social interaction, women embracing this normalized interaction and setting rules for 'respectful' rejections could truly help the issue.
@Giardintek
@Giardintek Ай бұрын
It all depends on her opinion, whether you are called a "creep or a date-able chad. Been there many times and the end result is always the same. After a dozens of western women, I just gave up and now I avoid them all together. My Ukrainian wife can't stand them either. However I like your videos and admire your spirit. Not sure that's going to be enough to reverse the damage M.D.F and prev generation females, like millennials done to the western dating scene. They pretty much ruined it for you.
@user-wo6zt1hf9q
@user-wo6zt1hf9q Ай бұрын
The so-called 'sexual harassment' laws have virtually killed any incentive for men to take the risk of approaching a woman. What man wants to risk his reputation and career when a simple accusation could cost him dearly?
@pitapita3559
@pitapita3559 Ай бұрын
Not going to lie. I would totally Cold Approach you Maya, but not just because of your physical appearance. It's because of the depth of your earnestness and insight. I know there would be worlds to talk about if you wanted to too. I will say I am conscience that cold approaching you would be different than cold approaching a woman who somehow seems to have some mental maturation ahead of her, especially if she has taken up all the games and less than honest vetting tactics some women use... especially if her relationship interest is relatively shallow or even altogether impersonal. I would ask you what you think is your first love, and why or for why. I would confirm that even I, an outsider, see that you are for a very unique purpose and it is a wonderful one. Thanks be for you in any event. Take care friend. Thanks for the video.
@jans724
@jans724 Ай бұрын
The only thing that matters to a woman is if you are attractive and then it hardly matters how you approach. If you're not attractive she will label you a creep regardless how you approach.
@jans724
@jans724 Ай бұрын
@@user-dq3oo5of3k True, and if you're rich you don't need to be attractive. Just need wealth and social status.
@adamkahuna1166
@adamkahuna1166 Ай бұрын
Another 200 subscribers in one day gained. 🙂 I am glad for you, Mayka. 98:0! 05/05/2024. 21:12. 531.
@ValourFlame
@ValourFlame Ай бұрын
It's very easy to listen to her advice cause she talks more sharp almost like a guy. Most women never get to the point they like yap around and u get confused
@kingtut645
@kingtut645 Ай бұрын
Nah Cold Approaching is Dead. Its easy to recommend when you arent going through the rejections and heartache yourself
@acquirecurrency-NYTX
@acquirecurrency-NYTX Ай бұрын
Not dead. You just got no rizz or self confidence
@mtd1089
@mtd1089 Ай бұрын
It’s best just to meet a friend of a girlfriend of a friend within your social circle.
@brotheryari3349
@brotheryari3349 Ай бұрын
@@acquirecurrency-NYTX it don’t matter a heartbreak will destroy your confidence and your rizz. And that takes years to regain it back
@secfeed6987
@secfeed6987 Ай бұрын
cold approaching doesn't work for me. Looks is not enough to make me want to talk to you, am not phased by beauty. I need to see you in an interaction that impresses me before I want to talk to you. I let woman come to me, if I wish to pursue, I will. All my relationships I have been in, have come from woman approaching me.
@dusanstojsin4938
@dusanstojsin4938 Ай бұрын
Step 1: Be over 6ft tall Step 2: Go to the gym until you achieve a Greek God physique Step 3: Get rich and wear clothes and accessories that let the girls now that you're rich Step 4: Start cold approaching If you fail the first step, you can maybe compensate with the other things, but it will be much harder for you, and if you don't do any of these steps, you shouldn't cold approach.
@user-oi8rx8fm3h
@user-oi8rx8fm3h Ай бұрын
What is prolonged? How many minutes? Is 1 minute of friendly conversation to adjust ok before telling I find you attractive?
@SmutnyCzlek
@SmutnyCzlek Ай бұрын
Learn how to become a Helldiver guys!
@FreakyMonsterMan
@FreakyMonsterMan Ай бұрын
You do the hardest job you get the best benefits
@Steve24527
@Steve24527 Ай бұрын
⁠Ah as you are a girl can you give me your opinion on my situation? I asked a girl out for a coffee at my gym I had a crush on from a far but she said sorry she has a boyfriend and now when I see her she deliberately ignores me but I see her occasionally talk to other guys! So I don’t quite get it as I don’t have too much of a problem attracting girls in general and thought I could feel a good vibe and connection with this girl. Before this girl I asked a personal trainer out that works in gym and she said yes but after I met her there wasn’t a lot of attraction and I kept thinking about the other girl. The funny thing is the personal trainer girl still smiles and says hello and asks me how I am! Yet the girl I’m strongly attracted to blanks me can you explain this as a few people have said she probably hasn’t got a boyfriend! I should explain that I am a lot older than her but I am lean and in good physical shape! Anyway would value your female intuition and opinion?
@devilsadvocacy
@devilsadvocacy Ай бұрын
1) The first one isn’t attracted to you and 2) The second one is being paid to be nice to you
@Totsy30
@Totsy30 Ай бұрын
First off other commenter is right. Secondly, if a girl turns you down you need to move on like it's no big deal. Y'all weren't in a relationship or anything, just at the same gym; that's not a connection by any means. As soon as the rejection happens, you gotta shift that attention somewhere else cus if you keep pushing then you become weird.
@shotfrmbehind
@shotfrmbehind Ай бұрын
My brothers, we must stop watching this stuff. It's confusing us. Hit the gym, eat healthy and find your passion. "If you build it, they will come."
@sebk174
@sebk174 Ай бұрын
What if my passion are women, lol?
@jaythree6366
@jaythree6366 Ай бұрын
Cold approach nah you need to understand not all women will gonna like you if it is not mutual it is not meant to be even in the bible stated it the story of boa and ruz the girl show's her interest in a guy and the guy pursue her
@Blazntrax81
@Blazntrax81 Ай бұрын
Your eyes are magnificent. Mine are more of a dark green, but you have almost aqua colored eyes. They're very captivating. Also, im enjoying your videos. You're good at this.
@prizenumpty5346
@prizenumpty5346 Ай бұрын
Cold approach is opening your self up to accusations, being called a creep, ridicule and humiliation. Think I will pass instead of trying to mind read some woman I don't know.
@jackyfrosty
@jackyfrosty Ай бұрын
Don't
@haniabuhijleh1634
@haniabuhijleh1634 Ай бұрын
ur hair looks way more cute like this. blessings from and thu u sister
@goth1155
@goth1155 Ай бұрын
Like to get to know you
@seanfournillier6718
@seanfournillier6718 Ай бұрын
Question, Why don’t men approach women, if a man has to court her make the dreams that spin in her head while it lays on the pillow come alive, be the bread winner attack the day slay the dragon and bring to the home stead a chalice of wine and a basket of golden apples along with manna from the heavens, be her sword and shield standing between her and the dark evil that like a foggy poison mist covers the land, provide a shining castle on the hill and the fearsome iron horse for her leisure and comfort, why Hmmmmm !!!!! I wonder smh
@GlutenFreeJeff
@GlutenFreeJeff Ай бұрын
Magic maya your talking the English way. Native American women pick their men.
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